Micro Weddings

Intimate & Unforgettable

Whether you’ve always dreamed of an intimate wedding or have come around to the idea due to the state of the world, micro weddings are a trend that seems poised to stand the test of time. So what is a micro wedding? It’s every bit as significant and special as a traditional wedding, but the guest count only ranges from about 5 to 50 people.

Micro weddings are popular for a number of reasons. On the heels of COVID, a smaller wedding may be a necessity for some. For others, a micro wedding may mean less spotlight and attention. It can also mean less stress, as planning an event for fewer people inevitably means less to keep track of and worry about.

Budget also comes into play, as some brides and grooms would rather not spend their dollars on a big wedding. Opting for a courthouse ceremony followed by a meal at home or at their favorite restaurant with just those nearest and dearest greatly lowers the cost.

On the flip side, some couples opt for a micro wedding so they can go all-out. Think about it: If you have a set budget, consider if you spent it on a party of 200 vs. a party of 50. The smaller party allows you to allocate more budget to doing every inch to the nines, giving those 50 lucky people an experience they’ll never forget.

The elements of a micro wedding will differ from couple to couple. There’s always a smaller guest list, but like we said, the price may vary — and so, too, may the experiences and vendors involved. Although a reception is optional, micro weddings will always need an officiant, witnesses, and a location for the ceremony. This could be someone’s backyard, the courthouse, a park or garden — the list goes on. Almost always, micro-wedding couples still spring for a photographer.

There are even vendors taking the micro wedding and really running with it. Some venues offer packages for a set price that include use of their space, an officiant, a photographer, seasonal floral, and more. The idea with these micro wedding packages is to keep it simple. The vendors have done the legwork of coordinating a beautiful little wedding — all the couple has to do is show up!

In the end, one of the best things about a micro wedding is the intimacy. With fewer people to make small talk with, you’re able to get actual quality time with your guests. After all, these are the people that mean the most and the ones you can’t imagine your wedding day without. At a micro wedding, you can enjoy their company — and your new spouse’s company! — without the sense of distraction that can sometimes come with a traditional wedding. Sound pretty heavenly? We think so too. B

tips FOR TIPPING

PLANNER DELIVERY/ SET-UP STAFF PHOTO/ VIDEO HAIR/ MAKEUP TRANSPO OFFICIANT

SHOULD I?

not if he/she owns the business

for exemplary service

not if he/she owns the business yes if gratituity is not included, then yes no, but a donation is a nice gesture optional optional optional if gratituity is not included, then yes

HOW MUCH?

WHEN?

up to $500 or 15% of fee, or a gift

$5 - $10 per person personal gift 15 - 20% 15 - 20% $100 - $500 $15 - $20/ musician or 15% of fee $20 - $50/ musician $25 - $150 15 - 20% or see below

after the honeymoon

upon delivery

after the honeymoon after you are madeup when the driver picks you up, or after the last ride

at the rehearsal or rehearsal dinner

at the ceremony

at the reception

at the reception

at the reception

CEREMONY MUSICIANS BAND DJ RECEPTION/ CATERING STAFF

Remember, being appreciative and a personal thank you note go a long way, too!

catering, banquet manager: $100-$300 waiters + kitchen staff: $20-$30 each bartenders: $20-$25 each chef: $50-$100