LGBTQ Weddings

Love is love! Celebrate in extra-special ways

As an LGBTQ+ couple, not everything about a traditional wedding translates well. At the end of the day, it’s about creating a ceremony and celebration that reflect you and your love story. So forget what you think a wedding should be, and go and make it your own!

That said, there are many ways to take traditional elements and update them. Some of these updates aren’t even unique to LGBTQ+ weddings — they’re relevant to anyone. Let’s start with who’s paying. While this traditionally fell to the bride’s family, it’s now much more about who can afford it.

What to wear? Whatever your heart desires! Don a couple of killer suits or stunning gowns — or one of each. As long as you feel like a million bucks, anything goes. When it’s time to walk down

the aisle, you can do so together, or escorted by a parent, dear friend, or mentor. Infuse the ceremony with gender-neutral language and choose readings that speak to your relationship. When picking your wedding party, go ahead and mix it up. Include anyone who has supported you, regardless of gender. In finding your vendors, look for LGBTQ+ -friendly businesses, like the ones featured in Premier Bride. Keep an eye out for diversity as you view vendor portfolios. Choosing vendors who share your vision of weddings and the world will ensure a celebration that exceeds your wildest dreams. With the right people by your side, a little imagination, and the confidence to show up as your truest selves, your day is sure to be an unforgettable one. B RECEPTION GAMES

Wedding reception games are a great way to keep your guests entertained while you are being photographed before the reception or as they wait for food! Some games are also a fun way for your guests to get to know you and your partner a little better!

Couple Mad Libs

Create a Mad Libs-style template for your guests to fill out at their tables for marriage and love advice. This is a wedding game guests can do alone, or the whole table can get in on the fun, sharing their tips on how to keep the romance alive, fun ideas for “married dates,” and other words of wisdom. Bride and Groom Trivia

Create a list of trivia questions for each guest to fill out at the table. Have a member of the wedding party collect and read the cards to determine the winner. The guest with the most correct answers wins! I SPY

Place a disposable camera on each guest table with a list of special moments to capture. Each group will have a different shot from their perspective. Some examples could be the first dance, “cheers,” table selfie, or just let them choose! You won’t know what you end up with until you take the cameras to be developed!

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