Life Design for the 3rd/3rd
for
John SonSo May 2, 2013
www.3rd3rdignited.com / jan@3rd3rdignited.com
Life Design for the 3rd/3rd
Life Design for YOUR 3rd/3rd! Summative Report During the past 6 weeks you have developed a very specific Life Design for your 3rd/3rd – the following recaps your personal goals, action steps, and priorities. This report includes: Your personalized life portfolio chart Life Design activities and goals by category Your personal motivators recap A perfect day It’s been a pleasure walking through this program to develop a vibrant 3rd/3rd for the many years to come! Sincerely, Jan Allen
Program Goals Page 2 of 7
Walk away as the CEO of YOUR 3rd/3rd. Acquire a supportive and useful 3rd/3rd mindset. LIVE your Life Design for the 3rd/3rd.
MY Life Portfolio Overview Page 3 of 7
Life Design for the 3rd/3rd
Key Insights What I want most: Good health, good quality time with family and friends, good golf. What I would regret the most: Not enough time with family. Not enough time taking care of myself. Boredom. Not having a workable plan for my life. Being too busy to enjoy my freedom.
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MY Motivators Values: To feel good; Exhilaration; Sports (doing & watching); Family; Prevail/Outdo; Attractiveness/Beauty; Sex Strengths: Attitude; Work ethic/will power/organization; Ability to work effectively with and through others; Personality/humor; Vision/leadership; Balance of life (work vs. home); I take the high road/do what I perceive to be the “right” thing Loves: Music; Playing golf well; Spending time with kids; Spending time with friends; Feeling great physically and mentally; Being respected; Being accepted; Beauty/art/forms that are pleasing to the eye; Clothing; Order People: People in intimate circle of friends: o Curt o Bill o Ritchey o John o Brian o Beth o Ray o Mace o John (Adams) o Mary Beth
People whom I’d like to spend more time with: o Ray o John (Adams) o Mace o Shively o Larry o Steve & Mary o Les o Dad o Cousin Mike o Rick (in Athens)
People whom I’d like to get to know: o 3 new neighbors
Places:
Live in Columbus
Some time in the winter not in Ohio – probably FL
Annual trip to Jamaica
Key Motivator: Influence
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Life Design for the 3rd/3rd
Family/Friends (20% of time): Maximizing time available with kids, grandchildren, dad Time with my buddies – the group at SCC and those beyond SCC Renew old friendships, e.g. John from college Continuation of relationship with Mary Beth
Goals: I have Sunday night dinners with my daughter. My kids and I spend Thanksgiving Day and Christmas Day and birthdays together. (and sometimes the 4th of July) I have lunch once a week or once every two weeks with my son. I play golf with my son once/twice a month. My daughter and I plan a 4-day trip together annually. (to replace the change-over meeting she has always gone to with me) My two children (with or without their significant others) and I plan a meal or time together once a month.
Avocation/Recreation (40% of time): Golf Watching sports Annual trip to Jamaica Some time in Florida Some time during the winter not in Ohio
Goals: Golf: I play at least 130 rounds of golf either at Scioto or at the invitation of friends elsewhere I take golf lessons as needed. In 2013, my sand and putting games improve. My handicap is where I want it.
Vocation/Profession (5% of time): Consulting (and preparing and marketing myself)
Watching Sports: I’m making space in my schedule to watch all the sports I want to watch and I’m conversant and current. Winter Not in Ohio: I’m renting a place for 3 weeks or a month, from the middle of January (after the college bowl games are over but a few days before the Great Scott) to the middle/end of February. I’m going through Vacation Rentals by Owners to find a place. I have compiled a list of friends from Ohio and elsewhere who are in Naples for some or all of the winter so that I can connect and socialize while there. Goals: Part of my consulting practice centers on helping associations discover their core values and purpose, and developing their BHAG’s, in order to help them gain and retain members and function at their best. Part of my consulting practice is with and for the people who bought Case Maker, helping them build business and market to other bar associations. 20 hours/month in the summer; more in the winter.
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Physical Health (15% of time): Working out Healthy diet Making good choices
Civic Engagement/Legacy (5% of time): Campaign treasurer for John Adams Involvement with the DR scholarship More evaluation of this one after retirement Selfdevelopment/Spirituality: Time in reflection and time in church Learning and doing something new Possible classes at OSU/Program 60 Time with books Staying up to date with technology Bible study classes
Goals: I spend at least 3 days a week in the fitness center during golf season. (play golf and then work out) I spend 4-5 times a week in the fitness center in the off season. I eat the right foods. I make healthy choices. Goals: I am tasting and testing civic engagement with the John Adams gig.
Goals: I am reading more fiction. I’m in a community theater group that I’m comfortable with and involved in at least one production. I have an Apple One-to-One contract and I’m utilizing it to keep up with technology. OBA is apprising me of technology updates, and sharing with me. I’m taking a bible study class. I check the OSU semester schedule for Program 60 classes.
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