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Contents >>Letter to the Editor. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 8 >>Community Readers’ Poll. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 8 Community Happenings. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 48

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>> Israel Israel News . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 24 My Israel Home: Kiryat Moshe. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 99

>> People Focus on People . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 63 Max Warshaw: The Most Decorated Jewish Serviceman in History. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 78 A World after This: The Story of Lola Lieber . . . . . 89

>>Parsha The Shmuz. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 66 Showing Appreciation . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 75

Dear Readers, Every week, I use this space to reach out to you with my views and thoughts. This past week, it was wonderful to hear from you. My inbox and mailbox were flooded with responses to our readers’ survey, and it was gratifying to read what you like best about our magazine. Even more, I was interested to hear about what you’d like to see more of. So much work is put into every issue that we publish. And knowing that that work is being appreciated is a wonderful feeling. But knowing exactly what we should be working on to make it even better for you is priceless. The feedback you gave was so valuable; I only wish we can have these contests more often. This week was a “no-man’s land” week for many parents. The week between camp and school forces us to make our own schedules for our children. Is the schedule of the day ice cream, snacks and then a trip to the park or park, ice cream and then snacks? It’s hard to balance their summer freedom with their need for structure. I, for one, consider myself fortunate to be living on such a wonderful block. One day this week, my son said he preferred to stay home instead of going on a local trip because he wanted to play with his friends on the block. And play with his friends he did. He skipped from one house to the next, making shows, conducting a circus and playing numerous games of ball. Even after he was showered and wearing his pajamas, his friends came to invite him out for another activity. The joys of youth—fun times seem to never end and the excitement of getting Slurpees can make your day. The start of the new school year is exciting. I always looked forward to a fresh beginning, the blank pages of my notebook pristine as I sharpened my number 2 pencils. It was exciting to meet my new teachers as they stood in front of the classroom on the first day. And every year brought something different—more tests or less reports, more history or less math. I still remember so many of my teachers fondly and can recall some of their lessons even today. My children are looking forward to their first day, and I am looking forward to seeing them in their new clothes, ready for a wonderful, new school year. Walking in Times Square at night is a blur of bright lights and bustling crowds. There’s a rush of adrenaline in the Crossroads of the World, even when the rest of the world is asleep. But it was not always like that in the Big Apple. In the 1970s and 80s, the city was overrun with crime and infested with lawlessness. Strong mayors such as Ed Koch, Giuliani and even Dinkins worked to make the city safer for its residents. For the past few months, New York’s “stop and frisk” policy has come under intense scrutiny, and just last week, it was found to be biased against minorities. Susan Schwamm’s article gives a detailed account of the policy and the controversy behind it. She also raises an interesting point: if stop-and-frisk were to be abandoned, the very people who are calling for its dissolution may acutally be the ones who will be most adversely affected. I found her article to be enlightening and somewhat frightening when you think of what New York could end up looking like in a few years. As always, we look forward to hearing from our readers. Please feel free to reach out to me at editor@fivetownsjewishhome.com. Wishing you a wonderful week, Shoshana

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Friday, August 23 Parshas Ki Savo Candle Lighting: 7:23 Shabbos Ends: 8:23 Rabbeinu Tam: 8:52

Happy New (School) Year, by Jonathan Cohen, PsyD and Sara Schwartz-Gluck, LCSW. . . . . . . . . . . 88

>> Food & Leisure Recipes: After-School Snacks Your Kids Will Love. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 82 Recipes: The Aussie Gourmet: A Quick and Easy Dinner for your Family. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 104 Travel: Rhode Island. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 94

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Letters to Dear Editor, In your August 8-14th issue, there is a spread on pages 74, 75 called “the ultimate summer bucket list.” There about 60 creative suggestions for enjoying oneself… “relaxing and fun” … “the fun things that will make your summer memorable.” I am somewhat surprised that anything of meaning, of value, relationship-oriented, development-focused and personal growth is absent for the list. Wouldn’t spending real time with a grandparent or great-grandparent or any older person be more memorable than a mere phone call? Would working quietly and introspectively on personal shortcomings be of benefit? What about actual learning? Don’t we believe the posuk of “pikudei Hashem yesharim mismchai lev”- that Torah and mitzvos bring happiness to one’s heart? Why is that not included in the list of “enjoying oneself”? What about increasing my understanding of tefillah so I can enjoy those moments with greater depth and emotions on a daily basis? What about learning a sefer or book that would enrich myself, uplift myself or just teach me lifelong hashkafos of what happy

really means and how to pursue it and acquire it? Can’t we find one of the hundreds of summer shiur offerings that would be enjoyable and memorable? I’m not taking issue with the selection you have chosen, although some give one pause. I am confused why a readership which is comprised of a significant number of people who spent 12-plus years in yeshivos should only be shown a list of activities which are primarily physical in design and focus and nothing which addresses the inner self, the inner happiness, the inner soul, the inner source of who we are and what would really be meaningful and what would really be enjoyable. The list does not reflect what seforim teach us about happiness, accomplishment and enjoyment. Something is missing. Something major is missing. It leaves me for one very, very unhappy. Sincerely, B. R. Dear Editor, I was very impressed when I saw your recent reader survey. The fact that you are reaching out to your readers and asking them for their opinions shows

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and water that surround our neighborhoods. Indeed, we are fortunate for the selfless volunteers and their families for keeping our neighborhood safe. At least once a year, I get an envelope in the mail asking for a donation for the fire department. Please, I urge you, don’t just throw it out. Put in whatever you can afford and then mail it back. It is the safety of our children that we are securing by supporting the LCFD. And, of course, when you see these brave rescuers, make sure to thank them for their dedication. It’s the least you can do. Shari Goldberg Lawrence, NY

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In News policeman in the northern region of the Sinai Peninsula and killed 25 of them, execution-style. This attack took place in broad daylight and only highlights the craziness that continues to roil the country. Just the day before, 36 detainees were killed in clashes with security forces. Since last Wednesday, at least 1,000 people were killed in clashes be-

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Tensions between the sides have been high since the army ousted Morsi in a July 3 coup, following days of protests by millions of Egyptians demanding the Islamist president leave and accusing him of abusing his powers. But Morsi’s supporters have fought back, staging demonstrations demanding that he be reinstated and denouncing the military coup. On Wednesday, the military raided two protest camps of Morsi’s supporters in Cairo, killing hundreds of people and triggering the current wave of violence. The Sinai area has seen almost daily attacks since Morsi’s ouster. Many believe the militants there are linked to the Muslim Brotherhood. The military-backed government has begun to take harsher measures against the Brotherhood. Security forces arrested hundreds of members of the organization and the Cabinet held a meeting to consider banning the group. But these measures have not deterred the Brotherhood. It held a protest on Sunday and many protesters came out in force. “They think they can end the movement,” said Muslim Brotherhood senior member Saad Emara. “The more killings, the more people join us.” Dozens of churches, homes and businesses owned by Christians have been attacked and razed to the ground. At least 2 Christians have been killed. After six hours of looting a Franciscan School, nuns were marched through the streets as prisoners of war. “At the end, they paraded us like prisoners of war and hurled abuse at us as they led us from one alley to another without telling us where they were taking us,” Sister Manal said.

Mubarak to Be Freed Amid all the chaos in Egypt, on Monday, an Egyptian court dropped a corruption charge against former Egyptian President Hosni Mubarak, who was ousted in the 2011 uprising. His lawyer maintains that this will lead to his release from jail soon. “All we have left is a simple administrative procedure that

should take no more than 48 hours. He should be freed by the end of the week,” Fareed el-Deeb said. But a judicial source said it could take at least another two weeks for Mubarak to be freed.

Mubarak, who ruled Egypt for 30 years, was arrested soon after his overthrow and became the first Arab leader to face trial. In scenes that captivated the world, the octogenarian appeared in a courtroom cage to face charges that ranged from corruption to complicity in the murder of protesters. That case related to gifts that Mubarak is accused of accepting during his presidency. Mubarak has recently repaid money equivalent to the value of those gifts, meaning he could potentially be freed though the court could choose to extend his sentence on other grounds or come up with new cases. Mubarak, along with his interior minister, was convicted and sentenced to life in prison last year for failing to stop the killing of protesters in the revolt that swept him from power. The military removed President Mohamed Morsi, a senior Brotherhood official, on July 3 after mass protests against his rule. Morsi, who was freely elected but alienated many with his authoritarian moves, is in detention at an undisclosed location. He faces an investigation into accusations stemming from his escape from prison during the anti-Mubarak revolt. These include murder and conspiring with Hamas. Morsi has not been formally indicted. Mohammed Rashwan said that Mubarak’s release may lead to more unrest in the region. “If Mubarak comes out at this time, the Brotherhood will exploit it to the utmost extent and claim that what is happening in Egypt is a return to the former regime,” he said.

30,000 Flee Syria this Week There’s so much unrest in the region and thousands are fleeing for their lives. In a mass exodus, around 30,000 Syrians have fled their homeland’s bloody

civil war over the past five days and streamed across the border into neighboring Iraq’s northern self-ruled Kurdish region.

The huge influx of people, many of whom are Syrian Kurds escaping escalating violence in northeastern Syria, has left aid agencies as well as Iraqi Kurdistan’s regional government scrambling to accommodate them all. The men, women and children who made the trek join some 1.9 million Syrians who already have found refuge abroad in what has become a massive strain on neighboring countries. “Syrian refugees are still pouring into Iraq’s northern Kurdish region in huge numbers and most of them are women and children. The reason behind this sudden flow is still not clear,” said Youssef Mahmoud, a spokesman for the U.N. refugee agency in Iraq’s Kurdish region. “Today, some 3,000 Syrian refugees crossed the borders and that has brought the number to around 30,000 refugees since Thursday,” he said on Monday. The latest wave has brought the number of Syrian refugees in the Kurdish region to around 195,000, he added. Kurds are Syria’s largest ethnic minority, making up more than 10 percent of the country’s 23 million people. They are centered in the poor northeastern regions of Hassakeh and Qamishli, wedged between the borders of Turkey and Iraq. There are also several predominantly Kurdish neighborhoods in the capital, Damascus, and Syria’s largest city, Aleppo. Those Kurdish areas have been engulfed by fighting in recent months between Kurdish militias and Islamic extremist rebel factions with links to al Qaeda. Dozens have been killed on both sides. Following the assassination of a prominent Kurdish leader late last month, a powerful Kurdish militia said it was mobilizing to expel Islamic extremists.

In News Earlier this month, the president of Iraq’s autonomous Kurdish region, Massoud Barzani, vowed to defend Syria’s Kurds. He did not offer details on how he would do so, but Iraqi Kurdistan boasts a powerful and experienced armed force known as the peshmerga. An armed intervention would carry enormous risks, and appears unlikely. Still, the pledge along with the fighting shows the potential of Syria’s conflict to spread to neighboring countries and shift into a full-blown regional war. The Kurdish-rebel rift is just one layer in Syria’s increasingly complex and bloody civil war that has killed more than 100,000 people. President Bashar Assad’s regime has used warplanes, tanks and ballistic missiles to try to pound rebellious areas into submission. Rebels insist he has used chemical warfare as well.

Spain’s Richest Woman Dies at 69 Zara is one of the world’s largest retail chain stores and it all began with

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Ebola-like Fever Outbreak in Uganda Leaves Three Dead Three people died in Northern Uganda from an alleged outbreak of an extremely infectious hemorrhagic fever, the Health Ministry announced on Friday.

Junior health minister Elioda Tumwesigye told a news conference that the deaths are currently under investigation, as another male farmer fights for his life. He is being treated for a confirmed case of Congo Crimean Hemorrhagic Fever (CCHF) at Kalongo Hospital in Agago district. Initially doctors assumed that the farmer had Ebola, a highly contagious and lethal viral fever. The victim got ill very suddenly on August 8. His symptoms were bleeding, severe headache, high fever, joint muscle pain, vomiting, red eyes, back pain, and stomach pain. Eventually, tests showed that the farmer had CCHF and not the Ebola virus. CCHF is caused by a tick-borne virus, it is highly infectious and is endemic in livestock in Africa. Statistics show that 40% of all the people infected die, according to the Health Ministry. The ministry is in the process of tracking six other people who may have come into contact with the sick farmer. The farmer is currently in an isolation facility at the hospital. The ministry advised all individuals to avoid close physical contact with animals and suspected infected people.

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The passenger ferry sent out a distress call to Coast Guard officials and then sank. The cargo vessel involved in the crash along with Navy, Coast Guard, and other commercial vessels assisted with the rescue efforts. Coast Guard spokeswoman, Dawn Baterbonia reported that authorities rescued about 750 victims, found the bodies of 38 people, and 82 people were still unaccounted for as of Sunday. When the two boats collided, a gaping hole was ripped into the hull of the ferry boat, knocking out its power, and causing it to tilt before rapidly sinking as passengers panicked. One witness described the scene, saying, “The sea was very calm and we could already see the lights at the pier. Then very suddenly ... there was a loud bang then the grating sound of metal being peeled off.” The incident is being regarded as one of the worst maritime disasters in world history since December 20, 1987, when a ferry collided with a tanker also off the Philippines. Outbound and inbound ships are assigned separate routes in the narrow channel leading to the busy Cebu pier. It is still unclear if one of the vessels drifted into the wrong lane, coast guard officials said.

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Nina Siakhali Moradi has what it takes to help the women in her country except she is too attractive. The Iranian activist represents the promise of more civil rights for Iran’s women and won her bid as an alternate to the Qazvin City Council earlier this summer. Qazvin is the ancient capital of the Persian empire, about 100 miles from Tehran. The 27-year-old architecture grad student ran under the slogan “Young ideas for a young future” and was committed to fighting for improved rights for both women and youth. But then religious conservatives barred her from office because of her looks. One senior official in Qazvin reportedly said, “We don’t want a catwalk model on the council.” But of course those kinds of comments were kept off the record and the official reason given by Seyed Reza Hossaini, Qazvin’s representative in Parliament and a review board member, was, “Her votes have been nullified due to her disqualification, as the review board did not approve her credentials. We have told her the reason why she has been disqualified.” That would be believable if Iran’s judiciary and intelligence services hadn’t already granted their approval to Moradi’s candidacy in Qazvin. Supposedly during her campaign, conservative groups complained about Moradi’s “vulgar and anti-religious posters,” the Times reported, adding that the reason given for her disqualification was that she wasn’t “observing the Islamic norms.” Many speculated that Moradi was allowed to run because officials did not think she stood a chance. But young adults loved her and her mission, and she received 10,000 votes which surprised officials and ultimately led them Continued on page 22

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cage, a white fox in a leopard’s den, and a common dog in a wolf’s pen. “The zoo is absolutely cheating us,” the visitor, Sharon Liu, told the Beijing Youth Daily. “They are trying to disguise the dogs as lions.”

Oriental Daily. “The African lions will be back. They went to another zoo to breed.” The zoo’s president reassured the public that the sign outside the African lion cage will be edited until the actual lion returns. Entrance into the zoo costs 15 yuan, approximately $2.45.

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In China, a Lion is a Dog One of the big attractions at The People’s Park of Luohe in the Chinese province Henan is the amazing “African Lion” exhibit. Little tots glaring at the tremendous furry creature raise their paws and shout “roarrrr” but this animal really says “ruff ruff.” Although the animal closely resembles a lion and has passed as a lion to many spectators, the attraction is, in fact, a dog, a Tibetan mastiff. The scam came to light when a child and his mother heard the animal barking. The zoo has allegedly been replacing exotic species with substitutes, including placing two rodents in a snake’s

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Liu Suya, chief of the zoo’s animal department, told the paper that the real lion that lives on premises has been sent to a breeding facility and the dog was a temporary replacement. “The wolf is somewhere else in the pen and the dog is a pet,” another zoo official told the

Japan’s 2011 devastating tsunami is still tormenting the country two years later. A stranded fishing boat that became the symbol of the vast devastation was initially left in place in the port city of Kesennuma as a monument of survival, but many in the town see it as a painful reminder of the terrible loss. The tsunami was caused by the magnitude-9.0 earthquake that occurred on March 11, 2011. The natural disaster left nearly 19,000 dead. The 360-ton Kyotokumaru was swept 800 yards into a residential district by the towering tsunami.

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Israel Yemenite Jews Arrive in Israel in Covert Operation Seventeen Jews from Yemen were transported to Israel last week in a secret operation lead by the Jewish Agency and assisted by ministries of Foreign Affairs. The journey began two years ago. In August 2011, members of Satmar convinced a group of 30 Yemenite Jews to come to London where they were promised refugee status. The hopeful group learned just after departing Yemen that they would not be allowed to enter the UK and were forced to reroute to Argen-

In News cidents within the last five years when prominent members of the community were openly murdered for speaking on behalf of their community. In the past four years, over 150 Yemenite Jews have immigrated to Israel. According to Jewish Agency estimates, there are only 90 Jews remaining in Yemen, and half of them live in a protected compound in the capital of Sana’a.

Israel should have equal rights and opportunities without having any bias, any discrimination. That’s a fundamental principle of the United Nations charter. And thus, Israel should be fully given such rights.”

Ban Ki-Moon: No Israel Bias in UN Yehya Karnei’s children and four of his brother’s, Haim Karnei, children were in the group. During the whole ordeal they got separated, some ending up in Argentina and some in Israel. The families were finally reunited last Wednesday in Israel. Yemen has become a rising target in in the Middle East for Muslim extremists. As a result, Yemen’s small Jewish community endured tremendous suffering and fear. There were several in-

The United Nations is not a lover of Israel—that’s not a secret. But on Monday, the secretary-general of the world organization emphatically denied that there is any bias against Israel in the UN. When speaking with a member of the press, Ban Ki-Moon said, “I don’t think there is discrimination against Israel at the United Nations.” He continued, “The Israeli government maybe raised this issue that there’s some bias against Israel, but Israel is one of the 193 member states. Thus,

The secretary general’s comments were said in response to questions about a comment he reportedly made last week to students admitting that there is a bias against Israel in the UN. “Unfortunately because of the conflict, Israel has been weighed down by criticism and suffered from bias – sometimes even discrimination,” Ban said at the time in the Jerusalem.

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in principle, gives up and throws away the moral foundation of its existence.” He added, “Many of those released were serving life sentences for multiple heinous crimes. The blood of the victims cries out from their graves over the lack of human decency. Their cries are not being heard. The bereaved families of the victims asked and begged not to release the savage murderers of their loved ones. Their pleas were ignored. No one in Israel sees the broken hearts that are bleeding continuously over their losses.” Pollard has been in American prison for more than 27 years. He was sentenced to life imprisonment on one count of espionage for Israel on March 4, 1987 but many are hoping that at the 30 year mark on November 21, 2015 he will stand a chance of parole due to a clean record and good behavior in prison. If he is released, he would be transferred into Israeli custody immediately.

Terror Threats for Israeli and Jewish Targets Worldwide Jonathan Pollard has spent more than 10,000 days in prison. That’s more than 240,000 hours in confinement. He rarely addresses the public but last Friday he published an op-ed piece in the Jerusalem Post. Pollard did not have kind words for the 63-year-old country. He criticized the Israeli government for evicting Jewish communities, releasing terrorists, and for not helping him in his situation. “Israel is the only country in the world that ever voluntarily evicted citizens from their homeland in order to give the land to its enemies, and the only country that ever voluntarily destroyed the homes and businesses of its citizens, broke promises and shattered their lives,” Pollard wrote. Referring to his personal story, he wrote, “Israel holds the world record for betraying those who were loyal to it. It is the only country in the world that ever willingly cooperated in a lawsuit against its intelligence agent, refused to give him asylum, turned over documents to incriminate him, denied knowing him and then allowed him to rot in prison for decades.” In regards to releasing terrorists, Pollard wrote, “A sovereign state which can desecrate the dead by releasing murderers and torturing bereaved families,

On Monday, the Israeli government’s Counter-Terrorism Bureau warned that Israeli and Jewish targets around the world are likely to be sought out by terrorist organizations in the upcoming weeks. The department listed dozens of countries that it had “concrete” evidence that a terrorist threat is probable. Israeli businessmen and former government officials were prime potential targets for these terrorist organizations. The bureau cited concerns about terrorist acts timed to coincide with the upcoming Jewish holidays and the anniversary of the 9/11 attacks. Iran and Hezbollah, in particular, were continuing their “global terror campaign” against Israeli and Jewish targets; Iran still remains intent on avenging the killing of Hezbollah leader Imad Mughniyeh in Damascus in 2008 along with the deaths of three Iranian scientists. Iran blames Israel for their deaths. Additionally, the bureau reconfirmed that Israelis are barred from travel to Iran, Lebanon, Syria, Iraq, Saudi Arabia and Yemen, where the “concrete” terror threat was “very high.” It also ordered Israelis not to travel to Sudan, Somalia, Algeria, Djibouti, Mauritania, Libya and Tunisia, and to leave these countries immediately if they were there because of a similarly “very high” terror threat. Where Tunisia was

In News concerned, it underlined what it said were the “threats to carry out attacks on Israeli and Jewish targets.” The bureau also advised Israelis not to travel to the Sinai Peninsula, an area that is usually a popular vacation spot, especially this time of year. In a less-urgent tone, the bureau ordered Israelis to “avoid visiting” the United Arab Emirates, Bahrain, Jordan, Kuwait, Egypt and Qatar, where it cited what it called a “basic” terrorist threat. Israel maintains peace agreements with both Jordan and Egypt, and the warning highlights what the bureau called “the complex security realities” in nations adjacent to Israel. The bureau also told Israelis to postpone nonessential visits to Turkey, Oman and Morocco because of “ongoing potential threats.” Slightly further afield, it cited “very high” terror threats in Afghanistan, parts of southern Thailand, parts of the southern Philippines, east Senegal, India’s Kashmir province, northern Nigeria, parts of Kenya, and Chechnya. Israelis were not to travel to any of those areas, and to leave immediately if they were there. A “high” terror threat was not-

ed in Indonesia, Burkina-Faso, Ivory Coast, Togo, Mali, Malaysia and Pakistan, telling Israelis not to go there and urging them to leave as soon as possible if they were there now. Generally, the government’s Counter-Terrorism Bureau urged Israelis traveling worldwide to take extra precautions, such as avoiding unexpected meetings or out of the way places, and to change regular travel routes.

Turkish PM: Israel Behind Egypt Unrest The Turkish prime minister seems to believe that Israel is behind everything—bad, that is. So of course, the leader is convinced that the Jewish State has been orchestrating the Egyptian military’s overthrow of deposed leader Mohamed Morsi. On Tuesday, Recep Tayyip Ergodan was quoted in a Turkish newspaper saying, “Israel is behind the coup in Egypt, we have evidence.” He said he spoke with a “French Jewish intellectual” who predicted that the Muslim Brotherhood

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But Ergodan is not the only world leader to believe that Israel is behind the unrest in Egypt. Just last weekend, Venezuela’s president accused Israel and the U.S. of conspiring to oust Morsi and of stirring unrest in Syria. “We have witnessed a blood bath in Egypt,” President Nicolas Maduro said. “We warned that

the coup against Morsi was unconstitutional. Morsi was kidnapped and the responsible party for what is occurring in Egypt is the [American] empire, which has its hands in it.” He added, “The United States doesn’t have friends, it has interests, and what it wants is to control the planet.”

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Hebrew U Ranks 59th in World Although the Academic Ranking of World Universities is primarily dominated by American and British schools, Israel made it to the top 100 leading universities, three times! Hebrew University, Technion Israel Institute of Technology, and Weizmann Institute of Science made it to the list published by Shanghai Jiao Tong University. The Shanghai Jiao Tong University examines more than 2,000 universities across the world every year and ranks the best 500. The Shanghai index is an important index in the academic world. Rankings are based on criteria such as the number of scientific publications,

Hebrew U ranked the top within Israel at 59th place, slightly lower than its last year’s ranking of 53. Technion was ranked 77th and Weizmann Institute, 92nd. The top five universities in the world are Harvard University, Stanford University, University of California, Berkeley, Massachusetts Institute of Technology, and University of Cambridge. The next five spots are occupied by California Institute of Technology, Princeton University, Columbia University, University of Chicago, and University of Oxford. The first 100 schools are ranked in consecutive order and the next 400 schools are ranked by group. Four other Israeli universities made it to the list of top 500. Tel Aviv University placed in the 101-150 range, Bar-Ilan University and Ben Gurion University of the Negev in the 301-400 range, and University of Haifa in the 401-500 range. Hebrew University President Menahem Ben-Sasson said, “I’m proud to see the prominent positions of Israeli research universities in these important international rankings, and I’m pleased that once again Hebrew University has been recognized as Israel’s leading university.” He added, “The fact that the Hebrew University continues to achieve such high rankings is a testament to the hard work of our faculty and the university community and their continuing quest for uncompromising academic and research excellence.” Hebrew U was one of the top three schools in Asia and ranked number 11th for schools where English is not the primary language. Hebrew U has been in the top 100 since the list’s inception in 2003.

On Thursday, Israel extradited a Bosnian Serb immigrant back to Bosnia to face genocide charges over his alleged involvement in the 1995 Srebrenica massacre. Aleksandar Cvetkovic lived in Israel since 2006 and was arrested in January 2011 on an international warrant after witnesses testified that he participated in the shooting of some 8,000 Muslim men and boys. The defendant has denied the charges. He claims he was simply an army driver when Srebrenica fell to the Serbs during Bosnia’s 1992-95 war. Israel’s Justice Ministry said the extradition was the state’s first in a genocide case. “It was decided that, in all of the opportunities afforded him, Cvetkovic did not point to any special circumstances that would justify not implementing the extradition order,” the ministry said in a statement. Cvetkovic is married to an Israeli Jewish woman and has Israeli children, which initially helped him secure citizenship. However, in 2011, a Jerusalem court ruled that regardless he could still be extradited. Officials involved in the case said last year that Cvetkovic would be extradited to a court in Sarajevo, the Bosnian capital, that was set up in 2005 to relieve the burden on the U.N. war crimes tribunal for the former Yugoslavia in The Hague.

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The Week Rosh Hashanah approaches, the price of honey in Israel increases as well. September 4th is just two weeks away and on that day many Israelis will celebrate Rosh Hashanah; every traditional Rosh Hashanah table has apples and honey.

tons of the fruit are exported every year. Each year a total of 100,000 tons are produced. The bad news is that honey yields this year have a lot less to brag about. Due to little rainfall from February to April, fewer wild flowers grew, leading to a 6% decline in the amount of honey produced. As a result, honey prices increased. Throughout Rosh Hashanah, Israelis consume 1,600 tons of honey—that’s 40% percent of yearly honey consumption. Remember to dip your apple in the honey and make a bracha loud and clear. Shana tova u’mituka!

National The good news is that according to Israeli media reports, the quality of apples is particularly good this year. It is expected that 15,000 tons of apples will be sold around this time. That’s 15% of apples produced yearly. Israel’s apple crop is worth 700 million shekels (196 million US dollars) annually, and 7,000

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In 2009, the Federal Reserve announced that a new $100 bill would be released in 2011. The release was delayed many times due to errors and theft. This week another error lead to the ruin of 30 million newly printed bills. A printing error called “mashing” – when too much ink is applied to the paper – has rendered 30 million bills totally useless, said a spokesperson for the Bureau of Engraving and Printing. It seems that recent batches of cash from the Washington, D.C., plant contained “clearly unacceptable” bills intermixed with passable ones. So the Fed is returning more than thirty million hundred-dollar notes and demanding its money back. Another thirty billion dollars’ worth of paper sits in limbo awaiting examination, and Fed officials have informed the bureau that they will not accept any hundred-dollar notes made at the Washington, D.C., facility until further notice This is only the latest in a string of setbacks that have kept the $100 bill out of circulation well past its original 2011 due date. Another printing error caused bills to be printed with a blank spot. And just a year ago, thieves made off with a massive shipment of the new bills. Now, the Bureau is on damage control, sprinting to meet an October 8 deadline to get the notes printed – correctly – and finally into circulation.

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as the Atomic Energy Commission’s (AEC) Nevada Proving Ground during WWII. After consulting with the CIA, the Air Force asked the Atomic Energy Commission to add the area to its real estate holdings in Nevada. AEC Chairman Adm. Lewis Strauss readily agreed, and President Eisenhower also approved the addition of this strip of wasteland, known by its map designation as Area 51, to the Nevada Test Site. The outlines of Area 51 are shown on current unclas-

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Something to Leave Home Without Most of us do a double take in the airport for having forgotten our favorite book to read or not having ordered a kosher meal on the flight. In Atlanta, Georgia, however, people slap their foreheads while going through security for a very different reason. They have forgotten to unpack something that can get them in a lot of trouble. Across the country, people are increasingly being caught at security checkpoints with firearms in their carry-on bags. Nowhere does this happen more often than at Hartsfield-Jackson Atlanta International, the nation’s busiest airport and a magnet of sorts for gun-carrying fliers. The Transportation Security Administration has seized 67 guns this year at Hartsfield-Jackson, putting it ahead of last year’s pace and giving the airport a comfortable lead over Dallas-Fort Worth International. Nationwide, security agents had seized 862 through the first half of 2013, a rate likely to eclipse last year’s record of 1,556. For Atlanta airport officials and law enforcement authorities, the increase in gun seizures poses a big problem, one that strains their security resources even as they continue to search, seemingly in vain, for a way to persuade travelers to leave their guns at home. Carriers of guns include clergy, doctors, and lawyers down south and sometimes they are just in too big of a rush

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The Week to remember every tiny detail of what they have taken with them to the airport. John Turner is a lawyer with 40 years of experience and who routinely passes through courthouse metal detectors. But two years ago, Mr. Turner hurriedly went to Hartsfield International for a flight with his wife to a niece’s graduation. The previous evening, as usual, he had tucked his small handgun into the pack for protection during his daily walk with the family dog.

“I didn’t think it was in there,” he said. “I had always removed it.” Mr. Turner was arrested and taken to the Clayton County jail near the airport. It was a place he was familiar with. Turner is a former prosecutor for the county. Tasha Mosley, the county’s solicitor general, is mystified at the regularity with which the gun violations come across her desk. After all, licensed gun owners can store weapons in checked luggage after filling out paperwork. “It’s just mind-boggling. Just stupid,” she said, considering the projected number of seizures for the year. “There can’t be a hundred people who are that clueless.” Ms. Mosley, who decided to consider prosecuting violators starting in 2011, rattled off some commonly heard excuses: hiding the gun from children and forgetting about it, and grabbing the wrong briefcase while leaving the office. “Lots of sob stories — people crying, saying it was a sentimental gun given to them by their father,” she said. “I just smile at them.” Most bewildering of all to Mosley is the handful of repeat twotime arrestees. “Me and my guys kind of chuckle when that happens,” she said. Infractions can be costly. Besides court and lawyer fees, the T.S.A. imposes a fine of $200 to $11,000. Factors determining the amount include the significance of the security risk, whether the violation was negligent or deliberate, the attitude of the offender and previous indiscretions. Last year, the agency collected $1,887,745 nationwide.

In News 1 in 4 New Jerseyans Moving Back Home It seems that adults in New Jersey sure love their folks. A recent US census revealed that at least 1 in 4 adults ages 18-31 from New Jersey live at home; 42% are 24 or older. Some experts call it an “epidemic” of millenials leaching off their parents but is there something more than that? A new survey from Coldwell Banker says parents in the Northeast region are more lenient about having their grown children move back home than anywhere else in the United States. But, the survey revealed, more than two in three Americans believe that adults moving back home are avoiding responsibility, and 65 percent believe that many who move back home are overstaying their welcome. Mom and dad—it’s time to put your foot down! Dr. Susan Newman is a New Jersey based psychologist and author of Under One Roof. She explains that in the Garden State it’s almost expected for kids to move back home after college. They may be doing it to save money, but moving back in with their folks can hamper the state’s economy. A Moody’s study shows that each new household created helps stimulate the economy. Hey, New Jersey: time to get a job and start paying your own mortgage— you’re an adult now.

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In News harsh criticism after it featured a rodeo clown wearing a President Barack Obama mask. People were most disturbed by the crowd’s reaction as the rodeo clown encouraged the bull to chase him. The strong reaction prompted the state fair to ban the Obama mask-wearing clown from future events. The fair has not released the name of the clown who wore the Obama mask. However, in a statement released last Wednesday, Texas Republican Steve Stockman said that any rodeo in his state would be proud to have the banned clown perform. “Liberals want to bronco-bust dissent. But Texans value speech, even if it’s speech they don’t agree with,” Stockman said. “From Molly Ivins to Louie Gohmert and every opinion between, Texans value free and open political speech.” “I’m sure any rodeo in Texas would be proud to have performers,” he said. “The liberal reaction is straight out of Alinsky,” Stockman said in a statement on his congressional website. “They want to crush dissent by isolating and polarizing anyone who questions Obama, even if it’s a rodeo clown with a harmless gag.”

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What would you do if you woke up one random morning and found out you won almost four million bucks? For William Seeley that’s not a hypothetical question. His answer? “I might just disappear into the woods and hunt and fish every day.” Will is one of the 16 winners of an Ocean County, N.J., office pool who

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World’s Oldest Man Ever is 123-Years-Old

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believe how long they’ve gotten. In 2008, she was the first person to obtain the Guinness World Record for longest dreadlocks, and a year later, she broke her own record with a strand measuring 19 feet, 6 inches. In 2010, Guinness decided to retire the category, since dreadlocks can be lengthened by twisting in extensions, making Mandela the first and only record holder. But if you think almost 20 feet of hair is a lot, you’ve got something coming. Last week, one of Mandela’s strands measured an enormous 55 feet, 7 inches—wowza! Mandela says her hair is her baby but her doctors say that it can harm her health. “The doctors seem to think I have a curvature of my spine and that it’s the length and the weight of my hair that’s making me curve,” she said. “Some have said my neck has collapsed at the back and that I need to be careful because I could start having spasms in my spine and probably be paralyzed.” But Mandela insists on keeping her locks, adding, “My hair has become part of me. It is my life. I will never cut it.”

In News New Mammal Discovered For the first time in 35 years, a new mammal has been discovered. The olinguito, whose discovery was announced last week, is a remarkable creature. For a start, it is utterly engaging, with big eyes and a distinctive thick red-brown pelt. It has been likened to a cat crossed with a teddy bear.

But the importance of Bassaricyon neblina, which has its home in the for-

ests of the Andes, goes beyond aesthetics. The way in which it was found is also fascinating. The olinguito’s existence was determined by careful analysis of old museum exhibits. These showed that the little carnivore had been confused with other similar-looking creatures over the past century and so had been overlooked by science. Fortunately, the creature’s remains had been well-tended and curated and so researchers – once they realized their oversight – were able to analyze the DNA of pelts and skeletons in their collection to reveal the existence of this cute, exciting new animal. At about 2.5 feet long from nose tip to tail tip, the olinguito weighs about 2 pounds and is a little smaller than a house cat. DNA analysis confirmed that while olinguitos belong to the raccoon family, they are known as “sister groups.” The olinguito’s misty high-elevation habitats in Colombia and Ecuador, and the tendency for the animal to stay in the trees have helped keep the species relatively obscure to scientists until now.

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In News extraordinary gesture he extended an 11-year-old girl. Inbar Chomsky had been removed from a flight from Israel to New York City after she lost her passport. Inbar of Rechovot, Israel, planned to attend Camp Simcha in Glen Spey, New York, for children who suffer from cancer and other hematologic illnesses. The camp program is offered by Chai Lifetime. On August 8th, 36 children excitedly boarded the El Al flight for their two-week trip to the United States. After they underwent a pre-flight medical examination and were seated, the flight crew began collecting passports, while the plane prepared for takeoff. However, during the process, a flight attendant realized that Chomsky’s passport was The crew began frantically missing. searching the aircraft but no one could find it. “It was pretty chaotic,” Rabbi Scholar, executive vice president of Chai Lifeline, recalls. “There is so much medical clearance that takes place before these kids are allowed to get on an international flight and to have this happen to a little girl who has already gone through so much was unfortunate.” The search party expanded. The ground crew boarded the plane to help out and the airport staff combed through the area between the boarding gate and the plane. Passengers were getting restless, and with time running out, the pilot stepped out of the cockpit and informed Chomsky that without a passport, she wouldn’t be able to fly to New York. They called her mother to pick her up. “Everyone was very emotional,” said Rabbi Scholar. “There wasn’t one person on that flight who wasn’t in tears or upset for this little girl. However, there was nothing that could be done.” The plane had almost reached the runway when someone located Chomsky’s passport in the backpack of a fellow camper. Immediately, the pilot alerted the control tower, ground crew, and El Al’s offices to see if he could retrieve Chomsky. After 30 minutes of negotiations, the pilot turned the plane around and picked her up, to the cheers of the passengers. The airline sent a statement to the Times of Israel that read, “Planes rarely return to the gate after departing…El Al was honored and proud to help Inbar’s dream to go to the camp in the USA come true. We wish Inbar full recovery and health.” What a kiddush Hashem!

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Around the Community Yoel Sharabi Wows Crowd at Special Margaret Tietz Concert Star performer Yoel Sharabi is a master of modern Israeli and Chassidic melodies who has captivated audiences worldwide. He is also a dear friend of Mr. Abraham Antman, a 100-year-old short-term rehab patient at Margaret Tietz Nursing & Rehabilitation Center, whose daughter Chana is Mr. Sharabi’s music agent. On Thursday, August 15th, Margaret Tietz residents, family members and staff packed the facility’s recreation room for a special guest performance by Mr. Sharabi. The atmosphere was electric as the singer connected with the audience instantly, and regaled the crowd with renditions from Fiddler on the Roof golden oldies to some beloved Israeli hits. His solo concert lasted over an hour and culminated with the singer bending his head for a heartfelt blessing from the elderly Mr. Antman, followed by spontaneous dancing. Margaret Tietz Nursing and Rehabil-

itation Center, a member of CenterLight Health System, has been an integral part of the Queens landscape since 1971. Committed to fulfilling and superseding the community’s healthcare needs and expectations, the facility is always seeking ways to enhance their delivery of care. In fact, they attained outstanding results on their recent 2013 survey by the NYS Deparment of Health. Intent on creating a warm and welcoming environment to best accommodate the frum population, the facility regularly implements new amenities and programs with the full support of the community rabbanim and lay leadership. Margaret Tietz has its own rabbi, a functioning synagogue with full services for the upcoming holidays, a well-appointed Shabbos apartment that can accommodate up to eight people, an Eiruv Hotline; it’s been a year now since they have become fully kosher.

Free Carnival and Safety Event hosted by the White Shul and RCSP On Sunday, August 25th, the White Shul will be hosting its annual carnival. As always, there will be free rides, games, goody bags for kids, and refreshments that can be purchased. This year, the White Shul has partnered with the Rockaway Citizens Safety Patrol (RCSP) to bring an element of safety to the event. The RCSP is composed of a team of well-trained volunteers dedicated to helping their community in any way and providing “eyes and ears” to the NYPD. In the course of its activities, the patrol has recovered over 10 stolen bikes this summer alone. However, due to the lack of identifiable marking on the bikes, most bikes have not been returned to their rightful owners. To help facilitate the return of stolen bikes in the future, the RCSP and NYPD

will be offering a free bike etching at the White Shul carnival this year. The young members of our community are encouraged to bring their bikes to the carnival to be etched (engraved) with a personal identification number. This identifier will help return the stolen or lost property to its owner. Bike etching programs have proven to be a very effective tool throughout the city in fighting petty crimes. Safety Patrol organizations citywide have been able to return hundreds of bikes a year thanks to this NYPD program. Prizes will be distributed to the first 200 participants. All are invited to join the community on August 25th and enjoy good rides and good times while getting some safety tips from your neighborhood patrol, the RCSP.

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NBA Star Darryl Dawkins Visits Avnet Day Camp Photo credit: Ira Thomas Creations

Former NBA star Darryl “Chocolate Thunder” Dawkins gave a clinic and signed autographs for the campers at Avnet Country Day School on Au-

gust 7. Darryl started his career with the Philadelphia 76ers and then was traded to the NY Nets and was famous for his thunderous dunks which broke the backboard, forcing the NBA to develop the breakaway rim now used on all basketball goals. Darryl not only taught

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Teamwork at Ruach Day Camp Orienteering was one of Ruach Day Camp’s favorite new activities. The campers showed great teamwork as they worked together as they picked their own materials to build sukkot, teepees and other fantastic

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4th Annual South Shore One Israel Fund BBQ and Fine Israeli Wine Tasting

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The 40th Annual Sulitzer Tehillim Kollel Parlor Meeting by Leah Bleiberg In the wake of the irreplaceable loss to Far Rockaway and the Five Towns with the petira of the Sulitzer Rebbe, Rav Shmuel Smelka Rubin, zt”l, there’s a golden opportunity to continue the amazing avodas hakodesh the Rebbe established and moreover, show our hakaras hatov for his more than half a century of serving our community. What did the Rebbe want more than to help Klal Yisroel by pounding on the doors of shemayim every day with all of Tehillim to answer our pleas? And who would be the best shlichim for our benefit? None other than a minyan of holy neshomos, purified by years of d’vekus to Torah.

I remember discussing the Tehillim Kollel with the Rebbetzin, a’h. She explained that we know the importance of Sefer Tehillim, the power of a minyan and the holiness of the Kotel. “How could it be,” she asked, “that at the holiest place on earth, we don’t take the initiative to say the entire Sefer Tehillim every day as a minyan? We had to arrange such an undertaking.” I had the privilege of being there, many years ago, with the Rebbetzin. We had to arrive very early, to be let into a secret chamber of the Kotel by a guard with keys to a locked iron door, overlooking a hidden part of the Kotel that few are privy to see. After an early

Shacharis, these talmidei chochomim recite the entire sefer Tehillim, aloud and in unison, for about two hours. The Rebbetzin said it along with them. I said as much as I could, not being as fluent as they were, but also overcome with awe at where I was and what I was witnessing. How can we gauge the power of such tefilos presented with utmost kedusha to the Ribono Shel Olom? An institution that stands alone in this unique mission is still only a phone call away, ready to receive our requests. How much do we need rachmei Shomayim now!! I was privileged to be close to the Sulitzer Rebbetzin, z”l, and heard about the glory of her pre-war Europe childhood, their narrow escape to the US, how she and the Rebbe began the Sulitzer Mosdos with not a penny to their name, summoning all their courage in a foreign land, while vivid memories of the Holocaust still raged. Nevertheless, through all their challenges, the Rebbe never lost sight of his great vision to have a strong, consistent connection at the holiest place on earth, for all our prayers. So they instituted and supported the Tehillim Kol-

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4th Annual Cross River Bank Golf & Tennis Outing to Benefit Madraigos is a Tremendous Success Photos courtesy of DMJ Digital Media

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This past Monday, August 19th, Cross River Bank held its Fourth Annual Golf and Tennis Outing to benefit Madraigos. Over two dozen golfers flew into New York from across the United States and Canada to be part of this highly anticipated, sold out event. Trump National Golf Club of Westchester, known for its challenging course, spectacular grounds, and majestic waterfall on the 13th green, proved to be the perfect backdrop for a beautiful day of golf, tennis, and networking. Guests began arriving well before 9 AM, as many people were eager to view the grounds, tour the clubhouse, and enjoy the generous giveaways that Madraigos presented to each registered golfer. Between the Dr. Dre Powerbeats as the premium giveaway; the golf umbrella; Hawke active wear, Weatherproof jackets, and the duffel bag filled with a host of other sponsored items, the golfers were well-equipped for a full day of golfing and beyond. The participants were delighted when they were also presented with a gift from Trump Golf Club: a gift certificate for the Pro Shop. This year, E-Golfscore, a cutting edge feature, was introduced. It enhanced the event with photos and live stats throughout the day while ensuring accuracy in scoring. Golfers enjoyed the hand held devices and seeing their foursome photos on the large leaderboard in the clubhouse. Madraigos has profound thanks to those who very generously participated in the Outing. Major event sponsors include Harborview Capital Partners, TwinMed, Brius, Riverbank Title, Infinity Land Services, Omni Health,

Exigent Capital, Beechwood Capital Group, Weatherproof, Republic Valuations, Hawke, Island Exteriors, Recovery Road, Madison Title, Island Exteriors, Greensky, and 718 Insurance. After a delicious breakfast, as the foursomes began to prepare for a competitive day of golf, Bobby Bradley set-

many in attendance. As the breakfast was being cleared indoors, the barbecue lunch, sponsored by Recovery Road, was already underway outside on the spacious patio next to the putting green, halfway through the 18-hole course. The golfers drove their golf carts right up to the seating area, and enjoyed the plentiful meats that were grilled to perfection. The aroma was enticing, and the cold drinks and icy refreshments hit the spot. Although the golf and tennis spots were completely sold out, many individuals came to the golf course to enjoy the wonderful day and to be a part of this spectacular event. Over 100 people arrived solely for cocktails and dinner, where elegant tables were set to accommodate the 250 people who had come together to show their support for Madraigos. All of the food at the outing was expertly catered by Seasons of Westchester, and the dinner was just as plentiful and succulent as the food had been throughout the day. At the short dinner Silver Foursome: Ron Schwartz, Speaker Sheldon Silver, program, golf awards were preDavid Schonbrun, and Leonard Greher sented, trophies were accepted, tled in at the 2nd hole, ready to take on and the raffles were drawn. Over fifty anyone who wished to challenge him thousand dollars in donated gifts includin a long drive contest. As the ReMax ing electronics, jewelry, trips, sports Long Drive Champion, Bradley glad- tickets, and sports memorabilia were ly stepped up to the green to compete given away. Special prizes included an with those who wanted to take on the Andrew Lock Custom Suit, Zilli ties, pro. Many tried, but none succeeded, and gift certificates for two foursomes at as Bradley capably, and with authority, the Trump National Golf Club in Westbeat many highly talented golfers. It chester and Hudson Valley, donated proved to be quite the excitement for by Jeff Poling of Trump National Golf

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Club in Westchester who had been impressed with the professionalism of both the outing and the guests. David Jasse of DMJ Photo & Video, who sponsored photography for the event, worked hard with his team to get great action shots and capture the magnificent scenery. With DMJ’s creativity and unique style, the outing video will definitely be a winner. As the day came to a close, golfers, tennis players, and all the guests were already anticipating next year’s outing, with the confidence that it will once

again be the most highly anticipated golf event of the season. Rabbi Dov Silver, Founder and Executive Vice President of Madraigos, was grateful. “We are so thankful to Cross River Bank, the generous sponsors, the volunteers who went above and beyond the call of duty, and everyone who came here today in support of Madraigos. We could not provide our life-saving work were it not for each and every person here today, who understands and appreciates the need to help empower our youth, and give them the skills they need to become the leaders of tomorrow.” Gilles Gade, CEO of Cross River Bank, was equally pleased with the event. “It is an honor for Cross River Bank to host this outing to benefit such a worthwhile organization as Madraigos. My business associates, colleagues, and

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friends are proud to support Madraigos while enjoying a day of golf, tennis and networking. It was a very rewarding experience.” From registration through dinner the day ran smoothly, thanks to expert planning, and hard-working volunteers. “This golf outing exceeded everyone’s expectations, and raised even more than we anticipated,” said Rabbi Josh Zern, Executive Director at Madraigos “We exceeded all of our goals for this beautiful event, which is now more important than ever, as we look to balance our growing budget to accommodate the expanded list of services and programs that Madraigos offers.” Funds raised at the event will assist Madraigos in providing valuable services to our community, including a 24-hour Support Line, Community Education, Crisis Intervention, Case Management, Educational Enhancement Program, The Lounge, Assessments and Referrals, School-Based Services, Shabbatonim, Job Placement Program, Support Groups, and Yom Tov Retreats, including this year’s inspirational Rosh Hashana program which will take place

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Appreciating the Small Things The medrash in Shir Hashirim says “Pischu li pesech kechudo shel machat v’ani eftach lachem pesach kipischu shel ulam”- make Me an opening like the eye of a needle and I will enlarge it for you to the size of an entrance to a ballroom. Practically speaking, this medrash shows us that Hashem asks of us to put in effort and take the first small step. From there He’ll give us a jumpstart for the rest of the way. This idea is very appropriate for Elul, the time when we focus on coming back to Hashem in repentance. We might look back on the whole year, and think how we did so many things that were wrong, and created a distance between us and Hashem. This might scare us away from even trying to repent, as bridging the gap might seem insurmountable. With this medrash in mind though, we can realize how it’s really not so hard after all. We have to come before Hashem in sincerity, with a true desire to improve, and when we follow the simple steps of teshuva, Hashem will go ahead and completely erase the past sins, as if they had never been committed. All we have to do is so little compared to the great amount we will benefit in the end. The attitude of taking a small step and doing our little bit in the right direction is an important approach to

marriage too. Sometimes, it’s important for a spouse to simply see that you care and that you are willing to try. That alone can help him/her to come to you the rest of the way. You can allow yourself to get overwhelmed by trying to make everything perfect for your spouse always. But in all likelihood, that won’t always be possible. So instead, put your all into it when you are able to go above and beyond for your spouse, and do it the whole way. And on your part, look out for the times your spouse goes above and beyond for you. Appreciate it, and express your appreciation and recognition for his/ her efforts. By trying your best and taking the small steps in the right direction, you will be on the path to increasing the peace and harmony in your home. Five Towns Marriage Initiative provides educational programs, workshops and referrals to top marriage therapists. FTMI will help offset counseling costs when necessary and also runs an

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Behind the screaming political headlines in Eretz Yisrael, a quiet revolution is transforming Eretz Yisrael slowly, neshamah by neshamah, family by family. It’s the Acheinu revolution! To gain just minimal insight into this revolution, all one had to do was visit the Kosel just over a week ago. At that time, some 100 participants of the Acheinu summer vacation yeshiva ended their summer of spiritual transformation with a visit to HaGaon HaRav Reuven Elbaz, shlita, Rav of Mosdos Ohr Hachayim and one of the greatest machzirei b’teshuva in our times. The visit to Rav Elbaz was followed by a visit to the Kosel where they davened Mincha and were treated to a shmuess by Rav Dovid Hofstedter, Nasi of Dirshu. The teenaged boys who participated in the Acheinu summer program came from completely secular homes and were brought close to Yiddishkeit through a network of battei chizuk that dot the map of Eretz Yisrael, providing young boys with their first taste of Yiddishkeit and Jewish learning.

HaGaon HaRav Reuven Elbaz, shlita, addressing a prior Acheinu conference

er, know,” Rav Elbaz thundered, “that when one enters yeshiva he starts to feel a deep inner joy and happiness such that he never felt during the fleeting moments of so-called pleasure from his previous existence. He didn’t live then, he just existed. In yeshiva one is truly alive! Not only is it better for him in Olam Habaah but it is better for him in Olam Hazeh too! Not only is it better for him in Olam Hazeh, but the fact that he goes to yeshiva is better for his family in Olam Hazeh too! Who enriches the family? The yeRav Dovid Hofstedter, Nasi of Dirshu, with Acheinu talmidim at the Kosel shiva bochur! Who truly “You Bochurim are the honors his parents? The yeshiva bochur! True Giborim!” Who keeps the chain of Judaism alive Rav Reuven Elbaz, who was ex- in the family? The yeshiva bochur! Who tremely impressed with the quality and ensures that the rest of the family still motivation of Acheinu’s charges, per- has some minimal connection to Yidhaps put it most succinctly in his ad- dishkeit? The yeshiva bochur! You bodress: “When a young man from a secu- churim are truly the giborim, the strong, lar home decides to go to yeshiva, what powerful people of our time. While the do his friends and family back home say entire world is spending their time runand think about him? They say, ‘What a ning after one lowly desire after another, pity! Nebach, he is going to yeshiva… you thumb your nose at that ‘world’ and such a dark place! He will never be able are entering the true world of pleasure, to have ‘fun’ anymore….’ We, howev- the world of Abayeh and Rava!”

Rav Elbaz then begged the boys to accept upon themselves something special in honor of the occasion and in honor of their entry into yeshiva. “The boys were so moved that one couldn’t help but shed a tear, when watching such a pure, holy manifestation of the eternity of the Jewish neshamah,” said Rabbi Chaim Goldberg, one of the senior members of Acheinu who oversaw the cross-country summer yeshiva program. The boys then went to daven Mincha at the Kosel. As they davened, people from all walks of life stopped in their tracks to observe the intensity of tefillah exhibited by these obvious newcomers to Yiddishkeit. One could see tears in their eyes, when Rav Dovid Hofstedter, Nasi of Dirshu and founder of Acheinu, movingly said to them, “In the zechus of your learning Torah, of your continued growth in Torah, we will be zocheh to have the Bais Hamikdosh right here!” Acheinu Yeshiva Bochurim Tested on Entire Mesechta Kesubos by HaGaon HaRav Dovid Cohen, Shlita With Acheinu, the summer is just the beginning of something much bigger. In honor of the beginning of Elul zeman at the Acheinu Yeshiva for baalei teshuvah in Yerushalayim, the well-known Rosh Yeshiva of the Chevron Yeshiva, HaGaon HaRav Dovid Cohen, shlita, came last week to participate in a pesichas ha’zeman event. The highlight of the event was a siyum on the entire Masechta Kesubos that had been learned the previous years in the yeshiva.

Rav Dovid Cohen together with Rav Dovid Hofstedter and Rabbi Zev Hofstedter, Rosh Yeshiva of Yeshivas Acheinu, tested the bochurim on Masechta Kesubos. Last year, the bochurim in the yeshiva spent their bein hasedorim finishing the perakim in the masechta that they had been unable to learn during the yeshiva’s regular sedarim. In addition to weekly tests, they also took the final, massive test on the whole masechta on Sunday, 28 Av, the first day of Elul zeman. As the bochurim, all baalei teshuvah from non-religious homes were taking the written test, Rav Dovid Cohen and Rav Dovid Hofstedter entered. Rav Dovid Cohen began to test the boys orally starting with the beginning of the masechta and hopping around, asking questions from one end to the other. Just one look at the smiling countenance of Rav Cohen, one of the great Roshei Yeshiva of Eretz Yisrael, was enough to see how pleased he was with the knowledge that the bochurim displayed. During his remarks, Rav Dovid Hofstedter said, “Look how important your Torah learning is! It is so important that one of the gedolei hador left behind all of the myriad things that he has to do in order to spend an extensive amount of time with you, because he understands how important your learning is!” The siyum was made by one of the talmidei hayeshiva. After the kaddish said by Rav Dovid Hofstedter, the entire room erupted in song and dance. The simcha, the simcha of Torah was tangible. One of the most beautiful sights was the sight of the fathers, brothers and uncles of the bochurim who made the siyum, first cautiously joining the circle of dancers and then being swept up in the unique simcha shel mitzvah. A Unique Yeshiva, a Unique Pesicha! Another important occasion was the pesichas hazeman event at the Acheinu Yeshiva Ketana in Kiryat Sefer. The Acheinu Yeshiva Ketana is an absolutely unique mossad, a yeshiva with no parallel in the entire Eretz Yisrael. Whereas the Yeshiva Hakedosha in Yerushalyim is for baalei teshuvah who hail from irreligious schools and backgrounds, the yeshiva in Kiryat Sefer is for bochurim who have graduated the Chinuch Atzmai network of schools from communities throughout Eretz Yisrael. They are religious boys who have learned gemara in school but who come from homes, neighborhoods and backgrounds that make it difficult for them to undergo the transition to a regular yeshiva ketana. The Acheinu Yeshiva is the vehicle

that completely mainstreams its bochurim, enabling them to graduate into some of the best, most coveted yeshiva gedolos in the country. On Thursday, 2 Elul, a pesichas hazeman event was held at the yeshiva. The highlight at that maamad was the shiur pesicha on Masechta Sukkah delivered by the yeshiva’s founder, Rav Dovid Hofstedter. Rav Hofstedter gave an in-depth, intricate shiur on the masechta. The sight of some 200 bochurim all listening, absorbing, taking notes and understanding the difficult shiur was phenomenally inspiring. In the middle of the shiur there were bochurim who stood up to ask questions on the shiur precipitating a remarkable giveand-take. Yes, the fire of Torah burned brightly at the Acheinu Yeshiva of Kiryat Sefer. Rav Michoel Berlin, shlita, rosh yeshiva of the Acheinu Yeshiva in Kiryat Sefer, said, “Seven years ago, HaGaon HaRav Aharon Leib Shteinman, shlita, asked Acheinu to open the yeshiva stating that there was a dire need for such a yeshiva, and it would save hundreds of boys from attending regular high schools. At the time, we never dreamed of the size, scope and success that the yeshiva would be. Today, elite yeshiva gedolos are asking for our bochurim. That is the Acheinu revolution!”

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At the Shuvu end-of-summer BBQ at the home of Moshe and Tamar Schwartz last week. Charlie Harary was the featured guest speaker.

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Families need to know that our streets and sidewalks are safe as they’re trying to make a life here. And as a father of a young son, I know how a parent’s heart skips a beat when a dangerous driver hurtles down our local street. We depend on safe streets in this city as part of daily life -whether it’s a child walking to school, or a family going to worship, we need safe, walkable streets. Just two years ago, five-year-old Moshe Englender was tragically killed by a truck while riding his tricycle in Williamsburg – underscoring how critical comprehensive safety rules are to our community. Following that horrible tragedy, I worked with my colleagues to pass a bill in Moshe’s memory and prevent future tragedies, along with my colleagues. Our bill required trucks operating in New York City to have crossover (“convex”) mirrors, which would remove their blind spots. That law was an important step. But we must ensure that it’s being fully enforced and that companies are not finding loopholes that may put our children at risk. We also must do more than simply react to tragedies. We need to be proactive about making sure our streets are safe for everyone. I’ve made safer streets a priority as a State Senator. In 2010, I passed “Hayley and Diego’s Law” to crack down on careless driving. The bill was named for

two children who were killed by a van carelessly left in reverse. I’m continuing to push my bill to strengthen that law. Albany must pass it as soon as possible and send a strong message that a driver’s license is not a license for carelessness. After too many tragedies on the Lower East Side, I formed the Delancey Street Safety Working Group. The working group led to dramatic improvements along one of our city’s most dangerous corridors. By bringing together all of the stakeholders – the Department of Transportation, the NYPD, community organizations, and elected officials – we got real results. Additionally, Governor Cuomo recently signed legislation to pilot a speed camera program across the city, an important step forward. Albany and our communities must work together to monitor the program and expand it so we can more effectively deter speeding. Families too often worry about their children’s safety as they’re walking to school or playing outside. There are some simple steps we can take to close these gaps in pedestrian safety. Now let’s get them done in the name of Moshe Englender and all the children whose lives are put at risk by senseless, careless tragedies. Daniel Squadron is a New York State Senator and Democratic candidate for NYC Public Advocate.

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Guess Who’s Coming for Breakfast? By Joe Bobker Rabbi Yehuda Heschel Levenberg came from the small village of Pilten, Lithuania, studied at Rav Zalman Sender’s yeshiva at Maltch, settled into the city of Vindova after his marriage, and in the spring of 1910 set sail for the United States via England as a fund-raiser for the legendary Slabodka yeshiva. He never returned. The decision spared his family and descendants from Hitler and Stalin. Rav Levenberg, 33, was a compelling orator who served as the Rav of Jersey City while harboring a secret wish: to open a Slabodka-style yeshiva. In 1923, the ambitious immigrant took a “leap of faith” and chose New Haven, a southern Connecticut city, to open the first yeshiva gedola and mesivta outside New York which he called “The Orthodox Rabbinical Seminary.” A suitable mashgiach was found back in der heim in Slutzk, Lithuania, with Rabbi Sheftel Kramer accepting the position. The fledgling yeshiva ran into the Great Depression in the aftermath of “Black Tuesday” (October 1929). Its growth was stunted and, faced with weak local support, Rav Levenberg went searching for “greener” pastures (pun intended). During the winter of 1929-30, the yeshiva and its sixty students moved to Cleveland, Ohio, where a communal and financial base was more assured. Meanwhile, R’ Yehuda Leib Ruderman, a Lubavitch melamed in Dolhinove, a small community of 2,500 Jews located between Vilna and Minsk, had sent his son, Yaakov Yitzchok, to Rav Shabsi Yogel’s yeshiva in Slonim in the Grodno province and then onto Slabodka. But the timing was terrible. In July, 1914, Yaakov Yitzchok, at 13 barely a teenager and now an orphan, suddenly found himself in the whirlpool of World War I and was forced to flee to Minsk with his rosh yeshiva, Rabbi Moshe Mordechai Epstein, staff, and other students. Flight was to be his fate for the next

several years. Rav Ruderman returned to Slabodka a few years after the hostilities ended, met and married Rav Kramer’s daughter, Feige, entered Knesses Beis Yitzchok (Kovno Kollel) for young married couples, and ended up struggling to find a job in Lithuania or Palestine. In 1930 his opportunity to alter American Torah history arrived when his father-in-law asked him to join his yeshiva as a maggid shir. Rav Ruderman set sail with his wife and young daughter, Chana, settled in to his new job but was soon restless in Cleveland. Rav Levenberg died seven years later and the yeshiva closed down. Three years later, Rav Avraham Nachman Schwartz, the long-serving (twenty-nine years) rav of Shomrei Mishmeres Hakodesh synagogue in Baltimore, Maryland, offered him a post as the Rav of Tiferes Yisrael. Very few people said no to Rav Schwartz. He was a larger-than-life figure who fled to America after the horrific Kishinov pogrom in 1903 and changed the character of Baltimore into an orthodox stronghold.

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Rav Ruderman now had a chance to open his own yeshiva. In November 1933, six months after Adolf Hitler bullied his way onto the German throne on the other side of the world, he started a class with five “imported” students, added nine more, and in honor of R’ Yisrael Salanter, “his rebbi’s Rebbi,” named the nascent school Ner Israel.

The school had no money but plenty (from Australia) and unfamiliar with the of naysayers. But Rav Ruderman’s lug- landscape of American yeshivas, started gage was bursting with optimism and a enquiring where we should send them. We were seeking an out-of-town yepositive attitude. He was convinced that “an American Jew has the potential to shiva with an intensive litvisher derech that also allowed the pursuit become a gadol no less than of a college degree. We disa European Jew!” He saw covered that all roads led to no reason why he could not Baltimore and all roads in transform complacent AmerBaltimore led to a sprawling ican boys into zealous yeshitranquil campus on Mt. Wilva bochurim. And he predictson Lane. ed that his yeshiva would be Our sons spent a total of “as big as Slabodka!” twenty-eight years combined Rav Ruderman was in the “halls of Torah” at wrong. His yeshiva became Ner Israel and experienced a larger than Slabodka. Rabbi Tzvi Berkowitz warm heimishe environment A significant factor in its success was another young immigrant. with a star cast of remarkable talmidei Naftali (“Herman”) Neuberger, alumni chachamin such as the beloved Rav Yaaof yeshivas in Germany (Wurzburg) and kov Moshe Kulefsky. A quick anecdote: When Rav RuPoland (Mir), was a twenty-year-old single boy from Hassfurt, northern Bavaria, derman founded the yeshiva in 1933, a who arrived in March 1938 (“Everybody ba’alabos cautioned, “Rabbi, you will knew there was no future in Germany!”) have to raise $10,000 a year .Times are on a visa arranged by a cousin. tough; you will never raise that amount. Rav Neuberger adapted swiftly to his My advice is not to open the yeshiva.” new environment. Fate put him in the Rav Ruderman replied, “On Chanupath of Rav Ruderman with whom he kah, they did not have enough oil but lit shared the enthusiasm and, as a widely the menora anyway. We will open the yeadmired Torah statesman, shiva and see how long it lasts.” helped guide the developThis year, Ner Israel is celebrating its ment of the yeshiva for a 80th anniversary, the equivalent of two staggering sixty-five years. generations in Torah terms. The budWith the help of a strong get is no longer $10,000 but closer to faculty that included Rav $12,000,000. Less than half comes from Dovid Kronglas from Ko- tuition. brin, Poland, the only memThis Sunday, August 25th, our family ber of his large family to is honored to host a breakfast for Yeshiemerge from Hitler’s reign of vas Ner Yisrael at 189 Wildacre Avenue, terror, and the long-serving Lawrence, at 9:30am. (twenty-five years) mashThe community will hear from Rabgiach ruchani, the Ruder- bi Sheftel Neuberger, the indefatigable man-Neuberger duo turned menahel, and Rabbi Tzvi Berkowitz, a the yeshiva into a power- young high school student who arrived house of Talmud Torah, an at the yeshiva from San Francisco and, influential institution that thankfully to all the students since then, acted as a magnet not just for never left. Rav Tzvi became a master refugee teenagers (mainly and modest educator with an uncanny orphans) from post-Holo- ability to connect with American boys. caust D.P. camps in Swe- As rosh yeshiva, he is widely respected den, but for students from for his sage guidance and now gives the New York, Toronto, Canada, most senior shiur on campus. mostly children of survivors, and later Miriam and I, and our sons, Eli, from as far away as Iran, South America, Avi, Benny, and Dovi, look forward to and even the “Down Under” continent of greeting you personally on August 25 Australia. for a laid-back morning among friends, neighbors, alumni, and supporters of the yeshiva sharing a d’var Torah and a tasty ******* While our four sons were attending breakfast – or as the gemara elaborates, yeshiva gedola in Los Angeles, my wife “To dine with a scholar is to feast also on Miriam and I, ourselves new immigrants the Shechina!”

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arents in Jewish communities tend to have large families with several children, and children tend to need lots of clothing. A new clothing shop has opened in Kew Gardens hills, Queens, to service a community where many people had to go to Brooklyn or other areas in order to find what they were looking for. We spoke with Ariella and Shira of Petit Perfection to find out more of the scoop on this exciting new development. TJH: Hello! Thanks so much for talking with us about the new children’s clothing store called Petit Perfection. What made you decide to open a store? PP: It’s great to speak with you as well! We always liked to dress our children in a certain way but found it difficult to find those brands and looks in our area. We met many people who live here who said they were forced to go to other neighborhoods for clothing and found it difficult and time-consuming. That was how the store was born. TJH: What has been the feedback from the community so far? PP: The community has been so welcoming and excited to have us open here. So many people have expressed appreciation for the store. We totally understand it too. It’s hard to schlep little kids in the car, then go from here to there to try on clothing and then schlep them back. We are located in a central area and make things so much easier for parents and kids!

winter season? PP: This season is all about setting the tone with leather/pleather, peter pan collars and velvet. Splashes of teal, burgundy and burnt orange are showing up everywhere. Boys stay stylish with slim fitting pants, bold sweaters and shirts with printed details such as ties and buttons. TJH: When are you open and how can you be contacted? PP: A great way to be in the know is to like us on Facebook and follow us on Instagram @Petitperfection. There you can see some of the latest merchandise and the corresponding sizes. We also post store hours each week, so that’s a good way to stay updated. You can call the store at 347-68-PETIT (73848) for store hours or for more information. We also have appointments for those who can’t make it during store hours. TJH: What is your favorite thing about starting Petit Perfection? PP: Where to start?? Kids’ clothing is our passion, and we love seeing how happy the children are when they’re wearing an outfit that they love or that makes them feel special. We also get to get a sneak peak of each season’s beautiful items before they hit the stores, which is always fun! But most of all, we love making life a little easier for all the moms and dads out there in our community who have a million and one things on their to do list and can cross off the travel time to get their kids clothing.

TJH: That sounds like it’s a big help for so many. What kind of merchandise do you sell? PP: We sell beautiful boys and girls clothing in sizes 6 months to 14. We have the latest trends and fashions for kids, as well as more traditional styles for those more conservative among us. We carry many brands you know and love, known for their high quality and attention to detail. But don’t be fooled into thinking our prices are high. Our merchandise is extremely well-priced!

TJH: What is one message you would like to get out to everyone? PP: We’d love for you to check out our beautiful selection of affordable fine children’s clothing. Supporting your community stores are a great way to grow the community and establish necessities that everyone needs. Yom Tov is a hop and skip away so come check us out. We are looking forward to serving you with great clothing, great prices and great service.

TJH: Wow I definitely have to check that out! Can you expound on some of the trends for this coming fall/

TJH: We can’t wait to check it out! We wish you much hatzlacha with your store, and a great start to a new year.

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Mrs. Berkowitz is worrying day in and day out about her poor son Yankel who is far away in sleepaway camp: “Will he have enough to eat? Will he be cold at night? Will he get mosquito bites?” While worrying she decides to at least buy and send him two warm flannel shirts. When the summer is over after many hours on the bus, Yankel arrives home. As he is about to walk inside, he thinks, “Wait, maybe I should wear one of the shirts my mother sent me! Surely this will make her happy!” He puts on the shirt and rings the doorbell. Mrs. Berkowitz runs to the door and flings it open. “Yankele,” she cries, “I am sooooo happy to see you! And you even are wearing one of the shirts I sent you! But tell me one thing: you didn’t like the other shirt?!?!”

A vacationing family sitting around the campfire has the following conversation: Father: What day is it? I am sure it isn’t Tuesday, Wednesday or Thursday. Mother: Well, that’s not very helpful. Besides yesterday was Friday. Father: No, now that I think about it, yesterday wasn’t Friday, tomorrow is Friday. Dave: The day after tomorrow is Thursday. Sarah: You are funny. Tomorrow is Thursday. Mother: Actually, it’s probably Thursday today. Danny: All we know for sure is that it wasn’t Sunday yesterday. If only one statement above is true, what day of the week is it? Answer on next page

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Down 1. Born in Cambridge, Massachusetts, he wrote Old Ironsides 2. Amendment granting women the right to vote. 5. Sets sail from Spain 8. Iraq invades this country, leading to the first Gulf War. 9. Pitched for 27 years, debuted with the Mets in 1966 10. Ex-Revolutionary War captain leads an armed mob in Massachusetts 11. Title of speech given by Martin Luther King Jr. on August 28, 1963 12. 50th state 14. The first Atomic Bomb was dropped on this Japanese city Across 3. Prince William’s mother 4. Wrote the Star Spangled Banner 6. Surname of flying brothers 7. Temporary “emergency wartime measure” enacted in Washington on August 5, 1861. 152 years later and the measure is thriving (think IRS). 13. Born in Honolulu (or as “birthers” believe, in Kenya) on August 4, 1961 15. Replaces Mikhail Gorbachev in 1991 16. Burned in the War of 1812

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BEING A LEFTY IS AL-RIGHT August 13th was Left-Hander’s Day. Here are some facts about lefties that may make you feel that they’re more than just in their “right mind.” 1. Between 10-12% of people on earth are “lefties.” 2. Ultrasounds show that in the womb, 90% of babies appear to favor the right thumb, which corresponds to population breakdowns of right-handers and left-handers 3. Those in the British royal family chain of succession are all lefties—Queen Elizabeth II, Prince Charles, and Prince William are all lefties. 4. Researchers believe that the proportion of left-handers has remained constant throughout history. 5. Mothers who are over 40 at the time of a child’s birth are 128% more likely to have a left-handed baby than a woman in her 20s. 6. When placed on their stomachs, right-handed babies tend to turn their heads to the right. Left-handed babies usually turn their heads to the left or they don’t show any preference. 7. Although approximately 90% of all humans are right-handed, cats, rats, and mice that show handedness seem to be equally split between right- and left-pawedness. 8. At various times in history, left-handedness has been seen as many things including a sign of neurosis, rebellion and criminality.

13. According to tradition, an itchy left hand indicates you will lose money. An itchy right hand indicates you will receive money. 14. According to the Journal of Nervous and Mental Disease, lefties are more susceptible to negative emotions because they engage in the right side of their brains more aggressively. In a scientific experiment, lefties who were shown a clip from a scary film showed more fear. 15. The longest words that can be typed using only the left hand with conventional hand placement are sweaterdresses and tesseradecades. 16. Lefties are more likely to loathe spiral notebooks, because it’s nearly impossible not to smudge what you have just written. (Before the current hyper-tech era, notebooks were a common contraption which held numerous papers together. People would use a device called a “pen,” which was a narrow tube with ink inside, to write things down.) 17. Left-handedness is associated with creativity and musical abilities. Rachmaninoff, Michelangelo, Leonardo da Vinci, Mozart and Beethoven are among extraordinary talented lefties.

9. The word left in English comes from the Anglo-Saxon word lyft, which means weak or broken.

18. Studies have suggested that left-handers are more talented in spatial awareness, math, and architecture. Right-handers tend to be more talented verbally.

10. In Italian, the word for lefty is mancino, which is derived from “crooked” or “maimed” (mancus) and is also used to mean deceitful or dishonest. In Russian, to be called a left-hander (levja) is a term of insult.

19. Left-handedness is also associated with being smart. Famous left-handed intellectuals include Albert Einstein, Isaac Newton, Charles Darwin, Benjamin Franklin (and the TJH Centerfold Commissioner).

11. Certain phrases in English suggest a negative view of lefthandedness. For example, a “left-handed compliment” is actually an insult.

20. Being left-handed also means you may be more likely to become president. Although only a small percentage of the population is lefty, five out of the last seven presidents were lefties: Presidents Obama, Clinton, Bush #41, Regan and Ford. (Carter was a righty. Take that, you righties!)

12. In many Islamic countries, people are forbidden to eat with their left hand.

Answer to riddle: Monday. How to get to the answer: Number each statement and write down the list of days that it could be according to each statement. 1. Monday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday; 2. Saturday; 3. Thursday; 4. Tuesday; 5. Wednesday; 6. Thursday; 7. Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday The only day mentioned one time is Monday. Therefore it must be Monday; otherwise one of the other statements would be true.

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Parshas Ki Savo

Using Visualizations “Moshe Rabbeinu told the Jewish people, “Today Hashem has commanded you to fulfill all of the statues and laws.” — Devarim 26:16

ashi is troubled by Moshe’s use of the word today, implying that Hashem first commanded the Jews to do the mitzvos that day when in reality, Hashem gave the Jewish people the mitzvos almost 40 years earlier. Rashi answers this question by explaining that Moshe was telling them, “Every day, in your eyes, it should be as if you were commanded in them today.” In other words, there should be an excitement with which we do the mitzvos, a freshness and new energy, as if this was the first time that we are hearing about them. This Rashi is difficult to understand because we know that for every experience, there is a first time. When something is new, it is original, exciting, and fresh, but that newness quickly fades; the excitement wanes. The value of the experience isn’t any less, but that certain crisp newness is gone. That is a reality of life. So how can the Torah expect the Jewish people to look at old mitzvos as if they were given that day, when it just isn’t so? And how can the Torah expect me today, thousands of years after the mitzvos were given, to view each mitzvah as

if this is the very first time that I am fulfilling it? The answer to this question lies in understanding certain tools that Hashem gave to man.

the pirate ship, gone was the scabbard and sword, and rudely you were pulled back to reality. That is an example of imagination at work. Imagination is a powerful tool that Hashem put into a person for

How can the Torah expect me today, thousands of years after the mitzvos were given, to view each mitzvah as if this is the very first time that I am fulfilling it?

The Power of the Imagination If you remember reading a well-written novel as a child, you may have found yourself somewhere you had never been before. You might have been brought to the 17th century as a pirate sailing the seven seas. There you were, out on the ocean with the buck and the sway of the waves, fighting off your enemy as he tried to board your ship. The sun glinting in your eyes, you pulled your sword from its scabbard, prepared for the battle. The enemy boarded your vessel; you dug your feet into the deck, tightening your fist on your sword, ready to pounce. And suddenly, your mother called you to dinner. Gone was

a number of reasons. One of its functions is to make a scene, a time, or an event real. It can bring me to a different time, to a land I never saw, to an experience that I never had, and yet it is me right there. I feel it. I experience it. And in my mind’s eye, those events are actually happening to me. I may even have physiological reactions to the event; my heart rate will quicken, my blood pressure will increase, and my palms will begin sweating as I live that experience. If you have ever cried when you read a book even though you knew the events in it never happened, it is a classic example of this phenomenon. Imagination is also a tool that can help a person achieve success. Olympic athletes are trained to use visualizations. A diver will see himself standing high on the platform, the water glistening below. He is there in the stadium with the crowd cheering as he flawlessly performs his dive. He is living that experience in his mind, and it affects his performance later. He has already been there and done that. The results of using visualizations are powerful. Studies show that not only do athletes who use them improve, so do many other people whose activities require peak performance. From a salesman going on a new call to a surgeon performing a difficult operation, performance can be greatly increased by seeing the event happen

successfully. This seems to be the answer for this Rashi. The Torah is telling us that a person can and should view the mitzvos as if they are brand new, as if I heard about them for the very first time today. In my mind, I can feel that newness if I use this technique to visualize that I have first heard about them today. And this can bring freshness and a new energy to the manner in which I perform these mitzvos. This concept is something that is very useful in our avodas Hashem. More Precious than Fine Gold Dovid Ha’Melech describes, “The Torah is more precious to me than fine gold.” Chazal tell us that “a mere whiff of the World to Come is more pleasurable than all of the enjoyments of this world.” Could you imagine the impact it would have on your life if you actually felt that way? Could you imagine the effect it would have on your enthusiasm for the mitzvos if for one minute you sensed that? The change in your life would be enormous. The problem is that I don’t feel that way. It’s not that I don’t want to; I just don’t. Granted, mitzvos are important and I recognize their place, but to actually feel that they are more precious than gold and silver just isn’t real. But it can become real if I close my eyes and imagine a king’s treasure room, filled with chests and chests of gold coins, diamonds, sapphires, and pearls. . . and then I imagine that every time that I open a sefer to learn or daven appropriately, I am depositing another precious stone in my storehouse of fine gems. The Torah is teaching us that visualizations work, and we can use them. Our imagination is vivid and powerful. The key is to use it without letting it control us.

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dra.” (You can sign up through www. ahavasyehonoson.com.) It quoted a famous question from R’ Yitzchak Blazer z”l. If on Rosh HaShana the righteous are instantly sealed for good while the wicked are instantly sealed for bad and the ten days between Rosh HaShana and Yom Kippur are just for the people with the same amount of mitzvos and sins (called a “bainoni,” or in-between person], why do we need to repent? Let’s just do a few more mitzvos, tip the scales in the right direction and move on! The answer floored me. Rabbi Lewin suggested the following: The bainoni’s problem is not that he had the same amount of mitzvos and aveiros. If that were the case, then perhaps doing a few more mitzvos would suffice. The bainoni is faulted, though, for allowing himself to enter Rosh HaShana as a middling fellow. How could he have approached Rosh HaShana with-

out scrambling for a few more mitzvos, more time guarding his tongue, and making efforts to be a tzaddik? For that, one must do teshuva. And that’s when I got the inspiration for my “Back to School” topic. Before a new school year, we go out and buy clothes, knapsacks, pencils, paper and notebooks galore. Why? So our child is prepared for the year ahead, ready to do well, study hard, and get

people do, but I’m guessing the school social worker will have a particular interest in their children. Just as you wouldn’t send your child to school without pencils, paper, or their school uniform, you shouldn’t enter the new year on Rosh HaShana without at least trying to start out as a tzaddik. Some parents start shopping for school supplies in August, while others have been shopping since January. It’s the

Don’t wait until the last minute to get ready. Start as early as you can and aim for success.

good grades. We want straight A’s, or as close to that as possible, and we want to give our children the tools they need to succeed. I doubt anyone would ever decide, “I’m not getting school supplies this year; let my son use a shopping bag to carry his things.” We don’t figure they can use just pens that we swipe from banks or write notes on pads we get from hotel rooms we’ve visited. You don’t hear people say, “I’m hoping my daughter doesn’t take school too seriously and only picks up about half of what the morah says.” That’s because we realize that education is important, that we want our children to learn, and we want them to be excited about the opportunities they have. Not coincidentally, right around the time we’re doing all this preparation for them to be successful students comes Elul, when we are supposed to be preparing ourselves to be successful Jews. We should be prepared for the New Year just as we prepare for the new year. Back to school isn’t a crazy tumultuous affair for naught. Perhaps Hashem rigged it to be a clarion call for those of us who didn’t quite get the message of the shofar that we need to be ready to start the new year on the right foot. Nobody thinks they can start the school year and then pick up supplies over the next week or two. OK, maybe some

same here. Don’t wait until the last minute to get ready. Start as early as you can and aim for success. You wish people “good morning,” not as a slightly-jaded teen might wish someone “boker mediocre.” You want

to have a great day, not one with equal parts of happiness and aggravation. Maybe that’s the lesson we can share in preparation for the Yemei HaDin. Go for the gold, aim to be a tzaddik from day one, and don’t wait until later. Go back to school and see what you can pick up to help yourself get not just a passing score, but straight A’s on the biggest exam day of the year. Jonathan Gewirtz is a freelance writer whose work has appeared in publications around the world. He also operates JewishSpeechWriter.com, where you can order a custom-made speech for your next special occasion. For more information, or to sign up for the Migdal Ohr, his weekly PDF Dvar Torah in English, e-mail info@JewishSpeechWriter.com and put Publication Sponsorship or Subscribe in the subject. © 2013 by Jonathan Gewirtz. All rights reserved.

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he editor of one of the magazines that publishes my articles asked me for a “Back to School” theme. I thought about it and was hard-pressed to come up with anything. I’m not going to write a humorous perspective about the difficulties of finding all the items teachers dream up that the kids will never use, nor about the tumult of running to ten different stores to save a nickel on #2 pencils, or how all the mothers do a happy dance on the first day of school when they can finally reclaim some peace and quiet and maybe get around to doing two months of cleaning that didn’t happen when they had the kids on their heads. That’s not my style, and I’ve got readers who may not have kids going back to school. I was drawing a blank until I saw a dvar Torah written by Rabbi Dovid Lewin of Ramat Beit Shemesh in his weekly sheet “Yesodos m’Hase-

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The Unraveling of Stop & Frisk New York City at a Crossroads

n the 1970s, the country was mired by poverty and racial strife. America was in deep decline, and New York was no exception. Financially, politically and, in some ways, morally, the Big Apple was bankrupt. Crime held sway. Arson and abandonment ravaged neighborhoods. The homeless littered the sidewalk grates and streets. The subways were a nightmare of breakdowns, derailments and graffiti, with vandals kicking out train-door windows at a rate of 120,000 a year. When a blackout plunged the region into darkness, looting and lawlessness stood as proof that the distance between civilization and chaos was as ephemeral as the flick of a light switch. Prevailing wisdom said that New York was ungovernable. And then came Ed Koch. In the 12 years that he governed New York, the indefatigable mayor turned the city around. He brought Times Square from anarchy to industry; no longer were New Yorkers scared to visit the city at night. He built the devastating neighborhoods in New York and created 80,000 units of affordable housing. He revived the South Bronx and lifted Bushwick from the ashes. After years of his leadership, New Yorkers yearned for something different and David Dinkins, one of the “Gang of Four”—a group of four black leaders in the Harlem community—was elected as mayor of New York. He pledged to provide racial healing and referred to New York’s varied cultures as a “gorgeous mosaic.” But the next four years were filled with incidents that polarized communities in New York. The boycott of Korean-owned groceries in Flatbush and the 1991 Crown Heights riots sharply divided New Yorkers and gave the appearance of rising crime and tensions in the Big Apple. But that was only an appearance. In fact, crime actually went down during the Dinkins’ regime. He expanded the police department nearly 25% and fought to keep schools open later to keep teenagers off the streets. He also hired Raymond W. Kelly as police commissioner. Even more interesting about New York’s only African-American mayor is that one of the policies that he instituted has recently come under intense criticism for being racist and biased against minorities. Making the City Safer Operation Clean Halls, also known as the Trespass Affidavit Program, was started in Manhattan in 1991 at a time when New York faced widespread crack-fueled crime, a faulty economy and an epidemic of homelessness. In an effort to make the city safer for its residents, Mayor Dinkins essentially provided police protection for building owners. To enroll in the program, landlords signed an affidavit permitting officers to enter their private building at any time to question and arrest any unlawful loiterers. Police were provided with a list of residents; those not on the roster who could not provide a reasonable explanation for being in the residence were arrested. The city also allowed police officers to patrol inside city-owned public housing buildings; this is a policy that many other cities across the nation have as well. The program was instituted at a time when residents were scared to walk into their buildings. Drug dealers roamed the streets and infested the buildings in minority neighborhoods. Landlords and residents alike were scared for their lives and the lives of their children. Police protection provided them with the security to deliver a safer environment for their children. Although the program started in Manhattan, it spread to all five boroughs. There are now 3,895 Clean Halls participants in Manhattan and nearly every building in the Bronx is enrolled.

The Evolution of Stop-and-Frisk What is commonly called “stop and frisk,” can more accurately be described as “stop, question, frisk.” It is undisputed that police officers have a right of “common law of inquiry”; they are allowed to ask questions about anything they see on the street. But unless they have reason for suspicion that a crime took place or is about to be committed, the person being questioned can always walk away without any repercussions. However, once a reasonable suspicion of a possible crime is raised, the police have the authority to question any person involved and release or arrest them depending on the answers that are given. That’s what’s referred to as “stop and question.” The police are only able to “frisk” the individual if there is a suspicion of weapon possession or if based on the conversation, the police officer has probable cause to believe that a crime has just taken place or is about to take place. Although the Fourth Amendment of the Constitution prohibits unreasonable searches and seizures, the Supreme Court ruled in 1968 that the common policing method of stop-and-frisk does not run afoul of the Fourth Amendment. New York City’s “stop, question, frisk” policy has been around for years. In the 1990’s, when Bill Bratton took over as police commissioner during the Giuliani era, crime became about statistics. The revolutionary Compstat program was introduced and the NYPD started keeping track of the stop-and-frisk incidents with meticulous paperwork. Crime dropped precipitously under Giuliani’s leadership, and there was a push to drive it even lower. According to retired NYPD captain Ernie Naspretto, the department was pushed to show that they were doing their best to lower the already-declining crime rate. Every stop-and-frisk encounter was counted into Earlier this year, Mayor Bloomberg said that their crime-fighting statistoo many whites are stopped proportionately tics. And so police officers became more aggressive in making these stops. Keeping Crime Down Does the stop-and-frisk policy help deter crime? According to Police Commissioner Raymond Kelly and Mayor Michael Bloomberg, the answer is a resounding yes. It has been a necessary crime-fighting measure that has led New York to become one of the safest metropolises in the world. Compared with 2,245 killings in 1990, there were only 414 killings citywide last year. And last year, police stopped 533,042 people in stop-and-frisk measures, more than five times the number in 2002. According to law enforcement officials, more stop-and-frisk stops equal less killings which result in a safer New York. Police Commissioner Kelly made this point over and over again when he spoke on the national Sunday news shows last week. If stop-and-frisk initiatives were to be abandoned, “no question about it—violent crime will go up,” the commissioner vowed. “Things are going right here in New York. And

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this decision certainly has the potential of overturning it,” he added. But lest you think that the crime fighter is being bombastic, this past Tuesday, the NYPD took down two smuggling rings that were funneling weapons from the South to New York. This was the biggest gun bust in city history and netted Dinkins' program, Operation Clean Halls, 254 weapons and 19 suspects in essentially started the Stop and Frisk program in New York less than 12 months. But what was most interesting about the bust was what a 23-year-old gunrunner was overheard saying, “I can’t take them [the weapons] … to my house … I’m in Brownsville … We got like, whatchamacallit, stop-and-frisk.” Clearly without the prevalent stop-andfrisk policy, the criminal would have no qualms taking 254 weapons to his home in Brooklyn. Michael Mukasey, a former U.S. attorney general and U.S. district judge for the Southern District of New York, wrote in the Wall Street Journal recently about the importance of stop-and-frisk measures in deterring crime. “Experienced cops say that rain is the policeman’s friend because it keeps would-be perpetrators indoors. The police use of stop, question and frisk has been the rain on the parade of violence we experienced in the 1980s and early ‘90s, and has brought down the city’s murder rate from thousands per year to a few hundred—an improvement principally in minority neighborhoods.” He warned New Yorkers, “If you are a New York resident with three lives, you can look forward to leading one of them as part of the social experiment this decision has inflicted on the city. If you have only one life, and you have the means, you may consider relocating. If you have only one and you don’t have the means—perhaps because you live in a low-income, high-crime neighborhood—you’re in for the worst news of all.” Clearly stop-and-frisk is essential to quality of life in New York. Are Minorities Being Targeted? The outrage against stop-and-frisk comes from many in the minority population. They feel that the policy singles out blacks and Hispanics disproportionately. Indeed, less Asians are stopped under stop-and-frisk than blacks. Just last year, fifty-five percent of those stopped were black, 32 percent were Hispanic and ten percent were white. According to U.S. Census figures, there are 8.2 million people in the city: twenty-six percent are black, twenty-eight percent are Hispanic and forty-four percent are white. But stop-and-frisk is not about questioning an equal percentage of citizens in the city. The measure is about crime and aimed at stopping criminals. Only those who are deemed suspicious should be stopped and questioned. Indeed, 14.1 percent of the New York’s population is 65-years-old or older. Does that mean that 14 percent of all those who are stopped should be part of the senior population? Clearly not. The percentage of those stopped should be aligned with the percentage of those committing the crimes in the city. In 2012, statistics showed that in 97 percent of all shootings in the city, the trigger was pulled by blacks and Hispanics. 53.7 percent of murders were carried out by blacks in the city; 34.8 percent were carried out by Hispanics. Essentially, as Mayor Bloomberg famously said in June this year, “The numbers don’t lie. We disproportionately stop whites too much and minorities too little.” Although this may sound like a sensational statement, it is a statistical statement made by a statistics-driven mayor. “Safer” neighborhoods see less stop-and-frisk action. Indeed, police officers are not needed there to help deter crime. They are needed to stop crime and deter criminals and so they head to the more crime-ridden neighborhoods. Most stops take place in lower-income, minority communities. From 2003 to 2008, most stops took place in East Harlem, East New York and Jamaica, Queens. On the other hand, downtown and midtown Manhattan and Park Slope saw fairly infrequent stop-and-frisk encounters. The reality is that the police are there to protect New Yorkers. In the statistics cited above, for the first six months of this year, 96 percent of victims of shootings were black and Hispanic. The harsh and scary truth of the numbers is that most major crime in the city is perpetrated by minorities against minorities. In fact, 81 percent of victims of felony assaults are minorities; 88 percent of the suspects of those crimes are minorities. So who would suffer the most under the abandonment of stop-and-frisk? It may just be those calling for its demise. Ray Kelly predicted this on CBS’ “Face the Nation” this week. “The losers in this, if this case is allowed to stand, are people who live in minority communities.” They are the ones who will be facing more weapons

and more criminals as they walk down their streets. But regardless of the fact that it may increase crime in minority neighborhoods, stripping down the stop-and-frisk program will be welcome to most in those communities. Residents have rightly complained of harassment by NYPD officers. Many have been arrested for trespassing even in front of their own homes. No law-abiding citizen should have to go through such an experience. Jacqueline Yates, 53, a resident of the Bronx, says, “I want the police to be involved. We need them; there is no doubt about that. It’s the way they go about policing” that she finds hard to live with. Indeed, Yates is one of the 13 plaintiffs in a lawsuit that was filed in March of last year. She says that friends have stopped visiting her in order to avoid the frequent searches in her building. She also says that at least two to three times a week her sons are searched by police in the courtyard. Another resident, 20-year-old Dominick Walters, says that dealing with harassment and arrest by police far outweighs the possibility of becoming a victim of a crime. “At this point, I’d rather come home and deal with a robbery than deal with being stopped by the police,” the college student said. He was arrested twice for trespassing while visiting friends. Although both cases were dismissed, he spent considerable money, effort and time clearing his name.

“The police use of stop, question and frisk has been the rain on the parade of violence we experienced in the 1980s and early ‘90s.” Those living in white neighborhoods find it hard to empathize with those who find the stop-and-frisk to be harassing. Indeed, many residents in wealthier, white communities have never heard of the Clean Halls program. The frequent searches and baseless arrests only further to deepen the mistrust between authorities and residents. The Ruling & Appeal On Friday, U.S. District Judge Shira A. Scheindlin ruled on a lawsuit that was filed in 2008 that changes must be made to the stop-and-frisk policy because it unlawfully targets blacks and Hispanics. She found that the policy violated plaintiffs’ Fourth Amendment rights with unreasonable searches, basing her findings on statistics that show that police made at least 200,000 stops from 2004 to June 2012 that were without reasonable suspicion. The judge also found evidence of racial profiling. Additionally, Scheindlin appointed a federal monitor to oversee reforms at the NYPD, which will likely result in more training for police, better supervision for officers and changes to the way data is collected and analyzed. The judge called for the creation of a pilot project where NYPD patrol officers in five precincts – one per borough – must wear video cameras. The chosen precincts would be those with the most stops in 2012. “The recordings should ... alleviate some of the mistrust that has developed between the police and the black and Hispanic communities” and “will be equally helpful to members of NYPD who are wrongly accused of inappropriate behavior,” Scheindlin wrote. Immediately, it was announced that New York City will be appealing the judge’s findings. “We think the judge could not be more wrong,” Mayor Michael Bloomberg stated. Ray Kelly insisted that the findings of racial profiling were “disturbing and offensive.” Despite the commitment to appeal, it is uncertain, and mostly improbable, that the appeal will come to be. Most of the candidates in the upcoming mayoral election have pledged their allegiance to stopping stop-and-frisk and are likely to drop the appeal. New York’s current mayor, the one who brought down the city’s crime rate and improved our quality of life, says that stop-and-frisk is a program that is essential to the safety of New Yorkers. “I don’t think you can assume whatever’s said during a campaign has anything to do with the reality of what they finally do,” Bloomberg recently said. “Whoever wins the final election in November is going to wake up the next morning and say, ‘Oh my G-d – we have the lowest crime rate, murder rate we’ve ever had. It’s continuing to go down. I’m now responsible for doing that.’ And you would think that they would look at it very differently.” Nobody knows what will happen the morning after the election, but one thing is certain: Although crime is currently low in New York and things look bright, in no time the morning can turn to night and we can once again find ourselves in a similar predicament to the darkness New Yorkers experienced in the 1980s.

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he recitation that accompanies the First World War and encountered the bringing of the first fruits (bik- Jewish communities of Poland, the “Oskurim) in the times of the Temple, tjuden,” (Eastern Jews) many could not from the seven species of the Land of understand their inherit sense of joy in Israel to Jerusalem is an act of joy and the face of so much suffering which the appreciation for the bounty provided by war had caused them. How could they Hashem. The next sentence following be so content in spirit? How could they the recitation states, “And you shall re- dance and sing on their holidays? The joice in all the good granted to you by answer is that the Ostjuden rejoiced in Hashem your G-d” (Devarim, 26:11). their very existence—as Jews. Though Whether it is a productive or a lean lacking so much, they reveled in that year, it is imperative to appreciate what- precious legacy they possessed though ever is received from Hashem. elusive to many of their Jewish critics This message also applies to the text from Germany whose families had asof the recitation similated decades as well, which earlier. recalls Lavan’s A German pursuit of JaJewish soldier Amid the travail, there cob, the eventuwrote the followis also the kindness of al migration to ing of his impresEgypt, the exosions of the OstHashem that enabled dus of the Israjuden in a letter to elites, and their his parents from the Jews to persevere. entry into the a Jewish town in land of Israel. Russia during the The first fruits war. picked and brought to Jerusalem were The picture of suffering (of Jews ultimately the results of these events. in Russia and Galitzia during the war) The miraculous supernatural events was in my soul when I entered the synof the exodus from Egypt are men- agogue for services. The people were tioned, “And Hashem took us out of festive, peaceful as if there was no war Egypt by a strong hand and an out- and praised Hashem who makes us stretched arm, with great awe, with happy every day. They say He gives us signs and wonders.” Devarim, 26:8 peace. Don’t they know about the murAlso mentioned are miracles with- dering in Galitzia and Poland where the in the confines of nature. The reference old and babies are not spared? Don’t to Jacob’s flight from Lavan, “The they feel that it’s not a time of blessings Aramite sought to destroy my father,” but of curses? That Hashem is punish(Devarim 26:5) can imply that Lavan’s ing rather than making us happy. Don’t intent was to destroy Jacob who was they feel that? I pray with a sad soul saved by Hashem, although not by open and know that G-d won’t listen to my miracles. That passage can also be in- supplications. Then I heard the words in terpreted as stating that “my father,” the prayers, ki lekach tov natati lachem, Jacob, or perhaps, Abraham, was a no- “I have granted you a good teaching,” mad, and with Hashem’s help, despite Proverbs 4:2, and remembered that rethe humble beginnings as a shepherd ligion does not dissolve suffering, but and then the dire challenges faced, be- that it enhances and purifies moral feelcame the father of a nation. ings and that we can go through times Throughout Jewish history, Jews of trial. have faced many threats to their exisIn today’s world it is easy to detence, suffering persecution at the hands spair. Like an incurable disease, Jew of tyrants and by empires that have ris- hatred persists and poses increasing en and fallen. The continued existence threats to Jewry; from Iran to Syria, of Jewry despite all challenges over the France to Sweden to the UN and places past two millennia is a miracle. Amid in between. Yet, as Jews, we can rejoice the travail, there is also the kindness of as our ancestors who brought the first Hashem that enabled the Jews to per- fruits and recited the recitation. We can severe. thank our Creator who has carried us as When Jewish soldiers with the Ger- Jews through the millennia despite the man army entered Poland during the threats.

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The new iPhone is coming soon. The new iPhone is going to have a new feature that actually keeps track of your every movement. Then President Obama was like, “Right. NEW feature.” - Jimmy Fallon Missing: Sen. Lindsey Graham...Last reported sightings in Egypt, and Washington, DC in the company of a creepy old man [Sen. John McCain]... Suffering from severe case of Potomac Fever. - Ad placed on milk cartons by a conservative group in South Carolina admonishing their senator with whom they used to be aligned

Now, The Dallas Morning News says that I may technically have dual citizenship. Assuming that is true, then sure, I will renounce any Canadian citizenship. Nothing against Canada, but I’m an American by birth and as a U.S. senator, I believe I should be only an American. - Statement by Sen. Ted Cruz (R-TX) whose eligibility to run for president in 2016 has recently come under question since he was born in Canada to an American citizen You won’t find me questioning his eligibility. I decided a long time ago I wasn’t going to be a birther. I’m not a birther for Democrats. I’m not a birther for Republicans. I’m staying out of it. -Sen. Rand Paul (R-KY) when asked on CNN what he thinks of Sen. Cruz’s eligibility to run for president

From the Chicago Tribune, which endorsed President Obama in 2008 and 2012:

Democrats strong-armed Obamacare into law three years ago. Now they’re busy flouting it. The mandate that employers provide insurance next year or pay a penalty, as the law requires? Delayed for at least a year. The laws dictate that people applying for federal subsidies to buy insurance provide proof that they’re eligible for the government aid? Scaled back. Sharp limits on Americans’ out-of-pocket costs for health care? Suspended for a year. Providing members of Congress and more than 10,000 staff members with federal health care subsidies that the law does not allow? Done, via a deal brokered by President Barack Obama. And on and on. Bottom line: Let’s delay and rewrite this ill-conceived law. Congress need not start from scratch. Lawmakers can build on what all of us have learned from three years of painful trial and error. Three years of attempting, but failing, to make this clumsy monstrosity work for the American people.

One of several 911 calls received last weekend by police in Fairfield, Connecticut, after Cable Vision temporarily went out of service:

DISPATCHER: Fairfield 911 CALLER: Hi. I’m ... I’m just trying to figure out what’s going on, we have no TV! DISPATCHER: Ma’am, 911 is for a life-threatening emergency.

The [Boston] bombing suspects may not have been the radical jihadists they were initially believed to be. - MSNBC’s Alex Wagner arguing that the Boston bombers were inspired by right wingers in America, not radical Islam [Glenn Beck’s] the highest paid rodeo clown in America. - Joe Scarborough

CALLER: I know that. I know that. DISPATCHER: Is this a life-threatening emergency? CALLER: No, we’re just trying to find out what’s going on? DISPATCHER: I suggest you call Cablevision, or whoever your cable provider is. Verbal typo. - How a Politico reporter characterized Hillary Clinton’s botching the name of a civil rights leader while speaking at a conference Why does that make me not serious? - Donald Trump, defending his ongoing skepticism about the president’s birth certificate

I couldn’t just stand here and watch him take my money. We don’t rob people to make money. We work 12 to 15 hours a day to put bread on the table. - A New Jersey deli owner explaining why he threw a pot of burning oil at an armed robber, causing him to run away

We don’t take sides. - President Obama speaking from Martha’s Vineyard about the unrest in Egypt We have no credibility. We do have influence, but when you don’t use that influence, then you do not have that influence. - Senator John McCain on CNN discussing America’s response to the Egypt crisis

Why is it that America’s royall family always seems better in abstract than in concrete? The closer it gets to running the world once more, the more you are reminded of all the things that bugged you the last time around... The Clintons’ neediness, their sense of what they are owed in material terms for their public service, their assumption that they’re entitled to everyone’s money...Are we about to put the “For Rent” sign back on the Lincoln Bedroom?...If Americans are worried about money in politics, there is no larger concern than the Clintons, who are cosseted in a world where rich people endlessly scratch the backs of rich people. - Maureen Dowd in the New York Times discussing the prospects of a Hillary presidency

Most people were like down in the Situation Room and [Obama] was like, “I’m not going to be down there, I can’t watch this entire thing.” We must have played 15 hands—15 games of Spades. - President Obama’s former bodyman, Reggie Love, during a Q&A at UCLA, discussing the night of the Bin Laden raid

At the moment the only legacy I want to pass on to him is sleep more and maybe not change his nappy quite so many times. - Prince William, discussing his new baby

I am writing to request that you add Al Jazeera America as part of your channel lineup. I want to watch Al Jazeera America for its objective, balanced, in-depth news reporting on stories that matter. Please let me know when I can expect to see Al Jazeera America as a channel option. - From a form letter on Al Jazeera America’s website for potential customers to send to their TV providers I don’t think there is discrimination against Israel at the United Nations. - UN Secretary-General Ban KiMoon

I think there are 24 guys in there that are professional and doing everything they possibly can to win the game. - Yankee GM Brian Cashman discussing the Alex Rodriguez saga (the Yankee roster has 25 players on it) I’m the boss! - 4-year-old Bobby Tufts who was elected as mayor of Dorset, Minnesota (population 28), on MSNBC

It seems there’s a very interesting, compelling, continuing effort to delegitimize this president. People on the right... refer to him, not as the “president of the United States” but as a “liberal leader.” They refer to the health care act of 2010 as “a bill.” They refer to him as “Obama.” They don’t say the “the president.” They don’t say “a law.” They don’t even speak the language we normally speak in civilized political debate. They’ve changed it so much, like he’s actually not supposed to be there. And that’s what it was like putting that asterisk like next to Barry Bonds, “He didn’t really hit those home runs; he didn’t really get elected president.” I think that’s what their up to. And I’m not being paranoid. - MSNBC’s Chris Matthews

North Korea has announced that it’s developing its own smartphone. Unfortunately, the phones are so smart, they’ve already escaped from North Korea. - Conan O’Brien Tell ‘em I have a nice used car for sale. - Dick Van Dyke, after escaping unscathed when his car went up in flames

I can’t take them . . . to my house . . . I’m in Brownsville . . . We got like, whatchamacallit, stop-and-frisk. - In a wiretapped conversation, the head of a gun smuggling ring explaining why he couldn’t bring the guns to his home in Brooklyn A new study came out that found the very worst drivers drive a Prius. Apparently, it’s very difficult to drive while patting yourself on the back. - Conan O’Brien

We are in spectacular places, but are prisoners of the White House even here on the road. - Reuters correspondent Steve Holland talking about covering President Obama’s Martha’s Vineyard vacation

No one should live in fear of being stopped whenever he leaves his home. - Judge Shira Scheindlin, in her opinion rendering the NYPD’s stop and frisk policy as unlawful People also have the right to walk down the street without being killed or mugged. - Mayor Bloomberg responding to Judge Scheindlin’s reasoning

What do they say about Egypt: democracy is not the ballot box. Who is behind this? It’s Israel. We have the evidence. - Turkish Prime Minister Erdogan

Jet Blue has announced that they will now offer “ly-flatseats.” Don’t confuse that with A-Rod, that’s “flat-outlie.” - Jay Leno A lot of Republicans seem to believe that if they can gum up the works and make this law [Obamacare] fail, they’ll somehow be sticking it to me. But they’d just be sticking it to you. Some even say that if you call their office with questions about the law, they’ll refuse to help. Call me old-fashioned – but that’s lousy constituent service. And it’s not what you deserve. - President Obama in his weekly radio address

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Forgotten Heroes

Avi Heiligman

Max Warshaw

The Most Decorated Jewish Serviceman in History

ecember 7, 1941 was the day the Japanese attacked Pearl Harbor and forced the U.S. into WWII. Politicians and military brass decided that in the event of getting into a war with Germany as well as with the Japanese, the military priority would be given to defeat the Germans before the Japanese. Still, it was eleven months before ground troops faced the Germans. Operation Torch was launched in November 1942 against unfriendly French troops in North Africa. Once they capitulated, the Americans moved to fight the German Afrika Corps under the Desert Fox, General Erwin Rommel. America’s most reliable unit was the 1st Division, also known as the Big Red One. From their commanders, including Brigadier General Theodore Roosevelt Jr. (son of the former president), to the privates, they performed brilliantly under fire. One unarmed soldier from the division is the most decorated Jewish serviceman in history. Many Jewish American servicemen during WWII were born in Eastern Europe. Max Warshaw was from Korbin, Poland, before his family immigrated to the United States when he was 10. He grew up in New York and became a salesman before joining the army in March 1941. Many Americans knew that their country was probably going to get involved and felt it was their duty to join the army even before the draft was enacted. Warshaw volunteered as a medic. Under the Geneva Convention, 

medics and chaplains were not allowed al George Patton’s II Corps in a place On November 25, Warshaw was to carry weapons. They were considered called El-Guettar. Besides saving the captured by the Germans and sent to non-combatants, and the enemy was not lives of wounded comrades, Warshaw a POW camp. Unlike other POWs supposed to shoot at unarmed person- saved precious equipment from being and Jews held in these camps (Jewish nel. For the most part, the Germans, like destroyed or falling into German hands. POWs were sometimes sent to concenthe Japanese, threw out the rulebook. His Silver Star citation says: “When tration camps where their chance for The Japanese would in particular sin- a heavy enemy artillery barrage had survival diminished), Warshaw was gle out medics, so in the Pacific, med- compelled two drivers to abandon their treated fairly. The reason was because ics took off their armbands identifying vehicles, Sergeant Warshaw fearlessly he was a medic and the Nazis wanted to them as medics. The Germans wouldn’t entered this area and removed the ve- “show” the world that they were symshoot per se at medics but usupathetic and let medics care for ally wouldn’t let up their fire as their fellow countrymen. Most medics tried to clear casualties Jewish medics told the Germans off the battlefield. It was a very that they were Christians and hazardous profession and only they were given medical kits. the bravest men volunteered for Additionally, Warshaw was a the job. Warshaw excelled at it sergeant, which is a non-compartially because of his bravamissioned officer, and officers do. As a Jew, he knew what was received better treatment than happening to his brethren and men of lower ranks. He survived this was his way of trying to dethe war and after liberation was feat the Nazi beasts. His weapsent to England for medical care. ons were morphine, bandages After leaving the army, Warand sulfa powder. shaw moved to Fair Lawn, New Warshaw landed in Algeria Jersey, where he became active Despite being wounded, Max continued working to save lives-phoin November, and on the 8th rein several veteran organizations. to is for illustrative purposes As one of the most decorated ceived his first medal, a Bronze Jewish soldiers in history, Max Warhicles, thereby saving valuable equipStar, by exposing himself to the enemy trying to help and rescue his fellow ment from destruction.” The results shaw proved that even a Yid could excel American soldiers who were caught of the battle were mixed, as the Allies on the battlefield—not just by killing in an open field. A couple of days lat- slowly pushed the Germans and Italians the enemy but by continually putting er, he was wounded by shrapnel from back to the coast. It was a month before himself in danger to save the lives of artillery. It didn’t require immediate they had the Axis on the run and finally others. medical attention, and he stayed on the kicked them out of North Africa. battlefield tending to his company. It The First Division was considered The author would like to thank Rabwould take years before all the shrapnel one of the most experienced divisions bi Tzvi Karp from www.chesbaytorah. and was selected as a lead unit to invade com for the information in this article. was removed from his body. By late March 1943, the Germans France on June 6, 1944. They suffered had been pushed back into Tunisia 30% casualties in just the first hour at and were facing the troops of Gener- Omaha Beach, and Warshaw was one of the first medics off the boats. Nine Avi Heiligman is a weekly contributor to days later, he earned his second Bronze The Jewish Home. He welcomes your comStar. After a series of running battles, ments and suggestions.for future columns  the Allies pushed the enemy back into and can be reached at aviheiligman@ German territory. These battles are a gmail.com. story of their own, but on October 13, 1944, Warshaw again was decorated. This time it was for actions in Aachen, Germany, where he continually exposed himself to enemy gunfire to save his fellow soldiers. Two days later, he earned another Silver Star for actions that went above  and beyond the call of   duty.

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OT & Teacher Collaboration Occupational Therapy in the Classroom

mong our readership are a great number of dedicated and devoted teachers who are preparing for the (early!) start of school next week and a contingent of hardworking, creative and professional occupational therapists (OTs). Although I have not conducted a survey, I am confident stating there is an occupational therapist in 9 out 10 of the k-8 schools among our audience of readers. Collaboration between OTs and teachers can greatly benefit the progress of not only the children with OT on their IEPs, but with all children in the classroom. With the start of school year on the way (drum roll please), the following lists my top seven ways OTs can collaborate with teachers. 1. Classroom Environment: OTs can serve as another set of eyes to help modify a classroom so it and all its materials are accessible for children with all abilities. The OT can also suggest particular posters be placed in a different area of the room. For example,

consider placing an aleph bais/alphabet chart closer to eye level (as opposed to close to the ceiling) so students do not have to hyperextend their necks while copying the letters onto their paper. 2. Seating. The occupational therapist can help suggest ideas for students who need a standing break during a lesson. Some ideas may be to place an easel or ironing board in the back of the classroom to serve as a table. 3. Circle Time. Consider providing alternate seating beyond a chair. This may include laying on one’s stomach, sitting on a cushion, or a providing a child-size rocking chair. Brain gym…. 4. Movement. yoga…stretching….the list is endless

with fun ideas of how to bring movement into the classroom. Provide your OT with the age of the students and the time frame you have available. Even two minutes has the potential to rev students’ engines to better concentrate and focus! 5. Pencil grasp. Not every child with a poor pencil grasp needs therapy! Sometimes all a child needs are prompts, demonstration and/or positioning to guide them on how to hold a crayon or pencil correctly. Pencil grippers such as the grotto grip are one of my favorites. An OT can help a teacher identify the correct grasp and suggest the approach to take to address the child’s grasping needs. 6. Handwriting. Messy handwriting? Too light/too dark writing? Can’t draw a circle? An OT can suggest adaptations to help correct particular parameters of a student’s handwriting. He/she can also suggest specific activities to help the preschool teacher help children develop a strong foundation of pre-writing skills. 7. Seating Adaptations. Ever try threading a needle while sitting on a bar stool with your feet dangling? Not easy! Sitting with one’s feet on the floor helps keep one grounded, focused, and provides stability. Students whose feet dangle from their chair find it difficult to concentrate and risk both their ability to learn and write (e.g. handwriting, worksheets, etc.) effectively. They may compensate by slumping so their feet can reach the floor or sit with their feet tucked under them. An OT can suggest strategies to meet this need. Enjoy the last days of summer vacation! Devorah (Gerber) Schmeltz, MS OTR/L is a 2003 alumnus of Downstate Medical Center’s OT Program. She worked as a senior occupational therapist at United Cerebral Palsy’s Brooklyn Children’s Program for 9 years. Currently, Devorah runs a private practice, Bumble & Tumble Occupational Therapy P.C in Far Rockaway. Your questions and comments are welcome. She can be reached at BumbleTumbleTherapy@ gmail.com or 917-971-5327.

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In the Kitchen

After-School Snacks Your Kids Will Love

These pretzels only take 30 minutes to make! For an added “twist,” you can add sweet toppings instead of salt. Ingredients 1 ½ cups warm water (lukewarm) 1 packet active yeast 1 tsp salt 1 TBS sugar 4 - 4 ¼ cups flour 1 large egg Kosher salt for sprinkling Preparation Preheat oven to 425°F. Line baking sheet with parchment paper and set aside. Dissolve yeast in warm water. Stir with a spoon until fairly mixed, about 1 minute. Add salt and sugar; stir until fairly combined. Slowly add flour, 1 cup at a time. Mix with a wooden spoon until dough is thick. Continue to add more flour until dough is no longer sticky. Poke the dough with your finger – if it bounces back, it is ready to knead. Turn the dough out onto a floured surface. Knead the dough for about 5 minutes and shape into a ball. With a sharp knife, cut ball of dough into 1/3 cup sections. Roll the dough into a rope with an even diameter. Form into pretzel shape. In a small bowl, beat the egg and pour into a shallow bowl. Dunk the shaped pretzel into the egg wash (both sides). Place on baking sheet and sprinkle with salt. Bake for 10 minutes at 425°F degrees. Turn the oven to broil and bake for 5 more minutes to brown the tops. Watch closely to avoid burning. Cool before serving. If you’d like to make cinnamon-sugar pretzels, mix 1 TBS cinnamon and 1/3 cup sugar and coat pretzels with the sugar/cinnamon instead of using salt.

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After a long day, kids are hungry for a nutritious snack after school. Before homework starts and before dinner is ready, have a yummy, wholesome snack ready for them as they come off the school bus.

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Ingredients 1½ cups flour ¾ cup sugar 1 teaspoon baking soda 1 teaspoon ground cinnamon ½ teaspoon salt 1 egg, lightly beaten ½ cup vegetable oil ¼ cup soy milk 1 tablespoon lemon juice 1 teaspoon vanilla extract 1 cup shredded zucchini ¼ cup mini chocolate chips ¼ cup chopped walnuts Preparation Preheat oven to 350°. In a bowl, combine flour, sugar, baking soda, cinnamon and salt. Combine the egg, oil, soy milk, lemon juice and vanilla; mix well. Stir into dry ingredients just until moistened. Fold in zucchini, chocolate chips and walnuts. Fill greased or paper-lined muffin cups two-thirds full. Bake for 20-25 minutes or until muffins test done.

Ingredients 2 ripe avocados, 1 plum tomato, diced ¼ red onion, diced 1 tsp garlic powder 1 tsp lemon juice Salt Preparation Mash avocados in bowl. Add other ingredients and mix well. Serve immediately or cover to prevent browning.

Strawberry Banana Smoothie D

Serve guacamole with carrot sticks, cucumber rounds and celery sticks for a delightful dippin’ snack!

Ingredients 10 oz. fresh or frozen strawberries, stems removed 2 ripe bananas 3 TBS sugar 1 cup ice cubes ¾ cup milk or yogurt Preparation Wash strawberries well and remove banana peels. In a blender, process all ingredients until smooth. For a little extra flavor, add in a few drops of vanilla extract. Serve with fruit kabobs—strawberries, bananas and grapes on skewers—yum!

Ingredients 8 slices whole-grain bread 1 tsp olive oil 1 garlic clove, halved 2 tsp Dijon mustard 4 ounces mozzarella cheese, sliced thinly 1 1/3 cups lettuce or baby greens 8 slices tomato Cooking spray Preparation Prepare George Foreman grill to high heat or place skillet on flame. Brush one side of each bread slice with oil; rub cut sides of garlic over oil. Spread ½ teaspoon mustard on each of 4 bread slices, oil side down. Top each bread slice with 1 ounce cheese, 1/3 cup greens, and 2 tomato slices. Top each with remaining 4 bread slices, oil side up. Place sandwiches on grill or skillet coated with cooking spray; grill 2 minutes on each side or until lightly toasted and cheese melts. If you are using the skillet, press down on the sandwiches with a spatula while it is grilling. Serve with grapes.

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Grilled Cheese with Tomato D

A twist on the lovable classic. Supposedly, Elvis loved his peanut butter and banana sandwiches. This sandwich will definitely be “stuck on you.” Ingredients 2 whole wheat wraps or 4 slices whole wheat bread 2 TBS low fat peanut butter 1 banana, sliced 1 TBS honey Preparation Spread peanut butter on bread or wrap. Lay slices of banana on the bread or wrap and then drizzle with honey. If you are using the wrap, roll it up and slice into thirds. If you are using the bread, put the other slice of bread on top. You can serve room temperature or toast lightly before serving. Tastes delicious with a cold glass of milk!

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TJH Staff

t was the same thing every year: On the first day of school, I saw the kids get on the bus and then I cried. All day. I never got over it until my oldest was sitting in the kitchen with me having our last coffee before she started seminary in Israel. Then I really cried but it didn’t do me any good: She would be out of my house forever. If you feel guilty or ashamed of those tears, don’t be. If you envy your friend who is so happy to see the little tykes off to school, don’t. The tears are a good thing. Let me explain. Once, a woman came to me for therapy because she could not get over her son’s death. He had been shot in a robbery and was only in his 40s. Her friends told her she was grieving too long; I guess they worried about her. But I explained to her that her grief was not only normal and natural, but a very good thing. Perplexed, she asked me what could be good about all the pain she was in. I answered from my own experience, having lost both my parents. When you are in a lot of pain from loss, you are much closer to the memory of the person you lost. As you “get used to it,” the pain fades and along with it, so does the memory. In fact, it is because the memory fades that the pain does, too. Baruch Hashem, your children aren’t leaving you for good! It’s only school. But there is still a sense of loss. You lose that special time with them that only summer can provide: without homework or schedules and with fewer rules and a semi-relaxed bedtime. Once school starts and they get home at the end of a day, they’ll be tired; yet that’s when the homework must start. Instead of being the sweet, loving parent you want to be, you have to play field mar-

shal. The children are cranky and resistant; you’re tired yourself. It’s no fun. No wonder there is a deep, sad sense of loss as your children board that bus. Then there’s another loss that you hate to think about but can’t avoid recognizing: You just lost another year of

the days that followed. They reminded you of your child’s goodness. In the same way, you can harness the sweet and sad moment of your children’s first day of school to get you through the school year. When you are frustrated with them, just remember

You can harness the sweet and sad moment of your children’s first day of school to get you through the school year.

your life! Every year that our kids grow older, so do we. It pulls at us in a remote, but unpleasant way. “Okay,” you’re going to say, “I get the positive aspect of grieving over a loved one’s death, but what’s good about being sad your children are starting school? We should be happy for them!” If you are one of those blubbery parents as I was, you will immediately recognize the phenomenon of mixed emotions. Of course, you’re happy for your kids. They’re excited and looking forward to the new challenges ahead, as much as they will deny that later on. You love to see their growth and progress. And you also miss them. That feeling of missing is a good thing, and if you harness it, you can use it to get you through the school year in better spirits. Do you remember when your kids were tiny babies and you would watch them sleeping in their cribs? They looked so sweet and innocent and you wondered how they managed to rile you up so much during the day. Those moments of looking at their peacefulness in slumber did, indeed, get you through

how precious and special they were to you in the summer. Remember how sad you were to see them go off to school – and hold back from expressing your frustration. To give this exercise power, you should follow these steps: First, take a deep breath. Next, take another one while visualizing the moment your child left for school. Finally, with your third deep breath, remember your feelings of sadness and the closeness you had to them in that moment; remember how they looked, the air temperature, and so on. To give visualizations an impact, it’s important to bring into play all your senses and your emotions. The reason for this is that emotions and each of your senses are stored in a

different part of the brain. Whole memories are recreated by drawing from all components; when one component is missing, the memory is less powerful. For that reason, the more you can recreate of how you felt internally, what you saw, felt externally, smelled, heard, and so forth, the better. Children are mirrors of us so much of the time. If you’re seeing behavior you wish wasn’t there, consider the possibility that they are just reflecting what they’re experiencing – and then change their experience. It could also be that children have picked up something undesirable outside the home. The way to be sure they can differentiate between the good behavior you expect and the unwanted behavior is to not behave in the unwanted way yourself! This is a powerful exercise. Use it to de-stress and appreciate that everything Hashem gave us can be put to good use – even pain. Dr. Deb Hirschhorn, a Marriage & Family Therapist and best-selling author of The Healing Is Mutual--Marriage Empowerment Tools to Rebuild Trust and Respect--Together, is proud to announce that readers of The Jewish Home will receive a $50 discount on every visit to her Woodmere office. For more information, call 646-54-DRDEB or check out her website at drdeb.com.

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Lola's Story

Lola Lieber Schwartz

A World After This

A Memoir of Loss and Redemption Lola Lieber Schwartz is a world-renowned artist whose paintings have been exhibited in art galleries throughout the United States and are part of the Yad Vashem archives in Jerusalem. Most importantly, Lola is a mother, grandmother and great-grandmother to many. She has myriad friends and sees life in all its vibrancy and vitality. But life was not always easy. Lola was only sixteen-yearsold when Hitler ym”sh invaded Poland, and Lola was forced into hiding and spent years on the run with her husband, Mechel. Through six years of trying times, near

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few days later, much to my surprise, Marika sent someone to see me. I had not spoken to her since the stuffed cabbage episode. Now, through one of her contacts, for another bribe of course, I was given the name and address of a Hungarian doctor who worked in the hospital section of the prison. Without paying attention to the date, I went to the address one evening around supper time, assuming he would be home with his family. He was definitely home and having his Christmas Eve dinner! I was mortified to have barged in on him and his family while they were sharing their Christmas feast, and apologized and wept. As I moved toward the door, his kindly wife stopped me. “Don’t leave, please, wait a moment. Let me get my husband for you.” I heard her go into the room and above the laughter of a happy family at Christmas, even during the war; I could hear her voice. “You must help this

young woman in the hallway. Something is very wrong. Take care of her. It’s Christmas Eve.” The words the wife said made me cry even more. I tried to compose myself before the doctor appeared. I immediately asked his forgiveness for interrupting his holiday but he was gracious and kind. He took me into a private room and talked to me for several minutes. The prison hospital was reserved for those who were either insane or had a contagious disease. The Germans were particularly worried about people with bad rashes, for example. He told

starvation and brutality, Lola and her husband held onto their faith and values. It was Mechel’s words of encouragement, “There will be a world after this,” that helped them cling to the hope that there will be a life of light and joy waiting for them at the end. This is the story of Lola’s life—from her grandparents’ “enchanted garden” to meeting Eichmann ym”sh to making the Pesach seder for the Bobover Rebbe during the war—her words will take you back to a different world. ry. He took me to the door and wished me good luck. The last words he said to me that night were these: “Remember, if you want to see your husband again, make sure that he gets transferred to the prison hospital. Once he is there, it might be possible for you to visit him.” I left in wonderment and gratitude to the doctor and to his willingness to adhere to the Christmas spirit in times of such hatred and un-Christian behavior. After Christmas I went to the drugstore he recommended and asked for the pill with great assurance in my voice. It was quite a show because I had total lack of

I instructed him: “Take the pill, then use the brush to scratch your face and make it bleed. Then act sick and insane.” me to go to the drug store and get a pill that caused a terrible rash in healthy people. He did not give me a prescription because that would have been the end of him. However he did give me all the information I needed to know. He had sized me up quickly as someone intelligent and with a good memo-

confidence in my mind. I waited for the druggist to ask for a prescription, but he did not. He came out from behind his drug counter with one capsule, which he put into a small paper envelope. I paid him and left. I had to face an enormous challenge. How would I be able to tell Mechel what to do with one mysterious pill? Getting parcels to him was not an impossibility, but I couldn’t imagine how to tell him what to do or how to hide the pill. It took me days to figure out the best way to disguise the pill. Finally, it came to me. I would put it into a wooden box that had a cloth lining. I had such a box for some reason, and I realized it was the perfect camouflage for a red Hungarian pepper. I slipped a tiny piece of paper into the pepper with the word “Look” written on it with an arrow. The arrow pointed to the lining of the box, where I made a slit in which I put the pill. I also was able to put in a small nailbrush with very stiff bristles, in addition to some clothing and some food.

Writing in as many languages as Mechel could more or less read or piece together the meaning, I instructed him. “Take the pill, then use the brush to scratch your face and make it bleed. Then act sick and as insane as possible. I was sure Mechel’s innate intelligence and strategic thinking ability would enable him to unscramble my code. I was right. He followed my instructions to the letter. He took the pill and injured his face with the brush. The Hungarian doctor I had gone to on Christmas Eve came to the hospital when the jailers notified him that there was a contagious prisoner who needed to be moved to the hospital. The doctor came and said that he had contracted a contagious disease and should be put in isolation immediately. In cases that required transfer to the prison hospital, a second doctor had to certify the Hungarian doctor’s diagnosis. The second opinion, of course, was from a Nazi doctor. By the time the Nazi arrived, the magical pill’s effects had disappeared. Mechel’s face showed no trace of a rash and his self-inflicted wounds from the brush were not convincing. He appeared to be in normal health. The Hungarian doctor got word to me that the plan had failed and I also learned that Mechel had been beaten for “playing tricks.” Once again, my own “escape tricks” had brought brutality to my husband. Rosie kept things going in our life while I slipped back into a state of serious emotional decline. Rosie reminded me that all was not lost with Mechel. She made me think things through and would not permit me to continue to wallow in misery. After all, she said, I included many “clues” in my notes that if the rash didn’t work he should act like a crazy person. Rosie would not let me give up on the dream that Mechel would be free and come to me. And she also made me concentrate on how clever Mechel was and that he would not sit around waiting to be shipped off to an-

so well known as the Crazy Rabbi that when there was a quarrel between the men, they called him over to mediate the disagreement. He did so, but in a half-insane manner. He never stepped out of his newly created character. His performance was perfect and continuous. After babbling incoherently or

he gave prophecies about their families and what was happening to them. They could not figure out how he knew so many details, names, and locations. He became not only the Crazy Rabbi and the Saint, now he was the Mad Genius. Finally he reached the goal he had desired from the beginning. All the others

praying loudly, he would fall absolutely silent for hours, refusing to acknowledge anyone’s presence or communicate. During these long silences, he was eavesdropping on the prisoners’ conversations with one another. By doing this and keeping everything in order in his mind, he learned very private things. His technique was so skilled that none of the men knew he had overheard their secrets. Mechel took his act of madness to the next level. He roamed at night, as usual, but instead of crazy chattering,

wanted Mechel out of the prison. They had become afraid of him. “He’s crazy. We don’t know what he’s going to do next.” “Get rid of this lunatic. We can’t get any sleep.” Their complaints went on like this for a few weeks. The prisoners were close to revolt. Even his former committee members believed he was insane and posed a threat to all of them. The jailers became convinced as well. Mechel’s dramatic performance had worked.

Lola wrote this book with the help of Alida Brill. A World After This was published in 2010 by Devora Publishing.

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They could not figure out how he knew so many details, names and locations. He became not only the Crazy Rabbi and the Saint, now he was the Mad Genius.

Once again, our benefactor, the Hungarian doctor was ordered to come in for a thorough examination. Knowing full well what was really going on, he arrived at the hospital totally prepared. He said Mechel was incurably insane and must be moved to the hospital. Once again, the Nazi supervising doctor was called in for the final approval. Obviously dubious, the Nazi put Mechel through his paces and Mechel responded as an authentically mentally ill person. The doctor had a final test. He looked into Mechel’s eyes and instructed Mechel to follow the doctor’s finger with his eyes. Instead, Mechel grabbed the cigarette out of the doctor’s mouth. Mechel began taking puffs of the doctor’s cigarette with rapid jerking motions at the same time he made a noise deep in his throat. The doctor was convinced and disgusted. Mechel was moved immediately into the hospital. When the guards came to move him, however, they found the orders were that he should be taken to the hospital inside the ghetto and not the prison hospital. Continued next week

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other prison or to his death. He was a fighter and so was I. Thanks to Rosie’s strong encouragement, I listened to my inner conscience and counted on the power of faith and love. Mechel was far too smart to attempt to act crazy within days of having a false rash. He would wait it out, and he would do it properly. I had to be patient and I had to have more faith. While I was waiting for some word about his fate, Mechel was making mental notes for his next move. Each day as I recited the morning prayers I prayed also that Mechel was working on the plan as I had described it to him. I believed his “madness” would be his salvation. In fact, that is exactly what happened. After waiting for suspicion to dissipate after his fake rash, he began to roam the large cell at night. He touched inmates gently, woke them up and chattered in meaningless words. The rest of the night he prayed compulsively and loudly. This became his standard routine – he was either bothering other prisoners or chanting in Hebrew. He became known as the Crazy Rabbi. Mechel wisely did nothing to dispel the mythology that he was an ordained rabbi, nor did he confirm it. A group of prisoners announced he was a saint or a prophet who was receiving visions from above. He became

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s this (seemingly short) summer draws to an end, it’s time to prep our children for the new school year. Like any new situation, beginning a new grade may trigger both excitement and anxiety. Commonly Believed Myth: If my child has the right shoes, the right backpack, and the right supplies, s/he will feel confident and be successful at school. he “right” clothes and supplies often change each year along with fashions and fads. As caring and devoted parents, we may feel obligated to buy things that strain our budgets or seem excessive. After all, we want our children to have every advantage they could in order to start the year on the right foot. The problem is there may be someone in your child’s class who has an even cooler backpack or more expensive shoes. Or (gasp!) your child may sit down at her desk on the first day of school and find that the designer sweater she is wearing is so last year. Then what? Fact: True confidence can’t be bought. Rather, it is borne through developing healthy ways to cope with life situations. While school supplies and

clothes can help a child appear confident for a little while, s/he will inevitably face classroom or playground scenarios that require more than just the right sneakers. You can help your child prepare for those situations by giving him or her the opportunity to express their worries before school starts and as the year goes on. Allow your child to tell you what is bothering them and how and with whom they expect to have a hard time instead of making assumptions. The beginning of the school year is a great time to set the foundation for adaptive coping and communication. At SSCT, we have been preparing parents and children for successful transitioning. We’ve noticed that parents often tend

Happy New (School) Year True confidence can’t be bought. It is borne through developing healthy ways to cope with life situations. to project their own anxieties onto their children. They may assume that because their child struggled with friends last year, they will struggle this year as well. One parent went so far as to name her own social anxiety “the family curse,” which, of course, led her children to believe that they were destined to have no friends. Why do some children develop anxiety about school? There are multiple influences impacting the development of anxiety disorders in youth. These range from biological predispositions to environmental factors such as a competitive class or loss of a loved one. However, one important medium for development of anxiety disorders is parental attitudes and behavior. Before we dismiss this assertion with, “of course the therapist is blaming the parents again,” let us explain. Anxiety is mediated by our thinking— what we perceive as dangerous or threatening in some way as well as how we see our ability to cope with the identified threat. Just like we learn behavior patterns from those closest to us (sorry parents!) we also pick up on anxious thoughts and anxiety-provoking appraisals by those who love us. Sam sat in the big desk and listened to his teacher explain how to add fractions. There were a lot of numbers scribbled all over the whiteboard. The other kids were filling out answers in their workbooks, and Sam watched quietly while chewing his brand new pencil. “What if I write the wrong answer? What if I make a mistake and the teacher sees? He’ll think I’m dumb and then I’ll never pass third grade!” Sam remembered his mother saying that it was very important to do really good work, especially at the beginning of the year. She sounded very serious when she said that. Sam knew that he wouldn’t be able to answer all the

questions. The numbers on the board began blurring together. Sam put his pencil down and let his mind wander to the football game he planned to play at recess. Although Sam was an intelligent boy who was capable of learning new mathematical concepts, his mind frame made math seem scary and impossible. Sam’s mother may have had the best intentions when she spoke with him; she may have thought that she was motivating him to do his best. However, the words she used gave Sam the idea that just trying hard is not good enough. This is one way in which parental beliefs influence the way that children think and behave. Had Sam’s mother said, “Making mistakes is a normal part of learning new things, I just want you to try your best,” Sam may have felt more confident when faced with his math assignment. As parents, we each have beliefs and assumptions about the world we live in. For example, we may believe that authority figures cannot be trusted, or that touching doorknobs will lead to catching the flu, or that popular kids are mean. However, we may not realize that we may be overgeneralizing or assuming the worst and passing those viewpoints to our children. Kids can pick up subtle verbal and nonverbal cues. If they witness us rolling our eyes when we read the school handbook, they will likely form the opinion that school rules are ridiculous. By keeping our anxieties, fears, or disillusionment to ourselves, we provide our children with a clean slate for experiencing the new school year. Practical tips for talking to your child about school: Ask: “What are you excited about? Is there anything you are worried about?” Your child may say he has no worries about school. You may be worried about his learning disability, his shyness, or his tendency to eat nothing during the whole school day. At this point in the conversation, do NOT bring up your fears or concerns. Doing so would create unnecessary fears or anxiety. Rather, just allow your child to tell

you what is on his mind. Validate. Empathize with your child. Let him/her know that it is okay and normal to feel what s/he is feeling. “Feeling worried about friends is normal. I feel that way too when I meet new people.” If your child is worried about something, Say: “What are some things you can do when ________ (source of anxiety) happens?” Help her come up with her own solutions. You can guide your child by providing examples of what other children may do in the same situation. You may be tempted to tell her all the great ways you would deal with the problem, but this may interfere with her ability to develop problem-solving skills of her own. Prevent: There may be some concerns that you have about your child’s functioning at school, based on real evidence such as problems that your child faced last year. If there is a problem that you are worried about, it may be productive to discuss it with your child after completing steps 1-3. Help him come up with some ways that he can address the problem. Also, it may be helpful to communicate with your child’s teachers or school faculty before the problem becomes a crisis. Remember, we can provide our children with the actual tools for a successful school year by allowing them to develop beliefs that are independent from our beliefs as parents, by encouraging them to discuss their experiences with you, and by guiding them to learn how to solve their own problems instead of solving problems for them. Jonathan Cohen, PsyD is the director of SSCT and has advanced training in evidenced-based therapies for emotional and behavioral problems. Sara Schwartz-Gluck, LCSW is a Clinical Social Worker who works with children and adults, and has lectured at schools and mental health organizations throughout NY and NJ. South Shore Cognitive Therapy (SSCT) uses the latest scientific and evidence-based cognitive and behavioral treatments to alleviate emotional problems. Our experienced clinicians offer intensive and customized treatment plans that enable our clients to maintain a high level of personal control throughout the treatment process. They can be reached at 516-568-7493 or at www. southshorecognitive.com.

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he scenic coast and crashing waves define the smallest state in the United States; 400 miles of coastline outline Rhode Island. But it’s not just water and picturesque views that make up the pretty state. In fact, Rhode Island is a symbol of American freedom; it is here that Roger Williams established his colony after being banished from the Massachusetts Bay Colony for his “extreme” views on freedom of speech and religion. But what was so revolutionary then is simple to us now. When molding the Constitution, Thomas Jefferson and John Adams publicly acknowledged Williams when they formed the First Amendment. Rhode Island is home to many “firsts.” The oldest schoolhouse in the nation, built in 1716, is found in Portsmouth. The Touro Synagogue is the oldest synagogue in North America. Built in 1763, it houses the oldest Torah in North America. The first circus took place in 1774 in Newport, and the nation’s oldest carousel, the Flying Horse Carosuel, is located in Watch Hill. Tourists flock to Rhode Island for more than just history. The state is home to some of the most picturesque views; one could walk for hours gazing at the sea and enjoying the calming breeze.

Things You Won’t Want to Miss City by the Sea Wealthy industrialists, railroad tycoons, coal magnates, financiers, and robber barons were drawn to Newport in the 19th century, especially between the Civil War and World War I. They bought up property at the ocean’s rim to build what they called summer “cottages,” which were, in fact, mansions of immoderate design and proportions patterned after European palaces. Four million visitors a year come to see the Breakers, the Marble House, the Astors’ Beechwood, and Belcourt Castle. The Touro Synagogue is an attraction as well. And the typical tourist activities of shopping, eating and enjoying the quaint town is done on the waterfront primarily along the streets called America’s Cup Avenue and Thames Street. Renaissance City Providence is seeing its rebirth as a city of business and emerging neighborhoods. Young people flock here to eat, shop and explore the city. The East Side is especially attractive to visitors; it is second only to Boston in its culture and rich architectural heritage. The Museum of Art showcases pieces from myriad masters including Monet, Cézanne, Rodin, Picasso, Matisse and John Singer Sargent. Col-

lege Hill on the East Side is known for its funky shopping district and college-aged crowd. Block Island Vacationers call this island paradise; the sun, sea and idyllic atmosphere are hard to replicate. Because of the harsh winters here, only around 1,000 residents live here year-round, but come the summer season and visitors flock here for a most relaxing vacation. Many of the old buildings crowd around Old Harbor and small inns and B&Bs dot the town. There are no franchised eateries here; children sell cookies and lemonade from stands in front of homes and police officers wear Bermuda shorts and ride bikes. Biking, fishing and frolicking on the beach are popular pastimes. Indeed, coming here is a break from the pressures of real-life.

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which was founded in 1892 and aptly dubbed “Old Montefiore.” The founders of Kiryat Moshe were dati leumi (national religious), many of whom were rabbis and leaders of the Mizrachi movement. Ninety years lat-

Eliyahu would always direct these potential purchasers to his wife, who was attuned to the n e i g h b o r h o o d ’s real estate market and better qualified to offer advice. In fact, a number of years ago my partner Eliezer uncovered a great buying opportunity in Kiryat Moshe for his clients. He fondly recalled that the family would not sign the contract to purchase the apartment until the Rabbanit gave her approval and blessings – which she readily did, once she heard the details of the transaction.

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er, Kiryat Moshe is an accepting and diverse community comprised of dati leumi, charedi leumi (national ultra-orthodox, also known by the acronym “chardal”), charedi and secular families. Its residents are primarily native Israelis, plus there are many French and American olim. In fact, 30% of the residents are English speakers. Kiryat Moshe is home to several prominent educational institutions, including Yeshivat Mercaz Harav Kook, which was established in 1924 by the founding father of the Israel Chief Rabbinate, Harav Avraham Yitzchak HaCohen Kook. Between the yeshiva and its kollel, the institution has over 700 students. Another famous yeshiva is Machon Meir, which for the past forty years has been the address for Jews of all backgrounds to learn about their Jewish roots. The yeshiva has over 500 students and offers classes in Hebrew, English, Russian, French and Spanish. A legendary community landmark is Angel Bakery, which is situated on the border of Kiryat Moshe and Givat Shaul. Opened in 1958, Angel is the country’s largest bakery and has a 750-foot pipeline which conveys flour directly from the mill across the street. This pipeline transports 120 tons of flour to the bakery daily! Visiting the bakery on a Saturday night is always a fun outing, with lines of customers often spilling out the door. And after the conclusion of Pesach, Angel is the place to be! (Just remember to be patient, as the lines are huge.) Here’s a twist to the classic stories of people receiving blessings from the rebbe before major life events: Over the years, many people considering buying an apartment in Kiryat Moshe would approach Israel’s former Sephardic Chief Rabbi Mordechai Eliyahu zt”l – who lived in Kiryat Moshe – for guidance and a blessing. However, Rav

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When Does a Dog Get a Free Bite?

ike many who have studied Jewish civil laws of negligence and liability (as in “when one ox gores another ox” or “when one digs a pit in public”), I am fascinated by the comparisons to American law. I was fascinated by those similarities during law school, and I remain fascinated now when I see such similarities in my New York State practice. Over the past few years, I have been involved in a number of dog bite and dog “knockdown” cases. Each case involved a plaintiff who claimed he or she was innocently going about his or her business and was bitten or knocked over by a dog. Invariably, the owners of the respective dogs were sued. However, as to whether the dog owner would have to make restitution to the plaintiff, almost anyone who has learned in yeshiva will instinctively ask a number of questions, including, “Was the dog a ‘tam’ or ‘muad’? In its simplest terms, that question asks whether the dog has a prior history or a prior pattern of similar conduct.

It is fascinating that the same question must be asked for a lawsuit in the State of New York. Nevertheless, the answer is different. The answer is quite unexpected to many and so this seemed like a natural topic for this column. Accordingly, while I am knowledgeable but not a scholar of Talmudic law, I will make no attempt at presenting a Talmudic discourse. The following is an analysis of New York State law. The general rule is that the owner of a dog (or other animal) will have legal liability for the harm or damage caused by his or her dog in the State of New York only when that dog has proven “vicious propensities.” [1] For a dog to have vicious propensities, the dog’s natural inclination must be to act in a way that might endanger a person or property of others. [2] In determining the animal’s natural inclination,

the nature and frequency of the dog’s prior activities are examined to create a reasonable ground to believe that the dog would have caused harm or damage. [3] The behaviors that New York State courts consider to be characteristic of a dog’s nature to act in a vicious way include, but are not limited to, prior bouts of biting or attacking; [4] the nature, extent and significance of a prior injury inflicted; [5] growling and pulling on a chain; [6] prior warnings by the owner that his dog would bite; [7] baring of teeth, jumping at restraining fences and barking at individuals; [8] prior bites of another’s belongings and having to be pulled away. [9] To impose liability, the owner must be aware of such prior acts. Such awareness can take two forms. For one, the owner must have actual knowledge of the prior vicious conduct of his dog. Accordingly, if the dog previously attacked and harmed someone while the owner was on vacation and the owner was not informed of it in any way, the prior act does not count towards labeling the dog vicious. On the other hand, if the owner “should have known” of the prior incident for any number of reasons, this is deemed “constructive” awareness that the law effectively imposes on the owner. [10] Some of the above mentioned behaviors are common to many dogs and any single behavior may not be conclusive of vicious propensities. Each scenario must be considered case-by-case, looking at all the circumstances. In so doing, courts do not consider these behaviors in a vacuum. [11] Minor previous events fail to establish a dog’s vicious propensities. [12] Even a finding of a handful of general behaviors will not necessarily result in a dog being branded with the term vicious. [13] In addition, an owner’s violation of a law requiring a dog to wear a leash (which exists in a few locales) will not render the dog vicious if it causes damage. [14] Also, the mere presence of a “Beware of Dog” sign does not establish vicious propensities. [15] Interestingly, in my cases, the breed of each dog involved in the respective cases varied from poodles to pit bulls. However, the breed of the dog does not

matter for the purposes of this analysis. [16] That is, a German Shepherd is no different than a Labrador. Finally, but significantly, and particularly important for those currently in the Catskills or otherwise coming across farm animals on the road, the Court of Appeals, which is the highest court of the state, recently carved out an exception to the vicious propensities rule. [17] A driver was injured when her van hit a cow on a public road. Although there was no prior history, the Court found it appropriate to hold the owner “negligent” and therefore liable for the damage, dispensing with the vicious propensities rule. Considering that this case created an exception to well-established State law, it may represent a shift in the law that will be developing in the near future. In conclusion, while the law seems to be evolving, the crucial thing to remember is that a lawsuit will not succeed unless the dog has a prior history of significance. When explaining this to my clients, I sum this up with a rule of thumb coined by my wonderful and amazing wife, Amy: “A dog’s first bite is free; the next one will cost a fee.” [1] Bard v. Jahnke, 6 N.Y.3d 592 [2] Dickson v. McCoy, 39 N.Y. 400 [3] Rider v. White, 65 N.Y. 54. [4] Muller v. McKesson, 73 N.Y. 195 [5] Lynch v. Nacewicz, 126 A.D.2d 708 [6] Moriano v. Schmidt, 133 A.D.2d 72 [7] Id. [8] Fontecchio v. Esposito, 108 A.D.2d 780 [9] Id. [10] Bard, supra.; Wilson v. Whiteman, 237 A.D.2d 814 [11] Cronin v. Chrosniak, 145 A.D.2d 905 [12] Rogers v. Travis, 229 A.D.2d 879 [13] Rider, supra [14] Petrone v. Fernandez, 12 N.Y.3d 546 [15] Arcara v. Whytas, 219 A.D.2d 871 [16] DeVaul v. Carvigo, Inc., 138 A.D.2d 669 [17] Hastings v. Suave, 21 N.Y.3d 122

No column is a substitute for competent legal advice. Please consult with the attorney of your choice concerning specific legal questions you may have. Sol Z. Sokel, Esq. (a/k/a Shlomo) is associated with the AV rated law firm, Kelly, Rode & Kelly LLP based out of Mineola & Riverhead and lives in Cedarhurst with his wife and their five children. He can be reached at szsokel@krklaw.com and (516)739-0400.

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In the Kitchen

A Quick and Easy Dinne A Quick and Easy Dinner for Your Family

ith Yom Tov ith Yom Tov just around the corner, I need quick and easy weeknight suppers. The weeks between ca between camp ending and school beginning are so hectic, so we need something that’s fast and eas fast and easy. With but all that in m With all that in mind, my family loves soup in every season. Their first love is chicken soup we save that for Shab we save that for Shabbat. So during the winter months, on weeknights I try to always serve a fresh vegetable soup. I don vegetable soup. I don’t use any powdered stocks but I do like the Trader Joe’s or Imagine’s organic vegetable broth; they vegetable broth; they just give it that richer flavor. If I don’t have one of those, I use regular water instead. I make a sou instead. I make a soup which I call “Kitchen Sink Soup.” Every Monday, I look through the fridge and tomato, see what vegeta and see what vegetables are left over from the weekend. I usually find onions, celery, mushrooms, mushrooms, carrots, and some parsley or dill. I start by sautéing an onion for a few minutes and carrots, thenthe addbase the celery a then add the celery and carrots. This is what they call a “mirepoix” in cooking. It’s often in soups, rouxes, or s in soups, rouxes, or sauces. After a quick sauté, I season it with salt and sauté it for another minute the vegetables s until the vegetables soften and the natural flavors are released. I then add all the otheruntil vegetables which I pre-cut into c which I pre-cut into chunks. I fill the pot with water or vegetable broth to the top of the vegetable line andYou boil it for tw line and boil it for two hours. Afterwards, I blend it with an immersion blender until smooth. can also leave it a litt can also leave it a little chunky. (It’s up to your family’s taste.) The flavor of the soup varies based what vegetables you are using. You can also buy the vegetables that day too if you don’t on what vegetables you are using. You can also buy the vegetables that day too if you on don’t have any leftovers. The other I like to serve is a favorite of my family. This is the quickest and easiest The other dish I like to serve is a favorite of my family. This is the quickest and easiest “one potdish wonder.”

Penne alla Vodka

Ingredients 1 package of penne noodles 1 cup crushed tomatoes “Ma, I love camp! I wish camp would be from a can oropened tomatothe whole year! In camp, we get to do all the activities that i love, and i especially sauce ½ tsp oregano love arts and crafts!” “Really, honey? Ya, arts and crafts is really ½ tsp basil fun. It‛s amazing to see what can be made and 1 clove garlic, it crushed is such a great feeling when you create 1½ cups heavyyourself. cream (to make it lighter, ”Ya!, thats why I love it so much! There is no cup pressure when you create things. I mean you can use ¾ want it to come out nice, but it‛s relaxing, easy cream and ¾Icup milk) and so much fun! I wish i had arts and crafts all ½ cup Parmesan cheese year long! Then when school gets hard, I can look 2 TBS vodka (optional) forward to arts N crafts, even if it‛s just once a Salt and pepper, to taste week...

Ingredients 1 package of penne noodles 1 cup crushed tomatoes from a can or tomato sauce ½ tsp oregano ½ tsp basil 1 clove garlic, crushed 1½ cups heavy cream (to make it lighter, you can use ¾ cup cream and ¾ cup milk) ½ cup Parmesan cheese 2 TBS vodka (optional) Salt and pepper, to taste

Preparation Boil penne according to packet directions. (I use the mini penne noodles.) Simmer the tomatoes, oregano, basil and garlic on low heat for five minutes. To the same pot, add the cream, cheese, vodka and then season with salt and pepper. Simmer on low flame for fifteen minutes; continue to stir. ARTS N CRAFTS WORKSHOP Once sauce is ready, toss noodles with sauce and then serve warm.

Preparation Boil penne according to packet directions. (I use the mini penne noodles.) Simmer the tomatoes, oregano, basil and garlic on low heat for five minutes. To the same pot, add the cream, cheese, vodka and then season with salt and pepper. Simmer on low flame for fifteen minutes; continue to stir. Once sauce is ready, toss noodles with sauce and then serve warm.

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Naomi Nachman, the owner of The Aussie Gourmet, caters weekly and Shabbat/ Yom Tov meals for families and individuals within The Five Towns and neighboring communities, with a specialty in Pesach catering. Naomi is a contributing editor to this paper and also produces and hosts her own weekly radio show on the Nachum Segal Network stream called “A Table for Two with Naomi Nachman.” Naomi gives cooking presentations for organizations and private groups throughout the New York/New Jersey Metropolitan area. In addition, Naomi has been a guest host on the QVC TV network and has been featured in cookbooks, magazines as well as other media covering topics related to cuisine preparation and personal chefs. To obtain additional recipes, join The Aussie Gourmet on Facebook or visit Naomi’s blog. Naomi can be reached through her website,www.theaussiegourmet.com or at (516) 295-9669.

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chool days are rapidly approaching. Students receive school supply lists of items that they will need for the upcoming school year. The

task of collecting these school supplies brings forth feelings of excitement and anticipation of a refreshing and new school year. In recognition of the year ahead, presenting students with a personalized bookmark would be a positive approach. Teachers who are creative and have the time can actually make them for the students and present them on the first day of school. They can be simple, with

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Rebbetzin Naomi N. Herzberg is a professional art educator, artist and designer. Among her known artwork is a floral sculpture presented to Tipper Gore, Blair House, Washington, D.C. Presently she is the Director of Operations at Shulamith School for Girls. Please feel free to email nherzberg@ optonline.net with questions and suggestions for future columns.

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15pk

1oz

Reg. $2.79

Reg. $2.99

Paper Towel

Pretzels

Sabra

Salads

NEW!

2.29

Plums

Plenty

Potato Chips

Twin Pack Gefilte Fish

Carrots

10/$1

1.99

75 Count

Ungers

Crinkle Sliced

Reg. $1.99

12oz

13oz

Reg. $2.79

2/ 3

Bittersweet/Milk/Strawberry & White

Hearts of Palm

1.99

Challah $

Sweet

Kleenex

Sandwich Cookies

14.46oz

400gr

Liebers

Whole

Steinbergs

Fruits & Vegetables

Wafers

Elite

Reg. $5.99

Chocolate Covered

Pans

Reg. $.69 Ea.

3.99

1.99

Lior

9” Round

2/$1

Liebers

Reg. $6.99

Chocolate Bars

8oz

4.99

Tissues

450gr

Reg. $4.99

10oz

Elegant

Honey Cake

3.99

Chocolate Chips

(Snapple)

Reg. $5.99

Peanut Contrase

Liebers

Big Apple

10pk

3.49

Honey Loaf

8.99Lb.

Chicken Capons

Chuck Calachel

5.49Lb.

Nirbater

Chicken Cutlets

3.99Lb.

Silver Tip Roast

Fri. - Aug. 30 7am-5:30pm ‫ראש השנה‬

Fri. - Sep. 6 Closed

5.99Lb.

6.49Lb.

Sale valid 8/25/13 thru 9/5/13. Cash & Carry only. We reserve the right to limit quanitities on sale items. Not responsible for typographical errors. While supplies last.

ORDERS CAN BE EMAILED, FAXED, OR CALLED IN 1913 Cornaga Ave. • Far Rockaway • T. 718.471.7555 • F. 718.471.9102 • E. Kosherworldorders@yahoo.com

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Klein’s

8pk

Beigels

Chewy

6pk

Klein’s

Yummy Bites

Kariot Cereal 13.20oz

12oz

1.99

Bakery Dept.

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Grocery Section

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Back To School special! 2013 Honda Civic LX-Automatic

2013 Nissan Altima 2.5S

169* $ 189* $

/Per Month

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/Per Month

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Features: Bluetooth/Remote Keyless Entry/Power Seats/ AM-FM-CD-MP3

24 Month Lease 12,000 Miles Per Year Up to $5,000 Damage Waiver Available

2013 Honda Odyssey EX-L 8 Passenger

269*

Per Month Features: Bluetooth/Leather/BackUp Camera/Power Liftgate Heated Seats & Mirrors/ Sunroof

36 Month Lease 7,500 Miles Per Year Up to $5,000 Damage Waiver Available

149* $ 165* $

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/Per Month

36 Month Lease 12,000 Miles Per Year $1,500 Damage Waiver Included

Features: Remote Entry w/ Trunk Release/Rearview Camera/ Bluetooth/160-Watt Audio System

2013 Chrysler Town & Country Touring $

179*

Per Month 24 Month Lease 10,000 Miles Per Year Up to $5,000 Damage Waiver Available

Features: Back-Up Camera/Leather/ Rear Entertainment/Power Liftgate

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