Publisher column: Sometimes, just go with a classic column idea

By Randy Capps

Since I started writing these columns back in 2015, I always arrive at the one for January with the same thought: Don’t do the resolution column.

On this frosty winter morning, I started wondering how long it had been since I wrote the boilerplate January piece about the promises we make to ourselves as the calendar flips over. After a bit of research, I found that the January 2019 edition is the last time I went to that well.

Since once every few years is OK, I find myself now pondering resolutions. I could certainly spend less money on

video games. Surely, I could find ways to be a bit more positive, or perhaps I could finally start writing that novel I’ve always wanted to bring to life.

Looking back at the demolition derby that was the latter half of 2023, I’m struck by the need to be more present.

You never know when the “last time” will be. The last time you hold your child, or the last time you pick them up from school.

In my case, I never knew that the last time I’d ever see Mike was through our glass door. We all had COVID, and he brought us some teas and various medical supplies.

After he had taken a few steps back, I tossed some money out on the porch and thanked him, and a few days later, he was gone.

I don’t regret the things I’ve done, but I sure wish I had said something more meaningful to one of my best friends in what turned out to be our last face-to-face conversation.

Hence the idea of being present. Enjoy the moments, keeping in mind that they may never come again.

Say the kind word. Do the nice thing. Be the best version of yourself. Make 2024 the best year it can be for yourself and those close to you.

Happy New Year everyone!