INTRO We are excited to begin the journey of adoption and greatly appreciate that you are looking at our profile. From the time we met, we knew that having children was something that we wanted in our marriage. We would like nothing more than to share our love, family, friends, and home with your child. We admire you for the courage and strength it takes to consider adoption and hope you choose us as the adoptive parents.
Dear Birthparents – We are very grateful that you are taking the time to read our letter, as we know you are being bombarded with decisions and options. We can’t begin to understand the thoughts and feelings you are experiencing and will continue to have in the future. This decision will not have a fleeting impact, but will involve many different people for the rest of their lives. We are aware of the gravity of your decision, as well as ours, and have put many hours into research, study, soul searching, and prayer. In the end, we mutually agree that we are fully committed to adopting a child and are thrilled at the opportunity of joining a precious life to ours. From the day we met, children were always going to be a part of our future. We both come from close families with three children, so not having kids just didn’t seem right. Over the next several years it became apparent that having our own child was not likely to occur. We were forced to consider the possibility of living our lives without children. In the end, we realized that we both are excited at the prospect of adopting. We believe that we have much to offer a new baby. We have a nice suburban home tucked into a double cul-de-sac in a neighborhood full of kids. Our home is just minutes from some of the best schools in Kansas City. We have a neighborhood pool, are close to many tree-lined walking and biking trails, and can easily get to a number of beautiful parks. Luke, our young son, will make an excellent big brother. Future aunts, uncles, and nieces live close-by and grandparents will visit
frequently. We both have very stable jobs, which afford us the means to provide for a child. Fortunately, Amber works part-time from home which provides us with greater flexibility. Dallas’ mother’s sister made adoption plans for her baby boy 50 years ago. Very recently she was able to reconnect with her son who has grown into a fine man with a family of his own. She could not be happier for him and is ecstatic that she has reconnected with him. This experience has taught us two important lessons about adoption. The first is that children can grow up to be very healthy, happy, and well adjusted after being adopted. The second is that it is very important that the birth parents have the opportunity to have interaction with their child. It is our expectation that we have a warm and caring relationship with you now and in the future. We know that it is in the best interest of both you and your child that you have the opportunity to stay connected through pictures, letters, and personal contact. If you desire to have more distance, we will respect your wishes but know that we will be happy if you continue to be a part of your child’s life. It is our expectation that we will continue to reside in the Kansas City area. We can assure you that we will take wonderful care of your child. We commit to treat them with kindness and show them unconditional love. We will ensure that they are provided with the education and opportunities that will allow them to be successful. We recognize that healthy self-esteem and confidence are important and will strive to build these characteristics. Most importantly, we want to have fun with them and fully immerse them into our extended families who are ready and waiting with open arms. We hope that our vision for raising your child is inline with your expectations. We hope and pray that your decision will be to entrust us with your beautiful baby and thank you for your consideration. With Sincerity – Dallas and Amber
Our story begins in southern California in 2003 where we were introduced
to one another through mutual friends. Amber was 23 and Dallas was 29. We fell in love and after most of a year of dating we made the decision to spend the rest our lives together on this Christmas carriage ride. Three years after marrying, we moved to Shawnee, KS where we moved into a suburban home two miles from Dallas’ sister and family. Amber began working from home with the intent of having a schedule that would easily accommodate children. Over the next several years it became apparent that having our own child was not likely to occur. With much thought and prayer, we made the decision to adopt. We had the privilege of adopting a newborn baby boy in March of 2014. Our family immediately accepted him into our family, with the only struggle being who gets to hold him next. We know they would do the same with a second child, and like us, are eager to welcome them to the family.
Dallas
CAREER. Hospital Administrator/Emergency Nurse HOBBIES. Sports (almost any type), sports fan, music, traveling, gardening, and socializing with family and friends CHURCH. Regularly attends Christian Church DESCRIPTORS. Tall, athletic, loving, intelligent, outgoing, adaptable, logical, level-headed, voice of reason in stressful situations, energetic, spontaneous, caring, encouraging, supportive, funny, musical, and playful VOLUNTEER. Feeding and clothing homeless Fitting children with free bike helmets Dispensing free flu shots Collecting donations for food pantry
Amber
CAREER. Clinical Research Project Administrator (from home) HOBBIES. Cooking, reading, exercising, traveling, gardening, shopping, scrapbooking, sports fan, music, socializing with family and friends CHURCH. Regularly attends Christian Church DESCRIPTORS. Tall, graceful, friendly, energetic, active, spunky, intelligent, thoughtful, caring, encouraging, considerate, loyal, disciplined, organized, crafty, and loves to cook VOLUNTEER. Feeding and clothing homeless Collecting donations for food pantry Helping with Health Demonstrations
ABOUT US...
DALLAS. As the oldest of three children, Dallas learned the value of hard work
while serving as his father’s sidekick on the families’ Kansas ranch. He was taught responsibility by being very involved in his church, school, and social clubs. This leadership training prepared him for adulthood where he became captain of his college basketball team, served as a manager in a busy Emergency Department, and now works in hospital administration.
While his work requires substantial attention, Dallas is also able to find time to play sports, spend time with family and friends, and enjoy an ample amount of time with Amber and Luke. Dallas does not lack for energy, and makes sure to devote much time to playing with and taking care of Luke. Dallas was fortunate to grow up with a large extended family with whom he was very close. It is his intent that his children enjoy the same supportive family he experienced, which is why Amber and he chose to live in Shawnee where their kids will be surrounded by cousins, aunts and uncles, and grandparents.
AMBER. Amber is also the oldest of three children.
Her natural maternal abilities were quickly apparent as she served as a “second mother” to her two younger siblings. This serves her well today, as she truly is a homemaker. She enjoys cooking and gardening and is always ready to share her delicious food with others. Her home is always clean, organized, and pleasant. While being a wife and mother, working part-time, and managing a home, Amber still finds time to relax and have fun. She loves attending workout classes at the gym and walking with groups of friends. She feels blessed to be the primary caregiver for Luke and intends for this to continue with the addition of a second child. She frequently picks up her nieces and sweeps them away for fun outings. Amber also relishes times when Dallas and she are able to travel or spend time out in the city. She is positive, energetic, and consistently looks for the good in other people.
LUKE. Luke is our one and only child.
We were blessed to have him join our family by adoption in March of 2014. He is a healthy little boy that sleeps well, smiles and laughs often, and is a man on the move. He immediately won our hearts and those of our extended family and friends. He is elated when we get visits from his cousins or other kids. We are just sure that he will be a perfect older brother.
DALLAS BY AMBER. To describe Dallas in a few words is difficult.
He is a man with so many great characteristics. He is loving, encouraging, and supportive. Dallas is the person I can always count on to take care of me and be level headed when things are tough. He is the type of guy that gets calmer when things get stressful, which is why he excelled as an emergency room nurse. Dallas is definitely more outgoing than I am and he is good at encouraging me to do things when I am feeling timid. I don’t know if I have ever seen Dallas look out of place at a gathering. He makes friends very easily and always has something to talk about. I admire this about him. Dallas is the type of guy that is always on the go. He always likes to be active and sports are usually at the top of the list. He plays basketball a couple of times a week. When his father is visiting they often play tennis or basketball and then time themselves running track. Dallas can be a character. When we were in London we went to Buckingham Palace and were there while the soldiers marched out the gates. Afterwards Dallas could be seen mimicking the way they marched, which looks really goofy, and to this day whenever I see that video it makes me laugh. Dallas has an amazing voice. He sang, “There’s Only You” to me at our wedding. It was very romantic! When we were dating, one of my favorite songs that he would sing was “I Love The Way You Love Me” and those words are actually engraved on the inside of my wedding band. Dallas is always up for playing with and caring for Luke and can often be found clowning around with him on the floor. He looks forward to times when I have things to do and just the guys can hang out. While he likes to get “rowdy” with Luke and his nieces, Dallas can also be very affectionate and lets them know that he loves them very much. I know that as Luke and other siblings grow up, Dallas will want to be right in the middle of their activities whether it be music, sports, academics, etc.
AMBER BY DALLAS. Loving and caring are two very apt descriptors of
my wife, Amber. She goes out of her way to do nice things for others and doesn’t expect reciprocation. She is an excellent listener and has a very soft heart for people in especially challenging situations. She is slow to judge others and believes that she is no better than anyone else. Amber values loyalty and it is evidenced by her long lasting friendships. Some of her friends date back to early childhood. Her friends entrust her with their most sensitive information, knowing that she is not one to share. This same characteristic is an important part of our marriage, as I know she will always stand with me no matter what may come our way.
While Amber is not always really talkative, she is not a pushover or afraid to share her feelings. She likes to engage people she knows in friendly banter or take the devil’s advocate position to see why people think the way they do. This is always done in a friendly and endearing way and draws people closer to her. One of Amber’s passions is cooking. She likes to make all different types of foods and really focuses on trying to make healthy items taste delicious. However, she does have a sweet tooth and has to fight the urge to eat chocolate every day. Amber is crafty and enjoys scrapbooking. She especially loves to memorialize trips and special events. This is a talent she shares with the women in her family, as many of them exchange their creations with one another. Amber is a girl that certainly can match my energy. She usually wakes up ready to face the day. While she did not spend a great deal of time playing organized sports, she does not lack athleticism. She often attends workout classes at the gym or when the weather is nice she likes to go for walks and bike rides on our local trails. Growing up in California, she had close access to the mountains and was able to learn to ski and snowboard at a young age. She is proud of the fact that she can easily beat me down the mountain. One of Amber’s favorite things is to just curl up with a good book. She gets through a book or two a month, and takes it as an opportunity to unwind. She has a wide range of reading tastes but especially likes to read about other cultures or stories of great courage. In the end, Amber is a wonderful spouse and an equally good mother. She is a natural with kids and is adored by Luke. The affection is mutual as she can often be found snuggling with Luke and reading him a book. She goes to great lengths to make sure his home environment and diet foster his health and well-being, knowing that these formative years lay the foundation for the rest of his life. She looks forward to devoting the same care and attention to our future children.
MUSIC. Music is a source of enjoyment for both of us.
We were introduced to instruments at an early age. Amber learned to tickle the keys of a piano and Dallas played Trombone, Trumpet, and Baritone through high school. Dallas has often been asked to sing in church, at weddings and funerals, and can hold his own at any karaoke venue. His family often sings together at church and during the holidays. We have spent many fun evenings at concerts with family and friends. We look forward to sharing our passion for music with our children. We have a piano and guitar that are anxiously waiting to be played.
OUR FAMILY. We are both fortunate to be a part of loving and supportive
families. We are close to our siblings and parents alike. We rotate holiday time with each family and excitedly plan for these get-togethers for months in advance. There are young cousins on both sides of the family who are anxious to have new playmates added to the family.
Dallas’ family lives nearby in Kansas and is a weekly presence in our lives. This includes an aunt and uncle who live on a quaint farm that is home to many different animals that Luke and the nieces love to play with. Amber’s family lives on the west coast but frequent travel keeps them close and connected. Since Luke was added to our family we found that grandma and grandpa have visited even more often. We believe that a strong, loving marriage and closely-knit extended family are essential elements in providing a good home for a child. We have been fortunate to have this role modeled by both sets of parents who remain happily married after more than 38 years. Unconditional love, kindness to one another, and an attitude of service are also at our core. We believe in providing our children with education and opportunities while ensuring they learn discipline and sustain healthy self-confidence. Having fun and approaching life with some humor are also key ingredients in our lives. Most importantly, we believe that children are impressionable and require healthy role modeling in the home. We take the privilege of parenting seriously and hope to have the opportunity to mold your child into a kind, healthy, happy, and well-rounded adult.
AMBER’S FAMILY.
Starting from the top left and going clockwise. Jason and Josselyn live in Oregon. Dallas and Amber. Eric, Christine, and Sara live in California. Gordon and Myra also live in California.
DALLAS’S FAMILY.
Starting from the top left and going clockwise. Pablo and Rhonda live in Kansas with their three daughters. Austin and Pam live in California. Allan and Marva Lee live in Kansas. Dallas, Amber, and Luke.
OUR HOME. We live in a safe neighborhood on a double cul-de-sac where
you can regularly hear children playing in the street. Our house has plenty of space for children with an open floor plan and four bedrooms. We’ve already picked out a room that will be home for your beautiful baby. It is painted in a shade of soft gray blue with a hint of green that will be perfect for a baby girl or boy. A wood toy chest that was built by Dallas is nestled in the corner waiting to be filled. We are looking forward to filling our home again with the smells, cries, coos, and giggles that only a baby can bring.
Though we currently reside in the suburbs, our dream is to have a country home. We hope to have some space where we can let dogs live unrestrained and kids can allow their imaginations to run wild. This will give us all a place to relax and retreat from the business of daily life. Our faith in God serves as an anchor for our marriage. It is our belief that faith in God brings a family together in a harmonious and peaceful way. As we raise your child, we plan to continue to foster a loving, Christian environment.