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Israel at 70: Holocaust survivor recalls fighting in Israel’s War of Independence

BY JOSEFIN DOLSTEN TEANECK, N.J. (JTA) – Mordechai Schachter didn’t know he would soon be a soldier when he traveled from his native Romania to prestate Israel in 1948. He was a 17-yearold with a passion for Zionism, leaving behind a country that was becoming increasingly anti-Semitic a few short years after at least 270,000 Romanian Jews died during the Holocaust.

At the end of 1947, Schachter had boarded one of two boats of 7,500 Jews each that were to take them to the promised land, despite a British ban on Jewish emigration there. Many of the passengers were lone children whose parents sent them on the boats to escape Romania.

Schachter’s parents had meant to come, but his father fell ill before the trip, so they stayed behind.

The journey went as planned until the boats hit the Dardanelles, a narrow strait in northwestern Turkey. There they were met by seven British ships.

Passengers decided not to fight back since a significant portion of them were children and elderly; their boats were rerouted

Mordechai Schachter to Cyprus. Three months later, the British agreed to allow the children, including Schachter, to go on to Palestine.

Schachter remembers arriving in Ranaana, and eating hamentaschen and oranges on his first week there. In Ranaana he also met one of his three brothers, who had arrived in prestate Israel four months earlier. Five weeks later he was ordered to join the army, where he was taught how to shoot a gun and given an Italian rifle from World ISRAEL AT 70 | 7

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March of the Living

ocal teens participating in the March of the Living are photographed on the day of the 3K walk from Auschwitz to Berkenau. The educational experience, from April 8-22, included a week in Poland and a week in Israel. Teens from past years have described the trip as “transformative” and “life-changing” as they participate with

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14,000 other teens from around the globe. This year’s participants are (left to right) back row: Etai Bally, Elliott Entin, Marin Warshay, Jacob Hammarstrom, Jordan Kimia, Gabe Mernoff and Michelle Cichitelli (chaperone). Bottom row: Jessica Nassau, Natalie Westrick, Aurora Rees, and Sadie Gaffin.

Yom ha-Shoah commemoration remembers the past, looks toward the future

BY LEV POPLOW The main sanctuary in Providence’s Temple Emanu-El was full on April 11 – full of people and full of the sounds of old friends and acquaintances greeting each other.

Then a hush fell over the crowd as Judie Tennenbaum played a haunting melody on her harp, signifying the beginning of our community’s annual Yom ha-Shoah commemoration. All eyes turned to the entrance as Holocaust survivors and their families entered to the harp’s sweet melody. The scene was somber and deeply moving as the procession made its way to the front of the sanctuary, where survivors and family members lit memorial candles for those they lost.

Rabbi Wayne Franklin’s opening remarks succinctly touched upon the meaning of Yom ha-

Shoah, Holocaust Memorial Day. His words evoked the past, spoke to the present, and looked hopefully to the future.

“As human beings, we are not as different from each other as Isaiah’s wolf and lamb,” Franklin said. “We can learn to live in harmony. We can learn to live in peace with one another if we open our hearts wider to each other.”

Referring to the documentary “Paper Clips,” the rabbi added, “What started in Whitwell, Tennessee, grew into a monumental achievement of the human spirit ….

“Isaiah said a little child will lead the way to overcoming differences. The students in Whitwell have shown the power of young voices to lead us to peace.

“To commemorate Yom haShoah tonight we stand resolute to say, and mean, never again.”

As if to underscore the rab-

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Joe Fab speaks to the crowd.

bi’s words, pianist and composer Judith Lynn Stillman performed, with the HaZamir Choir and Cantor Brian Mayer, a piece that she composed, with lyrics from a Yiddish poem, “Sakhaki,” that offer hope and inspiration in the depths of de-

spair: “You may laugh at my dreams, but I’ll continue to dream …. Laugh, for I believe in man, for I still believe in you.”

Radio host and Yom HaShoah Committee member Patricia Raskin then introduced the keynote speaker, Joe Fab, the producer and co-director of “Paper Clips.”

“The film ‘Paper Clips,’ which focuses on understanding and tolerance, is very relevant in today’s climate of distrust and division,” Raskin noted.

The film, released in 2004, follows the remarkable journey of middle school students in tiny Whitwell, Tennessee. In a town with no Jews and only a handful of African-Americans, the students chose the Holocaust as the vehicle to learn about tolerance.

They created the Paper Clips Project, hoping to collect 6 million paper clips to represent

the 6 million Jews killed in the Holocaust. They chose paper clips because, in their research, they had learned that in Norway, people attached paper clips to their lapels as a sign of resistance to the Nazis. And paper clips were something the students could see and count to help understand the huge number of people who lost their lives.

Paper clips poured into Whitwell from all over the world; they ended up collecting over 27 million. They went on to build a permanent memorial that people still visit.

Fab said that while making the film, he was “struck by the students’ genuine curiosity. They wanted to learn. They wanted to understand. When they met survivors, they responded with compassion.”

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Sen. Whitehouse goes to school Sen. Sheldon Whitehouse visited the Jewish Community Day School of RI during the Kabbalat Shabbat assembly on April 13.

During his time with JCDSRI students, he answered questions and talked about his experiences representing Rhode Island in Congress.

A wonderful storyteller, Whitehouse was impressed with the students’ insights and knowledge of Rhode Island history.

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See a different side of Israel with the Alliance in October

BY LARRY KATZ

THIS ISSUE’S QUOTABLE QUOTE “Judaism isn’t just about rituals, rules, customs and rites of passage …”

What is an aspect of Israel that few tourists see? Most tours focus on history, religion or geopolitics. The Jewish Alliance’s Israel Mission in October will focus on cultural and socioeconomic diversity. This tour is ideal for both first-timers and experienced travelers, since most days will offer a number of concurrent options, permitting participants to explore new areas.

For example, in Tel Aviv participants will be able to choose from several predetermined tracks, such as a bike tour of the diverse neighborhoods or a guided tour by local artists of various galleries. Instead, some may opt to visit a local startup to learn about Israel as the

“start-up nation” while others may choose a culinary tasting tour of an outdoor market to experience food from Jewish communities such as Italy, Greece and Persia.

Shabbat afternoon could be spent walking through a neighborhood built in the 1800s (with funds donated by Rhode Island’s own Judah Touro), along with the more modern Hassenfeld Fountains, while enjoying the poetry of one of Israel’s famed poets. Others will visit a recently opened museum about Christian supporters of Zionism (such as the world founder of the Red Cross and Queen Victoria) presented in high-tech exhibits. Some may choose to spend the time at Masada and the Dead Sea.

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There will be opportunities to experience the art, cuisines, cultures and concerns of many ethnic groups: Christian Arabs, Moslem Arabs, Ultra-Orthodox Jews, and Jews from Ethiopia, the Former Soviet Union and communities across the Middle East. Speakers include the renowned Biblical scholar Aviva Zornberg and experts such as Avraham Infeld and Noam Zion. Whether you meet with student film directors or teachers in at-risk neighborhoods, their insights into Israeli society will astonish you.

Plenty of free time is built in, with guidance for where to go and what to do for those who want it. Those who want to barhop one evening will be guided to the best places, while those

who want to attend the newest outdoor sound, light and acting show will be accommodated.

We will organize groups and recommend restaurants that show off new Israeli cuisines.

Flights are nonstop from Boston on El Al Israel Airlines, departing on Sunday, Oct. 14, returning on Tuesday, Oct. 23.

The General Assembly of the Jewish Federations of North America will take place following the mission. Subsidies are available to people under 40. For more information, contact Gail Putnam at gputnam@ jewishallianceri.org or 401-4214111, ext. 158.

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RI playwright delves into Middle East controversy with play at Wilbury

BY LARRY KESSLER The classic 1967 film “Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner” explored what was then the taboo subject of interracial dating and marriages. Now, 51 years later, a new play by Rhode Island playwright Lawrence Goodman delves into another controversial subject relating to romance: dating between Jews and Arabs.

“Heresy,” which will be presented four times, starting tonight (April 20) during the Wilbury Group Theatre in Providence’s Festival of New Works, explores what happens when, similar to what unfolded in the Oscar-winning movie starring Katharine Hepburn, Spencer Tracy and Sidney Poitier, a daughter makes an announcement about her social life that her parents are less than thrilled about. Bitterness and recriminations then leave the family relationships in tatters after her parents find out that she’s also withdrawn her support for Israel.

Goodman, 47, describes the plot: “When Hannah Liebowitz arrives home from college for summer break, she has a surprise for her parents: She’s dating a Palestinian. Hannah’s parents, secular and liberal Jews, aren’t fazed until Hannah also reveals she’s turned against Israel. The Liebowitzes are suddenly at war with each other over what it means to be a Jew and how much loyalty they owe Israel.

The relationship between Hannah and her mother takes a disastrous turn. “ ‘Heresy’ is a play for our times about a family divided by politics and the fine line between religious identity and tribalism.

It shows what can happen when you dare to question the beliefs of your family, society or religion.”

Goodman, who has written a number of plays staged in Boston and Rhode Island, has lived in Rhode Island for 15 years and is a resident of Providence. He is collaborating with veteran, award-winning director Daniel Gidron, an Israeli native who’s lived in Providence for two years. Goodman talked about

Lawrence Goodman his motivation in writing the play in an email interview with The Jewish Voice: JV: How did you come to write the play and what motivated you? Is the play based on any real-life situations that you faced or ripped from the headlines of the last few decades?

Goodman: Several years ago, I noticed that many of my friends didn’t discuss Israel. They would debate the Iraq War, Obama, the quality of Starbucks coffee and paper vs. plastic endlessly, but somehow never got around to the Israeli-Palestinian conflict. I wanted to write a play in which a secular, liberal Jewish family would be forced to discuss the issue. In this case, it’s because Hannah, the college-age daughter, returns home for the summer (and is) anti-Zionist.

JV: The play showcases some of the thornier issues facing Jews worldwide and in Israel today. What are your expectations for the play with respect to possibly healing those positions?

Goodman: I wrote the play first to entertain and second to ask some hard questions. Dayenu.

JV: You have made Hannah’s parents both secular and liberal Jews. Which parent did you make which type of Jew, and why?

Goodman: Both parents are secular and Jewish, by which I mean they define themselves as cultural Jews. It’s less about the religion, more about the intellectualism, shared sense of history and, of course, food. To what extent this is still “real” Judaism is an open question in the play.

JV: Given the sensitive nature

of the play, what type of Jew do you consider yourself, and do you have any thoughts on how American Jews can become even a bit more united in these turbulent times?

Goodman: I’m like the Jews in this play, secular and liberal.

I feel part of a great tradition of writers who’ve used theater and fiction to explore what it means to be a Jew in America.

JV: Will Jews ever be united on any issue? There are real ethical, political and religious differences between Jews on the subject of Israel. How we get beyond them depends a lot on what happens in the Middle East.

I think we’re all hoping for a breakthrough that will allow us to find common ground again.

JV: Israel will be marking the 70th anniversary of its modernday founding. Have you been to Israel, and what role, if any, did that upcoming milestone for Israel figure into your decision to write the play?

Goodman: This is a play about the relationship between American Jews and Israel – how much loyalty do we owe Israel?

How do we reconcile our political values with what’s happening in the Middle East? Can you still be Jewish if you oppose Israel? What role does self-hatred play in informing our views of Israel? The play doesn’t take a stance on who’s right: Israel or the Palestinians. All sides are presented.

(Goodman said he’s been to Israel twice: His Bar Mitzvah was at the Western Wall, and he returned two years later.)

Besides “Heresy,” the other plays in the 2018 Festival of New Works are by Brien Lang, Laura Neill and Phonenyx Williams. Lang’s play is “Ubu Roi,” adapted by him and Williams; it ran earlier in April. Neill’s play, “Skin and Bones,” directed by Logan Serabian, opened April 19 and will run through April 28. Tickets for all productions range from $10 to $20 and are available only at the theater’s box office at 40 Sonoma Court in Providence.

LARRY KESSLER is a freelance writer who can be reached at lkessler1@comcast.net.

‘Heresy’ at a glance What: “Heresy,” a play on the Middle East.

Who: Written by Lawrence Goodman, directed by Daniel Gidron.

Where: The Wilbury Theatre Group, 40 Sonoma Court, Providence.

When: 7:30 p.m. at these performances: Friday, April 20, Saturday, April 21 and Sunday, April 22. 3 p.m. on Sunday, April 29.

Tickets: Tickets, on a slid-

ing scale from $10 to $20, are available only at the box office.

Tie-in: The play is one of three being staged this month as part of the theater’s 2018 Festival of New Works.

Synopsis: The play highlights the Israeli-Palestinian conflict and how it’s tearing up an American family. It focuses on Hannah Liebowitz and what happens after she tells her parents that she’s dating a Palestinian.

About the writer and the director Writer Lawrence Goodman has lived in Rhode Island for 15 years, and now lives on Providence’s West Side. He graduated in 1992 from Harvard University with a bachelor’s degree in English and earned an MFA in creative writing in 2006 from Goddard College in Plainfield, Vermont.

He was a playwriting fellow at the Huntington Theater in Boston from 2011-13 and received the 2015 Rhode Island Fellowship Award in play/screenwriting. His plays include “The Zionist Conspiracy,” “The Disappearance of the Jews,” “Keep Your Distance,” “An Evening of Highly Self-Indulgent Semi-Autobiographical Comedy” and “Rain Later.” His work has been performed at The Brick Playhouse in Philadelphia, the HERE Arts Center in New York and the New York International Fringe Festival.

Director Daniel Gidron, a native of Israel, has lived in Providence for the last two years.

He earned Fulbright and Wien scholarships, and received an MFA from Brandeis University. He’s taught at Tel Aviv University, Hebrew University of Jerusalem and Brandeis and now teaches at the University of Massachusetts-Boston.

In Israel, he’s directed for the Habimah National Theatre, the Haifa Municipal Theatre,

the Al-Midan Arab Theatre, where he directed “Accidental Death of an Anarchist,” and the Beersheva Municipal Theatre, where he directed “Beauty Queen of Leenane.”

His directing credits in the United States include the Peterborough Players, the Lyric Stage Company of Boston, the Gloucester Stage, the Merrimack Repertory Theatre, Opera Boston, the New Repertory Theatre, Shakespeare and Company and the Nora Theatre Company of Cambridge, where he served as associate director for more than 20 years. His recent productions include the world premiere of “Golda’s Balcony,” “Full Gallop,” “Master Class,” “Sotto Voce” (Shakespeare and Company), “Groundswell,” “Or,” “The Chosen” (Lyric Stage), a double bill of “Zanetto” and “Il Segreto di Susanna” (Odyssey Opera), “Hysteria,” “Photograph 51,” “The How and the Why,” “Absurd Person Singular,” and “Insignificance” (Nora). His production of “Arabian Nights” (a co-production of the Nora Theatre Company and the Underground Railway Theater) won a 2012 Independent Reviewers of New England award for Best Direction.

He is a member of the Stage Directors and Choreographers Society (SDC).

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Cohen School students race to remember the Passover plagues

BY DORI ADLER EAST GREENWICH – Temple Torat Yisrael’s Cohen School students participated in a spirited Passover Plagues Relay Race on March 25 to help them remember the 10 Passover plagues.

The fun began with the first relay, which represented the plague of blood; the students had to race to transfer red water “blood” from one cup to another using a spoon.

They leap-frogged in teams for the plague of frogs and ran a wheelbarrow race to represent the cattle plague.

For the plague of hail, they balanced a pingpong ball on a spoon and tried to make it

across a room without dropping it.

They practiced teamwork during the darkness relay, which consisted of one blindfolded student holding a Velcro ball while their partner directed them towards a Velcro seder plate.

To remember the Angel of Death passing over the houses of the Israelites, students passed over and under a ball.

The program was a fun and educational holiday experience for the Cohen School’s students from kindergarten through seventh grade.

DORI ADLER is the education director at Torat Yisrael in East Greenwich.

Elizabeth Chernick wears a blindfold for the plague of darkness relay.

Harrison Gertsacov and Andrew Katz during the wheelbarrow race for cattle disease plague.

Students all worked together during the program.

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Jake Evans and Sarah Mayo race to get the “blood” into the other cup to win.

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Kindergarten and first grade students participate in the pingpong ball plague relay.

Teacher Shirah Cruz holds the Velcro seder plate for the plague of darkness challenge.

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Shopping, strolling and Holocaust education

BY LEV POPLOW WARWICK – It was a Sunday like any other Sunday at the Warwick Mall. Except that it wasn’t. The usual assortment of shoppers and mall walkers were there, but there was also something happening that seemed incongruous at first, but upon further inspection was in the right place at the right time.

What made April 8 different was the Holocaust and Genocide Educational Resource Expo sponsored by the Rhode Island Holocaust-Genocide Education Committee. It was the right time because April is Holocaust and Genocide Awareness Month and it was the right place because throngs of parents, students and teachers pass through the mall on a typical Sunday afternoon.

In September of 2016 Governor Raimondo signed the Holocaust-Genocide Education Bill and the committee came together to develop curriculum materials. Starting this school year, all Rhode Island public middle and high schools are required to educate students about the Holocaust and Genocide. It is expected that students will learn the root causes and how to discuss the ramifications of these atrocities in hopes of preventing them from ever happening again.

Organizers of the expo hoped to provide information to the general public, and curriculum resources to enhance teacher instruction on the subject matter. According to committee member and educator Barbara Wahlberg, “Today’s expo is the place to come to connect teachers with educational organizations and to pick up ideas and resource materials.”

Pauline Getzoyan, co-chair of the Rhode Island branch of the Genocide Education Project added, “The goal of this event is to introduce ourselves, sort of like a coming out party for our committee, so people and teachers know more about this legislation, what it requires and ultimately to encourage

teachers to include this subject matter in their curriculum and help create a renewed sense of civic and global responsibility within our students.”

Getzoyan noted, “That’s why we have exhibitors here with educational resources and ideas, including teachers who are successfully teaching this in their schools and classrooms so that teachers can see how it can be included without a great deal of extra effort.”

Steve Flynn, from Tollman High School, and Claudia Traub, of Sophia Academy, attended along with some of their students, to discuss their lessons and experiences teaching about the Holocaust and Genocides.

Expo exhibitors included The Genocide Education Project, the Sandra Bornstein Holocaust Education Center, Echoes and Reflection, The Choices Program at Brown University, and the Center for Southeast Asians (CSEA).

Solight Sou, program manager at CSEA, said “I represent a community that has been in Rhode Island for going on 40 years but still faces socio-cultural challenges and we hope to spread awareness for all communities that have been affected by genocide.”

Summing up the day Getzoyan said, “We want to teach students the importance of learning from the past so that we can prevent these atrocities from happening in the future. We’re trying to reach the younger generation so that “Never Again” truly becomes true.

The Rhode Island HolocaustGenocide Education Committee works with the Rhode Island Department of Education (RIDE), and other educational institutions in the state, to develop curriculum materials to assist educators in teaching about the Holocaust and Genocide in their classrooms. The committee has provided RIDE with curricular ideas and materials that are currently available on the RIDE website. The committee encourages educa-

Steve Flynn and students from Tolman High School

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tors to utilize the information on the website.

For more information about the work of the HolocaustGenocide Education Committee, contact Barbara Wahlberg at bwahlberg2@gmail.com, or Pauline Getzoyan at getzop@ gmail.com.

LEV POPLOW is a communications consultant writing on behalf of the Sandra Bornstein Holocaust education Center. He can be reached at levpoplow@ gmail.com.

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Sunday films at Temple Habonim from localized ingredients with a concentration on lemon, olive oil, vegetables, lamb and fish.

The film is a portrait of Israeli people through food.

This event is part of Rhode Island’s Israel at 70 Celebration sponsored by the Jewish Alliance of Great Rhode Island and is generously funded by the Dr. James Yashar & Judge Marjorie Yashar Fund at the Jewish Federation Foundation.

Septembers of Shiraz – Sunday, May 6 at 3:30 p.m.

Based on true events, this film follows a prosperous Jewish family whose lives are turned upside down in the wake of the 1979 Iranian Revolution.

When Isaac (Adrian Brody) is suddenly arrested and taken to a secret prison, his wife (Salma Hayek) is left to make sense of what has happened and must somehow secure Isaac’s release and her family’s safety.

The film, directed by Wayne Blair (The Sapphires), is based on the New York Times bestseller by Dalia Sofer and was adapted for the screen by Hanna Weg. It was launched at the Berlin Film EFM in February 2016.

Somewhere Over The Rainbow - Sunday, June 3 at 3:30 p.m.

This is the life story of the prolific famed songwriter, ar-

ranger and pianist, Harold Arlen.

Such noted performers as Barbra Streisand, Frank Sinatra, Tony Bennett, Mel Torme, Lena Horne, Cab Calloway, Johnny Mercer, Bing Crosby and Judy Garland are featured performing Arlen’s simple melodies. The power of his genius songwriting ability is demonstrated in memorable songs

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Temple Habonim’s Sunday afternoon film series kicks off this year on April 29 with “In Search of Israeli Cuisine,” part of Rhode Island’s Israel At 70 celebration, and continues with two films in May. All films are shown at 3:30 and include popcorn.

In Search of Israeli Cuisine Sunday, April 29 at 3:30 p.m.

Writer-director Roger Sherman’s documentary explores the seemingly contradictory question: Is there such a thing as Israeli food? What we learn, as award-winning Israeli-American chef and restaurateur Michael Solomonov tours Israel, meeting a diverse array of chefs, journalists, food purveyors, farmers and home cooks, is that the country may be too relatively nascent to claim its own official “cuisine.” Instead, what more accurately exists is so-called new Israeli cuisine, which utilizes and blends the land’s many cultural and traditional influences – North African, Middle Eastern, French, Italian, Eastern European – to create an eclectic fusion of signature dishes. Sherman and Solomonov buoyantly capture the art and joy of preparing and savoring Israel’s raft of gastronomic choices, largely drawn

such as “Stormy Weather” and the Academy Award-winning “Over The Rainbow.”

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Tazria-Metzora: The mystery of a baby girl Four years ago, during a winter that was colder and longer than the one we are now ending, my younger daughter and I decided to go for a walk. At the time, she was only 9 years old, as thin as a twig, and with pigtails in pink ribbons.

We spent an hour walking on a paved path around a pond in the woods.

RABBI That memory JEFFREY is resonating GOLDWASSER with me this week as I think about Tazria-Metzora, this week’s very challenging Torah portion. The portion deals with the ritual impurity of women who have given birth and with the strange laws regarding a skin disease called tzara’at in the Hebrew (and often mistranslated as “leprosy”). As Torah portions go, there are few that are more deeply moored in the essential facts of life – childbirth, disease and the specter of death.

One of the most mystifying aspects of this Torah portion is the declaration that the ritual impurity of giving birth to a male child lasts 33 days, but the impurity following the birth of a female child lasts twice as long, 66 days. The text itself offers no explanation for the discrepancy. It is left as a mystery.

I have often heard congregants wonder why a contemporary Jew would even bother to find meaning in a passage from the Torah that seems so blatantly misogynistic, so obviously disrespectful to women.

I have been asked, “At what point does looking for spiritual meaning turn into justification for something that simply is wrong?”

It is a good question, one that I take seriously. There are things in the Torah – slavery, killing, racism and sexism – that cannot just be interpreted away. I believe that we do need to confront those texts and be willing to say that those ancient writings do not always represent the values we cherish and by which we wish to live.

However, I also will say that Torah’s gifts do not always lie upon the easy surface. Even

the texts that are most difficult for us can pry our eyes open to moments of wonder. I had one of those on that day four years ago walking around a New England pond with my daughter.

The path around the pond was not really made for winter hikers. The ground was covered with ice and my daughter and I had to struggle just to keep on our feet. We went through long stretches of slow careful slipping and sliding along the ice, but my little girl is more hardy and persistent than she looks. She did marvelously.

At one point, I asked her to take the lead, so I could keep an eye on her and to encourage her to keep up a good pace. She surprised me with her determination to be a good leader.

When I tried to pass her, she shouted, “You told me to take the lead!” I had to defer to her and let her lead on.

I only have girls. I often have wondered what it would be like to have a son – a child who, like me as a child, would be more excited by sports than by dolls, more motivated by competition than by relationship-building.

My girls sometimes seem like a mystery to me, but they also surprise me in moments like this when – in their own decidedly female way – they can be every bit as tough and determined as any boy.

I will not say that the Torah is not patriarchal and that it does not have passages that are misogynistic. But, I will say that the Torah speaks a truth when it notices that boys and girls are not the same. The Torah teaches something of value in reminding us that there is a mystery beyond our ken in the way that gender forms us. A little girl can be such a surprising and awe-inspiring creature, even to a man who has known her since the moment she was miraculously born.

It is a secret held in the woods and in the essential facts of birth, life and death. It was a moment when I felt that the world had something to teach me.

RABBI JEFFREY GOLDWASSER is the spiritual leader of Temple Sinai in Cranston. He is the author of the blog “Reb Jeff,” from which this d’var Torah is adapted.

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D’VAR TORAH | ISRAEL

ISRAEL AT 70

War I and 25 bullets. Others got “whatever they could find,” Schachter recalled.

“Everybody had a different type [of weapon] at that time.

They had very little ammunition,” he told JTA recently at his home in this northern New Jersey township about 11 miles from Manhattan.

Schachter remembers the exuberance felt in Israel a few weeks later, on May 14, 1948, when the country declared its independence.

“Everybody was dancing in the streets celebrating,” he said.

The next day, a coalition of neighboring Arab states – Egypt, Syria, Jordan, Lebanon and Iraq – invaded the new country. Israel’s War of Independence would end the following year with an Israeli victory. Seventy years later, as Israel prepares to mark the milestone anniversary, Schachter spoke to a reporter about his role in Jewish, and world, history.

Schachter was assigned to be a mortar commander, which meant he did not have to be in the first line of fire. However, he had to deal with incoming mortars fired at him from the enemy side.

“We were in a couple of cases in very dangerous situations, but you don’t think about it because you are too young to realize how dangerous it is,” he said.

Schachter fought alongside native Israelis, immigrants

from Romania, Poland, Hungary, Iran and Yemen, as well as volunteer fighters from the United States, Canada, Australia and New Zealand.

“It wasn’t easy for a commander to give orders,” he said. “Sometimes he had to give orders and somebody else had to translate the orders.”

One of his units had a large contingent of Yemeni Jews, so Schachter quickly learned how to communicate in Hebrew.

“We got very friendly because we fought together, so you’re like brothers,” he said.

When the war ended the following year (Egypt, Lebanon, Jordan and Syria each signed armistice agreements with Israel in 1949 between February and July, while Iraq did not sign an agreement), Schachter stayed in the army. Over 6,300 soldiers were killed as part of fighting during the war and several months preceding it, a number representing nearly 1 percent of Jewish settlers in Israel at the time. The Israeli army had over 100,000 Israeli soldiers by the end of the war, including 12 brigades.

After serving in the army for two years, Schachter took a job at a yeast production factory in Tel Aviv. He later studied television and radio repair at a school in Milan set up by World ORT, a Jewish organization providing education and training around the world.

After four years in Italy, he returned to Israel, finding a job at a chemistry lab in Haifa and

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later a government computer center in Jerusalem.

Jerusalem is also where he met Fanny, the woman who would become his wife. At a party, the pair discovered that they both came from the same town in Romania, Botosani, in the northern part of the country.

Three months later, at Passover, Schachter went to visit his family, who by then had moved to America. They had survived World War II because Russia occupied Botosani right before its Jewish residents were set to be deported to concentration camps and were now living in the Bronx.

A month after Schachter arrived in the United States, his father died, so he decided to stay in New York and found a job working for a computer servicing company. He kept in touch with Fanny for a year via letters before returning to marry her in Israel and bring her with him to the U.S. The couple would have two children and two grandchildren, relocating to Teaneck and joining Congregation Beth Sholom, a Conservative synagogue. Schachter, who still works part time for the same computer servicing company, says that although he does not consider himself “a hero,” he looks back at his time fighting in Israel with pride.

“You are proud of it,” he said.

“You think you were there when this came up, and [that’s] something that doesn’t happen to every generation. Being there as a soldier, you feel happy, you feel good about it.”

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The boycott crowd I am not, nor have I ever been, a supporter of the BDS movement, which aims to protest Israel’s settlement policies through Boycott, Divestment and Sanctions directed against the state of Israel as a whole or, at very least, IT SEEMS against the Jewish settleTO ME ments in the West Bank.

RABBI JIM Depending ROSENBERG upon one’s political perspective the West Bank is also called Judea and Samaria or the Occupied Territories. To set the record straight, J Street – the proIsrael, pro-peace national Jewish organization to which I have belonged since its inception in November 2007 – does not currently support BDS, nor has it ever supported the BDS movement.

Despite my antipathy to the BDS movement, which sees only the negative and none of the many positive attributes of Israel, I am disturbed by a 2016 anti-BDS cartoon by the American political cartoonist Yaakov Kirschen that appeared recently in my inbox.

Kirschen (b. 1938), who has been living in Israel since 1971, has been contributing “Dry Bones” to The Jerusalem Post since 1973. This particular cartoon is titled “THE BOYCOTT CROWD.” At the top of the single panel, set against a yellow background, are the words, “THOSE WHO CONTROL THE PRESENT CONTROL THE PAST, AND THOSE WHO CONTROL THE PAST CONTROL THE FUTURE.” The bulk of the cartoon is filled with anti-Israel placards, presumably representing the views of the boycott crowd, the BDS supporters: “Israel is an Apartheid State.” “There never was a Jewish Temple.”

“Israelis are Nazis.” “Jesus was a Palestinian.” “Israel occupies Palestinian land.” In addition, there is a wordless placard proclaiming a six-pointed star=a swastika. Three of the six signs are held by bug-eyed men, who have the appearance of idiots. At the cartoon’s very bottom, also set against a yellow background, are words of warning: DON’T LET THEM

(that is, the BDS crowd) CONTROL THE PRESENT. What disturbs me about the text of this particular Dry Bones is that all of the statements on the placards are deemed to be equally untrue.

Almost all fair-minded individuals would condemn equating Israelis with Nazis and the Magen David, the Jewish Star, with the swastika as not only anti-Israel but also antiSemitic. Moreover, only the historically oblivious would hold that there never was a Jewish temple; as a matter of provable historical fact, there were actually not one but two temples in Jerusalem during Biblical times.

But the other statements lead to possible conclusions that are a bit murkier. While I object to defining Israel as an apartheid state, I do fear that it could become an apartheid state if the Netanyahu government continues to pursue what amounts to a one-state solution, where separate laws would of necessity govern Jewish and Palestinian citizens in order for Israel to preserve its Jewish identity.

As for the statement that Jesus was a Palestinian, I have no idea what this assertion, ripped out of historical context, is supposed to mean. When Jesus was alive, he lived and taught as a Jew in what is today both the state of Israel and the West Bank. Such an observation casts a negative light on neither Israel nor its critics among the boycott crowd.

Finally, it seems to me that the words, “Israel occupies Palestinian land,” are objectively true. While I happen to feel that this continuing occupation is not in Israel’s long-term interest, I do realize that many, if not most, Israelis argue that the occupation, however unfortunate, is necessary for security purposes. On the other hand, many of Israel’s top military and security personnel, in marked contrast to the Netanyahu administration, view the settlements as a major, if not the major, obstacle to peace.

My problem, then, with Kirschen’s cartoon is not that he expresses anti-BDS sentiments but rather that he has been so slipshod with his text. Calling Israelis Nazis is morally indefensible; stating that the Israelis are occupying Palestinian land falls into an

entirely different category of discourse. Some BDS supporters are both anti-Israel and anti-Semitic and are therefore unwilling and incapable of engaging in dialogue with proIsrael individuals. Nevertheless, many in the boycott crowd hold more nuanced positions to which we supporters of Israel should be prepared to respond in a thoughtful manner. As has been frequently stated, we do not need to make peace with our friends; we need to make peace with our enemies.

On Friday, April 20 – 5 Iyar on our Hebrew calendar – the state of Israel celebrated its 70th birthday, Yom ha-Atzmaut, Israel Independence Day. I was almost 4 when Israel was born on May 14, 1948. During my lifetime, I have had the privilege of witnessing the birth of a nation against all odds – not an ideal nation that could exist only in Y’mot Ha-mashiach, in Messianic days, but a real nation, warts and all. For 70 years, Israel has struggled, however imperfectly, to live up to the civic virtues proclaimed in its Declaration of Independence, which echo the moral values expressed by our Biblical prophets: “THE STATE OF ISRAEL… will ensure complete equality of social and political rights to all its inhabitants irrespective of religion, race or sex; it will guarantee freedom of religion, conscience, language, education, and culture…”

The state of Israel’s future success is dependent upon its ability to live up to the ideals of its founding document.

JAMES B. ROSENBERG is rabbi emeritus at Temple Habonim in Barrington. Contact him at rabbiemeritus@templehabonim.org.

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LETTERS Jewish Seniors Agency receives prestigious AJAS award

In February 2018, I attended the national annual conference of the Association of Jewish Aging Services (AJAS). AJAS, founded in 1960 and headquartered in Washington, D.C., is an association of not-for-profit community-based organizations, rooted in Jewish values, which promotes and supports the delivery of services to an aging population. JSA is a longstanding member.

In the fall of 2017, JSA applied for a prestigious AJAS Jewish Programming Award on behalf of our Louis and Goldie Chester Full Plate Kosher Food Pantry.

“This award recognizes Jewish programs developed and implemented by AJAS organizations that are innovative, creative and specifically designed to enhance the spiritual well-being of the older adults they serve.”

When AJAS announced that

the food pantry won this award, it was clear we would accept in person. On behalf of dedicated staff, volunteers and a generous donor community, I humbly accepted in Palm Beach Gardens, Florida.

Through their combined efforts, and through deliveries and pantry visits, the Full Plate feeds over 100 families monthly.

Since 2009, it has been recognized as a well-conceived and executed program, providing sustenance to those requiring Kosher food who are food-insecure.

Receiving program recognition is a superlative tribute to JSA and the community-atlarge, including the Jewish Alliance of Greater RI that partially subsidizes the program.

Susan Bazar Executive Director, JSA Providence, RI

Palestinian protesters

In the past two weeks, tens of thousands of Palestinian “protesters,” organized by Hamas, encroached on the Israeli/Gaza border. In their attempts to infiltrate Israel, they burned tires which caused smoke screens and polluted the atmosphere. Molotov cocktails, explosive devices and fire bombs were hurled at the IDF soldiers and innocent Israelis. So-called protesters were armed with knives, guns and axes. A human shield of men, women and children was formed in hopes that their injury or demise would spell a public relations victory for Hamas.

Hamas is a dictatorial terrorist organization that threatens the genocide of all Israelis. It is a cruel and brutal faction, and it rewards its people who slay Israelis. The Palestinian Authority’s Pay to Slay policy financially rewards terrorists who injure or murder a Jew.

They and/or their families get paid handsomely for life.

In these recent violent demonstrations, Israel defended its people, and prevented terrorists, who flew the Palestinian flags together with a swastika, from infiltrating its border.

Unfortunately, numerous reports in the mainstream media are creating the impression of peaceful civilian protest. This is far from reality.

Hamas is calling for a series of [border] protests until May 15, which is the 70th anniversary of the state of Israel. As a lifelong Catholic, I feel that we should understand and support Israel’s need to defend itself, as a way of protecting our own JudeoChristian heritage.

Beverly Brozinski Board Member, RI Coalition for Israel Wakefield, RI

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Experience a mission; change your life

BY ADAM GREENMAN In September 2015, I was offered the opportunity of a lifetime that turned into a life-changing experience.

The Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island organized a community leaders mission to Israel, and I was invited to join. My boss at the time, Tony Maione, had been on a similar trip 10 years earlier, and insisted that I go. This wasn’t a typical tourist trip. I would get to see Israel with a group of Rhode Island leaders while learning about Israel’s culture and people.

The trip in November 2015 was my first to Israel. Despite growing up in a traditional Jewish household, travel to Israel was never something that was emphasized. As I have shared in this newspaper before, while I always identified strongly as Jewish, my connection to the culture and religion had waned in my 20s. It only took one-week in Israel to forever strengthen that connection.

The mission trip was a whirlwind, mostly because we tried to complete 10 days of activities in six days. But there are images that stand out and memories that are forever fused in my brain. I remember seeing Israeli flags flying on top of buildings as we entered Tel Aviv and thinking that patriotism is not something that is uniquely American. I remember traveling in the north and visiting

all of the historic churches, a reminder that this land has significance for three of the world’s major religions.

I remember looking out over the Golan Heights at the tanks abandoned during the Yom Kippur War, and I remember walking through the Old City in Jerusalem and saying a silent prayer at the Kotel. All of these sights and stops were special, but what made the mission even more meaningful was sharing it with people who became fast friends. We had the chance to learn together from a member of the Knesset, from the editor of a major newspaper, from retired military officials and from many others. We had the opportunity to reflect together on what we had experienced. Most importantly, we created shared memories that we will all carry with us for a lifetime.

That mission was lifechanging for me. I would not be in my role at the Alliance today if I had not gone on the trip. It strengthened my Jewish identity, bolstered my connection to Judaism, and deepened my understanding of Israel. More importantly, it created lifelong relationships.

Now, every time I see Mayor James Diossa of Central Falls, we talk about when we will go back together. I keep a copy of the photo album that Judge Richard Licht created for all of us on the trip in my office, occasionally flipping through

it to remind me of how I got here.

A mission is a truly unique experience. It is about more than tourism and travel, and it is more than your typical trip. Israel’s 70th anniversary provides our community with the perfect reason to travel together: to learn and to celebrate the culture, the heritage, and the history of Israel with others who will quickly become friends.

There are several trips to Israel from our community planned for the coming year, all catering to slightly different audiences. The Alliance has organized a trip from Oct. 15-23. I would be honored to have you join me. For more information, visit jewishallianceri.org/mission.

Having experienced Israel before, my biggest excitement in returning is to share it with others. If this is your first time or your 10th, I hope that you will consider joining our trip or one of the other trips our community is running if those better suit your needs. I know it will be worth it!

ADAM GREENMAN is President and CEO of the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island.

EDITOR’S NOTE: For more on the Alliance trip to Israel, see page 2. For more on other trips to Israel, go to jvhri.org/ stories/israel-trips,8387.

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What it means to me to be a Jew In the eight years since I last wrote a column for the Jewish Voice on my thoughts about being Jewish, my faith has grown everstronger.

In 2008, I moved to Rhode Island, PATRICIA returning to New England RASKIN after living on the eastern coast of North Carolina for 15 years, where there were few Jews and even fewer practicing Jews. During that time, I stayed connected to Judaism through services at a historic synagogue 30 miles away, and also through my parents, who had retired to Florida from Connecticut.

My father served as the lay leader of the Marco Island Jewish Center for 13 years, and my parents would drive to North Carolina to lead the seders I had planned in my town.

The chef at one of our local restaurants took the Passover recipes I gave him and made everything for our seder from scratch, including the gefilte fish.

I remember when I was given the rest of the homemade gefilte fish to take home after one seder, my father said to me, “That’s your reward!” He was right.

Through it all, I maintained a strong Jewish identity, and yearned for my Jewish roots and to be among my people.

In 2007, I had an opportunity to return to New England, spe-

cifically Rhode Island, where my parents had moved after living in Florida for 25 years.

Since my return, I have deepened my Judaism with great interest, enthusiasm and pride.

Although I was raised in a Reform synagogue, I have been actively involved in my Conservative synagogue in Providence, and have learned about Orthodox Judaism through my brother and his family.

Here’s some of what I’ve learned, and incorporated into my life: • Refraining from lashon hara (“evil tongue”), the term for gossip.

• Understanding mitzvot and that they include kind words and deeds, or even just a smile or phone call.

• The importance of paying attention to all of God’s graces and gifts, even when seemingly small. I now have a greater belief in miracles, too.

• A deeper appreciation of the strength of the Jewish people. Interviewing Holocaust survivor authors and being on the Yom ha-Shoah Commemoration committee at my synagogue has strengthened this appreciation.

• Embracing kindness, goodness, integrity, wisdom and knowledge are embedded in Judaism and its teachings.

Judaism isn’t just about ritual, rules, customs and rites of passage — we are a people of great resilience, education, tenacity, diligence, vibrancy, consciousness and hope. When God handed the

Ten Commandments to Moses, it was for all Jews. Orthodox, Conservative, Reform and other movements came much later.

I feel fortunate and proud to be born and raised a Jew and I am most proud of my religion and heritage today. Our people have survived so much, and through it all, we have used our resilience to thrive.

PATRICIA RASKIN, president of Raskin Resources Productions Inc., is an awardwinning radio producer and Rhode Island business owner.

She is the host of “The Patricia Raskin” show, a radio and podcast coach, and a board member of Temple Emanu-El, in Providence.

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CALENDAR

Ongoing

Saturday | April 21

Alliance Kosher Senior Café. Kosher lunch and program every weekday.

Dwares JCC, 401 Elmgrove Ave., Providence. Noon lunch; 1 p.m. program. $3 lunch donation from individuals 60+ or under 60 with disabilities. Neal or Elaine, 401-421-4111, ext. 107.

Classic Shabbat Service. 9 a.m.-noon.

Temple Torat Yisrael, 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich. Service followed by Kiddush luncheon. Information, stephanie@toratyisrael.org or 401-885-6600.

West Bay Kosher Senior Café. Kosher lunch and program every weekday.

Temple Sinai, 30 Hagen Ave., Cranston.

11:15 a.m. program; noon lunch. $3 lunch donation from individuals 60+ or under 60 with disabilities. Steve, 401743-0009.

Duplicate Bridge. Dwares JCC, 401 Elmgrove Ave., Providence. Mondays noon-2 p.m.: 0-20 masterpoint game.

For less-experienced players. $5 per day. Mondays and Wednesdays noon-3 p.m.: Open stratified game for experienced players at all levels. $7 per day.

Tuesdays and Fridays 11 a.m.-2 p.m: Open stratified game for players at all levels. $7 per day. Thursdays 1:30-3:30 p.m.: Guided play. Beginners and those seeking to hone skills play under the guidance of nationally known instructor Bart Buffington. $6 per day. Information, Bart Buffington at abarton295@ aol.com or 401-390-9244.

Through May 3 Three Creative Approaches. Bunny Fain Gallery at Temple Habonim, 165 New Meadow Road, Barrington. Wednesday and Thursday, 9 a.m.-4 p.m., Friday, 9 a.m.-1 p.m. and by appointment.

Bob Kemp, Abba Cudney and Mural 5778 by the religious school students.

Information, 401-245-6536 or gallery@ templehabonim.org.

Friday | April 20 Shababa Friday/PJ Library Story Time.

10-11 a.m. Dwares JCC, 401 Elmgrove Ave., Providence. Welcome Shabbat with singing, dancing, jumping and celebrating as a community. Children ages 5 and under and their caregivers listen to music, gather for stories, play games, create a craft, eat a snack and make new friends. All are welcome.

Free. Information or to RSVP, Dayna Bailen at dbailen@jewishallianceri.org or 401-421-4111, ext. 108.

T.G.I.F. Thank G-D It’s Friday. 5:45-7 p.m. Temple Torat Yisrael, 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich. Shabbat songs and story with Rabbi Aaron Philmus followed by a free kid-friendly Shabbat dinner. Donations welcome. Information or to RSVP, 401-885-6600.

Shabbat Hallelu. 6:30 p.m. Temple Beth-El, 70 Orchard Ave., Providence.

Light refreshments and sangria at 6:30 p.m., services at 7 p.m. Information, 401-331-6070.

Community Friday Night Dinner. 7 p.m.

Kollel Center for Jewish Studies, 450 Elmgrove Ave., Providence. Rabbi Ahron Hoch on Eight Steps to Greatness. Dinner: $18 | Children under 12 $12 | Family max. $75. Information, ProvidenceKollel@gmail.com.

Brotherhood Shabbat. 7:30 p.m. Temple Sinai, 30 Hagen Ave., Cranston. Temple Sinai Brotherhood leads services.

Information, dottie@templesinairi.org or 401-942-8350.

Kabbalat Shabbat Service. 7:30-9 p.m.

Temple Torat Yisrael, 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich. Service followed by Oneg. Information, stephanie@toratyisrael.org or 401-885-6600.

Children’s Shabbat Program and Jr. Kiddush Club. 9:30-11:15 a.m.

Congregation Beth Sholom, 275 Camp St., Providence. Weekly program for children. Activities include prayer, parashah, play time and a special Kiddush.

Three age groups: Tots, Pre-K thru 1st grade and 2nd grade and up. Located in Kids Room, Social Hall and Chapel on the lower level. Information, office@ bethsholom-ri.org.

The Miriam Hospital Gala & Auction – Experience the Northern Lights.

5:30-11:30 p.m. WaterFire Arts Center, 475 Valley St., Providence. Benefits The Miriam Fund for a New Generation and advances the palliative care program, part of The Miriam’s oncology services. Mouthwatering delicacies, an array of auction treasures presented by professional auctioneer Paul Zekos and dancing to the sounds of Sweetbeats.

Cost: $250 per person. Information, 401-793-2062 or visit giving.lifespan. org/TMH-Gala.

Saturday Night at the Movies with Rabbi Howard: “Good Night, and Good Luck.”

7 p.m. Temple Beth-El, 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. Havdalah, movie (rated PG) and discussion. Information, 401-3316070.

Sunday | April 22 Brotherhood Breakfast Featuring Maten Zamir, Israel’s Deputy Consul General to New England. 8:30 a.m.

Temple Beth-El, 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. Bagels, lox, cream cheese, scrambled eggs, hash browns and all the fixings, followed by speaker at 9 a.m. $5 refundable deposit per person required. Seating space limited. Information and deposit, 401-331-6070.

Car Wash and Bake Sale. 8:45 a.m.

Temple Torat Yisrael, 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich. Supports Cohen School students. Car wash: $10. Information, stephanie@toratyisrael.org or 401-885-6600.

Adult Education: Israeli Life. 9:15-10:30 a.m. Temple Torat Yisrael, 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich. Rabbi Aaron Philmus and Dr. Ohad Kott lead discussion on current events and examples of Israelis and Palestinians working together. April topic: “The Situation.”

Information or to register, stephanie@ toratyisrael.org or 401-885-6600.

Open House. 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Tamarisk Assisted Living Residence, 3 Shalom Drive, Warwick. Celebrate Earth Day at Tamarisk. Take a tour, and stroll through the courtyard gardens.

Information, Susan Adler at susana@ tamariskri.org or 401-732-0037, ext.

104.

“When Basketball was Jewish.” 4-5:30 p.m. Temple Emanu-El, Bohnen Vestry, 99 Taft Ave., Providence. Douglas Stark, museum director at the International Tennis Hall of Fame, speaks about his book, “When Basketball was Jewish.”

Stark chronicles Jewish basketball throughout the 20th century in the words of those who played it. Free. $5 donation welcome. RSVP at www. teprov.org/form/StarkLecture. Information, 401-331-1617.

The Jewish Voice 2018 AIPAC New England Leadership Dinner. 5:30 p.m. Boston Convention and Exhibition Center, 415 Summer St., Boston. AIPAC’S largest gathering of pro-Israel activists in New England.

Reception followed by 7 p.m. program. Cost: $300 per person. AIPAC Washington Club ($1,800) and Capitol Club ($3,600) members receive a discounted price of $200. AIPAC Senate Club ($10,000) members and above receive complimentary seats. Advance registration required. On-site registration unavailable. Photo ID required at check-in. Information, 617-399-2562.

Monday | April 23 Monday Night Meditation. 7:45-8:30 p.m.

Congregation Beth Sholom, 275 Camp St., Providence. Classic and modern Jewish meditation techniques for all levels. Future dates: 4/30, 5/7, 5/14.

Free. Advance registration required.

Information, rabbi@bethsholom-ri.org.

Tuesday | April 24 Inclusiveness as a Religious Value.

5:30-7 p.m. Brown RISD Hillel, 80 Brown St., Providence. Dr. Zvi Zohar talks about inclusiveness in Jewish communities in the modern Middle East.

Co-sponsored by Brown University Department of Middle East Studies, Department of Religious Studies and Department of Judaic Studies. Information, 401-863-2805.

Yoga. 6-7 p.m. Temple Torat Yisrael, 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich. Cost: $30 for 3 sessions paid in advance; $12 per session at the door. Bring a mat.

Information, stephanie@toratyisrael.org or 401-885-6600.

Tuesday Night Talmud. 7:45-8:30 p.m.

Congregation Beth Sholom, 275 Camp St., Providence. Study the 4th Chapter of Berachot, “The Timing of Prayer,” with Rabbi Barry Dolinger. Free. Future dates: 5/1, 5/8, 5/15. Information, office@bethsholom-ri.org.

Wednesday | April 25 Open House. 6:30-9 p.m. Touro Fraternal Association, 45 Rolfe Square, Cranston.

For Jewish men from 18 to 118. Learn about the social events, friendships and community service offered by this 100-year-old association. Kosher baked chicken dinner and talk by Alan Rosenberg, editor of the Providence Journal.

Information or to RSVP, 401-785-0066 (leave name and contact information) or info@tourofraternal.org.

Game Night: Mah Jongg, Canasta and Table Tennis. 7-9 p.m. Temple Torat Yisrael, 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich.

Free. Information, stephanie@toratyisrael.org or 401-885-6600.

“Bridging the Gap” with Rabbi Raphie.

8-8:45 p.m. Kollel Center for Jewish Studies, 450 Elmgrove Ave., Providence. Explore the development and refinement of our personalities through the eyes of the Mussar movement.

Text is “Bridging the Gap.” Free. Thru 1/30/19. Information, rabbiraphie@ gmail.com or 401-383-2786.

Thursday | April 26 Beth Elders’ Trip to Yiddish Book Center in Amherst, Mass. 10 a.m. Bus departs from Temple Beth-El, 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. Catered lunch followed by 90-minute guided tour of the Center’s exhibits and an hour of free time before 3:30 p.m. return bus. Cost: $50 per person. Information (including how to

RSVP), 401-331-6070.

Delve Deeper: A Program of Intensive Jewish Study. 7-9 p.m. Temple Emanu-El, Bohnen Vestry, 99 Taft Ave., Providence. Thursdays thru 5/10.

Third semester: “The Rabbis and Their Legacy: An Introduction to Rabbinic Judaism” with Professor Michael Satlow. Registration required, limited space. $200 for the semester. Information, including a link to register, at teprov.org/institute/delvedeeper.

Friday | April 27 K’Tantan. 5:30 p.m. Temple Beth-El, 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. Celebrate Shabbat and holidays with children aged newborn to 5. Singing and community dinner. Funded by The Frances & David Friedman Family Fund. Information, 401-331-6070.

New Member Shabbat. 7:30-9:30 p.m.

Temple Sinai, 30 Hagen Ave., Cranston.

Cantors Jackie and Fredda Mendelson lead services, and Shireinu, the RI Community Chorus of Temple Sinai, participates. Information, dottie@templesinairi.org or 401-942-8350.

Kabbalat Shabbat Service. 7:30-9 p.m.

Temple Torat Yisrael, 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich. Service followed by Oneg. Information, Stephanie Reinsant at stephanie@toratyisrael.org or 401885-6600.

Saturday | April 28 Taste of Shabbat. 9-11 a.m. Temple Torat Yisrael, 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich. 9 a.m. Torah discussion and 9:45 a.m. Service followed by light Kiddush.

Information, stephanie@toratyisrael.org or 401-885-6600.

Children’s Shabbat Program and Jr. Kiddush Club. 9:30-11:15 a.m.

Congregation Beth Sholom, 275 Camp St., Providence. Weekly program for children. Activities include prayer, parashah, play time and a special Kiddush.

Three age groups: Tots, Pre-K thru 1st grade and 2nd grade and up. Located in Kids Room, Social Hall and Chapel on the lower level. Information, office@ bethsholom-ri.org.

“The Cantor’s Couch.” 7:30-9:30 p.m.

Temple Sinai, 30 Hagen Ave., Cranston.

“The Cantor’s Couch” is a comedic musical theater journey through Cantor Jack Mendelson’s life growing up in 1950s Borough Park, Brooklyn. A one-man show of original and traditional music. Information, dottie@ templesinairi.org or 401-942-8350.

Sunday | April 29

Adult Ed: Cooking with Val. 9:15-10:30 a.m. Temple Torat Yisrael, 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich. Learn how to make rugelach (sweet pastries). Cost: $5 members | $10 nonmembers. Information or to register, 401-885-6600.

End Hunger RI Food Packaging Event. 10 a.m.-1 p.m. Temple Beth-El, 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. Be a part of a unique food packaging assembly line. The individual packages are heat-sealed to ensure freshness. Meals are boxed to be distributed to local agencies and food pantries. Sponsored by Temple Beth-El and the Jewish Alliance of Greater RI. Information, 401-331-6070.

Adult Ed: The Joys and Oys of Parenting.

10:30-11:30 a.m. Temple Torat Yisrael, 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich.

Rabbi Aaron Philmus and Amy Small, Kesher Social Worker, guide parents on

how to keep peace in the home. Explore practices that encourage respectful communication, model self-regulation and self-care, and support limit setting and conflict resolution. Information, Stephanie Reinsant at stephanie@ toratyisrael.org or 401-885-6600.

“Cantors Sing Yiddish.” 1-4 p.m. Temple Sinai, 30 Hagen Ave., Cranston.

Featuring Cantors Jack and Fredda Mendelson, Cantor Deborah Johnson of Temple Sinai, Cantor Brian Mayer from Temple Emanu-El in Providence, Cantor Fred Scheff from Temple Shalom in Middletown and Shireinu, directed by Dr. Joel Gluck. Information, at dottie@ templesinairi.org or 401-942-8350.

“To Bigotry No Sanction: An American Jewish Cantata.” 3 p.m. Salve Regina University, Ochre Court, Newport.

Cantor Judy Seplowin, soloist. Cantor Jonathan Comisar’s 12-minute cantata, an expansive combination of Hebrew, hymn and colonial music based on Washington’s “Letter to the Hebrew Congregation of Newport, Rhode Island.” Commissioned last year by Keneseth Israel of Elkins Park, Pa. in celebration of their 170th year. Under the baton of Dr. Donald St. Jean, associate professor of Music at Salve Regina and long-time member of Temple BethEl’s professional quartet, Comisar’s composition is part of the university’s annual spring choral concert. Tickets: $8 | $5 students and seniors. This performance is made possible by The Dorothy and Jay Isenberg Fund. Information, 401-341-2295.

Israel at 70: Movie Night at Temple Habonim: “In Search of Israeli Cuisine.” 3-5 p.m. Temple Habonim, 165 New Meadow Road, Barrington. Part of the Temple Habonim Film Festival. See story, page 6. Information, 401-2456536.

Ezekiel’s Wheels Klezmer Band. 7-8 p.m. Tifereth Israel Congregation, 145 Brownell Ave, New Bedford, Mass.

Blending original works grounded in the klezmer tradition with modern interpretations of classic tunes. Cost: $10 adults | $5 children under 12 | $25 family max.

Information or reservations, 508-9973171 or office@tinewbedford.org.

“Politics and the Media in the Era of Donald Trump.” 7 p.m. Temple EmanuEl, 29 Dayton Road, Waterford, Conn.

With renowned journalist, political analyst and author Howard Fineman.

Presentation followed by Q-&-A. Cost: $18 | free for students with valid ID. Private reception and dinner (space limited) prior to Fineman’s appearance and speech for a donation of $180 per person. Information or RSVP, 860-4420418 or office@bethel-nl.org.

Monday | April 30 Monday Night Meditation. 7:45-8:30 p.m.

Congregation Beth Sholom, 275 Camp St., Providence. Focuses on classic and modern Jewish meditation techniques for all levels. Future dates: 5/7, 5/14.

Free. Advance registration required.

Information, rabbi@bethsholom-ri.org.

Tuesday | May 1 Lyme Disease Presentation. 6:30 p.m.

The Miriam Hospital, 164 Summit Ave., Providence. Pam Weintraub, author of “Cure Unknown: Inside the Lyme Epidemic,” speaks about her book, based on her family’s journey through diagnosis and treatment of Lyme disease.

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Updated arepas awaken childhood memories For serving: 1/2-1 cup store-bought hummus (or homemade hummus) 1/4 cup fresh mint leaves, chiffonade 1/2 cup tomato, diced 1/4 cup red bell pepper, diced (optional) 1/4 cup toasted pine nuts

BY SANDY LEIBOWITZ (The Nosher via JTA) – I must have been about 6 or 7 years old, and I remember being eye level to my grandmother’s stove. I saw these white, round things frying up in oil. What I vividly remember was the distinct hole on the edge of these round patties and wondering what they were.

Just then, I watched my grandmother take a fork and use the hole as an anchor to flip what I would later learn were her arepas (Colombian corn pancakes). The oil would make the dough puff up into a small balloon, and it was always such a treat to see, and of course taste.

I caught up with my grandmother recently, and she confirmed that this is the way they did it in Colombia when frying arepas, since the hole is needed to safely flip. (It wasn’t just her little trick.) Although these arepas were fried in oil, they had a light and airy quality to them and a sweetness that came through from the corn.

They were golden brown pillows of joy!

Arepas are essentially griddle cakes made from pre-cooked cornmeal. The beauty of this is that arepas can be prepared in a myriad of ways: grilled, fried or sauteed in oil. In addition they can be stuffed, topped with ingredients – or extra ingredients can even be mixed into the dough.

They can also be made on the

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sweet side (my grandmother would put a little sugar in the dough), but they are more commonly served as a savory dish.

Arepas are a popular staple in Colombian and Venezuelan cuisines. My Mami Lucy (she never liked being called grandmother because it made her sound old) was born in Colombia but told me that Venezuelans are known for making more elaborate arepas, and that Colombians keep them pretty simple.

These spiced lamb arepas with hummus are definitely not your traditional arepa, but the flavors work so well together with the mild corn flavor in the masa (dough). I sauteed them to achieve a char on the outside, which creates a delightful crunch that is met by the creaminess of the hummus.

Spiced ground lamb then coats your tongue, and the sweet tomatoes, mint and pine nuts just bring the whole thing together.

Spiced Lamb and Hummus Stuffed Arepas Ingredients For the homemade arepas (you can also use pre-packaged arepas): 2 cups masarepa (I used the Goya brand) 1 teaspoon salt 4 cups warm water Olive oil, for sautéing

Mix the masarepa, water and salt in a bowl until well combined. Let stand for a few minutes until the mixture sticks together.

Separately, in another bowl, season ground lamb with all the spices.

Heat olive oil in a saute pan over medium high heat. Cook lamb until fully browned.

Keep warm (covered) until ready to serve.

Form arepa patties about 3 to 4 inches across and 1/2 inch in thickness using hands.

Coat a saute pan with olive oil and cook arepas until brown (or charred, depending on preference) on both sides. Both sides should be crispy.

Allow to cool and then slice the arepa lengthwise without cutting all the way through.

Spread hummus on the top and bottom flap of the arepa.

Add the spiced lamb mixture and top with diced tomato, diced pepper (if using) pine nuts and mint. Serve immediately or room temperature. Serves 8 arepas (4 servings).

SANDY LEIBOWITZ is a trained chef, recipe developer and food blogger. Find more of her recipes at www.thekoshertomato.com and follow her on instagram @thekoshertomato.

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For the lamb: 1 1/2 pounds ground lamb 1 teaspoon Kosher salt 10 turns of freshly ground black pepper 1/2 teaspoon ground coriander 1/8 teaspoon cinnamon pinch of ground allspice 1/2 teaspoon onion powder 1/2 teaspoon garlic powder 1/2 teaspoon paprika 1 tablespoon olive oil

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Are you Ashkenazi? If you’re an American Jew, the answer is likely to be yes. The Ashkenazim trace their lineage to western Germany and northern France, where they developed into a unique community distinct in their appearance, behaviors and language (Yiddish) from other Jews. While this happened in the 11th century, for the next 200 years, Jews were moving in ever-greater numbers eastward. Places we now know as Poland, Lithuania, Belarus, Russia and the Ukraine became havens, if only temporarily, for Jews fleeing the pogroms of the Crusades (1095-1291).

Who were the “other” Jews” prior to this point? They were largely Sephardim, that is, Jews who remained in Israel and the greater Middle East, or who had settled on the Iberian peninsula (Portugal, Spain, and Southern France) and around the Mediterranean basin. They also had a distinct appearance, behavior, and language (Ladino). These populations were decimated with the decrees of the Inquisition in the 15th century, and especially, that of 1492. However, this process was less one of extermination (as it would be for Ashkenazim in the Holocaust), than it was of immigration and forced conversion.

By the late 18th century, many Ashkenazim returned to

Cantor Jackie Mendelson Germany and France and the promise of a freer, more integrated life. By the middle of the 19th century, many more immigrated to America, and following the Shoah, more still. While it was the Sephardim who were the first Jews to arrive in America (Touro synagogue), it was the Ashkenazim who truly established the American Jewish community. It is estimated that there are currently about 6 million Ashkenazi Jews in America, compared to 3 million in Israel, which remains dominated by Sephardim.

Temple Sinai in Cranston has been exploring “Jews Around the World.” Last year, the congregation devoted several weeks to learning about the Sephardim, enjoying Sephardi food, culture, and, especially, music. Now it’s the Ashkenazis’ turn.

From April 17-29, Temple Sinai will host several events called “The Ashkenazi Experience.” On April 17, the awardwinning film “A Cantor’s Tale,” starring world-renowned cantor, Jackie Mendelson, was screened.

Cantor Mendelson is a master of the spontaneous, heartwrenching, and quintessentially Ashkenazi singing called chazzanos that takes one small measure of music and turns it into a rollercoaster of vocal runs and jumps. A kind of Jewish gospel singing, it also is said to have inspired jazz singing and its derivative, scat.

Cantor Mendelson will join the Temple Sinai congregation April 27-29, beginning with Shabbat services lead by Jackie and his wife, Cantor Fredda Mendelson. On Saturday evening, April 28, Cantor Mendelson will present an original program of humor and song called “The Cantor’s Couch,” written by Jonathan Comisar.

And on Sunday, the 29th, the weekend will culminate with “Cantors Sing Yiddish,” a concert headlined by the Cantors Mendelson, joined by Cantors Fred Scheff, Brian Mayer and Deborah Johnson.

The programs are free and open to the public. Noshes are included.

DEBORAH JOHNSON is cantor at Temple Sinai in Cranston.

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About 60 people attended a ceremony for Yom ha-Zikaron April 17 at the Alliance’s Dwares Jewish Community Center in Providence.

The community gathering for Israel’s Memorial Day paid tribute to three soldiers as well as all the fallen soldiers and victims of terror. Tslil Reichman, c om mu n it y shlichah, spoke as did several Un iversity of Rhode Island students. Gershon Levine led Yizkor and Cantor Brian Mayer led the singing. Dayna Bailen sang the “Star Spangled Banner.” Those in attendance were invited to light memorial candles.

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A trip down memory lane to the beach

Is there a non-violent path for Israelis and Palestinians?

BY MAY-RONNY ZEIDMAN

Come hear for yourself Join the conversation with Combatants for Peace

Sunday, April 29,2018 at 4:00PM Jewish Community Center of Rhode Island 401 Elmgrove Avenue, Providence Combatants for Peace is an organization of former Israeli and Palestinian fighters who have laid down their weapons, choosing to work together for peace and justice.

Netta Hazan and Kholud Abu-Raeya, will share their personal stories of transformation from violence to nonviolence and their efforts to bring peace to their homelands.

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A couple of weeks ago, Howie and I were riding north on Route 2.

I turned to him and said, “Look at the traffic and businesses on this road. I can remember MAY-RONNY when this road ZEIDMAN was the end of the earth in Rhode Island.

This was the road we took to the beach.”

Here is what I remember about a drive to the beach. First, there was no Interstate 95. I remember my dad driving on the viaduct at Point and Eddy streets. I could see the Sunbeam baking company building as we reached the top of the viaduct.

The smell of fresh-baked bread was awesome.

From there, we traveled on either Allens Avenue or Eddy Street. There were lots of businesses and homes to look at and a ton of signs to read.

I was only 8 years old, or younger, so I do not remember the entire route. Somehow we were on Reservoir Avenue.

As we approached the Rhode Island Training School (often called “the bad boys’ school”), excitement mounted: We were getting closer to the beach.

From there on, there was not much to look at, just trees and a few businesses. For me, the next exciting thing to see were the two rotaries. Those rotaries told me we were getting really close to the water.

And then, all of a sudden, there it was – the ocean! It was so beautiful and the waves were just wonderful.

As we walked from the car to the beach, the heat from the sand came up through our shoes, but who cared – we were at the beach.

Who can forget getting a little sand in your sandwich? After lunch, we had to rest for an hour, so as not to get cramps and drown. As an adult, I realized that this was not true.

However, as a parent, I told my boys the same thing: after all, a mother needs a little time to enjoy the sights on the beach without watching the water to make sure her children are safe.

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Special night of music planned to mark Israel’s 70th anniversary

BY LEV POPLOW Pianist and composer Judith Lynn Stillman’s “Boldly Beethoven,” a multimedia play within a concert, premieres on April 29 at the Rhode Island Philharmonic’s Carter Center.

Stillman, a music professor and the artist-in-residence at Rhode Island College, teamed with Tony Estrella, the Sandra Feinstein-Gamm Theatre’s artistic director, and members of the Rhode Island Philharmonic for this innovative program.

Stillman’s script illuminates and contextualizes the music of Beethoven, Franz Liszt and Carl Czerny by twining together their letters, journals and reminiscences. Estrella portrays Beethoven and four of his contemporaries, bringing the composer’s words to life.

Some of Beethoven’s most monumental chamber music and piano works are part of the program. Stillman is joined in the performance by Philharmonic violinist Katherine Winterstein, cellist Steven

Cantor George Mordecai and synagogues in England, Paris, Israel and various cities around the United States.

Netsky is a multi-instrumentalist, composer and scholar who teaches improvisation and Jewish music. He is the founder of the Klezmer Conservatory Band, an internationally renowned Yiddish music ensemble. He has taught Jewish music at Hebrew College and Wesleyan University and has lectured throughout the United States, Canada and Europe on klezmer music.

Netsky was a consultant, arranger and a featured performer for the international broadcast of “To Life! America Celebrates Israel’s 50th.” His film scores include “Theodore Bikel: In the Shoes of Sholom Aleichem” (2014), among many others.

All are welcome at Temple Emanu-El, 99 Taft Ave., Providence, on Sunday, May 6, at 7 p.m., for this program.

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Stillman said she is “thrilled to be part of this unique collaboration with such extraordinary colleagues.”

Her hope, she said, “is that my script, and the melding and juxtaposition of Beethoven’s music and words, will provide glimpses into the composer’s world and underscore the inseparable nature of person and artist.”

Stillman’s previous works include “Phoenix from the Ashes,” for which she composed music set to poems from “Vedem: The Secret Magazine by the Boys of Terezín.” The work was the centerpiece of the Holocaust commemoration at the Czech Embassy in Washington, D.C., with Metropolitan Opera soprano Lori Phillips and Stillman performing, and was also featured at Rhode Island’s 2016 Interfaith Yom ha-Shoah commemoration ceremony.

For this year’s Yom ha-Shoah commemoration, Stillman composed a short work, which

she performed with Cantor Brian J. Mayer and the HaZamir Providence Chorale.

Stillman has performed at Carnegie Hall, Lincoln Center, Tanglewood and many other venues, as well as being a guest artist at major conservatories in China, Russia and the Czech Republic. The winner of 18 piano competitions, Stillman has also won numerous awards as a filmmaker.

“Boldly Beethoven” premieres on Sunday, April 29, at 2 p.m. at the Rhode Island Philharmonic’s Carter Center, 667 Waterman Ave., East Providence. Tickets are available online at tickets.riphil.org/ calendar/2018-04-29. There is also an abbreviated preview at Rhode Island College, 600 Mount Pleasant Ave., Providence, in the Nazarian Center’s Sapinsley Hall, on Thursday, April 26, at 1 p.m.

LEV POPLOW is a communications consultant. He can be reached at levpoplow@gmail. com.

Learn the Jewish view of afterlife in a five-part series Did you know that Jews believe in an afterlife and reincarnation?

Did you know that Judaism believes in a soul and its purification?

Did you know that Jews are awaiting the arrival of the Messiah?

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Rosh Kollel, interviewed by Elaina Goldstein as they explore perhaps the most fundamentally important, yet most, misunderstood concepts in Judaism. “Life, Death and BodySoul Balance” and “Messianic Times and Resurrection” are a sample of the topics that will be discussed.

The five-part series begins Monday April 23, and continues April 30. From there meetings occur every other

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Judith Lynn Stillman’s ‘Boldly Beethoven’ premieres on April 29

BY PAMELA HANZEL Arts Emanu-El will present a musical extravaganza, “Happy 70th Anniversary, Israel: Let’s Sing the Songs of Our People!” on May 6 at 7 p.m.

This joyous program, featuring two special guest musicians, celebrates the seven decades since a Jewish state was created. The program will focus on the founders’ dreams of a homeland for all our people, wherever they were scattered all over the world.

The song list for “Happy 70th Anniversary, Israel” comes from our diverse cultural heritage, including music from the pioneers in Israel, the Jews of Eastern Europe who made aliyah to the new homeland and the Jews of the Middle East who left Arab nations and found refuge in the new state.

Some of the songs were written in the 20th century and some go back centuries. They represent a variety of tonalities, harmonies and rhythms.

Many talented people are coming together to make music for this celebration. Members of Temple Emanu-El’s choral groups, adults from Shir Emanu-El and teens from HaZamir will sing songs of the Eastern European and Israeli pioneers’ experiences. Special guest musicians Cantor George Mordecai and Prof. Hankis Netsky, along with eight band members, will perform songs in the Iraqi Jewish tradition.

Mordecai was born in Sydney, Australia, to Iraqi and Indian-Jewish immigrants.

He worked as a cantor in Sydney, Philadelphia, Miami and Stamford, Connecticut, before becoming the cantor at Temple Israel Center, in White Plains, New York.

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Women’s Alliance Endowment Fund supports local and overseas programs

BY JENNIFER ZWIRN Every year, the Women’s Alliance Endowment Fund (WAEF) of the Jewish Federation Foundation at the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island seeks proposals for grants, with priority given to innovative programs and services that benefit Jewish women and girls and have the potential for long-term impact.

Educational, civic, cultural, religious, and inter-group programs are considered, as well as health and social service initiatives. All Rhode Island, Southeastern Massachusetts and overseas Jewish organizations, agencies and synagogues encouraged to apply for funding.

This year, WAEF members will convene at the annual meeting May 23 to determine local and overseas grants for the coming fiscal year.

Two programs that received funding last year are the Dr. Israel Goldstein Youth Village’s Music Bands and the Jaffa Institute’s Stepping Stone.

The Dr. Israel Goldstein Youth Village is a residential school in Jerusalem providing academics to Jewish children from atrisk backgrounds. Established in 1949, the Village has been a

home to students from all over the world, including new immigrants from the Former Soviet Union, France and Ethiopia. It offers a renonwned program for Autistic students, enabling students to discover and realize their abilities, while fostering creativity and independence as Jews, contributing to Israeli society.

Their Music Bands initiative is an innovative, effective program assisting Jewish students of all abilities to build musical ability, therapeutic support and socio-emotional confidence.

With funding from the WAEF, four musical bands comprised of five students each assemble daily to play instruments, sing, and work together to compose, rehearse, and perform musical compositions at village events, making students feel a part of something larger than themselves. Music Bands empowers students by providing them with opportunities to advance academically, personally, and socially through a musical lens.

The Jaffa Institute’s Stepping Stone is a day program for atrisk adolescent girls that addresses the needs of disadvantaged girls in Tel Aviv, where half of the population lives below the poverty line and 53 percent drop out before completing high school. Those who attend Stepping Stone have been identified as “at-risk” due to extreme poverty, parental illness,

neglect, and sexual, emotional, and/or physical abuse. The Jaffa Institute program offers participants a safe space to receive counseling and begin to heal their pasts, impacting their futures more positively.

Stepping Stone staff include a housemother, counselor, National Service volunteer, and a certified social worker, all trained to provide an enriching, therapeutic framework to build trust and to form positive relationships with adults and peers. The at-risk girls learn to create healthy social connections and meaningful personal relationships with individuals in their lives. Stepping Stone staff provides all the program participants with individualized academic support to ensure every girl is school-ready and motivated to remain in school through 12th grade and beyond.

Programs like Music Bands and Stepping Stone are similar in that they make a positive difference in students’ lives immediately and long-term.

WAEF also supports local programs that aim to provide for the needs of our youth, including programs such as Jewish Community Day School’s Girls Power Lunch, a series dedicated to establishing a space where girls can address issues with friends, discuss concerns and feelings, and challenges at home or at school; Congre-

gation Beth Sholom’s Women, Torah, and Scholarship Series, devoted to empowering women and girls through the lens of Torah; and, formal and thorough sexual harassment training for all counselors and staff working at Camp JORI. Whether in Rhode Island, Israel, or around the world, the Women’s Alliance Endowment

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Mystery of the ‘discovered’ tablecloths partly solved

BY RUTH BREINDEL In an article in February, I described a tablecloth that was embroidered with the names of donors to the Jewish Consumptive Relief Society, a local organization that gave money to a hospital for tuberculosis patients in Denver. After that article was published, I received some additional information about that relief society.

Pearl Kaplan, who read the article and contacted the Rhode Island Jewish Historical Association, has a photograph of 10 women “dressed up with gloves” at the Biltmore Hotel, in Providence.

One of the women is her grandmother, Sadie Zelniker, and another her great-aunt, Annie Zelniker. The picture is dated Dec. 26, 1946, and says, “Jewish Convalescent Home of Rhode Island.” Kaplan said she believes the Jewish Consumptive Relief Society and the Jewish Convalescent Home of Rhode Island group were one and the same.

There were two other tablecloths tucked away in RIJHA’s office, and here are their stories: In 1931, during the Great Depression, local women started the Ladies Hebrew Free Loan Association.

They lent small amounts (even 25 cents) or larger amounts (up to a few hundred dollars) for food, clothing, education and businesses. The names of those

who borrowed money were kept secret so as not to embarrass them. The money was paid back as the borrower could afford to do so.

The association had two offices, one in the north end of Providence, near Chalkstone Avenue, and one in South Providence. Both were staffed by women who helped other women fill out the loan applications if they did not speak or write English. Often, the head of the association would co-sign to guarantee the loan.

In its first year, the association lent almost $1,500 and had cash reserves of almost $1,100.

All the money had been donated to the association or came in through fundraising efforts. At times, their cash on hand was so much more than they needed that they made donations to other Jewish charities.

On June 20, 1965, the association held its final meeting because there was no longer a need for this service. The remaining money was donated: the Jewish General Fund received $1,000 and the Jewish Home for the Aged, to which they had previously donated money to build the home, was given $200.

The second of the three “discovered” tablecloths had the association’s name embroidered in the center, surrounded by the names of members. Since the association disbanded in 1965, this tablecloth is probably

older than that, but how much older is still unknown.

The third tablecloth remains a complete mystery. It is made of much lighter cloth than the heavy linen of the two others, and names are embroidered in a gold/yellow thread around the border, not all over the fabric, like the others. If you have any information about this tablecloth, please contact RIJHA at 401-331-1360.

RUTH BREINDEL is president of the Rhode Island Jewish Historical Association.

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RIJHA sets annual meeting

The Rhode Island Jewish Historical Association is holding its 64th annual meeting on Sunday, May 6, at 2 p.m. in the Baxt Social Hall at the Dwares Jewish Community Center in Providence. Rabbi Joshua Breindel will speak on “Growing up Jewish in Rhode Island: Life in the 1980s and 1990s.” Rabbi Breindel is the spiritual leader of Temple Anshe Amunim in Pittsfield, Mass.

New officers will be elected at this meeting. The slate includes President: Mel Topf; First Vice

President: Harold Foster; Second Vice President: Lowell Lisker; Secreta r y: Rut h L .

Breindel; and Treasurer: David Bazar. New (and reappointed) members of the board for a twoyear term are: James Waters, Linda Lotridge Levin, Maxine Goldin, Marilyn Myrow, Esta Yavner and Rabbi Raphie Schochet. Presidential appointees are Elizabeth Bakst and Michael Schwartz.

FOR MORE INFORMATION, contact info@rijha.org or call 401-331-1360.

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The compelling life story of the ‘normal’ child Through amazon.com – not a bookstore – I was able to access “The ‘Normal’ Child,” the self-

SKETCHBOOK MIKE FINK published autobiography of an old acquaintance, Cindy Halpern. I opened the manila envelope, took out the thick volume, and read it cover to cover,

fascinated and impressed and very much under its spell.

A bit of background about the author. She was the only surviving child of a Holocaust survivor, a refugee rescued in 1944 and protected by the renowned journalist Ruth Gruber (who lived to 109 years of age and who visited Providence and my classes at the Rhode Island School of Design).

Halpern’s mother’s portrait was painted in the Oswego, New York, refuge barracks by a fellow inmate, survivor, refugee. After her death, Halpern brought the painting to me

Cranston Senior Guild schedules activities Cranston Senior Guild’s next meeting takes place Wednesday, May 2, at 1 p.m. at Tamarisk Assisted Living, 3 Shalom Drive, Warwick. A short meeting will be followed by musical entertainment by Bobby Bourossa, refreshments and a raffle. All men and women age 55 years plus are welcome to join. Membership is $12 for the year. Cranston residency is not required.

The annual installation luncheon takes place Wednesday, June 6 at noon at Mesa Café & Grill, 100 Rolfe St., Cranston. Lunch includes choice of chicken Marsala or

baked fish with rolls, chicken escarole soup, salad, pasta, green beans and carrots.

Dessert choice is tiramisu or fresh fruit cup with coffee or tea.

Cost is $25 including tax and tip. A raffle follows the lunch.

Payment for lunch must be received by Tuesday, May 22.

Make check payable to Cranston Senior Guild. Include your choice of entrée and dessert on the memo line of your check. For more information, call Harriet 401-9422220 or Sylvia 401-944-6812.

RICI presents Purim program On March 8, the Rhode Island Coalition for Israel presented a program, “Such a Time As This,” to members of the Potters House Church, in Providence, as well as a half-dozen Jewish members of RICI’s board.

The program consisted of a screening of “Book of Esther” and a talk by Tricia Miller, of CAMERA’s Partnership of Christians and Jews, to the largely Guatemalan congregation led by Pastor Daniel West.

(CAMERA is the Committee for Accuracy in Middle East Reporting in America.)

Israeli and Jewish music was provided by Stan Freedman, of the Sounds of Simcha. RICI President Mary Greene opened the program by thanking the people and government of Guatemala for their commitment to moving their embassy in Israel to Jerusalem this spring.

After an opening prayer by Pastor West, David Talan, RICI board member, expressed appreciation for Christian support of Israel as the fulfillment of 2,000-year-old prophecies in the Hebrew Bible.

The “Book of Esther,” an hourlong musical written by a California pastor, was then shown.

The film was chosen for the pro-

gram because of its close adherence to the Book of Esther and lack of Hollywood embellishments.

Miller then spoke about specific verses in the megillah, while Pastor West translated.

Speaking from her in-depth study of Esther, which was the topic of her doctorate and several books she has written, Miller said Israel’s right of self-defense is rooted in the Book of Esther.

She pointed out that certain anti-Semitic teachings and antiIsrael writers erroneously paint the Book of Esther as a story of bloodthirsty and militaristic Jews. But Miller said the killing in the Purim story is clearly rooted in self-defense against those who ignored King Ahasuerus’ second decree, which reversed one calling for the slaughter of the Jews.

(A video of part of her talk can be viewed at https://youtu.be/ aKNolepWx1E) The Rhode Island Coalition for Israel is a Christian/Jewish partnership in support of Israel and the Jewish people. Its website is www.ricoalitionforisrael. org and its email address is ricoalitionforisrael@gmail.com.

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to offer to the RISD Museum, which recommended The John Brown House Museum, also on Benefit Street, which accepted it into its collection. It was more than a portrait – it was a visual poem about melancholy, memory and hope.

Tragically, Halpern’s father, a World War II veteran, and her mother shared a gene that resulted in illnesses that claimed the lives of her two brothers when they were children and her adult sister, leaving Cindy to write the story of her siblings. She writes with dignity and honesty from a poignant

and provocative personal perspective.

Halpern disclaims any special talents or competence: she writes that she was not a brilliant student, or a social success either. Yet she was determined and grateful and made her way in her world and ours and articulates in each chapter her successes and her failures.

I remember that she drove a cab in Providence, and she sketched in words her adventures and misadventures with humor as well as insight.

Halpern’s marriages were, like many around the globe,

troubled, even tragic, but there is no blame-game in her accounts.

The single pleasure she sought was travel. Not only to places of beauty and leisure, but also to trace the desperate route of her family – the mother and aunts and uncles who survived, but also the family members who fell victim to the Nazi murderers. Halpern’s description of her response to what is left of Treblinka is most impressive and telling.

Self-publishing has become a valid and important method of sharing a story without going through the elaborate steps and compromises of today’s publishing approach, which emphasizes celebrity and self-help.

I pen this column to congratulate Halpern. Yes, she would have benefited from an editor and proofreader (we all need editors). But all she had access to was her young grandson, whom she labels on the cover as the book’s “technological director,” along with a self-mocking disclaimer about her own skills or lack thereof.

The entire tome is very much worthwhile, and I write this column to recommend it.

MIKE FINK (mfink33@aol. com) teaches at the Rhode Island School of Design.

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James Abeshaus

CRANSTON, R.I. – James “Jim” Abeshaus died April 6 at Steere House, Providence. He was the husband of the late Barbara (Yantes) Abeshaus. They were married for 63 years. Barbara passed away in 2009. Jim was the son of the late Samuel and Fanny (Windsberg) Abeshaus.

He was the father of Robert Abeshaus of Cranston, Nancy Abeshaus and her spouse, Barbara Kaskosz, of Wakefield and Bruce Abeshaus and his wife, Deborah, of Indianapolis, Indiana. He was the grandfather of Jimmy Abeshaus and his wife, Britta, of Germany, and the great grandfather of granddaughters Taylor and Finja. He was the brother of the late Dorothy Segool and William Abeshaus.

Jim was a 1941 graduate of the Rhode Island College of Pharmacy (now URI) and co-owner of Thall’s Pharmacy in Cranston for 33 years. He was a volunteer at the Rhode Island Hospital gift shop for 13 years. After that, he was affiliated with CVS Pharmacy for 25 years. He is a former member of Temple Torat Yisrael. He served four and a half years in the US Army during WWII as an Army Air Corps medic.

Contributions in his memory may be made to Steere House Nursing and Rehabilitation Center, 100 Borden St., Providence, RI 02903 or Home & Hospice Care of RI, 1085 N. Main St., Providence, RI 02904.

Anita Greenberg, 82

WARWICK, R.I. – Anita Greenberg died April 9 at Philip Hulitar Inpatient Center, Providence. She was the wife of the late Philip Greenberg. Born in Providence, she was a daughter of the late Solomon and Minnie (Dubin) Pollock. She was a lifelong resident of Warwick.

She was a bookkeeper for Eclipse Syrup for 18 years and at Construction Industries of RI for 13 years, retiring in 2007. Anita was a former member of Temple Torat Yisrael.

She was the mother of Elaine Sher and her husband Richard, of Framingham, Massachusetts, and Audrey Brisson and her husband, Bob, of Coventry. She was the sister of the late Claire Frances Erickson and Renee Slawter, the grandmother of Matthew, Jared, Marissa and Lindsey and the greatgrandmother of Priya, Mason and Maya.

Contributions in her memory may be made to Epilepsy Foundation, 8301 Professional Place, Suite 200, Landover, MD 20785 or Hope Hospice, 1085 North Main St., Providence, RI 02904.

Jeffrey Adam Klitzner

CALIFORNIA – Jeffrey Adam Klitzner died on Feb. 20 in Ca l i for nia.

He was the husband of Dana Sterling Klitzner for 28 years. He is survived by his children, Chase Alan, Abby Leigh and Brennen Trey.

Jeff was born in Providence and attended Lincoln High School, the University of New Hampshire and Long Island University School of Film. He worked in post-production for television and film for 30 years.

His passions were long-distance biking, hiking and mountain climbing. He also loved to write, especially poetry.

Jeff is survived by his parents, Alan and Leta Klitzner, siblings Heidi Solomon (Joel), Dean Klitzner (Jill), brother-in-law Devin Sterling (Julie), as well as Aunt Penny Prickett and Dr. Dayle Kelner (John). He leaves many nieces and nephews.

Contributions in his memory may be made to the Jeff Klitzner Memorial Fund for Financial Aid, c/o De Toledo High School, 22623 Vanowen St, West Hills, CA 91307.

Donald A. Rosenfeld, 82

SALT LAKE CITY, UTAH – Donald A. Rosenfeld died March 26 in Salt Lake City, Utah where he lived with his granddaugh-

ter, Ashlei, her husband, Michael Thompson and his three great-grandchildren.

Born in Providence, the son of the late Nathan and Sarah Rosenfeld, he had lived in both Rhode Island and Connecticut before relocating to Utah.

He received a bachelor’s degree from the University of Hartford after serving four years with the United States Coast Guard. He worked for Pratt and Whitney Aircraft in Hartford, Connecticut, and then for the Utah Department of Public Safety. He served many years in the Utah National Guard Reserves, and was activated several times, including when in his 50s for the Gulf War. Donald was gifted with a beautiful bass voice as well as the ability to play several instruments. He shared his musical talents widely, entertaining in many venues. He was also an avid cook, photographer and golfer.

He was the father of Jan Brownstein and David Rosenfeld, both of Utah, and the late Marci and Ronald Rosenfeld of Connecticut. He is also survived by his grandchildren Ashlei Thompson (husband Michael), Alec and Aric Flitton, all of Utah; Natalie and Ethan Gaudette of Connecticut; and four great-grandchildren, Mya, Addison, Landon and Jayden all of Utah. He was the brother of Marsha Kirshenbaum of Cranston.

Contributions in his memory may be made to Hope Hospice and Palliative Care 1085 North Main St., Providence, RI 02904 or the charity of your choice.

Jack Rogg, 93

PROVIDENCE, R.I. – Jack Rogg died April 6. He was the husband of the late Shirley (Helfant) Rogg. He was born in New York City, the son of the late Samuel and Mary (Butensky) Rogg.

He is survived by his daughter Donna Rogg and son Jeffrey Rogg and grandchildren Catherine, Zachary, David and Benjamin.

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Wednesday | May 2 Israel at 70: An Evening with Michael Solomonov. 7 p.m. Dwares JCC, 401 Elmgrove Ave., Providence. IsraeliAmerican chef Michael Solomonov, the James Beard Foundation Chef of the Year (2017), shares his personal story and describes Israeli cuisine.

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Brown Dance Fest to feature Israeli choreographers Brown University welcomes Israeli choreographers Ze’eva Cohen and Rachel Erdos. Cohen is a critically acclaimed dancer, choreographer and the founder of the Princeton University dance department. Erdos is an independent, prize-winning choreographer who has been in residence at Brown during the semester, creating and teaching. Her stay has been supported by The Israel institute and the Perlmutter Fund. Along with teaching at Brown, Erdos has been teaching in the com-

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Both choreographers will be showcasing their work in the Festival of Dance, Brown’s major dance performance, May 2-6 at Brown’s Stuart Theatre, 75 Waterman St., Providence.

For more information, call 401-863-2838 or email boxoffice@brown.edu. In addition, on May 1, there will be an open conversation between the two artists discussing dance In Israel. For more information about this event, contact Rachel at rachel_erdos@brown.edu.

Students find 1,400-year-old oil lamp inscribed with menorah JERUSALEM (JTA) – Students working to build the “Sanhedrin Trail” in Israel’s Galilee unearthed a 1,400-year-old oil lamp bearing the symbol of the Jerusalem Temple’s menorah, according to the Israel Antiquities Authority.

“The discovery of a lamp decorated with a menorah, a symbol of the Jewish people, is without doubt exciting, especially at a site with such a unique heritage in part of the Sanhedrin Trail,” IAA archaeologist Dr. Einat Ambar-Armon, an expert on ancient clay lamps, said in a statement.

Thousands of students have worked for several months on what will be a smart trail, on which dozens of large “smart” stones will transmit relevant, useful information and activities directly to the hikers’ mo-

bile telephones.

The nearly 45-mile long trail running from Beit She’arim to Tiberias across the lower Galilee is divided into five sections and traces the movements of the sages of the Sanhedrin, the Jewish tribunal that met in the ancient Land of Israel.

The trail will be inaugurated on April 22.

In addition to the oil lamp, the student volunteers have uncovered pieces of glass believed to date to the glass industry mentioned in rabbinical texts, and ornamental items dating back 1,800 years. One student discovered a gold coin on the trail bearing an inscription of the sultan Suleiman the Magnificent, builder of Jerusalem’s city walls. Only two other such coins have been discovered.

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Jacob Shapiro, 95

WAYNESBORO, PA. – Jacob Shapiro died on April 4. He was the husband of the late Hilde (Roesch) Shapiro. He was born in Providence, the son of the late Hyman Shapiro and Pauline (Rubin-Shapiro) Kaplan.

Jacob grew up during the great depression, and shortly after finishing high school, in 1941, he was inducted into the Army. He was one of those great Americans who answered his country’s call to duty and honorably wore the uniform of this nation as a GI in Europe. Jacob was an individual who went through life’s journey without ever doubting the wisdom of his own counsel and was never shy about sharing those ideas with the world at large. He loved his family, his dear friends, religiously read the business section of the Washington Post and most particularly, he always enjoyed driving a hard but fair bargain.

He is survived by his older brother, Henry Shapiro, of Bristol, and was also the brother of the late William Shapiro and the late Frances (Shapiro) Salk.

He is survived by his children, Linda Sinel (Charles) of Pawtucket and Harold Shapiro (Michele) of Waynesboro. He leaves 5 grandchildren and 11 great-grandchildren.

Contributions in his memory may be made to the charity of your choice

Irma Silverman, 94

Irma (Cohen) Silverman died April 13. She was the wife of the late Eugene Silverman. Born in Providence, she was the daughter of the late Robert and Sophie (Gabrilowitz) Cohen.

Irma was a 1941 graduate of Hope High School. She was a life member of Hadassah, member of Temple Sinai, and the Franklin County, (Massachusetts) Chairman of the March of Dimes. She was an avid painter and bridge player. Later in life she taught bridge at many assisted living facilities. She was a life-long Boston Red Sox fan.

She is survived by her children Stephen Silverman and his wife Judith of Somerset, Massachusetts, Peter Silverman and his wife Beverley of Bayville, New York, and Robin Sciarcon and her husband Ben of Cranston; her brother, David Cohen of Melbourne, Florida; grandchildren, Lori Cooney, Lynn Conos, Jonathan Sciarcon, Hollie, Rebekah, Jessica and Benjamin Silverman; and 6 great-grandchildren. She was the sister of the late Syd Cohen.

Contributions in her memory may be made to Hope Hospice and Palliative Care, 1085 N. Main St., Providence, RI 02904.

Leonard Summer, 91

NARRAGANSETT, RI – Leonard Summer died April 15 at South County Hospital surrounded by his family. He was the husband of the late Sally

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(Goldstein) Summer. Born in Providence, a son of the late Simon and Pauline (Leichter) Summer, he was a longtime resident of Warwick and Cranston, before retiring to Narragansett and Boynton Beach, Florida.

He was a co-owner of Summer Brothers, a wholesale children’s clothing store in Providence, but was best known as the coowner of Merlen Pharmacy in Warwick. After the pharmacy was sold to CVS, he continued as a sales rep for several years.

Leonard was an Army Air Force WWII veteran serving stateside. He graduated from Hope High School, Class of ’44. Leonard was a member of Touro Fraternal Association, Roosevelt Masonic Lodge, member and past Commander of JWV, former board member of Hebrew Free Loan Association and member of the former Temple Beth Torah.

He was the father of Donna and her husband, Alan Pierce, of Beverly, Massachusetts, Andrea and her husband, William Ferreira, of Kennebunk, Maine, and Cindy and her husband, Richard Guinan, of North Easton, Massachusetts. He was the brother of the late Merwin and Sayre Summer. He was the grandfather of Matthew and his wife, Mimi, Jesse and his fiancé, Christina, Jacob and Tyler.

He was the great-grandfather of Chase and Cole. He was the uncle of several nieces and nephews. He ws the companion of Clarissa Kulman.

Contributions in his memory may be made to the charity of your choice.

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During the program, survivors and family members (above and below) read names of those they lost.

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YOM HA-SHOAH

This got to the core of Fab’s talk: The impact that young people can have to change the world for the better. He spoke of the students in Parkland, Florida, who could have run and hid after a massacre at their high school in February, but instead forcefully spoke out about the need for changes in gun laws. He spoke of Rhode Island students who were so curious about the aftermath of the Paper Clips Project that they called the principal of Whitwell

Middle School to get answers.

“On this day of Yom ha-Shoah, we can honor those who died by recognizing the power of our children who are living,” Fab said.

After his talk, survivor Alice Eichenbaum introduced Arthur Robbins as this year’s Never Again Award recipient. In accepting the award, Robbins said, “To have Alice present this award is so meaningful to me, because it was her late husband Ray who, in 1981, asked

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me to assist with the formation of the Rhode Island Holocaust Committee.”

Those meetings laid the groundwork for what eventually become the Sandra Bornstein Holocaust Education Center and the Rhode Island Holocaust Memorial, both in Providence.

LEV POPLOW is a communications consultant who writes on behalf of the Sandra Bornstein Holocaust Education Center. He can be reached at levpoplow@gmail.com.

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An anecdotal, non-comprehensive, slightly cavalier comparison of aging in Israel and R.I.

BY NAOMI FINK COTRONE As a lifelong Rhode Islander who works with seniors, I’m pretty familiar with what the golden years look like around here.

I know, for example, that in Providence, old friends meet for coffee at the Senior Cafe at the Alliance’s Dwares Jewish Community Center, or to play competitive mahjong there during a feisty tournament. I know that in Narragansett, retirees take in the salty air while strolling along the shore, and enjoy the sunset with a cocktail on Turtle Soup’s slanted lawn. And I know that in Cranston, they greet each other at the Kosher Rainbow Bakery.

So, when I visited my brother while he was living in Israel earlier this year, I was especially attuned to what life is like for Israeli seniors.

In the bustle of Tel Aviv, old men hang out their windows over orange trees, watching the world go by. In Jerusalem, you see elderly women handily navigating the well-worn cobblestone streets with their canes on the way home from the shuk. In Herzliya, you’ll find the discarded shells of sunflower seeds everywhere, a sure sign of an elderly population.

While both have their charms and frustrations, the Land of Milk and Honey and the Ocean State are very different places to spend your retirement.

In honor of Israel’s 70th an-

niversary, I’ve created a lighthearted comparison of seven – one for each decade – pros, cons and quirks of the senior communities in both places. But keep in mind that at the end of the day, it doesn’t matter where you live, or how old you are — it’s about how you’re living.

Language: In Israel, many assisted-living facilities and adult communities offer Hebrew lessons for residents whose first language is English, with the primary goal of allowing them to communicate easily with their Hebrew-speaking Israeli grandchildren.

In Rhode Island, the Jewish Alliance is a fantastic resource for adult-education Hebrew classes, and the group of Israelis in Rhode Island (www.israelisri. com) is an excellent hub for expat Israelis who want to learn to speak like a true Rhode Islander.

(Pro tip: start saying “wicked� often and pronounce “weird� as “weeeahd.�).

Funerals: Israeli law mandates that the nation pay for graves and burial fees for both residents and visiting tourists.

For those making their final plans, this is a big relief. In Rhode Island, “the costs surrounding Jewish burials vary depending on several different factors,� said Adam Smith, director of Shalom Memorial Chapel, in Cranston. “Each cemetery has different charges for the cost of graves and associated services. For the funeral itself,

we tailor the service to a family’s needs and wishes.�

Nutrition: Due to Israel’s abundance of fresh, local produce and Mediterranean-influenced diets, the average senior eats relatively well: olive oil instead of butter, plenty of vegetables, and few preservatives and packaged foods. There are, of course, also endless Kosher options – the meat in all supermarkets is Kosher unless you specifically seek out the non-Kosher markets.

Rhode Island is more of a desert than Israel when it comes to keeping Kosher. Meat is especially difficult to find, although there are a few places, including the small selection at Trader Joe’s, Davis Dairy Products in Providence, and Eastside Marketplace, in Providence, which has a Kosher butcher service on Thursdays. As for the American diet in general, well, you know, we could all be making better choices.

Exercise: Most Israeli communities are navigable on foot, and there are more benches for resting than in Rhode Island.

Here at home, with a few exceptions, such as Newport, seniors must rely on cars or public transportation to get them where they want to go, just like the rest of us. However, both places offer plenty of exercise options.

In Tel Aviv, seniors dance on the Tayelet, the famous seaside promenade, on Saturday afternoons. At The Phyllis Siperstein

Tamarisk Assisted Living Residence, in Warwick, residents get into the swing of it on ’50s nights.

Family/Guilt: Although Israel is larger than the smallest state in the U.S., the guilt factor appears to be stronger in Israel because children and grandchildren are never farther away than a few hours’ drive.

The country’s familial culture means that most clans spend Friday nights together, regardless of religious observance.

And if they don’t, that famous Israeli brashess means you’ll get an earful from the family matriarchs and patriarchs.

Gans (kindergartens) in Israel have “gan safta/saba� programs, in which a local senior is assigned to be a class grandparent, and there are also “adopt a safta (grandmother)� programs.

In RI, family guilt has less pull: although the state is small, the kinderlach often grow up and move far beyond its borders.

Health care: True to its socialist roots, Israel has excellent universal health care. However, wait times for appointments with specialists can sometimes be many months, which is a long time for anyone to wait, but especially a senior.

In Rhode Island, in addition to private insurance, there is Medicare, and for all the bad press it gets, in my experience it generally provides sufficient coverage.

Aging: Israel has a strong state-run pension system, which means the average person has

enough money in retirement.

Israel is also committed to “aging in place.� Trained in-home health aides are widely available, and the state provides in-kind in-home services, subsidized day programs and free transportation for the elderly.

Rhode Islanders also understand the value of allowing loved ones to age in place; that is, to stay in their homes with support, instead of moving into an assisted living facility. However, as the owner of a home-care agency, I know that most care costs will fall on the individual or the family, unless the senior has totally depleted his or her funds and is therefore eligible for Medicaid. The options can seem complicated and confusing, and because good advice can be hard to find, at our agency, we offer free consultations about care formats, potential costs and access to funds.

No matter what continent you live on, it’s important to be able to cut through the haze and make a customized, workable plan so you can enjoy your senior years as fully as possible.

NAOMI FINK COTRONE runs the Right at Home of Rhode Island agency, which provides care to elderly and disabled adults throughout R.I. When she’s not pouring her heart into her clients, you may find her planning her next trip to Israel or dreaming about its fresh-fruit smoothie stands.

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