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GRADUATION

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PHOTOS | FRAN OSTENDORF

Rabbi Alan Flam with Rev. Sekinah Hamlin.

Poverty conference speaker tackles economic growth for all

BY FRAN OSTENDORF fostendorf@jewishallianceri.org PROVIDENCE – An improving economy typically doesn’t help everyone equally and a lot of well-intentioned efforts

Breaking ground for the new memorial.

Holocaust Memorial construction finally underway

don’t pay dividends because the

BY FRAN OSTENDORF very people who most need help aren’t involved in shaping soluTen years of meetings, designs, tions.

“We can’t talk about growing negotiations, stops and starts an economy for all if ‘all’ aren’t all led to a warm sunny Monday morning on May 11. Shovels in POVERTY | 23 the ground, handshakes and ex-

citement in the air. The Rhode Island Holocaust Memorial in downtown Providence is fi nally being built.

Rhode Island Governor Gina Raimondo, representatives from the State House delega-

tions and dignitaries from the community were in attendance. A crowd of community members closely watched the speeches, accolades and stories, MEMORIAL | 14

1 in 6 Jews are new to Judaism – and 9 other new Pew findings

BY URIEL HEILMAN NEW YORK (JTA) – The Pew Research Center’s newly released 2014 U.S. Religious Landscape Study offers a trove of data on American Jews based on interviews with 35,071 American adults, 847 of whom identified their faith as Jewish. Here are some of the more interesting findings about the Jews.

We’re highly educated

There are more American Jews with two or more university degrees than those who have just one – 31 percent have a graduate degree and 29 percent have just a bachelor’s degree.

With a college graduation rate of about 59 percent (more than twice the national average of 27 percent), American Jews are the second most-educated religious group in America after Hindus, at 77 percent.

We’re the biggest religious minority

Judaism is the largest faith group in America after Christianity, and its relative size in America has grown slightly since 2007 – from 1.7 percent of the U.S. population in 2007 to 1.9 percent in 2014. The denominational breakdown of Jews who identify with the Jewish faith (“Jews by religion”) is 44 percent Reform, 22 percent Conservative, 14 percent Orthodox, 5

percent another movement and 16 percent no denomination.

the percentage of Asians was negligible.

American Jewish adults are 90 percent white, 2 percent black, 4 percent Latino, 2 percent Asian-American and 2 percent “other non-Hispanic.”

That’s a notable change from 2007, when whites comprised 95 percent of American Jews, Latinos comprised 3 percent, blacks comprised 1 percent and

When it comes to religious retention rates, American Jews come in third, retaining 75 percent of those raised Jewish. By comparison, Hindus retain 80 percent and Muslims 77 percent. Behind the Jews are Evangelical Christians at 65 percent; Mormons, 64

We’re not as white as we used to be

A quarter of us are losing our religion

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Dr. Phyllis Chesler to speak at Tifereth Israel

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THIS ISSUE’S QUOTABLE QUOTE

Families celebrate Lag B’Omer

“Our graduates are commencing … into a new kind of wilderness … rethinking who they are.”

Children participate in the parade during the Lag B’Omer community event and picnic May 7 sponsored by Chabad of R.I. and Congregation Beth Sholom.

The weather was perfect for the outdoor celebration on the East Side of Providence.

NEW BEDFORD – Dr. Phyllis Chesler, Emerita Professor of Psychology at City University of New York, will speak at the upcoming Rabbi Bernard H. & Minna Ziskind Memorial Lecture. This annual event, underwritten by Sheldon Friedland in memory of his wife Shulamith and her parents, will feature this bestselling author, legendary feminist leader and retired psychotherapist. Chesler, the author of “The New AntiSemitism: The Current Crisis and What We Must Do About It,” has lectured and organized political, legal, religious and human rights campaigns in the United States, Canada, Europe, Israel and the Far East.

This challenging and timely presentation on anti-Semitism is open to the public; it will be followed by a dessert reception. The event will take place on Sunday, May 31, at 7:30 p.m. at Tifereth Israel, 145 Brownell Ave., New Bedford, Mass.

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Prizes in HERCRI art and writing contest come with a story Betty Jaffe offers a little background

BY IRINA MISSIURO imissiuro@jewishallianceri.org Betty Jaffe met Alfred Jaffe by chance.

She had agreed to go on a blind date, only to discover that she “towered over the man.” Luckily, the circumstance ended up working in her favor when the gentleman decided to introduce her to his friend Alfred, whose height was more compatible. Little did the matchmaker know that the two would end spending 54 years together as husband and wife.

Married in 1953, the Jaffes had much more in common than height. Mrs. Jaffe talks about frequenting theater and going out to dinners. They also enjoyed concerts, seeing the Rhode Island Philharmonic and Boston Symphony orchestras on a regular basis. The husband and wife also loved jazz. They didn’t appreciate rock ‘n’ roll too much (“It’s foreign to me”) and preferred plays to movies; the former benefit from an intermission during which you can discuss the performance.

Mrs. Jaffe explains that her husband became an orthodontist because he truly loved children. She recollects, “He related to children well. It was an effortless kind of thing.” May-Ronny Zeidman, the executive director of The Holocaust Education and Resource Center of Rhode Island (HERCRI), has similar memories of Dr. Jaffe. Two of her children were his patients, so Zeidman had a chance to observe the doctor in action. She says that he was aware of how painful it was to put on braces and did his best to help the kids through the ordeal. Dr. Jaffe left an impression on the family: “He was a very kind, gentle, always-smiling man,” she says.

Mrs. Jaffe says that, after he retired, her husband “spent a tremendous amount of his leisure time reading biographies and histories.” That’s another interest the two shared, considering Mrs. Jaffe’s master’s degree in modern European history from Brown University. His fascination with the past and his love of children made it easy for his wife to select a cause for contributions after his death. Dr. Jaffe was already in the hospital when HERCRI solicited sponsors for an exhibition of pictures the Terezin children created. The two of them thought it a worthy cause, wanting to participate. A month later, after consulting their three children, Mrs. Jaffe suggested in her husband’s obituary that donations in Dr. Jaffe’s memory may be sent to the Holocaust Center.

That was eight years ago. Zeidman remembers that there were many donations. She proposed to Mrs. Jaffe that,

May-Ronny Zeidman

Betty Jaffe rather than using the sum for general expenses, the center should start an endowment in Dr. Jaffe’s name. Later, it would be used to pay for books, which Mrs. Jaffe presents to the winners of the annual Art and Writing Contest. The family approved.

HERCRI reaches about 6,000 children a year. R.I. and southern Massachusetts students, ranging from middle school through college, appreciate its programs, which aim to teach about the Holocaust. Zeidman says that the Holocaust for the Arts program uses theater exhibits to teach the history and engage kids, who spend a day learning outside the classroom and seeing films such as “Miracle at Midnight,” a docudrama about the Danish resistance movement that helped save Jews during WWII. The center’s annual Art and Writing Contest, supported by the Dr. Jaffe Endowment Fund, receives around 300 submissions. The center awards 80-100 winners with Holocaust-themed ageappropriate books such as Art Spiegelman’s “Maus,” Alice Goldstein’s “Ordinary People, Turbulent Times” and Gerda Weissmann Klein’s “All But My Life.” Every child also receives a certificate that states the category in which he won.

Zeidman estimates that the contest has been around for at least 15 years. Recently, they added some new categories to old standbys – paintings, poems, short

stories and essays – that include videos and sculpture. The entries that stand out receive special prizes of $100 – those are given to Best in Show, as well as to Best Art and Best Writing (through the Singer Art Endowment and the Morris Gastfreund Endowment for writing, both of which honor Holocaust survivors).

“It is a joy to see these kids who come with their families … they have no idea how deeply moved I am by this.”

Last year, the writing winner read his entry during the ceremony. Zeidman found the reading powerful and plans to ask this year’s winner to do the same. Together with the art, which is displayed in the Dwares JCC Social Hall on the day of the event, the writing creates a certain atmosphere, allowing the attendees to witness how much thought the children put into their submissions.

Members of the HERCRI Board of Directors judge the entries using a score sheet containing six categories, such as creativity and theme, by which they rate every entry, assigning it an overall score. Zeidman says that two people evaluate each submission. She estimates that most of the students are from parochial schools; many are first-generation Americans. “For their parents, it’s the American dream. Their child has won something in education!” Zeidman loves that the parents feel enormous pride. She remembers the time when one family invited their child’s entire Little League

team to the ice cream social that takes place on the same night as the awards ceremony.

The center also acknowledges two teachers, who receive cash awards of $250 from Joyce and Bob Starr. Zeidman says, “Certain teachers just end up rising to the top each year.” Paula Olivieri, the center’s education coordinator, works with teachers to arrange school visits of Holocaust survivors and collaborates with the Education Committee to create programs and teacher workshops. Mrs. Jaffe commends the “dedication of teachers who come to workshops on their own time.” She says that it is because of their devotion that the children who submit their entries demonstrate “sophistication and a real depth of understanding.”

Mrs. Jaffe enjoys handing out the books to the winners during the ceremony. “It is a joy to see these kids who come with their families. It’s an honor for them to receive these prizes. Parents come with such pleasure and pride.

They’re all dressed up – it obviously means a lot. They have no idea how deeply moved I am by this.”

She is thankful to Zeidman and Olivieri for all of their hard work. This is the first year Mrs. Jaffe is on the Board of Directors, and she is feeling “rather impressed with the programs we create. Members are singularly dedicated.

Some have a great interest in doing something very substantive.” Mrs. Jaffe says Judith Jamieson, HERCRI president, is “an unusually able and confident person. There is a humor and humanity in her bearing.” Overall, she sees the board as “a very dedicated group composed of Jews and non-Jews who work well together.”

Along with the teachers, the members strive to impart the message of empathy and sensitivity. Mrs. Jaffe’s hope is that the students take the lessons they learn about treating people equally and respectfully to heart. Because these children are at a formative age, she believes that it’s a crucial time for them to absorb these facts and come to an understanding that the messages of social justice must be carried on. “If the Holocaust can happen in a highly cultured country, it can happen anywhere.”

EDITOR’S NOTE: The Art and Writing Contest awards ceremony is May 31 at 5 p.m. The winning entries will be on display in the Dwares JCC Social Hall.

IRINA MISSIURO is a writer and editorial consultant for The Jewish Voice.

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Providence Hebrew Day School hosts annual awards dinner

BY RUCHAMA SZENDRO The annual dinner for the Providence Hebrew Day School will be held on Sunday, June 7.

This year, the school community pays special tribute to the memory of our esteemed and beloved teacher, Tichyeh Schochet. Her devotion to her students knew no bounds. We honor the legacy of a great woman, who taught us all by example.

Lawrence M. Katz and Marilyn Spitalny Katz will receive the 2015 Amudim Award, in appreciation of their friendship and in recognition of their support for the Providence Hebrew Day School and the New England Academy of Torah.

Larry is the director of Jewish Life and Learning at the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island. As part of his

Larry and Marilyn Katz to receive Amudim Award

work at the Alliance, Larry has been most involved with the financial security of the Providence Hebrew Day School. He administers a foundation that has provided about $3 million for scholarships at PHDS. These funds come from businesses that receive state tax credits for their donations. Larry has managed the Gift of Israel and the scholarship programs at the Alliance, which help make study in Israel affordable for PHDS graduates. He is also responsible for the BunkConnect program, which provides discounts at Jewish summer camps.

Marilyn, a special education teacher, has helped students with disabilities in their Hebrew and b’nei mitzvah studies.

She volunteers as a part-time

teacher and helps conduct a Shabbat service for people with disabilities. Marilyn was a den leader for the Cub Scout pack that met at Congregation Beth Sholom and at the Providence Hebrew Day School.

Larry and Marilyn are true pillars of the Providence Jewish community, making them very worthy recipients of the Amudim Award.

The Young Leadership Award for 2015 will be presented to Nadav and Katie Minkin.

As an entrepreneur, Nadav’s leadership skills have served him well. He and his business partner turned a hobby into a successful indoor rock climbing company. They currently have four Rock Spot Climbing locations in Rhode Island and Massachusetts. Katie has

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For several years, Nadav and Katie opened their home and filled the role of NEAT high school boarding parents. Nadav currently serves on the school’s executive committee and Katie has been a school volunteer for many years.

Without a doubt, Nadav and Katie Minkin fit the bill for the Young Leadership Award.

Twelve special young women will receive this year’s Alumnae Award. They are the New England Academy of Torah Class of 2008. Most of them began their post high school careers with a year of advanced study in Israel. They earned degrees from the University of

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Energy•Color•Light at the Providence Art Club Energy•Color•Light is the theme of the exhibit in the Providence Art Club’s historic Maxwell Mays and Moitie Galleries now through June 4.

Abstraction prevails with works by Theresa Girard, Michael Rich and Roberta Segal in the Mays Gallery and Eileen Horwitz in the Moitie. The works are being shown together for their mutual love of color in abstract and energetic forms.

Theresa Girard. “The surface lends itself to my way of communicating life. The images I create are a personal interpretation of my energy.” With an energized surface and a soft conflict of color, Narragansett artist Girard becomes part of her painting as she paints, and her presence remains in the final piece. She will be showing her acrylics. See more at tgirard.com Michael Rich. Time spent around the waters of Nantucket Island and the hills of central Italy helped to shape a love and interest in landscape and natural rhythms of color that remain very much a focal point in his work today. A dedicated practitioner of yoga, Rich is influenced greatly by Eastern

philosophy and art in an approach to nature and landscape as a wellspring for spiritual investigation and meditation.

Currently a professor of art at Roger Williams University in Bristol, he will be showing his large abstracts and prints. See more at michael-rich.com Roberta Segal. Working in kiln-formed glass, the artist captures light and transmits color and texture on surfaces.

The medium needs light to complete its story. As light changes, so does the message. She will be showing her vessels along with her glass wall hangings.

See more at robertasegal.com Eileen Horwitz. Accomplished in watercolor as well as many other mediums, in this exhibit the artist will be showing her innovative monotypes in her series “Abstractions.”

The Providence Art Club is at 11 Thomas St., Providence. Gallery hours are Monday through Friday, noon to 4 p.m., Saturday and Sunday, 2 to 4 p.m. Note that the Galleries are closed on Memorial Day weekend. For information call Gallery Coordinator Michael Rose at 401-3311114, ext. 5.

Michael Rich, “Waypoint,” oil and wax on canvas.

Theresa Girard, “Higher Ground,” acrylic on canvas.

Roberta Segal, “Welcome to the World, Lianne,” kiln-formed glass panels with inclusions on an acrylic painting on wood.

Eileen Horwitz: “Abstractions,” monotype on paper.

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Board of Directors Sheila Alexander Rabbi Barry Dolinger Mark Feinstein Harold Foster Susan Froehlich Daniel Gamm Richard Glucksman, Community Relations Council Janet Goldman, Chair Appointee Hope Hirsch Marcia Hirsch, Chair Appointee Rabbi Sarah Mack, Board of Rabbis of Greater RI Vincent Mor Tina Odessa Ralph Posner Jay Rosenstein Steven Shalansky, Leadership Development Robert Sherwin Lisa Shorr Barbara Sokoloff Robert Stolzman Richard Sutton Cheryl Greenfeld Teverow Honorary Directors Melvin G. Alperin Alan G. Hassenfeld Richard A. Licht, Immediate Past Chair Jeffrey K. Savit, President and CEO

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Graduating into the wilderness

BY RABBI JONATHAN BRUMBERG-KRAUS In this week’s Torah portion, we begin a new book, Ba-midbar – “In the Wilderness” – or as we call it in English, the Book of Numbers. Unlike its companion books in the Pentateuch, the themes and focus of Numbers are relatively less clear and familiar to many.

Of course Genesis is about the creation of the world and the origins of the Israelites; Exodus covers our redemption from slavery in Egypt; Leviticus enumerates the laws of the priests; and Deuteronomy (“the Second Law”) is an eloquent recap of all that preceded. In comparison, Numbers is a hodgepodge of statistics, sacrifices and stories.

And such stories! It begins with a census and meanders with the Israelites for 40 years with tales of talking donkeys and curses turned into blessings, rebels consumed by the earth and fiery bread sacrifices rising up to the heavens, a zealous skewering and sibling slanders, and spies who think they’re but grasshoppers in the land flowing with milk and honey. What are we to make of this book?

Perhaps the names we call it – Numbers in English, Ba-mid-

bar in Hebrew – give us some hint on how to take it. Why begin with a census, specifying the names of the tribal leaders and the numbers of their men basically eligible for the military or other national service?

Rabbenu Bahya ben Asher, the 14th century Spanish Biblical exegete, brings a midrash that suggests God counts us because He cares. He compares it to a king who has two storehouses, one where he keeps his straw and chaff, the other where he stores his wheat. He’s indifferent to the precise quantities of the straw and chaff in the first storehouse. It’s good enough to know where to find them when he needs them. But he knows the precise number of each grain of wheat in his second storehouse, taking daily inventory of what’s added and taken away, because the wheat is food, and has special value to him. And so it is with the inventory of the Israelites. Maybe.

In another midrash, R. Bahya suggests the point of “The Lord spoke to Moses in the wilderness – ba-midbar – of Sinai” (Num. 1:1) is that the wilderness itself is a place of revelation, in an almost elemental sense. In this midrash, God reveals himself in fire (the

burning bush), in water (“Lord, when you went out from Seir… the heavens poured, the clouds poured water” [Judg. 5:4]), and “in the wilderness.” Why these three things? To teach you that God’s revelation is available to all the inhabitants of the world, because it’s revealed in elements that belong to no one but God and should be free for everyone: fire, water and “the wilderness.” Yes, but fire also

“Numbers is a hodgepodge of statistics, sacrifices and stories. And such stories!” burns; you can drown in water; and you can get lost in the wilderness. Free, but potentially dangerous.

Yet even feeling lost in the wilderness can be a place of revelation, as modern Biblical interpreter Avivah Zornberg asserts in her new commentary on the Book of Numbers, aptly titled “Bewilderments.” Trying to orient yourself in a disorienting world, finding your way while you’re on your way

is knowledge that can only be revealed through experience.

Zornberg chooses a wonderful quotation from T.S. Eliot as the epigraph for “Bewilderments:” In order to arrive at what you are not.

You must go through the way in which you are not.

And what you do not know is the only thing you know.

In this May graduation season (as well as the Shavuot “season of the gift of our Torah”), it is hard not to sense that our graduates are commencing forth similarly into a new kind of wilderness – of a particularly daunting job market, impending loan payments, not sure where and with whom they’ll live, confronting now on their own the minor and major disappointments and successes they are bound to face, re-thinking who they are, and second-guessing the paths they’ve taken so far. Return on investment? Note to graduates: It took the Israelites 40 years to begin to see a return on the investment God made when he brought us out of Egypt. Reliable statistics suggest that you (yes, even liberal arts graduates) will see a return on your investment (greater earning

power, job security and satisfaction than your peers without college degrees) by 10 years from graduation – much less time!

So yes, you’re going into the w i lder ness, ba-midbar, but now’s the time for a new kind of learning, a new kind of revelation, that can only come from experience – the trial and error experience of applying what you’ve learned and thought you knew. As in the Pentateuch, Genesis revealed to us our origins, Exodus let us know what freedom and redemption taste like, Leviticus gives us rules for guidance, but it’s Ba-midbar that throws us into the wilderness to apply what we know, to see if it works and adapt when it doesn’t. With a little luck, help from friends and family, and providential guidance, we’ll make it to Deuteronomy, and recap and see how it all fits together from 20/20 hindsight.

“And the Lord spoke to Moses in the wilderness – or bewilderments – of Sinai.” Hag Sameah!

RABBI JONATHAN BRUMBERG-KRAUS is Professor of Religion and Coordinator of Jewish Studies, Wheaton College, Norton, Massachusetts.

On Shavuot, remembering the day I almost dropped the Torah

BY EDMON RODMAN LOS ANGELES (JTA) — On Shavuot, we are reminded that the Torah is a tree of life to which we are to hold fast. But what happens when that hold slips from your grasp?

It’s a question I found myself asking six weeks before Shavuot, late in the Torah service on the last day of Passover.

Returning with my wife Brenda to Temple Beth Emet, in Anaheim, California, where I grew up, we both had come to attend the Yizkor service and to see her family who continue to pray there. Not far from Disneyland, it’s a shrinking kingdom of Jewish memories where, as I walked down the aisle to my seat, I could see my Hebrew school teacher and the familiar faces of those who had been friends of my parents.

A little while after we were seated, the gabbai came down the aisle, blue card in hand, and asked me if I wanted to be hagbah – that is, to raise the Torah after it was read. “Thank you,” I said, accepting the honor.

When my wife joined me, we quickly exchanged notes and found that we were going to be a Torah team, since while she was out in the lobby, the gabbai had asked her to be gelilah – the person tasked with dressing the Torah.

As the scrolls were taken from the ark, I nudged her, saying the larger of the two scrolls was probably the one I should lift. As I sized it up, I could see

that this scroll was longer than the one I had grown accustomed to lifting in my minyan in Los Angeles.

Torah scrolls vary quite a bit in size, from short study scrolls weighing only a few pounds up to tall, arm-length versions that can weigh up to about 50 pounds.

Besides being a holy object, a Torah scroll is also expensive, taking a scribe a year or more to write its 304,805 letters by hand, and costing between $30,000 and $60,000, depending on size, quality of script and parchment.

Trying to keep this out of mind, I counted down the aliyot, the sections in which the Torah is read, until with the completion of the eighth and final reading. Quickly, I walked up the few steps to the bimah where I had chanted, in what seemed like a million turns of the Torah ago, for my bar mitzvah.

Grabbing the wooden handles, known as the Trees of Life, I rolled each tight, so that three columns were left showing in the middle. I carefully slid the scroll toward me, and then, using the Torah reading table’s edge as a fulcrum, I slid the remaining section down, bent my knees and levered the Torah up. With the handles about even to my shoulders, I turned away from the congregation, so the worshippers could see the writing, and raised the scroll higher.

I took about four steps to the

chairs where I knew I was supposed to sit, and where my wife would tie the scroll and dress it.

Only, there was a problem.

“The least stable time during hagbah is right after you sit down,” says the National Chavura Committee’s website, and this is the truth. While lowering my body to sit, I lost the tension between the two halves, and the half in my left hand began to wobble. Thrusting my arm out to steady it only caused the scroll to gyrate more in what began to appear to me as a slow-motion disaster.

Now, being asked to raise the Torah is a great honor – or, as the gabbai had put it, “greater than them all.” Rabbi Joseph H. Prouser, citing the Mishnah in an article titled, “Raising Awareness: The Symbolic Significance of Hagbah and Gelilah,” explained: “lifting the Torah scroll, is a public act of qinyan, of establishing ‘ownership’ “ rights.

But if that were the case, those “rights,” remembered on Shavuot with the celebration of the giving of the Torah, were wobbling away both from me and from the congregation, who if I dropped the Torah, would need to decide how to reassert their ownership. Would they fast? Give tzedakah?

One more wobble, and then my wife, seemingly coming out of nowhere, grabbed the top of the errant roller, and even though the parchment buckled into an S-like shape that widened my eyes, she stopped its

fall.

“Good save,” someone said to her as she returned to her seat.

In another era, according to Prouser, the raising and dressing of the Torah was “executed by a single individual.” But today, I was ecstatic to be part of a team: a husband and wife, who had long been juggling work, children, family and Judaism, coming together, after some juggling of my own, finally to

take grasp of the Torah and own it.

“She is a tree of life to those who grasp her,” says the Book of Proverbs, “and whoever holds on to her is happy.”

EDMON J. RODMAN is a JTA columnist who writes on Jewish life from Los Angeles. Contact him at edmojace@gmail. com.

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Questions, questions, questions If you have more nights than usual scheduled with meetings that you absolutely have to attend this month, then you know it’s annual meeting se a son. G eraldine Foster wrote about the history of these annual meetings in our last edition.

More ofEDITOR ten than not, FRAN these meetings come OSTENDORF with an interesting speaker or program. And on the days without an annual meeting, there’s often a day or evening gathering to honor a deserving community member as well.

Despite my short tenure as editor, I already recognize the spring meeting season because my calendar is overfilled with events to cover and meetings to attend. Everyone wants to know how we make a decision about what events we attend and don’t attend. There are a few other questions I’ve been asked quite a lot lately.

So here are five questions from the editor’s desk.

How do you decide what to cover?

Since we are a biweekly newspaper, we look for events and news with timely and timeless community interest. If it’s news from within our community, we try to do as much as we can with our limited resources. Sometimes there are multiple events at the same time. We hope community members will help out by submitting news and photos from events they attend or are involved in. News that has been covered by other media and is old by the time our paper comes out is really not something that we can cover with our resources. We’re trying to cover some of the things happening in our community that the mainstream media doesn’t.

Where does your national and world/Israel news come from?

We get articles from news services including the Jewish Telegraphic Agency (JTA) and JNS.org. They have reporters across the U.S. and around the world. We strive to provide a balanced news report. Again,

if it’s news you’ve seen in other papers, you will probably not see it in the Voice. We would look for features and analysis of the event that would add to what you’ve already read elsewhere. As a biweekly, our goal is to supplement or go deeper.

How do I submit an obituary?

Obituaries are very important to us. And they can be sensitive. To help ensure accuracy and balance, our local obituaries come from the funeral homes. The funeral directors work with the family to write an obituary that’s acceptable to everyone. We publish that free of charge. If a family member has a problem or correction, we ask that they go back to the funeral home to update the obituary.

Out-of-town obituaries should have some tie to our area. Feel free to call us with questions.

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The authority of the written word Michael L. Satlow’s “How the Bible Became Holy” (Yale University Press, 2014) is an audacious book. Satlow, professor of Religious Studies and Judaic Studies at Brown, spells out his intentions in the introductory pages: “This book IT SEEMS p r o p o s e s a ver y d i f ferTO ME ent answer to RABBI JIM the question of when and ROSENBERG how the Bible gained authority. I will argue here that Jews and Christians gave to the texts that constitute our Bible only very limited and specific kinds of authority well into the third-century and beyond. The “peoples of the book” did not know their book very well.”

Satlow tells the story of how the written texts of the Tanakh (the Hebrew Bible) and the New Testament came to be from the perspective of modern scholarship; he accepts in broad outline the Documentary Hypothesis, which sees the Torah as the stitching together of separate documents identified as J, E, D and P – and some would add H (the Holiness Code).

Nevertheless, Satlow’s primary interest is not the texts themselves but rather the historical and social contexts within which the written word of scripture gradually gains authority over the centuries.

The author distinguishes among three different types of authority: normative, “the authority to dictate our behaviors;” literary, “the common phenomenon of authors using earlier texts as models for new ones;” and oracular, the authority “assigned to a text that is thought to deliver a message, usually about the future, from the divine realm. This is the authority that in antiquity was most commonly linked to the term ‘holy.’ ” Satlow begins his study of the evolving Biblical texts and contexts in 922 BCE with the breakup of Solomon’s kingdom into Israel in the north and Judah in the south. Throughout his complex and nuanced discussion, Satlow states and restates what should be obvious,

but what is rarely given its due among Biblical scholars: the overwhelming majority of individuals living during the centuries of development of the written Bible were illiterate! Only a tiny elite – the most historically significant among them, the sophrim, the scribes – could read and write. That being the case, it should come as no surprise that repeated attempts to infuse various written texts with some form of authority were almost certain to fail.

In 458 BCE, for example, Ezra, both a scribe and a priest, was sent to Jerusalem by the Persian court. According to the book of Nehemiah, chapter 8, on Rosh Hashanah of that year,

who publicly read from their Greek translation of the Bible in their synagogues (a Greek word) every Shabbat, were far more deeply connected to the written word of the Bible than were their co-religionists in Judea, who, for the most part illiterate, remained largely ignorant of the Hebrew Tanakh.

Similarly, and with equal irony, first-century Judean Christians relied upon the literary and oracular authority of the Hebrew Bible in order to “prove” that Jesus’ life and death were the “fulfillment of Scripture.”

Satlow challenges conventional assumptions not only with his overarching thesis concerning “how” and “when” the Bible finally became an authoritative text; he also challenges convention with his supporting arguments.

In contrast to the more commonly held position that Qumran was populated by Essenes, he holds that the first-century Qumran community that produced the Dead Sea Scrolls were a group of breakaway Sadducees. Moreover, when he makes the case that the Pharisees formed the core of a wealthy, conservative, tradition-bound Jerusalem aristocracy, he is taking a position that is at odds with other scholarly views of these major players in the ongoing drama of the Jewish people.

Satlow writes that “[t] oday we take for granted the religious authority of texts.” He points out that the writings of our rabbis are laced with “proof texts” from our Tanakh.

Whether intentionally or not, Satlow raises the broader question of what brings authority to the written word in general.

When the spoken word achieves written form, something magical happens. In a literate society, the written word – as opposed to the spoken word – carries a special gravitas; it tastes of permanence. Perhaps this is why when Yiddishspeaking Jews find themselves in heated debate, a definitive way to clinch the argument is to insist, “Shteyt geschrieben! It is written!”

“ ‘How the Bible Became Holy’ is filled with surprises and ironies.”

Ezra assembled the populace of the city for a public reading of some version of what is now our Torah. Satlow comments: “The author of the chapter does not tell us why the people did not reassemble (on the next day) to continue the reading, but it is likely that the public reading – in contrast to what the author wants us to believe – was a failure. Ezra misjudged his audience.”

“How the Bible Became Holy” is filled with surprises and ironies. Thus, Satlow points out that “[t]he Septuagint became a holy book that Alexandrian Jews saw as essential to their identity and to their relationship to their God, even if they largely ignored its normative authority.” That is to say, during the first century, literate Greek-speaking Jews in Egypt,

JAMES B. ROSENBERG is rabbi emeritus at Temple Habonim in Barrington. Contact him at rabbiemeritus@templehabonim.org.

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Memorial Day more important than ever

BY PETE ZUBOF In a recent article in the Atlantic Monthly titled “The Tragedy of the American Military,” author James Fallows discusses, among other topics, the “reverent but disengaged attitude [of the American public] toward the military.” Fallows postulates that this is largely the result of a demographic change, both in the numbers of those who have served in uniform and the percentage of our citizenry with close military ties. If Fallows’ assertion has any validity, and I think it does, then the Memorial Day holiday will become more important with each passing year.

American involvement in World War II saw a level of military participation unsurpassed, before or since. Of those who were service eligible (largely young men, but also some young women), 10 percent of the population saw service in that war, most overseas. Nearly every citizen of the United States either served in the military or had a close family member serving. Among baby boomers, those born in the aftermath of the war, 75 percent of Americans had an immediate family member who had served. The “Greatest Generation” was created, in no small part, based on the unity of focus and sacrifice surrounding military service.

By contrast, less than 1 percent of those eligible to serve in uniform today currently do so.

Fallows estimates that even less than that, about three-quarters of 1 percent, has actually seen combat in Iraq or Afghanista.

More distressingly, among millenials, only about 1 in 3 has a close family member or friend who is serving or has served in the post-9/11 military.

What, you may ask, is the big deal about civil-military disengagement? I’ve been to the ballpark, you may say; I’ve seen them honor the troops I’ve watched someone give up a first-class seat to a service member in uniform. America loves its military! From Fallows’ point of view, and mine, that unchecked love is exactly the problem.

Increasingly, Americans have developed a cult of hero worship of those in the military; they love those in uniform, but they have no true understanding of those service members or the military in which they serve.

For me, as an American Jewish service member, I find it especially disheartening that perhaps no segment of the population is more disconnected from our military than our own Jewish community. Consider that, during World War II, more than 500,000 Jews served in the American military. Today, the Jewish Chaplains’ council estimates that number to be less than 10,000, with some estimates cutting that number again by half. My own anecdotal experiences, visiting Rhode Island synagogues, has shown

an almost total absence of service members from our religious institutions. Sure, I have conversed with the occasional veteran of World War II, Korea

in conversations about service do value their own privacy. If you see me in uniform on an airplane, returning from a long trip, I will appreciate your

and Vietnam, but younger Jews simply do not serve in uniform the way they once did.

One of the least heralded but most important elements of American society is civilian control of the military. A disengaged, uninformed society, however, cannot exercise educated and appropriate control over its military services. As Jews, we pride ourselves on being the thinkers and leaders within our communities, yet how can we continue in this role if we become increasingly disconnected from those who serve?

Not all service members want to talk about their service.

Even those who wish to engage

gratitude, but I am unlikely to want to engage in long political or psychological discourse.

Luckily, our calendars do have a time set aside for just that sort of conversation: Memorial Day. The future importance of the Memorial Day holiday, therefore, cannot be overemphasized. As our military grows smaller, our statistical opportunities for meaningful interactions with service members will naturally fall. Short of a major war in our future, the trend of civil-military disengagement is unlikely to reverse. Yet events like Memorial Day celebrations give us a chance to mitigate the risks that such disengagement presents.

It is one of the few opportunities to directly engage with those who serve or have served.

It’s no coincidence that the Navy and Marine Corps use Memorial Day to kick off events throughout the country, including New York’s Fleet Week and our own Rhode Island Navy Week. So if you see a service member or veteran this Memorial Day weekend, take advantage of the opportunity. Talk to that service member, get to know their story and make it a goal to become reengaged with your military.

As a citizen of a nation with an all-volunteer military force, you have no requirement to serve in the military. Yet I offer that you do have an obligation to understand those who choose military service and the institution that they support. Use Memorial Day as not just a reminder of the sacrifices of those who served, but as a reminder to renew that obligation.

PETE ZUBOF is a native of Richmond, Virginia. He completed his undergraduate studies at the University of Maryland and has a master’s degree from the University of Rhode Island. He’s a pilot in the United States Navy and currently on the staff of the Naval War College. Pete is also the Jewish layleader for Naval Station Newport. Pete blogs regularly for 401j. He resides in Jamestown with his wife, Morgan, their son, Logan and dog Cider.

Will Vatican’s Palestine reference impact Jewish-Catholic ties?

BY RON KAMPEAS WASHINGTON (JTA) – When considering the Vatican’s creep toward recognition of Palestinian statehood, think “Israel-Vatican” and not “JewishCatholic,” say Jewish officials involved in dialogue with the church.

A May 13 announcement on an agreement regarding the functioning of the church in areas under Palestinian control raised eyebrows in its reference to the “State of Palestine.”

The upset was compounded by confusion over whether Pope Francis, in a meeting over the weekend with Palestinian Authority President Mahmoud Abbas, praised him as an “angel of peace” or urged him to attain that vaunted status. On May 19, a Vatican spokesman said it was “very clear” that the pope was “encouraging a commitment to peace.”

But the Vatican’s shift from terming its Palestinian partner as the Palestine Liberation Organization – the designation Israel accepts – to calling it Palestine comports with a shift in Europe toward accommodating Palestinian statehood aspirations, the Jewish officials said.

Referring to a State of Palestine was “disturbing, but not critical,” Abraham Foxman,

the Anti-Defamation League’s national director, said in an interview with JTA. Catholic-Jewish relations and diplomacy between Israel and the Vatican are “on different tracks,” Foxman said.

Israeli officials, speaking anonymously, said they were “disappointed” in the use of State of Palestine.

“Such a development does not further the peace process and distances the Palestinian leadership from returning to direct bilateral negotiations.

Israel will study the agreement and consider its next step,” an official told the French news agency AFP. A number of congressional Republicans also expressed “disappointment” in the pope, Politico reported.

Marshall Breger, a professor at the Catholic University of America’s School of Law who has led a number of Jewish dialogues with other faiths, said the use of the term Palestine was the product of an evolution in how the international community is treating the Palestinian question.

“De facto, the Vatican has accepted Palestine as a state,” he said. “It just adds one more country to the over 130 that have recognized Palestine.”

The issue is a matter of diplo-

macy and does not breach the sensitive issues under discussion between Jews and Catholics as they mark the 50th anniversary of the Nostra Aetate, the declaration that absolved Jews of responsibility for Jesus’ death, Breger said.

“It’s a minor event,” he said.

“It should not interfere with Jewish-Catholic relations.”

Using Nostra Aetate as a basis, Jewish and Catholic officials over the years have addressed problematic references to Jews in the Catholic liturgy and the role of the Vatican during the Nazi period.

Morton Klein, the president of the Zionist Organization of America, told The Washington Post that the “Palestine” reference amounted to “appeasement of radical Muslims” and signaled “the historical Catholic enmity toward Jews.”

For the most part, however, Jewish organizations dealing with the Vatican were concerned about the statement, but only insofar as it represented another success in efforts by the Palestinians to secure statehood recognition outside the context of negotiations with Israel.

“We are fully cognizant of the Pope’s good will and desire to be a voice for peaceful coexistence, which is best served, we

believe, by encouraging a resumption of Israeli-Palestinian peace talks, rather than unilateral gestures outside the framework of the negotiating table,” David Harris, the American Jewish Committee director, said in a statement.

Weighing in with similar statements were the Conference of Presidents of Major American Jewish Organizations and the Union for Reform Judaism.

When the Vatican launched talks with the Palestinians in 2000, it referred to the other side as the PLO, but over time shifted to Palestine. Pope Francis in his 2014 visit to Israel and the West Bank spoke of “my presence today in Palestine” during a Bethlehem stop and referred to “the good relations existing between the Holy See and the State of Palestine.”

Daniel Mariaschin, the director of B’nai B’rith International, said the recognition of Palestine raised concerns, but they must be seen in the context of an increased willingness in Europe to recognize Palestinian statehood and not of JewishCatholic relations.

He likened it to the French and British parliaments’ recent nonbinding recognitions of Palestine and Sweden’s decision to recognize Palestinian statehood.

Obama administration officials continue to maintain that recognizing Palestine outside the context of peace talks is counterproductive.

However, prompted in part by Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu’s seeming election eve retreat from supporting a twostate solution, they now will not count out withholding the U.S. veto should the U.N. Security Council consider a Palestinian statehood resolution.

Seymour Reich, a former chairman of the Conference of Presidents of Major American Jewish Organizations, who also has been involved in JewishCatholic dialogue, said the Palestine recognition should serve as a “wake-up call” for Israel.

“It doesn’t affect [Vatican] relations with Israel at all,” Reich said.

Instead, he argued, Vatican recognition of Palestine is another manifestation of European disaffection with Benjamin Netanyahu’s hawkish policies.

Errata

In Rabbi Jim Rosenberg’s “It Seems to Me” column on May 8, Susan Sontag’s book “On Photography” is misidentified as “On Philosophy.” We regret the error.

10 | May 22, 2015

Ongoing Alliance Kosher Senior Café. Kosher lunch and program every Monday, Wednesday and Friday. Dwares JCC, 401 Elmgrove Ave., Providence. Noon lunch; 1 p.m. program. $3 lunch donation from individuals 60+ or under 60 with disabilities. Neal or Elaine, 401421-4111, ext. 107.

Am David Kosher Senior Café. Kosher lunch and program every weekday.

Temple Am David, 40 Gardiner St., Warwick. 11:15 a.m. program; Noon lunch. $3 lunch donation from individuals 60+ or under 60 with disabilities. Elaine or Steve 401-732-0047.

Through | June 10

Changing America: The Emancipation Proclamation, 1863 and the March on Washington, 1963. Changing America examines the Emancipation Proclamation and the March on Washington, two events separated by 100 years, yet profoundly linked together in a larger story of liberty and the American experience. Exhibition is on loan from the Smithsonian’s National Museum of African American History and Culture and the National Museum of American History in collaboration with the American Library Association Public Programs Office. Sponsored by the Center for the Study of Slavery & Justice. Brown RISD Hillel.

Through | June 25

Spring Watercolor Florals, Photographs from Nigeria. The Gallery at Temple Habonim displays Nancy Godfray’s and Toni Peterson’s watercolors along with Shai Afsai’s photographs from his trips to Nigeria to document the Igbo Jews. 165 New Meadow Road, Barrington. Hours are Wednesdays and Thursdays from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m., Fridays from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. and by appointment. For information, call 401-2456536, or email gallery@templehabonim. org.

Saturday | May 23 Torah Learn-a-Thon. Study group and discussions. 1 a.m. – dawn. Chabad House, 360 Hope St. (Corner of Olney).

PJ Library Shabbat Storytime.

Children’s stories for Shavuot 10:30 – 11:30 a.m. Congregation Beth Sholom, corner of Rochambeau Ave. and Camp St. Guest storyteller, Emely Aghion. For children ages 3-8, siblings welcome.

CBS Kids Room. Adults please accompany young children. More information: bethsholom-ri.org.

Sunday | May 24 Celebrate Shavuot. 10:30 a.m. Services; Hear the Ten Commandments 11:30 a.m. Chabad House, 360 Hope St. (Corner of Olney). Followed by children’s program with holiday luncheon.

Monday | May 25 Shavuot/Yizkor Service. 9:15 a.m.

Temple Torat Yisrael, 1251 Middle

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Chabad House services. 10:30 a.m.; Yizkor services 11:30 a.m.; holiday evening services 8 p.m. Chabad House, 360 Hope St. (Corner of Olney).

Wednesday | May 27

Fashion for the Jewish Sole featuring Jane Weitzman. 7-9 p.m. Temple Beth-El, 70 Orchard Ave., Providence.

Join the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island for a dessert reception featuring Jane Weitzman, author of “Art & Sole.” Admission: $18 plus a gift of any amount to the 2015 Jewish Alliance Annual Campaign. For more information or to RSVP, contact Danielle Germanowski at 401-421-4111, ext.

109 or dgermanowski@jewishallianceri.org or visit jewishallianceri.org.

Friday | May 29 Shabbat on Broadway Service. 7:30 p.m. Temple Sinai’s 2nd annual event with Cantor Wendy Siegel and Cantor Emeritus Remmie Brown leading the service and singing many of the Friday night prayers to the tune of Broadway shows – Fiddler on the Roof, Mary Poppins, Man of LaMancha, Les Miserables, and the Sound of Music. Shireinu, the Temple Sinai community chorus, will also participate. All are welcome.

Sunday | May 31

Pro-Israel Speaker at Temple Torat Yisrael Men’s Club|Sisterhood Breakfast. 9:30 a.m. 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich. Seymour “Sy” Dill is one of the founders of Stand With Us RI, a group that educates the public about Israel and the Arab-Israeli conflict. Dill, now retired and living on Providence’s East Side, had lived on a Kibbutz for two years with his family. Open to the public. For more information, contact David Talan at 401-941-3662 or 401-862-7519 or email DaveTalan@aol.com.

Torat Yisrael Open House. 10 a.m. – 12:30 p.m. Temple Torat Yisrael, 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich. 401885-6600 or toratyisrael.org.

A Night to Honor Israel. 7 p.m. Praise Tabernacle, 330 Park Ave., Cranston (former home of Torat Yisrael).

Presentation by StandWithUs RI and Christians United for Israel. Professor Irving Schild, Major Eldar Bar-Or will speak. Kosher refreshments served.

More information, StandWithUs-RI@ yahoo.com.

“New Anti-Semitism: The Price for Talking About it and the Price for Failing to Do So” 7:30 p.m. Dr. Phyllis Chesler, Emerita Professor of Psychology at City University of New York, speaks at Tifereth Israel, 145 Brownell Ave., New Bedford, Mass. Rabbi Bernard H. & Minna Ziskind Memorial Lecture is open to all followed by a dessert reception. For more information, contact Kenneth Turkewitz, 508-997-3171.

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JUNE 5 issue, FATHER’S DAY – must be received by MAY 27.

JUNE 19 issue, HEALTH & WELLNESS – must be received by JUNE 10.

SEND ALL CALENDAR ITEMS TO: editor@jewishallianceri.org with the subject line “CALENDAR.” Calendar entries may be edited for content, length and relevance. Please submit two weeks prior to issue of publication.

Nancy Godfray’s “Sunlit Rose” at The Gallery at Temple Habonim.

Tuesday | June 2

gallery (401) Early Childhood Center Art Show. Dwares JCC. Featuring works by children in our David C. Isenberg Family Early Childhood Center. This event is free and open to the community. On display through June 9. For more information, contact Nicole Katzman at 401-421-4111, ext. 180 or nkatzman@jewishallianceri.org.

Wednesday | June 3

Jewish Culture through Film: Seven Jewish Short Films. 7 p.m. Dwares JCC. In collaboration with the Rhode Island International Film Festival, the Jewish Alliance will be showing seven Jewish short films. Admission $10 | Members $6. For more information, contact Erin Moseley at 401-4214111, ext. 108 or emoseley@jewishallianceri.org Cranston Senior Guild Annual Spring Installation of officers. West Valley Inn, 4 Blossom St., West Warwick, at noon. The cost of the lunch is $21, which includes soup, salad, pasta, entre, and dessert. All men and women 55 years of age or older are welcome to join the senior guild For information, call Natalie at 401-615-9483.

Friday | June 5

Temple Shalom honors Rabbi Jagolinzer. Sabbath Eve Service. 7:30 p.m. The worship will feature Cantor Fredric Scheff accompanied by Stephen Martorella. The Community Baptist Church Choir and the United Congregation Church Choir will offer musical selections. The sermon will be delivered by The Rev. R. Joseph Tripp, Jr., a colleague and close friend of the Rabbi. Temple Shalom, 223 Valley Road, Middletown. For more information contact Mickie and Gerry Mac Neill at 401-447-0702.

Friday Night Live Honors Torat Yisrael Volunteers. 6 p.m. Temple Torat Yisrael, 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich. Friday Night Live is a musical celebration of Shabbat with dinner to follow. Menu: Chicken, Potato, Vegetable and Dessert. Cost: Adults and Children over 12, $20 per person; children 12 years and younger free, family max. $60. RSVP to Torat Yisrael office at 401-885-6600 by May 29.

Saturday | June 6

Temple Shalom honors Rabbi Jagolinzer. Shabbat Morning Services.

10 a.m. Cantor Scheff and members of

the Congregation will participate. The sermon will be delivered by Rabbi Loel Weiss. A Kiddush luncheon will conclude the morning’s events. Temple Shalom, 223 Valley Road, Middletown.

For more information contact Mickie and Gerry Mac Neill at 401-447-0702.

Sunday | June 7

Temple Shalom honors Rabbi Jagolinzer. Cocktails followed by dinner and tribute. 6 p.m. At the Atlantic Beach Club. A dairy buffet dinner will be served. The featured speaker for the evening will be The Most Reverend Thomas J. Tobin, Bishop of Providence, a longtime friend of the Rabbi. Other speakers include Sheila Mullowney, Editor of The Newport Daily News, Jonathan Herman, a former student of Rabbi Jagolinzer, Charles Jagolinzer, his son and Alvin Marcovici, President of Temple Shalom. Entertainment will include some musical selections by Cantor Scheff and a tribute to the Rabbi by members and friends of Temple Shalom. All are cordially to join with Temple Shalom in feting the Rabbi on this milestone occasion. For more information contact Mickie and Gerry Mac Neill at 401-447-0702.

Monday | June 8

30th Annual Dwares JCC Golf Classic. 11 a.m. Ledgemont Country Club.

Hosted by the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island. 11 a.m. Registration | 11:30 a.m. Lunch | 12:45 p.m.

Shotgun Start | 5:30 p.m. Cocktails, Dinner & Awards. Register online at jewishallianceri.org or by contacting Hillary Schulman at 401-421-4111 ext. 127 or hschulman@jewishallianceri.org.

Tuesday | June 9

Federal Benefits for Veterans and Their Surviving Spouses and Daily Money Management. Presented by Jim Goldman, CPA, ABV and President of ElderCare, R.I., LLC. 6:30 p.m. Tamarisk Assisted Living Residence, 3 Shalom Drive, Warwick. RSVP to Dianne 401732-0037.

Can We Talk About Israel? Presented by the Israel Task Force of the Community Relations Council and The Jewish Voice. 6:30-9 p.m. Dwares JCC. Based on the successful “Israel Talks” program developed in New York and a local pilot program in February, this program hopes to promote civil dialog and active discussion about Israel-Arab issues and the role of the United States.

Small, diverse groups with a moderator will discuss important issues to foster listening, dialogue and understanding for the wide range of perspectives that exist in the Jewish community. This will help strengthen our community by encouraging civil discourse, mutual respect and tolerance for our diverse points of view; help ensure that our love for Israel unites rather than divides us. Coffee and dessert will be served. No admission charge. Space is limited. RSVP by June 2 by contacting Marty Cooper at 401-421-4111, ext. 171 or mcooper@ jewishallianceri.org.

Wednesday | June 10 Jewish Alliance Annual Meeting. 7 p.m. Dwares JCC. Board Installations: Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island, Jewish Federation Foundation, Alliance Realty, Inc. More information, contact Gail Putnam at 401-421-4111, ext. 158, or gputnam@jewishallianceri. org.

Our Immigrant Songwriters. Noon at Temple Beth-El. A musical celebration of Jewish immigrants’ contributions to Tin Pan Alley 1909-1941. Judy Seplowin, soprano; Fred Scheff, tenor; Lila Kane accompanist; narrated by John Bush Jones. Lunch included. $5 per person. For more information, 401331-6070 or info@temple-beth-el.org.

Friday | June 12 (401)j Shabbaton. Camp JORI. 1065 Wordens Pond Road, Wakefield. Thought June 14. Spend the weekend with (401)j, a group of dynamic Jews, ages early 20s to mid-40s, who are dedicated to building a thriving Jewish collaboration in the “401.” Through a variety of programs including social, cultural, educational and advocacy, young Jews like you are continuing the tradition of community. Whether you’re professionals, grad students, just starting your adult lives or are married and have children, stop wandering…

(401)j is your destination. Cost: $36 per person. For more information or to hold your spot at the Shabbaton, contact Erin Moseley at emoseley@jewishallianceri. org or 401-421-4111, ext. 108.

Sunday | June 14 Trash to Treasure Sale and Bake Sale.

8 a.m. – noon. Temple Torat Yisrael, 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich.

Rent a table for $25 to sell your stuff or donate your stuff to the Torat Yisrael table. Call the Torat Yisrael office at 885-6600 for more details.

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From tangy pizza starters to gourmet cheese casseroles and luscious cheesecake desserts, quality dairy cheese products provide the key ingredients for a scrumptious array of Shavuot dishes that will be served to family and friends during the festive holiday. And because Shavuot immediately follows Shabbat this year, the challenge for both amateur and gourmet chefs to whip a series of delectable dairy dishes begins in the dairy cheese department at your local supermarket.

These recipes, crafted by Tnuva’s chefs, would also make a delicious addition to your table throughout spring.

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Celebrate Shavuot and spring with dairy

Extra butter to grease the pan

For frosting: 1 tablespoon granulated instant coffee 1 tablespoon boiling water 1/2 cup dark chocolate For topping: 1/4 cup sugar 1 1/2 tablespoons butter 1/2 teaspoon sea salt 2/3 cup whipping cream 2 1/2 cups popcorn kernels, popped

Instructions:

Cheese and Mushroom Medley Serves 4

Ingredients

1 1/3 pound mix of white, forest, shiitake and crimini mushrooms, chopped 2 garlic cloves 4 sprigs thyme 3 tablespoons parsley, freshly chopped 1 tablespoon butter, melted Sea salt 1/2 cup feta or light feta cheese, grated 1/2 cup Parmesan cheese

Instructions

1. Preheat oven to 400 degrees F. 2. Combine mushrooms, garlic, thyme, 2 tablespoons of parsley, butter and olive oil and season with salt and pepper.

3. Place two pieces of parchment paper on the surface. Divide the mushroom mixture in half and place each half in the center of the parchment paper. Using cooking twine, bind the baking paper into a sealed “bag.” Bake for about 15 minutes until the mushrooms soften.

4. Carefully open the paper bags and sprinkle the cheeses over the warm mushrooms. Sprinkle the rest of the

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Extreme Cheesecake – Movie Theater Style chopped parsley and serve hot.

Arancini: Classic Italian Rice Balls

Serves 8-10

Ingredients

3 1/3 cups vegetable stock or boiling water 2 cups Arborio risotto or short grain rice 1/2 cup Parmesan cheese, grated 1 1/2 cups mozzarella cheese, grated 1/2 cup goat cheese, sliced in rounds Sea salt Ground black pepper For coating: 1 cup cornmeal 1 teaspoon ground black pepper Oil for deep-frying

For serving (optional)

Any of your favorite spreads, such as: pesto, roasted pepper dip, tomato sauce

Instructions

1. One day prior to serving:

Bring the vegetable stock or water to boil. Add the rice plus 1 teaspoon of sea salt and bring to boil on high heat. Reduce to medium heat and cook until all the liquid is absorbed. Add the grated Parmesan cheese, season with salt and pepper and mix well. Let cool and refrigerate overnight.

2. The following day, add mozzarella cheese and mix well.

3. To prepare the balls: take a full tablespoon of the rice mixture with wet hands and form into a ball. Flatten the ball and place a goat cheese slice in the center. Pinch the edges to close around the filling and roll gently into a ball. Repeat with the remaining mixture.

4. Prepare a large pot with oil for deep-frying. In a shallow bowl, mix the cornmeal with black pepper.

5. Roll each ball in the flour mixture. When the oil is hot but not boiling, fry each ball for about 5 minutes until golden. Fry no more than 3-4 balls at one time.

6. Using a slotted spoon, remove the balls from the pot and place on a plate lined with paper towels.

7. Serve warm or at room temperature with your favorite spreads.

Extreme Cheesecake – Movie Theater Style

Serves 10 Prepared in a large loaf pan

Arancini: Classic Italian Rice Balls

For the cake: 1/2 cup butter, softened 1/2 cup soft cream cheese, at room temperature 3/4 cup sugar 3 medium eggs, at room temperature 1 teaspoon vanilla extract Zest of 1 lemon 1/2 cup self-rising flour

1. For the topping: Preheat oven to 250 degrees F and line a baking tray with baking paper.

Place the sugar in a thin layer in a pot and melt over low heat until it reaches a deep ambercolored caramel. Remove from heat and add the butter and salt. Return the pan to the heat and stir constantly. Gradually pour the heavy cream into the mixture and stir until it forms a thick sauce. Remove from heat. Add the popcorn into the sauce and stir well. Arrange the popcorn evenly onto the baking tray and bake for about 60 minutes until golden.

Make sure to occasionally flip the popcorn so that it does not

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stick together. Remove from the oven and let cool.

2. To prepare the cake, preheat oven to 325 degrees F. Grease and line the loaf pan with baking paper.

3. Using a mixer, whip the butter, cream cheese and sugar until the mixture is fluffy and airy. While mixing, gradually add the eggs. Then add the vanilla extract and lemon zest and continue to mix. Add the flour and blend until fully mixed.

4. Pour the batter into the loaf pan with a spatula and smooth until even. Bake for about 30 minutes until golden.

Test with a toothpick to ensure that the center is fully baked; the toothpick must come out dry. Let the cake cool for about 10 minutes and remove from the pan. Let it cool on a baking rack.

5. To prepare the frosting: Melt the coffee grains in boiling water. Add chocolate and mix well.

6. To assemble the cake: Pour the frosting onto the cake and smooth with a spatula. Sprinkle the sweet popcorn on top and enjoy!

Cheese and Mushroom Medley

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Alice Goldstein honored by Am David and community

BY GERALDINE FOSTER Alice Dreifuss Goldstein loves to tell stories, true stories of her life in Germany and growing up in a strange country, the United States. She lovingly told these stories in her memoir “Ordinary People, Turbulent Times.”

To those who know her, Alice is far from ordinary. She has collaborated with her distinguished husband Dr. Sidney Goldstein in demographic surveys, including several of the Jewish community and Jewish education. In her own right she has earned international recognition for her research on the effect of modernity on populations; how people respond to change. Her interests lie in the human story behind and beyond the facts and figures.

To her family and friends, her synagogue Temple Am David, the Holocaust Education Resource Center and Library, the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island and the community as a whole, Alice’s extraordinary creative energy, knowledge and insights have been invaluable.

A goodly crowd of well-wishers attended the gala in Alice’s honor May 16, in the social hall of Congregation Am David. It was part of the congregation’s Weekend of Celebration. Paula Olivieri, chair of the gala, greeted the crowd. Warwick Mayor Scott Avedesian read a

the Eshet Chayil, a Woman of Valor.

Minna Ellison represented the Jewish Alliance and the former Bureau of Jewish Education, which Alice had served as president. She referenced Jewish sources regarding the importance of a census. Counting each person is not merely compiling numbers but rather valuing each soul, paying attention to people as individuals. In her professional career

Alice Goldstein proclamation in Alice’s honor.

Referring to the recent commemoration of the Armenian Massacre, he thanked Alice for speaking out against injustice.

The speakers who followed all alluded to Alice’s talents as a teacher and the life lessons she imparted by word and by deed. She has the ability to influence young people, raise their awareness of human suffering and motivate them to stand up for civil rights and human dignity. She inspires as she acts on her own commitment to her faith and Jewish values.

In offering the toast, Gloria Feibish, friend, colleague and cohort, spoke of their friendship and volunteer collaboration, how Alice fit the profile of

“She inspires as she acts on her own commitment to her faith and Jewish values.” and as a teacher, Alice honored this special relationship to people.

Alice has reached more than a thousand students with her story, according to Judith Jamieson, president of the Holocaust Education Center and Library. She described Alice as “golden” in her support of the Center and its educational program, in the richness of her intellect and generosity of spirit.

Rabbi Richard Perlman described Alice as a gem, a source of beauty in the congregation. She is the one to whom he has turned when he

needed a listening ear. Never has Alice spoken ill of anyone, he said. Her words are always well thought out, respectful of others. By her life’s story she teaches that change presents difficulties, but one can make something good out of change and the unknown.

A highlight of the evening was the saga of Alice and Sid narrated by Dr. Sidney Goldstein. Briefly put, it told the story of how an Ashkenazi boy and a girl originally from Germany found each other (after some maneuvering by two mothers plus a few missteps), fell in love and married. He spoke movingly of their life together, their family and their home in Warwick where they have lived for 40 years.

He paid a touching tribute to Alice for her immeasurable help to him in his professional career and her selfless devotion and caring. With his pride in Alice evident, he read several comments from young people who had been touched by her presentation. As one young man wrote: “You have changed my life. By your stories I have felt your pain.”

The two Goldstein daughters then called on Alice to sit on the stage. From a suitcase they produced items that told the story of her life. They included the quilts she had made for her grandchildren. As each of the seven quilts was displayed, a message was read from the

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grandchild it had originally warmed.

As a memento of this evening, Alice was given a painting by Naomi Lipsky. The artist, in making the presentation, spoke of Alice’s willingness to try something new and her joyful response to life.

At the end of the program Alice spoke with her typical charm and grace. She identified herself as a wife, mother, g ra nd mot her, g re at- g ra ndmother and teacher, and expressed her gratitude to the agencies so important in her life: the former Bureau of Jewish Education, the Holocaust Center, Jewish Alliance and Am David, for the opportunities they afforded her to study, learn and teach.

On a personal note, the dictionary tells us what’s in a name. Depending on which of three languages you prefer, Alice may mean noble, kind or truthful. All three attributes come together in Alice Dreifuss Goldstein.

GERALDINE FOSTER is a past president of the Rhode Island Jewish Historical Association.

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Planning for tomorrow isn’t easy.

But it’s a must.

And planning for the next generation is precisely what ensures that the foundation for our Jewish life remains strong.

When you leave a bequest or a planned gift at the Jewish Federation Foundation, you touch each one of us. You leave your children and grandchildren a precious inheritance and a lasting testimony to your love and values.

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Rhode Island’s Double Chai Society kicks off strong The Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island’s newest giving initiative is a success

BY HILLARY SCHULMAN hschulman@jewishallianceri.org

PROVIDENCE – Friends old and new gathered on May 7 at Pizzico Ristorante for the Double Chai Society’s inaugural cocktail reception. This group is the Jewish Alliance’s newest Annual Campaign giving initiative designed to engage young donors between the ages of 30 and 50 who give a gift of at least $360. The philanthropic endeavors of this group aim to help the Annual Campaign provide for those in need and sustain the local and global Jewish communities. The society plans social and educational activities to engage members of this frequently missed demographic.

The 25 young community members heard remarks by Double Chai Society chairs, Steve and Emily Shalansky, who spoke about the personal impact the Alliance has had on their lives. Steve and Emily met on the steps of what was once called the JCC. As time went on, and the JCC became the Jewish Alliance, the Shalanskys remain com-

mitted to the notion that “without community, you have nothing.”

The Shalanskys’ remarks were followed by those of Alliance CEO Jeffrey Savit, who thanked each attendee for his impactful gift. He proudly reported that Jewish Rhode Island has raised about $5 million for different initiatives for both the local and global communities. He reiterated that the power of the collective is much stronger than the power of the individual, and together, this demographic has the ability to do extraordinary things.

The group enjoyed drinks and hors d’oeuvres while getting to know each other. The belief in the power of the collective was clearly demonstrated, with familiar and unfamiliar faces showing a promise of what’s next for the Double Chai Society.

For more information about The Double Chai Society, or its upcoming events, please contact Hillary Schulman at hschulman@jewishal lianceri.org or 401-421-4111, ext.

127, or Erin Moseley, director of Arts & Culture and NextGen Engagement, at emoseley@jewishallianceri.org or 401-421-4111, ext. 108.

Michael and Jennifer Oelbaum and Jeffrey Isaacs.

HILLARY SCHULMAN is a development associate in Philanthropy for the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island.

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Double Chai Co-Chair Steve Shalansky, Marc Gertsacov, Rabbi Barry Dolinger, Naomi Baine and Double Chai Co-Chair Emily Shalansky.

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Shanghai Reform community’s Torah scroll a gift from Brazil

Governor Gina Raimondo makes a point.

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which members of the news media recorded.

Every speaker reminded the crowd of the importance of this monument to survivors of the Holocaust as well as to the victims. “This will be a place to learn, reflect, remember,” said Rabbi Wayne Franklin of Temple Emanu-El. Governor Raimondo said she hoped that visitors would use this as “an opportunity to express kindness.”

And Rep. David Cicilline said he hoped it would also serve as a reminder that we have to continue to work against bigotry and hatred.

The Jewish community

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Committee Chair Herb Stern, and Alliance Board Chair Sharon Gaines in the background.

of greater Rhode Island has known for years about the efforts to build this monument. A committee of dedicated volunteers has carried out the vision of the original donors, including David Newman, to build a memorial to survivors of the Holocaust. Thanks to their efforts, the building should be completed and ready for dedication in August. The site is adjacent to the World War I and II memorials in Memorial Park on Main Street.

Committee Chair Herb Stern thanked everyone for their hard work, including those “who contributed their treasures.

The memorial is the design

of Providence artist Jonathan Bonner. Will Greene is the landscape architect on the project. It includes Bluetooth technology to connect visitors to educational materials developed by the Holocaust Education and Resource Center of Rhode Island, as well as to websites and other materials on the Holocaust.

Visitors will be able to connect via smartphone or tablet. The technology component was a collaboration with Johnson & Wales University.

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FRAN OSTENDORF is editor of The Jewish Voice.

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The Rio Connections 2015 JTA — The newly established Reform Jewish community of event, a four-day conference Shanghai, China, will receive that opened May 13, is the first its first Torah scroll from a sis- WUPJ biennial in Latin Amerter congregation in Brazil. ica and the first time the bienThe donation of the scroll nial is including the Shanghai

by ARI, Rio de Janeiro’s Progressive congregation, to the Kehilat Shanghai community was announced at a ceremony May 13 in Rio de Janeiro, where 300 delegates are attending at the World Union of Progressive Judaism’s biannual meeting.

Shanghai Reform community receives The donation first Torah scroll from Brazil “is a big step that gives us the means and the re- community, according to Mirsponsibility to promote our ac- iam Kramer of Britain, who is tive community in all aspects,” a WUPJ board member and the Arie Schreier, president of Ke- chairwoman of the union’s Euhilat Shanghai, said, according ropean branch. to a report on the ceremony on “They may not be in Europe the website of CONIB, the um- or North America, but the probrella group representing Bra- gressive communities of Latin zilian Jewish communities.

America, Asia and elsewhere Kehilat Shanghai, which has are by no means out of the a few dozen members, including way,” she said.

Jewish business people living Brazil’s Reform congregain Shanghai and their families, tions were established in the was established in 2011 and last 1930s and ‘40s by German and year accepted into the union, other European Reform Jews which has 1,200 affiliated com- who fled from Europe. Currentmunities in 45 countries. Of ly, Brazil has eight communithose, 20 countries were repre- ties affiliated with WUPJ. sented at the conference.

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Tuesday, June 9 | 6:30 - 9:00pm Dwares JCC 401 Elmgrove Avenue, Providence Join us for this interesting, informative, and stimulating experience.

The goal of “Can We Talk About Israel?” is to promote civil dialog and active discussion in the Rhode Island Jewish community about Israel-Arab issues and the role of the United States. The program is based on the successful “Israel Talks” program developed in New York by the Jewish Community Relations Council and a local pilot program held in February. Small, diverse groups are created and include a moderator. Each group will discuss important issues that will foster listening, dialog and understanding for the wide range of perspectives that we know exist in our Jewish community. The purpose of “Can We Talk About Israel?” is to help strengthen our community. This is done by encouraging civil discourse, mutual respect and tolerance for our diverse points of view; to help ensure that our love for Israel unites us more than divides us; and to build more community participation on Israel related issues.

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Graduation advice from 10 greats

BY IRINA MISSIURO imissiuro@jewishallianceri.org May has descended upon us.

This means that, along with the budding trees, bushes and flowers, we can observe blossoming students, whose graduation caps are about to fly in the air. Soon, they will leave the life they have grown accustomed to and enter unfamiliar terrain, whatever it may be. If you suspect they could benefit from some sound guidance, you are right. Take a look at the following words of wisdom – if you like what’s behind them, feel free to present the article to your graduate along with the meaningful gift you’ve chosen.

Jerry Zucker, film director, University of Wisconsin, 2003

“It doesn’t matter that your dream came true if you spent your whole life sleeping. So get out there and go for it, but don’t be caught waiting. It’s great to plan for your future. Just don’t live there, because really nothing ever happens in the future.

Whatever happens happens now, so live your life where the action is – now.”

Aaron Sorkin, screenwriter, Syracuse University, 2012

“You’ll meet a lot of people who, to put it simply, don’t know what they’re talking about. Develop your own compass and trust it.

Take risks, dare to fail, remember the first person through the wall always gets hurt.”

Neil Gaiman, writer, The University of the Arts, 2012

“Make new mistakes. Make glorious, amazing mistakes. Make mistakes nobody’s ever made before. Don’t freeze, don’t stop, don’t worry that it isn’t good enough, or it isn’t perfect, whatever it is: art, or love, or work, or family or life.

Whatever it is you’re scared of doing, do it. Make your mistakes, next year and forever.”

Bobbi Brown, makeup artist and brand founder, Fashion Institute of Technology, 2014

“Work hard but work smart.

Always. Every day. Nothing is handed to you, and nothing is easy. You’re not owed anything.

No job or task is too small or beneath you. If you want to get ahead, volunteer to do the things no one else wants to do, and do it better. Be a sponge. Be open and learn.”

Gloria Steinem, political activist, Smith College, 2007

“My generation often accepted the idea that the private/public roles of women and men were ‘natural.’ Your generation has made giant strides into public life, but often still says: How can I combine career and family? I say to you from the bottom of my heart that when you ask that question you are setting your sights way too low. First of all, there can be no answer until men are asking the same question. Second, every other modern democracy in the world is way, way ahead of this country in providing a national system of childcare and job patterns adapted to the needs of parents, both men and women.

So don’t get guilty. Get mad. Get active. If this is a problem that affects millions of unique women, then the only answer is to organize.”

Madeleine K. Albright, politician and diplomat, Wellesley College, 2007

“It’s possible that we are all so busy using time-saving devices that we don’t have time to do anything meaningful. Or we might

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have the right intentions, but instead of acting, we decide to wait – until we are out of school, until we can afford a down payment on a home, until we can finance college for our own children or until we can free up time in retirement. We keep waiting until we run out of ‘untils.’ Then it is too late.”

Nora Ephron, writer and director, Wellesley College, 1996

“Whatever you choose, however many roads you travel, I hope that you choose not to be a lady.

I hope you will find some way to break the rules and make a little trouble out there. And I also hope that you will choose to make some of that trouble on behalf of women.”

Debbie Millman, writer and artist, San Jose State University, 2013

“I recommend the following course of action for those who are just beginning their careers, or for those like me, who may be reconfiguring midway through: If you imagine less, less will undoubtedly be what you deserve.

Do what you love, and don’t stop until you get what you love. Work as hard as you can, imagine immensities, don’t compromise and don’t waste time. Start now. Not 20 years from now, not two weeks from now. Now.”

Judith Butler, philosopher and gender theorist, McGill University, 2013

“We have to continue to shake off what we sometimes think we know in order to lend our imaginations to vibrant and

sometimes agonistic spectrums of experience.”

Joseph Brodsky, poet and essayist, University of Michigan, 1988

“Now and in the time to be, I think it will pay for you to zero in on being precise with your language. … The purpose is to enable you to articulate yourselves as fully and precisely as possible; in a word, the purpose is your balance. For the accumulation of things not spelled out, not properly articulated, may result in neurosis. …

Try to be kind to your parents. … Try not to rebel against them, for, in all likelihood, they will die before you do, so you can spare yourselves at least this source of guilt if not of grief. …

Try not to set too much store by politicians – not so much because they are dumb or dishonest, which is more often than not the case, but because of the size of their job, which is too big even for the best among them, by this or that political party, doctrine, system or a blueprint thereof. All they or those can do, at best, is to diminish a social evil, not eradicate it. …

Try not to stand out, try to be modest. There are too many of

us as it is, and there are going to be many more, very soon. Thus climbing into the limelight is bound to be one at the expense of the others who won’t be climbing.

That you must step on somebody’s toes doesn’t mean you should stand on their shoulders. …

Try to avoid granting yourself the status of the victim. Of all the parts of your body, be most vigilant over your index finger, for it is blame-thirsty. A pointed finger is a victim’s logo – the opposite of the V-sign and a synonym for surrender. No matter how abominable your condition may be, try not to blame anything or anybody…

Try not to pay attention to those who will try to make life miserable for you. There will be a lot of those – in the official capacity as well as the self-appointed. Suffer them if you can’t escape them, but once you have steered clear of them, give them the shortest shrift possible. Above all, try to avoid telling stories about the unjust treatment you received at their hands; avoid it no matter how receptive your audience may be. …

IRINA MISSIURO is a writer and editorial consultant for The Jewish Voice.

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10 Essentials for dorm dwellers

BY STEPHANIE ROSS This is it – you are about to embark on some of the best years of your life. Mom or Dad won’t be around; you will be away from home and taking charge of your own life.

Moving to college and living in a dorm will be an experience you will never forget. But before you pack up the car, don’t forget some of these basic essentials.

(Bonus: these make excellent graduation gifts.)

dishes are microwavable. Target has a small dish set made especially for dorm dwellers.

8. Medicine cabinet supplies

Walking all over campus in those new shoes is bound to give you a blister or two. Stock up on bandages, aspirin, ointments, cold medicine, and vitamins to stay healthy. Having a proper medicine cabinet (or kit) will save you from going to the store and infecting others.

1. Cleaning supplies

Part of becoming an adult is cleaning up after yourself. You will be in close quarters with your roommate, so keeping your dorm room clean will help make your 100-square-foot box feel like a home. Disinfectant spray and wipes, trash bags, paper towels, dish soap and a Swiffer will help you achieve a clean, healthy room. Before putting down your bedding, make sure to wipe down your mattress, because you never know who – or what – has slept on it before you.

2. Power strips and extenders

With all of the gadgets college students need, it is easy to forget surge protectors and outlet extenders. Most dorm rooms have two, maybe three, outlets. Bed, Bath & Beyond has a bundle that includes a power strip, extension cord, and outlet extender that is perfect for plugging in your phone, computer, printer, lamps and more.

9. Toilet paper

This may seem like a basic necessity, but after 18 years of being used to having toilet paper at your disposal, it’s easy to forget. Unless your dorm has a communal bathroom, toilet paper won’t be provided. Stock up on your favorite brand from a warehouse store.

10. Laundry supplies

3. Command Strips and hooks

Make your dorm room a home by hanging some pictures with Command Strips. Since most dorms don’t allow nails in the walls, Command has several “damage-free hanging solutions” for your photos, towels, coats and more.

4. Sewing kit

Mom (or Dad) won’t be there to sew a button back on your favorite jacket. Buy a sewing kit from Michaels or CVS and do it yourself to save that favorite blouse or pants and ultimately save you money.

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5. Basic tool kit

Maintenance crews on campus are always busy and can sometimes take a couple of days to get back to you regarding a request. Having a basic tool kit will help you with simple repairs, let you assemble cool new furniture and make you the goto handyperson in your hall.

Try your local Home Depot or Lowe’s for a kit that is perfect for you.

6. Plastic airtight food storage

This is great for saving food for later or taking it with you to the library for your all-nighter.

Plus, you can pack up some food from the cafeteria and enjoy it later. Target, Walmart and Amazon often carry small, cheap sets.

7. Basic dishes (bowl, plate, cup and silverware)

Let’s face it, some days you aren’t going to want to trek to the cafeteria. Save yourself some heartache, and buy some basic dishes for when you eat in your room. Having soup out of a can isn’t very comfortable when you are sick, so make sure your

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Lastly, if you have never done a load of laundry before, now is the time to start. Remember to separate your darks from your lights, and use the proper amount of detergent. Purchase a laundry bag, detergent, fabric softener and dryer sheets before you move in, because you can never be too prepared for an accident.

Graduation season brings to mind many emotions. Joy, excitement and anticipation are often coupled with worry, apprehension and feelings of loss, which sometimes accompany the transition from one life phase to another. The promise of new beginnings also signifies endings. This wide range of emotions is especially heightened for those parents whose children are graduating from college or high school.

At the Counseling Center at Jewish Family Service, this is the time of year when we receive calls from families who are experiencing a complex, tangled web of feelings connected with their children’s graduations.

They are surprised by the experience of the worrisome feelings that are bound so tightly with those of pride and joy.

We try to help people recognize the normalcy of mixed emotions. We help families understand that apprehension and even grief can co-exist with feelings of delight and accomplishment. Being able to accept and hold the difficult feelings as

normal enables parents to experience more deeply those emotions that are powerful and positive. Understanding the parts of the process they can control and the parts that they must let go of helps bring some peace to the process.

Change can be hard. Change can be scary. Change can be challenging. We help people understand that, by accepting what is inevitable, undergoing a transition can be fun, interesting, joyful and a gateway to new experiences and a new normal.

There are few among us who welcome change with open arms, open minds and o p e n hearts.

T h i s g raduat ion season, we wish all the parents of new graduates joy as they celebrate their children’s accomplishments, and courage as they face the new chapter in the book of parenthood.

BETSY ALPER, LICSW is clinical director, Jewish Family Service.

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Things I wish I knew before college graduation

BY STEPHANIE ROSS Two years ago, I was sitting among my classmates, anxious for the future that piece of paper would give me. After spending many nights in the library, balancing my part-time on-campus job and school, I was finally given my diploma – the ticket to adulthood.

No matter how much planning I did, or how many books and blogs I read, nothing could have prepared me for what was to come. No piece of advice prepares you, only your personal experience.

The job hunt

The month after my graduation, I was overcome with stress. I was not sleeping well, having nightmares and starting to feel as if I had lost my place in the world. Looking for a full-time job is a full-time job. It is important to treat each position individually. Do your research on a company, and follow your intuition upon meeting its employees. It may

of thousands of dollars because they do not negotiate. Start by doing research on your job, the city where it’s located and your level of experience on sites such as Salary.com.

Life loses balance – be flexible

Nothing goes according to plan. It is easy to lose balance.

Be OK with having to be flexible. Plans change and people grow; soon you may find your-

It’s more than just your bachelor’s degree

I have many friends who tell me they wish they would have pursued outside projects in addition to focusing on their curriculum. Take a step ahead of the crowd and immerse yourself in the real world by going beyond the classroom and your internships. Soon, you will be able to build your own network of contacts and can boost your resume and portfolio.

It’s about WHOM you know

Learning how to network is vital to the professional realm. The post-graduation job marketing is cutthroat, and having a referral immediately puts you ahead of the rest. Start by networking with your professors or members of your alumni network, because you never know what kind of connections they have.

take you several months before you find a job, but you will find one.

Learn how to negotiate

Salaries, paid time off (PTO), sick days – all of those things rule your life after college, so it is important to learn to negotiate and ask for what you are worth. According to Levo League, many millennial women miss out on hundreds

self going in a completely new direction. Maintaining fluidity in your life will help you be successful and ready to take on any challenge life throws your way.

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Seven Jewish short films you shouldn’t miss

BY SETH CHITWOOD The Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island and the Rhode Island International Film Festival have collaborated to bring a dynamic and intriguing night of fi lm, featuring seven indie Jewish short fi lms that should not be missed. The event is the latest installment in the Jewish Culture Through Film program.

Program Director of Flickers, Shawn Quirk, worked closely with judges from the R.I.I.F.F to select the seven stimulating Jewish-themed fi lms from among the many entries featured in last year’s festival.

“It’s a retrospective from the festival,” Quirk said; “It features American to European Jewish stories and background from all different angles.” Each short enhances Jewish culture through dramatic and comedic narrative. The fi lms were shot in Germany, Austria, the United Kingdom, Chile and the United States. Each fi lm runs between 6-15 minutes, and the entire event’s running time is under 80 minutes. These short fi lms are suggested for teen and adult audiences only.

The films include: Silent (Chile, USA 2013) – During World War II, Josy was about to be executed by a Nazi Solider. Now, as an old man, he is tormented by the guilt of survival, and he must face his memory before leaving this world.

Lunches With Mel (USA 2014)

was born. My last concert in the town where a part of me died.

My last concert in the town where I am hoping to fi nd my inner peace.”

According to Quirk, “It will be an event that no one should miss. These fi lms represent the best of last year’s festival. They are a dynamic selection.”

Flicks like these are hard to fi nd and view. The R.I.I.F.F continues to give opportunities to see these indie fi lms that usually cannot be found online or on something like Netfl ix. This could be the only chance to see these fi lms and enjoy what they

– When a legendary entertainment agent Mel Howard offered to work with jazz violinist Aaron Weinstein, the young musician signed a long-term deal with the agent. Unfortunately, Mel’s golden touch has rusted with age.

Bashert (USA 2014) – A young man’s love interest confl icts with his evolving religious paradigm.

Tension ripples through simultaneous relationships, eternally torn between lover and her source beyond the stars.

No Love Lost (UK 2013) – A Jewish boy, nurturing a secret romance with a Muslim girl is unaware that he is being stalked. This is an intriguing tale of love, obsession and unyielding prejudice.

In Der Stille Der Nact (In The Still of the Night) (Austria 2014) – On a rainy autumn night, a storm approaches. Three children are waiting for their father, once again late from work.

But the eldest daughter is suspicious and deep inside she feels that her family is hiding something.

Mein letztes Konzert (My Last Concert) (Germany 2014) – Winner of the 2014 R.I.I.F.F. Best Cinematography (Mils A. Witt) - The protagonist ponders “my last concert in the town where I

The Funeral (UK 2013) – Arnold Cowan is not a religious man – a problem because his son wants a proper bar mitzvah. When a family tragedy brings everyone together, it has consequences no one quite expects.

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Robin Engle receives annual Recognition Award The Miriam Hospital Women’s Association will proudly present its 31st annual Recognition Award to Robin Engle at the Association’s 118th Annual Meeting and Luncheon. The event will take place at Ledgemont Country Club on June 3.

More than 30 years ago, when she moved to Providence, Robin Engle joined The Miriam Hospital Women’s Association to meet other women and connect with the community. Today, she is a board member, recent past president and, with Leslie Sax, co-chair of The Women’s Association cookbook, “Simply More Delicious.” She currently serves on the Hospital Board of Governors.

Engle says, “I feel that The Women’s Association is still important today to the hospital.

It has purchased a lot of equipment in the hospital that has not been in the budget; it runs the gift shop; it has provided music and art and books for the hospital, to name a few things. Many of the volunteers in the hospital are also members of the Women’s Association. I hope to continue as a member of the Women’s Association to help others make the connections to the hospital that I have made.”

Engle lives with her husband,

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Modest fashion for observant Jews Fabologie founder talks style and Judaism

BY IRINA MISSIURO imissiuro@jewishallianceri.org Adi Heyman (née Amber Fuller) is a stylish lady. She also happens to be a religious Jew. A transplant from San Antonio to New York, she studied English at Touro College after her graduation from a modern Orthodox school in Miami.

When Heyman started posting photos of striking clothes, which cover knees, elbows and collarbones, on an anonymous Facebook page, she was astonished by the positive response.

Seeing the high demand for style guidance, Heyman started Fabologie, a Jewish lifestyle website that focuses on modest fashion. Her brainchild offers women a chance to not only browse the latest trends, but also read the week’s Torah portion.

Heyman reinforces the idea that fully covered is beautiful and that women don’t have to sacrifice style because of hemline length restrictions. Many appreciative fans log onto her website (fabologie.com) and follow Heyman on social media.

She kindly agreed to answer some questions for our readers.

You did not grow up Jewish. Why did you ultimately align yourself with the religion? What about Judaism appeals to you?

My parents and siblings [also] converted to Judaism when I was a preteen. I loved the spirituality of Judaism – the idea and opportunity to elevate the mundane to spiritual appeals to me greatly. The concept that HaShem is ultimately in control and everything happens for the best is both encouraging and comforting. Miracles happen every day, and I am always in awe of HaShem’s constant hand in our lives. I am excited to raise our son in a home built on strong Jewish values; my husband is an amazing individual and taught me so much about Judaism.

How does Fabologie contribute to its visitors’ Jewish education?

Everything I post on Fabologie is pertinent to the Jewish lifestyle. Whether it is a modern spin on kosher cui-

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What would you say to someone who wants to follow in your footsteps and enter the same field?

A bit of sage advice from Shakespeare: “This above all: to thine own self be true.”

Best work advice you have given?

Love what you do.

How would you describe your site’s target audience?

Jewish women, particularly modern Orthodox.

How much of your site is Jewish living and how much is fashion?

Modest fashion is the foundation of Fabologie, but the Jewish lifestyle (culinary, decor, holiday) provides much of the content as well. Fabologie is an all-encompassing reflection of my own life, experiences and ideas.

You curate your featured looks. How do you choose those that make the grade?

Modesty provides the guidelines, then I choose depending on current trend and personal preference.

What is modest to you?

Torah adherence coupled with a personal mindset and motivation.

What design elements appeal to you? What is your/ the site’s style?

I am drawn to thoughtful design with a strong, creative point of view. Conspicuous images or ideas that come to represent more than meets the eye.

If it’s not interesting, I am not interested.

What is the goal Fabologie aims to achieve?

Simply put, Fabologie aims to inspire.

Briefly describe your favorite item of clothing. Why do you love it?

The (modest) dress. I prefer fabulous, fuss-free ensembles,

2. Respect – for my family, my community and my religion.

I think having a deep-seated respect for others is of utmost importance. There is so much to learn from everyone and everything in life.

3. Love for Judaism – Choosing to be happy, embracing the beauty and benefit of Judaism every day and sharing that joy with others.

so a statement sheath is essential.

What’s the most important attribute of someone in your role?

A strong point of view and a steadfast work ethic.

What’s the best work advice you received?

My father always said, “Where there’s a will there’s a way.” The saying rings true. If you want to accomplish something – anything, you can.

What do you consider your greatest personal and professional accomplishments?

Personally, my family – our 3-year-old son, Caleb. Professionally, Fabologie – using an inspired platform to propel modest style to the forefront of fashion.

What are your key Jewish values? Do you incorporate them in your daily living?

1. Absolute faith in HaShem – knowing and trusting everything happens for the best.

Faith allows you the freedom to not sweat the small stuff. I find stress, fear and regret are largely futile. HaShem has a plan.

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Considering your busy career, do you have any time for fun? What is fun to you?

Good times with great people.

Being surrounded by family and friends. I relish Shabbos and holidays. And honestly, for me, work is fun!

What inspires you?

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What gets you through a long day at work?

Espresso, hopefully Sant Ambroeus [NYC restaurant].

What summer trends should our readers be aware of?

1970s influences (a bohemian vibe), denim, fringe, suede and prints: florals, stripes, patchwork. I am partial to the multicultural design element infused in current fashion (embroidery, raffia, tassels).

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Did you have any mentors?

How did they affect your life?

My parents, grandparents and even great-grandparents are my role models and mentors. They are the greatest influences in my life.

What are your biggest professional challenges?

Pioneering any industry provides an element of the unknown, which can be challenging. I am always amazed to witness what HaShem has in store for me.

Finding a balance between

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Five things families with college bound students should consider STATEPOINT – Transitioning to college life can be difficult for both students and families.

From new expenses to a new lifestyle, being prepared for what lies ahead can help you avoid common bumps in the road.

Here are five things families with college-bound students should consider: • Getting involved: Being away from home and making new friends can seem daunting. Encourage your student to get involved in school activities and events. From joining the campus paper to running for student government, there are a range of extracurricular opportunities that can lead to new friendships, help students maintain an active calendar and round out one’s classroom education.

• Health and wellness: Late nights spent studying instead of sleeping, as well as crowded dorm rooms, can be a prescription for colds and flu.

Check out on-campus and local health care options before your student gets sick. No one wants to scramble to research medical options when he or she isn’t feeling well. Many campuses offer student insurance. See what makes the most sense for your family. Locate a nearby pharmacist before visiting the doctor so you can provide that information at your appointment.

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lege may be one of your family’s biggest investments to date. Whether that describes your family or not, there’s no doubt about it, higher education comes with a big price tag. It’s never too late in the process to seek out new financing options, even if your child is already away at school.

From filling out the Free Application for Federal Student Aid, to exploring private loans, free online resources can help guide you through the process.

Check out resources designed for college-bound students and their families, such as Wells Fargo’s “5 Steps to Financial Aid” video series, which offers helpful advice on finding a scholarship, applying for loans, and more at WellsFargo.com/ fivesteps.

• Staying in touch: You’re busy. Your kid is busy. But regular check-ins with your student

can help you know that everything is going well. Set up a weekly appointment to chat by phone and get the scoop – just make sure your student’s phone plan allows for sufficient texting and calling.

• Money management: For many students, college is the first time they will gain some financial independence. Set your kids up for success by teaching them how to establish a workable budget. A checking and savings account designed for college students can help them stay on track. You can review money-management tools for college students at many online sites.

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22 | May 22, 2015 Dorothy Ackerman, 97 BOCA RATON, FLA. – Dorothy (Green) Ackerman died May 5 at Boca Raton Regional Hospital. She was predeceased by her husband, Joseph, who died on May 26, 2014, at age 99. They had been married 75 years. Together, they operated for 40 years the J. Ackerman Co., a wholesale clothing business, before retiring to Boca Raton 29 years ago.

She was the family matriarch. The daughter of the late Benjamin and Flora (Solomon) Green, she was born in Dorchester, Mass. She was predeceased by her brother, Sgt. Philip S. Green, who died in World War II. She is survived by her children, Marshall Ackerman of Stamford, Conn., Richard Ackerman and his wife Noreen of Longboat Key, Fla., and Phyllis Kochavi and her husband Doron of La Canada, Calif.; grandchildren Jeffrey Ackerman and his wife Staci, Brian Ackerman and his wife Sandra, Jennifer Ackerman, Ari Kochavi and Danielle Kochavi; great-grandchildren Jamie and Rachel Ackerman, and Isabella and George Ackerman. She was predeceased by her daughterin-law Joyce Ackerman.

Contributions in her memory may be made to the Boca Raton Regional Hospital, 800 Meadows Rd., Boca Raton, Fla. 33486.

Ann Bedick, 94 EAST PROVIDENCE, R.I. – Ann Bedick died May 8 at Tockwotton on the Waterfront, East Providence. She was the beloved wife of the late Harold

OBITUARIES Bedick. Born in Hoboken, N.J., a daughter of the late Isidor and Clara (Kestenblatt) Brilant, she was a lifelong New Jersey resident. She was a member of ORT. Devoted mother of Robert Bedick and his wife, Marsha Miller, of Providence, David Bedick and his wife, Andrea, of Brooklyn, N.Y., and Barbara Bedick and her husband, Daniel Cohen, of Brooklyn, N.Y. Dear sister of Gertrude Schwartz.

Loving grandmother of Rachel, Mollie, Joshua and Cara.

Beatrice Brown, 98 PROVIDENCE, R.I. – Beatrice (Norman) Brown, of Providence, and formerly of Reno, Nevada, died at Epoch Assisted Living on May 6. Born in Providence, she was the wife of the late Eugene R. Brown. She was the daughter of the late Harry and Mae Norman and the sister of the late Shirley Rotkin Lichtman and the late Phyllis Sholovitz. She is survived by sister-in-law, Carol Rotkin, her nieces, Molly Cort, Betty Steinberg and Marjorie Gold. She is also survived by her stepson, Steve Brown, and step-grandchildren, Beverly Brown and Bill Brown.

She was a member of Temple Beth-El in Providence.

Donations may be given to Gentiva Hospice, 2374 Post Rd., Warwick, R.I.

Morton Coken, 79 WARWICK, R.I. – Morton “Mort” L. Coken died May 7 at Westview Nursing & Rehab Center, West Warwick. He was the beloved husband of Joan (Tobias) Coken. They were married for 55 years.

Born in Providence, a son of the late Charles and Katharine (Mushnick) Coken, he had lived in Warwick for 15 years, previously living in Cranston.

The Jewish Voice He was an attorney for more than 25 years before moving to retail. He was a member of Congregation Am David, Touro Fraternal Association and the Masons Redwood Lodge. He was also former vice president of Cranston Little League.

Devoted father of Lee Coken of Pawtucket and Carl Coken of Sammamish, Wash. Dear brother of Rosalind Coken of Warwick. Loving grandfather of Alaina, Ross, Heather and Hannah.

Contributions in his memory may be made to Congregation Am David, the Livestrong Program at Kent County YMCA or the Gloria Gemma Foundation.

Eldon S. Goldenberg, 88 PROVIDENCE, R.I. – Eldon S. Goldenberg died May 7. He was the husband of Elinor (Simons) Goldenberg. Born in Providence, the son of the late Alfred and Rose (Levine) Goldenberg, he had been a lifelong resident of Rhode Island.

He was the owner of the former Bazar Paint & Wallpaper, retiring in 1993. He was a member of Temple Emanu-El, a 32nd Degree Mason and a member of the Jenks Lodge #24 F&AM. Besides his wife, he is survived by his daughters, CarolAnn Rosen and her husband Jim of Newton, and Linda Sue Resnick and her husband Gerald of Lincoln; his grandchildren Alexander, Matthew and his wife Stephanie, and Amy; and his great-grandchild Ava. He was the brother of the late Evelyn Sperling and Helen White.

Contributions in his memory may be made to the charity of your choice.

Ettie Greenfeld, 89 WARWICK, R.I. – Ettie Greenfeld, of Perth, Western Australia (formerly of Warwick), died at the Maurice Zeffert Home in Perth May 1. She was the beloved wife of the late Syd-

ney I. Greenfeld. She was born in Safed, Israel, and was the daughter of the late Soll and Leah Cohen. Her family immigrated to Australia when she was 5 years old. During WWII she met Sydney who was in the U.S. Navy and stationed in Fremantle. They were married in 1947, in the U.S. Devoted mother of Steven Greenfeld and his wife, Diana (Huntersville, N.C.); Norman Greenfeld and his wife Patricia (Plymouth, Mass.); and Scott Greenfeld (Warwick). Cherished grandmother of Stephen and wife Mandy; Rebecca and husband Douglas; Benjamin and wife Jennifer; David and wife Danielle; and great-grandmother to Michael, Autumn, Emily, Alyssa, Adelyn, Jordon and Logan. Dear sister of the late Bobbie Lenny, Bertha Zeffert, Abe Cohen and Pearl Pincus, all from Australia. She leaves behind numerous nieces and nephews. Her nieces in Perth, Sharmaine and Leza, would visit Ettie often. They were a comfort and joy to her for the past 12 years.

Contributions in her memory may be made to the National Parkinson’s Foundation or the Michael J. Fox Foundation.

Abner Hornstein, 85 PROVIDENCE, R.I. – Abner Hornstein died May 13. He was the husband of the late Evelyn (Granoff) Hornstein. He was born in Providence, a son of the late Samuel and Leah (Silverman) Hornstein.

He was the retired owner of Eddie’s Meat Market in Olneyville.

He is survived by his children Steven Hornstein of R.I. and Fay Pizer of Mass. and his siblings Seymour Hornstein of R.I. and Bernice Kaufman of Md. He was the brother of the late Edmond Hornstein and Evelyn Bruch.

Contributions in his memory may be made to Home and Hos-

pice Care of R.I., 1085 N. Main St., Providence, R.I. 02904.

Irene A. Licht Olson, 93 PROVIDENCE, R.I. – Irene A. (Lash) Licht Olson of West Palm Beach, Fla., and formerly of Providence, died May 9. She was the wife of the late Julius M. Licht and Harry Olson. Born in New Bedford, Mass., she was a daughter of the late David and Florence (Levine) Lash.

She is survived by her children Andrea L. Finkel and her husband Lewis, and Richard A. Licht and his wife Roanne Sragow; grandchildren Lauren Goloboy and her husband Mark, Jordan and his wife Jocelyn Benson, Jeremy, Jaclyn, and Jacob Licht; great-grandchildren William and Thomas Goloboy and Greyson Licht. She was the sister of the late Dorothy Polin and Melvin Lash.

Contributions in her memory may be made to the Jewish Alliance of Greater R.I., 401 Sessions St., Providence, R.I. 02906.

Mildred Marks, 98 PROVIDENCE, R.I. – Mildred (Sydney) Marks died at Hallworth House in Providence on May 9. She was the beloved wife of the late Herman B. Marks, M.D., mother of Joel Marks, Judith Hershon and Albert Marks; grandmother of Jordan and Joanna Hershon; great-grandmother of Wyett, Noah and Allegra Buckner; and sister of the late Harold Sydney, Miles Sydney, Laura Feinberg OBITUARIES | 23

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at the table to talk about how the economy is disproportionately affecting them,” keynote speaker Rev. Sekinah Hamlin told about 125 people at the annual conference of the Rhode Island Interfaith Coalition to Reduce Poverty May 13 at Rhode Island College.

The conference has been inspiring local leaders for seven years. Taking a cue from the conference title, “Growing an Economy for All Rhode Islanders,” Hamlin suggested that it’s time to redefine the model for advocacy.

Hamlin is the director of the Ecumenical Poverty Initiative in Washington, D.C., a faith-based community group working to end poverty in the United States. The Disciples of Christ minister spoke with passion and energy about a cause that touches everyone in the room.

A Spoken Word video clip of a young man performing a powerful poem “Dead Man Walking,” opened the presentation. “In our realities, we often don’t hear the voices of the dead men walking,” she said. These are the invisible people, “Those who consider themselves trapped” in their

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communities.

Hamlin offered ideas and insights to get advocates and those living in poverty to work together toward the same goal – eradicating poverty and improving social justice. These are goals the conference attendees know well.

And she addressed where the issue of racism, “the elephant in the room,” fits into the picture. She said, “Racism has to do with whether your systems are open to me as a person of color.” Part of that system has to transform so everyone can be part of the conversation.

She said “it’s easy to talk about the gains we’ve made by those people of the colored communities who have the highest poverty rates here in Rhode Island… we are lobbying for people who are not a part of their empowerment.”

She suggested that as poverty advocates “we no longer expect those people to be at the table.” But it’s time to “make visible the invisible,” she said.

And she also suggested that those suffering in poverty don’t participate in formulating the solution “not because they don’t want to, but because

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and Mae Alimena.

She was a lifelong resident of Providence and a member of Temple Beth-El. She was a 1938 graduate of Pembroke University and a social worker. She was loved and will be missed by all.

Donations in her memory may be made to your favorite charity.

Ruth Spiegle, 95 WARWICK, R.I. – Ruth Spiegle died May 19, 2015 at Home & Hospice Care of R.I. She was the beloved wife of the late Samuel Spiegle. Born in Taunton, Mass., a daughter of the late Max and Anna (Goldman) Toderoff, she was a Warwick resident.

Ruth was a member of Temple Emanu-El, Providence. Devoted mother of Alan Spiegle and his wife, Elaine, of Providence.

Dear sister of Debora Bernstein of Delray Beach, Fla. She also leaves her cherished caregiver, Carmen Medina.

Contributions in her memory may be made to Home & Hospice Care of R.I., 1085 North Main St., Providence, R.I. 02904.

Adele Turco, 91 CRANSTON, R.I. – Adele Turco died May 8 at Philip Hulitar Inpatient Center, Providence.

She was the beloved wife of the late Stanley Turco. Born in Bronx, N.Y., a daughter of the late James and Catherine (Heilpern) Paul, she had lived in Cranston, previously living in Providence. She was a former member of Temple Sinai.

Devoted mother of Judith Desmaris and her husband, Emile, of Warwick, Howard Turco and his wife, Barbara, of Warwick, and Bruce Turco of Cranston.

Dear sister of the late Donald M. Paul. Loving grandmother of James, Michael, Christopher, Nicholas and Jacob.

Contributions in her memory may be made to the charity of your choice.

Scott E. Wang, 61 JAMESTOWN, R.I. – Scott E. Wang, M.D., of Jamestown, died peacefully on May 6 at home su r rou nded by his loving family, after a valiant fiveyear battle with brain c a n c e r . H e had just celebrated his 61st birthday two days prior. He was a devoted husband and loving father, as well as a talented and compassionate physician. The son of Arlene Wang and the late Herbert Wang, he is survived by “the love of his life,” Carol Wang, and his son and daughter, Joshua and Rachael Wang.

He is also survived by his sister, Beth Nast, and her husband, Bill, his brother, David Wang, and his wife, Debbie, his uncle, Bernie Margolis, his sisters-inlaw, Gail O’Leary and Pat Moseley and her husband, Hank, and his many nephews and nieces.

Rev. Sekinah Hamlin

Attendees listen to the state of poverty report.

they’ve been locked out.”

Her suggestions: to make visible the invisible, to get everyone working in the fight against poverty, to get everyone around the table. And she said that it’s important to get everyone talking and to empower those who are hurting to show their wounds in public. That effectively puts a face on the numbers, which is critical.

Respect and accountability are paramount. She cited a model from her home state of North Carolina where, “No matter where you are you are

respected as a human being.

Not only is there human dignity, but there is a place at the table for all.”

“Folks realize this is not an easy process,” she said. As progressives, Hamlin said, “We have to begin to have the hard conversations about people, hunger and hopelessness.”

“We have to build a true community. Not everyone looks the same. But there’s a place for everyone at the table.”

After Hamlin’s speech, conference participants chose

He grew up in Rhode Island and completed secondary school in Newton, Mass., where his family moved in 1970. He graduated magna cum laude from Duke University and received his medical degree from Boston University in 1980. He completed his residency in Pathology at the University of California, Los Angeles, and his fellowship at the Medical College of Virginia in Richmond. After serving on the faculty of Allegheny General Hospital and the Medical College of Pennsylvania as the director of Cytology, Cytogenetics, and Blood Bank, he moved back to his beloved Rhode Island to serve as chairman of the department of pathology at Newport Hospital for nearly 20 years until his retirement due to illness as Honorary Staff in 2011.

He was a distinguished leader in pathology. He was an inspector and state delegate for the College of American Pathologists for nearly 20 years, served as treasurer/secretary for the Rhode Island Society of Pathologists and was the pathology representative to the Rhode Island Medical Society. He was also a long-standing member of the Rhode Island Brain and Spinal Tumor Foundation and a strong voice of hope for individuals and families battling brain tumors.

He had an amazingly positive outlook at all times, even in the face of tremendous obstacles.

He lived life to its fullest, traveling the world and enjoying the

backyards of his home state. He was an avid cyclist and skier, and he spent every summer by the water, kayaking along the coast. His devotion to his beloved wife and children served as the foundation for his life. He was proud of his many contributions to the field of medicine, but he was most proud of his two children.

Contributions in his memory may be made to R.I. Brain and Spine Tumor Foundation, 118 Dudley St., Providence, R.I. 02905 or Home & Hospice Care of R.I., 1085 North Main St., Providence, R.I. 02904 or to the charity of your choice.

William E. Wolf, 65 CRANSTON, R.I. – William E. Wolf, beloved husband of Sherri (Gorodetsky) Wolf for 41 years, died surrounded by his loving family on April 17 at Rhode Island Hospital.

Devoted father of Danielle (Mark) Fraenza, Ilesha (Edward) Senna and Jessica (David Kolibaba) Wolf. Loving grandfather of Maya and Devon Fraenza and Alexa Senna. Dear brother of Cynthia Feldman.

Born in Providence, a loving son of Charlotte and of the late Isadore Wolf, he had lived in Cranston for many years. He was an automobile salesman for 30 years, retiring five years ago. He and his wife previously owned Movies and More for four years. He was a former vice president at Temple Torat Yisrael and president of the Under 30s Bowling League.

Contributions in his memory

from four workshops: Race, Poverty and Mass Incarceration; Heath Care and Health Insurance: Improving Care for Rhode Islanders; Interfaith Legislative Update/Next Steps; and Organizing Your Faith Community to Action.

Before the keynote, the group heard the annual report on the state of poverty in Rhode Island from RI Kids Count and the Economic Progress Institute. Sen. Teresa Paiva Weed also spoke to the group about important legislation including efforts to increased the earned income tax credit. may be made to Colon Cancer Challenge Foundation, 10 New King St., White Plains, N.Y. 10604.

Betsy R. Yetra, 86

CRANSTON, R.I. – Betsy R. Yetra, of Cranston, died peacefully at home May 3. She was the beloved wife of the late Bennett Yetra. Born in Providence, a daughter of the late Milton and Cora (Horowitz) Goldsmith, she had lived in Cranston for 60 years, but also maintained a home in Boynton Beach, Fla. A graduate of Syracuse University, she worked as a social worker, substitute teacher, and upon the death of her husband, Bennett, co-owned and ran the family textile business with her younger brother, Sidney. She was a woman of many talents and interests. She was an accomplished painter, world traveler, enjoyed antiquing, investing and the arts.

Devoted mother of Lynn Yetra and her husband, Ambrose Donovan, of Newton, Mass., Harris Yetra of Cranston and Rick Yetra and his wife, Karen, of Medfield, Mass. Cherished grandmother of Lauren, Bennett, Carrie and Jaime. Dear sister of Estelle Fradin of Cranston, Howard Goldsmith of South Kingston, and the late Sidney Goldsmith.

Contributions in her memory may be made to the Alzheimer’s Association, 245 Waterman St., Providence, R.I. 02906 or the Music and Cultural Fund at Temple Beth-El.

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Irving’s story is more than a childhood memory We had an open porch facing the yard at our childhood

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home. After the war, the G.I. vets looking for work closed it off and installed knotty pine panels from which we hung pictures and bas-relief decorations. We called the narrow chamber a “den,” and our guests and visitors smoked their pipes, cigarettes and cigars around a wonderful ashtray stand, as we talked or listened to records or watched early TV. One of the friends who came by was Irving Weinreich. I knew but only vaguely that he had arrived in town after the 1938 Hurricane, although I did not think to inquire about his earlier boyhood … until this spring.

I telephoned him to ask if I could go back in time and listen to his story, and he graciously welcomed me at his home. He furnished me with excellent and easy directions, served me fine, fresh coffee he had brewed for my arrival and showed me a painting of Temple Emanu-El in the parlor and also a letter from Rabbi Wayne Franklin thanking him warmly for his work on the planning committee for the annual Holocaust Memorial event.

I sat stunned by his account.

“My family was living in Danzig, between Poland and Germany. My mother pushed my father for us to get out while we still could. First to Warsaw to escape Hitler. Then, when the Polish military wanted to deport Germans out of the region, we were trapped and wanted to head for Palestine. My father was sort-of in the men’s furnishings business. He had contacts with the local police, who needed uniform shirts.

They warned him of the day his wife might be deported.

He hid my mother in a closet and told me – I was 7 and very slight – that she was away

Note the cigarette at the top left on the sink. The chain at the right lifts the ball that keeps the ashes from rising like dust. The stand holds a removable tube to be emptied daily. This antique ashtray, the centerpiece of conversation – with Irving or other guests – was given to our parents as a wedding present in 1926.

visiting relatives. The troops searched the house and when they reached the wardrobe room he said it was locked, and he had lost the key. They threatened to come back but never did. My family left immediately and took the last ship out and away, and that was how we got to Ellis Island.

“We arrived because we had cousins in Rhode Island.

My mother carried me in her arms and told me to pretend I was asleep, so that the doctors would not examine me and see that I was ill. We came with nothing at all, lucky to be alive and free to find our way, right here on Camp Street, which was a Jewish neighborhood then. I went to Jenkins Street School and Montague Street School and attended Howell Street Synagogue. I have been a faithful member of Temple Emanu-El for many years!”

But Irving’s tale goes on from there. His relatives had their own gold fillings removed from their teeth to purchase tickets to America!

Some got out to go to Shanghai, a few to Palestine and some to the concentration camps. One uncle was liberated from Auschwitz. Later

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in his life when he was here, he used to sometimes suddenly take on a fetal position in abject fear, a leap into the memory of being beaten by guards. In 1949 when Israel was still a brand new nation, Irving’s parents sent him to Tel Aviv to visit a grandmother. “I remember there was a crowd visiting a memorial to Theodore Herzl, and also I recall the moving image of the Star of David as we arrived at the harbor, and I was still a high-school boy learning and studying our history.”

Irving thanked me for listening to him; it is amazing, the gratitude of people for merely asking a question and taking in the answers. For his gracious hospitality and deeply intriguing memories, I return his eager words of recognition.

It turns out that Irving was related to many familiar family names in Jewish Rhode Island. We are, in fact, one wide extended clan, connected through stories and links of rescue and reception, recognition and renewal.

MIKE FINK (mfink33@aol. com) teaches at RISD.

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percent; Catholics, 59 percent; and mainline Protestants, 45 percent. Jehovah’s Witnesses retain only 34 percent.

But 17 percent of us have found Judaism

Seventeen percent of American Jews say they were raised in another religion. Six percent say they were raised unaffiliated, 4 percent as mainline Protestant, 3 percent as Catholic, and 2 percent each as Evangelical and in some other religion.

Who are we marrying?

Sixty-five percent of American Jews who are married or living with a partner are with a Jew and 35 percent are with a non-Jew. Nine percent of American Jews are partnered with Catholics, 8 percent with mainline Protestants, 4 percent with peoples of other faiths and 11 percent with unaffiliated Americans.

Nu, when are we going to get married already?

The percentage of Jewish adult singles is growing – up from 19 percent in 2007 to 23 percent in 2014. Fifty-six percent of Jewish adults are married, and another 6 percent are living with a partner. Fifteen percent were married but are now separated, divorced or widowed. The Jewish fertility rate is 2.0 children, compared with 2.1 children for all Americans.

We’re mostly American born and bred

Sixty-six percent of Jewish adults are Americans born to American-born parents. Of the 12 percent of American Jews who are immigrants, 5 percent were born in Europe, 4 percent in the Americas, 2 percent in the Middle East and 1 percent in the Asia-Pacific region.

We still heart New York

Where do America’s Jews live? Forty-two percent in the Northeast, 27 percent in the South, 20 percent in the West and 11 percent in the Midwest.

In the Northeast, where Jews are most numerous, Jews comprise roughly 4 percent of the total population. Eight percent of the New York City area is Jewish.

We’re rich! (but also poor)

American Jews (44 percent) are more than twice as likely as average Americans (19 percent) to have annual household incomes over $100,000. But 16 percent of Jewish adults have annual household incomes of $30,000 or less, and 15 percent live in households that earn between $30,000 and $50,000.

(The Jewish data in the survey has a margin of error of 4.2 percentage points.)

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While Gan Israel has offered fun and educational activities, which include sports, arts, baking and swimming, through the years, it does have some news to boast about this year. This summer, the camp will move to the gorgeous grounds of Temple Torat Yisrael on Middle Road in East Greenwich. The relocation is very exciting because the new location includes a newly built playground, basketball

court and two large grass fields.

There, your child will discover his legacy through weekly Judaic themes. The camp’s experienced staff make the learning fun by creating activities, stories, songs, games and contests around certain topics.

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words of gratitude. The attendees recited war-themed poems and sang songs that reminisced about the fighting on the front and the wait for loved ones to return from the war.

The spirit of victory and pride was in the air, just as it had been 70 years ago.

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A trio of Israeli synagogues and their American relatives

BY GEORGE M. GOODWIN Whenever and wherever I travel, I love visiting synagogues. Through famous or obscure examples, I seek to enrich my understanding of how beauty and holiness converge.

On my recent trip to Israel, I had fully expected to encounter some exceptional synagogues. Indeed, can one fi nd a more unusual house of prayer than the Kotel, which is not a house at all? If so, perhaps it is a holy land.

Having been deeply impressed by several synagogues, I would like to highlight a trio. In one way or another, they also belong to the Diaspora, as does Israel.

The most obvious example is a miniature but magnificent Ashkenazi synagogue, which may have accommodated a hundred worshippers on Shabbat. This rectangular structure was built more than three centuries ago in a northeastern Italian hamlet, which became known, after World War I, as Vittorio Veneto. Its Jews were not victorious, however, for the synagogue outlasted its community.

In 1965, the synagogue’s interior was reassembled in Jerusalem, within the new Israel Museum. Ironically, this story of resurrection is almost the opposite told about the Virgin Mary’s dwelling. During the 13th century, angels had mi-

Italian synagogue in the Israel Museum. raculously transported it from Nazareth to Loreto on Italy’s Adriatic coast.

Visitors are welcome to walk across the tiny synagogue’s floor to behold the ornately carved and gilded ark, which, also through its curvature, exemplifies the Baroque. Visitors may also peer down from

the sequestered women’s gallery, as if they were maidens or matriarchs. Still an island of tranquility, this silent sanctuary invites peaceful prayer and prayerful peace.

Another synagogue, located a half-hour’s drive west, among the Judean hills in Ein Kerem, has become, despite

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its modest size, one of the 20th century’s most celebrated.

This diminutive but uplifting asylum was built for Hadassah Medical Center in 1962.

Marc Chagall, one of modernism’s greatest artists, who lived in Russia, France, America and France again, designed its 12 opulent, stained

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by Joseph Neufeld.

Awash in primary and secondary colors – some as warm as others are cool – the windows portray the 12 Tribes of Israel. Given my fondness for yellow, I felt particularly drawn to the windows representing Levi, Naphtali and Joseph. All tribes, however, are identifi able by swooning creatures, spinning planets, shooting stars and swaying Hebrew letters. Shifting patterns of light and darkness provide further animation and magnetism.

So enthusiastically received, the Hadassah windows brought Chagall several, large-scale decorative commissions. Nine were for church windows in Britain, France, Switzerland and West Germany. He also accepted requests for murals and mosaics.

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Windows at the Hadassah synagogue.

The interior of the Cymbalista synagogue.

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1950s, Percival Goodman, its architect, thought of asking Chagall to design tapestrylike curtains.

The Hadassah windows coincided with the creation of a stunning ensemble of 30 windows for B’nai Israel’s syna-

gogue, in Woonsocket, dedicated in 1962. Avigdor Arikha, a Romanian survivor brought to Israel by Hadassah’s angels, designed them. Samuel Glaser, B’nai Israel’s architect, discovered Arikha’s work in Paris, where the young paint-

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A third Israeli synagogue, located on Tel Aviv University’s campus, near Beit Hatfutsot (the Museum of the Jewish People), merits international renown. The donors were a Swiss couple, Norbert and Paulette Cymbalista.

As Polish Jews living in northern France during World War II, Norbert and his sister, Miriam, were saved by Righteous Gentiles. In 1953, thanks again to Hadassah, the orphaned children were brought to Israel.

Norbert and Paulette engaged one of Switzerland’s most imaginative architects, Mario Botta, who has worked widely in Europe. Many of his most astonishing creations are

churches. His major American building, the San Francisco Museum of Modern Art, was completed in 1995. A second art museum, the Bechtler, was built in Charlotte, North Carolina, five years ago.

Despite its puzzling stone exterior, which features round, twin towers arising from square bases, the Cymbalista synagogue, dedicated in 1998, has a quite simple and inviting interior. A sanctuary is located on one side of a foyer, an auditorium and a study hall on the other. Probably inspired

by Louis Kahn, the great American-Jewish architect, the towers serve as funnels for gathering and disseminating light.

Although the Cymbalista sanctuary may seat only a

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few hundred worshippers on one level, it feels monumental in scale. Part of this effect is achieved through the minimal use of decoration; such materials as wood, onyx and granite provide their own resplendence. Unlike many recent American synagogues, which feature “multipurpose” spaces, every pew, lectern and bookcase is carefully and securely positioned in relation to the ark.

Although Botta’s design conforms to no particular style, it represents high style at its fi nest.

GEORGE GOODWIN has been a member of Temple BethEl since 1987.

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