Chatham Living Magazine, Chatham, New Jersey - August 2020 Issue

August 2020

An exclusive magazine serving the residents of Chatham, New Jersey

www.ChathamLivingNJ.com

Promoting Love and Support with “Keep Chatham Thriving”

Keeping Chatham Thriving Cover photo by Christine Loy Photography

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Dear Residents, This month, we are excited to shine the spotlight on "Keep Chatham Thriving," a marketing and promotion initiative for Chatham's small business community, started by Michelle Lease and MJ Morgan. Turn to page 6 to meet these wonderful women who have spent months helping our small businesses during this very difficult time.

Publication Team

Publisher: John White Content Coordinator: Stacey McEvoy Designer: Tom Zielinski Contributing Photography: Christine Loy www.christineloyphotography.com christineloyphotography@gmail.com

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Contact: John White Email: jwhite@bestversionmedia.com Phone: 973-964-6446

Feedback/Ideas/Submissions:

Have feedback, ideas or submissions?

We are always happy to hear from you!

Deadlines for submissions are the 25th of each month.

Go to www.bestversionmedia.com and click “Submit Content.” You may also email your thoughts, ideas and photos to: smcevoy@bestversionmedia.com.

On page 11, Brian McGeough of Chatham Wealth Management, our wealth management expert contributor, writes an excellent article "Now is a Good Time to Discuss Setting Up an Emergency Fund."

When is the appropriate time to discuss college contributions with your former spouse? Phyllis Klein of Donahue Hagan Klein & Weisberg, LLC, our divorce mediation and litigation expert contributor, provides insight on page 12.

On page 15, check out “Independence is Everything” by Matthew Riordan of Professional Physical Therapy and Training, our physical therapy expert contributor.

The Chatham Historical Society is looking for the community's help in chronicling life in Chatham during the pandemic. Turn to page 14 to learn more about how you can participate.

Wishing you health, happiness and fun in the sun!

Stacey and John

Important Phone Numbers:

Chatham Emergency Squad 973-377-1131 Chatham Borough Police Department 973-635-8000 Chatham Township Police Department 973-377-0100 Chatham Borough Fire Department 973-635-9090 Chatham Township Volunteer Fire Department 973-377-0100 Green Village Fire Department 973-377-7073 Chatham Borough Hall 973-635-0674 Chatham Township Municipal Building 973-635-4600 School District of the Chathams 973-457-2500 Library of the Chathams 973-635-0603 Senior Services Center of the Chathams 973-635-4565/4556 Board of Health (Madison Health Department) 973-593-3079 Chatham Borough Recreation Coordinator 973-635-7066 Chatham Township Recreation Coordinator 973-635-3201

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EXPERT CONTRIBUTORS

To learn more about becoming an expert contributor, contact John White at jwhite@bestversionmedia.com or 973-964-6446.

ACUPUNCTURE Morgan Reade, NJ Advanced Acupuncture Downtown Madison 6 Green Village Road, Madison, NJ 201-400-2261 www.njadvancedacupuncture.com

Morgan Reade L.Ac., M.S. Morgan is Board Certified through NCCAOM (National Commission for the Certification of Acupuncturists and Oriental Medicine). As a practicing Acupuncture Physician he perfected his acupuncture skills on a broad spectrum of patients including sports injuries, autoimmune thyroid, digestive and infertility. He is dedicated to the preservation and advancement of the art, science and practice of Oriental Medicine in an ethical manner, enhancing the health and well-being of the general public and his patients.

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CARPET & FLOORING Dianne Grossman The Carpet Girl 1 Cornell Pkwy, Springfield Township, NJ 973-218-1155 • dianne@thecarpetgirl.com www.thecarpetgirl.com

Whether we come to your home, meet in a convenient location for you, or you come to our Springfield, NJ showroom, we help you find high-quality flooring that fits your lifestyle at prices that fit your budget.

COMMUNITY WELLNESS Madison Area YMCA Family Center 111 Kings Road, Madison, NJ 07940 973-822-YMCA (9622) www.madisonareaymca.org marketing@madisonymca.org The Madison Area YMCA is a nonprofit charitable organization dedicated to strengthening community through youth development, healthy living and social responsibility. With quality programs that develop a healthy spirit, mind and body at any age, we believe everyone, regardless of age, income or background, should have the opportunity to learn, grow and thrive.

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EDUCATION Breakaway Prep Test Prep & College Admissions Rick Michalak, Owner 268 Green Village Rd, Suite 2, Downstairs, Chatham, NJ and 18 Bank St. Downstairs, Summit, NJ 07901 973-457-1150 • rickm@breakawayprep.com breakawayprep.com We are a collective of top-notch teachers and counselors who have all have spent more time than we should admit with SATs, ACTs, Subject tests, college essays, college lists: You name it, we’ve worked with it. We offer one of the most deeply resourced and experienced teams in the world of test prep and college admissions.

FAMILY DENTISTRY Dr. Jacqueline S. Reid DDS 390 Main Street, Chatham, NJ 973-635-9456 www.jacquelinesreiddds.com Since 1998 our office has proudly provided high quality dentistry in Chatham and surrounding areas. Services include all aspects of modern dentistry as well implant restorations and prosthetics, cosmetic restorations. Dr. Reid is on staff at Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital as director of the dental residency training program.

FUNERAL DIRECTOR Madison Memorial Home 159 Main Street, Madison, NJ 07940 973-377-2735 Doug Loikith, Mgr. NJ Lic. 4560 • madisonmemorialhome.com Since 1948 our mission has not changed - providing your family with the highest quality care and service, and taking responsibility to lighten your burden as you take the first steps toward healing and recovery. We are committed to the trust and confidence of the community we serve, and to maintaining the reputation that the Madison Memorial Home has established for excellence and honesty.

KITCHEN & BATH RENOVATIONS Alan Archuleta, Archuleta Builders 973.986.6656 alan@archuletabuilders.com https://archuletabuilders.com/ Whether you are a homeowner, architect or real estate investor, finding the right contractor is key to the quality and success of your home renovation project. With attention to detail and a stylized eye, Alan Archuleta has his name on every home renovation project his team undertakes.

Law Offices of Rosemary Stone-Dougherty A Limited Liability Company

LEGAL REAL ESTATE Rosemary Stone-Dougherty, Esq. NJ & FL Bar Member 54 Main Street, Chatham, NJ 973-635-0300

rsdlawfirm@aol.com • www.rsdlawfirm.org Legal Services offered: • Real Estate Purchases/Sales • Estate Planning • Refinancesoffers exceptional Based in Chatham, Rosemary proudly • Landlord/Tenant Disputes • Land Use/Variance Applications • Probate• Collection

legal assistance for your real estate transactions. To Rosemary, the key to success is keeping 973-635-0300 • 54 Main Chatham, NJ 07928 you informed and St., educated, while protecting you as you move forward www.rsdlawfirm.org rsdlawfirm@aol.com through the legal•processes of buying, selling, or making improvements to your home.

LEGAL: DIVORCE MEDIATION AND LITIGATION Phyllis S. Klein, Esq. and Stephanie Frangos Hagan, Esq. Donahue, Hagan, Klein & Weisberg, LLC 44 Whippany Road, Morristown, NJ (973) 467-5556 pklein@dhkwlaw.com and shagan@dhkwlaw.com www.dhkwlaw.com Legal disputes involving marriage and children are among the most difficult situations a family can face. Phyllis Klein and Stephanie Hagan have been practicing family law for over 30 years. Their goal is to help clients through this challenging experience with compassion and understanding- advocating for favorable resolution through negotiation or mediation whenever possible, but always with total preparation to litigate successfully, if necessary.

NURSING HOME Garden Terrace Nursing Home 361 Main Street, Chatham, NJ 973-635-0899 info@gardenterracenursinghome.com www.gardenterracenursinghome.com Garden Terrace has been family owned and operated for over five decades by the Flemming family. We are a private, thirty bed, skilled nursing facility that specializes in long term care for individuals with cognitive and/or physical limitations.

ORTHODONTICS Dr. Barbara Fodero, DDS, MS Chatham Orthodontics 33 Main Street, Chatham, NJ 973-701-2200 www.chathambraces.com Dr. Barbara Fodero has provided orthodontic treatment for children and adults for over 17 years. She earned her dental degree from the University of Michigan, graduating first in her class, and continued there to complete three years of training in the specialty of orthodontics.

PHARMACY Liberty Drug 195 Main Street Chatham, NJ Phone: 877-836-0111 • Fax: 973-635-6208 www.libertydrug.com Liberty Drug and Surgical serving the Chatham area since 1965 has evolved into a premier compounding center as well as a full service pharmacy. Our state-of-the-art compounding lab enables us to provide customized medications in a variety of dosage forms for adult, pediatric, and veterinary patients.

PHYSICAL THERAPY Matthew Riordan Professional Physical Therapy & Training 111 Kings Road, Madison, NJ 973-270-7417 matthew@professionalptandtraining.com Matthew Riordan holds a Doctorate in Physical Therapy from Rutgers University. He is the founder of Professional Physical Therapy & Training and has been conveniently located within the Madison and Summit Area YMCAs for more than 14 years. Matthew and his staff of Board Certified Specialist in Orthopedic Physical Therapy provide One-on-One specialized treatments to help people prevent as well as recover from musculoskeletal injuries and surgeries. He and his staff are also active members in the community.

REAL ESTATE Marianne Slamm, ABR, SRES Sales Associate Keller Williams Premier Properties marianneslamm@gmail.com www.Marianne-Slamm.kw.com M - 973-216-1912 Chatham has been my home for 25+ years. As your local agent, I’d welcome the opportunity to help you, your family and friends fulfill their dreams of buying, selling or investing in real estate in Chatham and the nearby towns.

WEALTH MANAGEMENT Chatham Wealth Management 10 Town Square #100, Chatham, NJ 800-472-8086 www.chathamwealth.com Chatham Wealth Management is a SEC registered investment advisor serving high net worth individuals, retirement plans and trusts.

Our expert portfolio managers and financial planners average more than 25 years of investment experience.

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RESIDENT FEATURE

KEEPING CHATHAM THRIVING

By Stacey McEvoy

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Photos by Christine Loy Photography hen the COVID-19 pandemic ground the Chatham business community to a halt in March, MJ Morgan started putting together a Chatham restaurant list and Michelle Lease started putting together a Chatham merchant list—unbeknownst to each other—to lend their expertise and help the local businesses navigate the unprecedented whirlwind of uncertainty that would lie ahead.

Michelle, owner of the online business The Nantucket Collection, was immediately concerned about the viability of the Chathams’ shops since they heavily rely on the foot traffic of the community—not the internet— to move their product. She started gathering information, taking photos and producing videos about the businesses and launched KeepChathamThriving. com. Meanwhile, MJ, owner of Embel Consulting, a social media marketing company, was gathering restaurant information and devising social media strategies to get the word out that many food establishments were still preparing, cooking and baking for curbside pickup.

When the two discovered they were working independently toward the same goal, they got together and channeled their resources, energies and love of Chatham. “We work really well together,” says MJ. “We have a yin and yang,” agrees Michelle, not missing a beat. (Fun fact they discovered after meeting: Their best friends are sisters).

MJ Morgan and Michelle Lease of Keep Chatham Thriving

“MJ and I both have the same spirit.

Even before the pandemic hit, we would both post on various local online forums about different businesses if we thought they might need a little love,” says Michelle.

and come online quickly and change how they do business,” says Michelle, pointing out that it made sense to tap into the online shopping community since most people were home and online more than ever.

As the Keep Chatham Thriving website aptly states: “The businesses in town have always been there for our community. They have supported our schools, sports teams and charities,

“Keep Chatham Thriving, is a great resource to stay in-the-know about the small business community in Chatham and it serves as a constant reminder to support local which is more important now than ever,” says MJ, noting that the information is cross posted on the website, Facebook and Instagram.

Keep Chatham Thriving has over 1,200 Facebook followers and almost 700 Instagram followers.

employed our family members, and kept our downtown vibrant with enjoyable dining and shopping experiences. Now it’s our turn to be there for them.”

The pair has donated their time and worked diligently in an attempt to help keep the businesses and restaurants of Chatham thriving by alerting the community of the need and promoting the establishments online. They worked the phones, sent emails and pounded the pavement to connect with business owners. They gave crash courses about website posting and promotion, shared marketing strategies and explained the value of social media platforms and how to use them.

“Many merchants have had to pivot

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Local government has appreciated their work too. Since April, MJ and Michelle have participated in the Chatham Borough mayor’s twice weekly conference call to assist the small business community as members of the Economic Development Advisory Committee.

“This grassroots marketing and promotional effort was borne of the COVID-19 crisis, but it uncovers a real need in our community,” says MJ, acknowledging that it will probably take some time for many of the businesses

to get back on solid ground. Both women agree that they will provide business owners the additional promotional support until they are in a better position. They also hope that this may jumpstart a volunteer committee of professionals with different areas of expertise that could work with the business community on a permanent basis. “It would be a lot to put all of it together,” says Michelle. “But we think some of the businesses are seeing the need.”

“We continue to have an open dialogue with owners to identify the best ways to support them and come up with new and fresh ideas to grow,” says Michelle. “It’s been interesting to see how things keep evolving and the marketing changes from month to month.”

The Shop from Home Series which included Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, graduation and Shop Saturday offerings was a successful vehicle for many businesses, with owners broadcasting live from their shops and directly reaching Keep Chatham Thriving followers. Some of the videos received several thousand views, according to Michelle.

“At the beginning of the pandemic, working on Keep Chatham Thriving kept us super busy, just trying to make contact with businesses and get the word out that most restaurants and shops were open, but operating at a very different capacity,” says MJ. “The work comes in spurts now depending upon restrictions that are lifted or any new changes that are

We would like to thank Salerno Duane Inc. in Summit for bringing you this month’s cover story.

We would like to thank Salerno Duane Inc. in Summit for bringing you this month’s cover story.

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RESIDENT FEATURE introduced which requires services to change. With about 40 restaurants in the Chathams, MJ proactively reached out to them to include as much as possible about each establishment. “Now that we have outdoor dining (Phase 2 of the re-opening), we’ve been putting up restaurants’ photos that show the outdoor settings and safety measures taken,” she says, adding “We’ve been told they’re receiving great positive feedback.”

Michele and MJ are currently in the process of designing “Shop Chatham” signs for the community to display on their lawns to support the Chatham small business community.

“The signs will serve as a constant reminder for people to remember to shop and eat local,” says Michelle .“We want people to say to themselves, ‘Is there a place in Chatham where I can purchase what I’m looking for?’” says Michelle. “Every purchase makes such a difference,” she says, noting that many small businesses are run by families.

MJ suggests following Chatham businesses on social media and publishing reviews on Yelp or Facebook business pages and websites. “These are great ways to help keep Chatham businesses thriving. Positive feedback online really helps them so much,” she says. “Also tip generously at restaurants and buy gift cards to establishments that can be used at a future date. All of these little things add up.”

“We all have to keep helping,” says Michelle.

“It has been wonderful to see our community come together to support our local businesses, and we all must continue to do so,” adds MJ.

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Nominate your neighbor to be featured in one of our upcoming issues!

Contact us at smcevoy@bestversionmedia.com.

SUMMERTIME FUN WITH CHATHAM NEWCOMERS AND SOCIAL CLUB Contributed by Chatham Newcomers and Social Club

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The last CNSC board meeting of the year.

n the last several months, we have all had varying degrees of uncertainty and anxiety. Chatham Newcomers and Social Club has seen a real need for strengthening our connections and friendship through continued sponsored virtual events.

We kicked off the summer by hosting our final board meeting of the year. We discussed committee positions and started event planning for the 2020-21 year.

The CNSC "year" will officially begin in September. If you would like to get more involved in the club or participate in a committee next year we have lots of ways to get involved.

Just in time for summer, the women learned how to make clean cocktails (virtually).

Author of Clean Cocktails, Righteous Recipes for the Modern Mixologist, Tara Roscioli guided us in making delicious drinks from her beautiful book. The small group of 12 members gave us the perfect opportunity to relax and learn a new life skill.

Usually, we take a small summer break from regular events but we have decided to keep doing virtual social events and monthly book club during the summer.

Check out upcoming virtual events and book selections. We promise the events and books will be light and perfect summer escapes.

Joining and registering for virtual events is easy and can be done online:https://www. meetup.com/Chatham-Newcomers-andSocial-Club/events. Even if you’ve been in town for only a few days or for many years, we have many new as well as seasoned Chatham residents in our membership. Annual fees are only $45/FAMILY. Also check our website athttps://www. chathamnewcomers.com, follow us on Instagram (search: chathamnewcomerssocial) and like our Facebook page (search: Chatham Newcomers and Social Club) to see our upcoming events and photos.

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CALENDAR OF EVENTS

Publisher's Note: This month we're spotlighting an array of live and virtual events happening here in NJ and beyond. Enjoy!

THE LIBRARY OF THE CHATHAMS' virtual offerings include: book groups, video game club, storytimes, yoga, music, dance, chess and more. www.chathamlibrary.org HEAD OUT ON A HIKE

Plan an easy hike or something heart-racing for you and your family.

This site makes it easy to plan a route that works for you. https://www.nynjtc.org/ VISIT THE MUSEUM OF EARLY TRADES & CRAFT -- ONLINE!

The METC in Madison has so many fascinating interesting things to do online. From online events to a virtual tour of the permanent exhibit to the call for stories for the Share Your Story Project, there's something for everyone at the METC. https://www.metc.org/ LEARN SOMETHING NEW WITH THE MORRIS COUNTY TOURISM BUREAU

The tourism bureau continues to update Morris County Residents with the goings-on of our 300 members of the Morris County Tourism Bureau. The staff is working to bring you the latest ways to stay safe & sane in Morris County. https://www.morristourism.org/23367-2/ CHECK OUT THE MORRIS MUSEUM

Until the museum is back open to the public, there's plenty to see, hear and do online. Visit their social media handles and the Virtual Morris Museum page for all the details. https://morrismuseum.org/virtual-morris-museum/ VISIT ELLIS ISLAND TOGETHER

Thanks to Scholastic, kids (and adults) can go on a tour of Ellis Island.

It's almost like being there (without having to wait on a line!). http://teacher.scholastic.com/activities/immigration/tour/

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WRITE SOMETHING

Arts by the People has moved its programming online. Check out their website for opportunities to read and listen to your work and the work of other writers.

Bonus: Email your work to rbarry@bestversionmedia.com and we might print it in a future issue. https://www.artsbythepeople.org/event-poss HELP PRESERVE HISTORY

You can help the Library of Congress preserve important historical documents by becoming a volunteer transcriber. No special equipment needed (just a computer with a WIFI connection). A satisfying way to spend a few hours on a rainy day. https://crowd.loc.gov/ KEEP MOVING WITH THE MADISON AREA YMCA

The Y is offering member-only outdoor group exercise classes-visit the website to register. Virtual group exercise classes are also streamed live. https://www.madisonareaymca.org/ TAKE A VIRTUAL ART CLASS

Author and illustrator Wendy MacNaughton teaches fun, accessible online drawing classes on her Instagram channel. Suitable for all ages. https://www.instagram.com/wendymac/ RACHEL KEMPSTER BARRY | TUESDAY MAGIC MARKETING rachel@rachelkbarry.com 917-573-2918

NOW IS A GOOD TIME TO DISCUSS SETTING UP AN EMERGENCY FUND

EXPERT CONTRIBUTOR

Contributed by Brian McGeough, Chatham Wealth Management

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long with the tragic health issues caused

by COVID-19, many people also suffered an unexpected decline in income due the lockdown put in place to slow the spread of the virus which resulted in a severe decline in economic activity. While the stock market has recouped much of the losses that were sustained in February and March, the economy will likely take longer to recover and for those that have lost a job it may take a bit of time to find a new opportunity.

According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, the amount of time that someone is out of a job is about 22 weeks. Even though income may have declined, the fixed expenses such as mortgage, car payment, insurance, food etc. have not. Establishing and maintaining an emergency fund is a good way to help manage through a decline in income while avoiding taking on high-interest credit card debt or getting behind on payments resulting in late fees.

An emergency fund is an account that should cover 3-6 months of expenses in the event of income disruption or other emergencies.

The account should be liquid (cash, CDs)

so that the money can be accessible very quickly and should also be separate from a savings or other type of account that might be used for other needs.

Also, the emergency fund should be earmarked for real emergency situations and should not be used to pay for vacations, gifts or entertainment.

The prospect of setting aside such a large sum of money can be very intimidating. The best way to establish an emergency fund is to start small and make the contributions to the emergency fund a part of a monthly budget.

Once the account is funded, make sure to review your expenses annually and make changes to the emergency fund if needed.

Creating an emergency fund may seem like added expense to some people, but once the fund is set up and maintained, it will provide peace of mind knowing that there is a bit of a safety net in case something unforeseen happens.

If you would like a complimentary portfolio review or to discuss how Chatham Wealth Management can help with your financial planning and investment management needs, please feel free to call at (973) 886-3078 or visit our website at www.chathamwealth.com

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WHEN IS THE APPROPRIATE TIME TO NEGOTIATE COLLEGE CONTRIBUTIONS? Contributed by Phyllis S. Klein, Donahue Hagan Klein & Weisberg, LLC

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hen is the appropriate time to discuss college contributions with your former spouse? New Jersey Courts are guided by the case of Newburgh v. Arrigo, 88 N.J. 529 (1982). In Newburgh v. Arrigo, the Supreme Court of New Jersey established factors the Court must consider when determining college contributions after divorce. Four of those factors are (a) the amount of the contribution sought by the child for the cost of higher education; (b) the ability of the parent to pay that cost; (c) the financial resources of both parents; and (d) the availability of financial aid in the form of college grants and loans.

Realistically, parents should begin the process of negotiating college contribution when their child begins to consider potential schools to which he or she wants to apply, typically the beginning of junior year of high school. However, it would likely be premature to file an application with court at that time because you would not yet know which school the child will be attending or what the child’s financial aid package would be.

Now, you might not think that financial aid pertains to you because you earn above a level that would typically be considered for “need” based aid. However, just because a child does not qualify for “need”, that does not necessarily mean a child would not qualify for “merit” based aid. As each student’s relationship to a particular college is unique, the amounts and types of aid offered from college to college can vary. For example, if your child had a 3.5 GPA and applies to a school where that college typically receives applicants having a similar GPA, that college may not provide merit-based aid because they have a similar pool of applicants from which to choose.

Conversely, if your child applies to a college that does not typically receive applicants of your child’s stature, that college might be more inclined to provide merit-based aid because they do not have a similar pool of applicants from which to choose.As a result, you are not likely to know how much a school will cost until after he or she receives their financial aid package, which is typically at or after acceptance to college in the spring of junior year. Thus, any final settlement negotiating or application to the Court prior to acceptance and receipt of the financial aid package would be premature.

Of course, this is only from a legal analysis perspective. From a practical perspective, if you are able to save together or separately early on, that is always wise.

Here at Donahue, Hagan, Klein, and Weisberg, LLC, we continuously work with consultants to assist us in assisting you in determining what you are likely to expect in terms of your expected family contribution so that you can become educated when the time comes for your child to begin the process of selecting college.

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LATEST STATS FROM THE SPELKER REAL ESTATE TEAM Area Market Analysis Report • From 1/2020 to 6/2020 Chatham Boro

#Beds Ave. SP Med. SP Ave. DOM 1 0 0 0 2 $533,500 $533,500 81 3 $668,108 $630,400 40 4 $921,010 $867,000 58 5+ $1,047, 000 $1,065,000 86 Town $822,930 $685,000 57

Chatham Twp.

#Beds Ave. SP Med. SP Ave. DOM 1 $255,521 $294,000 68 2 $447,250 $411,500 21 3 $799,231 $635,000 47 4 $945,500 $895,000 55 5+ $1,932,012 $2,025,000 59 Town $1,134,609 $960,000 52

Market Data as per Garden State Multiple Listing Service

SP/LP 0% 95% 98% 98% 95% 97%

SP/OLP 0% 89% 97% 95% 93% 95%

SP/LP SP/OLP 97% 95% 108% 108% 99% 98% 95% 92% 98% 96% 97% 96%

Best Version Media does not guarantee the accuracy of the statistical data on this page. The data does not represent the listings of any one agent or agency but represents the activity of the entire real estate community in the area. Any real estate agent’s ad appearing in the magazine is separate from the statistical data provided which is in no way a part of their advertisement.

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CHATHAM HISTORICAL SOCIETY ASKING RESIDENTS TO SHARE THEIR COVID-19 EXPERIENCES Contributed by the Chatham Historical Society

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e are living in a new reality. Things that we have taken for granted – such as going to the grocery store and always finding toilet paper – now present unique challenges. Talking to your neighbor involves social distancing. Schools are closed as are playgrounds so there is nowhere for your children to run off all their energy. Yet, as hard as it is to believe, this too shall pass. At some point in the future, these restrictions will become a thing of the past and eventually, a distant memory. However, like the events of 9/11, the changes to our daily outlook and understanding of the world will become part of our collective memory.

As a historical society, it is our mission to have records of events that happen in our town. We have the Jimmy Littlejohn diaries that chronicle 48 years of Chatham history. The Fishawack papers are filled with handwritten memories of life in Chatham. In our archives, there are anecdotal stories of growing up here including how our residents coped with the events of 9/11. Through all of these stories we learn to understand ourselves and our neighbors and how we are all in this together in our hometown of Chatham, NJ. We are asking your help with adding to our stories of Chatham. This is an unprecedented time. How have you, your family and neighbors been coping with the state’s stay-at-home orders and other procedures to deal with the novel coronavirus/COVID-19 pandemic? Do you know people who are health care or frontline essential workers? How have you been affected by all that is happening in the country and the world? Please share your thoughts about living through this difficult time. It can be as brief or as detailed as you like. You can include your name or not. What is important is to provide a glimpse into what we are living through for future generations. You can submit your thoughts and photographs via chathamnjhistory@gmail.com.

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INDEPENDENCE IS EVERYTHING

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EXPERT CONTRIBUTOR

Contributed by Matthew Riordan, Professional Physical Therapy & Training

he Fourth of July, or Independence Day, is my absolute favorite holiday. Of course I enjoy being with family, going to parades, fireworks and barbecues. I also like that it’s not super hyped up and commercialized as many other holidays are. Our simple beautiful flag hung at our door is as much decorating that is needed. It reflects our patriotism, gratefulness to live in this great land as well as our honor and respect for our fellow Americans wherever they may be.

The real reason I love Independence Day is because it is a reminder that we all are able to make our own choices. We can create our own destiny. I feel fortunate to know that, within our civil liberties, if there is something that I really want to do, my determination and creativity are my only limitations.

We all have this innate desire for our own independence.

Unfortunately, it can also easily be taken for granted. We must diligently protect and maintain our independence or it can easily slip away from us.

The same is true when speaking of being physically independent. From the moment we are born, through every stage of life we are always striving to gain and maintain our independence. From learning how to roll over and take our first steps as babies through struggling to take our final steps in our last years. The high value we place on being physically independent is universal at all ages and socio-economic status, but most lack the focus to tend to it and inability sneaks in.

The loss of physical independence is most often associated with traumatic and debilitating injuries or an aging family

member whose gradual decline becomes sudden. In the latter case, the slow loss of physical independence started significantly longer than most people realize. It is usually only after one becomes reliant on others to help with daily tasks do they finally take action and restart the fight for their independence.

Most people spend their entire working career spanning 30-40 years highly focused on attaining financial independence with little to no attention on improving or even maintaining their physical independence leaving them unable to actively and fully enjoy the fruits of their financial planning when the time comes. Don’t let this be you! Don’t let your abilities, health and physical independence slip away so subtly each day that you don’t even notice it. Don’t let a nagging discomfort in your back, knee, neck etc. become a chronic pain. Don’t let that chronic pain limit your independence, because if you don’t do something about it, sooner or later, it most certainly will. And never accept when the doctor says just rest it or you’re just too old and have to live with it.

As a physical therapist, I do many things to help people. But the true essence of what I do, is help people improve and maintain the most valuable thing that anyone can ever have; their independence. It’s never too late to restart the fight for your independence and it’s never too early to stop it from slipping away.

We help men and women age 40+ improve and maintain their independence to live the active and full life that they want. www.FeelBetterWithPT.com

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SCHOOL DISTRICT OF THE CHATHAMS SPOTLIGHT: TEDxYOUTH@CHATHAM EXTENDS BEYOND THE STAGE TO REACH A GLOBAL AUDIENCE

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Contributed by the School District of the Chathams he 2nd Annual TEDxYouth@ Chatham virtual event PERSPECTIVE premiered on June 6, 2020, reaching over 1,500 people globally.

Host Christina McCabe, a Chatham High School teacher, set the tone for the night highlighting the importance of connecting around ideas that matter and providing a platform for student voice, particularly during a time when students are feeling disconnected due to Covid-19.

In her talk “You would Never Think,” Chatham Middle School science teacher Rachel Goldberg challenged us to be vulnerable, empathetic and courageous, sharing her experience living with spina bifida as a student and an educator.

Using Crocs as a metaphor, Matthew Goldstein talked about the impact of Climate Change in “A Croc is a Powerful Thing” tasking us with the responsibility to connect more with nature and to give more than we are taking. Crocs representative Melissa Layton surprised the group by joining the live talk-back session to read a letter from CEO, Andrew Rees, signifying the power of student voice.

Closing out the night with his talk “Setting the Stage for a Better World,” CHS junior Jacob Mathews highlighted how concerts relieve stress and bring people together for a shared experience.

Mathews encouraged us to live in the moment and make real connections with those around us. He also debuted his new song “A Moment, A Feeling,” that was inspired by his talk which is now available on Apple Music and Spotify.

Jacob Mathews

Maddie Boland opened with her talk titled “Seeing the Invisible” by asking us whether we would “rather fly or be invisible” and inspiring us to view others with gratitude. As a stage crew member, she reminds us that just because people are “invisible” that doesn’t lessen their importance, as they are often critical to making things run effectively and in many cases they are the reason things happen at all.

Hailey Doyle shared how she builds relationships and never stops learning through “The Magic of Language.” Her love for her adopted sister led her to fall in love with learning about the world and inspired her to learn a new language. She believes that language can help you find a new you that might have been silent.

Ben Stern took his headphones off to listen to his grandma to help him reconnect with himself. Listening inspired him to step out of his comfort zone and achieve something he thought was unattainable--becoming class president. He reminded us how important it is to use two winning words “I’m listening” stressing that listening with intention takes on heightened levels of importance when you cannot be together and are communicating through a variety of virtual platforms.

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This year’s event was once again sponsored by the Chatham Education Foundation, Colin Devlin, Keller Williams Realty, Pembrook Group, Merrill Lynch and Situation Events. Local restaurants Blossom, Mexican Spice, Sorriso Kitchen and Scoops curated special TEDx Takeout To Go menus.

Hailey Doyle

All Talks will be available on TED.com

SPANISH FLU IN THE CHATHAMS

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Contributed by Rosalind Mytelka, Chatham Township Historical Society n this time of pandemic, many are writing about the Spanish Flu of 1918 – 1920. But what happened locally?

In Chatham?

The peak, both nationally and in Chatham, came in October 1918. In Chatham over 150 cases were reported with three deaths. The Chatham Press wrote editorially, “Never has there been an epidemic that raged so virulently in all parts of the land.”

The State Board of Health closed all “churches, theatres, moving picture houses, dance halls, soda fountains and other places where numbers of people congregate.” The public and parochial schools under the jurisdiction of the local Board of Health were also closed. The State Board advised avoiding unnecessary travel in public conveyances, required all influenza cases to be isolated in bed, prohibited public funerals of those who died from the epidemic, and prohibited the use of common towels and drinking cups.

Vapo-Cresoline, which was manufactured in Chatham, was made from coal tar and was heated on a special burner so the vapors could treat lung ailments including the grippe (flu). It was the equivalent of inhaling smoke from multiple packs of cigarettes.

The information published about transmission and methods of mitigation could have been written today. The US Public Health Service issued an official bulletin. “The disease is always spread from person to person; also by droplets in the air.

A person with a mild attack can give someone a severe attack. Caregivers should wear masks. While isolation of known cases tends to retard the spread, such large numbers of mild unrecognizable cases and healthy carriers exist, that quarantine alone will not control the disease. Keep your hands away from your mouth and nose. Isolate members of your household in their own room. Do not cough, sneeze or spit in public places.”

Ads for Hill's patent medicine appeared in the Chatham Courier throughout the influenza epidemic.

It has dangerous side-effects and no effect on the flu.

all we have to do is watch 25 people who are sick.”

By November 2, the epidemic is “practically over...as far as Chatham is concerned. It has been less virulent here than in many nearby towns. How much of this is due to the ‘natural healthfulness of the town’ and how much to the prompt action of the Board of Health is an open question.” The newspaper tipped its hat to the public for their good response to the restrictions. The low density helped as well.

From December 1918 to January 1919 there was a children’s epidemic. It was of short duration, owing to the early closure of schools and Sunday schools. There was a milder occurrence in 1920 that required no closures.

Fear of a recurrence remained in the community, but then the Spanish Flu was gone. Hopefully, we can say the same soon!

There is no mention of social distancing or contact tracing although one writes: “To keep our town of 2,500 people well,

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ADOPT-A-PET

St. Hubert’s Animal Welfare Center provides services that support the human-animal bond and seeks to foster an environment in which people respect all living creatures.

Learn how you can volunteer, foster, and adopt at sthuberts.org. You can meet and adopt any of the following animals at our Madison Campus, 575 Woodland Avenue.

Contributed by St. Hubert’s Animal Welfare Center Photos by St. Hubert’s

MacDougall is a laid-back 3-year-old hound who loves his food and treats. His foster family says he likes keeping them company in the kitchen while they cook!

He also enjoys napping on the couch and lying in the sun. To adopt this handsome hound, email his foster mom at kim.gillett@gmail.com.

Scarlet is a pretty and dainty lass. She loves lying in the sun, playing with toys and playing with other cats. This one year-old kitty is shy around people, but so very sweet. If you’d like to adopt Miss Scarlet, email her foster at msambet317@gmail.com.

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This is Juliet, and yes, she’s looking for her Romeo (or should we say, her purr-fect match). This 9-year-old kitty is hoping for a quiet home to call her own. It can take a little time before she gets comfortable with new people, so be patient with her -- and she will steal your heart! Please email her foster parent at murad_cafe@ yahoo.com if you’d like to adopt lovely Juliet.

Introducing Ashley! She’s a cute 2-year-old Chihuahua mix. She likes giving kisses and getting belly rubs. She also enjoys prancing around with toys in her mouth and showing off her dance moves when you come home! Want to learn more about adopting Ashley?

Email her foster mom at eperez@sthuberts.org.

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