Chatham Living Magazine - Chatham, New Jersey, September, 2020 Issue

September 2020

An exclusive magazine serving the residents of Chatham, New Jersey

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Meet the Khawand Family of Fleur de Sel

Cover photo by Christine Loy Photography

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Dear Residents, If you haven’t been to France for an authentic croissant, don’t feel like you’re missing out. Fleur de Sel Patisserie and Bistro, Chatham’s most recent Main Street addition, has butter, almond, chocolate, zaa’tar and cheese croissants that will transport you to a bistro table with a lavender bouquet in a French café before the first bite melts in your mouth. Meet the family behind Fleur de Sel. Turn to page 6 to meet Patricia Etel Khawand, her husband Joe and their daughters Alexandra and Michelle.

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Peter Flemming of Garden Terrace Nursing Home, our nursing home expert contributor, shares a lovely article "Garden Terrace is a Place of Love and Healing" on page 12.

"When Pain Shows Up, What You Do Next Matters" written by Matthew Riordan of Professional Physical Therapy & Training, LLC, our physical therapy expert contributor, provides some guidelines if you’re experiencing pain when trying to move, sit or sleep comfortably or enjoy a sport or activity. See page 17.

Chatham High School 2020 graduate Andrew Tran is the winner of the Art League of the Chathams' scholarship for 2020! Turn to page 15 to see his artwork and learn more about this talented young man.

Be sure to check out the furry friends available for adoption at St. Hubert's on page 18. They're ready for their fur-ever homes.

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EXPERT CONTRIBUTORS

To learn more about becoming an expert contributor, contact John White at jwhite@bestversionmedia.com or 973-964-6446.

ACUPUNCTURE Morgan Reade, NJ Advanced Acupuncture Downtown Madison 6 Green Village Road, Madison, NJ 201-400-2261 www.njadvancedacupuncture.com

Morgan Reade L.Ac., M.S. Morgan is Board Certified through NCCAOM (National Commission for the Certification of Acupuncturists and Oriental Medicine). As a practicing Acupuncture Physician he perfected his acupuncture skills on a broad spectrum of patients including sports injuries, autoimmune thyroid, digestive and infertility. He is dedicated to the preservation and advancement of the art, science and practice of Oriental Medicine in an ethical manner, enhancing the health and well-being of the general public and his patients.

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CARPET & FLOORING Dianne Grossman The Carpet Girl 1 Cornell Pkwy, Springfield Township, NJ 973-218-1155 • dianne@thecarpetgirl.com www.thecarpetgirl.com

Whether we come to your home, meet in a convenient location for you, or you come to our Springfield, NJ showroom, we help you find high-quality flooring that fits your lifestyle at prices that fit your budget.

COMMUNITY WELLNESS Madison Area YMCA Family Center 111 Kings Road, Madison, NJ 07940 973-822-YMCA (9622) www.madisonareaymca.org marketing@madisonymca.org The Madison Area YMCA is a nonprofit charitable organization dedicated to strengthening community through youth development, healthy living and social responsibility. With quality programs that develop a healthy spirit, mind and body at any age, we believe everyone, regardless of age, income or background, should have the opportunity to learn, grow and thrive.

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EDUCATION Breakaway Prep Test Prep & College Admissions Rick Michalak, Owner 268 Green Village Rd, Suite 2, Downstairs, Chatham, NJ and 18 Bank St. Downstairs, Summit, NJ 07901 973-457-1150 • rickm@breakawayprep.com breakawayprep.com We are a collective of top-notch teachers and counselors who have all have spent more time than we should admit with SATs, ACTs, Subject tests, college essays, college lists: You name it, we’ve worked with it. We offer one of the most deeply resourced and experienced teams in the world of test prep and college admissions.

FAMILY DENTISTRY Dr. Jacqueline S. Reid DDS 390 Main Street, Chatham, NJ 973-635-9456 www.jacquelinesreiddds.com Since 1998 our office has proudly provided high quality dentistry in Chatham and surrounding areas. Services include all aspects of modern dentistry as well implant restorations and prosthetics, cosmetic restorations. Dr. Reid is on staff at Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital as director of the dental residency training program.

FUNERAL DIRECTOR Madison Memorial Home 159 Main Street, Madison, NJ 07940 973-377-2735 Doug Loikith, Mgr. NJ Lic. 4560 • madisonmemorialhome.com Since 1948 our mission has not changed - providing your family with the highest quality care and service, and taking responsibility to lighten your burden as you take the first steps toward healing and recovery. We are committed to the trust and confidence of the community we serve, and to maintaining the reputation that the Madison Memorial Home has established for excellence and honesty.

KITCHEN & BATH RENOVATIONS Alan Archuleta, Archuleta Builders 973.986.6656 alan@archuletabuilders.com https://archuletabuilders.com/ Whether you are a homeowner, architect or real estate investor, finding the right contractor is key to the quality and success of your home renovation project. With attention to detail and a stylized eye, Alan Archuleta has his name on every home renovation project his team undertakes.

Law Offices of Rosemary Stone-Dougherty A Limited Liability Company

LEGAL REAL ESTATE Rosemary Stone-Dougherty, Esq. NJ & FL Bar Member 54 Main Street, Chatham, NJ 973-635-0300

rsdlawfirm@aol.com • www.rsdlawfirm.org Legal Services offered: • Real Estate Purchases/Sales • Estate Planning • Refinancesoffers exceptional Based in Chatham, Rosemary proudly • Landlord/Tenant Disputes • Land Use/Variance Applications • Probate• Collection

legal assistance for your real estate transactions. To Rosemary, the key to success is keeping 973-635-0300 • 54 Main Chatham, NJ 07928 you informed and St., educated, while protecting you as you move forward www.rsdlawfirm.org rsdlawfirm@aol.com through the legal•processes of buying, selling, or making improvements to your home.

LEGAL: DIVORCE MEDIATION AND LITIGATION Phyllis S. Klein, Esq. and Stephanie Frangos Hagan, Esq. Donahue, Hagan, Klein & Weisberg, LLC 44 Whippany Road, Morristown, NJ (973) 467-5556 pklein@dhkwlaw.com and shagan@dhkwlaw.com www.dhkwlaw.com Legal disputes involving marriage and children are among the most difficult situations a family can face. Phyllis Klein and Stephanie Hagan have been practicing family law for over 30 years. Their goal is to help clients through this challenging experience with compassion and understanding- advocating for favorable resolution through negotiation or mediation whenever possible, but always with total preparation to litigate successfully, if necessary.

NURSING HOME Garden Terrace Nursing Home 361 Main Street, Chatham, NJ 973-635-0899 info@gardenterracenursinghome.com www.gardenterracenursinghome.com Garden Terrace has been family owned and operated for over five decades by the Flemming family. We are a private, thirty bed, skilled nursing facility that specializes in long term care for individuals with cognitive and/or physical limitations.

ORTHODONTICS Dr. Barbara Fodero, DDS, MS Chatham Orthodontics 33 Main Street, Chatham, NJ 973-701-2200 www.chathambraces.com Dr. Barbara Fodero has provided orthodontic treatment for children and adults for over 17 years. She earned her dental degree from the University of Michigan, graduating first in her class, and continued there to complete three years of training in the specialty of orthodontics.

PHYSICAL THERAPY Matthew Riordan Professional Physical Therapy & Training 111 Kings Road, Madison, NJ 973-270-7417 matthew@professionalptandtraining.com Matthew Riordan holds a Doctorate in Physical Therapy from Rutgers University. He is the founder of Professional Physical Therapy & Training and has been conveniently located within the Madison and Summit Area YMCAs for more than 14 years. Matthew and his staff of Board Certified Specialist in Orthopedic Physical Therapy provide One-on-One specialized treatments to help people prevent as well as recover from musculoskeletal injuries and surgeries. He and his staff are also active members in the community.

REAL ESTATE Marianne Slamm, ABR, SRES Sales Associate Keller Williams Premier Properties marianneslamm@gmail.com www.Marianne-Slamm.kw.com M - 973-216-1912 Chatham has been my home for 25+ years. As your local agent, I’d welcome the opportunity to help you, your family and friends fulfill their dreams of buying, selling or investing in real estate in Chatham and the nearby towns.

WEALTH MANAGEMENT Chatham Wealth Management 10 Town Square #100, Chatham, NJ 800-472-8086 www.chathamwealth.com Chatham Wealth Management is a SEC registered investment advisor serving high net worth individuals, retirement plans and trusts.

Our expert portfolio managers and financial planners average more than 25 years of investment experience.

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RESIDENT FEATURE

MEET THE KHAWAND FAMILY OF FLEUR DE SEL

By Stacey McEvoy

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Photos by Christine Loy Photography f you haven’t been to France for an authentic croissant, don’t feel like you’re missing out. Fleur de Sel Patisserie and Bistro, Chatham’s most recent Main Street addition, has butter, almond, chocolate, zaa’tar and cheese croissants that will transport you to a bistro table with a lavender bouquet in a French café before the first bite melts in your mouth. And, don’t stop at croissants! Delicate macarons in flavors such as chocolate, raspberry, pistachio, rose and lavender are divine. Lemon meringue tarts are to die for.

“We do everything very French,” says Fleur de Sel owner Patricia Etel Khawand. She’s not kidding. There’s an education to be gained from reading the menu and learning what these artful and delicious creations are. Take the St. Honoré, named after the patron saint of pastry chefs. It’s an airy cream puff dipped in caramelized sugar. The Paris Brest, named for a long-distance race between Paris and the city of Brest, is made of choux pastry or pâte à choux (not to be confused with puff pastry!) which is a light pastry dough that contains only butter, water, flour and eggs—and is filled with a decadent hazelnut cream. Mille-feuille, similar to an Italian Napoleon pastry, is a masterpiece of flaky, buttery pastry sheets layered with vanilla pastry cream. Occasionally, they also come with passionfruit, black currant or caramel. And stayed tuned—the savory side of Fleur de Sel’s menu, a specialty of Patricia’s, is slated to begin soon.

Fleur de sel is French for flower of salt. “It is a very refined finishing salt harvested along the coast of France , mainly but not exclusively in the Brittany region, and is used for sweet and savory,” says Patricia, noting that she has had the name of her business chosen for a very long time—the email fleurde-sel@hotmail.com, which Patricia uses for the business, has actually been her personal email for 20 years.

Patricia, her husband Joe Khawand, a director in the treasury department at Credit Suisse, and their daughters Alexandra, 9, a Lafayette Avenue School 4th grader, and Michelle, 7, a Washington Avenue 2nd grader, moved to Chatham five years ago from Port Imperial in Hudson County where they lived for four years. The couple lived in downtown Manhattan prior to that.

When Alexandra was ready for school, they began their search for a community to call home with a good school system and where Patricia could see herself opening a business. Chatham won them over.

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Joe and Patricia Khawand with their daughters Alexandra and Michelle

“We love everything about Chatham—the people, the schools, the businesses, the town,” says Patricia, noting the kindnesses extended to them, and especially for the community’s support of Fleur de Sel which took over the space at 265 Main Street where Helen’s Dressmaking Shop had been for decades. The store was gutted to make room for new walls, flooring and an HVAC system. The bathroom was renovated, a side door was installed for deliveries and a commercial kitchen was built.

“Fleur de Sel started with catering at Washington Avenue School,” says Patricia, explaining that she catered a teachers’ appreciation lunch when she served on the teachers’ appreciation committee. “Everyone loved the food, and families started placing orders for their parties.” She took it as a sign, and Fleur de Sel started to take shape.

Every square inch of the project was a labor of love. Patricia carefully selected the lighting, tiling, flooring, tables, chairs and wooden patisserie sign that hangs above the Illy coffee machine that captured the rustic modern look she envisioned. The cappuccinocolored walls and a wrought iron lamp post in the front corner of the shop are decidedly French. Joe, right by her side throughout the project, did the tiling and built the benches—and after much experimentation, Patricia achieved the perfect look and color for the benches by mixing paint and varnish. “You know it when you see it,” says Patricia with a laugh.

Patricia is quick to note that her landlord is wonderful, local architect

Frank Truilo who designed the space is incredible as well as the whole team at Chatham and Madison boroughs, in particular Chatham Borough Engineer Vince De Nave, who was so helpful and patient during the process.

The renovation started in September 2019 and Fleur de Sel was ready for its grand opening by the middle of March 2020—one day before the pandemic shut everything down. “It was a scary time,” she says. As spring arrived, Patricia put on a brave face and took the bold step of opening Fleur de Sel in the middle of the pandemic on May 1, and was greeted by grateful and happy customers.

“It was a very warm welcome for us,” says Patricia, noting that her team is composed mainly of Chatham residents.

Patricia has a rich cultural background stemming from her Lebanese, French and Brazilian heritage. While studying in France for her MBA in International Hospitality Management at ESSEC/Cornell University, she met her husband Joe, also from Lebanon, who was working there. After Joe moved to New York, Patricia joined him, and the couple married in 2008.

A food and beverage specialist, Patricia held several positions in food and beverage and finance at hotels around the world including an InterContinental in Lebanon, Four Seasons Hotel George V in Paris, The Ritz-Carlton in Bahrain, Sofitel Chicago and W New York in Union Square. She taught hospitality classes at a university in Lebanon for five years.

We would like to thank Salerno Duane Inc. in Summit for bringing you this month’s cover story.

In her last position before opening Fleur de Sel, Patricia worked for four years at Sopexa, an international communication and marketing agency specializing in food, beverage and lifestyle, where she was part of a team that organized wine tastings for the U.S. trade on behalf of the Loire Valley wine region in France. Passionate about wine, Patricia earned an advanced wine certificate from the WSET (Wine & Spirit Education Trust) in Manhattan and is half way through her WSET diploma which she plans to complete in the future. While working at Sopexa, she also had owned a side business called Sweet, Still and Bubbly, a wine education and wine private events business. ...continued on next page

We would like to thank Salerno Duane Inc. in Summit for bringing you this month’s cover story.

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Fleur de Sel staff with Patricia and daughters Michelle and Alexandra

Happy to be working now in the town where she lives, Patricia says she enjoys being close to home for her daughters.

“They’re happy. They see this business being built. At the end of the day, this is for them,” she says. Will they follow in their mother’s footsteps? Perhaps. “Alex knows the difference between glacage and ganache. She also has a very refined palate—she can tell complex flavors she tastes. And Michelle— she loves to taste all of our creations and is a great marketer for Fleur de Sel,” says Patricia. For now, though, the girls are involved in activities such as gymnastics and swimming, and chorus classes at school. Alex is also a Girl Scout.

Reflecting on the journey of Fleur de Sel thus far, Patricia says, “My next-door neighbor and best friend Ann-Marie Ferguson, neighbors, close friends in Chatham and Madison, the business community—everyone has been so encouraging. I’ve been very touched by the emails and texts of support. I’ve been very blessed.”

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THE AVERETT FAMILY OF DIXIEDALE FARM

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Contributed by Patricia Wells, Chatham Township Historical Society n 1911, Elliott and Martha Averett purchased Dunrobin Farm located on the eastern slope of Long Hill overlooking the Passaic River. The estate had previously belonged to George Shepard Page, one of the founders of the Chatham Fish and Game Club.

Page’s elegant Victorian home, called Hillside, provided a great view of the small valley.

Elliott Averett and Martha Snead were both born and raised in Virginia but they didn’t meet until The Averett Family in 1916. (L-R): Elliott, Sr., Martha, Jr., Betty, Martha, Sr. and Janie. (This photo is a copy from each had moved to New York City. an Averett Family photo album, loaned to the Chatham Elliott was working for the United Township Historical Society by Sam Averett).

Cigar Stores Company and Martha was training as an opera singer. They married in 1908 and moved to New Rochelle. When Elliott advanced in the Cigar Store company, he and Martha decided to purchase a country home where they could raise their children. Although Martha and Elliott loved the property, they found the house too ornate for their tastes, so they replaced it with a fine Jeffersonian inspired Colonial Revival mansion, which was finished in 1917. They renamed the farm Dixiedale in honor of their southern roots.

The couple had five children, Martha, Janie, Betty, Elliott, Jr. and Samuel. Elliott, Sr. rose to vice-president of the cigar company and became wealthy enough that he was able to retire at age 49. He then devoted himself to his farm and the community.

Martha was active in the community as well. She was a founding member of the Chatham Woman’s Club. She was renowned for her gardens.

In 1929, the Red Brick Schoolhouse, which is adjacent to Dixiedale, closed. The Averetts purchased the building to preserve it and made it available to the community at no cost to use for meetings and events. In 1956, the family deeded the building back to Chatham Township for use as the Town Hall.

Elliott, Sr. died in 1942 at the age of 65. All the girls had married and moved away.

Elliott, Jr. and Sam served in WWII, and Sam also served in the Korean Conflict. Elliott became the Chairman and CEO of the Bank of New York. He also served on the Board of Directors for The Seeing Eye, eventually becoming its president. Sam was the Business Manager for The Seeing Eye for nearly 20 years.

When farming was no longer profitable, the Averetts established the Dixiedale Christmas Tree Farm which closed in 2019.

Martha died in 1973 at age 92. Sam and his wife, Jean, were the last of the family to live at Dixiedale. They passed away within months three months of each other in 2012.

The estate has passed out of family hands and condominiums will be built on part of the property. The developer plans to maintain the old mansion house as a common meeting area with condo units on the upper floors.

Dixiedale mansion was painted white when it was finished in 1917. Today the bricks are unpainted.

(This photo is a copy from an Averett Family photo album, loaned to the Chatham Township Historical Society

by Sam Averett).

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CALENDAR OF EVENTS

September Publisher’s Note: This month we're spotlighting an array of live and virtual events happening here in NJ and beyond. Please remember to always check ahead to see if events will be held live or online only.

VISIT THE CHATHAM FARMERS' MARKET at the Chatham Train Station parking lot every Saturday 8 am-1 pm.

KEEP CHATHAM THRIVING!

Order takeout! Follow a business on Instagram and Facebook! Pick up a special gift for a friend. There are so many ways that you and your family can support the business community of Chatham.

THE LIBRARY OF THE CHATHAMS has library take-out available, 24/7 online access and virtual offerings.

Visit www.chathamlibrary.org.

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CHATHAM TOWNSHIP'S OUT OF THE DARKNESS WALK EXPERIENCE will take place Sat. Sept. 12 with a scaled back inperson event at Cougar Field 4 pm-6 pm. A state-wide virtual event will take place Sun., Nov. 1. Visit https://afsp.org/covid19.

REGISTER TO VOTE

If you're not registered to vote, there's still time to get it done before the general election. For an application or more information, call 973-285-6715 or visit https://elections.morriscountynj.gov/ HEAD OUT ON A HIKE

Plan an easy hike or something heart-racing for you and your family.

This site makes it easy to plan a route that works for you. https://www.nynjtc.org/ WRITE SOMETHING

Arts by the People has moved its programming online. Check out their website for opportunities to read and listen to your work and the work of other writers.

Bonus: Email your work to rbarry@bestversionmedia.com and we might print it in a future issue. https://www.artsbythepeople.org/event-poss KEEP MOVING WITH THE MADISON AREA YMCA

The Y is offering member-only outdoor group exercise classes-visit the website to register. Virtual group exercise classes are also streamed live. https://www.madisonareaymca.org/

LATEST CHATHAM HOME SALES STATS FROM THE SPELKER REAL ESTATE TEAM TOWN CHATHAM TWP. CHATHAM TWP. CHATHAM TWP. CHATHAM TWP. CHATHAM TWP. CHATHAM TWP. CHATHAM TWP. CHATHAM TWP. CHATHAM TWP. CHATHAM TWP. CHATHAM TWP. CHATHAM TWP. CHATHAM TWP. CHATHAM TWP. CHATHAM TWP. CHATHAM TWP. CHATHAM TWP. CHATHAM TWP. CHATHAM TWP. CHATHAM TWP. CHATHAM TWP. CHATHAM TWP.

ADDRESS 11 BEECH CT 18HILLTOP TER 111 WESTMINSTER RD 14 YARMOUTH RD 67 ROLLING HILL DR 49 HILLTOP TER 87 WESTMINSTER RD 41 HALL RD 43 ROSE TER 37 MOUNTAINVIEW RD 193 NOE AVE 48 N LOANTAKA LN 30 OAK HILL RD 43 HURON DR 9 MOUNTAINVIEW RD 40 PINE ST 6 GLENMERE DR 55 LINDEN LN 115 LONG VIEW AVE 19 THORNLEY DR 19 CRESTWOOD DR 17 ROLLING HILL DR

LIST PRICE $1,175,000 $1,195,000 $1,249,000 $1,379,000 $1,395,000 $1,495,000 $1,495,000 $1,545,000 $1,549,000 $1,549,000 $1,549,000 $1,595,000 $1,599,000 $1,699,000 $1,699,000 $1,800,000 $1,849,000 $1,999,999 $2,299,000 $2,399,000 $2,425,000 $2,799,000

SALES PRICE $1,150,000 $1,172,500 $1,235,000 $1,370,000 $1,407,000 $1,472,500 $1,495,000 $1,495,000 $1,510,000 $1,499,999 $1,425,000 $1,515,000 $1,545,000 $1,400,000 $1,600,000 $1,952,000 $1,800,000 $1,890,000 $2,146,250 $2,372,500 $2,372,500 $2,740,000

DAYS ON MARKET 23 228 86 9 71 18 93 51 19 28 94 13 62 60 84 0 246 30 69 71 25 134

Market Data as per Garden State Multiple Listing Service Best Version Media does not guarantee the accuracy of the statistical data on this page. The data does not represent the listings of any one agent or agency but represents the activity of the entire real estate community in the area. Any real estate agent’s ad appearing in the magazine is separate from the statistical data provided which is in no way a part of their advertisement.

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EXPERT CONTRIBUTOR

GARDEN TERRACE IS A PLACE OF LOVE AND HEALING

Contributed by Peter Flemming, RN, DON, LNHA of Garden Terrace Nursing Home

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ow could you ever consider a nursing home since the advent of COVID-19? Have you read the horrible news reports about what’s happening in nursing homes?

In some ways nursing homes have been portrayed as institutions of horror. While MANY things have gone monumentally wrong during this unprecedented pandemic, many things have gone right—very right. We applaud the people who have embraced long-term care facilities and have viewed them as “Homes of Heroes.” Let’s look at it from another perspective--residents of many long-term care facilities live in a place where they are cared for 24 hours a day, 7 days a week by a team of caring professionals.

Many older adults have spent these last months at home, alone, with little to no consistent home health care, having no contact with friends and family, relying on friends and neighbors for groceries and prescriptions, feeling fearful and isolated.

Let me proudly share with you what’s been going on at Garden Terrace: Residents have felt a sense of comfort. Their days have been filled with activity and companionship. They are enjoying gourmet meals and stimulating conversation. They have been receiving round the clock person and medical care. Has it been different? Yes, of course. All of our lives have changed. Staff are designated to coordinate phone, FaceTime, window and outdoor visits.

We thank our entire community for the daily support--from the phone calls and emails, the food, the flowers, the abundance of cards from children cheering us on—we have all felt your love and this love has poured over into the quality of care we are dedicated to continue to provide.

While some could claim that long-term care facilities did a terrible job responding to this crisis, I would argue that many homes, including Garden Terrace have provided residents and families with daily reassurance, comfort and outstanding care during the most challenging time. We have families supporting us and thanking us for our heroic efforts and consistently provide the positive feedback that having their parent live in a place of love, laughter and family during this pandemic has been the biggest relief.

We have been ‘Garden Terrace Strong’ for 56 years and we are committed to not only remaining a strength in our community, but hope to bring change in people’s perspective of a very negative misconception of places of love and healing.

GT STRONG!!

Peter Flemming, Jr. graduated with a BSN from Hartwick College School of Nursing in 1997. He is a Registered Nurse with extensive experience in acute care hospital and emergency room medicine. Peter works full time as the Director of Nursing and Licensed Nursing Home Administrator in Chatham, and lives in Madison with his wife, Gina, two sons, Hudson (12), Tristian (8), daughter Sienna (11) and dog, Luna.

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SCHOOL DISTRICT OF THE CHATHAMS SPOTLIGHT: “ONCE UPON A TIME” THE SCHOOL DISTRICT OF THE CHATHAMS CELEBRATED THE END OF THE 2020 SCHOOL YEAR

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Contributed by the School District of the Chathams lthough the 2020 school year ended with empty hallways, classrooms and buildings, the School District of the Chathams marked the end of this historical year with a combination of virtual and live recognition ceremonies. Virtual recognition events were held for 3rd and 8th graders, while 5th graders celebrated moving on to Chatham Middle School with photos in front of a Card My Yard sign donated by the Lafayette School Parent Teacher Organization.

Chatham High School Class of 2020 Graduation

Chatham High School held traditional recognition events such as the Senior Awards, National and World Language Honor Society ceremonies virtually. Nontraditional events were also incorporated this year. The Chatham High School Visual Arts Department curated a Virtual Art Show featuring work from students in both Advanced Placement and elective classes to bring a museumlike experience to the community. The Chatham Education Association put a twist on the traditional Senior “Clap

Out” for the Class of 2020, sponsoring a car parade that brought teachers, students and their families back to school grounds for a celebration of the road ahead.

On July 8, students lined up in caps, gowns and masks at Cougar Field to participate in what had just weeks and even the morning of, seemed impossible--a live graduation ceremony.

Salutatorian Veronica Quidore instantly restored a sense of normalcy as she led the Pledge of Allegiance. With her speech themed, “Once upon a Time,” Valedictorian Katherine Wang took graduates on a journey into their past educational experiences to highlight how these have positioned them to embrace what lies ahead “with better eyesight into our communities and souls, with better hearing to understand the nuances between cultures and individuals, with better voices to advocate for what is right.” Dr. LaSusa encouraged students to be grateful and shared his belief that turmoil, struggle and adversity lead to something better.

In his words: “I am optimistic we will all emerge better largely because of the contributions of this class.” Seniors recognized Laura Scerbo with the 2020 Teacher of the Year award.

As 2020 graduates begin the next phase of their educational journeys, teachers and students of the School District of the Chathams are preparing to reenter the hallways and buildings for live and hybrid instruction. Future graduates are certain to reflect on what school looked like “Once Upon a Time.”

Chatham High School Senior Clap Out

Chatham High School 2020 Salutatorian Veronica Quidore

Chatham High School 2020 Valedictorian Katherine Wang

Chatham High School Teacher of the Year 2020 Laura Scerbo

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A BURIED TREASURE TURNS INTO A BOTTLE PROJECT

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Contributed by the Chatham Historical Society ottles and jars, covered in dirt turned into a research project highlighting commercial glass making and businesses behind them, years after they were found during an excavation mission next to the Chatham Library in 1982. According to a former board member of the Chatham Historical Society, Lynn Magrane, the society at that time was “given a day or two to dig and grab what we wanted at the site.”

The current library site was originally the Fairview House Hotel which stood on the property until approximately 1920. It is likely that the bottles originated from the hotel as many of them represent food and drink – wine, beer, condiments, etc.

Last year, Debbie Fabian of the society became fascinated with the forgotten treasure and she started the project with cleaning years, decades and possibly a century of dirt off the bottles. She washed them first using a bottle brush in a solution of water and dish washing detergent. Most bottles, with a solution of vinegar and hot water, were soaked overnight. Some of them did not get completely clean and several have a white coating (called “sick glass”) that does not come off. Some are color tinted (light green) and a few have an opalescent/iridescent cast to them. “I think someone else must have started researching them because they all had a sticker affixed to them with various numbers and letters which came off after cleaning,” she explained.

She then looked up each bottle on the Internet. Fortunately, many of the bottles had identifying writing and numbers on them. She researched a total of 23 items. During her research she learned a lot about how bottles were originally made and how their manufacturing progressed over the years.

Antique bottle with blob top by A.W. THEILER – Morristown, NJ

Christian Feigenspan opened his brewery in Newark, NJ in 1875. He was awarded a silver medal at the Paris Exposition in 1877 for his export beer.

Approximately a year later he started to bottle his beer in blob top bottles. The brewery was bought in 1943 by P. Ballantine and Sons. The bottle was famous for its "P.O.N." (Pride of Newark) logo.

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Antique Bottle by Guerlain, Paris: Few names are as famous in the world of fragrances as Guerlain.

One of the oldest continuously operating perfume houses in the world, Guerlain has created some of the world's most durable fragrances over its 170 years in business.

ART LEAGUE OF THE CHATHAMS' 2020 SCHOLARSHIP WINNER: ANDREW TRAN Contributed by Ann Frommer, Art League of the Chathams

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ndrew Tran is the Chatham High School graduate who is the recipient of a $1,000 scholarship from the Art League of the Chathams for 2020. An accomplished cartoonist, Andy is attending the Pratt Institute in New York, pursuing a double major in animation and graphic design. He said that he chose Pratt because it is one of the top schools for art in the country.

Andy realized his ability to draw at an early age but became serious when he was in middle school. After drawing a picture of Master Chef for his friend, his art teacher Mr. Hreha was impressed and encouraged him to draw more. Mr. Hreha inspired him to follow his dream and draw what he liked. Says Andy,” I wanted to draw things that looked cool.”

Super heroes as well as video game characters became part of Andy's drawing repertoire. This young cartoonist’s love for super heroes started at a very early age. The first time Andy saw Batman: The Animated Series, he was around 3 years old.

“It blew my mind and from that point on, I started to read comics and learn more about Marvel and DC universes, respectively," said Andy.

"Super heroes are inspiring.

Whenever something isn’t going well, I put myself in the shoes of a favorite super hero character and think to myself, 'What would they do?'"

Andy's big dream is to work for MARVEL or Disney.

High Noon Redemption by Andy Tran

Marvel vs DC by Andy Tran

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CHATHAM EMERGENCY SQUAD COMMITTED TO THE COMMUNITY Contributed by Chatham Emergency Squad Chatham Emergency Squad Welcomes Its Newest Cadet Class

Hometown Heroes of the Chatham Emergency Squad Members of the Chatham Emergency Squad have been a little busy as of late. Covid-19 has not spared the Chathams.

The Squad is proud that they have been able to provide the same level of rapid, safe and responsive care during this challenging time to all patients, regardless of their reason for calling, 24 hours a day, seven days a week.

The staff is well-trained and prepared for any emergency, as they have been for 84 years, but the pandemic has forced on them an enormous amount of new protocols which have required so much of their attention to adapt, implement and learn. Not surprisingly, this included a renewed emphasis on Personal Protective Equipment (PPE) which is expensive.

Their focus has been fixed on keeping the community -- and themselves – safe.

Made up entirely of volunteers, each of whom provide superior service and care to helping those in need, the Squad goes through extensive training and preparation, which far exceeds the requirements by the State of New Jersey.

The Chatham Emergency Squad promises to be there for our community during its time of need. Visit www.

ChathamEmergencySquad.org to find out more about our hometown heroes.

The Chatham Emergency Squad, an all-volunteer first aid emergency services providing prehospital care to residents and visitors of the Chathams, is delighted to announce it has accepted the applications of six highly motivated and impressive high school students to join its membership base as part of its Cadet Training Program.

Cadet Class 2020 Front row L-R: Kylie Finkelstein, Sophia Gagliardi and Risha Surana Back row L-R: Mihir Rao, Jack Tapper and Roma Welsh

Chosen from a field of highly qualified and passionate applicants, the cadets include: Kylie Finkelstein,Sophia Gagliardi, Mihir Rao, Risha Surana, Jack Tapper and Roma Welsh.

All six cadets are rising juniors attending Chatham High School and have already begun their Emergency Medical Technician (EMT) training at Union County College.

The cadets will spend their junior and senior years of high school helping residents in need as part of an active weekly crew, either after school or during the early part of the evening shifts. They join six other returning cadets to make up the full Cadet Program. These members include Hailey Baumgardner, Sam Cooperman, Tanay Malla, Claire Silverstein and Amelie Srinivas, rising seniors at Chatham High School and Mary Kate Vowells, a rising senior at Oak Knoll School of the Holy Child.

“We accepted these outstanding and qualified students before the pandemic, and there was great uncertainty about their enrollment in EMT school and their ability to participate in squad activities,” said Nicole DiMaggio, Training Lieutenant and Cadet Manager of the Chatham Emergency Squad.

“But these mature and motivated students reaffirmed their commitment to the community and have recently begun their training. With the life-saving skills and hands-on experience they will soon gain, these exceptionally bright students will all make a meaningful impact on the Chatham community. We’re thrilled to have them on-board.”

The Chatham Emergency Squad is an all-volunteer organization funded nearly exclusively by donations. In 2019 the Chatham Emergency Squad responded to 1,246 emergency calls in Chatham Township and Chatham Borough and provided mutual aid to neighboring communities of New Vernon, Madison and Summit on occasion. The Squad also provided free CPR training to more than 400 residents, teachers, coaches, school crossing guards and emergency personnel, including fire and police.

The Chatham Emergency Squad never charges for its services.

To learn more, to donate or to volunteer, please visit www. chathamemergencysquad.org.

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WHEN PAIN SHOWS UP, WHAT YOU DO NEXT MATTERS Contributed by Matthew Riordan, Professional Physical Therapy & Training

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hen pain shows up, it could be your back, neck, knees, shoulder or wherever. Your brain quickly jumps to the worst possible scenario with these thoughts running through your mind: “How did this happen? Is this going to get worse? I looked it up on Google and I think I have all of these things! What if I need surgery? Is there something I can buy on Amazon to make this better? Should I get an x-ray, CT Scan, MRI right away? I don’t want to take medication! Which is better—ice or heat? (It’s usually ice). Who do I even talk to about this?”

The anxiety can actually make you feel worse, but what you do next could help you avoid weeks of nagging or worsening pain. In my 20+ years of experience, I’ve found that people feel almost 30% better by following these steps: 1. DO NOT JUST WAIT AND SEE: Waiting and seeing may lead to avoidable and more costly measures later on.

2. “RELATIVE REST” vs. “JUST REST”: Keeping yourself moving is one of the best things that you can do, BUT you need to know the right DOSAGE OF ACTIVITY to allow the injury to heal. Like medications, too much can have serious side effects; not enough movement will not be effective and can make things worse.

3. IGNORE DR. GOOGLE: The misinformation overload can have a detrimental effect on how you feel and delay your recovery.

4. DO SOME HOMEWORK: Get a pad and pencil and write down as much as you remember or know about how your problem started and specific things that make it worse or better. A daily diary of your activities/symptoms can help guide you, serve as a gauge of improvement, limit confusion and be helpful when you see a specialist 5. FIND A SPECIALIST: If you have pain when you are trying to move, are unable to sit or sleep comfortably or are missing out on a sport or activity, then seeing a physical therapist is a great place to start, especially if you do not want surgery, pain medications or invasive testing. Physical Therapists are specialists in human movement who thoroughly assess your condition and make a plan for recovery. They will also make specific referrals if testing, medication or surgical consult is required.

6. MAKE AND APPOINTMENT: Have you gone to the doctor for a problem and once you arrive it already seems a lot better?

The appointment commitment empowers you which will assuage your anxiety.

7. GET REAL ANSWERS: Random and ever-growing questions can drive you crazy, take your mind off work, your family or other things you enjoy which ultimately magnifies the problem.

Finding a specialist who will take the time to listen and answer your questions in a way that makes sense to you can be soooo relieving and empowering.

If you’re having pain when trying to move, sit or sleep comfortably or enjoy a sport or activity and would like your questions answered, we are here for you.

Visit: www.FeelBetterWithPT.com

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ADOPT-A-PET

St. Hubert’s Animal Welfare Center provides services that support the human-animal bond and seeks to foster an environment in which people respect all living creatures.

Learn how you can volunteer, foster, and adopt at sthuberts.org. You can meet and adopt any of the following animals at our Madison Campus, 575 Woodland Avenue.

Contributed by St. Hubert’s Animal Welfare Center Photos by St. Hubert’s

Bella is a sweet lady!

She loves to be close to her favorite people (and give them kisses).

This 9-year-old lab mix enjoys being outdoors and going for long walks. She’d prefer to be the only animal in the house. Email mbgroneman@gmail. com to learn more and meet Bella.

Raine is a “purring machine” who loves snuggling -- and cozying up on your lap to take a nice nap!

This 6- year-old kitty gets along well with the other cat in her foster home. Now she’s looking for a quiet home (one without kids) to call her own. If you’d like to adopt Raine, please contact her foster at aliciasfosterfamily@gmail.com.

Ms. Bojangles is a sweet girl with a sweet mustache! She loves open windows, scratching posts, cat towers and sleeping on wool. She is pretty independent, but also likes other cats. She likes to run around and play with cat toys when she isn't eating or sleeping in the sun or shade, depending on her mood. Ms. Bo is shy at first, but will come out of her shell, especially if you have treats!

To adopt or learn more about Ms. Bo, contact her foster at liz. scherder@gmail.com.

Charlotte is a loving, affectionate hound who enjoys exploring and playing. She’s 5 years old, friendly with other animals, and good for families with school-age kids and up. Want to learn more about adopting Charlotte? Email her foster family at chrisszentmiklosy@gmail.com.

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“4.8 out of 5 stars - Google Reviews” “My husband and I were surprised when Urban Fire was replaced with Tino’s and decided the other night to try it out. Wow, what a great experience… The Caesar salad was delicious and abundant with shaved Parmesan and fresh croutons. The pizza was made with fresh ingredients and really good.” --- Laurie B

“Honestly, I can't say I was excited for another pizza place in Madison. Let the record state, I was wrong. Tino's is a very welcome addition to the Madison family of restaurants!” -- Andrew M. “Amazing Pizza! And awesome Sandwiches! The Eggplant Pizza is one of the best pizzas I have had in my life! So good!

Also the Polpette sandwich was awesome too!” -- William F.

“The food is delicious….PERFECT for date night. BYOB and the service is great. The PESTO POMODORO pizza was the BEST pizza I've had in a while. I'm definitely coming back!” – Chela L.

Our hours: Sun.-Thur. 4pm-8pm Fri.-Sat. 11:30am-8pm We are following state guidelines on reopening outdoor as well as indoor dining.

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6 Main Street, Madison, N.J. 07940

Tel. 973 845 6330 Visit www.nojunkpizza.com for locations, menus, news

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“The ingredients are very fresh and absolutely delicious.

We've since been back...three times.” -- Andrew M.