Sep 2011 Dovetale

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As we welcome the relics of the Blessed Pope John Paul

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Papal Mass in Singapore! Everyone was undeterred by the rain! We may have been damp and bedraggled, but we were all excited, enthralled, filled with an indescribable joy at being able to see our Pope in the flesh! Kallang Stadium is certainly no St Peter's Square, but

it did fine, the bright stadium lights

Fr Paul Goh: Father

of Faith

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reflected on our shining, happy faces.

The roar that rose up when we caught our first glimpse of

him

NCC? But isn't

it rivaied

SCC?

the volume of the Kallang Roar during Malaysia Cup. I was privileged to be part

of the choir that historical day - who could believe it? I'd just joined

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the Sanctus Spiritus Choir (for Christmas carolling) when it was announced

Relics: Objects

that all choirs were invited to join the mass choir that sang lor the Papal Mass

Gracg

... I shall never forget pride and gusto

it

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there r,ve stood on the open terraces, singing with

we welcomed Pope John Paul steadily, but it was "showers of blessing" to us. as

II to Singaporel The rain

fell

it

Children and VOCatiOn

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Celebrating a brand new Dovetale! Parishioners,

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had taken a short break from producing. The PPC has taken upon

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to ensure that this particular channel of communication is used

To this end, I extend to you, dear parishioners, an invitation to take l aIIII'aTa to ponder on what God has been doing lor you in your lives.

If

you

have any particular talent in writing or photography, do come forward and

offer your time. He may

be.

calling you and giving you a great opportunity to

serve him.

Speaking of calling, it is our duty as Christians to give consideration to what

God is calling us to. Each day at Mass, we have been praying for the Lord to send more labourers into His vineyard. You know that we use the prayer for

vocations composed by BlJohn Paul relics of BIJohn Paul

II himself It is with gratitude that we can also look forward to the visit of the

II to our parish on l7 and 1B Sep. These

are great objects worthy of veneration, but one may

wonder: is it unnecessary and perhaps even superstitious to even bother about relics? We have dedicated a space in this issue to providing a basic understanding for the Church's attention to relics (pl6). Coming up in October, we also celebrate Children's Day It is a time to give thanks for the gifts that God has given to all parents. It's is also perhaps a good time for all parents to consider how they have encouraged their children to listen to the Lord, to foster their vocation, their calling in life. The Dovetale team shares some ways parents can help do that (pl8). And is there a better way to help our children love the Lord, than to first spend time with Jesus, present in the Blessed Sacrament? Come Fri 28 Oct, we will once again have Eucharistic Adoration for Children. Be sure to bring your little ones!

Finally, we are pleased that the new Roman missal will soon be implemented. We can all look forward to a deeper experience of praying the Mass, the source and summit of our worship. Mark well this date:27

Nov

201I

the first Sunday of Advent

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the English speaking members of the Catholic Church will

implement it together on this day. More details to come as the big day arrives.

In the mean time, enjoy the first new and improved edition of Dovetale!

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Fr Andrew

Parish Priest

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COVER STORY

Indeed, that day was truly a blessing. The I

05,000-strong Catholic population

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of

Singaporb felt like our "papa" had come

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to visit. 25 years later, looking back at that

momentous occasion, we can see the impact the Papal visit had on Singapore Catholics. The word "catholic" means

"universal", and we never felt it more than that day. We were part of the universal church, all united as one.

On 20 November 2005, the late Pope John Paul II spoke of love and peace - two simple words, but oh, so hard to achieve. It is no wonder then, that through all his travels, he continued to spread that same message to Catholics everywhere, and shared it with all who were wilLing to hear.

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The multilingual pope reached out to diverse audiences

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the rich and

powerfirl, the young and the cld, the poor, the disenfranchised and the

downtrodden. As the successor to the apostle Peter and the vicar of Christ, he brought the Gospel message far and

wide. He inspired, he challenged, he

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listened and he took on the weight of the

I felt that familiar

world upon his shoulders. He built the

was a member

Church into a sacrament of uniry love

Church, who gathered to for the

and smiling; while we felt the loss, we

and peace for all the world.

Eucharistic celebration and to bid a final

rejoiced that his su{Iering was over and

farewell to a beloved pope.

he was with the Lord.

Did we

and many encyclicals were written. He

A week after, we attended a memorial mass at Holy Spirit Church. I'd

Ieft a legacy that will live on, because he

volunteered to prepare the pre-mass

inkling. Because we knew that our

touched our minds, our hearts and our

PowerPoint slideshow on the late Pope's

generation had already been blessed.

souls.

life and death; sorting through the

sense

of privilege

of the universal Catholic

at the interest the world had in the late Pope,

I noticed that we were all happy

Throughout his papacy, more audiences were held, more saints were canonized,

guess

then that sainthood was

on the cards? We might have had some

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countless photographs available, it was

On I May 201l,

On 2 April 2005, Divine Mercy Sunday, John Paul II returned to the Lord. The Church had lost its "papa", but rejoiced

soon obvious how the images showed the

proclaimed in Latin'From now on Pope

many facets of this man of God.

John Paul shall be called'blessed'. In his homily, Pope Benedict said thatJohn Paul

in the gift of his life and work, and how

After the mass, I joined some of the St David's choir members for supper at a

had 'the strength of a titan' and gave

he had changed the way the world looked at the Catholic Church. In the days

nearby coffee-shop. As we talked about

after, we watched the live telecast of the

how we avidly watched the Requiem

We praise the Lord for giving us

requiem mass at St Peter's Square. Again,

Mass at St Peter's Square, and marveled

.|ohannes Paulus

Pope Benedict

millions of people 'the strength to believe'.

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Lord wants you to be intrepid apostles of His Gospel and builders of a new humanity." These

five hours to be exact) to our island on 20 Nov 1986. I was only nine then

words continued to resonate deep in the recesses

and it hadn't really hit me that such an event was highly historic.

of my heart.

John Paul Singapore.

Pope

II remains

Till

today,

the only Catholic Pope to have ever visited Steeped in mediocrity and darkness, the world

I've to admit my knowledge of PopeJohn Paull II is limited to the articles written about him in the Catholic News and a comic-book biography of his life published by Marvel Comics (1983). I still get embarrassed whenever friends from another religious denomination ask me questions about this affable pontificate. However, there's one thing I'm pretty certain and that is

the special relationship PopeJohn Paul

II

had with Catholic youths.

today ofler fragmentation, Ioneliness and alienation. As a working professional entering into his mid-30s, I see many of my peers, Christians and non-Christians

alike

uncertainty, incompleteness, doubt in traditional values and a certain feeling

In

1984, he launched his bold pastoral plan by initiating the World Youth

including myself,

struggling to find hope and God in today's increasingly secular society characterised by

of malaise. My

generation had plagued with discontent, cynicism

Day with the intention of bringing young Catholics from all parts of the world together to celebrate the faith. Who can forget his message for World Youth Day 2000 in Rome where he wrote to young Catholics throughout the world unforgettable words that became the rallying cry lor theJubilee's

and fatigue and these maladies have spiritually blinded us. In desperate need of clear guidance, PopeJohn Paul II came along and offered us wise

greatest celebration: "Young people of every continent, do not be afraid

kind of hope my generation longed gave us the strength and constancy we needed to cope with

to be the saints of the new millennium! Be contemplative, love prayer: be coherent with your faith and generous in the service of your brothers and

counsel. His perennial message of hope

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the

the vicissitudes of everyday life.

of the Chureh and builders of peace. To succeed in this demanding project of life, continue to listen to His Word, draw

It hit the nail on the head - showing

strengths from the Sacraments, especially the Eucharist and Penance. The

should not be satisfied with worldly success,

sisters, be active members

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us that we


NEWS material possessions or Scientific Rationalism. His rich, mellifluous voice spoke our vernacular, represented wholesomeness and authenticity.

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Dovetale returns with a fresh look

a doubt, even the most cynical amongst

us could not help but believed when he made

it clear that we were the answer to the world's problems and that my generation was not only

After nine 1'ears of bringing good news, the parish newsletter took a hiatus in late 2009, as preparations for the GoldenJubilee went into full swing.

the future of the Church, but also its present. The we took stock of 50 golden

theme he chose for the 17th International World

Then,

Youth Day in Toronto, 2002, added credence to

years, we saw how our parish has

of the earth. You are

grown in size and diversity. We've

his belief; "You are the salt

as

Charh

ofr,'. Hab S?rit

evolved into a community that has

the light of the world" (Mt 5:13-14).

gron n in the spirit, and we continue growing. Those wonderful stories

To us, he was more than a Pope. He was our

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captured in the cornmemorativeJu-

our Papa who invested his lile in us, shared in our joys and insecurities, chided us when we

bilee magazine told us there is even

misplaced our trust in God and instilled in us

more "treasure" to be found in the

Biblical values and principles we now hold

life and activities of this vibrant par-

Papa

so

dear; the beaury of marriage, the sacredness

of

ish communiry

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we should docu-

family life, the challenge of fidelity and integrig*

ment dre living history as we live it.

and the dignity and sacredness of the human life.

Dovetale had ro make a return.

As I reflect on his papacy, I cannot help but

So it is back, reinvented as a rnagazine

marvel at the scale ol his handiwork that had

that hopefully everyone will enjoy reading.

impacted legions around the world - and to say this ar,rrncular gentleman awed me would be a

As I scanned through the list of articles I can't help noticing how the new-look Dovetale

gross understatement.

parallel the "genre" ot- the bible-writing:

Thomas Rosica. CSB llormer National Director and CEO, World Youth day 2002 and Fr.

CEO, Salt & Light Catholic Media Foundation and Television Network) succinctly summed

. . . . .

seems

to

Looking for EpistJes? Don't miss the letters from our priests; Updates on the li{b of the community (Acts) ... there's plenty. Personal testimony? We've got them. StoriesJ Definitely! Foetry? OK, that we don't have, yet!

up my sentiments in his keynote address at

ol the Australian Catholics Bishop Conference in 2008, New South Wales, Australia: "It is important the National Youth Leader Gathering

to realise that PopeJohn Paull

"Noah waited seven more days and again sent out the dove from the ark. When the dove returned to him in the evening, there in its beak was a freshly plucked olive leaf" (Gen B: l0-1 l).

II did not invent

World Youth Day. Rather, they were born in the heart ol a young, Polish priest by the name of

Karol Wojtyla, who from the beginning of his priestly ministry made a special place for young people in his life. His example is clear if we hope to reach the young - make place for them in your heart and ministry from the very beginning."

Here it is, brothers and sisters, bearing clear signs of the life of our vibranr parish communiry - Dovetale, back and better than ever.

Be a part of

the new Dovetale!

Here's how you can be involved:

. If you have a particular talent in writing or photography,

we

need you to cover events happening at our parish;

PopeJohn Paul II, his legacy looms large over

. If you know a parishioner

an entire generation and continues to have a

lasting and profound impact on today's youth, shaping their lives regardless of their faith

.

you think we all should know or from

whom we can all draw inspiration from, we'd like to hear more; Share with us what you like about the new-look Dovetale, and

rell us what you would like to see in future.

and denominational background; Catholics, Protestants and non-Christians alike.

Email us at doaetale@hojspiiL.sgand we'll get in touch with you!

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T AROUND THE PARISH

Eventus: Experiencing God in special ways On 2 and 3 Sep,

B0 youths gathered

in our

parish with the desire to find Christ in places unexpected. Divided into four categories

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Adventure', 'Social Action', Art' and

'Performance' the youths were given an experience based on their choices. Some climbed to the summit of Bukit Timah

Hill, others walked from Serene Centre do',,r,n the Urban landscape of Bukit Timah Road, until they arrived at StJoseph's Church (Bukit Timah), prayng along the way and taking pictures of things they saw God in. Still others were paired up and given the responsibility

of cleaning one-room flats, or were tasked to present a Performance at Mass that evening.

There were also those who chose to experience God through 'Art'; they were guided through an experience of self-discovery and self-

realisation through artistic exercises such as moulding clay and drawing who they saw themselves to be.

individual's interests, many of the participants were able to experience God's love in different

of God, Euentus

ended off with mass celebrated by Fr Andrew.

It

10

of our youths went to Spain

to

join almost two million other young

people to celebrate World Youth Day (IVYD), a weekJong festival (16-21

Aug) that culminated with Mass with Pope Benedict XVI. Before heading to Madrid to meet the Holy Father, four members of the FUEL youth Community joined a group from St Ignatius Church to attend MAGIS, a programme leading up to \{YD to help them discover God in all things through the Ignatian Spiritual Exercises. 99 di{ferent experiences, grouped

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into six categories (Ecology, Pilgrimage, Social Service, Spirituality, FaithCulture and Art & Creativitf were held across Spain, Portugal and North Africa.Joel Koh, a 21-year-old NUS student, who was assigned to a Social

Because each unique experience catered to the

ways. Through the grace

Young People return from WYD with experience of a lifetime!

is with much hope that youths, after

experiencing this event, will continue to be empowered and will in turn empower others

to experience God in our world! Euenhts was planned in conjunction with the FUEL youth community's fifth anniversary

Service experience ttied'Fraternifit and Companinnship Skin Deep', was sent

to

teach a group of African immigrants

to write and read Spanish. "I was a

bit worried, considering that none of us Singaporeans knew any Spanish,"

Joel shared, "It was very challenging ... but it taught me to love all of God's creation, and not just parts ol His creation which are convenient to love".

Another six youths went to Spain with the Verbum Dei communiry A member lrom this group, ChristopherJohn Peter, was moved by God's gracc that allowed him to make the trip, "I needed a break from my work. I was burnt out and I knew it was time to break away and go on honeymoon with God," Christopher said, adding that his favourite memory is celebrating the Holy Mass with the rest of the participants. "[t was] at the air field. There were two million people, celebrating and giving reverence to the Lord. It was so powerful, and it showed me how big Christianity is in the world." For Gabriella Kow, 20, who was also part of the St Ignatius group, has been an experience

of

a

\4YD

lifetime: "With time away from my fast paced

lifestyle, I was able to reconnect with God once again, and found him in the least likely of places," she said. "My eyes have been opened and the

Holy Spirit has touched me through the sharings, the Mass, and mostly, the people. Learning and sharing about our faith with other countries through dance and song are moments that I will treasure dearly".


Regular Eucharistic Adoration for young people kicks off It began

25 Aug, after months of prayer and

simple desire amongst members

discussion, iAd.ore happened, the very

Tradition. 'As a monthlv fixture on tJre calendan it can be something the

of the Friends ofJesus young

first Eucharistic adoration session catered

young people of our parish can look

several months back as a

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adults.community to be closer to

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Jesus. Together, they visited several Adoration rooms to pray in the Real

Marshall Penafort, 28, the leader of the communiry says that the programme

Presence

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the Lord. [n Adoration,

t-he

young people

forward to definitively," he said.

the parish.

iAdore Eucharistic atlorationfor louths and

aims to bring young adults and youth

will

ltoung adults

take place

into a deeper relationship withJesus

Thursr!ry of the mctnth,

lasting peace and joy, one which they

through Eucharistic adoracion, Scripture

Chapet.

desired to share with others. So on

reading and celebrating our Catholic

b1

the young people discovered

a

B.

eunl fourth lSpm al the

with an hour of adoration, followed

fet towsh ip

un

til

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Holy Spirit X: A fun-filled Pentecast for the kids On 5June,

a week trefore Pentecost,

aged four ta eight came together

children

in the Upper

Room to parlicipale in the first-ever camp for our young ones in crle bration ol our parish Feast Day.

I{amed "Holy Spirit X

- The Power ol Christ",

the camp was organised by the Legion of Mary

RCIA: A Conversion Experience

Junior praesidium, Our Lady of the Cenacle, and eo-hosted by the Rite of Christian Initiation of Children lRCIC) lacilitators, to bring lhe message

of Pentecost to our

litt-le ones. Held in a superhero

The RCIA ministry started a newJourney with a Welcome and Opening Nght on 26May. During the first period of thejourney, the Inquiry period, our Inquirers are invited to ask questions about Christianity and receive truthful, lifesharing answers from their sponsors. The Rite ol Acceptance

theme, 41 children attended the camp, ttrimming

and Welcome, is a celebration where baptised and unbaptised

and action songs lrom lOam to 4pm. The key

inquirers publicly declare to the church their intentions to

acdviry

continue their faith journey The Church welcomes and accepts

the kids went through seven stat-ions. to earn

them

as persons

who intend to become its members. Our

with energy and enr-husiasm to learn how to become Christ-sent superheroes.

The children participated in a variety of games

ol

the day was the station games, where

badges as proof

ol them attainine

inquirers (now catechumens) and candidates will then continue their conversion journey within our faith community. During

of the Holy Spirit. After enjoFng

this first major Rite, held on 27 Aug at the 5.30pm Mass, 22

how to make a rosary

the seven gilts a lbst food

lunch, they were recharged and eager to learn

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a first lor many

ol rhem

youths from the RCIY and

lrefure the day came to an end with a paraliturgy,

signed with the Cross,

using the Pentecost readings accompanied with a

l2 children lrom the RCIC were the sign of our salvation. Those who

answer God's call will need to learn how to let go and die to

old ways of life, which often is not

re-enactment by their facilitators.

easy.

following Christ. Indeed, in faith, we are confident that for our

Apart {rom the lreebies the kids took back, the children also brought the Holy Spirir, along with a deeper understanding of God's love and empowerment of his people. With their new-

catechumens and candidates who persevere, the end of their

fiound "superpowers"l let's pray ficr these kids,

journey will be more marwellous than can be imagined!

that they grow into splendid young Christians!

In this beautiful Rite, the Church consecrates and makes holy

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sets

apart

those who are committing themselves to

Shaun .Nathan

RCIT

catechumen Kcgleigh Wee shares herjournel

Turn to page I 0 to read her reflection.

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MINISTRY LIFE

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Since

Ma2 lastyear, our paish has

been

brins*S children to our

Euchaistic Lord, in adoration. But, as it turns out, as the adult facilitators introduce the little ones to the Lord, they are moued to a deeper louefor the Lord, b2 the exampk of the children.

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iPad. online games. Children

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As the Archdiocesan Coordinator, Sr

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Angie meets up with different parents

generation ago, the Internet was hailed as the world's greatest innovation, even at a

calendar. With a simple structure

connecting speed of 56kbps. Fast forward several decades, and we find a majority of

vocal prayer and silent adoration, the

us taking Internet connectivity for granted. The problem, howeve4 is that while our

CEA gives children the opportuniry to

that our forefathers could only dream of having

indeir

time. Not more than a

children have become more well connected to the world, there is a genuine valid

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and

or catechists to plan the session, usually themed according to the Liturgical

of

explore prayer in many ways.

concern that they have become disconnected from God.

Of course, there

are challenges. Some

There is reason for us to sit up and take action. There is a need to re-connect our kids

of

to God our Father again. And thankfully, there is hope. And it's available, right here.

children will not be patient enough. But

At our parish.

testimonies have shown that children

us may already be thinking that our

themselves are surprised at how Sr Angeline Lim,

FMDM

has been leading the charge, along with a committed group

sessions

with the Blessed Sacrament

of parents and catechists, in encouraging this reconnection with God through the Children Eucharistic Adoration (CEA). Since May 2010, Sr Angie and her team have

are not as dry as they first imagined.

dedicated themselves to leading children toward Christ, and introducing them to

for example, faced opposition when

the mystery of the Real Presence of our Lord in the Eucharist. And how crucial this

she

has been to the formation

of our little

ohes.

With

so

many forms of distractions, one

could easily imagine the empty adoration rooms in a matter of years,

if

our children

do not learn and appreciate the power of adoration of our Blessed Lord. o

Lidia (occupation, parish, ministry) brought her eight-year-old for the

session.

"My

son told me after the

session: 'Mummy, it was not as boring as

I thought it would be.'When I

asked him


"Let the Children Come

to Me!'

Mallhew l9:14

of Hope" more than

decades ago. Over

and parents," she said, "For me, it's

the years, word was spread, and the

wonderful to introduce young children to

programme was introduced in many

the Real Presence ofJesus in the Blessed

parishes and Catholic schools around

Sacrament. Children pray so naturally

the world.

belore the Blessed Sacrament, because they have a capacity to connect with God more

Fr Antoine came to Singapore for

which part he liked the most, Gabriel

the first time in April last year) at

said he liked the part when there was

the invitation of the Serra Club

silence with the guitar playing sofdy.

It

moved him close to tears." The Lord does touch diflerent individuals

in

different ways.

of

or keeping silent. During the sessions, they are given roles by facilitators to

contribute to the session in small ways:

With a good mix of prayer, song, silence

Singapore, as one of the speakers at their 15th Bi-Annual Asian Convention. It was during his stay here that Fr

in being part of this community, where

Antoine conducted

to a real prayer life from a young age,

a

workshop for

parents and catechists that sparked the

And it is by no means that children are just sitting there merely verbalizing words

easily and readily than many grown-ups."

interest in bringing CEA to Singapore.

With the blessing of Archbishop Nicholas, the CtrA was started, and have been hosted at Holy Spirit monthly since.

and scripture, children have much to gain they can, as peers, encourage one another

simply by praying sincerely themselves. But it is not just the children who have taken much out

ol

these sessions. The

parents who bring their children to these sessions, the

facilitators and the catechists

also grow lrom these sessions.

carrying lighted candles, ringing the accompanying the priest bringing the

Fruits of labour While it has been

Blessed Sacrament into the room where

the community has grown and now

the table is set as an altar.

sees a

bell to indicateJesus' coming, and

"I a

lot of hard work,

regular attendance of about 50

childre.n, accompanied by their parents,

Iives

of parents and children during group

sharings," Sr Angie testifies. "You may call this a mystery. I believe the children lead

the adults toJesus! So often, it is the child

How lt All Began

each month. Sr Angie shares

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at the growth of the programme:

who will enthuses his parents to pray

inspired to start a Children's Eucharistic

"The greatest fulfillment is seeing the

before the Blessed Sacramentl It is truly a

Adoration community called "Children

transformation in the lives ol children

faith-filled experience. "

was Fr Antoine Thomas CSJ who was'

herjoy

get a glimpse of a transformation of the

who brings the family together in prayer,


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took the leap and signed up Ibr the Rite of Christian Initiation Youth (RCIY] at the Church of Holy Spirit.

After two months of formation, the RCIY inquirers were linally ready lor the Rite of Acceptance (RoA), on 27 Aug. A week be{bre, one of the ibrmators approached mc and talked to me about the Acceptance, telling me it was a vital phase because

I

was confirming my readiness to accept God. She asked

me to spend the u,eek preparing myself by thinking

about why I wanted to become Catholic, and what it meant to lead the life of a Christian. I spent the week thinking but I couldn't work out any significant way it would, except that I could receive Holy Communion after I was baptised.

Then came the day. In a solemn ceremony, we assembled in front of the altar. I'r Paul asked: "My dear inquirers, r,vhat do you ask of God's Church?" There was a pregnant pause, no one quite brave enough to profess what they wanted. I looked down at the

Accepting His lnvitation

pamphlet and there was the answer staring at me : "We ask lor Faith". Fr Paul conl-inued, "What does this faith o{Ter

you?" This time the reply came back stronger)

"Eternal Lifle". Then he invited us to lace our sponsors, who then signed us with the cross on our ears, that we may

of the Lord, on our eyes, that we may alrvays see the glory of God, on our lips, that we may respond to the word of God, and over our hearts, always hear the voice

RCIT/RCIC Rite of Acceptance and Rite of Welcoming r.uas celebrated on 2 7 Aug RCIT C atechumen I{AYLEIGH WEE shares her The

.journe;rt into the Church sofar

that Christ may dr,vell there by faith. This is u,hat I learnt from my Rite of Acceptance that I seek to cnter the Catholic faith so that I can trust

in God wholeheartedly, to never doubt everything He does for me, and to have utmost faith in His love lor us.

I do this

so

that He might one day accept me into His

kingdom and so that I can have eternal life with Him.

It darvned on me that the di{Ierence between the Christian lile and the one I have been living is that God should now be my priority; my life should now revoive around God, instead of being a mere part of my life on Sundays. Myjourney in RCIY has been an

enlightening one thus far, but the RoA has put into perspective what it means to be Catholic. As I continue my journey, now as a Catechumen in RCIY, I hope to

better understand the Catholic laith, be open to God, and of course. to be baotised ncrt Easter.


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a 17-year-old boy whose ramily were non-catholic christians. rr he came up to you one day and told you he wanted to become Catholic,

because he had discovered in his reflections and reading

of the Bible that the Catholic

Church was indeed the one thatJesus Christ founded, you would most likely be blown away by not just the ability to make comparisons and apply the evidence to his faith. You would also be in awe of his initiative to take his faith seriously.

Many people at that age are busy with school and socialising. Not Fr Paul Goh. Even as a young student growing up in a Protestant family, he read the scriptures diligendy, and sought to find the meaning of his faith. It led him to the Catholic Church.

"I

was fortunate to be at St Patrick's

Bible, and learned to pray"

School

we learned about God there, read the

Fr Paul credits his road to the Church to his school. But in

truth, the school merely provided the means. Fr Paul himself took the initiative, asked the questions and sought for answers. "Reading Scripture and looking at the evidence available, it became clear to me thatJesus Christ did found the Catholic Church. The sacraments also made so much sense to me. Christ, who founded the Church, would

protect it, heal it

-

and that's what the Sacrame nts are for. It was just logical."

And it was that same way of thinking, with a level of maturity beyond his years, that led him to contemplate joining the priesthood. "I thought to myself; I only have one life, how do I best use this one life?" he said, "We all have the same destination in the end, whatever we choose to do with our lives, it's got to lead us to Heaven. I felt

strongly for the priesthood, so I gave it a go." 11


T

PROFILE

But interestingly enough, it was the priesthood that provided one of the obstacles in his becoming a Catholic in the first

In fact, what he really needed was a renewal. And, being the character of strong will and initiative as he's always been, Fr

place. "Even before I was baptised, I had a feeling somewhere

Paul sought for and was granted permission to go to the East Asian Pastoral Institute in Manila. In the seven months the

deep within me that God was calling me to be a priest, but initially I'didn't want to be a priest! Better to get married, I

thought to myself!" he said laughing almost as il embarrassed to share this part of his journey,"If I didn't become Catholic, then I couldn't be a priest!"

stayed there, among a community

"It But he got past that road block and did become Catholic. But how did he navigate past the real worry - Q6i's calling to the

"I realised after reading Scripture that there is more to life that earning bread and butter ... and when you don't give God a chance, you feel an emptiness in your heart. And that emptiness almost becomes painfirl." He was ready priesthood?

to fill that void. And it helped that his teachers and mentors in school motivated him, not by words, but through their very lives.

"I

saw the example of good priests. They, along with the La

of about B0

priests from

various countries, he synthesized and refreshed all that he had learnt in his nine years in seminary. was so wonderful, but that was a refreshment in the head,"

he said, tapping his left temple. His heart was still empty. The

turning point was when he attended a Life in the Spirit Seminar that a fellow priest friend was conducting during his stay in Manila. "I remember that encounter with the Holy Spirit. It was so beautiful, and it was so real." It kick-started a soul that was desperate to love and serve God fully. "That very night, I prayed for three hours - and it didn't feel like it was enough!" Fr Paul was re-energised by a power greater than his own. He prayed more, and more fervendy than before.

Selle brothers, served God with so much joy, and they made a

di{ference in my life. This, I thought, this was a vocation of .joy!

I had So

in

to

join in."

1961,

at23,Fr

Paul joined the seminary and was

ordained nine years later.Just one year into the priesthood, Fr Paul received an affirmation from the Lord. He recalls fondly, 'As I was entering my second year in the priesthood, I had to counsel a young couple who had become disillusioned by financial woes. They were ready to die together, there and then.

I

spoke with them, trying to persuade them that life was worth

living, that God could help them

il

they stayed close to him."

Fr Paul remembers meeting one of the two people he had counseled just a few years back. "They had survived the

ordeal. And almost 40 years later, they are doing ok. They have a son, who is doing exceptionally well."

"I

am glad God used an unworthy person like me to help them

through that difficult period ... I am convinced that we priests are called to bring faith and hope to the people of God. Many people live in despair, and see no meaning in life. I had nothing to offer that young couple except encouragement, but that was enough to save them from making a big mistake."

That's not to say that it was all a bed of roses. Everyone goes through a dry period, and Fr Paul was no di{ferent. 'Around the fourth or fifth year fin the priesthood],

I started feeling

Iost and dry. I was spending a week preparing for a l0 minute sermon, and it came to a point where I asked myself, is this all there is? I felt unfulfilled

... I was so close to throwing in the

towel and walking away."

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Today, more than 35 years after that

are about the same; we have tall people,

sports hasjust never been a big part of

experience, Fr Paul has learned much,

short people, thin ones and fat ones," he

his life.

and knows his priorities. "Prayer life

.jokes, "but they all make up the same

very important. When I was young, I prayed, but it was not central to my life. My priority was preparing the

Church. So it's no di{Ierent. I like to

That, in no way implies that Fr Paul is

think of the Church

unhealthy. Every morning, he wakes up

The Bishop can tell you to go centre

at 5am

one sermon that the people could take

midfield, or quarterback or goalkeeper."

the day

vine to branches, he needs to first be

Picking up a possible interest by way

morning Masses and breaklast with Fr

connected to the Lord, in order to give

of his sports analogy, I

the Lord's message.

a football fan (Perhaps an Manchester

duties. Fr Paul also sets aside about

United fan). "No, no, I don't watch much football. I played lootball during my days as a seminarian but that's only part of our training. But I've never been

an hour fbr prayer some time in the

is

as a

playing field.

stretching. A bit of prayer, alternate

home." Fr Paul had understood that like

Having serwed in no less than eight parishes since his ordination, Fr Paul has had the experience

of working with

asked

il

he was

di{Terent kinds of people. To him, there

a sports person." Fr Paul likes to travel,

is little diflerence between parishioners

has a keen interest in photography (as

from different churches, he says.

'i\ll

- he firmly believes in starting young and takes a bit of time

his vast collection of photos testifes), but

Andrew sets him going about his daily

afternoon, no matter how busy he is. "It's

important to keep a healthy prayer life. And if one is busy, all the more he must spend time in prayer." Apart from those regulars items to check

off on the to-do list, there

is something

new every now and then. "You are nevet never sure," Fr Paul says, as he flips his heavily marked organiser. He turns

it

slightly to o{Ier me a view, and I take a glance. It looks like a fairly busy week for Fr Pau1, but he is last to warn: "We must

"Many people liue in despair, and see nto ?ne&lt

*s in lifu

make sure there's time for God and for rest. Sometimes

if I'm

really tired, I just

have to take a break, for the sake of the people and for your own sake."

Hardworking and willing to go the distance, but balanced and realistic at

the same time. It is hard to imagine a 17-year-old who wouid venture so lar as

...

I arn corlainced

to seek the fullness of truth that is in the Catholic Church. Such a deep, mature young person would be hard to find.

that we priests are called to bringfaith end hope to the

That boy now

serves

in our parish, as

priest to the people. What a gift we have

in Fr Paul Goh.

If

all Catholics, young

and old, would draw the sense of wonder and the zeal for God from Fr Paul, I get a feeling that shortage of vocations

will

not be a problem in our diocese in time to come.

people of God."

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"NCC? Isn't it SCC?"

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reason, because for over 20 years the Archdiocese of Singapore has used the term SCC. So why the sudden switch from the

'S'to the 'N', and does it matter at all?

Of course, 'S' stood for 'small' and 'N' stands for 'Neighbourhood'. Archbishop Nicholas Chia, together with the Senate of Priests, decided to cease the usage of the term 'Small Christian Community' or SCC, in favour of 'Neighbourhood Christian Community' or NCC. Parishes and diocesan organisations were requested to adopt the change

ol terminology in their communications

and publications by the second-half of 201 1. Before we get behind the reason for the change in terminology, let's look at the reasons for building

Small Christian Communities. The idea behind the word'small'was two-fold. On one level, 'small'is, quite simply, the opposite of 'big'. On another level, 'small' refers to something that is basic. For many years the parish was the most basic level of a local Church, which is a diocese. Therefore all

activities to serve the needs of Catholics were organised on the parish level. This can be seen in the many ministries that we have in parishes. In time, however, the Bishops in many countries recognised that their parishes had grown too big to meet basic needs of all their parishioners. As in any big organisation, this could lead to individual members becoming just a number. This was not what should happen in a Church-community. Therefore many Bishops, including our own Archbishop, saw the need to build smaller communities within the parishes. For in order to live out the call to community, which is fundamental to our life as

followers of Christ, we cannot say that we are committed to a community which remains a big,

abstract and. faceless group of people. That is why the members of the universal Church are all part

of

a parish, to make the vision more concrete. But as parishes grew bigger the need arose to organise

parishes in smaller geographical units: the neighbourhoods.

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just be part of a bigger community? The call to community is part of our universal call to holiness.Jesus never called disciples to follow Him individually. He called them to follow Him together. And even when He sent them out on mission trips, He sent them out tlvo by two. To grow in holiness, we cannot just say we love God, whom we cannot see, if we Why can't

we

and 'for all'. Thus the Church has always organised itself geographically, in order to be all inclusive and to make sure that everyone is taken care of. Thus besides these 'communities by specific calling', the Archbishop wants the parishes the divide

itself into neighbourhood groups, which ensures that every parishioner is part of a smaller community.

not love our 'brother'first, whom we can see (cf. I John 4:20).

In the same way, we cannot

say we love

The idea of "Small" Christian Communities has not been

our brother, unless

he becomes concrete. We can't just love mankind in general, unless mankind becomes concrete in individual human beings. And these individuals cannot just be people we like and those

abandoned at all. The purpose of changing "Small" into

whom we already consider our friends. These should be every

parishionersandwhichlormcommuniLiesinwhich.lovingyour

individual that God gives to us as our 'neighbour'. For that is our call: "Love your neighbour as yourself" (Mt 22:39). And that 'neighbour' may even include your enemy, whom we are

neighbour' can become very

also called to love (cf,

Mt 5:44).

"Neighbourhood" was to specify to parishes that we are talking about a network ol communities which encompasses all

concrete.

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This vision of building NCCs. which is the vision to build a communion of communities because NCCs need to remain united in one parish in union with their shepherd, the parish

By now the need to organise the parishes into even smaller units

Priestisnotaboutstartingpost-AlphagroupsorpoSt-RCIA

has become clearer. In order to grow in holiness, we need to be part of a communiry one in which we are not just a number to "the rest", and in which no one of "the rest" is a number to me.

groups. Many parishes have started such groups, or have tried to push catechumens to become RCIA lacilitators in order to keep them active in Church. This they did.

oi

course. with

the best intentions, but not always with good results, So is the idea

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because

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different people have different charisms. Thus the vision of

of Small Christian Communities to be totally

abandoned? When it comes to your personal call and charism,

ourArchdioceseistobuildNCCs,forintheir..basic-ness'',

it is important to remember that God continues draw people to join or to start specific communities for specific missions. In

there is a place for everyone to journey with others and

use

:

,

their gifts.

the Church we have many such communities, like the Focolare movement, the Neo Catechumenal Way and many more. They are not geographically organised, yet they have the blessing

of

Because

of the

address of your house, you are

part of an NCC, even

if

automatically

.

.'

you have never been involved yet. And

Still, the Church needs to take care of everyone. That is

Catholic, , but become active in your NCC, even if you are already in a ;, ,. ministry so that "loving thy neighbor" can become something

why she is called 'Catholic', since her mission is 'universal'

real and meaningful.

the Church and have proven to be fruitful.

that is where the invitation lays: don't be an inactive

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I

OUR FAITH C

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is a priuilegefor us to haue the relics of Bkssed John Paul

of

II in our parislt. Manl,t

us haue known and adrnired this well-loued Pope in ltis ltears Ef seraice as the

Vicar

of

Wlry do

Christ. But do his old belongings reaQt matter? What exactlt are relics? rfle

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pq

suclt attention to tltem and wltat rok do tlte2 ltaue in ourfaith?

of those who have way While there are many who will shy away

is apparent that people do not regard the possessions

f

a.Ru.t.d in the

same

ILH,:",":T.*ff :ff ::i:1T:J::iT-*l;'ll^1il:#::i:.'.ff: objects. Would this not seem to be the case for us Catholics? Hence, we have the visit

of the relics ol BlessedJohn Paul II in our parish, giving us the opportunity in this article to explore the use of relics and the role they play in our faith. We are familiar with the Church's use of material things as sacred signs and symbols

of grace. We know of the

use

of sacramentals. We

use

material things like water, wine,

bread, oil, and even blessed palms. Many wrongly believe that the Church teaches that these sacramental - these objects actually provide grace. But the church has never taught that. These things, do not make God work the way a coin

mak"es

a

vending

machine work. Rather, their use

depends oz God, and not the other way around. It is God who works through them, and without God's divine intervention, these remain merely material things.Jesus' healing of the blind man, recorded in the Gospel of

John (9: l-7), for example, involved the use of mud and spitde. But it was not the mud and spittle coming together to magically heal the blind man. It wasJesus who In chaptu 19 oif the Acts

o1f the Apostl"es,

records that handlcerchiefs or aprons

Luke

uue caried

aaalfrom hit bod1, n

the

sitk

made the mixture e{ficient.

If

the blind man had done that to himself without God's

blessing, he would still have remained blind and he would have had the added task a dirty face to clean as well.

If

It

wasJesus who healed

him

of

not the mud and the spittle.

we can understand this first idea, then it is easier for us to understand the next: the

of Saints - the bones, ashes, clothing, or personal possessions of the apostles and other holy people held in reverence by the Church. The Church has never taught that relics

there is some magical power in relics. Nothing in a relic itself has any ability to cure.

Rather, the Church says that relics may be the occasion of God's miracles, and in this the Church follows Scripture.

In 2 Kings

13, the prophet Elisha's bones were used as the instruments that brought

a dead man to life: "Elisha died, and they buried him. Now bands

of Moabites

used

to invade the land in the spring of the year. And as a man was being buried, lo, a marauding band was seen and the man was cast into the grave of Elisha; and as soon

l6

as the

man touched the bones ol Elisha, he revived, and stood on his feet"

(r,w 20-21).


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The woman who sffired with a hunorrhagelftr 12 Tears uas cured b) simpQ touching the hem

If

you had thought it was the bones

of Chist\

cloak, as recorded in

Mattheul

Gospel.

handkerchiefs and aprons, so he most

material, powerless things.Just as a photo

that raised the man to life that would be

definitely can work through the relics of

of a loved one in our family

bordering on superstition. Only God can

holy and noble people of faith.

remind us of who we love and why we

raise man to life after death. But in this case, God used the great prophet's bones as the

instrument of grace.

In the New Testament, a woman was cured of a hemorrhage by simply touching the hem of Christ's cloak (Mt

is used to

love him or her, reJics are a reminder of

Two points must be pre-amped. First,

the great love the Saints have for God.

surely there are fake relics out there.

They should move us to seek a greater

There are bound to be greedy people

relationship with God perhaps through

looking to take advantage of the devotion

the imitation of the Saints whose relics

and value placed on the items of the holy

the Church keeps. Whether God has

people of God. It is the same with many

worked miracles through a particular relic

9:20-22). She was not thinking that the

things: fake footballjerseys, fake Rolex

or not, our veneration of them cannot

cloak itself had special powers. She was

watches and fake dollar notes. Things

lurn into worship

focused onJesus, the Divine Healer. In

of great value will

for many Catholics and non-Catholic

the Acts of the Apostles, two more clear

crooks. For this reason, the Church has

examples stand out. In chapter 5, some

placed great care to minimise frauds.

scholar. clarified clearly in his writing,

sick people were healed simply when

Riparium: "We do not worship, we do not

Peter's shadow passed over them (14-16).

The Council of Trent said that no new relics should be recognised without the

In chapter

investigation and approval of the local

to the creature rather than to the Creator,

if need be, even the approval ol the Holy See (see Council of Trent.

but we venerate the relics of the martyrs

handkerchiels or aprons were carried away from his body to the sick, and

session

19, "God did extraordinary

miracles by the hands of Paul, so that

diseases

left them and the evil spirits

came out of them" (11-12). There is

always be targeted by

bishop, and

XX$.

The sale of any relic

-

this is a great concern

Christians. StJerome, the great Biblical

l/

adore, for fear that we should bow down

in order to better adore [God]'

is

also strictly and explicitly prohibited in

Enjoy the exhibition of the relics of

Canon Law.

the great BlessedJohn Paul

IL May the

objects we venerate be instruments of

indeed Biblical evidence for the use and

veneration of relics, and we are believers

A second point that has to be made, and

God's grace in our lives, and may they

in God's Word. God worked through

perhaps a more urgent one, is that we

inspire us to love our Lord with the same

Elisha's bones, Peter's shadow or Paul's

need to be clear that relics are ultimately

zeal thatJohn Paul

II had all his holy life.


I

FAMILY LIFE

1.

Talk to your children about their calling

Help your children understand what the term 'vocation' is. Explain to them that God is their first Creator, and thus has the best idea what we're called to do. Don't restrict "vocation

talk"

to

just be about being

a priest

or a nun,

but ultimately about what God is calling us to. When the misconception is cleared, the children may then be more ready to seek where God is calling them. Listen to their questions about vocation and discernment and try to guide them to finding the answers.

All the parents I know;::,#.

\Arhen the family has set aside a certain time

their children. That would include comfortable clothes, fun toys and good food. Parents who can afford to provide for their children do it gladly, while parents

of the day dedicated to God, and every member (including the head of the house)

who can't aflord to do so work hard to give as much as they can.

to drop everything they are doing in order to worship God, it is the clearest statement of

However good these things are, however -- and these things are good

of

-

not one

these can have as much value as making sure your children grow up knowing

their calling, their vocation, in life.

2. Priay regularly, together

has

God's importance in the family. Apart from

that, prayer also allows members to lift up one another in prayer. Encourage your children to ask God for direction and help in coping with

I'm not talking necessarily about the priesthood

(yes, you've

heard enough

life situations, like being in the same class with

year after year that boys should consider the priesthood) or religious life. When referring to the word "vocation", many people mistakenly (with much fear!)

asking for God's help in all other matters.

assume the topic to be vocations in the clerical or religious life. Parents are not immune from that misconception. But a vocation is ultimately a path on which

3. Observe your children

one is called to walk on. "Vocation" actually means, quite literally "to call", from

Look at your children and

the Latin "vocare". In the Catholic life, this "call" is one that comes from God,

strengths and interests are. God gives many

who is our Maker and Father. A vocation can be to the priesthood or the religious Iife, or it could be to married life, or even singlehood, or the lay consecrated life.

gifts, and some of those gifts may point them in one way or another. Encourage your children in their interests (as long as they're

Not one is superior to the other. It is God who calls, but are we listening?

a difficult classmate.

It

sets

them on a path of

see

where their

not bad habits) and help them cultivate their And why do we need to discern or listen to what God is calling us to? One can purchase a brand new state-of-the-art television, and fiddle around with it. But

skills where you can.

unless he checks with the manufacturer (via the manual or the advertisements),

The three tips here are not meant to be

he may not know that the new

TV

also has Internet connectivity, a USB port for

an exhaustive list, but they provide a good

viewing photos and videos, and a built-in blu-ray player. The TV would still work perfectly fine, but it will never fulfil its full potential. God, who made us differendy

start. You may even find that one, two or all

and specifically, knows best what we are each created for. Discerning and obeying

parents are willing to work extra hard to make

his call for each of us does not do our Father anv favours.

It benefits

us.

of them

are difficult to carry out, but most

sure their children enjoy the best of life. And since knowing where God calls is just about

\Alhile we are concerned with giving our children the best things in life, perhaps the best gift we can offer is to help them grow up with a discerning heart.

If our children

the greatestjoy one can get on earth, it's surely well worth the effort. It is part of our

discover the path God is leading them to, they may well be set on the path of true

own calling

fiilfiLment and lasting happiness. Here are three tips you can use in the family to

very best for our children. WII you deny your

encourage your children to a more discerning life, whether they are five or 15.

children the best God wants to give them?

IB

as

parents, after all, to want the


I

COMING UP This Deepavali holiday, 26 Oct, at 4.30pm, the Pastoral Care for the Sick Ministry PCS) is inviting the sick, the homebound, their caregivers and all parishioners who wish to join them in prayer to the Mass for the Sick. This once-a-year event will be an important occasion

where those who are homebound or sick come to receive

the Sacraments of Reconciliation, Holy Communion and

Anointing of the Sick

as one

family. Carers for the sick

and parishioners can also take part in the Sacraments

in an act to reneq regenerate and recommit ourselves to God. The Mass is also the culminating event for the PCS, celebrating another more year of work in service

of

God and neighbour. Co-organiser Elaine Tan, who serves

with PCS, said that the Mass will be celebrated "as a faith cor.nmunity in thanksgiving for the past year of graces that God has bestowed upon the sick in our parish". No registration is required, and all are welcome to worship together, with a buflet and fellowship after Mass.

The NCC Core Team has organised the first Day

of Recollection for NCCs on 7 Nov and a repeat session

on l4Jan next

year. The day programme,

which starts and 9am and ends at 4prn, will include talks on faith in the communiry serving our neighbours

and reaching out to others, among others, by our parish priests. Mike Arents, the NCC Coordinator, believes this will be a good opportunity for people

involved in the NCC to gather as a community to reflect, share and grow together.

"ffhe

Day of

Recollection] will be a time to grow in our relationship

with God

as a

community and also to grow in our

relationship with each other." He adds, "Through the talks and sharing the parishioners will also get a better idea of what NCC is all about and it will help them start their own NCC meetings."

BlJohn Paul II had a wide appeal to people of all walks of life. In his ministry as priest, bishop and then pope, he embraced the theme : "One life to live, one life to give". Thus, the Vocation Promotion Team

"Come, Let's Celebrate" is the call from the Family Life Team to join them for the second bi-annual Farnily Carnp held 24-27 Nov

was inspired to kick-off a series of programmes for

at Pulai Springs Resort. After the success of the first edition in 2009,

the upcoming Vocations Awareness Weekends: Exhibition on The Life And Worlts Of Bl john Paul II and

this year's camp promises more days, more families and more fun.

of BIJohn Paul II (22 Oct). Look out for information

Mark Lim, chairperson of the Family Life Team, refuses to give much away, but says: "Participants can expect four days full of fun and activities. [t will be] a time to reflect, to reconnect as a family and grow into a closer union. ffhe camp will be] a place where love can be experienced." Every family could use a little getaway time together to deepen their bonds and become part of the community. And with a good mix of people from all generations, you don't have to worry if you're a grandfather or a grand-daughter. And at about 5$280 per adult lor lour days, it sounds Iike a good opportunity not

on times and precise venues in the parish bulletin.

to be passed up.

Veneration of Relic (17 and 1B Sep), a talk by Fr David Garcia (OP) on

the

Dignitlt of tlu Human Person (28 Sep),

the ongoing Eucharistic Adoration for Children (30 Sep), Theology

ol the Body lor the Youth

movie and talk on "The Man Who Toung

(B

Oct), a

Became Pope:

Hout The

Man Answered God's Call Td The Priesthood (15 OcQ,

and a Thanksgiving Mass to commemorate Feast Day



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