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YOU ARE ENOUGH.PROJECTION IS TOXIC!
BY NICOLE HEROUX WILLIAMS I PHOTOS BY NSP STUDIOBY DR PAM DENTON I PHOTO BY DOUG MITCHELL
How to Resolve Tough Relationships & Negative Garbage in Business and Life
Warning! This article is a tough love approach to releasing, resolving, and letting go of blame, excuses, criticism, doubt, fear, and the BIG P - Projection! Aka - Someone’s trash being thrown on you. to pull your self reflection/self image out of their movie and see yourself clearly!
Imagine this: Changing movie sets. Close your eyes, breathe, and walk out of their movie and into your own set and movie. Leave the anger behind. And claim your true authentic space. stronger than the stress of the crisis by eliminating and resolving stuck energy and baggage to prevent the crisis or heal it. One of the biggest issues they face is projection….finger pointing, blame game, and gossip….should I say more?
The one thing business leaders miss over and over again when working with tough situations and relationships is projection. Subtle and sneaky or like projectile vomit, projection can keep you frozen and unable to function as a leader. It paralyzes your ability to make clear decisions. It makes you doubt yourself. It puts you as a VICTIM, only if you allow it to have the power.
Projection is when someone is playing their reel of who they are and the mistakes they have made, otherwise known as unhealed baggage, and projecting it on you. You are their movie screen and they are running the reel on you. And if you lack awareness they can sneak up on you, steal your energy, trash your image, and ruin your self esteem.
The solution: Awareness FIRST and then ACTION.
Once you see yourself clearly as a strong and courageous person again, energetically own this at a soul level, then you can take action. I always think of it as separating two boxers in the fighting ring, you have If you need to empty your inner relationship trash can that keeps attracting tough situations, relationships, and people like flies to sh** - read on! This
article could radically alter your business and life!
My first book was about shifting from crisis to clarity. Why? Because, as a healer I attracted clients that were being attacked, narcissitically bound to relationship, stolen from in business, treated like sh** in relationships, developed autoimmune conditions where the body attacks itself, and misdirected by energy vampires. Fast forward 22 years and my work is now consulting business owners to become So you might be saying Yes! How do I begin getting away from this? The secret is healing at the core level and developing your power.
Healing starts with heightened awareness of these three symbolic words, Projection, Blame, and Judgment. During my years as a female empowerment and leadership coach, I developed the Mind Cleanse Technique that clears the spinning thoughts of crisis and turns them into core strength and integrity.
The Projection Mind Cleanse
is about getting out of the movie screen of the othr person’s story and playing your own power story.
The Mind Cleanse words are symbols of energetic garbage. And like cancer, the negative energy can take over your entire team if you don’t do something fast. So the words I have chosen collect all the cancerous garbage and put it into one place to be flushed, eliminated, and recycled into good energy.
The biggest issue with projection is not the trash, it is the pain and hardship it can cause when someone in your business or leadership projectiles on you. Especially, when you least expect
it. Projection is a form of blame and excuses all wrapped up into a horrible experience. And I have spent many years and countless hours helping women strengthen HER leadership to become stronger than this toxic stress.
Here’s the thing, many times this projectile relationship can not be mended externally, but what you can do is develop your inner core intelligence to clear, cancel, and delete the energy and release the pain. More importantly as you work your core process with me you have the opportunity to become stronger, more mission driven, and more alive… and wealthy.
The key is to return the energy that the person has thrust upon you and not accept it into your energy field. But there is more, it is important to address internally the core issues that women face that projection can stick to.
Here are the top five deeper sticky issues their projection might cling to and may need immediate healing and empowerment. (In other words, projection is like a cake in your face that sticks to these female wounds, and it is time to clean it up.)
Proving yourself: A woman’s disease of having to prove that you are valuable. Otherwise known as low self esteem or low self value.
The healing: Knowing you are valuable and not having to listen to other’s criticisms or judgments - including your own. please this situation or person and receive approval. The healing: KNOW you are already approved and valuable. Your spirit has a mission that is pre-approved.
Undeserving: This state of female-itis is feeling like you don’t deserve to be successful and you allow the projectile to rip your soul and take your pride, because you don’t deserve success.
The healing: Your soul came in with a program to succeed, you deserve and are worthy of the best! No matter what.
Lack: Otherwise known as, scarcity mindset. The projectile ignites the feeling of panic over money, fear over loss, and the paranoia of losing everything. Healing wisdom: Everything I need is already inside of me and around me, I have all that I need to be healthy, wealthy and successful.
Caring too deeply for people: It’s a congruence thing. Sometimes, well many times… your values, ethics, mindset and actions are not an energetic match for the relationship, whether employee, leader, friend or partner. The relationship, matter of factly, is not a win-win.
The healing: STAY IN YOUR LANE and do not hire, work with, or connect when you do not feel an inner hell yes! Abundance in relationship and business is not all quantity, it is also the quality of sustainable relationships you build.
This is a lot to digest, I know. That is why I consult business leaders in crisis to clarity, and lead them to become stronger than stress. It’s a core thing - physical, emotional, neurological and energetic. Your body’s core is the transformer and can shift negative to positive. And when you are not upgrading your core transformer regularly you could, in this world of reactive people, fall prey to someone you are not congruent with. However if you use the techniques, practices, tools, and advice I offer, then you can start to cleanse and clear away these energy suckers and upgrade your power.
So let’s begin!
Here are some ways to start strengthening your CORE, right away.
Your Red Carpet Event Sept 24th 5-9pm at Urban Euphoria in Rochester, NY or livestream from anywhere. We will be sharing guidance and Inner Upgrade Journeys from the stage. The Red Carpet Journey is a powerful way to ignite your cleansing and ignite core power. Tickets Here: https://yourredcarpetevent. eventbrite.com
Connect with me. Let’s Talk. www. positiveevolutionconsulting.com/ contact-us
Take a SuperCORE, BreatheFit or GoddessCORE Class! Move, breathe, and evolve beyond these tough challenges. Even if you are not in a current “situation” SuperCORE Leadership is about building core power. www.studioniasantafe.com
Purchase our book Core Intelligence: Driving the New Era of Leadership https://www. amazon.com/CORE-Intelligence-DrivingNew-Leadership/dp/B094KL6MBW
