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How To Be Friendly - S.P.I.T.
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How To Join In
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What To Do If The Kids Say “No!”
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How To Co-operate
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Knowing About My Feelings
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How To Calm Down
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How To Ignore
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How To Trick Stinkin Thinkin
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How To Do Supa Thinkin
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How To Spot Sillyness The Fun Wrecker
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How To Trick Sillyness The Fun Wrecker
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How To Deal With Cool And Cruel Teasing 36
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How To Deal With Bullying
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So What Happens Next?
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How To B_ Fri_n^ly – S.P.I.T.
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What’s happening in the picture?...................... ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. A friendly person is someone who………………. ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. S.P.I.T. stands for: mile and…………………………………………
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………………………………………………………….. Inviting means ………………………………………. ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. I invite my friend called ‘………………………….. to play a game called ‘…………………………… …………………………………..with me at school. I say to him or her when I invite them “………… .…………………………………………………………. ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. Don’t forget your smile; it’s right…………………. your……………………………………………………. (Clue: the answer is on page 57 of your big Kidzmix book)
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How To Join In
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What is happening in the picture? ……………... ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. The boys look………………………………………… ………………………………………………………….. They are feeling …………………………………………. What is another question the boy could ask? …………………………………………………………………. .………………………………………………………………… …………………………………………………………………. ………………………………………………………………….
What is a friendly answer the boy could give? ………………………………………………………….. …………………………………………………………..
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Who do you invite to join in your games at School?……………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. .…………………………………………………………. ………………………………………………………….. Who invites you to join in games at school? ................................................................................. ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………..... Is there someone at school who you don’t usually play with, but who you could invite to have a game? ……………………………………… …………………………………………………………..
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Wh[t To Do If Th_ Ki^s S[y ‘No’
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What is happening in the picture?...................... ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. .…………………………………………………………. ................................................................................. The girl walking away is feeling………………….. ……………………….and……………………………. What is she thinking?............................................. ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. We call that………………………………….Thinkin The other kids are feeling…………………………. and……………………………………………………. Are they being friendly?.......................................
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If the kids say: No, you can’t join in our game’, what are 4 things you DON’T do?” (The answers are on page 70 & 71 of your big Kidzmix book)
DON’T…………………………………………………. DON’T…………………………………………………. DON’T ………………………………………………… DON’T…………………………………………………. What are 2 things you can SAY?......................... SAY: “Have………………….Ciao for…………….” SAY: ”I’m over…………………if you……………… change…………………..mind” (Clue: the answers are on page 68 of your big Kidzmix book)
What are 2 things you can DO? (Clue: the answers are on page 69 of your big Kidzmix book)
Sm……………………………………………………… Wave…………………………………………………
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How To Co-op_r[t_
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What is happening in the picture?...................... ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. Do the kids look friendly?...................................... Co-operating means……………………………… ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. The opposite of co-operating is…………………. …………………………………………………………. DON’T co-operate with anything that is……….. ………………………………………………………….. T.E.A.M. stands for Together………………………. Ev……………………………………………………….
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A……………………………………………………….. M……………………………………………………….. (Clue: the answer is on page 76 of your big Kidzmix book)
I can co-operate. Is that true or false?.............. Someone who breaks the rules is good at cooperating. True or false?...................................... Draw a ‘Great at Co-operating’ badge. Who will you give it to?..................................................
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Knowing @\out My F__lings
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The names of some feelings are…………………. ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. The kids in the picture are feeling………………..
and………………………….and……………………. and…………………………………………………….. If your legs go wobbly like jelly you could be feeling………………………………………………… Happiness is the opposite of……………………… Worry is also called nerv…………………………… I feel excited when…………………………………. ………………………………………………………….. I feel sad when……………………………………… ………………………………………………………….. I feel proud when…………………………………… ………………………………………………………….. 17
I feel happy when………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. My favourite feeling is……………………………… I feel like that when I……………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. Don’t forget your smile it’s right………………….. …………………ready………………………………..
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How To C[lm Down
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Calming Down means…………………………….. …………………………………………………………. (Clue: the answer is on page 81 of your big Kidzmix book)
The girl in the picture is feeling…………………… ………………………………………………………….. She’s worried that………………………………...... ………………………………………………………….. The man in the picture looks like he is feeling ………………………………………………………….. What should the girl do? Run Shout at the dog
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Stay calm, do Supa Thinkin and walk slowly The girl is trying to feel……………………………… I try to be calm when………………………………. ………………………………………………………….. .................................................................................
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This is how you Calm Down: (Clue: The answers are on pages 83 of your big Kidzmix book)
1. Lay, sit or……………………….st………………… 2. No…………………………………………………… 3. Find something………………………………....... …………………………anything that’s closeby and……………………………………………...
4. Keep looking…………………………………....... …………………………………………………..at it 5. Breathe softly and……………………….......like you’re blowing………………………………........ 6. Do some Su……………Thinkin like ‘…………… ………………………………………………………’ 7. Keep doing those……………...tricks until your arms……………………………...are floppy and your…………….and………………..feel happy 21
How To Ignor_
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What is happening in the picture?...................... ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. The Mum is feeling………………………………….. Who is feeling happy?.......................................... ………………………………………………………….. Who is feeling bored?........................................... …………………………………………………………. The girl who is talking a lot is feeling……………. ………………………………………………………….. Ignoring means……………………………………… ………………………………………………………….. (Clue: the aswer is on page 85 of your big Kidzmix book)
Calming Down can grow into……………………. There is Unhelpful……………………………………
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and…………………………………………..Ignoring Unhelpful Ignoring is when………………………... …………………………………………………………. …………………………………………………………. Do you think the kids in the family are trying to stay calm?……………………………………………. What could the other kids say (politely and kindly) to their sister who is doing lots of talking? “…………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. …………………………………………………………..
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How To Tri]k Stinkin Thinkin
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What is happening in the picture?...................... ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. The big brother is feeling………………………….. He is doing S…………………………………………. When I do Stinkin Thinkin I feel……………………. The opposite of Stinkin Thinkin is………………….. ………………………………………………………….. When someone breaks my toys I feel…………... ………………………………………………………….. I would like to tell Stinkin Thinkin to………………. ………………………………………………………….. because it……………………………………………. ………………………………………………………….. 26
Another name I could call Stinkin Thinkin is (make one up)........................................................................
………………………………………………………….. Three Boos for Stinkin Thinkin: Booo! Boooo! ………………………………………………………….. Stinkin Thinkin, go take a…………………………... …………………………………………………………..
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How To Do Sup[ Thinkin
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What’s happening in the picture?...................... ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. The big brother is feeling………………………….. He is doing…………………………………………… because he is telling himself not to……………... ………………………………………………………….. If the big boy keeps doing S……………...Thinkin he will feel……………………………………………. He will need to do Skill Number 6 called ‘Calm ……………………………………………..so that he won’t feel …………………………………anymore (Clue: Skill number 6 is on page 81 of your big Kidzmix book)
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How To Spot Sillyn_ss Th_ Fun Wr_]k_r
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What is happening in the picture?...................... ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. The boy is getting bossed by……………………... ………………………………………………………….. The boy pulling away the chair could be feeling………………………………………………… Sillyness is Fun gone………………………………… I think Sillyness is when somebody………………. ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………and also when…………………………………………………... ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. 31
Sillyness sure won’t win you ‘The Most………….. …………………………………………………...Prize” Kids think Sillyness is a fun wrecker because it ………………………………………………………….. A Sillyness Detective is someone who………….. ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. Kids think Sillyness is a fun wrecker because ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. …………………………………………………………..
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How To Tri]k Sillyn_ss Th_ Fun Wr_]k_r
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When you can ‘spot’ Sillyness it means………… ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. What is happening in the picture?...................... ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. When you can ‘trick’ Sillyness, it means………... ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. ................................................................................. Tricking Sillyness is a good idea because……… ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. ................................................................................. A good way to trick Sillyness is to………………... 34
………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. Calming Down + Igno……………………………… tricks…………………………………………………… A Sillyness Detective is someone who is good at………………………………………………………. ………………………….……………………………… My best trick for Tricking Sillyness is……………… …………………………………………………………. …………………………………………………………. Three cheers for…….............................................. …………………………………………….Detectives Hi…………….. hurrah; Hippi……hu………………. H………………………h………………………………
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How to D_[l With Cool @n^ Cru_l T_[sing
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There are two types of Teasing - ………………… and…………………………………………………….. Cruel Teasing is when……………………………… ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. Cool Teasing is when………………………………. …………………………………………………………. …………………………………………………………. What is happening in the picture?..................... …………………………………………………………. …………………………………………………………. Is this Cool or Cruel Teasing?................................ The kids are in the school…………………………. ‘Bookworm Kid’ is feeling sad happy
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Does ‘Bookworm Kid’ think what the boy has said is Cool Teasing?
Cruel Teasing?
The AAA’s for Teasing are : Ag…………………… Ask a………………………………………………and Ask to………………………………………………….. Cool teasing for me is when someone says…… ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. I say to them…………………………………………. ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. Three cheers for…………………………………….. H………………………………….H…………………... ……………………..H………………………………….
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How To D_[l With Bullying
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What is happening in the picture?...................... ………………………………………………………….. ................................................................................. ………………………………………………………….. This is called bullying, not teasing because…… ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. Bullies are people who…………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. The bully is feeling…………………………………... The other boy is feeling……………………………. Bullies are not heroes, they are………………….. The Six Step………………………...is what you do for………………………………………………………. This is how you do the Six Step Stick Up: (Clue: the answers are on page 126 of your big Kidzmix book)
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1. Stand……………………………………………….. and hold …………………………………………….. 2. Hold your chin……………………………………. 3. Stay…………………………………. keep……… …………………………………………………………. 4. Stand tall, look at the bully’s…………….. and say……………………………………………………... ………………………………………………………….. 5. Keep looking at the……………………………... ………………………………………………………….. 6. Walk…………...............and don’t……………… ………………………………………………………….. Well Done!! A big, three cheers for ……………………………. because ………am a Champion of…………….. ………………………………………………………….. 41
So Wh[t H[pp_ns N_xt?
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Which of the 13 skills do you think will help you the most?................................................................ ………………………………………………………….. ………………………………………………………….. Who will help you practise them? Mum Dad
Brother
Someone else
Sister Who?.................................
When will you start practising?............................. ………………………………………………………….. You are a Ch………………………………………… for learning all these fabulous skills
W_ll ^on_! So now make your own Champion Certificate on the next page – because you deserve it.
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My Ch[mpion C_rtifi][t_
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Well we’ve come to the end. But it’s not really the end, because you are going to have lots of times when you will be able to use all the things that you have learned. So don’t put the book away. Put it somewhere that you will see it often, and don’t forget to open it up and read over all of your answers. Have fun. Be kind to yourself. Try hard. Never give up. Be kind to others. Laugh lots. Say ‘Thank You!’ often. Think about all the good things in your life. And send us an email at admin@kidzmix.com and tell us what skills you have been using from the book Chow for Now!
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