Volume 4 Issue 1 Kitchen Drawer Illustrated

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Volume 4 Issue 1

Free to a good home

Spalding Women’s Specialists

Our Family is Growing We’re pleased to announce the addition of Dr. Jovanni Neblett-Blackmon, Board Certified in Obstetrics and Gynecology.

Welcom y G n B O , n o e Dr. Jov m k c anni Neblett-Bla Dr. Neblett-Blackmon and Dr. Alberto Delgado provide a full range of obstetrical and gynecological services. The warm and friendly staff at Spalding Women’s Specialists provide care for women throughout their lives. Dr. Delgado is also fluent in both English and Spanish.

718 South 8th Street • Griffin, GA 30224 • 678-688-8227 www.spaldingwomensspecialists.com Serving Spalding, Lamar, Pike and Butts counties, and Locust Grove

TABLE OFCON TENTS STAFF PICKS............................................... 3 PLUG IN/ABOUT THE COVER...................... 4 HOARDER OR SLOB? .................................. 5 ENTREPRENEUR FOCUS............................. 8 BACK IN THE DAY: GRIFFIN OPERA HOUSE 11

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Aunt Lynne

WHERE’S THE JOY?..................................... 15 LA ISLA-­ A LOVE STORY............................... 19 JANUARY/FEBRUARY CALENDAR................ 24 PAPARAZZI................................................... 27, 31, 35 WHERE’S THE JOY PART II.......................... 29 INTERVIEW: WENDI MCLENDON COVEY..... 33 VENT............................................................. 34 BASKETBALL RETURNS.............................. 36 KITCHEN TABLE.......................................... 39 FREEDMAN’S FINDS.................................... 41 THE STORY KEEPER...................................

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BUSINESS CARD DIRECTORY.....................

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Photo by Cuba Gallery

CONTRIBUTING ARTISTS

Sam Granger (Cover) see pg. 4

CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS Graceology Photography info@graceology.com Cindy Stansberry Photography cindystansberryphotography.com Alva Portraiture taylorbushphoto@yahoo.com Tyler Hill

STAFF PICKS What do you collect? ASHLEY

BEN

LAURIE

NICOLE

MANAGER

PUBLISHER

EDITOR

ART DIRECTOR

Milk glass

Bills

Cautionary tales

Other people’s tupperware

EXTENDED FAMILY ALLISON

AMANDA

BEAU

FEATURE WRITER

FICTION WRITER

Books

Perspectives

Silkscreen concert posters

ADMIN ASSISTANT Miles traveled

CATHY

EVA

JENNIFER

NAN

PHOTOGRAPHER

BRITTANY

FOODIE

FEATURE WRITER

AD DESIGNER

PHOTOGRAPHER

Library fines

Austerity

Coupons

Beautiful papers

PAIGE

RACHEL

RONNIE

TAYLOR

AD DESIGNER

FEATURE WRITER

OUTDOORS WRITER

SPORTS WRITER

Vintage cameras

Barbies & high heels

See pg. 5

Ticket stubs

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ABOUT THE COVER ARTIST:

Sam Granger (Sam G) started painting in

November 2007 when he was laid off and took an online career test that said he should be an artist. As a joke, Sam bought some supplies and found his true calling. Sam’s quirky, flamboyant style and adeptness with both humorous and pointed subject matter have led to his work being displayed across the Southeast and in prominent collections nationwide. Visit Sam G at www.samgfolkart.com.

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2012

99 Years of Serving Businesses In Griffin-Spalding County Chamber Leadership 2012 Board of Directors

OFFICERS: John Tidwell—Impact Office Interiors, Chairman Jerry Lower—Magnolia Lanes, Vice Chairman Fred Rudbeck—Georgia Power, Treasurer Allen Edwards—Personnel Options, Inc. Past Chairman

DIRECTORS: DJ Brewer—Haisten McCullough Funeral Home Rodney Christopher—Central Georgia EMC David Clevenger—Griffin Daily News Be-Atrice Cunningham—UGA Griffin Campus Fannie Delaney—Board of Education, Ret. Will Doss—Eagles Way Church Chris Farr—Georgia Banking Co.

Adam Greer—Greer Insurance Co. Ben Johnson—Liberty Technology Johnie McDaniel—AMSAFE Aviation Dr. Randall Peters—Southern Crescent Technical College Denise Quick—G/S United Way Jim Skinner—United Bank

99th Annual Dinner & Awards Banquet January 12, 2012 6:30 p.m. Griffin Welcome Center

Innovative Solutions for Existing and Start-up Business Needs

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Entrepreneur Expo

11:30 a.m. -1:30 p.m. Meet representatives from national, state, and local agencies that can help For More Info: you start or expand your business. 770.228.8200

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Thanks To 2011 Board of Directors

OFFICERS: Allen Edwards, Personnel Options, Inc., Chairman John Tidwell, Impact Office Interiors, Vice Chairman Jerry Lower, Magnolia Lanes, Treasurer Jim King, Past Chairman DIRECTORS: Rodney Christopher, Central GA EMC David Clevenger, Griffin Daily News Be-Atrice Cunningham, UGA Griffin Campus Charlotte Eady, AKA Sorority Amy Dunham, Edward Jones Buster Franklin, Impact Outsourcing Solutions Adam Greer, Greer Insurance Group Johnie McDaniel, AMSAFE Aviation Fred Rudbeck, Georgia Power Co. Jim Skinner, United Bank

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At a casual gathering at J. Henry’s, an acquaintance of mine remarked, “I’m just not sure about having children. I mean, when they’re about six months old, and their cheeks are all squishy, they’re so cute...I get that. But other than that, where’s the joy?” I looked back at my friend who is always attractively dressed and impeccably groomed. Her expression was light, but I detected a note of seriousness beneath her jocular tone. I imagined the subtle and not-­so-­subtle pressure she might be receiving from well-­intentioned family members: hints about grandchildren at family reunions, in-­ nuendos about baby names. As a veteran mother of three school-­aged girls, I opened my mouth to respond to this young lady’s question. I did not know what I was about to say. “Having children is hard,” I said. “It’s more like a marathon than a sprint. They’re expensive. But,” I added, “it’s worth it.” How could I explain that the joy is all around, although it comes at a price? The joy comes when you ride “It’s a Small World” with your five-­year-­ old, and you see in her eyes the sheer, unadulter-­ ated wonder they’re always talking about in the Disney World commercials, the kind you think doesn’t really exist anymore. The joy is there when your seven-­year-­old reaches out and unexpectedly takes your hand on the way to the mailbox and asks you what kind of animal you want to be. You, heedless of the neighbors and passing traffic, walk like an elephant to the mailbox, while she crawls on all fours like a cat. The joy is there when your fifth grader’s eyes light up when you are able to explain how to solve her homework word problem algebraically, even though you are an English ma-­

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jor and have not had any personal experience with algebra in 16 years. Sure, the joy is usually there on Christmas morn-­ ing, but everyone expects it to be there. Sometimes we work so hard cleaning the house, decorating the tree, and cooking the Christmas dinner that the joy doesn’t show up. But the joy was there on the first day of the October break, with a whole week ahead of exploring the woods, crunching through the leaves in the warm autumn sunshine, the humidity of summer gone. The joy comes again on a Janu-­ ary night, when you and your daughters are curled up on the couch sobbing when Beth dies in Little Women. The joy is there on a rainy November afternoon, when your 11-­year-­old beats you at chess. In the casual setting of the restaurant, I couldn’t explain to my friend that sometimes the joy pushes through when we least expect it, like sunshine around the dark shades on a spring morning. How could I explain, over the spinach dip, the joy you feel when your child rallies and recovers from a major health threat? I wouldn’t even attempt to ad-­ dress the joy that parents with seriously ill children experience when they take their children to Rock City, knowing that the

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bone marrow transplant is a few short weeks away. I

I didn’t tell her that a simple evening out at a res-­

know, though, from personal family experience, that

taurant, or a romantic weekend getaway with her

the joy is still there, and that it may be even stronger

husband, will, for a while at least, require the tactical

than those of us with generally healthy children will

planning skills of a military commander organizing

ever experience.

a major field campaign. I didn’t tell her that refold-­ ing a device known as a “Pack ‘n’ Play” or properly

Sure, the joy has a price. After the first few times of

installing an infant car seat would try the patience of

getting spit-­up on her silk blouse, my friend might

Mr. Rogers. I didn’t tell her these things because the

opt for wash-­and-­wear cotton. The Michael Kors

sweet, soft weight of your baby falling asleep on your

shoes may have to go, sacrificed on the altar of “Buy

shoulder, even once, makes it all worthwhile.

One Get One” at Payless. I didn’t tell her that for the first year or so, a trip to Walmart will require

When you choose to participate in that marathon

a checklist. Wipes – check. Formula – check. Spare

known as raising children, the joy is there, and it is

outfit – check. Diapers – no? Oh yes, that’s why we’re

powerful. It is not without cost. The joy is worth the

going to Walmart in the first place. If you have to ask

price, even when you’re washing sheets at 2 a.m. and

why a spare outfit is required, you have never had a

rifling through the medicine cabinet checking the

newborn. You may still be wearing a silk blouse and

expiration dates on the Phenergan. It’s worth it even

Michael Kors shoes.

when your preteen stamps her foot and tells you she hates you, and you tell her that that’s okay, because

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you love her. The joy is there, when, that night, before she goes to bed, she tells you that she loves you too.

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If my friend and her husband de-­ cide to become parents, some days,

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JANUARY Sunday 1

Monday 2

3 Trivia Night

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H.J. Wings & Things Zebulon

7 PM 8

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Firehouse Subs All Day

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Super Seniors

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10 AM

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Poker Night JR Crickets

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Cornhole Tournament ơ ǯ

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Arves Kroger Shopping Center

7 PM

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Salon Fitness Systems

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Rock Band Challenge

Senior’s Day Great Clips

First Fridays in Downtown

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6 PM 13

Chamber of Commerce Annual Dinner

LEITA 17

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A Novel Experience Zebulon

7 PM

Music Trivia Emily Hearn Southern Chef MARTIN Night Concert Series LUTHER KING ƥ Arve’s Kroger Serenbe Farm 770-­‐228-­‐3229 Shopping Center DAY 7 PM 22

No-­‐Guilt Drop-­‐In Book Club

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Elk Lodge Pool

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7 PM

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Oak Hill Baptist Church

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7 PM

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Toastmasters Ceramics Class Spalding County Meeting

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Mac Class

Liberty Technology

2 PM

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Windsor Gallery McDonough

Southern Cruisers Car Show

Wiseguys WIngs

5 PM

6 PM

20 21 Comedy Night Peachtree City

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8 PM

Glenloch Recreation Center

8:30 AM

Girls Night Out Showcase Starrs Mill Highschool

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Breakfast at Mt. Zion Campground 7:30 AM

28 Karaoke

Violin Recital

Maxi-­‐Lube & Wise Guys Wings Castrol Premium 6 PM Lube Express

Gordon College Fine Arts Center

6 PM

9 AM

HOBO LEITA-­ Shepherd/Collie Mix. Spayed, up to date with shots, good with kids and dogs. Leita was attacked by other puppies in a pen and lost her right ear and part of the other, but this puppy is still happy and energetic. HOBO-­ Golden Retriever/Shepherd Mix. Neutered, up to date with shots, good with kids & dogs. Elegant and goofy at the same time. MARNIE-­ Great Dane/Pointer Mix. Spayed, up to date with shots, good with kids and dogs. Gentle and loves people. Rescued off death row.

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WHAT’S BUGGING YOU? I hate it when the phone rings.

The word “chillaxin,” especially used by someone over 18.

I hate it when people don’t store your number, and every time you call and leave a message they call back (without listening to the message) and say, “Who is this?”

Bully Pulpits.

I reckon it actually took more effort to park taking up two spaces then it would have to just park straight.

“I’ll call you right back”! Doubt it.

People who don’t move to the fast lane so you can merge and get on the highway.

Publisher. Oh I hate Publisher.

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Chinese Resturants that advertise no MSG. You have to announce that you don’t put poison in your food?!

My Achilles tendonitis and iliotibial band.

Please don’t ask me to be your reminder service.

Is it me or are people more rude around the holidays? 6 days after buying a new car some old lady rear-­ended me. Ironically, I’m the person who preaches on a regu-­ lar basis against old people driving.

Voicemails that just say “Give me a call”. Tell me what you need!!

Unnecessary CC emails.

It’s tough to find a good 90s hits compilation CD.

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t seems like just yesterday that the NFL was ma-­

I’m still bothered by the disregard of the owners, and

ligned for failed labor negotiations, distrust among

even the players, for the well-­being of the average

the players and owners, and a weary fan base.

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But before games (or substantial revenue) were lost, the

problems are without merit, but the way the league

NFL settled their differences and saved the 2011 season.

handled the situation showed a lack of commitment to their constituents that makes me feel apathetic toward

The NBA, on the other hand, failed to come together

their return.

and ended up losing nearly 1/4 of their season. It seems to me that if the two sides really cared about Basketball is coming off an incredibly successful year

getting back to work, a deal would have come together

in terms of viewership. The Heat and the “Big Three,”

to save the entire season (e.g., the NFL). Call it good

the coming out of MVP Derrick Rose, and Dirk Nowitzki business sense or call it greed;; either way, the players highlighting his illustrious career with a championship

and the owners didn’t have what it took to come to a

were all amazing storylines for the NBA to gain mo-­

consensus in time.

mentum with. Sadly, any momentum that the league had built came to a screeching halt with the announce-­

On a lighter note, a shorter regular season is not the

ment of a lockout earlier this year.

nightmare scenario that it would have been for the NFL. Cutting down the schedule 20 or so games this

I won’t bore you with the intimate details. When push

season could encourage the NBA to permanently

came to shove, the owners claimed they were losing

shorten the season, which keeps players fresh and

too much money to stay in business, while the players

puts more emphasis on playoff basketball. So if there

cited that these losses were exaggerated. Unfortunate-­

is a silver lining to be found in this whole mess, that

ly, the bickering carried over late into the year and de-­

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the long-­term.

the owners and players have reportedly come to an arrangement and will begin playing on Christmas Day.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m glad the NBA is back in busi-­

Nevertheless, the league must enact an abbreviated

ness. But between the NFL and the NBA, I think we all

schedule in order to compensate for the lost time. This

have had enough lockout discussion to last us a de-­

could prove to be a problem for the teams because

cade or two. I’m sure I’ll be singing a happier tune once

they will have to play tiring, unorthodox schedules, with

I see Kobe, LeBron, and Rose in the playoffs later this

some teams even playing three nights in a row.

season. Until then, I’m going to go sit in my room and quietly wish for one, simple thing: That I won’t have to

It’s going to be interesting to see if the players can

write another “lockout” article for a long, long time.

adjust to this hectic itinerary, but more importantly, how the fans will react to the return of the league. Personally,

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house. I feared the little hands, but it was large

again on what the grown Katie is yelling at me.

ones that broke me, hurled me across the dining

She kicks a crushed soda can, and I think again of

room and watched as I fractured and crashed to

her sharp-­edged, skeptical face that Christmas so

the ground. Later, the big hands came back and

long ago. I reach out and take a cracked white ce-­

tossed me away like rubbish. No mistake, I could

ramic dinner plate that she’s shoving toward me.

have been salvaged—no worse for wear—but

The words are lost again. Actually, they aren’t

that would have taken time, care, concern. At least I’m still a plate, broken and unable to hold

I hold it up in front of me and the rip looks like a mouth, and for a second I’m scared it might devour me. I’m scared I might disappear like the years of my life, with no one left behind to speak my words, to tell my story.

the morning eggs and toast, but a plate, regard-­ less. What can they call themselves, I ask, when they don’t even know that what they value most‌are things already beyond repair.

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I know that’s how she sees things, and I would

with them. Katie’s words can’t penetrate into my

try and explain, if she would listen, but she won’t

world. She’s never been one cursed with insight

and I’m tired of trying. I lower the broken plate

and compassion. I watch my arm extend and my

and place it gingerly on a stack of “whatsit� on

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my left. I call it that because I’m not sure what

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all’s in the pile, and I can’t look through it in peace while Katie’s here. I look down at my feet

I found this plate in the neighbor’s trash can

and see sales ads and unopened phone bills.

after the last dinner party before her divorce a

Through the envelope’s clear window, I can read

year ago. It’s nothing to her now, but it marks

my name: Louise Stockton. I repeat it again to

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myself—Louise—and it feels weightless and

unbreakable thing without soul. This plate has

lifeless, an empty husk of long past possibilities.

history, is made from clay of the earth that might

Maybe that, I can throw away, I think.

have witnessed the doom of the dinosaurs, the resurrection of Christ, the eruption of Mt. Vesu-­

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away from my daughter and wade through the

Katie, I close my eyes and imagine what the plate

stories cluttering the hallway. I have to turn

would say if could it speak.

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30 years with my Charlie. His space in the bed

those are like purple hearts to a soldier. I was

is the only clear spot in the room. I sleep on a

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clothes pile. Katie stops at the doorway, and

panel to protect others from stains, to absorb

I’m unsure whether she is afraid to crawl over

the spills and miscalculations, to transform the

the stuff or if that clear, empty spot on the bed

bitter truths into sweets much more palatable

is too heavy for her to lift, too palpable for her

to swallow. I am not bitter from all the trans-­

touch. Somewhere inside me, I know I came in

forming. I’m ripped and tattered, but never

here because I knew she wouldn’t be able to fol-­

bitter from service. It was my duty; I performed

low. Sometimes I still get the upper hand with her.

it with love.

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I hear Katie turn. She is working her way back

her way through the front door of the house.

toward the front door, and I both hope and fear

The quietness is viscous as I pick up a torn

she will walk right through it, get into her car,

apron from my sleeping pile. I couldn’t tell

and drive away. I let the apron fall from my

her where I got this if she cared to ask, but the

hand as a glare of sunlight slants in through an

apple pattern hand-­stenciled along the bottom

impossible crevice in a precipice of “whatsit.�

of the front lets me know someone, somewhere

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loved this dearly.

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I was a great cook. The best Charlie could

I already know their story. They tell me every

do was throw together a sandwich. I was the

night when I climb onto my pile to rest. I know

chef. I roasted; I steamed; I baked every single

every nuance, every bend of each word.

birthday cake Katie ever had, though her Dad always presented it to her. A gaping wound

The sunlight glares brightly through the lens,

scars the front of the apron. I hold it up in front

momentarily blinding me with smooth, warm,

of me and the rip looks like a mouth, and for

whiteness. My heart jigs in my chest, and I

a second I’m scared it might devour me. I’m

know Katie just needs to touch that promise

scared I might disappear like the years of my

stone. I remember again that Christmas, how

life, with no one left behind to speak my words,

the sharpness of her doubt melted to silky

to tell my story.

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she looked at me then, clutching the stone in

ly shaped red and green apples along the apron

her tiny hands. “He’s coming, Mommy.�

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and piles toward the back bedroom, toward

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Katie’s room and the promise of wholeness and

packed, staining power of tomatoes. To me,

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