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Monroe celebrates first year as chief By Drew Teague news@kykernel.com

UK’s police chief has been in charge of the police department for more than four years, but he is just now about to mark his first full year with the official title. UK Police Chief Joe Monroe said the beginning of the year has gone as he expected, but he is glad to have some help. “We use a task force that is a combination of Lexington police officers and UK police officers, and they work side by side on a specialized task force,” Monroe said.

“And all they do is patrol the campus area.” The joint effort will last through the first six weeks of the semester. Monroe aims to make campus safer for students this school year, and he would also like to see his police force grow. “I am really big on goal setting, as our personnel will tell you. In house, our priority is that we’d love to have more officers,” Monroe said. “We’ve done a reorganization of the police department that really helped out a lot in distributing some responsibili-

Joe Monroe UK police chief of almost a year

ties.” Personal goals have also helped Monroe throughout his life. Monroe originally set his sights on becoming an FBI agent. He decided to stay local instead, setting his goal to his current position once he got involved with UK Police. The law requires officers

to have 40 hours of training yearly, Monroe said. He said during these hours he likes to be productive and better himself. “I was developing myself,” he said. “I took supervision classes, manager classes [and] leadership classes, instead of taking the skills classes.” Though Monroe was not officially police chief until last November, he said his duties as interim police chief for the three years before his promotion got him ready for the role. “There was really no dif-

ference, we made a smooth transition. Basically it was changing a badge and collar pins,” Monroe said. “Everything else we already started in the interim roll; we had a head start in doing that.” During his time at UK so far, Monroe developed the first Protestor Device Extraction Team by a university police agency in the country, and he was one of the founding members of the UK Police Special Response Team, according to his biography on UK’s website. Monroe said the hardest part about his job is balancing

work with family life. “I’d say the most difficult part would be having to make some personal sacrifices, due to the long hours and trying to juggle being a father and still being active in my kids’ sports,” he said. Monroe has started several programs at UK and is waiting to start others this semester. One of these programs is “Coffee with the Chief,” which according to its website, allows for one-on-one conversation between Monroe and a member of the See MONROEon page 2

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Going from combat to college By Martha Groppo mgroppo@kykernel.com

Andrew Napier was at a bar with friends when one told the group how Napier had just returned from combat in Iraq. A woman in the group responded by saying, “Oh, is ... that still going on?” Napier, a UK biology student, told this story on Jan. 28 during an online interview through UK’s Louie B. Nunn Center for Oral History. In the interview, Napier said after returning from Iraq he felt like nobody even realized he was gone. The Nunn Center’s interest in his story made him feel differently. “It's awesome to hear that anybody even cares what's happening, you know?” Napier said in his interview. Napier’s interview is one of seven that are available online in video format as part of the Nunn Center’s From Combat to Kentucky Oral History Project. The project gives veterans from Iraq and Afghanistan now attending UK a chance to document their military stories. During the interviews, which typically last See COMBAT on page 5

Phillips aims to minimize mistakes By Nick Craddock ncraddock@kykernel.com

Despite the season-opening win over Louisville, a sluggish second half and dumb penalties captured the focus of UK head coach Joker Phillips ahead of UK’s Saturday matchup with Western Kentucky. “We cannot make our same mistakes that we had in this past game,” Phillips said. “We’ve got to get those corrected and continue to play fast, start fast, but then finish stronger than we did.” Phillips pointed to 11 penalties for 90 yards and four big plays surrendered by the UK defense that accounted for 134 yards as ways that “Kentucky can beat Kentucky.” One such play was Louisville running back Bilal Powell’s 80-yard run, in which he broke to the outside and sprinted down the sideline for a touchdown in what Phillips called a “horrendous” third quarter. Junior cornerback Randall Burden said the UK defense selected a cloud call to the side in the cover-2 defense, and he was supposed to play in. “I know I did the wrong thing,” said Burden, who unsuccessfully tried to catch Powell following his mistake. Although WKU is in the midst of a 21game losing streak, currently the longest in the nation, Phillips said mistakes can trip up a heavily-favored team as evidenced by some of the results of college football’s opening weekend. One of UK’s Southeastern Conference foes, Ole Miss, was shocked 49-48 this weekend in double overtime by Jacksonville State, a Football Championship See NOTEBOOK on page 5 First issue free. Subsequent issues 25 cents.

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Randall Cobb (left), Moncell Allen (middle) and Winston Guy Jr. (right) hoist the Governor’s Cup after their 23-16 win over Louisville on Saturday.

Cats knock off Cards in Phillips’ debut By Nick Craddock ncraddock@kykernel.com

LOUISVILLE — The Joker Phillips era has started on a winning note. In his first game as UK’s head coach, Phillips’ team scored 35 seconds into the game against archrival Louisville and had an impressive early offensive display, accounting for many of UK’s 230 rushing yards. This combination lifted the Cats to a 23-16 win. Also making his head coaching debut, Louisville’s Charlie Strong was unable to rally his team to prevent UK (1-0) from capturing its fourth consecutive Governor’s Cup. This is the longest winning streak for the Cats in the modern history of this rivalry. UK’s streak comes on the heels of the Cards’ (0-1) four straight Governor’s Cup victories from 20032006. “I’m excited, and I’m excited about this program,” Phillips said of the victorious start to his tenure. “For us to have a great season, we had to win this game … that’s what I was more excited about, not me, I care too much about this program to be selfish.” The Cats’ first offensive series quickly si-

lenced a record 55,327 fans on hand at the newly-renovated Papa John’s Stadium. Senior tailback Derrick Locke, who received the Howard Schnellenberger Award as the game’s most valuable player, set the tone for the running game early with his 32-yard scamper for a touchdown on the second play of the game. “I thought we were going to blow them out of here and get our second and third stringers on quick,” said Locke, who carried the ball 23 times for 115 yards and two scores, despite being slowed by cramps and tightness in his calf. Coupled with a strong running performPHOTO BY BRITNEY MCINTOSH | STAFF ance was the steady play of senior quarterback Wide receiver Randall Cobb scores a touchdown Mike Hartline, who became the first UK quaragainst Louisville, helping secure the Cats’ win. terback to go 3-0 as a starter against the Cards. The oft-scrutinized Hartline looked poised of the ball when he had pressure, and he manfrom the start, connecting with sophomore aged that pressure, and that’s one of the things wide receiver La’Rod King on the opening we thought he needed to do.” play of the game for 38 yards. He was 10-ofThe second half looked to continue the 12 for 115 yards by halftime in helping UK to same UK dominance after a 41-yard Ryan a 20-6 lead. Tydlacka field goal on its first second-half “(Hartline) did more than manage the drive extended the Cats’ lead to 23-6. game,” Phillips said. “He made some plays to Louisville senior tailback Bilal Powell, win the game. He scrambled, he made some See FOOTBALL on page 2 throws, he ran when he needed to, he got rid

Hartline did more than manage the game. He made some plays to win the game. — UK head coach Joker Phillips Newsroom: 257-1915; Advertising: 257-2872


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MONROE Continued from page 1 community. Its purpose is to promote a stronger relationship between the UKPD and those it serves, according to the website. Monroe said he would like to see more students use this program. “It gives students a chance to talk about whatever is on their mind, whether it be a personal issue, or something they are concerned with on

FOOTBALL Continued from page 1 who finished with a game-high 156 yards, responded on the very next play with a career-long, 80-yard touchdown run. Then, UK started to unravel mentally with seven penalties for 59 yards in the second half, compared to the Cards’ one second-half penalty. “I’m not going to say we were re-

campus, or if they just need some guidance with something in their life,” he said. To sign up for “Coffee with the Chief,” visit (www.uky.edu/Police/coffee-with-the-chief.html). Monroe said he enjoys student feedback, and he is creating a survey to be released near the end of the semester so the UKPD can improve. “I really am trying to break down the historical roadblocks in communication police always have,” he said.

laxed, I just felt like we made too many mistakes,” Locke said. “How many offside penalties did we have? False starts?” Although the necessary improvements will become clearer in film study the players were pleased to escape with the road win. “This is a big game, no matter if you’re a fifth-year guy or a freshman,” Hartline said. “You’ve got to play good in the Louisville game. You’ve got to win it.”

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Power Rangers make comeback PASADENA, Calif. It's morphin' time! again. "The Mighty Morphin Power Rangers," who exploded on to the children's television programming scene 17 years ago and instantly became a ratings and merchandising monster, are making a comeback. The program, a mix of action scenes from a Japanese series and new footage shot with American actors, followed the exploits of a handful of teens who would morph into brightly dressed heroes to fight weird creatures. An 18th season of the series is planned for Nickelodeon in 2011 and the original episodes will run on Nicktoons later this year. Stewart St. John, a film and TV writer/director, was a big part of the show's early success. He wrote 30 of the original episodes and was the story editor the first season. Among his contributions was naming many of the characters and introducing the Green Ranger.

St. John is certain another wave of "Morphin" mania is on the way. "I think the show is going to be just as big as it was that first year. It's obvious there are still plenty of fans," St. John says after speaking at the "Power Morphicon 2" convention last weekend. "Many of us were saying that we just can't believe what's happening with this whole 'Power Rangers' thing." Thousands of fans many dressed in the costumes of their favorite characters packed the Pasadena Convention Center to collect autographs, buy collectibles and share their passion for the Power Rangers. Toys based on the series go for as much as $200 and actual props carry price tags as high as $700. St. John says "Power Rangers" fans are as passionate and as knowledgable as "Star Trek" or "Star Wars" enthusiasts. Chris Howell and his girl-

friend, Laura Stinnett, drove 31 hours straight from Louisville, Ky. to attend the convention. Howell's dressed in an exact copy of the Green Ranger costume that he had made in Bangkok for $900. "I was not popular when I was a kid and the show was my escape," Howell says. "I just loved the show." The actors are amazed to see how much interest there is in the show. Tracy Lynn Cruz played the Yellow Ranger for three years appearing in "Power Rangers Turbo," "Power Rangers in Space" and "Power Rangers Lost Galaxy." "When 'Galaxy' ended I thought this was all over for me. I didn't know there was so many people still following it," Cruz says. "I had no idea about how much loyalty there was with the fans. When you see people here from as far away as England and Puerto Rico, it's very humbling." MCT

Horoscope To get the advantage, check the day's rating: 10 is the easiest day, 0 the most challenging. Aries (March 21-April 19) — Today is a 6 — Today you do a circus-style balancing act between accepting responsibility and claiming independence. You can have both. Keep an open mind, and be willing to dance. Taurus (April 20—May 20) — Today is a 7 — Close the door and work in silence to accomplish more in less time. Warn others off with a note: Do not interrupt. Then thrive. Gemini (May 21—June 21) — Today is a 6 — Transform a romantic relationship with greater insight into the desires of another. You get what you need in return. Love flows both ways. Cancer (June 22—July 22) — Today is a 5 — You probably don't want to adhere to family traditions now. You're more interested in making big changes as

quickly as possible. Enlist help from a partner. Leo (July 23—Aug. 22) — Today is a 7 — Take romance home with you if possible. Definitely don't leave it on the desk at work. Pick up flowers on the way home. Good news comes from far away. Virgo (Aug. 23—Sept. 22) — Today is a 6 — Your partner surprises you by throwing more money in the pot. Then you both need to spend time balancing the checkbook. Spend on basics. Libra (Sept. 23—Oct. 22) — Today is a 9 — Life flows smoothly where family and household are concerned. You also get lots of work done — if you maintain emotional perspective. Scorpio (Oct. 23—Nov. 21) — Today is a 6 — An older person recommends hiding your head in the sand. You appreciate the sentiment, but don't go there. Take

the bull by the horns instead. Sagittarius (Nov. 22—Dec. 21) — Today is a 7 — Express your optimism to inspire others early in the day. Others begin in a grumpy mood, and need motivation to be productive. Joy is contagious. Capricorn (Dec. 22—Jan. 19) — Today is a 6 — Pretend you're in charge of the world, just for today. Use intuition and apply logic to get people to think, instead of just blindly accepting. Aquarius (Jan. 20—Feb. 18) — Today is a 7 — A business problem requires active listening and logical skills. Keep conversations private for confidence and to respect people's feelings. Pisces (Feb. 19—March 20) — Today is a 7 — You may wish you could shift attention away from yourself today. Although there are good targets out there, it keeps coming back to you anyway. MCT


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Hartline surpasses expectations They came. They clawed. They conquered. Senior Mike Hartline was a busy man Saturday. Both in making me eat my words and in proving to everyone, he is the right person to be starting quarterback at UK. He sure showed it. Following a brief moment of inflatable Cardinal disaster (which I’m convinced noCHANDLER body else is Papa John’s StaHOWARD dium noticed), UK took the Kernel field and went to work. The columnist team came out fighting and, frankly, impressing. The Governor’s Cup was all but begging to be awarded to the Cats after the stunning first quarter display they put on. But it was truly a tale of two halves for the Commonwealth’s leading interstate rivalry. In the end, UK put on a show its fans can be happy with. Though a continuation of what viewers saw in the first quarter would have been more pleasing, a victory is just that. Hartline was solid, delivering a notable performance under center. Don’t worry about the lack of touchdowns, because the team didn’t need them from him (Derrick Locke provided those). Fans should be awed by Hartline’s poise in the pocket and on the scramble. His play was reassuring, to say the least. “He was the guy I praised the most with our football team,” UK head coach Joker Phillips said. “Mike’s taken a lot of criticism. You know what? He’s handled it like a man. He didn’t come out here with a sour look on his face. He had a bounce in his step.” It was a bounce to be respected. UK’s defense was also exciting. Danny Trevathan made a tackle or two (or eight in the first half), Mychal Bailey came up with a key interception and the Luke McDermottRicky Lumpkin duo sacked Louisville’s quarterback at a couple pivotal points. Other than allowing an 80-yard rush, it was another stirring performance on the Cats’ day. The Blue and White wasn’t all extraordinary, though. Teams are not typically known to win many games while being penalized 11 times. The youthfulness of UK may also be one of its foremost weaknesses early in the season. “We didn’t play consistently,” Phillips said. “We made way too many mistakes. We had way too many penalties and way too many dumb penalties at crucial times … take away three or four plays, they had nothing.” Louisville certainly had something. Senior Adam Froman found some lapses in the Cats’ defense, and the Cards did a good job of keeping themselves in the game. In its toughest non-conference game of the season, UK came away with a victory that could have gone either way. Take nothing away from UK’s success — it was earned. But for the readers fretting over whether or not the Cats are the real deal, sleep easy. The glimpse of near perfection fans saw in the first quarter is a solid place for the team to build its foundation. With the quarterback discussion silenced and the biggest game for the fans under its belt, UK begins its season.

Chandler Howard Sports Editor Phone: 257-1915 choward@kykernel.com

HOMETOWN VICTORY

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Libero Stephanie Klefot was named to the Kentucky Classic All-Tournament team after helping UK win all three of its matches over the weekend.

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It’s been a busy Labor Day Weekend for UK sports. Of course, there was that football game. However, more athletes were playing than just the ones in helmets. Men and women’s soccer and women’s volleyball all played in tournaments over the weekend. Here’s a quick rundown of what happened. Men’s soccer (2-0) won twice over the weekend behind some fine freshmen performances. In their season opener Friday, the Cats beat Eastern Illinois 1-0 behind freshman Tyler Riggs’ 31st minute goal.

UK’s offense was firing all night, registering a total of 21 shots. Sunday, UK won the UK Invitational Tournament with a 1-0 win over IUPUI. Freshman Jordan Rose netted the only goal of the match in the 55th minute. Freshman goalkeeper Tyler Beadle made two saves to post his second straight shutout. Women’s soccer (3-1) played twice this weekend in the ACC/SEC Challenge. Friday, UK scored twice in the second half for a come-from-behind upset of No. 15 Virginia Tech. After trailing by a goal at halftime, Jenna Goblirsch scored in the 50th minute off a set piece to tie the game. UK took the lead in the 61st minute

on a transition goal by Caitlin Landis. Sunday, UK lost 2-0 against No. 14 Wake Forest. The Deamon Deacons scored two firsthalf goals, and the Cats were stagnant on offense, as their first shot didn’t come until the 71st minute. For the game, UK was outshot 21-3. Women’s volleyball (4-2) won the Kentucky Classic with three victories over the weekend. Ranked No. 16 in the nation, UK rolled through Miami (Ohio) in three sets Friday behind libero Stephanie Klefot’s career-high 21 digs. The team posted a total of 13 blocks in a strong defensive effort. Saturday, UK prevailed in five sets over South Florida, 25-

MSU’s secondary finds its bearings By Shannon Shelton MCT

With Michigan State leading Western Michigan by three touchdowns late in the third quarter, a pick by a Spartans safety in the waning minutes was far from a game-changing play. But for a beleaguered secondary that struggled mightily in 2009, senior strong safety Marcus Hyde's interception symbolized much more. "I was so excited when Marcus got that pick," said junior free safety Trenton Robinson, who had eight tackles. "It was just the icing on the cake that we were waiting for all game. It was like, 'One of us has to get a pick.' He did it. I was very excited." The Spartans had just six interceptions all year, and no player had more than one. Reversing that dearth of turnovers became a point of emphasis for MSU's defense this season, and getting an interception in the first game boosted the group's spirits. MSU beat Western, 38-14, but the Broncos could have added more points if

not for Hyde's pick. Hyde intercepted Alex Carder's pass at MSU's 19-yard line. It's that type of red-zone defense that MSU also lacked last season. The Spartans gave up 28 touchdowns in opponents' 41 trips past the MSU's 20-yard line. With five of MSU's seven losses decided by eight points or fewer, greater turnover generation could have made a significant difference. "It's been stressed every day, that you have to go out and make plays when you're in position to make a play," Hyde said. "That was our thing, and it's still gonna be our thing. That will help us out, overall, as a team." The 2009 secondary, despite returning players with some starting experience, admitted to missing a standout player who could communicate with the rest of the group and produce. That group also played without Johnny Adams, a cornerback who had a strong freshman season in 2008 but had to redshirt. He played the first two games, and then took some time off after the death of his grandmother. A subse-

quent shoulder injury prohibited a return in 2009. Having Adams as the starting field cornerback made the secondary — which had three returning starters from last season in Robinson, Hyde and senior boundary corner Chris L. Rucker _ a lot stronger Saturday. Rucker and Adams each had a pass breakup, and Rucker also had a quarterback hurry. Of Rucker's seven tackles, one was for a loss of eight yards. Western finished with 238 passing yards. "We didn't give up big passes," Robinson said. "We consider big passes 20 yards or more, and I think we gave two of those up." There were at least three catches for more than 20 yards, but the Broncos averaged 7.9 yards per completion. For many years, the unofficial yardsafter-catch count typically burned MSU (what could have been a 10-yard play became a 30-yard gain when a defensive back failed to make a tackle). The secondary hopes those days are behind it .

20, 25-22, 23-25, 21-25, 15-10. UK posted 62 kills, and three players — freshman Whitney Billings, junior Ann Armes and senior Lauren Rapp — posted at least 12. Sunday, UK won 3-1 over Ohio State. Rapp had 12 kills and 12 scoops, and she was named the tournament MVP for her performances. Blair Hiler and Stephanie Klefot joined Rapp on the All-Tournament team. Overall, UK went 7-1 between football, volleyball and the two soccer teams during the weekend. -Scores and statistics gathered from UK Athletics’ website.


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KERNEL EDITORIAL BOARD Matt Murray, editor in chief Wesley Robinson, managing editor Katie Perkowski, managing editor

Cassidy Herrington, opinions editor Chandler Howard, sports editor Martha Groppo, features editor

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Driving program reveals blind spots in  dialogue The Student Government Senate wisely pumped the brakes on the proposed driving program at its first meeting of the year. Senators voted to table the $85,000 late-night driving service until next week, amending it from the final budget for later discussion. The decision came after many senators said they had not heard of the proposal, with several others only recently hearing of the idea. SG President Ryan Smith said he had reservations about passing the budget without the service, a program "we’ve invested a lot of time in," he said. But, his reservation should be how uninformed his Senate was of the project and not that the vote was put on hold. Senators should not blindly make such a major decision that represents 17 percent of the total SG budget without any knowledge. Yes, offering a driving service would reduce drunken driving and violent crimes. Several of UK's

benchmark institutions with similar programs have noticed a decline in both issues from implementing such programs. However, senators, and even more importantly, students, need to know about services like this more than a few weeks before they go into action. How many students knew about the service more than a few days before it was to be voted on? Even now, how many students know what the schedule will be once it is set in place? In the end, Smith and his administration look bad for pushing a project that so few people knew about. Going into a second term, SG has to know how important communication is to the process, especially when student safety is the subject. For a government project, people have to know what’s going on and something like this should not catch anyone in the student body by surprise, much less the people voting on it.

MATTHEW STALLINGS, Kernel cartoonist

Interests of students and city officials diverge, student surveys legislation

Each fall since 1865, UK has welcomed its students to campus with open arms. Over that same period, the city of Lexington has performed the opposite service. LexingAUSTIN ton is a colSCHMITT lege town Kernel that refuses columnist to accept the notion. After living in Louisville for 18 years, I had high expectations for the hospitality this city would show toward its “guests” nine months out of the year. Turned out, my expectations fell short. I’m not knocking the people of Lexington. I work a part-time job where everybody is a Lexington resident, and last summer, I could not have felt more at home during my first days at the store. My problem is with the city tion of Rose and Huguelet, and the group that runs the the whole Rose area is rapcity: the government. idly becoming a quagmire. It’s easy to blame the To ease the congesgovernment for problems, tion, I wonder if UK who doesn’t? However, could employ someone to some issues truly are the regulate the flow of fault of the government and pedestrians and cars at its senseless perceptions. the crosswalk during rush Take a quick glimpse hour (noon-1p.m.), like back to last school year when they do at the Transy the Lexington government crossing on Broadway? did all students a disservice I think if they waved two and decided to institute some or three cars through at a “innovative” housing regulatime and then let an accumulated group of pedestrians through, it would be better and safer, for both parties. Ian Stewart is a biology research associate.

tions. And when I use the word “innovative,” I use it lightly. By performing research behind closed doors and not taking into account the opinions of the majority of Lexington residents, the city failed to implement anything meaningful and struck out for the most part. Look to the students of this campus for striking down the ridiculous ideas that began when city leaders looked at themselves in the mirror one morning and decided they wanted to change something that day. Nothing excites me more than when people in power are undermined. This country was built on democratic principles, and when the people are able to overturn meaningless legislation, then the system works. When legislation isn’t for the people and works just to satisfy some government representative’s pipe dream gets put into law, it goes against every principle ever muttered in this country. With that in mind, take a look at the latest attempt by Lexington government to frustrate students. The parking struggles on UK’s campus are well-documented. The Lexington parking struggles are not as well known, yet still exist. In most residential streets around campus, a parking pass is required to park on the street — this system

Upon entering my dorm room a few nights ago, I reached into my too-full pockets and pulled out the contents. Inside were a multitude of little pieces of paper. I had three passes VIRGINIA to the same ALLEY event taking Kernel place on a columnist night that I didn’t even plan on being in town for, forms to fill out for offers I never intended to take advantage of (I’m in college — I can’t afford what you’re offering, trust me) and other assorted things I was handed all over campus. As I sat on my bed with my pockets much happier and able to breathe again, I crumpled up the sadly useless offers and ended their lives with a toss to the trash.

I love free things. I think they’re grand. But generally, I only take free things that I have use for (e.g., free tshirts). So in these first two weeks, why do we students return from a stroll across campus heavy-laden with things that would have better served other people? It seems to me the blame lies partially on the handerouters, with their cute children, strategically placed tables and distinct inability to recognize who’s already taken something from them. However, a large portion of the problem lies within our psyche as students. If the problem lies with the student body, the issue is that we’re much too friendly. Close your eyes. No, don’t, you wouldn’t be able to read the rest of this article. Pretend you’ve closed your eyes. You’re walking along, probably past the Student Center. You see the gauntlet

Letter to the Editor I must start by saying that I love that there is a pedestrian crossing on Rose Street. This is a well-travelled, central area of campus, and I really appreciate it when drivers wait for me to cross. As a driver, however, it can lead to long waits because pedestrians cross in a steady stream, meaning that Rose gets heavily backed up at certain periods of the day. Consequently, the intersection of Rose and Columbia also gets jammed. Furthermore, because there are no turn lights at the increasingly busy intersec-

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works fine, and I have no problem with it. One of the most frustrating parts of living in the Elizabeth Street area was attempting to find a parking spot on the street. A regular part of the morning walk to campus was watching the hospital employees circling University and State streets looking for parking spots in their attempt to avoid paying for parking. The problem I have with

cording to www.lexpark.org. Well Lexington, I’m a resident, and I can’t even park on the street now. I was shocked when I walked into the LexPark office and realized the change. Not 12 hours the night before I was on its website looking at the law. Nowhere on the site did it mention a change. I also couldn’t find anything published that highlighted the change. Looking at the housing

When legislation that isn’t for the people and works to satisfy some government representative’s pipe dream is put into law, it goes against every principle ever muttered in this country. the parking system is the recent change in issuing permits. Instead of receiving four parking permits per household, residents can now only obtain two for the entire year. In other words, if a house near campus has more than two residents living in the house, then one cannot park his or her car. Changing this rule doesn’t make much sense to me. This program has been in service since 1990, “to address the negative impacts neighborhoods can experience as a result of too many non-resident vehicles using local streets for parking,” ac-

situation from the year before, I assumed Lexington learned its lesson on listening to all parties involved before instituting policy changes. Everyone knows what happens when we assume, though. In Lexington, students learn at the premiere university in the state every day at the highest level. Part of that learning process involves learning from mistakes. Why can’t city leaders do the same? Austin Schmitt is an accounting and finance junior. E-mail opinions@kykernel.com.

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approaching. Maybe you panic a little. Will veering to the left keep him from reaching out his hand? Perhaps just keeping your head down will do the trick. You know you don’t need it. As you walk past him you see the smile — they’re so very good at smiling — the fingers handing you that piece of paper to attend that random event that occurs during an hour you have class. But oh, look! Your arm, suddenly becoming an alien limb, snatches willingly, your neck inclining your face to lean up with a warm smile, and voila! Your twenty-feet worth of planning has failed you, foiled by the fact that you’re a really nice person. Don’t panic! As atrocious of an issue as this is, there are a few things that can be done. If you are reading this, and you happen to be a hander-outer, I offer a few suggestions. Your adorable child is indeed adorable, but she’s handed me 16,000 flyers in

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the past two days — perhaps a week-long training session in facial recognition? If that’s a bit much, then maybe you should do less attacking and more passive invitation. If someone really wants that plastic animal keychain, I bet they’ll take it. As for the rest of us, more selective friendliness would be most helpful. Taking that little girl’s last free pass may make her smile, but the kid behind you who really wanted to attend that random event is pretty down about it. If you’re not interested, try a friendly wave or smile while speed-walking away. For those of us who sometimes can’t resist the urge to grab every piece of paper pointed our way, I promise the paper goods make delightful airplanes. Virginia Alley is an English freshman. E-mail opinions@kykernel.com


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COMBAT Continued from page 1 about two hours, student veterans talk about why they decided to go into the military, and they describe their boot camp, deployment and homecoming experiences. The project fits into the Nunn Center’s history. The center has been recording veteran stories since 1973 and has records from World War II and the Korean and Vietnam wars. “You aren’t instantly drawn when you are thinking about oral history to say, ‘Hey, we should interview a 23, 24-year-old,’ ” said Doug Boyd, director of the Nunn Center. “But the advantage of getting their stories now is they are really fresh.” Boyd said the project not only has historical importance, it also has social importance. It gives the veterans a voice, connecting them to the outside world, he said. Stephanie Murphy, a graduate student in the Physician Assistant Program at UK, is another veteran who told her story for the project. “I’m glad one day my kids will read my history,” Murphy said. Murphy got special permission to enter the Army Reserves a few days after her 17th birthday. Her brother’s recruiters saw her test scores and encouraged her to enlist. Murphy served in Iraq from April

to October 2003 as a surgical technician, assisting surgeons in military zones. In Iraq, Murphy’s job was to keep critical patients alive so they could make it to hospitals. Murphy went from saving lives in Iraq to attending classes in Kentucky. “College life is just different for me,” Murphy said. Sin-ce returning home, she has a new appreciation for simple things she did not always have in Iraq, like showers. “It frustrates you when you hear complaining about little things,” Murphy said. “Students don’t appreciate the people in their lives.” Napier echoes this frustration in his online interview, citing a lack of respect students show during classes. Student-veterans are also dealing with the transition from a careerperson to a student. “What is it like to go to class when a year ago you were operating million-dollar equipment?” Boyd said. One goal of the project is to evaluate needs for improvement in UK’s attempts to help veterans make the transition to college. Boyd said in general, the student-veteran feedback has been positive. The Veterans Resource Center, which helped locate student veterans for the interviews, also helps make the transition from combat to

school easier. Tony Dotson, coordinator of UK’s Veterans Resource Center, estimates 400 student-veterans are at UK. He said a waived application fee, a married housing program for student-veterans and a new transition course are some of the services UK offers. Dotson said the Nunn Center’s project has been helpful on an emotional level for the participants. He described these student-veteran interviews as therapeutic for the interviewees. Interviews are currently on hold while the Nunn Center looks for a new student-veteran to conduct them. Until then, the center is editing several more interviews to put online. Dotson has heard little feedback from the student-veterans he works with concerning last Wednesday’s withdrawal of combat troops in Iraq. He said student-veterans typically keep their opinions to themselves, though they want to know their service was necessary and appreciated. The From Combat to Kentucky Oral History Project is part of a bigger vision for Kentucky veterans. “The idea is to turn this into a statewide project,” Boyd said. For more information about the project or to view the video interviews, visit (www.nunncenter.org/c2ky/).

NOTEBOOK Continued from page 1 Subdivision school, in its home opener. “We'll point out all the games across the country everybody expects you to win,” Phillips said. “If you don't play well, if we play like we did in (Saturday’s) third and fourth quarter, any given day, anybody can beat you.” Junior linebacker Danny Trevathan, the SEC Defensive Player of the Week, said he doesn’t expect the same mental lapses against WKU and some of the younger players on defense are capable of helping him out by making big plays sooner rather than later. “I try to help the (young guys), but at the same time, they’ve got to do their own part and help themselves,” Trevathan said. “Coach Joker has tried to instill in them that you don’t have to be a junior or senior to be a leader.” No More BCS schools on Cats’ non-conference schedule UK’s first non-conference game against U of L also marked

its last non-conference game against an opponent from a BCS conference this season. UK’s three remaining nonconference games are: WKU of the Sun Belt Conference (Sept. 11), Akron of the Mid-American Conference (Sept. 18) and Charleston Southern, an FCS school from the Big South Conference (Nov. 6). When asked what the benefit of playing the lesser-profile Hilltoppers this Saturday would be, Phillips said: “It’s another in-state recruiting tool; playing two of the in-state schools helps us, there’s no question about that.” Phillips added that playing WKU in an NFL stadium —the Tennessee Titans’ LP Field — in 2011 and 2013 is also an attractive recruiting pitch. Injury Report Junior tight end Nick Melillo will miss Saturday’s game because of an ankle sprain. Redshirt freshman Jordan Aumiller, who started at tight end in place of Melillo against U of L, is day-today with a sprained foot. Safeties Dakotah Tyler (ankle) and Taiedo Smith (groin) are both questionable.

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Top 4 things not to do on a first date ALISON CARSON

Kernel columnist Anyone is willing to dish out advice about what to do on a first date. Dress nice, smile a lot. But in the make or break world of dating, it’s the “don’ts” that really matter. It’s the creepy, crazy and weird things people do on a first date that ultimately decide whether or not they’ll get a second shot. One minor mishap, and your date will be texting “rescue me” under the table. To land yourself a second date, keep these four major “don’ts” in mind. 1. Don’t come off too strong. This can be taken a few different ways. For guys, coming off too strong usually consists of boasting about sexual expertise, which really freaks girls out. Alluding to going back to your place the entire date really only has the girl checking her drink for roofies. For women, coming off too strong is the constant mention of how you’re looking for something “serious.” It’s fine to let a guy know what you want later on, but talking about your desperate

search for true love on the first date only makes you look like a contestant on “The Bachelor.” 2. Don’t talk too much or too little. Everyone knows that first dates can be awkward, and uncomfortable silence makes them even worse. Easy topics to discuss like pop culture or your interests help to keep conversation flowing and help avoid the dreaded “cricket, cricket.”

“One minor mishap, and your date will be texting ’rescue me’ under the table.” ALISON CARSON Columnist

Rambling on and on about yourself doesn’t make for a good first date, either. Launching into a soliloquy gives the impression you’re narcissistic and disinterested in the other person. Instead, it should be an equal balance of listening and sharing. 3. Don’t show up late or cancel at the last minute. This isn’t a nail appointment. You can’t just reschedule when you feel like it. If you have committed to going on a date, make sure you follow through. It’s painful to

the other person to be stood up, and it will ruin any chance of getting a second date. Also, showing up on time is important. If you are meeting someone you don’t want to make them wait alone — it starts the date off on the wrong foot. 4. Don’t bring up heavy topics. It’s a first date, not a therapy session. So unless you’re out with Dr. Drew, now is not the time to bring up your eating disorder or your parents’ divorce. When first getting to know someone, you don’t want to reveal every skeleton in your closet. This also includes talking about exes. It’s a topic that brings negative energy to a conversation and suggests you’re still hung up on the past. It’s an unavoidable topic at times, so just make positive remarks or joke about it instead of diving into a soap opera about past relationships. While going on a first date is always stressful, knowing what to avoid can ease anxiety. You should just relax and be yourself, and hopefully a second date will come naturally.

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