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MAY 2016

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May 2016

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Welcome to Lady Lowcountry! WELCOME TO THE THIRD ISSUE of Lady Lowcountry, the faith-based magazine for ladies of all ages and stages of life. The magazine is about local ladies in the Lowcountry telling their stories of faith trials and joys. Lady Lowcountry is about the daily reads keeping us turning the pages each day of the month to work out, be inspired, or plan our meals. So please repay the advertisers by seeking them out for a visit, because without them Lady Lowcountry magazine would not exist. This month, I’d like to give a special shout out to my sweet mama, who is always there for me, and my sweet daughter, who is a blessing!

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ELAINE KROME

JODI-ANN FISHER

Elaine Krome is a retired registered nurse, whose second career included the Lutheran Theological Southern Seminary.

Jodi-Ann Fisher attends Christian Renewal Church in Hilton Head, and her heart is to lead people into true freedom through intercession and outreach.

HEIDI DALY

LORENA BEST

Heidi Daly is a licensed esthetics instructor and makeup artist who has been a Hilton Head Island resident for over 31 years.

Lorena Best is a full-time Realtor with Keller Williams Hilton Head Island & Bluffton.

Table of Contents

MAY 2016

Meaningful Mainstays

Faithful Features

13 Lady’s Quiet Time:

14 The Strength of Kindness:

Help prepare for trials big or small while finding peace in all things.

Elaine Krome pens an inspirational tale of random acts of kindness.

17 Workout Calendar:

18 Family with the Perfect Blend:

26 Daily Bread:

20 Spiritual Health:

Easy-to-do exercises and in the convenience of your own home. Try some of our tasty recipes this Spring.

A busy mother describes the challenges and fun of a blended family. Just like your body, your spirit needs tender loving care.

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medium, just like your body. If you know you’ve gotten too much sun, immediately take an anti-inflammatory, such as ibuprofen or aspirin, and get in a cool shower to lower your body temperature. There are many ways to manage your burn: • Witch Hazel, applied with a cotton round or wash cloth to the skin, is a long lasting anti-inflammatory • Oatmeal Masque — Place oatmeal in blender and mix with green tea • Cornstarch mixed with green tea into a paste and apply • Yogurt on affected areas • Green Tea, in a spray bottle, using frequently • Aloe Vera gel Baths • Oatmeal — 1 cup in bath • Apple Cider Vinegar or White Vinegar — 1 cup in bath • Baking Soda — 1 cup in bath Be sure to apply ample amounts of lotion, preferably containing aloe, hyaluronic acid or glycerin. As always, drink tons of water!

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Money troubles, job problems, school issues, relationship conflicts and health issues can steal joy and take away peace. Daily quiet time can help prepare for trials big or small while finding peace in all things.

EPHESIANS 4:32 Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven.

COLOSSIANS 3:12 So, as those who have been chosen of God, holy and beloved, put on a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience;

GALATIANS 5:22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness JOHN 3:16 For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life. ROMANS 8:28 And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose. HEBREWS 13:2 Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for by this some have entertained angels without knowing it. ROMANS 12:10 Be devoted to one another in brotherly love; give preference to one another in honor; PROVERBS 11:17 A man who is kind benefits himself, but a cruel man hurts himself. GALATIANS 6:10 So then, as we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone, and especially to those who are of the household of faith.

10 1 JOHN 3:18

Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth.

COLOSSIANS 3:14 And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.

1 PETER 4:8 Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins.

1 JOHN 3:17 But if anyone has the world’s goods and sees his brother in need, yet closes his heart against him, how does God’s love abide in him?

EPHESIANS 4:29 Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.

15 MATTHEW 5:42

Give to the one who begs from you, and do not refuse the one who would borrow from you.

16 2 THESSALONIANS 3:13 17

Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.

21 ROMANS 13:10

Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfilling of the law.

22 ZECHARIAH 7:9

Thus says the Lord of hosts, Render true judgments, show kindness and mercy to all

23 ZECHARIAH 7:10

Do not oppress the widow, the fatherless, the sojourner, or the poor, and let none of you devise evil against another in your heart.

24 PROVERBS 21:21

Whoever pursues righteousness and kindness will find life, righteousness, and honor.

25 JAMES 4:17

So whoever knows the right thing to do and fails to do it, for him it is sin.

26 MATTHEW 6:14

For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you,

As for you, brothers, do not grow weary in doing good.

27 MATTHEW 5:7

ROMANS 12:15 Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep.

28 It is well with the man who

18 ROMANS 5:8

20 GALATIANS 6:2

Blessed are the merciful, for they shall receive mercy. PSALM 112:5

deals generously and lends; who conducts his affairs with justice.

But God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.

29 JOHN 11:33

ROMANS 15:5 May the God of endurance and encouragement grant you to live in such harmony with one another, in accord with Christ Jesus,

30 Love is patient and kind; love does

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STRENGTH of KINDNESS by ELAINE KROME

THIS PAST WEEK AS STRONG WINDS swept across the United States, many lives were forever changed by the destruction of property and death of loved ones. One situation that was recorded took place in the “windy city”, Chicago A lady attempted to exit a building and hail a taxi. The footage showed the 75 mph gale force winds pinning her to a wall and then tossing her around like a rag doll. Shortly after she was unable to move, a young man stops to help, then another and another until there were at least 5 people helping her into the car. Once she was safe, the folks continued making slow progress down the side walk. “Random acts of kindness”’ became a popular phrase some years ago and continues today, but what does it really mean? An unknown author wrote; “it is said that the ultimate test of a person is how he/she treats people who can’t possibly do them any good. This is the hallmark of integrity.” Very often the Biblical text about the Good Samaritan, as recorded in Luke, is brought forth with the same underlying theme: “and who is my neighbor?” In both situations described, the one in danger did not know the individuals who rescued them from the robbers or the strong winds. One had set out to travel from Jerusalem to Jericho and the woman in Chicago possibly going about daily business. The situation of the two were hundred of years apart and in different parts of the world, but both ended on a positive note due to kindness. The two acts of kindness described were quite powerful and those who chose to help stepped into harms way themselves. Gratefully these situations are not daily occurrences, but there are many times in our lives where we can reach out to others or be the recipient of kindness. Think about a situation that you received kindness. How did it make you feel? In most cases kindness is a gift when we need it the most.

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15 squats per day (see March issue) 10 dips per day (see April issue) 20 heel touches (work those obliques) WEEK 2

25 squats per day 15 tricep kickbacks 15-second flutter kicks (keep legs moderately low) WEEK 3

35 squats 20 triceps (your choice: dips or kickbacks) 20 plank (keep buttocks down) WEEK 4

40 squats 20 triceps 30 bicycle crunches (get those elbows to those knees) Each time you work your muscles remember to relax, stretch and cool down before showering. You did a great job. Keep up the good work! May 2016

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Family with thePERFECT by DONNA HAMMOND NESTLED DEEP IN THE HEART of Turkey Hill Plantation, in rural Jasper County, you will find one of he busiest households that you can imagine. At the head of all of this loving chaos, you will find me, Donna Hammond. I am a wife, mother, daughter, nurse and from time to time, a coach. I will be the first to tell you that juggling a blended family, consisting of three boys and one girl is no small feat. Allow me to give you a small glimpse into our lives, woven together by choice. My husband, Dickie and I have known each other for over thirty years, as we are from the same area in South Carolina. We dated over 20 years ago and well, let’s just say, life happens, we went our separate ways and moved on. In 2010, after both of us went through divorces, Dickie and I rekindled a sweet friendship that bloomed and changed our lives forever. We were married in July 2011 on Edisto Island. Out of our two previous marriages, we have four beautiful children. Dickie has a 16 year old son and a 12 year old daughter. I have two sons, ages 20 and 15. As with anything else, good things come in small batches, bestowed upon us by father time. Our boys are now the best of friends and they are all very protective of their sister. We have devoted spending time with our children, getting to know what makes each one tick and by the same token, they have learned us as well. Interestingly, the heart of our home is our dinner table. This is our place where we share funny stories of school, friends, football, baseball, soccer, hunting, fishing and crazy things the dogs may have done. Now, don’t misunderstand, we have had our share of ups and downs, as with any other family. With four children, come four unique personalities. I encourage our children to have mutual respect for each other and to love each other through differences. We have taught them to choose their battles carefully. To love or not to love is NOT the question. Children are God’s amazing works of “heart.” I have always explained to all of my children that God has given them a heat be enough to love everyone. In our home, our children have learned to accept love and give love in return. Step Kids? No. That term is never used in our home. In my opinion, it belittles the relationship that is shared between us and “our kids.” With all four children living under our roof, we have blended exceptionally well. Through our blending together, we have learned valuable lessons in patience, understanding 18

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Our Family – Established 2011 Dickie & Donna Grayson, Chipper, Evan & Caroline and trust. The love we truly have for each other strengthens us on a daily bases. I like to compare our family to two streams that come together, creating a river with a new rhythm that brings life and peace to all of us. Phil 4:13

New Mom Again PHOTO BY ALLIE FLOYD

by MEGAN ADAMS WE CAN ALL AGREE GOD knows what we do not and His plan for us is divine, I would also like to add I think He has a wonderful sense of humor. My children are seven years apart. Seven years of falling in love with the most beautiful face I have ever laid eyes on. Seven years of learning more than I was teaching. Seven years of growing as a mother while he is growing as a strong little man. And then after seven years I decided I was ready to let go of all that baby stuff I just couldn’t bring myself to say goodbye to for so long. So I put my big girl pants on, I put it all in my front yard and I sold it to the highest bidder…and then 2 months later I found out I was having another baby. Another baby….how exciting! If excitement is spelled F-E-A-R! See another pregnancy wasn’t really in the cards for me. My pregnancy with first son was the most wonderful experience ever followed by two very scary years. I have a hereditary blood disorder that can cause seizures in newborns. Needless to say praying with your 8 hour old baby through a plastic box before they whisk him away on his very own helicopter ride isn’t the start we expected. But he was a fighter and God is an awesome God! We have been seizure and medication free for over five years! I always said the only way I would have another baby was if it was a surprise. By the time my oldest was in preschool I was sure we were not having anymore. I couldn’t imagine loving anything like I loved

my first son! So I lost 40lbs and enjoyed my life as an active and involved mother of one. Skip ahead several years imagine my surprise when I took 8 tests and they all said positive. And the doctors called me ADVANCED, which I am sure any mom’s out there 35 and older would agree is a horrible word! But things looked great! He was getting A’s in all his prenatal testing and I wasn’t a diabetic this time so I indulged in sweets galore! We were right on track. At 36 weeks we decided to check on him and the ultrasound showed my Factor V was rearing its ugly head again…he was only measuring at 3lbs. We delivered him a week later in what my husband might deem the most dramatic birth in history! We went in the Or…we came out of the OR…we had heart beats… we lost heart beats…but then we had a baby…a beautiful healthy tiny fighter weighing in at 3lbs 15 ounces. There have been times in the last almost 8 years that I couldn’t tell whether I was thinking or praying because I relied so strongly on God to keep me standing and fight for my children. I have been a new mom twice now…I have forgotten things I used to give advice on. I am learning and loving all over again. And its so true what they say…your heart does grow! I have two perfect boys and I am full of love. This was always God’s plan for our family. I’m sure He got a kick out of my self assured declarations I was made to be a mom of one! Thank God He had a sense of humor! May 2016

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Spiritual Health by HEIDI STEINROCK I DON’T KNOW ABOUT YOU, but during the holiday season my stomach is in a constant state of full. I’m imagining those war movies where a submarine goes too deep and the glass covering the depth gauges in the control room start bursting and the depth indicator switch is going past its limits and awkwardly twitching in the red zone of danger. I was so determined too—to not fall into the cliché of holiday overeating! There are just so many options of food selections! My portion sizes are actually quite small…I just have a dozen or so different portions on my plate! My defense of my full stomach really just means I had a great holiday season and I’m thankful! Speaking of full bodies and food… what of this thing of health? We get fed a hundred diet tips and probably a dozen diet plans each week… so I doubt I have anything to tell you, regarding physical health, that you don’t already know. But what about spiritual health? I’m curious what you know of that. I only started learning about spiritual health the past three years. You could say I was having spiritual cardiac arrest, and if I didn’t change how I was operating and the things by which I was conducting myself, the decline of my spiritual health was imminent. We don’t often think of spiritual health and it’s not taught in most educational systems. Maybe we think of healthy spiritual practices, prayer and meditation being two examples of “healthy” things to do, spiritually speaking. But what about the health, the condition, of our actual spirits? I know a 19-year-old who, in her final paper of senior year of high school she wrote the following about truth in life and where that truth comes from. This student realizes that the material and curriculum responsible for educating students to prepare them for life is gapping open with a void in the absence of spiritual truth and knowledge being taught. “I have finally realized that our entire system is wrong,” she writes. “We are not taught the most essential parts of life… all the most valuable things are deep in our souls.” She also recognizes that within each of us is a well and it’s filled with all sorts of things, some of which are “the most essential parts of life.” So what exactly is it inside us, this well, possessing a capacity for depth of living? You guessed it—a person’s spirit. Humans are made up of three parts. Not skin, blood, and bones, but a body, a soul and a spirit. All three parts are connected, yet capable of operating individually. Spiritual health is the condition of our spirit (primarily), but the state of our spirit also affects our body and soul. So you and I are not just two bodies, but we are also two spirits. A person’s spirit perceives things such as depth of existence beyond the things we can with our eyes, and awareness of the capacity for this internal well inside us from which can come the most essential parts of life, such as hope, faith and love. This student goes on in her paper to write that the most essential parts of life that are deep within us “all fall into the category of love.” Most wouldn’t equate one’s spirit directly with love. If a person can even define what their spirit is or its function (I know I never 20

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could until recently!), they would be ahead of most people. Yet, the idea of understanding one’s spirit through the lens of love is actually quite brilliant and an appropriate approach to understanding one’s spirit. And don’t worry, I promise this is relevant to spiritual health! After all, love is one of the best proponents of physical health, so it makes sense for love to also have an impact on spiritual health. Yet… it’s not as simple as saying, “Live a life of love for others and that will make your spirit healthy!” Existing within love is not merely about performing loving actions. Existing within love is about aligning one’s spirit with that which is love and that which promotes love. The healthiest place for a person’s spirit, the “sweet-spot” of spiritual health, is when one’s spirit is directly aligned with love. That idea—aligning one’s spirit with love—potentially sounds basic, easy to cognitively understand, and some might even say, like common sense! In one respect aligning oneself with love is a basic move, a simple occurrence of adjusting one’s alignment spiritually! In another respect, aligning oneself with love is the most significant, weighted position a continued on page 22

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Here’s How To Keep Your Portfolio Healthy If you have a medical appointment this week, you might want to wish your nurse a happy National Nurses Week. This annual event is designed to celebrate the important role nurses play in health care. Of course, while nurses and doctors can help you in many ways, you can do a lot of good for yourself by adopting healthy living habits, such as eating right, exercising frequently, and so on. But you can also do much to help your financial health. Here are a few suggestions: • Stay invested. During times of market volatility, it can be temping to head to the investment “sidelines” until things “cool off.” Going to the sidelines can mean a few different things — you could simply not invest anything for a while, or you could move a substantial portion of your portfolio to “cash” instruments, which are safe in the sense of preserving your principal but offer almost nothing in the way of return or protecting against inflation. If you’re not investing during a market downturn, or if you’ve moved heavily into cash, you might well miss out on the beginning of the next market rally. • Rebalance your portfolio. It’s a good idea to periodically rebalance your portfolio to make sure it still reflects your goals and your comfort level with risk. Over time, and without any effort on your part, your portfolio can become unbalanced. For example, following a long “bull” market, the value of your stocks could have risen to the point where they make up a greater percentage of your portfolio than you had intended. When that happens, you may need to rebalance by adding bonds and other fixed-income vehicles.

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• Diversify. Rebalancing is important. But a balanced portfolio should also be a diversified portfolio. If you only owned one type of financial asset, such as U.S. growth stocks, you could take a big hit during a market downturn. But different types of financial assets don’t always move in the same direction at the same time, so by owning a wide variety of investments – U.S. stocks, international stocks, government securities, corporate bonds, real estate, certificates of deposit (CDs) and so on — you may help reduce the effects of market volatility on your portfolio. Keep in mind, though, that diversification by itself can’t guarantee profits or protect against loss. • Maintain realistic expectations. If you expect the financial markets to always move upward, you will be disappointed many times. Market downturns are a normal part of the investment process, and they will always be with us. Once you accept this reality, you will be less likely to make questionable decisions, such as abandoning a longterm strategy. If you’ve designed an appropriate strategy, possibly with the help of a financial professional, you can stick with it through all market environments. By following the suggestions mentioned above – staying invested, rebalancing your portfolio as needed, diversifying your holdings and maintaining realistic expectations, you can go a long way toward maintaining the fitness of your financial situation. This article was written by Edward Jones.

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person will ever take. After initially aligning with love you must then continue existing on earth for your allotted time while maintaining, or caring for and being attentive to, that alignment with love. If it is true that we are not just bodies but also spirits, and therefore a spirit world exists we cannot fully see right now; and if it is true that our spirits live in the home of our bodies (therefore affecting our bodies)… then I can easily say that spiritual health is the most important aspect of life and living, spiritually and physically. Just like the student noticed a gross absence of true knowledge (spiritual truth) being taught in the educational system about how to manage our souls and spirits, so there is this same lack of knowledge prevalent in the general population. The Bible says, “It is for a lack of knowledge that people perish” (Hosea 4:7). Do not let a lack of knowledge hold you back from caring for the only part of yourself that exists forever— your spirit. These bodies come and go—dust to dust. A spirit never dies. The knowledge of spiritual operations and realities is imperative to your health (body, soul and spirit), indicative of your destiny, and crucial for prosperity (body, soul and spirit). Spiritual health is possible. Spiritual health is not merely the practice of religion. Spiritual health is the knowledge of spiritual laws and realities, that you might implement these greater truths into your life for very real and positive impacts. The template upon which spiritual health is built, is the template of love. Understanding, knowing and wrapping your heart, mind and spirit in the truth about love is the next step in beginning to set yourself in alignment with it. I don’t know about you but I want to be spiritually healthy—no matter what it takes. My prayer for you is this: May God give you eyes to truly see, ears to truly hear, and a heart to truly understand the width, height, depth and reach of God’s love. May he place spiritual teachers in your path who authentically demonstrate to you and teach you what alignment with Him—who is love—looks like. You are created to thrive in your spiritual health. May the start of 2016 be an ever-flowing season of thankfulness in your life as a result of starting your journey of a healthy spirit in the pursuit of all things falling into the category of Him who is Love.

Existing within love is not merely about performing loving actions. Existing within love is about aligning one’s spirit with that which is love and that which promotes love.

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KIND by TERRI BILOTTA

KINDHEARTED IS DEFINED as having a kind or sympathetic nature, which should then bring about doing kind deeds. Have you ever seen the face of a person who has been made to do a kind deed or volunteer? This makes the saying “her heart’s not in it” ring true. I was at a business recently talking with a friend of mine who was sharing a tragic life story. She was in the middle of her story when a group of customers came in. She stopped talking to me and went to help the family of five. As they stood at the counter to tell her what they wanted, they were rude and impatient. They talked down to her and at one point the man raised his voice with impatience. I watched her for a reaction. There was not one. She simply smiled and conducted business as usual. After the family left, she turned to me and continued to tell her personal story. I was so amazed at her disregard at how she had just been treated that I had to interrupt and ask her, ‘How did that not bother you?’ She smiled at me and told me that she knew that at the end of each day she wanted God to say ‘Well done, my faithful servant.’ She told me that her life could not be a reaction to those around her but to what God had done for her on the cross. She then returned to her story about her family and asked for prayers. It was getting late so I had to go, but I left a blessed person. Her kindness to those people was genuine. She was a pure vessel pouring out and not taking in any negative to replace it with. While her personal life journey is far from perfect she knows where her strength comes from. I ask for unspoken prayers for this soft-spoken, kind woman who is one of the many people in our town who are showing kindness to strangers every day. I hope that as my days continue and opportunities come my way, I can be so kind and gracious in my heart and actions. Thank you for the blessings. God bless,Terri

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of WISDOM by JUDI CLIFFORD

THERE ARE SOME VERY INTERESTING “comments” in God’s Word about the vitalness of Generational Relationship. To start with in PS 78:4-7, we read about sharing the good news of the Lord with the children so that even children yet to be born will follow the teachings of the Lord. Then in Titus 2 we find directions for “older” women to teach your women. For me it all started with an “older” lady of 16 taking a six year old me under her wing. That relationship continued for 66 years until she died at 82. Relationships take lots of work and unconditional love....all relationships...even one with women who believe in the Lord. Until last July, we had a four generational relationship here on HHI with my Mother then 96, myself now 74, my daughter, Leslie now 47 and her daughter, Jacey now 15. Everything about our growing up times were different but we were family. So we tried to “relate.” Often that just wasn’t possible totally but we tried. Now Mother is gone and I am the “older woman” in our little group of three. When our daughter arrived in 1969, she was the fifth child and only girl. Four big brothers...now that is a learning tool for life for sure. Now wonder she is so wise. Our family moved to 10 cities, 13 houses and 3

countries in 32 years. More experiences to learn from. Then she faced four major surgeries just after graduating from college. Her husband has deployed to dangerous places several times. In the last two years our family has lived through seven deaths to family and friends very close to us including our two oldest sons. Experience=knowledge=wisdom. The Psalmist says, Teach the next generation; I feel like I am the one learning. Titus 2 says, Give directions; and I feel like I need them. I haven’t been the oldest woman in the family before. Here are some of the things I have learned from my daughter and hers in the last two years: Trust God, completely. Listen more, care more, and be available. Loyalty matters. Stand up for what you believe and speak the truth in love. Strength comes from trusting in the Lord’s Will for your life. As family it is our job to help each other remember that fact but it has to start with helping our family to trust in the Lord as their personal savior. Nothing else matters in the long run. I am so thankful for loving grandparents who showed me the way; parents who allowed my quest for the Lord to flourish but particularly for a daughter and grand daughter who live out daily in my presence what it truly means to be a Woman after God’s Own heart under difficult circumstances.

Judi Clifford is a Child of God; Wife of Ron; Mother to David, Curtis, Rogers, Doug and Leslie; Grandmother to Ben, Alex, Sam, Jesse, Josh, Michael, Troy, Ty, Jacey, Hanna and Kaytlin; Great Grandmother to Amelia and ??? to arrive in November. May 2016

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WARRIOR by CARLY BOWMAN-DYKES HI, MY NAME IS CARLY BOWMAN-DYKES. I grew up in Hardeeville, SC. I was raised by a single mother, and went to a small private school, that my grandfather “Papa” actually built. He was the pastor and my ROCK. When I was eight years old, he lost his battle to cancer. That had to be one of the hardest times of my life. As he would say, I was his “Preacher Girl”. I was definitely his shadow. So, dealing with the hurt and pain, my family and I stuck together and got through it, knowing he is always with us. Which by the way made my life a little easier. My junior year of high school, I met my husband. We were absolutely inseparable. We had ups and downs but even through that, we knew that we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together. So, fourteen months later we got married. After two months of being married, we got some of the best news. On Valentine’s Day and my birthday, we found out that we were PREGNANT! We were so excited and nervous. We both knew that we wanted a girl but it didn’t mat24

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ter as long as he or she was healthy. That being said, we decided to go to the closest ER to check on our little peanut. I have to tell you that’s a night I will never forget. They called us back and we got in the room to find out that they going to do an ultrasound. I heard music to my ears. Our little peanut’s heartbeat was as strong as it could be. We found out that I was 8 weeks give or take. So of course, I made the earliest appointment I could with my OBGYN. It was a few days later. We go to the appointment and filled out paperwork. My doctor sent me to go across the street to the hospital to get a full blown ultrasound. We got there and went to the room. The lady made my husband and mother leave the room, which we thought was uncalled for. Well, she starts the ultrasound and I see her make this weird face. I asked her what was wrong and she says there is no sac. There is no baby. I start to cry and she went to go get another technician. While she was doing that, my husband and mother came in. They asked what was wrong and I replied she says

there’s no baby. That was the most awful feeling. The lady comes back and they look again. They found our little peanut, he or she was hidden, because I was only 7 weeks. That had to be one of the most emotional rollercoasters. As weeks go by, we just couldn’t wait any longer, so my wonderful, amazing momma took my husband and I to go get a 3D ultrasound. Lord knows, I remember that day like it was yesterday. I remember laying on the table as nervous as I could be, and looking at my husband’s face as we were, then seeing my husband jump out of his seat when she told us we were having a GIRL. We were so freaking excited. I get my big bows and tutu. My pregnancy was definitely not easy — I was sick all nine months, but I wouldn’t change a thing. So at 39 weeks, I was induced and that was a Thursday night. Without a doubt I knew I wanted an epidural. Unfortunately, I have scoliosis, so it was not easy. It took 2

hours, 15 numbing shots, 6 catheters, and an ficult time because there is always a chance ultrasound machine to my spine before they something could go wrong when heading into finally got it. They gave me some pain medi- surgery. So handing Caylee over to the nurse cine, which of course I cannot take. It makes was so hard. I mean when she left, my heart me so sick. went with her. I honestly could NOT breathe. I On Saturday, September 27, 2014 at 1:12 so wanted to take her place. am, we had our beautiful baby girl. With her That day was one of the longest days of our being sunny side up, she hit my pelvic. She lives. In this journey, waiting is probably the was so bruised and didn’t want anyone to toughest thing to go through. With that being touch her head. At 7 lbs. 4 oz., our Caylee Jean said after the waiting, we got some of the best Dykes was the most beautiful baby we had news. Caylee did awesome. They were able to ever seen with her strawberry blonde hair and close the holes and reconstruct her valve into blue eyes. two. See, we were told that we were going to have With the valves, the surgeon was not able to a big baby because my husband I both were big get them 100%. There is still moderate leakbabies. So her size was a total shock to us. We ing in her mitral valve and stenosis (narrowlater found out about her size. When we took ing). So Caylee will need another surgery to her to her two-month check-up, we found out that Caylee may have an eye condition called congenital nystagmus. We were referred to Storm Eye Institute at MUSC in Charleston SC. When we got there and saw Dr. Edward Cheeseman, he confirmed that she has congenital nystagmus “dancing eyes” along with hypoplasia of fovea centralis and severe far-sightedness (+5.25). I’m sure you can tell by me listing her conditions that she needed glasses. PHOTOS BY ALLIE FLOYD So we ordered them right away. Two months later at Caylee’s 4 month check-up, her pediatrician either repair that valve or replace it. Caylee hears a heart murmur and diagnosis Caylee did amazing in recovery. Everyone loved them with severe acid reflux, which caused her to be some “Princess Caylee.” put on medicine for that immediately. So with Then unfortunately, when we went back for the heart murmur, she referred us to MUSC a follow-up appointment and there was inflamPediatric Cardiology just so be safe. mation fluid building up around her heart. So That day is forever in my head. It’s the day that of course led Caylee back into emergency we found out that Caylee has Atrioventicular surgery, for a pericardial window. By the time Septal Defect “AVSD” or complete AV canal de- it was all done, they removed 45cc of fluid off fect. The only way to fix it was open heart sur- her heart. Even during that recovery time she gery, but to be honest, I wasn’t that shocked. I rocked it. She is strong and such an inspirahad a gut feeling ever since we found out about tion. the murmur. The part of knowing that there Since her surgeries, she has been in a lot of was blood going into her lungs and she need- different therapies and she has improved so ed one of the most invasive surgeries tore me much — although Caylee has been very ill too. apart, especially since the time frame for sur- She has suffered several different viral infecgery was 2-3 months. tions that have caused her to have super high On April 20, 2015, Caylee went in for her fevers that led to seizures and hospital stays. first open heart surgery. It was definitely a difOn March 18th, Caylee had her 1st eye sur-

gery. Surgery went great, but her appearance afterwards was horrifying. She looked like something out of a horror movie. What was so relieving, was seeing her wake up with a smile on her face. An hour after surgery her doctor came in and could already see some improvement. Caylee will need another surgery on her eyes, but not anytime soon. I do have to say that I am so blessed and honored to be a mother to a beautiful, outgoing, loving warrior. Caylee is my life and my whole world, and I wouldn’t have it any other way. Caylee, you are my hero. You have such a beautiful soul. I am so happy God gave me you! You are so loved by many and seeing you smile just tells me, I am doing my job. Through our journey I have learned to put it all in God’s hands and He will take care of it all. I know without a doubt our beautiful girl wouldn’t be here if it wasn’t God’s will. We all make mistakes and go through trials in our lives. So we just have to call on the Lord and humble ourselves, then He will heal his land. “If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek his face, and learn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from Heaven, and I will heal their land.” — II Chronicles 7:14. This is the verse that not only has helped me get through this journey, but it was my Papa’s favorite verse. My Papa died January 12, 2004 (1-12-04) @ 7:14, I found out I was pregnant with Caylee on Valentine’s Day (14), and that I was 7 weeks pregnant. We had Caylee September 27, 2014 @ 1:12am. I found out about her eye condition at 2 months old and her heart condition at 4 months old, which was last February and CHD awareness week is 7th through the 14th. Do you see the connection with numbers? Let my story be a testament. If it is God’s will it will be done. I am NOT saying it’s going to be easy, but you will get through it. Just pray, and let God hear your voice. If our story has inspired you and helped you get through tough times, please go on our Facebook page to Caylee’s Journey/Testimony and leave a post or message me personally. I truly would love to hear your stories. May 2016

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From an early age my mom, Betty, encouraged me to help her in the kitchen. Starting in elementary school, she bought me cookbooks and encouraged me to have fun cooking for the family. When I was in high school, I added purple food coloring to a lemon meringue pie for fun! When my parents took a bite they smiled, stating it tasted good but couldn’t quite get over the color purple that didn’t match the lemon ﬂavor. This month’s recipes have been chosen with teenagers in mind. Why not give the gift of cooking for mom on Mother’s Day?

Chicken Alfredo Pizza Makes two 12-inch pizzas

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2 boneless chicken breasts 6 cloves of garlic 2 teaspoons dried Italian seasoning 4 teaspoons butter 1 red onion 2-4 cups shredded mozzarella cheese 1/2-1 cup Alfredo pasta sauce 2 pre-made baked pizza crusts (usually 2 in pkg) Preheat oven 450 degrees. Spread 1/2 Alfredo sauce over each pizza crust. Set aside. On a cutting board peel paper shell from garlic and dice. Next slice onions into thin rings. Then cut chicken into bite size pieces. In a medium skillet melt butter over medium low heat.

Lemon Cookie Bars 1 box lemon cake mix 1 3.4 oz. box instant lemon pudding ½ cup oil 1 egg Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Mix the above ingredients with a fork in a medium bowl until crumbly. Reserve 1 cup crumbs for topping. Pat remaining crumbs into an ungreased 15x9 pan. Bake for 15 minutes. 1 8oz. pkg. cream cheese 1/3 cup sugar 1 tablespoon lemon juice

Add garlic and chicken. Mix in Italian seasoning. Cook until chicken is no longer pink. Turn off stove top heat. Arrange ½ sliced onions on top of sauce on each pizza. Spread ½ chicken mixture followed by ½ cheese on each pizza. I like to lightly sprinkle a little more Italian seasoning on top of it. Bake at 450 degrees for 8-10 minutes. Cheese will be melted, golden and bubbly.

Take cream cheese out of refrigerator ahead of time to soften. Mix above ingredients together until smooth. Spread on top of baked crust. Sprinkle 1 cup crumbs on top. Bake 15 minutes at 350 degrees.

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LAST Mother’s Day by KERRY PERESTA

THE REALIZATION that I am now an orphan has settled into my bones. But this raw uncertainty, this gaping wound in my life two years later, still bleeds. My brother and I had hope that my mother would recover even though she’d been diagnosed with late-term dementia, even though she fought with every ounce of strength her withered, ninety-pound body could muster. She fought until her tired, damaged brain simply gave up. Mother’s Day, 2014, I flew cross-country to visit Mom in the assisted living facility. She’d been cognizant when I arrived, but scattered. Words eluded her. She wore a perpetually worried expression, and groaned or yelled every few minutes. A sunny day, I wanted to get her outside, so the caregiver and I whisked her wheelchair around a small courtyard. She’d grinned at the breeze in her face and yelled like a child, which I hoped meant she enjoyed the ride. I responded to every unintelligible utterance, and stifled tears as I hugged the tiny person that used to be my mom. I was not sure she knew who I was, but as I stroked her arm, her hand, her hair…I hoped. The final day of my visit, the caregivers had dressed her in bright colors and tied a perky scarf around her neck. I took her into the cafeteria and spoon-fed her. She whooped over each bite of dessert, glimpses of the feisty woman she used to be sparkling from her bright blue eyes. After our visit, I rolled her back into her room, where a caregiver waited to help her into her bed. I hugged her fiercely. She clutched at my arm from her wheelchair, anxious eyes pinned to mine. “I love you, Pan,” she blurted, attempting to say the name she had always called me: LeAnn. The caregiver stared at me in shock, and said, “She hasn’t said a clear word in weeks!” Four beautiful words. The last ones I would hear from her. Since my mother’s death, I am changed. Losing the one person that cared about every detail of my life has crumpled something inside me. Though she wasn’t perfect and a cranky bit of work the last ten years of her life my soul heaved up great sorrow when I lost her. Plus, to walk through the muddle of funeral arrangements, cleaning out and selling her house, tying up all the loose ends that had to be addressed at the end of her life was one of the most painful things I have ever done. The grieving process began in earnest after the funeral, and its crushing reality has softened me. Where I was hard, now I am spongy with either remorse or resilience, not sure. The quick anger that used to spurt out over hurts imagined is less likely to spurt and more likely to sputter, now. An urgency prods. Get on with it, that thing I am supposed to accomplish before it is too late. Organize the pictures, write the book, hold your grandchildren tight, be kind to your husband, dance in the rain. Get going. It is true that in death the seeds of new life are planted.

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INDIA

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SPINNING IN CIRCLES, ARMS OUTSTRETCHED OUTSTRETCHED, belting Chris Tomlin’s How Great is Our God not only illustrates India Collins’ personality, it’s also how you can often find her... after school, a popsicle in one hand, twirling. The seven year old finds delight in everything natural, even flowering weeds. Purple and yellow flowers, so abundant this time of year and vexing to lawn care professionals, fill vases in her family’s Bluffton home. She also makes sure the bird feeder remains full and the bluebird box is clean and ready should one need a place to nest. Her love also extends to the four legged. The family’s 13 year old rescue dog couldn’t satisfy her itch for a kitty. “A real live kitty,” she explains, “is what I really wanted. I was good, and Santa brought me one this year.” And Dandelion, a gray, white, and peach tabby, couldn’t have hoped for a better caretaker. Ever extending and growing, India’s love for animals reached stallion proportions when she recently began horseback lessons at Oldfield Club Equestrian Center. “India, one of my newest and youngest students,” says Equestrian Director Karah Daly, “impresses me with her passion not only for riding, but her enthusiasm for learning all aspects of her horse’s care. This is rare in a student her age.” Cross Schools, where India attends first grade, fosters her love of the Lord and nature. “She has a very sweet and sensitive spirit, and she exhibits a tender heart towards those who are hurting or excluded,” says Elisabeth Markle, India’s Catechesis

teacher. “She shows a real interest in learning about the Lord and His Word. She shares prayer requests and praises with the other students and has served as the prayer leader for the class. I’m very excited to continue to watch her grow in her faith, leadership, friendships and academics at Cross Schools.” India’s first grade teacher Jenny Williamson echoes Elisabeth’s sentiments. “She has a strong sense of what is right and wrong and helps others by showing that example. India is patient by nature. She works to learn a concept that may be difficult for her, reading and rereading till it sounds right, and patiently waits for others that she may be working with,” says Jenny. “She sees where there are needs to be met and gladly steps in to assist in any way. Listening closely and following directions is a strength for India that will help her continue to grow as a student and leader here at Cross. Her joyful little smile is a wonderful start to each day!” With summer break on the horizon, India has a lot to look forward to. “I’m most excited about horseback riding, playing golf, swimming and going to VBS,” she says. “And camping with my daddy. Maybe Dandelion can come.” The soon-to-be second grader will focus on academics, too. “I’m going to read a lot this summer,” she explains. Soon enough she’ll see her name in print. She and her little brother, Beau, are characters in Carole Marsh’s upcoming Hilton Head Lighthouse Mystery. How great is our God, indeed! May 2016

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RIGHT NOTES by LISA RICHARDSON South Coastal FCA THE MUSIC CITY may no longer be where she resides, but the music definitely lives in her. With an incredible voice and a passion for singing, drama and theater, Emily Workman is a talented young lady. Having moved from Nashville with her family to Hilton Head island 7 years ago, the now Junior at Hilton Head High School, can light up the stage. With lead roles in several school musical productions, crowned Miss Hilton Head Island High School in January 2015 and then placing second runner up in the Miss Hilton Head Island Teen Pageant in January 2016, she is centering in on her gifts and talent. Whether it’s Hollywood Lights, or Friday Night Lights, center stage, and even center field, it all seems to be her comfort zone. You can find her — let’s say “hear her” — performing the National Anthem on the 50 yard line at the start of the football game, or singing with the Praise and Worship Band at church, to swinging the bat on the Varsity softball team. Among all of this, Emily is sure she focuses on her school work and grades. Her goal is to get into a college to pursue a career in musical theater. However, beyond the Broadway dream, is another very important priority for her. It’s not the camera and lights of the entertainment stage, but to be a “shining light” for God through her faith in everyday life. “I believe my faith has kept me from so many bad choices and bad situations in life, and it’s also been a light to me in dark places. I watched faith lived out so clearly during my mother’s battle with breast cancer a few years ago. Her example led me to seek Him first in all situations, to give Him the glory in all successes, and to use the talents He gave me in a way that leads others to Him. I’m not shy about voicing those beliefs and truths regardless of the setting or the audience.

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“When it comes to God, today’s teens are lukewarm. They may say they are followers, but they are not fully committed. That has a lot to do with the fact that there are too many distractions and other activities that keep us from opportunities to be with other believers. We are often forced to make a choice between attending church and other extracurricular because of required schedules. Unfortunately, when we chose church over sports or another activity, there are penalties, such as possibly having to sit out a few innings of a game. It becomes difficult to make the right choice. “A lot of teens have so much thrown on them all at once today, and it can be too much pressure. We are expected to perform at extreme levels in so many things, and to fit into a specific mold, and when we can’t, it can bring us down. This pressure, coupled with a lack of Biblical influence and guidance, causes teens to seek other sources of relief, which ultimately leads them down a wrong path.” When you hear her hit those vocal notes, you’d never know that she just recently began taking formal voice lessons. This past February, Emily took another step to follow her dream by auditioning for the TV reality show, “The Voice “ in Philadelphia. “The experience was amazing. It was encouraging to see the support that the contestant hopefuls gave one another as they waited in the 8 hour long twisting line for their turn at a chance of fame.” Although she didn’t get a “Call Back” Emily says she learned a lot for next time. The verse 2Corinthians 5:7 is one that inspires her, “For we walk by faith, not by sight.”— that type of walk will get her further than any runway walk in any beauty pageant. So, as they say in theater, that’s a wrap. May 2016

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Q&A with Lydia Hill by JODI-ANN FISHER Q: What do you love about living in the Hilton Head area? A: As my mother always says, “home is where the beach is.” I’m a born and raised Southerner from Greenville, SC who has spent a fair share of my summers on the SC coast. So to permanently live AT the beach, has definitely been one of the best parts about living in the Lowcountry. Another one of my Hilton Head favorites is that it has such a wide variety of things to do! I’ve never found myself at loss for things to do on the weekends, much less on the week nights! Whether that be festivals, parades or parties – they all have a southern, small town feel that make the island feel so welcoming and homey. Q: What are some of the challenges you faced moving here? A: It’s been so easy, especially down here in the south, to meet so many new, friendly people! The challenging part, however, is cultivating those new acquaintances into friendships. It takes time and effort that can seem fake and intimidating at the time. After a while though, it gets less and less forced and now I don’t know what I would do without some of these new friends I’ve made since moving down here. Another challenge of mine is finding my way around. I’m sure anyone who has found themselves to be the “new kid on the block” can relate to that statement, but navigating through Bluffton/Hilton Head area is a whole new level. It took me a good month or so to simply find my way to the grocery store and back, no joke, and I’m pretty good with directions (or at least I thought so)! Since everything is tucked behind the oak trees, it makes for a fun game of “which tree do I turn at to go to ‘fill-in-the-blank” not to mention the endless amounts of U-turns made in route. Q: How do you balance making new friends, friends at home, and family? A: Ah balance is the key word here. It’s hard! Community is such an integral part of our lives, both here and far! Each time you move, you start from zero. You meet new people and build new friendships. But while building these new friendships, we have to remember to care for and keep in touch with our loved ones at home. And that’s the hard part. So one of the ways I try to maintain these relationships with friends and family back home is by using my time wisely. Every afternoon commute back home, I try to use the time in the car to call up an old colleague, college friend or even my good ole mother. This gives you the chance to keep them involved in your life. Tell them about how God has been working in your life and see how He’s working in theirs. Even if you don’t have much to catch 32

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up on, the fact that you thought about them can speak volumes. So yes, it takes effort and can be a struggle at maintaining the relationships, but I think we can all agree that it’s totally worth it in the end. Q: What are some ways that you ﬁght to spend time with the Lord with such a busy schedule? A: Man, I thought that after college, life would slow down a bit to where it would be easy and natural to fit my time with the Lord into my daily routine. Well boy was I wrong! My class time got replaced with work and my study time got replaced with, ha, who are we kidding, who had study time? Seriously though, life is a continuous whirlwind and sadly I allow my time with Jesus to get thrown out in the business of it all. It just simply comes down to priorities. Jesus is the most important relationship we have and should be the center of everything I do. If I lose sight of that, I lose my time with Him and replace him with worldly relationships. It something I’m still working on and will have to keep working on as life gets busier. Q: What are ways that you are inﬂuencing your work place? A: The “real world” can get so routine and mundane that I’ve noticed it’s easy for us to lose our sense of joy, especially at work. I see the same people for 8 hours a day, five days each week. I work on some of the same projects, day after day and sit in the same chair for hours at a time. So every day, before I set foot in the office, I pray that I can be a source of joy. A light in the darkness that directs back to Him. I make it a point to be kind when others are pointing fingers. To smile when others are frustrated. Because in the end, His mercies are new every day and to share that with others is joy to be found, every day!

TRAIN UP Your Children by MICA KIANETSKI Proverbs 22:6 Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it. AS A PARENT, THERE ARE MANY IMPORTANT THINGS to teach your child. There is one thing that I’m most thankful that my mom taught me. Mom took us to church faithfully. Sunday mornings and evenings and Wednesday nights were never negotiable. Wrestling with us to get ready for church when we didn’t want to go was a common occurrence at our home. Mom modeled a passion for Christ. She had a love for the Word of God and was often found lounging on the couch reading the Bible in her hand. She was a woman of prayer, closing her bedroom door or going out to her car to pray in secret. Mom taught our Sunday school class for most of my childhood and even young adult years. One of my most memorable moments was standing up in front of the church with my classmates as a youth and reciting the books of the Bible from Genesis to Revelation. We had spent months learning the books of the Bible and that was our moment to be rewarded for the hard work. Thanks to mom’s wonderful gift of teaching, I still know exactly where to look in the Bible to find a scripture.

Mom coached our Bible Quiz team and helped me to memorize scriptures. Hours every week were spent learning and reciting scripture to prepare for the quiz match. As a result of her diligence as a coach, our team won divisional and state quiz bowls to attend national championships. While most of my early years I did not enjoy this; my mom was patient with me and continued to teach me “the way to go.” I don’t know if she knew it at the time, but what she was teaching me was being planted in my heart. As I passed through my teens and early 20’s, there were times when I deviated from the Lord. But, the Word of God that my mom planted in me could not be taken away. Mom introduced me to Jesus, the One who has given me an eternal inheritance. 1 Peter 1:3-5 “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! According to his great mercy, he has caused us to be born again to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, to an inheritance that is imperishable, undefiled, and unfading, kept in heaven for you, who by God’s power are being guarded through faith for a salvation ready to be revealed in the last time.” Mom, I know it wasn’t an easy road to keep me “in the way we should go.” I put up a good fight to go in many other directions, but you won and I’m so glad you did! I believe that introducing me to my faith was the most important thing that you taught me because that investment will bring eternal results.

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Part III

by LORI UNDERWOOD MY STORY CONTINUES with almost 10 years of learning how to stay silent in moments when I wanted to scream as loudly as I could. There were periods of time, sometimes 1-2 years, that life would move along pretty steady without the boat rocking too much and I would let my guard down again, only to be reawakened shortly after with an all too familiar scenario. I’ve heard Joyce Meyer talk a lot about when she was a child and in an abusive home and how she never expected anything good to happen because then she wouldn’t have to be disappointed when it didn’t.

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Instead she would always be waiting for the next ball to drop. That’s where I landed. I would get up every day and wonder if today would be the day that my marriage would end. Every time I tried to be obedient to God by allowing him to teach me things like being quiet, I always wondered why He allowed another round of bad to happen. I finally learned to just start asking, “Ok, Lord, what do I need to learn this time?” God has such a sense of humor. Not only did I have to bite my tongue on a very regular basis, but now he wanted me to intentionally show random acts of kindness to my husband on a daily basis. I was a little confused by this task; not only because I didn’t FEEL like being kind to him, but because he didn’t even want to be in the same room with me most days. How was he ever going to accept anything I tried doing for him? Not knowing where to start, I sought out the book, “The Love Dare,” written by Alex Kendrick and Stephen Kendrick. I had seen the movie, “Fireproof,” which is what the book was derived from, and thought this might be a good place to start. It’s a 40-day challenge to do something kind for your spouse every day without expecting something in return. I accepted the challenge and began the 40-day journey. Boy was it hard! Each day seemed to get worse between us. Honestly, some days that act of kindness was to go and buy a certain candy bar that is his favorite but not sold in all stores and leave it in the fridge where he would see it. He would know that I would have had to be intentional in getting it. That was something I could do and not really have to get in his space. I took the challenge that God laid out in front of me and, once again, He was faithful. On the very last day of the challenge, things started turning around. Through the challenge, I learned what unconditional love really is. Through MY actions, my husband was learning it as well. Next month will be the final chapter of this particular season of my life. As I read back over everything I’ve written, I chuckle at what a small amount of time it takes to read about 20 plus years that felt like an eternity. To bring it to a close, I will fill in the gaps between each God challenge. Stay tuned!

Not Your

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THIS MOTHERS DAY I feel a little sad. I remember my mother a little differently than some. You see she wasnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t always a perfect mom. Growing up under her roof was very difficult. As a child I remember every Saturday when all the other children were out playing in the street I was made to wash the bed linens and scrub the floors. I had to get my chores done before I could go play. I remember when the ice cream truck came into our neighborhood I would run to it with all the other kids knowing that I had no money. I remember hoping that some day the ice-cream vendor would offer a free sample, but that never happened. My friends would run off together and I would return home. I felt very different as a child. My mother was single. I did not know my father. My grandparents did not have a good relationship with my mother so I never saw or heard from them. I stayed at home alone after school while she worked. When she came home it was always late and she was very tired. I remember sitting on the sofa and waiting up for her until early morning hours only to find that when she came home she would gently pick me up and put me in my bed. It was very important to my mother for me to make good grades in school and although I tried very hard I was not a good student. I remember dreading showing my mother my report card because I knew she was going to yell at me and be so disappointed in me... She was. I remember wondering if she loved me anyway... She did, but I was still grounded. As I began to grow up and my pants got too short. My mother took me shopping only to buy pants that were about two sizes too big so I could grow into them. I had one win-

ter coat in my closet. One pair of shoes and three pairs of socks that had been mended so many times that there was more thread than fabric where the heal was supposed to be. I have eaten more peanut butter and jelly sandwiches in my life than I care to count. By the time I hit high school age my mother was on disability and her body was deteriorating. I had become her caregiver. But I was a better student and had taken on an after school job. I worked late hours then came home to study. Many nights I would find my mother waiting up for me on the sofa. I did everything I could to provide for her. I was disappointed sometimes at the way her life turned out but I always loved her. Along the way she taught me about the love of Christ and His kindness. Although as a child I never saw Jesus in her, as an adult, now I do. She sacrificed so much for me. Never complained about it. As a child all I wanted was to have what others had and had been angry about it. As an adult I am glad that I didnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t have those things. What I did have was a less than perfect mother, a less than perfect life and I am who I am today because of it. I wish I could tell you, dear reader, that I am a rock star at life now, but that is not true. I am a mother trying to make ends meet with a beautiful baby boy on the way. We too will be alone in this world with the love of Christ to guide us on our path. Life might be tough but we will stay strong . We will look to Him always for our heavenly support. My church family will be our earthly support, and we will prevail. So on this Mothers Day I feel a little sad because my mother is now in heaven but always in my heart. Blessings, dear reader, and Happy Mothers Day. May 2016

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A Different Kind of

MOTHER

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EARLY ON IN LIFE I made the decision not to have children. I have always been uncomfortable around young children and babies. I never could do the baby talk thing either. I guess it is the element of the unknown or how to handle the unexpected things they often say and do. I often get asked why I don’t have children, and I have actually been asked, “Then why did you even get married?” I found that an odd and even disturbing question, as there are many reasons for marriage other than wanting to be a mother. While I highly respect all parents and mothers, I truly believe it was a good decision for me not to be a mother. It is just not my role in life, as the good Lord has given us each different and special missions in life and me having children was not meant to be. That being said, as I think about it further I am a mother of different sorts to my boys…my furry boys. Trapper, Ruff, and Norman look to me as their pack leader. The one they look up to, and we have a special relationship. If you read my previous month’s article, you’ve seen and learned a little about Trapper. He’s the therapy and wonder dog. He travels around helping children read and seniors feel loved. Norman is his cousin and definitely not therapy dog material, but I love him just the same. Ruff is the Leader Dog for the Blind transition, as he didn’t quite make the program. Just a little unfocused and too much energy, so we adopted him. A big cream puff, but strong as an ox. All about 100 lbs. each and full of love, and I am proud to be their mother! Now that I think about it, I guess I do the baby talk thing to my dogs. I talk to them a lot, and they seem to understand most of the time. The boys need me as much as I need them. I’ve taught them respect, discipline (most of the time Ruff follows the rules!), and how to be gentle and show love. They need me to feed, groom, and nurture them when not feeling well. I guess being the pack leader is actually a different form of being a mom. I recently read that while dogs are a part of our lives, we are their entire life. Wow, that is pretty serious stuff. No wonder they look at me with those big eyes and show me unconditional love. Maybe they have taught me a few things as well? While I do not have children of my own, I feel like I have many special children in my life. My nephews and niece come to mind, and I hope I have been a positive influence as their aunt. I believe in being a role model in life, especially to all these special young people. I remember teaching my niece to take a fish of her line, and her brother wasn’t too happy. I also remember telling her she can do anything she puts her mind to. Taking my nephews golfing over the years was fun too. Teaching them all about the rules and etiquette was important, so now they can handle themselves on 36

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the course. I remember as young boys they attended my graduation when receiving my master’s degree and hope I made an impression on the importance of education, discipline, and hard work. As young adults now, I am helping them learn the value of saving and investing money for their future. Something my mother taught me. I miss her. Now, as the owner of Aunt Laurie’s, I hope I am teaching them about focus, following your dreams, working hard, and helping people. Life isn’t easy, so having an aunt that is strong is import-

ant. I work hard at being a role model. It keeps me focused too. Since we now live in South Carolina, I get pictures and text messages so I can watch all of them grow and mature. I sometimes give guidance from afar and always send my love. I worry about them sometimes and pray for all of them regularly, just like a mom. When they visit, we golf and fish and talk about investing. We laugh and have fun and share our love. Most importantly, we all go to church together, as I believe in also teaching the importance of faith in their lives. I have an extended family of sorts as well. Since the mission of Aunt Laurie’s is to inspire others to acknowledge the human value in everyone and my passion is helping people with disabilities, all the special people that Aunt Laurie’s helps learn work and life skills are dear to me. My children in a different kind of way. Most I don’t really know very well, but care about them deeply. I have that same focus of being a role model and showing compassion to people with disabilities, and a strong desire to make an impact. Now having an even stronger understanding of what being a mother or parent of these special people means, I work hard at making new connections to help as many people as I possibly can though Aunt Laurie’s in this community and around the nation. While I may be a small part in their lives, I hope I am making a difference in the quality of life by giving them projects and work to learn skills. My goal is to help everyone feel more productive and valued as a human being. I am blessed to have the energy and drive to keep growing Aunt Laurie’s. I actually have another group of people in my life that consider me an aunt as well, and I suppose I mother them in a way too.

Over the years I have coached and mentored students and interns. Many of which still keep in contact with me by asking guidance, references, and basic feedback. I am always honored and proud when one of my mentees reaches out to me or sends me a status of what’s happening in their lives. One special young man still calls me his aunt and refers to himself as my son! What an awesome human being he is, as I have watched him mature and grow as he moves around the world for his work over the years. I remember hiring him as a young intern and now he is a successful and special person in my life. So, while I may not have children of my own, I guess I am an aunt and mother at times to many special people in my life. I can’t wait to see how my extended family grows and intend to keep hugging my furry boys!

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by LISA RICHARDSON South Coastal FCA WIFE, MOTHER OF THREE to Davis (20), Carol Ann (17) and John (14), volunteer, teacher, friend, singer, musician, athletic director, tri-athalon athlete and follower of Christ — the last being on the top of her list; we should call her Wonder Woman. Katherine Rosenblum is a servant, and serves all those roles well, and at the same time. Katherine is only 5 foot tall, a petite and physically fit woman, whom I would call strong and mighty in more ways than one. “These roles were modeled to me by the most exceptional woman I have known thus far in my life and have shaped me into the person I am today.” Carolyn Johnson Trosdal, aka Mimi, brought unconditional love and joy into Katherine’s family when her mother died of cancer at the age of 35 when she was 12 years old. “During her illness, she (mom) turned her life over to Christ in a way I had not seen and did not fully understand. Looking back now, I can see that her faith guided us all through that sad and lonely time.” Carolyn came into her life after her mother’s passing and modeled, more than spoke, the words of the gospel. “Through her unwavering commitment to family, she shared her passion for the outdoors, her love of reading, her strength of faith, her total joy in living and her consistent encouragement of all their pursuits. She showed me the value of an unbreakable, Christ centered marriage and guided me to be a parent who strives to patiently guide her children with firm boundaries and unconditional acceptance. And at the end of her life, she shared the final and perhaps most important lesson: ‘Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him and He will make your paths straight.’ ” Katherine’s heritage is also tied to the history of our Bluffton area in which she and her family resides. “In the 1940’s, my grandfather purchased a piece of land on the May River that, at the time, was considered less than desirable and miles 38

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from civilization. The waters between the Oyster Factory in downtown Bluffton and the little sandbar were the playground where my brother and I learned to swim, water ski, fish, sail and drive a whaler. Very few people who did not live near us ventured up the river to our little haven and we could go an entire Saturday without seeing a single boat we did not know. “From the time that I was a teenager in Bluffton, we had attending services at The Church of the Cross on Calhoun Street. After getting married, moving away and later coming back, the church became the center of our lives. What a joy it was to be in this beautiful place with our young family!” As a singer, “so many of the bible verses I can recite from memory come from hymns and worship songs. This promise that, not only is God faithful in all things, but that each day I awake, the grace and mercy of Jesus have wiped clean my slate and I am free to begin the quest of living for Christ again, has carried me through many a day. One of my favorite contemporary Christian songs, “He’s Always Been Faithful” by Sara Groves, is written with the Lamentations verse as the core of it’s message.” “Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.” Lamentations 3:22-23 “So when I glance over my shoulder at where I have been, it is not my mistakes or regrets that I see, instead it is the hand of God reaching in to touch every aspect of my life. As I look ahead, I am excited for whatever comes next because I know that God has a plan for me. And there is so much freedom in that knowledge!” And if all this wasn’t enough to make you feel like she really is a Wonder Woman, she even wakes up at 4:15 a.m. to start her day to run, swim and train for marathons. I bet she’d even look fashionable in a gold Wonder Woman belt.

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IN THE YEAR 2017, if children are not up to the appropriate reading level by third grade they will suffer some serious consequences. What are the consequences? These students will be left behind according to the state law — Read to Succeed. At that age, being left behind is devastating for a young child. What percentage of Beaufort County students would this impact if it were in place now? In Beaufort County, 65% of children were on grade level during the 2014-2015 school year, and 30% at Hardeeville elementary and 52% at Ridgeland elementary. (Only 33% of America’s 4th graders read proficiently.) This would be a devastating blow to our community. That is why United Way has put into action a plan to help our children get on track now. What are the details of the program? United Way of the Lowcountry has partnered with Beaufort and Jasper County school districts to assist students develop and improve their literacy skills. We are currently in eight elementary schools in grades k-3, placing tutors one-on-one with struggling students. Each student is seen three times per week for 30 minutes each time. In some instances with the same tutor and other times with three different tutors. Tutoring sessions are individualized and based on the student’s needs. Program data is assessed and measured. What are the needs of the program? Volunteers What criteria does a volunteer have to meet? We invite community members to volunteer :) We need people who are willing to volunteer for an hour a week in a school during the school year. Volunteers need to know how to read and love children. No classroom experience is required. They must also pass a background check. How does someone go about volunteering? They can call me (Bethany Marcinkowski) at my office at 843837-2000 or sign up on our website, www.uwlowcountry.org. 40

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Once they have volunteered what happens? Registering with the school districts so that a background check can be conducted is the first step. Then the volunteer would identify a school and a schedule that would work for them. Before working with the students, all volunteer tutors are trained. Tell about the rewards for the volunteer, the child, the community. Having an adult read with a child 3 times per week builds confidence in students. That one on one attention is invaluable for both the volunteers as well as the child. It is very rewarding to see your students move up in reading levels. Improving student reading skills can lead to increased school achievement. The strength of our future workforce and our community depends on students becoming successful today What is the importance of a child learning to read and be on task at an early age. Most people don’t realize that elementary school reading is a critical predictor for high school success. Kids are learning to read until 4th grade, after that, they are reading to learn. Students who don’t read on grade level by then typically don’t catch up. In later grades, coursework gets harder, reading becomes more challenging, and those with reading troubles have difficulty coping. This can lead to bad behavior and bad grades and eventually dropping out. How do parents reach out for help for their child? The students are identified by the school literacy coach and teachers. This is not a program that parents can call us to have their child tutored. Call us today to be a part of making a change in a young person’s life today. Education is a shared responsibility and one to two hours each week during the school year is time well spent helping a child read and changing their life forever. We are committed to continuing the success we have seen in the program’s formative years, and with more community support, we can affect the lives of thousands here in the Lowcountry. We are also currently recruiting volunteers for the summer program during the month of June.

New DOC in Town Lady Lowcountry would like to introduce Doctor Courtney Davis! She is our new Pediatric dentist right here in Bluffton, but she’s not exactly new. She’s been coming to our area with her family since she was a little girl. Dr. Courtney grew up in a small town in West Virginia where he father was the only general dentist in their town. It wasn’t until her ﬁrst mission trip to Guatemala that she really started to see her passion for the dental career. She continued her passion onto a pediatric residency where she completed two additional years after dental school. After completing her pediatric residency Dr. Courtney moved to Bluffton to start her practice and to be close to her brother who is a dentist in Bluffton. LLC: When did you ﬁrst know that you wanted to live here full time? Visiting my brother, who is a local dentist, and sister-in-law when I was in dental school. I really enjoyed the community feel that Bluffton had to offer which reminded me of where I grew up. Bluffton was very inviting and the people here were so welcoming it just felt like this was the place I wanted to eventually raise my family. LLC: What are some things that you enjoy the most about the Lowcountry? Being able to get out and have a better quality of life is one of the things I have enjoyed the most. I have enjoyed getting to meet new people and spending time with family. Having my brother and sister-in-law so close after being apart for many years has been probably been my most enjoyable part of my move to the Lowcountry. Learning something new about the Lowcountry on a weekly basis and getting out and exploring has been a very fun for me! LLC: Do you have any hobbies? I enjoy being outdoors, riding my bicycle and going to for walks. I am going to start taking golf lessons so I can beat my family on the course!

feeling as though I have worked a single minute. I enjoy working with each child and helping them to feel comfortable. My goal as a pediatric dentist is to help children have a happy experience when they come to see me. LLC: Do you set a plan in place for each child to establish good dental health? Good dental health is obviously very important to me and I try to pass that along to my patients and parents. I am very big on educating the kids though out their visits in a fun way, but I also want them to know what can happen if they don’t have good oral health. I also educate parents when they are back in the rooms while we are working. I feel that parents need to have a strong dental education from their dentist so that they can make the best decisions for their children, but also themselves. I want parents to know that our answering machine has an after hours number where I can be reached if a dental emergency were to happen after the office is closed. LLC where are you located and what are your hours of operations? In the Promenade in Old Town Bluffton. We are right above Darling Eye Center. Monday through Friday, 8:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. We also offer an after hours emergency line.

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LLC: Why did you choose to become a pediatric dentist? Growing up watching my dad work on children was the first exposure I had to dentistry and children in the dental setting. I watched him to take a scared child and turn the dental visit into a fun visit. He would make the child feel comfortable while they were in the dental chair and that child would leave smiling with a prize in their hand. Then I fast forward to where I was the dental provider taking care of that scare child and I just had a gut feeling this was where I was supposed to be. I felt my calling was to make sure children did not see the dentist as a “scary” place anymore and actually looked forward to the visit. Being able to treat children and watch them walk out of the door with a smile on their face is the most rewarding thing in the world to me. LLC: What are some things you enjoy the most about pediatric dentistry? Children have such a loving and carefree demeanor that I feel is so infectious. They just want to be happy and be surrounded by people who want to be around them. I love being able to joke around all day and act like a big kid with my patients, but also teaching them in a relaxed environment. The best part is walking out of the door everyday not

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The WRITE Woman YOU COULD SAY CAROLE MARSH has been leading the way for women longer than most Millennials have been alive. She’s been a trailblazer for working mothers, female artists and women in leadership roles for decades. She established an immensely successful publishing company and has produced copious amounts of quality, popular children’s literature since the 1970’s. Writing from her head and heart has served the author well. The success of her first mystery book in 1979 increased demand for her to speak, appear on television, and do school visits, in addition to demand for more books. This demand inspired her to create a publishing company, Gallopade International. Her company grew into a robust publishing house committed to developing cutting edge curriculum, educational materials and fiction for all ages. Carole exudes Lowcountry charm complemented with worldly, well-traveled sophistication. After indulging her wanderlust with globe-trotting excursions, she and her

husband Bob decided it was time to settle down and call Bluffton home. She found her elegant yet relaxed coastal cottage, which you’ll find featured on prominent home decorating website, Houzz.com, was the perfect setting to do what she does best, write. “I learned early that I could be a writer or a celebrity, and I chose writing,” says Carole. “When I teach writing classes, that’s what I preach: you are only an author if you sit down and write — there is no shortcut. And you’re only successful if you care.” Her love of Lowcountry life inspired her to create an entirely new collection titles under the publishing umbrella of her established company. She paid homage to her new hometown by naming the new division after it. Bluffton Books uniquely embraces the themes of charm, joy, humor, loveliness, discovery and blessings and features one-ofa-kind titles perfect for gifts. The Georgia Author of the Year was drawn to this area for creative inspiration, even before she made the big move. Many of her

beloved children’s books are set in Southern Coastal areas. Some of her favorites are Fort Sumter Mystery, Alligator Alley, Mystery at Dolphin Cove and the forthcoming Hilton Head Lighthouse Mystery. These stories capture the essence of Lowcountry, featuring geographic characteristics, historical information and the cultural aesthetic she adores. Her tales of adventure and thrilling mystery draw on intriguing local folklore, making them an enjoyable read for both parent and child. These are sure to be a hit on kids’ summer reading lists. You’ll find them lining the shelves at the Storybook Shoppe in Bluffton, at BlufftonBooksandmore.com, as well as other online retailers. This summer you and your family might see Carole around Savannah, one of her favorite cities in the area. At home in Palmetto Bluff, the author and her husband keep a low profile. “But I know where she lives!” said one local boy. “I see her ride her bike and I hope she will put me in one of her mysteries. I think she will!”

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This Year, Give Mom the Gift of Time

t’s May, and in schools all over the country children are putting into words and pictures, sometimes with the aid of glitter, poster paint, colored macaroni and the like, just how much their mothers mean to them. On the second Sunday in May, many mothers will be treated to breakfast in bed, dinner at a local restaurant, flowers, candy, toiletries, and all manner of handmade gifts and cards. Moms are clearly appreciated, but do children really understand how much their mothers do for them? In 1920, less than a quarter of American women age 16 and over were gainfully employed. For most women during that period, “home housekeeper” was a fulltime job. Today, on the other hand, over three-quarters of mothers of school-aged children are gainfully employed in addition to raising their kids and maintaining a home for them. Modern moms seem to “do it all!”

Some mothers work for children and maintaining personal reasons: they don’t a home is “work” as well. want to give up their careers Time is money, and if Mom once they’ve started a family, wasn’t doing all that she or they want health benefits. does, somebody else would But the vast majority—nearhave to be paid to do it for ly three-quarters of full-time her! working moms—report doThis year, how about trying so to provide a better ing a little game to help future for their children. your kids put a dollar value Most children understand on Mom’s contributions to the concept of work: getting their care and feeding? by NATASHA paid in exchange for perHave kids list the things DONALDSON forming certain services for that Mom does for the famian employer. They may know ly. Some suggestions: that Mom is a registered nurse, a florist, a • making meals teacher, or a clerk in a grocery store. They • doing laundry may understand that she has education, • driving training, skills and experience which enable • helping with homework her to take on these responsibilities. What’s • reading stories harder for kids to understand is that raising • shopping for food and other necessities. PHOTO BY ALLIE FLOYD

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Now estimate the amount of time spent on these activities. Use the same time period (for example, one week) to calculate each activity. So if Mom spends an average of two hours per day making meals, that’s 14 hours per week. If she spends an hour each school night helping with homework, that’s five hours per week. Add everything up to get a total number of hours. Discuss what mom’s “salary” should be. There are several ways you could figure this: • Use mom’s current hourly wage if she’s employed outside the home. • Use the current federal minimum wage of $7.25. • Use your state’s minimum wage, which might be different from the Federal rate. • Use whatever rate the kids feel is appropriate. Now multiply the hourly rate by the total number of hours to calculate what Mom’s time is worth to the family. Explain to children

sibling to an after-school activity. Or perhaps they’d like to offer an added service, such as giving Mom a backrub or reading her a story for a change. Kids may whine about chores, but really they enjoy being able to contribute something of value to others. They’ll learn a valuable lesson about money, and also a lesson about family togetherness, which no amount of money can buy. that time is money. Each hour is a unit that may be used to earn money, to perform a job around the house, to volunteer, to engage in a leisure activity, or to sleep. If there aren’t enough hours in the day to do everything, something will have to be given up, or somebody else will have to be paid to do it instead. Perhaps the children would like to give Mom the gift of time this Mother’s Day. They might make I.O.U.s for services around the house that Mom usually performs. Depending on their ages, they might help with meal preparation, run errands, or drive a younger

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by CAROL CLEMENS HAVE YOU EVER SEEN a polka-dotted bird? Surprisingly, we do have birds here in the Lowcounty that can look a bit polka-dotted! One such bird is the Little Blue Heron. Found here yearround along the marsh and fresh water lagoons, this common bird is blue-gray as an adult with a long, pointed, blueish bill with a dark tip. The bill is perfect for catching the fish and small amphibians that it eats. The legs and feet are normally a dark blue-green. However, as a young bird, the Little Blue Heron isn’t even blue. It starts off solid white and has dull greenish legs and a gray-green bill. Over the course of time, the Little Blue Heron slowly turns blue. At first it just gets what appear to be blue polka dots on its white feathers. Soon, it becomes a mostly blue bird with white polka dots. Finally, during its second year, the heron turns all blue-gray. During the spring breeding season, the adult Little Blue Heron changes to an iridescent blue with bright blue lores, the area around the eyes. You can find Little Blue Heron nesting in trees at such places as Ibis Pond in Pinckney Island National Wildlife Refuge. Another bird that goes through similar stages is the White

Ibis. This bird is easy to spot in the Lowcountry along the edges of marshes, mudflats, and even in grassy areas like lawns and golf courses especially after a rain. Normally they are found in large flocks. If you live near a marsh, watch for them to fly in as a group. The White Ibis has a very distinctive “turned down” long, red-orange bill. The long, curved down bill is not suitable for fishing, but is perfect for probing in the mud and grass for small crabs, insects, worms, and snails. As a young bird, the White Ibis is brown with white polka-dots. As it matures over the course of two to three years, it slowly changes to mostly white, with brown polka dots, and finally to all white. During the breeding season, the adult White Ibis’s bill turns a brilliant red, the lores become bright red, and the legs turn scarlet. At night, these birds often gather in large groups in trees. Known as a roosting area, this is where the birds will spend the night. White Ibis can also be seen nesting in Pinckney Island National Wildlife Refuge starting mid-summer. Keep your eyes open for our local “polka-dotted” feathered friends.

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YOU’RE NEARER TO GOD IN A GARDEN SPRING IS OFFICIALLY HERE, and summer is just around the corner. Here in the Lowcountry, we’re fortunate to have flowers blooming every season of the year. Still, whose heart doesn’t beat just a bit faster at the first appearance of Trilliums and Bloodroot? Azaleas seem to be on every corner, and the branches of shrubs and trees begin to swell in preparation for the emergence of leaves and flowers. Winter seems to be a time for introspection and contemplation, but spring and summer are times of joy and exuberance. And the best place to be is in a garden. A stroll through a garden delights all of our senses. The chirp of birds, the whir of wings and even the croak of frogs are the music that accompanies us on our stroll. Do you remember tasting the nectar from the tube of a honeysuckle flower? All the colors of the rainbow are visible in the trees, shrubs and flowers. The soft, furry leaves of Princess Flowers make us want to pet them. The air is heavy with the fragrance of gardenias, orange blossoms, roses and the many others that make up the symphony of fragrances we find in the garden. To most people, gardens mean flowers. Our human sensibilities crave them. You’ll find a flower pot on even the tiniest apartment

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balcony, or on a windowsill, too, if that’s all there is. Supermarket flower kiosks have grown from a place to find a bunch of carnations, to whole departments of flowers of every description. It’s easier than ever to “say it with flowers’. And what is a more precious gift to a mother than a few wildflowers picked by her toddler? Home gardens, as we know them now, were unknown before the 1700’s. Gardens were not for pleasure and beauty; gardens were to grow food. Seeds for flowers were unavailable in commerce; flowers and their seeds were “pass-alongs”. A practice still shared by gardeners today. Our founding fathers, Washington, Jefferson, Adams and Benjamin Franklin, were responsible for bringing many of the plants we enjoy today into cultivation. They collected plants and seeds from Europe and all over America to populate their extensive gardens. They were, in fact, America’s first “trial gardens”. In Victorian times, flowers even had their own language. Many courtships were based on the language of flowers. Today, a gift of flowers says many things. They can say “I love you”, “Congratulations” “Get Well”. “Don’t Be Sad”, “Happy Anniversary” Thank You” and much, much more. But they always say “I care”.

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