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Stepping Into Step-Families
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MOST OF US THESE DAYS ARE NOT STRANGERS TO STEP-FAMILIES and the multitude of challenges that inevitably accompany this new, modern-day version of “normal.” However, anyone who has ever taken that step into step-families—whether child or parent—can relate to the fact that it is a mountain to climb. Add grandparents and other extended family members into the mix, and it can quickly become Mount Everest! If you are facing this new and exciting (and challenging!) family construct, here are some points to consider:
Don’t override or criticize. While you do want to create a positive, loving relationship with your step-child, don’t try to compete with their biological parents. e kids may be feeling guilt in terms of the divorce itself as well as some level of guilt for developing a loving relationship with a step-parent. Let them know you support them and respect the relationship they have with their parents.
Establish healthy boundaries.
Parents, not step-parents, should do the dirty work. Most experts Even though the agree that it is dangerous territory for biological parent should the step-parent to dole out the punishment. It deliver the punishment, is important to agree on household rules and step-parents and step- discipline, but step-parents should take a back children should still seat when it comes to being the disciplinarian. maintain a proper parent/ child relationship. It’s ok to be their friend, but you Create a special relationship with your stepchildren. are still a parent and a role It can be a delicate and di cult balance to strike, but it is important to be an ally and model and should be seen supporter for your step-kids. Although you have to establish those healthy boundaries (as mentioned above), you still want to have their trust and to let them know you’re on their side.in that capacity. COLOR: Right click swatch, and find and replace with correct color w
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