LESBIAN LOVING

SEX IS MUCH MORE THAN just P-in-V action, and for the women loving women community, it’s an even broader spectrum.

Unfortunately, heteronormative sex ed leaves out a huge community of people who may want to be more informed, or simply want new ways to have mind-bendingly good sex.

Joining in on the conversation are the experts at Bedbible. They’ve put together a hot list of sex positions and body-loving tips that are perfect for WLW who are ready to up their game in the bedroom.

Bedbible’s expert Isabelle Uren, said: “Missionary is a timeless classic for a reason.”

“The receiving partner can relax and focus on the sensations, and is great for manual clitoral stimulation, oral sex, or pentrative sex with fingers or a dildo, depending on what both partners feel comfortable with.”

Spooning is also suggested if you don’t feel like being on show. This intimate position is fantastic for breast and clitoral stimulation either manually or with a vibrator or for penetration with a strap-on.

The expert added: “Instead of one partner being on top, both partners lie on their sides, facing opposite directions with their legs open, so they can perform oral sex on each other, using their lips and tongue to stimulate the whole vulva.”

But what about those who are all about the clit? partner’s knees on either side of their partner’s face while their partner performs oral sex and uses their hands to caress their partner’s thighs and butt.

“‘Kneeling spoons’ is also perfect for clit focused fun. Both partners are kneeling, and the receiving partner has their back to the giving partner, similar to the spooning position. The giving partner can then reach around to stimulate their partner’s clitoris with their fingers or a vibrator. The receiving partner can also rock back and forth, grinding their clitoris against their partner’s hand.”

Some extra tips to help you feel more comfortable in your body:

• Throw on some sexy lingerie to help you feel confident. You don’t have to take it off when you have sex if you don’t want to. Sometimes keeping it on can be even sexier than taking it off. • Spending time naked when you are alone can also help you feel more comfortable when you are with a partner. Perhaps a naked dance to your favourite feel-good song! • Choose whose words you surround yourself with both in real life and online. Unfollowing social media accounts that perpetuated fatphobia and following accounts that inspire body positivity or body neutrality.

Isabelle said: “To create fulfilling sexual experiences, regardless of gender or orientation, and enjoy the whole wonderful range of sexual experiences, we must be able to communicate clearly and openly with our sexual partners and create a safe environment based on mutual respect.”