10 Unusual Ideas To Celebrate Love This Valentine

What’s the first thing that comes to mind when you hear Valentine’s Day? A valentine.

Cute gifts, roses, chocolates, and over-the-top fancy dates are the first few thoughts that pop into your mind when February approaches.

Some people love this, while some love to hate this. But what’s the purpose of life, if not love? And what better day to celebrate love, if not Valentine’s?

Valentine’s Day is all about expressions of love and gratitude for your loved ones, with romantic love being the most celebratory kind. It’s celebrated internationally - with small gestures like a hug, kiss, or expensive vacations and dates. It’s not hard to sense the love in the air in February.

But apart from celebrating the heart-shaped festival, have you ever wondered why Valentine’s Day is celebrated? What is the history behind it? While it’s tempting to believe that it’s a modern holiday meant for expressing and celebrating love, there’s a fascinating mystery that surrounds it.

Let’s find out...

HOW 14TH FEBRUARY BECAME VALENTINE’S DAY

While we associate Valentine’s Day with romance extravaganza and kisses like Spider-man, the origin is not half as romantic.

Investigations suggest that the origin of Valentine’s Day is closely linked to the Roman festival Lupercalia, celebrated in mid-February.

Historically, Roman soldiers were forbidden to marry in their lifetime to help them become better soldiers. Saint Valentine wasn’t a big fan of this arrangement.

To get his way through this, he officiated weddings for these soldiers in secret Christian ceremonies. He firmly believed in the importance of love and now Rome came to know that. He was eventually found, imprisoned, and finally executed on February 14 in 270 AD, for his lovefilled crimes.

It’s believed that he also showed genuine concern for his fellow prisoners, and his final message was a note signed “from your Valentine”. Doesn’t that sound familiar?

Gradually, Saint Valentine gained so much popularity worldwide, that 14th February came to be recognized as Valentine’s Day. But it wasn’t until the 14th century that Valentine’s Day was celebrated the way it is today.

Valentine’s Day is all about all-things-love. From small lovely surprises to fancy candlelight dinners to lifelong commitments, the very thought of Valentine’s Day tingles your stomach. It has a charm in itself.

Celebrating how far you’ve come in your relationship is so satisfying and divine. 

Valentine’s Day is here!

But as the day approaches, one question is stuck in your mind: “what should I do for Valentine’s this year?” You’ve done it the traditional way far too many times. And fancy dinners, flowers, or soft toys, don’t excite you anymore. If you want a mix of unpredictability, in this season of love and nothing seems to come to your mind, giving you a headache, this article will sort it out for you. Here are some unconventional, fresh, and fun Valentine’s Day ideas for you and your beau: 

1

SET UP YOUR OWN WAFFLE STATION

Are you a sucker for waffles? In that case, a waffle station is all you need to have a tummyfilled Valentine’s Day. Set up your own DIY waffle station and make the waffle you’ve always longed to eat. A waffle maker, some grocery supplies, and your lovely partner is everything you need to make your Valentine’s sweet!

3

ATTEND A DANCE SESSION

Do you have fun while dancing? Or do you have two left feet when it comes to dance? A dance session with your partner might be the best fit for you. Dancing (or trying to) cheek-to-cheek may sound like the perfect romantic evening you’ve been thinking about! Who knows you may take over the dance floor at the next wedding.

2

SCRAPBOOK YOUR RELATIONSHIP

Who doesn’t love a walk down the memory lane? Gather your favourite pictures, memories, and souvenirs and compile them all into your love scrapbook. Decorate it and flip through its pages while having dinner. Live through the good times again while having a great time!

4

A PUZZLE DATE

Puzzles are fun but how are they relevant in a relationship? Well, both of them require teamwork, and composure. Don’t hesitate to get yourselves a 1000-piece puzzle this Valentine’s. Scented candles and good food while solving puzzles together is sure to make for an eventful day.

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MAKE YOUR OWN RECIPE

You just need a kitchen for this. Harness your inner MasterChef in your own kitchen with your partner. Even if you can’t cook, trying to do so can bring out heaps of laughter. Whether the food is restaurant-worthy or goes straight to the dustbin, you stirred up the romance either way.

5

EAT A CHILLI FOR YOUR PARTNER

This is for the ones who want a little spice. Make a list of fun and romantic dares you want your partner to perform. For every refusal to perform a dare, you eat one chilli… and the same goes for your partner.

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AN ADVENTURE GETAWAY

Does an adrenaline rush make you feel alive? If yes, an adventure park might give you the feels this season. Roller-coasters are definitely capable of churning up the heat between you and your honey. Romance, coupled with thrill and excitement, sounds like the perfect date!

8

PAINT A WALL

Buy some paint cans and brushes to paint your hearts out on the wall. If it comes out okay, you have a decorated and memorable wall in your room… and if not, you’ve just got to get a wall repainted. But, believe me, nothing comes close to the fun you’ll have while you go all artistic on the walls!

9

A DATE UNDER THE STARS

Stargazing is pretty romantic. You need no other place except your own backyard. Or you may drive off to a quiet, isolated place. Just spread out a mat and sit under the stars appreciating their beauty. It only gets cosier as the night proceeds!

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PUT OUT THE LIGHTS

Pretend there’s been a power cut, and spend your evening without the techy devices that have taken over life today. Yes, that would also include your phones!

OVER TO YOU…

You can also make your version of a fancy Valentine’s date. It may be a movie on Netflix or a romantic getaway to the next town! It all depends on how you and your special someone choose to celebrate it. No matter how you choose to celebrate it, making it memorable is all that matters.

It doesn’t have to be the most extravagant, expensive, and overthe-top dates, it’s simply about spending quality time together and letting your partner know they are loved. Remember, it was never about grand gestures and extraordinary gifts but only about genuine feelings and love. So, make your pick and have a romance-filled love season with the love of your life. Breathe in the love that’s out in the air - and let love rule. 