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that we run a magazine, he instantly blurted out “magazines are dead”. This wasn’t my first rodeo with this statement. Choosing to run a media company in this dot-com era of rapid change has reinforced a certain view. There is a rise of the “rebel” - those who don’t play by the rules, who flourish in chaotic, unpredictable times and welcome uncertainty without fear. This new look DECEMBER issue of LEARTIFY MAGAZINE is dedicated to the creatives, nonconformists and rebels. We’ve created a bolder, more encompassing issue to celebrate and give these important African voices a place to speak up about who they are, thier journey and what they stand for. I am incredibly proud of what the LEARTIFY team has created and curated on the pages that follow. Our sit down with well renowned brand influencer Mr Igee Okafor teaches commitment to a vision. Published author and writer Jennifer Mairo shares her experiences creating ‘The Real Naija Ladies of Dallas’. A from the heart message gives an alternative to mastering the perfect lipstick stroke and a shockingly graphic story about abuse promises to remind readers of some of the dark realities we face as females. This issue ushers us into a new phase of intimacy with you our audience. Our team works hard to create and curate content that foster intimate social and economic relationships within our community. As a small media company based out of Winnipeg, Manitoba Canada, we need your support. Our most important financial relationship is with the reader. If you enjoyed this version of the issue, please help us stay in business by purchasing the full version for $3.50 USD. We publish 4 issues a year. Now that that is out of the way, it’s over to you. What do you think of our new look, both in print and online? What do you like and what is missing? Let us know on the @LEARTIFY Twitter and we will deliver in our forthcoming issues. Happy Holidays!
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CREATIVE WORDS
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10 LAWS OF CLASS By Layi Ajayi
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Crucial Moments
BY MFON AFANGIDEH (STUDENT AND GYM ENTHUSIAST) MINNESOTA , USA Keeping a healthy lifestyle throughout your
calories consumptions. Avoid the chipotle &
you are like me, you’ll get hungry about 10
day.
food trucks lines by packing your own meals
times during your day, so again to prevent
Everyone that has started their fitness jour-
for your day. Meal prep ideas: Chicken, side of
spending and unnecessary calories, pack up
ney has at some point or the other derailed,
veggies, baked sweet potatoes, A salad (you
your snacks before leaving your home. Snack
this might not always mean that you are not
can never go wrong with a good salad), A
ideas: A handful of nuts, carrots & cherries,
as determined enough as the next person, it
veggie bowl (asparagus, sweet potatoes, kale,
sweet bell peppers, whole wheat crackers or
may just be that your everyday life practices
mushrooms, chicken or fish, salad dressing of
healthy chips... Etc.
are preventing you from reaching your goals
choice) … etc.
faster.
5. Getting a good workout in: whether you
Here are 5 tips to keep you motivated throug-
3. Stay active throughout your day: Being ac-
hout your day no matter how tough it gets.
tive (by using your standing desk for an hour
find your preferable workout time and swe-
or two, taking a walk during your lunch, using
at it out for an hour for about an hour for 3-5
1. Eat Breakfast: The saying «Breakfast is the
the stairs instead of the elevator) can reduce
days. Being fit has way too many benefits, but
most important meal of the day» is not to be
laziness to work out after your day is over by
most importantly you feel good both inside
taken lightly as it truly sets the tone for your
a whole lot. Remember this is a lifestyle not
and out when you see your goals for your
day. Most of us skip breakfast and end up gor-
a chore, you want to immerse yourself com-
body coming through.
ging on some breakroom doughnuts (raise
pletely into living healthy and fit by not only
Bonus: Drink water! drink water! drink water!:
your hands slowly if this is you). Easy break-
going to the gym 3-5 times a day for 1 or 2
8 ounces a day. If you did not know this al-
fasts ideas: smoothie, oatmeal, omelet, bran
hours.
ready then well... I don’t know what to say to
cereal, yogurt and fruit, a peanut butter and banana sandwich...etc.
are a morning, afternoon or evening person,
you. 4. Healthy snacking throughout the day: Yes, I know, back to food. I only bring this up be-
These are a handful of tips to keep a healthy
2. Meal prep your lunch: I really don’t need to
cause a healthy body is made up of 80% food
lifestyle through your day to day activities.
say too much on this because I’m sure most
& 20% working out. Throughout your school
Don’t forget, make mistakes, but remember
of you have heard this one too many times.
or work day, you should have at leave 3-4 dif-
to bounce right back and get back to it!
All I’m going to add it is that your meal prep
ferent snacks in your bag. The body cannot
saves you both your coins and unnecessary
only survive on breakfast and meal preps, if
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Bulgarian squats - 15 x 5 (try increasing the weights with each set if possible)
Skipping - 50 x 4
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Not My Lipstick
BY RACHAEL ASABIR (CHRISTIAN BLOGGER) WINNIPEG, MANITOBA
While growing up I saw how my mother would pray, fast
he talks back to you. You listen, and he listens, too! As some-
and read her bible. She would always have this glow after
one wanting to one day walk down the aisle and have the
she spent time with God. I also noticed with her spending
Godly home, a strong relationship with God is what will help
time loving God, the relationship between her and my Dad,
us in achieving it. I will like you to know that while waiting
as well as myself and my siblings was different. It was then
for that Godly man, you also need to be a Godly woman,
that I said to myself “I want what mum has when I grow up
so that when he sees you, he knows God has favored him.
and get married”.
Proverbs 18 vs 22 “He who finds a wife finds what is good and obtains favor from the Lord”. He will not be looking at
The time to develop our relationship with God is way more
how perfect your lipstick is or how flawless the eyeliner or
important and rewarding than the time we devote to mas-
eye shadow is; because he’s looking to God to be favored,
tering the art of lipstick application. You see, I’ve come to
he will be looking at how you can impact his life and allow
realize that if you want a long-lasting marital relationship,
God’s wonders to radiate in him.
loving God should be the ultimate priority as a single lady. The road to achieving this is not the easiest, we might get
So why not reduce the time spent on mastering the lipstick
disappointed, frustrated, because each day you try stu-
application and join me today to make a commitment to
dying and communicating with God you have some ques-
reading the word of God, fasting if you can, praying, loving
tions that requires answers. These questions only gets ans-
on Him and allow Him to take first place in your life while
wered if you spend more time with God.
you wait. When you do this, you will see that He is listening
As ladies, we shouldn’t only put our efforts into looking pret-
to your every need about the perfect spouse, but all He is
ty all the time, rather we should invest time and effort in
asking is for you to be patient and wait for his perfect Gift.
our relationship with God. Every day in our time of waiting should be spent with knowing God for who he really is be-
With love from my heart,
cause He is an amazing God. Spending time with God is so amazing. You talk to him and
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On October 19th, just a short drive up the 403 from whe-
You guys met and grew up in Hamilton and continue
re the now Juno Award Winning Hamilton rockers were
to show an incredible amount of loyalty and pride for
formed some years ago, a crowd of “Arkellians” gathered
where you come from. What are some of your fondest
in union station to celebrate the release of the bands fifth
musical memories of growing up there?
and most anticipated studio album, Rally Cry. With a mo-
30
mentous year behind them including: a trip to the Olym-
Ya so, the band is born in Hamilton and you know we
pics, a massive hometown show, and the title of the #1
met at McMaster, Nick, Mike and I, and it’s funny cause
most played Alt. Rock Band of the year. Not to mention
we’re all from various parts of southern Ontario but Ha-
the hit single “Knocking at the door” spending 14 weeks
milton is the place that connected us all. And you know,
atop the Canadian Alternative Radio Charts, you could say
I came to that city when I was 17 and I feel really lucky
the band is relentless in their pursuit to keep this train
that, sort of the most formative musical memories you
moving. Arkells, named after the street they used to prac-
know happened in little rock and roll clubs like The Cas-
tice on during their McMaster University days, tells you
bah, The Underground and Corktown. When we were in
everything you need to know about these Alt Rockers.
first year university it was 2004 and that was sort of at the
Their Hamilton ties run deep, even as they take on the
height of, I’d say, the golden era of indie rock. So I got to
Canadian music scene with such honest enthusiasm and
see bands like The Weakerthans, The Constantines , Arca-
a diligent track record. Recently, we got the opportunity
de Fire, Broken Social Scene, Stars, Joel Plaskett and Win-
to speak with lead singer & guitarist Max Kerman on the
ter Sleep, come through Hamilton and play, kind of small
band, their past year and the upcoming release of Rally
shows, despite the fact that these guys were legends in
Cry.
our minds. So, you know I feel like the exposure to that
DECEMBER 2018
kind of style of musicianship and performance really hel-
too judgemental about it and just be like “ok cool, that’s
ped shape, who the band is.
interesting” that’s kind of our attitude when it comes to everything we do.
In 2017 you guys released a stand-alone single in “Knocking on the Door” and it really took off. How did
I think we both watched how a couple of tweets tur-
that feel watching that stand alone Single receive that
ned into an incredible trip to Peyongchang. Where
kind of reception?
the Canada house just seemed to embrace you guys completely. What was that experience and night like?
Ya it was awesome, you know, I think we’re students of the game. You know, it’s like whether it’s song writing or
Ya you know, we’ve had a chance to check off a lot of
just understanding how music culture works and I know
boxes in the band’s career, playing festivals and award
the typical calendar for a band is, that you know, you work
shows, and getting to tour interesting places, but I’d say
on a record and put it out, then you tour it for a couple of
to go to the Olympics was definitely one of the most uni-
years and then you kind of do it again in that cycle. But we
que ones, that I can’t image we can replicate it. You know
looked around and we see what other genres are doing
it all happened so quickly. You know, one day we’re kinda
and the ability to just put out a song because your exci-
sitting at home and then four days later we’re on a pane
ted about it is something that happens a lot in like pop
to Korea and uh ya I mean it’s easy to get swept away by
music or electronic music or hip hop. And we just said like
the Olympic spirit when you’re watching it at home and
“oh why can’t we do that?”? We have the song and were
it’s that much easier when your actually there, haha par-
excited about it, let’s just do that. Let’s not be conventio-
tying with Olympians. We got a chance to go when it was
nal about this and it was a great learning experience be-
kinda the last four or five days of the games and I think
cause we were able to see what a song can do for you.
that’s when all the athletes are really letting loose cause
If it’s the right song, at the right time, in the right place.
until they’ve actually preformed in their event they have
And uh, you know we really try to think of everything as a
to stay pretty focused. So we got to see them let their hair
learning experience and some things work out really well,
out a bit haha.
some things don’t work out quite as well, but as long as you’re taking from each thing and like “oh ok that’s cool”
Now your upcoming release, Rally Cry. This record
that’s you know, how this product is reacting and not be
really feels like a slight departure from previous ones
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INTRODUCTION So, after battling the thought for many days, sometimes even months, you finally made the conscious decision of entering a new and exciting chapter of your life. You have decided to ultimately begin following a “non-traditional” path. A path that your colleagues, parents, and even friends, would most likely express doubt and hesitation about. Statements of “there’s no money in it”, the infamous “sometimes you have to do what you don’t want to do in-order to do what you want to do at some point in the future”, and let us not forget the “maybe work for someone for XX years first and when you’re much MUCH older, then you can start your own business” are commonly heard. Just so you know, this path that you’re on has the potential to be an extremely profitable one, and is also one of the most crucial aspects of how our society is able to run, especially if you’re like me, a creative. You see, without creatives harnessing any number of skills and talents relating to any kind of art, many of your favorite things, like video games, sports, mo-
02. ALLOWING DOUBT & FEAR TO OVERWHELM YOUR MIND Nothing stifles creativity more than doubt. It is the silent killer that doesn’t make a sound as it’s ripping your self-esteem and feelings of capability to shreds. Doubt often does not appear out of nowhere. Sometimes it is a result of long held beliefs about yourself and your place in the world. It also may come as a result of comparison. When you compare yourself, product, and/or services to someone you may believe is doing way better than you, (which may not even be the case), you are likely setting yourself up for some feelings of inferiority and mediocrity. There is no one way to quell self-doubt. Motivations differ for each individual, however, my main suggestion would be to truly define what your purpose behind doing the work you do is. Keep focused on your “Why”, no matter how doubtful you may feel about seeing your visions materialized.
vies, and television programming would be lacklustre, boring, and providing no impact. While I wholeheartedly believe that creatives are essentially the crux of marketing, branding, impact, and ultimately profits for businesses, large and small, we often do not receive the appreciation (or payments) that we deserve. It’s hard work to consistently produce quality, and as much as we may love what we do, it can be disheartening when unpaid invoices pile up for already completed projects, and polite inquiring emails go unanswered. Especially when you’re new to exchanging your work for money, it can be difficult to really get a foothold in how to operate your talent like a business. There are a number of roadblocks, unexpected obstacles, and confusingly new things that you need to keep in mind when you’re dipping your toes into turning your art into a business. Here are five common mistakes that, I believe, amatuer creatives/business owners make right out the gate. This new chapter of your life won’t be easy, however, it can be fruitful and more than worth its while when you can anticipate and place solutions in place for the potential obstacles that you may encounter along your path. Luc-
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01. NOT CHARGING THE RIGHT RATE FOR THEIR WORK
find a way to get your hands on them. I’m here to tell you that, even though you can aspire and work towards upgrading your equipment in the future, it is impor-
(You are charging too much or you are charging too little)
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set a price for your product/service, you may need to do a bit of research to figure out your standing as a Creative, as well as the industry-standard cost of your service/product in your local, and even global market. Always be sure to consider the level of quality that you are producing in your work. In addition, tools and supplies need to be accounted for (paint, pencils, software, etc.), as well as the amount of time that you have to spend on each project. One main reminder I have for this note is: be confident in what you are worth. Many creatives who are just starting out selling their work, tend to underestimate the worth and impact of their product/service. This, coupled with fear, doubt, and anxiety, may result in underwhelming price points that leave you struggling more than helping you to elevate your business further.
Does your camera still allow you to take great images, that you Are you still able to access all the necessary software, even though your laptop may be running a tad bit slow, and is older than your high-school yearbook? Is your arsenal of art supplies still being your tried and true, despite the fact that it could definitely use a bit of a refresher? I get it. I’m still using what I often refer to as my “entry-level” Nikon D3200, that I purchased about four years ago. Sometimes, I do get a bit down about all that I could do with a brand-spanking-new, full-frame camera. But then I have to remind myself, or be reminded by my wife, as is often the case, that while I cannot afford to make my dream upgrade right now, I have still been able to learn new skills, and improve the quality of my photography and cinematography.
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Jennifer Mairo PUBLISHED AUTHOR AND WRITER, CREATOR OF REALITY TV SERIES “REAL NAIJA L ADIES OF DALL AS” AND FOUNDER OF THE PAMEL A ERERE FOUNDATION. JENNIFER MAIRO SHARES THE INSIDE SCOOP WITH LEARTIFY MAGAZINE. What’s your full name and place of origin? My name is Jennifer Mairo Akporehe and I am from Delta State Nigeria. Proudly Isoko! How long have you been in the states? I have been in the United States permanently for about twelve years Briefly tell us about what you do. I wear many hats and involved with a lot of different projects/titles if you may. First I am a published author and writer. My Books “Screw it, Go Ahead and Quit Cold Turkey” and Miss Independent, Misunderstood” are available everywhere books are sold. Amazon, Barnes and Noble etc. Second, I am the Founder and President of the Pamela Erere Foundation (PEF), a non – profit organization aimed at helping single moms, divorced women, widows and their children in Nigeria. This organization means the world to me as it is an ode to my sister Pam who pass away at the early age of 14, I was 12. The connection we share lives on via the PEF as we are able to change lives and help people in her name. That’s profound! The PEF is a gift to me and my family. I am also the creator of Real Naija Ladies of Dallas, a reality series that sets to tell the story about Nigerians in the United States. But not limited to Nigerians though. In Season 2 we have an amazing young lady from The Gambia, we plan to incorporate other African cast mates as well. Anyway the show sets to show the African woman for exactly who she is, a queen with a proud heritage. It follows the lives of these women as they navigate family, career, friendships etc. in the city of Dallas. There is nothing like this on television, anywhere. This is the first time we get to tell our “Real Life” stories by ourselves without any outside influence and we are extremely proud of this project. And yes there is drama, it’s a bunch of women we can’t help it, you’ll have to watch to find out. Congratulations on your Tv series nomination by the way, what made you start Real Naija Ladies of Dallas, what inspired it? Thank You so much! We were shocked when we heard that the Real Naija Ladies of Dallas was nominated for Best Series and Best Costume at the African Film Festival. We couldn’t believe it! Why did anyone care? We didn’t think they would. You know, reality series always get all this backlash. Everyone secretly watches but everyone says it’s not a “real” thing. Much like with Donald Trump, everyone is cursing at him yet he is the president, how the hell did he win? Ahahahhahhhah! That’s hysterical. But anyway, we didn’t think people at that level cared. But we submitted the pilot to the African Film festival, they accepted it, then ours had the most attendees at the screening, and then that same night the organizers announced our nomination. We were blown away and fast forward we snag the award amidst Africa’s finest like Richard Mofe Damijo, Jerry Mafoteng , Uche Jombo, Emem Isong, Peter Roberts. Very humbling! My inspiration to start Real Naija Ladies of Dallas are two things. 1. Everyone is obsessed with reality shows, we all badmouth them yet we can’t stop watching them. I saw the opportunity as a businesswoman. Then secondly, everyone is fascinated by Africa and our culture, our traditions. We are so primitive yet everyone wants a piece of us. In fact some haters are too ignorant to admit that Africa is a fascination to them. The power to share our story ourselves, the best way we can. That’s the motivation behind Real Naija Laides. Let’s not forget that all of this was pre Wakanda,, pre Black Panther 2018. Doesn’t it show that people want so much to be connected to their roots? If I was African American with no specific ties to my roots, I would want to watch a show like Real Naija Ladies of Dallas for some closure, some insight, something, anything. That’s my inspiration for creating this show and you guys will be blown away in
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ART DESIGN
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Leartify Creative WITH NNEKA GIGI (VISUAL ARTIST AND EDUCATION ADVOCATE) L . A , USA Nneka Gigi is a Nigerian visual artist and education
well. Researching the tribal markings on indigen-
advocate. Originally from Buffalo, NY, Nneka moved
ous people and tribes allows the body canvases to
to Los Angeles in 2016 with her partner and Creative
have connections to something deeper. Regarding
Director, Zach Patton. In support of her passion for
Amaka (the sculpture):
advancing the educational standards and expectations for children of color, Nneka will pilot a 2019
“I took the opportunity to participate in Amber Ro-
summer program here in Los Angeles to expose
se’s 2017 Slut Walk and created this piece. Nigeria
elementary children of color to topics like financi-
just passed a bill not too long ago in 2015 that “wi-
al literacy, entrepreneurship, agriculture/ nutrition,
dened” the scope of what was considered rape. Pri-
and the visual/ performing arts.
or, a woman could be gang raped, sodomized, you name it and it wasn’t considered rape. Marital rape?
“I use my talents with a paintbrush to create canva-
Doesn’t matter. Rape was only acknowledged as
ses on clothing, accessories, furniture and people.
penetration of a vagina by a penis. I created this pie-
Black empowerment is a huge underlying theme
ce to start a conversation. To make us ALL AWARE.
found in all of my work. One of the main intentions
As a Nigerian woman and survivor, I would like to
of the canvases are to have open and honest con-
offer her as a symbol of unity, peace and civil unrest
versations about what is difficult to speak about
until rape culture is shamed away domestically and
head on. Encouraging and empowering children
internationally.
and adults to feel good about themselves is a byproduct that makes the long hours more than worth it. My African heritage plays a huge role in my work as
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When It’s Time to Tell Your Boss That a Close Family Member is Ill BY OSAYUS IZE-IYAMU ( I N T E R I O R D E S I G N A R C H I T E C T A N D M E N TA L H E A LT H A D V O C AT E ) WINNIPEG, MANITOBA Getting bad news about a close family member is something
earlier at the time, it would be knowing about “Family and
we hope to never hear. There is sometimes the dilemma of
Compassionate Care Leave”. Well here it is, generally Family
knowing whether it is appropriate to share this information
and Compassionate Care Leave are unpaid leaves initiated by
with your employer. Thoughts like: “Should I just keep this to
the employee, as time off to deal with family responsibilities
myself and power through work like this isn’t happening?” or
without fear of job loss. The main difference between the two
“Would this make me appear less capable at this very critical
is Family leave is short term while Compassionate Care Lea-
time in my career?”. Well, you are going to have to make the
ve is an extended leave. Check your local employment stan-
final decision for yourself but I’m going to guide you with 7
dards to know how many days you are entitled to and which
instances when it is probably time to book a meeting with
is more appropriate for your situation.
your Boss and let him/ her know: When it is a new job or position with a high learning curve, When it is a terminal illness
the pressure of starting a new job or position is already in-
Illnesses like Cancer, Diabetics, Leukemia, Alzheimer’s di-
tense, so adding personal problems to the mix might not be
sease/ dementia, Multiple sclerosis, Kidney failure etc. indica-
the best way to start off. Remember that timing is not in your
te the health condition is “most likely” serious. We all hope
control and letting them know early might avoid future mis-
that medical treatment and prayers will eventually lead to a
conceptions about your capabilities.
smooth recovery but sadly, sometimes it takes years or worse… it leads to death.
When this might affect your performance As much as people try to keep personal and work separate,
When you find their condition is not getting any better If
situations like these are very likely to affect each other. When
you’ve decided to wait off a bit and you see little improve-
there are clear signs that it might be doing just that, speak
ment in their health condition, then it is probably time to let
out.
them know. Besides, it helps you take things off your chest and prepares your employer for when you decide to take a
When this is a new occurrence and you’re unsure how to deal
leave.
with it I think if this family member has been ill for years, and you
When the family member is in another geographical location
have already come to terms with how to deal with the situati-
Some people are lucky to have these family members in the
on then it might not seem necessary opening up about this.
same city or within a few hours trip by road or by air to get to
In contrast, when it is all new to you, if telling your employer
them. In the case when you need to embark on a long jour-
is a big no then at least find more information at hospital re-
ney or are in different continents, it is probably a good time
source centres about the severity of the illness and what to
idea to include your employer in your travel plans. Not only
expect. Also, by reaching out to counsellors to advise you on
might they add more days at their discretion, if you include
what the next best steps might be.
the reason there are employment standards you can take ad-
What are your experiences with this? Has this helped you
vantage of.
make your decision? Do you have more to add or did you learn something new? I would love to know, feel free to send
When you desire to take care of them
an email to admin@leartify.com
Feeling helpless about situations like this because of fear of job loss is very unsettling. If there was one thing I wish I knew
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The Way of The Road B Y M E G A N M C A R T H U R ( J O U R N A L I S T ) H A M I LT O N , O N TA R I O
Hey guys, how we doing? I’m sorry to say that I don’t
and a small purse and was ready for the end of summer.
have an actual event piece to report on, I know such a shocker. But I have a good excuse I promise.
Two cities later in Verona, we had a slower day. We saw
the Romeo and Juliette sights that you see in Verona and wan
In August, I was fortunate enough to travel Europe for
dered around the square. Then, I saw a “50% off whole store” sign
three weeks. My best friends and I did four countries in 23 days
and ran in. I found this red haltered jumpsuit and loved it. It was
and loved every minute of it. We hit five cities in Italy, Paris, Belgi-
again a one size fits all item, but I found that with the higher cut
um and London.
on the waist, I really liked it. Paired with black MK heels and my clutch, I’m ready for a night out or my next fashion week.
Going into the trip, we knew Milan in Italy and Paris
were big fashion districts, but we underestimated just how big.
Even the small Italian city of Verona bid us farewell with our suit-
until we stumbled upon United Colours of Benetton (which is
Last Italian city was Milan. We hadn’t spent too much
cases a little heavier.
also available in the US). I found these wide leg cropped plaid pants and was originally just going to try them on. Nope, I
Wandering around the shops in Florence, we came
across a store called Brandy & Melville. It was a one size fits all
bought them. I tied a white shirt to show the waistband and put a pair of black shoes with it. A perfect outfit for work or school.
kind of store and I remember spotting this dress and loving it. Of
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course, I had to buy it in blue, half of my wardrobe being blue just
wasn’t enough. When I got home I paired it with white wedges
cho. My friends and I all got a different colour of the poncho so
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Also from United Colours of Benetton is this red pon-
it’s yet another thing we match with. Easy to pair with a pair of jeans and flip between flats or an ankle bootie for fall.
My last outfit I’ll share is split. The short are from
Paris and they are actually what brought me into the store. High waisted and not too short, you can wear almost any top with them. I just chose my white “Florence” one that I picked up in, yes, Florence. While I clearly opted to buy more summer clothes while away, my friends opted to think ahead to fall and even early winter. Yes, I’m talking jacket, sweater and boot shopping in 30 and 40 degree weather.
While in Milan, my one friend Kennedy found this
coat. Black and white plaid with a red lining and 60% off, she knew she wanted it right away. This jacket is really versatile and can be worn with jeans, dresses, dress pants, whatever you need.
Still in Milan, we came across a store called Mango.
I would say that the store has a business casual kind of vibe to it. It was there my other friend Mik found this thick, heavy cardigan (which came in handy later on).
It was also in Mango Mik found this burnt orange
suede jacket. It was meant to be because she had been talking about how she wanted a suede or leather jacket.
In Paris, Kennedy found her next coat at a little bou-
tique called ba&sh. The lady working was originally from Hamilton which we all found quite funny when we got talking. This coat is a little thicker than the first one and will most likely take Ken into winter. It looks really sharp with a pair of dark bottoms.
Also from ba&sh, Mik found this navy blue sweater.
It has wider sleeves throughout the arm then finishes clean and fitted at the wrist. A little different but a nice esthetic. The silver buttons on the side add a nice detailing to the sweater.
And the shoes. While in Belgium Ken and Mik both
bought a pair of shoes from a store called Pikolinos. All of the shoes were beautiful. Ken bought a pair of yellow flats with coloured flowers on the top. Mik bought a pair of brown heeled ankle boots that will be a good fall boot.
And that’s all she wrote. Well, all I wrote. I’m glad I’ve
been able to share some of my travels with all of you!
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Glamour in The Hammer BY MEGAN MCARTHUR ( J O U R N A L I S T ) H A M I LT O N , O N TA R I O Come back to Hamilton with me everyone! Now I know I cover a lot of events in Hamilton, it’s not just because I live close. I’m really starting to dig the vibe the Hamilton fashion scene gives off. I’m really impressed with how a charity can take the fashion scene and use it to help their efforts. On Friday May 25, Good Shepherd in Hamilton hosted their fourth annual Glamour in the Hammer fashion and food event. This event was hosted downtown Hamilton at the convention centre which offered a large and elegant venue for the hundreds of people who attended this event. I’m going to cover the fashion first and then talk a little about Good Shepherd. Now, as soon as I arrived at the convention centre, I instantly thought “The Clackers.” Bear with me now. When I hear heals walking across a floor, I think of The Devil Wears Prada, when the women walking across the floor are called “The Clackers because of the sound the high heels make on the floor. I love that movie. I arrived too early, (yet again) for the show, so I sat at in the foyer of the centre and people watched for a little. I would hear “The Clackers” and turn to see a group of women walk in, all dressed in their best. This was one of the hottest days in May, and because of the heat I saw lots of dresses and men wearing shirts, ties, jackets and dress shorts. Very interesting suit choices.
This year 14 designers participated in the
show, all of which volunteered their time and resources to be in the show. Patti Leonard from Good Shepherd said they have “no problem with finding designers interested in being in the show and in fact have had to turn some away.” I recognized a lot of the designers from my years attending Hamilton Fashion Week. Designers such as Blackbird Studios, Designs by Merike, Karen McFarlane and Thrifty Designer were names that have been with HFW. Each designer that was at this event had their own style and creativity.
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There are stories unsaid There are stories untold Who is listening to me Who can plead for my cause All alone in this darkness All I hear is my weakness Echoes of all my mistake Reminders of my flaws (Hello!) So how do I sound when I speak out I am so conscious of me now So much lies and deceit Who can I really trust I am in the shadow of my potential I feel like I am in another skin I am asking for the second chance for the fifth time in role Its surely a definite spin Questions are rising, time is passing How can you be there? How can you be here? I’m like how can I be where? Pressures upon pressures Tension upon tension Judgement after judgement But the bone of contention is I am here Present! Present to the fact there isn’t love Present to tell the difference Present to be the difference So no longer will I hide in the caves of mind No longer will I hide in the prejudice of my demise Yes! I failed you yes I failed me Yes! I thought I was right But as I was caught between the cross heirs and blurred lines of the things made me me Not knowing my place I was forced to face the fact that all that glitters were not gold I saw the fear in my eyes when I first saw my heart bleed I no longer felt invincible, I was reminded of my mortality I was hurt, lifelessly speechless Words became like dust lost to the sea of silence I held it in, I spoke not of it I couldn’t believe I lost my super powers A young man unsure of a path that would lead to destiny A young man scared out of his mind that he will fall Because If he did who will catch him? He was called to lead but couldn’t even tie his own shoe laces Fear held him back, so he covered his wounds with scars of false confidence. The fate of his world is in your hands, so he clenched his fist harder Holding back his gifts because he was too scared to let it fly I guess you didn’t know how I felt inside I guess you didn’t know pain and hurt built a house inside Guilt became my best friend and I shared my bed with shame I was told I was nothing, I let everyone one I love down Go fix yourself, come back to me when you are all good she said I guess I’m all good now because I found me I am taking the best of me young wild and free no turning back no more regrets It took some time to see the king through the depths of my inner me I am coming back for everything they said I couldn’t have I wore faith like a jacket to keep me warm in the cold dark times Boots so fierce that when I step in it calms the storms I am the force to effect change in the hearts of men My story will speak; my life will be a light To cast away shadows of doubt and empty promises I am the key to break the chains to insolvency of self I am setting the captives free I will speak my truth, I am great, I am strong, I am fierce, I am amazing, I am beautiful, I am complete, I am not like the rest, and you are not like me You are a King rise up and walk! This is THE VENT!
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