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Management Lessons from The Dog Park Unleash Your Inner Leader Rhonda & David Rosenof
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Management Lessons From The Dog Park Unleash Your Inner Leader Published by Lessons from the Dog Park Books 6308 NW 65 Terr., Parkland, FL 33067 Copyright © 2012 by Rhonda & David Rosenof ISBN-13: 978-1479124244 ISBN-10: 1479124249 Photographs are used under license from Dreamstime.com. See page 77 for page references. All rights reserved. This book is protected under the copyright laws of the United States of America. No part of this book may be reproduced, distributed, or transmitted in any form or by any electronic or mechanical means, including information storage and retrieval systems, without written permission from the author, except in the case of a reviewer. First Printing: August, 2012 For high resolution or customized versions of this book, including proceeds to benefit your
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Back: Lisa & Abby Front: Rhonda, Dave, Lacey & Denver
Dedication This book is dedicated to our beautiful girls, Abby and Lisa. Thanks to our loyal family canine companions throughout the years: two dogs named Boy, Taffy, Frenchy, Foxy, Biff, Norman and our current four-legged family members, Lacey and Denver. We sincerely appreciate their unknowing contributions to this work and their years
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of unconditional love.
A special thank you goes to Rhonda's mom, Shirley Jacobs, who after 50+ years is still helping her children with their projects!
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Introduction Covey. Drucker. Maslow. I've studied a lot of management theory throughout my formal education, but the important lessons have come from my dogs. Yes, collectively I’ve learned the most by watching the almost magical interaction of dogs with their owners, with each other, and sometimes when they are just in the right mood, even with cats.
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In managing people and better understanding myself, I’ve run across nothing as simple and effective as the lessons you can learn from observing "man’s best friend.” Thus, this book, “Management Lessons From The Dog Park” has been inspired by the species canine. Three chapters of lessons span First Impressions & Establishing Roles, Leadership & Teamwork, as well as Skills for Success.
Dave
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Have a smile on your face.
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A wagging tail is a sure sign that a dog wants to meet or play. Greet others with a smile on your face and a warm and welcoming attitude. You'll make a great first impression and be welcomed into any group.
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Get to know those around you.
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Dogs sniff each other's butts to determine their sex and whether they are friend or foe. Hone your instinct by looking into another’s eyes, assessing one's soul and reading body language. Your handshake and demeanor during the first moments of an interaction will shed light on your intentions and trustworthiness.
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Make it clear who's in charge.
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A leader, or alpha male, will emerge within a dog pack, sometimes through leg humping or other behaviors. When an obvious leader doesn't step up, groups may lack direction and focus. Take charge by defining a vision and developing a plan.
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Don't be the first to blink.
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A stare-down, direct eye contact and the tone of your voice can instill confidence in you or a project. Ensure that you are taken seriously from the start, as it is more difficult to establish this position at a later time.
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I'll be CEO and you can be CFO.
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Most of the time, dogs learn to successfully relate to other dogs by keeping the peace, rather than by constantly fighting to reestablish a hierarchy. Properly socialized dogs intuitively understand how to communicate with unfamiliar dogs of any size or breed. Establish clear lines of communication within your organization.
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Don't be afraid to be in charge.
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Dogs often overlook physical characteristics when defining leadership roles. Anyone can serve as alpha male, regardless of sex, size or job title. As the leader, the alpha male instills a trust in the pack, making them want to follow his lead.
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I’m not taking that attitude from you!
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Aggressive threats or territorial marking are common ways for dogs to display dominance. In response, another dog may accept a submissive role by crouching, rolling on its back or fleeing. Strive not for a dominant/submissive relationship, but rather a willingness to work together.
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You were supposed to bring the treats!
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Look at a misbehaving dog and it's likely they don’t understand their place in the pack. Like dogs, people are most comfortable and perform their best when their role in the pack, and its related expectations and responsibilities, are clearly defined.
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Do I look like I'm happy to see you?
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A dog may not be "smiling," but rather showing its teeth to defend something important. Conversely, what appears as aggression might be an invitation to play. Look and listen for all body language and verbal clues to most accurately assess any person or situation.
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You’d be great on the sales team!
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To be recognized as the leader, often times you just need to be the one to take the chance— to stand with confidence and say “let’s go this way." Use positive words of commitment like “will” and “shall” rather than “try” or “do my best.”
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Take the meeting to the dog park.
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Dogs often relinquish territorial instincts when they are in a neutral place. When one party has an unfair "home team advantage" in negotiations or establishing roles, it's best to take the meeting to a neutral place where everyone can be on equal footing.
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Work is easier as a team.
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Dog packs provide emotional, psychological and physical support, as well as help in meeting difficult objectives, such as hunting large prey or completing a sled race. Teamwork not only divides up a task, but it enables everyone to focus on areas where they excel.
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Celebrate diversity.
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Good things, dogs and people come in all colors and sizes. Teams benefit from the diversity of ideas that arise from different experiences—in education, work, geography, age, sex or countless other characteristics. Be on the lookout for employees and friends who can offer a new perspective.
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Allow play time. Dog play, such as wrestling, tug-of-war or chase, teaches puppies many life lessons while still under a mother's supervision. Mothers don't try to stop puppies from this important step in their social and skill
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development. Strive to accept the importance
and role of play time
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Carefully plan your moves. With today’s rapid pace of business, it is easy to feel like you are lucky to get through the day, let alone take time to plan. Anticipating possible outcomes, however, leads to better planning, breakthrough ideas,
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and avoidance of pitfalls. Strive to always think several moves ahead.
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Discuss strategies.
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The role of alpha male depends more on a state of mind than on an important job title. It requires a clear sense of direction, an ability to jointly explore strategies and build consensus among the pack, and ultimately motivate the group towards its goals.
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Keep your head out of the sand.
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We often see only what we want to see—in the performance of our organization, with our spouse or family, or even concerning world events. Make sure you have all of the necessary information as well as the ability to accurately interpret its full meaning.
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Consider a different perspective.
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Just as a crystal ball looks differently depending on your angle of view, so does the way in which others perceive the same situation. Take care to consider multiple perspectives when you reach an impasse, lose sight of your goal, or are dealing with others.
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Don't fight with skunks.
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Animals are not likely to pick a fight unless they believe they can win. Humans should “pick their battles” knowing that some people simply aren’t worth fighting. When you fight with a skunk, you end up stinking whether you win or lose. Avoid the "skunks" in your business and personal life.
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Know when to show your teeth.
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Calm negotiations are always the preferred method of dealing with any difficult situation. Carefully consider whether a more aggressive approach is warranted, such as a reprimand, firm voice, eye contact or direct language. This is your backup plan only when diplomacy doesn’t work.
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Have someone to look out for you.
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Dogs instinctively protect the weaker or smaller dogs in the pack. Similarly, humans should stand up for others in their family or team. Knowing that someone else “has your back” encourages positive risk taking. Teams should be built to simultaneously provide members with both a mentor and a protégé.
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Know you can get out before you jump in.
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Before rushing into new initiatives and changing course, carefully assess the potential obstacles. Are they worth the risk? How will you handle any undesired consequences, especially if a quick response will be warranted? Always have an exit strategy from any potentially risky situation.
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Reward patience.
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Well-trained dogs will patiently wait at your command, knowing that a treat is likely to follow. In many organizations there are no formal and meaningful reward procedures. Demonstrate to your employees that good things come to those who wait.
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Boredom is dangerous. A torn shoe, shredded mail, or chewed couch are obvious results of a bored dog. What kind of trouble are your employees getting into when they are bored? Are they texting their friends, going online, stealing from your business?
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Keep them busy with
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Nobody likes to be in the dog house. Everyone on a team makes mistakes. A manager needs to determine the impact of the mistake on everyone involved, as well as how to move forward and learn from the error. Do your employees live in fear of constantly
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ending up in the "dog house" when working for you?
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Take care of those you love.
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There are a multitude of ways that dogs support both other dogs and humans in their pack. Do you make a conscious effort to provide the full range of critical support to those with whom you work, as well as those who are important in your non-work life?
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Let everyone speak their mind.
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Dogs bark for many reasons, such as when they hear or see something unfamiliar. Growls offer a clue to pay special attention and can indicate that a dog doesn’t want to participate. Regardless of their role or communication style, give everyone a chance to express their ideas and concerns.
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"Will work for love."
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Dogs that have been physically abused are often wary of others. It is easy to choose to work with the friendliest people. Yet, just as with dogs, those who have been neglected are so appreciative of an opportunity to serve that they will often work the hardest and become the most loyal.
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We can accomplish anything together.
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It's important for humans to accept others into their packs, knowing that their addition will make the group stronger and more successful. Whether you are trying to make a sale, working on a project, or simply trying to get the day's work done, teamwork makes it easier.
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Listen for calls for help.
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Listen carefully. Are those around you concerned about something happening, looking for a fight, trying to convey a message, hoping to play, or in need of help? Recognition of these subtle clues will enable you to address important issues in a timely manner.
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Old dogs can learn new tricks.
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Just as most dogs are never too old to learn new tricks, people can also master new skills. In today’s society, the ability and desire to continually learn are critical for success. Provide employees with opportunity and support and you will be amazed by the results.
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Puppies need training.
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Nobody should get a puppy without plans for training. Yet employees are often brought on with minimal attention to the training necessary for their success. Allow new employees to learn while under your watchful eye, making sure they don’t get into trouble that they aren't prepared to handle.
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Always have your crew ready.
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Dogs will jump into action at a moment's notice when a true emergency is perceived, even when it means cutting short a nap or foregoing yawning and stretching. You and your team should be as prepared as possible for any potential situation.
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Not everyone wants to jump through hoops. Some dogs tolerate or even enjoy jumping through hoops; yet others run away in fear. Examine your procedures and policies to understand what you are asking of others. Have you placed unnecessary obstacles which require your
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employees, customers
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It's no fun being in a cage. Dogs are the happiest when they are running free and not confined to a small space. Even if the invoice says "modular furniture," your employees may perceive it as a cage. Give them a chance to spread their wings, both literally and
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Learning never ends.
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Find positive ways to keep employees engaged to avoid boredom and positively impact your products, services and customer relationships. Make available a wide range of ongoing educational opportunities both within and outside of your company to ensure more effective and happier employees.
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Be there to help.
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Never ask someone to do something that you wouldn't be willing to do yourself. If they aren't able to handle the task themselves, be there to help. Create an organizational culture that supports engagement and collaboration among all team members.
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Give kisses. Dogs often show affection by wagging their tails or licking a face. In the chaos of our everyday lives, we often fail to make time to tell others how much we care. Don't forget to show those around you how much you appreciate them
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Believe you can fly.
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The biggest obstacle is often one of self-confidence. When you believe in yourself, you can do anything. Get rid of that old mindset that is holding you back. Start acting like the person you strive to be and it will happen sooner than you can imagine!
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Keep a cool head.
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Adding anxiety to a situation only makes it more difficult to focus on the real issue. A true leader can turn an emotional reaction into one that will more effectively address the
problem. Calmly solving problems with a clear head always results in a better outcome.
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Listen carefully. We often focus so much on explaining OUR position that we don’t listen or consider anyone else’s point of view. It is difficult to solve problems or reach consensus without sincerely hearing and understanding all parties. You have two
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Ask questions. Never be afraid to ask the first question. Others may be just as confused. In our haste to give directions or complete tasks, it is easy to forget minor steps, acronyms or terminology that we take for granted. Clarity is essential in
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Take a "time out" to re-energize.
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Dogs are in touch with their personal needs. They know when they need a break or a nap. They recognize that an afternoon romp will energize them. Strive to simultaneously respect your employees’ needs to re-energize while being sensitive to the needs of the organization.
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Don't be pulled where you don't want to go.
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A dog will literally dig in their heels when they don’t want to do something or go somewhere. Too often we are swayed by others or take the easy way out when we should stand our ground and be uncompromising in our personal and the organization's principles.
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Everyone needs a few good tricks.
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Most dogs know how to sit, stay and come. Some dogs can catch a frisbee in mid-air. Others can fetch a newspaper or accomplish seemingly unbelievable feats. Be good at everything. Be great at a few things.
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Curiosity is good.
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Never lose your sense of curiosity or desire to learn. It is easier to keep a positive attitude when you are inquisitive about the job and trends at your company and industry. It is easy to miss opportunities if you don’t ask questions.
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Stay informed. A dog learns neighborhood "news" by sniffing every blade of grass during a walk. Keep tabs on your organization through MBWA (Management by Walking Around) and spending time at the water bowl. Stay on top of your
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industry through networking, trade journals and other
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Don't be afraid to walk alone. Dogs aren't afraid to occasionally stray from the pack. When you truly believe in your convictions you may have to walk the road alone. Eventually, others may fall in behind, or you may turn to find the pack has been behind your lead all along.
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Hide until the dust settles.
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Emotions can run hot when a problem initially arises. Either party may say or do something they would later regret. You may want to strategically lay low until emotions subside and the full ramifications are understood. At that point it will be easier to see an appropriate path forward.
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Use good manners.
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Everyone appreciates basic courtesy such as a promptly returned phone call, cleaning up after finishing your work, or arriving on time for a meeting. Treat others as you would like to be treated in all aspects of your business and personal life.
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Work safely.
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Take care of yourself by working safely. While regulations, procedures and policies may seem cumbersome or restrictive, they were designed to keep you safe. Insist on compliance with all safety issues. Go home with all of the body parts you brought to work with you.
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Be prepared to dig.
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Sometimes the answers aren't so obvious. There are multiple sides to every story. Finding the “truth” can be a challenge. Reports and data can be intentionally misleading. If it is important to know the truth, you may need to dig for what you're trying to find.
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Keep your goal in sight. Even when working on short-term goals, keep long-term objectives in focus. Don’t get so caught up in the dayto-day activities that the important longterm items fall by the wayside. Reflect on all of your goals daily to keep them in sight.
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If you know it's wrong, don't do it! Do the right thing, even when no one is looking. Often there is no “good” option— just the better of two that are either painful or wrong. Even when it is an unpopular choice, true leaders will be respected for making decisions
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based on principles.
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Maximize your assets.
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Dogs don't think about their obstacles. They only look at their goals and how best to achieve them. There are always more avenues to succeed than to fail. Consider the options available that will leverage your strengths and enable you to accomplish your objectives.
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Always do your best.
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Whether they are in the front or the back of the pack, dogs never stop putting forth their best effort. Companies appreciate engaged employees because their high energy level and desire to explore, innovate and improve the business keeps the company competitive.
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Stand tall and proud. You’ve likely heard the story of the Chihuahua who thinks he is a Great Dane and proceeds to rule the roost. Dogs don't check each other's papers. No matter your size, pedigree, or where you come from, always be proud of
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who you are and what you can become.
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Make time to collect your thoughts. Watch a dog on a sunny afternoon and you wonder what he is thinking. Usually it is nothing—he’s just basking in the sun. Know when to take time to clear your head or to step back and organize your thoughts. Sometimes
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it's good to just sit and think.
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Recognize when you are in too deep.
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Develop an organizational culture that encourages everyone to ask for help when they need it. Not only will this potentially avoid problematic situations, it will reduce wasted time and create a spirit of cooperation and shared responsibility in meeting objectives.
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Get away to relax.
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Sometimes we work so hard that we fail to be mindful of our physical and psychological needs for rest, exercise and fun. Listen to your body for these important signs and watch for hints from those around you that their needs are not being met.
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Admit when you've made a mistake. The cover up is always worse than the crime. Despite the fear of losing face, know that others will respect you more for admitting to your mistake and then moving on. Conversely, refusing to fess up can take a toll on your reputation, work and
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Take pride in your work. Even if you feel that your job is not very important, know that there is someone who depends upon that work being done well. You may feel uninspired when you are working long hours and not being rewarded. Try to find a job you can feel
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passionate about.
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Conquer your fears.
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Bravery means being afraid and doing it anyway. When a negative thought or fear enters, choose to stop it immediately and replace it with something positive. Confront the fear and oftentimes you will find that it isn’t nearly as bad as it was in your mind.
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Celebrate your accomplishments.
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In their desire to be humble, it is often difficult for humans to take pride and credit for their personal achievements. As long as it is done tastefully, there is nothing wrong with admiring your work and accomplishments—and hopefully you won’t be the only one doing so!
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And the most important lesson...
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It only takes one good BIG DOG to move everyone in the right direction!
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Conclusion Any organization, management situation, or even personal relationship can benefit from the lessons learned from man's best friend... Sniff butts to get acquainted. Clearly establish the alpha male, which may require leg humping. Define roles and responsibilities. Take advantage of the synergy provided by working in a pack. Pay attention to signs that your personal needs or the needs of those around you are not being met. Allow puppies time to play, explore and learn under your watchful and nurturing eye. Understand that the position of a tail or shape of a mouth may not accurately reflect the situation. Interpret verbalizations as insights into what is going on at a given moment in time. Enjoy working with those who show affection, while allowing opportunities for those who offer the potential for hard work and loyalty.
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Most importantly, offer a treat and a pat on the head for a job well done. We hope to see you in the dog park!
Dave
Rhonda
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About the Authors Dave and Rhonda live in Parkland, Florida. Dave has worked in the construction industry for more than 30 years. Rhonda’s well-traveled path has included education, online services, computer training, conference planning and sales. In January 2012, Dave and Rhonda created Big Dog Construction Services to serve all of south Florida. Their philosophy and management approaches are based on these lessons learned from man's best friend.
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Canine Contributors
Denver
Lacey
Biff
Norman
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Boy I
Boy II
Frenchy
Taffy
Foxy
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