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JOSEPH
& SONS
SERVICE
Family Owned And Operated Since 1883
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TRADITION
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DIGNITY
LOUIS LEVINE
JOSEPH LEVINE
LEONARD A. LEVINE
1851 - 1896
1877 - 1937
1906 -1984
JOSEPH H. LEVINE 1945 -
ADAM D. LEVINE 1978 -
BRIAN M. LEVINE JONATHON D. LEVINE 1978 -
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A SACRED TRUST We sincerely hope that you will find this prayer book a source of comfort and solace. We are reverently mindful that ours is a sacred profession that ultimately touches the lives of our families. Our responsibility to our community and to the traditional values which we share are the principles on which our firm was founded in 1883. This commitment has made us one of the few Jewish funeral homes in the country whose ownership has passed from father to son for five generations. Our founding reputation remains our philosophy: service, tradition and dignity. As members of our Jewish community, we are committed to preserve the high standards of professionalism and service demanded by Jewish tradition.
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THE IMPORTANCE OF A FUNERAL The chapel service provides the mourner with the environment to express grief; to see friends and family, which helps the bereaved to accept the reality of death. The Jewish funeral ritual is a profound expression of our Jewish heritage. It doesn’t just recognize that a life has ended; it honors that a life has been lived. It gives purpose to the Jewish will to survive. The funeral helps the survivors to heal emotionally and gives us comfort and elevates our sense of family. Grief is part of the healing process that allows us to separate ourselves from the deceased person and go on with our lives. The funeral brings together a community of mourners who, by supporting each other, can help themselves through a difficult period. To resolve their grief, mourners need to accept the reality of death not only on an intellectual level, but on an emotional level as well. It is for this reason that the traditional funeral is important. A funeral confirms the reality of death and serves as a focus for expressing feelings of loss. “Gathering together for the service, we offer support and share sorrow. Grief shared is grief diminished.” —Rabbi Earl Grollman
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INFORMATION PSALMS READINGS PRAYERS VISITING GRAVES
The Importance of a Funeral.............................................................3 Special Services/Pre-Planning..........................................................5 Information for Mourners............................................................6-11 K’riah.......................................................................................................................... 6 Psalms ..................................................................................................................... 12-17 Psalm 23 ......................................................................................................12-13 Psalm 121 .................................................................................................. 14-15 Psalm 91 (when walking to grave) ............................... 16-17 Selected Readings ................................................................................. 18-27 Woman of Valor ............................................................................18-19 Selected Verses from Scripture....................................... 20 Wisdom of Ben Sira.......................................................................... 21 Poetry by Alvin Fine .........................................................................22 We Remember Them ..................................................................... 23 Rabbinic Thoughts & Prayers ................................. 24-27 Kaddish..................................................................................................................28-33 Burial Kaddish ............................................................................... 28-29 Russian Kaddish.................................................................................... 30 English Kaddish....................................................................................... 31 Mourner’s Kaddish.................................................................... 32-33 Tzidduk Ha’din ......................................................................................... 34-37 El Moley Rachamim .......................................................................... 38-39 Prayers on Visiting Graves..................................................... 40-48 Prayer on Unveiling Monuments .......................................... 49 Yizkor .......................................................................................................................50-51 Calendar of Jewish Holidays .......................................................... 52 Cemetery Directions......................................................................... 53-63 Notes................................................................................................................................. 64
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
INFORMATION
LET US SERVE YOUR NEEDS
PSALMS
Making funeral arrangements can be an extremely arduous and stress-filled experience. Levine’s provides emotional comfort and peace of mind during one of life’s most difficult times.
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We have relationships with funeral directors nationally and internationally. Our qualified directors are here to answer your questions 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, and can help you make the most complicated of circumstances simpler.
PRAYERS
Many families make pre-arrangements with Levine’s not only to spare survivors emotional strain, but also to ensure that their wishes are carried out in the manner that they desire.
VISITING GRAVES
Levine’s responsibility to the community and our traditional values are the principles upon which our firm was founded in 1883. This commitment has made us one of the few Jewish funeral homes in the country that has passed from father to son for five generations.
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Our founding reputation remains as our philosophy: service, tradition, and dignity.
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INFORMATION FOR MOURNERS (Mourners)
]Qx { CG RÂ&#x20AC; ,& P Â&#x20AC; O)UG .{ OQ (SL { GvOx | C LL~ G< C .([ Â&#x20AC; $ Praised are You, O Lord our God, King of the universe, righteous Judge.
.[v DQ ~ LL~ P: L | G~ } L JZ O LL~ HÂ&#x20AC; R] Â&#x20AC; S LL~ The Lord has given and the Lord has taken away, praised be the name of the Lord.
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PRAYERS VISITING GRAVES
The mourner says the following:
READINGS
(Rending of Garment)
To indicate grief, a cut is made in the outer garment or black ribbon worn by the mourner. For a parent, the rend is made on the upper left side downward over the heart; for other relatives, it is made on the right side downward. This ceremony is performed standing up to teach us to â&#x20AC;&#x153;meet all sorrow standing upright.â&#x20AC;? This cut garment or black ribbon is worn for seven to thirty days of Shiva, except on Shabbat and Festivals.
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Kâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;RIAH
PSALMS
AV E L I M
One is considered a mourner upon the death of the following relatives: father and mother, husband or wife, son and daughter, brother and sister (also half-brother and half-sister).
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TA H A R A H The ritual washing and purification of the deceased by members of the Chevra Kadisha, “The Sacred Society” or, in its absence, by religiously and physically competent Jewish persons.
PSALMS
SHMERAH
(Shomer)
READINGS
The watching over the deceased by a pious Jew or Jewess until members of the family assemble for the funeral services, so that the deceased is not left unattended. Tehilim (Psalms) are recited.
TA C H R I C H I M The traditional white burial shrouds symbolizing that all people are equal before their Creator.
PRAYERS
K’VURAH The actual burial in the ground, or filling in the grave with earth. To participate in filling the grave is a mitzvah.
VISITING GRAVES
KADDISH
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The mourner’s Kaddish is recited by the mourners in the synagogue at every service morning and evening for a period of eleven months from the date of burial. The Kaddish is recited in the presence of a Minyan. Kaddish is repeated on the anniversary date of death. (Yahrzeit).
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A child under thirteen years of age is not obligated to observe the mourning rites. It is customary for mourners to remain at home on weekdays sitting on a low seat, wearing slippers rather than leather shoes and refraining from transacting any business.
INFORMATION PSALMS READINGS CEMETERIES
The custom of covering mirrors in the house of Shiva has been interpreted as a symbol of avoiding excessive self-concern seeing ourselves in the depressed state of a mourner.
PRAYERS
A light (Shiva candle) is kept burning in the House of Shiva during the entire seven days.
VISITING GRAVES
S H I VA Shiva refers to the ďŹ rst seven days of intensive mourning, including the day of burial. One hour of the seventh day is regarded as a full day. Mourning customs are not observed on the Sabbath or Festivals. When the burial takes place prior to a Festival and the mourners have observed Shiva for at least one hour before the holiday begins, then the period of Shiva is terminated with the advent of the Festival at sunset. When the burial occurs on a Festival, the Shiva begins on the night the Festival is over. The last day of the Festival is considered the ďŹ rst day of Shiva.
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INFORMATION
SHELOSHIM
(First thirty days)
PSALMS
The secondary period of mourning is called Sheloshim which includes the first thirty days after the funeral. The rend ribbon or garment is worn during the Sheloshim period except on the Sabbath and Festivals. Mourners should not participate in any festivity or amusement during these thirty days. In the case when the deceased was a parent, this principle applies for the entire first year.
READINGS
UNVEILING OF MEMORIAL There is no rule on how long after death the unveiling should take place. It is suggested that a memorial or monument may be erected anytime after Sheloshim and preferably before the first year has ended.
PRAYERS
V I S I TAT I O N AT G R AV E S Visitation at graves of departed may be made as often as one wishes following the period of Sheloshim.
VISITING GRAVES
It is customary to visit graves during the months of Elul and Tishri, prior to the High Holy Days particularly Yahrzeit (Anniversary of day of death).
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Y I Z KO R The memorial prayer of Yizkor is said four times a year during synagogue services. It is said on Yom Kippur, Shemini Atzeret, Pesach and Shavuot. It is not said during the first year of mourning.
B E L O N G I N G S O F T H E D E PA R T E D Articles belonging to the dead such as a wig or artifical teeth (considered a part of one’s body) are not used by others; these should be buried with the person who died. Ornaments such as rings, pins, and clothes are used by the living.
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INFORMATION PSALMS READINGS
It is customary to make a charitable contribution in memory of the deceased.
PRAYERS
During this time, the Yahrzeit light is kept burning and Kaddish is recited in the Synagogue during services.
VISITING GRAVES
The Yahrzeit commences on the preceding day at sunset and is concluded on the anniversary day of death at sunset.
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YA H R Z E I T (Anniversary of day of death) The Yahrzeit is observed annually on the date of death. When three or more days have elapsed from the day of death until the interment. The first Yahrzeit is observed on the anniversary of the interment, and thereafter, it is observed on the anniversary of the death.
INFORMATION
CONDOLENCE CALL It is a Mitzvah, a worthy deed, to pay a condolence call after the funeral. By our visit we show the mourners that we do not forget them; we illustrate to them that we understand their sorrow and we share it with them.
PSALMS
Levity and laughter are obviously out of place. Rather, the conversation should center around the personality and character of the departed. In this manner, the departed is memorialized.
READINGS
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PRAYERS
For information concerning the observance of the mourning period or any religious questions, please consult your Rabbi or the Levine staďŹ&#x20AC;.
VISITING GRAVES
If you desire a yearly Yahrzeit reminder of your departed, contact us with the name, date and time of death and we will gladly prepare and send a reminder free of charge.
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(Alternate translation)
Hashem is my shepherd, I shall not lack. In lush meadows He lays me down, beside tranquil waters He leads me. He restores my soul. He leads me on paths of justice for His Name’s sake. Though I walk in the valley overshadowed by death, I will fear no evil, for You are with me. Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table for me in view of my tormenters. You anointed my head with oil, my cup overflows. May only goodness and kindness pursue me all the days of my life, and I shall dwell in the House of Hashem for long days.
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INFORMATION PSALMS READINGS
A P S A L M OF DAV I D
PRAYERS
PSALM 23
VISITING GRAVES
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PSALM 23
INFORMATION
PSALM 23 A P S A L M OF DAV I D The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want,
PSALMS
He maketh me to lie down in green pastures He leadeth me beside the still waters He restoreth my soul;
READINGS
He guideth me in straight paths for His name’s sake. Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil.
PRAYERS
For Thou art with me: Thy rod and Thy staff, they comfort me.
VISITING GRAVES
Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies. Thou hast anointed my head with oil; my cup runneth over. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life;
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And I shall dwell in the house of the Lord forever.
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I will turn my eyes to the mountains: from where will my help come? My help comes from the Lord, maker of heaven and earth. He will not let your foot give way; your guardian will not slumber; See, the guardian of Israel neither slumbers nor sleeps! The Lord is your guardian, The Lord is your protection at your right hand. By day the sun will not strike you, nor the moon by night. The Lord will guard you from all harm; He will guard your life. The Lord will guard your going and coming now and forever.
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INFORMATION PSALMS READINGS PRAYERS
PSALM 121 ( A LT E R N A T E T R A N S L A T I O N )
VISITING GRAVES
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PSALM 121
INFORMATION
PSALM 121 I will lift up mine eyes unto the mountains: From whence shall my help come!
PSALMS
My help cometh from the Lord. Who made heaven and earth.
READINGS
He will not suďŹ&#x20AC;er thy foot to be moved. He that keepeth thee will not slumber. Behold, He that keepeth Israel Doth neither slumber nor sleep.
PRAYERS
The Lord is thy keeper; The Lord is thy shade upon thy right hand. The sun shall not smite thee by day, Nor the moon by night.
VISITING GRAVES
The Lord shall keep thee from all evil; He shall keep thy soul. The Lord shall guard thy going out and thy coming in.
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From this time forth and forever.
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Some have the custom to complete the psalm:
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PSALM 91 Carry the coffin to the grave (with the feet facing the grave), stopping seven times, with approximately eight feet between stops. Each time the coffin is moved toward the grave, those escorting it begin Psalm 91 (below) and recite it until the verse that begins “For His Angels” (see below). The verse contains seven words, and at each stop, a further word is recited until at the seventh stop, the verse is completed. As those who carry the coffin make the first stop, they recite the word “For.” After pausing, they begin the psalm again, and after approximately eight feet, recite “For His Angels” and stop. This procedure is repeated until the verse is completed at the seventh stop. (No stops are made on days when Tachanun is omitted and on Erev Shabbos and Erev Yom Tov after noon.)
INFORMATION
PSALM 91
PSALMS READINGS PRAYERS
Whoever sits in the refuge of the Most High, he shall dwell in the shadow of the Almighty, I will say of Hashem, “He is my refuge and my fortress, my God, I will trust in him.” For He will deliver you from the ensnaring trap, from devastating pestilence. With His pinion He will cover you, and beneath His wings you will be protected; shield and armor is His truth. You shall not fear the terror of night; nor of the arrow that flies by day; nor the pestilence that walks in gloom; nor the destroyer who lays waste at noon. Let a thousand encamp at your side and a myriad at your right hand, but to you they shall not approach. You will merely peer with your eyes and you will see the retribution of the wicked. Because {you said}, “You, Hashem, are my refuge,” you have made the Most High your dwelling place. No evil will befall you, nor will plague come near your tent. For His angels He will charge for you to protect you in all your ways
VISITING GRAVES
Some have the custom to complete the psalm:
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On palms they will carry you, lest you strike your foot against a stone. Upon the lion and the viper you will tread; you will trample the young lion and the serpent. For he has yearned for Me and I will deliver him; I will elevate him because he knows My Name. He will call upon Me and I will answer him, I am with him in distress; I will release him and I will bring him honor. With long life will I satisfy him, and I will show him My salvation.
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INFORMATION PSALMS READINGS PRAYERS VISITING GRAVES
(SELECTED VERSES) A good wife, who can find? Her worth is far above rubies. The heart of her husband trusts in her And nothing shall he lack. She renders him good and not evil All the days of her life. She opens her hand to the needy And extends her hand to the poor. She is robed in strength and dignity And cheerfully faces whatever may come. She opens her mouth with wisdom. Her tongue is guided by kindness. She tends to the affairs of her household And eats not the bread of idleness. Her children come forward and bless her. Her husband, too, and he praises her; “Many women have done superbly. But you surpass them all.” Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain. But a God-revering woman is much to be praised. Place before her the fruit of her hands; Wherever people gather, her deeds speak her praise. From Proverbs 31
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WOMAN OF VALOR
INFORMATION PSALMS READINGS PRAYERS VISITING GRAVES CEMETERIES
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INFORMATION PSALMS READINGS PRAYERS VISITING GRAVES
(ENGLISH/HEBREW)
O Lord, what is man that Thou takest knowledge of him; or the son of man, that Thou makest account of him! Man is like unto a vanity; his days are as a shadow that passeth away. In the morning he flourisheth, and groweth up; in the evening he is cut down and witherest. Thou turnest man to contrition and sayest: ‘Return ye children of men!’ O that they were wise, that they could consider their latter end! For when man dieth, he shall carry nothing away – his glory shall not descend after him. Mark the perfect man, and behold the upright, for the end of that man is peace. The Lord redeemeth the souls of His servants, and none of them that trust in Him shall be forsaken.
CEMETERIES
SELECTED VERSES FROM SCRIPTURE
INFORMATION
FROM THE WISDOM OF . . . BEN SIRA
PSALMS
Fear not death; we are destined to die. We share it with all who ever lived, with all who ever will be. Bewail the dead, hide not your grief, do not restrain your mourning. But remember that continuing sorrow is worse than death. When the dead are at rest, let their memory rest, and be consoled when the soul departs.
READINGS
Death is better than a life of pain, and eternal rest than constant sickness.
PRAYERS
Seek not to understand what is too difficult for you, search not for what is hidden from you. Be not over-occupied with what is beyond you, for you have been shown more than you can understand. As a drop of water in the sea, as a grain of sand on the shore are manâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s few days in eternity. The good things in life last for limited days, but a good name endures forever.
VISITING GRAVES
O God, our Father, You redeem our souls from the grave, You are the Rock of our salvation. Forsake us not in time of trouble, in days of distress and desolation. Help us to endure, O Lord, for we have placed our hope in You.
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From oďŹ&#x20AC;ense to forgiveness, from loneliness to love, From joy to gratitude, from pain to compassion, And grief to understanding - from fear to faith. From defeat to defeat to defeat - until, looking backward or ahead, We see that victory lies not at some high place along the way, But in having made the journey, stage by stage A sacred pilgrimage. Birth is a beginning, and death a destination; But life is a journey, a sacred pilgrimage Made stage by stage-from birth to death To life everlasting.
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INFORMATION PSALMS READINGS
From weakness to strength or strength to weaknessAnd, often, back again. From health to sickness And back, we pray, to health again.
PRAYERS
From childhood to maturity and youth to age, From innocence to awareness and ignorance to knowing; From foolishness to discretion and then perhaps to wisdom.
VISITING GRAVES
Birth is a beginning, and death a destination; But life is a journey, a going - a growing From stage to stage.
CEMETERIES
POETRY BY ALVIN FINE
INFORMATION
WE REMEMBER THEM
PSALMS READINGS PRAYERS VISITING GRAVES CEMETERIES
At the rising of the sun and at its going down We remember them. At the blowing of the wind and the chill of winter We remember them. At the opening of the buds and in the rebirth of spring We remember them. At the blueness of the skies and in the warmth of summer We remember them. At the rustling of the leaves and in the beauty of autumn We remember them. At the beginning of the year and when it ends We remember them. As long as we live, they too will live; for they are now a part of us, as we remember them. When we are weary and in need of strength We remember them. When we are lost and sick at heart We remember them. When we have joy we crave to share We remember them. When we have decisions that are difficult to make We remember them. When we have achievements that are based on theirs We remember them. As long as we live, they too will live; for they are now a part of us, as we remember them.
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Filling the empty chair
INFORMATION
RABBINIC THOUGHTS & PRAYERS
Ridiculous, replied the student, how can it be? I am sitting on it! But it IS possible for a person sitting on that chair to feel empty.
PSALMS
Rav Nachman of Brezlav once asked his student, is the chair you are sitting on empty?
And so we recall when someone else filled the place next to us in synagogue or at the head of the table for a holiday meal, or the chair closest to the kitchen.
READINGS
Then, the chair is empty even when occupied?
The seat of a loved one, in whose place now resides memories of love, of time spent together: How we miss them at these moments, at holidays, at family moments!
PRAYERS
Now, even though we, or someone else, may fill that seat, no one can fill that PLACE
she would have so enjoyed this experience, or, he would have been so proud. At the flash of doubt, when we cry: What would he have done in this situation?,
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No one can fill that feeling of emptiness! At the Simcha, when we smile and think,
How do we fill their empty chairs? We teach their life lessons. We live out their legacy to us.
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or, she would have comforted me, and things would have felt better.
INFORMATION
RABBINIC THOUGHTS & PRAYERS Filling the empty chair (cont.) We fill ourselves with their inspiring stories. We fill ourselves with their enduring love.
PSALMS
We feel their presence, within us. We feel G-d’s presence, among us. And then, when others come to us, seeking advice, As we are seated in that chair that our loved one once occupied, we pass on that same love,
READINGS
We share those same teachings from those who came before us.
PRAYERS
Adath Israel, Merion Station, PA
And we fill the void. And our place in this world, without them does not seem so lonely or empty anymore. Rabbi Eric Scott Yanoff _______________________________________________________________ In one of his most beautiful essays about prayer, Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel wrote,
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Faith is like a flashlight beam thrown ahead of us into the darkness. Its beam is always more visible when grief clouds about us. In some such events, an experience of faith kindles an unquenchable light. During this difficult time, may the light of our tradition and heritage light your path and bring you comfort.
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May the light of your loved one shine on as a blessing. Rabbi Peter Rigler Temple Sholom, Broomall, PA
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Our lives are a chance to apprehend some truth, to experience some beauty, to conquer some evil, to relieve some suffering, to love and be loved, to achieve something of lasting worth.
INFORMATION
“Let us treasure the time that we have, and resolve to use it well, counting each moment precious.
PSALMS
RABBINIC THOUGHTS & PRAYERS
I am always moved by both the poignancy and the poetry of these words. They remind us that even the stark, sobering finality of death, even the inevitable mortality of our lives are overshadowed by what might be described as “our immortality of influence.”
PRAYERS
that generations hence it can be said of us: The world is better because for a brief time they lived in it.”
READINGS
Help us, O G-d, to fulfill the promise that resides in each of us, so that we may conduct ourselves,
continue to live on in the hearts of those to whom they were precious.
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Death is not the end. Our loved ones never quite die so long as their love, their memory, their inspiration
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Rabbi Robert Leib Old York Road Temple-Beth Am, Abington, PA
INFORMATION
RABBINIC THOUGHTS & PRAYERS
Psalm 90, as translated by Stepen Mitchell.
PSALMS
Teach us how short our time is; Let us know it in the depths of our souls. Show us that all things are transient, As insubstantial as dreams,
READINGS
And that after heaven and earth Have vanished, there is only You. Fill us in the morning with Your wisdom; Shine through us all our lives. Let our hearts soon grow transparent
PRAYERS
In the radiance of your love. Show us how precious each day is; Teach us to be fully here. And let the work of our hands
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Prosper, for our little while. Rabbi Seymour Rosenbloom Distinguished Service Rabbi Congregation Adath Jeshurun, Elkins Park, PA
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The next section is said while taking three steps back, bowing to the left, right, and forward, and then taking three steps forward.
INFORMATION PSALMS READINGS
metayya, u-le-assaka yat’hon le-chayyei alma, u-lemivne karta di Yerushlem, u-le-shakhlala hekhleh be-gavvah, u-le-mekar pulchana nukhra’ah min ara, u-la-atava pulchanah di shemayya le-atreh — ve-yamlikh kudsha berikh hu be-malkhute vikareh, be-chayyekhon u-veyomekhon u-ve-chayye de-khol beit Yisrael ba-agala u-vi-zeman kariv. Ve-imru. Congregation and Mourner: Amen. Yehe shemeh rabba mevarakh le-alam u-le-alemei alemayya. Mourner: Yitbarakh ve-yishtabach, ve-yitpa’ar ve-yitromam ve-yitnase, ve-yithaddar ve-yitaleh ve-yithallal shemeh dekudesha. Congregation and Mourner: Berikh hu. Mourner: Le-ella min kol [between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, substitute: Le-ella u-le-ella mi kol] birkhata ve-shirata, tushbechata v’nehemata, da-amiran be-alema. Ve-imru. Congregation and Mourner: Amen. Mourner: Yehe shelama rabba min shemayya, ve-chayyim, aleinu ve-al Ko l Yisra’el. Ve-imru. Congregation and Mourner: Amen.
PRAYERS
Mourner: Yitgadal ve-yitkadash shemeh rabba. Congregation: Amen. Mourner: Be-alema de hu atid le-itchaddata, u-leachaya’a
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Mourner: Oseh shalom bimromav, hu ya’aseh shalom aleinu,
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Йис-бо-рах вэ-йиш-та-бах вэ-йис-по-ар вэ-йис-ро-мам Вэ-йис-на-сэй вэ-йис-ха-дар, вэ-йис-а-лэ вэ-йис-ха-лал Шмей дэ-кид-шо брих-ху; Лэ-эй-ло мин кол бир-хо-со вэ-ши-ро-со Туш-бэ-хо-со вэ-нэ-хэ-мо-со да-а-ми-рон бэ-ол-мо Вэ-им-ру ру Омэйн. Йхэй шло-мо ра-бо р мин шма-йё Вэ-ха-йим о-лэй-ну вэ-ал кол Йс-ро-эйл Вэ-им-ру Омэйн О-сэ шо-лом бим-ро-мов ху йя-а-сэ шо-лом О-лэй-ну вэ-ал кол йис-ро-эйл вэ-им-ру Омэйн - 30 -
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MOURNER’S KADDISH (RUSSIAN) KAÑàò (mpaÌcÎumepaˆufl) Йис-га-дал вэ-йис-кадаш шмей ра-бо, Бэ-ол-мо ди-в-ро хир-у-сэй вэ-йям-лих мал-ху-сэй, Бэ-ха-йей-хон ув-йё-мэй-хон у ув-ха-йей дэ-хол Бэйс Йс-ро-эйл Ба-а-го-ло у-виз-ман ко-рив вэ-им-ру Омэйн ——— • ——— Йхэй шмей ра-бо мэ-во-рах лэ-о-лам ул-ол-мей ол-ма-йё
INFORMATION
MOURNER’S KADDISH (ENGLISH) May His great Name grow exalted and sanctified. Congregation: Amen.
PSALMS READINGS
In the world which will be renewed, and where He will resuscitate the dead and raise them up to eternal life, and rebuild the city of Jerusalem and complete His Temple within it, and uproot alien worship from the earth, and return the Holy One, Blessed is He, will reign in His sovereignty and splendor, in your lifetimes and in your days, and in the lifetimes of the entire Family of Israel, swiftly and soon. (Cong. and Mourner - Amen.) May His great Name be blessed forever and ever.)
PRAYERS
Blessed, praised, glorified, exalted, extolled, mighty, upraised, and lauded be the Name of the Holy One. (Cong. and Mourner: - Blessed is He.)
beyond any blessing and song, praise and consolation that are uttered in the world.
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(Cong. and Mourner: - Amen.)
May there be abundant peace from Heaven, and life, upon us and upon all Israel. (Cong. and Mourner: - Amen.)
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He Who makes peace in His heights, may He make peace upon us, and upon all Israel. (Cong. and Mourner: - Amen.)
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( T R A N S L I T E R AT E D)
INFORMATION
MOURNER’S KADDISH
Mourner: B’alema di vera khiruteh. Ve-yamlich malkhuteh, be-chayyekhon u-ve-yomeikhon u-ve-chayyei de-khol beit Yisra’el, ba-agala u-vi-zeman kariv. Ve-imru. Congregation and Mourner: Amen. Yehe shemeh rabba mevarakh le-alam u-le-almei alemayya. Mourner: Yitbarakh ve-yishtabach, ve-yitpa’ar ve-yitromam ve-
yitnase ve-yithaddar ve-yitaleh ve-yithallal shemeh de-kudsha.
READINGS
Congregation: Amen.
PSALMS
Mourner: Yitgadal ve-yitkadash shemeh rabba.
Congregation and Mourner: Amen. Mourner: Yehe shelama rabba min shemayya, ve-chayyim aleinu ve-al Kol Yisra’el. Ve-imru. Congregation and Mourner: Amen. The next section is said while taking three steps back, bowing to the left, right, and forward, and then taking three steps forward.
VISITING GRAVES
Mourner: Le-ella min kal [between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, substitute Le-ella u-le-ella mi-kol] birkhata ve-shirata, tushbechata, v’nehemata da-amiran be-alema. Ve-imru.
PRAYERS
Congregation and Mourner: Berikh hu.
ve-al Kol Yisra’el. Ve-imru. Congregation and Mourner: Amen.
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Mourner: Oseh shalom bimromav, hu ya’aseh shalom aleinu,
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The following is recited after the grave is ďŹ lled. The mourners initiate, and all assembled recite it with them. It is not said on days when Tachanun is omitted and on Erev Shabbos and Erev Yom Tov after noon (chatzos)
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Righteous One in all His ways, O Rock Who is perfect, slow to anger and abundant in mercy, take pity and spare both parents and children, for to You, O Lord, pertain forgiveness and mercy. Righteous are You, Lord, to bring death and to restore life, for in Your hands are entrusted all spirits. Far be it from You to erase our memory. Look towards us with mercy, for Yours, O Lord, are mercy and forgiveness. A man, whether he be a year old, or whether he lives a thousand years, what does it profit him? For is it not as if he has never been? Blessed be the True Judge, Who brings death and restores life.
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The Rock, perfect in all His deeds. Who can say to Him, ‘What do You do?’ You Who says and fulfills, do undeserved kindness with us, and in the merit of him [Isaac] who was bound [on the altar] like a lamb, hearken and grant our request.
PRAYERS
The Rock, perfect in all His works. Who can say to Him ‘What have You done?’ He rules below and above, He brings death and restores life, brings down to the grave and raises up from there.
VISITING GRAVES
The Rock, His work is perfect, for all His ways are justice; a G-d of faithfulness and without iniquity, righteous and just is He.
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INFORMATION
Blessed be He, for His judgment is true, as He scans everything with His eye, and He rewards man according to his account and his judgment. Let all give praise to His Name.
PSALMS
We know, Lord, that Your judgment is right. You are righteous when You speak and pure when You judge, and none shall question Your judgments. Righteous are You, Lord, and Your judgments are just.
READINGS
You are the True Judge, Who judges with righteousness and truth. Blessed is the True Judge, for all of His judgments are righteous and true. The soul of every living creature is in Your hand, righteousness fills Your right and left hand. Have mercy on the remnant of the flock under Your hand, and say to the angel of death, ‘Hold back your hand!’
PRAYERS
You are great in counsel and mighty in action, Your eyes are watching all the ways of man, to give man according to his ways and according to the fruit of his deeds.
VISITING GRAVES
That is to say that the Lord is Just; He is my Strength, and there is no injustice in Him. The Lord has given and the Lord has taken. May the Name of the Lord be blessed.
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He, being compassionate, pardons iniquity, and does not destroy; time and again He turns away His anger, and does not arouse all His wrath.
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O God, full of compassion, Thou who dwellest on high! Grant perfect rest beneath the sheltering wings of Thy presence, among the holy and pure who shine as the brightness of the ďŹ rmament unto the soul of ________________ who has gone unto eternity. Lord of mercy, bring him (her) under the cover of Thy wings, and let his (her) soul be bound up in the bond of eternal life. Be thou his (her)possession, and may his (her) repose be peace. Amen.
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El Maleh Rachamim, shochen ba-meromim, ham-tzay menuchah nechonah tachat kanfey haShechinah, be-maalot kedoshim uthorim ke-zohar ha-rakiya, maz-heerim et nishmat (Name) MALE:
READINGS PRAYERS
She-halach l’olamo, ba-avur she-nadvu l’tzedakah b’ad hazkarat nishmato, b’gan ayden tehay menuchato, la-chen baal harachamim yasteerayhu b’sayter kenafahv l’olamim, v’yitzror bitzror hachayim et nishmato, Ah-do-noy Hu nachalato, v’yanuach b’shalom ahl mishkavo, v’noh-mar Amen. FEMALE:
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She-halach l’olamah, ba-avur she-nadvu l’tzedakah b’ad hazkarat nishmatah, b’gan ayden tehay menuchatah, la-chen baal harachamim yasteerehah b’sayter kenafahv l’olamim, v’yitzror bitzror hachayim et nishmatah, Ah-do-noy Hu nachalatah, v’natuach b’shalom ahl mishkavah, v’noh-mar Amen.
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INFORMATION PSALMS READINGS
Do not stand at my grave and weep, I am not there, I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow; I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain; I am the gentle autumn’s rain. When you awaken in the morning’s hush, I am the swift uplifting rush Of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the soft star that shines at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry. I am not there; I did not die. (Anonymous)
PRAYERS
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VISITING GRAVES
These prayers and meditations, in addition to the Psalms, the El Maleh Rachamim and the Kaddish may be recited.
CEMETERIES
PRAYERS ON VISITING GRAVES
INFORMATION
PRAYER AT CHILD’S GRAVE
PSALMS
“In Thee, O Lord, have I taken refuge; be Thou to me a rock of refuge; Therefore for Thy name’s sake lead me and guide me. Into Thy hand, I commit my spirit; Thou hast redeemed me, O Lord, Thou God of truth. For Thou has seen mine affliction; Thou has taken cognizance of the troubles of my soul.” –Psalm 31
READINGS
O God, from the depths I cry unto Thee. Thou has taken away from me my dear child. O help me to feel that the ways of Thy providence are wise and good, though we understand them not.
PRAYERS VISITING GRAVES
Thou, O God, knowest that my soul would not question Thy justice; I would not rebel against Thy decree. It is the tender and deep love which my dear child brought into my heart that draws me hither. O merciful Father, have mercy upon me and send the healing balm of Thy consolation to my grieving spirit.
CEMETERIES
In this moment my soul feels but little strength to praise. Yet if Thou didst take away this life, Thou also didst give it. O may the light of love which my child kindled within my heart continue to burn brightly, so that as I regain strength of my soul, I may cheer unto all my dear ones. Praised by Thou, O God, who comfortest the mourner with hope in life eternal. Amen.
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O Lord, show me the way and give me the will to live and to work so that I may reflect honor upon my dear father’s memory. Thus will I also glorify Thy name, for Thou are the Father of the fatherless, and in Thy keeping are the souls of all our dear ones. Amen.
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INFORMATION PSALMS READINGS PRAYERS
In this silent grave repose the earthly remains of my best friend, my dearest benefactor appointed by God Himself to love and protect me during the tender years of my life, my dear and my beloved father. Oh, to hear thy voice again, to clasp thy hand and to look into thy fatherly eyes for strength and for courage and for comfort! How can I repay thee for all the devotion and loving kindness which I have received at your hands.
VISITING GRAVES
“Lord, who shall sojourn in Thy tabernacle? Who shall dwell upon Thy holy mountain? He that walketh uprightly, and worketh righteousness, and speaketh truth in his heart; that hath no slander upon his tongue nor doeth evil to his fellow nor taketh on a reproach against his neighbor; in whose eyes a vile person is despised, but he honored them that fear the Lord; he that sweareth to his own hurt, and changeth not; he that putteth not out his money on interest, nor taketh a bribe against the innocent. He that doeth these things shall never be moved.” –Psalm 15
CEMETERIES
PRAYER AT FATHER’S GRAVE
INFORMATION
PRAYER AT MOTHER’S GRAVE
PSALMS
“Lord, my heart is not proud, nor mine eyes lofty; neither do I exercise myself in things too great, or in things too wonderful for me. Surely, I have stilled and quieted my soul; like a weaned child with its mother, my soul is with me like a weaned child. O Israel, hope in the Lord from this time forth and for ever.” –Psalm 131
READINGS PRAYERS VISITING GRAVES
O mother dear, I cannot think of thee as dead, though I stand before thine earthly grave, thy spirit livest and thy love is everlasting. Yea, a mother’s love is eternal, even as God is eternal who implanted that love in her heart? O mother dear, how can I begin now to thank thee or to repay thee for all that thou hast suffered and endured in order to give me life and to shelter, protect and rear me until I had reached the age of discretion and independence. And even unto the last thou hast been my loving guide and my ever present inspiration. And now, O sacred spirit of my mother, I can offer thee only the tender tear of loving and devoted memory.
CEMETERIES
O God, help me to live a life worthy of my mother’s hope and prayer. Preserve her soul in Thine all-loving peace, and may her spirit ever keep me pure and clean so that when my time comes to leave this earthly dwelling, I may be found worthy to join my mother in her eternal abode of bliss in which the noble and the pure in spirit may behold Thy countenance in everlasting joy. Amen.
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Grant I may live true to the hope and prayers which bound our hearts together. Fill me with zeal to carry out every noble thought he cherished and to fulfill every duty to my home and my dear ones which he bequeathed to me. May the memory of his love and faithfulness ever aid and inspire me. I cast my burden upon Thee, O Lord. Uphold me in the hours of my weakness, for Thou art near to the broken and contrite heart. May my life prove that love is as strong as death. Grant me more and more of the comforting faith in life immortal. May Thy blessing of peace attend me through all my days. Amen.
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INFORMATION PSALMS READINGS PRAYERS
Help me, O God, to bear this burden bravely. Teach me to bend my will to Thy supreme will that doeth all things for the best, for all Thy ways are right and all Thy judgments just. Thou didst send me untold blessings through the gift of his loving care. For these my heart overflows with thankfulness. May I not mar the gratitude I here offered by murmuring and complaints.
VISITING GRAVES
O God, behold and see the sorrow of my heart. Widowed and bereft I mourn the loss of the dear companion of my life.
CEMETERIES
PRAYER AT HUSBAND’S GRAVE
INFORMATION
PRAYER AT WIFE’S GRAVE “Give her of the fruit of her hands; and may her deeds praise her within the gates.”–Proverbs 31
PSALMS READINGS
My heart cries unto Thee, Almighty God, out of the depths of my distress. Thou alone knowest the loneliness of my days, bereft of her whom Thou gavest me as my companion and helpmate. Let me not yield to despair! Help me to be loyal to every trust she reposed in me, and steadfast to every duty her passing away has left to me. Fill me with manly courage to live true to the ideals of purity and nobility with which she inspired me.
PRAYERS VISITING GRAVES CEMETERIES
Grant unto me strength and unto our dear ones the steadfast resolve to cherish faithfully the spirit of love with which she filled our home. May the example of her goodness live on as an impulse to every good endeavor. May the bonds of our common sorrow unite more firmly the ties of our family affections. Teach me, O God, the lesson of resignation. Fill me with the firm trust that death does not end all, but that death, as in life, all are in Thy keeping. May I say with sincere humility: Thy thoughts are not our thoughts; nor are Thy ways our ways. For high as are the heavens above the earth, so high are Thy ways above our ways, and Thy thoughts above our thoughts. Amen.
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O God, in Thine infinite wisdom and justice Thou has taken him from me. I sorely miss him. But the influence of his character is and ever shall be upon me. I pray Thee, O God, to strengthen my soul with an abiding faith in life hereafter; and give me courage to bear whatever Thy providence sends unto me. According to my power, may I never fail to aid others who are in need of sympathy and help. Amen.
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INFORMATION PSALMS READINGS PRAYERS
Tender memories fill my thoughts as I stand here by the grave of my brother. Precious was the blessing that God gave me in his life. A brother, indeed, was he at all times, kind and considerate in his words, thoughtful and generous in his deeds.
VISITING GRAVES
“I will bless the Lord, who hath given me counsel; yea, in the night seasons my reins instruct me. I have set the Lord always before me; surely He is at my right hand. I shall not be moved. Therefore my heart is glad, and my glory rejoiceth, my flesh also dwelleth in safety; for Thou wilt not abandon my soul to the netherworld; neither wilt Thou suffer Thy Godly one to see the pit. Thou makest me to know the path of life; in Thy presence is fullness of joy, in Thy right hand bliss for ever more.” –Psalm 16
CEMETERIES
PRAYER AT BROTHER’S GRAVE
INFORMATION
PRAYER AT SISTER’S GRAVE
PSALMS
“Out of the depths have I called Thee, O Lord. Lord, hearken unto my voice; let Thine ears be attentive to the voice of my supplications. If Thou, Lord, shouldest mark iniquities, O Lord, who could stand? For with Thee there is forgiveness, that Thou mayest be feared. I wait for the Lord: my soul waiteth for the Lord, more than watchmen for morning; yea, more than watchmen for the morning.”–Psalm 130
READINGS
How precious to me was the deep love of my sister! And now, O God, that Thou has taken her from me there is a void which I often feel can never be filled.
PRAYERS
Her kindness, her patience, her comforting words softened the trials of many a day. As I think of all this, how heavily is my heart bowed down by the sorrow of her being taken away.
VISITING GRAVES
As I stand in the peaceful quiet of this spot, divine hope whispers in my soul that she is at rest in Thy keeping. May this thought sustain me. May I be thankful unto Thee. O God, for the life of my dear sister; and may every thought of her incline my soul to deeds of kindness, mercy, and righteousness. Amen.
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ON LEAVING THE CEMETERY ‘Then shall the dust return to the earth whence it came, and the spirit shall return unto God who gave it.’ (Eccl. 12:7) Peace be with you, all whom death has united in this field, the last home of so many of our departed. Peace be with your souls, which have been recalled by the voice of God to eternal life. Amen.
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INFORMATION PSALMS READINGS
Mayest thou rest in peace, dear friend! Death has severed the tie that united us in this life, to be renewed everlasting in a happier world, whither I shall one day follow thee. Now, faithful to thy memory, I implore God to grant repose unto thy soul; and to grant to me the grace of a reunion when His holy will shall call me hence. My God! Permit that the soul of him (her) for whom I mourn, freed from earth’s painful struggles, dangers and difficulties, and purified through Thy mercy, may share the joys of the blessed in eternity. Amen.
PRAYERS
AT A FRIEND’S OR RELATIVE’S GRAVE
VISITING GRAVES
O heavenly Father, as I stand here at the grave of my beloved grandfather (grandmother). I am grateful unto Thee for all the precious memories of his (her) life and for all that he (she) meant to me and my parents. I hope that I may follow the example of piety and goodness thou hast left to our family I will strive, with the help of God, to leave a like heritage to my children. I pray that the soul of my beloved grandfather (grandmother) be bound up in the bond of eternal life, together with the souls of all the righteous that are in Thy keeping. Amen.
CEMETERIES
AT A GRAVE OF A GRANDPARENT
INFORMATION
PRAYER ON UNVEILING MONUMENTS Read one of the following passages: Psalm 23 on pages 12-13, Psalm 121 on pages 14-15.
PSALMS
The body has died; the spirit it housed will never die. On earth our dear ones do live on through those of us to whom they were so very precious.
READINGS
(THE COVERING IS REMOVED)
PRAYERS
We now fondly dedicate this monument (plaque) to the blessed memory of _________ realizing that his (her) remains lie not only in this plot of ground but in every heart his (her) life did touch.
VISITING GRAVES
O God, we are grateful for the years we were privileged to share with him (her) â&#x20AC;&#x201D;years when he (she) brought us so much by example. And even though he (she) has left our midst, we know he (she) will never leave our hearts where his (her) memory will endure as a blessing forever.
CEMETERIES
EL MOLEH RACHAMIM (pages 34-35) KADDISH (pages 28 to 33)
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P R AY E R I N M E M O R Y O F A FAT H E R
INFORMATION
YIZKOR P R AY E R I N M E M O R Y O F A FAT H E R
PSALMS
O heavenly Father, remember the soul of my dear father whom I recall in this solemn hour. I remember with esteem the affection and kindness with which he counselled and guided me. May I ever uphold the noble heritage he transmitted unto me so that through me, his aspirations shall be fulfilled. May his soul be bound up in the bonds of eternal life and his memory ever be for a blessing. Amen.
READINGS
P R AY E R I N M E M O R Y O F A M O T H E R
PRAYERS
O heavenly Father, remember the soul of my dear mother whom I recall in this solemn hour. I remember with deep reverence and affection the solicitude with which she tended and watched over me, ever mindful of my welfare, ever anxious for my happiness. Many were the sacrifices she made in order to ennoble my heart and instruct my mind. May her soul be bound up in the bonds of eternal life and her memory ever be for a blessing. Amen.
VISITING GRAVES
F O R T H E D E A R D E PA R T E D O N E S
CEMETERIES
May God remember the souls of _____________gone to their repose; for that, I now solemnly offer charity for their sake; in reward of this, may their souls enjoy eternal life, with the souls of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob; Sarah, Rebecca, Rachel, and Leah, and the rest of the righteous males and females that are in Paradise; and let us say. Amen.
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JEWISH HOLIDAYS Secular Year 2013-14
2014-15
2015-16 2016-17 2017-18
Jewish Year
5775
5776
Rosh Hashanah Sep. 5-6
Sep. 25-26
Sep. 14-15 Oct. 3-4
Sep. 21-22
Fast of Gedaliah Sep. 8
Sep. 28
Sep. 16
Oct. 5
Sep. 24
Yom Kippurr
Sep. 14*
Oct. 4*
Sep. 23*
Oct. 12*
Sep. 30*
Sukkot
Sep. 19-25
Oct. 9-15
Sep. 28-Oct. 4 Oct. 17-23 Oct. 5-11
Shemini Atzeret Sep. 26*
Oct. 16*
Oct. 5*
Oct. 24*
Oct. 12*
Simchat Torah
Sep. 27
Oct. 17
Oct. 6
Oct. 25
Oct. 13
Chanukah
Nov. 28-Dec. 5 Dec. 17-24
Dec. 7-14 Dec. 25-Jan 1 Dec. 13-20
Purim
Mar. 16
Mar. 5
Mar. 24
Passoverr
Apr. 15-22*
Apr. 4-11*
Apr 23 -30* Apr. 11-18* Mar. 31-Apr. 7*
Shavuot
Jun. 4-5*
May 24-25* Jun. 12-13* May 31-Jun. 1* May 20-21*
5774
5777
Mar. 12
5778
Mar. 1
*Yizkor, a special memorial prayer for the departed, is recited in the synagogue four times a year; following the Torah reading on the last day of Passover; on the second day of Shavuot; on Shemini Atzeret; and on Yom Kippur
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INFORMATION
CEMETERY LOCATIONS ADATH JESHURUN CEMETERY
(215) 635-6611
1855 Bridge St. Philadelphia, PA 19124
PSALMS READINGS PRAYERS VISITING GRAVES
From Route 1 Southbound: Roosevelt Blvd (use inner drive) to Bridge St, turn left. Follow Bridge St. past Frankford Ave. Cemetery is on left. Northbound: Roosevelt Blvd. (use outer drive) to Bridge St., turn right. Follow Bridge St. past Frankford Ave. Cemetery is on left. From Center City and West: Schuylkill Expressway to Roosevelt Blvd. (Rt. 1 North). Follow to Bridge St. Turn right. Follow Bridge St. past Frankford Ave. Cemetery is on the left. From I-95 (South): Bridge St. Exit. Turn right on Bridge St. Cemetery is on the right. From I-95 (North): To Exit #27 (Harbison/Bridge St.) onto Aramingo Ave. Continue 1.2 miles to Bridge St., turn left. Cemetery is on the right.
CHEVRA BIKUR CHOLIM CEMETERY (215) 942-4700 (C ON TAC T L E V I N Eâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;S. )
CEMETERIES
1853 Bridge St., Philadelphia, PA 19124. Same directions as Adath Jeshurun Cemetery. (Continued on following pages) Please see www.levinefuneral.com for door to door directions
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CRESCENT MEMORIAL PARK
(856) 662-6313
INFORMATION
CEMETERY LOCATIONS
From Center City: Benjamin Franklin Bridge (Route 30) east to Rt. 130 North. Travel 3 ½ miles To Union Avenue (Use jughandle on right). Make U turn back onto Rt 130 South. Cemetery entrance is on the right.
From I-76 (Schuylkill Expressway): To City Avenue Exit (Route 1 South). 5.4 miles to Lansdowne Ave. Turn left. Cemetery is 0.3 miles on right. From I-476 (Blue Route): Take Exit #9 (if northbound, turn right) (If southbound, turn left) onto Route 3 East 2.5 miles to Lansdowne Ave. Bear right. Cemetery is 0.4 miles on right.
Please see www.levinefuneral.com for door to door directions
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VISITING GRAVES
8400 Lansdowne Ave, Upper Darby, PA 19082
PRAYERS
(610) 789-2104
CEMETERIES
HAR JEHUDA CEMETERY
READINGS
From I-95: Exit at the Betsy Ross Bridge into New Jersey. Follow to exit for Route 130 South, Pennsauken, stay in the center lane. Cemetery is on the right.
PSALMS
7349 Westfield Ave. Pennsauken, NJ 08110
INFORMATION
CEMETERY LOCATIONS HAR NEBO CEMETERY
(215) 535-1530
6061 Oxford Ave, Philadelphia, PA 19149
PSALMS
From Roosevelt Blvd. (U.S. Route 1): Exit at Oxford Circle. Take Oxford Ave (Route 232) North. Cemetery is 1.3 miles on right.
READINGS
From Center City: I-76 West to Route 1 North. Follow Route 1 to Oxford Circle exit. Follow Oxford Ave. (Rt 232) North. Cemetery is 1.3 miles on right.
HAR ZION CEMETERY
(215) 726-1146
1201 MacDade Blvd., Collingdale, PA 19023
PRAYERS VISITING GRAVES
From I-95: Take I-95 South to Bartram Ave. exit. Proceed to 84th Street, turn right. Follow 2 miles to Primos Ave. Turn right (Primos Ave. becomes Oak Ave.) proceed to MacDade Blvd. Turn right. Cemetery entrance is on left adjoining shopping center. From City Avenue (U.S. Route 1): Go South to SpringďŹ eld Road. Turn left. Follow to Oak Ave. Turn right. Go to MacDade Blvd. Turn left. Cemetery is 100 yds. on left adjoining shopping center
CEMETERIES
From I-476 (Blue Route): To Exit #1. Take MacDade Blvd. East for 4.1 miles to cemetery on the left adjoining shopping center. Please see www.levinefuneral.com for door to door directions
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HAYM SALOMON MEMORIAL PARK
(610) 644-1100
INFORMATION
CEMETERY LOCATIONS
From Main Line Area: Take Rt. 30 West past Paoli to Rt. 401 West, turn right. Proceed on Rt. 401, past Rt. 202, to first traffic light, Turn left then immediately turn right on Moores Rd. Cemetery is on the left.
KING DAVID MEMORIAL PARK
(215) 355-9917
READINGS
From PA Turnpike (I-276): Take Exit #326 (Valley Forge) to Route 202 South. Follow directions above.
PRAYERS
From Schuylkill Expresswayy (I-76): West from Philadelphia to Route 202 South. Follow 9.3 miles to Frazer Exit (Route 401W). Bear right to the first traffic light. Turn left. Then an immediate right on Moores Rd. Cemetery is on the left.
PSALMS
200 Moores Road, Frazer, PA 19355 www.haymsalomonmemorialpark.com
From I-95 North: Take Woodhaven Rd. exit (Route 63 West) to Route 1 North. Follow directions above. Please see www.levinefuneral.com for door to door directions
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CEMETERIES
From Roosevelt Blvd. (U.S. Route 1): Go North to Neshaminy Exit. Bear right onto Rock Hill Rd. Follow for 0.3 miles to Neshaminy Blvd. Turn left. Follow to Bristol Rd. Cemetery entrance on right.
VISITING GRAVES
3594 Bristol Road, Bensalem, PA 19020
INFORMATION
CEMETERY LOCATIONS MIKVEH ISRAEL CEMETERY
(215) 922-5446
PSALMS
Historical Site: Spruce Street between 8th and 9th Sts. Also 1114 Federal Street and 55th & Market Streets, Philadelphia, PA
MONTEFIORE CEMETERY
(215) 663-1250
READINGS
600 Church Road, Jenkintown, PA 19046 From Roosevelt Blvd: Southbound: Use outer drive. Exit at Cottman Ave.(Rt. 73). Turn right on Cottman Ave. Follow to Church Rd. Turn right. Cemetery is on left.
PRAYERS
From Roosevelt Blvd: Northbound: Use outer drive. Exit at Cottman Ave.(Route 73 ). Turn left on Cottman Ave. Follow to Church Rd. Turn right. Cemetery is on the left.
VISITING GRAVES
From North Broad St./Cheltenham Ave.: Route 611 North to Church Rd. Turn right. Follow 2.5 miles to cemetery on the left.
CEMETERIES
From Trevose/Feasterville Area: Take Street Road (Rt. 132) West to Philmont Ave. Turn left. Follow to Huntingdon Pike (Rt. 232 South). Turn left. Go to Church Rd. Turn right. Cemetery is on right. Please see www.levinefuneral.com for door to door directions
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MOUNT CARMEL CEMETERY
(215) 535-1530
INFORMATION
CEMETERY LOCATIONS
Please see www.levinefuneral.com for door to door directions
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READINGS PRAYERS
From North Broad St./Cheltenham Ave.: Take Cheltenham Ave East to Tookany Creek Parkway. Turn left. Proceed to Levick St., Turn right. Follow to Martins Mill Rd. Turn right. Follow to Oxford Ave. Turn right. Proceed to Oxford Circle and follow ½ way around to Cheltenham Ave. Continue to Frankford Ave. Turn left. Cemetery is on right.
VISITING GRAVES
From North: Use outer drive: Exit at Oxford Circle. Go ¼ around the circle to Cheltenham Ave. Follow to Frankford Ave. Turn left. Cemetery is on the right.
CEMETERIES
From Roosevelt Blvd. (US Rt 1) South: Use outer drive: Exit at Oxford Circle. Go ¾ around the circle to Cheltenham Ave. Follow to Frankford Ave. Turn left. Cemetery is on the right.
PSALMS
5701 Frankford Avenue, Philadelphia, PA 19135
INFORMATION
CEMETERY LOCATIONS MOUNT JACOB CEMETERY
(610) 583-1462
141 Bartram Avenue, Glenolden, PA 19036
PSALMS READINGS
From Schuylkill Expresswayy (I-76): West to US Rt. 1 South (City Avenue). Proceed south 8.7 miles (City Ave becomes Township Line Rd.) to N. Rolling Rd. Turn left. Follow to SpringďŹ eld Rd. Turn left. Proceed to Oak Ave. Turn right. Follow for 1.5 miles. Cemetery is on the right. From I-95 South: Exit at Bartram Ave. Follow to 84th St. Turn right. Go to Primos Ave. Turn right. (Primos Ave. becomes Oak Ave.) Cemetery is on the left past MacDade Blvd.
PRAYERS
From I-476 (Blue Route) South: Take Exit #1, MacDade Blvd. east to Oak Ave. Turn left. Cemetery is on the left.
VISITING GRAVES
MOUNT LEBANON CEMETERY
(610) 583-3151
1200 Bartram Avenue, Collingdale, PA 19023
CEMETERIES
Refer to Mt. Jacob Directions. Directly across Oak Avenue from Mt. Jacob Cemetery. Please see www.levinefuneral.com for door to door directions
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MOUNT SHARON CEMETERY
(610) 543-8900
INFORMATION
CEMETERY LOCATIONS
Please see www.levinefuneral.com for door to door directions
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CEMETERIES
VISITING GRAVES
PRAYERS
From I-476 ( Blue Route): Take Exit #5. Follow US Rt. 1 North to Springfield Rd. Turn right. Cemetery is 1.5 miles on the right.
READINGS
From Schuylkill Expressway (I-76): West to US Rt. 1 South (City Avenue). Proceed south 8.7 miles (City Ave becomes Township Line Rd.) to N. Rolling Rd. Turn left. Follow to Springfield Rd. Turn left. Cemetery is ½ mile on the right.
PSALMS
502 E. Springfield Road, Springfield, PA 19064
INFORMATION
CEMETERY LOCATIONS MOUNT SINAI CEMETERY
(215) 886-8430
1901 Bridge St, Philadelphia, PA 19124
PSALMS
From Route 1 Southbound: Roosevelt Blvd. (use inner drive) to Bridge St. Turn left. Follow Bridge St. past Frankford Ave. Cemetery is on left.
READINGS
From Route 1 Northbound: Roosevelt Blvd. (use outer drive) to Bridge St. Turn right. Follow Bridge St. past Frankford Ave. Cemetery is on left. From Center City and West: Schuylkill Expressway to Roosevelt Blvd (Rt. 1 North).
PRAYERS
Follow to Bridge St. Turn right. Follow Bridge St. past Frankford Ave. Cemetery is on the left. From I-95 South: Bridge St. exit. Turn right on Bridge St. Cemetery is on the right.
VISITING GRAVES
From I-95 North: Exit #27 (Harbison/Bridge St.) onto Aramingo Ave. Continue 1.2 miles to Bridge St. Turn left. Cemetery is on the right.
CEMETERIES
Please see www.levinefuneral.com for door to door directions
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ROOSEVELT MEMORIAL PARK
(215)673-7500
INFORMATION
CEMETERY LOCATIONS
Please see www.levinefuneral.com for door to door directions
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CEMETERIES
VISITING GRAVES
From PA Turnpike (I-276): Exit 351. Take US Rt. 1 South to Old Lincoln Hwy. Turn right. Cemetery is on the right.
READINGS
From Roosevelt Blvd (US Rt. 1): US Rt. 1 North. Follow to Old Lincoln Hwy. (jughandle on right). Turn left. Cemetery is on the right.
PRAYERS
From I-95 North: Follow I-95 to Woodhaven Road exit (Rt. 63 West) to US Rt. 1 North. Follow to Old Lincoln Hwy. (Use jughandle on right). Turn left. Cemetery is on the right.
PSALMS
2701 Old Lincoln Highway, Feasterville, PA 19053
INFORMATION
CEMETERY LOCATIONS SHALOM MEMORIAL PARK
(215) 673-4600
101 Byberry Rd., Philadelphia, PA 19116
PSALMS
From I-95 North: Follow to Woodhaven Road exit (Rt. 63 West). Highway merges into Byberry Rd. Turn right on Byberry Rd. Follow past Philmont Ave. to Pine Road. Turn right. Cemetery is on the right.
READINGS
From US Route 1: Roosevelt Blvd. (use inner drive). North to Byberry Rd. Turn left. Follow past Philmont Ave. to Pine Road. Turn right. Cemetery entrance is on right.
PRAYERS
From North Broad St./Cheltenham Ave.: Take Old York Rd. (Rt. 611 North) to Meetinghouse Rd. Turn right. Follow to Huntingdon Pike (Rt. 232). Turn left. Follow to Philmont Ave. Turn right. Go to Pine Rd. and turn left. Pass Byberry Rd. Cemetery entrance is on right.
VISITING GRAVES CEMETERIES
Please see www.levinefuneral.com for door to door directions
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JOSEPH
& SONS, INC.
Family Owned And Operated Since 1883
4737 Street Road • Trevose, PA 19053 (215) 942-4700 Jonathon D. Levine, Supervisor 7112 North Broad Street • Philadelphia, PA 19126 (215) 927-2700 Joseph H. Levine, Supervisor 2811 West Chester Pike • Broomall, PA 19008 (610) 325-2000 Brian M. Levine, Supervisor www.levinefuneral.com e-mail: info@levinefuneral.com All Locations: (800) 992-3339 Fax: (215) 942-4737
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