Family: Caring for Loved Ones

Caring for Those You Love

Story by Amy Castellow

As life’s seasons shift, the holidays can take on a new meaning and become an opportunity to make new memories with your loved ones. However, if you’re caring for an elderly parent or loved one, celebrating during the holiday season can fall flat or not be a priority. There are ways to make the most of the holidays in this difficult season, even as a caregiver.

Adapt your favorite holiday traditions to accomodate your loved one.

Decorating the Christmas tree together can be such a fun tradition. But when your parent's physical limitations make it more difficult, it can feel like you should stop altogether. Before you decorate all alone, consider how you can adapt your traditions so your loved one can participate.

Instead of buying a full-size tree, setting it up, and decorating it, consider getting an artificial mini tree or decorating a mantle or corner of the house that's easily put up and taken down. Don't forget all your favorite ornaments!

Capture memories and reflect on old ones using technology.

Mini polaroid cameras are perfect for taking pictures that your loved one can instantly keep. Alternatively, use a printer that can print photos directly from your phone.

This is also a great opportunity to look over old family pictures together, too.

Find time for yourself and seek assistance when needed.

Caring for a loved one can be challenging, especially during the busy holiday season, full of family and work responsibilities. Scheduling time for self-care can make all the difference.

Engaging the help of professionals can also reduce your stress. The team at Park Visalia is always available to answer your questions about caring for your loved one and the benefits of a senior living community.

Gather at your loved one’s home.

Social interaction provides many health benefits to seniors. Having family gather at your parents’ home can bring joy to your loved one. If you can’t gather at your loved one’s home, make sure that your gathering place can accommodate them. It should include a comfy place to sit (at the center of everything) and a quiet place to nap.

If mom or dad needs the assistance of medical devices, create a checklist before picking them up, so that nothing is missed (ie. breathing aids, medications, monitors).

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