Faith In Our Community by Lisa D

FAITH in Our Community:

a List of LGBT related Resources for Individuals of Faith

At Equality Illinois, we envision a fair and unified Illinois where everyone is treated equally with dignity and respect and where all people live freely regardless of sexual orientation, gender identity or expression. As part of our work toward that vision, we launched the Faith & Freedom Initiative to build bridges and strengthen relationships between communities of faith and the LGBT equality movement. People of faith and religious leaders are already among the strongest advocates for LGBT equality. And the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender community are already an integral part of the religious community. We also recognize that some people may struggle reconciling traditional faith issues with issues of sexual or gender identity. Therefore, we offer this resource guide to help identify welcoming congregations, helpful religious and issue-specific resources, and materials to start insightful conversations. Whether you are a newly out LGBT person in your community of faith, someone who is a friend or family member of an LGBT person, or perhaps just someone looking for information, we hope that this guide can be of use to you. This is, by no means, an exhaustive list; there are many other resources available, and no one book or website has all the answers. Our hope is that we may offer you access to information to help you begin to answer your questions. We wish you the best of luck on your journey.

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BOOKS

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MOVIES

COMMUNITIES OF FAITH ONLINE Page 8

OTHER ONLINE RESOURCES Page 10

by denomination

ADDITIONAL ONLINE RESOURCES Page 11

non faith specific

BOOKS Congregations in Conflict: The Battle over Homosexuality

by Keith Hartman (Rutgers University Press, 1996) — “Many of the faith communities Hartman portrays have great difficulty accepting homosexuality: a Methodist congregation is alarmed by its pastor’s outreach to the local gay community; congregations are expelled from the Southern Baptist Convention for seeking accommodation with homosexual members; Quakers struggle to find accord with same-sex marriages; and a straight minister of the gay Metropolitan Community Church is forced from her pulpit for becoming preoccupied with caring for congregates dying of AIDS. But also among Hartman’s cast of searching Christians are lay-conservatives whose commitment to reconciling differences within the church triumphed over prejudice.” —Copyright 1996 Reed Business Information, Inc.

Crossing the Bridge: From Mennonite Boy to Gay Man. by James L. Helmuth (iUniverse, 2009) -- “Crossing the Bridge is a courageous memoir by a psychologist who has lived two lives; as a devoted husband for twenty-two years and father of two children, and as a gay man enjoying a stable and loving relationship with another man. Dr. Helmuth grew up within the painfully narrow confines of the Mennonite religion and nearly took his own life in the process of discovering and living his true gay identity. Unsparingly honest, this memoir reads often like a mystery story, sometimes like a tender recreation of the past — always as a poignant, bittersweet narrative of a boy becoming a man...and a man becoming his true self.” —Joseph Dispenza

Fortunate Families: Catholic families with lesbian daughters and gay sons

by Mary Ellen Lopata (Trafford Publishing, 2006) — Explores the lived experience of Catholic parents who love their gay children and their Church. Includes illuminating stories, survey results, and a discussion of church documents.

Gay Theology Without Apology

by Gary Comstock (Pilgrim Press, 1993) — Candidly self-revelatory, these essays show how, only in taking our own lives seriously, can we be lovers of the world. This book is for all LGBT Christians on the edges of the church.

Homosexuality and The Bible

by Walter Wink (Fellowship of the Reconciliation, 1996) — available for download at www.forusa.org

Homosexuality: A Positive Catholic Perspective, New Ways Ministry

(New Ways Ministry, 2003). — A 66-page booklet in Q&A format covers topics like Pastoral Ministry, Sexual Ethics, Civil Rights, Coming Out, Parental Concerns, Myths and Stereotypes, Scripture, etc.

Jesus, the Bible, and Homosexuality

by Jack Rogers (Westminster Knox Press, 2009) — Rogers argues for equal rights in both the church and society for lesbians, gays, bisexuals, and transgender people. He charts the church’s history of using biblical passages to oppress marginalized groups, argues for a Christ-centered reading of Scripture, debunks stereotypes about gays and lesbians, and explores texts used most frequently against homosexuals and gay ordination. The book also includes a guide for group study or personal reflection.

Jonathan Loved David: Homosexuality in Biblical Times, by Thomas Marland Horner (Westminster Press, 1978) — Tom Horner considers all the references to homosexuality in the Bible: the stories of Sodom and Gibeah, David and Jonathan, Ruth and Naomi, and passages from Deuteronomy, Leviticus, Romans, I Corinthians, and I Timothy. Teachers, students, and anyone open to reconsidering homosexuality in the light of the Scriptures will profit from this clearly written work.

Mamas Boy, Preachers Son

by Kevin Jennings (Beacon Press, 2007) — By age six, Kevin Jennings knew he was going straight to hell. His father, an evangelist preacher, as much as told him so. On Kevin’s eighth birthday, his father suffered a fatal heart attack as Kevin stood, helpless, at his side. When he cried at the funeral, Kevin’s older brothers admonished him, “Don’t be a faggot.” The warning was a key lesson. Later on, Kevin worked to form the first gay/straight alliance, and went on to found GLSEN, the Gay, Lesbian, Straight Educational Network, now a national education organization with a presence in all fifty states.

Science Scripture and Homosexuality

by Alice Ogden Bellis and Terry Hufford (Pilgrim Press, 2002)— The collaborative work of a biblical scholar and a biology professor, this book addresses scripture passages relating to homosexuality and explains the foundation of genetics and the growing evidence suggesting an organic basis for sexual orientation. Written in a highly accessible manner, the book is ideal for congregational discussion.

Straight Parents, Gay Children

by Robert Bernstein (Mouth Press, 1995) — Robert Bernstein’s moving account of how he came to terms with his daughter’s homosexuality, and how the experience has enriched his life. Bernstein discusses the myths surrounding homosexuality, accepting the news, parents who speak out, public figures who have gay children, and more. This is a survival guide for all parents who wish to help their gay children cope with the coming out process.

Swinging on the Garden Gate: A Spiritual Memoir

by Elizabeth J. Andrew (Skinner House, 2000) — A woman’s coming-of-age journey through the rugged landscape of Wales to the reflective quiet of a retreat center. Along the way she questions and explores the depth of her Methodist faith as she comes to terms with her bisexual identity.

The Blue Book: What We Wish We Had Known, by The Presbyterian Church (Mt. Kisco, NY, 8th printing) — available for download at http://www.pcmk.org/bluebook.htm.

The Church and the Homosexual

by John McNeil (Beacon Press, 1993) — In this “brave and good book which shatters bad myths” (Commonweal), McNeill shows that the Bible does not condemn homosexuality, and argues that the Church must not continue its homophobic practices.

Transgender Good News

by Patricia Conover (New Wineskins Press, 2002) — Using an easily understood analogy, Conover carefully constructs a view of transgender experience and expression with which the transgender reader can wholly identify. For the religious community there is a special annex devoted to guidance for the pastoral care worker as well.

Voices of Hope: A Collection of Positive Catholic Writings on Gay & Lesbian Issues by Jeannine Gramick (Center for Homophobia Education, 1995) — A collection of positive writings from numerous sources around the world stating the Catholic Church’s teachings on Homosexuality, and possible directions to be taken when relating to issues of same sex–orientation.

What the Bible Really Says About Homosexuality

by Daniel A. Helminiak (Alamo Square Press, 1995) — “Helminiak, a Roman Catholic priest, has done careful reading in current biblical scholarship about homosexuality. While cautioning against viewing biblical teaching as ‘the last word on sexual ethics,’ he stresses the need for accurate understanding of what the biblical ‘facts’ are and concludes that ‘the Bible supplies no real basis for the condemnation of homosexuality.’ Highly recommended for all libraries.” —Copyright 1994, Reed Business Information, Inc.

Wrestling With the Angel

by Brian Bouldrey (ed.) (Riverhead Books, 1995) — In these essays, writers reconcile their belief in God with the religious institutions in which they were raised and by which they were ultimately rejected. Intensely personal, these essays take readers beyond the obvious difficulty of religious exile and into the heart of theology — emerging as passionate acts of faith that speak to all who are yearning for a richer spiritual life.

MOVIES Fish Out of Water

(2009) — Fish out of Water tackles the seven Bible verses used to condemn homosexuality and justify marriage discrimination. This feature documentary uses humor and original animation to make a traditionally complex and controversial topic accessible to those who don’t like talking about religion and sexuality. More importantly, Fish out of Water sits down with hundreds of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender folks to impart their experiences with faith and sexuality. This unique lens spans across culture, race, religion, age, socio-economic level and puts a relatable face on these powerful themes. — see more at http://www.fishoutofwaterfilm.com.

For the BIBLE tells me so (2007) — an exploration of the intersection between

religion and homosexuality in the U.S. and how the religious right has used its interpretation of the Bible to stigmatize the gay community. — see more at http://www.forthebibletellsmeso.org/indexd.htm.

Trembling Before G d

(2001) — Shot in six countries, this documentary shatters assumptions about faith, sexuality, and religious fundamentalism. Built around intimately-told personal stories of Hasidic and Orthodox Jews who are gay or lesbian, the film portrays a group of people who face a profound dilemma — how to reconcile their passionate love of Judaism and the Divine with the drastic Biblical prohibitions that forbid homosexuality. As the film unfolds, we meet a range of complex individuals — some hidden, some out — from the world’s first openly gay Orthodox rabbi to closeted, married Hasidic gays and lesbians to those abandoned by religious families to Orthodox lesbian high-school sweethearts. Many have been tragically rejected and their pain is raw, yet with irony, humor and resilience, they love, care, struggle, and debate with a thousands-year old tradition. Ultimately, they are forced to question how they can pursue truth and faith in their lives — and survive — while upholding the universal struggle to belong. See more at http://www.filmsthatchangetheworld.com/site.

A Jihad for Love

(2007) — Fourteen centuries after the revelation of the holy Qur’an to the Prophet Muhammad, Islam today is the world’s second largest and fastest growing religion. Muslim gay filmmaker Parvez Sharma travels the many worlds of this dynamic faith, discovering the stories of its most unlikely storytellers: lesbian and gay Muslims. Produced by Sandi DuBowski (Trembling Before G-d) and Sharma, A Jihad for Love was filmed in 12 countries and 9 languages and comes from the heart of Islam. Looking beyond a hostile and war-torn present, it reclaims the Islamic concept of a greater Jihad, whose true meaning is akin to ‘an inner struggle’ or ‘to strive in the path of God’ — allowing its remarkable subjects to move beyond the narrow concept of Jihad as holy war. See more at http://www.ajihadforlove.com/home.html.

COMMUNITIES OF FAITH ONLINE Baptist:

The Association of Welcoming and Affirming Baptists

http://www.wabaptists.org.

Buddhist:

Soka Gakkai International

SGI USA

http://www.sgi-usa.org.

Queer Dharma http://queerdharma.org.

Catholic:

Dignity USA

http://www.dignityusa.org.

AGLO http://www.aglochicago.org. Fortunate Families http://fortunatefamilies.com.

Disciples of Christ: http://www.gladalliance.org.

Gay, Lesbian and Affirming Disciples Alliance, Inc.

Episcopal: Integrity USA http://www.integrityusa.org.

Evangelical Lutheran Church of America: Lutherans Concerned North America Reconciling in Christ http://www.lcna.org.

Islam:

Muslims for Progressive Values

http://mpvusa.org.

Jewish:

Alliance for Jewish Renewal

https://www.aleph.org.

Jewish Reconstructionist Federation http://www.jrf.org. The National Center for Sexual & Gender Diversity http://www.jewishmosaic.org. Union for Reform Judaism: http://www.urj.org. United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism http://www.uscj.org. Union for Traditional Judaism: http://www.utj.org.

Mennonite Brethren:

Brethren Mennonite Council for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Interests http://www.bmclgbt.org/index.shtml

Methodist:

Reconciling Ministries

http://www.rmnetwork.org/

Metropolitan Community Church http://www.mccchurch.org.

Mormons:

Affirmation, Gay & Lesbian Mormons

http://www.affirmation.org.

Presbyterian: http://www.mlp.org.

More Light

Quaker: American Friends Service Committee LGBT Rights & Recognition

http://www.afsc.org/lgbt.

Friends for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer Concerns http://flgbtqc.quaker.org.

Unitarian Universalist http://www.uua.org.

United Church of Christ: http://www.ucccoalition.org.

Open and Affirming

ADDITIONAL ONLINE RESOURCES by denomination Christian A Christian Voice for GLBTA Rights http://christianglbtrights.blogspot.com The Center for Lesbian and Gay Studies in Religion and Ministry http://www.clgs.org Christian Gays http://www.christiangays.com Evangelicals Concerned Creating Safe Places for GLBT Christians http://www.ecwr.org Institute for Inclusive Christianity http://www.inclusivechristians.org Sister Friends Together http://www.christianlesbians.com Soulforce: Freedom for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people from religious & political oppression through the practice of relentless nonviolent resistance http://www.soulforce.org

Jewish Gay and Jewish Yahoo Group http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gayandjewish Nehirim: GLBT Jewish Culture and Spirituality http://www.nehirim.org OrthoDykes http://www.orthodykes.org OrthoGays http://www.orthogays.org Additional listings may be available at http://www.gaychurch.org/Find_a_Church/united_states/us_illinois.htm. If you live in the Chicago area, there is also a great resource of LGBT-friendly churches available here http://www.chicagowelcomingchurches.org.

ADDITIONAL ONLINE RESOURCES non路faith specific

Allied for Equality project of PFLAG Northern IL Council and Equality Illinois: www.alliedforequality.org. Equality Illinois: www.eqil.org Member of the Equality Federation www.equalityfederation.org) PFLAG: Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays Northern Illinois Council: www.pflagillinois.org (Member of PFLAG www.pflag.org)