Family First - Liverpool ECHO supplement

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From bringing baby home to choosing a school...your guide to early years parenting

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Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Contents Page 3: Bringing baby home Pages 4-5: Creating a nursery Pages 6-7: Prams and car seats Page 8: Registering the birth and Christenings Page 9: Classes and groups Page 10-11: Bridal dresses Pages 12-13: Best dressed babies and trendy toddlers Page 14: Weaning and healthy eating Page 15: Back to work – childcare and money matters Page 16-17: Top toys and the importance of reading Pages 18-19: Perfect parties Page 20-21: Family days out Page 22: Choosing a school Pages 23: Top tips and useful information Words: Michelle Rushton Design: Jan Nethercote Front picture courtesy of Mini Mode at Boots Page 2 images courtesy of Mini Mode at Boots and Mamas & Papas

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ECOMING a parent is a life-enhancing and joyous experience. From the moment you first hold your bundle of joy in your arms, you will fall head over heels in love.

But babies will also turn your world upside down – and from dealing with sleepless nights to dealing with toddler tantrums and potty training later on – there’s challenges every step of the way.

And those tiny little people come with so many needs – from cots and prams to clothes and high chairs – the list is endless.

Our guide is aimed at helping you get used to your new found status as a parent, with useful tips on what to buy, as well as plenty of support and advice on all issues from registering the birth to weaning.

We bring you some really useful advice from real parents and couldn’t resist throwing in some really cute pictures of those cheeky monkeys.

Happy parenting!

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FAMILY FIRST 3

BRINGING BABY HOME

Be prepared for your new arrival A

S proud parents, there’s nothing more exciting than bring your bundle of joy home from hospital for the first time.

But often, parents-to-be are so swept up with the anticipation of the birth that they forget to look beyond the big event so those first few days at home with your new arrival can be a bit of a shock to the system.

One minute you're on cloud nine, cooing over your bundle of joy – the next, you're down to earth with a bump, getting used to a new routine and surviving on a few hours' sleep.

It's exciting and exhausting all right, getting to know your son or daughter and learning how to care for their every need, but these early days can be made a little easier with some forward planning.

A few weeks before your due date, (presuming junior arrives on time!), stock up on groceries and make lots of meals which you can freeze. Then when you come home, you don't have to worry about slaving over a hot stove.

Try and get the cleaning out of the way before you bring baby home – hey, maybe that's a job for dads to do in between hospital visits? Then you can relax in the knowledge that you are bringing your newborn into a nice, clean environment. You could even rope some well-wishing relatives into ensuring your pad is spick and span.

This leaves you free to enjoy a 'babymoon,' taking time out to snuggle up and bond as a new family without chores getting in the way.

And even though they may be knocking your door down, visitors should be kept to a minimum or you will be bombarded with hoards of family and friends eager to catch a glimpse of the new arrival.

Explain to people that you just need a little time together and to adjust to your new role as parents – they will understand. Then when you feel ready, invite them round in your own time.

And don’t be afraid to put them to good use!

When visitors do pop round, don’t feel obliged to

cater for them or make endless cups of tea – ask them to put the kettle on and make snacks for you, or even wash a few dishes – most people won’t mind. They will be glad to help and remember what it was like to be a new parent.

It takes a good few weeks for a family to settle into a routine, learning to share responsibilities, as well as getting used to a change in sleeping patterns.

One thing people always advise new parents to do is to take time to rest during the day. They say – when baby sleeps, you should sleep – which is good in theory, but in reality, it’s easier said than done when there's a mountain of pots in the sink or you've run out of clean clothes. But try to heed their advice and take the opportunity to enjoy a little catnap whenever you can.

Before baby takes up residence in your abode, there will be a certain amount of things you need to buy – from a car seat to a cot – which can be very costly. But there's no need to rush out and buy everything on the baby books' 'what to buy' lists.

There are some essential purchases which you need to make before junior's arrival, such as a car seat for transporting your newborn from hospital, but with some items it might be better to wait and find out if you really need them before splashing out.

For example, will you be breast or bottle feeding? The beauty of breastfeeding is that, there

Moses Basket, £60, from Next

GOOD BUYS: You will need plenty of bibs for when your baby feeds, such as these from Marks & Spencer

BASIC BABY BUYS SLEEPING

Moses basket with stand for rocking baby to sleep Cotton sheets and cellular blankets, or a baby sleeping bag Room thermometer Baby monitors

CHANGING

Padded change mat Lots of nappies Nappy bags or nappy bin Nappy grips (if your nappies aren't fitted with fastenings) Cotton wool balls Top to tail bowl Wipes (make most of buy one get one free special offers!)

Barrier cream such as Sudocrem Rattle for distracting baby!

Baby changing bag

BATHING

Baby bath with stand Hooded bath towels Thermometer for bath Baby shampoo and body wash Baby lotion Baby nail clippers

CLOTHING

CUTE: Soft Plush Bear, £7.99, from Adams is no equipment necessary to feed your little one – although a breast feeding pillow can be useful.

If you decide to bottle feed, however, you will need to invest in a steriliser (steam or electric), as well as around six bottles with teats and lids, a bottle brush to ensure the bottles are really clean, and a tin of formula milk.

Moses baskets are a popular choice of bed for babies as they are lightweight, can be easily moved around the house and can be placed alongside the parents' bed.

However, it's not worth spending the earth on one, as babies grow out of them so quickly and before you know it, they will be ready for a cot.

If you're strapped for cash, you will find many bargains in charity shops and car boot sales, which are as good as new. However, if you buy a Moses basket or cot second hand, it's a good idea to buy a new mattress.

See panel on the right for our guide to the basic baby buys but here's one word of advice. Try to look at how they work before baby comes and time to practise installing the car seat, or folding the pram into the car. They may seem tricky to fathom at first, especially if you are soothing a crying baby – but with a bit of practice it will all become second nature.

Extensive range for girls and boys from newborn to 16 years.

Experienced staff on hand only too happy to help and advise. Also stockists of D&G, Dior and Lelli Kelly Footwear.

635 Prescot Road, Old Swan, Liverpool, L13 5XA Tel: 0151 220 0113 www.kathrynsonline.co.uk A deposit secures a garment for 4 weeks

Lots of vests and sleep suits at least six of each Scratch mittens Hats Cardigans Socks An all in one winter suit if baby is born in winter A wide hat if baby born is in summer

FEEDING

Steriliser - steam or electric Several bottles, teats and bottle covers Brush for cleaning bottles Tin of formula milk Muslin cloths Bibs

BREAST FEEDING

Nursing bras Breast pads Breast feeding pillow Nipple cream or soothers Breast pump - better to wait until you have established feeing Bottles for expressed breast milk, teats and covers Steriliser for cleaning bottles

OUT & ABOUT

Rear facing car seat Sling or baby carrier Pram Change bag Baby chair/swing Dummies Baby bouncer Play mat or activity gym Small plush toys or rattles

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CREATING A NURSERY

Creating a haven for your newborn

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OR the first six months, babies usually sleep in their parents’ room before moving into their own bedroom, or nursery.

Transforming an ordinary room in your home into a haven for your little one to grow up in is a magical experience, but where do you start?

A cot bed is always a good investment as it serves as a cot whilst your little darling is a baby but can be turned into a bed when they get older saving you having to buy a new bed.

But what other items do you need to kit out your children’s first bedroom?

Rob Chambers, commercial manager of wooden furniture at Mamas & Papas, advised: “You need to think about the activities that are going to take place in the nursery – sleeping, changing, playing, storing etc. Then look at the needs those activities create, like a crib, then cot bed, how are you going to change the baby?

“A changer is an important item to have in the nursery. Dependant on how much space you have will come down to what type of changer you choose – whether it’s a stand alone changer, or a unit that fits on top of the dresser.”

You will probably need plenty of storage space, so it’s always a good idea to kit out the nursery with a wardrobe, storage chests, bookcases, and dressers.

Interior storage boxes and baskets which can be hidden under cots are becoming popular. Another useful item of furniture is a comfy chair or rocking chair for mums and dads to sit in while feeding their baby.

When it comes to decorating the nursery, there are a variety of options – whether you want to create a calming environment with soothing colours or a more colourful and fun space and of course, your choice will be influenced by the sex of your child.

Lots of stores offer complete nursery ranges from wallpaper and borders to matching accessories such as curtains, light shades and rugs. You will also find lots of fun accessories to stimulate your child’s senses from cot mobiles and clocks to pictures and bookends to fun tie backs. To make the nursery even

cosier, add some little cushions, or soft toys.

Sonia Kelly, head of interiors, toys and gifts at Mamas & Papas, revealed: “Generally, if you don’t know the sex of your baby when you come to decorate – choosing something quite neutral with hints of colour works well.”

It is vital that baby is kept at the right temperature in the nursery while they snooze.

Experts recommend the perfect temperature for babies’ rooms is between 16-18 degrees Celsius.

You can buy room thermometers which change colour when the room is too hot or too cold, such as the Groegg Thermometer.

When it comes to bedding, many parents are opting for baby sleeping bag. which really are a Godsend! As there’s no blankets to kick off, it means baby won’t wake up feeling cold, so the whole family get a better night’s sleep.

Another important factor affecting your baby’s sleep is lighting.

Installing dimmer switches, can be useful and many parents find blackout blinds and liner curtains useful to keep out the light and ensure a dark and peaceful room.

Sweet dreams all round!

HOW MANY BLANKETS? WHEN it comes to bedding, it’s important not to let your baby overheat by over wrapping them.

STYLISH: Bookcase £225, Cot/Junior Bed £250, Storage Chest £165, Dresser/Changer £380, Shelf £65 - all from the Prairie Furniture Collection at Mamas & Papas

Here’s a general guide of how many blankets/sheets you need: 15ºC – a sheet and four blankets 18ºC – a sheet and three blankets 21ºC – a sheet and two blankets 24ºC – a sheet and one blanket 27ºC – a sheet only Remember to place your baby at the bottom of the cot, with their feet touching the base so that they don’t wriggle down below the blankets and get too hot.

Avoid pillows and duvets until your child reaches 12-months-old, as they prevent the loss of heat.

BEDDING: Cot bed – £299, bumper – £20, cot quilt – £25, fitted sheet (set of 2) – £10, curtains from – £40, embroidered fleece (from bed in a bag set) – £60, and hedgehog pyjama case – £15, from Next

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FAMILY FIRST 5

CREATING A NURSERY

PINE: Three Piece Set , from the Moda Furniture Collection at Mamas & Papas

TRADITIONAL: Autograph Wooden Rocking Horse, £75, from Marks & Spencer

Murals are so magical

MATCHING: The Humphrey's Corner range of cot bumpers, mobiles and accessories at Mothercare

Stockists Toff Toggs Cakewalk Marese Barbara Farbra Converse Kenzo Moschino Jottum Dior Clayeux Miss Grant Calvin Klein

ONE way to brighten up the nursery to fuel your child’s imagination is to create a special mural.

There are many mural artists in Merseyside who can create bespoke fantasy walls on a variety of themes – from dinosaurs and outer space to fairy kingdoms.

But if your budget doesn’t quite stretch to paying for an artist to paint your nursery, why not unleash your inner Picasso and have a go yourself ?

You can buy mural stencil kits which you can paint yourself. For example, Mural

by Numbers, the brainchild of interior designer and

mother of two Sarah Hodgkins, supplies transfers that you trace onto the wall and then fill in with paint.

There are a myriad of designs to choose from including fairies, princesses, spaceships and pirates.

Depending on your creative abilities, you can personalise the design and add your own ideas but if you are somewhat lacking in the artistic department, just stick to tracing the design and filling it in and you won’t go far wrong.

For further information on Mural by Numbers email magic@muralbynumbers.

MAGIC: Create your own mural in your child's co.uk or call 01908 543530. bedroom with help from Mural By Numbers

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Broadway, Norris Green, Liverpool 11 Tel: 0151 256 0733 also at Inn Shops, Huyton Town Centre Former site of Junior Choice, Huyton

Stockists Catimini Monnalisa Deux Par Deux Elsy Mayoral Pampalina Lelli Kelly Miniman Oilily Baby Graziella Pointer

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Tuesday, March 23, 2010

OUT & ABOUT

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Out and about with your baby

VERSATILE: Mothercare's revolutionary forward to parent facing travel system - the Mothercare Spin. Priced £420, the direction the baby faces can be changed in less than five seconds whilst still occupied!

TRADITIONAL: Mothercare's My Choice™ combination pushchair

FACE-TO-FACE EARLY years professionals say that young children need face-to-face communication to fully develop as sociable talkers and learners.

Elizabeth Day, parenting consultant at Mothercare says: “A parent facing pushchair is the ideal opportunity for that invaluable interaction between baby and parent.

“Research has shown that frequent communication during baby’s first year is crucial for helping early talking and has a positive influence on the whole child’s development and wellbeing.”

In addition, there are benefits of children facing outward too particularly as they get older.

Not only do children watch others, look and learn when out at the zoo or park, it also can provide a welcome distraction for those times when some extra stimulus is needed.

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FTER a few days of getting to know your newborn, you will no doubt feel the urge to get out and about and show off your baby to the world, as well as walking off those extra pounds gained during pregnancy!

There are several different styles of baby transport and it is not surprising that many expectant parents are easily confused by the different terminology used within the nursery industry such as buggy, pushchair, travel system and combination.

With the many different styles available, Mamas & Papas retail store staff are trained to help parents choose the best pram for their lifestyle.

Sally Whitehouse, from Mamas & Papas, explained what you need to think about before investing in a pram. “The first consideration when choosing your pram has to be your lifestyle needs. Do you live in the city centre or a rural environment? This will establish what kind of chassis you need. Do you have a car? If so, will your pram fold up easily into the boot?

“Look for a deep easily-accessible shopping basket, a sturdy rain cover and hood and a snug footmuff to keep your baby warm during the winter months. Don’t forget to check whether coordinating accessories such as the parasol and changing bag are available.

“Another important decision that is often not considered until it is too late is where the pram is going to live whilst not in use.

“A lightweight buggy can stay in the car or be stored in a cloak room but a larger pram will need space where you can wheel it into the house.

“Weight is also an important factor.

Can you lift the pram into the car, on and off the bus or into your house?

“If you regularly travel on public transport a lightweight collapsible buggy may be the best choice.”

Sally also advised: “Always check that the buggy you are buying is suitable for the child’s age. Some buggies are only suitable from six months plus, whereas others are

suitable from birth.

“Ensure that the buggy’s handle height is suitable for you and your partner or is height adjustable.

“You’ll need a rain cover if it is not included in the price to protect your baby from the elements - all Mamas & Papas buggies come with a suitable rain cover.”

If you are a regular car user then you may want to consider a travel system.

This is a pushchair and a first stage infant carrier car seat. Pushchairs are often more substantial than lightweight buggies but can still fold compactly for convenient storage when not in use.

For parents who prefer to walk and get out and about, a pram with a separate carrycot (either as part of the package or purchased separately as an accessory) and forward and rear facing seat unit could be the answer.

The most significant positive for choosing a combination system is that you have everything you need from birth to three-years-old.

The carrycot offers maximum comfort for a new born baby and can also be used, if suitable, for overnight sleeping for the first six months. It can also be used if stopping a friends or relatives overnight. with a reversible seat unit parent baby interaction can take place whilst out and about and as baby grows and becomes ready to face the world many adventures can be shared.

Your baby’s comfort is the priority but it is also important you choose a design you’re proud to be seen out and about with as you’ll be using your pram a lot and possibly not just for one baby.

For more information on Mamas & Papas range of prams, pushchairs and buggies, telephone 0845 268 2000 or visit the website at mamasand papas.com

MODERN: Mylo pushchair, from Mamas & Papas

MUST-HAVE TRAVEL KIT

● Baby carriers/slings – are great for keeping baby close to you when you’re on the move. ● Changing bags – can often be bought to match your pram and are essential for carrying everything you need from nappies to bottles. ● Footmuffs – keep junior nice and snug during the winter months. ● Parasols and sunshades – shield your little one from the sun’s harsh rays. ● Pram blankets – always a must for those colder days. You can also buy pushchair liners for extra warmth. ● Raincovers – you just never know when the heavens will open so a rain hood is vital for keeping your baby dry. ● Travel cots – can be folded up small and are great for when you go to stay somewhere without a cot. ● Travel toys – are a must for entertaining your little one.

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FAMILY FIRST 7

OUT & ABOUT Four year’s of car seat safety

CARRIER:This Cybex Aton Group 0 infant carrier, priced £115, from Mamas & Papas, is extremely lightweight weighing only 3.5kg.

COSY: Maxi-Cosi CabrioFix infant Car seat in Deep Red, £125, from Mothercare – suitable from birth to approximately 12 months (up to 13kg).

SAFETY: This Cybex Pallas group 1 car seat, £160, from Mamas & Papas, offers a two in one safety shield system bringing a new safety dimension, especially in the critical neck and throat region. It can be adjusted to become a Group 2/3 child seat, meaning it will last your child from nine months to 12 years (9-36 kg).

Travelling light Michelle Rushton looks into what you will need to get out & about with your newborn

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ROM the moment you discover you are going to become a parent you are plunged into a whole new world of bewildering decisions about ‘what is going to be best for your baby.’

Even before your little one leaves hospital a crucial decision has to be made about the best way to protect your bundle of joy from danger on their journey home.

Midwives now insist that every baby should leave hospital in an appropriate car seat when they are travelling by car.

It is the law to use a car seat from birth until your child reaches either 135cms in height or 12 years of age – whichever comes first. And it is the driver’s responsibility to ensure that children under the age of 14 years old are restrained correctly.

The weight of your baby determines the correct group of car seat to use and you will need to buy a new seat when your baby outgrows its current one. (See our panel below for more information).

You will start off by having a rear facing car seat or infant carrier (Group 0) which will accommodate a baby up to 29lb (13kg) and gives your baby’s head and neck vital support.

As long as the crown of your baby's head does not stick up above the top of the seat, he or she

CAR SEAT SIZES Group 0+ Child weight 0 - 13kg Birth to 12 - 15 months approximately Group 1 Child weight 9 - 18kg

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should stay facing backwards for as long as possible before it’s time to invest in a forward-facing seat.

As small babies sleep so much, you can often move your baby in and out of the car in the car seat while they are sleeping without waking them up. Infant carriers have a carrying handle to make this easier. They also usually come with little pillows known as head huggers, which make sure that your newborn baby's head doesn't wobble about as they travels in the car. You will need to use these for the first three months or so until your baby can hold their head up on their own.

Some infant car seats can also be used as a handy rocking chair to get baby off to sleep at home.

Many of today’s three-in-one travel systems incorporate a car seat which can be fitted straight into a pushchair or pram – very handy for going out shopping!

Your first car seat will usually only last for the first nine to 12 months, until you need to buy a second-stage, forward-facing Group 1 seat. However, be guided by your baby’s weight, rather than his/her age.

You can, however, buy combination car seats which start

off facing backwards but can be converted to a forward-facing seat as your child grows.

When it comes to choosing a car seat, always try before you buy as different makes and models suit different cars. Many shops selling car seats employ trained staff who will happily come and install the car seat for you, to make sure it fits properly. If it seems difficult to fasten into place, then do not buy it.

When you are happy your choice of car seat suits your car, ask the member of staff to show you how to fit and remove it and make sure you practice before baby comes along, as it can be a tad tricky to work out.

To make it easier to get the car seat in and out of the car , you can buy bases such as ISOFIX, which can fix the car seat directly into the car without the use of a seat belt.

You can also call your local council's road safety team and ask to have your car seat checked or ask at any car dealerships,.

Car seats are available from many high street stores, but if you want to check which ones have good reviews, visit the Which? website at www.Which.co.uk

THE journey to invest in your young family’s car seat safety for four years begins when your baby is one of the thousands of babies to leave hospital in the award winning Mamas & Papas Primo Viaggio IP Infant Carrier car seat.

The Primo Viaggio IP can be fitted on to an ISOFIX base which ensures correct, no fuss fitting, first time everytime or in vehicles without ISOFIX fittings when used with the car seat belt.

As your baby grows and develops the next stage of the car seat safety investment is the new Vito car seat from Mamas & Papas.

This forward facing car seat, with removable body hugger, will grow with and protect your little one from nine-months-old to approximately four-years-old.

With a three position seat tilt option, the Vito car seat offers the ultimate in comfort for baby during your journey.

The Vito car seat can be fitted onto the same ISOFIX base as the Primo Viaggio IP thus ensuring continued ‘right first time installation’ every time or again fitted using the vehicles car seat belt where ISOFIX is not available.

We are offering a lucky ECHO parent the opportunity to win a Primo Viaggio IP Infant Carrier Car Seat, worth £135, along with a Primo Viaggio/Vito Isofix Base (RRP £125) and Vito Group 1 Car Seat (RRP £170).

All you have to do is answer the following question: What is the name of the base which the Primo Viaggio IP car seat can be fitted on?

Send your answers to Mamas & Papas competition, Liverpool Echo Features Desk, PO Box 48, Old Hall Street, Liverpool, L69 3EB, including your address and daytime phone number, or email to features@liverpoolecho.co.uk Deadline: March 31.

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BRINGING BABY INTRODUCING JUNIOR HOME

Let’s celebrate!

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HE arrival of your new baby is certainly something to celebrate and you may feel the urge to mark the occasion with a Christening or baby naming ceremony.

If you are a family of churchgoers then you may wish to welcome your child into the Christian faith with a traditional Christening or baptism.

Of around 600,000 babies born in Britain each year, 168,000 are baptised into the Church of England and another 64,000 into the Roman Catholic Church.

Many parents like the idea of marking their baby's arrival with a church ceremony – but a baptism does involve making promises about bringing him or her up as a Christian.

While some clergy are quite relaxed about the parents' own church attendance, others will expect to see you and your child on a regular basis before and after the Christening.

If you feel comfortable with this, the first step is to talk to your local vicar. You will need to find out whether a special service needs to be arranged or whether the Christening will be part of a main Sunday service.

Many couples choose godparents, traditionally two women and one man for girls and vice versa for boys, whose role is to be a Christian mentor to help their godson or goddaughter in their journey as they embrace their new faith.

Over the years, the role of godparent has evolved into taking on the additional duty of supporting the child through life and being someone they can turn to for help and advice.

Indeed, being chosen as a grandparent is seen as a real honour and often they will develop a close bond with their godchild.

Once you have booked the church for the Christening and sent out invitations to your family and friends, it’s time to choose an outfit for junior.

The baby's outfit is almost as big a part of the traditional Christening as the bride's is on her wedding day. Some families, like the Royals, even have an ancient garment which has been worn by generation after generation.

Sometimes the garment may have become a bit yellowed and dog-eared over time, but you may be able to get it cleaned or restored. Or you might like to start your own tradition by investing in a baptismal robe which your child could use for his or her own offspring in the future.

But babies don't have to be kitted out in olde worlde gear just because they're being Christened – there are lots of lovely dresses and suits in the children’s clothes stores which will look great.

Once word of advice though – don’t put it on them until the very last minute or that beautiful white robe may end up being

ANGELIC: Your little one will look gorgeous in this Christening gown, priced £60 from Mamas & Papas

DELIGHTFUL: A Ladybird rosebud dress, priced £23, from Littlewoods.com

caked in chocolate buttons!

If you aren’t religious, you can still celebrate the arrival of your child with a baby naming ceremony.

Parents can put together their own service including poetry, music and readings, and the venue can be anywhere – in your own back garden, at a castle, in a park , the list is endless...

Just as in a Christening, you can choose

godparent equivalents and the ceremony can be as formal or informal as you choose.

Usually, there will be some sort of reception following the ceremony which could be just tea and cakes at your home, or you may wish to hire a venue and hold a full-on party with catering But don't forget to invite the vicar as a way of saying thank you for the service!

How to register the birth of your baby

ONCE your baby has arrived, you have six weeks to register the birth.

Luckily for parents whose child was born at the Liverpool Women’s Hospital, they can register the birth before they leave hospital the as hospital features a dedicated registrar’s office on the first floor, outside the Diana, Princess of Wales Suite.

All you need to do is book an

appointment by calling 0151 233 3004.

Although a monumental occasion, it takes less than 30 minutes to register your baby’s birth.

Either parent can register the birth.

At your appointment, the registrar will talk you through the registration procedures and offer any advice or guidance required.

All they need to know is the date and place of the baby or babies’ (if you are blessed with twins, triplets or more!) birth, forenames and surname in which you intend to bring the baby up.

The father will need to provide his full name and surname at the time of the baby's birth, his own place of birth and his occupation at the time of the baby's birth.

Meanwhile mum has to give her full name and surname at the time of the baby's birth, her maiden surname if she is or has been married, her own place of birth, her usual home address at the date of the baby's birth and occupation.

The registrar will also ask if the parents were married to each other at the time of the birth, and if they were, the date of the marriage, as

well as finding out the number of children the mother has had previously by her present husband or any former husband and the dates of birth of the parents.

Those details will, however, remain confidential.

They will not be entered in the register and will not appear on any birth certificate.

After registering, you will be

given a free copy of the birth certificate showing the baby’s forenames, surname, sex, date of birth and district of birth.

You can also register the birth at Liverpool Register Office in the Cotton Exchange, Old Hall Street, Liverpool L3 9UF (telephone 0151 233 3004) – but the birth has to be registered within the district it took place.

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Getting involved with kids groups

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HEN you first become a parent, it can get a bit lonely being at home all day with your baby, especially if your partner has gone back to work. If you’re starting to get cabin fever, then why not check out what’s going on in your area?

There are lots of classes, groups and activities in Merseyside where you can meet other parents and carers while helping develop your baby’s social skills.

It’s great to be able to compare notes and share your experiences with other new parents – you’d be amazed at the tips that can be picked up – from dealing with nappy rash and colic to coping with sleepless nights.

And you and your baby can learn new skills such as baby massage, baby yoga or you could even join a parents’ walking group or ‘prambles,’ where you can meet up with your prams and head off to the local park – great for losing that baby weight.

You could join your local branch of National Childbirth Trust (NCT) which holds courses and groups all over the UK. Visit http://www.nctpregnancy andbabycare.com/home to find your nearest branch.

Your local leisure centre may have sessions for tots, such as musical minis, toddler rhyme time or splash and sing swimming sessions.

Gymbabes also offers activity classes for babies aged from six months – call 0151 249 6645 for more details.

It’s also worth you checking out your local SureStart Children’s Centre. A ‘one-stop shop’ for children under five and their families, these centres are designed to help you give your child the best possible start in life.

They are somewhere your child can make friends and learn as they play. You can get professional advice on health and family matters, learn about training and job opportunities or just meet up with other mums and dads.

There are SureStart Children’s Centres in communities all over Merseyside. To discover more visit www.direct.gov.uk/surestart or call 0800 2346 346.

Meanwhile, here’s a glimpse of what’s available at the children’s centres in Sefton which offer a variety of free activities:

SKILLS: Activities are a lot of fun

MAKING CAKES: SureStart Children’s Centres are designed to help give your child the best possible start in life ● Before birth Antenatal checks with a midwife.

Parent craft/education classes to help you prepare for your new arrival.

Antenatal yoga.

Health advice. ● From birth to five Immunisation, health and development checks for your new baby.

Advice and information on parenting, breastfeeding, sleep routines, weaning and managing behaviours.

Play opportunities to enhance your child’s development, giving them the chance to make friends and enjoy socialising with other children.

Play groups and early learning for young children, helping them growing in confidence as they approach full-time school.

Fun activities and family learning for dads, mums and kids.

High quality childcare and early education in centres with nurseries. Those that don’t can offer advice on local childcare options.

Child and family health services, ranging from health visitors to breastfeeding support, speech and language therapy or help giving up smoking.

Support for children with special needs.

Support groups for young parents, dads, for parent for whom is English is a second language.

Specialist services where you can get help on things like money and debt, domestic violence, depression, drugs or alcohol issues.

You can locate your nearest Sure Start Children’s Centre in Sefton by contacting Sefton Families Information Service on 0800 019 7219 or visiting www.sefton.gov.uk/childrenscentres

Puddle Ducks was hatched in 2001, with a passion for baby swimming.

Since then our carefully structured, musical programme has taught thousands of babies and toddlers across the UK to swim, have fun and be safe in the water.

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CLASSES AND OTHER ACTIVITIES MAKING A SPLASH SWIMMING is a great way to keep fit and have fun.

Babies have a real affinity with water as they have spent months in the womb submerged in fluid.

And teaching your baby to be comfortable in the water is easier than you may think as they can be completely independent as the water supports their weight as they are free to kick their legs and arms as much as they like.

If you’re really keen on teaching your baby to swim from an early age, it might be worth you enrolling on a Puddle Ducks course. Puddle Ducks provide baby swimming classes that teach your child to swim, be safe and have fun in the water.

For more information visit www.puddleducks.com There are more adult and swimming baby classes are available at the following locations and times: ● Meadows Leisure Centre & Library, Hall Lane, Maghull, L31 7BB on Mondays from 12.30pm to 1pm and 1pm to 1.30pm. Tel: 0151 288 6727. ● Bootle Leisure Centre, North Park, Washington Parade, Bootle, L20 5JJ, on Wednesdays from 10am – 12pm and Fridays from 10am – 12pm. Tel: 0151 330 3301. ● Dunes Splash World, the Esplanade,

Southport, PR8 1RX, on Mondays from 1.30pm – 2pm (adult and Child), Tuesdays 12pm – 12.30pm and 12.30pm – 1pm (pre-school three to four year-olds), Thursdays 11.30am – 12pm (pre school three to four years) and 1.30pm – 2pm.

Tel: 01704 537 160.

IN THE SWIM: Swimming is a great way to keep fit and have fun

GETTING ACTIVE GETTING tots toddling, the Active Totz programme in Sefton is for all children aged between two and five-years-of-age and their parents/carers who want to get involved.

A children’s play scheme, the Active Totz programme aims to introduce new movement skills and enhance social awareness while helping your child to develop positive relationships as each session promotes learning and development for toddlers leading to a healthy and active lifestyle.

Through play and structured learning opportunities, children are encouraged to take part in fun games and activities to teach fundamental movement skills such as throwing, catching, rolling and balancing while also learning about healthy foods.

Each session costs £2 with a discount available for registered child minders although some sites do offer free entry.

Included within each session is a passport for each child which is stamped on attendance with accumulative stamps leading to rewards for children including certificates, soft play toys, T-shirts and kit bags to reward participants for their continued involvement.

For more information on Active Totz contact Nicola on 0151 934 4779 or email promotions@leisure.sefton.gov.uk Active Totz sessions are held at: ● Meadows Leisure Centre & Library,

To find out more about Puddle Ducks lessons in Liverpool and Wirral.

Please contact us on:

Liverpool@puddleducks.com 01829 739073 www.puddleducks.com

Hall Lane, Maghull, L31 7BB. Tel: 0151 288 6727 ● Litherland Moss Children’s Centre, 201 Moss Lane, Litherland, L21 7NW. Tel: 0151 949 9720 ● Dunes Splash World, the Esplanade, Southport, PR8 1RX. Tel: 01704 537 160 ● Linaker Children’s Centre, Southport Sefton Street, Southport, PR8 5DB. Tel: 01704 532 343

RACING AHEAD: Kids need to be active

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PHOTOGRAPHING YOUR CHILD

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PHOTOGRAPHING YOUR CHILD

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HILDREN don’t stay little for long and as they grow up its lovely to capture each stage with photographs that you can cherish forever.

There are lots of different styles of photography to suit all tastes and budgets from the traditional portrait where the child is sat facing the camera to the more modern relaxed action shots on location and from colourful images to the more atmospheric black and white or sepia shots.

Whichever you choose, its important that the photographer captures the character of your child.

Victoria Tetley of VJT Photography specialises in children’s photography in the North West. She explains: “First of all it's important to decide on the style of photography you would like for your children’s portraits.

“The two main choices are indoor studio portraits or outdoor lifestyle portraits. It's really just a matter of personal taste but each style can result in beautiful bright images to adorn any wall.

“Studio portrait photographers use studio lights and flash resulting in bright, fresh, contemporary photography and outdoor photographers rely on natural light, which is very flattering to the features and the results are equally as exciting as well as emotive.”

Victoria particularly enjoys using beautiful locations in her photographer and often uses the great outdoors as a backdrop, shooting portraits in forests, beaches and parks in Merseyside and Cheshire.

She says: “It may be surprising to learn that outdoor portraits do not necessarily need to be taken on a sunny day, in fact, an overcast grey sky can often work even better and result in much more flattering effects than pictures taken in strong sunshine because the light is filtered through the clouds, eliminating harsh shadows.”

Once you’ve decided on the style of photography you prefer, check out the work of some local photographers in your area who specialise in that style.

Victoria advises: “Often it's a good idea to go by word of mouth and it is certainly worth going to the photographer's website and checking out their portrait gallery to make sure you are happy with their photography style.

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Before the photo session, many photographers these days will offer you a consultation to discuss any ideas you may have for the style or location of the shoot and to meet your child/children/family.

It also gives them chance to develop a rapport with your child and work out ways of capturing their personality.

Children’s photographers also need to have lots of tricks up their sleeve, as well as lots of props and toys for keeping little ones entertained as they can quickly tire of having to pose or sit still.

They are expert at bringing shy children out of their shell and are well equipped at dealing with the inevitable runny noses and jammy fingers.

Victoria reveals: “Before becoming an outdoor portrait and pet photographer, I was a press photographer for more than eight years and in this time I learnt many invaluable lessons on photographing children of all ages, and believe me, I have photographed an awful lot!

“As all parents know, when photographing really small children you have a limited amount of time before the novelty of posing wares off. They get restless and what often works best at this point, apart from a small bribe from mum, is to capture them just being themselves, playing, picking flowers, looking around. In my experience, these often make the most rewarding pictures.”

Once you’ve had your photo shoot, you will usually be offered the chance to view the pictures and choose which ones you prefer as well as deciding how you would like them to be framed.

And then the real hard work begins because not only are parents faced with framed prints these days, there are canvasses, acrylics, box frames and multi frames, the choice is simply endless.

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It’s all about creating memories which you will treasure and pass down through the generations. ● To view more of Victoria’s work visit her website at www.vjtphotography.co.uk or for more information call her on 07825 549681.

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IDS love dressing up and they will certainly shine in the spring/summer collections hitting the stores this season. Little fashionistas will be bang on trend in the fancy frills and summer pastel palette – and don’t forget to accessorise with matching tights, bags and shoes.

Meanwhile, little boys can embrace their inner rock stars with some of the ranges available which have plenty of attitude with funky detailed jeans, stripes and bright graphic prints.

And we’ll find some of the best dressed babies in town with the adorable babywear hitting the shelves from rompers and sleepsuits to funky vests and matching socks.

Don’t miss Myleene Klass’ new Baby K range at Mothercare. The singer/presenter speaks about the new collection: “I’m exceptionally proud and excited to reveal the new Baby K SS10 range.

“There are items in the collection that I’ve had a vision to produce for some time now and to see them in actuality, looking incredible is beyond my wildest dreams. The colours, textures and quality are all true to what Baby K stands for and as always, its kind on your pocket! I’ve always said that the Baby K range provides what mummies ask for and what babies love to wear and this collection is no exception. The range, with your support, has grown and gone from strength to strength and I’m sure your little ones will look as adorable as ever in their new Baby K pieces.”

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WEANING & HEALTHY EATING

Start as you wean to go on F

OR the first six months of your baby's life they will feed on milk alone.

Breastfeeding is best for babies and provides many health benefits, as well as providing an opportunity for mothers to bond with their babies. And it is much more widely accepted in public these days.

But it doesn’t always come easy for all mothers and it is a question of personal choice whether you decide to breastfeed or bottle feed.

At around six months, you may choose to start weaning and introducing your baby to new tastes and textures.

This is when the fun begins!

There's no set time to start as all babies are different, but health visitors recommend you feed your child breast or formula milk for the first six months or until they show signs of being ready for weaning.

These signs could be when your baby is still hungry after a milk feed and demands more feeds, or starts waking during the nights for feeds when they didn't before. They should also be able to sit up, and be showing an interest when you are eating. They will probably have some teeth and want to chew.

You will need to invest in some baby bowls and weaning spoons and some mess catcher bibs as things can get rather messy! You will also need a highchair and an electric hand blender, ice-cube trays and food storage pots with lids Parents usually start off by giving baby mild tasting foods, such as a teaspoon of baby rice after their milk around dinner time. Then gradually increase the amount and slowly introduce other soft foods such as pureed banana, potato and carrot.

A great idea is to steam vegetables or fruit, then puree them and freeze into ice cube trays.

Then each night you can take an ice cube out to defrost for the next day.

Eventually you can introduce lumpier foods, encouraging your child to chew, as well as finger foods.

Until they’re one, you can still give your baby breast or formula milk (around 500-600ml a day). After this you can switch to full-fat cow’s milk – although if you are still breastfeeding, you may want to consider this as once you stop breastfeeding it can be hard to start again.

Introduce your baby to drinking from a cup as it’s better for their teeth and aim to have them off the bottle by her first birthday.

Try and introduce your baby to a wide variety of tastes as they will be less likely to become a fussy eater later on. If your baby rejects a food, try it again a week later. Don't rush them or make a fuss – go at your baby's pace.

Ideally, your child's diet should contain plenty of fruit and vegetables which helps them to absorb iron, meat, fish, eggs, dairy, cereals, bread and rice, pasta and potatoes. Avoid salt, sugar, honey, nuts, and low-fat foods. It can be useful to have a few ready-prepared jars of baby food but try and give fresh food as often as you can.

Eventually your baby will be eating the same meals as the rest of the family. It's great for the whole family to eat together round the table.

Your toddler will start to copy you, wanting to feed themselves – give them their own spoon and fork as they love to be independent - but it might be a good idea to put some towels down if you value your carpets, as toddlers also love to splat food all over the place!!

NEW TASTES: Introducing new foods can be a lively time

WHEN TO WEAN: Your baby should be able to sit up

Healthy eating for kids ENCOURAGING children to eat healthily can often seem like a challenge in itself, however by getting children involved in understanding the basic principles of healthy eating the fundamentals of leading a healthy lifestyle can be instilled from a young age.

Active Totz provides the opportunity for you and your baby to learn about healthy eating from a young age, however, attending activities as a family can often be helpful in encouraging the principles of a healthy lifestyle.

Through the Active Lifestyles programme families can attend activities to learn about healthy eating through group sessions. For more information contact the Active Lifestyles team on 0151 934 2352 for dates of sessions near you.

LIFESTYLE: Teach your child about heathy eating from an early age

BY THE BOOK MOST parents have at least one copy of Annabel Karmel’s books on weaning and healthy eating as they are full of great tips and fabulous recipes.

Annabel tells the ECHO: “Often parents tell me ‘My three-year-old only eats spaghetti hoops, chips and chocolate biscuits.’

“Food is the fuel that powers our children. It makes them grow strong, gives them energy and plenty of opportunities to wind up their parents. If your child refuses to eat anything other than junk food, chill out, he will soon find there’s not much point making a fuss if you don’t react. Let your child be hungry sometimes. A hungry child is a less fussy child.

“After school is a great window of opportunity to get your child to eat something healthy as they generally come home starving having rushed lunch to spend time with their friends in the playground.

The trouble is most children dive into the biscuit tin or grab a chocolate bar after school. Have something ready prepared on the table. Cut up fruit on a plate is much more tempting than fruit in a fruit bowl, children like raw veg with a tasty dip. It’s quick and easy to make delicious wraps, pitta pockets or pasta salads and it’s a good idea to have a low shelf in the fridge where children can help themselves to tasty healthy snacks.

“If you have a little ‘junk food junkie’ who refuses to try anything new, play a game where you blindfold your child and give him several foods to taste some old favourites and some new and see if he can identify what they are without looking!”

For ideas of tasty recipes you can make at home get a copy of Annabel’s book – After-School Meal Planner”(Ebury Press £14.99) or visit www.annabelkarmel.com

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CHILDCARE

The choice is yours I

F you’re thinking of returning to work after spending time on maternity leave, one of the biggest challenges facing parents is finding high-quality, affordable childcare for their children.

The problem is often, not a lack of childcare, but deciding which option to choose from the wide spectrum of facilities available in Merseyside which range from childminders, nannies and nurseries to crèches, playgroups and au pairs.

All of them could give your child the chance to make new friends, learn and play in a safe and structured environment.

It’s easy to feel a pang of guilt at the thought of leaving your child but children can get a great deal out of structured childcare alongside the valuable time they spend with the family.

In fact, good quality childcare can help your child to get ahead in reading and numeracy and it also improves their social skills.

To find the best solution for you and your child, it is vital to do your research as early as possible. Find out what is available in your area from your local Families Information Service.

From nannies to nurseries, each option has its own advantages and potential pitfalls. It is important to weigh up the pros and cons of each childcare setting in order to find an arrangement which both you and your child feel comfortable with.

Choose Ofsted registered childcare and you’ll know it’s designed to be safe and secure. You can also check the childcare facility’s Oftsted report. Visit www.ofsted.gov.uk It's always advisable to visit several possible options in your area, taking your child with you so you can gauge how staff treat your child and if the other children look happy and contented.

Don't be pressurised by other people's views.

Some parents believe that a relaxed, home environment is the best option for their young child whereas others would like to introduce their child to a more educational setting.

Trust your parental instincts and do what you feel is best, after all, you are the expert on your own child!

Once you have chosen your childcare, take your child there for a few afternoons to help them settle in. They may get upset at leaving you at first but it won’t be long before they are waving goodbye cheerfully to you and running off to meet their new found friends!

Childcare options available include: ● Nurseries Day nurseries are centres where babies and children play and learn with others in a stimulating environment. Children are often grouped by age and follow a structured programme of activities based around themes organised by trained workers. ● Childminders Childminders look after children in their own homes. They are often mothers themselves

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HAVING FUN: A pre-school teacher helps these children with their drawing and your children will be able to mix and play with other children in a homely environment, as well as receiving meals and being able to have a snooze. ● Nannies A nanny will look after your children in your own home offering an individual care package which may include cooking and cleaning. They often live-in providing flexible hours and baby-sitting opportunities and become part of the family. ● Au Pairs Au pairs are usually foreign nationals who come and stay in your home to care for your children in return for board and lodging and a small allowance, as well as the chance to brush up on their English. ● Crèches Crèches are provided by lots of employers, educational institutes and even leisure centres to provide safe supervised care for young children whose parents are involved in an activity on the same site or close by. ● Playgroups Playgroup offers parents a number of morning and afternoon sessions involving play activities, care and educational experiences for children aged two years and nine months to five years old. ● Out of school clubs Some schools offer clubs and activities to attend before and after school, as well as in the school holidays.

LEARNING: Nursery can help with your child’s development

STRUGGLING to pay for childcare?

There’s a lot of financial help available for parents, for example: Child Benefit is a tax-free payment that you can claim for your child. It is usually paid every four weeks but in some cases can be paid weekly, and there are separate rates for each child. The payment can be claimed by anyone who qualifies, whatever their income or savings, if they have a child under 16.

If you’re working, you may be able to claim tax credits for up to 80% of your childcare costs. This could be up to £175 for one child or £300 a week (for two or more children) depending on family income.

For more information on tax credits, call the Tax Credits Helpline on: 0845 300 3900 Some employers offer employer supported childcare. This is usually via a childcare voucher scheme or salary sacrifice scheme.

If you are unemployed or work for less than 16 hours per week and you have a partner who is in work, with a joint household income of less than £20,000 a year, you could get free childcare while you train and learn for work.

Call Learner Support helpline on 0800 121 8989.

Lone parents looking for jobs or training may also be able to get help for childcare costs through Jobcentre Plus.

If you are a young parent aged under 20 you could get help towards childcare costs so you can continue your education or training.

Call the Learner Support helpline on 0800 121 8989.

All three and four year olds are entitled to a minimum of 12.5 hours FREE early learning a week – for 38 weeks a year.

From September 2010, this increases to 15 hours a week, to be delivered flexibly over a minimum of 38 weeks.

Some local authorities run a pilot scheme to provide targeted, free childcare for two year olds. Places are limited and strict criteria apply.

For information on childcare available near you, and for details of help with costs call Sefton Families Information Service on 0800 019 7219 or visit www.sefton.gov.uk/ familyinformation or call Liverpool Families Information Service 0800 085 20 22, or Knowsley Families Information Service on 0800 085 2022.

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Teach your child the joy of reading DO you remember the delight of curling up with your mum or dad as a child and reading your favourite books?

Most of us are lucky enough to have fond memories of reading as a child and have developed a love for books which takes us into adulthood.

That’s why its important to pass on your love of reading to your child.

A story at bedtime not only helps you to bond and enjoy some quality time with your child but it helps your little one to unwind after a busy day.

And reading does wonders for their speech and language development, not to mention their

understanding of the world, as well as fuelling their imagination.

It can give them a head start in school and in fact, good reading skills at an early age have been linked to success in adulthood.

So give your children the gift of reading.

Hilary Keating is a children’s author and creative arts consultant for Wild About Words, an organisation that works with children to build confidence and raise self-esteem through the creative process.

She believes it is vital for children to read and be read to, from an early age. She says: “I think books open

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They help us to think, to question and help children to develop speech, language and listening skills. Books encourage children to use their imagination and build relationships – and most of all – they are fun!”

Children’s imaginations are certainly fascinating. Hilary tells of how she recently worked with children at Broadgreen Primary School on a project to create a bedtime story.

The space-themed story they came up with was all their own work with Hilary using props and everyday objects to help them.

BOOK LOVERS: A child reading at one of the Sefton Children's Centres

BEST SELLERS ACCORDING to worldwide sales of children’s books, the old ones are still the best with the top five best selling children’s books of all time, all having been written more than 50 years ago: ● The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupery published in 1943 has sold over 80 million copies ● Heidi by Johanna Spryi was first published in 1880 and has sold more than 50 million copies ● Anne of Green Gables by Lucy Maud Montgomery was written in 1908 and has sold 50 million copies ● Black Beauty by Anna Sewell who wrote the book in 1877, has also sold 50 million copies all over the world ● Charlotte’s Web by EB White was written in 1952 and has sold 45 million copies

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Toys are part of learning O

F course, all children love playing with their toys. But toys can offer children much more than fun.

Through playing with age appropriate toys, children’s learning and development can be boosted, giving them a good start in life and a firm foundation for further learning and education.

From baby-walkers, which help your little one stand up and take their first steps, to plastic drums, which help unleash their musical talents, to

arts and crafts to stimulate their creativity and imagination and shape sorters which exercise their problem solving skills – toys can really boost your child’s development.

But toys can be expensive and there’s no need to spend a fortune on the latest must-have toy as often, a child will be more interested in the box it came in and you can find items around the home, for example, pots and pans which double up as excellent drum kits – although it can be deafening for mum and dad!

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PERFECT PARTIES

A host of ideas It’s time to choose from all your ■ A Bear Making Party An ideal party for children aged four to 11 years, kids will love making and taking home their very own bear.

A Bear Making Party includes: teddy bear making kits, teddy birth certificates, teddy stuffing, teddy bear wishing stars, music, party games and dancing – fantastic fun for all!

For more details call 0845 838 1314.

■ Discovernplay Let your child star discover their inner thespian with a drama party!

Organised by Discovernplay, drama parties can be organised for five to 16-year-olds in Merseyside – at your own home or a hired venue. There is a choice of packages for you to choose from including entertainment, themed catering and themed gift bags – from cowboys and cowgirls to High School Musical or mysteries and ghosts.

For more information telephone 07517380079.

■ Eckie Thump Children’s entertainer Eckie Thump (right) performs fun packed shows and walkabout entertainment featuring magic, balloons, arm puppets, plate spinning, diablos and much more.

Ideal for children's parties Eckie Thump can entertain all ages for an agreed length of time, either in the home a function room or wherever the party is being held.

For more details telephone 0800 118 26 39 or 07803 600022, or visit www.eckiethump.co.uk ■ Photoparty.biz Pose like a star while award-winning (and celeb favourite) Andrew John snaps your child and your pals.

Your child can invite their friends to the professional studio where they will be photographed like real models in catwalk outfits with glamorous accessories. Participants will receive a special keepsake photograph of themselves taken at the party.

For more information telephone 0151 527 2065 or visit www.photoparty.biz ■ Pop Party Liverpool & Mobile in North West England The ultimate Pop Party experience! Your child can look, feel and record a CD like a pop star!

Based in Crosby, a stylist, will make all the children look a million dollars then the children will record either individually, or grouped, singing along to any backing track/song of their choice, whether pop, rock or any of their chosen favourite songs. The children receive a CD of their recording on the day.

For more information telephone 07554 435466 / 07881 911734 or visit www.poppartyuk.co.uk ■ Zap Graffiti Arts Workshops Artists offer a fun session where you learn how to create a piece of graffiti art to take away.

A group of up to 10 can celebrate an occasion with a real difference!

For more information call 0772 5122 946 or visit www.zapgraffiti.com

■ Pink Fitness Studio Learn an MTV Style Dance routine: hip hop, contemporary, street, jazz, rock and roll – your choice.

A buffet style menu is provided and party games (if required). Parties can be in the fully equipped studio in Wallasey or mobile. Themed parties also available.

For more information call 0151 346 9649 or visit www.pinkfitness.org ■ Iron Marsh Looking for an activity party for your child?

Marsh Sports at Liverpool John Moores University offers a range of parties at weekends that suit both boys and girls of all ages. You can choose various activities, such as swimming, football, fun and games and multi-sports. There are pool parties available for children over eight who can swim. The parties consist of one hour in the pool followed by one hour in a gym, where food can be eaten and party games played.

Lifeguards are provided for all parties, along with one member of staff in the gym.

For more information visit www.ljmu.ac.uk/ECL/MARSH/ ■ Hope Park Sports Footie mad kids will love having their birthday party at Hope Park Sports, University of Liverpool.

You have the option of a Football Party or a Multi Sports Party, catering for all children between five and 13 years and offering many sports, much fun and lots of different games.

The parties are supervised by Hope Park Sport' Sports Coaches and last for one hour and forty-five minutes.

For more information telephone 0151 794 2000.

■ The Big Red Bus Children can hop aboard a bright red double decker party bus (above) and jump into a ball pool, go down a slide, have a disco or even sing karaoke.

It will give your children an unforgettable time, right on their doorstep no matter what the weather or occasion.

For more information telephone 07824 872159.

W

HEN you became a parent, little did you know that you would automatically become a party organiser and kids’ entertainer!

But you’ll be organising them most years of your child’s life so it’s time to practise your party-throwing skills.

Your child will be too young to really appreciate the first two or three birthdays so its best to keep them small and close to home at first with a few family and friends.

A first birthday party is more of a celebration for the parents having survived their first year, as the baby will be more interested in crinkling the wrapping paper of their presents!

A small tea party will suffice in your home, or if you value your carpets, in the back garden. A few toys for the children will do and if it’s nice, perhaps you could have a paddling pool or ball pool in the back garden?

A few nibbles for the kids, juice and cupcakes and plenty of champagne for the grown ups will do!

When your child reaches the age of three or older, they start to really enjoy things and get excited about their birthdays and it becomes a much bigger occasion. Then, when they eventually start school, they will want to invite the whole class.

This is when you really need to put some thought into the party – you could hire a children’s entertainer, such as a clown, puppeteer, balloon artist or magician, or if your budget doesn’t allow it, rope grandad or uncle Bob into donning a clown suit. Just make sure your party entertainer has a current Criminal Records Bureau certificate.

Face painting is always a big hit, as well as traditional party games like pass the parcel, musical chairs and pin the tail on the donkey which never go out of fashion. You could even hire a bouncy castle.

You can buy themed party decorations, from banners and balloons to paper plates and cups in your child’s favourite character, from Pingu to Dora the Explorer, from

PARTY TIME: Having fun is what it’s all about

pirates to the popular fairy princesses.

Don’t forget the music – there are some great compilation CDs featuring kids’ party hits so they can dance and let off some steam.

Avoid spending hours in the kitchen and go for themed party food such as American diner-style homemade burgers with oven baked potato wedges and a few cup cakes or jelly and ice-cream for dessert. You can also make some really healthy smoothies by blitzing some fruit (bananas, strawberries and milk work well together) decorated with some funky straws/umbrellas.

With kids going mad for the latest craze which is Alice in Wonderland – why not have a Mad Hatter’s tea party theme for your child’s birthday?

■ Peaches and Cream If your daughter is getting too old for pass the parcel, Peaches and Cream offers a range of makeover party packages to suit all ages.

For more information telephone 0151 494 3535.

■ Allsorts of Cakes Why not throw them a ‘make a cake’ party?

Your little darlings can enjoy fabulous messy fun and get to sample and take home their own sweet creations!

The make a cake parties take place at Allsorts of Cakes, a new shop which opened in Formby village last October.

For more information telephone 01704 871660 or visit www.allsortsofcakes.co.uk

TREAT: There are some fabulous birthday cakes for children such as this pink fairy castle creation TRENDY: Dressed to party in an outfit from Sainsbury’s

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PERFECT PARTIES

to perfect party skills

HAPPY BIRTHDAY: Blowing out the candles on the cake is a must at a child’s party But the piece de resistance will be blowing out the candles on the birthday cake.

There are some fantastic children’s cakes to be found in the supermarkets but if you want a special one-off cake then visit your local cakemakers.

Every children’s character from Igglepiggle to Postman Pat can be found and they are always open to ideas. Just pop in and browse through their portfolio or set them the challenge of making a Peppa Pig or Roary the Racing Car confectionery masterpiece!

Party bags are a must – you can fill them cheaply enough with bits and bobs, such as little boxes of raisons, glitter pens, crayons finger

puppets, bubbles etc. Home Bargains is a great place to find little party bag fillers.

However, if you shudder at the thought of letting 20 kids loose in your home there are plenty of venues specialising in children’s parties, such as the Yellow Sub Indoor Playcentre at Brunswick Business Park.

Yellow Sub will allow your child and their friends 60 minutes playtime in the playcentre, and 30 minutes in you own exclusive party room where they can enjoy tasty treats, such as a fruit platter with a chocolate dip.

There are a few playcentres in Liverpool offering children’s parties, such as Jungle Fun in

FLORAL: Cake stand, priced £15, from Marks & Spencer

Childwall and Fun Town in Garston. See our panel on the left for more ideas.

This saves you the hassle of having to decorate your home and doing the washing up afterwards!

The key to organising a successful kids’ party is to start early and break down your ‘to do’ list into bite sized chunks so it’s not a mad, last-minute rush. Get your child to help by making the invitations.

Or, if you’re feeling flush, why not sit back and let a qualified party organiser do all the hard work? There are lots of companies out there who specialise in organising kids parties – from jewellery making to little girls’ make-over parties, and even Scalextric which little boys will love!

A spokeswoman at the Busy Bee Promotions which specialises in providing entertainers for children’s parties, says: “Magic, music, games and balloons are always popular but a growing trend is craft parties. Children just love cutting out, gluing, sticking and making things.”

Another big hit with children is to hire a limo – there are a few companies in the North West which will provide a driver and limo.

One thing’s for sure, its always a good idea to leave opening the presents to after all the party guests have gone. That way, your child will still have something to look forward to when the excitement’s all over and you can keep tabs on who gave them what, which is handy when it comes to the thank you cards.

HOW TO BECOME A PARTY ORGANISER FANCY an opportunity to be your own boss, learn new skills and have fun as you reap the rewards of running your own business?

Kids Party Club, an established Irish children’s entertainment and education franchise business, is launching in the UK and is now looking for local franchisees in Liverpool to share in the company’s success and become one of the area’s exclusive Kids Party Club franchisees.

The Kids Party Club franchise package offers a unique opportunity to provide fun children’s parties using the traditional art of puppetry in a revived modern format, for both parties and educational purposes.

Each Kids Party Club show has high production values and uses wonderful puppets, a large colourful puppet stage and a

professional sound and lighting system to engage children. The interactive shows are suitable for children aged up to about nine years old and the parties also include a disco and magic tricks to entertain and delight.

Each franchisee is given an exclusive territory and provided with everything they need to succeed – puppets, sound and lighting systems, a sales telephone number, a website and comprehensive training. The only thing that franchisees need to have is a car to transport equipment and, of course, a love of children. All operators are police-checked to ensure parents have peace of mind. ● For more information about becoming a Kids Party Club franchisee in Liverpool call Adam Clarkson on 0800 032 7866 or visit www.kidspartyclub.co.uk

REWARDING: Kids Party Club is look for local franchisees in Liverpool

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Family fun days T

HE Easter holidays will soon be upon us which means a whole week of freedom for our children. But cabin fever can quickly set in if they get bored so it’s a good idea to line up some great days out.

Luckily, Liverpool has plenty to keep little brains occupied with a wealth of family fun attractions.

You could expand their grey matter with a trip to museum, catch a game of sport, get arty at a gallery, enjoy a trip on a ferry. The list is endless...

Here’s some ideas of fun things to do for all ages. ● Walker Art Gallery Unleash your youngsters’ creative sides with a trip to the Walker Art Gallery.

The Walker is home Big Art for Little Artists a special gallery designed to introduce children up to the age of eight to art through fun activities, books, jigsaws and computers.

Children can create their own art, dress up as characters from the Walker’s paintings, write their own stories, watch videos inspired by the paintings or even pose on a throne.

Walker Art Gallery, William Brown Street, Liverpool, L3 8EL. Tel: 0151 478 4199, www.liverpoolmuseums.org.uk ● Tate Liverpool Tate Liverpool offers a range of activities for children and adults to explore together.

These include drop-in activities for children aged five-12 with accompanying adults every Sunday between 2.30pm and 4.30pm, plus special activities for school holidays.

Don’t miss Tate Explorers, every Saturday and Sunday, from 1.30pm-4.30pm.

There’s also Tales at Tate on the first Saturday of each month with storyteller John Hughes and an opportunity to Tell Your Story on Saturday, April 3 – Sunday, April 11, from 11am –4pm.

During the Easter holidays, there’s lots of events linked to the Afro Modern: Journeys through the Black Atlantic exhibition.

Tate Liverpool, Albert Dock, Liverpool, L3 4BB. Tel: 0151 702 7400, www.tate.org.uk/families/events/liverpool/ ● Plantastic!

Discover the secret world of plants in Plantastic!, an exhibition for all the family at World Museum Liverpool.

Enter a magical realm with giant leafy canopies, massive seed pods, huge root systems and strange man-made trees.

Some 40 exciting interactive displays help explain how we use plants in our daily life and show that plants are essential for the planet’s survival.

The exhibition is on until September 5.

World Museum Liverpool, William Brown Street, Liverpool, L3 8EN. Tel: 0151 478 4393, www.liverpoolmuseums.org.uk/wml ● National Wildflower Centre Set in a tranquil Victorian park, the National Wildflower Centre is a beautiful visitor attraction with a difference.

With the emphasis on creative conservation and putting wildflowers back into Britain, the centre has seasonal wildflower demonstration areas, a working garden nursery, childrens' play area, exhibitions and interactive information about wildflowers.

National Wildflower Centre, Court Hey Park, Roby Road, Liverpool, L16 3NA. Tel: 0151 738 1913, www.nwc.org.uk ● The Bugworld Experience If your little darlings are into creepy crawlies then they will be in their element with a visit to The BugWorld Experience.

BugWorld is the only place in Europe where you can see the likes of death stalker scorpions, giant centipedes, assassin bugs and the stunning Gooty ornamental spider.

Learn about these fascinating creatures on your amazing adventure through eight different zones.

Learn about the wonderful world of bugs through interactive games – play against brothers, sisters, friends or even the whole family with multi-player challenges Get up close and personal with your favourite critters when you get the chance to handle some of our creepy crawly friends Take your very own Bushtucker Trial & sample insect delicacies from around the world, such as giant toasted ants or chocolate covered scorpion!

The Bugworld Experience, The Grand Hall, Albert Dock, Liverpool, L3 4AA. Tel: 0151 708 4938, www.bugworldexperience.co.uk ● Croxteth Hall Country Park Young animal lovers can make some furry friends at Croxteth Hall Country Park over Easter.

They can get close to the animals at Home Farm, a real working farm on the country estate featuring cows, pigs, horses, sheep, and much more.

And at this time of year, there’s often lots of baby animals, especially Middle White piglets.

There is also a miniature railway, high rope adventure course (Jungle Parc) and a Riding Centre.

Croxteth Hall & Country Park, Muirhead Avenue East, Liverpool, L12 0HB. Tel: 0151 233 6910. ● Knowsley Safari Park Your cheeky monkeys will love a trip to Knowsley Safari Park where they can view all kinds of animals from African wild dogs to lions, tigers, elephants, rhinos, meerkats, sea lions and much more.

If you drive through, the baboons often climb over your car so you can see them really close and watch their funny antics.

There are lots of other attractions too such as amusement rides, bug house, Mizzy Lake Farm and a sea lion show.

Knowsley Safari Park, Prescot, L34 4AN. Tel: 0151 430 9009. ● Liverpool Cathedral Introduce your little ones to the awesome

PRENTON PREPARATORY SCHOOL Mount Pleasant, Oxton, Wirral, CH43 5SY • (Girls and Boys 2 1/2 - 11 years) Prenton Prep is an independent coeducational school founded in 1935.

Mr. M.T.R Jones

Accredited by the Independent Schools Council At Prenton Prep, we provide: • A happy and caring atmosphere; • Traditional teaching; • Small classes; • Dedicated and highly experienced staff; • A firm but fair discipline;

• High academic standards and excellent results at 11+; • Various clubs and sporting activities; • Pre and after school care; • Nursery Grant available for 3 and 4 year olds.

Well known for its friendly atmosphere, the school maintains a sound traditional approach to education and behaviour while reinforcing social skills, respect and consideration for others.

The headteacher belongs to the Independent Schools Association, a regulating body through which the school gains many advantages such as regular inspections as well as cultural and sporting fixtures both at local and national level.

The Pre-School is housed on the garden floor with access onto the lawns, providing a safe haven where children can learn and play. Each child is assessed in the first few weeks and individual programmes of work are established, with ongoing monitoring.

In Key Stages 1 and 2 all pupils are provided with a curriculum appropriate to their needs and potential.

Proiority is given to develop the skills of literacy and numeracy. The National Curriculum forms the basis of the work in most subjects, with pupils taking the end of key stage tests.

For an information pack please call the School Secretary on:

0151 652 3182 or email: enquiry@prentonprep.co.uk • www.prentonprep.co.uk

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this Easter DAYS OUT: There’s so much to choose from in Liverpool and the surrounding area

spectacle that is Liverpool Cathedral.

The cathedral features a specially recorded audio tour for children. Narrated by one of the cathedral’s 11-year old choristers, it is full of stories, fascinating facts, activities and music.

What’s more, the cathedral’s newest visitor attraction – a big screen ‘fly through’ film in HD – offers an exhilarating 10-minute panoramic film which includes a ‘fly through’ the cathedral and helicopter-aerial shots of the city.

Liverpool Cathedral, St James’ Mount, Liverpool, L1 7AZ. Tel: 0151 709 6271, www.liverpoolcathedral.org.uk ● Speke Hall A fabulous place to visit in Speke, this Tudor house is one of the most outstanding examples of a timber-framed building.

Dating back to 1490, Speke Hall is owned

by The National Trust and contains lots of intriguing interior secrets, such as the secret priest's hole and “thunderbox” toilet.

Located on the banks of the Mersey, the estate also features fine Victorian gardens,

woodland walks and, during the summer, a giant garden maze.

Smell, see and hear the history of this extraordinary house with the new Sensory Trail.

Speke Hall, The Walk, Liverpool L24 1XD. Tel: 0844 800 4799, www.nationaltrust.org.uk ● The Beatles Story Composing a Beatles-inspired melody on a giant piano, learning about the life of John Lennon by designing a Pop Art painting, editing a 1960s newspaper interview with the band: The Beatles Story in Liverpool offers ideas right across the curriculum.

With John Lennon and The Beatles now featuring on the National Curriculum, Merseyside visitor attraction – the Beatles Story - has launched an interactive Discovery Zone which allows children to connect with the music of the Fab Four, the times they lived in and their influential legacy in a way never possible before, building on the educational value of the whole attraction.

Children can discover what it was like to be a teenager in the 1950s and ‘60s, learn about the fame and culture of the Beatles and how their worlds changed as Beatlemania took hold.

The Beatles Story, Britannia Vaults, Albert Dock, Liverpool, L3 4AD. Tel: 0151 709 1963, www.beatlesstory.com ● Albert Dock The Albert Dock is a fabulous place to take the children where they can enjoy some nautical fun spotting all the different types of boats from tug boats to tall ships and there’s a wealth of family friendly attractions. ● Merseyside Maritime Museum Find out how heavy a diver's helmet is, ring a ship's bell or take the helm at a ship's wheel at the Sea Urchins play area at Merseyside Maritime Museum Aimed at eight-years and under, Sea Urchins offers free maritime-themed activities from activity sheets to story books.

Youngsters can have fun dressing in seafaring-themed costumes - they could pose as a lobster, a mermaid, a sailor or even a pirate.

Sea Urchins is on the first floor of Merseyside Maritime Museum, in the Life at Sea gallery. Visit www.liverpoolmuseums.org.uk ● Yellow Duckmarine Kids will love a trip on the Yellow Duckmarine.

Board the authentic World War II landing vehicle at the Albert Dock and enjoy an hour-long trip by road taking in the historic waterfront, touring the famous sights of the city, before making a dramatic splashdown in the Salthouse Dock. It’s an amazing dockland adventure you’ll never forget!

Open all year round from 9am until dusk The Yellow Duckmarine, 32 Anchor Courtyard, Britannia Pavilion, Albert Dock, Liverpool, L3 4AS. Tel: 0151 708 7799, www.theyellowduckmarine.co.uk ● The Big Mersey Adventure The Big Mersey Adventure down at the Pier Head is a nautical treat for any young explorer. You can experience life under the sea, in outer space and even travel back in time with Merseytravel.

Embark on the 50-minute River Explorer Cruise on the Mersey Ferry. Stop off at Spaceport (Seacombe FerryTerminal) to explore the solar system.

At The U-boat Story (Woodside Ferry Terminal) discover life on board a real German U-boat and celebrate the music of the Fab Four at the Beatles Story Pier Head (Pier Head Ferry Terminal) at Fab4D; a multisensory 4-Dimensional experience.

For more information, call 0151 330 1444 or visit www.thebigmerseyadventure.co.uk

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FAMILY DAYS OUT RAINY DAYS HERE’S some ideas of where to take your little ones during those April showers! ● Underwater Street is a unique hands-on discovery centre for families of children aged up to 10.

Divided into six fascinating zones, you can paint a car, step inside a giant bubble, pan for gold, watch a volcano erupt, make a fridge magnet, build a house, dig for fossils, dress up, test your senses, crawl through a dark cave, be a star in the television studio, and much more.

Visit www.underwaterstreet.com for more information or telephone 0151 227 2550. ● Yellow Sub indoor play centre is a great place to go to tire the little ones out.

Located at Brunswick Business Park, this fantastic children’s soft play centre boasts some 14,000 square feet of space crammed with slides, climbing walls and play frames for the older kids and a special dedicated toddlers’ play area.

For more information visit www.yellowsub.co.uk or telephone 08444 120 850.

Check out Funtown, a new and welcome addition to Garston in south Liverpool.

Offering a whole range of indoor play activities for children, from the age of zero up to 12 years old, there is something to suit kids of all ages. As well as fabulous slides, there is a ball pool and specially-constructed climbing areas, and even a dedicated toddler space where your little ones can play in a completely separate and safe area.

For more information, call 08445 679677 or visit www.funtownliverpool.co.uk. ● Take your little monkeys to Jungle Fun on top of Belle Vale Shopping Centre for the ultimate in indoor play for children and adults alike. As well as a seven foot tall adventure area designed to let the grown ups join in the fun, there are massive slides, climbing areas, a sport zone, a ball pool and a special toddlers’ play area.

For more information telephone 0151 498 4770 or go to www.junglefun.co.uk.

RAINY DAY: There’s fun to be had even if it rains at the Yellow Sub indoor play centre (above) or at the newly-opened Funtown in Garston

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Tuesday, March 23, 2010

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SCHOOL DAYS

Making the best choices T

O give your child the best start in life, you need to give them a good education.

And so choosing the right school will be one of the most important decisions you will make for your child.

In order to ensure that your child gets a place in your chosen primary school, you need to apply well in advance.

Don’t presume that if your child goes to a nursery linked to a school that he or she will automatically get a place – you will still need to apply.

The www.direct.gov.uk website has a really useful section where you can search for schools near you, just by typing in your postcode.

You can also contact your local authority and ask for a list of schools in your area.

Once you have a shortlist of schools within a short distance of you home, you need to do your homework and find out as much as you can about them before making your decision.

You can also get a copy of the school’s prospectus from your local authority or library.

You need to look at the school’s performance, test results and Ofsted reports. Ofsted is the official body which inspects and regulates schools and you can read the schools’ latest reports on its website at www.ofsted.gov.uk You also need to consider your

child’s personality and their needs and if both parents are working, you may need to find a school which offers breakfast and after school clubs.

It’s vitally important that your child feels happy with your choice of school, you may want them to go to the school with the best reputation but if their friends are all going to a different school, they might feel more comfortable going to the same one as their friends.

It’s always good to visit the school in person and get a feel for it. Most schools have open days or evenings, providing a good opportunity to see schools at their best, to tour the school, meet staff and have a look at children's work.

Try and gauge how welcoming the school feels, what facilities does it have? Can you see the children’s work on display.

If your child is very bright, shows particular patterns of behaviour or has special needs, it's important to find a school that will be able to give them the necessary support.

You also need to think about how easy it will be to travel to and from the school.

Once you have decided which school will be best for your little darling, you need to apply for a place in the autumn term a year before your child is due to start. Don’t be late or you might miss out on a place.

LEARNING: Three students studying together

QUESTION TIME: Hands up who knows the answer?

TECHNOLOGY: A teacher instructing students how to use computers

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

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TOP TIPS FROM REAL PARENTS AND USEFUL CONTACTS

What other parents say N

AVIGATING your way through parenthood, especially if it’s your first baby, doesn’t come easy and new mums and dads often find themselves entering unchartered

waters.

There’s all kinds of challenges ahead – from colic and teething to potty training - if only children were born with a handbook attached!

When it comes to dishing out some good advice on handling situations such as separation anxiety and toddler tantrums, who better to ask than parents themselves?

Here’s some pearls of wisdom from Merseyside parents who aim to steer you in the right direction… ● Jayne Moore, director of Agent Marketing, from Kensington, is mum to two-year-old Georgia.

“We’re going through the ‘terrible twos’ at the moment, explains Jayne.

“The best advice I can offer is to set up a ‘naughty corner.’ When Georgia is naughty and hits people, we ask her to apologise.

“If she won’t then we make her go to the naughty corner. Being a happy child, she doesn’t like being there long, so she says sorry very quickly.

“I think kids are so smart that they know how far you will be pushed. You don’t need to shout, just keep calm and the results you get are amazing!”

Jayne also advises parents to stick together. “I think the best advice is to be supportive of your partner and don’t contradict what they are doing – this is less easy when you are tired!” Jayne admits.”

“Back each other up and make sure that the little monster can’t work between you! Kids know when there is a gap so they will work it out quickly so you have to be consistent.” ● Ben Davis from Aigburth, owner of Ben

Davis Property Management company, is dad to two-year-old Lauren.

He feels it is really important to establish a daily routine for your child as early as possible.

He says: “This can be difficult when you're juggling work and childcare but it is worth it if you can get your child into a routine early on.

“Children are creatures of habit and seem to benefit from having a regular routine. It also makes bedtime so much easier if your child has a ritual which they follow each night.

“It can encourage them to sleep better as well and anything that helps parents get more sleep is a winner in my book!"

● Michelle Rushton, feature writer at the Liverpool Daily Post & Echo, is mum to 18-month-old Daniel.

She is a big advocate of singing to calm your child down and help them to settle.

“I remember when Daniel was three-weeks-old and suffering with colic, pacing up and down trying to soothe him and help him to sleep.

“My mum took over and started to sing – it worked by magic!

“I still sing to him now – if he’s overtired and won’t go to sleep – the old favourites come out – Rockabye Baby, Twinkle Twinkle Little Star, You Bring Me Sunshine…

“And you don’t have to have a good voice. Believe me, I’m no Katherine Jenkins!”

TERRIBLE TWOS: Jayne Moore and her daughter Georgia

USEFUL CONTACTS CHILDLINE www.childline.org.uk 0800 1111 NSPCC www.nspcc.org.uk 0800 800 500 British Association for Early Childhood Education www.early-education.org.uk 0207 539 5400 Daycare Trust www.daycaretrust.org.uk 0207 840 3350 Home Education Advisory Service www.heas.co.uk 01707 371 854 National Council for One-Parent Families www.oneparentfamilies.org.uk 0800 185 026 Relate www.relate.org.uk 0208 367 7712 Gingerbread www.gingerbread.org.uk 0800 018 4318 Working Families www.workingfamilies.org.uk 0207 628 2128 Dadtalk www.dadtalk.co.uk

● Sian Aldridge, who works at the Royal Sun Alliance, and is mum to three-year-old Jack, has some real gems.

“If your toddler is a poor eater, ask all your friends to come over and when all the kids sit to eat together it's amazing how they copy each other.

“Another good trick is to give

children a toothbrush to play with from a very young age. It helps with teething and when you come to actually have to clean their teeth, it's not as alien to them and they don’t reject the tooth brush as much.”

As Sian has been potty training Jack recently, she recommends: “To get boys to wee in the toilet – throw a ping pong ball down and get the child to aim at it.

“Blowing bubbles whilst sat on the potty generally achieves a wee too – it’s something to do with breathing.” ● Elaine Sumner, a set designer for Hollyoaks, who lives in Mossley Hill, is mum to 18-month-old Will.

She says: “To help your child learn to count, count the stairs as you take him up to bed or count out toys and sweets.”

And she has a great use for the baby bath when your child outgrows it. “Old baby baths make great outdoor toys. In the summer, fill it with a little water, throw in some plastic cups and some toys and bingo – hours of fun!” ● Mike Lauchlan, a maintenance man at the Jacaranda, and dad to 18-month-old Lloyd, has advice on protecting your TV equipment.

“Lloyd was fascinated with the Sky box and DVD player and kept pressing all the buttons, not to mention ramming toast and all kinds of items into our old video recorder.

“It got to the point where we thought he was going to break them, so we covered the TV stand containing all the equipment with a tablecloth.

“It might look a bit odd in the living room but it certainly distracts Lloyd’s attention from the DVD player and will hopefully ensure our equipment lasts, until he’s old enough to know better!” ● Simon Melhuish, a designer at city-centre based, Brava Design, is dad to three-year-old Eleanor and Theo, aged nine months.

He waxes lyrical about the importance of sitting down together to enjoy family mealtimes. He says: “We endeavour to sit down and eat as many meals together as possible, not always easy or achievable, but it’s amazing how open to new foods children become when they see you eating them too.” ● Steven Mannion, senior graphic designer at city-centre based, Brava Design, is dad to five-year-old Tom and three-year-old Jack.

He advises: “On days out explore the city, find as many parks and fun things, you will be amazed how many are free and make a

COUNT THE STAIRS: Elaine Sumner with her son Will picnic which is the healthier, cheaper option, get them to make the picnic with you.

“Cook with them, get the children involved and make fun messy dishes with them.

“If they have computer games – limit their time on them, make them earn their time on them with good behaviour, a reward for little jobs around the house and show them old school games like “Sonic” and “Mario” which are less violent and if you have an Xbox there are free demos available.

“Make them earn their pocket money and get them to understand the concept of ‘things cost money.’

And lastly: “Switch off from work... you have so little time with them, so make sure they get 100% of you.”

PARENTLINE PLUS

FAMILIES INFORMATION SERVICE NEED some parenting tips or information on childcare provision?

Then contact your local Families Information Service (FIS), a central information point which covers everything from pregnancy, through to pre-school and teens.

Every local authority has a FIS whose role is to make sure parents have all the information they need about services for children and young people.

They have a huge bank of information and can help with queries ranging from questions about starting and moving through school or parenting and family support services.

You can also find out what’s going on locally and discover leisure opportunities and events for kids So give your local service a call and they will put together an information pack, which will be tailored

DISTRACTION: Mike Lauchlan with 18-month-old Lloyd

HELP: You don’t need to do it all on your own to suit your specific needs.

The best thing is... the service is completely FREE! To contact your nearest FIS call: Sefton is 0800 0197 219 www.sefton.gov.uk/familyinformation Liverpool 0800 085 20 22 www.liverpool.gov.uk Knowsley 0800 085 20 22 www.knowsleychildren.org.uk

LAST month, Parentline Plus introduced a free new online live chat service that enables parents and carers to chat instantly to Parentline Plus’ trained advisors regarding any parenting or family issues.

The live chat service www.parentlineplus.org.uk/livechat is available Monday to Thursday (9am-4.30pm) and Friday (9am-12.30pm) with all chats kept confidential between parents and the Parentline Plus online support team.

Parents that require support outside live chat opening hours, can call the free, confidential, 24 hour Parentline on 0808 800 2222 or email parentsupport@parentlineplus.org.uk

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Tuesday, March 23, 2010

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