Women's Inc. November 2013

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By Women, For Women, About Women of Central Arkansas

HAVEN’s helping hand Outgoing executive director Morse-Quick leaves a lasting impression

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WOMEN’S INC. Editor Lori Quinn Creative Director Stewart Cole Contributing Writers Rachel Parker Dickerson Angie Howard Dr. Patricia Knott Andrea Lennon Jill McCollum Susan O’Keefe Jennifer Stanley Chief Photographer Brandy Strain Contributing Photographers Sara Black Laura Derden Courtney Spradlin Gerald Washington Lindsey Faith Watson Retail Advertising Sales Manager Rhonda Overbey Advertising Coordinators Leah Brown Advertising Sales Sarah Allen Betsey Barham Tara Mallett Jesica Talbert Advertising Artists Jay Prince Tyler Rachel Editorial Advisory Board Nicolle Fletcher Haley Crafton Fowler Beverly Freiley Mary Harlan Becky Harris Nancy Jackson Helen Lockhart Velda Lueders Candace Meeks Misty Morse Carol Patty Lori Ross Mary Margaret Satterfield Traci Kennedy Smith Katherine Thomason Stefanie Holt Vann Jessica Zimmerman Women’s Inc. is published by the Log Cabin Democrat.

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iving Back. We are fortunate so have such an actively involved community. So many people in our community are invested, “plugged in” to one of our many non-profits working hard each day to make a difference. Whether it is with their employment with a non-profit or working as a volunteer, our Faulkner County citizens are making a difference in their neighbors’ lives each day.

Jenny Morse-Quick, former Executive Director of HAVEN, has dedicated most of her adult life to helping HAVEN residents become physically and mentally healthy. She has served as the executive director for more than 15 years.

Through her leadership, she and the staff have positively influenced hundreds and hundreds of young girls’ lives. HAVEN strives to provide a home-like setting for the foster children who are placed there. Jenny wants to be a positive example for each of the girls. And she will continue to do so as she makes a transition from long-time employee to a friend and volunteer of HAVEN. Currently a senior at Conway High School, Abby Hill saw a need in her school and figured out a way to meet that need. When Abby was in the 7th grade, she realized that hunger was not only a world problem, but also a problem in her own school. She realized that some of her classmates on the weekends did not have the food they needed in their homes. During the week they were getting school lunches, but over the weekend they sometimes had little or no food at all. After talking with her mother, Backpacks for Home was formed and the rest is history. Any student needing food for their family over the weekend can sign up for the anonymous program at school and take home a backpack of food.

They return the empty backpacks on Monday and can refill them that Friday.

Finally this month, how exciting is it for our community to have Bethlehem House in their beautiful new facility? This new 7,300-squarefoot “home” has everything that the residents will need to be clean, warm, well-fed and safe.

The staff, board and residents are already seeing the difference this new facility will bring to the families and individuals who are temporarily there. For example, there is now a playroom and playground for the residents’ children. There are also more bedrooms and bathrooms. And the staff offices are now in the same building as the residents, which provide for more positive interaction throughout the day. Congratulations Bethlehem House!

Until Next Month,

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cover story

Jenny Morse-Quick leaves a lasting impression at HAVEN

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local beauty services Get everything at Studio Skin

feature story

downtown

21 in the news

22 feature story

Conway senior, Abby Hill, addresses a local need Big Event, Conway Art and Conway Cosmedic

25 feature home A house for trick-or-treaters

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Statements specializes in unique décor, gifts and novelties Bethlehem House excited about new facility

34 food

All the trimmings for the holiday season

Dazzle Daze is back and bigger than ever

columns

10 spirituality

32 accents

Hope changes everything

Fresh ideas for a fall table setting

by Andrea Lennon

by Jessica Zimmerman

42 beauty

43 oral health

Xeomin the newest ‘botox’

Smile!

by Annie Worley, RN

by Dr. Rachel Deal

44 life

45 book review

The blessing of service

“A Thousand Splendid Suns” by Khaled Hosseini

by Fran Scroggins

by Susan O’Keefe

EVENTS: CASA Festival of Chairs, 38; Blackbird Academy of Arts hosts the Paul Taylor Dance Company, 40; Burn Studio grand opening, 41

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Lee Koone (Director of Children’s Services for Counseling Associates), Jennifer Wyse (Assistant Director of HAVEN), Debra Bradley (Secretary of HAVEN) and Jenny MorseQuick (Executive Director of HAVEN for more than 15 years).

Jenny Morse-Quick leaves lasting impression

By Jennifer Stanley Photos by Brandy Strain Help for Abuse Victims in Emergency Need (HAVEN) is fortunate to have called Jenny Morse-Quick its executive director. The residential and emergency shelter facility opened in Conway 27 years ago and provides a safe home for girls in need throughout the state.

Jenny is married to Dr. Donny Quick, and the couple has four children: Parker Morse, 14; Allison Quick, 12; Brady Quick, 11; and Dutch Morse, 10. Jenny began working for HAVEN at age 19, while studying psychology at UCA. “I was very blessed. I moved into the assistant director role, then the executive director role, mostly because of my experience and love for the work. I had the longevity and knew the program,” she shares.

HAVEN employs four full-time staff members. In addition to Jenny, daytime staff includes secretary, Debra Bradley, who has been with the organization for over fifteen years. “Debra is dedicated and consistent; she is here rain or shine! She gets here early and stays late,” says Jenny.

Jennifer Wyse is the assistant director. “Jennifer has been at HAVEN for over fifteen years and is the contact with the Department of Human Services. She keeps the scheduling, makes appointments for the kids, and does all of the documentation. She is great, and she is routinely here until seven or eight in the evening. Her heart is in it,” explains Jenny. Lee Koone serves as director of children’s services for Counseling Associates, Inc. She began her mental health career as a HAVEN intern from Hendrix College in 1990, and she served as a house parent for several years. “Each of these ladies has devoted years to the program.

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Jenny Morse-Quick has recently resigned her position as Executive Director of HAVEN. Her dedication and service to this agency has been so important for this organization over the years. She plans to continue to make an impact at HAVEN in the future as a volunteer.

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Allison Quick, Donny Quick, Brady Quick, Jenny Morse-Quick, Dutch Morse, and Parker Morse.

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frequently stop by to visit,” says Jenny.

Her own role as executive director requires staff training, hiring, and interviewing. Jenny also administers the budget and is the liaison to the board of directors. HAVEN’s Board of Directors is comprised of 15 community members who advocate for the kids. “They are wonderful and instrumental in helping us get the word out. They tell the community about our program and about ways to give.”

The board holds multiple fundraisers throughout the year.

The shelter requires round-the-clock supervisory roles as well. HAVEN employs a pool of nine house parents who provide 24/7 care for the kids. “Most of our staff are in their early 20s and are studying toward their undergraduate or graduate degrees in related fields. House parents prepare meals, conduct study hall, provide transportation, administer medications. They are also wonderful. We could not do this without the amazing staff we have in place,” shares Jenny.

HAVEN is an agency of Counseling Associates, Inc., a private, non-profit mental community center that provides services across six Arkansas counties. They provide a wide variety of mental health services to the community, and their involvement with HAVEN allows for the children to receive needed mental health services, including appointments with psychiatrists and medication management for those in need. The kids receive individual and group therapy and even family therapy when appropriate to the situation. “That partnership has aided in the longevity of the shelter. It provides the administrative support we need in terms of human resources, supervisory service, and other administrative functions. We are the front line, but we have a great support system behind our operations.”

Without Counseling Associates, HAVEN would not be self-sustaining.

Each of HAVEN’s residents originates from foster care. The children come from all over the State of Arkansas, though Faulkner and its surrounding counties have placement priority. Jenny says there is no way to predict where the kids will come from or how many children will be in residence at a given time. “Other parts of our state do not have facilities like HAVEN. We provide accommodations for females ages six to 18.” HAVEN has 12 beds, which is representative of their maximum capacity. They currently have nine girls in residence, though their census fluctuates constantly. HAVEN acts as both an emergency shelter and a residential facility, so those who need a permanent place can stay as long as needed, depending on their needs and how they adapt to the setting. All residents attend public schools.

“We try to benefit the girls each and every day they are here. Other goals include finding ways to teach them new habits, being an example for them, and showing them new ways of living, especially if they’ve come from a very chaotic or abusive home.

We also strive to teach them some healthy boundaries. The girls have chores, and there is a level system for behavior, so there are expectations on them to have self-respect and to respect others around them,” shares Jenny. HAVEN also ensures new residents become as physically healthy as possible; they receive dental and vision screenings and up-to-date immunizations. “If we only have a child for two

weeks, we want to make sure their needs are met. If they need fillings, they get them. If they need eye glasses, they get those. Education-wise, we have an organized study hall every day after school. We have staff members who talk with the teachers, so we know how they are functioning in school. We want them to be as healthy and whole as possible each day,” says Jenny.

HAVEN has needs throughout the year. “Times have really been tight. We are facing changes in Medicaid reimbursement rates for mental health services, which is a little frightening,” she says.

For many of the children, their tenure at HAVEN is the only time they will receive integral mental health care. The changes are due to new healthcare reform regulations. Currently, HAVEN can bill for the instruction and other services provided to the children, and they rely heavily on these Medicaid funds. As such, fundraising, grants, partnerships, and other monetary resources could become incredibly important. For those who may wish to provide donations, monetary and consumable goods are the best current choices. Additionally, HAVEN has an annual golf tournament which can always benefit from sponsorships and teams.

Of the job, Jenny states, “It can be difficult. We never close. We are on call 24/7. I rotate call with Jennifer. We both have to work after hours sometimes when something significant happens. We often work Christmas Day; we usually take the kids to the movies because it can be a tough day for them.

After her many years of dedicated service, Jenny recently announced her resignation. However, a replacement has already been selected, and the front line staff will remain in place. Though Jenny may no longer serve as executive director, she will still be a presence at HAVEN. “I’ve devoted so much of my life to HAVEN, and so have my own children. I know the level of care the kids get here, and I know the kind of children who should be placed here. I know how families can fall on hard times at any moment, and these kids want what every other kid wants. They like to go to McDonald’s every now and then; they like to have a new pair of shoes. They need to go to school. I really think my focus can be different and more impactful on the residents when I am not doing the executive director duties. I am excited to have that opportunity at HAVEN.” HAVEN sees an average of 60 kids per year.

Though that time can be fleeting, many former residents have gone on to great successes. The employees at HAVEN have also been blessed by their affiliation with the residents. “I have gotten so many rewards for being here. I may have gotten calls at two in the morning, but for as frugal a budget as we have and for so many kids who don’t know one another to live in one place, it has been a blessing.

It is amazing how it all comes together and runs smoothly,” says Jenny.

Of the residents, Jenny shares, “Some feel thankful to be out of their situations, some are angry, some haven’t seen a parent in years. Every one of them is different, but I want them to get what they can get while they are here. The girls have blessed me, though it can be heart-wrenching. It is hard not knowing what lies ahead of them, and you want the best possible outcome. Why do some of us get a path that seems easier and full of choices when other kids don’t have these chances?”

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SPIRITUALITY

Hope changes everything

By Andrea Lennon

elievers in Jesus Christ always have a reason to hope. Hope changes everything because it positions us to see what is in our life instead of what is missing.

Romans 15:13 speaks of hope. It says, “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” (New International Version) We serve the God of hope. No other god offers life-changing or life-sustaining hope. Biblical hope involves more than a feeling. It is more than a desire for life to turn out the way we planned. Biblical hope is trustful expectation, particularly in reference to the fulfillment of God’s promises. Hope is at the center of the Christian faith.

Believers in Jesus Christ have hope because of two important events. The first event involved Jesus’ resurrection from the grave. The moment that Jesus rose from the grave, sin and death were defeated. Because this world continues to be plagued by sin, things like death, disease and dismay still exist. However, ultimate victory over evil was accomplished through Jesus’ life, death and resurrection, which paved the way for individuals to have a personal relationship with God through Jesus Christ. These events also secured heaven as our real home. The second event involves the indwelling of the Holy Spirit. The very presence of God lives inside of us. God’s Spirit reminds us that we are His children and that we do not face any situation, hard or easy, on our own.

The best way to foster a strong sense of hope occurs when we understand the greatness and goodness of God. The greatness of God is seen in God’s mighty acts throughout history. As we think about God’s story we see how every prophecy in the Old Testament is fulfilled, how every important event in the New Testament was accomplished and how every aspect of our lives fits into a bigger picture. We serve a great and mighty God and at the sound of His voice everything can change.

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The goodness of God is seen in God’s loving care in the details of life. Even though bad things can happen, we serve a good God who is willing and able to bring beauty out of the ashes of our lives. Whether it is a marriage that is falling apart, a wayward child who is far from home, a friendship that is broken, a financial problem that has no solution, a diagnosis that is overwhelming, a dream that is shattered or a death that came too soon, God is good and He is willing and able to lovingly put our lives back together again.

How can God be great and good in the midst of overwhelming trials and heartbreak? God is a restoring God. He brings purpose to the pain and meaning out of the mess. When faced with a difficult circumstance or a heartbreaking loss, there is a choice to make. Will we embrace the greatness and goodness of God and invite Him to restore our lives; or will we embrace hopelessness and allow our circumstances to defeat us?

Hopelessness occurs when we believe that our situation cannot improve or change. Hopelessness wreaks havoc in a believer’s life because it leaves no room for God and His life-changing work.

Embracing God means embracing hope. Hope reminds us that God is great and that He is good.

Hope also reminds us that this world is not our home.

As a result, restoration and healing are always possible in Jesus’ name.

If you find yourself in a hopeless situation, turn to God for help. He is waiting for you. He is able and willing to meet you at your greatest point of need and heal you in Jesus’ name. No matter how overwhelming your situation appears to be, your life can proclaim, “My God is able!”

Andrea Lennon lives in Conway, Arkansas, with her husband, Jay, and sons, Jake and Andrew.

Andrea ministers to the women of Arkansas through a speaking and writing ministry called True Vine Ministry. To learn more about this ministry, access Andrea’s website at www. andrealennon.net.

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LOCAL BEAUT Y SERVICES

Get everything at Studio Skin

Studio Skin, located in Conway’s historic downtown, offers specialized corrective skin care and a full range of spa services.

Owner and aesthetician Angela Jackson, with more than 11 years of experience, provides corrective skin treatments, such as microderm abrasions, chemical peels and much more. Jackson has recently been appointed to and serves on the Arkansas Department of Health Cosmetology Advisory Board. Both she and Annie Worley, RN/injectable specialist, work for board certified plastic surgeon Dr. Heath Stacy. Worley administers all the injectable treatments offered at Studio Skin, including Botox, Restyline, Juvederm, Radiesse and Boletoro. She has more than eight years’ experience with injectables. Offerings at the day spa also include 14 WOMEN’S INC. / NOVEMBER 2013

laser services, such as laser hair removal and spider vein removal.

The hair stylists at the day spa are always up to date on the latest trends, including keratin treatments, extensions and color.

Jackson said, “I have some outstanding stylists. They are so talented and professional. They have gone far above and beyond my expectations.”

Other popular services at Studio Skin include full body waxing, shellac manicures and pedicures, airbrush tanning, eyelash tinting/perming and more. The day spa is also home to a boutique full of jewelry, handbags, gifts, and skin and hair care products. Featured products include Moroccan Oil, Kevin Murphy, Keratin Complex, Glo Minerals, Skinceuticals and Theraderm.

ACCENTS SALON 690 S. Salem, Suite 306 501-327-8191

Our warm and welcoming atmosphere at Accents Salon, will have you feeling satisfied, refreshed, and apart of the family. With 30 years of experience, we specialize in hair care for everyone in your family, and walk-ins are always welcome! Our services include hair care, manicures, pedicures, and massages for an all around relaxing experience, with full satisfaction guaranteed! Call us today, and ask about our special offers!

STUDIO SKIN 1016 Oak Street (501) 358-4653

Located in Conway’s Historic Downtown.

Studio Skin offers corrective skin care treatments, provided by our Aesthetician with 11+ years experience in the medical field supervised by a Board Certified Plastic Surgeon. Studio Skin also offers all injectables: Botox, Restyline, Juvederm, Radiesse and Boletoro. All injectables are provided by a Registered Nurse who has been doing these treatments for 8 years. Our studio also offers hair services with a staff of 5 hair stylists always up to date on the latest styles, color, highlights, and extensions. Other popular services offered at Studio Skin: Full body waxing, shellac manicures and pedicures, personalized airbrush tanning, eyelash tinting/perming, and a boutique full of unique jewelry, handbags, and gift ideas as well as top of the line professional skin and hair care products such as Moroccan Oil, Kevin Murphy, Keratin Complex, Glo Minerals, Skinceuticals, and Theraderm.

SALON ELEVEN 1027 Front Street, Suite 1 (501) 205-8624

Be more than a ten! Our stylists are owner Erica Wickliffe, DeShay Poe, Becca Lawson, Kacey Barton, Vicki Haile and Corey Short. We are always up to date on the latest hairstyles for men and women. All stylists are color specialists and do highlights and extensions too.

We also offer facial waxing and shellac and manicures. Call today for an appointment!

CUT ABOVE SALON

SHERI’S SALON

912 Chestnut Street (501)327-1720

Chrissa Smith 1100 Main Street, Suite 8 (501) 472-4553

The four stylists at Cut Above Salon: Shawna Evans ( Owner & Stylist, Tonya Moix, Evon Collins and Peggy Bonds, want clients to come in and feel at home! ! Cut Above Salon is a family salon with a family atmosphere. Some clients have been using their services since childhood and now bring their own children in the salon. Cut Above Salon stylists, with over 100 years of combined experience, work together to do what’s best for their clients because customer satisfaction and enjoyable experience is Cut Above Salon’s top priority. Women, men, children and walk-ins are welcome.

The salon is open at 8 a.m. Tuesday through Saturday fro salon services from hair care to waxing and a full staff of color specialists.

K2K SALON 740 S. Salem Road., Suite 103 (501) 764-1097

At K2K we consistently strive to make our guests feel pampered, nurtured, and beautiful! We are Conway’s only Oribe and Bumble and Bumble Salon, maintaining the industry’s highest standards. While specializing in Women’s Hair Care and Nail Care, we also accept walk-ins. So come visit Kristy Fruits at K2K Salon, today! Women’s Inc. Readers’ Choice Award Winner for Favorite Hair Salon & Stylist!

Sheri’s Salon, owned by Sheri Lowry, is a quaint little shop located in Downtown Conway near the post office and Regions Bank. The salon is perfect for women, men and children. It’s a great place for haircuts for the family, as well as perms, color, highlights and specialty styles and updos. We strive to make our clients feel comfortable, relaxed and beautiful. Chrissa Smith is formerly from Jo-La-Ru and went to work in Greenbrier. Now Chrissa is back in Conway. Sheri and Chrissa have worked together for more than 13 years. Chrissa brings 24 years’ experience to the salon. Call Chrissa for an appointment today.

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FEATURE BACKPACKS

Abby Hill, a senior at Conway High School, is the founder of Backpacks for Home program.

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Abby Hill addresses a local need

By Jennifer Stanley Photos by Brandy Strain Abby Hill is more than your typical high school senior. In addition to serving as captain of the Conway High School Varsity Dance Team, dancing and assisting with teaching at Irby Dance Studio, being involved in a K-Life small group, attending First United Methodist Church and being in Caring Cats, Abby started the Backpacks For Home program at Conway High School.

Abby, a lifelong Conway resident, is the daughter of Greg and Lisa Hill and has one older sister, Morgan. “I was in seventh grade, and around that age is when I began to truly realize that not every child is equal in the way they are provided for. I was in a Sunday School class at First United Methodist Church, and we were talking about foreign hunger and ways to prevent it. I went home to talk with my mom about it, and I came to the realization that foreign hunger is not our only problem. There is hunger in our own community, and I wanted to help the children whose needs were unmet. My mom and I decided a backpack program was the easiest way to help, so the program began,” she shared.

Backpacks For Home is now a nonprofit organization within Conway Public Schools. “Each year we reach out to children within the district whose nutritional needs are not met on the weekends. Backpacks For Home provides a backpack full of food for these children to take home on Friday. They return them to school on Monday.” Counselors within the schools help determine which children can benefit from assistance.

A letter is sent home to the parents of those identified, asking permission to send home the food. The letter also asks about allergy informa-

tion and the number of people living in the home. “It is Backpacks For Home’s mission to reach every child as well as their family in order to provide food and comfort for the weekend,” Abby said.

Backpacks For Home has proven wildly successful. “The program is completely anonymous; we like to keep every child we help in complete privacy from ourselves and the community. We do not know the names of the children we reach out to in order to keep the children from ever feeling embarrassed by the help we provide,” shared Abby.

Backpacks For Home receives funding from donations and fundraisers. “Many members of the community have reached out to help support Backpacks For Home. Any monetary or food donations are always put to good use. We are always excited when anyone is willing to help, and since I will be going off to college next year, my mom will need some extra help,” Abby said. If any community members would like to be involved with donations or fundraising, they are encouraged to contact Backpacks For Home.

Abby would like to see Backpacks For Home grow into other communities throughout the state and beyond. “My goal is that other children can see what this program does and start one in their own schools.

I would love to see Backpacks For Home expand into a program in every public school around the country. I believe the program does more than help the children receiving the food; it teaches volunteers they can make a difference in their own communities. It taught me as a seventh grader that no matter how young you are, if you have a desire to help someone, you should.”

For more information, contact Backpacks For Home at 501-565717. Follow on twitter @Backpacks4Home or find them on Facebook: Backpacks For Home.

DOWNTOWN

Unique gifts, home décor, jewelry and clothing are available at Statements in Downtown Conway.

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Make a statement Downtown boutique specializes in unique décor, gifts and novelties

By Rachel Parker Dickerson Photos by Brandy Strain Allison Reed of Statements in Downtown Conway loves to decorate, and she loves people.

Just try to miss her. She has a personality as warm as the hot pink highlights in her hair. It won’t take long for you to find something in common with this perceptive, outgoing soul, and in possibly a shorter time you will see some things you’d like to buy from her. Statements specializes in conversation pieces, Reed said, and so she fits right in with her merchandise.

“I love to decorate,” she said. “I’ve always loved decorating and colors. I like to be at home, so my surroundings have to reflect my personality.

When I came to work, it had to be a happy place.

“I was going for a place where anyone could come on any budget and have a boutique experience.

Allison Reed, owner of Statements.

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The boutique experience makes it special. You can buy a gift, and it’s something the person hasn’t seen before, or doesn’t have 10 of. Or, you can buy yourself an inspiration piece and build around it. I have tons of things $10 and under, but I also have investment pieces.”

Among the shop’s conversation pieces are Bucky the Reindeer, which Reed says would be adorable mounted on the wall in a little boy’s room, and a gold squirrel holding a dish that could be used to hold candy, keys or something else. Reed also carries jewelry, pottery, custom upholstery, frames and paintings made by local artisans.

She added, “I’ve got crazy men’s socks with bacon on them. I’ve got great candles. I have amazing

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custom bedding that is high-end. The designer of it was the designer on (the television show) “Trading Spaces.” These screen-printed animal-shaped pillows are really popular. I’ve had to re-order them twice. I have clothing for literally every size.”

Reed is an Arkansas native and has been a Conway resident for more than a decade. She earned a degree in English from the University of Arkansas and spent several years staying home with her children; then worked in retail for Yours Truly Kids.

“I got involved in their buying, merchandising and PR,” she said. “When it came time for me to work full time, this seemed like an opportunity I needed to try.”

When she chooses items for her store, she looks for “things that make me laugh or smile,” she said.

“I call my decorating style ‘tacky chic.’ If you like two items, they can go together. You may have to bring in some other elements. You just have to find some sort of unifying factor. Your house should not look like anyone else’s. And don’t be afraid of color.”

Reed said she is now considering expanding to offer design services. She may wait a while but is already being asked, she said.

“If you had told me a year ago I’d be doing this, it would have surprised me. It was an opportunity, a God thing. A door opened and I ran in. This is something I thought I would do when my kids graduated from high school. But I love being downtown. Front Street, being next to Pasta Grill, has been a lot of fun.

People can put their name on the list and come in and shop. I love it here. I love Conway.”

IN THE NEWS

Grand Opening of Conway Art Back row, left to right: William M. McClanahan, Cathy Wester, Dr. David L. Baker, Parilee Croft, Lois Giorgis and Don Bingham. Front row, left to right, Katrina Dolislager, Sheila Parsons, Nina Ruth Baker, Georg Andersen, Linda Flake and Elizabeth Bogard.

Conway Cosmedic Open House

Volunteer Conway to hold annual Big Event, Nov. 1-2 Volunteer Conway, in its third year of connecting willing workers with nonprofit organizations, will hold its third annual Big Event on Nov. 1-2. During the course of two days more than 500 volunteers will participate in service activities supporting the city of Conway, Conway schools, Conway parks and a number of non-profits. All residents are invited to roll up their sleeves and have fun with family and friends while they “give back to Conway.” The organization’s website, VolunteerConway.org, displays a calendar of all Big Event service opportunities and allows volunteers to easily register to participate.

Volunteer Conway was founded in 2010 by a group of local companies and institutions, including Acxiom, Hewlett-Packard, Kimberly Clark, Conway Corporation and Hendrix College, to help local nonprofits easily access volunteers. Now, would-be helpers can go to VolunteerConway.org to get connected with organizations rather than struggle to determine which of Conway’s numerous nonprofits could benefit most from their skills.

Since its founding, Volunteer Conway has connected more than 1,500 Conway residents to local service organizations, totaling more than 5,000 volunteer hours of service back to the community.

Conway Cosmedic recently held their open house. Above, esthetician & laser technician Lauren Beck, artist Dixie Rogers and owner Dr. A. Sharon Meador. Below, Mineralogie mineral makeup representative Mary Van applies makeup and, bottom, Dermafrac representative Jack Chamberlain show demonstrates technique.

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F E AT U R E S T O R Y

Bethlehem House excited about new facility Nonprofit moves into 7,300-square-foot building with upgraded amenities

By Rachel Parker Dickerson Photos by Brandy Strain Residents and staff of Bethlehem House recently moved into the nonprofit’s new shelter at 1115 Parkway Ave. Executive Director Judi Lively said, “I am thrilled to be here. I am grateful and I’m humbled. It’s so great to allow residents to live and sleep in a place that’s healthy.”

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and playground for residents’ children, staff offices and more resident bedrooms and bathrooms than at the old facility.

Lively said, “They were so excited to come into a facility that could maintain its temperature, that is nice and clean, that has room for their kids to play. And we’re all together. That means so much to me. I have missed them so much. When my office was off site, my main interaction with the residents was when they had a complaint. Now it’s ‘Good morning, how was your weekend? Good morning, would you like some coffee?’”

Zyana Lincoln, a resident at Bethlehem House, said after moving from the old shelter to the new, “I feel safer. I feel more comfortable and more at home. Even though this is not my home, it’s more homey.”

Aimee Prince, president of the Bethlehem House Board of Directors, said fundraising and building all went quickly and smoothly, and the community was generous with donations.

“We worked with Nabholz, which has been awesome,” she said. “Things always come up, but there have been very few roadblocks, very few change orders.”

She said the commercial kitchen and adequate storage space will allow the shelter to have real dishes rather than serving residents meals on disposable plates as in the past. The Log Cabin Democrat started a program called Pass the Plate to encourage the community to raise money to buy new plates for the shelter. Readers donated online, and their contribution was matched by the Log Cabin Democrat.

Rhonda Overbey of the Log Cabin Democrat said the effort raised enough money to purchase 391 plates, thanks to a $3 per plate rate offered by Tipton Equipment.

“It’s our housewarming gift to Bethlehem House from the Log Cabin Democrat. It may be more (plates) than they need, and we’re giving them the flexibility to buy the plates and then buy whatever else they need,” Overbey said. “So many people want to help Bethlehem House and just don’t have the time. We set it up just like the Community Christmas Card so people could easily give.”

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SUSIE WALKER HOME

A HOUSE FOR TRICK-OR-TREATERS HALLOWEEN ALWAYS A FAVORITE IN PIPPENPOST NEIGHBORHOOD

By Rachel Parker Dickerson Photos by Courtney Spradlin Experienced trick-or-treaters in the Pippenpost neighborhood know which house on their route will supply not only a tasty treat but also a big dose of Halloween happiness.

Susie Walker uses her crafting and decorating talents to bring autumnal splendor to her home, as well as to delight costumed candy collectors. She has loved autumn and Halloween since childhood. She noted she loves to decorate with gourds, pumpkins and other natural elements that come in so many different varieties in the fall.

“I love all the different gourds and pumpkins. It’s nature’s eye candy,” she said. “There are so many different things in nature that God has provided for us to decorate with. You can create a beautiful centerpiece with things from nature. I just happen to go over the top. It’s my favorite part of autumn.”

In addition to placing natural centerpieces and accessorizing with natural elements throughout the home, Walker created luxurious-looking velvet pumpkins with natural stems. She said she searched high and low for stretch velvet, because regular velvet simply does not accomplish the right effect. The velvet pumpkins are topped with natural pumpkin stems, which are long and twisted. Walker said the rare twisted stems are from an Amish farm in Blytheville. The Amish farmers turn the pumpkins on the vine regularly, creating the desired look.

Walker also created a Halloween-themed tablescape for a meeting of a ladies’ craft club that meets monthly. The table has a centerpiece of pumpkins and gourds and a felt treat bucket at each place filled with crafts. Treats, Halloween napkins, and a few vintage Halloween décor items complete the look.

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Vintage Halloween is one of Walker’s passions. She said authentic vintage pieces are rare and expensive, and so she has a few that are genuine and others that are reproduction.

Among the vintage items she has collected are Halloween cutouts, treat buckets and party hats. One of her favorite pieces is a reproduction papier-mâché jack-o-lantern much like the ones her mother used to line the sidewalk with on Halloween night.

Her love of Halloween has grown into hosting a trick-or-treat “boo-fet” for local children.

Walker has transformed her dining room into “a room with a boo” for children and their parents to tour. She dresses up like a friendly witch on Halloween night (she has tried other costumes, but her customers always demand the witch, she said) and has Halloween music playing. As the doorbell-ringers arrive, they are invited in to have their photo made on the stairs or at a cutout photo canvas that separates the “room with a boo” from the entryway.

Children are sure to be entertained as the witch introduces them to a table laden with the most interesting assortment of items — everything from a bowl of eyeballs to a cake stand covered in fake spiders. Parents will enjoy another level of humor just for them.

Walker has included (to name a few) a “telltale heart,” a jar labeled “crows’ feet,” as well as a pile of plastic bones labeled “remains of the day.”

She commented, “As you see, I love eyeballs. My friends send me eyeballs from all over. This table has been a work in progress.

I’m always on the lookout.”

Walker said she “blames” her mother and her aunt Willie for her love of Halloween.

Children always went to her aunt’s house to bob for apples and received a caramel apple as their treat, she said.

She concluded, “My neighborhood trick-ortreaters come in, and they pose on the steps or at the photo canvas, so I have a lot of pictures of neighbors over the years. It’s fun to see the kids change and grow up.”

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ACCENTS

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Fresh ideas for fall setting

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all is definitely my favorite time of year! I love everything about it — chunky knit sweaters, a bowl of hot chili and the colors I see when I look outside. Nothing quite captures the essence of Fall like the colors!

Whether I am decorating someone’s home, designing a wedding or simply setting a beautiful table, I like to bring a fresh perspective. With this tablescape, I paired the unexpected hue of hot pink with the traditional fall palette of orange, brown and purple. I love this color combination because it screams fall but is not something you see every day.

Please follow my blog for even more inspiration: asoutherntradition.com/blog Fresh floral, menu cards, linens, dinnerware, chargers, glassware, flatware — all available at A Southern Tradition.

Jessica Zimmerman is the owner of A Southern Tradition in downtown Conway. Her work has been featured in regional and national magazines. As a graduate of the University of Arkansas’ Art program, she’s an avid blogger, a lover of travel, and has a passion for all things creative! She resides in Conway with her husband Brian and daughter Stella. For more, follow her blog at asoutherntradition.com/blog.

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FOOD

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All the trimmings C R A N B E R R Y, S A U S A G E & A P P L E S T U F F I N G ARKANSAS GREEN BEANS S U G A R - C O AT E D P E C A N S

By Chef Jill McCollum, CC photos by Lindsey Faith-Watson

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Dressing or stuffing ... there is a difference I am sure that you have set down to Thanksgiving dinner and argued with friends and family over politics, work, sports and various other topics. Though the topics change from year to year, there is one discussion that returns with every traditional Thanksgiving meal. It revolves around the question: What is the difference between stuffing and dressing?

Truth is there is no difference in the ingredients; the difference is in the preparation. For stuffing to be stuffing, it must be stuffed, crammed, shoved, squeezed or even coaxed into the cavity of a bird. Stuffing will also adhere to the flavors from your bird that dressing will not have.

Dressing on the other hand is prepared separately from the bird and is done best in grandma’s cast iron skillet with lots of oil. The oil helps provide the dressing

with a wonderful brown crunchy crust.

But whether you are stuffing your bird or preparing dressing, either will be enjoyed by all!

Chef Jill McCollum, CC is the Caterer and Food Service Director for Central Baptist College. Jill is the owner of Jill McCollum Catering in Conway. She can be reached at jmccollum@cbc.edu or (501) 730-4422

Cranberry, Sausage & Apple Stuffing 1 pound sweet Italian sausage, casings removed ¼ cup butter 6 cups coarsely chopped leeks 3 tart apples-peeled, cored and chopped 2 cups chopped celery 4 teaspoons poultry seasoning 2 teaspoons dried rosemary, crushed 1 cup dried cranberries 12 cups white bread cubes, baked until slightly dry 1 1/3 cups chicken stock Salt and black pepper to taste Cook and stir sausage in an large skillet over medium heat, crumbling coarsely, for about 10 minutes. Remove sausage to a large bowl with a slotted spoon. Empty pan of grease.

Into the same pan melt the butter.

Add the leeks or onions, apples, celery and poultry seasoning; cook until softened, about 10 minutes. Add the rosemary, dried cranberries and cooked sausage. Mix all with the dried bread cubes. Season to taste with salt and pepper. Moisten with the chicken stock. Bake in a covered buttered casserole dish at 350 degrees for about 45 minutes. Uncover and bake for another 15 minutes to brown top.

Arkansas Green Beans 5 (15 ounce) cans green beans, drained 7 slices bacon-slightly cooked 2/3 cup brown sugar ¼ cup butter, melted 7 teaspoons soy sauce 1 ½ teaspoons garlic powder Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Place the drained green beans in a 9x13 inch baking pan. Lay the slightly cooked bacon on top of green beans. Combine the brown sugar, melted butter, soy sauce and garlic powder in a small bowl. Pour the butter mixture over the green beans and bacon. Bake uncovered in preheated oven for 40 minutes.

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Sugar-Coated Pecans 1 egg white 1 tablespoon water 1 pound pecan halves 1 cup white sugar ž teaspoon salt ½ teaspoon ground cinnamon Preheat oven to 250 degrees.

Grease baking sheet. In a mixing bowl, whip together the egg white and water until frothy. In a separate bowl, mix together sugar, salt and cinnamon. Add pecans to egg whites, stir to coat the nuts evenly. Remove the nuts, and toss them in the sugar mixture until coated. Spread the nuts out on the prepared baking sheet. Bake at 250 degrees for 1 hour, stir every 15 minutes.

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CASA FESTIVAL OF CHAIRS

Photos by Maggie Wells

Volunteers for the Festival from Delta Beta Sigma.

Cindy Hudson, Sherry Smith, Fletcher Smith, and Lauren Compton

Michelle Hoyt and Nick Hoyt

Maggie Wells, Katie Wells, and Amanda King

Abby King with HipSway gives details on the live auction item donated by her store.

Teresa Thompson and Amber Bagby

Karen Leach and Gayola Porterfield

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Tom Watson and Johnnie Wells

Matt Mosler and Melissa Dunbar-Gates hosts for the event.

A $15,000 ring was donated by Fletcher Smith’s for a raffle.

Kelli Wells and Annabeth Jackson, co-chairs for this year’s Festival of Chairs.

Laura Simpson and Kelli Wells

Justin Jeane, Jayme Jeane, James Ryken and Jen Ryken

Steve Simpson, Phillip Gullic, and James Ryken

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Blackbird Academy of Arts hosts the Paul Taylor Dance Company

Photos by 2 Carters Photos

Michelle Fleet, Joseph Cox, Laura Halzack

Stephanie Thibeault, Sean Mahoney, Robert Kleinendorst

Jay Raphael, Rhythm McCarthy, Amanda Horton

Members of the Paul Taylor Dance Company with Jennie Strange

Olivia McConkie, James and Jen Ryken, Darren Irby, Jennie Strange

Allison Vetter, Jennie Strange, Christina Lynch Markham, Katherine Thomason, Melissa Johnston

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BURN STUDIO GRAND OPENING

Photos by A Lynns View Photography

Robin Dayer, Brooke Vaughn, Kristie Moss, Amy Harder and Shannon Wilcox

Ribbon cutting for the grand opening

Joey Lamb and Brooke Vaughn

Leo Cummings and Whitney Cummings

Amy Harder and Holly Vint

Sam Heasley and Jacquelyn Heasley

Maliha Wise and Minza Spradlin

Brian Odom and Michelle Odom

BEAUTY

Xeomin the newest ‘botox’

By Annie Worley

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n the past several month I have been asked many times about “the new botox.” So here is some information I have found and hope it helps everyone who has heard about Xeomin but unsure of what it is...

Xeomin has been recently FDA approved, making it the newest treatment available for erasing wrinkles and smoothing skin much like its predecessor, Botox. Xeomin and Botox share the identical active ingredient, botulinum toxin A. Botulinum toxin is a naturally occurring purified neurotoxin used to treat muscle spasms, abnormal neck pain, and its most popular use, wrinkles. This neurotoxin enables both Xeomin and Botox to function successfully by relaxing facial muscles and smoothing out wrinkles. The only difference is that Xeomin does not have any of the additives that Botox contains. Botulinum that is free from complexing proteins is called incobotulinum, giving it the theoretical advantage to decrease the likelihood of a patient developing resistance to treatment. When the body senses a foreign substance, it responds by creating antibodies to attack, but because Xeomin only contains incobotulinum toxin type A, the possibility of an adverse reaction is reduced.

Cosmetic anti-wrinkle injections have recently attracted younger users as a preventative solution. Just as Xeomin has become the youngest botulinum injection available, its antiwrinkle properties have increased in popularity among younger patients. The trend is gaining momentum as more and more injectors are seeing younger patients requesting injections of botulinum before wrinkles even develop. Xeomin is a viable competitor against Botox and Dysport, another botulinum based neurotoxin, for eliminating wrinkles and creating natural and effective improvements to the face.

This un-complex version of Botox relies solely on the botulinum toxin to act on the neural pathways that coordinate muscle movements. Botox contains chaperone proteins, which cause it to take effect about five days after injection while Xeomin works as early as three days after the five to ten minute treatment. Diffusion studies have shown that even though Xeomin does not contain Botox’s proteins, it acts just as effectively at staying in the intended injection site.

When the brain is directed to laugh or frown, it sends a signal that travels through a nerve to reach the muscle tissue and trigger a physical corresponding action. Xeomin cuts that

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line of communication, ultimately preventing the signal from reaching the muscle. When the muscle cannot be triggered to contract, it remains in a relaxed state, which not only addresses wrinkles that have already formed, but also prevents creases from forming in the first place. Patients will stop overusing the muscles that cause repeated facial micro-movements that form undesirable lines along the face overtime; telltale signs of aging.

This does not prevent you from making facial expressions, but simply stops your face from making muscle contractions deep within the skin that ultimately cause harder to treat wrinkles.

Like Botox, Xeomin provides the same benefits and effectiveness in diminishing glabellar wrinkles. Other wrinkles that Xeomin and Botox treat with equal success rates are crow’s feet or fine lines around the eyes, upper lip lines, and can also relax platysma muscles, which are the bands located under the chin and down the neck that are notorious for protruding with age.

This cosmetic injection can help so many reverse the notorious signs of aging such as wrinkles formed between the eyebrows, on the forehead, around the eyes and mouth as a result of frowning, scowling, squinting from the sun, or merely concentrating on a task such as listening or reading. Similar to Botox, the results tend to last three to four months and fade away gradually. Xeomin has been widely used throughout Europe since 2005 and received its FDA approval for use in then U.S. In July of 2011.

For more information on Xeomin, Botox, Radiesse, Juvederm, or Belotero call for your free consultation and treatment plan that is individually created for you!

Annie Worley, RN, Studio Skin in Conway (501) 358-4653

Annie Worley, RN, graduated from Baptist School of Nursing in 1997. As a registered nurse she has more than 8 years’ experience injecting, in which time she has developed a passion for working with people to create the natural, youthful appearance so many of us desire.

Annie has attended numerous Level III Palate advanced injection classes, which is the highest level of training a nurse injector can receive. Annie works primarily at Northwest Arkansas Center for Plastic Surgery in Fayetteville, under the direction of Dr. Heath Stacey, a board certified plastic surgeon. She brings her knowledge, experience and passion for cosmetic injectables to Studio Skin on Wednesdays.

O R A L H E A LT H

By Dr. Rachel Deal

‘Smile!’

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ociety prides a beautiful healthy smile young or old and, thanks to today’s advancements in cosmetic dentistry, anyone can have the smile of their dreams. A beautiful smile goes well beyond physical appearance. It’s also important to your physical and mental health. Healthy teeth are not only important to chew and speak, but also boost confidence and self-esteem. In a recent public survey by Crest-Oral B, “55% of Americans rate a nice smile as ‘very important’ in their physical attractiveness to others.”

“A smile is a curve that sets everything straight,” so make sure that yours is bright and shining, brimming with confidence.

As we age, our teeth undergo many changes. They can yellow or discolor.

Older restorations may become damaged, our gums may recede and otherwise healthy teeth may not have the most desirable appearance. These changes occur for a variety of reasons, such as diet and nutrition, medications, trauma and lack of proper oral hygiene. The appearance of a vibrant “white” smile can be altered by the side effects of some medications, leaving them greyish and discolored. Smoking and tobacco products are not only dangerous to your health, but can also abrade the enamel and leave dark stains on your teeth. Food and drink with strong pigmentation, like coffee, tea and red wine can also cause discoloration and staining. Additionally, as you age, the outer layer of enamel can wear away, and eventually the darker color underneath is revealed. Everyone deserves a bright white Before and After Limited Orthodontics smile, but sometimes brushing twice daily isn’t enough. In-office whitening, with the supervision of your dental professional, is a great way to give your smile that extra sparkle.

If you are unhappy with the appearance of your teeth because they are chipped, cracked or have unwanted gaps or spacing, you may want to consider the option of porcelain veneers. “Veneers are custom-made thin porcelain shells that cover the front surface of the teeth,” as described by the ADA. This option can greatly improve the visible portion of your smile by correcting spacing, the size or shape of your teeth and the color. Veneers are virtually undetectable and offer a very natural look. In short, veneers are a custom designed smile! Keep in mind that veneers are irreversible, and may require some upkeep to prevent chipping or staining. This being said, most patients agree that the outcome of a beautiful smile is well worth it.

Porcelain crowns replace teeth that are worn or damaged or have existing restorations, while maintaining a natural appearance. They not only offer structural support for damaged or misshapen teeth, but they also present the opportunity to make significant aesthetic changes in one’s smile. Technological advances in the fabrication of dental crowns have made them look more realistic than ever. Although structurally sound, metal crowns are distinct and easily noticed, leaving some patients feeling self-conscious about their dental work. Today, with new developments in materials and construction methods, patients can rest easy knowing that their crowns are not only more durable than ever, but they also better resemble a more life-like tooth.

Limited orthodontics or “short-term braces” is another more cost effective solution to improving one’s smile.

This option is a more conservative and less-invasive approach to changing the appearance of a patient’s smile.

Unlike comprehensive orthodontics, limited is strictly a cosmetic procedure that primarily addresses the alignment of the upper and lower front teeth. Since this treatment only focuses on straightening some teeth, it can be done in a more timely fashion than traditional braces. Properly aligned teeth are not only appealing to the eye, but they are also easier to keep clean and healthy.

If your smile isn’t what you want it to be, contact your dentist to see what options are available for you. It may surprise you at the life-changing transformations possible. Improving your smile can improve one’s attitude and enhance one’s quality of life. As it was once said, “The world always looks brighter from behind a smile.” So remember to brush at least twice a day, floss once a day and visit your dentist regularly to keep your smile shining and bright.

Dr. Rachel Deal is originally from Ripley, Tenn.

She is a graduate of the University of Tennessee and the University of Tennessee College of Dentistry. She is a general dentist practicing in Greenbrier and resides in Greenbrier with her husband Dr. Stephen Deal and sons Thompson and Gavin.

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LIFE

The blessing of service

By Fran Scroggins

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his is the time of year when we all look forward to Thanksgiving and being thankful for the blessings which we have received this year. While receipt of wonderful things we enjoy and should appreciate, it is also the time to look at giving back to others. While some do not think about serving others, the real blessing comes in giving and serving others.

Each day without thinking, we get up and go to work, school, or fun activities and do not think about those who give back to us every day. The law enforcement officers and firefighters put their lives on the line every day for us and rarely do we think about them until there is a need. Think about showing your appreciation for all that they do by doing something nice for them. It may be taking a tray of cookies by the police or fire stations with a note saying thank your or just the simple act of writing a note and thanking them for their service. This year we have two families who are now without the family members because those two officers, Will McGary of Conway Police Department and Hans Fifer of the Faulkner County Sheriff’s office made the ultimate sacrifice.

Others who give back to our community do so in a much less visible way. Volunteers came together last month and made a statement to the us that domestic violence is not acceptable behavior in our county and cities. The Clothesline project was at UCA and at the Faulkner County Courthouse creating a visible sign to remind each of us of those who have lost their lives at the hands of others through domestic violence. A new coalition is meeting monthly to help prevent domestic violence and look for ways to help the victims. This is program is open to anyone who wants to participate.

If you are interested in participating, call the County Judge’s office and ask David Hogue when the next meeting will be.

Another little know project is the children’s room at the courthouse. That may sound like a strange way to give back to the community, but Judge H. G. Foster has created a place at the courthouse where children can wait before testifying in court in custody or other cases.

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This place is a safe haven for the kids where they can wait and not have to be under the pressure of the situation which they did not create. The children have toys, stuffed animals, books, and other things to occupy them as they wait. The room is manned by volunteers and interns. If you would be interested in helping with that program, other volunteers can always be used.

CASA or Court Appointed Special Advocates are volunteers who work with children who are in the court system in dependency neglect cases. These volunteers work with the Department of Human Services, the attorneys for the children but most importantly, with the children. The CASA makes recommendations to the Court to help the judge make decisions faster and put the children in a permanent placement. The advocates work with Judge David Clark and are appointed by him. If you are interested in working with these children as an advocate, contact the CASA office and talk with them about the training and the program.

There are still many programs which are the lesser known projects. The Conway Animal Shelter, the Faulkner County Humane Society and several animal rescue organizations. These organizations help to put animals in foster care until permanent homes can be found for the animals so fewer dogs and cats are euthanized.

They are in need of dog and cat food, money for vet bills, and supplies. Volunteers help feed the dogs and cats and walk them or help socialize them before adoption.

There are many other area groups who are going to be working to raise funds with the holidays coming.

The firemen I am certain will be working on the Fill the Boot campaign to purchase food and holiday items for the needy. The Angel Tree project will helping to purchase Christmas gifts for needy area children. Other organizations will be collecting food for the needy for the Thanksgiving and Christmas Holidays.

The winter is coming and this year is predicted to be colder than previous ones. The homeless are going to be in need of food, blankets, and a place to stay. Bethlehem House is moving into their new facility and is in need of items to furnish the new shelter and always in need of food, cleaning supplies and other daily items.

The Women’s Shelter is always in need of food and supplies for the women who have taken shelter there to

escape domestic violence. They are also in need of children’s items since many times the children and women leave with only the clothes on their backs.

As I have mentioned some of these organizations, there are certainly others who are in need of volunteers, supplies and always money. The Senior Citizen’s Center is raising money now to purchase the Agora Center to create more opportunities for the seniors in our area and the Meals on Wheels program. The Boys and Girls Club, Haven, Make a Child Smile, and the Faulkner County Day School and Workforce, Independent Living Services and CHDC are all places where we as individuals can contribute something to help others.

I hope that many of you and I can become like my dear friend, Louise Furst. Louise is in the background of many projects and has worked for years behind the scenes at the Women’s Shelter, Stop Domestic Violence, CASA and the Children’s Alliance. Most recently she has helped start the courthouse Children’s Room and works there when she can. She was recently awarded with a Lifetime of Service Award by Judge H. G. Foster for all she has done for the community. Not for personal accolades or some benefit for herself, but because she knows the blessing which comes from helping others.

We are not all going to do the volume of things done

by Louise or some others, but can you imagine what a better community we would have if we each tried to commit one Random Act of Kindness each month. It can be helping some of these organizations, giving money or helping an elderly person rake leaves or help someone change a flat tire. Let us all be more givers than takers.

God bless you all and Happy Thanksgiving!!!!! May you have the blessings of friends and family during this wonderful time of the year.

Fran Scroggins is a graduate of the Bowen School of Law at UALR. She has been practicing law in Conway since 1996.Voted Best Attorney in Faulkner County by readers of the Log Cabin Democrat, Fran resides in Conway with her husband of nearly 35 years.They have two children and three grandchildren.

BOOK REVIEW

‘A Thousand Splendid Suns’ by Khaled Hosseini

Reviewed by Susan O’Keefe

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n a land where only 12 percent of the women are literate and a young boy’s only options are deciding which guerilla gang to join, it is no surprise that oppression and depression run deep. So goes the picture painted by author Khaled Hosseini in his 2007 novel “A Thousand Splendid Suns.”

Set against the backdrop of war-ridden Afghanistan, the story spans four decades and three generations. The author considers the book a “motherdaughter” story as female roles take precedence over male ones. Sisterly bonds are formed between the most unlikely characters.

Mariam and Laila are forced to live under the same roof as their domineering husband, Rasheed, treats them both as if they were subhuman. He spews orders. He has no regard for the women’s thoughts or feelings. When one wife fails to produce an heir, he simply discards her, and deviously plans her replacement.

The second wife finds little comfort in the task bestowed upon her. The daughter produced receives little attention, and eventually takes the brunt of Rasheed’s abuse. However, when his son is born, Rasheed’s demeanor softens. His kindness is shortlived.

Belittled and bewildered that their lives have shrunk to a mere existence, Mariam and Laila devise an escape route. For one of them, the cost will be deadly. Inside the house, the women struggle to survive Rasheed’s rants. Outside the house, they face danger in the streets of Kabul. They are prisoners inside their walls as well as outside.

With Taliban-influenced educators preaching country first and foremost, the boys and girls of Afghanistan were brainwashed. No matter how heinous the action, if it is performed in the name of the country, then it is endorsed. Laila recognized the harm in this narrow perspective. Her father, a forward-thinking man, shared her sentiments. “A

country has no chance of success if its women are uneducataed,” he said.

Hosseini’s marvelous storytelling skills are evident in various situations and scenarios. Readers meet Mariam as a girl, living in a shanty in a remote area outside the city. Her mother suffers from mental illness. Her father, a wealthy and revered businessman, visits her most weeks. According to Mariam’s sources, she was a mistake her father made with the custodial staff. The illegitimacy and abandonment haunt Mariam throughout her life.

Barely a teenager, Mariam’s father announces his intentions for her to marry Rasheed. The exchange is horrid, and the tale of tragedy begins.

“It’s almost unbelievable what the people of Afghanistan have endured under the Taliban’s choking control,” offered one reader.

“I was astounded that in the 21st century, a gov-

ernment could demand that a female physician wear full burqa during surgery,” said another reader. When Laila’s difficult pregnancy warranted an emergency Csection, there were no medications available. A nurse stood guard at the operating room door to allow the surgeon to work unhindered. “And this was in the late 1990s, not that long ago.”

As families attempt to leave the volatile country, they are faced with an uncertain future. Crossing borders is a gamble. Refugee camps are overcrowded.

One family packs and plans, only to have a rocket strike and destroy their house the day they are fleeing.

Amidst the unstable society is the staple of love.

Romance blossoms between a young girl and boy.

Their youthful eyes overlook the invisible boundaries between members of the opposite sex. Hosseini’s craftsmanship brings characters in and out of the story in a masterful way. Many times readers are relieved to hear from a character again, fearing for their safety.

Self-sacrifice, selflessness and survival describe the characters portrayed in “A Thousand Splendid Suns.” It’s a stunning story that puts a name to every woman’s face who suffered under the tyrannical regime. Since the repressive system was ousted in late 2001, commentators say the political and cultural climates for women have progressed. But when a dog is treated better than a woman, it doesn’t take much to improve.

As the story ends, the Taliban falls, an orphanage opens and a teacher stands tall as she addresses her students. It’s the full circle of life, love, trials and triumphs. “A Thousand Splendid Suns” is a poignant reminder of the resilience of the human spirit.

Susan O’Keefe is a wife to Jack, mother to four children, and eager to face the crazy, awesome, fun things God delivers daily. She and her family recently moved to Oxford, Mississippi, where Susan will continue to read and review, instruct fitness classes, and embark on this next adventure in life.

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COMMUNITY

Dazzle Daze is back and bigger than ever

Dazzle Daze 2013 has no more space for merchants, and the waiting list is growing. Of course, there are plenty of admission tickets for the public.

The number of merchants is expected to approach 100 when the show opens on Nov. 21 for Girls’ Nite Out. Dazzle Daze was one of the first attractions for the Conway Expo Center when it opened almost four years ago and one of the show’s most loyal volunteers, Julie Finley, is already lobbying for an expansion of the center’s retail space.

Volunteers with the Conway Regional Women’s Council, like Finley, provide much of the labor, planning and inspiration for Dazzle Daze.

Pointing to the Expo Center’s opening as a factor in Dazzle Daze’s steady growth over the years, Finley said, “We are looking forward to the day when the unfinished space is complete. That will give us even more opportunities to expand the show.”

Finley, who has served as the site planner for Dazzle Daze for 12 years, will join dozens of other volunteers in welcoming more than 25 new merchants this year. While some are from Conway, many are from throughout Arkansas and neighboring states of Texas, Mississippi and Tennessee. The farthest location: Garden Grove, Calif.

Merchants will bring holiday items for sale from décor, festive foods, jewelry, children’s items, even collegiate pillows and a variety of other specialty items.

Dazzle Daze Co-Chair Sheryl Sample said, “You are not going to get this variety of shopping experience anywhere.” Sample advises, “If you are not ready for Christmas shopping, just come shop for yourself. It’s just a fun time.” She has a weakness for the I Love Brownies booth as well as a favorite clothing vendor and Old Mill Bread.

What’s new Plans are also coming together for a ginger bread “Candy Land” theme that will include a kit that can be purchased for family decorating.

On the food menu for Friday and Saturday is Moo Moo’s soft serve yogurt and topping bar in the Dazzle Deli.

Taziki’s Mediterranean Grill, will also be onsite at the Dazzle Deli. Dazzle Daze Co-Chair Jennifer Hill said, “I’m really excited that they are in Conway. They are ecstatic about partnering with us this year. “

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Dazzle Daze Schedule of Events Thursday, November 21 Girls’ Nite Out 6-9pm Sponsored by Women’s Inc. “Chicks who Click” Girlfriend Photos 6-9pm Heavy hor’s de vour 6-9pm Entertainment by Rodney Block and the Real Music Lovers 6-9pm Special Prize drawing 9pm for gifts from Fletcher Smith’s Jewelry and Conway Women’s Med Spa Friday, November 22 General Shopping 10am-9pm Pajama Party with Santa 9:00 am Taziki’s in the Dazzle Deli 10am-9pm Photos with Santa & Mrs. Claus 4-8pm Dazzle Daze co-chairs Sheryl Sample and Jennifer Hill

Tried and True The raffle remains one of the most popular Dazzle Daze attractions. Only 500 tickets are sold for $100 each, improving the odds of winning one of five delightful prizes.

This year’s prizes include: • 2014 Ford Mustang Convertible from Smith Ford • Yamaha fuel injected gas powered golf cart donated by Angela Conrad, Inc. • $3,000 gift certificate for med spa services donated by Conway Women’s MedSpa • $1,000 furniture gift certificate donated by Cajun Brothers Furniture • $1,000 fly fishing package for two donated by The Toad Fly. The announcement of the winners will conclude Dazzle Daze on Saturday afternoon.

Santa returns for a story segment on Friday morning, “We’d love to see some of our preschool age children come and visit Santa,” said Hill.

Other staples of the show include: • Shopping with your girlfriends at Girls’ Nite Out. • Posing for photos with “Chicks who Click” • Grooving to the Jazz of Rodney Block and the Real Music Lovers Net proceeds from Dazzle Daze go toward the ONE campaign which is helping pay for the expansion of the Surgery Department and obstetrics area at Conway Regional Medical Center, as well as a medical scholarship and a health and fitness center scholarship.

Saturday, November 23 General Shopping 10am-4pm Taziki’s in the Dazzle Deli 10am-4pm Photos with Santa & Mrs. Claus 10am-3pm Raffle drawing for 2014 Ford Mustang and other prizes 4pm Tickets: Girls’ Nite Out - $25 in advance; $30 at the door General Shopping - $5, Children under 12 free Pajama Party with Santa - $15 per child with adult Event location Conway Expo Center – 2505 E Oak Street (Hwy 64 E) Conway Girls’ Night Out Special Prize Drawing The first 50 ladies to spend $100 will have an opportunity to enter a special drawing for a beautiful piece of jewelry donated by Fletcher Smith’s Jewelers. In addition, shoppers will receive a door prize entry for every $50 they spend for a chance to win one of 2 -$1,000 gift certificates for med spa services donated by Conway Women’s Med Spa. “Chicks Who Click” Capture the fun with a girlfriend’s photo by Donna Evans Photography. Photo packages beginning at $15 are available to order.

Dazzle Deli Open during show hours, shoppers can stop by and purchase a quick snack, lunch or dinner from Taziki’s.

Santa & Mrs. Claus Bring the kids to visit Santa and Mrs. Claus at the North Pole. Professional photo packages are available starting at $15 by Donna Evans Photography. Friday – 4-9pm and Saturday – 10a-3p.

Red, Green & Jeans Friday, November 22 wear holiday colors red or green along with jeans at work for a $5 donation to Dazzle Daze.

Register your business or team by emailing womensinc@ womeninc.net.

Pajama Party with Santa Friday, November 22 at 9:00am. Kids are invited to wear their pajamas and listen to stories from Santa, visit with the elves and have a special photo taken. Limited to 100 tickets. Tickets are $15 per child with adult and includes general admission to Dazzle Daze on Friday, free child’s admission, story time with Santa, one photo and a treat.

Door prizes For every $50 you spend all weekend long, be sure and register at the door prize booth for lots of great prizes from all the Dazzle Daze merchants. One door prize entry may be received by filling out the visitor’s survey. Prize winners will be drawn all weekend long. You do not need to be present to win.