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MOTHER’S DAY ISSUE
Stronger on the other side
Tina MacNamara battles rare form of cancer, wins with faith and support
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Publisher Jeff Hartley Editor Lori Quinn
Contributing Writers Jeanette Anderton Leah Ashby Detra Clark Marisa Hicks Colleen Holt Nancy Jackson Andrea Lennon Jill McCollum Susan O’Keefe Jennifer Stanley Jenny Strange Kelly Sublett Chief Photographer Brandy Strain Advertising Sales Director Betsey Barham
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BATTLE PROVEN
Tina MacNamara battles rare form of cancer, wins with faith and support
Motherhood
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A photo essay
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taking ‘the call’
Following God’s plan, family adopts two, enriching the lives of all involved
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shopping
Gifts for Mom
Advertising Coordinator Molly May Advertising Sales Executives Sarah Allen Sarah Hiegel-Woodard Tara Mallett Lisa Licht Advertising Artists Jay Prince Lauren Morgenstern Editorial Advisory Board Leah Ashby Detra Clark Nicolle Fletcher Haley Crafton Fowler Sarah Frost Mary Harlan Nancy Jackson Cate Ketcheside Leslie Kostecky Caroline LaVan Velda Lueders Candace Meeks Misty Morse Carol Patty Amy Reed Lori Ross Mary Margaret Satterfield Jennifer Stanley Katherine Thomason Stefanie Holt Vann
Questions or Comments? Call (501) 327-6621, e-mail: womensinc@thecabin.net or write to P.O. Box 969, Conway, AR, 72033 • www.womensinc.net
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True to Tradition - Sowell home
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Artscene
CAFTA Recognizes Local Artists in Third Annual Conway Arts Awards
columns 14. health
42. spiritual
44. book review
46. food
A Tribute to Mom by David Smith
Judy Blume’s ‘In the Unlikely Event’ Susan O’Keefe review
Life-changing relief by Andrea Lennon
Comfort Food by Chef Jill McCollum, cc WWW.WOMENSINC.NET 5
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You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives. — Genesis 20:50
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Stronger on the other side Tina MacNamara battles rare form of cancer, wins with faith and support By Leah Ashby Photos by Brandy Strain Tina MacNamara’s story is one filled with heartbreak, hope, uncertainty, faith, discouragement, triumph and so much more. In August of 2014, Tina received shocking news that no one wants to hear. She was diagnosed with inflammatory breast cancer, a breast cancer so rare, it only accounts for 1 to 3 percent of all breast cancers diagnosed in the United States. Tina and her husband, Patrick, are parents to two children: Madeline, who is 16, and Creed, who is 10. A lifelong resident of Faulkner County, Tina is also fortunate to have the support of her parents, three sisters and Patrick’s parents. How to share the news of her diagnosis with her loved ones proved difficult. “Within minutes of my diagnosis, Patrick called our pastor, Rod Loy, told him the news and asked if we could meet with him the next day. As soon as we sat down in his office, I asked, ‘How do I do this? How do I tell my parents, my sisters, my children? How are the words, I have cancer, supposed to come out of my mouth?’ “I wanted to handle everything, and everyone, in a way that would make this devastating diagnosis more palatable, more bearable, for those I loved. Over the next several hours our pastor prayed for us, encouraged us and, at my request, strategized with us on how to proceed. I quickly realized there was no way to make this easier. The next few days were filled with pain, anguish, questions and lots of tears. I had conversations I never imagined I would have; words tumbled out of my mouth I never thought I would have to speak. The heartbreak and worry I saw in the eyes of the people I love most in this world caused me immeasurable sadness. I was incensed that this deplorable disease took up residence in my body and caused my loved ones such grief. “Out of everything I went through, the telling of the diagnosis and the subsequent ache it caused in the hearts of my people,
was one of the hardest aspects of the entire journey. Equally as painful, was worrying about how this was going to affect my children and coping with the heartache of being away from them for days at a time during my treatment,” Tina said. After seeking a second opinion at M.D. Anderson in Houston, Texas, Tina’s diagnosis proved more ominous than originally thought. Further testing revealed that the
cancer was not fueled by any of the three hormones that are most commonly associated with the growth of breast cancer cells. About 90 percent of women diagnosed with breast cancer are estrogen, progesterone or HER-2 NU positive. There are many therapies available that specifically target one or more of these hormones and shut them down so the cancer cannot continue to grow. Those hormones were not presWWW.WOMENSINC.NET 7
This family photo was taken in 2014, the year Tina was first diagnosed with cancer.
“Not one time since the day of my diagnosis have I heard him utter even one complaint. He was dad and mom to the kids, sole provider and manager of the household, chief medical researcher and primary caretaker of me. Just driving to Houston and taking care of me every week would have been enough to exhaust any ordinary man. But as Patrick proved then, and continues to demonstrate to this day, he is no ordinary man.” ent in Tina’s case, classifying her as Triple Negative. This rare type of breast cancer only affects 10 percent of women diagnosed with this disease. Triple Negative breast cancer is also harder to treat. Tina’s official diagnosis was Stage 3C, Triple Negative, inflammatory breast cancer. A type of cancer so rare, it affects less than one percent of all women diagnosed with breast cancer. MD Anderson is the only cancer hospital in the world that has a clinic solely dedicated to the treatment of inflammatory breast cancer. “At the time of my first visit, the hospital was enrolling patients into a promising phase II clinical trial designed specifically for inflammatory breast cancer patients. 8 WOMEN’S INC. / APRIL 2016
— Tina MacNamara
Most women in the study were hormone positive, but they felt I would be a good candidate for the trial despite my Triple Negative status,” Tina said. After mountains of paperwork and approval from the insurance company, Tina was approved to participate in the clinical trial and became the 29th human to receive this promising, but experimental, regimen of chemotherapy. These drugs were only available at MD Anderson, and Tina was faced with leaving her children at home for three days while she and Patrick made the 18-hour round trip to Houston. Tina and Patrick made a total of 21 trips to Houston in only eight months. Although Patrick has a flexible
work schedule, the effects of Tina’s illness and the weekly drive to Houston, combined with taking care of the kids and his other responsibilities, kept him in constant motion. “Not one time since the day of my diagnosis have I heard him utter even one complaint. He was dad and mom to the kids, sole provider and manager of the household, chief medical researcher and primary caretaker of me. Just driving to Houston and taking care of me every week would have been enough to exhaust any ordinary man. But as Patrick proved then, and continues to demonstrate to this day, he is no ordinary man,” Tina said. “Without a doubt, the most traumatic as-
pect of the entire journey was not the diagnosis, the grim prognosis or the subsequent sickness and pain during treatment. It was being away from my children for three days every week that broke me. My tears would start before we were out of the driveway and only stopped when I had finally cried myself into a deep sleep. They would Facetime us each night before they went to bed, and many nights I would only allow them to see Patrick on the screen because I didn’t want them to see me crying. I was afraid they would think I was in immense pain, and I didn’t want them to worry. Actually, I don’t remember ever crying as a result of physical pain during that time. All of my tears stemmed from a broken heart caused by their absence. No matter the pain, I truly believed I could only rest and heal if I was near them. They didn’t have to be physically in the room, but just knowing they were in the house, or would soon be home from school or activities, calmed me. Anyone who spent time with me during treatment could attest to this: missing my kids was harder on my heart than taking the chemo was on my body.” After completing chemotherapy, Tina chose to complete the next phase of her treatment in Little Rock, undergoing a double mastectomy at Baptist Medical Center by Dr. James Hagans. Radiation treatments would follow, and Tina confidently chose Dr. Bryan Imamura, the radiation oncologist at CARTI in Conway to oversee those treatments. “We are incredibly fortunate to have such state-of-the-art facilities and equipment, and the brilliant team of doctors and radiation technologists that work at CARTI right here in our hometown. I am convinced that I could not have received better medical care for this phase of my treatment anywhere else. After 33 radiation treatments, I felt like everyone there was my new best friends. They made those tough days as comfortable as possible, and I can’t tell you how absolutely amazing it was to drive less than 10 minutes to my appointments,” she said. At the beginning of her treatment at MD Anderson, the hope was that at least 50 percent of the cancer would be gone and the rest could be removed with surgery. Immediately following the surgery but before radiation treatments began, Tina received the results of her pathology report — zero cancer cells. “Not one cancer cell was found in the removed tissue or nodes. He explained this was called a complete chemotherapy response and added that with a diagnosis
“I’m not wasting this pain. This traumatic season in our lives doesn’t have to destroy, it can be used as an opportunity to make us stronger. The way I respond to this can either burden or benefit my children; I want it to be the latter. If Maddie and Creed grow up to be more resilient when life becomes complicated, show tenderness and compassion toward others enduring a difficult season, and trust God to bring peace when unexpected circumstances threaten to ravish their lives, then this battle was worth it to me.” of stage 3C, Triple Negative, Inflammatory breast cancer, I was a walking miracle. To God be the Glory,” Tina said. In Tina’s blog that chronicles her battle, she says, “I’m not wasting this pain. This traumatic season in our lives doesn’t have to destroy, it can be used as an opportunity to make us stronger. The way I respond to this can either burden or benefit my children; I want it to be the latter. If Maddie and Creed grow up to be more resilient when life becomes complicated, show tenderness and compassion toward others enduring a difficult season, and trust God to bring peace when unexpected circumstances threaten to ravish their lives, then this battle was worth it to me.” As evident in their own words, Madeline and Creed are clearly better because of the experience. “After watching my mom go through treatment, I think she is truly the strongest woman I have ever met. Our family became even closer as a result of what we
went through, and I have a deeper understanding of what faith in God really means. Mom taught me that having faith in God does not guarantee that I will have an easy life; it means that when tough times come, God will bring peace to my heart and give me strength to go through it, even if the outcome isn’t what I wanted it to be,” Madeline said. Madeline’s brother, Creed, said, “My dad took very good care of my mom when she was sick, but she’s not sick anymore. She gets to come to my school and eat lunch with me now like she used to do before she got sick. Also, if you didn’t know it, that cancer medicine makes you slick bald, but don’t worry about it. My mom’s hair grew right back and when she doesn’t make it straight, it’s still curly just like mine.” Tina is celebrating Mother’s Day this year cancer-free for one year and is not only surviving, she is thriving. Her entire journey is chronicled in her blog: teamtina.me. WWW.WOMENSINC.NET 9
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Kervins Take ‘The Call’ Following God’s plan, family adopts two, enriching the lives of all involved By Jennifer Stanley Photos by Brandy Strain Justin and Deirdra Kervin truly received “the call” when they made the decision to add to their family through adoption. The couple met in 1999 while attending Henderson State University. Deirdra said it was “typical love at first sight,” and they married on April 14, 2001. The Kervins moved to Conway in December 2012. Justin works as general sales manager at Crain Buick GMC, and Deirdra is a human resources benefits coordinator at Reliance Health Care. The couple has four children: Anna, who is 11 and in sixth grade but is “going on 22;” Madison, 8, is in third grade; Andre, 8, is in second grade; and Aijah, 7, is a first grader. “In June of 2010, Justin and I went on our first mission trip to Peru with a church in Little Rock. [As a result of the trip,] God had opened up our eyes and our hearts. We knew we were meant to do something else with our lives. We moved to Peru as missionaries just shortly after our first trip there. After serving there, God had more plans for us, and
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it wasn’t to continue serving in Peru. We moved back to the United States in May 2012 and began the first steps in our new adventure — adoption,” Deirdra said. When did you adopt your two adopted children? The adoption was finalized Jan. 7, 2015, but our first visit with Andre and Aijah was in April of 2014. How did you initiate the process? Our first step was the introduction meeting with The Call, which we’d heard about from friends who adopted. The Call helped us go through the entire process with the Department of Human Services. After we were approved in the system, we were emailed about the two children. We moved from day supervised visitations to weekend overnights and then onto permanent stay. {Note: According to www.thecallinarkansas.org, the organization strives to have “...a pool of available foster and adoptive families in every county in Arkansas ... to meet the needs of local children in foster care ... The Call works with local churches to assemble a support team of volunteers to wrap around their foster and adoptive families. We
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“There seems to always be a speed bump along the way, and you have to be persistent and know it is what God has placed in your heart to do. Justin and I are not afraid to follow God’s plan, and we are ready to defeat any issues that come our way when it comes to following His plan.” — Deirdra Kervin
also try to connect churches with other opportunities to serve children in foster care.”} Talk about the process of adoption. Successes? Bumps in the road? Adoption is not for the weak. It is difficult, long and hard. There seems to always be a speed bump along the way, and you have to be persistent and know it is what God has placed in your heart to do. Justin and I are not afraid to follow God’s plan, and we are ready to defeat any issues that come our way when it comes to following His plan. It was a struggle, but because we had the right support and help from The Call and Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) workers, loving Woodrow Cummins Elementary teachers and counselors and a whole lot of prayer, so we made it through. How did you know adoption was right for your family? God had placed it on our hearts while we were in Peru. The door never opened until we came back to the states. It was a 100 percent affirmation when our daughter, Anna, said she dreamed and prayed, and God showed her it was a “yes” to adopt. Because adoption is not only difficult for the parents, but it is for the children as well; it is important to know 100 percent if the entire family is on board. How have your biological children benefited from the adoption process, other than gaining two awesome siblings? They both already had warm and giving
hearts, partly due to being on the mission field and partly from being Christ followers. They learned about being “different” and how to react to that. They learned that it is OK to be different, and they really take pride in that, which I feel makes them more special. Do you have any specific advice for families considering adoption? Adoption isn’t for the meek hearted, but once you let go and let God, it’s forever changing — for the good. We didn’t save Andre and Aijah from their past; they saved us. I couldn’t imagine life without them. What does your family enjoy doing together in your spare time? Outside anything! We love camping, swimming, fishing, playing sports. We love to have family movie nights — at home and at the movies. Today, the Kervin family is stronger than ever. In fact, the children have adjusted so thoroughly, Deirdra, a stay-home mom through the adoption process, was able to return to work. Though, as the couple explained, the journey was not always smooth. “When we first got Andre and Aijah, there was a stack of papers of all their doctor visits and all the DHS visits from foster care back to their biological parents and back to foster care. In fact, on the first intake form from the emergency room, a nurse wrote ‘the children cannot form words, almost animal like behavior,’” shared Deirdra. “Andre and Aijah [came] from never
knowing what being clean is like, not having food in their home and in their bellies, getting expelled in Kindergarten for fighting and taking medications to deal with behavior. Now, they have a loving home, food stocked in the house and plenty to go in their bellies. No more medications that zone them out and no more school expulsions for violent behavior. They have good grades, never get in trouble, play and enjoy life. Not because of Justin or me — only because we followed God’s plan and trusted in Him. We gave His children a chance.”
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A Tribute to Mom By David Smith On May 8 we will officially celebrate the Mother’s Day Holiday. Modern Mother’s Day is typically celebrated with cards, candy and/or flowers and perhaps a reservation at a crowded restaurant. But did you know that is entirely opposite to what Anna Jarvis, the American woman who is credited for what is now a national holiday had in mind? According to Jone Johnson Lewis, a noted women’s history expert, there is a persistent rumor that Anna Jarvis and her mother, Ann Reeves Jarvis, had quarreled and never reconciled before her mother’s death in 1905. Ann Reeves Jarvis had been a peace activist who cared for wounded soldiers on both sides of the Civil War and created Mother’s Day Work Clubs to address public health issues. Anna Jarvis, who never married or had children of her own, dedicated the rest of her life to continuing her mother’s projects and worked to establish an official Mother’s Day to honor all mothers, both living and deceased. She wanted to honor her mother by continuing the work she started and to set aside a day to honor all mothers because she believed that they were “the person who has done more for you than anyone in the world.” Anna became increasingly concerned over the commercialization of Mother’s Day: “I wanted it to be a day of sentiment, not profit.” She opposed the selling of flowers and also the use of greeting cards: “a poor excuse for the letter you are too lazy to write.” Due to her efforts, on
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May 10, 1908, St. Andrew’s Methodist Episcopal Church in Grafton, West Virginia, held the first memorial service honoring mothers. To me, this special day has a solid foundation in God’s Word. While you won’t find a Reba, mother direct reference to of David & John “Mother’s Day” in the Bible, you will find plenty of teaching on honoring mothers and giving them generous love and recognition for the role they play in our lives. I have been greatly blessed and influenced by three strong Christian women; my mother, my mother-in-law, and my wife of nearly 44 years who has been a world-class mom to our three children. My mother was an amazing woman. She grew up on a farm, the oldest of six children, and could do just about anything. Mom was very proud of the fact that she could pick 200 pounds of cotton by hand in a single day and could keep up with everybody, including the boys. When she and Dad got married, she had no clue that she would end up as a Baptist minister’s wife. Being a pastor’s wife was a labor of love, and one into which she poured her heart and soul. Mom put up with a lot out of my brother and me. There was the time that John and I built a “camp fire” when we
were sent out to burn the trash and ended up burning a little over 20 acres of land right next to the house. Oops! Sure, it’s a funny story now, but I don’t remember it being quite so humorous at the time. When I was seven years old, I fell out of a tree house and sustained a major head injury which, but for God’s grace, should have ended my life. My mother sat with me for three weeks in the hospital while I recovered from the surgery to relieve the pressure and remove the crushed skull fragments that covered the entire right side of my head. She (and a little red football helmet) protected me for six months until they could put a metal plate in my head. Almost a year later she had to sit with me again while they replaced that plate with another one because I bent the first one. Yes, you might say I was a little on the rowdy side. To quote Mark Twain, “My mother had a great deal of trouble with me, but I think she enjoyed it.” At Smith Family Pharmacy we salute all of you moms. We know that each one of you is Dr. Mom, Pharmacist Mom, Nurse Mom, Counselor Mom, etc. — and if you need it, we’d love to lend a helping hand. Have a great Mother’s Day. David Smith is the owner and chief pharmacist at Smith Family Pharmacy where he works with his wife Shirley and staff. He graduated from the UAMS College of Pharmacy in 1974 and has been a pharmacist in Conway for over 41 years. He loves spending time with family and is NO1POP to 5 wonderful grandchildren.
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Saucy Summer Styles As summer edges closer, now is the time to start considering a new-season style.
stripes that are vertical, horizontal or a mix of both. Stripes are a classic that will never go out of fashion and should not be missing from your wardrobe.
Life’s a picnic.
POP in Color.
By Renee Notto
Gingham will always have a place in our hearts, but this season, designers are saying, “Supersize Me!” From picnic cloth reminiscent button-down shirts to madras plaid dresses, checks in every size shape and form should have a spot reserved in your closet summer.
Let your inner beauty shine with color. Reds, yellows, blues, purples, corals — you name it. Color is a must have to radiate this summer. Whether to your favorite summer concert or to an evening meal, bright color is the way to go. This summer is going to be all the rage; your outfit should be too. Do not cling to your old summer habits — mix it up. The trends for this summer are too hot to pass by. Turn heads with your new summer style.
Give summer the cold shoulder.
Open, off-the-shoulder necklines are having a moment. Designers took the look a step further this season with cutouts meant to highlight just the shoulder, making knits more breathable, dresses even breezier and everything a little sexier.
White shirt redux.
Once borrowed from the boys, the white button-down
is all ours now. This staple has received a high fashion twist with sheer fabrics and elongated lengths that will make this old favorite a cool-girl summer essential. Slip one over your summer tee
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Wear your stripes.
From classic sailor stripes to super-sized awning stripes, everyone will be dressing for a day at sea this summer. Look for
Renee Notto, owner of French Lily, has worked retail her entire life. She managed The Limited, American Eagle Outfitters an Gymboree. Before opening French Lily, she was office manager for Notto Chiropractic Health until she realized a desk job was not a good fit for her.
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feature story “The MonaLisa Touch can reverse the effects of vaginal atrophy due to natural or induced menopause. When the vagina becomes dry and less stretchy, it makes sexual intercourse more painful and difficult. This laser technology is creating a healthier skin in the vagina that will replace the standard treatments such as a hormone pill or cream that many women cannot take or do not experience the desired improvements.” — Dr. Joshua Ward, Conway Women’s Health Center
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FOCUS ON: WOMEN’S HEALTH CARE Conway OB/GYN was established in 1980 by Dr. Paul McChristian. It was the first OB/GYN office in Conway and focuses on providing excellence in women’s health care and wellness for each and every patient. It has always incorporated the newest research and best treatment options for each individual. Some of the technology used are daVinci robotic surgery and in-office endometrial ablation. Now it is the first to purchase and provide the MonaLisa Touch laser treatment therapy for their patients. So what is the MonaLisa Touch laser treatment? We met with Dr. Keitha Holland and she helped answer these questions ...
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Dr. Keith Holland discusses the MonaLisa Touch with a patient.
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Conway OB/GYN: Q&A What is the MonaLisa Touch? MonaLisa Touch is a painless and minimally invasive FDA approved laser treatment for vaginal rejuvenation. The MonaLIsa Touch uses a laser to stimulate collagen which is similar to what plastic surgeons use on the face. It creates healthier skin and viable tissue. The laser is used to treat changes in vaginal health often caused by menopause. What does the MonaLisa Touch treatment consist of ? The MonaLisa Touch treatment is performed using a special CO fractional laser, specifically designed for this type of
application. The procedure is carried out in our office and consists of 3 laser sessions, 6 weeks apart. It is relatively painless and requires no anesthesia. Before a woman is allowed to take part in the procedure she must undergo a pelvic exam and have had a recent pap smear. What type of results can be expected? Most patients report a reduction in dryness, burning sensation and pain during intercourse. Results can be expected after the first treatment. What are the limitations after the procedure is done? There are no limitations after the
procedure other than no intercourse for 48 hours. How is the recovery? Most women report slight localized discomfort following the laser treatment. The small size of the actual laser ensures that there are no burns to the woman’s skin. For which women is the MonaLisa Touch laser treatment most suitable? MonaLisa Touch is most suited for women who are post menopausal or have had a history of breast cancer and cannot take estrogen. The laser is also being used for women who are breastfeeding and have vaginal dryness.
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Celebration of Motherhood
The Celebration of Motherhood Photoshoot hosted by Birth by Design Birth and Postpartum Services is our way to give back and celebrate motherhood in our community. Birth by Design brought together multiple generations and multiple ethnic groups of mothers to say thank you for all you do! Birth by Design partnered with some local photographers Katie Opris Photography, Whitney D Photography, and Easley Life Photography.
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Pandora bracelet gift sets $125-$195. Available at Lefler’s
Estee Lauder Modern Muse perfume $62. Available at Lefler’s
Frye tote (Melissa) $398. Available at Grand on Oak 24 WOMEN’S INC. / APRIL 2016
Skinceuticals advanced anti-aging system; REVITALASH total lash beauty; Musee bath balms. Available at Studio Skin
Journal $12 and personalized ceramic travel mug $15.25. Available at MedCare Pharmacy Hobo purse (Marley) $248 and Hobo wallet (Alice) $98. Available at Lefler’s
Bare Minerals assorted cosmetics. Available at Grand on Oak G. Spinelli freshwater pearl and antique cross necklace $150. Available at Grand on Oak
Clutch wallets $30 each; bracelets, earrings, and necklace $10-$15. Available at MedCare Pharmacy
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True to tradition Sowells’ new home mimics the past By Colleen Holt Photos by Brandy Strain
In 2014, Rik and Lynne Sowell were ready to downsize. Putting together a “wants” list for their new home brought them to a crossroads — she wanted to move to Old Town Conway, and he wanted a brand new house. Their solution? Buy an empty lot in Old Town and build a new home that looks like it has been there forever. The Sowells’ lovely new home at 330 Conway Blvd., sits on a 1.4-acre lot across from Central Baptist College. It has 2,800 square feet of living space in a two-story, Tudor-style design, with a cottage feel that is perfectly complementary to the neighborhood. Rik is an architect and was able to look at original homes in that area to design the new home with features appropriate to the 1920s through 1940s. He said he took “some leeway ... some creative license” in the Tudor-style design. “The home needed to look appropriate for the neighborhood from the outside and the inside. We incorporated design features from those eras into our new home,” he said. Examples are five-panel doors, crystal doorknobs, bead board wainscoting, glass transoms above door openings and shiplap siding used as an accent. “This gives the home a sense that it’s been here 100 years, but everything works,” Rik added. “It was important to build something here that felt like it belongs.” The Sowells started construction in the fall of 2014 and moved in to the home in May 2015. Elms and Clowers were their builders, and Rik highly recommends this company due to the excellent attention they paid to the details of the home. The Sowells have been in Conway since 1992, and this is their eighth home. Because they decided this was going to be their last 26 WOMEN’S INC. / APRIL 2016
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home, they took great efforts to personalize it. “The curse of an architect is that you’re always designing your next house. This has been fun.” He said he loves their new neighborhood because the house is only two minutes from his office — plus it’s close to medical care, which is vital for Lynne, who had a stroke eight years ago. “I’ve always thought Conway Boulevard was the prettiest street in town.” A lot of the home is designed on Lynne’s wants and needs. The lower floor of the home has 1,860 square feet. “This level has all the things we need for our daily life,” which includes the family room, kitchen and master suite. “An important thing to us was that we have a lot of natural light — that the house was open and airy and light,” Rik said. So they completely opened up the back wall to the outdoors. This area even includes a powder room with a French door to the back yard. “We have a lot of windows and a lot of light.” The main section of the downstairs has an open floor plan, once you come from the front door, through the formal dining space and the anteroom. An anteroom, an old term in home design, was a place to gather before guests went in to the main event. “It’s like a foyer, but it just doesn’t happen to be at the front door,” Rik said. The gray featured on the walls throughout the home is the darkest tone used, and it is accented nicely with color from furniture, artwork and knick-knacks. Lynne is really into color, and there are bright accents throughout — she leans toward coral tones. Adjacent to the formal dining room and the kitchen is a unique butler’s nook, with a walk-in pantry. Rik intended to cover the pantry with a sliding barn door, but something better came to fruition — he found an old screen door with a Grapette push bar. He said the door reminds him of his youth and time spent with his grandmother. “The kids would walk to the store, and I can still hear that screen door slam.” Lynne particularly enjoys relaxing downstairs in the living room that overlooks the backyard or on a chaise lounge in her master bedroom. Her master bath has a comfy soaker tub and a built-in TV — the perfect place to watch baseball. “Lynne wanted her bathroom to be almost spa-like,” and it has extra sparkles featured in a beautiful crystal chandelier. “We wanted our home to be very casual ... a place where people would feel at home, and that they could put their feet up. We’re 28 WOMEN’S INC. / APRIL 2016
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not big entertainers, but when we do entertain, we want our guests to be comfortable.” One “luxury” Rik said they couldn’t get rid of was their formal dining table. The table is sort of a hybrid — the top of one table was put on the legs from another. Upstairs there are two more bedrooms, a bathroom, a small office area for Rik and a kitchenette. Rik’s favorite room upstairs is a separate sitting room, which is where he goes to watch sports. He chose a couple of recliners and TV for that spot. The upstairs was designed largely with Lynne’s parents in mind, to give them a space of their own when they visit from Dallas. Throughout the home there are various paintings that supply touches of color. These paintings are, by and large, works done by local artists. Art by Nina Baker is featured in the dining room, and art by Steve Griffith is in the living room. The Sowells’ daughter, Amy, painted an abstract in yellow tones for her mother for Mother’s Day, and that is also featured in the living room. A 5x4 painting by Susan Peterson is fea30 WOMEN’S INC. / APRIL 2016
tured on a large shiplap wall in the kitchen. The painting, which features an old country road, is highlighted with spot lighting. Rik said it took them awhile to find just the right piece of art for this spot, and this perfectly fit the bill. Other special touches throughout the home include: • Pine floors. Pine floors were used in many older homes, but its use has lost favor currently due to the soft nature of the wood. “It’s hard to find pine for house floors,” Rik said. “It’s too soft, but it’s true to an old house.” • Lynne wanted exterior brick painted white, but Rik didn’t want the maintenance issue. In Alabama, he found brick with a skim coat of plaster and mortar that is white-ish. This solution was maintenance free for him and the correct color for her. • An eight-foot piece of granite for the kitchen island. The Sowells went to a warehouse in Little Rock and saw thousands of pieces of granite in different shades and styles. “Some of them are like artwork,” Rik said. • Antique-looking beams. Because they
couldn’t find old beams, their trim carpenter built beams and distressed them to make them look old. The trim carpenter also salvaged some wood from a barn his mother was having torn down, and accents of that wood are used for the ceiling in the anteroom and on a mirror frame that Rik made. • A quilt made by Lynne’s great-greatgrandmother is on an upstairs wall. “It’s one of those things that makes a house personal to you.” • Under the stairs, a “safer” room was created for Rik, Lynne and their dog, Koko, to ride out any storms. The entrance to the cubicle is through the master bedroom closet. The work at their new home is not quite done, according to Rik. He has plans to build display shelves in the upper level on which to showcase the artwork he collects through his work with the Iguana Squad -a nonprofit Christian group that helps with educational and medical needs in Belize. The group has worked since 1987 to build schools and take medical supplies to the people of Belize.
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Preparing your home for sale Spring and summer are great times to sell your home. There are so many items that need to be done which the Tobey Team is happy to assist you; however here are just a few tips in preparation of preparing your home to sell.
that can and will act as deciding factors for buyers since space that is well organized and clutter free looks larger than space that is filled to the brim with stuff. This is important because buyers will be looking to maximize the amount of space they can afford.
Make sure your home is clean.
Depersonalize your home.
Take an objective look at your home and ask yourself, “Is my home as clean as it can be?” Most of us believe our homes are clean enough but that often does not mean “as clean as it can be.” Take the time and go through each room of your home and clean up anything that looks messy or cluttered. Dust the furniture, vacuum all carpets (or better yet, get them all steam cleaned to remove any stains and odors trapped in the fabric), wash and wax all hard-surfaced floors, and make sure everything is where is supposed to be. If you have the time, apply a fresh coat of paint to the interior. A clean home tells the buyer that you care about your home and take pride in it.
Organize and get rid of clutter.
Take the opportunity of selling your home to do a real ‘spring cleaning’ — get rid of anything you do not need or use anymore including old clothes, magazines and books, and knick knacks you can live without. Make sure that your counter tops, closets, basement, garage, and attic are all well organized and neat. These are important spaces
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Often times, this is difficult for sellers because the items in their homes are what make it home. It is necessary to put away these items because you want buyers to picture the space as their home with their things and it is difficult to do that while you have things on display. It is fine to keep a few things out but the majority of your things should be put away in storage (not the closet, attic, basement, or garage because these are spaces that should be de-cluttered as well).
Make necessary repairs.
Before you put your house on the real estate market, make sure that everything is in working order. Better yet, invest in having your home professionally inspected – this will help you address any problems that you might not have noticed and will show buyers that you are a responsible seller. Repair any leaky faucets, running toilets, bad electrical outlets, etc. Also, replace any cracked windows, broken woodwork, or any holes in the walls. Although it may seem that these repairs are
costing you a lot right now, especially if you need to address any really serious problems like replacing the roof, you’ll find that it was all worth it when you can use them as selling points for getting the price you want and experiencing a faster, smoother selling process.
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Every home has its quirks that the family living there has instinctively learned to live with. This could mean low doorways or uneven stairs down into the basement. Before showing your house, make sure that these issues are taken care of – fix the loose banister or put up a small sign that says ‘Watch your head’ near a notoriously low doorway during open house events. The most important piece of home selling advice to remember is that you want the buyers to visualize what their lives would be like living in your house. Prepping your home to sell by making sure it is a clean, clear, bright space is a sure-fire way to ensure that they can use it as a blank canvas. The Tobey Team is one of Faulkner County’s leading, knowledgeable and top producers. We are a full time agents with the knowledge, dedication, customer focus, and commitment to all aspects of your Real Estate needs. Call us today with your real estate questions 501-358-0023 Data sources Realtor.org, best practices, and personal knowledge.
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What Everyone Should Know About Equal Opportunity Housing
The sale and purchase of a home is one of the most significant events that any person will experience in his or her lifetime. It is more that the simple purchase of housing, for it includes the hopes, dreams, aspirations, and economic destiny of those involved.
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Civil Rights Act of 1866: The Civil Rights Act of 1866 prohibits all racial discrimination in the sale or rental of property. Fair Housing Act: The Fair Housing Act declares a national policy of fair housing throughout the United States. The law makes illegal any discrimination in the sale, lease or rental of housing, or making housing otherwise unavailable, because of race, color, religion, sex, handicap, familial status, or national origin. Americans with Disabilities Act: Title III of the Americans with Disabilities Act prohibits discrimination against persons with disabilities in places of public accommodations and commercial facilities. Equal Credit Opportunity Act: The Equal Credit Opportunity Act makes discrimination unlawful with respect to any aspect of a credit application on the basis of race, color, religion, national origin, sex, marital status, age or because all or part of the applicant’s income derives from any public assistance program. State and Local Laws: State and local laws often provide broader coverage and prohibit discrimination based on additional classes not
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covered by federal law.
The REALTOR® Fair Housing Program
The National Association of REALTORS® has developed a Fair Housing Program to provide resources and guidance to REALTORS® in ensuring equal professional services for all people. The term REALTOR® identifies a licensed professional in real estate who is a member of the National Association of REALTORS®. Not all licensed real estate brokers and salespersons are members of the National Association, and only those who are may identify themselves as REALTORS®. They conduct their business and activities in accordance with a strict Code of Ethics. The Code of Ethics: Article 10 of the National Association of REALTORS® Code of Ethics provides that, “REALTORS® shall not deny equal professional services to any person for reasons of race, color, religion, sex, handicap, familial status, national origin, sexual orientation, or gender identity. REALTORS® shall not be parties to any plan or agreement to discriminate against a person or persons on the basis of race, color, religion, sex, handicap, familial status, national origin, sexual orientation, or gender identity. REALTORS®, in their real estate employment practices, shall not discriminate against any person or persons on the basis of race, color, religion, sex, handicap, familial status, national origin, sexual orienta-
tion, or gender identity.” A REALTOR® pledges to conduct business in keeping with the spirit and letter of the Code of Ethics. Article 10 imposes obligations upon REALTORS® and is also a firm statement of support for equal opportunity in housing.
If You Suspect Discrimination
Call the Local Board of REALTORS®: Local Boards of REALTORS® will accept complaints alleging violations of the Code of Ethics filed by a home seeker who alleges discriminatory treatment in the availability, purchase or rental of housing. Local Boards of REALTORS® have a responsibility to enforce the Code of Ethics through professional standards procedures and corrective action in cases where a violation of the Code of Ethics is proven to have occurred. Call the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development: Complaints alleging discrimination in housing may be filed with the nearest office of the United States Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD) or by by contacting them at http://www.hud.gov “Copyright NATIONAL ASSOCIATION OF REALTORS®. Reprinted with permission.” For full article, Please visit: http://www.realtor. org/programs/fair-housing-program/what-everyone-should-know-about-equal-opportunity-housing
in the news Conway schools begins Kindergarten registration
Paula Duran, Johnny Adams, Tara Bates, Shawna Heaslet and Noel Boucher, back: Stefanie Vann and Tonya Plymale.
Conway High School holds Capstone event
Capstone is a semester class designed to prepare high school seniors for life after graduation — whatever their chosen path (military service, college, tech training or immediately entering the work force). The program had a modest start 10 years ago and has now grown to 7 classes, 2 instructors and approximately 200 students. Teachers are Coach Johnny Kennedy and Coach Noel Boucher. First Security Bank has been involved the past 4 years and this year we were responsible for the entire career preparation portion
of their class. This involved 6 employees from our bank spread over 4 days. We had a day long presentation on the interview process covering everything from resumes, job applications to tips on the actual interview and what to do once you are offered the job — we included building a strong work ethic this year into our presentation. We then conducted over 200 interviews and the top student is listed below. Our winner for Fall 2015 semester is Tara Bates, daughter of James and Nicole Bates of Conway. Tara is a member of the National Honor Society, Key Club, FBLA and Faulkner County Youth Leadership Institute.
Kindergarten registration has three important steps. 1. Go to our website—conwayschools.org/ registration. Use our address search/zone map to find your child’s zoned school building. 2. Register your child online at www.conwayschools.org/new-student-registration. At the end of the online registration, parents will schedule an appointment at the school during Kindergarten Registration week. The hours for registration appointments are as follows: Monday May 2- 8:30 am-4:30 pm Tuesday May 3- 8:30 am-4:00 pm Wednesday May 4- 8:30 am-4:00 pm Thursday May 5- 8:30 am-4:00 pm 3. Bring your documentation to your appointment. Parents must bring the following items to the registration: 1. Official birth certificate 2. Social security number* 3. Completed immunization record 4. Medicaid ID card if the student is Medicaid eligible. 5. Health Screening- Well-child checkup since his/her 4th birthday 6. Two proofs of residence in the school zone** *Upon request, an official identification number will be furnished to serve in lieu of a social security number. **In order to verify school zone of residence, parents or legal guardians must provide two or more proof of residence documents. That list is published on the District website at www. conwayschools.org. Students must be five (5) years old on or before August 1, 2016.
Plant sale planned for May 14
The Faulkner County Master Gardener Plant Sale will be held Saturday, May 14th, 2016 from 8 a.m. to 2 p.m. at the Conway Expo Center, 2505 E Oak St. (Hwy 64 East). A wide variety of annuals, perennials, vegetables, herbs, trees, shrubs and grasses will be available, along with containers and hanging baskets, house plants, succulents, and garden art. Some special varieties of hostas, ferns and day lilies will be on sale.
Complimentary tool sharpening will be offered and a handmade garden bench will be raffled. Guest speakers are Janet Carson (9:30) and Rand Retzloff of Grand Design (11:00). Master Gardeners will provide demonstrations and advice on butterfly gardening, container gardening, composting, growing roses and more. Proceeds fund scholarships for students majoring in plant sciences. For further information, contact the Faulkner County Extension Office at 501-3298344. WWW.WOMENSINC.NET 35
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Over 12,400 food items were collected from contestants in the 2016 Strain photography/Simply Sweet Kids boutique supermodel contest. The child who collected and donated the most cans was the winner. Jolie Kate Garrison of Greenbrier was this year’s winner. Items collected went to stock the food pantries at these locations: Last Chance Ministry
Bethlehem House Carl Stuart Middle School Pantry Woodrow Cummins Elementary School Pantry Theodore Jones Back Packs Leslie Food Pantry Frank Mitchell Vilonia Pantry Salvation Army The Women’s Shelter Ministry Center Food Pantry
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CAFTA Recognizes Local Artists in Third Annual Conway Arts Awards at both UCA and Hendrix, as well as the director of the Youth Theater of Central Arkansas. She is described by her nominators as a tireless, enthusiastic and positive champion of our community’s youth involvement in the arts. One nominator said “her keen ability to transfer her genuine love of theatre and music to young people is truly a gift.”
The Conway Alliance for the Arts (CAFTA) held its Third Annual Conway Arts Awards on April 5 to recognize a variety of citizens for their contributions to the arts. Dozens of nominations from the community were received in seven categories, with the following individuals selected as the 2016 winners.
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the University of Central Arkansas (UCA). She has received the “Our Hero” award from the UCA Band, the Outstanding Senior Award from the UCA music faculty, was on the Dean’s list every semester and the President’s list her final semester. She is currently pursuing a graduate degree in Physical Therapy, specializing in wrist and hand injuries of musicians. She is described as talented, dedicated, intelligent, energetic, polite, humble, willing to help whenever asked and always upbeat.
Bryan Massey Bryan Massey is an educator and sculptor who has taught at UCA for 29 years. His works in bronze, steel, stone, iron and wood can be found in prominent collections in Arkansas as well as around the U.S. He was also the winner of the 2007 UCA Research and Creative Scholarship Award. He was recently commissioned to create a 15 foot high steel bear that will adorn the exterior entry façade of UCA’s Donaghey Hall.
Elinore Noyse Elinore Noyse is a senior at Conway High School and a previous attendee at the Arkansas Governor’s School for visual arts. She has won many awards at the Arkansas Young Artists Association annual competition. She is described by her nominator as “talented with a very unique balance of empathy and intelligence. She has an immediate grasp of technique and willingness to push beyond the boundaries of what she comfortably knows and experiment.”
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Kayla Copeland Kayla Copeland is a flutist and student at
Ruthann Curry Browne Ruthann Curry Browne is a theatre educator
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ROLLIN R. POTTER OUTSTANDING PATRON OF THE ARTS AWARD Joe Whisenhunt Joe Whisenhunt is described as a key supporter of the arts in Conway. He is responsible for reviving UCA’s Friends of Music organization, is a key supporter of
ART AWARDS the importance of songs and music in the lives of Central Arkansans, with a mission of promoting the Art of American Song both locally and worldwide. Her history of public contributions to the artistic life of Conway can be traced back to founding the Petit Jean International Art Song Festivals in 1983. She has also recruited Bolivian musicians to come work in Conway with other artists, faculty and students at UCA as well as perform with the Conway Symphony Orchestra.
Calendar May 2016 Arts Events – Please check out the event website for more information and pricing. May 5: CHS Choir presents “Night” A Spring Concert @ James H. Clark Auditorium; 6:30 p.m. huskeys@conwayschools.net (G) May 7: Journey to Auriolus presented by
Voices of Central Arkansas and a faithful friend to Arkansas Shakespeare Theatre. Rebekah Scallet, Artistic Director for Arkansas Shakespeare Theatre said the recipient has been a huge supporter of AST through its 10 year history. “And not just financially- he gives his time and business acumen-advice, has given the talents of his children, and he gives himself, with his amazingly generous spirit and warmth.” Dr. Paige Rose, Chair of the UCA Department of Music, stated Whisenhunt is a force behind the major campaign of the AllSteinway Initiative at UCA.
MAYOR’S AWARD FOR COMMUNITY ADVOCATE FOR THE ARTS Dr. Kay Kraeft Dr. Kay Kraeft has lived a life dedicated to the promotion of the arts as a successful performer, teacher, opera producer, conductor, scenic designer and scholar. She is the founder and executive director of Songs Unlimited, Inc. through which she continues to promote
Blackbird Academy of Arts @ Reynolds Performance Hall; 6:30 p.m. www.blackbirdacademy. org (G) May 7: The Clantons in Concert @ the Faulkner County Library @ 2:00 p.m. Nancy@fcl. org (G) May 9: Conway Junior High School Orchestras @ James H. Clark Auditorium; 6:30 p.m.
FAULKNER COUNTY LIBRARY LIFETIME ACHIEVEMENT IN THE ARTS AWARD Jan and Tim Cunningham Tim and Jan Cunningham have been married for 35 years. They have spent 30 of their 33 years as band instructors here in the Conway School District. The Cunninghams have both held prominent roles in statewide band organizations, including Dixie Band Camp, and have won awards from the Arkansas Bandmasters Association and the Arkansas School Band and Orchestra Association. Their nominator said “They have impacted the lives of thousands of students in our community by introducing them to the world of music and the life-long enrichment music provides.” *Thanks to Amanda Horton, chair of the CAFTA Arts Awards, for her help with this article. Jennie Strange is the founder and Executive Director of Blackbird Academy of Arts, a nonprofit organization dedicated to providing quality performing and visual arts education. She lives in Conway with her husband, Statler, and a random assortment of dogs, goats, and chickens. To submit your arts calendar events, email Jennie@blackbirdacademy.org
www.orchestra.conwayschools.org (G) May 13: An Evening in the Park- A Celebration of Dance presented by Blackbird Academy of Arts @ Simon Park; 6:30 p.m. www.blackbirdacademy.org (G) May 17: Conway Orchestras 7th Grade Concert @ James. H. Clark Auditorium; 6:30 p.m. www.orchestra.conwayschools.org (G) May 19: Open Mic Night @ the Faulkner County Library; 7:00 p.m. Nancy@fcl.org (A) May 27: Fourth Night Art Walk in Downtown Conway; 5:00-8:00 p.m. kim.williams@conwayarkansas.org (G) Rating key: G – Suitable for all ages PG-Suggested for ages 7+ PG13- Suggested for ages 13+ A- Suggested for Adults 18+ WWW.WOMENSINC.NET 41
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By Andrea Lennon Sitting in a small room on the other side of the world, I looked into her eyes and saw no hope. Let me tell you the story. I went on an overseas mission trip with a group of people from my church. I cannot disclose our location; but I can tell you that this country and its people are dear to my heart. Our group conducted medical clinics. Our purpose was to treat physical needs as well as help meet spiritual needs. One young girl and her mother came out of the doctor’s office and sat down in front of me. Both were crying. I looked at them and loved them. I wanted to fix all of their problems. I wanted to take away their pain. I could not. It was obvious that the young girl was sick. Her hair had fallen out. The translator leaned over to me and briefly shared her story. The young girl had cancer. I was not surprised by this news. What surprised me was the next piece of information. This 17-year-old girl did not know her diagnosis. In her country, the doctors do not tell the patients simply
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because there is little to no hope. Instead they tell them that they are sick and need to take some medicine. As this young girl sat in front of me, I felt like she knew that her life was in danger. The terror and grief in her eyes clearly conveyed this message. My heart hurt for her and her mother. I could tell that the mother was a good mother. She was the type of mother who would do anything to help her child. She wanted answers. She needed answers. The look of desperation in her eyes moved my heart. As these two ladies sat in front of me, I grabbed both of their hands. I started to share with them about God’s love. I wanted them to know that their lives were not without hope. I said, “God loves you. He has a plan for your life. You can trust Him. He has proven His love and commitment to you by sending His Son Jesus to die in your place. Because of Jesus’ death, burial, and resurrection from the grave, you can live... really live.” As I shared, both the mother and daughter stopped looking at the floor and started looking at me. They were listening to every word. They wanted to know about Jesus and His life changing love. They wanted His hope, peace, and power in their lives. In the course of a few minutes, everything about their lives changed. These two ladies received Jesus. It was such a powerful moment. The look in their eyes changed. Instead of terror, grief, hopelessness, and fear, I saw relief. I can only describe it as life changing relief. They knew that the circumstances of their lives had not changed. She still had cancer and the outcome was still unclear. However, the peace in their lives was evident. No matter the outcome, they had what they needed. They had
Jesus in their hearts. To be honest, I do not know the names of these two ladies. They were only in my life for a short time. Thankfully, they are connected with a group of people in their country who will help them to grow in their relationship with Jesus. This group will also make sure that they have what they need during the daughters battle with cancer. I think about the experience and I can’t help but praise God. No matter what is going on in our lives, He is faithful and He is good. I think about the goodness of God to meet our most pressing needs. For this mother and daughter, the most pressing need was not medical answers. It was spiritual answers. It was the amazing news of Jesus and His love for us. For you and me, God works in our lives in the same way. Often we look for temporary answers. We want our health fixed, our finances resolved, and our relationships restored. Of course, there is nothing wrong with these desires. However, in the midst of these circumstances, we should not be surprised if Jesus, in His love, addresses the deeper needs in our lives. Today, ask Jesus to address the deeper needs in your life. Ask Him to heal your heart. He is faithful to answer this prayer. He will provide just what you need. Andrea Lennon lives in Conway, Arkansas, with her husband, Jay, and sons, Jake and Andrew. Andrea ministers to the women of Arkansas through a speaking and writing ministry called True Vine Ministry. To learn more about this ministry, access Andrea’s website at www.andrealennon.net.
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‘In the Unlikely Event’ by Judy Blume Reviewed by Susan O’Keefe
It stuck with me for several days. I wondered if Henry and Leah ever had kids. I wondered if Miri lived with regret that she abandoned her first love, her hero, Mason, the one who pulled survivors from the burning plane. Did the Foster’s child eventually leave the burn unit, return to elementary school and grow up to lead a productive life? Even thirty-five years later, the scars were still evident. They were the kind of scars that burn on the inside, outside, and even a bit in between. In December 1951, as trees were trimmed and last minutes shoppers dashed here and there, a silver bullet fell from the sky. It was the first of three crashes in an eight week period in Elizabeth, New Jersey. Three crashes in eight weeks in the same town! Officials said it could not happen again. But it did. Parents told their children it was a once-in-a lifetime tragedy. But it wasn’t. Three planes in eight weeks earned Elizabeth the unwanted label of “Plane Crash City.” Author Judy Blume is an Elizabeth native. The acclaimed author recalls the events firsthand. She pulls from her own memory bank while weaving together a collection of fictional characters who ultimately interact in one way or another. A playbill would have been beneficial as the cast is quite extensive. Flipping back to remember and refresh is often necessary. Nonetheless, in true Blume fashion, the author utilizes every word to tell a remarkable story. Her descriptive detail of 1950s middle class America is charming. There’s mention of Elizabeth Taylor haircuts plus Bogie and Bacall. The Korean War quietly slips into several scenes. Mothers in pearls buy Bird’s
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susan o’keefe Eye vegetables and declare them a national symbol to ensure happiness on the home front. Miri Ammerman, a ninth-grade Jewish girl, is the main narrator of the story. Miri lives with her single mom, Rusty, who conceals the truth about Miri’s father. There are bits and pieces of information but no solid story. Irene is Miri’s grandmother who lives on the first floor of the shared house. Uncle Henry, Rusty’s brother, is a strong supporting character. He stakes his claim to serious journalism writing about the trio of air tragedies. “Miri read (Uncle) Henry’s story, then read it again. Swollen cream puff ? She’d always thought of cream puffs as soft and sweet. But Henry was using it to describe something hard and horrible. She worried, for a minute, he was losing his mind. Or was it that when something so unimaginable happens you need to find a new way to help people see it?” After the first plane crash, Miri’s best friend, Natalie Osner, subtly shows signs of anxiety and post traumatic stress. Her dad, a dentist, is also grieving after combing through charred remains identifying passengers from dental records. Dr. O thinks buying a horse or converting the basement of their high end home to a dance studio will sooth his daughter’s wounds. Unfortunately, the wounds ooze and the healing balm is slow to be applied. In the midst of this historical drama are several other overlapping stories. One of those is a love story between Miri and an orphan boy named Mason. There is innocence and heart beats skipped as the two experiment with puppy love. As Miri dissects details, she begins to wonder about Mason’s secret past and what role she might
This community belonged to a club that no one wanted membership. There was a bond that claimed them. It was devastating, and for most, if not all, it altered the course of their lives. play in his future. Mason isn’t Jewish. But he is a hero. He earns Miri’s eternal love when he pulls a flight attendant from the wreckage of the third crash. It’s a heralded move that will haunt him forever. He needs something or someone to ground him. But is it wrong to fall in love while the community around you is falling apart? Immediately following each crash, the community busies itself with food and clothes drives. There’s so much need. Irene says it’s the only way to move forward. There has to be an intentional focus on helping others. As tempers flare and officials dodge responsibility, people demand the closing of Newark Airport. It’s the only way to ensure another plane won’t drop from the sky. Readers are treated to dialogue among Miri’s high school classmates. Know-it-all teens are blaming the crashes on aliens, communists, and international sabotage. They constantly ask how and furthermore, why, had three planes crashed within 56 days? Teachers shush them. The principal even forbids Miri’s provocative article to be published in the school newspaper. If she defies him, she could face expulsion! And just as quickly as readers became immersed in the lives of Miri’s family, the Osners, the orphan teen, and a myriad of others, the book ends. For one reader, it was
a disappointing ending. “The end seemed a little hokey. It was like a perfectly wrapped package, all tied up with a neat little bow,” she commented. Another reader appreciated the glimpse into future lives. This community belonged to a club that no one wanted membership. There was a bond that claimed them. It was devastating, and for most, if not all, it altered the course of their lives. For more than one family, the only way to escape “Plane Crash City” was to leave. Several characters packed their bags and headed west to a tiny upstart desert town called Las Vegas. By the end of the story, the newcomers owned the strip. Blume’s creativity is unparalleled. “In the Unlikely Event” showcases a horrific disaster in Elizabeth, New Jersey. The story leaves an indelible mark on the pages of history that show survivors rising from the smoldering ashes of tragedy. Susan recently moved to Augusta, Georgia, where her husband, Jack, is the Augusta University Men’s Golf Coach. Susan originally hails from Kentucky and graduated from the University of Louisville with a major study in Communications and a minor study in Health and Wellness. Susan enjoys the adventures of motherhood as she parents Lucy, JohnFreeman, Henry and Hogan (plus Oxford, the family’s black Labrador).
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May is Celiac Awareness Month By Chef Jill McCollum, CC Photos by Brandy Strain Celiac disease is triggered by ingesting certain proteins, commonly referred to as “gluten,” which are naturally present in some cereal grains. While celiac disease can’t be cured, its symptoms can be controlled through diet. Celiac disease is a genetic disorder and may occur in children as well as adults. Approximately 1 in 133 people may have celiac disease, the majority of these individuals have not been diagnosed. Though gluten is commonly associated with wheat, foods made with barley and rye may also be avoided.
Gluten Free Very Cherry Chocolate Cupcakes
2 cups sugar 2 cups sorghum flour blend-see below ¾ cup natural dark cocoa 1 ½ teaspoons GF baking powder 1 ½ teaspoons baking soda 1 teaspoon salt 1 teaspoon xanthan gum ½ cup dried Bing cherries or dried tart cherries 2 eggs plus 1 egg white 1 cup milk (or GF soy, rice, nut milk) ½ cup vegetable oil (or melted butter) 1 cup boiling water
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Chicken Pot Pie Savory Pie Crust 3 cups all purpose flour 1 ½ teaspoons kosher salt 1 teaspoon baking powder ½ cup vegetable shorting ¼ pound cold unsalted butter, diced ½ to 2/3 cup ice water Pot Pie Filing 3 chicken breasts, diced and cooked with salt and pepper 1 can cream of chicken soup 1 can cream of celery soup (other soup options are cream of potato or cream of mushroom) 1 bag frozen mixed vegetables, thawed 1 teaspoon ground cumin Salt/Pepper to taste Mix flour, salt and baking powder in a bowl of a food processor fitted with a metal blade. Add the shortening and butter and mix quickly with your fingers until each piece is coated with flour. Pulse 10 times, with motor running, add the ice water; process only enough to moisten the dough and have it just come together. Place dough on a floured board and knead quickly into a ball. Wrap dough in plastic and allow to rest in the refrigerator for 30 minutes. Roll out dough and place in the bottom of a pie pan. Place mixed pot pie ingredients on top of the dough, roll out the second ball of dough and lay on top of your chicken pot pie. Bake in 350 degree oven for about 30 minutes, or until top dough is brown and pie begins to bubble.
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1 to 2 tablespoons milk 1 teaspoon vanilla extract Beat the butter and cream cheese together, add powder sugar, milk and vanilla, mix till smooth.
Sorghum flour blend
1 ½ cups sorghum flour 1 cup tapioca flour 1 ½ cup corn or potato starch Whisk together and store in an air tight container; makes 4 cups In a large mixing bowl, whisk dry ingredients, set aside. In a medium bowl, gently whisk together eggs and egg white, add milk, oil and vanilla to egg mixture, beat on medium speed with electric mixer for two minutes. Slowly add dry ingredients. Dice cherries into small pieces, pat dry, dust with a teaspoon of gluten free flour until lightly coated, set aside. Slowly add boiling water into batter, blend well, fold in dried cherries. Place cupcake liners into the cupcake tins, fill tins half full with batter. Bake for approximately 20 minutes, makes about 27 cupcakes. Let cool, then frost. Chef Jill McCollum, CC is the Caterer and Food Service Director for Central Baptist College. Jill is the owner of Jill McCollum Catering in Conway. She can be reached at jmccollum@cbc.edu or (501) 730-4422
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Parmesan Roasted Corn on the Cob ½ cup mayonnaise 5 ears corn, husk and silk removed 1 cup shredded Parmesan cheese 1 tablespoon chili powder 1 teaspoon salt 1 teaspoon ground black pepper
Preheat an outdoor grill to medium-high heat and lightly oil grate. Brush a thin layer of mayonnaise on each ear of corn. Sprinkle the corn with the Parmesan cheese, chili powder, salt and pepper. Wrap each ear with aluminum foil and place on the grill. Grill, turning occasionally, until the kernels begin to brown, about 10 minutes.
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ABC Girl recites verses, meets governor imatter By Andy Robertson Growing up poses challenges, but a Conway first grader recites Bible verses with ease. The phenomenon of Sydney Hopson, “The ABC Girl,” is spreading throughout Arkansas and will make its way to Birmingham, Alabama in June. Hopson’s grandmother remembers asking Hopson to recite her favorite Bible verse on her way of taking Hopson to school. Hopson replied, “Which one? I know them all.” Her grandma told Hopson to recite some, and Hopson recited a verse beginning with every letter in the alphabet with the book, chapter and verse where each letter could be located. Hopson knows passages from Psalm 23, The Lord’s Prayer in Matthew 6, Psalm 34, John 3, Exodus 20 and several more. Because of Hopson’s wealth of knowledge of Bible verses, she recited verses at the State Capitol for Gov. Asa Hutchinson and his staff Dec. 17, 2015. Hopson had her first solo performance almost two years ago on Easter Sunday 2014, where she received a standing ovation from the maximum capacity filled congregation at Greater Friendship Baptist Church. Hopson was so excited she couldn’t wait to tell Mrs. Cochran, her preschool teacher at Conway Christian School (CCS). Hopson loves to use her verses in a variety of ways. She plays a game with other children where they call out a letter, and she recites the corresponding verse. She also uses her verses to settle conflicts with playmates, whether they should go along with their choice or not. Hopson is recognized and stopped by several people who tell her she blesses them. Hopson relatives said they are pleased with CCS for working with Hopson and her peers. Reciting verses is not going to be kept in Arkansas, however, as Hopson is scheduled to recite at the National Baptist Conven-
tion Southwest Regional Youth Conference in Birmingham, Alabama, in June. Her grandma says the recognition Hopson has received is outstanding, and she continues to get scheduled in several places. Hopson’s family is quick to give God the praise and glory for her talents and spiritual gifts. They also applaud the contributions and impact others have made in Hopson’s life. Hopson currently attends CCS on a partial tuition scholarship, for which her family is extremely grateful. Anyone who wants to book Hopson for reciting the ABCs of the Bible, other biblical passages, play piano or sing with “commotions” can email her grandmother at abcgirlgrandma@gmail.com or at 501-6973346.
Young people are often the pulse of a community, as sporting events, school events and activities bring them into the spotlight. Women’s Inc. wants to showcase these young people in a special feature each month. iMatter will seek to tell the stories of a new generation of community, skill, success and achievement. Do you know a student in Faulkner county, ages 10-23, who is truly one of a kind? Send youth’s name, school, parents contact information (if under 18) and a brief explanation of why you think your youth or you would make a iMatter candidate to womensinc@thecabin.net.