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Surviving a milestone: The 21st birthday Inside
ANDREW MATYSIK EDITOR IN CHIEF AJM722@CABRINI EDU
Opening his eyes suddenly became a chore the following morning for the brand-new 21year-old, Tim. The potent stench from his body and parched mouth nearly made him gag. Rolling over in agony, Tim wrapped his arm around his girlfriend, Ava, who stood by his side the whole night.
“Thank God she was there,” Tim said as he slowly nursed a bottle of lemon-lime Gatorade. The 5’6” Ava was the main crutch for Tim’s large-frame throughout the hectic experience. She was also the driving force behind Tim even being able to function the next morning.
“I had to yell at a few of the guys who wouldn’t stop buying you shots,” Ava said. It was obvious to see how worried she was by the tone in her voice and the remnants of what used to be her fingernails.
Celebrating his 21st birthday was a much-anticipated event for the Northeast Philadelphia native. Tim’s friends from school, home and work gathered together and found joy in the one simple task of drowning their buddy, Tim, in as much alcohol as possible.
Tim was uncertain of how many shots he did by the end of the escapade, but thinking about that would have only made him sick. “I don’t remember anything after my friends from work got there, which was at 11:30 p.m.,” Tim said. “Blacking-out,” or losing recollection of what happened the night before, is common place for excessive drinking in general.
“Yea, the scary part is that he might have done at least five more shots of liquor after his friends arrived,” Ava said. Tim entered a state of intoxication where he lost complete knowledge of his actions. Continued drinking in this condition is risky and could be potentially fatal.
In an interview with Tim before his night started, he showed signs of excitement slightly tainted by fear. Stories of people getting their stomachs pumped due to too much alcohol consumption were very common incidents in Tim’s neighborhood. Also, Tim was fully aware that death can even came into play for 21st birthday party celebrations.
“I know what can happen to you if you aren’t careful,” Tim
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The Residence Hall Association is looking to impove the college experience for students living on campus.
Delfino said. “We haven’t had any response to ou efforts. It is frustrating at times because we are here for the residents to help improve their living conditions and also we are trying to recruit new members.” beyond.
RHAhas a flag football tournament for both males and females scheduled for the end of April. Signups will begin next week in the cafeteria and Jazzman’s. Prizes will be given to the winners of each team of 510 members. RHAis always looking for new members who want to be involved on campus. If you are interested in the organization, open meetings are held Sunday nights at 10 pm in the New Residence Hall. Contact President Colleen Bowman and extension 3138 or Vice President Lisa Delfino at extension 3137.
As a result It was a major success!” The battle continues, according to Delfino, to get through to students that RHAexists to help with students’problems and concerns.
RHAwon’t let setbacks stop them. So far this year the Residence Hall Association has worked through obtaining a new advisor, some members leaving to study abroad, and having one of the students’top concerns denied. RHAis an organization that doubles as a soundboard for resident students’concerns, and also provides activities and programs for the campus community. According to Vice President Lisa Defino the top two major concerns brought up by campus residents have been obtaining paper towels in the bathrooms and acquiring enough properly working washers and dryers.