Destructive Emotions that Can Destroy Your Good Relationship And 11 Strategies to Overcome Them
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Destructive Emotions that Can Destroy Your Good Relationship and 11 Strategies to Overcome Them
Going into a romantic relationship is a huge emotional investment. It entails a combination of love and responsibility. While building a good and long lasting relationship is in itself very difficult to attain, it is actually feasible. On the other hand, every kind of relationship needs trials and hindrances in order to be strong. Sadly though, the same trials and hindrances may also be the very reason why partners separate and end their love. Destructive emotions can destroy a very good relationship. But don’t worry since there are a lot of ways in order to combat them. In fact, we’ll be discussing eleven simple strategies that will overcome these destructive feelings.
Jealousy Among the many reasons of separation and break-ups, jealousy is on top of the list. This emotion is felt by instinct. This means that it is a natural event for any partner to be jealous of something or someone. Even perfect marriages experience problems of this kind from time to time. Jealousy comes from the mindset of the person who is jealous. It happens because you are establishing your own rules that you think your partner should follow. If this rule isn’t followed, you become jealous in some way. For instance, you don’t want him/her to go out on weekends. If he/she does, you start thinking that he/she is with someone else. While some hunches are true, others are pure products of paranoia. Either way, jealousy is definitely a destructive behavior that can get out of hand and bring the relationship down.
Anger Another destructive emotion that can destroy your good relationship is anger. Being with someone means you will likely see the best and worst in them. As a result, there will be instances where you get fed up and start to argue. Remember that arguments are good, as long as the both of you come into terms after. But if the argument is overpowered by anger, that’s another thing. People who allow their anger to dictate the relationship will likely end up losing their partners.
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Boredom and Falling Out These two destructive emotions work together. This means that the normal consequence of boredom is falling out of love. By the time you have lived your entire life with your partner, it seems like everything becomes pretty much the same – no thrills, no surprises. Taking your partner for granted since you always see him/her every day may lead to falling out. And if you want to keep a good relationship going, you have make steps to prevent falling out. So now what? What should be done in order to fight these destructive emotions? Here are eleven of the things you can do to overcome them? 1. Learn to Trust – a good relationship is founded on trust. The minute you start building trust to your partner, jealousy will fade in no time. Though there are times when suspicions are substantiated, it doesn’t mean that you take away that trust for good. 2. Earn and Give Respect – respect is a two way process. This means that in order to earn the respect from your partner, you must also show some. The expression of respect is a good weapon against the destructive emotion of jealousy. People get jealous not only because they don’t trust their partners, but also because they look at the past and dwell from it. But if only there is respect in the relationship, both partners will learn to read and understand each other without settling to ending the bond or relationship. 3. Be Positive – in any good relationships, waking up happy each morning is a simple yet very effective strategy in order to maintain the atmosphere of love. One of the reasons why people suddenly give up is because they find the problems in the relationship as too much of a burden. But looking at the brighter side of things will help you carry on and hope that everything will be just fine. 4. Give Your Partner A Break – Want to know an ideal strategy in maintaining a good relationship? Try giving your partner a hall pass. Just like the movie, it’s like giving him/her a chance to be stripped of the responsibility of being in a relationship. He/she will eventually realize that he/she needs you more than ever. 5. Always Find Ways to Communicate – Communication is a vital ingredient for the recipe of good relationship. Without it, boredom and falling out of love may start to appear. If only you can allocate even less than an hour of romantic talk with your partner each day, there’s a good chance that your partnership will last a lifetime. Falling out of love strikes when you are at your most vulnerable state – and this happens when you are bored and fed up. 6. Avoid Distractions – Distractions are enemies of a good relationship. Sometimes, occasional flirting with an office mate or your boss can lead to fights and even separation. The thing
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with distraction is that you may never know that it has already consumed you. Avoid them and you’re fine. 7. Create Something Different – What’s the best strategy against boredom? The answer is innovation. If you have been doing the same routine each day for the past five years, it’s pretty obvious that you have to innovate to produce something different. If you go straight home after work and have dinner at home with your partner, why not take her somewhere else where you can emphasize a romantic these. Or perhaps you can setup a dinner outside the house with candles and fancy food and champagne. Actually, there are hundreds of things that you can do in order to create something different to counteract the destructive feeling of boredom. 8. Get Rid Of Your Pride – Partners swear an oath to be with each other forever. What goes along with this is the promise of serving each other. Most of the time, pride gets in the way of good relationships. The result – frequent arguments and fights. Thus, pride is of no use for partners in love. By getting rid of pride, you’re actually applying a strategy that’s too obvious but also too hard to do. 9. Keep Your Your Emotions At Bay – Anger is perhaps the most destructive of all emotions when it comes to romantic relationships. It is through anger that people start to emotionally or even physically hurt their partners. By the time you start to lay a hand on your partner, that’s same as saying that you’re willing to give him/her up. If you do want a relationship to last, it is by instinct to realize that you should keep your emotions in check. Never let anger dictate the tempo of the commitment. Because if you do, that’s the end. 10. Set Your Priorities – You want your loved one to stick around? Make sure you keep him/her as your first priority and all the others as second. Do not make your work at the office as an excuse for skipping dinner twice or thrice a week. Do not tell him/her that you cannot make it to the movies since you’re not in the mood. Make him/her feel that he/she is the most important thing in this world. 11. Be Open and Always Listen – Overcoming destructive emotions and keeping a good relationship intact can be very simple if you know how to listen. Listening is actually a twoway process. You also have to give your feedback. Be open and tell you want. In this strategy, any type of problem will be solved.
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