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Enjoy Reading Style Dear Lydia, I want you to know how much I enjoy reading Style magazine. I read every issue when it comes out. I don’t know how you and your staff keep it so fresh and interesting each time.

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Survivors Photo Shoot Dear Lydia, This is long overdue, but I just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate you opening your home to all the models for the photo shoot.

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Dear Lydia, What a truly wonderful day I had!!!! Thank you for making me feel so beautiful and be so beautiful! WOW!! Again, thank you for an unforgettable and fun experience!

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Thank You for Caring Lydia and Connie, Randy and I just wanted to thank you for doing such a wonderful article about our ministry (Business & Building, Vol. III, 2009). Connie was a really caring and very thorough writer. Thank you so much for caring. God’s blessings on you, Heidi Gunn GunnPoint Ministries

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Contents

On the cover: Dr. Angela King, cover model and breast cancer survivor, shares her story on page 33.

Women’s Health & Breast Cancer

FEATURES

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« Meet the Models

« Three Generations of Survivors « Advances in Mastectomy Procedures « Latest Chemotherapy Protocols for Breast Cancer « Sisterhood of Thrivers

« Champions of Hope

« Med Spas Combat Colorado’s Climate

« Cancer Insurance for Peace of Mind

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« Cancer & Your Diet

« Healing Properties of Tea

« Hope Lives through Kitchen Remodel

« The Power of Prayer in Healing

DEPARTMENTS

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« From Our Readers

« Publisher’s Letter

« About Town

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Publisher’s Letter: Hope Lives in the Sisterhood

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This sisterhood of thrivers share their touching breast cancer journeys with us in hopes that their experiences will empower women if they are diagnosed.

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very year, I look forward to meeting our new group of inspiring women who have fought the battle of breast cancer and come through the experience as thrivers. This sisterhood of thrivers share their touching breast cancer journeys with us in hopes that their experiences will empower women if they are diagnosed. These amazing women are of all ages, all sizes, different backgrounds, and lifestyles. And, though their stories are all unique and personal, a common thread weaves through their inspiring messages.

Often uniquely worded and personal to each woman’s experience, their messages talk about a genuine gratitude for family, friends, caregivers, and healthcare providers who supported them on their journey of healing and recovery. Most have a renewed appreciation for the beauty of each day, for relationships, and for good health.

Many developed a deeper connection with their God and the importance of their spiritual life. And absolutely each woman was changed forever as a result and will never again be the same.

I don’t know of a more inspiring group of women than those who gathered at my home on that beautiful August day for the photo shoot. We all shared, laughed, and supported each other as the women enjoyed having their hair professionally styled, their makeup carefully applied, and wore beautiful fashions. None of the women were experienced models, but their inner beauty, courage, and appreciation for life shined through their initial moments of anxiety.

Thank you to each of these beautiful women who shared their positive attitudes, their sense of humor, and their intimate personal stories with us.

One unbelievable story you will find heartwarming is how Julie Jones, Marilyn Jones, and matriarch, Mary Frances Blankenhorn, all found inner strength and grace to conquer their disease in “Three Generations of Survivors.”

Along with more inspiring stories, this issue is dedicated to sharing information. Today more than ever before, the survival rates for breast cancer are improving. Read “Latest Chemotherapy Protocols for Breast Cancer” to learn about how treatment advances have become more patient-specific treatment rather than disease-specific. Dr. Samuel Shelanski, with the Greeley Medical Clinic in Loveland, speaks about individual care and determining the probable success of treatments ahead of time.

Dr. Regina Brown, with Cancer Center of the Rockies, speaks about genomic testing, clinical trials, and tailoring the most successful protocol for each individual.

For those women who opt for a mastectomy, Dr. James Dickinson, of Northern Colorado Surgical Associates, and Dr. Lisa Burton, of Surgical Associates of Greeley, discuss advances

in the procedure and improved simultaneous reconstruction options in “Advances in Mastectomy Procedures.”

As many of you might know, my heart’s work is supporting the non-profit, Hope Lives! and its mission to help women in our communities who are diagnosed with breast cancer. A nine year survivor myself, I am passionate about serving these women and their families through the Complementary Care Program, which provides free services to improve their healing, recovery, and quality of life during treatment and after. Hope Lives! provides services for up to 130 women a month through this program.

Unfortunately, until a cure is found, the numbers continue to increase and it takes increasing volunteers, sponsors, and donors to make this important work possible.

Every year, the annual Hope Lives! Gala brings together people from our communities to celebrate life and raise money for this important cause. This year will be the 9th annual event held at Hilton Fort Collins on October 17, at 6:00 pm. It is not too late to email www.hopelives.org or call 970-225-6200 to reserve yourself and a friend a seat at this inspirational evening of celebration. You will be treated to a gourmet dinner, amazing fashion show of breast cancer survivors, lively auction, and have the opportunity to get acquainted with those selected to be called Champions of Hope for their commitment to help women with this disease. I invite you to dress up and come celebrate life with us! You will have such fun and be so inspired!

It takes a community of caring people to support this worthwhile cause and we are so fortunate in our area to have many people who step up financially, contribute their time and talent, and volunteer to help. I deeply thank each of you for your contributions.

Thank you to the store owners who provided the lovely fashions; to the hair designers who gave of their time and talent; to the makeup artists who spent the photo shoot day with us; and to the generous volunteers for their help before and during the shoot. Finally, a heartfelt thanks to the varied sponsors, donors, staff, and volunteers who have come together to make the Gala possible. Your collective generosity and support is deeply touching and much appreciated by all the women we serve.

Together we can make a difference until a cure is found.

Blessings to each of you,

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Meet the Models Jessica Adair

Dana Dunlap

JoAnn Ball

Jennifer Entner

Jeanne Brien

Julie Jones

Anne Cagen

Marilyn Jones

Jessica is mother to Caira Adair, age 2, and is engaged to Keith Harral. She is an engineer at Woodward. She enjoys quilting, knitting, and rollerblading in her spare time.

“I loved it! Four people dedicated to making me look good. I wore a green dress that I would have never picked on my own and it was so cute. It was such a wonderful, feminine experience. Everything was such a nice celebration of women and life. Joan at Lizzy’s was so nice and helpful.”

JoAnn is married to Bob and has a son, Tony, age 15. She is a media tech assistant at Lesher IB World Middle School. When not working with local youngsters, JoAnn volunteers with Larimer County, and loves camping, bowling, and traveling.

“Rebecca at Chico’s was great. Everyone was very helpful and supportive.”

Jeanne is mother to Matt, 25, Marc, 23, and Krista, 21. She works for Amgen, Inc. as a senior quality associate. She enjoys 5K races, hiking, scrapbooking, and spending time with friends and family.

“Sue and Rebecca at Cloz were so knowledgeable. Shauna at C&S Workshop made me feel like myself again. Stacy did an awesome job with makeup. I normally don’t even feel like having my picture taken, so this was a huge adventure for me, a once-in-a-lifetime experience.”

Anne is married to Rob. They have three children, Mose, 24, Eli, 22, and Emily, 21. She owns Performance Tune. She enjoys skiing, hiking, biking, reading, listening to music, and watercolors.

“Designs is a beautiful shop and everyone was so helpful and positive. I appreciate all these stylists and makeup artists donating their time. I love being at Lydia’s, meeting all those beautiful women! I loved having the opportunity to wear something that I normally wouldn’t wear. It is like playing dress-up!”

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Dana is married to Mark and has two children, Chaz, 10, and Cade, 5. Dana enjoys mountain day trips, hiking, family time, and coffee with friends.

“It was awesome! The outfit I chose made me feel beautiful. Suzanne at Capelli’s Salon did a fabulous job and Kim at Mane Door made me feel like a queen. It was fun being a ‘cover girl.’ I was pampered and made to feel beautiful. The photographer did a great job making our personalities come out. “

Jennifer is married to Jason with three children, CJ, 18, Bailey, 14, and Chloe, 9.

She is a human resource manager at Member Management. Her hobbies include reading, exercising, hiking, and enjoying the outdoors.

“It was fun trying on dresses that I wouldn’t normally have a chance to wear.

I loved having my hair styled. I didn’t recognize the glamorous me! The best part was meeting the wonderful people, models, volunteers, and staff. I loved going to David’s Bridal. They had a huge selection.”

Julie is mother to Michael, 21, Joshua, 19, Nathaniel, 16, Seth 14, and Mari, 12.

She is engaged to Michael Kindall. Julie is an artist. When not sculpting, she enjoys working out, spending time with her children, gardening, and home improvement.

“Everyone was wonderful. The shop was beautiful and the clothing fit with what I like. LeSalon was fantastic. The best part was meeting new people who have had similar experiences. The clothing is high quality and the stores treated us very well.”

Marilyn is married to Bradley, and is mother to Jody and Julie. She is a retired clinical psychologist. She enjoys spending time with family, traveling, and reading.

“It was like playing dress-up; so much fun to try on different outfits. It seemed surreal having someone spend so much time doing my hair and makeup – was that me? The camaraderie and support of everyone present was so wonderful! The owner of Cloz and her staff were great, helpful with suggestions and encouragement!”

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Angela King, M.D.

Dr. Angela King is an OB/GYN for the Women’s Clinic of Northern Colorado. She is also a certified Zumba instructor and loves scuba diving and travel.

“This was a lot of fun! Kim from Mane Door Salon was great and I loved Shauna from C&S Workshop. It was a great, celebratory atmosphere.”

Bonnie McBride-Berry

Bonnie is mother to Jennifer, Tyler, Matt, and Tiffany. She works for American Republic Insurance. Bonnie enjoys fundraising for MDA, Relay for Life, and Hope Lives. She also enjoys photography, reading, music, dancing, the Green Bay Packers, and her children.

“The staff at Chico’s was amazing. The process was outright pampering! But, since my hair is growing back, there wasn’t much to style. The entire experience was truly fun.

Meeting the other models and sharing stories was humbling. No one is alone.”

Patricia Moore

Patricia has two children, Doug and Katie. She is a retired accountant for Colorado State University. She enjoys traveling, reading, and volunteering.

“The fitting was a lot of fun, having Chico’s staff find just the right outfit for me. It was fun trying a new hairstyle and having someone skilled transforming my appearance for the photo shoot. Everyone treated us wonderfully. It was something I’ve never done before and having so many great people helping us with clothes, hairstyle, and makeup made us feel so special.”

Shari Robinson

Elana Serrano

Elana is married to Jesus Grajeda. She is mother to Jesus, 16, Nayeli, 8, Denali, 3, and Sarai, 2. She is currently a student at Colorado State University.

“It was fun. I love my hair and I had a great learning experience with the makeup.

The modeling experience was interesting. I had never done it. The clothes were nice and I loved the store.”

Kim Shore

Kim is mother to Nolan, 26, Taeja, 22, and Madison, 21. Her significant other is Mark Hughes. Kim is self-employed at Mane Door Salon. When not styling hair, Kim enjoys hiking, four-wheeling, running, and says, “my career is my hobby, I love what I do.”

“Everyone was so sweet and comforting and made me feel like a princess. I felt so special. Designs was so accommodating and treated me like a movie star!”

Rose Marie Studer

Rose Marie Studer is mother to Benjamin Miller, 39, and Jennifer Berrichi, 35.

She is an engineering consultant, self-employed with Insync Offsite Inc. She enjoys skiing, hiking, writing, theater, and singing.

“I thought I would feel self-conscious, but I felt great and glamorous. It made me feel like smiling. The makeup and photo shoot was so much fun. I am a little camera shy, but everyone was encouraging. I have shopped at Chico’s for years and was thrilled when I went to pick out an outfit.”

Robin Trujillo

Shari is married to Josh and they have three kids: Cole, 11, Kate, 9, and Kennedy, 6. Shari is a teacher and cheer and dance studio owner. In her free time she enjoys history, horses, and choreography.

“It was a lot of fun and I was very well treated. My hair feels so healthy! The ladies at Designs were great and have a lovely store.”

Robin’s significant other is David. She does research for Firestorm Solutions, LLC. When not working, she enjoys art and playing softball.

“It was a great experience. It is something I will always remember. The ladies at Salon Salon were wonderful. They made us feel at ease and very special. I loved everything about this experience. There are no words to describe how wonderful the whole thing has been. The clothes were beautiful and the ladies at Lizzy’s were so helpful”

Jan Rachid

Gayle Wunder

Jan is married to Alaeldin. She has two children, Melek and Adam. Since her retirement, Jan enjoys baseball, reading, weaving, and cooking.

“This was fun. It was so enjoyable. I loved the conversations. This experience helped get me out into the world and laugh again. Meeting all the models was wonderful.”

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Gayle is mother to Michael and Kristin.

Her significant other is John Vanderveen.

She is a retired teacher and enjoys community volunteering with the Fort Collins Symphony, Canyon Concert Ballet, Bas Bleu, and Children’s Theater. She also loves reading, traveling, gardening, yoga, and swimming.

“Designs was fabulous. I love the outfit I wore. Donna was very helpful the day I went in to browse. Shauna (C&S Workshop) was wonderful, an inspiration. Abby, who did my makeup, was terrific. I loved it all!”

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Survivors

Three Generations of

By Lynn M. Dean

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hen sculptor Julie Jones got the call to come back in after her routine mammogram, she wasn’t all that concerned. With a history of breast calcifications, she’d been called back many times before.

She knew the drill. The technician would perform another mammogram and then the radiologist would tell her the results. But this time it was different. This time they led her into a dimly lit room

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filled with books on breast cancer. The thought of cancer had not even crossed her mind, but suddenly Julie had the feeling she was in for a nasty surprise. “My first thought was, this isn’t good,” Julie explains. “Then when both the doctor and the nurse came back into the room I fell apart. I had five kids to take care of. I didn’t have time to be sick.”

But the results didn’t really leave any room for doubt. On the image there were clear striations between the calcium deposits. Julie had cancer. Biopsies soon followed. The diagnosis was intraductal carcinoma. “I was an emotional mess,” shares Julie. “I woke up for quite a while with wet pillows every morning. A lot of times I didn’t know what I was upset about. I just started crying.”

Reading everything she could get her hands on, Julie was determined to deal with her cancer swiftly. She had a family to consider. “I think my daughter was really worried,” she says. “At 12, she’s the youngest. I think the boys were in denial.

My mom came over and we talked to the kids together.”

“I just remember Julie calling and saying, ‘I’m mad,’” recalls Marilyn Jones, a retired psychologist and Julie’s mom. “We just cried on the telephone together. A week later she said, ‘I’m mad’ and added “I’m going to fight this!’”

“I decided I didn’t want to mess around with it,” she says. “I didn’t want to take any chances. I wanted a bilateral mastectomy.”

Unfortunately her surgeon wasn’t convinced that a bilateral mastectomy was necessary. But Julie was steadfast. “We spent an hour and a half discussing the issue. I had always been an athlete. I didn’t want to go through chemotherapy or radiation. With the bilateral, I knew I would be done.”

Less than two months after her diagnosis, Julie was in the operating room. After the surgery, even her surgeon was convinced she’d been right. “He told my parents that I’d made the right choice,” she recalls. “The cancer was more extensive than they realized.”

Later that same year, Julie was in for another nasty surprise. Her mother, Marilyn, would also be diagnosed with breast cancer. “I don’t think Mom told me right away,” Julie laments. “I think she told me only after she had her biopsy.” “She had enough to deal with,” Marilyn says defending her actions.

Like her daughter before her, Marilyn was called back in for another mammogram, and then a biopsy. “The radiologist told me right then it was cancer. I had expected it to take a day or two.”

Unlike Julie, Marilyn knew exactly how to handle the situation. “I had gone to all of Julie’s appointments and went through the decision-making process with her,” explains Marilyn. “I knew what she had been through and I thought, ‘I can do this.

I can do this really well.’ I was in Stage I and it was really early. All the indicators were that I would have a good outcome.”

And unlike her daughter, Marilyn did not elect to have a double mastectomy or even a single mastectomy, but instead opted for a lumpectomy.

“So I had outpatient surgery to remove the tumor.

The surgeon removed a piece the size ‘of between a golf ball and a tennis ball.’ Then I had a short course of radiation following it.”

Unfortunately, both Julie and Marilyn were in for a third nasty surprise that same year. Marilyn’s mother, Mary Frances Blankenhorn, was also diagnosed with breast cancer. “Even before I had my surgery, Mom told me she found a lump and was

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going to the doctor,” says Marilyn. “She lives in Arizona on a managed health plan. She found out it was cancer after my surgery.”

Mary Frances was the only one not caught by surprise. “I was only surprised that I was 89 before I was diagnosed with cancer. I was not surprised that it was malignant; cancer runs in my family.”

Julie and Marilyn wanted to be with Mary Frances to support her through her course of treatment, but because of their own diagnoses, they could not go to her. But for Mary Frances, the hardest part about the distance wasn’t that her family wasn’t there to support her, it was that she couldn’t be here, in Colorado, to support them. “I live in an RV park, and several of my friends have had cancer,” Mary Frances explains. “In fact, one of my good friends had a mastectomy a week before I did. Another good friend had a mastectomy several years ago and she was very supportive. But I’m afraid I wasn’t much help with my daughter and granddaughter.”

Slapped with three nasty surprises in one year was challenging for the women of this family. But along the way, there were some pleasant surprises as well. “I was just amazed at how much help there is out there in the community – how many resources there are like Hope Lives! and the Komen Foundation. And PVH has a patient navigator program that helps you find all the resources that are available to you. That’s just made a huge difference,” says Julie.

Another hidden surprise was the opportunity the diagnoses gave them to share their knowledge, and perhaps even prevent cancer, in future generations. Although the three do not share the BRCA1 or BRCA2 genes associated with breast cancer, as Mary Frances so astutely pointed out, cancer is pervasive throughout the family tree. “The doctors told us that the biggest person at risk is my daughter,” said Julie, but the boys could be at risk too.

“We’ve had a lot of pretty open dialogues.”

And their experience has also helped others in the community. “When Mom and I did the sculpture show a few weeks ago, there was a fellow sculptor there who said, ‘You’ve changed me forever.’ I tell my friends, get a mammogram because by the time you find a lump . . .” Her voice trails off.

She knows she was lucky. Her mother was lucky.

Her grandmother was lucky. They found their cancer in time. But you can’t always count on luck.

Prevention is the key.

In the end, the best surprise of all is that Julie and her family have also found lasting value in their experiences. Julie sums it up this way: “My first thought is that trials are actually a manifestation of our Heavenly Father’s love for us; when we endure trials, we learn and grow and even find joy. In the past three years, I have begun looking at challenges as opportunities rather than a punishment.

I ask myself, ‘What am I supposed to learn here?’

The other thought that I contemplate all the time is ‘Who ever said that life is for smooth sailing?’ It has been when I am sick that I most appreciate feeling well. It has been when I have fasted, that I appreciate the blessings of nourishment. It has been when I have contemplated not living that I most appreciate life and all that I have been blessed with.”

Lynn M. Dean is a Colorado writer and mother of three. Her work has won first place awards from the National Federation of Press Women, a Parenting Publications of America Award of Excellence, and Colorado Press Women.

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Mastectomy Procedures

By Kay Rios

James Dickinson, M.D., Northern Colorado Surgical Associates, P.C.

The word mastectomy can strike fear in the heart of even the most stalwart soul. But advances in technology and procedures have lessened the reasons for anxiety, offering options far from the devastation of decades past.

“I have never had a breast cancer patient who regretted removing her breast.” says Lisa Burton, M.D. at Surgical Associates of Greeley, P.C. “There is beautiful plastic surgery available and my patients are not usually reluctant to have the tissue gone. A mastectomy doesn’t have to be looked at as the worse thing in the world.”

Many women face that possibility on a regular basis. According to the American Cancer Society, over 190,000 American women will be diagnosed with breast cancer in 2009, accounting for more than one in four cancers diagnosed. But times have changed for treatment.

Those patients who had mastectomies years ago faced a long, hard recovery. “Historically a radical mastectomy involved the removal of all breast tissue and muscle tissue,” says James Dickinson, M.D., PC, at Northern Colorado Surgical Associates in Fort Collins. “The real pain and resulting disabilities came from removing the mus-

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cle tissue and doctors moved away from that and began performing modified radical mastectomies in the 70s.”

He explains, “In the 80s, we determined that a portion of the breast could be removed in certain circumstances and the survival rates were the same as a mastectomy, provided a woman completed radiation therapy as well. Recurrence of cancer in the breast occurs at a higher 15 percent rate in patients who have just a portion of the breast removed versus four percent in mastectomy patients. But now patients have some choice in which procedure they want performed.”

With efforts to reduce patients’ pain and allow for easier restoration, the newest techniques allow skin sparing and, in some cases, nipple sparing. The goal is to minimize any chance of recurrence while avoiding any loss of function and also maximizing options for reconstruction.

“The decision we have to make with removal is whether we take a portion of the breast or the entire breast. With a modified radical mastectomy, all fatty breast issue is removed but not the muscle,” Dickinson says.

Incisions are typically located so they are not visible in a low neckline or bathing suit. Through an incision in the shape of an ellipse, the surgeon removes a minimum amount of skin and tissue so that remaining healthy tissue can be used for possible reconstruction. Thin skin flaps are created carefully allowing maximum removal of diseased breast tissue. The skin over a neighboring pectoral

Lisa Burton, M.D., Surgical Associates of Greeley, P.C.

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In the past, mastectomy procedures were likely to remove breast and muscle tissue. Today’s mastectomy procedures leave muscle tissue largely untouched, and spare as much breast tissue, lymph nodes, and skin as possible, decreasing disfigurement and pain associated with the procedure.

muscle is then removed before the surgeon moves to the armpit area.

“I think people still associate mastectomies with muscle removal,” Burton says. “I have patients ask, ‘do you have to take that muscle like they did with my mother?’ We rarely have to take muscle and that is the thing that was particularly debilitating. We also take fewer lymph nodes. We know that taking a huge amount of lymph nodes doesn’t help and can lead to permanent lymphedema.” Lymphedema is a condition where localized fluid is retained, causing tissue swelling. Tissues with lymphedema have a greater risk of infection.

Managing the lymph nodes also caters to less unnecessary removal of tissue in the armpit area.

“If cancer is going to spread from your breast to your lymph nodes, it moves in an orderly fashion,” Burton says. “It goes to the sentinel node first.

These days, we try to remove only a few sentinel lymph nodes.”

She adds, “In the old days, we took a large number of lymph nodes out of every patient, but we now know most of these will not have cancer.

Only about 40 percent of our patients have cancer in their lymph nodes. So women do not need to have a lot of lymph node tissue removed.”

Reconstruction can also be accomplished at the same time as the mastectomy. “Previously, women had a mastectomy in one surgery and plastic surgery in another,” she says. “We now think it’s safe to do both at once. Around 90 to 95 percent of my patients do their reconstruction at the same time as the mastectomy.”

That is, of course, personal option, Dickinson says. “With a mastectomy, a woman can choose to have or not have reconstruction. Frequently

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women are surprised at how little pain there is from a mastectomy. Much of the pain that occurs is part of the reconstruction process. That comes from stretching the muscle tissue or putting in expanders.”

Most patients, Burton says, opt for reconstruction. “Most women don’t choose to live flat-chested. Most of my patients meet with the plastic surgeon immediately so they can hear their options.”

Recent changes help prepare the area for reconstruction, Dickinson says. “We can leave more skin to allow for better reconstruction. Smaller incisions can be filled in with an implant or the patient’s own tissue. With the skin sparing techniques, implants are easier to do and usually less debilitating.”

Dickinson says that nipple sparing is also possible. “That is controversial, however. There’s an ongoing discussion as to how beneficial that is both from a cosmetic standpoint and an oncologic standpoint.”

“Leaving the nipple is controversial because most breast cancer starts in the ducts,” Burton adds. “Theoretically from a cancer standpoint, all the ducts converge under the nipple so we might be leaving some duct tissue under the nipple. We try to get all the duct tissue off the backside of the nipple and then we follow the patient very closely.

It’s also a harder surgery to do and we don’t offer that to many patients.”

Implants are part of the reconstruction option, Burton says, adding that silicone implants are back in use. “Silicone implants are far superior to saline.

Saline implants have a more artificial feel to them and silicone looks and feels better.”

While much of the surgical approaches remain the same as in the past decade, there are advances in diagnostics. “One is the digital mammography and another is the breast MRI. Digital mammograms are especially good for women under 50 who have dense breast tissue,” Burton says.

“The breast MRIs provide a deeper look at the breast tissue. They are especially nice for women who have a diagnosis of breast cancer because they help us determine the right approach for the operation. We can decide if we can save the breast or not,” she explains.

“When we do MRIs before surgery, we can see other cancers that wouldn’t show in a mammogram. Fifteen percent of the time, I find more cancer.”

Dickinson says that new tests also determine genetic markers. “We can test for specific genes known to cause breast cancer. Genetic studies allow us to predict the future because we know some of the genes that predispose an individual to breast cancer.”

He cautions, however, that “we know some of the tumors that cause breast cancer but we don’t know all of them.”

Dickinson’s prediction for the future is that more genetic markers will become known. “That will not only allow us to know who might get cancer but it can help us with targeted therapy. We’ll be able to identify a target for chemo to go after much like a smart bomb. We’ll be able to direct it at a particular protein.”

In the meantime, Dickinson urges regular screening and self-exams on a regular basis.

Kay Rios, Ph.D., is a freelance writer in Fort Collins.

She is currently at work on a collection of creative non-fiction and a mystery novel.

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Latest Chemotherapy Protocols for Breast Cancer

By Angeline Grenz

“Instead of taking a shotgun approach to treating cancer, we are narrowing down certain patients that won’t respond well to certain drugs,” says Samual Shelanski, M.D., oncologist with Greeley Medical Clinic, “We are moving away from disease-specific treatment to patient-specific treatment with a molecular diagnosis of the disease.”

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linical trials and research are pointing to a new trend in cancer treatment: individualized care. Chemotherapy is no different. As advances are made, the goal is to allow doctors the ability to know who needs treatment and what treatments will benefit the patient based on their genetic makeup.

“Individual care really is where things are going and where the real challenges are,” according to Samuel Shelanski, M.D., oncologist with Greeley Medical Clinic, based at McKee Medical Center in Loveland. This is due to new technology that has allowed doctors to narrow down mutations in genes that affect the success of many treatments.

“Instead of taking a shotgun approach to treating cancer, we are narrowing down certain patients that won’t respond well to certain drugs,” he says, “we are moving away from disease-specific treatment to patient-specific treatment with a molecular diagnosis of the disease. This will lead

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to more effective treatment and a better ability to identify people who need to be treated. Today, many are being treated ineffectively.”

In breast cancer specifically, certain types have long been known to be more receptive to hormone treatment than chemotherapy and vice versa. Breast cancers that are estrogen and progesterone receptor-positive often respond well to hormone therapies and typically have a better prognosis. These therapies generally block estrogen from the receptors. But some of these cancers should still be treated with chemotherapy. The trick is figuring out which cancers need chemo, and which can be treated with hormonal therapies.

A genomic test, called Oncotype DX, which follows American Society of Clinical Oncology and National Comprehensive Cancer Network guidelines, can provide this information. “This is one way for us to identify if a tumor is low, moderate, or high risk in a patient,” says Regina Brown,

M.D., oncologist with Cancer Center of the Rockies.

Hormone receptor-negative breast cancer can be trickier to treat. Generally, this cancer is treated with a chemotherapy regimen. In addition, 20 to 30 percent of breast cancers make too much of the protein HER2, leading to the increased growth of cancer cells. These cancers used to have a worse prognosis, but medicine that specifically targets the HER2-positive cells has improved outcomes, which has created a standard of accurately measuring all breast cancer’s HER2 status prior to treatment.

“How we think about cancer is changing as we know more about each individual tumor and how it may respond to different therapies based on those characteristics,” says Dr. Brown. “Tailoring therapy based on the individual is where we want to go. There are so many different factors in breast cancer. One size [treatment] does not fit all.”

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“I am a big proponent of clinical trials,” she adds, “This is how our field advances.” Dr. Brown calls the job oncologists do as “mop up duty. We make sure the things you can’t see never have the opportunity to be seen. And that is always evolving because of the clinical trials.”

A clinical trial can take years to complete, but can, at times, revolutionize the way oncologist treat their patients. One such ongoing trial is the investigation into the chemotherapy drug Adriamycin. The study, according to Dr. Shelanski, will determine just how effective this mainstay chemotherapy drug is when treating patients with certain gene abnormalities. If the research proves correct, it may determine that there is a segment of breast cancer patients that gain no benefit from Adriamycin.

The result? “Adriamycin is potentially toxic to the heart and contributes to nausea, hair loss, and other side effects of chemotherapy. This knowledge could make a significant difference in people’s ability to tolerate chemotherapy,” he finishes.

“These studies,” adds Dr. Brown, “will be able to tell us who needs Adriamycin based on the biology of that tumor.”

“In breast cancer, we have already made great strides in who should be treated,” says Dr. Shelanski. “But this is an always-evolving field.”

For instance, previously, patients with a small tumor (less than one centimeter in diameter) that is node-negative (has not spread to lymph nodes) were thought to receive minimal benefit from chemotherapy. With recent developments, “now we can determine that for some patients with the same risk factors, chemotherapy is, in fact, an important tool.”

“What it all comes down to is learning to look at treatment as patient-specific to determine who should be treated and with what treatment,” says Dr. Shelanski. He adds that though in the past five years there has not been dramatic changes in how breast cancer is treated, “five years from now, because of current studies, hopefully there will be significant differences.”

Advancements have also been made in the medications that support a patient as they are going through chemotherapy. Anti-nausea mediations “are getting better and better all the time,” says Brown. “I know for a fact that my patients who remain more active do better and supportive medications allow them to be more active.”

Finally, changes are being made in the way chemotherapy is administered. Typically, chemotherapy is done every three weeks for six months.

Now “dose dense” chemotherapy can be given to a patient, if their doctor deems they can handle the effects of the higher dosage, every two weeks and wrap up after about four and a half months.

“This enables us to help stop the amount of time good cells are down and speed recovery time.”

An oncologist’s challenge is always to evaluate the latest information and determine when to embrace new changes and where to continue a conservative approach to treating their patients.

Regardless, information garnered from breast cancer research has practical benefits for all cancers.

“Breast cancer,” concludes Dr. Brown, “is leading the way in research. Findings can be applied in principle to all other cancers.”

Angeline Grenz is editor for Style Magazine.

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Dana is fearless in this fun and funky outfit. She is sporting a Komarov fitted tunic top in a great print with shades of brown and green, $168, over Isabel black leggings with rhinestone trim, $69. Accenting her outfit are artistic metal copper and bronze necklace and earrings.

Courtesy of Lizzy’s at Julian’s in Fort Collins.

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Dana Dunlap I was diagnosed with Stage III breast cancer on May 18, 2007. At 37 years of age, I never imagined in my wildest dreams I would hear the word cancer. It literally rocked me to my core! It was such a crushing and devastating feeling.

I had 16 treatments of chemotherapy. The last four is where the battle became an all-out war. The chemo was extremely harsh and I felt I couldn’t bear one more moment. I started my chemo at a weight of 112 pounds and at my last treatment was down to 92 pounds. It seemed at times more than I could handle, but it was at my weakest point in my life that God revealed His strength, power, and peace to my soul. I realized for the first time in my life that I was not in control, but my Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, had me in the palm of His hands! When I didn’t think I could make it one more day, it was the prayers of so many that sustained me physically, mentally, and spiritually! I experienced firsthand the power of prayer.

I had many dear and special friends to give me support and encouragement throughout the battle with cancer, but God sent me four incredible women who ministered to me in all areas of my life. My mother, Bonnie, who lived in Wisconsin at the time, lifted me up with her wisdom and encouragement. My mother-in-law, Marlene, has a servant’s heart and took care of me while my husband worked. Lastly, there were my two dear friends, Terri and Colleen, who prayed over me every time I went to chemo. I believe these four women were sent to me by God, and I love them all dearly. I know in my heart that I could not have made it through this battle without Jesus Christ as my Savior. He was my ultimate strength. I realized, because He loves me so much, He desired to go to the front of the battle lines for me. I give God all the glory for His grace and mercy in my life!

I also want to thank my husband and sons for being such incredible sources of strength and love. They literally loved me back to health!

Lastly, it is my heart’s passion to be an encouragement to anyone going through this process to provide referrals, hope, and strength when needed. You may read my story from start to finish at www.danapsalm91.blogspot.com. Life is worth celebrating!

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Jessica looks playful in this brown bolero jacket

by Rebekah, $65, and fun green print dress with gathered bodice

by Donna, $150. Green and bronze necklace and earring set finish the look, $32. Courtesy of Lizzy’s At Julian’s in Fort Collins.

Jessica Adair I was diagnosed in June 2008. I was shocked and confused, but all my doctors seemed more confused than I was. No one could explain why a 28-year-old had breast cancer.

During treatment, I had all the common symptoms. I lost my hair, had terrible nausea that the drugs couldn’t seem to keep in check, muscle and joint pain, and had a very low white blood cell count. Treatment was emotionally draining as well, since I was quarantined a lot because of my low blood count.

My boyfriend had just moved in when I found out I had cancer. I was worried about losing him because of the mastectomy. He proposed for Valentine’s Day, which was about three weeks after my final procedure.

It has been a mixed blessing that my daughter was too young to understand that mommy was sick. She was just 20 months when I was diagnosed. It was comforting that I didn’t have to explain what cancer was and calm her fears, but that made it even harder to explain why mommy was too tired or sick to play with her or pick her up.

Now I am working at living a healthier life. It was never unhealthy, but of course a person can always exercise more and eat better.

My inspiration came in the realization that life in general has gone on despite my cancer.

And my life will, too. I am looking forward to my wedding and enjoying life with my future husband and children.

As cheesy as it sounds, I found strength in my friends and family; the people that know me best and are still with me because of that, not in spite of it.

The hardest part now is dealing with people’s curiosity. They think they are being concerned and supportive when they ask about cancer, but it is hard to have every conversation revolve around a disease that no one ever wanted to deal with. It is easier now that my hair has grown back; it is not obvious unless people already know.

Everyone quotes a statistic that one in three people will have cancer in their lifetime. The number seems too large, yet everyone I meet comments that they remember when their aunt, mother, sister, etc. had breast cancer.

Elana Serrano I was diagnosed with breast cancer March 2008 at the age of 32. I was attending Front Range Community College and it was during Spring Break. My reaction to finding out was disbelief. I could not believe this was happening to me. I had just had my youngest daughter, who was still being nursed. I literally felt my life flash before my eyes. I knew nothing about breast cancer at the time and felt my life was over. I thought a lot about my children and what their lives would be without me. It was the most horrible feeling that I had felt in my life. It still makes me cry when I remember.

My whole outlook in life has completely changed. My husband and my children are the utmost priority to me. It is not that they were not before, but after going through breast cancer and treatments, I found they were the only ones who really saw what I was going through.

Everyone else just had a window view of how it was impacting us.

I found that many people I thought were my friends and would be by my side were not. I feel that breast cancer helped me to see who were my friends and those who were not. Those who were not would avoid me and, at times, I felt bitter and wondered why this happened to me. But over the course of my treatments, I realized that many people who know nothing about cancer are ignorant to it. I feel that I fit into that category of people at one time until it happened to me. Because cancer happens to “other people.”

This journey has definitely taught me the true value of my faith. As I felt that my faith in God was tested, I acquired the concept that “those things that do not kill us serve to make us stronger.” I feel that breast cancer empowered me to get through whatever life has waiting for me.

My husband and my children are, and always will be, my inspiration. My husband because he always shines through for me, even when I didn’t seem so shiny. My children were my biggest inspiration, especially my two youngest children, because I felt I needed to live through breast cancer with every bit of strength in me. I could not just lie down and give up when I had children who needed their mom. Their lives had just begun and they still needed me to help them see through it.

My husband’s boss, Jeremy Rubin, found out his wife had been diagnosed with breast cancer the year before I was diagnosed. I feel that Jeremy was of great support to my husband while I was going through my treatments. That, in turn, helped my husband to help me.

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Elana looks fabulous in this Maxima peacock print pleated jacket with flair sleeves, $99, and Jostar black tank dress, $45. The outfit is complete with a gold glass bead necklace, $29. Courtesy of Lizzy’s At Julian’s in Fort Collins.

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JoAnn is ready for a night out with girlfriends in this relaxed ensemble. She is wearing a stitched detail denim jacket in aviator blue, $79, silky cotton tailored shirt in optic white, $79, and charcoal wash Platinum boot cut jeans, $69. A sculpted silver stretch belt, $68, basket weave scarf in shades of blue, $45, lagoon blue watercolor pendant, $44, drop earrings, $18, and passionate beads coil bracelet, $34, finish the look. Courtesy of Chico’s in Fort Collins.

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JoAnn Ball We had just moved from Fort Collins to Cottage Grove, MN at the end of May 2000. It was June 30, the week before the Fourth of July, and we were going camping with a group of friends. While taking a shower, I was doing a self-breast exam and found what I thought was a lump. During the weekend, I shared what I found with my husband, Bob, and our friends. I said I really wasn’t sure if it was a lump. After all, I had just had a mammogram in December 1999. Bob and my girlfriends, Michelle and Vicky, wanted to feel it but it seemed to move around and was very small. I had no history of breast cancer in my family (at least that is what I thought). My mother was of the generation that did not talk about those issues.

We returned home on July 5; I made an appointment with my family doctor. On July 6, I went to the doctor and on the same day, she sent me to St. Joseph’s Hospital in St. Paul, MN for a mammogram.

The mammogram showed nothing, so they did an ultrasound and found a small mass and tried to aspirate it. I went back to my family doctor and she said the radiologist suggested that we monitor the lump. I was not comfortable with that, especially since they were not able to get anything out to test when they aspirated it.

My doctor and I made the decision to look into it further and she sent me to a general surgeon. On July 13, I went to see Dr. England in St. Paul and we scheduled a biopsy for July 25. On the morning of the biopsy, I found out that my uncle had passed away. I asked Dr. England if I would be able to travel to the funeral in New Jersey. He gave me the okay. Two days later, I was on my way to the airport but had still not heard from Dr. England regarding my biopsy results, so I changed the outgoing message on our answering machine at home and specifically asked Dr. England to call me on my cell phone.

Just before we arrived in St. Paul, I received a call on my phone.

Dr. England wanted to meet my husband and I when I returned from my trip. I knew then the results weren’t good, so before we hung up the phone I flat out asked him if it was cancer and he had to be honest with me. At that moment my heart dropped. I called Bob because he was staying home with our five-year-son, Tony, and told him that I had been diagnosed with breast cancer, Infiltrating Ductal Carcinoma in my right breast. We were in shock, but I knew I had to forget my problems and get on that airplane to support my aunt, cousins, and their families.

When I returned home, Bob and I went to see Dr. England. I was very nervous but knew I had to face the facts and find out what the next step would be. Dr. England gave me a list of doctors and suggested I interview oncologists and plastic surgeons. I needed to find out my options. I was told I had a choice of a mastectomy or a lumpectomy. With a mastectomy, I would only have to go through chemotherapy if my lymph nodes were absent of cancer. But if I chose a lumpectomy, I would have to go through both chemotherapy and radiation. I really could not imagine driving 30 miles one way in January and February five days a week for six to eight weeks for radiation treatment.

After meeting with oncologist after oncologist and plastic surgeon after plastic surgeon, I had to make a decision. After all, in my mind, the lump was growing and spreading all over my body.

I chose to have a bilateral mastectomy with breast reconstruction.

It was a seven and a half hour surgery. The initial tumor was less than 1.5 centimeter in diameter, but thank goodness I chose to have the entire breast removed because when they biopsied the breast tissue after my mastectomy, they found cancer in another area of the same breast. There were no cancer cells present in my left breast.

If I could share one thing with women and men alike it would be: self breast exams save lives! Know your body and if you find something, follow through. If the doctors want to monitor a lump and have not removed anything from that lump to biopsy, insist on a biopsy.

I had a very aggressive, fast-growing cancer. Go with your gut. If I would have listen to the radiologist, the cancer would have continued to grow and spread.

I chose a very aggressive treatment and, as a result of my decision to have a bilateral mastectomy with immediate breast reconstruction, both my rotator cuff muscles are partially torn – but I am alive!

My son was five years old when I was diagnosed with cancer, so I had to find my strength from within myself. I had a five year old that needed his mother and I was going to live.

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Julie Jones My first reaction was thinking that “I can’t be sick, I’m all that my children have.” Every morning my pillow was wet with tears . . . sometimes I couldn’t remember what exactly I was thinking, but my pillow was still wet.

Later, I was excited to go to each appointment because I was ready to “take care of it.” I read and had lists of questions for each doctor each time we met.

I’m a spiritual person and listened to the inner voice. I found out it was important to fight for the treatment I felt was right for me. I believe that standing my ground has prevented me from getting cancer one or two more times (later pathology revealed precancerous cells in my unaffected breast and surgery revealed more extensive cancer than previously believed).

My inspiration is my family, friends, and faith – they were all incredibly amazing and profoundly helpful in every aspect.

Marilyn cuts a dramatic silhouette in black and plum with a Cut Loose Tencel quilted zip front vest, $90, and ¾ sleeve black tee, $45, over Kathleen Haggerty straight leg rayon pants, $110. An abalone cuff watch, $50, Brighton rope necklace of silver beads and abalone, $82, matching earrings, $15, and plum straw hat, $18, add a little fun. Courtesy of Cloz in Loveland.

Julie looks sophisticated in this laid back outfit of Tencel button-front ¾ sleeve shirt in cedar, $70, over loose asymmetrical hem flip skirt in chocolate, $70, both by Cut Loose, and wide soft leather belt by Leatherock, $140. Stretch charm bracelets, $10, finish in casual style.

Courtesy of Cloz in Loveland.

Marilyn Jones Our family got “whammed” by breast cancer starting in late 2007 when our daughter was diagnosed with breast cancer. I was so scared and worried. Immediately, I tried to read and learn everything I could find about breast cancer. Watching and supporting our daughter as she went through her surgeries and seeing her cope so well gave me great inspiration. When I was diagnosed in October 2008, I thought, “I can do this” and felt calm and prepared to make treatment decisions. Two weeks after my diagnosis, my 89-year-old mother was also diagnosed. Wow, three generations of our family in one year!

Family and friends have been and continue to be very supportive.

My husband went to every appointment with me – he was great!

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Pat looks great in this stylish outfit of stretch knit jacket, $88, and tank, $44, both in aviator blue, chocolate knit straight leg pants, $62, and silk paisley print scarf, $59. A peacock pin, $39, and hammered metal belt with crystal inserts, $64, add the right amount of texture.

Courtesy of Chico’s in Fort Collins.

Jennifer is ready for a romantic night out in this watermelon drape front taffeta halter dress with bubble hem, $135.

Courtesy of David’s Bridal in Fort Collins.

Patricia Moore I was diagnosed September 26, 2007. It felt like the roof collapsed. I was terrified. I couldn’t say, “I have breast cancer” when calling for appointments, etc., without breaking into tears.

A bilateral mastectomy has forever changed my body.

Even though life goes on, there’s always a fear of recurrence lurking in the back of my mind. Once treatments were over and my strength returned, I learned life goes on. You appreciate the small things around you. I try to be more outgoing and willing to help others going through similar experiences.

Friends and family offered support and help when I needed it. The Hope Lives!, Sisters of Hope members were a great support group, answering questions and offering support before and after surgery.

There are many sources for help and support in the community. The doctors and nurses provided help and guidance during a very trying time and their support was greatly appreciated.

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Jennifer Entner I was diagnosed April 2001. I felt shock, disbelief, and utter despair. I was 32 years old with a five-year-old son and a 10-month-old daughter.

All I could think about was the possibility of them growing up without a mother.

It took several years for my immunity to recover and for my energy and stamina to recover as well. Emotionally, I am not sure I have dealt with my experience completely. I completed my treatment and moved on, trying not to dwell on the memory. I have come through the experience with a greater ability to not sweat the small stuff. I don’t get upset about things as easily because, as I always tell my husband, “it’s not cancer.” My spirituality deepened during my experience.

My children really were my inspiration and strength. I endured treatment and survived for them. At one point, I felt so bad that I told my mom if it weren’t for my kids I would give up. I also found inspiration and home in Lance Armstrong’s book It’s Not About the Bike. It truly recharged the fight in me and encouraged me to strive for not only survival, but to rebuild my physical and emotion health afterwards.

In 2007, my sister and I completed the Danskin Triathalon together: a half-mile swim, 12-mile bike ride, and 3-mile run. It was an amazing experience.

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Angela King, M.D. Four years ago I was granted membership into a club I never wanted to join. I certainly did not want to be one of its youngest members as well.

You might expect that as a physician, due to my education, I was in a different position. On the day I learned I had cancer, I still had another surgery to perform.

So I went into doctor mode; as physicians, we are taught to keep our emotions in check. I gave my full concentration to the task at hand and pushed the emotional aspect of my hours-old diagnosis away.

After surgery I was tending my patient in recovery when a colleague asked me, “What’s up?” I took a deep breath and tried to deadpan it. “Apparently, I have breast cancer . . . I’m gonna need a couple days off.” My joke fell flat. As I heard my own voice say it out loud for the first time, I felt sick. One word hammered inside of me . . . INVASIVE. I lost it, but not until I got home.

This was not on my agenda. I was the picture of health. Thirty-six years old, I ate wisely, exercised regularly, and never smoked. But here I was. In the blink of an eye, I went from a full-time practicing physician who deals with women’s health every day to being a full-time cancer patient.

Going through the process of surgery and chemotherapy was truly a lifechanging experience on many levels. As a physician, I knew the vocabulary and the statistics associated with the disease. Median age for breast cancer is 61; very few breast cancers are diagnosed under the age of 40. But diagnosed at 36, I was just as scared as anyone diagnosed with a disease that theoretically could take their life.

I gained empathy for patients and their families that I never had before. When it happened to me, it was virtually impossible to retain details and information; it all sounded unintelligible, as if Charlie Brown’s teacher was talking to me. It was all just noise.

Now, in my office, I am absolutely sure to do certain things for my patients: No one hears a diagnosis of cancer over the phone. I make certain my patient leaves my office with a piece of paper in her hand, including a copy of the pathology report and a list of appointments I have already made for her with the appropriate surgeons and oncologists.

I know from personal experience how complicated it is to maneuver through the system. I’m a physician specializing in women’s healthcare; I was able to pick and choose who took care of me. I don’t know how someone not familiar with the medical community does this. Not to mention manage the cost of diagnosis and treatment.

Because of this realization, I have spearheaded an annual clinic for uninsured and underinsured women of Larimer County to receive a clinical breast exam by a medical provider and a screening mammogram at no cost. Due to the generous funding of the Women’s Wellness Connection through Salud Clinic, and the Susan G. Komen for the Cure foundation through the Women’s Resource Center, any further diagnostics or treatment is also covered. Advanced Medical Imaging has generously contributed their time to read the screening mammograms each year. We have diagnosed two women with early stage breast cancer through this program.

I say often and loudly, “No one is off the hook.” It amazes me how many women think that they are immune to breast cancer because it doesn’t run in their family. Listen up ladies, it doesn’t matter!! I am living proof that it does save lives, so do your self-exams!

It is never too early to be proactive. I know that early detection, and going into it healthy, improved my odds of survival. Today, I embrace a healthy lifestyle with more passion than ever before. I do not take my health for granted for one second.

There are many things that we cannot control, but making a choice for a healthy lifestyle is the best way to prevent and improve a medical problem.

The best way to sum it up is to say, “Cancer gave me clarity.” It is much easier to see what is important. I am also much less likely to get upset about things that I cannot control.

Cancer turned my world upside down. But it also gave me the kick in the pants I needed to make some really good changes in my life. I have come to deeply appreciate the people in my life – family, friends, colleagues, and patients. But I have also learned to set healthy boundaries in those relationships. I surround myself with positive people and do not invest time or energy in relationships that do not bring me joy.

The entire experience was a huge catalyst for personal growth. Overall, I have more confidence in myself. I’m comfortable in my own scarred, wrinkled skin. I’m much more patient than ever before.

I was so fortunate; there was not just one single source of inspiration or strength for me, but many. I had caring people all around me. I was astonished and humbled by the cards, phone calls, and emails I received; even people I knew only marginally reached out.

How can I sufficiently express my deep appreciation to so many? I wish I could write it across the sky: “Thank you, to all my friends, co-workers, caregivers, and patients for your loving support.”

Finally, to my mom, Mary Hasl, and Braun Mincher . . . you were always there when I needed you. You have my never-ending gratitude.

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Angela is stunning in this simple black halter dress with crystal broach, made of chiffon with a flirty full skirt made for dancing, $89.

Courtesy of David’s Bridal in Fort Collins.

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Jan Rachid It was late last October (2008) when my doctor called, told me I had breast cancer, and made recommendations for an oncologist and surgeon - immediately my mind went into what my husband affectionately calls “full duplex mode” (the ability to listen fully to others while simultaneously verbalizing my own thoughts). I listened carefully and wrote diligently all pertinent information.

All the while I was saying to myself “Is this woman nuts? Cancer. Breast cancer!

How do I get rid of it? Am I going to die?” That moment and the days that followed were the worst of my emotional journey this past year. Diagnosis without knowledge is debilitating. As weeks past, I gained information. Information gave me power. Power gave me strength.

With my husband in Egypt visiting his 91-year-old mother at the time of that phone conversation, my son stepped into the role of primary support. In the following days his presence, words, and love were a great gift. Without cancer, I might not have had the opportunity to see the depth of his emotional maturity. Although that was one of the most difficult times of my life, I would never change it. I cherish the memory of his companionship during those days of waiting to see doctors. I learned something about him then – this mother now knows that when this young adult man has his own family, they will always be able to count on him in tough times.

This journey has affected me in so many ways. I appreciate each moment of every day (that includes the ups and downs; the simple things of life). I live most of the time in the present. I have quit investing myself in the unimportant and the unchangeable events. I celebrate my morning (coffee with cream, baseball games with my brother and sister-in-law, my garden, and absolutely every moment spent with my husband and kids). I often buffer myself against cynical thoughts and folks who see the glass of life half empty. I am drawn to those (struggling or not) who see this life with that glass at least half full.

I have learned much from and been inspired by my daughter. I admire her and use her as a role model for how to handle adversity with grace and strength. In her 35 years of life, she has survived three open-heart surgeries and a severe stroke. She sees that glass of life as overflowing. My best friend of 40 years dropped her life in Montana and came to Colorado to be with our family one day after I called and said, “Please come.” She stayed during the tough times and nurtured us all. Most importantly, my husband of 38 years has been with me every step of the way. He’s cleaned house, cooked, supported, and loved me. He has been my rock.

Two final thoughts: first, mammograms absolutely save lives. My surgeon reported that the lump in my breast would not have been found through examination . . . even by her. With mammography, my cancer was found early.

Women must get regular mammograms. It is important for all of us to work toward that end as we struggle with issues of healthcare reform. Secondly, Hope Lives! has been a blessing to me. Through the services of this organization, I was able to receive complementary acupuncture treatments that helped with pain and minimized side effects of treatment. But Hope Lives! did much more than pay for services. This organization came into my life at a time when my family and I were worn down from the process. These strangers lifted me up, said they cared, and gave me the strength to say, “I can do this.” I am so very grateful to Lydia, the staff, and the volunteers from Hope Lives! for that gift.

Jan can go from the office to dinner out in this beautiful outfit. She is wearing a stunning woven long jacket with interior leopard print by Alberto Makali, $282, and Necessitees black stretch tee, $30, and black pants, $78. A Judy Barbour coral necklace and earring set, $300, finish the outfit. Courtesy of Designs Boutique in Fort Collins.

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Rose Marie Studer Like anyone else who has experienced breast cancer, I was in shock each time a new diagnosis was given. This kind of information doesn’t have any less of an impact, no matter how many times you hear it. I am a three-time cancer survivor. My first wake-up call was when I was first diagnosed with thyroid cancer at age 19. The second was early stage uterine cancer at age 35. Finally, very early stage breast cancer at age 38.

At 19, I was newly married and I had a six-month-old baby. I was given six months to live. I was terrified and disillusioned with this diagnosis. But I decided there was no way I was going to leave my precious six-month-old son, and it was my intention to beat this thing.

At ages 35 and 38, I was a single mom with two children. They were my inspiration to move through this “wake up call” again and have been two of my best teachers in life when I have paid attention and allowed myself to receive their unique and creative ways of teaching me.

In 2000, while on my lunch break from work, I was rear ended by a semi truck and survived.

While still in physical therapy a year later, I completely lost feeling in my left side one day and was rushed to the hospital for an emergency MRI. At the top of my spine, they found a tumor 5.5 inches long across 95 percent of my spinal cord. I had emergency surgery. This time the tumor was non-malignant, but I was completely paralyzed and told I had little chance of ever walking or talking again.

This time it was not cancer, just a tumor. Why had the stages of cancer lessened each time and this time there was no cancer? Something had changed. I was so grateful I didn’t have cancer that it took a few days for the reality of my current situation to hit. I couldn’t walk or talk or have control over moving anything at all. What I could do was cry and pray. And that’s exactly what I did.

I began praying all the prayers I had learned from all the churches I had attended, and then there were no more prayers left to be prayed. The only company I had was the noise of my pulse, which I could actually hear running up and down my spine. I realized no one was going to help me out continued on p. 48

Rose Marie looks sensational in this hip fall outfit of alloy metallic biker jacket, $139, silky cotton tailored shirt in purple, $79, and black ponte knit five-pocket pants, $79. Accents include the reversible paisley beaded wrap, $79, silver hoop earrings, $22, multi-strand silver bead necklace, $48, crystal and silver bangle bracelets, $78, black beaded cuff bracelet, and silver cuff watch, $58. Courtesy of Chico’s in Fort Collins.

Anne Cagen I was diagnosed in June 2004. After my biopsy, I had to wait an entire weekend to hear the results. Deep down in my heart, I knew it would be positive (for cancer), but I still had hope that I would be wrong. Fortunately, we had a lot of things planned for the weekend, including a concert at Red Rocks, which was a great distraction. While at work the following Monday afternoon, I got a call from my physician who told me “you have breast cancer.” I was freaked! I cried and felt terrified.

My husband was very reassuring, telling me “we’ll get through this.” I immediately went home to tell my children the bad news, which was very difficult.

After going through surgery, and during chemotherapy, I was physically drained.

I had no energy and was often in pain. I felt really ugly after my mastectomy and losing all my hair. During treatment, I went through a program called “Look Good, Feel Good” which had made an impact on me to this day. I take more pride in my appearance. Overall, I take better care of myself by being more conscientious about working out and eating healthy foods. I have become a more gracious person, appreciating every day and being more aware of the positive and simple things in life. I make more of an effort to participate and pursue the things in life that bring me the most joy. I have become better at reaching out to people that I care about. Life is good!

My friends and family showered me with love and attention while going through treatment. They gave me the strength to endure everything with a more hopeful attitude. I appreciate them all and love them very much. Also, my daughter brought home a little kitten, Lucy Lu, while I was going through chemo. She was so comforting – to this day she still lays on my chest and purrs.

I read whatever I could lay my hands on that would give me hope and inspiration, including Lance Armstrong’s book It’s Not About the Bike, which was very empowering.

I am also thankful for Hope Lives! During treatment, Merry Maids came to my house and made my house sparkle when I did not have the energy to push a vacuum or mop the floors. Thank you, Hope Lives!, for all you do!

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Anne shows off her creative side in this artistic ensemble. Her outfit starts with a Boomba Couture sheer black and white blouse with artistic asymmetrical drape, $146, and Joseph Ribkoff sleeveless stretch black top, $82, over black flowing wide leg pants, also by Boomba Couture, $146. Silver and gold choker, $199, and drop earrings, $79, made in Spain, complete the outfit. Courtesy of Designs Boutique in Fort Collins.

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Jeanne is ready for a day at the office in this zebra print knit jacket, $99, and chocolate traveler’s knit tank, $44, and wide leg pant, $68.

To finish the look, a leather and hammered metal slouch belt, $58, multi-stone bib necklace, $58, beaded stretch bracelets, $20, metallic leather watch, $58, and beaded cluster wire earrings, $24.

Courtesy of Chico’s in Fort Collins.

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Jeanne Brien I received my diagnosis of breast cancer on Friday, August 8, 2008 at work at 5:00 p.m. Although I had prepared myself for the diagnosis since the day I found my lump, I was nonetheless very upset and anxious about what would happen next. From the very beginning of my journey, the wait for the next step and what to do in what order drove me crazy. One thing I was never unsure about was that I wanted to have the offending body part removed as quickly as possible. As quickly as possible was three weeks later, which seemed like an eternity to me. A week after surgery, I was told I was a Stage IIB and happily informed my family, friends, and coworkers how fortunate I was to have caught it “in time.”

As a scientist, I eagerly embraced joining a clinical trial to play a tiny part in advancing treatment of this far too common disease. Six weeks or so post-surgery, during the scrutiny of my medical records to determine eligibility for the clinical trial, an error was discovered in my pathology report. The news was not good; I was told that I was in actuality a Stage IIIA. Had it not been for the clinical trial nurse who uncovered the error, of which neither my oncologist or myself had been notified, I would not have received the best treatment for my stage disease. Joy will forever be my guardian angel – I believe she saved my life. I struggle mightily, not with the fact that a mistake was made, but with the fact that the pathologist didn’t feel compelled to let me know. To have to tell everyone that I had advanced disease, after telling them I was still in the early stage, was by far the most difficult and negative experience in my journey.

Having cancer is such a challenging experience for the patient and everyone that supports them during the process. Chemotherapy, radiation, and complications sap your time, energy, appearance, and faith – I no longer trust my body in the least. Losing my hair was more painful than losing my breast. Self-confidence during treatment was in short supply.

I was very inspired by other cancer patients, including my friend and coworker (Mike), and actually looked forward to my sessions because I drew strength from my chemo-pals, Lynne and Kelly. Laughter is contagious and we always found something to crack up about. The Navigators program and several support groups were so important in getting the financial aspects worked out to lessen stress and worry. Through the course of treatment, medical staff were exceptionally caring and kind, and though I was definitely sick and tired of being tired, I never got sick due to the plethora of anti-nausea drugs prescribed. Chemotherapy was not nearly as bad as I expected it to be, and while burns were painful from radiation, the discomfort was short-lived.

I work for a company whose products include drugs that benefit cancer patients. There was no hesitation in letting my co-workers and management know my situation. I was amazed at how many people helped and supported me with hospital visits, meals, finances, walks, hats, ridesharing to and from Longmont so I wouldn’t have to drive, working with my appointment schedule, etc. and last but not least – the dozen-plus (including two women) who shaved their heads to make me feel more comfortable with my changing appearance. I was fortunate to be able to work most of the duration of treatment and I really feel that doing normal things and being surrounded by people who care makes you feel less sick.

My children, sisters, and mom helped take care of the house, pets, meals, and groceries, and chauffeured me to countless appointments, stayed through chemo sessions, and kept my spirits up during hospitalization and recovery from a serious infection. Help came from near and far, as well as in the form of flowers, phone calls, letters from family and friends, and a group of my daughter’s friends (boys and girls, many of whom I had never met) at MSU Bozeman wore pink every Wednesday in support. Also making things much easier for me were my neighbor who looked after the dog and a very special kid who mowed my lawn all summer “because it was the right thing to do.” Countless friends filled in all the gaps including flying my daughter home for surgery and back to Montana in time to start her sophomore year – truly one of the most thoughtful things anyone has ever done for me. I am very aware of how blessed I am.

Surviving cancer has made me a stronger person and I also take less for granted. Life is far too short to be wasted on insignificant things. I will continue the fight and I intend to beat the statistics. There are far worse things in life than breast cancer. It is so good to be alive!

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Kim Shore I was diagnosed on November 6, 12 years ago! Instantly, I thought of my kids. Being a single parent since my youngest was three, the thought of not being there for them and with them, was inconceivable.

When I saw the reaction on my son’s face when he found out . . . the fear and worry and he said, “what will happen to us?” I knew my fight was on and there was no question that I would have to beat this ugly disease.

My mom was my strength. She is the strongest person I know and would not let me get down or give up. She was and always has been there for me, the voice inside my head guiding me. My father and sisters where there for me as well, and God knows I couldn’t have done it without them. But it was my mother’s persistence, love, and companionship that got me through all of it.

Mark Twain wrote: “The fear of death follows from the fear of life. A man who lives fully is prepared to die at any time.” I wanted to live but I knew I needed to live fuller, better! I wanted to do so many things with my kids and for myself. I started taking more risks. My dear friend, Nancee, once gave me a birthday card that I hold dear. It said, “If you ask me how I want to live . . . I want to live LOUD!” I live pretty loud now. I moved to Fort Collins after my kids were grown and did not know one person. As a self-employed hairstylist, that is tough and kind of crazy. I realize that I am truly blessed because I have met some amazing people that have accepted, supported, and loved me here. I have been associated with some incredible people that have made such huge differences in people’s lives who have had cancer or are fighting for a cure.

Bekki Rainey, a fellow cosmetology instructor I worked with, came up with the idea to support education, for hairstylists and students, for the special needs of cancer patients. At the most esthetically challenging time in a women’s life, when she loses her hair and everything else that goes along with it, we as hairstylists are to be the “go to” people and need to have education and support. We saw a gap in our industry and did something about it. I was so lucky to be a part of that and meet incredible people in our industry that supported the idea: Modern Salon, Revlon Wings in New York, and most of all, the National Breast Cancer Coalition in Washington, D.C. They helped us influence legislation to support insurance companies covering the payment of wigs for cancer patients. The National Breast Cancer Coalition has the motto, “well behaved women rarely make history!” I feel that is so true when I look at those who are fighting for a cure and making changes.

People like Lydia and her staff at Style Magazine truly live up to that saying. And I want to be a part of that!

Sexy is the word for Kim’s royal blue twist front sleeveless dress

by Joseph Ribkoff, $179. The dress is brilliantly accented by this one-of-a-kind pearl and azurite necklace

by Judy Barbour, $1,050. Courtesy of Designs Boutique in Fort Collins.

Gayle sports casual elegance for work or play in this purple jacket with tie front, $214, silky brown tank, $88, wide leg brown pants, $106, all by Joseph Ribkoff. The amethyst necklace

by Linda Kelly, $70, and Pandora mix and match purple drop earrings, $119, complement the ensemble. Courtesy of Designs Boutique in Fort Collins.

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Gayle Wunder My journey began on August 11, 2008 with a routine yearly mammogram, with a followup of five hours of ultrasounds, four biopsies, and a diagnosis on August 25 of invasive cancer in both breasts, four malignant tumors, with one possible metastatic lymph node tumor. I was told that only two percent of breast cancer patients have been known to have cancer in both breasts concurrently and that this was an unusually aggressive case. I was stunned by the news, but I chose to begin my research after I first spent the Labor Day weekend in Denver celebrating my birthday at a Rockies game with my children and grandchildren.

On September 2, I began my search for opinions, answers, and treatments. I met with Fort Collins specialists, Denver specialists, the University of Colorado team, and had contact with both the Mayo Clinic and UCLA Hospital. All doctors agreed that a bilateral mastectomy was the only option. I was given many options for treatment due to my health history and auto immune condition, as well as the concern that I had been scheduled for a shoulder replacement on September 2 at CU Hospital. I underwent a battery of tests including two MRI’s, a nuclear bone scan, PET/CT scans, genetic BRCA, colonoscopy, dental, pulmonary, and rheumatology evaluations. During these tests bone cancer was believed to be a possibility.

I was assured that my strong faith, my wonderful support group of family and friends, my positive attitude, and my sense of humor would guide me through these challenging times. I quickly became an activist and made the decision to reach out to all those that I could, hoping that my positive and knowledgeable insights would make a difference in finding a cure, early detection, digital mammograms, the BRCA gene test, determining at-risk women, support systems, and fundraisers. For three months, I sent group emails to over 150 contacts regarding my own health updates, cancer writings, and inspirational readings.

My thanks to First Presbyterian and the many prayer groups throughout my network of friends. My thanks to my physicians, physical therapists, patient navigators, and therapy instructors. Because of them, I consider myself a survivor. My thanks especially to John Vanderveen for being by my side throughout.

My thanks for the joy my grandchildren have brought. My thanks to my family for the daily contacts. My thanks to so many special friends that provided food, rides, thoughtfulness, and fun. “Those who live in love live in God, and God lives in them” – 1 John 4:16.

My two younger sisters living in California have both been diagnosed with breast cancer since my diagnosis and each have had a mastectomy. They both pursued the high-risk program due to our family history. Donna’s cancer was found through an MRI and Linda’s through a digital mammogram that she requested soon after my surgery. My daughter, Kristin, is on a six-month checkup program alternating between the MRI with the digital mammogram. Both her grandmothers had double mastectomies.

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Bonnie McBride-Berry I discovered the mass in May 2008. My “official Doctor pronouncement” was given to me on Friday the Thirteenth. I was not in denial or shock. I said, “Ok, it is what it is. So where do we go from here? I have a life, family, friends, and things I need to do. I don’t have time for this bull****.” Dr Pettine laughed and we started planning.

I’ve been dealing with cancer in my family for over 40 years, so it wasn’t that big of a surprise. I lost my grandmother and favorite aunt to breast cancer. I also lost 11 friends in three years, so the question was never “Why me?” but, “Why NOT me?” Did I want to have cancer? No, but I did so it was a matter of moving forward with the most information and best doctors available.

I was diagnosed at Stage III. Pretty scary. We did four rounds of presurgery chemotherapy, trying to shrink these huge masses. Four rounds later, they were smaller. I had a lumpectomy. The dates of my first few procedures are funny to me, but absolutely unforgettable: diagnosed Friday the 13th; first chemo July 4; first surgery 9/11!! For Real!

I chose oncologist Dr. Regina Brown, and immediately told her that if I could physically qualify for any kind of clinical trial, to sign me up. I may be helped by furthering these trials, but it could also help others later. I qualified for a trial drug with Mayo Clinic. I’ve been taking those pills in combination with infusion chemo and all the regular cancer treatments. Infusion was nearly every week for six months and I started radiation shortly thereafter. Thirty-four radiation rounds now over.

This journey has not been without its pitfalls and complications, ups and downs. I’ve always loved roller coasters and boy, I’ve been on the ride of my life! I’ve joked through most of this. Crying only gives me a headache and brings me down. So, I stay positive and keep joking around.

With God in my life, and my stubborn Irish heritage, I’m not going without a good fight!

Early on, the drugs made me pretty sick for a while but we adjusted doses till we found a combo that mostly works and keeps me out of the bathroom. Normal food was a thing of the past and as of this printing, I’ve had four surgeries. But it does get better and I’m far healthier now.

My husband and I were getting a divorce when the cancer hit. We agreed to stay together for now for practical reasons. We still live in the same house, and sometimes it’s stressful, but it’s just the “downside of the roller coaster,” and this too shall pass.

Spiritually, I’ve always had an unshakeable faith. God did not “do this to me.” But I believe He did allow it to happen so I could become more focused, more centered, and along the way, share my story and perhaps inspire others who are struggling with cancer. This disease has put many wonderful people in my path. I met my beautiful friend, Diane Cahn, in the chemo room and we formed an immediate bond. She’s been diagnosed with cancer six different times. But like the Energizer Bunny, she keeps on going and I love her. She got me involved in Relay For Life of Fort Collins.

What a great experience! And my small involvement with Hope Lives! has been another great blessing.

My grown kids, Jennifer, Tyler, and Tiffany, are the loves of my life. My best bud lives in Casper and calls to check on me and tell me jokes. My friends here in “The Fort” and in Casper have kept me in their prayers and often brought food. I’m privileged to call The Subdudes personal friends, and their music has sung me to sleep at my surgeries and kept me dancing after.

To the many foundations who have worked with me, and of course all my great doctors and their staffs, I’m still here and fighting because of all of you.

Some people say I have lots of scars. I only see “lifelines!” God bless you all. See you at the Hope Lives! Gala.

Bonnie is dressed to the nines in this reversible quilted satin jacket in jewel tone print that reverses to a solid, $109, microfiber cami in fuchsia, $38, and Platinum denim slim leg jeans in black, $79. Her outfit is paired with a mixed metal and rhinestone belt, $72, beaded stretch bracelets, $32, silver cuff watch, $48, hammered silver necklace, $44, and silver hoop earrings, $20. Courtesy of Chico’s in Fort Collins.

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Shari Robinson On Christmas Day 2007, our entire family was over for the day and we had all been attempting to do pull ups on my son, Cole’s, pull up bar. Afterward, I felt a sharp pain in my right breast. That was when I felt a small lump.

The next day, I went to the Healing Arts Medical Clinic, where my doctor scheduled me for a mammogram and a biopsy. I had to wait until January 4 to have this done (thank goodness, as this worked out great for insurance purposes). Although nothing was visible on the mammogram, when I went in for the ultrasound, I could see a mass on my right breast. I just had a feeling that it wasn’t good news.

My husband, Josh, had offered to go with me, but I told him not to come. At that moment, I had wished he was there with me and I had not come to this appointment alone. Everyone kept reassuring me that it was probably nothing, but deep down I knew. Sure enough, it wasn’t good news. On Monday, I went in for a biopsy and they told me that I had DCIS. They scheduled me for a lumpectomy on Friday, January 12. The surgery went well but, unfortunately, they found that the cancer was invasive and wanted to do a mastectomy the following Friday. On that Monday, we met with my oncologist, Dr. Sam. He told me that the cancer could have spread to my bone, my liver, or my brain and that tomorrow we would do a PET scan to determine if the cancer had spread. We were all on pins and needles waiting for the results. Thankfully, it was negative. At this point, I decided I would survive this journey and do it with a positive attitude.

Let’s talk about the “C” word . . . cancer. The word you never want to hear. That dreaded phone call, “I’m sorry but you have cancer.” When I got that call, it was the most devastating thing that had ever happened to me. No one ever thinks they will get cancer; it is easy to believe that it only happens to other people. Or to think that only people who have been exposed to some toxic dumpsite or Agent Orange get cancer, but in reality anyone can get cancer. Cancer doesn’t discriminate and, although since my diagnosis I have often thought of living the rest of my life in a big plastic bubble, at this point it just doesn’t seem feasible.

But through cancer, I have changed and become a stronger person. I have learned that cancer isn’t all bad.

Cancer is a teacher. Cancer has taught me many things: that life is too short to sweat the small stuff; that without death, life would have no meaning; that material things really aren’t that important; to live each day; and to love unconditionally. My family and friends have definitely been my strength and my inspiration to live.

Shari looks gorgeous in this playful outfit of fun faux wrap top in a leopard and floral print

by Alberto Makali, $166, and Margaret M black split skirt, $115. The quilted pink Brighton purse, $98, and Pandora breast cancer necklace and earrings are wonderful accents.

Courtesy of Designs Boutique in Fort Collins.

Robin Trujillo A lump was discovered during my yearly exam in October and was confirmed to be breast cancer in November 2007. My first reaction was shock, “Did I hear correctly; this couldn’t be right.” I felt like I was in a fog. It took a bit before I could wrap my head around it all.

We stayed active and healthy prior to my diagnosis and we continued that regimen. Because of that, I feel this helped to conquer the physical pain that was caused by the chemo treatment faster. The pain was unbearable for a while, so a walk to the end of the block would be the extent of our exercise some days.

I feel this journey only increased the faith I already had. Emotionally, there were times I felt I could not continue on and it was during these times I relied heavily on my faith, family, and friends for support to get me to the next phase. I feel I could not have succeeded without all these components and I continue to feel blessed by it all.

In the beginning, I was a mess emotionally. I kept thinking it was a mistake, any day they would call me and tell me that. During my emotional down times, Dave was there at every turn to help me back up. In the beginning, it seemed like I couldn’t control the tears and fear no matter how strong spiritually I tried to be and didn’t want Dave or my family to know how out of control I felt.

I cannot express enough how my family, friends, doctors, nurses, and techs were always so uplifting, supportive, and caring. This was a big part of my recovery. My mom is my inspiration. She has overcome such adversity in her life and she always handles it with such strength and dignity. Dave continues to be my source of strength. During an exceptionally emotional day, I realized how difficult it was for him to sit back and not be able to “fix” this situation, and yet he gave and continues to give me the emotional, physical, and mental support I need. After the treatments are over, you become “afraid” of unknown pains or what ifs. Dave’s love and support keeps me feeling safe and grounded.

I was laid off from work towards the end of my treatments and the pain from the chemo was unbearable some days. If it was not for the support and wonderful people at Hope Lives! to help me receive the acupuncture treatments from Dr. Scott Blunk, and the lymphatic massages from Carol McDaniel, I feel my recovery from the pain would not have been as quick or as successful. I am truly grateful for such wonderful people and a great program. Thank you!

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Style Magazine salutes the winners of Hope Lives!

Breast Cancer Support Center’s Second Annual Champions of Hope 2009 Awards. We celebrate these individuals for their unceasing commitment and service to the women of Northern Colorado who have been diagnosed with breast cancer. We thank them for their generous support of Hope Lives! Through their efforts, women have been diagnosed earlier, been provided exceptional medical care, and been given the complementary care needed to enhance their recovery.

Care Provider Honoree

JoAnn Lovins

Clinical Director, Oncology Services Poudre Valley Hospital

“Representing the Cancer Program at PVH, I am an active member of the Larimer County Women’s Healthcare Consortium. The mission of this collaborative effort is to promote women’s health related to women’s

Care Provider Honoree

Carol J. McDaniel LymphWorks, LLC

“I was thrilled to find Hope Lives! offering the services and support they do to women undergoing treatment for cancer since I have deep rooted personal experience with the loss of loved ones to cancer. My mother died at the age of 41

Community Honoree

Scott Charpentier

Co-founder, Fort Collins Mortgage “When my mother had her first of two bouts with breast cancer, we became aware of Lydia Dody and her foundation.

I immediately became involved with Hope Lives! to get a better understanding of what this disease was all about and to support my mother however I could.

My first involvement was as a donor of wine for all of the tables at the Gala event

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cancer. Last summer, my best friend in California (a nurse practitioner) was diagnosed with breast cancer. I acted as her patient navigator, assisting her in getting timely consults from physicians, and ultimately making a truly informed decision about her care. In an attempt to improve my own health and decrease my chances of being diagnosed with breast cancer, I personally completed a triathlon two years ago. I needed to set some physical fitness goals, and amazingly, I was able to reach the finish line!

I work closely with an active group of cancer survivors. What distinguishes this community is the strong desire for current survivors to improve the journey for those who will follow. Our community is very generous in wanting to assist others who will unfortunately be diagnosed with cancer in the future.

While we are not at a time when we can say cancer is no longer a problem, we can certainly change the experience in Larimer County”

from a battle with melanoma, which had metastasized to her lymphatics and brain.

I also lost a young friend, 31, to stomach cancer. Therefore, helping those actively fighting or recovering from cancer is one of my passions. Additionally, I was drawn to our (Hope Lives! and myself) shared philosophy of offering empowerment to these women through education as well as reconnecting them with their own ability to heal through nurturing bodywork.

What has touched me the most is the fact that the women stricken with breast cancer are all natural nurturers themselves: intelligent, strong, and successful women who artfully manage and care for others (such as children, parents, spouse, career, home, etc). Thus, together, they create the most amazing support network for one another. It is also touching to be there when each woman reconnects with her own ability to nurture and heal herself.”

and some to auction off. The next year, I was one of the survivors’ escorts for the fashion show. Within a couple of years, I found myself the Master of Ceremonies for the Gala event, which I did for a few years in a row. It was quite the experience.

At the same time, I became one of the first males to act as President of the Hope Lives! Breast Cancer Foundation, which I did for three years. I have now passed the torch on and have remained a member of the advisory board and am on the Board of Directors currently.

Hope Lives! brings hope and complementary options for women who are going through a very difficult and scary time. Hope Lives! brings knowledge, support, products, and services to women when they need it the most. I see and hear from many, many women how much they appreciate the valuable services Hope Lives! brings to women with breast cancer and to the husbands and family members who had no where else to go.

Thank you, Lydia, for your commitment to this cause.”

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Community Honoree

Julie Luckasen & My Sister Knits

Pictured: Dawn Sprich, Kate Manning, Julie Luckasen, Freba Karimzad, Barbara Anderson

Community Honoree

Dennis & Rosalie Sinnett

Sinnett Builders, a Division of Milender White Construction.

Community Honoree

Bob & Marilyn Stone

Owners, Porter Industries, Inc. “Our company, Porter Industries and our Limited Liability Co., Margin, has supported your wonderful organization since its inception. Many say that if you really want to make a difference in the world then start with your own community.

Hope Lives! has done exactly that! You have provided support, help, compassion,

Volunteer Honoree

Renee Octaviano

Hope Lives! Client Care Coordinator “In April 2008, I helped with the Pink Boa 5K. After the race, I found out that a permanent volunteer position had just opened up. It didn’t take me long to figure out that taking this position was something that I could, and wanted, to do. From the moment I arrived at Hope Lives!, I knew I was doing something that made a

Volunteer Honoree

Judy Seybold

Quality Support Coach/Early Childhood Council of Larimer County “I am a breast cancer survivor since 2003. When I was going through treatment I contacted Hope Lives! I needed to make the difficult decision about whether or not to go through chemo. Hope Lives! connected me with a woman who had decided to go through chemo and one who did not. I found this incredibly helpful. After surgery,

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“What began as a simple hobby for two sisters grew into a business, which has blossomed into a community. My Sister Knits has become so much more than just one single sister. We truly have become an ever-growing community of sisters (and a few brothers!), knitters, crocheters, spinners, and weavers . . . a group of caring individuals ranging from Julie, the owner, to employees, clients, instructors, and students.

Many have been cancer patients themselves or have had friends or

family counted in that number and all have stepped up to help with charitable groups. We are fortunate to have become affiliated with Hope Lives! as a local charity to which we can donate our time and talents. The more we concentrate our efforts and work together, the closer our community becomes, and the more we help accomplish. From a small baby sock to a cure for cancer; it all can be done.”

“Through the years, we have watched friends and family through diagnosis, recovery, and sometimes death, from breast cancer, including the death of our mother due to metastatic breast cancer. We have seen the emotional trauma this disease brings on every person and their friends and families.

Doctors can and do help heal the body.

Hope Lives! goes farther than just the body; it helps heal the personal side of the mind. Hope Lives! restores spirit, dignity, and hope for life to be normal

again. We love our friends and family who have suffered so much from this disease. Through our involvement and contributions, we know Hope Lives! heals the mind and the heart.

Hope Lives!, started by Lydia, is why Fort Collins is such a terrific community and we will continue our support to this great cause.”

and love to many local victims of breast cancer since your organization began close to 10 years ago. One of our key company administrators, Ken Sargent, serves as your Board President and through Ken, we are “brought up to speed” on your organization and how you continue to serve so many local woman with so many needs.

My wife, Marilyn, and I celebrated our 40th year of marriage this year.

Just prior to our marriage in 1969, my mother experienced breast cancer and

the subsequent operation to remove the cancer. This was an incredibly tough time for my parents, but my mom is still alive today, which makes her a 41year survivor. Detection and treatment remedies have changed dramatically over the years but cancer in any form is very serious. Hope Lives! helps so many in so many ways. We are proud to say that we have supported your efforts since your inception. Our best to you, as you continue to provide your caring support to so many women in need.”

difference to people.

As a client care coordinator, I am the person who makes the initial contact with new clients. My priority is to get them the information they need so that they can begin using services as quickly as possible.

I try my best to meet in person with all new clients when they first come to Hope Lives! I take this time with the clients to go over the program and answer any of their questions. Sometimes, these women take the time to tell me their stories. I’m more than happy to sit with them and listen

because every one of these stories is about hope, love, and determination. I walk away from these meetings with a newfound faith in the strength and courage of women, and I do my best to keep that feeling with me and to share it with others.

Their stories give me hope for the future. For every woman that beats breast cancer, there is one more advocate who will push for more research and better treatment options. Our daughters and granddaughters will be better off because of these brave women.”

radiation, and a lengthy time of being in denial, I realized that it was important to me to ‘give back’ and do something meaningful for women being diagnosed with breast cancer. I again contacted Hope Lives! and expressed my interest in volunteering. As a Client Care Coordinator, I am the liaison between Hope Lives! and the service providers. In addition, I create the newsletter that goes out twice a month to update clients on local resources and educational information. It is a perfect match for me. I feel that I am making a

difference. It is an honor to be recognized for this work that is so meaningful to me.

Whenever I hear a story of a survivor, I view that woman as my sister. Although each patient’s course with breast cancer is different, we all have had to deal with the trauma of the words ‘breast cancer,’ face the disease, and make multiple treatment choices. I am extraordinarily touched by those survivors who are so young. What a tough lot! It is a rough and long road, but thankfully for many of us there is light at the end of the tunnel. Hope lives!”

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By Connie Hein

At about 5,000 feet above sea level, we are nestled safely near the foothills of the beautiful Rocky Mountains. Add approximately 300 days of sunshine per year, and Northern Colorado seems like the picture-perfect place to live. Unless you consider the effect these conditions have on your skin.

But don’t despair Coloradoans, skin care experts in Fort Collins tell us you don’t have to sacrifice healthy, hydrated skin to live in Northern Colorado. You just need to use quality skin care products and daily sun protection.

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Melissa Wynne, R.N., at Xanadu Medical Spa in Fort Collins, says that in Northern Colorado the sun is much stronger than in other areas of the country, so a quality daily skin care regiment is very important to healthy skin.

“The basics for any skin care system for residents of Northern Colorado,” Wynne says, “should include professional-quality vitamin C to boost collagen, a toner to balance the skin pH, retinol for elasticity and firmness, and last but not least, a quality sun block that is at least SPF 30.”

Wynne says Xanadu Med Spa provides skin peels and laser treatments for skin that already has damage and also offers two high-end lines of prescriptionstrength skin care products that not only help heal damage to the skin, but maintain the look with daily use.

“Obagi Skin Care has been around for about 35 years,” Wynne says, “and has the ingredient Hydroquinone that penetrates into the deep layers of the skin to correct signs of premature aging and sun damage.”

In the four different phases of skin transformation, the cells become regulated and adjust to the skin care products. The skin then starts to produce normal pigment cells and increased collagen. In a three to four month period of use, you basically have new skin with more even tone, laxity, and texture.

“There are several different types of regimens in this line,” says Wynne, “no matter what your skin type or lifestyle. These skincare packages range in price from $150 to $418.”

The other line carried by Xanadu is Medica, which has skin care products that are sold separately to customize a client’s skin care regimen based on skin type, ranging from oily to dry skin.

Before making decisions about a skin care regimen, Wynne says Xanadu offers a free consultation and Pro-Imaging skin screening. “The skin imaging machine shows the deep layers of the skin and the imperfections and damage that will appear on the surface of the skin over about five years,” says Wynne.

She says they can tell from this image what the skin will need to heal down to the deepest layers to give you the best skin you can have as you age. Wynne says the healing can be done using skin care products, lasers, peels, and other procedures depending on the extent of damage to the skin.

To bring back a healthy glow to damaged skin, Xanadu offers Intense Pulse Light Laser (IPL) and Dermal Optical Thermolysis (DOT) Laser treatments. The two lasers treat different types of damage to skin (discoloration, age spots, sun damage, or redness) and draws it to the surface. The top layers of the skin then peel off and reverse the appearance of aged skin, improving the texture and smoothing wrinkles. The one time IPL treatment is $2,500, the DOT laser is $1,400 for five treatments for a full face.

For a less expensive, but still effective way to freshen aged and sun damaged skin, Wynne recommends their chemical peels. “Chemical peels will improve the texture of the skin, including clients with acne problems,” says Wynne, “and peels are less expensive than the laser treatments.”

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Yvonne Hampson, R.N. and Laser Technician at Allura Skin and Laser Clinic, says, because of the unique Colorado climate, they carry Sinatas, a medical-grade skin care line manufactured in Boulder with natural ingredients. “These products are very affordable and are made specifically to address the effects of the Colorado climate on all skin types,” says Hampson.

She says Sinatas was developed over 20 years ago by Boulder pharmacist Ben Fuch when he saw a need to have skin care products with fewer chemicals and more vitamins. The products were initially sold in Colorado only, but have become so popular that they are now carried in many other states with dry climates.

“The Sinatas philosophy is to exercise the skin and then let it rest just as you do with any other muscle or organ in the body,” says Hampson. “This gives skin a healthy, rested look.” These products are sold in kits or individually, ranging in price from $58 to $170.

The second skin care line carried at Allura is Innovative Skin Care Clinical (IS). Hampson says this line is also medical-grade, but concentrates more on anti-aging of the skin.

The IS philosophy is to cleanse, heal, hydrate, and protect.

“The IS products are excellent for damaged skin because they contain concentrated serums to accelerate skin growth and renew the look of the damaged skin,” says Hampson. This line comes in kits or separately and runs from $58 to $135, with complete starter kits starting at $125.

“The skin is not the only part of the body affected by the Colorado climate,” says Hampson. “The hair and lashes are also exposed to the sun and can become brittle and damaged.” She says Allura now carries the very popular Latisse Eye Lash Conditioner that accelerates the growth of lashes, making them thicker and longer in about 16 weeks.

“Everyone who has tried it has been amazed at how well this product works,” says Hampson.

Nina Roys, spa manager at AWP Esthetics and Spa, says the dry climate and close proximity to the sun makes it imperative that you use daily sun block and moisturizer.

“This mile-high, dry, sunny climate is very hard on skin,” says Roys. “You have to use sunscreen and moisturizer everyday to prevent premature aging of the skin and other serious concerns, such as skin cancer.”

Roys says even when you spend most of the day indoors, light comes through office and car windows, even on a cloudy day. Exposure to fluorescent lighting can also cause damage to the skin, so you still need daily sun protection.

“Whenever you see light, light sees you,” says Roys. “So you must always keep your skin protected with a good sunscreen.” But she says not all sunscreens are created equal.

Roys says the main ingredient for sun protection in their La Roche-Posay Anthelios SX SPF 15 is a sun filter called Mexoryl™, which was approved by the FDA in 2006.

“The FDA has not approved a new sun filter in over 18 years, so this is revolutionary and we are proud to carry the product.”

She says Mexoryl™ fills in the gap in sun protection unaddressed by other FDA-approved sun filters. It protects against short UVA rays, while the other ingredients, Octocrylene and Parsol 1789 help protect against UVB rays and long UVA rays.

“This product has an umbrella effect for the skin,” she says.

“Not only is Anthelios SX a sunscreen, it is a daily moisturizing cream for 24 hour long-lasting hydration.”

Roys says AWP has another great sunscreen they recommend for Coloradoans who enjoy so many of our outdoor sports such as biking, hiking, and skiing. “Anthelios 60 has a combination of sun filters and ingredients that are water and sweat resistant,” Roys says. “It provides better protection for times when you are more active.”

In addition to La Roche-Posay, AWP also carries BIOMEDIC products, Roys says, which are great quality medical-grade skin products for this climate and area of the country. They range in price from $80 to around $120 for a complete skin care regimen.

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Michelle Tollefson, Medical Director for Twenty Three Trees Medical and Wellness Spa, agreed that the effects of the sun and dry climate are a significant concern for clients living in Northern Colorado. It was one of the main concerns considered when purchasing products and deciding on procedures to offer in their new med spa.

“Twenty-Three Trees is only three months old,” says Tollefson, “so we searched before opening the spa to find the newest and best science-based and evidencebased products and procedures for this climate.” She says they wanted their products and procedures to meet the high standards of the Poudre Valley Health System.

“We found the T3 skin care line is excellent in this climate for both men and women with every skin type,” Dr. Tollefson says. “We have been thrilled with the results and excited for all of our satisfied customers.”

She says, along with using quality daily skin care products, it is very important to add sunscreen to your daily regimen. “Sun protection is huge in this area, for children as well as adults,” says Dr. Tollefson. “I can’t stress enough how much damage the everyday cumulative effects of sun have on your skin.”

She says she is very excited about a new powder sunscreen by ColoreScience called Sunforgettable Powder with an SPF 30. “We have many clients that want to use sunscreen, but hate the greasy feeling some of them have.” Dr. Tollefson says this powder formula can be put on bare skin or over makeup and feels like nothing is there, but still efficiently protects skin from the sun.

“It is very important to reapply sunscreen throughout the day, so I carry this powder in my purse all the time,” she says, “and recommend that my clients do the same.”

She says the powder costs $50 when purchased the first time with the brush.

Once you have the brush, the refills are less expensive.

Besides offering products that protect and cleanse the skin, Three Trees also offers the Smart Skin CO2 Laser renewal procedure.

“This is one of the newest laser procedures leading the industry today and we are so excited about the results we are seeing in our clients,” Dr. Tollefson says. “This has brought a fabulous response from the community.”

She says the laser smoothes and tightens skin, evens out pigmentation, removes any redness or dark spots, reduces fine lines and wrinkles, and diminishes under eye darkness all in one machine.

She says she is excited to be able to offer the laser treatment for clients with damaged skin and then offer the perfect combination of skin care products for clients to use to maintain the new look achieved by the laser.

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Cancer Insurance For Peace Of Mind

By Graciela Sholander

A man worked for the public school system as a school administrator most of his life, with a good salary and solid health insurance. However, a year into his retirement, he was diagnosed with cancer. Despite being covered by insurance, he couldn’t meet all of the costs associated with his illness. The school held fundraisers to help him pay for expenses. Students, teachers, and parents pitched in what they could to help.

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his individual had some of the best healthcare benefits available. Even so, his coverage wasn’t enough to handle an unexpected critical illness like cancer. Why? Because of the many extra costs associated with treatment, which he was receiving at an out-of-state clinic specializing in his particular form of the disease. Travel and lodging costs alone were eating away at his finances at an alarming pace. Add to this the percentage of treatment and medical care costs not covered by his insurance plan, and it’s easy to see why the school resorted to fundraising to help a man who, through the years, had given so much of himself to the community.

Many people have adequate health insurance to cover routine exams and treatment for minor illnesses and conditions. But in the presence of a major illness like cancer, too many individuals and families are finding out the hard way that their benefits do not cover everything, and their outof-pocket expenses run into the thousands, tens of thousands, and even hundreds of thousands of dollars.

“The number one cause for bankruptcy in America is for medical reasons,” says Monica Palser, an independent insurance agent representing Family Heritage Life Insurance Company of America. “While health insurance is certainly very important to have, it is not enough anymore. Usually there is 80/20 coverage, and when cancer occurs, the 20 percent is overwhelming, along with items that are not covered.”

“Where you get treated for cancer can also make a big difference,” she adds. “There are over 40 national cancer institutes. The problem is advanced treatments are expensive, and the indirect costs such as travel, lodging, and food can be significant.”

For these reasons, some people opt to get cancer insurance. Designated under the category of supplemental insurance, cancer insurance fills in gaps. Family Heritage Life has been offering this form of supplemental health insurance for years. Depending on the specific plan purchased, coverage can include radiation and chemotherapy, anti-nausea medication, bone marrow transplant, transportation and family member transportation, private nurse, and special treatments, among other benefits. Additional companies offering cancer insurance include Aflac, Colonial Life, Humana, and Mutual of Omaha.

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James and Monica Palser, independent insurance agents with Family Heritage Life Insurance Company of America “Our cancer insurance is available for those aged zero to 76-plus,” says Palser, “If you have had cancer and are cancer-free for 10 years, we can protect you. We have insured those in their eighties who say they will give a good fight if they get cancer.”

According to the American Cancer Society (www.cancer.org), nearly 1.5 million cases of cancer are expected to be diagnosed in the United States in 2009 alone. “In the U.S., cancer will affect one out of two men, one out of three women, and three out of four families,” notes Palser. Approximately 77 percent of all cancers are diagnosed in people over the age of 55, but cancer can strike anyone at any age.

The good news is that early detection leads to a higher chance of a cure for the patient. But lack of adequate insurance means that many people who suspect signs of cancer postpone or completely forego a visit to the doctor. With supplemental cancer insurance, financial considerations are taken care of – the person is able to focus on his or her health without worrying about the monetary burden a diagnosis might lead to.

Plans differ greatly from one company to the next, and even within each company many different options are available. A person’s particular scenario will affect premium costs and coverage availability, so it’s impossible to present a typical cost analysis. Your best bet is to talk with an insurance representative and find out what’s available.

“Our cancer coverage also has an ICU plan as a rider,” explains Palser. “We offer return of premium included with all plans, no lifetime limits on almost all benefits, first occurrence skin cancer benefit, and much more. Cost is determined by age and does not increase with age. Coverage is guaranteed renewable for life, and only you can cancel.

“In addition, we have a transportation and lodging benefit that pays both ways for the cancer patient and a family member, up to a certain amount based on the plan they choose. If the transportation benefit is used for a covered child, we will pay this benefit for both parents.”

Anyone at a greater risk of cancer should look into supplemental insurance.

Even if you are not in a high-risk bracket, you may want to explore this option, particularly if your health insurance plan does not provide full coverage. Many existing plans are 80/20 or 70/30, and the 20 or 30 percent of direct costs you’re expected to pay in a major illness can be staggering. Add to the mix indirect costs of treatment, including travel, lodging, and meals, and it’s easy to see why far too many Americans go bankrupt because of health issues. If you want greater peace of mind and better protection, cancer insurance might be the right option for you.

Graciela Sholander is a professional writer living in Fort Collins and author of Dream It Do It, www.dreamitdoit.net.

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continued from p. 35 of this situation and there was absolutely nothing I could do. All I had left were my mind and thoughts.

I had been utilizing prayer and meditation since my first cancer diagnosis in 1970 and my thinking had changed tremendously since that time. I began visualizing myself walking and talking and intending all the things I wanted to happen: getting out of bed, dressing myself, talking on the phone, writing, even grocery shopping. I worked on myself from the inside out.

The Harvard Psychologist William James said, “The greatest revolution of our generation is the discovery that human beings, by changing the inner attitudes of their minds, can change the outer aspects of their lives.” I’m here to tell you, William James, Earnest Holmes, Carl Jung, Ralph Waldo Emerson, Deepak Chopra, Dr. Joe Dispenza – they are all right. They are all saying: “You don’t deny the situation or that the situation exists, you deny that the situation has to continue in the form in which it is currently appearing.”

Physically, emotionally, and spiritually I am not the same person. I left a lot of things behind: my ideas about wrong and right, how the world really works, what I need verses what I just want. I left behind the type A personality, consumed with doing everything in record time and with total perfection, to just being grateful that things get done. My faith is much deeper; I am more spiritual and less religious. Gratitude rules my life now, rather than the clock, the pressures of performance, or any external demands.

My mother has always been my inspiration.

She was a successful businesswoman when she married my father, who was a widower with 10 children surviving out of 12. She helped raise those children and together they had five more children. I was the youngest child of the 17 children. My mother also embraced her new husband’s faith, which was very different from the one in which she was raised. Her life from that time forward was filled with long days of hard work on the farm. Yet she always had time to serve her husband, her parents, her children, grandchildren, and her church. She shared her smile with everyone. She was a better mother and stronger woman than I could ever hope to be.

From her, I learned to recognize the natural rhythm in life that is to be respected, and that balance is what is most needed. I learned that change is not something to be feared or resisted, but embraced because it is the one thing that is truly consistent in life. Whenever I have challenging times, I have reminded myself of her courage and strength and know I inherited that from her.

I wouldn’t say that cancer was a gift, but an opportunity to challenge what can be created from it. It gave me the opportunity to be grateful for every second I experienced before, during, and after it. Cancer provided me with a choice to experience a very deep appreciation for each and every smile I give or receive, every hug, every kiss, every sunset, every sunrise, and every thought. It was the opportunity to embrace and experience change in a way I never imagined. It was a lesson in learning to love myself, appreciate life, and laugh more.

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Cancer Your Diet T

By Laura Lee Carter

he National Cancer Institute estimates that at least 35 percent of all cancers have some nutritional connection.

When lifestyle factors such as smoking and exercise are included, the associated risk increases to as high as 85 percent.

The physicians and staff at the Cancer Center of the Rockies presented a special program recently called Cancer and Nutrition: What We Know About Cancer and Diet – The Latest in Research, on October 6.

The goal of this presentation was to help educate those concerned about the connection between cancer and how we nourish ourselves.

During the free session, this independent group of physicians and professionals devoted to the diagnosis, care, and treatment of patients with malignancies and/or blood disorders, explored findings from the latest research into how our daily diet may impact our own possibility of an eventual cancer diagnosis.

The Cancer Center of the Rockies plays a positive role in our community by promoting wellness through education, counseling, and complementary services. This is why they offer free presentations like the recent one on cancer and nutrition.

When asked about the connection between cancer and nutrition, Miho Scott, M.D., oncologist with the Cancer Center, emphasizes her pri-

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What we eat can make a big difference in our energy levels, our mood, and our self-esteem. When we choose foods rich in protective fiber and nutrition, such as certain fruits and vegetables, we are also doing something positive for our health and well-being.

mary concern with the American diet: obesity. She says, “We all need to clean up our diet and work on maintaining a moderate calorie intake.”

Dr. Scott offers evidence from Japanese research studies when asked whether cancer incidence seems to be related to genetics or nutrition.

“Women in Japan have the lowest breast cancer rate of all industrialized countries. But when these same women move to Hawaii or the United States, their risk for breast cancer immediately begins to rise. Why is that? Environment has a lot to do with it, but diet must also be an important factor.”

Dr. Scott expressed some concern about relying on the “safety” of only eating organic foods.

“Organic foods are still watered with our local ground water, exposed to the same polluted air, bacteria, and ground toxins as all the other crops we grow. Defining ‘organic’ can also be unclear and sometimes misleading.”

According to Dr. Scott, the best most of us can do is to eat more foods from the plant kingdom to increase our levels of phytonutrients and fiber in our diet. Fruits and vegetables containing antioxidants, anticarcinogens, and bioflavonoids are berries, dark green leafy vegetables, citrus fruits, legumes, soy, and whole grains.

Studies are ongoing in many labs, looking at the pros and cons of consuming soy protein for

those at risk for breast and prostate cancer. Soy does contain several active phytonutrients that may protect against hormone sensitive cancers. In Dr. Scott’s opinion, the soy question has not yet been resolved. She can only say for certain that “eating fresh fruits and vegetables is your best bet against cancers of all types.”

Why is it important for you to keep eating your broccoli? Broccoli is one of the vegetables in the cruciferous family. These vegetables, which also include cabbage, cauliflower, Swiss chard, watercress, and kale, contain isothiocyanates that are protective against carcinogens in lab studies.

Adequate dietary fiber is also an essential ingredient in an anti-cancer diet. Fiber is the indigestible part of foods of plant origin. It does not occur in any foods from animals. Fiber provides bulk in our diet to maintain colon health. It not only reduces transit time in the colon, it also dilutes potential hazardous substances and reduces the amount of time the colon is exposed to these toxins. Finally, fiber provides an environment that is conducive to friendly bacteria, while maintaining a healthy acid level in the colon.

Most Americans consume about 10 grams of dietary fiber each day. The suggested range is 25 to 30 grams spread over the day. It is best to consume fiber at each meal from foods like whole grain cereals, breads, pastas, leafy vegetables,

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By Erica Pauly

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fruits, nuts, and seeds.

Oily fish such as salmon, herring, mackerel, halibut, and tuna contain oils rich in omega-3 fatty acids. Docohexanoic acid (DHA) and Eicosopentanoic acid (EPA) are two of these long chain polyunsaturated fatty acids that occur in fish and in certain vegetables. These are thought to promote heart health and possibly inhibit the growth of some cancers. It is recommended that you try to eat foods rich in omega-3 fatty acids several times each week. Fish is an excellent source, but berries, mushrooms, and brussel sprouts are also good dietary sources of omega-3 fatty acids.

The Cancer Center’s mission is to provide the highest level of hematology and oncology care to their patients. Dr. Scott describes her role with cancer patients as their “community organizer.”

She elaborates, “When patients first receive a cancer diagnosis they need good advice quickly, and careful instruction in the various options available to them. We help them coordinate their own care. Treatment plans have become much more complicated and technical in the past few years. The patient needs specific assistance in understanding and negotiating their maze of options like chemotherapy, radiology and various other medications and treatments.”

The Cancer Center of the Rockies has been located at 2121 E. Harmony Road, Suite 150 in south Fort Collins for the past eight years, with a satellite clinic at 2500 Rocky Mountain Avenue, Suite 350 in Loveland.

Laura Lee Carter is a freelance writer, medical researcher, and author of the new book: Midlife Magic: Becoming The Person You Are Inside!

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What can tea do for the body, for the mind, and for the soul? Style sat down with Yun Xiang Tseng and his wife, Tiffany, the owners of Cha Tao Tea located in downtown Fort Collins. We also spoke with Michael Ricci, Japanese tea ceremony master at his home in Fort Collins. Both parties represent the rare and ancient practice of tea—how to drink it, how to appreciate it, and ultimately, how to allow it to bring healing to the body.

The Way of Tea

Upon entering Cha Tao Tea (translated as “The Way of Tea”), customers are immediately greeted by Yun and his wife, Tiffany.

The couple owns and manages the fivemonth old store. While Yun travels to China to buy tea and help tend to their 60-acre tea farm, Tiffany stays in Fort Collins to run the shop. “The process of the tea begins with appreciation,” says Yun, “We have 16 Taoist priests come and walk through each row of plants to bless the tea, and ultimately, the person drinking it.”

Blessing and healing from the tea come to the drinker in many different ways. First, Yun reminds us that tea was being used for medicinal purposes more than 3,000 years ago in China. One type of tea sold at Cha

Yun Xiang Tseng stands in his tea shop, Cha Tao Tea (“The Way of Tea”) in downtown Fort Collins, where he celebrates China’s tea culture and tea’s health benefits.

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Tao is the Wuyi tea. According to Yun, a study in Japan showed that those who drank Wuyi lost weight five times faster than those who did not. Why is that? “The Puer part of the plant is most famous for the digestive track,” he says.

The Chinese may have weight loss tea tricks, but when it comes to healing, Yun says there’s no question that white, green, and yellow teas are by far the best for the body. “There are only three steps in making the green, white, and yellow teas. They pick the plant, dry it, and sell it. This means there are more healing parts of the plant still in the tea when it’s made to drink. It is all done with the human touch too, there are no machines or electronics involved in these processes,” Yun says.

Though there are antioxidants in every tea, green, white, and yellow are particularly good for patients undergoing chemotherapy. “The patient must drink the tea at least 24 hours after chemotherapy. Because the tea works against the drugs, you don’t want it to interfere with treatment. But if they wait 24 hours, they will feel better and more energetic,” says Yun. In addition to soothing the harsh effects of chemotherapy on the body, tea’s antioxidants may protect against certain types of cancer. According to the American Cancer Society, some studies have found green tea to contain chemical compounds that can help prevent against skin, lung, stomach, esophagus, colon, pancreas, bladder, prostate, and breast cancers. These chemicals may actually cause cancer cells to die in the body.

From the moment the tea seed is planted in China, Yun ensures that every step is done with the final ‘drinker’ in mind. “The tea is the ‘qi,’ which means life force. The planter thinks of you when they plant, the farmer has you in mind while tending to the fields, the Tao priests come to bless the crop for you, the people who carry the tea have you in mind while hauling a 30 pound bag down a mountain side, and the seller has you in mind when they send you on with the tea. In order to get everything from the tea, you must appreciate it and those who had you in mind all along,” says Yun. Appreciation is the key to experiencing the benefits of tea.

The Ceremony of Tea

Fast forward a few days, when Style arrives at the home of Michael Ricci for a Japanese tea ceremony. Ricci teaches Tea Ceremony in Fort Collins and at Naropa University in Boulder, Colorado. Ricci

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Freshly harvested tea leaves from Yun and Tiffany Tseng’s 60-acre tea farm, which sits in China’s Hubei province in the Wudang Mountains.

Photo by DanBihn.com

The tea farm sits near 4,000-year-old temples, designated as World Heritage Sites, and sees little traffic, few people, and no pollution.

Japanese tea ceremony master Michael Ricci, demonstrates the ancient art of drinking tea.

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studied tea ceremony and Zen Buddhism for two years in Colorado before being sent to Kyoto, Japan for further exploration of the ancient art. And what he found during his two and a half years of study in Japan was just that, an art to be explored, understood, and brought back to America to appreciate.

There are four foundational principles of the Japanese tea ceremony: Harmony, Respect, Purity, and Tranquility. Ricci says, “Supposedly, if Harmony, Respect, and Purity are present, then Tranquility will automatically follow suit.” All four of these elements are manifested throughout the ceremony.

How you engage in the ancient art of drinking tea reflects what you will get out of the experience.

You are a part of the aesthetics, which means that you add or detract from the experience for everyone present. Neutral colors should be worn, there should be no jewelry worn in order to remove all social status elements. All that should be present is you, no strings attached.

A formal Japanese tea ceremony is known as the Chaji (Cha-jee). It can last up to four hours with a meal and two bowls of tea. For the sake of time, Ricci performed a Chakai (Cha-ky), which is an informal abbreviated rendition of the Chaji.

To say that a tea ceremony is organized and particular is like saying a rock is hard. Every item inside the ceremony has a purpose and it is to be handled as such. You drink from the back of the tea bowl after turning it clockwise, two 1/4 turns with your right hand – and that is just the tea bowl. But with the specific procedures comes order. Relaxation follows suit.

For Mitsuko Ito, a Fort Collins resident and Japanese tea ceremony student, the lessons are a time to calm herself and re-center her hectic life. “My mother-in-law is from Japan. When she comes to the States, it’s a nice thing for us to do together. It’s also nice to get out of the house and a good time to sit in a quiet atmosphere,” she says.

Matcha is the tea drank at a tea ceremony.

It is made both as a thick (Koicha) tea and a thin (Usucha) tea. Matcha tea is made from an entire tea plant ground into a powder and mixed into the water itself. Many of the components of a tea plant are lost when tea is prepared in a tea ball or packet, due to the plant remaining in the package. When one drinks Matcha, they are digesting the health benefits from the entire plant.

While the ceremony includes bowing and a few rehearsed lines in Japanese, the rest of the ceremony is about taking in the beauty and appreciating both the ceremony and life. There is a simple floral arrangement picked to encompass nature and even the utensils are chosen specifically to exemplify the season. To sit and enjoy Japanese tea is about taking in life and appreciating its balance. From the silent solitude of the ceremony to the precision of how to hold the bowl of tea while drinking it, tranquility is the end result.

The Japanese and Chinese arts of drinking tea have unique backgrounds and are practiced differently. But both cherish and encourage one thing, appreciation. If one can appreciate the tea, the culture, the work that went into preparing the tea or the tea ceremony itself, one will experience peace, harmony, and healing of the mind, body, and spirit.

Erica Pauly is a freelance writer living in Loveland.

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through Kitchen

Remodel

By Kay Rios

Before

Donna Stroh had certainly wanted to remodel her 30-year-old kitchen and replace the antiquated appliances. But that wasn’t the driving force behind the $22,000 auction bid she tossed out at the Hope Lives Gala event last year.

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Poudre Valley Fire Department Station House 5 spontaneously volunteered to help move out Stroh’s old appliances and install the new appliances.

he inspiration came from two dear friends, she says. The first was her friend, Wendy Smith, who fought and finally succumbed to breast cancer three years ago. Stroh had started participating in the annual Susan G. Komen Race for the Cure with Smith.

“My promise to her was that I would keep walking. So a lot of this was because of Wendy but also because we need to raise awareness.”

Another friend also influenced her involvement.

Beverly Donnelley, a local obstetrician and gynecologist, who invited Stroh to sit at her table at the Hope Lives! Gala 2008. Once the auction started, Stroh rose to the challenge and finally placed the high bid.

While those two set the scene, Stroh’s commitment put the play in motion. “We need to find a cure. We need to be proactive. This is for my friends,

my cousin, maybe my future granddaughter – anyone who might be diagnosed down the road. Once you’ve lost someone, it becomes very personal.”

The kitchen is just being finished this month and Stroh says it has taken a real community effort to make it all happen.

John Sinnett, senior estimator with Sinnett Builders, seconds that. “When Lydia (Dody) approached me and asked, ‘what do you think about auctioning off a dream kitchen remodel for Hope Lives!,’ I originally thought that was a very tall order.

I said, ‘let me think about it.’”

But after he gave it a little time, he called her back. “I said let’s try it. Then I ran with it and started making the calls. I ended up with about 34 companies that chipped in to put together a complete remodel. They gave me everything from a dumpster and the demo to cabinets, appliances, plumbing,

John Sinnett, Sinnett Builders, provided all the supervision and project management for this kitchen project.

Stroh had the winning bid of $22,000 for an entire kitchen remodel at last year’s Hope Lives! Gala. Over 32 businesses and countless volunteers donated services and goods for a remodel valued at over $50,000.

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and electrical. We were given interior design work and painting. The icing on the cake included a personal chef that comes out to work with you in your kitchen for a night and a gift certificate for The Cupboard. We even had several hundred dollars at Albertsons to resupply the food lost when the kitchen was torn up.”

Everyone involved went above and beyond, Sinnett says. Part of the reason for the success was that so many people were involved, kind of like the old question of how to eat an elephant – one bite at a time. Sinnett Builders provided all the supervision and project management and Sinnett pulled in others. “I realized that if I was going to get people to donate, I’d have to break it down into small packages to ask for as little as possible and then pull everything again. That made it doable. And then, I got Whirlpool to give us a cost base price for appliances

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and I had our parent company buy us a refrigerator at retail. That gave us a little left over money that then went for a dishwasher.”

As it turned out, Stroh had the perfect kitchen for a remodel. “It was exactly what we hoped we would get in terms of size and location of utilities.

It couldn’t have been more perfect and Donna was great to work with. God was watching out for us on that one.”

“The timing went smoothly in terms of subcontractors coming in and doing their part. It took longer than we wanted, but Donna was very patient.

What a blessing she turned out to be as a client.”

Jay Williams helped ensure that things happened. Williams was brought in to wrap up the project and, even though he was laid off from Sinnett during that period because of the local economy, he continued to work and donate his time. Not that it was all a walk in the park, Williams says.

“I found out the appliances were coming in but they would only drop them in the driveway so I called my wife, Shawn. She works in the administration office of the Poudre Valley Fire Authority and she made a request. They got together and sent out a crew.”

That surprised her neighbors, Stroh says. “Two huge hook and ladders pulled up with 15 men. They were here to move in the appliances and the drywall guys came back to help, so it became this community event right in my driveway.”

Williams was happy to donate the extra time it took. He was diagnosed with prostate cancer in 2003 and is now a survivor who is cancer-free. “So it was personal,” he says. “It’s easy to get caught up in such a great cause and everyone worked so well together.”

Sinnett praises everyone involved. “I didn’t have anybody that said no. Most of it came on a phone call. These are companies we’ve done business with, companies who have a presence in the community.

Nobody turned me down. I certainly couldn’t have done this alone,” he says. “It was amazing and there were some hefty donations, $2,000 here and $4,000 there, but every piece counted.”

By the time the final tally was made, Sinnett says, “It was a $50,000 plus kitchen that didn’t cost Hope Lives! a dime.”

Marsha Petrovic, Executive Director of Hope Lives, says, “The remodel bought an added element of excitement and interest in our event and raised some really crucial funds for our organization so we can serve the women in Northern Colorado.”

This year’s event, set for October 17, has added a new approach, Petrovic says. “The twist will be the green component we’re bringing in as an indicator of our overall wellness effort. We’re promoting ecogreen and social responsibility so, from the planning and execution to the items we solicit for auctions to the food, everything will be done with an environmental conscience. That includes paper we’re using or not using. We will be reducing waste.”

It’s a good mix, Petrovic says. “That idea has generated new energy for this year’s event.”

Any one interested in attending the event or donating items for the auction can contact Hope Lives! at www.hopelives.org.

Stroh proudly stands in her new kitchen, thankful to all the volunteers that helped make it a reality. Under the bookshelf, bottom, is a floorboard reading “Hope Lives 2008,” to commemorate the process that went into creating her beautiful new kitchen.

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Kay Rios, Ph.D., is a freelance writer in Fort Collins.

She is currently at work on a collection of creative non-fiction and a mystery novel.

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The Power of

Prayer in Healing

By Dary Northrop Senior Pastor, Timberline Church

Her six-year-old son snuggles in under the sheet, closes his eyes and squeezes his mom’s hand and begins to pray. “God, please help my mommy not to die. Please help her not to have cancer any more.”

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he impact on his mom is significant. She believes, wipes a small tear from her eye, and kisses her son on the cheek. “I’m going to be fine honey, God cares about us very much!”

This story is one that has taken place in one form or another hundreds of times over these recent years. There seems to be something unique that happens deep inside us when we face obstacles that we know we cannot conquer alone. What is faith? What is prayer? Is it merely man’s way of creating God or is it God’s method of communicating with man?

These questions are real and challenging.

As the Senior Pastor of Timberline Church for the past 23 years, I have watched with my own eyes the power of prayer. I have seen healing occur that is unexplainable in human terms.

I seek to bring the spiritual world and the medical world together wherever possible.

Is there a connection between faith, prayer, and healing? Can we partner with people to seek proper treatment and keep our faith in

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God as well? Of course we can!

The extremists on both sides of this issue destroy the powerful dynamic of how they could work together. The side that denounces God, faith, and prayer has missed the spiritual side of man that goes beyond the physical realm. The side that denounces modern medicine and refuses treatment has missed the power of God-given knowledge and truth discovered by man. God is both the truth giver and the one who touches the spirit and soul of mankind.

Prayer is simply a biblical way of connecting with God. Prayer can be meditation on God, speaking verbally to God, journaling, or even being still and listening for the voice of God in your spirit.

Prayer nurtures and massages the inner person in ways that physical treatment cannot touch. Faith and hope can be key ingredients releasing your body to respond to physical treatment.

“Prayer can be helpful for people who are facing serious illness,” says Dr. Renee Woodall, licensed psychologist. “A faith life can offer a source of strength and hope

when a person is struggling. Prayer can provide a way for people to connect with God and find peace within their challenging circumstances.”

I have buried people who died of cancer even though they prayed, had faith, and believed in healing. I have also rejoiced with cancer survivors who had no faith in God whatsoever. The point this makes so clear to me is that we cannot and must not try to create our own magical formula to ensure that we are doing it right and therefore will experience healing from cancer or other illnesses.

It remains essential for communities of faith and health providers to bring their worlds together to encourage, strengthen, and offer hope to people who are suffering.

When we recognize that we are all made up of body, mind, and spirit it opens up many more avenues in which to bring hope and life. Have you ever been around someone who is dying physically, but their spirit is filled with faith and hope and it creates such optimism that it is contagious to others?

Finally, I want to finish with a personal

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story. I grew up in Grand Junction, CO on the Western Slope. It was a great place to develop from elementary school through high school. I have four sisters, two older than me and two younger. My mom and dad were very much in love and had a deep faith in God. I experienced firsthand growing up in a home where faith, hope, and prayer were lived out in daily practical ways.

My dad died of cancer when he was 41 years old and I was 14. My sisters were 18, 16, 12, and 9. On the evening Dad died, my mom gathered us all around the living room in a circle. It was kind of like a big hug moment. We were emotional and many tears were falling. We had questions, many questions. We had prayed, believed, hoped, and yet... Death!

The wisdom of my mom was stunning.

She spread her arms out over us like an eagle and prayed. She prayed to a God who had not given her what she had wanted or prayed for, but she would maintain faith and hope to walk us through the next few challenging years.

Many people grow embittered and faithless when God does not give them what they want or ask for. But not my Mom, and not me! Even though you may not be healed or restored to perfect health, keep the faith, choose to love, and never, ever stop praying! I’ll never be able to figure out exactly how prayer changes God. But I am positive prayer changes me!

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3 rd annual N O C O 2 0 / 3 0 V I N E S & W I N E S suitcase party August 28 :: Loveland Water Valley/Budweiser Hanger This jet-setting evening provided two couples from among the 600 guests, dressed in Napa casual style, an opportunity to be whisked away on a private jet that evening to spend a weekend in Napa Valley. Guests enjoyed the red carpet evening mingling, sampling deliciously prepared cuisine, and sipping libations, while indulging in high-end cigars.

Exciting bidding in the silent and live auctions kept anticipation high until the finale of the evening, the live raffle for Napa Valley. The $150,000 raised will help support non-profit organizations of Northern Colorado working with underprivileged youth in our community.

Photos courtesy of Pentico Photography.

Front: Napa Winners - Jennifer & Phil Jacobson, Gerard & Penny Nalezny. Back: Peter Kelly, Jason Shaeffer, Jeff Hollingsworth, Mike Pedersen, Shane Hunsinger, Aaron Eide, Brian Mannlein, Troy McWhinney, Mike LaPlante, Russell Baker, Matt Phillips, Steve Nichols, Peter Martin, AJ MacDonald, Nathan Klein, Billy Campbell, Jim Sampson, Todd Gilchrist. Kneeling: Jason Ells

G A R D E N O F E AT I N ’ September 10 The Gardens on Spring Creek :: Fort Collins Nearly 75 community members attended this preview “thank you” party for Garden of the Eatin’. The beautiful evening provided friends of The Gardens on Spring Creek, many of them generous community supporters and donors, an opportunity to tour the gardens. The gardens are planted, maintained, and harvested by many volunteers contributing hundreds of hours, and have grown to-date over 1,500 pounds of produce that has been donated to the Food Bank for Larimer County. With this unique partnership of Garden of Eatin’ and the Food Bank for Larimer County, guests could see the ultimate community garden at work.

Michelle Provaznik, Laura Atwood, Diane Jones, Ruth White

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Amy Pezzani, Sarah Morales

Virginia Clark, Chuck Gill

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MCKEE GOLF TOURNAMENT September 11 Mariana Butte Golf Course:: Loveland A beautiful day greeted 144 golfers at the Foothills Golf Course bordering the Big Thompson River at this 11th annual event. Golfers had a full day of friendly competition, culminating in Alpine ENT holding onto their bragging rights by finishing in 1st place for a third straight year. Awards were presented for longest drive, longest putt, and best-dressed team, to name a few. Golfers and a multitude of Loveland businesses supported the sold-out golf tournament to help raise more than $36,800 to benefit the Banner Simulation System at McKee Medical Center.

First Place 18-hole Flight Team - Alpine Ear Nose Throat: David Zacheis, Ross Armour, Sarj Gill, Jay Reed

Third Place Team - The Imaging Center: George Dorrity, Jay Anstine, Rick Dorrity, Russ Hickman

Team - Home State Bank: Mo Heth, Joe Scherger, Mary McCambridge, Tom Gambon

WINES OF NOTE September 11 Union Colony Civic Center :: Greeley More than 400 guests enjoyed a fabulous evening at this 12th annual event. The evening involved a wine tasting of over 100 highly ranked American and international wines, hearty appetizers, and the raffle of a Colorado-mined diamond. Live music enhanced this signature event as guests bid on a silent auction and participated in “99 Bottles of Wine on the Wall.”

The $26,000 raised will help to support the Greeley Philharmonic Orchestra, celebrating their 99th season and known as the oldest, continuously performing orchestra in the Rocky Mountain Region.

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SOUL OF THE CITY September 12 Avogadro’s Number :: Fort Collins Nearly 150 guests got in the groove as sounds of blues and soul music filled the beautiful night sky at the 3rd annual Fort Collins Housing Authority (FCHA) Benefit.

The outdoor patio was the perfect setting for a delicious buffet, libations, silent auction, and dancing. The evening also honored two partner agencies, Larimer Center for Mental Health and Crossroads Safehouse. Proceeds went to benefit FCHA’s emergency fund and their programs to help low-income families achieve self-sufficiency through childcare, education, medical assistance, and more.

Randolph & Martha Ratliffand

Gary Worckner, Lisa Poppaw, Nathan Wienland, Karen & Shane Miller, Adam Bowen, Cheryl Distaso

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Julie Brewen, Sarah Bennett, Sean Dougherty, Ryan Keiffer, Gretchen Gaede

M U S I C I N T H E G A R D E N - F ort C ollins S ymphony soiree September 16 Home of Carol Ann & Gary Hixon :: Fort Collins The beautiful garden setting, nestled at the base of the foothills, was the ideal backdrop for the kickoff of Fort Collins Symphony’s (FCS) 60th season. A record crowd of 200 guests enjoyed an evening of Spanish guitar and Flamenco dancers at this intimate soiree. Delicious delicacies, libations, a star-filled night sky, and music provided a mesmerizing evening for guests. Proceeds will benefit FCS and their mission to enhance life in Northern Colorado by providing entertainment and education through the production of quality orchestral music.

Photos courtesy of Mishelle Baun.

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Carol & Orlyn Bell

Dennis & Verlin Morris

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P H I L O M AT H E O N C L U B G O L F S C R A M B L E September 20 The Olde Course :: Loveland The Philomatheon (Philo) Club of Loveland hosted their 4th annual “All Women” Golf Scramble with 88 women of all ages participating in this tournament. Golfers enjoyed a perfect day of golf and an awards luncheon following play. Nearly $12,000 was raised to provide scholarships for women in Loveland and Berthoud to community college/technical or vocational schools. The Philo Club is one of the oldest service-based clubs in Loveland. It is comprised of young women who come together in friendship and service for the community and has served Loveland for over 91 years.

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Karin Sims, Janine Winchester, Laure Landvogt, Peggy Pellizzari

Jane Bock, Sharon Petersburg, Gale Stiner

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C O M E H E L L O R H I G H WAT E R - under the cactus moon September 26 The Ranch-First National Exhibition Building West Hall :: Loveland More than 600 guests donned on their finest denim and attended the 5th annual Come Hell or High Water event. A full evening greeted guests at this southwestern-themed signature event including live music, gourmet food, cocktails, casino games, cigar lounge, mechanical bull, silent auction, and more. The event, beginning out of a call to action from Hurricane Katrina and the devastation to the Gulf coast, has raised nearly a half million dollars over the past four years for the vital mission of the American Red Cross to provide relief to victims of disasters.

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