Westside MamaMag Oct/Nov 2020

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a hero born Meet Melbourne’s Reuben Cullen. By day you’ll find him in his highvis working in electrical, but as soon it’s time to knock off you’ll catch him at home writing poetry, working on his next children’s book or hanging out with mates having a laugh. Reuben Cullen’s spiky bleached hair and funloving grin are the first things you notice about him. Even before he speaks you know this down-to-earth construction worker is not your average children’s book author. But life hasn’t always been laughs for Reuben who has faced challenging life experiences with addiction and recovery as well as losing contact with a child he considered his daughter.

“During the day you can find me in my high-vis vest working in demolition, but once I clock-off you’ll catch me writing poetry and stories – always with music on,” At his darkest point Reuben’s relationship fell apart and his drug addiction spiralled out of control which ultimately contributed to the loss of contact with his ex-partner’s daughter Kasey, who he had raised as his own daughter from the age of 1 to 8. Reuben not only lost the ability to read and write but loosing contact with the little girl he taught to read, write and ride a bike was equally heartbreaking. Thankfully he realised that ultimately only he could bring himself out of his situation, and he had to step up and be his own hero. Today his aim is to inspire and empower children to also be their own heroes. With his love of writing helping him heal, Reuben has recently launched his first book, A Hero Born, that he hopes will pass on a message of self-love, confidence and self54

esteem to children across Australia – all things he was struggling with himself while writing the book during his recovery from addiction. During the dark period of his addiction, he became incapable of doing what he loves most; writing. This for him was the turning point that inspired him to turn his life around and became the motivation for him to write A Hero Born.

“Working hard on the book gave me an outlet again and made me accountable for something in my life that I was interested in. I found it helped me with removing the drugs from my life.” It might seem strange for a recovering addict to write a children’s book, but Reuben had a deeply personal reason to want to share his story of empowerment with younger audiences. Naturally this book is dedicated to Kasey Jane, the young girl Reuben loved and helped raise from the age of one when he was in a long-term relationship with Kasey’s mum.

“Kasey was a big reason I wanted to write the book. I wanted to one day have something to show her and hopefully read to her. I just hope kids can learn to be the best person for themselves from reading the book – if I can just help one child not go through what I did then I’ll be happy.” More than 6% of Australians aged over 14 years have used amphetamines, including Ice, one or more times in their lifetime, and 2.4% of 12 to 17-year-olds have tried amphetamines. Reuben’s own experiences taught him that you need to start young in sharing messages of selfesteem and resilience to help adolescents avoid the same destructive path he went down.


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A hero born

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pages 54-57

The rise of allergies

3min
page 52

Partnering with parents

3min
pages 50-51

Lockdown luxury

3min
page 53

Write your escape

2min
page 48

Turn the page

6min
pages 45-47

Grab a little quiet time

4min
pages 42-44

Hack your happiness

4min
pages 40-41

An absolute business mum

6min
pages 36-37

Everyday style

2min
pages 38-39

Women on influence

3min
pages 34-35

All eyes on you

2min
pages 32-33

Parklife

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pages 30-31

Existing in iso

6min
pages 28-29

Time for family fun

3min
pages 26-27

Mama can cook

3min
pages 22-25

Sleep and rest

3min
pages 14-15

A pawsome mum

5min
pages 16-17

Polished women

8min
pages 8-11

Melbourne’s fab fashion

4min
pages 20-21

The value of play

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pages 18-19

Eat for your skin

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pages 6-7
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