From Stuck to Shifted

The law of attraction is remarkable, but it is not magic. It is a consistent and uniform energetic response to other vibrations in the universe. We attract who we are, not what we do or want. Our state of being dictates when abundance will materialize. As multi-dimensional beings, it is a full-time job to balance our inner world, which is everything as it pertains to the law of attraction. Whatever our lowest frequency is will determine the extent of our fulfillment. What does this mean? Mostly it means if we dislike ourselves, suffer from inadequacy, or engage in any manifestation of self-loathing, those vibrations weigh down our superior vibrations.

They do not nullify our high vibrations.

They bring a 10 to a 7. They create near misses rather than hitting the target. What is the answer?

There are two primary answers.

1. Develop the ability to focus. What we put our attention on is what we get more of. In the book “You Are What You Love” by Vaishali, she talks about our attention being our love energy. As we are all part of divine love, we have love in our DNA. If we wallow in self-pity, we are loving self-pity. If we think and feel there is not enough in our life, we are loving “not enough” with our energy. The more we learn to focus and refuse to allow our mind or ego to lead us into negative polar- ities, the more we can influence our outcomes. Absent focus and concentration, abundance can be elusive.

2. Love yourself. At all costs, please yourself. Make sure you feel happy, content, and joyful about your life as much as possible. Do whatever it takes. Too often, we think deprivation is the path to success. That is the opposite of how success comes to us. I advise many of my clients that when given a choice to please themselves or please someone else, please themselves. We are creating our life 24/7. If we are happy and enthusiastic about life, our state of being in the conscious moment will fuel creations that result in happy feelings and experiences.

Our inability to trust life pairs with incorrect focus and poor self-care.

We are hijacked by our minds and our ego. We lose awareness of our organic connection to life. In that, it is like driving a car blindfolded and insisting we can see the way. We hit guard rails and walls repeatedly, but we do not change our focus.

We cannot have this discussion without addressing the human condition and its impact on us. We form attachments. We experience losses and health considerations. From time-totime events occur we do not plan for, but they require our attention and response. Even in these moments, we have a choice of how to see them. Are you being tortured? Punished?

Are you cursed? Of course not! These experiences are FOR us. They are not done to us. Experiences are for whom we become because of them, not the experience itself.

The problem arises when we live our life untethered to divine consciousness. When the ego and the mind rule our choices, we silence our higher wisdom and lessen our ability to experience true joy. We do not see the signs. We do not recognize the people who will help us or love us.

We reinforce doubt and distrust in life itself. We rinse and repeat this sad cycle, creating a habit and a self-fulfilling prophecy that good will never come.

What follows are words and phrases I often hear that create a self-imposed prison. These kinds of phrases preclude us from connecting to higher wisdom and making ourselves happy. They limit our ability to receive. They define the course of our future.

I have to -- I should -- If I don’t then XYZ bad thing will happen -- I want to be a good person--I can’t let XYZ person down they won’t like me –I have to do this for my children

Any statement we make that removes our power to choose a course in our life is not of God. If we choose to do something with or for another, it should be done for the sake of doing it, not because we feel guilty or want to buy approval. Rather than say, “I have to,” say, “I choose to.” Rather than say, “if I don’t do this, they won’t like me,” say, “I am not for sale and do not buy relationships. Participation is based upon love.” Walk the walk and talk the talk. We must be mindful of the reasons and the energy we use to make our decisions.

Often in my coaching sessions, I tell clients to think of a life situation like they are making soup. With each ingredient we add to the soup, it either becomes more or less tasty. If we want a life that tastes good, we must put good things into our life. Good energy. High vibration energy. Inspired energy. Enthusiastic energy. In that life, itself can respond to us like the mirror it is and provide to us.

As we master appreciation for all of life’s experiences, we become part of a flow of energy that we can relax into joyfully. It will carry us from one destination to another without fail.

It will whisper in our ears exactly what we need to hear when we need to hear it. It will direct us to the people who can best support our agendas in life.

If we feel stuck and need a shift, we need only to practice focus and self-love without pause for 30 days, and our lives will change dramatically. It will become clear even in that small amount of time how the exchange works. Try it.

Known as the Common Sense Psychic (tm), Phyllis King has worked with tens of thousands of peoplein 25 countries. She is known for her practical and down to earth approach. She has been featured on, ABC, CBS and NBC TV, radio programs across the country, and has been published in over 70 print and online publications. She has four books, including Bouncing Back, Thriving in Changing Times, with Dr. Wayne Dyer. Her latest book The Energy of Abundance is available in bookstores now. Phyllis holds a B.A. in Sociology. www.phyllisking.com

HOW YOU CAN PLAY THE ENERGY GAME TO INVITE MORE HAPPINESS, LOVE AND ABUNDANCE INTO YOUR LIFE.

Known as the Common Sense Psychic (tm), has worked with tens of thousands of peoplein 25 countries. She is known for her practical and down to earth approach. She has been featured on, ABC, CBS and NBC TV, radio programs across the country, and has been published in over 70 print and online publications. She has four books, including Bouncing Back, Thriving in Changing Times, with Dr. Wayne Dyer. Her latest book The Energy of Abundance is available in bookstores now.

www.phyllisking.com

By Polly Wirum