YOUR RECEPTION - order of events

The reception usually runs in a fairly set order, however you can arrange the evening’s proceedings in a way that best suits you both.

Guests arrive at the reception and are served light refreshments.

The bridal party arrives slightly later (after having photographs taken at another location) and are served canapés and drinks separately while the guests are seated.

The bridal party enters the reception. Your MC may play some upbeat music and introduce them or they may just take a seat.

The MC announces the couple’s entrance and guests are asked to stand up and cheer the newlyweds.

Entrees and Mains are served.

Toasts and speeches may be given during or after dinner, with a speech traditionally given by the father of the bride, the groom, and the best man.

After the toasts and set speeches are given, the MC asks if anyone else would like to speak.

Telegrams and messages are read by the best man.

The cake is cut by the couple after dessert.

Traditionally the bridal waltz is the first dance of the evening led by the newlyweds as they have their first dance as a married couple. The bridal party and the parents of the newlyweds then follow them with other guests finally joining in (you might like to add in a father-daughter dance and/or mother-son dance).

The rest of the night is normally spent dancing and catching up with friends and relatives.

Traditionally, before the bride leaves the reception, the MC will announce the throwing of the bouquet.

The couple then say a quick thank you and goodbye to their guests before their departure. You may like to streamline the speeches (more time for dancing), add in a fun activity, have a sparkler send off, or maybe host an after-party - the choice is yours.