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Attending a Funeral Service in Salt Lake City If you are going to a mortuary in Salt Lake City for a funeral, you will want to understand funeral etiquette. Although funeral etiquette can be difficult, because of all of the emotions of the emotions of the day you will want to know how you should act before you head out. First, it is important that you know how you are going to express your sympathy properly. It can be difficult to know what to say when you are in the situation, but you may want to think about what you are going to say or even practice it before you get to the funeral. When you know what you are going to say, it can be a lot easier to express your emotion to the family or loved ones of the deceased. Make sure that you are concise and that you understand that they may have a lot of guests to talk to or even that it may be difficult for them to talk. Often times, you will find that you can simply say that you are sorry for their loss. Vocalizing that sympathy can do a lot for the individual that has suffered a loss and you do not want to miss your opportunity to appropriately vocalize your feelings of sympathy.

Know the Dress Code Before you head out to the mortuary in Salt Lake, you should be sure that you know what the dress code is. There are some funerals that are very traditional and when you attend one of these funerals you may feel out of place if you are not wearing black when you arrive. Some funeral services will be “no black” for the dress code and you definitely do not want to show up in black to one of these services. When there are no specifications for the funeral, you should be sure that you dress conservatively and that you are not wearing bright colors.

Common Courtesy It is also common to bring a gift to a funeral. There are many people that bring flowers to a funeral service, but you may find that a funeral party specifies that any gifts would be preferred as charitable donations to a specific organization or society, made in the name of the deceased. When you find yourself attending one of these funerals, you should make the donation in the name of the deceased. The organization or the group is often something or someone that is near and dear to the hearts of the deceased or the deceased’s family. As you first enter the mortuary in Salt Lake, you will


probably find a register book. You should be sure that you write your name in the register book and that you also write down your relationship to the deceased. If the family does not know you well, this relationship can be very helpful. The family will be able to understand who you are and how you came to be at the funeral service if they know what your relationship is to the deceased.


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