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with a high school student while helping them earn volunteer hours. Call (415) 456-9062 to sign up. If you have internet access, Netflix has created a way for you to see a movie with friends. NetflixParty.com
allows you to invite your friends to watch a movie with you. They can even enter comments in a chat feature along the side, allowing you to do something you can never do at a movie – talk without getting shooshed.
Home sewers needed to make masks Whistlestop is still operating several essential services but we need protective masks. Our center is closed but drivers, staff and volunteers are taking people to medical appointments, delivering meals and groceries to homebound older adults and people with disabilities. Help is needed
from anyone with a sewing machine and materials to make masks. If you can sew and have supplies, let us know how you can help. Our drivers will pick up the completed masks when ready. We can also drop off kits If you have a machine but need materials. Contact: lvermont@whistlestop.org 415-456-9067
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or many, Whistlestop is much more than a place to see a familiar face, grab a bite to eat or take a class. It’s a lifeline, serving as both a safety net and a community, helping us all stay connected with others in greater Marin. Older adults are not only affected by the threat of COVID-19, but by the threat of social isolation caused by sheltering in place. A study by AARP notes that prolonged isolation can take a toll on a person’s health, akin to smoking 15 cigarettes a day. Isolation can have a spillover into our habits and routines, as we tend to remember to do things because they are tied to something else. “When that gets disrupted, it disrupts when we eat, which disrupts our sleep, which disrupts whether we take our medications,” says Ruth Finkelstein, executive director of the Brookdale Center for Healthy Aging at Hunter College. One of the ways to combat this, is to stay connected to others. Face-to-face interactions have been temporarily replaced by FaceTime, Zoom and Skype, which offer a visual element that is welcomed. If you
have a smartphone, you can even talk to more than one person using your phone and its built-in camera. This is a great way to see your children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. They could even teach you how to use the technology. Even in this high-tech age, a good old-fashioned phone call can work wonders when you’re feeling alone. Setting up a regular call with a friend over coffee or tea can be something to look forward to every morning. You may even want to schedule a regular call so that it becomes part of your routine, which can go a long way in maintaining good mental health while isolated. Consider joining Whistlestop’s CaringCalls program where you can share your insights and experiences
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Ways to Stay Fit While at Home new forms of exercise prevent boredom. Walk a new route, dance to your favorite music, or try an online class if you have internet access.
At-Home Chair Exercises
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Find Time to Exercise
Try exercising first thing in the morning. Combine physical activity with a task that’s already part of your day, such as gardening, walking the dog or doing household chores. Aim to walk fast enough so that you can still talk but not sing.
Don’t Make Being Tired an Excuse!
Once you become active, you’re likely to have more energy than before. Regular exercise can also
help you manage stress and improve your overall emotional well-being.
Reward Yourself
Give yourself a reward that you enjoy after you exercise such as a small piece of chocolate or a phone call to someone special. After a couple of weeks your brain will begin to encode enjoyment with exercise.
Make Exercise Interesting and Enjoyable Being creative about your physical activity and trying
Do each 10 times and work up to 20. You can do these while watching TV! • Sit upright; don’t slouch. Pull in your abs and pull up your spine. • Extend your legs in front of you. Alternate pointing and flexing the feet. • With feet under knees, raise your heels up and down. • Raise one knee up as high as you can, then the other leg. • Circle your upper body around your waist. First in one direction and then the other direction • Put your palms together in front of your chest and press as hard as you can. • Lock your fingers together and pull as if pulling apart. • Hold your arms out to your sides and raise up as high as you can. Repeat holding arms straight in front of you.
CONNECT WITH OTHERS AND HAVE FUN IN OUR “VIRTUAL” WHISTLESIZERS CLASS! Tuesdays & Thursdays, 11:00 - 11:40AM Have your chair ready and you phone on speaker. Call 415-480-2522 just before 11 am to join.
Information on food resources and other services and assistance: COMMUNITY
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Email 457-INFO@marincounty.org or call 415-457-INFO Visit www.211.org or Dial 211 from your phone
Cal Fresh Senior Farmers Market Nutrition Program
$20 check booklets are provided to individuals 60 years of age and older who are on a limited income, allowing them to purchase fresh produce at these local farmers markets:
Monday Tomales: 9:00am – 10:00am: Main St. & Dillon Beach Rd., Tomales Point Reyes Station: 12:30pm – 1:30pm: Walnut Place, 600 A St., Sir Francis Drake Blvd. San Geronimo: 2:30pm – 3:30pm: San Geronimo Valley Community Center: 600 A St., Sir Francis Drake Blvd.
Thursday San Rafael: 9:00am – 10:00am, Martinelli House, 1327 Lincoln Ave. Novato: 11:00am – 12:00pm: Marin Valley Mobile Country Club, 100 Marin Valley Drive Marin City: 1:00pm – 2:0 pm: 100 - 200 Drake Avenue San Rafael: 2:30pm – 3:30pm: Maria B. Freitas Senior Community, 455 Manuel T. Freitas Pkwy.
San Francisco–Marin Food Bank
Find the most comprehensive and up-to-date food resources by visiting: https://foodlocator.sfmfoodbank.org or call: 415-282-1900.
Rollin’ Root Seniors Discounted Produce
Rollin’ Root mobile farmers market program serves an increased number of homebound seniors. For help with transportation to a Rollin' Root farmers market or if you would like to have a volunteer shop for you and deliver to your home, call: 707-634-4672. Marin City: Wednesday: 10:30 am – 12:30 pm, Bayside MLK, 200 Phillips Drive San Geronimo: Thursday: 12 pm – 2 pm, San Geronimo Valley Community Center, 1 Lagunitas School Rd San Rafael: Saturday: 10 am – 2pm, Kerner Drive-through Pantry, 2550 Kerner Blvd.
Jewish Family and Children’s Services
Older Adult and Disabled Care—For immediate assistance please call 415-449-3700.
Emergency Rental Assistance Program
This program of Marin HHS supports people who are at risk of homelessness and need rental assistance to prevent eviction due to a loss of income from the COVID-19 pandemic. Please email covid-19@marincounty.org or call at 415-473-7191. On March 24 the Marin County Board of Supervisors approved an emergency resolution to prevent residents and business owners from being evicted because of a sudden loss of income tied to the COVID-19 pandemic. This ban is in effect countywide in every city, town, and unincorporated area of Marin County and lasts until May 31, 2020, unless extended by the Board of Supervisors. If you have questions about the emergency ban on evictions contact Housing and Federal Grants Division staff by email or telephone at 415-473-7309. An FAQ and additional materials is available at www.marincounty.org/renterlandlord
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It’s important for us all to maintain good emotional and mental health, intellectual CULTURAL and artistic stimulation and social connection as we Shelter in Place. Below RESOURCES is a selection of art, entertainment and learning resources available to support our very vibrant community.
THEATRE ARTS London-National Theatre Free streaming videos of full-length plays: nationaltheatre.org.uk/whats-on City Lights Theatre Company Free streaming access to video recordings. Live every Friday: cltc.org Teatro Visión Free streaming access to a video recording of: Luz: A Shadow Play Based On Senior Stories: teatrovision.org Marin Theatre Company Purchase streaming access to videos of productions: marintheatre.org Magic Theatre Listen to free audio narratives by local playwrights: magictheatre.org
ARTS & MUSEUMS Google Arts & Culture Features virtual tours of leading museums, including the National Gallery of Art in Washington, D.C., the Solomon R. Guggenheim Museum in New York and The Louvre in Paris. artsandculture.google.com/project/virtual-tours
LISTEN TO POSITIVE NEWS
Try to balance news coverage with some good news segments. Studies prove that exposure to bad news can cause anxiety and stress. On the flip side, reading good news can make us feel happier and more hopeful. Positive News: positive.news.com Optimist Daily: optimistdaily.com The Happy News: thehappynewspaper.com The Good News Network: goodnewsnetwork.org
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During Shelter In Place We are Here For You
The doors to our Active Aging Center Services may have closed when the Shelter in Place order was issued, but Whistlestop is still open, working to address the new challenges that older adults now face. We remain dedicated to you, and are working hard to expand our existing programs, and implement new ones. Below is a list of current programs. For the most up-to-date information, you can also visit our website or call us at 415-456-9062! WHISTLESTOP
Transportation
Free Volunteer Rides. Whistlestop’s CarePool volunteer driver program is still in operation, providing rides to vital medical appointments and to the grocery store. CarePool volunteer drivers are following proper sanitation guidelines. To schedule a ride, call 415-454-0927. Marin Access Paratransit services provide daily, pre-scheduled, doorto-door bus transportation in Marin County for people with disabilities. Drivers are disinfecting their vehicles three times per shift, wearing masks and changing gloves after each rider. Call 415-454-0964 to schedule a ride.
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Whistlestop Home Delivered Meals. Whistlestop is significantly expanding its Whistlestop Nourish and Meals on Wheels home delivered meal services, providing 7 meals per week to those in need of food. To sign up for meals call 415-456-9062 x176 or visit www.whistlestop.org/nourish. Food pantry. Whistlestop’s Brown Bag Pantry program is open to any Marin resident in need of food. Come to the Active Aging Center at 930 Tamalpais Ave in San Rafael on Fridays at 10am to receive bags of pre-packed fresh groceries and staple food items provided by the Marin/SF Food Bank. Drive through at the front or walk up around the back. Call 415-456-9062 with questions. Pet Food for dogs and cats is also available at the Friday food pantry, thanks to Marin Humane. Fresh, nutritious, takeout meals for $6 from the Jackson Café. Fresh meals are being prepared by our culinary team daily and are being sold through our front door at the Active Aging Center M-F 11:30am – 1:00pm. No need to order in advance. View the weekly takeout menu at whistlestop.org/nutrition/Jackson-café. Marin County Grocery Distribution Program. In partnership with the County of Marin, Whistlestop is delivering pre-filled grocery bags to people over age 60 or those living with disabilities or chronic health conditions that are keeping them isolated. This program is for those not receiving other food services and is free of charge. Please call Whistlestop at 415-456-9062 to determine eligibility or other options. Whistlestop Grocery Delivery Program. If you are able to pay for your own groceries but are sheltering in place, our Whistlestop drivers will shop your grocery list for you and deliver to your home. We offer friendly, personalized service to ensure the store has your desired items, faster turnaround times than current waits for grocery online shopping platforms, and free delivery! Call 415-456-9062. CONTINUED ON PAGE 8 >
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The census helps shape many different aspects of your community. Everyone is counted. Due to the Marin County shelter in place measures, Questionnaire Assistance Centers and Kiosks will delayed opening. If you need assistance to complete your census online at my2020census.gov or call the Census Bureau toll free at 844-330-2020.
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Free rides to the grocery store. If you are able to shop for groceries but need a ride, Whistlestop’s CarePool volunteer driver program can get you there and back at no cost to you. To schedule a ride, call 415-454-0927.
Connection & Resources
CaringCalls. Join our intergenerational social phone visiting program! Share your experiences, stories and insights and help create social connection during this time of physical isolation, for yourself and for a local high school student. Call 415-456--9062. Check-in Calls. The Whistlestop call center is calling older adults to see how they are doing and offer referrals and resources. Those who would like follow-up calls may sign up for regular phone visits and check-ins. Please call 415-456-9062. Resource Referrals. We strongly recommend the County’s information line as the best source of information and referrals: 415-457-INFO (4636). Our team of caring staff is available to answer questions about resources. Please call 415-456-9062 instead of the regular Resource Office number during this time.
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In this time of separation, it is more important than ever to stay connected, especially for older adults.
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Well Connected and Well Connected Espanol provide a wide range of free activities, education, classes and support groups to adults over the age of 60. Members can call in via a toll-free number at a set time each week, with some groups also offering the option to connect via computer, tablet, or mobile device. Most groups last 30 minutes to an hour with around 12 participants. Members can play a game, learn a language, write a poem, go on a virtual tour, meditate, share gratitude, get support, and most importantly, connect and engage with others every day across the country. Newcomers are always welcome! If you don’t feel like talking at first, you’re welcome to just listen as long as you’ve let the group know you’re there. To register for Spring classes, please contact 877-797-7299, or coviaconnections@covia.org for more information.
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out to release the stress from the heart. This also strengthens the immune system. • Now, breathe in and imagine that you are inhaling healing energy from the sky. Picture it going straight into your brain and then release all those negative thoughts and worries through your body, down through your feet, and into the earth. If you find this difficult, imagine a giant magnet at the center of the earth that is pulling all of these worries out of you. Repeat this two or three times. Visit me at qiwitheli.com or see my free 18-minute video and special offer at resilience.qiwitheli.com.
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housands of years of Traditional Chinese Medicine along with more recent Western Medicine research shows the correlation between the stress responses and our immune system. When stress hormone levels rise, energy is redirected to the “fight or flight” response and away from our immune support. But when we’re happy, calm and at ease, the energy (Qi) flows to our immune system, improving our overall health. In QiGong (energy cultivation practice) we focus on movement, acupressure and breath to calm our mind and body and elevate our spirit. Following are some QiGong methods that will help you move from a stress response to a state of flow, promoting building a stronger immune system. • Find a quiet place indoors or out and sit in a position that is comfortable for you. • Gently close your eyes and ask yourself these questions, scoring on a scale of 1 to 10, 1 being totally relaxed and 10 being very stressed: º How stressed are you feeling right now? º Where do you feel this sensation in your body? • Spend a few minutes contemplating these
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Staying safe (and sane) in trying times By Kelly Krueger Thomas Whistlestop Express Editor
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e are social creatures by nature. Sure, we can cocoon pretty well when we’re in the mood – getting lost in a good book on a rainy day or curling up on the couch for a movie marathon. But how can we maintain good mental health when we’re told to stay home for days, weeks or even months? First, realize that this public health crisis is totally out of your control. You can’t control what public health
officials are doing right now. You can only control your response to what is going on. To exercise that control, start by focusing on your routines. Instead of spending a lot of time thinking about what might happen someday, focus on what your today is going to be like instead. Start with setting a schedule for getting up in the morning, eating throughout the day and going to bed at night. Get up, shower and dress as if you’re going to have company. Experts agree getting dressed in the morning can play a role in your mood and motivation
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from alcohol, which is a depressant. Even though we need to practice physical distancing, go outdoors. Sit on your porch or go for a walk. A sunny day can do more to refresh you and improve your mental health than anything your doctor could prescribe. Most of all, take a deep breath and realize that this will all pass. It’s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of a moment. But if you focus on your routines and on things you enjoy doing at home, you’ll be back to having in-person coffee dates and lunches with your friends before you know it.
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throughout the day. Take some time to do some menu planning so you can make the most of what you have available. Leftovers may become something you come to look forward to most. Schedule time to do what anchors you, whether it’s a hobby, chores, exercise or gardening. Connect with friends, family or grandchildren via FaceTime, Zoom, Skype or by telephone. If you have online access, you can learn something new on YouTube or take a Master Class. Steer clear of social media or daily news cycles. When it comes to movies, watch comedies. Stay away
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uring this difficult time, how do we prevent stress and anxiety from taking over our lives? How do we build inner peace? The answer is that we simply begin a practice and see what happens. The key is to find calm in the center of the storm. Think about a hurricane. The bands of wind and rain come and go but in the center of the hurricane, it is calm. No wind. No rain. The sun is shining. The ancient arts of meditation and Qi Gong can help you find that calm at the center of the storm.
This practice requires no training, and can bring you peace and tranquility in the most difficult times, allowing you to clear your mind of all the worry and find refuge in a safe place where you can focus on you and your emotional, mental and physical health. Begin with a comfortable sitting or standing position. Lift your hands to shoulder level as you slowly inhale with belly breaths. As you slowly exhale, lower your hands to your waist. Concentrate on your breath. As you inhale and lift your hands, imagine that you are a wave breaking on the shoreline and rushing up the beach. The sound of the breaking wave is the
your breath is the sound the water makes as it rushes down the sand and back into the ocean. As you practice you can add more elements. Imagine that you are the sand moving with the wave. Imagine that you are the sky and the sea. Letâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s try another one. Begin with a comfortable position (Wuji) and basic belly-breaths. Inventory your feelings, emotions and physical sensations. Seek out anything that may be holding you back. Is there a dragon guarding the gate you wish to pass through? Stop feeding the dragon. Embrace light, love and trust. Bond inseparably to the force that binds all life. Create an inner room, or space, or garden in your mind. Step in. Turn. Your practice is a refuge, it is a safe haven steeped in quiet purpose. You are an important part of an ancient tradition and community.
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Together We Can • Grocery Delivery programs through partnerships with the County of Whistlestop Chief Donor Relations Officer Marin and with local grocers. • Affordable, nutritious takeout ow more than ever, our older lunches for $6 made fresh daily by adult community is relying our Jackson Café culinary team. on us. Our message to them is We are receiving an outpouring clear: “Whistlestop is here for you.” Our of support from generous dedicated staff is working people who want to help. creatively and tirelessly to Financial contributions to expand our programs and our Expanded Services implement new ones: Fund will help us continue • Home-delivered meals to serve the growing number are rapidly expanding as of people in need of food, more and more people safe transportation and find themselves in need of connection. Please visit food. whistlestop.org/expand for • Weekly food pantry has Yvonne Roberts all the ways you can help. expanded by nearly 20% since the Shelter in Place order When our community returns to began. normal, the needs of this vulnerable • Social phone visits through our population will still be there, and so new intergenerational CaringCalls will Whistlestop. Connection is in our program, providing social connection DNA. We’ll get through this together, and a chance to share experiences. and we’re so grateful for your support! • Check in calls with referrals and Learn more or donate at whistlestop.org/expand. follow ups to 4,800 older adults all Your donation will be matched dollar-for-dollar over Marin. up to the first $35,000 due to a generous grant • Safe rides to medical appointments from Wells Fargo and an anonymous Family Foundation. and grocery stores.
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