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What Readers Are Saying About 10 Simple Steps to Living Abundantly:

“Reading this eBook gave me much clarity on practical steps I can take to shift my mentality, which is very helpful especially in overcoming our own insecurities and limiting beliefs. I admire how Aldora bares her own issues and share her personal journey of healing and growth, which I believe must have taken a lot of courage and strength. Thank you for writing this eBook. I highly recommend everyone to download it and see how it can help you.” Khairul Ariffin Top Network Marketing Entrepreneur & Success Coach

“Bravo on sharing your life story! Especially how you overcame depression and mended the relationship with your mum. Really got hooked on Chapter 2: Happiness is a Choice, Focus on the Positive Things. The brothers’ story is really inspiring – “That optimism was something that our family always had, even when we had little else”, that really resonates with me. Definitely a must download read, 10 steps are really helpful to anyone who needs it.”

Malcolm Low Software Engineer

“Aldora’s eBook touches and inspires many persons, including myself. As a consultant, I am selective in books to read and keep as recommendation to trainees. Definitely, “10 Simple Steps to Living Abundatly” is top in my list.”

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“This is one of the most inspiring eBooks I ever read. I strongly recommend everyone to finish reading this eBook NOW. In this book, Aldora confessed her own story in such clarity that it instantly touched me deeply. It resonated with me well on all steps mentioned, especially #6: Give Unconditionally. I learnt a lot from Aldora’s own success story and will apply the steps into my life. Hope this eBook inspires you as well!” Lawrence Du Author

Acknowledgements Thank God & my Parents for the wonderful gift of life. To my supportive husband, Griffin Poon for standing by me during my most difficult times and fattening me with all the good treats! Heartfelt thanks to my mentors – Yee Shun-Jian & Miranda Hung for touching my life and inspiring me to write this eBook. Most importantly, YOU! Congrats to taking the leap of faith in downloading 10 Simple Steps to Living Abundantly. I can’t wait add abundant value to YOUR LIFE and pull you as long as you commit to read this eBook from cover to cover.

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Table of Contents INTRODUCTION ........................................................................8 How 10 Simple Steps To Living Abundantly has helped me walk out of my childhood fears & depression: ....................................................................9

Chapter 1: The Miraculous Mindset ............................................. 15 Chapter 2: Happiness is a Choice, Focus on the Positive Things ........16 Chapter 3: Gratitude ...................................................................20 Keep a Gratitude Journal .......................................................................... 20

Chapter 4: Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s OK to be NOT OK .................................................22 Suppression = Depression ......................................................................... 22

Chapter 5: Build Intimate Relationships ....................................... 24 Chapter 6: Give unconditionally ................................................... 26 Giving is Your Opportunity to Make a Difference .........................................27

Chapter 7: All or Nothing .............................................................28 Hold Yourself Accountable ........................................................................ 29

Chapter 8: Free Ourselves from Self-Centric Limitations .................30 Chapter 9: Be Present .................................................................31 Chapter 10: Affirmations for Abundance ....................................... 33 Some affirmations you can declare to yourself to attract abundance: ..............34

Chapter 11: Take Massive Action ..................................................35 Chapter 12: [BONUS] TIPS ..........................................................36 Resources ..................................................................................37 Resources for Love, Marriage & Relationships .............................................39 Resources for Motivation / Transformation ................................................43 Resources for Health & Fitness .................................................................. 46 7

INTRODUCTION

Hi, my Christian name is Aldora and it means “Noble” in English or “Winged Gift” in Greek. I believe that I exist for the noble purpose to be a winged gift in everybody’s life – shedding light to the doubtful & showering joy to those who are depressed. I am a Social Media Influencer and I Blog for http://AldoraMuses.com during my free time as writing helps me to express my thoughts and emotions freely. Firstly, I would love to congratulate you taking the action to download this eBook. You are now being empowered with incredible ways to create miracles to your life and to live in abundance. You might be wondering to yourself: “How will 10 Simple Steps to Living Abundantly possibly help me live abundantly and achieve greater success & joy?” In order to answer your queries and show you the effects of applying what I’m going to show you, let me share with you my personal experience.

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How 10 Simple Steps To Living Abundantly has helped me walk out of my childhood fears & depression: I was born to a lower middle income family whereby I was raised by my maternal grandparents for the first 5 years of my life.

! My 2nd Birthday Celebration with my maternal grandparents, Mom & 2 Aunts My parents were struggling to sustain the family financially upon my arrival. Dad was a mechanic then and was always not at home to accompany us as he needs to standby at all times whenever the car park gantry is malfunctioning. As I was the firstborn, Mom had no idea how to care for me as an infant. She had post-natal depression as she felt pressurised by my paternal grandma who criticised the way she handled me.

Her depression got so bad that she nearly strangled me to death when I was crying

incessantly one day. Thank God she came to her senses then and left me with my maternal grandparents to care for me whilst she resumed to work and to avoid caring for me.

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When I was 5 years old, Mom decided to quit her full-time job to be a housewife and caregiver when Dadâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s income was more stable. My parents fetched me over to live with them and I vividly remembered that I cried so tragically as I thought I would never see my maternal grandparents for good. My relationship with my parents is not as intimate as compared to my grandparents and 2 unmarried aunts. My most doting maternal grandpa was called to the Lord when I was 6 due to lung cancer and I missed him dearly ever since. Mom was pregnant with my younger brother when I was 7 and was put on bed rest throughout her pregnancy term as there was spotting. When my little brother â&#x20AC;&#x201C; Kriston was born, Mom suffered from depression again as Dad was overseas most of the time for his work trips (he joined an Italian lock company and had to travel frequently to service electronic locks & safes for his hotel clients) and was not present to support her. Mom began to vent her frustration and unhappiness on me during that period. I remembered that I often got caned for mistakes I made and she almost threw me out of the house for not tidying up my room on one occasion. My fear for Mom grew during those years and I will literally cringe whenever our eyes meet.

! Graduation Photo shoot, 2011

Mom is very strict with her discipline and tends to impose her opinions on me most of the time. She would go cranky and start to scold and cane me if I acted against her will. I was deprived of her approval since young as nothing I did seem to please her. Deep down, I resented her for being so autocratic and manipulative. By God’s grace, I met the love of my life on Valentine’s Day in 2013 – Griffin and married him 2 years later on 12 April 2015.

I rushed into marriage as I was desperate to escape Mom’s

clutches. In fact I was very eager to move out to form my own family in order to live MY life.

! Our Church Wedding on 12 April 2015 However my happiness was short-lived as Mom’s shadow continued to manifest in my life although I’m not living with her as I’m obliged to visit my parents at least once a week for dinner. Mom had menopausal symptoms shortly after my wedding and her mood swings got very intense. She was often unhappy with everything and her negativity rubbed against everyone in the family and I was greatly impacted as I feared her the most as a kid.

There was once she got mad after seeing a photo of my Dad putting his arm around a female business partner on Facebook and got paranoid. She confronted Dad and they got into many fights. Then, Mom phoned me during office hours when I was working and would rant continuously on how Dad let her down in her marriage and started sobbing. She threatened my Dad with divorce and even suicide on several occasions. I had no idea how to handle her but remained silent whilst doing my work simultaneously, wishing for her to shut her trap and return me my peace once she got tired of ranting which she did after half an hour. She also flooded my phone with messages of her resentment against Dad and some “evidence” of Dad’s misdeeds. During that time, I felt depressed and had to drag myself to visit my parents weekly to witness all the drama and tension between my parents. Dad became more withdrawn and would be sitting on the couch surfing the net via his iPad after dinner to get berated by Mom for neglecting her emotions by doing so. My brother got a part-time job which required him to work long shifts and was rarely at home. I was literally living on tenterhooks for fear that I step on a “landmine” unknowingly as everything we did seem to trigger Mom’s raw nerve. My depression got worse after my husband enrolled me to Psychodrama therapy (a painful process where my childhood fears and negative emotions were re-enacted right before my eyes) in an attempt to make me feel better. The therapist kept emphasizing to me that I did not know how to love as I was not shown any love as a child. I argued that Mom treated me as her darling daughter when she was not emotionally provoked but the therapist insisted that it was not love as a loving mother will not abuse her child like that. Instead, her acts of love were out of guilt. She made me acknowledge the fact that I was unloved as a child. Further Psychodrama sessions suggested that I might be sexually abused as a child / infant as I mentioned that I felt weird when others touch me physically. The therapist explained that sometimes doctors / nurses or even caregivers have the tendency to sexually abuse infants thinking that they cannot remember a thing but those sensations / emotions would remain somewhere within the infants. These emotions would be manifested in their adult lives afterwards. The therapist even enquired whether my grandpa bathed me when I was young as I spent most of time with my grandparents. 12

In addition, I am advised to subscribe to more sessions if I want to find out about the missing fragments of my childhood memory before 3 years old. At that juncture, I felt that ignorance would be bliss as I do not want to recall the missing fragment of my memory to discover that the “culprit” to be someone who is dear to me i.e. my grandparents / parents. I sank into misery and self-pity after undergoing 3 sessions of Psychodrama Therapy that we decided to call it quits since it is simply not working for me. After some time, my husband’s colleague recommended him to take up a self-improvement program – “Living in Passion” (now rebranded as “Creating Your Miracles”) by MiracleLife Pte Ltd. The founder and principal of the program – Miranda Hung used to suffer from severe depression and almost ended her life. However, she experienced phenomenal transformation in her life which allowed her to live abundantly. Hence she dedicated her life in developing methods to educate and heal people holistically so that they can grow to believe in miracles and create their own miracles in all aspects of their lives as well.

! MiracleLife Pte Ltd & Miranda Hung

I attended the program together with my husband without expecting much as I thought it might be another scam. However the program proved me wrong as I was surrounded by hope and positivity in a supportive community and I discovered many insights on abundant living.

Living a Miraculous Life Full of Abundance “Living in Passion” define miracles as breakthroughs in our lives such as achieving things that we would not have been able to if we did not step out of our comfort zones. We were encouraged to constantly step out of our comfort zones and to be a better version of ourselves. I have created my first miracle during “Living in Passion” by overcoming my fear of public speaking by sharing my experiences on the stage which would never have been possible if I were not transformed by the program. By implementing the techniques I’ve learned from “Living in Passion”, I was able to change the way I feel and react to situations and the people around me started to change for the better too! My relationship with my parents and husband began to improve slowly after attending “Living in Passion” in 2016 and I feel that my life has become more purposeful and abundant each and every day. This inspired me to write an eBook to share with you the essence of “Living in Passion” to invite abundance to your life. Continue reading if you want to create your own miracles and breakthroughs in your life!

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Chapter 1: The Miraculous Mindset

! The building block of an abundant life is to master your mindset. Everything in the universe is neutral until we give it a meaning by adding our own context to things. Suffering is in the perception of the fact and not in the fact itself. How we perceive things and the world around us determines whether or not we will be happy. Our perception of things might be clouded by a set of assumptions which most often are untrue.

! When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at will change too!

Chapter 2: Happiness is a Choice, Focus on the Positive Things

! Happiness is actually a choice and we can choose to focus on the positive things out of every situation. I have been combating against adult acne for 3 years (and counting) and used to hate the way I look. I spent thousands of dollars trying to cure my adult acne but to no avail and that caused me much suffering whenever people started to question “What happen to your face?” whenever they see me. Untactful sales personnel at drugstores tend to approach me to recommend me their products that can treat acne or fade scars and I used to feel offended by their actions as I felt that they were rubbing salt onto my already open wound. That was my perception then and it made me grumpy and depressed whenever I see my reflection on the mirror. I would question the reason for my ugly existence.

It took me a while to realize that me focusing on my acne problems all the time is restricting me from living my life abundantly! I learnt how to let go and see the other positive aspects in my life: •

I have acne, this doesn’t mean I have to wallow myself in self-pity as I can still edit my photos to look awesome by using the smooth-skin feature

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Mom is cranky again – she is probably feeling insecure and will be better if we show her more concern and attention

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My body is aching so badly after a workout – I’m on the right track to be healthier and look better physically

Brothers who cofounded a $100 million company say this question their mom asked every night at dinner is what inspired their business

Article Source: http://www.businessinsider.sg/life-is-good-founders-say-thisquestion-inspired-their-business-2015-12/#Dx6dBOPm4OhHbWRM.99

Bert and John Jacobs, the brothers who cofounded the $100 million Life is Good T-shirt Company, grew up the youngest of six children in a lower middle class family in Boston.

When the brothers were in elementary school, their parents were in a near-death car accident from which their mother managed to escape with just a few broken bones — but their father lost the use of his right hand.

The stress and frustration from his physical therapy caused him to develop a harsh temper, they explain in their new book, “Life is Good.”

“He did a lot of yelling when we were in grade school,” John told Business Insider. And life certainly wasn’t perfect.

“There were often difficult things happening around the house,” the brothers write. But their mom, Joan, still believed life was good. So, every night as the family sat around the dinner table, she would ask her six kids to tell her something good that happened that day.

“As simple as mom’s words were, they changed the energy in the room,” the brothers write. “Before we knew it, we were all riffing on the best, funniest, or most bizarre part of our day.”

John says this daily exercise prevented them from developing a victim’s mentality of “Oh, you wouldn’t believe this horrible thing that happened to me today.” Instead of griping about a teacher or homework assignment, he says they would be laughing about a silly haircut a classmate got that day, or a neat project they worked on at school.

“That optimism was something that our family always had, even when we had little else,” they write.

Growing up with a mother like theirs — one who sang in the kitchen, told animated stories, and acted out children’s books for them, no matter what bad situation they were going through — taught them an important lesson: Being happy isn’t dependent on your circumstances. “She showed us that optimism is a courageous choice you can make every day, especially in the face of adversity.”

They say her unwavering positive outlook on life is what inspired Life is Good — their $100 million company that’s mission is to spread the power of optimism, with the tagline, “Life is not perfect. Life is not easy. Life is good.”

Since their mother’s daily question served them so well in life, John says he and his brother now ask their employees the same thing when they all come together — “tell me something good” — and the results have been positive. “It leads to ideas, which lead to progress, which leads to building on successes, instead of dwelling on challenges,” he explains.

Chapter 3: Gratitude

! Being thankful enable you to focus on the positivity in your life and expand on it to tap it’s potential to the fullest.

Keep a Gratitude Journal Having a Gratitude Journal helps you to focus on the things you already have so that you can attract more positive things and abundance to your life. Start to think of at least 3 things that you are thankful for and write it down in your Gratitude Journal. Today, I am thankful for… 1. ____________________________________ 2. ____________________________________ 3. ____________________________________ 20

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Had a rough day? There might be essential lessons you can learn from it and be thankful for. Tough situations only strive to make us tougher, so be thankful that we face trials in order to be a better version of ourselves and obtain a breakthrough!

Chapter 4: It’s OK to be NOT OK

! Nothing is perfect in this world. All of us have our own vulnerabilities but we often hide them behind our masks for fear that others may use them against us.

Suppression = Depression Most of us feel that we need to be strong all the time. All it takes is just to acknowledge our vulnerabilities so as to allow ourselves to be helped by others and be strengthened in the process. Learn to let go of our ego and pride and ask for help when needed. Your suffering will be shortened if you do so. We are all humans and it is vital to remember that we are entitled to have bad days no matter what happens. It is OK to breakdown and cry – just ensure that we pick ourselves up afterwards and continue moving forward.

Own your vulnerabilities; it is definitely OK to be NOT OK. Just don’t stay in the state of being NOT OK and refocus on where you’re heading. If you path is not leading to where you want to be, change it. You are allowed to leave, you are allowed to change your mind. This is YOUR LIFE; decide on how you want to live it!

Chapter 5: Build Intimate Relationships The key to success is the ability to build intimate relationships based on trust and mutual understanding. If you were to ask a businessman what are the attributes to their success, they will probably tell you that networking is one of them.

INTIMACY (INTO-ME-SEE) ˈɪntɪməsi/

! If we look at the word carefully, INTIMACY also implies getting to know ourselves on a deeper level – “Into-Me-I-See”. It suggests the more we understand ourselves, the more we can free ourselves of our limiting beliefs and be more open to accept our flaws. To have an intimate relationship with anyone simply means we have to remove the masks that we are wearing all the time and expose our vulnerabilities to the other party.

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In order to have an intimate relationship, we need to feel our own emotions first before we feel for the other party. Once we mastered our own emotions, we can then focus on serving the other party to establish an intimate relationship that is not only beneficial to our mental health but can attribute success to our career too.

Chapter 6: Give unconditionally

! Coming from a lower middle income family, my parents slogged hard in order to provide for the family. Giving is a form of sacrifice and our parents strive to give us the best they can afford unconditionally as an act of love and service for the family. When you give, give without expecting anything in return because if you expect something in return, you will be unhappy and resentful if you do not get reciprocated in kind. My mom was unhappy her whole life because she is always expecting people to show her appreciation for the sacrifices that she has made for the family. Do you have parents who exclaim “I have sacrificed my happiness etc all because of YOU!” whenever their children piss them off ? Most of the times, their children will just stare blankly back at them as they are unable to comprehend why their parrents are behaving in such a way. 26

That was me growing up as a child. I would always retort back in my mind: “Nobody asked you to sacrifice for the family. It’s all YOUR choice, NOT mine.” It is simply amusing how most people play guilt games and resort to emotional blackmailing in order to make the other party feel guilty to behave in their desired way involuntarily.

Giving is Your Opportunity to Make a Difference The concept of giving unconditionally made me understand the true meaning of service. I learnt to give more attention and appreciation to Mom before she started playing her guilt games on us. I bought her small gifts and treated the family to a meal before she started to harp that I am not contributing to the family in any way. All these tiny efforts started to work as Mom is less cranky nowadays. I then applied this concept to other aspects of my life. I did my best to help others when they needed my technical expertise without expecting anything in return and I felt good in the process. Through the process of helping others, I’m also helping myself as I felt that I have a purpose in life and I live a much needed existence here as there are others who need my help. This is also the main reason why I established my Abundance Mindset Email Newsletter to help lift others to get out of the darkness in their lives.

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Chapter 7: All or Nothing

! The main reason why successful people are successful is that they give their best shot in everything they do and excel by going the extra mile. Most of us are living below our full potential because we do not realize that we reap what we sow.

Hold Yourself Accountable

! YOU are accountable for your own choices and actions. Do not find excuses or blame others if you fail. Instead, examine yourselves when things go awry and find ways to improve from there. That is how you attract abundance to your life. Start taking baby steps to achieving your dreams and you will be shocked to see how far you have achieved.

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Chapter 8: Free Ourselves from Self-Centric Limitations In order for us to attract abundance to our lives, we must first free ourselves from self-centric limitations. Consider these stories that keep playing in our heads throughout our life: •

Things has to be ______________ in order for me to be ______________

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I can be free ONLY if ______________

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I can be happy ONLY if ______________

More often than not, we are putting our own definition to things and we need to understand that we do NOT need to have our preferences to be fulfilled in order to welcome happiness and abundance into our lives.

“The Extreme Self-Centered Attitude is the Source of Suffering” - Dalai Lama

Our suffering and pain arise from us being self-centric. If we learn how to channel our energy to focus on how we can serve the needs of others, it is the time we free ourselves of our self-centric beliefs and limitations.  In order to free yourself from being self-centric, you may start asking your loved ones: “How may I love YOU? How may I serve YOU?” Once you focus on more of “YOU” and less of “I”, you would have freed yourself from the self-centric attitude.

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Chapter 9: Be Present Have you ever felt frustrated when you try to expressing yourself to somebody only to see that they are engrossed with something else such as their electronic devices?

! In this technological age, it is ironical that we are seeking for some form of connection but end up feeling lonely and dejected because machines do not transmit nuances of expression. All of us want to be heard, seen and acknowledged. Hence it is important for us to be present for our loved ones in order to live an abundant life. When I started showing empathy to my Mom, she acted less negatively. It is just so true that drama stops when a person feels heard.

Below are some ways we can show presence to others in a conversation: •

Attempt to make direct eye contact when talking to somebody. Making eye contact is important in communication as it demonstrates your respect to the other party.

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LISTEN attentively. Allow the other party to express their thoughts freely and show your support by providing a listening ear and your undivided attention. People will be more open to share more with you if you make them feel heard.

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READ voraciously. Studies have shown that people who enjoy reading fiction enables them to empathize with others easier.

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Chapter 10: Affirmations for Abundance Affirmations refer to statements said with confidence with a perceived truth. Saying words of affirmation loud every morning when you look at the mirror enables you to program your mind into believing what you said and abundance will manifest in your life unknowingly.

! If you believe that you can achieve abundance in life, you will attract more abundance next.

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Some aďŹ&#x192;rma8ons you can declare to yourself to a;ract abundance: 1. I open myself to the flow of great abundance in all aspects of my life 2. I am always thankful for everything that happens in my life 3. I always have more than enough of everything I need 4. Today I expand my awareness of the abundance around me 5. I allow the universe to bless me in surprising and joyful ways 6. My grateful heart is a magnet that attracts more of everything I desire 7. I exude Passion, Purpose & Fulfilment 8. My day is filled with boundless potential in abundance, joy and love

! Whatever you do, there will always be naysayers in your life putting you down. It is our quest to prove them wrong and give others the permission to think big and achieve their dreams too.

Chapter 11: Take Massive Action

! Most of us tend to procrastinate and hesitate as we feel that we are not good enough to take action. This was me in the past but I realised that nothing in this world is perfect. If we wait till we feel that the time is ripe to take action, it would have been too late to start. Instead, take the action first to keep the fire going and realign ourselves to our dreams in the latter. If we do not take action, there will be no results and we will always be trapped in the guessing game of what will happen IF we do this or that. Do not let the “What Ifs” paralyse us, have good courage and take the first step. 35

Chapter 12: [BONUS] TIPS Wait, did I just mention 10 Simple Steps to Living Abundantly? There are certainly more steps in addition to the previous 10 Steps listed. Hence I will share them here with you ☺

1. Stay Away From Toxic People and Relationships. Sometimes, it is OK to say “NO” to people who are pulling you back and stopping you from attaining abundance in life. Instead, choose to surround yourselves with positivity. 2. Be USEFUL to others without being USED. I touched on giving unconditionally earlier but there will definitely be people who are self-entitled and live to suck the life out of you. Distant yourself from them and move on. You have a greater purpose in life! 3. Forgiveness. Emotional baggage tend to stop you from attaining the abundance that you want in life. Learn how to forgive YOURSELF and OTHERS so that you can empty your cup and fill it with more joy and abundance! 4. Be Authentic. It is tiring to live behind a mask all the time. You maximise your full potential when you start to be authentic and come into contact with your own fears.

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Resources Do you enjoy reading 10 Simple Steps to Living Abundantly? Feel free to email me at hello@AldoraKong.com to let me know how this eBook has helped you and share this eBook with anyone you deem fit. This is just a kick-start to welcoming abundance to your life. In the following pages, you will find resources that are more targeted at more specific areas that you might want to work on. Feel free to check them out and get them where necessary. Also, you will be granted the access to my Members Only Resource Library if you subscribe to my Abundance Mindset Email Newsletter. Do note that most of the resources featured are not faith-based and are solely for reference purposes.

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Remember to TAKE MASSIVE ACTION to apply what you have learnt to your life to experience miraculous transformation to it ☺

To More Abundance in Your Life

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The EX Factor Yeah, the feeling of getting dumped sucks. There’s no

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question about that. Sometimes, you can go crazy thinking about all the things that went wrong in your relationship. But the bottom of the line is, the reason why your relationship ended is because your boyfriend has lost attraction for you. No, it wasn’t because you left your dirty laundry around the house or that it’s “him, not you…”, it’s because the foundation of his attraction for you faded – and it’s your fault. There are ways you can “re-attract” your boyfriend but you have to first understand why he dumped you.

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Strictly for MEN: How To Court A Girl – Understand Why Girls Fall in Love

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Relationship Magic – Revive her Drive, Keep Her COMING

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Chances are, like so many men in a long-term relationship, after a few years the QUANTITY (and quality) of your physical intimacy may be slowing. For some men, their “relations” are just boring or sporadic.   For others, the passion has cooled. But the worse of it is that the way that you try to tempt her just isn’t working anymore. She might avoid your advances or seldom touch you because she’s afraid it

might “start something.”… http://aldorakong.com/KeepHerComing

The EX Factor

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So… wanting your ex girlfriend back? One of the easiest ways you can win your ex girlfriend back is by simply using your cell phone and tapping a bunch of buttons. Sound absurd? Well it isn’t… I’ve coached thousands of men around the world to effectively “Text Their Exes Back”… even if they initially thought that it was impossible to win their ex girlfriends back. And today, I’m about to give you some tips on how you can force your girlfriend to come running back to you (and no, she’ll definitely have absolutely no choice in the matter)…

http://aldorakong.com/GetMyEXBack

Resources for Motivation / Transformation Vibrational Manifestation

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I'm sure you've heard of Jim Carrey. But did you know that he was once homeless when he was just 12 years old? He lived in constant anxiety, never sure when his next meal will be. [Learn how he overcame obstacles to become the extreme success he is today] How did he go from zero to hero, and become the millionaire that he is today?

http://aldorakong.com/VibrationalManifestation

Manifestation Miracle

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Did you realise there is a hole in the Law of Attraction?     Did you know that people around the world are living the lives of their dreams and that there is a missing ingredient that you need to know about?     Follow this link to discover the missing ingredient and manifest abundance, wealth, health, love and more...

http://aldorakong.com/ManifestationMiracle 43

101 Powerful Affirmations

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An eBook written by my mentor – Yee Shun Jian. The 101 Powerful Affirmations allow you to to use the Laws of Attraction to Massively Transform Your Life.

http://aldorakong.com/101PowerfulAffirmations

[On My Blog] Career Series

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Sick and tired of your current job and am planning to seek for a better job opportunity? Read my Career Series for more insights!

The Series include:

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Career & Aspirations

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How Do You Know It Is The Time (To Quit)?

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How To Stay Employable & Ace Your Interviews

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Blogging Journey – Rebranding My Blog

https://www.aldoramuses.com/category/lifestyle/career-series/

Millionaire’s Brain Academy

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Resources for Health & Fitness

Unlock Your Hip Flexors

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Thrive In 5s

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The 3 Week Diet to Lose Weight

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Is it possible to melt away one to two pounds of stubborn body fat every single day? It sounds insane, but according to the scientific proof — and the thousands who have already done it themselves using this secret — the answer is YES. You will never guess how it’s done... (Hint:

It’s NOT about taking sketchy pills or killing yourself at the gym). http://aldorakong.com/3WeekDiet

Lean Belly Breakthrough

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Eat Stop Eat

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