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NEW BEGINNINGS, SAME VALUES
By: Andrea Van Essen | Photos By: Kate Jones Studios
Teddi Mueller has been embracing major milestones lately.
From recently turning 50, to celebrating 25 years of marriage and transitioning to life as an (almost) empty nester, she has had multiple opportunities to reflect on the values that have guided her through life thus far. Though change and the passage of time can often feel intimidating, Teddi says gratitude has been her main takeaway.
That wasn’t her immediate response, however. On the morning of her 50th birthday, Teddi says she woke up feeling anxious.
“I was a little nervous about reaching that milestone and wasn’t sure what to expect. But to my surprise, it turned out to be one of the best days of my life,” Teddi reflects.
“People who have meant so much to me and been a part of my life over the years all reached out in some way, shape, or form to celebrate with me. I spent the entire day connecting and reconnecting with those who have impacted my life in so many meaningful ways.”
Connecting with people, and caring for them, has been a hallmark of Teddi’s life and career.
As the Executive Vice President of the Home Builders Association (HBA) of the Sioux Empire for the last three years, she has had the privilege of serving in a role that not only fits her skill set, but also aligns with her deep commitment to community development.
“I’ve been working in the nonprofit and association world for nearly 25 years, it’s truly in my DNA. I have a deep love for missions, people, and the opportunity to make a difference by improving causes or enhancing lives. That’s where my passion truly lies,” Teddi shares.
“This role has been a true gift, reconnecting me to the roots of this incredible community and giving me the chance to work alongside the most kind and compassionate individuals in the building industry.”
“With over 1,050 members, the HBA of the Sioux Empire is the largest association in the state and ranks among the top 15 nationwide. Our flagship events, such as the Parade of Homes, featuring over 100 homes each year, and the Home Show, drawing over 270 exhibitors, set the standard for excellence among our association and industry. These events highlight the best in homebuilding and design while fostering meaningful connections and opportunities for all involved,” Teddi explains.
Beyond organizing events and fostering networking opportunities, Teddi is deeply committed to advocacy, which she sees as a vital part of her role. In an industry where policies can have significant and immediate impacts, the HBA’s efforts to collaborate with state legislators, local officials, and national leaders are essential. Advocacy work ensures that the voices of members are heard and that the industry can thrive in a fair and supportive regulatory environment.
“We have to make sure we’re protecting the freedom to build and advancing affordable housing efforts,” Teddi adds. “That’s one of the biggest things we do because nothing can bring an industry to its knees faster than a poorly crafted piece of legislation or restrictive building codes.” Her dedication to advocacy reflects the HBA’s commitment to safeguarding the interests of its members while ensuring the continued growth and success of the homebuilding community.
She is also passionate about supporting and advocating for the Home Builders Care Foundation, which works closely with the Home Builders Association of the Sioux Empire. The foundation provides scholarships to students,
grants to schools for tools, and educational camps to inspire interest in the construction and homebuilding industry.
“One of the biggest challenges we face in this industry is workforce development,” Teddi explains. “We’re focused on creating opportunities to spark interest in homebuilding among younger generations and fostering meaningful connections with the industry.”
The foundation plays a vital role in breaking down barriers by providing resources for hands-on learning and educating students about the rewarding career paths available in the construction and homebuilding industry. By investing in the future workforce, the Care Foundation helps address critical labor shortages while ensuring the long-term growth and success of the industry.
Teddi has built a successful career, standing as a shining example of a strong female leader in a male-dominated industry. But at the heart of her world is her family, her husband, Jay, and their four children: Logan (26), Halie (24), Millie (22), and Garvey (17). They are her greatest source of pride and inspiration, shaping her values and driving her forward in everything she does.
While Teddi loves her work and the impact she’s able to make, her ultimate goal is to be fully present for her family. “I want to be there for my kids and, maybe someday, a grandma who gets to help with those little ones,” she shares with a warm smile.
For Teddi, success is about more than her professional achievements, it’s about creating a life centered on love, connection, and making the most of every moment with her family.
As an almost empty nester, Teddi openly shares her struggle with the transition and the bittersweet emotions that come with it. “I’ll admit, it was a tough adjustment when they all started leaving. You go from mass chaos—a household that was always on the go—to all of a sudden, someone snapped their fingers, and they’re gone,” she reflects.
“It was a difficult change, but as I found my footing, life became even busier because then I became their confidant,” Teddi says with a smile. No matter what stage of life she’s in, Teddi always finds ways to stay busy, caring for the people who matter most to her and embracing the unique roles that each season of life brings.
When her daughter, Millie, was preparing to go to graduate school, Teddi came up with a creative way to bond and help with expenses, they took on a bartending gig together at Grand Falls Casino. That summer, the two worked at the pool bar, raising money for tuition while creating unforgettable memories. Even now, with Millie attending school in Florida, Teddi continues bartending on weekends.
“I still work there and pick up shifts in my spare time because I truly meet the most amazing people,” Teddi shares. “I love getting to know the customers and the staff.” For Teddi, it’s more than
Teddi at the Boys and Girls Club educating Middle School students on the Building Industry
Teddi and her family with Grandma Millie
Mueller Family in Disney 2024 Garvey, Logan, Teddi, Jay, Millie and Halie
Teddi and the HBA Team
Mueller Family in Disney 2025 Halie, Garvey, Vicci (Teddi’s Mom), Jay (Teddi’s Husband), Logan and Millie
just a side hustle, it’s a fulfilling hobby that allows her to connect with others in a fun, relaxed, and stress-free environment.
Caring for others, working hard, and finding ways to give back has been a constant theme in her life, and it’s something she learned from the women who have shaped her. Teddi’s mother, who raised her and her younger brothers as a single parent, instilled important lessons about hard work that have shaped the way she approaches life. With gratitude for the many sacrifices her mom made for her, Teddi deeply admires her mother’s resilience and dedication.
Now, Teddi finds great joy in giving back in meaningful ways—spending more time together, including her mom in family activities, and creating special moments that
reflect the bond they share.
“Caring for others is something that naturally comes full circle in life,” Teddi shares. “The love and sacrifices my mom gave me growing up are what I now enjoy giving back to her. Caring for your loved ones is one of the most important things you can do, it’s about showing gratitude and making sure they know how much they mean to you,” Teddi adds.
Because her mom had to work hard to support three children on her own, Teddi also spent a lot of time with her grandma growing up. “While my mom is my steady compass, my grandmother, Millie, was and continues to be my rock. Even though she passed away in 2012, her influence remains deeply rooted in who I am,” Teddi notes. “As a child, I was her sidekick, always by her side,
learning from her wisdom and strength. She shaped my values, my resilience, and my belief in the power of women to uplift and transform the world
In addition to the influence of her mother and grandmother, Teddi highlights the invaluable role of female friendships in her life. Among them is Julie Large, a friend she met when their kids were in elementary school. “This is a friendship where we don’t need to see each other every day, but we always know what’s going on in each other’s lives,” Teddi shares.
“She’s my ride-or-die. We’ve had each other’s backs through the lowest of lows and the highest of highs. Even if we haven’t seen each other for a while, when we reconnect, it’s like no time has passed.” For Teddi, friendships like hers with Julie are a cornerstone of her support system and a constant reminder of the power of
Teddi also speaks fondly of Janet, her elderly neighbor from her very first home, who quickly became an integral part of their lives. “Her husband had passed away, and we started looking out for her—mowing her lawn, checking in on her, and just being there when she needed us,” Teddi shares. Over time, Janet became more than a neighbor; she became family, teaching Teddi that family isn’t defined by blood and showing her the importance of loving and caring for the people in your life.
Teddi and her family were there for Janet through every transition, including her move to assisted living and, ultimately, her final days. “I enjoyed every minute I spent with her,” Teddi reflects. Recently, Janet passed away, leaving another void in Teddi’s life, but her memory remains a lasting reminder of the deep connections that make life meaningful.
As she reflects on these experiences, Teddi looks ahead to the next chapter with gratitude and purpose. Whether it’s continuing her impactful work with the HBA or supporting her children as they navigate their own journeys, Teddi remains focused on what matters most: creating meaningful connections and caring for the people who enrich her life.
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With her kids beginning to leave the nest, Teddi now has two puppies that keep her on her toes, Gerti and Obi. Gerti, a Teacup Yorkie, is Teddi’s dog and unquestionably rules the household with her tiny but mighty presence. Obi, a Blue Heeler/ Border Collie mix, belongs to her son and has clearly claimed Teddi as his favorite, thanks to her endless frisbee throwing and sneaking him snacks her son wouldn’t allow.
When she’s not spending time with her furry companions, Teddi and her family love to travel. New York City is a favorite destination, where they enjoy taking in Broadway shows. When a trip to the Big Apple isn’t possible, they make the most of the Broadway productions that come to Sioux Falls, as well as enjoying the local theater scene. They’re also big fans of Disney and cruising, always eager to explore adventurous excursions at the ports they visit.
As a family, they share a passion for great food. Charlie’s Pizza is one of their all-time favorites, a tradition that started when they had to travel back to Yankton to enjoy it. Now that it’s in Sioux Falls, they visit frequently. Another go-to spot for the family is Inca, where they enjoy authentic Mexican cuisine and the warm, inviting atmosphere.
Family connections run deep in Teddi’s life. Her younger daughter, Millie, is named after her grandmother, a meaningful tribute to a woman who has guided her through life. Her youngest son, Garvey, carries her maiden name, further reflecting the family history she holds dear.
Photos Left to Right: Teddi, Kyle Cosand with Cosand Construction and Teddi’s co-worker Todd Anawski, building a wheelchair ramp during the Care Foundation Repair Affair; Teddi and family at a family friend’s wedding; Gerti (Teacup Yorkie); Obi (Blue Heeler/ Border Collie mix); Teddi and Grandma Millie; Teddi and close friend, Julie Large
FEBRUARY 21-23, 2025
LOVE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH WHAT YOU ARE EXPECTING TO GET - ONLY WITH WHAT YOU ARE EXPECTING TO GIVE - WHICH IS EVERYTHING.
- KATHARINE HEPBURN
By: Teresa Mentzer
Get ready to Mardi on, y’all. Head to the Hills for a weekend of revelry in Deadwood, SD on Feb. 28-Mar. 1. The town’s untamed traditions will be on full display during their annual Mardi Gras celebration. Folks, they are going all in to make the 2025 festivities one to remember.
“It’s the best Mardi Gras celebration north of the Bayou,” says Jesse Allen, Deadwood Chamber Event Coordinator.
Reserve your lodging now for a winter getaway and make plans to join the fun Friday night on Feb. 28. Wear an intriguing mask or feathered fascinator, don your most flamboyant costume, and bring some swagger downtown to the Masquerade Ball at Deadwood Mountain Grand from 7-10 p.m.
Enter into an evening of fun and frivolity with non-stop entertainment. Mingle among the happy revelers as a carnivalesque atmosphere commands the festooned ballroom. Savor delicious charcuterie board fare or visit a tarot card reader’s table for some food for thought.
This nighttime extravaganza is just the beginning of a two-day party where the town is painted in green, purple and gold.
“It’s just a lot of fun; a great weekend. We have events planned to fill the weekend and the best part is everything is free,” says Allen.
In Deadwood, voted one of America’s best party towns, visitors let loose and regale in style. The Masquerade Ball on Friday, Feb. 28 is the event’s newest edition. Spectacular performances by aerialists, fire artists and stilt walkers have been added to the fanfare for 2025. Throughout the night, a DJ will spin dance tunes and every half hour a $25 gift card will be awarded. Over $400 in prizes await those in Mardi Gras attire who enter the best-dressed contest.
Allen and his event team are excited to showcase the talents of cirque entertainers from Zirkiss, a Rapid City-based company. Zirkiss is known for their visually stunning acrobatic performances and mesmerizing acts. Prepare to be awestruck by their daring stunts and the magical world they create for audiences. You will be captivated by the grace and strength of these agile performers as they grab the spotlight.
After leaving the extravagant ball scene, make your way to a saloon or restaurant for some late-night food, live music and libation before
closing out the day. Several transportation services are available to overnight lodging destinations.
While you catch a few winks, preparations will be underway for Saturday’s festivities. Pace yourself for an all-day Cocktail Crawl. Stop by participating shops and saloons for a drink special. Cajun-themed cocktails will be available the entire day at these businesses. Stroll the streets in designated open container zones and roam from bar to bar with beer and wine.
Bring your appetite Saturday afternoon for the Cajun-Cookoff competition from 2-4 p.m. Several restaurants will feature Mardi Gras cuisine in hopes of garnering your votes by appealing to your Creole tastebuds. Bragging rights are on the line for the Peoples’ Choice Award and the Best Cajun in Deadwood. As you sample the featured dishes, local judges will compare notes on what is bound to be a zesty, fiery, savory, and tangy array of celebratory foods like jambalaya, red beans and rice or gumbo.
Continue the themed-beverage crawl until it is time to join the crowd for the grand finale. Catch the trolley, take in one of the many live music performances on the stages around town, sip and shop while you check out the wares in the stores and boutiques on Main Street.
By 7 p.m. find your way to the street curb for the culmination of a fun-filled winter weekend. A Mardi Gras celebration is not complete without a lavish parade and the closing event will not disappoint. Find a spot to watch the light parade and view the spectacular floats created by Deadwood’s businesses. Let the good times roll as paraders strut their finest attire and toss thousands of traditionally colored beads to onlookers.
As the parade winds down the nightlife ticks up. Wreathed in beaded bling, revelers are on their own to slip into a nearby establishment to keep the Mardi going. If you need a ride when the lights are low, several taxi and car services are available to help provide a safe return to where your day started.
Discover more at www.deadwood.com (605) 578-1876
Deadwood is a great destination any time of the year. Fine dining, casinos, gaming tables, and poker rooms draw visitors during every season. Nearby slopes and trails entice winter sports enthusiasts and history buffs can explore the region’s storied past of gold rush miners and wild west gun slingers who once walked the dusty streets. Don’t leave town without a souvenir, collectible or confection to go with your memories of a magical Mardi Gras stay.
Life is too short to eat boring food.
All of us at Empire know that food is the ingredient that brings us together! In the coming months, we will be featuring the best foodie spots in Sioux Falls!
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Learn
By: Teresa
more about the History of the Carnegie Libraries
“The only thing you absolutely have to know, is the location of the library.” -Albert Einstein
While railroads and rivers nurtured South Dakota’s young townships at the turn of the century, libraries would feed their intellect. Many of these new towns had implemented tax levies and assessments, but few had the resources to build a school let alone a library.
Thanks to the generosity and vision of philanthropist Andrew Carnegie, grants were issued to construct libraries in twenty-five South Dakota towns. Andrew Carnegie (1835 – 1919) was among the wealthiest and most famous industrialists of his day and donated most of his steel fortune to civic-minded charities. He once stated, “A library was the best possible gift for a community, since it gave people the opportunity to improve themselves.”
In applying for a grant, communities wrote a letter to Carnegie along with verification of a location, established tax levies and a pledge of annual support relative to the size of their grant.
Between 1900-1917 South Dakota received $254,000 in grants to construct Carnegie libraries for its citizens. Sioux Falls was the first to receive $30,000 from Carnegie’s library movement in 1901. Built in 1903, the stoic Sioux quartzite structure operated as a library until 1972 when a new, larger library was built at Eighth and Main. In 1973 the Carnegie building served as home to the Civic Fine Arts Association housing the Arts Association’s collection of art and sculpture until 1999 when they moved to the Visual Arts Center in the Washington Pavilion. Renovations in 2001 allowed the building to serve a third purpose as Carnegie Town Hall, housing the Sioux Falls City Council Chambers, which boasts a state-of-the-art presentation system and the City Council and other government offices.
In 1902 Aberdeen was the first library completed with a $15,000 donation. At the request of Andrew Carnegie, this location was named after his boyhood friend, Alexander Mitchell, a railroad tycoon and Wisconsin statesman. Unfortunately, it was also the first to be razed. The Alexander Mitchell Library was condemned in 1950 due to a floor collapse.
Eager patrons entered the Redfield Carnegie Library as well in 1902-1903. A $10,000 donation was used to build a stunning red brick building highlighted with tan sandstone and a domed cupola. Redfield’s library has the distinction of being the oldest in the state to boast continuous use as a library for over 100 years and contains over 23,000 volumes.
Early grant recipients were given architectural liberties for the designs of their libraries. Architects incorporated Classic styles and elements. Using what became known as Carnegie Classic features, they designed rectangular, T-shaped or L-shaped plans with low pitched roofs. Constructed with stone or brick facades each sported various pediments, columns and pilasters at their entrances. Long, double hung windows allowed plenty of natural light for readers.
Carnegie Library,
Mentzer
Photos By: South Dakota State Historical Society
Generally, the main floor was built upon a raised basement and required steps either inside or out to reach a central opening with the librarian’s desk at the entrance. The floor space was efficiently organized to house bookshelves, tables and comfortable reading areas for adults and children. The basements were used for lecture and meeting rooms.
Yankton and Mitchell also opened the doors to new libraries in 1903. Vermillion, Deadwood, Pierre, Watertown and Milbank had received grants and in short order had libraries built in the next three years. Of the 25 Carnegie libraries constructed in South Dakota, the cities of Yankton and Vermillion had the distinction of having two buildings. Both had one library for their city and one on their college campus. Milbank was the only L-shaped plan used in the state, and Watertown’s grand corner entrance made it a focal point in the budding business district.
By 1910 citizens in Huron, Madison, and Dell Rapids officially dedicated their Carnegie libraries. Each community incorporated unique details into their library’s appearance.
The wealthy benefactor never required that his name be engraved on the building, but over time Carnegie did outline standards for the construction of the libraries he funded. Structures built after 1908 were more modest,
entrances were smaller, and only rectangular plans were used.
From 1911-1921 libraries were erected in twelve more South Dakota towns. Despite the limiting standards, Lake Andes and Brookings embraced them with their PrairieStyle libraries. Tyndall added Craftsman elements with overhanging eaves, oversized support brackets and a red clay–tiled roof. Hot Springs used a burnt orange sandstone and Rapid City a smooth, yellow limestone for their facades.
Rounding out the lucky South Dakota 25 sites were Dallas, Canton, Armour, Brookings, Sisseton and Wessington Springs, the last South Dakota library to receive a Carnegie grant.
Of the originals, seven are still used as libraries. Eleven have been repurposed as museums, civic centers, city offices, and even a restaurant and over half of them are on the National Register of Historic Places. Buildings in Pierre, Aberdeen, Britton, and Huron are no longer in existence.
Today, many railroads that fostered their growth are idle, rivers still meander nearby, but the location of each town’s Carnegie library is still a point of interest and a valuable resource for years to come.
1. Aberdeen (1901); 2. Sioux Falls (1901); 3. Redfield (1902); 4. Mitchell (1902); 5. Deadwood (1902); 6. Yankton (2) including Yankton College (1902 & 1904); 7. Vermillion (2) including USD (1903 & 1906); 8. Pierre (1903); 9. Watertown (1903); 10. Canton (1904); 11. Milbank (1905); 12. Madison (1906); 13. Huron (1907); 14. Brookings (1907); 15. Hot Springs (1907); 16. Dell Rapids (1908); 17. Lake Andes (1911); 18. Dallas (1913); 19. Sisseton (1914); 20. Britton (1914); 21. Armour (1914); 22. Rapid City (1914) 23. Tyndall (1915); 24. Wagner (1915); 25. Wessington Springs (1917)
CARNEGIE LIBRARY LOCATIONS
Get Ready for Mash Madness 2025! Get Ready for Mash Madness 2025!
This year, Mash Madness is bigger and better with an exciting new format! The competition now features three distinct categories:
• Craft Beer
• Craft Cocktail (Liquor-Based)
• Craft NA (Non-Alcoholic or Coffee)
By expanding into multiple craft drink categories, we’re bringing even more businesses into the mix and driving foot traffic across Downtown Sioux Falls.
How It Works:
• Compete in one or more categories by creating a signature craft drink.
• Your drink must be unique to the competition (not on your current menu).
• Patrons will visit participating locations, sample the creations, and vote using the DTSF Passport app.
Voting Criteria:
Patrons will score drinks on a 1-10 scale in these categories:
• Aroma
• Balance of Taste & Flavor
• Creativity
• Would You Order This Again?
• Overall Beverage Experience
It’s a hometown matchup, and you make the call! Each local business is bringing their creativity with an exclusive Mash Madness drink. Try them all during the month of March and make Mash Madness 2025 the best yet!
LOVE THE SKIN YOU’RE IN
February is the month of love—hearts, roses, chocolates, and most importantly, self-love. At Plastic Surgery Associates of South Dakota, we believe that loving yourself starts with feeling confident in your own skin. This Valentine’s season, treat yourself to the ultimate gift of glowing, rejuvenated skin with a SkinPen treatment enhanced by PRP (Platelet-Rich Plasma). It’s not just a facial; it’s a declaration of self-love that lasts.
WHAT IS SKINPEN + PRP?
The SkinPen is a state-of-the-art microneedling device designed to stimulate your skin’s natural healing process. Tiny, controlled micro-injuries are created in the skin, triggering collagen and elastin production. When paired with PRP—often called “liquid gold”—the results are taken to the next level. PRP is derived from your own blood and is packed with growth factors that accelerate healing, boost collagen production, and enhance skin regeneration.
Think of PRP as your skin’s best cheerleader, encouraging it to repair and rejuvenate itself for a smoother, firmer, and more radiant appearance.
WHY CHOOSE SKINPEN + PRP?
At Plastic Surgery Associates of South Dakota, we believe in celebrating your unique beauty. The Holiday Halo promotion offers a custom approach to radiance, making it easy to achieve glowing skin that lasts through the holidays and beyond.
Minimally Invasive, Maximum Results: This treatment is non-surgical and requires little downtime, making it the perfect way to pamper yourself while keeping up with your busy schedule.
Customizable for Your Needs: Whether you’re battling fine lines, acne scars, uneven texture, or dullness, SkinPen + PRP can target your unique skin concerns for a personalized glow.
Natural and Effective: By using your body’s own PRP, this treatment is a natural way to rejuvenate your skin without synthetic chemicals.
FEBRUARY: THE PERFECT TIME FOR SELF-LOVE AND SELF-CARE
Winter weather can leave your skin feeling dry, dull, and tired. SkinPen + PRP is the perfect way to refresh and renew, giving you that healthy, hydrated glow just in time for spring. Plus, February is all about showing yourself some love. Why not invest in the most visible part of you—your skin?
Imagine stepping into the world with a radiant complexion, feeling confident, empowered, and ready to tackle anything. That’s the power of self-care, and SkinPen + PRP is here to help you achieve it.
WHAT TO EXPECT DURING YOUR TREATMENT
Your SkinPen + PRP journey begins with a consultation to discuss your goals and create a customized treatment plan. During the session, your provider will draw a small amount of blood to extract the PRP While the PRP is being prepared, the SkinPen works its magic, gently creating micro-channels in your skin. The PRP is then applied, seeping into these channels to supercharge your results.
The process is quick, comfortable, and leaves you with only a mild pink flush—like a post-workout glow Over the next few days, you’ll notice your skin feeling smoother and looking brighter. Within weeks, the full benefits will reveal themselves: firmer, healthier, and younger-looking skin.
LOVE YOURSELF, LOVE YOUR SKIN
This Valentine’s Day, skip the flowers and chocolates. Treat yourself to a gift that keeps on giving— radiant, youthful skin. With SkinPen + PRP, you’re not just investing in your appearance; you’re investing in your confidence and self-love.
Visit Plastic Surgery Associates of South Dakota today to schedule your SkinPen + PRP treatment. Because loving yourself never goes out of style.
It is so exciting to be on year five of our annual marriage conference that Mike and I started during Covid. Our first year our speakers, Dr. Don and Renee, did video content with some individual work that couples could do at home, and then in 2021 we did an in-person conference in Sioux City and attendance was wonderful. We have continued this every year, and it has been so good for couples, and we have had many of them return every year. I wanted to share one story from Tim and Sheila LaBreche, who both work at Side by Side Ministries and live in Le Mars, Iowa, as well as their invitation to come and join us this year.
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In our almost thirty years of marriage, we’ve attended various conferences and retreats to improve and invest in our marriage. While we did get some nuggets of gold that we applied, it was often sifting through hours of boring “dirt” to find those nuggets. We often felt like we were in lecture halls being talked at. However, our experience changed almost five years ago when we attended an online retreat during covid. Dr. Don and Renee Worchester led us through a virtual retreat that was hands-on, interactive, and about more than just what to do. It was how to do it. How to put God first in our lives individually and how to apply God’s truth in our relationship. Over the next 3 years, we were blessed to attend Don and Renee’s in-person retreats in the Siouxland area. It has grown each year, impacting the relationships of both new and returning attendees. We have grown personally and as a couple because of the time spent with the Worchesters.
Don and Renee can teach and communicate so clearly because they’ve walked where we all have. They are
vulnerable and share their experiences in a way everyone can relate to.
One of our favorite experiences is what Don and Renee call “Knee to Knee.” In these times, we sit knee to knee, face to face, with no room for excuses between us. Nothing distracting us. Eye to eye, we share our hearts, our hurts, and our truths. We both have cherished this intimate moment of vulnerability, and God has used it to help us see things that were in our blind spots, allowing us to heal small and large wounds we’ve inflicted on each other and to rekindle our love and respect for one another. We’ve also loved the joy and laughter that Don and Renee bring. It’s not boring – that’s for sure. Having fun together is important, and you will definitely experience FUN.
Dr. Don and Renee will again come to the Siouxland area on Friday and Saturday, March 21-22, to help couples renew and strengthen their relationships. In partnership with Side by Side Ministries and Sunnybrook Community Church, they will prepare a place where couples can get away for valuable time together. Whether you need serious help in your relationship or just a sweet time away to focus on each other and invest in your relationship, we know from experience that this time is worth every minute and every penny.
This event will be the 5th year Dr. Don and Renee will impact marriages in the Siouxland area. We are excited that the retreat is moving to our wonderful community of Le Mars. Side by Side Ministries will host the event at the all-new Headline Event Space in The Sentinel Building downtown. Once again, the retreat cost has been discounted by Side by Side Ministries as a way for couples to get away and invest in their marriage. The
cost per couple to register is only $99. Hotel rooms are a separate cost for Friday and/or Saturday nights at a special price of $110/ night at Holiday Inn Express & Suites in Le Mars. There are also other accommodation options in Le Mars for your overnight stay, including the Inn on Central.
The event will start at 6pm on Friday, March 21st, at The Headlines Event Space and end with a treat at Wells Visitor Center and Ice Cream Parlor. We will start up again with an optional discounted breakfast at Habitue Coffeehouse and Bakery and then a day filled with interactive, soul-level experiences and some fun and games. Lunch is included in your registration fee. We will end the retreat with a fun cocktail hour at The Garage at 800, an exclusive 50’s-themed car museum, with cocktails and appetizers. We encourage couples to make dinner reservations in Le Mars on their own to end their time together. A detailed list of hotels and restaurants will be shared once you are registered for the retreat.
Again, we cannot recommend this time away enough. Instead of getting the random gold nugget of useful information, these times away have been a gold rush not only in our marriage but also for each one of us personally as we’ve drawn closer in our relationship with our Savior.
We hope to see you there,
Tim & Sheila LaBreche
To register for this amazing event,please visit DonandRenee.com or scan the QR code to the right.
Cheryl Wells
Cheryl is a John Maxwell certified speaker, trainer and coach. She lives in Le Mars, Iowa with her husband Mike.
c.wells@sbsmin.org (712) 546-7544
Dr. Don & Renee Worchester
Veterans at risk for experiencing intimateviolencepartner
By: Melissa Suter, CSW-PIP
Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) is a serious and significant health problem that affects millions of Americans. The Veterans Administration considers IPV to be any violent behavior between current or former intimate partners. These behaviors can include emotional, psychological, physical, or sexual violence, stalking, and coercion. In some cases, these behaviors can lead to serious physical and emotional injury as well as death. IPV can occur at any age, does not discriminate, and can occur regardless of gender or sexual identity.
Intimate partner violence is a serious public health concern, affecting an estimated 1 in 4 males and 1 in 3 females over their lifetimes. This pervasive issue transcends demographics and significantly impacts individuals’ physical and emotional well-being.
Among specific populations, Veterans are particularly at risk for experiencing intimate partner violence. This heightened vulnerability can be attributed to several factors, including elevated rates of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), substance abuse disorders, traumatic brain injuries, and various other mental health conditions that are more common in this group compared to the general population. These challenges can exacerbate the cycle of violence, leading to an urgent need for targeted interventions and support systems for veterans and their families.
If you are experiencing intimate partner violence, it’s important to know that help is available. The Intimate Partner Violence Assistance Program’s mission is to implement a comprehensive, person-centered, recoveryoriented assistance program for Veterans, their families and caregivers, and VA employees who use or experience intimate partner violence.
The Intimate Partner Violence Assistance Program strives to develop best practice program services. Each VA facility has a designated IPVAP Coordinator whose role is essential to accomplishing the IPVAP mission. Each IPVAP Coordinator serves as the VA facility IPV subject matter expert, point of contact, and consultant for matters related to intimate partner violence.
You can call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or visit www.thehotline.org for support and resources. Veterans may also contact (605) 336-3230 Extension 7898 for information and resources.
TUESDAY
BLACK DOG SYNDROME
Black Dog Syndrome is a phenomenon that has shown that black dogs (and cats) often are overlooked by adopters. This results in black dogs and cats often experiencing longer shelter stays and lower adoption rates.
But, perceptions can be changed. As anyone who shares their home with a black dog or cat will tell you, they are just as loving and wonderful as any other dog or cat. So if you happen to be looking for a new best friend or family member, don’t overlook those beautiful black dogs and cats just waiting to brighten up your life!
After 25 years in a residential area of Sioux Falls, Pella Windows and Doors moved to its current location in 2020 at West Homefield Drive. Since then, Pella has achieved significant growth. Not only are they in the middle of a complete showroom remodel, but they’ve also added a second-story office space to accommodate their staff, which has now grown from 21 to 34 members. Pella warmly welcomes you to visit the new showroom and join them in celebrating this five-year milestone in the Sioux Falls community.
One of those new staff members at Pella Sioux Falls is Chase Vogt, the inside sales representative who assists customers in the showroom. Chase is originally from Yankton, South Dakota and went to school at the University of South Dakota in Vermillion for a Bachelor’s Degree in Marketing, where he joined the school’s sales club, and then became the club’s president. “One of the corporate sponsors of the sales club was Pella Windows. I was too young to come on board as an employee, so I became an intern at Pella, Iowa,” Chase says. “Once I graduated college, Pella brought me in full time to join the sales development program. After successfully completing the program, Pella relocates you to different areas, and two colleagues and I moved to New Jersey for interior homes sales, where we visited people in their homes to see what we could do to solve their window issues. After about two years, once our term was done, Pella gives you the choice to stay or relocate again. I wanted to get closer to friends and family, so I’ve been back in Sioux Falls working at the Pella office here for about three months, and I’m really happy to be back.”
Chase enjoys his new role in the showroom representing Pella as the man up front for the customers. “I enjoy greeting anyone who walks in and seeing what brought them into the showroom in the first place,” Chase says. “If it’s service or they need a part, I’ll run to the back and grab it for them. If they need new windows or doors, we’ll discuss whether they’re working with a contractor or if they want to get the fundamentals themselves and see the big picture of what we do and what’s available. I enjoy showing them what Pella has to offer, especially with the updated displays since remodeling began. I try to set up customers with an in-home consultation so they’re ready to take their next steps.”
By: Lauren Johnson | Photos By: Pella Sioux Falls
Specialty features in the new showroom include displays like a multi-slide patio door (a stacker) and numerous on-trend door and window types with bigger openings. The displays allow the customer to open the doorway to pass through or walk in and out of a living space, so the customer can really experience the opening, see how it operates, and know how it will look and feel in their home. “That’s when you see people turning the wheels in their head as they get to see what’s available and experience how it works,” Chase says. “When I returned to Sioux Falls and came in to see the spacious showroom in progress with the up-to-date displays, I could see that this place is keeping up with the needs of this community here, for employees and customers alike. Everyone has their own workstations now, so we’re not all squeezed together and on top of each other.”
Pella offers much more than stunning windows and doors and takes pride on going beyond requirements to make beautifully designed products that you can be proud to own.
Exceeding expectations includes a home consultation where a Pella expert can come to your home to discuss your needs and options to:
• See design, material, and color options
• Receive accurate measurements for your windows and/or doors
• Understand the installation-day process
• Receive a no-obligation quote for your project
“When a Pella consultant is invited to a customer’s home to review their window situation, we like to establish a relationship and engage with you, not your windows,” says Chase. “Having a free consultation in your home helps us learn about your needs by asking questions about the current windows, what you’re looking for, any problems with the windows, and what you want to accomplish. We can then select the right window, discuss how it will solve their problems, and let them know all the bells and whistles available to them, such as an extra screen or a hidden screen that tucks away. We then work within your budget and make sure we move forward with what’s best for you in getting the project done right, from start to finish.”
Chase emphasizes that proper installation is key to success. “If a window is not installed properly, it is not in your favor,” Chase says. “Get the most out of your investment by prioritizing proper installation.”
Pella’s new showroom offers more styles and options than ever before so you can see what’s right for you. Whether your home is traditional, contemporary, or historical, Pella offers more materials, colors, and options than other brands. Come visit their new showroom and let your inner interior designer or architect roam free.
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Join us as we announce the 2025 Kentucky Derby Raffle Winner! Thursday, April 3rd, 2025 5:30-8PM Canopy Hotel –Steel District 120 E. 4th Pl., Sioux Falls
Raffle tickets are $150 each. No limit on the number of tickets you can purchase! Contact Jessica at jarend@rmhcsodak.org to purchase your tickets today!
A TRIP OF A LIFETIME!
• The 13th Annual Kentucky Derby Raffle benefiting the Ronald McDonald House Charities of South Dakota
• Raffle tickets are $150 each (no limit!)
• Drawing to be held live on Thursday, April 3rd, 2025 at 7PM (Canopy Hotel— raffle ticket is your event night ticket)
• Winner will receive private air transportation for 6 people to Louisville, KY. Plane departs Sioux Falls for Louisville on Friday morning, May 2nd and returns to Sioux Falls on Sunday morning, May 4th 2025.
• New this year: 6 lower level tickets to the Kentucky Oaks races on Friday, May 2nd AND 2-night hotel accommodations (3 rooms) at the Marriot SpringHill Suites in downtown Louisville!
• As always, winner also receives 6 lower level tickets to the Derby races and festivities at Churchill Downs on Saturday, May 3rd—food and beverage included at Churchill Downs!
• Interested in being a sponsor or would like to purchase tickets? Contact Jessica at jarend@rmhcsodak.org
Families are stronger when they are together, especially through pediatric illness. By staying at a Ronald McDonald House, parents can be more rested, enabling them to better communicate with their child’s medical team and keep up with complicated treatment plans as needed.
Ronald McDonald House, 808 E. 24th St., Near Avera
Ronald McDonald House, 825 S. Lake Ave., Near Sanford
For 50 years, Feeding South Dakota has been dedicated to its mission to end hunger in South Dakota. Countless volunteers, partners, and supporters have made it possible to provide hope and nourishment to those facing hunger. Feeding South Dakota has big plans to acknowledge and celebrate this milestone anniversary, and you’re invited.
“South Dakotan’s food insecurity is at the greatest in our history,” says Lori Dykstra, the CEO of Feeding South Dakota, who believes it is largely due to the economic impact of inflation. “The cost of goods has gone up when the need is the highest and the available resources are the lowest. It’s the perfect storm,” Lori explains. “We know there are many families who need help with food access during a medical situation or when they’re between jobs for a few months. We want to continue to be there for those families and anyone needing food. But food insecurity has changed over the last 50 years. As an organization, we needed to evolve to become what it needs to be today.”
Feeding South Dakota traces its beginning to 1975 when the Sioux Falls Ministerial Association opened a pantry. “Then we connected with Rapid City, which was also serving their one community,” Lori says. “Today we’re serving 66 counties, so we cover the entire state. We’re largely a food distribution center now because we needed to go where hunger was, rather than have people seek it out. There’s been an evolution of the programs we offer. Our largest program, mobile distributions, is a direct to client model because we needed to go where hunger was, rather than have people seek us out.
We also serve seniors who may be homebound, we offer communities programs to fight child hunger, and our mobile distributions provide non-perishable, refrigerated, frozen, and fresh produce to people facing hunger at 106 locations every month.”
Feeding South Dakota also supports over 260 community partners including small pantries, schools, shelters, and hot meal sites like The Banquet. These partners access food through the organization and expand hours of availability in their communities.
“People might not know we are the only food bank in the state, we are serving the entire state, and we run the statewide commodities programs for the federal and state USDA programs. Logistically, we have semis on the road every day.” Feeding South Dakota has hosted campaigns throughout the years to raise awareness and funding. “But this 50th anniversary is a way for Wow. It shows how we’ve evolved to meet the food needs,” Lori adds. “Everyone involved with Feeding South Dakota is part of this 50-year movement. We’re all being recognized for this. If more people learn about it, the more people we can help. We don’t want to be splashy, but this is the time we’re here to toot our horn. Together we’ve served countless seniors and families, and it is hard work!”
By: Lauren Johnson
Photos By: Feeding South Dakota
11.7 MILLION MEALS WERE PROVIDED IN FY24
BLACK HILLS REGIONAL FOOD BANK (1994)
LORI DYKSTRA, CEO OF FEEDING SOUTH DAKOTA
By: Lauren Johnson
Photos By: Feeding South Dakota
Ninety-nine percent of Feeding South Dakota’s work is privately funded through generous communities and their donations. “And it’s local. It’s neighbors feeding neighbors. The amount is impactful,” Lori reflects.
There are three ways you can help: you can donate food, give some of your time, or give money. “Any way you can support our work is meaningful. If you’re in a place where you want to help but don’t have a lot to give, you can volunteer. We have upwards of 100 volunteers in our distribution center,” Lori says. “Others are able to do both, and we need those dollars to help purchase food and continue these programs.”
To celebrate turning 50, the “The 50 Faces of Feeding South Dakota” podcast launched in January, with new episodes each week. Guests throughout the year share and educate about hunger, food access, or volunteering in casual, yet impactful conversations.
The second kick off in 2025 is 605 Meal Makers. “We’ve launched a campaign to secure 50 donors who give $50 per month or more to honor the Anniversary. That $50 donation helps us provide 150 meals each month. In our mobile food program alone, we serve an average of 13,000 families per month. That’s 150 family meals! So, a monthly $50 donation makes an enormous difference. If that’s too much for your budget, you can still join the monthly club. $10 a month is a gift of 30 meals. For every dollar you donate, you can multiply it by three, and that’s how many meals are made possible for a neighbor facing hunger,” Lori shares.
To join the 50-year movement, go to https://www.feedingsouthdakota. org/50years.
“After 50 years, it’s exciting to have this momentum, with all of our employees and volunteers and truck drivers working silently in the background. People see our trucks and don’t understand the depth and breadth of the work. We invite and encourage all our community members to honor and join us in this fight against hunger in our state,” Lori adds.
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At StoneyBrook Suites, you’ll find the perfect combination of comfort, care, and an active lifestyle - backed by 25 years of excellence in Assisted Living. Our mission is to foster the well-being of each resident by nurturing the mind, body, and spirit while maintaining each resident’s enjoyment of independence and dignity in a secure and supportive environment.
We combine comfort, community, and personalized care to create a homelike atmosphere where independence and well-being thrive. Choose from two-bedroom, one-bedroom and studio suites that are spacious and designed to help our residents feel at home. Our community also offers a variety of inviting amenities, including a coffee shop, theater, fireside lounge, courtyard, therapy and exercise room, and an on-site salon.
Do you have questions about Assisted Living? Not sure if you’re ready?
We invite you to contact us today with any questions that you have about assisted living. Whether it be about longterm care insurance, costs and payment options, therapy and exercise programs, proper diets or medication management, we are ready to assist wherever you are in the process.
Health and wellness is our main focus at StoneyBrook Suites. Personalized care plans are supervised by the guidance of a licensed nurse and each resident has 24/7 access to trained caregivers. In addition, we provide onsite physical therapy and restorative therapy services, helping to achieve, maintain, and support residents’ whole well-being.
OUR MISSION
We are a full-service assisted living community “To foster the well-being of each resident by nurturing the mind, body, and spirit while maintaining each resident’s enjoyment of independence and dignity in a secure and supportive environment. We invite you to come to StoneyBrook Suites, where our joy is in serving you.”
AMENITIES
• Coffee Shop
• Salon
• Walk-in Whirlpool Spa
• Centrally located meals and activities
SERVICES
• Caring, trusted, 24-hour staff
• Personal housekeeping
• Theater
• Courtyards
• Spacious suites all on one level
Ready to explore the possibilities of assisted living? We’re here to guide you every step of the way. Call us today to schedule your personalized tour and discover the comforts of StoneyBrook Suites!
• Three homestyle meals per day
• Professional medication administration and laundry
• On-site physical, restorative
• Scheduled daily social and and cognitive therapy exercise activities
• Wellness clinic
• Personal pendant system
• Assistance with activities of daily living
Spacious studio, one-bedroom and two-bedroom suites. Call for availability and pricing.
Our passion for assisted living shines through every day at StoneyBrook Suites.
Dakota Dunes
WOMEN’S WINTER Survival Kit
By: Erica Wilcox
You might be ready for spring, like I am, but the reality is that we have plenty of winter left. This time of year can seem long and gloomy, but with the right products and mindset we can still enjoy winter and even the outdoors. Here are a few of my must-haves to get us through the winter and get us excited for the months ahead!
The number one battle many of us face in the winter is dry skin. Piggybacking off of last month’s topic of habit stacking, make it a priority every morning and evening to moisturize your entire body. Because your skin dries out easily this time of year, staying on top of this and even over-moisturizing will prevent your skin from drying out. I like to put my moisturizers near an item I use daily to keep it top of mind. Make sure you’re moisturizing after every shower as well. Lastly on
this topic, don’t forget the lips! Always have a lip balm near you; I have one in my car, gym bag, nightstand, etc. Many of us neglect the lips until they start to chap. Drinking plenty of water will help with keeping your skin moisturized as well.
Having the right winter gear can keep you from not only avoiding a cold but can also help motivate you to get out and enjoy the winter air. We tend to stay indoors more than we should when the temperature drops, decreasing our Vitamin D levels and not exposing ourselves to fresh air. Even in the winter you can still get a great source of Vitamin D and keep the colds at bay, but you need to have the right winter gear to withstand the temperatures. I love winter walks and always make sure I have warm gloves, hats, a long winter coat (to cut the wind and give yourself more warmth) and cold gear clothing. Lucky for us here in the Midwest, a lot of retailers have already discounted these wear-now items in preparation for spring inventory. Maybe you’re going stir crazy this time of year and the outdoors really aren’t your thing. The hustle and bustle have died down and the kids are back to school… now what? I love to do new year challenges for decluttering and organizing, a jump-start on spring cleaning if you will. Pinterest has some great winter challenges for the home, closet and your office. I personally love the Simplified Simplicity Challenge. This is a free guide, ‘31 Days to a Simplified Life’. I’ve done this one for a couple years now. Each day is a new (manageable) challenge to declutter or organize a space within your life and home. I find it oddly therapeutic and the perfect time of year, post-holiday madness, to rid items in the house that the family isn’t using. If you’ve got a household project that’s still on the to-do list from last year, tackle that now! When the weather warms up, we’ll want to be outside as much as we can.
IF YOU’RE WANTING TO DETOX YOUR COSMETICS IN THE NEW YEAR, START HERE!
Born and raised in Sioux Falls, SD, I’ve been obsessed with fashion since I could dress myself. I was one of those kids who dressed up every day for school, no sweatpants here! My first taste of real fashion was my first retail job at 15. Working in fashion and living it through my everyday outfits, I noticed that everyone would always ask me about my outfits! I’d often get personal shopping requests or asked for fashion advice.
My passion kept growing to the point where I knew this was what I wanted to further my education in. I went on to get my bachelor’s degree in Fashion Merchandising with a minor in business at South Dakota State University. After completing an internship and study trip, I knew that this was my calling, but I was not sure where to go with it.
After doing some corporate buying and retail management, I was grateful for the experiences but needed more. After years and many individuals telling me to start a blog, I finally did.
Best Dressed Blonde was born… an everyday fashion, clean beauty and lifestyle brand. Sharing through my personal website, Instagram and other fashion platforms is the perfect way to express and showcase my passions!
On Best Dressed Blonde, you’ll find me sharing daily deals and sales, makeup tutorials, try-ons and a little bit of everyday life! My passion has also grown into my clean beauty business with Crunchi where I help women detox their skincare and makeup with truly high-performing and clean products.
bestdressedblonde.com
Have a mom, daughter, grandma, friend, sister or wife that you think deserves to be queen for a day?
FOR A DAY
Tell us why you think that special someone should be Queen for a Day by sending in a 200 word max story and photo to jess@michelscom. com by March 31, 2025. Clips of various stories will be chosen to run in the April edition of Empire, with one winner to be ‘crowned’ in May. A great prize package perfect for a queen!
