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On the Cover:

judy Jankowski Vice President of Development RV/MH Hall of Fame, Elkhart

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Your Health Matters By: Timothy Baranowski

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BALANCE 18

Is It Time For A New Time Management Strategy?

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Workplace Of Tomorrow…Today

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ON THE COVER 22 Judy Jankowski: Reinvention After Retirement

By: Allison Boelcke Smith

WORK 24

Taking Ownership Of Professional Mistakes

By: Allison Boelcke Smith

ADVICE FROM A BUSINESS COACH 26 Dear Charrise

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/ contributors CHARRISE MCCROREY Charrise McCrorey is certified as a Business & Transformative Coach, working with businesses and individuals around the world. Her local office is in Elkhart, where she resides with her family.

Jackie Folkert CYNDY SEARFOSS is a mom, fundraiser, writer, equestrienne, creative writing adjunct instructor, volunteer and insomniac (which is how she manages to fit everything into the space of 24-hour day). Her professional history includes stints as the managing partner of an advertising agency, director of creative services, director of alumni services at IU South Bend and director of advancement at a local independent school. She received her bachelor’s degree from Indiana University in journalism and her master’s degree in creative writing from the University of Notre Dame in 1995.

ALLISON BOELCKE Allison Boelcke Smith is a digital marketing specialist for Indiana University South Bend, and a freelance writer who loves to focus on topics of career and personal finance geared toward working women and mothers. She resides in South Bend with her husband and toddler daughter. During any free time she can manage, she is a foodie whose goal is to actually make more recipes on her Pinterest boards.

Jackie Folkert is a mother of three and lives in South Bend. She is a freelance writer and an English teacher.

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rom Blackhawk helicopter training sessions to car shows drawing thousands of collectors, the events managers of the Century Center Convention Center in downtown South Bend orchestrate it all with precision—and pizzazz.

Tapping into their flair for the cool and creative, Ariel Estes and Rebekah Love spread style to the 450 plus events the Century Center hosts yearly. You could say they wear many hats--planner, coach, strategist, counselor, stylist—but they also wear many shoes. Their pace keeps them running. “I have heels for meetings, and sneakers for flipping tables. Flats for out and about the building—or going to get coffee across the street,” Ariel said. Paying attention to the details equals working up a sweat so your patrons don’t have to. “We walk about five miles around here a day—We’re busy women!” Rebekah said with a laugh. After two years of planning successful events together, these two managers take it all in stride. The managers wear grooves covering the 225,000 square feet that is the Century Center. The convention center features a variety of venues suitable for hosting wedding receptions, banquets, concerts, trade shows and meetings. The lower level includes 30-foot glass floor to ceiling windows overlooking the St. Joseph River. With 18 meeting rooms that can morph into over 35 combinations, each event is unique. The Century Center’s location is a bonus as well. “It’s a one stop shop,” Ariel said. The convention center provides access via a skywalk to the DoubleTree by Hilton Hotel, and houses the South Bend Regional Museum of Art. “There’s not something we don’t do here,” Ariel said.

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They even provide impromptu birthday parties. When they discovered that it was Dave Abt’s birthday—President of the International Association of Water Rescue Professionals—they collaborated with the catering staff to surprise him with a cake. When Abt and his group were done practicing water survival, they enjoyed some down time over some celebratory dessert.

Whether they’re coordinating Blackhawks or whirling around a roller rink, patrons benefit from the precise planning of Ariel and Rebekah. For the South Bend Roller Girls, planning their roller derby to take place at the Century Center was thrilling. “As someone who's lived in South Bend their entire life, any event at the Century Center has that feeling of accomplishment and establishment,” South Bend Roller Girls Marketing Director Nita Elbow said. She was highly satisfied with the lighting, accommodations and the set-up and breakdown. The overall feeling of professionalism from everyone involved was just amazing,” Nita said. “Their event management team was phenomenal. They were there for every little detail and helped us pull off a resounding success,” she said. Ariel and Rebekah go above and beyond to get each event exactly right. “The [roller] girls are giddy to host it here,” Ariel said. The planners make friendly relationships with their patrons; they seem to know half of the city by name. Ariel and Rebekah believe in making every event as relaxing and as flawless as possible for the patrons. If there is a rare snafu, the patrons are unaware. They will problem-solve and move fast to keep an event on the track to success. From hand carving pumpkins for a 125th anniversary celebration, to herding cats, to managing international concerts with over 2,000 attendees, they are ready to go the extra mile. “We’re flexible, down to earth. It’s the little touches that make a lasting impression,” Ariel said. Even if only one person notices the little detail, they feel they’ve done their jobs well. The women of the South Bend Junior League are good friends of the Century Center: They’ve trusted them to host their Thrift Shop, Holiday Ball and Princess for a Night events. The Century Center supports an array or organizations and enjoys partnering with those that give back to the community. The South Bend Junior League’s Princess for a Night event does just that. The group partnered with Ziker Cleaners to help all high school girls attend their proms by providing free dresses. “Girls are encouraged to come, regardless of their situation, because prom can get so expensive. . . . I've seen girls leave with prom dresses that easily were over $300 or $400 retail,” South Bend Junior League Community Vice President Kayla Ernsberger said. The free event provided dresses for over 280 girls.

For more events, please visit the Century Center's website at www.centurycenter.org.

It doesn’t look like the South Bend Junior League will break-up with the Century Center gals anytime soon. “They kept bringing us new ideas,” said Kayla. “It was fantasti--ideas that we would have never thought about on our own.” They were so pleased they practically grafted Ariel and Rebekah into their group. But that’s just the way it goes with the Century Center Event Managers. Their personal touches make an impact on every patron who chooses the Century Center as their venue. So drop by the Century Center to check out the Northern Indiana Bodybuilding Championships June 26, or catch a flick at the Downtown South Bend Movie Night July 23. You’ll likely catch a glimpse of Ariel and Rebekah doing what they always do: managing it all with style.  SASSY | JUNE 2015

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There are volumes to be written on the impact of this type of sustained lifestyle, below are only a few of the more commonly experienced scenarios.

Pancreas “Shutdown”

The first issue to address is stress on the pancreas. Type II diabetes is running rampant in this day and age. It is well known that the pancreas produces insulin to help control blood sugar levels. The release of insulin is merely one function of the pancreas. It also assists with digestive enzymes and other metabolic functions. Poor blood sugar regulation is only one sign of a pancreas in distress.

Adrenal Fatigue

The adrenal glands are the small, though immensely important glands that sit on top of the kidneys. One of their primary functions is the release of a hormone called cortisol. Cortisol, a stress hormone, is regulated in a circadian rhythm (circa: circle). If this rhythm is disrupted, energy levels throughout the day will decline and achieving restful sleep will become difficult. In many cases. Adrenal dysfunction can be found in cases of thyroid distress.

Gall Bladder

The gall bladder is tucked away under the liver and stores a substance called bile, a liquid that aids in the digestion of fats. A gall bladder in distress can cause pain near the bottom of the right shoulder blade. Additionally, pain following a meal that is high in fat can signal a “hot” gall bladder. Gall bladders are now removed quite frequently, as a result of the development of large stones, significantly decreased function or frequent painful gall bladder attacks.

Regulate Your Body

The overall function of the body is contingent upon on the health of the individual organs and organ systems. The brain, spinal cord and nervous system are responsible for the self-healing and self-regulation of all tissues and organs in the body. When there is stress in your life there is stress on your nervous system. Since everyone deals with life stressors - emotional, physical and chemical (diet/medication) - it is imperative to support the health of the nervous system. 14 JUNE 2015 | SASSY

As a Chiropractor, this is my primary role in assisting the health of my patients. Spinal adjustments are designed to remove stress on the nervous system, allowing it to regulate the body at its highest potential. With an optimal functioning nerve system, communication is open to all organs and tissues, keeping them ready to rebuild and repair when the time comes. Essential to having this happen properly is consuming the appropriate nutrients so that the tools of our body have the proper building materials. The typical diet in our country today is chalked full of synthetic products that are not processed by the body the same way as real food. When using these foods exclusively and avoiding actual food grown from the earth or properly raised meat sources, it can begin to malnutrition the body and create organs that begin to function at a lower efficiency. Typically in my office I will formulate a custom whole food supplement program to support the needs of each individual and what they specifically are dealing with. The basic diet guidelines however are fairly consistent to start. We begin with vegetables and fruits consumed in a 2 to 1 ratio veggies to fruit. After seven days, protein sources are introduced, usually wild caught fish, free range chicken and grass fed beef. After three weeks of eating this way the digestive system has had a chance to detoxify and reset so that the body is nice and efficient at absorbing the nutrients from the food being consumed. Even though this sounds pretty basic, the proper digestion and absorption of the food eaten is sometimes the major piece missing due to poor health of some or all of the digestive organs. Sometimes I will consider using things like enzyme support or probiotics to help if the gut function needs extra support, but that would depend on the individual case.

Below are just a few foods that you can start consuming right away to get yourself back on track:

Lemons

A warm glass of water with an entire lemon squeezed into it first thing in the morning is a great way to begin each day. Lemons are full of essential minerals and this will also help clear the liver and detoxify it over a couple week span if performed daily.

Beets

Beets have a wonderful ability to support the gall bladder and keep bile nice and thin. This can help prevent the development of gall stones and aid in better digestion of fats.

Fresh Greens

I personally use a lot of Kale and Kelp. Fresh greens contain the materials to maintain a healthy bacterial balance throughout the large intestine. The mineral balance in kelp can also help support a healthy thyroid gland. For those who have a difficult time consuming these, I recommend sneaking them into a shake or smoothie.

With just these simple and small changes made over time, it can create an entirely new person and new life! ď Ś SASSY | JUNE 2015

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Jankowski Reinvention After Retirement By: Allison Boelcke Smith

areer paths are winding and the journey can lead to places one may have never imagined, but ultimately where it’s meant to be.

For Judy Jankowski, Vice President of Development for the RV/MH Hall of Fame in Elkhart, the second act of her career turned into the beginning of a new success story. In 2014, having been retired for just eight months (or “half a minute!” as she puts it), she not only returned to the workforce – but in a whole new career and industry. During her brief period being technically retired, Judy wasn’t kicked back relaxing. Instead, she performed a stint as a consultant in communications, in which she used the wealth of knowledge and expertise she developed over her time spent climbing the ranks at AT&T from entry level operator to Director of External Affairs. When consulting ultimately didn’t turn out to be the best fit, a casual conversation with a friend over coffee lead to Judy’s next challenge. She learned about an opportunity as the first official fundraiser for Elkhart’s RV/ MH Hall of Fame, a facility that serves as tribute to recreational vehicle and manufactured housing industries. This ended up being the perfect match for Judy’s inherent talents. “I have one of those personalities – I have no fear and I’m not afraid to ask for money. I jokingly say my job is to dial for dollars and beg for cash,” laughs Judy.

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The RV/MH Hall of Fame is providing challenges Judy is ready and excited to tackle. First and foremost, her fundraising goals are eliminating the facility’s remaining debt (its $5 million debt that raised concerns about the RV/MH Hall of Fame’s future in 2011 has since been reduced to around $1.9 million) before moving on to capital improvements. She encourages anyone who would like to contribute to the cause, to visit the Foundation’s website, http://www.rvmhhalloffame.org/

“I cleaned the place up a little bit and put a woman’s touch on it. It’s a beautiful facility and the view is gorgeous,” says Judy. Judy’s fundraising ambitions aren’t confined to her career – she also has extensive involvement in local non-profit organizations. She serves on the board of directors of the St. Joseph County Chamber, Current President of the Junior League of South Bend, Current Board Member of YWCA of North Central Indiana and President Emeritus of Women’s Business Owners of Michiana, as well as Past Board Director of St. Margaret’s House, Past Board Director of United Way of St. Joseph County, and Past Board Director of the Better Business Bureau of Northern Indiana.

In fact, Judy is such a believer in the twofold personal and professional benefits of volunteer work, she cites it as her best career advice when giving presentations or mentoring. If she has two resumes in front of her that are exactly alike except for volunteer work, she’s more likely to hire the one with non-profit experience because she feels the candidate is more likely to be a self-motivated team player who understands the benefit of helping others. “If you are giving something what it deserves, whether it’s the community, employer or your job, it will come back to you,” explains Judy.

high school, but it wasn’t until years later, they found their back to each other and reunited to blend their families: her with her two sons, him with his three daughters. They also have four grandchildren with one more on the way. “I love the fact that we’re somewhat of a Brady Bunch!” says Judy.

The underlying theme in Judy’s success in her work boils down to acting with intention. While her days are full (she often squeezes in non-profit meetings before or after her day job at the RV/MH Hall of Fame) she advises taking the time to remember the ultimate purpose of one’s career. “Sometimes we forget about why we are really working, why we are doing all of this. Well, it’s so I can also have a good life with my family and friends,” explains Judy.

“I’m a fashionista. I love clothes and jewelry. I also enjoy going to the spa and having practically everything they offer – because I deserve it,” laughs Judy.

Judy also maintains work-life balance by being sure to take time for herself. Besides finding pleasure in the simple things in life (she looks forward to leisurely running her errands on Saturdays), she loves to shop and treat herself.

Her soft spot for non-profits began back when she was a young mother with two small children, who was struggling in her personal life. After seeing a newspaper article about the women’s shelter in the area, “I thought to myself: “No matter how bad I might have it, someone else can have it worse,” says Judy. What began as dropping off donated diapers with her two sons eventually evolved into her serving on the Board of the YWCA. “I consider myself a survivor and someone who has thrived. I just felt like I owed it to the women who weren’t as fortunate as me, to have a job and a means to take care of myself and raise my children,” explains Judy. Through her giving back, Judy has also gotten an unexpected professional advantage. She credits her non-profit work for helping her ease into her new career. “It has given me the connections that help me now with the Hall of Fame. If we have permitting issues, I know who to call in Elkhart, if somebody wants to know if grants are available, I know who works for [politicians’ offices],” says Judy.

Just like her career took an unexpected turn, so has Judy’s personal life. She and her husband, John Drabecki, knew each other in

“If you are giving something what it deserves, whether it’s the community, employer or your job, it will come back to you.”

Taking chances and getting out of one’s comfort zone by being open to challenges and new opportunities is the main catalyst of Judy’s journey, which led to success in her first career, to retirement and then back in a new field. “I feel like everything happens for a reason in life and all paths lead to where you’re supposed to be. I feel like there’s a reason I’m supposed to be here right now,” explains Judy. The RV/MH Hall of Fame is open Monday through Saturday from 9:00 A.M. - 5:00 P.M. and Sunday from 10:00 A.M. - 3:00 P.M. For more information on the facility or how to donate: 800-378-8694 or rvmhhalloffame.org. 

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“Happiness at work is a central theme for a life well lived.”

I work in accounting at a successful local business. I love what I do except for one area. I HATE SALESPEOPLE. They are never on time with their expense reports, which are rarely accurate anyway. They seem to try their best to break all the rules. To top it off, they also seem to be having all the fun. Sometimes I start thinking they are doing all this on purpose just to get a rise out of me. What can I do to make them tow the line a little better?

I’ve been in the same job for 15 years, and at first it was fun and exciting. Now, it is all I can do to drag myself to work every day. I mostly like what I’m doing and the people I work with, but I just wish I could muster up some excitement. Is being bored enough reason to leave this job and find another? Answer: I believe happiness at work is a central theme for a life well lived. So many of our waking hours are spent at work, and often some of our most significant friendships develop there. For me, it’s a deal-breaker to love it. That said, is there a conversation you could have with your manager about changing things up? Maybe you take on a project that could use your talents, or you go for a promotion. If you can’t find ways to get excited again where you are (and this is ALWAYS your own responsibility) then I think it’s fair to explore other opportunities. Otherwise, you’ll be in the same place 15 years from now, still bored, and having settled for less than your heart desires. Is that the kind of impact you want to have?

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Answer: There are all kinds of people on the planet, and thank goodness for that. If we were all alike, the world would be a very uninteresting place. Good salespeople are rule breakers, and often are not great with the details. That’s what makes them exceptional at bringing in business - their skills are with people rather than numbers or details. People like you who do accounting work, are the yin to their yang. Your attention to detail is VITAL in support of their success. You make it possible for them to measure their results, and get reimbursed for the costs associated with bringing clients in. Clients are good for everyone, as it makes everyone’s job possible. You each serve a critical purpose to the success of the company. Here’s a Tip: The next time a salesperson is standing in front of you, remember that they are human, like you. They have fears, worries, and challenges, like you. They are doing their job, like you. We are always more alike than we are different, in the end. Take a deep breath, slow down and dig deep for patience. 

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Saint Vincent de Paul Legacy Dinner

he Saint Vincent de Paul Society of St. Joseph County held its annual fundraising event, the Legacy Dinner, on April 29, 2015 at the Gillespie Conference Center in South Bend. The event had a decidedly unique twist this year with a dozen “model” volunteers strutting their stuff down on the fashion run way – each dressed to the nines in attire directly from the organization’s retail stores. Outfits ranged from casual wear to a stylishly attired bride and groom. Featured models included Michiana Family Magazine’s own editor-in-chief and publisher, Betsy Tavernier; Jeannine Villing of Villing & Company; Joe Hart, president of the South Bend Cubs; Deacon John Tugman of Saint Pius X Parish; Barb Phair; and Ed Bradley of Newmark/Cressy & Everett and his son. This year’s Legacy Dinner was sold out and a huge success by any measure – not the least of which was the amount of money generated for the charity. Over $200,000 was raised to help St. Vincent’s support its mission and many programs designed to serve the food, shelter and clothing needs of its clients. Last year, the Society provided nearly two million dollars in services and touched the lives of approximately 75,000 people in St. Joseph County. Photos Provided By: Maclaine Capshew

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SPA Women’s Ministry Homes High Tea for a Cause

aking a difference in the lives of women in our community never felt so good! Saturday, May 9th, 100 ladies strolled the backyard of SPA Women’s Ministry Homes where they enjoyed an afternoon of sipping tea, indulging in sweets, and mingling with friends. While this alone was a special treat, the highlight of the afternoon was the hat parade. Women of all ages wore and proudly displayed creative hats, vintage hats, outlandish “what were you thinking” hats, all of which were judged by guests. Guests made memories that will last a lifetime while supporting women who desperately seek hope and healing! SPA’s High Tea presents a wonderful opportunity for mothers, daughters, sisters and friends to join a community of people who support SPA’s Christ-centered mission. By participating, guests are contributing to a ministry that provides six months of residential treatment and six months of transitional housing in a Godly environment for women struggling with life controlling issues such as substance abuse, domestic violence and sexual assault! If you were wondering how they pulled off such an unforgettable tea party, ask their residents. Residents receiving treatment set up, welcomed guests, served, and cleaned up, and while it took hours of work to prepare and host SPA’s High Tea, residents expressed appreciation for being able to serve those who make treatment possible for them. Toni, SPA resident who entered treatment five months ago due to alcoholism, stated, “It was an honor to be able to serve those who make treatment possible for so many! It was a delight to see how appreciative everyone was to be able to relax on Mother’s Day weekend. And, while I know I can never repay them for what they have done, I feel like this is my way of giving back to those who have given me so much! SPA welcomes the opportunity to share with its community the work God is doing in the lives of women receiving treatment. For more information, go to www. spaministryhomes.org or call Carrie Zickefoose, Executive Director, at 574-333-3150. 

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Photos Provided By: Beth Anne Anderson of Anderson Photography

St. Joseph County Go Red for Women Luncheon

he American Heart Association brought the Go Red for Women movement to St. Joseph County with its annual Go Red for Women Luncheon on Thursday, May 7, 2015 at the Morris Inn Ballroom. Passionate local residents and supporters attended the luncheon and joined the fight against heart disease – the number one killer of women. The event was chaired by Carol Mills, CEO, Select Health Network, an advocate of wellness and community service in the Michiana region. “Select Health Network is proud to support the American Heart Association’s Go Red for Women movement, which uncovers the truth about heart disease – an often silent, hidden and misunderstood killer. Heart disease and stroke are women’s greatest health threat, yet most women are not aware,” said Carol Mills, 2015 Go Red for Women Luncheon chair. “Eighty percent of cardiac events can be prevented with education and lifestyle changes, which is why we encourage all women in the community to join the movement.” This year’s lifestyle forum and luncheon focused on the mind, body and heart. Activities included a wonderful ‘Purse-onalities’ silent auction, free health screenings, BetterU Expo, heart healthy lunch,

interactive doctor’s panel, survivor stories and a special address from keynote speaker, Liz Nierzwicki, founder of Solace Yoga Studio in Mishawaka and online Lifestyle Program called figureFIT. Her remarks provided women with the motivation and steps to lead a healthy life. Nationally, the American Heart Association’s Go Red for Women movement has raised over $85 million for women-specific cardiovascular research and education. In addition, thousands of women have been touched by the emotional, informative and inspirational atmosphere to encourage women to become champions of their own good health. “Throughout the Michiana region we’re raising awareness about cardiovascular diseases in women. Many times women are the caretakers, looking after everyone else but themselves,” said Laura Guy, Corporate Events Director for the American Heart Association. “We hope to continue to inform and educate women, but most importantly give women the resources they need to take proactive steps and be healthy.” Funds raised at the event will go towards lifesaving research, educational programs, and advocacy efforts in the Michiana region. 

PHOTO CAPTIONS

1.) Interactive doctors panel included physicians from Saint Joseph Regional Medical Center, Midwest Medical Group and Select Health Network. 2.) Go Red for Women Chair Carol Mills, CEO, Select Health Network 3.) Bob Montgomery and Leanne Tokars, WSBT-TV Morning Anchors, event emcees 4.) This group provides a financial and social commitment to help find a cure for heart disease and stroke; as well as proactively promote wellness in women.

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Scene +Be Scene

Goodwill

Little Black Dress

Fashion Show

oodwill Industries of Michiana held its 6th Annual Little Black Dress Fashion Show on April 23rd at The Hilton Garden Inn Gillespie Center. Their media partners: WSBT-TV and B100 promoted the event in support of Goodwill’s mission to provide jobs, training and placement services for people with barriers to employment. Last year, Goodwill assisted over 4,000 people in their search for employment and placed over 1,100 individuals in jobs with local employers. Models walked the runway in clothing from Goodwill showcasing the latest fashion trends while guests enjoyed a gourmet lunch. Kathy Friend, nationally known as a stylist and image consultant and President of the Style and Image Institute, produced and hosted the program. She was joined by Emcee Cari Peugeot, WSBT-TV Meteorologist. B100’s Morning Host, Deb Miles and WSBT22 First in the Morning Co-Anchor, Bob Montgomery, joined the event as Goodwill’s Celebrity Models. The reigning Miss Indiana Heartland and Founder of Get Involved – Be the Change, Emily Mishler, showed her style on the runway as well in Goodwill fashion. She also generously donated a few of her handmade scarves to accessorize the models. Beautiful centerpieces made with recycled granite were given away to one lucky audience member at each table. These items highlighted the Goodwill Rocks! Program that provides employment opportunities as well as products made from granite for sale to the general public.

3 PHOTO CAPTIONS

1.) Special Guest Emily Mishler, Founder, Get Involved – Be the Change takes the runway 2.) LBD Model showing colorful spring dress and trench coat 3.) Left to Right: Kelly Friend, Goodwill Director of Career and Business Engagement, Debie Coble, Goodwill President and CEO, Representatives for: Creighton Brothers in Warsaw, Indiana, Business of the Year 4.) Left to Right: Jakelia Dooley-Jones, Achiever of the Year, Omeria Sibanda, Case Manager 5.) Left to Right: Norma Jean Neff, J. Larry Neff, Former Goodwill President and CEO 6.) Left to Right: Alan Gottschalk, Graduate of the Year, Kelly Friend, Goodwill Director of Career and Business Engagement

Many who attended became members of the Little Black Dress Club, receiving their label pin in support of Goodwill programs and the opportunity to receive special discounts throughout the year.

Photos Provided By: Menessah Nelson

Goodwill believes in celebrating accomplishments, and the Little Black Dress Fashion Show provided the perfect opportunity. Awards were presented to Jakelia Dooley, Achiever of the Year, Alan Gottchalk, Graduate of the Year and Creighton Brothers, Business of the Year. Guests enjoyed shopping in the Goodwill Boutique complete with dressing rooms to find that perfect outfit. Attending the fashion show gave them an opportunity to see first-hand the colors and trends that are in style this year. Then, they shopped the boutique to find the right pieces affordably.

Goodwill wishes to thank their many generous sponsors and those who attended this memorable event. Their generosity helps Goodwill change lives in our community. 

There were over 300 people who attended the Junior Achievement & Lemonade Day serving Elkhart County volunteer appreciation and sponsor recognition breakfast. The event also raised nearly $10,000 to support the organization’s future efforts.

Lemonade Day Teams Up

Setting up shop at Elkhart’s NIBCO Soccer Park on game day, Meadow Lemma reminds entrepreneurs that location, location, location is vital.

With Junior Achievement In Elkhart County

owhere else in the country has Lemonade Day and Junior Achievement been combined to form one organization to teach children financial literacy but in Elkhart County.

“Our vision is to teach every child in Elkhart County about being responsible with money and to understand how the economy works. And it’s not always an easy program to sell to volunteers or supporters,” says Executive Director Menessah Nelson. “We aren’t the organization that assists families in a time of crisis – of natural disasters and in times of emergencies. But our culture is in a crisis when it comes to financial literacy. And that’s the problem we’re committed to solving.”

Kadynce Hutsell and Jamie Barrett display their lavender lemonade stand in Elkhart County on May 2.

Under the leadership of Amish Shah, CEO and President of Kem Krest in Elkhart, Junior Achievement was brought back into operation three years ago. In 2013, the organization added Lemonade Day and combined the two programs to form Junior Achievement & Lemonade Day serving Elkhart County. Fortunately, several school administrators and teachers do understand the importance of their students learning about “real world” finances and have opened their doors to the program and its volunteers (who go through background checks and thorough training). In fact, there are over 700 classrooms on a waiting list for the program, which has courses for grades kindergarten through high school. Steve Thalheimer, Superintendent of Fairfield Community Schools south of Goshen, has reached out to include the entire corporation. There are lesson plans for all school year with Junior Achievement. Then there is the buildup and excitement of that one event for Lemonade Day, which was held May 2nd this year.

Executive director of Junior Achievement & Lemonade Day serving Elkhart County Menessah Nelson coaches volunteers at Teachers Credit Union in Granger in preparation for a “JA in a day” all day session. Jaxon Szymanowski of Elkhart decided two flavors are better than one, offering prospective customers cherry flavored lemonade as well as the pure original.

Photos Provided By: Kevin Haggenjos Photography

Leila and Gavin Morey man their stand in Nappanee at Coppes Commons.

“We encourage kids to be entrepreneurial and to market their lemonade stands and to have offer good customer service and communicate well,” tells Nelson. “Then, afterward we teach them the theme of spend a little, save a little, and give a little to charity.”  More information can be found at facebook.com/ JALemonadeDayElkhartCounty. SASSY | JUNE 2015