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How Hard Will Funding Cuts Hit Stafford? Community Rallies Together Against S-2
By Kimberly Bosco BARNEGAT – In Barnegat Township, incumbent Albert Bille is facing off against newcomer Peg Houle for a three-year term in this year’s upcoming election. As we near the Nov. 5 Election Day, the candidates identify taxes, safety, and the revitalization of downtown as some of their main focal points. For this newspaper’s election coverage, both candidates were asked the same questions regarding employment, experience in public office, and plans for the town. Below are the answers provided by each candidate, lightly edited for narrative flow.
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—Photo by Kimberly Bosco On October 18, the community showed out in support of Stafford Township School District and its students at a rally against NJ Senate Bill S-2. By Kimberly Bosco STAFFORD – Most s t u d e n t s wo u l d n’t d rea m of spend i ng a Friday evening at school when they could be home unwinding after a long week. But when the fate of local
education could be at stake, not very many were willing to stay home. The Stafford PTO hosted a Support Our Students (SOS) rally in an effort to raise awareness about the
state aid funding cuts to local school districts. Dozens of community members headed to the Oxycocus Elementary School on Route 9 in Manahawkin for the event. The rally was held on
the front lawn of the school, complete with games, a small bonfire, snacks, beverages, and live music courtesy of none other than retired Stafford officer Christopher Fritz. (Rally - See Page 4)
Remembering Victims Of Domestic Violence By Bob Vosseller TOMS RIVER – Memories of those who died as the victim of domestic violence - and greater awareness to the resources available to those facing that trauma - were part of the Silent Witness Project ceremony held recently at the Ocean County Mall. The Silent Witness Project ceremony involved the Ocean County Prosecutor’s Office, Ocean County College, Providence House Domestic Violence Services of Catholic Charities, the Ocean
County Sheriff’s Office and the Soroptimist International of Toms River. Ocean County Freeholder Director Virginia E. Haines and Freeholder Gary Quinn presented a proclamation to Providence House during the ceremony and during her remarks, Haines shared her own story. “I was a victim when I was 25 years old. I told no one. I didn’t let anyone know until after it was happening but I did leave. I was not hospitalized (Remembering - See Page 8)
Albert Bille Republican incumbent Albert Bille is hoping to make 2020 his tenth year behind the dais. Bille has served nine years on the Barnegat Township Committee, wearing many hats during that time. He has served as mayor, deputy mayor, planning board member, zoning board member, and as liaison to Barnegat’s Recreation Department, Chamber of Commerce and the Barnegat Food Pantry. Outside the realm of public office, Bille spent 36 years working in the Postal Service, “30 years as a Postmaster in various towns,” he said. Bille is now retired. Getting down to the issues, Bille identified Barnegat’s three most pressing matters as (Election - See Page 5)
Ketchup Caper Continues To Bring Better Karma
By Bob Vosseller LACEY – It all began with a bottle of ketchup but now, it serves more than a container of a tomato paste product; now it is a beacon of light for kindness. One day in August, one troubled individual stole a bottle of ketchup from the Forked River (Ketchup - See Page 4)
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Continued From Page 1 Organized in part by Stafford PTO, the Board of Education, and school administrators, officials combined education with a bit of fall fun to draw the community’s attention to NJ Senate bill S-2. S-2 was first proposed by Senate President Stephen Sweeney in 2017 and then signed into law by Governor Phil Murphy in 2018. The bill cuts “adjustment aid” to school districts that the state has deemed to be overfunded, including Stafford Township schools. According to Joe Mangino, member of the Board of Education and one of the rally’s organizers, Stafford School District stands to lose about $2.5 million over the next five years due to these cuts. “One [purpose] is to raise awareness and to educate our community about the impact of these cuts…and second, we have them signing a petition and a letter saying that we want equitable funding for all school districts,” Mangino told Jersey Shore Online. Mangino and other Support Our Students affiliates are hoping to get as many signatures as possible, although there is no set goal. They began the rally with over 650 signatures on the petition already, having garnered support from the community the previous weekend at the Stafford Township Fall Wine Festival. Through their outreach efforts, the Support Our Students event demonstrated that their message had reached a decent portion of the local community. And this is just the beginning.
Mangino noted that they are trying to inform everyone of the reality of what these cuts will look like for students; i.e. less field trips, smaller class sizes, potential cuts to staff and certain programs. “We have to look at everything,” he said. In just the last year, Stafford schools have lost about $300,000; a loss which they are already starting to feel, having already reduced staff, cutting most non-essential personnel. The Board of Education has also already made the decision to cut all field trips in half. “Instead of every grade going, it will be every other grade,” said Mangino. “That’s some decent savings.” “One extreme is eliminating courtesy bussing,” he added. “That’s not something we want to do, but we want people to be aware that this is what the impacts are.” In addition, officials are looking at the possibility of leasing out the Oxycocus Elementary School building for college classes. “We’re exploring every avenue we can,” he said. According to Mangino, the rumor mill is churning, and there is talk that state officials are considering removing the 2 percent cap from the local tax levy, which would allow for higher taxes to fill in those funding gaps. “I’m not for that, it makes us the bad guys instead of the state,” said Mangino. While the SOS group doesn’t have another informative rally planned for the near future, there is talk about taking buses up to Trenton to rally for the cause at the place where change is made.
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Continued From Page 1 Perkins Restaurant. Things just started to fall apart after that. The ketchup thief was so distraught over the crime and the bad luck that followed which included damage to the person’s vehicle and other issues that she left not only a hand written apology note but two replacement bottles that they had purchased from the Walmart a short distance away. The owner/manager of the restaurant, Maria DiLeo was so touched that she posted it to a local social media page and the ketchup theft, replacement and apology went viral. The Heinz ketchup company itself became involved in the saga and offered to help repair some of the damage caused by the so-called karma-induced fallout. In one Tweet, Heinz offered to help fund repairs to the ketchup thief’s car, stating that “Heinz makes you do crazy things.” Staff at the township Perkins discovered the apology note with two purchased ketchup bottles by sheer chance. The owner said that the missing bottle had not even been missed and was assumed to have been empty. A bag containing the two bottles of ketchup and apology note were nearly missed and almost discarded. DiLeo said that during her 12 years ago of owning and managing the restaurant she had never experienced anything quite like what happened. She said that as far as missing ketchup bottle went, “I never gave it a second thought. I just thought one of our staff tossed it out after it was empty
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and forgot to replace it.” The unidentified note left by the ketchup thief explained that they felt the ketchup bottle theft had left them with a bad taste of karma. The note reads, “A few weeks ago, I had taken one of your ketchup bottles off the table because for some odd reason I thought it’d be ‘risky,’” the note read. “I am as square as they come and this is the worst thing I’ve done.” Enter Laura Caroccia, who heads the Lacey Food Bank. She recently posted to the organization’s social media site, “unless you’ve been in a deep sleep since summertime you will recall the Heinz Ketchup caper that took place at the Perkins here in Forked River.” Caroccia noted that after acknowledging a pilfered bottle of ketchup and the subsequent bad luck in a letter of contrition to Maria, the owner of Perkins who she dubbed “the ketchup klepto” was contacted by Heinz and plans were made to make things right. Heinz upped the ante and recently delivered a load of ketchup to the Forked River Perkins with the invitation to the community to stop by and pick up a free bottle. Caroccia said “thanks to the influence of the internet and Facebook a suggestion was made to the Perkins customers that they could choose to donate that free bottle of ketchup to the Lacey Food Bank and that’s exactly what’s happening.” Photos of Perkins staff and Lacey Food Bank volunteers began to be posted on the Lacey Food Bank Facebook page. The (Ketchup - See Page 8)
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Continued From Page 1 taxes, safety, and the need for a new police and municipal headquarters. “I will not vote for any Township tax increase higher than 1%,” promised Bille. “The last two years township tax increases have been less than1%. Remember only 30% of your taxes go to the Township.” By state law, towns collect all property tax, and then dole it out to the school district and county and other entities. Safety issues can be folded into that of the police department and their CRU, or Crime Reduction Unit. “I will continue to support our outstanding police force that has kept us with the lowest crime rate in southern Ocean County,” he added. Looking toward the future, Bille expressed excitement over the upcoming groundbreaking of the new Town Hall and Police Department, noting that it will be “the pride of Barnegat.” “Please understand, the Township Committee waited until all the new developments started contributing to our taxes and we paid off our Township debt so the cost would not burden our taxpayers,” said Bille on the timeline of the project. In January 2018, township officials approved an ordinance that would allow for the township to bond for $15 million in order to construct a new town hall and police headquarters, Jersey Shore Online reported at the time. The new building will be located at the
The Southern Ocean Times, October 26, 2019, Page 5 east end of the township parking lot and will be about 22,000 square feet; 8,000 of that to be designated for the police station, according to Township Administrator Martin Lisella. Peg Houle Democratic candidate Peg Houle is hoping to make her mark on the township during this, her fi rst campaign for public office. Despite being a newcomer, Houle brings plenty of professional experience to the table as a retired teacher and a former Fortune 500 manager for several companies. “My career path has included several leadership positions that required strategic planning, project oversight and employee management. I have been responsible for multimillion dollar budgets, including allocating and managing a $50 million dollar trade plan to the sales force at Dannon,” said Houle. In addition, she has quite a bit of community service experience under her belt. “Community service has always been important to me and I have dedicated myself to serving children, families and animals,” she added. Houle has served as a family mentor in Morris County, a Committee Chair for the Boy Scouts of America troop in Madison, a block captain on the Barnegat Neighborhood Watch, and she volunteers weekly at the Southern Ocean County Animal Shelter. While taxes and safety issues are on the minds of most, Houle is also focusing in on bringing some life back to the downtown
Barnegat area as well as advocating for more transparency between the community and local government. “Barnegat has seen its population explode over the past 20 years with the building of numerous senior communities, yet the downtown area has declined, restaurants struggle to succeed, storefronts remain empty and families have no entertainment options close by,” Houle told Jersey Shore Online. “I believe that our downtown can be a vital, thriving place for all residents to enjoy, regardless of age. It can be the hub that drives community pride, community involvement and a destination for enjoyment.” In order to achieve this goal, she noted that she would take advantage of opportunities such as The Main Street New Jersey Grant Program, which provides grant funding for neighborhood preservation and downtown
renewal projects. In terms of transparency, Houle wants more meetings, workshops, and town halls. Right now, the Barnegat Township Committee meets once per month on an alternating schedule of 6 p.m. and 10 a.m. meetings. “The current process simply does not allow for the engagement of the residents in the decisions being made with their tax dollars. Transparency and communication are critical in developing trust between Barnegat residents and their elected officials,” Houle added.
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Letters To The Editor Politicians Must Represent Us All Ocean County is once again in the national news because of an unjust decision by our Freeholders, including current Freeholder Deputy Director John Kelly. Back in 2005, our Freeholders denied the dying wish of a 25-year veteran of the Sheriff’s department, Lt. Laurel Hester, to pass her pension and other survivor benefits to her longtime domestic partner. Although such action was legal under New Jersey state law, John Kelly justified the refusal of survivor benefits based on his personal religious beliefs, arguing it would violate the sanctity of marriage. The injustice of the Freeholder’s decision brought an immediate public outcry, including from Lt. Hester’s fellow officers. The Freeholders ultimately reversed their decision in a 4-0 vote, with John Kelly not present to vote. But this blot on Ocean County’s reputation is a gift that keeps on giving, drawing negative national attention as the subject of an Oscar winning documentary in 2008
and a major motion picture starring Julianne Moore in 2015. And now, a tweet by Julianne Moore to her 850,000+ followers has brought renewed attention to John Kelly and the history of bias in Ocean County. I think it’s time we finally put this sordid history behind us, electing Freeholders who will represent all the citizens of Ocean County. It’s time to clean house. I support Jean Czarkowski and David Wright, leaders of the highest integrity and accomplishment, who are committed to improving the lives of ALL Ocean County residents. I’ll be voting for Jean and David in November. Nancy Caira Waretown
Kudos To Amato Team On Recreational Opportunities As a Berkeley Township resident, as well as a parent of very active children, I would like to take this opportunity to thank Mayor Carmen Amato,
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the Township Council, and the Berkeley Township staff in general for the fantastic recreational setup we are able to enjoy in the township. For starters, the new turf field at Veterans Park is a welcome addition for the community. It proves to be an efficient and safe place for the Berkeley soccer and football organizations to use during the fall. The field can also be used for lacrosse, which has become a popular youth sport over the years. Also at Veterans, the softball field has been updated with a new safety fence, lighting, a scoreboard. I’ve mentioned a lot about Veterans Park, but the partnership with former Major League Pitcher Al Leiter that fixed up and would later become the Leiter Family Baseball Park was tremendous. When spectators from other towns come here to play, they seem envious of what we have here. These kinds of projects don’t happen overnight - they take significant time, management, and focused leadership to complete. That is a testament to the commitment to provide first-rate facilities and services by Mayor Amato and the Council. There are other great recreational opportunities to mention. Mayor Amato and the Council worked with the late Ocean County Freeholder, John Bartlett, to rebuild Berkeley Island County Park that includes a water spray park to help keep cool on hot summer days. The rebuilt Butler Beach with a new playground, as well as a fishing and crabbing pier was exceptionally well done. There are also new playgrounds at Dudley Park and Mastapeter Park at Amherst. The new skate park and inclusive merry-goround at Veterans provides
Letters The Editor our children with evenTo more from any American, much what they were here in Toms opportunities. All of these projects I mention came while Berkeley Township enjoys the second-lowest taxes in Ocean County! The vision and leadership to provide our children with so many wonderful opportunities has earned Mayor Amato and his team my vote! Please join me November 5th in voting Column A for the Amato Team! Michelle Tarantino Berkeley
Why Is Trump Above The Law? It’s time - past time - to open a formal impeachment inquiry. One hundred and thirty members of the House have already come out in support. I want to know why the remaining members (including my member of Congress *), have yet to come on board. Democrats have had control of the House of Representatives since the beginning of the year and still have yet to hold Trump accountable for his criminal conduct. In my opinion, time’s up. Trump may lie to the American people, but the evidence does not. Mueller’s report found over a hundred secret communications between Trump’s team and Russia or individuals tied to Russia. It found that Trump’s own campaign chairman gave polling data to a former Russian intelligence officer. It outlined at least 10 occasions in which Trump obstructed justice, which is a serious crime, to say the least. If you or I did what Trump did, we’d be in jail. Trump can scream “no collusion” all he wants, but these actions are unacceptable
less from the Commander in Chief who is tasked with protecting our national security. It’s imperative for our representatives to support a formal impeachment inquiry. Every lawmaker should want to hold Trump accountable for his crimes. We need to send a message that welcoming the help of a foreign government - and obstructing justice to cover it up - will not be tolerated. Kathy Atkins Forked River * Editor’s note: The congressman for Forked River has called for impeachment.
Keep School Spending Down In Lakewood, publicly funded busing to over 130 private schools has nearly bankrupted the school district - requiring tens of millions in state bailouts, year after year. I’m Jeff Dingsor and I believe Toms River School Board’s recent decision to bus students to Lakewood private schools has opened a Pandora’s Box that will have devastating consequences for property taxes and on the quality of education in our public schools. As required by law, the School Board traditionally offered a small transportation stipend to students enrolled in schools outside of the township, and only offered busing to private schools in Toms River. I believe the district’s decision to start busing to 11 private schools in Lakewood establishes a fiscally dangerous precedent, and it must be stopped. Transportation costs in Lakewood are over $30 Million a year, or roughly thirty times
River just a few years ago. The private school busing model hasn’t worked out in Lakewood, and it won’t work here in Toms River either. If elected, I’ll fight to overturn this decision and to prevent an expansion in private school busing. Rising transportation costs are not the only reason I decided to run. Recent State Aid cuts resulted in the elimination of 77 positions, but this School Board still found the money to give the Superintendent his bonus and to increase the salaries of his Assistant Superintendents. We need people on the School Board that will put students and their education ahead of salary increases for administrators. Taxes continue to spiral out of control. In the last five years, school taxes increased by over 21 million dollars. While part of that can be attributed to state aid cuts, this School Board has increased spending by over $11 million in that same five year period.* If elected to the School Board, I’ll put a stop to the wasteful spending that is increasing our taxes, and I’ll fight to make sure we’re getting our fair share from Trenton. Hopefully I can count on you to support me, Jeff Dingsor for School Board. I’ll be in Ballot Position 1. If elected, I’ll represent the taxpayers and students of our community, not special interests or political insiders. If you have any questions or issues you’d like to discuss, please feel free to contact me at (732) 806-1139. Jeff Dingsor Toms River * Editor’s note: These figures could not be independently verified as of press time.
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Continued From Page 4 photos feature the free ketchup bottles being dropped off in one of the Food Bank’s big blue barrels. “Our thanks to Heinz for providing the opportunity (and the ketchup) and to Marie at Perkins for being such a good friend to the Lacey Food Bank,” Caroccia said. She also thanked the still anonymous ketchup thief “who unknowingly started this circle of giving.” #payingitforward #ketchupkaper #Heinz #Perkins @Heinz While the identity of the ketchup thief isn’t publicly known, it appears that her or his true name is known to DiLeo and the staff of Heinz. Even back in August, DiLeo suspected the ketchup thief was female based on the
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and thank God I was not killed but it can happen to anyone,” she said. “No matter who you are, where are you live or your background, you can be a victim. When that happens you can call someone, be it a neighbor or a support agency or someone else but you can always find a way out,” Haines said. The event was held to raise awareness of the issue of domestic violence and connect residents with local resources to help end the violence in their lives. Both Haines and Ocean County Prosecutor Bradley D. Billhimer reviewed the history of the Silent Witness Project which began in 1990 when an ad hoc group of women artists and writers, upset about the growing number of women in Minnesota being murdered by their partners or acquaintances, joined together with several other women’s organizations to form Arts Action Against Domestic Violence. “While you are here take the time to look at the silent witnesses in the circle here,” Billhimer said referring to the life sized red and blue wooden figures which featured information on a specific fatal incident of domestic violence that included the name of the victim, their town, date and a brief synopsis of that murder. Billhimer noted that the women who founded the movement felt an urgency to do something that would speak out against the escalating domestic violence in their state and set out to create something that would commemorate the lives of the 26 women whose lives had been taken in 1990 as a result of domestic violence. “It now exists in every state and 23 other countries. The goal of those women in Minnesota was to promote education, raise awareness, reduce the stigma and connect people with resources. There are a number of resources available. It doesn’t discriminate based on race, religion, ethnicity. It effects all of us,” Billhimer said. “There is no reason for you to suffer in
handwriting of the note. “No man has such good hand writing,” she joked. “We’ll keep your identity top secret,” Heinz tweeted on August 7. Two days later the ketchup company tweeted that it had tracked down the “reformed ketchup thief. Thank you to all who helped get the word out.” Lena Skates, the administrator and founder of the Lacey Township Chatter Facebook page where the saga was first posted said, “I went to Perkins for lunch, but let’s stop the charade, it was just to get my ketchup. Do I need free ketchup? Probably not. But I’m considering this a trophy that represents the spirit of what Heinz, and actually the world, is touching on, which is “thank you for reminding us of the simple goodness.” “These are the stories that interrupt the bad and make us smile,” Skates added.
silence. There are people here that can help you,” he said. “I always thought it was important to talk to students and young people who are at a vulnerable age so that they can see the signs. The hardest thing for a victim of domestic violence is to understand the cycle and to realize that they may be in it. It is so easy for us to say ‘why doesn’t someone just leave.’ That is the hardest thing to do if you don’t realize you are in it.” Laurie Toole, program supervisor for Providence House Domestic Violence Services of Catholic Charities served as master of ceremonies. She said the day’s event was dedicated in memory of Ron Gering, who recently died of cancer, for his 45 years of service to Catholic Charities, Diocese of Trenton. “Ron was a gentle man who cared deeply about the people we serve, leading an agency work group that brought a trauma informed approach to our work. Ron ensured that those who were voiceless would be given a voice through the work of Catholic Charities. We know Ron would be proud by the work being done to shine light on the issue of domestic violence,” Toole said. “Having a voice is especially important for victims of domestic violence. For a victim of domestic violence, choosing to speak out and be heard can often be very dangerous and unsafe. More often than not it takes an immense amount of courage,” she said. “We work continuously at Providence House to provide a safe place for victims to choose courage and we are so fortunate that so many of you in the community do the same.” The ceremony included performances by the Ocean County Vocational Technical School Performing Arts Academy while the Ocean County Sheriff’s Department Honor Guard opened the program with presentation of colors. Pastor Tom Carrano of New Beginnings Christian Church provided the invocation. For information about Providence House and its domestic violence support services call 732-350-2120.
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By Chris Lundy TOMS RIVER – Congressman Andy Kim (D-3rd) will be holding a town hall meeting focusing on veterans on Nov. 11 at 5 p.m. at Ocean County College’s Gateway Building Lecture Hall. Veterans throughout the district will be discussing issues important to them, Kim said. In the past, he has supported a new Veterans Administration clinic in Ocean County, and has introduced legislation to protect veterans from VA mistakes.
“Our town halls are my chance to hear from you on what’s important, and as we approach Veterans Day, hearing from veterans in Ocean and Burlington Counties is one of the most important things we can do,” said Congressman Kim. “Our Congressional District has more veterans than any other in New Jersey, and their issues impact us all.” What: Veterans Day Town Hall When: Monday, Nov. 11, 5 p.m. Where: Ocean County College, Gateway Building Lecture Hall
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LACEY - The Lacey Food Bank announced that food for the monthly distribution is given out from 10 a.m. to noon Thursday, November 21, at Lacey Food Bank building, 102 Station Dr (corner of Station Drive and Parker Street). Emergency food is also distributed from the actual food bank site one block in from Route 9. “Store” hours are Monday through Saturday
from 10 a.m. to noon. Emergency calls are taken by phone. Call the food bank at 609242-2848 and leave a message. Transportation for the monthly distribution is provided by the recreation department. To arrange a ride call them at 732-693-1100 (township hall) then extension 2203 (recreation department) If you are infirm and housebound ask them for home delivery.
Veterans Invited To LEH Veterans Day Assembly
LITTLE EGG HARBOR – Attention Veterans! The Little Egg Harbor School District requests the presence of all Veterans on November 11. The 6th grade is hosting their annual Veterans Day Assembly. The assembly will be held at the Frog Pond Elementary School from 1:30 - 2:30 p.m. Veterans are welcome to wear
or bring their uniform. The program will include a tribute to our servicemen and servicewomen. If you wish to attend this program to share your story and experiences, please RSVP to Cyndi Anderson at canderson@lehsd.org or 609-296-1719. We look forward to seeing you there. Thank you for your service.
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Waretown Historical Society Meets Monthly
WARETOWN - Meetings of the Waretown Historical Society are held on the third Monday of the month at 7:30 p.m. at the Little Red School House Museum, 182 Wells Mills Rd. The months of March, June, and September feature programs. Events will be announced. Hours for the museum are every Friday in
July and August from 1 to 3 p.m. The museum is also open any time by appointment. The museum is normally open when the township holds a special program at the lake. For information on membership and volunteers call Linda Bleeke at 609-618-1311 or e-mail lmbleeke@gmail.com
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Fundraiser Created For Injured Retired Police Sergeant
By Kimberly Bosco SHIP BOTTOM – “One of the Good Guys needs our help,” wrote one donor to the Scott Barr Fundraiser. On Oct. 12, retired Ship Bottom Police Sergeant Scott Barr was struck by an oncoming vehicle when he stopped to help at the scene of an accident on the Garden State Parkway in Atlantic County. In his effort to save lives and help others, Barr was seriously injured. He remains at the Critical Care Unit in the Atlantic City Regional Trauma Center, undergoing multiple procedures and surgeries, according to the GoFundMe. Barr is a married father of four. The family is “extremely loved and involved in the local
community.” A GoFundMe created in Barr’s honor is working to raise funds to “assist the family that has given so much to everyone around them,” according to the site. As of Oct. 17, the site has raised $6,490 of the $20,000 goal. In addition, there will be a benefit for the Barr Family on Nov. 17 at 2 p.m. at the Manahawkin Elks Lodge, 520 Hilliard Blvd. Tickets are $50. There will be beer, wine, food, and music. “Please join us and share this page to spread the word and help the Barr family who has helped so many others throughout the years,” stated the GoFundMe, which can be found at gofundme.com/f/scott-barr-fundraiser.
Christmas (And The LBI House Tour) Are Coming
LONG BEACH ISLAND – The members of the Garden Club of Long Beach Island announce the 54th annual Holiday Tour of Homes, December 12. Five magnificent homes on LBI are opened and beautifully decorated for the holidays by club members. The income generated from ticket sales provides scholarships, programs for children and seniors, environmental projects as well as garden maintenance throughout the island. Where on LBI can you find and see a bar made from an original wooden Chris Craft boat; a
fossilized coral limestone kitchen floor from the Florida Keys; azure blue marble kitchen counters; a repurposed chicken coop on a tinlined fireplace; or a dining table made from one slab of a Thai camcha tree? And that’s just a start of what’s waiting at the Garden Club of LBI’s 54th Annual Holiday Tour of Homes on Thursday, December 12. Add to that homemade cookies to bring home, amazing gifts to shop for, and a delectable luncheon at the spectacular LBI Hotel. For ticket information, contact Diane Macrides at 973-214-2520.
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MANAHAWKIN – “Peto’s Pallette Pals” is a series of children’s art programs in partnership with the John F. Peto Studio Museum. John F. Peto was a famous trompe l’oeil (“fool-the-eye”) artist who lived and worked in Island Heights. His home and studio is now a vibrant local museum. Each of the “Peto’s Palette Pals” events will focus on the style of a different artist. Southern’s own Melissa Penna serves on the board of the Peto Museum and has created the
curriculum and lesson plans for each artist. Southern art teachers, Maureen Hoffman and Megan Lister, have each conducted the lessons for this free program that is open to the public. This program is sponsored in part by a grant from the Ocean County Cultural & Heritage Commission and Ocean First Foundation, and developed in collaboration with Historic Artist Homes & Studios, a program of the National Trust for Historic Preservation.
Lacey Alliance To Hold Last Meeting Of 2019
LACEY – The Lacey Township Municipal Alliance Committee is a coalition of citizens from the business, church and school community as well as members of local organizations. Alliance members work together to develop, plan, and implement programs and activities, which will assist in the prevention of alcohol, tobacco and other drugs (ATOD). The Alliance receives funding from several sources including the State of New Jersey, through Drug Education Demand Reduction (DEDR) funds, the Township of Lacey and local donations from businesses and private
citizens. The group meets each fourth Monday of the month at 7 p.m. in the conference room in the Recreation building. The meetings are open to the general public. Only one meetings will be held for the remainder of this year and that will be on Nov. 25 as there is no meeting in December. For information about the Alliance, its future activities and programs and how you can join, contact Alliance Coordinator Heather Scanlon at 609-693-1100, ext. 2217 or e-mail her at hscanlon@laceytownship.org
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Lacey Recreation Director Seeks Public Input
LACEY – Township Recreation Dept. Director James Wioland said the “Recreation Department is proud to host many events each year with the support of our community partners.” “We also boast one of the best sports programs in South Jersey that begins with our youth sports organizations. My office currently oversees community athletics, the lakefront and beaches, and a summer in the parks day camp program at sites throughout the Township,” Wioland said. Wioland added, “in addition, the Recreation Department also provides a new schedule of youth, adult and senior recreational classes as well as our senior day trips each season. We invite all residents of the community to become part of this great tradition called Lacey Recreation.” “If you have a new idea for a course, please
submit your resume and course proposal in writing to lacey.recreation@laceytownship. org.,” Wioland said. “Lacey has two digital signs, one on the corner of Manchester Avenue and Haines Street, the other is at the corner of Route 9 and Lacey Road managed by the Recreation Department,” Wioland said. If anyone wants to advertise your important event or date contact Wioland’s office to have their information added. The following is a list of groups that can use the sign: • Recreation Groups • Service Organizations • Township Sponsored Organizations • Churches • Schools • No Political Groups • No Private Business
Forked River Elementary School Parents Invited To Spooktacular Event
LACEY – Parents are invited to the Forked River Elementary School’s annual Halloween Spooktacular on Oct. 31. The event will be held at the school’s multi-purpose room. All visitors should be prepared to show photo identification upon arrival. The schedule is: 9:30 to 10:05 a.m. – Fourth Grade 10:15 to 10:50 a.m. – First Grade
1:20 to 1:55 p.m. – Kindergarten 2:00 to 2:35 p.m. – Second Grade 2:40 to 3:15 p.m. – Third Grade Costume safety reminders – masks should only be worn during the Spooktacular and or classroom parties for the safety of our students. Any items resembling a weapon must remain at home and please be sure to apply all makeup at home.
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MANAHAWKIN – With an 8-0 victory over Central Regional on Monday, October 7 the Southern Regional Field Hockey team clinched the 2019 Shore Conference “A” South Title for the 3rd consecutive season. Congratulations players, coaches and parents. Congratulations Southern Regional Girls Freshmen Volleyball on winning the Brick Memorial Tournament on Saturday, October 5, 2019. The Rams defeated Pinelands 25-17 in the final. Kaya Nasciemento was named Tournament MVP. Congratulations Southern Regional Boys Volleyball Senior Justin Kean on his commitment to continue his education and volleyball careers at Belmont Abbey College in North Carolina. We wish Justin continued success. Congratulations Southern Regional Senior Athlete Alex Mattner and Southern Regional Girls Soccer Head Coach Kaitlyn Hartkopf representing Southern at the NJSIAA Senior Leadership Summit Luncheon on Monday, October 7, 2019. Alex is a three-sport athlete competing in Girls Soccer, Girls Basketball and Girls Lacrosse for the Rams. It was excellent to honor the Southern Regional High School Health & Physical Education Fitness team last at the Southern Varsity Football game on Friday, October 4, 2019. The Fitness team placed 2nd nationally at the USMC Physical Fitness Challenge which took place on May 18, 2019 in Pennsylvania. Congratulations Southern Regional Boys Soccer on defeating Central Regional 4-0 on Senior Night, Tuesday, October 8, 2019.
The Rams improved to a record of 10-2-1 on the season. It was an awesome win for Southern Girls Soccer team in defeating Middletown North in the 1st Round of the 2019 Shore Conference Tournament on Tuesday, October 8. The Rams received the #20 seed and defeated #13 seeded Lions on penalty kicks. Ashley Altman scored the winning penalty kick while goalie Lindsey Selert recorded 17 saves. This marks the 2nd consecutive season the Rams have won a post season Shore Conference Tournament game. Congratulations Southern Regional Girls Cross Country on winning the 2019 Shore Conference “A” South Championship on Thursday, October 10. Congratulations Southern Regional Boys Cross Country on winning the 2019 Shore Conference “A” South Championship on Thursday, October 10. Congratulations Southern Regional Girls Volleyball in defeating Jackson Memorial 2-0 on Thursday, October 10, 2019. With the victory, the Rams clinched the Shore Conference “A” South Championship. Congratulations athletes, coaches and parents on a wonderful accomplishment. Congratulations Southern Gymnastics on winning a tri-match on Thursday, October 10, 2019. The Rams won 101.825, to 97.625 over Jackson Memorial and also defeated Manchester 101.825 to 92.175. With the victory Southern improves to a record of 8 & 0 on the season.
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STAFFORD - We all have favorite songs that instantly transport us back to special times in our lives. Music is one of the most effective tools to enhance the lives of patients with dementia. Even patients with advanced dementia benefit from listening to the old familiar songs they loved. They come to life and many speak for the first time in months or years. The Stafford Township Recreation Department’s Awaken Memories With Music project is looking for donations of Ipods, MP3 players, over-the-ear headphones, device chargers and ITunes cards to kick off a community effort to get music into the lives of our neighbors with dementia. With the help of caregivers, volunteers will personalize each device with a patient’s
favorite songs. The players are then given to the patients to keep and enjoy the benefits every day. Players can be dropped off at the following locations: • The Recreation Office at Town Hall, 260 East Bay Ave. • The Bay Ave.Community Center, 775 East Bay Avenue • The Pine Street Recreation Building, 25 Pine St. For more information, call Deb Budesa at 609-597-1000 Ext. 8583 The mission of the Stafford Township Recreation Department is to fulfill the recreational needs of the community and to develop a variety of quality programs that fit and address these needs.
Lacey Recreation Dept. To Host Hockey Bus Trip
LACEY – The Township Recreation Dept. is sponsoring a Hockey Day Trip to feature the New Jersey Devils who will face the Colorado Avalanche on Saturday Jan. 4, 2020. The bus will leave from the Lacey Town-
ship Municipal Building on Lacey Road at 4:30 p.m. Tickets are being sold for $65 from the Lacey Recreation Dept. E-mail lacey. recreation@laceytownship.org for additional details.
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Southern Ocean Medical Center To Host Annual Women’s Health Night
MANAHAWKIN – Women of southern Ocean County can spend quality time with their girlfriends and learn how to live a healthier life at Hackensack Meridian Health Southern Ocean Medical Center’s 28th Annual Women’s Health Night. On Wednesday, October 30, 2019, the free event will take place from 5:30 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. on the first floor of the hospital in Manahawkin. This year’s highlights will include community resources, health screenings, interactive displays, healthy food demonstrations and informative lectures by Southern Ocean Medical Center physicians. Light refreshments, giveaways and door prizes will be offered. “We are delighted to once again offer a relaxing evening experience for women of this community here at our hospital to get the latest information to help them live a healthier life,” said Regina Foley, Ph.D., MBA, RN, chief hospital executive of Southern Ocean Medical Center. “Participation from our community resources has been overwhelming and we expect a record number of women to attend.” On-the-spot health screenings will include
balance, blood pressure, bone densitometry, blood glucose, cholesterol, stroke risk, BMI, and hearing. Stop by the Beach Plum Café for healthy food demonstrations. The LBI Department of Health will be on-site to offer seasonal flu vaccines Influenza are free if enrolled in Medicare non-HMO Part B or Aetna Medicare Advantage ($25 if not enrolled). Bring your insurance card(s) for verification. Beginning at 6 p.m., informative lectures about women’s health from some of Southern Ocean’s expert physicians will be featured. Tricia L. Morino, D.O., will discuss what cancer screenings may be right for you, followed by Sara G. Karam, M.D. at 6:30 with women and heart health. Finally, at 7 p.m., Jeffrey C. Hager will give expert advice on varicose veins - is it cosmetic or a health risk? Doors open for registration at 5:30 p.m. in the hospital’s main lobby. To pre-register and for more information about Women’s Health Night, call 1-800-560-9990 or visit SouthernOceanMedicalCenter.com/GirlsNight. Southern Ocean Medical Center is located at 1140 Route 72 West in Manahawkin.
Waretown United Methodist Church To Host Upcoming Holiday Events
WARETOWN – The Waretown United Methodist Church, located at 27 Bryant Rd. will hold its 3rd Annual Blessing of the Animals at 1 p.m. on Oct. 27. All animals, young and old, scaled, furred and feathered are welcome to join as the church’s pastor will go to each pet and say a blessing. It is requested that all pets be either on a leash or in a carrier for their protection. Get a jump on your Christmas shopping at the church’s annual Christmas Bazaar from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. on Nov. 2 and enjoy Thanksgiving Dinner from 2 to 5 p.m. on Nov. 28. The annual Thanksgiving dinner will be held at the Waretown Volunteer Firehouse hosted by the Houck family and WUMC. No reservations are needed for this free community event.
The church’s live Nativity and Bonfire will be held from 5 to 8 p.m. on Dec. 1. Enjoy some hot cocoa and cookies by the fire while watching a dramatic performance of Jesus’ birth with actors, singers and live animals during this one-day family friendly Christmas event. American sign language will be provided. There will be two show times: 5:30 and 6:30 p.m. Attendees are urged bring your cameras and Christmas lists for pictures in front of the church’s beautifully decorated Christmas tree with Santa and Mrs. Claus. WUMC’s Christmas Cantata worship service will be held at 9 a.m. on Dec. 22. The service will include WUMC’s Choir and Bell Choir who will perform an arrangement of Christmas music called “A Promise of Peace.”
Rat Pack Christmas Show
WARETOWN – Sleigh bells are ringing and the boys are swinging! This holiday themed theatrical production includes a mix of holiday classics, original Christmas songs and timeless standards. Join the Township of Ocean Recreation for a trip to the Rat Pack Christmas Show on Nov. 20, 2019. Cost is $84 and includes a $25 free slot play and ticket.
Bus boards at the 11th St. Community Center in Waretown at 10:30 a.m. Please arrive 15 minutes prior to boarding. Bus departs from Atlantic City at 5:45 p.m. Make check payable to Twp. of Ocean Recreation, 50 Railroad Ave., Waretown NJ 08758. A non- refundable deposit of $40 is required to reserve your spot. Balance of trip payment is due November 1, 2019.
Lacey UMC Harvest Fest
LACEY – Join the Lacey United Methodist Church for a Harvest Festival on Nov. 16, 10 a.m.-3 p.m. Harvest Fest will feature baked goods, homemade soups & chili, art show, car show, rummage sale, crafts, vendors, animal care demos, products/services, holiday photos
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us to help those who struggle with food insecurities. We also want to thank community members for their entry donation and coming out to vote, Home Run Entertainment for providing free children’s activities and Zzak G. Applaud Our Kids Foundation Inc. for performing throughout the cook-off.” A record-breaking 350 people were in attendance throughout the day. With a $20 donation, they had the opportunity to taste and vote for their favorite chili, sample a selection of hors d’oeuvres made by JBJ Soul Kitchen’s very own Chef Rob Wood and feast on a pig roast. In addition, hand-crafted ceramic bowls were available for a $20 Pay It Forward donation as part of a year-long Every Bowl Feeds a Soul effort to raise hunger awareness in the community. As the winning department, the New Jersey State Police will receive a portion of the entry donations. The rest of the entry and Pay It Forward donations, as well as merchandise sales will go toward JBJ Soul Kitchen.
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Influenza and Pneumonia vaccinations are FREE if enrolled in Medicare Part B. If not enrolled in Medicare Part B, or you have a Medicare Managed Care Plan, the cost will be $20.00 (cash or check).
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Did you know that your hearing health has a direct effect on your overall health? Some causes can be natural and others would surprise you. It is important to take an empowered, proactive approach to hearing health during every stage of your life. I would sincerely suggest that you read this column several times and share this information with your friends and family. Risk Factors Hearing loss is about twice as common in people with diabetes compared to those without the disease. Adults with pre-diabetes, whose blood glucose is higher than normal but not high enough for a diabetes diagnosis, have a 30 percent higher rate of hearing loss compared to those with normal blood sugar. Current smokers are 1.69 times more likely, or have a 70 percent higher risk to have hearing loss than nonsmokers. Studies have shown that a healthy cardiovascular system has a positive effect on hearing. Conversely, inadequate blood flow and trauma to the blood vessels of the inner ear can contribute to hearing loss. Hearing Loss In America 1. One in three people over the age of 60 have hearing loss. 2. One in six Baby Boomers (49-68) have hearing loss. 3. One in 14 Generation Xers (37-48) already have hearing loss. 4. One in five teenagers have some type of hearing loss. 5. Hearing aids can reduce the effects of
hearing loss by 50 percent Effects of Hearing Loss on a Patient’s Life Memory and Hearing Loss: Adults with hearing loss are more likely to develop problems thinking and remembering than adults with normal hearing. Degraded hearing may force the brain to devote too much of its energy to processing sound. Adults with hearing loss develop a significant impairment in their cognitive abilities 3.2 years sooner than those with normal hearing. Those with hearing loss experience a 30-40 percent greater decline in thinking abilities compared to their counterparts without hearing loss. Dementia and Hearing Loss: Seniors with hearing loss are significantly more likely to develop dementia over time than those who retain their hearing. Adults with moderate hearing loss are 3 times more likely to develop dementia and those with severe hearing loss are 5 times more likely to develop dementia. Mental Health and Hearing Loss: Hearing loss results in social isolation. Adults with untreated hearing loss tend to withdraw from engaging with family and friends. Adults, 50 and older, with untreated hearing loss are more likely to report depression, anxiety, anger and frustration, emotional instability and paranoia, and are less likely to participate in social activities than those who wear hearing aids. The degree of depression and other emotional or mental health issues also increases with the severity of the hearing loss.
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H ERE ’ S T O Y OUR H EALTH Dear Pharmacist Suzy Cohen, R. Ph.
Bernie Sanders Health Incident Diagnosed As Heart Attack By Suzy Cohen, R. Ph.
Would you know right away if you were having a heart attack? Symptoms include a heartburn-like sensation, tightness in your chest/arms. Nausea, throat or jaw pain may occur, as well as fatigue and mild dizziness. Sometimes there’s a cold sweat, but not always. Does this sound like how you feel after pouring too much hot sauce on a large burrito? Like, it’s easy to miss until it gets serious! Last week, the Democratic presidential candidate experienced some chest pain and was hospitalized while working in Las Vegas, Nevada. His campaign events were obviously canceled and later, we would find out that it was a mild heart attack. It strikes someone every 43 seconds. Unbalanced cholesterol might certainly contribute, but there are other deficiencies involved in the making of a heart attack: Vitamin C. Keeping your arteries elastic and bendable is important and that’s where vitamin C can help. It is required for making collagen which keeps your arteries supple and free of cracking. Collagen. There is collagen in your heart, it’s everywhere. Too much glycation of the collagen and too many AGEs causes your arteries to stiffen up. The problem isn’t the collagen, you want that! The problem is the glycation, which is where a glucose molecule binds to something else that’s important in your body (like a protein), and destroys it. Like with arteries, they get stiffer and non-compliant, that’s dangerous. Glycine. This is an amino acid that’s as-
sociated with sleep or with body-building because it helps make creatine, which is an energy-producing compound and the most abundant protein in collagen. There was an interesting 2016 STUDY in the Journal of the American Heart Association which found an inverse relationship with glycine and the heart. The patients with angina were evaluated over 7 years, and those with healthy, normal amounts of glycine had a lower risk of heart attack. CoQ10 and Ubiquinol. Coenzyme Q10 is an essential life-sustaining compound in our body, and our heart would stop beating quickly if we ran out of this. That’s because it’s concentrated in the heart. We make this antioxidant, but it’s depleted by about 100 or more different medications, more than likely one you take! If that’s the case, consider supplementation. Evidence is crystal clear, the lower your CoQ10 levels, the higher the risk for all kinds of problems including heart failure, arrhythmias and heart attack. Garlic. Plaque accumulation will cause a blockage of blood flow, therefore reduced blood supply to the heart, and that’s the mechanism which can cause a heart attack. It’s amazing that garlic has been shown to reduce plaque buildup in arteries. Even statins don’t do that, they just reduce your production of cholesterol in the liver, leaving the arteries and blood vessels just as clogged as they were before. But garlic is like a Dyson with suction power to sweep out plaques in the body. You can cook with it, sprinkle it, or take aged garlic supplements.
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Nutrition and the Aging Population By: Steven Beintema, PTA
Hippocrates once said, “Let food be thy medicine and medicine be thy food.” This statement is as important today as it was 2500 years ago. Advances in technology, social support networks, and advances in medicine have enabled us to live longer than ever. While there are numerous benefits to living longer, it cannot be denied that there is also an increased cost as well. As we grow older, our need for medical care generally increases. It is estimated that caring for an older population will increase healthcare spending approximately 25% by 2030. This article will briefly cover healthy nutrition and its potential to help reduce medical costs and improve quality of life.
Eating healthy is not always easy as we grow older. There are numerous factors at play that may pose barriers to healthy food intake. Over a lifetime we all develop food preferences that can be very hard to change. Along those same lines, eating habits ingrained over years are hard to break. Lack of physical activity decreases our body’s energy needs and our appetite. Illnesses, decreased mobility, problems with oral health, and changes in digestion and absorption of nutrients can make healthy eating even more difficult. It is important for each of us to take an honest, comprehensive look at our eating habits and lifestyle in order to
determine what, if any, changes should be made... and then commit to those changes. As we age, there is a gradual decline in organ function, which can increase the likelihood of developing heart disease, cancer, diabetes, and other chronic illnesses. Research shows that consuming a healthy diet, avoiding tobacco products, and remaining physically active drastically reduces the chance of developing these diseases. The days of the “four basic food groups” are long gone. The US Dept of Agriculture published updated MyPlate guidelines in 2010. These guidelines are designed for all Americans older than age 2. Tufts University developed a “MyPlate for Older Adults” with modifications appropriate for adults age 70 and older (FIGURE 1). Emphasis is placed on nutrient-dense food choices and the importance of fluid balance. It is important to choose adequate amounts of fiber-rich foods, whole grains, and whole fruits and vegetables while avoiding highly refined and processed options. The need for regular physical activity is also depicted as part of the MyPlate for Older Adults. For many older Americans, a diet consisting solely of whole, fresh ingredients is unrealistic. Decreased mobility and limited income are just two factors that may make an entirely fresh diet impossible to maintain. MyPlate for Older Adults includes representations of alternative options including frozen, canned and dried fruits and vegetables. Various fluid options are also shown. If unable to consume the necessary nutrients from foods alone, supplemental nutrients such as calcium, vitamin D, and vitamin B12 may be required. Your journey toward nutritional health should not be made alone but should be a team effort. In order to incorporate changes safely and effectively, it is important to consult with your physician first. Preexisting conditions such as diabetes may require more supervision and monitoring as changes are made. Your pharmacist should make up the third member of your team. Certain foods, herbs, and supplements may have an adverse effect on medications. Your pharmacist can
help you steer clear of any unwanted interactions. No healthy diet would be complete without an emphasis on adequate fluid intake. Adequate hydration is essential for proper organ and joint function. Most of your fluid intake should be from water, but MyPlate also shows coffee, tea, and other beverages as suitable sources in limited amounts. The fact that Americans are living longer is a good thing, however this longevity may come at a price. Each one of us has the power to take charge of our nutritional health, and possibly minimize the negative effects related to aging. So, don’t wait! Consult with your physician and commit to making a change today!
STEVEN BEINTEMA, PTA Steve graduated with his Associates degree in Applied Science upon completion of the Physical Therapist Assistant Program at Mercer County Community College. He then obtained his license in 2015. Steve completed three clinical affiliations, one in an acute-care hospital, one in a sub-acute/long-term care facility, and one in an outpatient facility specializing in spinal cord injuries. Since obtaining license, Steve has worked in acute-care, sub-acute care, and outpatient settings, and is excited to be a part of the All-Care Team. Steve understands that each patient has different needs and expectations, and that treatment plans must be tailored accordingly. Steve believes that the therapist and patient must communicate and work together as a team to achieve established goals! He is currently treating at our Whiting facility.
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CLASSIFIEDS Real Estate For Rental or Purchase 1 BR/1 Bath. NEW home. Homes t e a d R u n 5 5 + C o m m u n i t y, Toms River, NJ 732-370-2300. www.homesteadrun.com . (46) Purchase - 2Br, 2Ba. Gated adult community. OLV. Everything remodeled. Move right in. Lakewood. $84,000. For sale by owner. Appointments. 732-259-2803. (45)
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AROUND THE JERSEY SHORE Six Flags Crowns 30-Hour Coffin Challenge Winner
By Kimberly Bosco JACKSON – Halloween fanatic Amanda Roberts has finally earned the horror movie title of “final girl” after being crowned the champion of Six Flags Great Adventure’s 30-Hour Coffin Challenge. In second and third place behind Roberts were two of our own Ocean County residents from Forked River –Photo courtesy Six Flags and Seaside Heights. Coffi n Challenge Contestants, Butch Patrick & zombies. Roberts, of Hopatcong, bravely endured 30 hours in the claustropho- replica of her full-sized coffin. bic coffin, with limited bathroom and phone Runners up were: breaks, to the tune of Baby Shark on repeat. • 2nd Place: Kerri Platt of Forked River. Roberts tackled the coffin challenge’s daunting • 3rd Place: John Nash of Seaside Heights. tasks, including eating pork brains, fishing • 4th Place: Mike Markawicz of Ridley Park, items from a jar of hissing Madagascar cock- PA roaches, facing down terrifying critters like • 5th Place: Cricket Alanis of Bayshore, NY. tarantulas, bobbing for candy corns in green • 6th Place: Alairra Craven of Seaside Heights. baby food, and suffering visits from Fright All runners up took home park passes and Fest freaks. Fright Fest souvenirs. As the winner, Roberts made out with a $600 Roberts was one of six finalists to partake in prize, a pair of 2020 Gold Season Passes, the annual coffin challenge. The six contestants Haunted Maze Express Passes and a small were chosen out of a pool of 6,000 applications.
Little Egg Harbor Library Closed Due To Electrical Repairs
LITTLE EGG HARBOR – The Little Egg Harbor branch of the Ocean County Library remains closed until further notice due to needed electrical repairs. These repairs are a result of a power surge from an Atlantic City Electric transformer located on the perimeter of Mathistown Road. The surge occurred around 11 p.m. Oct. 14, after the branch had closed. A maintenance team and electricians were
sent to the site to address the issue. While the library is closed, all holds in delivery will be available for pick up at Stafford Branch, 129 N Main St, Manahawkin. The holds will be extended by four days. Alternatively, customers may call and request their holds be sent to their branch of choice. The Ocean County Library apologizes for any inconvenience this situation has caused.
Waretown Municipal Alliance Toy Drive Starts Nov. 1
WARETOWN - New and unwrapped toys (no stuffed animals) and gift cards are need for children 4 to 16 years old for the Municipal Alliance’s annual Toy Drive. The toy drive will be held from Nov. 1 to Dec. 10 and items can be dropped off in the barrels provided at the Township of Ocean Town
Hall, Police Department headquarters, the Waretown Library or ShopRite of Waretown. Any businesses that would like to serve as a drop location should call Recreation Director Jeanne Broadbent at 609-548-6319. Donations can be put in an envelope marked “Toy Drive Donation” c/o Municipal Alliance.
Waretown United Methodist Church To Hold Services
WARETOWN - The Waretown United Methodist Church, located at 27 Bryant Rd. is a leading deaf and hearing congregation in the country with a team of American sign language interpreters. The church holds two worship services on Sundays a 9 a.m. traditional service with
its choir and occasionally a hand bell choir singing hymns. A second service is held at 11 a.m. with the church’s Praise Band. The church offers several different groups for all ages. For further information visit Waretownumc.org or the church’s Facebook page.
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AROUND THE JERSEY SHORE Local Woman Beats Breast Cancer, Uses Her Experience To Help Others
By Kimberly Bosco OCEAN COUNTY – When Maybelline Hicks went to the doctor for help with a simple cold, she left with more than she bargained for. After suffering a bad cold, Hicks had a cough that she ju st cou ld n’t k ick. W hen p r e s c r ipt ion me d ic at ion s failed to do the trick, her doctor suggested an x-ray. In December 2017, Hicks received shocking news: she had breast cancer. “I didn’t believe him. I told him that my mom didn’t die of breast cancer, and that I don’t smoke, I don’t drink or do d r ugs. A nd I had a mammogram in September,” said Hicks, of Lakehu rst, remembering the moment she received the news. Her breast cancer was conf ir med with a needle biopsy by diag nostic radiologist Patrick O’Connor, D.O., at Hackensack Meridian Health Ocean Medical Center (OMC), who then recommended she see a breast surgeon. So Hicks made an appointment with Yolanda Tammaro, M.D. “Any time a patient comes to me with a breast cancer diagnosis, we have a very lengthy discussion regarding all the treatment options,” said Dr. Tammaro, director of breast surgery at OMC and Southern Ocean Medical Center. “She was an excellent candidate for breast conservation surgery, a lumpectomy, and we discussed the treatment that often follows.” Hicks elected to go for ward with the minimally invasive procedure to remove the lesion and some nearby lymph nodes. A few weeks prior to her procedure, Dr. Tammaro used a relatively new device to help her locate the lump during the surgical procedure. She implanted a small ref lector within the lesion, and later, when su rger y began, she used the probe of a small radar monitor to pinpoint the ref lector. “This is more convenient for people who are candidates for this surgery… previously, the morning of surgery, we would have to insert a thin wire into the lesion that would extend outside of the breast. Because this chip can be inserted up to 30 days prior to the procedure, it cuts down the time that the patient has to be inconvenienced for what can be an outpatient procedure,” she explained.
Photo courtesy Hackensack Meridian Two weeks after the lumpectomy, Maybelline returned to Dr. Tammaro’s office for a partial radiation delivery syst e m . D r. Ta m m a ro i mpla nt e d a balloon in the space where the lesion had been. Tubes from the balloon are connected to a device in the radiation treatment suite. “This delivers radiation f rom the inside out,” said Dr. Tammaro, which is highly targeted, and helps to spare other healthy tissue. Hicks went for treatments twice a day for five days where she was cheered on by Dr. Miler. “That was so signif icant, because you are afraid and you feel like you’re in it all by yourself.” That fear was understandable, but Maybelline didn’t dwell on it for long. “My husband was super supportive,” she said. “Cancer is an ugly disease, but it doesn’t have to be a life sentence.” After enduring the worst of it, Hicks is on the mend and getting back to her old self. She is using her time and her backg rou nd in fashion into helping other women with breast cancer. She is working on a special design for a prettier bra that can accommodate the tubes that trail out of the balloon while it’s in place. “Her optimism contributed to how well she did. Despite her diagnosis, it didn’t change her spirit or the kind of person she is. And now she really wants to help,” said Dr. Tammaro. For information about Hackensack Mer id ia n Healt h’s ca ncer ser v ices, visit HackensackMeridianHealth.org/ Cancer. To make an appointment with a physician, call 800-560-9990.
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BUSINESS PROFILE Providing Customers A Complete Home And Garden Bouquet For More Than 30 Years Stepping into Reynolds Floral Market, Garden Center and Gif t Boutique is like entering an oasis of beauty. You immediately are enveloped in an array of colorful flowers and plants, expressive decorative pieces for indoor and outdoor spaces and a vibrant style palette of women’s and children’s clothing and accessories. Reynolds’ Floral Market provides more varieties, c olor s and f ragranc es as well as higher freshness and longevity levels of f lowers and plants than those found anywhere else. Whether celebrating a birthday, anniversary, special occasion or simply to say “thinking of you,” their fresh-cut flowers which range from delicate roses to tropical species are perfect for any occasion. Their knowledge-
able staff helps put your sentiments into flowers w hil e wo r k ing w it hin your budget. Reynolds is a must when shopping for women and children (and you probably won’t be able to resist picking up something for yourself !). Reynolds c arries well-known name brands in the most up -to - date styles of c lothing, hand bags, jewelr y, accessories, cosmetics, fragrances and more. Some recognizable lines inc lude David Cline, Cut Loose, Dex, Not Your Daughters Jeans, Focus, Clara Sunwoo, Esc apada, Tart, Hobo International Hand Bags, Leatherock Belts, Sorelli, But ter London Cosmetics, Library of Flowers Collec tion and Inis Fra grance Collection – just to name a few! Reynolds knows
your home is your sanctuary where you begin an d e n d e ac h day. The G arden Center has everything you need to create tranquil and relaxing indoor and outdoor li v in g spac e s. They carry décor and furnishings for ever y room: kitchen or bath, formal dining room or outdoor deck and patio entertaining area. They have something for ever y style and ambiance. The Garden Center is also a full-ser vice nurser y bursting with annuals, perennials, vegetables, herbs, tropicals, vines, shrubs, trees, soil and mulch (both bulk and bagged) and fertilizers
as well as decorative items including stone, pavers, chimineas, statuary, gazing balls, benches, trellises and much more! This family-owned and operated business in Manahawkin, NJ for
more t han 3 0 -year s, Reynolds’ spans three buildings, inter twined with brick-lined walkways, along two blocks of East Bay Avenue. They also have a residential & commercial Landscape and Lighting Design & Installation division which creates one-of-a-kind works of art incorporating nat u r e a n d l i g ht . Reynolds prides t h e m s e l ve s o n hard work, presenting top quality merchandise and materials, and enjoying the uniqueness of each and every project they become a part of. Having initially started as a small roadside flower stand just down the street from today’s location, Reynolds contributes to the local communities to help create a better quality of life for residents and
visitors alike. “Our customers and clients are like family to us,” said Peg Reynolds, co-owner of Reynolds, along with her husband Mark. “I truly enjoy the relationships we have with our customers as I watch their children grow up and develop long-time friendships.” Reynolds hosts weekly events year round on most Saturdays which include flower and plant ar rangement demon strations, workshops, food samplings and charity fundraisers. Be sure to sign up for Reynolds preferred customer card and birthday club to receive notices of all of their events as well as seasonal markdowns, special discounts and clearance sales. Reynolds’ official address is 201 East Bay Avenue, Manahawkin and the main telephone n u m b e r i s 6 0 9 - 5 976099. They are open 7 days a week and you can also visit their website at reynoldsgar dens hop. com for more information.
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Omarr’s Astrological Forecast For the week of oct 26 - nov 1
By Jeraldine Saunders
ARIES (March 21-April 19): The week ahead can offer opportunities to bring some of your dreams to fruition. Be vigilant about obeying the rules and taking care of shared duties since a partner might feel like they are stuck doing it all. TAURUS (April 20-May 20): Your hard work won’t be taken for granted in the week ahead. You might receive more recognition for your achievements than anticipated. Spend some quality time with a loved one and your dreams could come true. GEMINI (May 21-June 20): Your logic will come in handy when you are at work or performing a job. You can ensure that your position is secure by being sensitive to subtle hints and gentle reminders. Your partner will offer perceptive ideas this week. CANCER (June 21-July 22): Duty comes first. Get your everyday tasks completed before you head off for the art show, the soccer field or a visit with friends. The first half of the week may be ideal to arrange a consultation with a professional. LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): You may feel invisible or that you blend in with the scenery during the week ahead. Just because you aren’t the center of attention doesn’t mean that anyone loves you less. Enjoy being part of a comfortable family unit. VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): Focus on owning things that will provide lasting pleasure and on relationships that withstand the test of time. In the week ahead, your friends will enjoy your imaginative ideas, and you may grow closer to loved ones. LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): Place more
emphasis on compatibility than combativeness. Enjoy numerous romantic moments in the upcoming week, but don’t attempt to put joint plans into motion when you sense friction may occur. SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): You may have stars in your eyes in the upcoming week, but that’s a good thing because this helps you look for love in all the right places. Other people may find you more attractive than usual, so make first impressions count. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): Your upcoming week can be filled with helpful opportunities. Your judgement may be better than usual about financial matters, but you may also be frustrated by a situation that involves a bill. CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): Even the most dedicated, hardworking individual deserves some time off. Embrace any opportunity to relax or enjoy a little recreation in the upcoming week. Be on the lookout, as an unexpected offer might answer your prayers. AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): In the week ahead, your home can become a place where you can work on a fascinating hobby or a meeting place for friends and extended family. Your best supporters and advisors are within the family circle. PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): The first half of the week is a perfect time to meet a romantic partner if you hope to achieve a meeting of the minds as well as the bodies. Someone’s helpful advice can put you on the right path to achieve a key goal.
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Encourage New Experiences Dear Joel, I am concerned about my 23-year-old son. He has been dating his girlfriend for over two years. She breaks up with him repeatedly. It sometimes feels that it happens every other month. I have told him that this girl is not right for him. I have to constantly explain to family and friends why she is at some holiday dinners and not at others. If there is a family wedding, her absences are always noticed. I don’t want him hurt and am tired of how she treats him. He seems to always go back for more punishment. It makes me feel less of him and I don’t like feeling that way. Do you think it’s a good idea to speak with him? Answer: I think that speaking to him is fine. After all, you are a concerned parent. That being said, I want to caution you about your communication style. If your plan is to say that his girlfriend is not right for him, she’s trouble, no good, etc., in all likelihood, you will make the story worse for everyone. He
already knows that you disapprove of her. I can assure you of that. He already hears your voice in his head. What I would do is make suggestions of moving towards new experiences. Have him join a gym, do volunteer work, get a second job. In everything that I mentioned he will be meeting new faces, trying new things and most likely feel better about himself. His self esteem will clearly improve. His girlfriend may find new respect for him as well. Your son is 23 and must make his own choices. If they are the wrong choices, I don’t know of anyone who has always done the right thing. I wish you and your family well. Write to joel@preferredcares.com. His radio show, “Preferred Company” airs on Monday through Friday from 8 to 10 a.m. on preferredradio.com and 1160 & 1310 WOBM-AM
If you or anyone else is in need of home health care, call Preferred Home Health Care & Nursing Services, Inc. at 732-840-5566. “Home Health Care with Feeling.” Joel Markel is President of Preferred Home Health Care and Nursing Services Inc. serving NJ, PA, DEL in adult and pediatric home health care.
wolfgang puck’s kitchen A Light, Crisp Salad That Also Hints At Autumn By Wolfgang Puck When people think about “autumn cooking,” what comes to mind most often are ingredients that seem to offer the warmth and comfort we crave during the season: earthy, meaty-tasting mushrooms, savory-sweet mellow squashes, juicy-crisp apples combining spiciness and tanginess with their sweetness, and so on. And all that produce I mentioned also abounds in what we think of as fall colors: golds, oranges, yellows, reds, and browns. But seasonal cooking right now doesn’t always have to focus on such qualities. You can also create dishes filled with the essence of autumn that are as light, bright, fresh, crisp, and flavorful as anything you’d find on a springtime or summer table. It’s all a matter of choosing the right ingredients. For a perfect example, I’m happy to share a recipe for Asian Pear Salad from John Lechleidner, chef de cuisine at WP24, my modern Asian restaurant high atop the Ritz-Carlton Hotel in downtown Los Angeles. The title ingredient is a species of the autumn fruit prized for its subtly sweet flavor coupled with a texture that combines crispness with abundant juiciness, making the now widely available fruit especially refreshing. John’s recipe combines Asian pear with seasonal greens that perfectly complement its flavor and texture: tender, peppery fresh watercress; bracingly bitter radicchio and curly endive; and the bright bite of scallions. To add an herbaceous element, the recipe also includes fresh cilantro and the fresh Asian herb called shiso, sometimes also known as perilla, a member of the mint family found in both purple-red and green forms and known for its pungent, grassy, slightly minty flavor. You can find fresh shiso leaves in many Asian markets, or even grow it yourself; or substitute Thai or regular basil. Asian markets and many well-stocked supermarkets are also good sources for the distinctive dressing and garnish ingredients: white miso paste, also known as sweet miso; the bottled juice of yuzu, a bright-tasting citrus fruit found in Japanese and Korean kitchens; toasted Asian-style sesame oil; nutty-tasting black sesame seeds; and crispy fried shallots, a popular garnish in many Asian kitchens. You can also find all these ingredients online. The salad itself comes together in very short order. There’s no cooking involved: just stir together the dressing and then cut up the salad ingredients. To prep the pear with ease, I highly recommend a mandoline, the indispensable kitchen tool that cuts uniform slices or strips with a simple strumming motion across one of its super-sharp blades. (But always take great care to use the finger guard that comes with many mandolines.) I hope you enjoy how much this salad brightens any autumn meal, regardless of whether the dishes that follow it are inspired by Asian
cooking or other cuisines. ASIAN PEAR SALAD WITH YUZU-MISO DRESSING Serves 4 YUZU-MISO DRESSING 7 tablespoons white, or sweet, miso 1/3 cup (85 ml) bottled yuzu juice 3 tablespoons Asian-style toasted sesame oil 1 cup (250 ml) canola oil Kosher salt Freshly ground white pepper ASIAN PEAR SALAD 1 large ripe Asian pear 1 bunch curly endive or frisée, large stems removed, leaves torn into small bite-sized pieces 1 bunch watercress, rinsed and dried, large stems discarded, leaves separated into small bite-sized clusters 1 head radicchio, leaves separated and trimmed, cut diagonally into thin julienne strips 2 large scallions, trimmed, white and light-green parts cut diagonally into thin slices, dark-green parts cut lengthwise into very thin strips resembling grass 2 purple or green shiso leaves or fresh Thai basil or regular basil, rolled up and cut crosswise to make thin strips 1/4 cup (60 ml) fresh cilantro leaves 1/2 cup (125 ml) bottled Asian crispy fried shallots, or crispy fried onions 1/2 cup (125 ml) whole roasted cashews 1 tablespoon toasted black sesame seeds, coarsely ground in a clean spice mill or with a mortar and pestle First, make the Yuzu-Miso Dressing. In a nonreactive mixing bowl, whisk together the miso and yuzu juice. Whisking continuously, drizzle in the sesame oil until fully incorporated. Continue whisking and drizzle in the canola oil to form a thick, smooth dressing. Season to taste with salt and white pepper. Set the dressing aside. For the salad, cut the Asian pear lengthwise into quarters and stem, core, and seed them. With a paring knife, carefully peel each quarter. Insert the medium julienne blade on a mandoline and, carefully moving one quarter at a time lengthwise across the blade, cut the Asian pear into julienne strips. (Keep your fingers away from the cutting surface.) Spread the strips of Asian pear on a double layer of paper towels to absorb excess liquid, but do not press on them. Transfer the Asian pear julienne to a large mixing bowl. Add the curly endive, watercress, radicchio, scallions, shiso or basil, and cilantro leaves. Toss all the ingredients thoroughly. Then, drizzle and toss in enough of the Yuzu-Miso Dressing to coat the ingredients lightly but evenly. To serve the salad, divide the mixture evenly among 4 large chilled serving plates, mounding the salad neatly in the center. Divide the crispy salads evenly among the tops of the salad mounds. Drizzle the remaining dressing evenly over and around the salads. Distribute toasted cashews around the salads. Sprinkle ground black sesame seeds over the salads and around the plates. Serve immediately.
(Chef Wolfgang Puck’s TV series,“Wolfgang Puck’s Cooking Class,” airs Sundays on the Food Network. Also, his latest cookbook, “Wolfgang Puck Makes It Easy,” is now available in bookstores. Write Wolfgang Puck in care of Tribune Media Services Inc., 2225 Kenmore Ave., Suite 114, Buffalo, NY 14207) © 2019 TRIBUNE MEDIA SERVICES, INC.
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