2023-02-25 - The Manchester Times

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By Bob Vosseller

MANCHESTER – Ninth District Lawmakers visited the senior communities, warning them to keep an eye on legislation that would allow people younger than 55 to buy into the developments.

Co ee With Cops Brews Up Good Rapport With Police And Community

The bill, S-2537, and its Assembly counterpart, A-4106, would allow any property owner in a senior community to sell to a buyer regardless of age. Realtors and others are supporting this change, saying it allows seniors to live in a property while deeding it to their children so they won’t

pay more if they go into assisted living. They also note that the senior community guidelines would still enforce that the person living there would be a senior.

Opposition to this bill note that it’s already

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Lawmakers Warn: 55+ Communities Under Fire Former Councilman Sworn In Again

By Bob Vosseller

Wallis, who chose not to run for reelection last fall, was chosen by the Council to fill the unexpired term of retiring Councilman Sam Fusaro. Fusaro resigned last month after having served on the governing body since 1990. He and his wife moved to Toms River. Joined by members of his family, Wallis took the oath of office. “I want to thank everyone here. My whole family is here, especially my wife. As long as I have been doing this, except for my little break of a month and a half, she

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By Bob Vosseller MANCHESTER

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Start with some conversation in a cozy setting, add a little caffeine, police officers and members of the public and you have Coffee with Cops.

For more than a year now, Manchester’s men and women in blue have been meeting up with residents at various spots around the community ranging from

diners, to grocery store parking lots to pizzerias to simply share some beverages and food and listen to their concerns, questions and thoughts.

Detective Joseph Fastige of the police department’s investigations bureau said the program kicked off about a year ago.

“Around November of 2021 after everything started to settle down

Former Ocean County Administrator Hired

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operations of the town.

Block, 71, of Stafford Township, is the town’s former mayor. He was elected in 1983 and served as mayor for 26 years. He was the Ocean County deputy clerk prior to his

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MANCHESTER – A familiar face returned to the dais during a recent Township Council meeting - Craig Wallis was sworn in by Mayor Robert Arace.

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MANCHESTER – Former Ocean County Administrator Carl W. Block was hired by the Township Council to run the day-to-day

Photos By Bob Vosseller and Manchester Police Manchester Police, public officials and staff of The Toast Café assemble during a recent Coffee with Cops event.

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challenging to know who is living in a home, and that there are school bus stops in the senior communities. They worry that this bill would turn a senior community into a normal neighborhood, fill up the schools, bring up taxes, and impact quality of life. They also note that senior communities already allow the deed to pass to someone’s child. They worry that property moguls are going to buy up the senior communities and rent them out instead of allowing retirees to have a place of their own.

Senator Christopher Connors, Assemblywoman DiAnne Gove, Assemblyman Brian Rumpf (all R-9th) and their chief of staff Jay

Smith came to Manchester recently to speak out against the bill. They were the guests of the Manchester Township Coordinating Council which is made up of each of the township’s age-restricted communities.

Connors said S-2537 was introduced by the chairperson (Sen. Troy Singleton) of the Senate Community and Urban Affairs Committee which Connors said he is a member of. “With respect to him, I feel he is misguided with this piece of legislation which would allow units to be sold to individuals that do not meet the age parameter.”

An individual could be less than 55 years of age and purchase a unit in an age restricted community under the proposed legislation. Conners said current law states you have to have at least one person that lives in a

dwelling unit that meets the age restriction of the community. For a 55+ community, 80% of them must meet the age restriction. For 62+, 100% have to be of that age.

“It is very difficult to monitor that,” Sen. Connors added. “If you don’t meet those parameters you could essentially lose your certification to be able to have an age restricted community. How do you monitor that? One of the ways that we always felt was to guarantee that those who bought the units were 55 and over and that would be easier to monitor than it would be if we just open it up.

“There always seems to be an assault on our common interest communities,” Connors said. “Legislation throughout time immemorial - during my initial tenure in the legislature going back to 1989 - there has always been some form of legislation which is attempting to put into statutory law, provisions that were done for common interest communities.”

He told the audience, “you have always enjoyed self-governance throughout the years, some of the legislation that has been proposed were a result of problems that occurred in other parts of the state.

“When it comes to Trenton, there is always an assumption that (Trenton) can run things better and as a result legislation has been introduced over the course of the last 20 years that would change the way common interest communities would organize themselves and how they would represent their own communities. We happen to believe that is a misstep and the wrong thing to do,” Sen. Connors said.

He said he didn’t feel all common interest communities have the same problems “that some of the other communities had in the northern part of the state. We don’t need intercession from Trenton to tell us how we should run.”

The Senator said, “you retired to these communities for a specific reason, you wanted to be able to determine how you lived and you wanted to protect yourselves which is why they call it a common interest community - because the interests are common for the people that live there. The biggest strategy in Trenton seems to be to want to open up the common interest communities to individuals that may not share the same interests to the people that organize them and have run them all these years.”

Connors warned the MCC that such efforts involve, “individuals that don’t meet the age restrictions that we currently have.” He noted that age restriction was only allowed under state regulations in relation to common interest communities which is why 55 and older or 62 and older communities can exist.

Gove and Rumpf echoed Connors remarks denouncing the current legislation posed by Sen. Singleton and co-sponsored by other legislators that would impact common interest communities and vowed to provide updates to the MCC about the issue. They urged residents to communicate their dislike of the legislation to those in Trenton. Berkeley Township Council has enacted an ordinance that codifies senior communities’ age restriction, essentially making the town able to enforce it.

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election as county clerk in 2003. He was reelected in 2008. He was later appointed as the county administrator.

Block’s tenure as Ocean County administrator ended last year when the Board of Commissioners decided not to reappoint him. Michael Fiure was appointed to replace him.

by The Asbury Park Press. Arace was supported by Gilmore in both his 2021 and 2022 mayoral races against former Mayor Robert Hudak.

In Manchester, Block replaced Brandon Umba who was hired by the former Hudak administration in July of 2021. Umba, of Medford, is a Republican 9th District Assemblyman in Burlington County.

Council Vice President James Vaccaro chaired the meeting in the absence of Council President Roxanne Conniff who was not present due to illness. He and new Councilman Hankins voted in the affirmative while Councilwoman Michele Zolezi abstained as she objected to the late notification of added items to the agenda during that meeting.

sponding to a later comment from the public questioning the appointment, noted that it was in the mayor’s purview to appoint a new business administrator and vouched for Block’s ability to serve in that role.

Block’s name was on the list approved during a January 23 Council meeting. Mayor Robert Arace’s appointment of him was passed in a two to zero vote as there were only three members of council present for that session.

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Ocean County Republican Chairman George Gilmore voiced his opposition to Block’s removal according to an article has always been there backing me up. I couldn’t do this without her.”

“My daughter, the fi rst time I was sworn in, she was 12 years old. I have my brother in-law here, who has been in the town here for 50 years almost, my other brother-inlaw has served as a councilman. We’ve been taught to service your community and do things for them. I also want to thank the council. They allowed me to come back and do this,” Wallis said.

Wallis said, “I think this will be an exciting year, especially with the council president (Roxanne Conniff ), Councilman

(Joseph) Hankins, it brings new freshness to this whole organization. I’ve seen the town since Mayor Arace has been elected, those people who work in this building, they are just a different crowd now. He has given them the respect that they have always needed to do what they are supposed to do.”

The township’s political organizations have no say in the choice of who might submit their application letter or who is selected to fill a council position, that is decided by the rest of the Council. In Manchester’s form of government, those of any political affiliation or none at all, can present a letter of interest with their background that is reviewed by the Council.

Resident Edward Lynch wasn’t happy with Block’s appointment. “I want to express my disappointment with the mayor appointing what appears to me to be a political payback for township administrator.”

Township Attorney Lauren Staiger, re-

Block was making over $206,000 a year when working for the County. The resolution that approved his contract for his new job has his salary set at $149,000. Umba’s salary was $156,000 annually.

According to the Township, Block started on February 1. He told The Manchester Times, “I look forward to getting involved and doing a good job. I’m two weeks in.”

–Photo by Bob Vosseller

Manchester Councilman Craig Wallis was sworn in to office by Mayor Robert Arace. He was joined by his wife and daughter.

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(from the COVID-19 pandemic) we started to do coffee with a cop once a month in Manchester and Whiting. We try a different section of town.”

Sometimes it has been “Pizza with the Police” or “Cookies with a Cop.” “We’ve done that, we had pizza with the police at Linda’s on Route 37 which was better for evening hours. It is important to reach everyone,” Fastige said.

“Moving forward we definitely want more events on weekends,” the detective added. Chief Robert Dolan announced the most recent Coffee with Cops event was on Saturday at the township’s Dunkin Donuts to accommodate those who couldn’t make it due to working during the weekday.

“If we do more on the weekends, we have a better chance of people showing up,” Fastige added. Detective Fastige said that he attends the events and “our traffic safety guy, someone from patrol, today we have our SRO (School Resource Officer) and we usually tell everyone during roll call, we’re having coffee with the cops, come on out. We have a patrol sergeant and lieutenants and they mingle.”

Last month’s Coffee with Cops program was held at a relatively new business in town, The Toast Café at 1900 Route 70 and it also included Chief Dolan, Mayor Robert Arace, Council Vice President James Vaccaro and Councilwoman Michele Zolezi.

“I run our social media and I get a lot of issues and concerns through there, but they don’t see my face and I don’t see theirs. This is in person and it is actually better as it gives us a chance

to talk and conversate and we learn so much about the concerns and issues of Manchester Township. I love it. I’m glad we started it and we’re going to keep doing it,” Fastige said.

Along with the officers, there is usually a table featuring a Manchester flag draped over it filled with swag items and useful reading material concerning police and township programs.

“I learned early on that if you have some swag, some nice cool stuff on the table, people are drawn to it. We have some coffee mugs, Frisbees and some little stuff for the kids,” he added.

Toast Café owner Yehuda Fryer said he was pleased with the event. “It was very beautiful. People can interact with the cops. Manchester is a small but big town and you don’t always see officers come in to a store and I think Coffee with the Cops is a great idea. We are also giving out reflectors for the Jewish community so on a Friday night when they are walking around, they don’t get hit by a car.”

Mayor Arace was also pleased to see the large turnout at the event that brought law enforcement and the community together. Councilwoman Zolezi noted the professionalism and dedication of the police department.

Chief Dolan told The Manchester Times that the department’s roster is about 72 full time officers and two part-time officers. “I think this is a great outreach and we will continue to do it once a month and will continue to select different locations.”

“I really like it. I think it is good for the community in general because our officers get out and meet people. The days of foot patrols are long gone. The community engagement that you had is gone due to lack of time but this brings people together,” the chief added.

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OPINIONS & COMMENTARY

Close The Curtain On AMC Seating Price Policy

Sometimes you just have to scratch your head and wonder how the folks who come up with marketing plans dream up the policies that they implement.

Case in point, the recently announced plan by AMC Theaters to price movie tickets based on where you sit.

Remember, this is coming at a time when theater owners are begging people to come back to their theaters, buy their expensive popcorn, candy and soft drinks and skip staying at home and watching films that come out fairly soon, on streaming services.

I’m one of those people who loves seeing films (most but not all) in movie theaters. I loved being at the now closed AMC at the Seacourt Pavilion in Toms River during the pandemic when theaters were just starting to reopen.

One cold Friday night I was watching Milla Jo-

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vovich blowing up monsters with grenades in the film “Monster Hunter.” I was the only person in that theater and at the time, I still kept my mask on inside but it was a film that was big screen worthy in my opinion.

I can recite the entire narration of actress Nicole Kidman’s walk from a rainy night into a darkened theater as she talks about how “heart break feels good here” and how “the magic is powerful here.”

I swear it gets my heart going because I believe she’s right, seeing movies in theaters does have a bit of spectacle and magic but AMC is killing that magic with this bonehead move.

AMC Theaters, the nation’s largest movie theater chain announced plans to change the way that it prices tickets. The new initiative called “Sightline at AMC” will eliminate the one-price-fitsall approach to selling tickets and under this new model will divide up an auditori-

um’s seats into “standard sightline” “value sightline” and “preferred sightline” tiers.

The standard seats which the movie chain identifies as the most “common” will be available for the normal price of the ticket which these days average to about $12 although senior prices and matinee/first screening prices vary. Value seating is in the front row and will be sold at a lower price than normal. Those are the ones you might get a neck cramp from but at least you still have the comfy chair to lounge around in.

Now we come to those coveted medium row seats, the preferred sightline upcharge which AMC describes as a slight premium price. A seating map will show the price differences when customers are purchasing their tickets. Wow, I have enough of a problem just figuring out where my seat is.

AMC Chief Marketing Offi-

cer Eliot Hamlisch described this move as bringing movie theaters in line with other entertainment venues where ticket prices range in price depending where you sit. Hey Eliot, those venues feature live shows, sporting events and concerts - not films.

Sightline pricing thankfully won’t apply to matinee showtimes before 4 p.m. and those customers who pay for AMC Stubs A-List memberships will be exempt from all this nonsense.

This is a time when theater owners should perhaps consider adding some extras to get folks inside their establishments, like bringing back short features (even cartoons) that we can’t get elsewhere. By all means keep Maria Menounos’s movie trivia quizzes (by the way did she always have that weird laugh during those segments?) and how about some special value movie nights?

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How about a live guest introduction to some of those classic films that run during the month even if it is by a member of the staff ? Make going to a theater a truly fun experience.

I understand that everything is going up. Heck, when my wife sent me a honey-do message to pick up a carton of eggs on my way home from work the other day, I messaged her back and asked if I should make the purchase through our savings account or to cash a bond.

I greatly sympathize with those in the movie theater business who have experienced a major hit during the pandemic and are not yet back to where they once were.

This move, however, is not what the industry needs. I still have many friends who were devoted movie goers and who are now quite comfortable waiting to see a film when it hits the small

screen through a streaming service or even later when it comes out to the library system. At most they’ll only venture out for an Avatar, Star Wars, Marvel or DC big screen extravaganza.

Now you will be competing for cheaper seats, navigating your online purchases of seats and giving us the same product including overpriced candy, popcorn and beverages. AMC, I think you are doing a disservice to your audience and ticking off those loyal theater goers who remember the magic that Nicole Kidman is talking about.

There isn’t enough free refill soda and buttered popcorn available to make this move (that will hit NJ AMC theaters by the end of the year) easy to swallow.

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A Brandeis University study conducted in New Jersey, the first state to adopt the requirement of conversation with patients regarding risk and sponsored by the Partnership for a Drug Free New Jersey

demonstrates the effectiveness of these conversations between doctors and other medical practitioners and their patients.

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Hospital’s Indignity To Seniors

As a lifetime citizen of Dover Township/Toms River I have a comment on our local hospital. Ever since the early days of our local hospital we have watched it develop and grow on a footprint facing Route 37 E. The growth changed it from an open to all hospital to a more directed baby delivery and senior facility. Everyone could arrive and be treated

but service over the years were perceived to change for the worst. In these days we see smaller staff, nurse shortages, doctors dedicated to the facility instead of having your own physician come to treat patients.

Now we have something that is very dramatic happening. Not sure if it’s an economical or treatment change however adult diapers are not found in this facility. Now this sounds like a minor change, with absorbing sheets placed under the patient which has not been thought out to the degree it should have. Providing a wee puppy training pad for seniors who have bladder problems, and the other category of human waste is a horrible choice. There is no pad which will absorb fecal matter and/

or allow a senior to have some semblance of pride or eliminate personal humiliation.

Seems like a small topic but when you consider this results in numerous situations where seniors lay in waste for an extended period of time while two nurses or assistants have to change an entire bed’s dressings because of this change. The puppy pad for seniors is not cheaper, they still are made of the same materials, but are far more disruptive to floor nursing and services and sure do make a senior in Community Hospital absolutely humiliated. Maybe someone should think of the pride and personal cleanliness before whatever made this change!

George Lobman Toms River

Mayor Focuses On Rent Control And Reducing Township Salaries

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- By Manchester Mayor Robert Arace

In the first 30 days of my administration, we started tackling some of the most urgent and important issues that face our township - issues that impact our township budget and ultimately our taxpayers. During the 2022 election, an issue was brought to my attention by several members of our manufactured home communities, and that was the issue of rent control in Manchester Township. Because of high inflationary pressure, some

of these communities saw annual increases of over 6% in their monthly rents. Many of the residents in these communities are fixed income seniors, and the increases that they are experiencing are unconscionable. Our residents shouldn’t have to choose between putting food on their tables and paying for significant increases in their monthly home costs. Knowing that this is a highly urgent issue, I made a campaign promise that we would work to pass

an ordinance in the first 60 days of my administration.

I am thrilled to say that by working with our Township Council, we were able to draft a township ordinance that will protect our residents in our manufactured home communities – especially our seniors – from greedy landlords looking to cash in during a difficult economic climate. This ordinance was introduced at our last council meeting and I expect it to pass during its second reading at our next council meeting on Feb 27th. I believe this is a massive win for our residents.

One of my most important goals is to reduce the cost of the mayor’s administrative department while enhancing the services

provided to the community. One of my first orders of business was to find a strong, experienced Business Administrator to help us solve our most difficult challenges. I am happy to say that we were able to appoint a Business Administrator with an impressive resume of over 30 years of township administrative experience. He is coming in at a salary that is $7,000 lower than our previous business administrator and more importantly, will not be taking any of our township benefits. This is a total cost savings to the township of $37,000 per year. Additionally, one of the first things I did as mayor was cut the cost of the mayor’s confidential aide position and ensure that both the

east and west sides of town had access to my office. The previous administration’s confidential aide was a full-time employee making $62,000 per year with an additional cost of $30,000 per year in benefits - this was a total taxpayer cost of $92,000 per year. My solution to this was twofold: first, to reduce the position of confidential aide to two part-time roles. This decision eliminated $30,000 of benefits. Second, to reduce the total salary, but service two important areas of need in town. We now have a confidential aide for economic improvement and a confidential aide as a liaison specifically dedicated to our senior community to better service the needs of our retirees. The combined

annual cost of both of these aides is $48,000 – reduced from the previous salary of $62,000 – a $14,000 decrease in total salary. Taking into account that neither of my aides will be taking benefits, this is a $44,000 savings to the taxpayer. Between our new business administrator and the restructuring of the confidential aides, we are saving a total of $81,000 per year for our taxpayers. This is a $324,000 savings over the course of the next four years.

We have a busy year ahead of us, and I promise to keep fighting for the residents of our great town. Thank you for entrusting me with this important position and as always, please reach out to me with any questions.

$500,000 In Federal Funds To Help Toms River Volunteer Fire Department Recruit New Members

From The Desk Of Congressman Chris Smith

TOMS RIVER - Rep.

Chris Smith (R-Manchester) announced Toms River Fire District No. 1 will receive $508,256 in federal funds to help recruit and retain volunteers as part of the federal Staffing for

Adequate Fire and Emergency Response (SAFER) grant program. The Fire District oversees six of the township’s nine fire stations.

“The vitality of Toms River’s volunteer fire de -

partment depends greatly on retaining its dedicated firefighters who selflessly risk their lives to rescue our neighbors who fall in harm’s way, as well as attracting new volunteers who are ready to courageously respond to the call of service,” said Smith, who had contacted the Department of Homeland Security on behalf of the township to advocate for the funds.

“Toms River is grateful to Congressman Smith for

working hard to get these much-needed funds to recruit and retain firefighters,” said Maurice B. Hill, Jr., Mayor of Toms River. “Our first responders, many of whom are volunteers, are the backbone of our community and we are grateful for their sacrifice and courage in protecting our lives and property.”

“This federally-funded Recruitment & Retention grant is a tremendous leg up for volunteer firefighting and the lifesaving and

financial benefits it brings to our community,” said Fire District No. 1 Administrator Brian Kubiel, who noted the funds will be used to reach out to potential recruits and help pay the expenses of firefighting training, including related advertising and educational classes.

“This federal grant program - which I strongly supported - will help ensure the vital Toms River volunteer fire crew can continue to meet the needs

of our community with responsive action that will help save the lives of those who find themselves in serious danger,” said Smith, a member of the House Fire Services Caucus. Administered by DHS, the SAFER grant provides funding directly to fire departments and volunteer firefighter organizations to help them increase or maintain the number of trained, front-line firefighters in their communities.

Governor Murphy: $4.5M Grant To Fund Climate Change Education

TRENTON – The New Jersey Department of Education (NJDOE) announced the availability of $4.5 million in state grants to fund locally focused climate change education in New Jersey schools.

The “Climate Awareness Education: Implementing the NJSLS for Climate Change” grants will help schools meet New Jersey’s first-in-the-nation cli -

mate-change standards. In 2020, climate change was incorporated across the New Jersey Student Learning Standards (NJSLS), which provide what students are expected to learn in nine content areas such as science, social studies, health, and visual/performing arts.

“As New Jersey continues to transition to a green economy, it will be imperative to

prepare our students to take on the jobs of the future,” said Governor Phil Murphy. “Our civic leaders, policy makers, journalists, teachers, and many others will need climate literacy to successfully achieve our environmental goals. These grants will provide schools with the tools they need to ensure that New Jersey continues to be a leader in the fight against climate change.”

“Incorporating climate change education across our learning standards was just the first step in our effort to fully prepare New Jersey’s students for the jobs of tomorrow and the challenges they will face as a result of the climate crisis. Now, this grant funding will support educators as they develop local initiatives, ideas, and classroom-specific lessons,” said First Lady

Tammy Murphy, who has championed the effort to incorporate climate change instruction across New Jersey’s learning standards.

“These learning standards are more than just a new requirement, they are a symbol of the partnership between generations, and I am excited to see them come to life through our best-inthe-nation educators.”

“Educators are rising to

the challenge of implementing thoughtful, student-centered approaches to build climate-change instruction into the classroom,” said Dr. Angelica Allen-McMillan, Acting Commissioner of Education. “I believe our groundbreaking statewide learning standards, coupled with the dynamic instruction taking place in the classroom, will be a model of climate

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Village Six Dances For March And April

WHITING – The Residents Club of Village Six will be hosting a Shamrock and Roll Dance on March 18 from 6 to 10 p.m. Music will be provided by DJ Ron Champion of Champion Sound Productions with choice of either corned beef or turkey sandwich with coleslaw, potato salad, snacks, dessert, soda, water and coffee/ tea provided. There will be door prizes, a true 50/50 and raffles. Tickets are $22 ($20 for 2023 Village Six Residents Club paid members) and are being sold Mondays at the Village Six Clubhouse, 6 Congasia Road,

from 10 to 11 a.m.

In April the Residents Club of Village Six will be hosting a Spring Fling Dance on April 15 from 6 to 10 p.m. Music will be provided by DJ Mare Haze with snacks, dessert, soda, water and coffee/tea provided. There will be door prizes, a true 50/50 and raffles. Tickets are $12 ($10 for 2023 Village Six Residents Club paid members) and are being sold Mondays at the Village Six clubhouse, 6 Congasia Road, from 10 to 11 a.m. For questions or tickets please call Kathy Casper at 732-500-6155.

Resident Club Village 5 Upcoming Dances

WHITING – Resident Club Village 5 is hosting the following upcoming events:

Mardi Gras Dance - March 3, 7 to 11 p.m. Doors open at 6:30 p.m. Come dress for the occasion. Music By Dee & Steve Fisher. BYOB. Cost is $10 in advance and $12 at door. They supply snack, soda, bottled water, desert.

Latin & American Dance Music - April 8, 7 to 11 p.m. Music by Alfredo Cunha. Cost is

$10 in advance and $12 at door.

Cinco De Mayo Dance - May 5, 7 to 11 p.m. Cost is $20. No tickets sold at the door. Tacos, taco salad, empanadas, rice and beans. Last day to purchase tickets is April 28. Music by Joey D & Johnny B Back by popular demand. Purchase tickets every Tuesday from 10 a.m. to 12 p.m. at Village 5, 325 Schoolhouse Road, Whiting or at the door. Call Debbie at 201-618-8514.

Crestwood Village 3 Spring Flea Market

WHITING – The Women’s Club of Crestwood Village 3 will be hosting its annual Spring Flea Market on April 22 in Unity Hall, 250 Schoolhouse Road, Whiting, from 8:30 a.m. to 1 p.m.

Everyone loves a good flea market and this one is no exception! Tables will include: crafts, books, games, greeting cards, household items, jewelry, clothing and, of course,

baked goods. There will be a 50/50 raffle if you’re feeling lucky. Remember that the proceeds from this event is primarily used to donate to local charities at the end of the year. Coffee, breakfast items and lunch will be available.

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Manchester Coordinating Council Meeting

MANCHESTER – The Manchester Coordinating Council monthly meeting will be held on February 27 at 1:30 p.m. at Village 5 club house, Schoolhouse Road, Whiting. The subject matter discussed at our meetings are issues that concern residents in Manchester. Two representatives are

appointed by the Board of Trustees of the 55 + communities to participate in issues that they are all interested in and bring back information to share with their residents. This month’s guest speaker is Manchester Mayor Robert Arace. Guests are invited to attend.

Corned Beef And Cabbage

WHITING – St. Stephen’s Episcopal Church, 189 Route 539, Whiting, will hold a Corned Beef and Cabbage Dinner on March 11 from 4 to 6 p.m. The Men’s Club will sponsor this event. Doors open at 3:30 p.m. A full course dinner will be served.

Feel free to bring your own wine or beer. A 50-50 will be held. Tickets cost $20 each and there is a limit of 50 seats. Purchase your tickets on Sunday, or at the church office, Monday to Thursday from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. or call 732-350-2121 for information.

Whiting Garden Club

WHITING – The Whiting Garden Club will meet on March 1 at 10 a.m. at St. Stephen’s Episcopal Church, 180 route 539, Whiting. Call the church office from Monday to Thursday from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. For directions call 732-350-2121. They

will have Karen Walzer from the Barnegat Bay Partnership to share information on native plants and other relevant topics. All are welcome. No dues, no minutes. Call Stefanie at 732-350-2904, or Fran at 732-350-7415.

Travel Bocce Trip

WHITING – Branson Show Extravaganza, Branson Missouri: nine days, eights nights; December 2 to 10. Double: $1,135; Single: $1,420.

Eight nights lodging including four consecutive nights in the Branson area

14 meals: eight breakfast and six dinners

Admission to six fabulous shows including: Three morning shows: Dublin’s Irish Tenors with special guests The Celtic Ladies,

Whiting Assembly of God

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Down Home Country & A Neil Diamond tribute show

Two evening shows; Baldknobbers show & Queen Ester show at show & sound

One afternoon show: Dean Z - The ultimate ElVIS show

Call Debbie at 201-618-8514. Purchase tickets every Tuesday from 10 a.m. to 12 p.m. at Village 5 clubhouse, 325 Schoolhouse Road, Whiting.

World Day Of Prayer

WHITING – World Day of Prayer will be held at St. Stephen’s Episcopal Church, 180 Route 539, Whiting, on March 3 at 10 a.m. This ecumenical event takes place all over the world on this day. Taiwan is the country featured this year with the topic “I have heard about your Faith” based on

Paul’s letter to the Ephesians, an invitation to active listening, which is the ground for our prayers. The worship service includes music. Refreshments will be served. Contact the Church Office Monday to Thursday from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. for directions at 732350-2904.

Resident Club Flea Market Village 5

WHITING – Come out to the Flea Market on March 18 from 8:30 a.m. to 1 p.m. to see what you have been missing out on.

They have over 50 friendly vendors, come on in and check it out our great bargains. If you just want to catch up with your friends, stop by the kitchen for breakfast or lunch

8:30 a.m. till 12:30 p.m. Hope to see you here at 325 Schoolhouse Road, Whiting. The Flea Market is every Third Saturday of every month. The next one is April 15. If you are interested in renting a table the cost is $10 per table. Call Ronnie at 908303-7377.

Crestwood Village 6 Ragtimers Show And Lunch

Movie “Son Of God” At Christ Evangelical Church

WHITING – Movie “Son Of God” from the producers Mark Burnett and Roma Downey comes the most important chapter of the greatest story ever told! A spectacular portrayal of Jesus from his humble birth

$17. Sandwich of your choice, four to pick from; salad, dessert and beverage. Reservations for tables of eight or more taken. Tickets on sale March 1 at clubhouse or now call Rosie at 732-503-3043. through his teachings, crucifixion, and ultimate resurrection. Showing March 11 at 2 p.m. at Christ Evangelical Church 300 Schoolhouse Road, Whiting. Doors open at 1:30 p.m. Free admission.

Crestwood Village 4 Flea Market

WHITING – Crestwood Village 4 is hosting a flea market on March 4 from 8 a.m. until 1 p.m. at 15 E Moccasin Drive, Whiting.

They have many great vendors always ready to help you with selections. The kitch-

en will have delicious continental breakfast items for purchase. Jerry will be there with his pull tabs, come and have some fun, you might be lucky. They hold the flea market the fi rst Saturday of every month. For table rental email carolmarsella2@ gmail.com.

Softball League Seeking New Players

MANCHESTER – Manchester Senior Softball League is looking for softball players who would be interested in joining the league for the 2023 season to play Recrea-

tional Softball. Games are played Monday and Wednesday mornings, May through August. For additional information contact Fred Bohinski @ 848-261-1884.

83 Lacey Road (Rt.

Sunday 10:00 am

Children’s Church Available

Tuesday Bible Study 1:30 pm

732-350-4000

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The 5th Annual Cupcake Wars

MANCHESTER –

Valentine’s Day was extra sweet and super creative during the 5th Annual Cupcake Wars at Regional Day School!

The Regional Day School students prepared for the competition with their teachers by planning, budgeting, shopping, prepping, baking and decorating each of their individual Pod’s cupcake submissions.

A-Pod created a S’Mores cupcake display;

B-Pod created a Valentine’s Flower cupcake bouquet; and

C-Pod created a Love Around the World cupcake heart.

Once the cupcake creations are on display, students, staff, and a panel of honorary judges consisting of district personnel, past personnel, and community members

cast their votes. The fi rst round of judging was visual to determine the most creative cupcake display. Then each judge samples the cupcakes to determine the best taste. Finally, judges cast their votes for an overall winner.

Congratulations to A-Pod’s S’More’s cupcake for winning Most Creative! Congratulations to C-Pod’s Love Around the World cupcake for winning Best Tasting! Congratulation to B-Pod’s Valentine’s Flower Bouquet for winning Best Overall!

2023 Power In The Pines

Air Force Base Open House

LAKEHURT – The 2023 Power in the Pines Air & Space Open House will be hosted at Joint Base McGuire-Dix-Lakehurst from May 20 to 21. This event is free

and open to the public. Check back for more details.

The USAF F-16 Viper Demonstration will headline the event along with other performers.

Crestwood Village 3

WHITING – Crestwood Village 3 Residents Club will hold a St. Patrick’s Dance on March 18 from 6 to 10 p.m. at Unity Hall, 250 Schoolhouse Road, Whiting. Cost is $10 per person, $12 at door. Music by DJ Mare Haze. BYOB.

Included: coffee, tea, soda, water, chips and dessert.

Tickets on sale at Unity Hall on Monday and Wednesday 9 a.m. to 12 p.m. No refunds unless cancelled. For any questions, please call 732-993-7100.

Bereavement Support Group Village 6

WHITING – The group is meeting on February 24, at 1 p.m. in the D&E room of Deerfield Hall. 6 Congasia Road, Whiting. Meetings are open to anyone not just village 6.

Anthony Lipari is the speaker. Social time and refreshments. Understanding the stages of grief. The group meets the last Friday of the month from September to June.

– Photo courtesy Manchester Schools

Elementary Chess Champions Face Off

MANCHESTER – Each 5th grade class at Manchester Township Middle School can learn how to play chess thanks to Media Specialist, Laura Henry. Ms. Henry teaches the students how to play and then each class has a tournament that determines a class winner. The winning students from each class then play each other to decide on the 5th Grade Overall

Congratulations to Gavin Jeffers the 2022-23 MTES Overall 5th Grade Chess Champion!

The 2021-22 Champion, Madison Peck, came back to MTES to play Gavin in a fun match-up. The students played their match among the 2022-23 class winners for a fun Friday chess match! The

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MAR.30 MOSES AT SIGHT & SOUND THEATRE LANCASTER, PA $144/pp

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Valentine’s Dance Success

MANCHESTER – The Manchester Township School District in partnership with the community hosted a successful Valentine’s Day Dance with special needs students.

In its return since COVID, the Valentine’s Dance is an annual tradition of the school district. They are so grateful for those

community members such as a special MTPD Officer who volunteered as a DJ, community businesses who donated food and drinks, staff and PTA members who volunteered their time and sweet treats for dessert, and every school in the district who had students contribute with beautiful artwork used for decorations.

– Photo courtesy Manchester Schools

In Loving Memory

George Douglas Schaffer, Jr, 77, of Whiting, passed away peacefully at home on Wednesday, February 15. George was born in Washington D.C. on April 30, 1945 to his parents George Douglas and Noreen (nee: McCoy) Schaffer.

George and his wife Carrie married in 1975 and have been residents of Whiting for 22 years. George and Carrie raised two adopted kids, their daughter Robin who they adopted at three and a half weeks and their son Gregory who they adopted at four and a half months.

George was very good with computers and worked for Merrill Lynch. He and his wife enjoyed singing in the Choir at Ocean County Evangelical Free Church of Lakehurst. They sang in the choir there for over 10 years. George was also involved in the mission’s board and was a Deacon at the Free Church. After the Free Church closed, George and Carrie found their refuge at Americas Keswick in Whiting.

George was an avid reader and enjoyed reading books, as well as playing games on his Kindle. George also enjoyed traveling and spending time with this family. He touched the lives of all who knew him. George loved his

country and was a very patriotic man.

George is preceded in death by his parents, his daughter Robin Joy Schaffer in 2021 and his brother Kenny in 2020.

Surviving George is his wife of which he shared 47 years of marriage Carrie Schaffer, of Whiting, his son Gregory John Schaffer of Arizona and his brother Ricky Schaffer, and his sisters.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in George’s memory to Americas Keswick, 601 County Rd. 530, Whiting, NJ. Condolences may be shared at www.carmonabolenfh.com

Ragtimers Lunch And Show

WHITING – The Women’s Club of Deerfield Hall is again presenting the Ragtimers on April 22 at the clubhouse 6 Congasia Rd. Whiting. Lunch is from 12 to 1 p.m. and show from 2 to 3 p.m. Cost

is $17. Includes sandwich of your choice (five to pick from), Dessert and beverage. Reservations for tables of eight or more taken. Tickets on sale now call Rosie at 732-503-3043.

Al-Anon Meetings Available Locally

OCEAN COUNTY – Are you troubled by someone else’s drinking? Al-Anon Family Groups may be able to help you. Call their 24-hour hotline for local meeting locations at 888-944-5678.

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–Photo courtesy Carmona Bolen Funeral Home

Central Regional Meetings Address Culture Of Bullying

By Chris Lundy

BERKELEY – A school official outlined a plan to address the bullying at Central Regional during a press conference, but it was not presented to residents at a public meeting filled with conflict hours later. These prospective initiatives include:

• Organization of a steering committee, including parents, to evaluate and update their approach to bullying and other issues;

• Retaining an outside party to examine their policies and their responses to this crisis;

• Reviewing the District’s cell phone policy;

• Scheduling a student assembly to discuss bullying, social media risks and related contemporary issues;

• Establishing a toll-free hotline operated by an outside party, for students to call (anonymously if they wish) if they feel threatened physically or online;

• Arranging guest speakers for student assemblies focused on avoiding and preventing risky behaviors;

• Arranging for education and information sessions for parents to help them better understand bullying, harassment, and other issues impacting students;

• Additional training for faculty, staff and parents to recognize potential problem situations and how to help; and

• More frequent communications with parents and guardians and the broader community about new and existing programs

and services.

This list wasn’t read to the parents in a meeting, just read to journalists. It was sent out to parents the next day through the parent portal and it was posted on the website.

Addressing reporters prior to a regularly scheduled school board meeting, newly appointed Acting Superintendent Douglas Corbett said, “Everyone at Central Regional School District and High School mourns the loss of Adriana Kuch. Our thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends in this difficult time. The circumstances of her passing are disturbing and we share the community’s shock.”

He noted that the above list is preliminary and more actions might be taken.

“Determining how best to improve on these priorities, and implementing effective solutions will take time. But we will not stand still,” Corbett said. “We are committed to learning from this tragedy wand listening to our parents, students and our community.”

He said that the district’s policy on Harassment, Intimidation and Bullying meet state standards. An assembly regarding bullying leads off every academic year.

“It’s important to note that the district has a team of specialists…including three anti-bullying coordinators and a 27-member crisis team,” he said.

Parents had a lot to say about Central’s handling of the issue, stating that what hap-

pened to Adriana wasn’t an isolated incident but an inevitable result of how the district turns a blind eye to problems.

“We are listening to their message. We need to observe and listen to cries for help, identify ill will before it’s carried out” and try to prevent it, Corbett said.

The press conference was a short session, about 40 minutes. Local media was there, as well as major news networks and even the Daily Mail, showing the international scope. Questions were lobbed at Corbett, accusing him or the district of wrongdoing. The public relations team that had been hired that week controlled the meeting, and prevented officials from answering questions about minors (such as what hap-

pened to Adriana) and personnel (such as what happened to former Superintendent Triantafillos Parlapanides). This led to accusations that the officials were hiding something.

Rumors have spread that Parlapanides is still employed by the district. The district said he resigned. He told this newspaper he resigned. The idea that he is still being paid by the district is likely due to the fact that the long-term employee has many vacation days that need to be paid out with the terms of his contract or perhaps the terms of his resignation.

Personnel records and student records are both confidential by law – but everyone

– Photo by Chris Lundy

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knows what happened anyway. Adriana Kuch was beat up by other children, who posted the attack on social media. She committed suicide shortly thereafter.

Board President Denise Pavone-Wilson wasn’t going to talk but she briefly came to the podium.

“This has been devastating,” she said. The board didn’t yet have a chance to meet but they have been calling and texting each other trying to come up with solutions.

A Culture Of Bullying

The tone of the public meeting was similar, with many accusations from parents. This was a regularly scheduled board meeting, so they went through about 20 minutes of generic business on the meeting agenda before opening the floor to the public. The public didn’t want to wait and some people were shouting at the board from the beginning. One yelled “We don’t care about your agenda!” A few other parents stood up and tried to get everyone to calm down so that the meeting wouldn’t get shut down. There was a police presence. The chief and the county prosecutor were in the audience, as well as a few elected officials. A grief counselor urged people to talk to others if they are hurting, and listen to people who might be hurting.

Board President Pavone-Wilson said her kids went here. “We do not condone fighting or bullying of any kind. We never did and

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While the state sets overarching learning standards, local school districts design the day-to-day classroom curriculum that helps students meet the standards. The Climate Awareness Education grants are designed to help schools implement handson, experiential learning opportunities for students; create “Green Teams” of students and educators to provide leadership and support local initiatives; establish professional development for teachers; and offer curriculum development and instructional materials aligned with the State’s learning

we never will.”

They held a moment of silence for Adriana. Then, the shouting resumed as students, former students, and parents painted a picture of what they experienced in the district.

This newspaper will not repeat specific claims or names in order to protect the children involved. The concern is if they were named, they would face additional bullying. For example, one child started to self-harm because of the issues in school. That information could provide bullies with more ammunition. While their bravery in stepping forward should be applauded, and mental illness shouldn’t be stigmatized, it is not worth publishing these names for these children’s future employers to fi nd online.

Children shared stories of being stonewalled or gaslit by staff when they asked for help. One said if a child files a report, sometimes the bullying intensifies.

“For months – years – we’ve been talking about the same thing with no results,” parent Kelly Edwards said.

Parent John Galifi said the district has been reactionary – making changes after bad things happen, rather than proactive and trying to stop a problem before it gets worse.

“If you’re always fighting the parents, you’re putting yourself in the wrong place,” he said.

“The press conference was backhanded. It is time to listen. We the parents are dedicated to keeping the spotlight on you until it’s solved to our liking,” he said.

A 2001 graduate said “This is not a new

standards.

All public school districts, charter schools, and renaissance school projects in New Jersey are eligible to apply for a share of the funding, which was part of Governor Murphy’s Fiscal Year 2023 budget. School districts and charter/renaissance schools will have until mid-March to apply for the funding. Districts that apply will get an equal share of the funding, with the 31 Schools Development Authority districts receiving an additional 15 percent. The application process will be streamlined to allow grant funding to be distributed for use in the current school year for schools that have programs ready to be implemented. Funds are to be used by June 30, 2023.

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issue here at Central Regional.”

Some children were bullied by teachers or coaches, according to the speakers. One recent grad said that he was bullied out of the district by both kids and teachers. He was told “that teacher’s just that way.” He was told that he needs to grow up and get used to dealing with people he doesn’t like.

“I’ve been out of school for two years and honestly no one has treated me like that,” he said.

Traci Rocco said her son wasn’t bullied but intervened to help someone who was.

However, there is a culture of bullying. It was shown when the superintendent said what he said about the Kuch family, she said. It was shown when staff are getting bullied by people because of this issue (staff members have received death threats). Two

board of education members posted racist things on social media (This is in reference to Heather Koenig and a relative of Merissa Borawski last year). She said that some of the other people on the board and some of the other staff members might get lumped in as guilty by association.

“I think some of your employees are amazing,” she said.

One girl, who shared that Adriana was her best friend, said that twice she’s had

gun threats.

“We’re scared to walk the halls of Central,” a 9th grader said. “There are police officers, but all they do is scare us.”

She suggested a program where other responsible adults, perhaps members of the Veterans of Foreign Wars, could volunteer at the school to provide an extra layer of protection.

Another student said she was bullied in school so she was told by staff to go virtual. She said she was told to switch classes or suck it up. Now, she’s in a better place with friends who care and she’s built her confidence. “Central didn’t help me. I did that on my own.”

One parent said “I understand the state has guidelines but can the district do more?”

Parent James Magee said if a student hits another they should get a police charge or a fi ne. Maybe it would change their behavior if the consequences were stronger.

Some parents warned that they’re going to teach their children to fight back because that’s the only way they’ll be safe.

One current student said he was bullied every day and didn’t receive the help he needed from the school. He also called out the hypocrisy of some of the people in the crowd. “People in this room have bullied me and I don’t even know why you’re here.”

TOMS RIVER – The Ocean County Library is pleased to host a presentation by the Ocean County Health Department, “Shore to Age Well: Medication Management and Alternatives,” at four branches during the month of March:

Brick Branch – 10 a.m. March 15. 301 Chambers Bridge Road, 732-477-4513.

Waretown Branch – 10:30 a.m. March 20. 112 Main Street, 609-693-5133.

Barnegat Branch – 10 a.m. March 22. 112 Burr Street, 609-698-3331. Manchester Branch – 10 a.m. March 27. 21 Colonial Drive, 732-657-7600.

The program, designed for residents 55 and older, aims to promote common sense in the use of medications, to present information about alternatives to opioids, and to encourage discussion with physicians about ways to achieve desired results.

It will highlight non-opioid forms of pain management, including physical therapy, chiropractic care, yoga, massage therapy, local anesthetics, topical solutions, biofeedback, exercise, and nonsteroidal anti-inflammatory drugs (NSAID). Register at theoceancountylibrary.org/ events to attend one of these free programs, sponsored by the Ocean County Library Senior Services Department.

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Sound News

Presented By: Isidore Kirsh, Ph.D., F.A.A.A. (N.J. Lic. #678)

How Colds, The Flu & Covid 19 Affects Hearing

It’s been well over 2 years, and the Covid 19 variants are still wreaking havoc in our area. For the most part, the new variants just present with “cold-like” symptoms but the rate of infection spread is typically higher than the common cold. Unfortunately, once you start to exhibit symptoms such as a sore throat, headache, sinus pressure, post nasal drip, etc., you already have Covid 19 and more than likely you have spread the germs to others. Many individuals are taking in home rapid tests and are commonly “negative” for a few days before the result is positive.

In my opinion, this is reason enough to frequently wash your hands, don a mask (when in large in group events), and get vaccinated. Unless you physician recommends otherwise, vaccinated individuals typically experience a significant reduction of Covid 19 symptoms and the recovery time is generally less.

Upper respiratory viruses often create fluid buildup in the middle ear, leading to congestion, pain, muffled sound, and secondary infections. The flu virus has been known to affect the auditory nerve,

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which can cause permanent hearing loss. Similar to the flu, COVID-19 has shown an alarming ability to attack the hearing and vestibular systems, although the exact reason is still under investigation. Patients with long-haul COVID are at increased risk. Luckily, serious hearing damage from viral infections is rare, though the temporary effects are uncomfortable — stuffiness, dizziness, tinnitus, and ear infections could put a damper on your future holiday plans.

If you have experienced hearing loss, tinnitus, or vertigo during a bout of COVID 19 and these symptoms are continuing to “linger” I would contact your hearing healthcare professional for a complete hearing and dizziness evaluation. Protect your hearing by supporting your health!

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Why You Should Think Twice Before Buying B Complex Vitamins

By Suzy Cohen, R. Ph.

I was inspired to write this blog because I took a capsule of my Mito B complex today and sat down with hot tea. About 15 minutes after that walked into my hot yoga class, where I quickly developed a heat flush! I’m talking about a hot flush from the niacin. I did it to myself without thinking twice about the timing of a hot drink and a hot gym! Just FYI, the niacin flush is a pretty unusual occurrence with dietary supplements, but it can happen if you’re sensitive to niacin, or if you take it and then go into a room that is 102 degrees and do headstands, lol!

I have some tips on how to avoid a niacin flush. If you go to suzycohen.com and sign up to receive my newsletter, I’ll email you the longer version of this article. Anyway, it got me thinking about an article on B Complex vitamins. Some brands are better than others. If you don’t shop with me, you should read the rest of this article.

B Complex refers to a family of nutrients, it’s not just one nutrient. Most people take it for one of these 4 reasons:

1. Energy production: You will be tired if you are depleted in B vitamins. The B complex vitamins convert your food into energy, making ATP out of what you eat. This gives you zest and energy.

2. Brain function: All of the B complex nutrients are important for maintaining brain function, memory, and the ability to learn. They help make neurotransmitters.

3. Cell health: B complex vitamins are necessary for maintaining healthy cells, specifically our DNA synthesis and repair,

which is essential for cell division and growth.

4. Nerve Sheath Health: B complex vitamins protect the myelin sheath and help with neuron regeneration. This could help neuropathy.

Most people take B vitamins for the reasons above, however, B vitamins also help men and women with estrogen metabolism. Specifically, the B vitamins help increase the formation of 2-hydroxyestrone (designated as 2-OH-E1 on your DUTCH test if you’ve ever taken that).

The 2-OH-E1 is a protective type of estrogen metabolite and again, B vitamins can help you create more of that.

Not all B Complex Vitamins are the same. Most of the supplements contain inactive precursor ingredients that your body has to activate before it even works. For example, pyridoxine is on the label of most B Complex supplements, but that isn’t active. You have to turn that into another compound “P5P” short for pyridoxal 5’ phosphate. Think of cyanocobalamin, it’s okay but methylcobalamin is methylated. That means it gets absorbed better.

Methylated B vitamins are beneficial for people who have a high demand for B vitamins, such as pregnant women, athletes, and regular people with certain health conditions like high homocysteine and fatigue. They also help people who are on a junk food diet, and those who have had gastric surgery. Always consult your practitioner before making changes to your vitamin regimen.

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New Jersey - Home To A Variety Of Spiders

Renee A. Thomaier Retired New Jersey State Licensed Wildlife Rehabilitator New Jersey is home to approximately 11

common spiders, but about 98 percent of spiders are not harmful. Only a few are poisonous. This is just a quick guide to the spiders you may encounter. Use your

judgment and be cautious. Spiders are considered arachnids, not bugs or insects. They consist of two body parts and eight jointed legs. Surprise! They are

relatives of the crayfish, as well as the lobster. Spiders are very useful. They will feed on moths, mosquitoes, cockroaches, flies, and earwigs. This means that, without even realizing it, you are better able to enjoy the outdoors. Those living naturally outdoors, there is no need to kill them – they are doing their job. Educate yourself so you’re not surprised or caught off guard when you encounter them.

Due space constrictions, I will list these 11 spiders and indicate those that are poisonous. American grass spiders, web builders, bite but not toxic to humans; hacklemesh weavers prefer dark, damp, woodlands, no venom; yellow garden spiders, non-toxic venom to humans; cross orb weaver, spin beautiful webs, venom non-toxic to humans; Parson spiders, ground hunter, nocturnal, painful bite but harmless; wolf spiders, ground hunters, bite may sting, but no issues; long bodied cellar spiders, hang out in dark places like caves, cellars, garages, and warehouses, has fangs but will not harm you; bold jumping spiders, ground hunters, pounces, the bite will hurt but non-toxic; brown recluse spiders, the most feared, prefers crawl spaces, attics, behind baseboards, and basements, will attack you, powerful bite and venom will eat away at your tissue, seek immediate medical assistance; black widow spiders, spin webs, hang upside-down, most venomous in this country, venom not nearly as fatal as the recluse; common house spiders, most spiders fit into this category, non-venomous. Pest control companies can help identify and eradicate infestations in your home. The recluse spider poses the most threat to your life and limb – seek medical assistance right away.

Information for this article from was gathered through multiple sources so statistics may vary slightly. To reach me please call 732-244-2768.

It is illegal to possess or relocate wildlife for any reason without the proper state and/ or federal permits. Violating New Jersey laws protecting wildlife, which includes harm inflicted upon any animal, are punishable by law.

Buying And Selling A Boat Are Fertile Grounds For Scammers

By: Michael J. Deem, Esq. of R.C. Shea & Associates

If you are considering buying or selling a boat, then you should be aware that the market is full of bogus buyers and sellers. When it comes to buying or selling a boat, if anything seems unusual then proceed with caution. While fraudulent transactions apply to both purchase and sales, this article will focus on the seller’s side of the transaction.

If selling your boat is not difficult enough, these days the last thing you need is to encounter someone, somewhere, trying to trick you at least once, if not two or more times as you try to complete the boat-selling process. Because fraud comes in all shapes and sizes, it is not possible for us to focus on one type of transaction, so we will concentrate on the most common red flags. Obvious poor punctuation and grammar. These scammers crank out a thousands of their “inquiries” every day and many of them have a poor grasp of the English language. Also, pay attention to their use of multiple phone numbers (and/or multiple email addresses) from the same individual. Everything the alleged buyer asked about was thoroughly detailed in your listing. Some of these scammers operate through robo or computerized forms of communication like e-mail or texting. So, if the potential purchaser is asking you for information that is already in your listing then this should raise a red flag and you should proceed with extreme caution. Enlisting a third party to pick up the boat without the buyer ever having inspected it. Boats are not cheap. No credible buyer will purchase a boat sight unseen. A credible purchaser will at least obtain a boat survey, which is similar to a home inspection. In addition, most honest buyers will be present when the boat is picked-up, rather than sending an agent to do take possession of your boat.

The offer to pay by cashier’s check and pick up the boat after it had been cashed. This seems like a reasonable show of good faith, but scammers have become very good at printing fake checks so realistic that banks initially accept them. It isn’t until days or even weeks later that the scam becomes apparent, and then the bank can pull those funds right back out of your account. Check with your bank to confirm its policy regarding final acceptance of funds.

Paypal or Venmo variation of payment. The phony buyer will ask for your PayPal ID in order to send you a payment, possibly for substantially more than the purchase price. Shortly after that, you will receive a fake confirmation from PayPal with your user ID for more than the agreed purchase price, and the buyer will contact you asking you to forward the extra money to a shipper. Again, you’ll lose whatever money you’ve sent. An unwillingness to provide basic proof of identity such as a photo of their driver’s license. If they are who they say they are then there should be no issue with providing proof of their identity. Automobile dealerships will obtain proof of your identify when you try to purchase one of their vehicles. Strangers routinely share this basic information when they are involved in motor vehicle collisions, so it should not be sacred during the purchase of a boat or a car.

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Ocean County To Kick Off 15 Years For Free Shredding Program

OCEAN

By Bob Vosseller

COUNTY – The Ocean County

Residential Document Shredding Program will kick off on March 29 in Lakewood.

The program is free to Ocean County residents only and commercial documents will not be accepted at the collection sites.

“In 2022, 90 tons of paper were recycled

- all of which was collected at the County’s Residential Document Shredding sites. You are not limited to which site you have to attend, so we encourage residents to go to whichever is more convenient for them,”

Ocean County Commissioner Barbara Jo Crea said.

While registration is not required, she

noted the program is very popular and often sites fill up fast. Residents are limited to four file boxes or clear bags, or 100 pounds of confidential documents per car.

The shred units feature an automatic feeding and dumping system that eliminates human contact with private documents. Paper must be in a manageable container; paper

clips and staples do not need to be removed.

Residents are requested to stay in their vehicles at all times, and to have the materials to be shredded in the trunk, cargo area, or truck bed of their vehicle to make it easily accessible to the staff who will remove them.

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52 “Dirty John” actor Eric

54 Ruler of imperialist Russia

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57 “All finished!”

58 One of the Rice Krispies trio

60 “Thanks a __!”

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Retiring Undersheriff: Police Work Has Changed In Over 40 Yrs.

By Stephanie Faughnan TOMS RIVER –

More than four decades ago marked the beginning of two lifetime commitments for Nils “Rick” Berquist. After handing in his badge and gun at the end of the year, the 66-year-old Ocean County Undersheriff appeared more than ready to enjoy his retirement with his high school sweetheart.

“I started as a seasonal police officer with Seaside Heights in May of 1977,” shared Berquist. “That same month, I married my wife, Donna.”

Berquist’s retirement from the Sheriff’s Department comes five years after he joined the county law enforcement agency. After the short stint with Seaside Heights, Berquist served as an officer in Ocean Gate and Brick Township police departments. He moved up the ranks to retire as Brick’s police chief in 2015.

A great deal has changed in law enforcement work since 1977 when a “salty old sergeant” told Berquist the job wasn’t the same as it used to be. Meanwhile, the words take on a different meaning some 45 years later.

“The young cops coming in need a higher level of intelligence to do the job,” Berquist began. “They have to be very competent in so many different technology fields. When I started, you only had to be proficient with a pen or a typewriter.”

Before the computer age, police looked up names by sorting through volumes and volumes of files maintained on cross-referenced index cards. Law enforcement agencies kept all types of records in hardcopy.

Berquist said that the tools used by modern-day police departments now give them a means of not only looking up people but also tracking them instantaneously.

Law enforcement agencies that needed to communicate with each other either picked up the telephone or used a teletype machine. The latter could take a long time to print and was not always considered reliable.

CAD systems, short for computer-aided dispatch, did not exist when Berquist started his law enforcement career in the three municipal police departments.

“When a call came in, the dispatcher logged it in a great big ledger,” said Berquist. “The ledgers were stored, and if you wanted to go back and look something up, you had to go through pages and pages of ledgers.”

The manual system came with one advantage as far as Berquist was concerned. If the power went out, work didn’t come to a standstill. Instead, officers used their flashlights.

On his way up the ranks, Berquist served as a member of the Brick Township Police

Department’s Detective Bureau in the mid-1980s. Then, computers were still not prevalent, and typing up search warrants came with its share of challenges.

“We had to use carbon paper to make three copies,” Berquist explained. “You took your time because making a mistake was really an arduous process to get the warrant fixed and get back on track.”

As a young detective, Berquist recalled the first thing he did when investigating a crime scene was to canvass the neighborhood. This meant knocking on doors to look for witnesses or further reports of suspicious activities.

Officers looking to solve crimes now have an additional tool to assist them in finding answers. The advent of cameras on front doors has become a tremendous resource for documenting evidence.

“You can’t go anywhere anymore in this world without being on camera,” asserted Berquist. “Some people would argue that it infringes on their rights, and maybe it does to some degree.”

While there’s no doubt that technology has enhanced police work, the newly retired Undersheriff suggested that it comes with a small downside.

“Young people coming on to the job don’t always have the communication skills that we had back then,” Berquist said. “So many of them would rather text and call.

“I don’t say that disparagingly, as I believe these are good, hardworking people and good cops,” continued Berquist. “But it’s a skill they didn’t pick up like we had to; we had to know how to look someone in the eye.”

Berquist submitted that only sixty percent of communication is verbal, and a great deal can be lost in the balance. What’s missing as part of the non-verbal exchange includes everything from facial expressions to body language.

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–Photo by Stephanie Faughnan Undersheriff Nils “Rick” Berquist on his last day as a member of the Ocean County Sheriff ’s Department

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Students Get Their Day In Court At

Mock Trials

Photo by Stephanie Faughnan Southern Regional’s Mock Trial team had their day in court.

By Stephanie Faughnan

TOMS RIVER – Ten Southern Regional High School students found themselves before judges last Saturday – on a day when the Ocean County Courthouse traditionally remains locked tight.

The nine young women and one young man attempted to mask their apprehension – unrelated to any worries they could wind up behind bars.

As team members of one of the eight Ocean County schools participating in the Vincent J. Apruzzese High School Mock Trial Competition, each of the students assumed assigned roles. Four donned suits as attorneys prepared to represent their clients in a civil case. A plaintiff, a defendant, and four witnesses were ready to give testimony and even the prospect of grueling cross-examination by opposing counsel.

Attorneys John Ducey, Stacie Brustman and Taylor Toscano led the organization of Ocean County’s mock trials, which are also held statewide. Several superior court judges

and practicing attorneys all volunteered their time in various capacities.

Southern Regional’s in-house coach teaches both history and Latin. However, it just so happens that Joe Spirito also graduated from Drexel Law School. Additionally, local family law attorney Kristen Henninger Holland devotes a considerable amount of time sharing the ins and outs of the courtroom. After all, there’s a huge difference between criminal justice television dramas and the real deal.

Teams are only identified by numbers during the competition. The Southern Ocean Times requested the courtroom assignments of Southern Regional without any information concerning their adversarial teams. Courtrooms were opened to the public and just about filled to capacity. No one seemed to want to miss the action.

Sofia LaPointe and Allison Go went through the first round of the competition and entered their appearances as attorneys for the (Students - See Page 33)

Retiring

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The public’s perception of police work has had some impact over the last four decades. However, Berquist said he had not personally experienced the negativity, which he attributed to a “few bad apples” who made it tough for others.

“On some occasions, people in our profession have done some bad things,” shared Berquist. “There are also some good people that made mistakes. Unfortunately, this has hurt us and continues to hurt us and is not helping our ability to hire people.”

Once considered one of the best jobs across the nation, fewer applicants are signing up to take the test to become cops, according to Berquist. At a foundation of federal law enforcement officials, Berquist heard an interesting analogy made by the Commandant of the Marine Corps, who spoke on the value of service.

The Commandant recalled how people spit on soldiers returning from Vietnam. However, he pointed out that people now have a whole different appreciation for

military service and said the same would return to police work.

No doubt that Berquist has seen a lot over four decades in law enforcement. The answer to what he viewed as his most rewarding experience provides insight into his personal value system.

“We helped a young boy whose mother couldn’t make it home for Christmas,” Berquist recalled. “We passed a hat at the hospital and got him toys and other gifts.”

Ocean County Sheriff Michael Mastronardy worked with Berquist when the Undersheriff was part of Brick Township’s Police Department. He highlighted some of Berquist’s accomplishments while working for the county law enforcement agency.

“He took the lead on the body camera project,” said Matronardy. “He also took the lead on some equipment projects such as the safety holster one.”

Mastronardy said Berquist had always been a consummate professional in dealing with the judges and court staff and was a fantastic liaison who will be missed.

The Sheriff has not yet announced who will replace Berquist as Undersheriff.

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defendant, Sam Arena (Rachel Perry) before Superior Court Judge David M. Fritch. Attorney Carrie Smith also participated as a judge during the presentation before the court.

Although New Jersey civil cases usually seat eight jurors with six deliberating, only five students were seated in the jury box and came up with their verdicts quite quickly.

The case assigned to all of the participants involved a wrong death matter stemming from an “energy drink” challenge that allegedly resulted in the death of the plaintiff’s grandson. All of the competitors went from opening arguments, witness testimony, to closing arguments.

Judge Fritch offered some constructive criticism after the first round was over, starting with the positioning the attorneys chose to assume.

“When you’re doing your opening, always face the jury because they’re the ones who you need to convince to believe in your client,” said Fritch. “I understand why you’re facing me, but for the future just play to the jury.”

Smith suggested that the attorneys needed to slow down and not talk so fast. The comment made perfect sense although presentations were timed and it seemed to be a race against the clock.

Both teams were commended for a job well done.

The second round found Daniel Stafford and Lexi Scully as attorneys for the plaintiff, Dylan Salerno, (Andonia Golinski) portrayed the grandmother of the decedent.

Attorneys Craig Newman and Heidi Tannenbaum-Newman acted as judges for the second round. Interestingly, the husband and wife team consist of a criminal defense attorney and an assistant prosecutor.

The same set of five jurors sat for the last round of the Southern Regional mock trials.

At the conclusion of Round II, the Newmans reiterated what competitors heard in the First Round.

“Slow down, breathe, just breathe,” Craig reminded. “Slow yourself down so that the jury can understand.”

“Redirects are good because the other side may have made a point because someone spoke too fast about it,” shared Heidi. “Bring that question back out so that they can hear the main point you want to bring out.”

Students who portrayed witnesses during the two rounds included Kiley Cassidy, Meri Cassidy, Emily Renner, and Makena Bentivegna.

The Southern Regional Mock Trial team didn’t make it to the semi-finals, but that’s not to say they didn’t walk away as winners with some valuable lessons. One of the best was the importance of being passionate about what they loved. Another was understanding that the best laid plans can easily blow up and require change.

Other schools participating in the Ocean County Mock Trials included Brick Township, Brick Memorial, Central Regional, Jackson Liberty, Jackson Memorial, Southern Regional, MATES, and the Ocean County Academy of Law and Public Safety.

Jackson Memorial and MATES made it to the final round and competed for the win after this paper went to press.

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Items that are not acceptable include magazines, books, junk mail, hanging file folders, greeting cards, photos, x-rays, CDs, floppy disks, microfilm, shredded paper and garbage. In addition, moldy or wet paper and plastic bags should not be included in the shredding.

Each shredding event runs from 9 a.m. to noon or until the trucks are full. Each truck has a capacity to hold five to seven tons of paper and all documents are destroyed confidentially on site.

The dates and locations for the 2023 schedule are:

March 29 – Lakewood, Public Works Yard, 1 America Avenue

April 1 – Berkeley, Recycling Center Lot, 630 Pinewald Keswick Road

April 15 – Seaside Heights, Recycling Center Lot, Bay Boulevard and Sherman Avenue

April 29 – Stafford, Ocean County Southern Recycling Center, 279 Haywood Road

May 13 – Waretown, Municipal Complex Lot, 50 Railroad Avenue

May 19 – Toms River, Riverwood Parking Lot, 250 Riverwood Drive

June 3 – Jackson, Municipal Building Rear Lot, 95 West Veterans Highway

June 17 – Little Egg Harbor, Community

Center Lot, 319 West Cala Breeze Way

June 24 – Point Pleasant Borough High School Lot, 2300 Panther Path

Sept. 9 – Manchester, Soccer Field, 101 South Colonial Drive

Sept. 16 – Lacey, Recycling Center Lot, 820 Municipal Lane

Sept. 23 – Barnegat, Recycling Center Lot, 5 Lippincott Avenue

Oct. 14 – Beach Haven, Parking Lot, Taylor Avenue

Oct. 21 – Brick, Public Works Yard, 836 Ridge Road

Oct. 28 – Beachwood, Municipal Complex Lot, 1600 Pinewald Road

Shredded Paper

Shredded office paper should not be placed with curbside recyclables, and should instead be brought to the drop-off boxes (near Building 105 at the Ocean County Southern Recycling Center in Stafford or Building 68 at the Ocean County Northern Recycling Center in Lakewood) for recycling.

As shredded paper cannot be effectively sorted by Ocean County’s Recyclable Materials Processing Facility, it needs to be recycled separately in order to produce a viable, marketable commodity.

The contractor for this year’s program is Toms River based IDSAutoshred. For more information, visit co.ocean. nj.us/recycle

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Omarr’s Astrological Forecast

For the week of FEB 25 - mar 3

By Jeraldine Saunders

ARIES (March 21-April 19): TRepel the possible urge to disturb the balance of things while on the job by debating minor points. Utilize your charm and prove you are willing to be a team player. A loved one may show extra affection to you.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20) : New might not always be better but you may receive new insights and inspirations that may lead to helpful changes. You might need to be methodical and prudent when spending money to fend off possible buyer’s remorse.

GEMINI (May 21-June 20): Your originality and resourcefulness are a blessing, but you may need to travel a more conventional route for the moment. You might be tempted to intensify a family or legal situation. Remain true to yourself to find a more peaceful resolution.

CANCER (June 21-July 22): You may find yourself facing a minor misunderstanding. Your sympathy and valuable energy may be your wisest resources in finding a resolution. You may have many opinions to share but this may be the time to keep them close to your chest.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): You may be savvy in the ways of finances, but things may be unsteady if you are unable to diversify. You might face a tense or stressful situation, but you may prevail by focusing on your projects, studies or work.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): You might find ideas to be easy to promote but you may find some subjects to be more controversial than others. You may need to be conscious of how you approach certain topics and be wary of what you choose to defend.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): You may be an excellent judge of character, willing to look past the surface and appreciate someone’s integrity. Others could see imperfection; you see more deeply. Your loved ones could be pumped to get started on a project with you.

SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): You may need to focus on communication to gently get your point across to those closest to you. Work on ways to be wise. You might work with someone with an abundance of enthusiasm but lacking in logic.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): You may have several opportunities for relaxation and some casual fun. You might find yourself baited by someone into making rash decisions. Seek council from a helpful collection of trusted friends and coworkers to find the right path.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): You might find yourself on a quest for the truth, make sure you leave no stone unturned. You may be torn between enforcing policies or being popular. You can create a positive change with clear communication and some unique ideas.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): You may find yourself needing to take a step back and reappraise your family needs to prevent possible conflict. You can avoid possible criticism from others by being considerate and keeping a well-organized schedule.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): You could find yourself bogged down by practical concerns that may temporarily hold you back. Discuss key issues with loved ones so you can come to a compromise and make necessary changes. Focus on creative and constructive projects.

By America’s Test Kitchen

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