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Natalia’s Journey: From War-torn Ukraine To Refugee

talia Shtubel, 21, vividly recalls when her family opened their doors to refugees fleeing conflict in the east of Ukraine, providing a safe haven in the western part of the country.

In an amazing twist of fate, Natalia and her parents now fi nd themselves as refugees in the United States. A humanitarian program “Uniting for Ukraine” has enabled the three to join Natalia’s brother, Andrii, and his wife, Mallory in their home in Stafford.

As she adjusts to a new culture and navigates the challenges of being away from her homeland, Natalia’s story highlights the unpredictable nature of conflict and the profound impact it can have on even those who thought they were safe.

“My father created a refrain that sticks in

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How Does News Of School Shootings A ect Students’ Mental Health ?

State Accused Of Failing To Protect Boy Allegedly Killed By Dad

rectly affected.

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IL. St. Louis, MI. Uvalde, Texas. What do all of those places have in common? There has been a school shooting in each.

From the start of the year, 19 school shooting-related incidents have occurred . The tragic reality is not just that school shootings happen, but it also impacts the mental health of every student, teacher, and staff member – even if they are indi-

While thankfully none of the schools here in Ocean County have yet found themselves on that list , students attending our schools also can feel as if they were directly in the crossfi re

“We are seeing that our students in New Jersey are having reactions as if they are experiencing the shootings,” said Maureen Brogan, Traumatic Loss Coalition Program Manager at Rutgers University Behavioral Health Care.

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fraud is one of the fastest growing crimes in the country and officials are urging residents to sign up for the Property Alert Service offered by the Ocean

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A civil lawsuit has been fi led against the New Jersey Division of Child Protection and Permanency (DCPP) by the mother of Corey Micciolo, a sixyear-old boy whose father faces charges of murdering him in 2021.

Attorney Chris Conrad, who represents Breanna Micciolo individually and as the representative of the Estate of Corey Micciolo, said that DCPP is the mechanism by which children are supposed to be protected from harm. He added that they completely failed in their responsibility to do so.

“DCPP is supposed to be the last line of defense for children who are being abused or neglected,” Conrad said. “But in this case, they completely failed Breanna and Corey. They let them down, and they paid the ultimate price.”

The lawsuit, fi led in Superior Court in Ocean County, alleges that DCPP failed to protect Corey from his father, despite multiple reports of abuse and neglect. Additionally, the legal complaint names individuals who are presumed to be DCPP employees involved in Corey’s case. As discovery in the civil matter progresses, other members of the agency may also be individually sued.

Christopher Gregor, Corey’s father, is

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Officials: Mortgage Fraud On The Rise

County Clerk’s Office.

The free program, first introduced in 2016, offers an added layer of security when it comes to property protection, according to Ocean County Clerk Scott M. Colabella. It provides

property owners with email alerts anytime a document affecting a specific property is recorded by the Ocean County Clerk’s Office.

Colabella told the Ocean County Board (Fraud - See Page 6)

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–Photo by Stephanie Faughnan Natalia Shtubel shares a picture drawn by one of her preschool students that shows the impact of war with a gun shooting out hearts.
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my head,” shared Natalia. “East or west, home is best.”

A trained and talented artist, Natalia created a poignant photo essay that captured the essence of her father’s message, focusing on his features and using imagery to convey the emotion and meaning behind his words. Through her art, Natalia offered a powerful commentary on the universal experience of seeking a place to belong.

“There is no home,” Natalia wrote. “The home is in your head and my head.”

The Shtubel’s hometown of Uzhhorod was fortunate enough to be spared the catastrophic destruction caused by Russia’s war on Ukraine. Nonetheless, Natalia was deeply moved by the plight of her fellow Ukrainians and felt a strong sense of empathy and solidarity towards them. She found herself determined to contribute to the war effort in any way she could – despite the relatively safe conditions in her own community.

Day in and day out, hundreds of people streamed into Uzhhorod, seeking refuge after being forced to flee their homes in cities like Kiev. The local train stations were inundated with a flood of people looking to escape the dangers of a war that had even civilians living in constant fear for their lives.

Natalia teamed up with other volunteers to prepare sandwiches for the refugees stranded at the train station, ensuring that they would have at least one bite to eat. She and the others also did their best to help the

refugees navigate a path to the next stop on their journey.

“We’d ask them where they needed to go,” said Natalia. “So many were lost and traveling across the country from one place to the next to get away.”

Local families in Uzhhorod opened their homes to the refugees, providing them with temporary relief from the struggles of displacement. Natalia’s parents were among those who offered their hospitality, welcoming different groups of refugees into their three-story house and providing them with food and shelter.

Meanwhile, Natalia also found herself determined to aid in the battle for her homeland. Natalia’s volunteer work expanded to the assembly of Molotov cocktails – a stark contrast for the young woman who studied art and worked during the day as a preschool teacher.

Exorbitant rises in fuel costs made it bitter cold in the winter months. And even though electricity could only be used six hours a day, children in Natalia’s hometown continued to attend school. Nonetheless, despite being spared from the bombings that plagued other regions, Natalia’s students were not shielded from the harsh realities of the ongoing war.

For one, many of the children’s fathers joined the army of Ukrainians seeking to keep their country’s sovereignty. As she shared a treasured picture drawn by one of her students, Natalia explained that it was more than a display of affection.

“I asked the child to tell me about the picture,” Natalia shared, as she pointed

out different aspects of the drawing, “I was told that this was me, and that this was a gun pulling hearts to me.”

“This is how children are influenced by war right now in Ukraine,” nodded Natalia.

After fi nding refuge with her family in the United States, Natalia has resumed her passion for teaching preschoolers in Manahawkin. Devoting much of her free time to her art, Natalia fi nds she most enjoys painting abstracts that leave room for personal interpretation.

As she’s adjusting to her new life in a foreign land, Natalia has found some of the differences between the two countries remarkable. For example, in Ukraine, it’s uncommon for people to even nod as they pass each other on the street. Natalia was initially taken aback by the fact that strangers would greet her with a smile and a hello. She has since come to appreciate the friendly gestures. The lack of sidewalks where Natalia now lives has posed an interesting challenge. In her hometown, Natalia was accustomed to walking everywhere. She didn’t have to rely on anyone for transportation, as she could easily get to work, the local shops, and her friends’ houses on foot.

But in Stafford, sidewalks are not only few and far between – virtually nothing is within walking distance. The only way to get around is by car, which has prompted Natalia to work on getting her driver’s license to give her some independence.

Natalia also admitted she was a bit confused by how the two countries handle taxation.

“Taxes are also different here than in Ukraine,” said Natalia. “There, if you pay for something, the tax is already in the price. Here, tax is added to some of the (Journey - See Page 12)

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–Photo supplied by Natalia Shtubel Natalia’s volunteer efforts included feeding refugees who passed by her Ukrainian city after being displaced from their homes.

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Brogan used the tragically life-changing event of the attacks on September 11, 2001 as an example of how a person does not have to be immediately involved in order to have a mental reaction.

But what negative effects are directly derived from those mental reactions?

Terri Dawe, Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) Assistant Clinical Director at Calm and Sense Therapy, considers the most disturbing effects of school shootings are feelings of ongoing danger that spread through schools. She states that the climate and sense of community in schools have been profoundly damaged.

“Where children once found schools to be a safe haven, they are now ‘unsafe’ often leading to hypervigilance, anxiety, depression, and vicarious trauma responses,” she said.

The power of media also plays an important role here as well. The constant exposure to media and detailed coverage of the shootings can be a trigger to the mental health-harming symptoms mentioned by Dawe.

For students like Brianna, a senior from Toms River High School South, while unsurprising to her, the news of another school shooting leave her angry and overwhelmed.

That media exposure, according to Brogan, is also adding a sense of hopelessness to the anxiety of students that further contributes to them losing their sense of control.

In order to combat that, Dawe shares the idea of parents and teachers encouraging “news breaks” to their kids and students.

“It is important to limit the time spent watching TV or staying connected online because constant exposure may heighten their anxiety and fears,” she said.

In addition to the constant media exposure, here in Ocean County, multiple schools have been subject to a number of fake active shooter treats. High School South was one of them. Those threats have led to lockdowns, evacuations, and missing school days, all negatively impacting Brianna and her fellow classmates.

“I always feel an overwhelming sense of dread and anxiety,” said Brianna, commenting on the recent active shooter threats on social media.

Brianna, who had grown angry and exhausted over the topic of school shootings, found that educating others on the severity of the topic of active shooters has helped her cope, even though she fi nds it hard to stay strong when there is not much done about the number of school shootings.

When it is too late, and the exposure has done damage to the mental health of the student, it is time to start asking the question: What should that person do in order to receive help?

According to Brogan, once a student reaches that point they should start asking themselves who are the people that they can go to and ask for some support? For her, asking for help when a person is in need is a sign of bravery.

“Asking for help is actually a strength and

not a weakness,” said Brogan. “By sending the message that even the strongest people, the smartest people also need help at some point of their lives… we want to send this message of help-seeking behavior.”

She also states that adults should also be reaching out and willing to offer support to children and adolescents that need help.

Often their parents are the closest adults in their lives, but unfortunately , some parents don’t fi nd the value in mental health.

In that case, Dawe suggests that students should turn to their school counselors to ask for help, or even a trusted coach or mentor for support.

Parents should be mindful when addressing concerns about their children’s safety, she said. Parents should not downplay the fears of their kids because that might lead to a shutdown of communication.

“It is not appropriate to tell the child that they will never experience a school shooting because we do not know that,” she said. “At the same time, we want to help them to feel safe enough so that they do not become fearful of going to school.”

Schools can and should be able to offer support for students, she said.

“Schools need to provide psychoeducation on the vicarious impact school shootings have on the mental health of its student body,” said Dawe. “De-stigmatize mental health by validating (that) having fear/anxiety are natural responses to traumatic events even if (they are) not directly involved.”

For Brianna, ready access to mental health resources in schools for students and their families and the fi nancial support needed

to obtain those resources would be the best course of action that schools can take.

Constant exposure to school shootings can potentially lead to dangerous tendencies. According to Brogan, instead of developing depression and anxiety, some students will just become numb.

She said that with some of the school shooters, the theme of disconnectedness is present. Whenever people might not have a sense of belonging and they feel like they have been marginalized, that’s when they might have a desire for revenge or notoriety.

They might think: “If no one is paying attention to me then I will make sure that everyone is paying attention to me,” Brogan said.

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of Commissioners, “this helps our property owners to guard against fraud. This type of fraud is a nationwide problem.”

“Scammers record fraudulent documents like fake deeds or record fake liens against property owners. In some instances, fraud on real property is not discovered for years. To address these concerns and protect one of the most important assets a person has, my office has been offering this free service that immediately notifies you by email whenever a document with your name is recorded in the County Clerk’s Office,” the Clerk added.

Berkeley Township Councilman John A. Bacchione recently told the County Commissioners there was growing concern in his township over this type of fraud being committed in particular because of the large number of seniors living there.

Bacchione said he was providing seniors in the township with information on the Property Alert Service. “Our seniors are probably the most targeted.”

Colabella noted that last year, his office recorded more than 131,000 documents including 24,000 deeds and 26,000 mortgages. “We have a dedicated staff that makes certain the paper work is in order.”

“However, we are not investigators or detectives and based on the volume of deeds and mortgages recorded monthly, it’s not impossible for some items to be potentially fraudulent. By signing up for the property alert service, you will be notified by email whenever a document is recorded affecting your property,” Colabella added.

“You can review the record to determine if it’s correct or if it’s fraudulent,” he said. “It adds some peace of mind for our property owners.”

“It’s as simple as registering your name or business name and your email address and you will be automatically notifi ed electronically if a document is recorded with your name,” Colabella added, noting that about 4,000 property owners have signed up for the service.

Colabella stressed that identity theft is a growing consumer complaint and property fraud which is a form of identity theft is on the rise. “While this service can’t prevent fraud, it’s important to be notified early that someone may be trying to steal your property without your knowledge.”

He added that the only time recordings can be refused is when statutory guidelines are not met. “As long as a document meets statutory recording guidelines, New Jersey law requires the Clerk’s Office to record the document. I am pleased we offer this program to help our constituents detect information that may be fraudulent.”

To sign up for the program visit countyclerkpas.co.ocean.nj.us/PropertyAlert/ and follow the steps outlined on the page.

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Assemblyman Challenges Funding For Inmates Without School Funding Restoration

TRENTON – During a hearing of the Assembly Budget Committee, Assemblyman Brian Rumpf (R-9 th) challenged the Murphy administration on its proposed budget that would increase funding for inmates while Trenton refuses to fully restore funding to targeted school districts. Assemblyman Rumpf, who serves on the Assembly Budget Committee, directed his line of questioning to New Jersey Department of Corrections Commissioner Victoria L. Kuhn, Esq., who recently testified before the committee.

“I speak on behalf of my 9th District

legislative colleagues Senator Chris Connors and Assemblywoman DiAnne Gove when I say that our children and educational professionals, as well as all taxpayers for that matter, deserve priority over increasing pay for inmates’ jobs,” said Assemblyman Rumpf. “More infuriating is that nearly 7,600 prisoners were released during COVID yet the Murphy Administration is calling for an increase in funding for the Department of Corrections, including a $2.6 million increase for inmate wages for a total of $157.3 million.”

The 9th District delegation voted “YES” on legislation (S-3732) to restore 66% of the funding to 168 school districts that otherwise would have their aid (further) cut under the state school funding for-

mula and Governor Murphy’s proposed budget for the 2023-2024 school year. Each member of the delegation supported a hostile amendment to fully restore funding to impacted school districts as opposed to just the 66% restoration of funding that was approved.

Assemblyman Rumpf added, “Trenton is quick to cut funding to schools based on enrollment. So why are we not seeing a reduction in state spending when the number of inmates in the state has decreased? For most, this is beyond the pale but, like anything in Trenton, politics plays a decisive role.

“Consider: these are the inmates who were deemed too dangerous to be released during COVID. At the same time, students and dedicated educational professionals are still working hard to recover from the education setbacks caused by COVID and remote learning.

“I certainly respect Commissioner Kuhn as she is acting in the best interest of the Department. The Commissioner comprehensively responded to every question Budget Committee members asked during the hearing. Regardless, these indefensible funding policies that place inmates before students can be traced directly back to Governor Murphy.

“Future budget hearings will undoubtedly expose yet more objectionable and wasteful spending items in the proposed State Budget, based on the administration’s record to date. Along with Senator Connors and Assemblywoman Gove, I will continue to serve the best interests of our constituents by fighting for a responsible State Budget that sufficiently funds taxpayers’ core priorities, including tax relief and the fair distribution of school funding.”

Bill Would Stop Anti-Abortion Disinformation By Crisis Pregnancy Centers

WASHINGTON, D.C. – U.S. Senator Bob Menendez (D-N.J.) led a group of Senate colleagues in introducing the Stop Anti-Abortion Disinformation (SAD) Act that would ban false advertising related to abortion services by Crisis Pregnancy Centers. The bill directs the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) to prohibit deceptive or misleading advertising related to the provision of abortion services and collect penalties from organizations in violation. Each year, thousands of pregnant people seeking objective and medically sound reproductive health care end up walking into crisis pregnancy centers (CPCs), who falsely and deliberately advertise themselves as comprehensive reproductive health care providers, yet, their intent is to discourage pregnant people from having abortions.

“Reproductive rights remain under a coordinated assault by Republicans across the nation including the latest attempts to ban medication abortion, which is why it is so critical that we preserve access to trusted information and comprehensive reproductive health care services,” said Sen. Menendez. “Our

bicameral SAD Act, will direct the FTC to prohibit deceptive and misleading advertisements about abortion services by crisis pregnancy centers that jeopardize women’s health and well-being. It is time to crack down on these centers, stop their harmful and misleading tactics, and finally hold them accountable for their actions.”

CPCs routinely use a variety of deceptive tactics, including making false claims about reproductive health care and disseminating inaccurate, misleading, and stigmatizing information about abortion and contraception. Additionally, most CPCs in the United States do not employ licensed medical personnel or provide referrals for birth control or abortion care.

According to the Journal of Medical Internet Research (JMIR) Public Health and Surveillance, there are more than 2,500 CPCs in the United States, though some anti-abortion groups claim that the number is closer to 4,000. One study found that, on average, CPCs outnumber abortion clinics nationwide by an average of 3 to 1, but in some states, the ratio is as high as 11 to 1. According to published reports, New Jersey has 54 crisis pregnancy centers with at least one in every county.

The legislation is endorsed by Planned Parenthood Federation of America,

NARAL Pro-Choice America, American Public Health Association, Guttmacher Institute, Power to Decide, National Women’s Law Center, National Birth Equity Collaborative, National Organization for Women, National Women’s Health Network, Medical Students for Choice, Black Mamas Matter Alliance, National Health Law Program (NHeLP), IPAS Partners for Reproductive Justice, Physicians for Reproductive Health, National Council of Jewish Women, Latina Institute for Reproductive Justice, National Family Planning & Reproductive Health Association, Catholics for Choice, American Atheists, and National Council of Jewish Women New York.

“Everybody deserves to have access to accurate, comprehensive, and unbiased medical information to make personal decisions about their health and bodies,” said NARAL Pro-Choice America President Mini Timmaraju. “NARAL applauds Rep. Bonamici and Sen. Menendez’s leadership on the Stop Anti-Abortion Disinformation Act, which would help put an end to false advertising from fake health centers that intentionally lie to, shame,

and mislead pregnant people seeking an abortion in order to block them from accessing care. As we continue to face an abortion rights and access crisis, now is the time to fight for our freedom to access care and ensure that health information is accurate and unbiased.”

“Anti-abortion facilities cause chaos and confusion by using disinformation to mislead and deter people from getting the basic health care services they need and deserve,” said Alexis McGill Johnson, president and CEO of Planned Parenthood Federation of America. “Everyone should have medically accurate and unbiased information about their health care options.”

Local Centers

There are several crisis pregnancy centers in the area. The Open Door in Toms River has an entire web page explaining that they will give information about abortion, but at the bottom, in very fine print, it says “The Open Door does not perform or refer for abortions.”

Compare this to the Birthright locations in Toms River and Barnegat which don’t mention abortion at all.

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Summer In e Parks

LACEY – Lacey Recreation summer camp program provides children with the opportunity to build friendships and enjoy fun in the sun throughout this seven-week program. Activities will include: games, sports, arts & crafts, theme days, and parties. All of the activities are fully supervised by the Lacey Township Recreation Dept. Participants must be 5 years old before the program begins. A copy of your child’s birth certificate is required for new registration.

Camp Locations: Clune Park, Hebrew Park, Huffy Wallis Park. Camp Hours: Monday through Thursday, June 26 to August 10, 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. No camp July 4. Open to ages: 5 to13 years old.

Fee: $175 per child for the entire summer, includes four tee shirts and end of season party; $225 per child for all registration received on and after June 26. No exceptions!

Inclement Weather: camp is scheduled rain or shine and will be moved to Mill Pond Elementary School during times of inclement weather. If you are unsure

if camp will be moved each day you can call the Lacey Recreation Summer in the Parks Hotline at 609-693-1100 ext. 2202.

Camp operation updates will be provided on Facebook (@lacey.recreation) and through the Remind App.

Before Care: in an effort to provide a service for parents looking to make an early start to their day we are offering a before care for the summer day camp program. Each child must be registered for Summer in the Parks. Parents will drop children off at their registered park site at 7:45 a.m. Drop off: 7:45 to 8:45 a.m. Fee: $125. This fee is in addition to camp. The additional fee includes all seven weeks.

Friday Trips: in an effort to provide additional child care coverage for our parents, the Recreation Department will be offering extended bus trips on select Fridays. Busses will have a bathroom and air conditioning. All trips include transportation, admission fees and lunch. To register, visit parksrec.egov.basgov. com/laceynj.

Tuckerton Historical Society May 13 Presentation

from 2 to 4 p.m. at the Giffordtown Schoolhouse Museum, 35 Leitz Boulevard, Little Egg Harbor.

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Educational Rain Barrel Display

STAFFORD – Mayor Myhre and Township Council invite you all to stop by the Stafford Township Municipal Building to see the Rutgers Cooperative Extension of Ocean County’s educational rain barrel display and fact sheet! The display explains the benefits of using a rain barrel.

They would like to thank Dr. Steven Yergeau from the Rutgers Cooperative Extension of Ocean County for providing the Township with this display.

AmeriCorps NJ Watershed Ambassador Program

STAFFORD – Mayor Myhre and Township Council would like to invite you to join the AmeriCorps NJ Watershed Ambassador Program on May 18 at the Mill Creek Pavilion as they present the “Macroinvertebrates as Bioindicators or Stream Health”

Workshop.

This will be a hands-on, interactive event featuring specimens from the Mill Creek! Contact Rachel Giolitto at 609-597-1000 ext. 8509 or email rgiolitto@staffordnj.gov to register or for more information.

Monthly Bird Walks

BARNEGAT – Learn how Cloverdale Farm County Park’s bird population changes month by month. This informative twohour bird walk is perfect for all levels of birders. Please be prepared to walk a mile, wear comfortable sneakers or boots, dress

for the weather, and bring a pair of binoculars. If inclement weather, the program will be canceled.

No registration required. Open to ages 9 and up. Walks are from 8 to 10 a.m. Upcoming dates: May 6; June 3.

3rd Annual Car & Truck Show

LACEY – Sentimental Cruisers & The Rotary Club of Forked River 3rd Annual Car & Truck Show will be on May 20 from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. at Lacey High School, 73 Haines Street.

Music, trophies, food truck, ice cream

truck. Vehicle registration will open at 8 a.m. Pre-registration ends May 13. Dash Plaques to the fi rst 100 registered cars. All years makes and models welcome. Fun for the whole family! For more information visit: sentimentalcruisers.net.

Sta ord Township’s Green Team Green Fair

STAFFORD – Mayor Myhre and Township Council would like to invite you to Stafford Township’s Green Team Green Fair on July 11 from 10 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. at Heritage Park.

You will be able to learn more about sustainable and eco-friendly practices, products and services! For more information, call 609-597-1000 ext.8559 or email rbaldwin@staffordnj.gov.

Summer Kick-O Beach Camp re

LONG BEACH ISLAND – What a better way to kick off the summer season than on the beach in front of a campfi re? Enjoy the fi re, live music and marshmallows roasting as you watch the sun go down and listen to the waves lap the shoreline – all with Ole’ Barney as the backdrop.

Please bring a beach chair or blanket and some marshmallows and a stick.

Summer Kick-Off Beach Campfi re will be on June 24 from 7 to 9 p.m. at Barnegat Lighthouse State Park, Long Beach Island.

The lighthouse will be open if you are up for a climb! These programs are in cooperation with Barnegat Lighthouse State Park. Limited beach wheelchair access is available with advance 48-hour notice. Rain or shine. No registration is required.

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LACEY – The Associated Humane Society shelter at the Popcorn Park Zoo has pets available for adoption.

Cuddle-sisters Sally & Sierra are still looking for a great home. Have you met them yet? You’re going to love these two sweethearts! They’re about 7 years old and they arrived in December along with several other cats and they’ve had their paws wrapped around each other ever since! Sally (more white) appears to be on the shy side but all you have to do is pet her and the girl literally melts in your hands. She can’t

get enough attention! Sierra (more gray) is always up and about, looking to see what’s going on, so you’d assume that she’s the more outgoing of the pair but Sierra likes to hang back a bit and check you out, then once she sees that Sally is enjoying your attention, she lets loose a bit herself. The girls are super sweet, mellow and they don’t ask for much, except a home where they can stay together forever.

Call 609-693-1900, visit ahscares.org/ forked-river-adoptables/ or email: office@ ahsppz.org for an adoption application.

Discuss Autism, Childhood Development And Literacy

STAFFORD – The Ocean County Library Stafford Branch is pleased to present a discussion, “Autism, Early Childhood Development, and Early Literacy,” 6:30 p.m. May 10.

Members of the Center for Autism Research (CAR), Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia, will be joined by postdoctoral fellow Clare Polega and research psychologist Maya Mosner.

Participants will become informed about the facility, possible signs of autism or developmental delays, and early childhood development. A question-and-answer period will follow.

The Center for Autism Research coordinates study of autism spectrum disorder (ASD) and supports individuals with ASD and their families, aiming to develop effective treatments by identifying underlying causes.

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A Center of Emphasis since 2008, CAR has generated valuable discoveries in genetics and brain imaging, and continues to develop social skills-oriented autism interventions.

The presentation is part of OCL’s Mile-

LSTA 22 funds are awarded to library projects that address literacy needs including, but not limited to, early literacy, family literacy, adult literacy, digital literacy, and financial and English language learning activities. Awarded projects are designed to provide training or other literacy-focused support or activities for adults and/or children.

Funding for LSTA 22 grants is made possible by the Institute of Museum and Library Services, with the purpose of addressing literacy needs and supporting literacy projects across the state.

Register at theoceancountylibrary.org/ events to attend this free program. For more information, visit the Stafford Branch, 129 North Main Street, Manahawkin, or call 609-597-3381.

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Time-Travel rough Popular Music With Phil Bruschi At e Ocean County Library

TOMS RIVER – Tin Pan Alley, stage and screen soundtracks, teen idols, pop icons –Phil Bruschi’s performances will stir warm memories of timeless American popular songs and singers during the month of May at eight Ocean County Library branches.

• “The Unforgettable Nat ‘King’ Cole” – 2 p.m. May 1, Point Pleasant Boro Branch, 834 Beaver Dam Road, 732-295-1555. Recall the legendary singer’s warm baritone and rise to stardom through tunes such as Mona Lisa, Nature Boy, and more.

• “As Time Goes By: A Tribute to the Best Movie Songs” – 2 p.m. May 3, Upper Shores Branch, 112 Jersey City Avenue, Lavallette, 732-793-3996. Hear songs chosen as among the best by the American Film Institute, including Moon River, The Way We Were, and Over the Rainbow, and enjoy music trivia.

• Friends Adventure: “The Bobby Darin Story” – 2 p.m. May 5, Stafford Branch, 129 North Main Street, Manahawkin, 609-5973381. Discover Darin’s dynamic range of pop, rock, folk, and country, and learn how he conquered recordings, films, television, and nightclubs. Sponsored by the Friends of the Stafford Library.

• “Up Tempo: Big Band Standards” – 2 p.m. May 6, Long Beach Island Branch, 217 South Central Avenue, Surf City, 609-4942480. Revel in songs that thrilled everyone from bobbysoxers to teenyboppers, made famous by such as Frank Sinatra, Michael Bublé, Harry Connick, Jr., and many others.

• “Neil Diamond: Singer, Songwriter” –2 p.m. May 9, Barnegat Branch, 112 Burr Street, 609-698-3331. Explore more than 45 years in the life and art of the Brooklyn Baritone, performer and author songs that

have sold over 125 million copies worldwide, and whose concerts have drawn millions of fans.

• “Melodies of Bobby Vinton & Engelbert Humperdinck” – 2 p.m. May 13, Toms River Branch, 101 Washington Street, 732349-6200. Experience the successes and struggles of two of popular music’s most polished, romantic singers, and hear their triumphs including Blue Velvet, Mister Lonely, Release Me, The Last Waltz, and more.

• “I Wanna Be Around: The Talented Tony Bennett” – 2 p.m. May 16, Plumsted Branch, 119 Evergreen Road, New Egypt, 609-758-7888. Marvel at the rags-to-riches story and songs of the most indomitable talent in music, and follow his career arc from its heights in the ‘50s through its resurgence in the MTV generation.

• “The Day the Music Died” – 2 p.m. May 17, Point Pleasant Beach Branch, 710 McLean Avenue, 732-892-4575. Relive the glory years of artists taken from us too soon, including Buddy Holly, Richie Valens, the Big Bopper, Jim Croce, Harry Chapin, John Lennon, and Rick Nelson.

Known for decades as a multi-talented singing jazz and rock drummer, Phil moved to center stage with a unique style of tunes and tales known as “Edu-tain-Ment.” He has taught at the University of North Carolina and remains involved in continuing education. Fans old and new stay current with Phil through his website, YouTube catalog, and Facebook.

Register at theoceancountylibrary.org/ events to attend any of these free programs. For more information, visit any participating Library branch, or call 732-349-6200.

Chef Shows Tips For Meals And Snacks

TOMS RIVER – Expand your recipe binder with simple, economical and nutritious meal ideas from restauranteur Devon Smith, the host of “Tasty Meals for One or Two” at three Ocean County Library branches during the month of May.

• Point Pleasant Beach Branch - 710 McLean Avenue, 732-892-4575, 2 p.m. May 4

• Upper Shores Branch – 112 Jersey City Avenue, Lavallette, 732-793-3996, 2 p.m.

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• Lacey Branch - 10 East Lacey Road, Forked River, 609-693-8566, 2 p.m. May 31

Join for live cooking demonstrations

by the proprietor of Devon’s Kitchen in Sea Girt. She’ll share budget-minded ways to use seasonal herbs and produce for nourishing intimate meals and sensational snacks, which she also features on Facebook.

Bring your appetite, sample savory creations, and leave empowered and inspired to try them yourself at home. Some ingredients might contain potential allergens. Register at theoceancountylibrary.org/ events to attend any of these free programs, sponsored by the Ocean County Library Senior Services Department. For more information, visit any participating branch, or call 732-349-6200.

The Manchester Times welcomes your special announcements! Engagements, Weddings, Births, Birthday Wishes, etc. Please call 732-657-7344 for more details!

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currently detained in Ocean County Jail, awaiting trial on charges of both child endangerment and murder. Conrad said that Corey’s suffering and death could have been avoided had DCPP acted appropriately in the child’s best interests.

While many cases against the state agency come with challenges, Conrad said the circumstances leading to Corey’s death are particularly disturbing.

“We have to prove that the conduct was palpably unreasonable,” shared Conrad. “We have no doubt that we will be able to

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Natalia’s first paycheck provided her with yet another tax lesson. She was surprised by the difference in her wages after requisite deductions.

One of the best parts of Natalia and her

prove by a preponderance of the evidence that the inactions or the half-actions of DCPP in failing to respond promptly and fully to repeated complaints of abuse is shocking to the conscience.”

“Frankly, one of the things we are looking for as Justice for Corey,” Conrad continued. “Is also to make sure that this doesn’t happen to another child.”

Court papers allege that DCPP had actual notice of a number of incidents, beginning in or before September of 2019, through April of 2020, through March 20, 2021, and up until Corey’s death on April 2, 2021. At least one of the incidents is documented on a video, which authorities claim depicts

parents coming to the United States has been the opportunity to reunite with Andrii and meet his wife and children. It had been seven long years since they were altogether, and everyone was eager to make up for lost time.

The integration of customs turned out to be easy. Mallory is a second-generation Ukrainian American and grew up with some Ukrainian culture. Her in-laws brought

Gregor abusing Corey in the gym of an apartment complex in Barnegat.

According to Conrad, Corey’s tragic death could have been avoided had it not been for the egregious conduct of the agency charged to look out for his welfare. The attorney said the claim filed on Corey’s behalf was for the suffering he went through before his death.

“Corey sustained continued verbal, emotional and physical abuse before he passed,” said Conrad. “That’s not to be forgotten. We cannot lose focus on the fact that Corey suffered and for a long time, and that there is no excuse.”

The wrongful death portion of the lawsuit seeks to recover damages for the losses suf-

with them foods and tradition that reminded Mallory of time with her own grandmother.

Most recently, the family enjoyed decorating pysanky eggs in preparation for Easter.

Pysanky are Ukrainian Easter eggs that use a special method to create beautiful designs that are resistant to the dye.

After attending Easter mass at St. Stephen’s Ukrainian Catholic Church in Toms River,

fered by Corey’s estate and the people he left behind. Breanna and Corey’s grandmother, Rebecca, have both suffered devastating losses as a result of Corey’s death.

As part of the legal process, Breanna had to give Christopher Gregor notice of her intentions to act as the representative of Corey’s estate. An attorney representing Corey’s paternal grandfather, David Gregor filed an objection and asked that he be named instead.

Conrad said the court ruled against the grandfather, saying there was a clear conflict of interest.

No trial date has been set in the criminal case, although a new status conference is scheduled for May 30, 2023.

the family returned home to a delicious meal laden with traditional dishes. They ate and talked and laughed, savoring every moment together.

Natalia is grateful to be in the United States, but admits she misses her friends and family back home in Ukraine. Uzhhorod is seven hours ahead of Stafford timewise, so it can be difficult to figure out when to call or message them.

There is no doubt that Natalia holds strong sentiments towards her homeland. She firmly believes in Ukraine’s ability to emerge victorious in the war and takes immense pride in both her roots and her fellow countrymen.

“The home is in your head and my head,” reminded Natalia. “Home is best.”

Whether Natalia is in Stafford or Uzhhorod, she knows she’s home. After all, her father said it – home is best.

Creative Kids: Art

LACEY – Students engage in Drawing, Painting & Sculpture through creative projects that stimulate imagination and helps develop important techniques and observational skills. Diverse Projects draw examples from important Artists, style, and works from around the world.

Location: Lacey Recreation Classroom; Instructor: Diane Salkeld; Time: 4 to 5 p.m. Age: 8 to 11. Fee: $70.

Session 2: May 1, 8, 15, 22, June 5, 12. Register by contacting Lacey Recreation at 609-693-1100 ext. 2203 or lacey.recreation@laceytownship.org.

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Snakes, Lizards, Turtles, Tortoises & Crocodiles – Oh, My!

Retired New Jersey State Licensed Wildlife Rehabilitator

What is a reptile? Cold-blooded, air-breathing vertebrates (animals having a backbone/spinal column). The environmental temperature influences their metabolism. While mammals and birds can maintain their body temperature, reptiles rely upon the environment. This reference is known as ectothermic. To cool off or warm up, these creatures need to fi nd shaded areas, for instance, or sunny, warm areas. Unlike birds and mammals, including humans, with feathers for insulation, possessing sweat glands, or the ability to pant, all are contributing to the regulation of body temperature. The term for this is endothermic. Some differences between reptiles and other animals – possessing tough, hard scales as another layer of their skin, aids in the prevention of water loss. At the same time this protects them from predators and heat generated from the sun. Snakes and lizards get their sense of smell by using their tongue.

The most dangerous reptiles are venomous snakes – and are responsible for the most reptile-related deaths in the world. The existence of reptiles goes as far back as approximately 350 million years. Tortoises are the longest living species in the world, with the oldest land animal alive today, an Aldabra tortoise, Jonathan, who is 189 years of age.

Chameleons will change color for a variety

Police Alert

Residents To Lock

Cars A er Recent Burglaries

The Stafford Township Police Department is warning all residents to lock their vehicles due to recent car burglaries in the area.

Both incidents occurred on April 15 in the Ocean Acres section of Manahawkin. Police said unknown suspect(s) smashed out the passenger side window of the cars and stole a purse. One car was parked on Sloop Road, near Nautilus Park. The second was parked in the lot of the Manahawkin Lake Park.

Anyone that can provide additional information related to these incidents is asked to contact Detective John Reed at 609-5971000 ext. 8471 or Jreed@staffordpolice.org.

Stafford Township Police would like to remind residents of the following safety measures to reduce your chances of becoming a victim to these crimes:

• Lock your vehicle and close all windows

• Remove all valuable belongings from your vehicle

• For valuables that must remain in the vehicle, hide these items in the glove compartment or trunk

• Report all suspicious activity to the dispatch center, 609-597-8581

of reasons, for example, stress, camouflage, and communication. Their usual color is green or brown, but their color can change quickly to patterns of red, yellow, purple, black, orange, and blue. There is little known about how they can change color, but this trait can be the reason for their success in evading predators while their color blends with the environment, making

them difficult to spot.

As reptiles grow, they will shed their scales. During that process, a temporary loss of appetite, sluggishness, or shyness, might occur. Reptiles eat different foods, some are pure carnivores, as is true of snakes and crocodilians. Whereas turtles and tortoises are omnivores and herbivores. Lizards prefer insects and vegetation.

I gathered the information for this article from multiple sources so statistics may vary slightly. To reach me please call 732244-2768.

It’s illegal to possess, relocate, or cause harm to wildlife for any reason. Managing wildlife without the proper state/federal permits is illegal. Violating laws protecting wildlife, are punishable by law.

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Dr. Izzy’s

Sound News

Improved Hearing For A Healthy Mind

Did you know that better hearing might be a key to better brain health? A growing body of research ties hearing loss to cognitive-decline problems such as dementia. So, let’s take a look at the connections and the importance of regular hearing care.

Both dementia and hearing loss are on the rise. An estimated 55 million people live with dementia, per the World Health Organization, which predicts the rate will reach 139 million in 2025. Hearing loss, estimated at over 1.5 billion youth and adults worldwide, could climb to over 2.5 billion people by 2050.

Older adults with more severe forms of hearing loss have a significantly higher risk of dementia, according to a Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health-led study released this year. Researchers uncovered a 61% greater prevalence of dementia compared to those with normal hearing.

The study adds to ever-increasing reports on links between hearing loss and significant dementia risk. It stands apart from some other investigations by having relied not only on in-clinic data but also home-based information — including testing and interviews — comprising a more nationally representative popula-

tion across a 65-plus age group.

Like a rising number of studies, the fi ndings also showed potential benefits of better hearing in curbing the dementia threat. According to the investigators, hearing aid use was associated with a 32% lower prevalence of dementia among those with moderate or severe hearing loss.

It’s not quite conclusive that hearing aids prevent or reverse dementia — future research will continue to probe the issue. But it looks promising. In an online report, the investigation’s lead author stated, “This study refines what we’ve observed about the link between hearing loss and dementia and builds support for public health action to improve hearing care access.”

What can you do? Staying sharp and engaged is easier than you think and starts with regular hearing screenings. Whether your hearing seems to be changing or it’s simply been a while since your last checkup, contact our caring team for an evaluation today!

Dr. Izzy & his Staff are always here to answer your important hearing care questions. Please contact us today at 732-818-3610 (Toms River/Whiting) or 609-978-8946 (Manahawkin) or visit us at www.gardenstatehearing.com.

His offices are in Toms River, Whiting, and Manahawkin. He can be reached at 732-276-1011 or via Web site at gardenstatehearing.com. Dr. Izzy & Staff gives Retirement Community Talks!

Awaken Memories With Music Looking To Aid Dementia Patients

STAFFORD - We all have favorite songs that instantly transport us back to special times in our lives. Music is one of the most effective tools to enhance the lives of patients with dementia.

Even patients with advanced dementia benefit from listening to the old familiar songs they loved. They come to life and many speak for the first time in months or years.

The Stafford Township Recreation Department’s Awaken Memories With Music project is looking for donations of Ipods, MP3 players, over-the-ear headphones, device chargers and ITunes cards to kick off a community effort to get music into the lives of our neighbors with dementia.

With the help of caregivers, volunteers

will personalize each device with a patient’s favorite songs. The players are then given to the patients to keep and enjoy the benefits every day.

Players can be dropped off at the following locations:

• The Recreation Office at Town Hall, 260 East Bay Ave.

• The Bay Ave.Community Center, 775 East Bay Avenue

• The Pine Street Recreation Building, 25 Pine St.

For more information, call Deb Budesa at 609-597-1000 Ext. 8583

The mission of the Stafford Township Recreation Department is to fulfill the recreational needs of the community and to develop a variety of quality programs that fit and address these needs.

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Dear Pharmacist

Popular Prescriptions: A Countdown Of The Top 10 Medications

Medication usage in America plays a vital role in managing and treating various health conditions, ranging from chronic illnesses such as hypertension and diabetes to acute conditions like infections and pain.

The United States is one of the largest consumers of prescription medications worldwide! As the demand grows, it’s important to understand the most commonly prescribed medications because it sheds light on what diseases are prominent. Right now, allow me to unveil a countdown of the top 10 medications prescribed in America!

#10. Hydrochlorothiazide or HCTZ (Microzide®) - used to treat hypertension and edema. When to take: Morning so you can avoid excessive urination at night. Common dosages: 12.5, 25, or 50 mg daily. Top 3 reported side effects: Dizziness, electrolyte imbalances (e.g., low potassium), and increased sensitivity to sunlight

#9. Albuterol (ProAir®, Ventolin®) - used to treat asthma. When to take: As needed for symptoms, up to every 4-6 hours. Common dosages: 1-2 puffs of an inhaler. Top 3 reported side effects: Tremors, nervousness, and increased heart rate.

#8. Losartan (Cozaar®) - used to treat hypertension. When to take: Anytime, just be consistent. Common dosages: 25, 50, or 100 mg daily. Top 3 reported side effects: Dizziness, cold/flu symptoms, and back pain.

#7. Simvastatin (Zocor®) - used to lower cholesterol. When to take: Evening. Common dosages: 5, 10, 20, 40, or 80 mg daily. Top 3 reported side effects: Headache, muscle pain, and GI issues.

#6. Omeprazole (Prilosec®) - used to treat gastroesophageal reflux disease (GERD). When to take: Morning, before a meal. Com-

mon dosages: 10, 20, or 40 mg daily. Top 3 reported side effects: Headache, abdominal pain, and diarrhea.

#5. Amlodipine (Norvasc®) - used to treat hypertension and angina. When to take: Anytime, just be consistent. Common dosages: 2.5, 5, or 10 mg daily. Top 3 reported side effects: Swelling in the ankles or feet, dizziness, and flushing.

#4. Metformin (Glucophage®) - used to treat type 2 diabetes. When to take: With meals to minimize gastrointestinal side effects. Common dosages: 500 to 2000 mg daily, divided into 2-3 doses. Top 3 reported side effects: Nausea, diarrhea, metallic taste, and headache.

#3. Lisinopril (Prinivil®, Zestril®) - used to treat hypertension and heart failure. When to take: Anytime, just be consistent. Common dosages: 5, 10, 20, or 40 mg daily. Top 3 reported side effects: Dizziness, headache, and dry cough.

#2. Levothyroxine (Synthroid®) - used to treat hypothyroidism. When to take: Morning, on an empty stomach, at least 30 minutes before breakfast. Common dosages: Varies but typically between 25 and 200 mcg daily. Top 3 reported side effects: Increased heart rate, weight loss, and heat intolerance.

#1. Atorvastatin (Lipitor®) - used to lower cholesterol. When to take: Evening. Common dosages: 10, 20, 40, or 80 mg daily. Top 3 reported side effects: Headache, muscle pain, and GI issues.

As you can see, the top 10 medications are quite revealing. Also, I wonder if some of these have greater awareness due to being sold over-the-counter (omeprazole), or because they had television commercials airing for years. Either way, there you have it, the top 10 drugs in America.

(This information is not intended to treat, cure or diagnose your condition. Suzy Cohen is the author of “The 24-Hour Pharmacist” and “Real Solutions.” For more information, visit www.SuzyCohen.com) ©2022 SUZY COHEN, RPH. DISTRIBUTED BY DEAR PHARMACIST, INC.

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OHI Achieves Patient-Centered Medical Home Recognition For All 7 Sites

NEW JERSEY – OHI is extremely proud to announce that all of our sites have once again been recognized by the National Committee for Quality Assurance (NCQA) as a Patient-Centered Medical Home (PCMH).

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, “the patient-centered medical home (PCMH) model is an approach to delivering high-quality, cost-effective primary care. Using a patient-centered, culturally appropriate, and team-based approach, the PCMH model coordinates patient care across the health system. The PCMH model has been associated with effective chronic disease management, increased patient and provider satisfaction, cost savings, improved quality of care, and increased preventive care.”

At OHI, we put this model into practice by assessing the needs of a patient on a holistic basis, not simply by the ailment that they walk through our doors with. By encouraging collaboration between our departments and championing general wellness in addition to specific points of care, OHI patients can expect to receive services that benefit both their long-term health and their confidence in the healthcare system.

We have assembled a team of highly skilled and compassionate professionals from physicians and physician assistants to pharmacists, nutritionists, dentists, midwives, social workers, care coordinators, and many others that engage with all aspects of a patient’s health. Working together, we can address the myriad healthcare concerns of a given patient with respect to their unique needs, culture, values, and preferences.

In this respect, we like to call ourselves a ‘one-stop shop’ for any and all health concerns. In addition, OHI collaborates with the broader health care system, including hospitals and specialty care centers, to ensure communication between patients and their various care providers.

OHI is committed to providing the highest quality care to all, regardless of who they are, where they come from, or their ability to pay. We aim to make our services accessible to as many people as we can by limiting the barriers that prevent our patients from receiving the care they need.

The PCMH model has been proven to yield better health outcomes over time. In adopting this model and being officially recognized as a PCMH, OHI is proud to demonstrate its commitment to forging a healthy and happy community for all.

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Memorial Day is rapidly approaching and soon our Jersey Shore beaches will be fi lled to the brim with locals and tourists soaking up the sun, sand and surf. Call this photo the “calm before the storm.” Local resident Evelyn DiGeronimo took this magnificent photo with the dunes in the foreground. Makes you want to grab a lounge chair, hm? If you would like to share your pictures with our readers, email photos@jerseyshoreonline.com and you may win a prize! OCEAN COUNTY – Are you troubled by someone else’s drinking? Al-Anon Family Groups may be able to help you. Call their 24-hour hotline for local meeting locations at 888-944-5678.

When Is An Equal Distribution In A Will Fair?

Many times when I am drafting a Last Will and Testament for parents, they will tell me that they want to be fair and are leaving all of their assets equally among their children. Many people believe that this is the “fair” way to handle their assets. But is it always “fair”?

Several years ago, I had an instance where a mother (the surviving parent) met with me and told me that she wanted to leave all of her assets in equal shares to her two sons. Seems “fair” right? Maybe... After she passed away, the older of the two sons (the Executor of the Will) met with me and told the following to me: When the older son graduated high school, he joined the military, then went and learned to be an electrician, eventually owning his own electrical contracting business. He never sought a penny from his parents after he graduated high school. The younger son went to college, got a degree in ancient Mayan Art, could not fi nd a job and then went back for a Masters Degree in ancient Mayan Art, all at his parent’s expense. He never found a steady job and lived at home with his parents who continue to pay for all of his expenses, bought him cars, and never charged him room and board for over 30 years. Basically, his parents depleted their estates supporting a son who never went out on his own. The Executor then asked me if I thought an equal distribution of the remaining assets in the estate between him and his younger brother was “fair”. My response was what I thought was not

relevant; it was what his mother thought and obviously she thought the equal distribution was “fair”.

In another instance, a father wanted to leave his estate solely to his son who did not have a well-paying job and exclude his daughter who ran her own business and made more money in a year than the father made in his entire life. Was that “fair”? Dad seem to think so…at that time. Several years later he came back and changed his Will because his daughter’s business had failed and now she could not find a new job. Was that “fair”?

These scenarios have played out numerous times in my will drafting career. Sometimes a parent will give money to one child during their life and not to the other children. Sometimes a child will give a higher level of care to the parent than the other children. Maybe one child, for reasons beyond their control, may have greater needs than the other children. As you can see, “equal” is not always “fair”. What is important is that when you are making out a Will, you consider whether an equal distribution is “fair” under the circumstances in your life.

Please contact R.C. Shea & Associates, Attorneys at Law, for all your legal needs. 732-505-1212.

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Estate Sale

Estate sale April 29 10-3 at 2 Lilac Springs Court, Lakewood in Four Seasons. Beautiful furniture, clothing, decor, curtains, kitchenware, etc. Accepting cash only. (20)

Items For Sale

All 4 appliances - Range, refridgerator, washing machine, dryer; all in working order. $300 for all. 732-569-3174. (21)

Items Wanted

COSTUME/ESTATE JEW -

ELRY Looking to buy costume/ estate jewelry, old rosaries and religious medals, all watches and any type of sterling silver, bowls, flatware candlesticks or jewelry. Same day house calls and cash on the spot. 5 percent more with this AD. Call Peggy at 732-581-5225. (t/n)

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Jewelry and watches, costume jewelry, sterling silver, silverplate, medals, military items, antiques, musical instruments, pottery, fine art, photographs, paintings, statues, old coins, vintage toys and dolls, rugs, old pens and postcards, clocks, furniture, brica-brac, select china and crystal patterns. Cash paid. Over 35 years experience. Call Gary Struncius. 732-364-7580. (t/n)

Vinyl Records Wanted - Paying cash for LP albums. Rock, Blues, Reggae, Soul. Very good condition only. Call Rick 908-616-7104. (21)

Junk or Wrecked Cars and Trucks

Wanted - Cash paid. 732-6577251, Steve. Thanks. (22)

Ca$h Paid For Old 45 RPM

Records. - R&B, doo wop, soul, early rock & roll, and rockabilly preferred. Call between 8AM and 8PM 909-938-4623. (20)

CASH, CASH, CASH! - Instant cash paid for junk cars, trucks, vans. Free removal of any metal items. Discount towing. Call Dano 732-239-3949. (t/n)

Don't pawn your coins - Call me first. I pay more. Old coins, currency. Will cash in your change. Chris 848-210-7372. (23)

Entire Estates Bought - Bedroom/dining sets, dressers, cedar chests, wardrobes, secretaries, pre-1950 wooden furniture, older glassware, oriental rugs, paintings, bronzes, silver, bric-a-brac. Call Jason at 609-970-4806. (t/n)

CASH PAID!! LP records - stereos, turntables, musical instru-ments, guitar, saxophone, CD’s, reel tapes, music related items. Come to you. 732-804-8115. (30)

Used Guns Wanted - All types: collectibles, military, etc. Call 917-681-6809. (t/n)

Cash - Top dollar, paid for junk, cars running and nonrunning, late model salvage, cars and trucks, etc. 732-928-3713. (t/n)

Cash Paid! - For LP Records, reel to reels, 45/33. Travel to you or meet. We pick-up the phone, Eddie 732-829-5908. (20)

CLASSIFIEDS

Help Wanted

Weekend Receptionist - Magnolia Gardens Family owned and operated Assisted living community looking to fill weekend receptionist position. All positions start at $15.00 an hour. For more information call 732-557-6500 or come to our home and fill out an application at 1935 Lakewood Road, Toms River 08755. (22)

LBI NJ Sober live-in companion - 5 week days. Compensation 1750., R&B near ocean. Drive to therapy, check meds & no access to substances. References. swpubrel@gmail.com. (21)

Laundromat Attendant - For FT/ PT Good communication skills, math and min computer knowledge. Transportation needed. Long term commitment only. 732-286-1863. (t/n)

Seeking Responsible Individual With Good Phone Skills - Experience In Hvac & Permits A Plus. Filing/Answering Phones/Sched-

Parts/

Great Work

$15/Hour 7:30 a.m. - 4:30 p.m. Monday-Friday. Paid Holidays. Call Care Temp Heating & AC at 732-349-1448 Or Fax Resume To 732-349-6448. (t/n)

OCVTS Part Time Administrative Assistant - Monday-Friday 8 a.m. - 1 p.m. $14.13 p/hour. Send resume to: mgritschke@mail.ocvts.org. (t/n)

Certified Aides - Full time, Per Diem, Weekends, Magnolia Gardens Family owned and operated Assisted living community looking to fill nursing, and medical aide positions. All positions start at $15.00 an hour. For more information call 732-557-6500 or come to our home and fill out an application at 1935 Lakewood Road, Toms River 08755. (22)

Full/Part Time Dietary Aid - Magnolia Gardens Assisted Living Family owned and operated Assisted living community looking to fill positions for Full time and part time, Dietary aids. All positions start at $15.00 an hour. For more information call 732557-6500 or come to our home and fill out an application at 1935 Lakewood Road, Toms River 08755. (22)

Home Health Care Aide - Needed for sweet elderly woman. Light transfer a must. Dressing. Simple meal prep. Holiday City. 609-349-0937. (21)

Industrial Designer (Job #: ID0307)

- Sought by Jool Products LLC d.b.a. Jool Baby in Lakewood, NJ: Rsrch mkt to discover consumer needs & trends. Generate ideas for parenting products & baby gear items; sketch new dsgns; create products CAD models, renderings, & iterations, & visualize different dsgns until products are dvlpd to ready for production. Utilize 3D printing & prototyping methods to test dsgns. Work w/ other specialists, such as mechanical engineers, safety consultants, & graphic dsgnrs to evaluate dsgn concepts & achieve projects. Communicate w/ mftrs & keep projects on track. Understand mfg processes & materials to examine production costs. Reqs: Bachelor's in Industrial Design or rel fld; Knwl of using CAD building, Rendering, & Graphic s/ware such as Rhino, Solidworks, Keyshot, Photoshop, & Illustrator. Apply, mail CV w/ Job# to Joshua Ma, PO Box 1273, Lakewood, NJ 08701. (20)

Housing Office - Looking for an Administrative Assistant to work up to 30 hours a week. No Benefits offered. Must be proficient in Word and have excellent computer knowledge. Position requires answering phones, scheduling and typing. Must be detail oriented, organized and can work independently. Provide a resume with 2 references. FAX to 732-269-7709 or email to arlene@ berkeleytwphousing.org. (21)

Services

Build • Repair • Replace - Affordable • Expert Workmanship. Carpentry, windows, doors, trim, tile, bathrooms, kitchens, masonry, flooring, decks, advanced building. 609-384-9030. (21)

Absolute best home improvements!"Building the shore since 1984" Additions, carpentry, windows & doors, roofing & siding, painting & staining, flooring, kitchens & baths, finished basements, masonry, fencing, custom decks, fully insured, license #13VH11804800. $ave. Call Brien 732-850-5060. (28)

Roofing Repairs Etc. - Roofing, siding, windows. Repairs on small jobs. Utility shed roofs replaced. Prompt service. Insured. Gutters cleaned. Call Joe Wingate 551-804-7391. (19)

Computer Tutoring for Seniors – Retired, “Microsoft Certified” instructor. Very Reasonable rates. Very patient with slow learners. I’ll teach you in the comfort of your home on your computer.

I can trouble shoot your slow computer!

I also teach iPhone and iPad. I set up new computers at less than half the price the retailers charge. Windows 10 specialist. I can also build a beautiful small business website at a fraction of the going rates. Special Projects always welcome! Tony 732-997-8192. (t/n)

Certified Home Health Aides - Needed for Ocean County area. Hourly and live-in positions avail. P/T and F/T. Call CCC at 732-206-1047. (t/n)

A+ CLEANING SERVICEHomes, Offices, AIR BnB, Summer Rentals, Expert in Senior Villages. Reliable, references. Free Estimates. Call Barbara 732-948-4730. (20)

Car Service - 24/7. Doctors, shopping, airports, hospitals, cruise, shops, Atlantic City, family functions, NYC accomodations for large groups. Call for reasonable rates. Kerry 732-606-2725. (42)

ALL American Home Health AidesExperienced experts in the field of trauma and recovery. Holistic approach to healing-nutrition, physical therapy, and quality of life improvements. Hourly or live in. Honest, hardworking, etc. Includes housekeeping, rides to doctors/pleasure. Skip the rest, come to the best. 732-664-3605. (t/n)

LANDSCAPING - Restorations, Repairs, Stones, Mulch, Sod Installs, Hedges, Shrubs, Bushes, Downed Branches Trimmed & Removed, Demolition, Cleanouts, ect., Dumpster service provided by A901 Licensed Hauler ect. MAN WITH VAN LLC. Jim 609-335-0330 HIC# 13vh10806000. NO JOB TOO SMALL! (20)

Garden Advisory: Experienced (Master) Gardener - Assists homeowners with garden planning & design, plant care advice, plant selection & replacement recommendations, container gardens, soil testing. 732-232-8144. (21)

Housecleaning, Painting, Shopping, - Laundry, window cleaning, also we do typing services and run errends for you and also help paperwork. Very good prices. Call 732-7735078 or 848-287-3944. (21)

Nor’easter Painting and Staining, LLC - Interior and exterior. Decks, powerwashing. Affordable. Senior discounts. References. No job too small. Fully insured. 732-6910123. Lic #13VH09460600. (19)

APlus Home Improvements - Over 30 years experience. Everything from small handyman tasks to large renovations, decks, finished basements and much more. Lic #13VH11453600. No job too small give us a call. 908-278-1322. (52)

Services Services Services

Handyman Service - Carpentry, masonry, painting repairs large and small. 40 years experience. Call Jim 732-674-3346. (39)

Prepare for power outages today with a GENERAC home standby generator $0 Money Down + Low Monthly Payment Options Request a FREE Quote. Call now before the next power outage: 1-833-901-0309. (t/n)

Don’t let the stairs limit your mobility! Discover the ideal solution for anyone who struggles on the stairs, is concerned about a fall or wants to regain access to their entire home. Call AmeriGlide today! 1-855-634-0529. (t/n)

VFW Post 100092 - Barnegat, NJ 08005. Coffee - donuts every Wednesday 9 a.m. to 12 noon. Meeting 2nd Thursday1800-2000 hours each month. Looking for new members, call 609-698-4120. (21)

Since 1979, Kitchen Magic, a family-owned business offering cabinet refacing, new cabinetry, and luxury countertop throughout the Northeast. We transform kitchens in less time, with less stress, at an amazing value. Call today for a free estimate 1-844-367-2477. (t/n)

Bobs Waterproofing - Basement and crawlspace waterproofing. Mold testing, removal and prevention. Family owned. Fully licensed and insured. Call Bob 732-616-5007. (t/n)

Male Care Assistant/Caregiver

Assistance - With all of your needs excluding hygiene. All daily routines including; Meal preparation, light housekeeping, medication reminders, safety monitoring, transportation, errands, Etc. Also assisting individuals with mild to moderate dementia and those on palliative and hospice care. 732-664-2833. (18)

ESTATE CLEANOUTS -

Properties, Houses, Attics, Garages, Sheds, Storage Units, ect. Handyman Disposal provided 901a Dumpster Service LLC. Licensed, Insured, call or text Jim 609-335-0330. (27)

MASONARY REPAIR - Sidewalks, steps, driveways, pavers. For free estimate call 732-5896798, 848-210-2716. (20)

CHEAP PAINTING Done RITEFree est. Senior discounts interior exterior. Call 732-506-7787, cell 646-643-7678. (28)

Learn To Play The - Flute, clarinet, saxophone, trumpet, trombone, or drums from a NJ State Certified Teacher of instrumental music, in your home! Call 732-3504427 for more information. (21)

C.B.J. ROOFING - Covering the jersey shore since 1984. All work guaranteed. We will beat ANY legitimate estimate. $ave. Call 732-850-5060. (20)

PQ Painting & Home Improvement Services - Over 5 decades of service in NJ. Visit us online at pqpaintingservice.com . Winner of Angie’s List Super Service Award. Free estimates, reasonable rates, fully licensed and insured NJ Lic #13VH06752800. Call 732500-3063 or 609-356-2444. (t/n)

Become a Published Author. We want to Read Your Book! Dorrance Publishing-Trusted by Authors Since 1920. Book manuscript submissions currently being reviewed. Comprehensive Services: Consultation, Production, Promotion and Distribution. Call for Your Free Author`s Guide 1-877-791-2033 or visit dorranceinfo.com/micro. (t/n)

MY HANDY CREW - Home repairs, carpentry, painting roofing and siding, decks, powerwashing, yardwor,k all your home maintenance needs. $ave. Call Clark 732-850-5060. Insured and NJ License #13VH11804800. (46)

THE RIDE GUY - Takes you anywhere! No limits. Comfy mini-van. Call Charlie 732-216-3176 or Email: cr@exit109. com. References. Let's Go! (19)

DIRECTV. New 2-Year Price Guarantee. The most live MLB games this season, 200+ channels and over 45,000 on-demand titles. $84.99/mo for 24 months with CHOICE Package. Some restrictions apply. Call DIRECTV 1-877-557-1213 (t/n)

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TRENTON – In recognition of National Adopt a Shelter Pet Day on April 30, the New Jersey Department of Health (NJDOH) is organizing an Adopt a Shelter Pet Day initiative in New Jersey and encouraging licensed animal shelters and pounds across the state to participate by holding events to help pets in their care fi nd their

Adopt A Shelter Pet Day

new home. All participating shelters will waive adoption fees during these events.

“New Jersey Adopt a Shelter Pet Day is a great reminder to residents that many loving animals of all ages are available at their local shelters and pounds and in need of a good home,” said Health Commissioner Judith Persichilli. “There are many health

benefits of pet ownership, including regular exercise, and pets also provide companionship.”

NJDOH’s goal in organizing an Adopt a Shelter Pet Day initiative in our state aims to help reduce capacity at many of these facilities and to help fi nd forever families for more animals. Some New Jersey shel-

ters and pounds are currently at or above capacity, which limits the space available for other animals in need and increases the burden of care on the animal facilities.

“Animal shelters in New Jersey provide important public health services to the animals and people of New Jersey every day by

(Shelter - See Page 21)

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10 Beginning on 14 Vonnegut literary device

15 Old-fashioned leaves?

16 Polynesian beverage

17 Comic-Con attendees

18 Happy 20 Self-declared republic in Ukraine

22 Breakfast on the go, perhaps

23 No real friend

24 Shop __ you drop

26 Lacked alternatives

27 Blue Jays, in crawls

29 Omega, to an electrician

32 Bass appendage

33 Residential cliche

37 How a close race may go

38 It gets last licks

39 “__ dreaming?”

40 Ad trailer?

41 Rival sch. of Duke

42 What closers often open, with “the”

45 Cool

47 Some fancy sheepskin boots

51 Make an impression on?

54 It helps a mouse communicate

56 Candy in a roll

58 Difficult high school sci. course

59 Subj. for Janet Yellen

60 Pixar clownfish

61 Latin lover’s declaration

62 Pointed missile

63 Fangorn Forest creatures

64 Barely avoided tying

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2 Two-wafer snacks

3 Mezzo Marilyn

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9 Bone on a menu

10 Husky relative

11 Piece of silver

12 Extended work period

13 Bit of deceit

19 Letters on a dashboard

21 Period of time

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37 Caribbean island country

38 Like some office walls

43 16th-century council setting

44 Attacks, with “at”

46 Mark replacements

48 Evacuee’s emergency kit

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52 Windmill part

53 Tied up

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Continued From Page 19 caring for stray and surrendered animals.” said Darby McDermott, DVM, MPH, the NJ State Public Health Veterinarian, NJDOH. “There are many dogs and cats of all sizes and ages in New Jersey shelters to meet the unique needs of families. Contact your local animal shelter to fi nd the perfect fit for your family, or to explore foster and volunteer opportunities that may be available at the shelter.”

National Adopt a Shelter Pet Day helps to raise awareness of the millions of pets in shelters nationwide. According to the American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals (ASPCA), approximate-

ly 6.3 million animals enter shelters each year – 3.1 million dogs and 3.2 million cats. Of these, approximately 4.1 million animals are adopted annually.

Studies have shown that the bond between people and pets is linked to several health benefits, according to the federal Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), such as improved heart health, decreased stress, loneliness and anxiety, as well as increased opportunities for exercise and being outdoors.

A list of participating New Jersey shelters can be at the Health Department’s website. Events are taking place April 28 to 30. Individuals should check with local shelters and pounds in their area for other adoption options.

Press Broadcasting Raises $1.4 Million For St. Jude’s Hospital

NEW JERSEY – Thunder 106, a Press Broadcasting affiliate, just completed their annual “Country Cares for St. Jude Kids Radiothon” presented by Irwin Lincoln and Irwin Mazda of Freehold raising $198,300 and pushing their total 11-year contribution to nearly $1,400,000. St. Jude’s is the leader in cancer care, research, and treatment for children. Families never receive a bill for treatment and all travel, housing and/or food costs are paid by St. Jude’s.

Mike Ryan, Director of Programming for Thunder 106, started his 106-mile Jersey Shore walk on April 12 sponsored by Monmouth Park Racetrack to help raise awareness and donations.

“I would like to make it Nashville to Memphis someday,” he said. “I’d like to have artists walk along the way and hopefully all the stations in Country Cares could participate. Maybe a concert in Memphis. Nashville to Memphis just makes sense to me. The entire format comes into town for CRS, and everyone is literally a few hours away from the hospital.”

The Thunder 106 Radiothon and 106-mile walk was promoted April 13 and 14 and people were invited to become “Partners in Hope” and donate monthly on the St. Jude website, via phone or text. All individuals who became a partner received a custom Thunder 106 “This Shirt Saves Lives” shirt. The radiothon closed out with an after party on April 15 at Starland Ballroom in Sayreville with headliner Chase Rice.

This year’s event was also made possible by A.J. Perri, Monmouth Park Racetrack, Value City Furniture, Four Boys Ice Cream, Chocolate Carousel, Doorboy, Earth Treasures, Napa Auto Parts of Shrewsbury, Hutchins HVAC, Nissan City of Red Bank, V & S Landscape Supply, Panera Bread, Reproductive Science Center, Durham School Services, and New Jersey Natural Gas.

For more information about Press Communications, The Thunder 106 Country Cares for Kids Radiothon, St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, its partners, or how to donate, email info@PressCommRadio.com.

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AROUND THE JERSEY SHORE

LADACIN Network Holds

42nd Annual Rosebud Gala

LAKEWOOD – LADACIN Network held its 42nd Annual Rosebud Gala at the Sheraton Eatontown Hotel on April 1. The premier fundraising event benefitted LADACIN Network’s programs and services for individuals with disabilities. Guests enjoyed elegant hors d’oeuvres, an extraordinary gourmet dinner, dancing, a fabulous auction, and an awards ceremony that paid tribute to the 2023 Rosebud Honorees thanking them for their continued efforts and contributions to the Agency. It was a memorable evening with close to 220 guests attending and raising more than $192,000.

In recognition of their long-time support of LADACIN Network and of its mission, Lennar was honored as the Rosebud Gala Corporate Honoree. The Friendly Sons of the Shillelagh Belmar and the Pipes and Drums of the Jersey Shore Shillelagh Belmar, Jonathan Berger and Sean O’Sullivan were Humanitarian Honorees and Bonnie Hogan, Neptune received the Power of One award.

Co-chairing the event was LADACIN Network’s Board of Trustees Vice President, Victor Sbailo, Barnegat, and Margaret Winkelman, Howell. Carl Craft, host of 95.9 WRAT’s “Morning RAT Race”, served as Master of Ceremonies, and music was provided by Jack Goodman’s Orchestras.

Over 100 prizes were displayed at the auction and guests were excited about the

– Photo courtesy LADACIN chance to win. Many bidding wars took place in an attempt to secure the coveted prizes! When dinner and the award presentations concluded, guests filled the dance floor for the remainder of the evening. Leading the event’s underwriting efforts were LADACIN Network’s Annual Corporate Sponsors: Premier Benefactors; CWR Wholesale Distribution, World Insurance Associates LLC, Elite Benefactor; Turning Point Restaurants, Benefactors; Beasley Media Group – 95.9 WRAT & 100.1 WJRZ, New Jersey Natural Gas, Diamond Guardian Sponsors; LENNAR,TF Produce, and Willis Towers Watson, Gold Guardian Sponsors; Aetna, Hospital for Special Surgery, OceanFirst Bank, Packaging and Distribution Resources, Preferred Home Health Care & Nursing Services, Rizco, and TD Bank.

LADACIN Network provides a continuum of care, including educational, therapeutic, social, residential and support services to infants, children and adults with complex physical and developmental disabilities or delays, including child care and pre-school, early intervention, school programs, adult day programs, vocational training, supported employment, residential options, and respite programs. Today LADACIN serves over 3,500 individuals and families in 14 locations throughout Monmouth and Ocean Counties.

Vintage Postcard Display

LACEY – All are welcome to join the Lacey Historical Society for a special postcard exhibition at their monthly meeting May 1 at 7 p.m. A brief history of postcards will be discussed. There is no fee for this program, and you are welcome to display your own collection. Doors will be open at 6:30 p.m.

Historically, postcards were a reasonable, quick and easy way to keep in touch. Many are so lovely they can be considered art. The Society meets at the Old Schoolhouse Museum, 126 South Main Street, (Route 9) in Forked River. They are located behind Mrs. Walker’s Ice Cream Shop. Email questions to Laceyhistorical@gmail.com.

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Omarr’s Astrological Forecast

For the week of apr 29 - may 5

ARIES (March 21-April 19): When you have extra energy and enthusiasm, you can afford to perform a few honorable deeds. At the same time, you can watch over your own assets and resources and make some sound financial decisions.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20): Enjoy lighthearted fun and quality time with friends and loved ones as often as you can. Although relationships may have some difficulties, true loyalty and affection will ride it out with a smile.

GEMINI (May 21-June 20): Look more closely before you make a decision. The most essential underlying issue can be obscured so you may need a magnifying glass to see things more clearly. You do not need to spend a lot of money to have a fun time.

CANCER (June 21-July 22) : You may be more successful than usual with your moneymaking ventures because you can find ways to take advantage of every discount or bonus. Do not forget to set some dollars aside for long-term savings.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): Apply creative techniques and use a splash of imagination while you can. Later this week, you could become stuck in a rut and not be able to add the dramatic flourishes that can make your work and productivity stand out.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): The more you give, the more you can receive, and you could be satisfied even if it is not an even trade. Wait until late in the week to buy something to enhance your appearance or help you stand out another way.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): Romance may take a back seat to your dreams of making money or pursuing career ambitions. However, you can combine business and pleasure by going out to lunch or working on projects with friends.

SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21) : Someone might urge you to investigate areas outside your area of expertise. Go ahead and assess the waters in the company of congenial friends. You will never know what is possible until you go ahead and try it.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21) : Enjoy treating your close family to something nice or your coworkers to small kindnesses. You can be a success at financial trades if you do plenty of due diligence and harness the most powerful timing.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): Perseverance is your secret weapon. All your dreams can come true because you are willing to work hard to make them a reality. Note powerful ideas that pop into your head, or dreams that interrupt your sleep.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): You can get by with a little help from your friends. Make the best of things by spending time with like-minded people. Get back in touch with close family friends who have moved on or moved far away. PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): This might be a good time to apply yourself to your job and set healthy boundaries in your personal life. Your imaginative and creative ideas can be helpful in any ongoing project or sales presentation.

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