2023-05-20 - The Toms River Times

Local Boy’s Journey With Rare Epilepsy Offers Hope to Others

By Stephanie Faughnan

TOMS RIVER - Silverton residents Kristy and Jeremy Salkewicz were on top of the world when they brought their firstborn home from the hospital eight years ago. The couple instantly fell in love with James and were overjoyed and relieved to see he appeared to be a big healthy baby.

Despite their growing adoration for their son, Kristy and Jeremy acknowledge that their feeling of ease was brief. Within three weeks of bringing James home, the firsttime parents began to worry that something just wasn’t right.

“Everything was perfect,” recalled Kristy. “And I suddenly noticed that James’ lips were a slight greyish color. I almost felt it was something only a new mother would

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More Land Near School Property Could Be Open Space

By Chris Lundy TOMS RIVER –

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the heels of the township buying 16.6 acres near Silver Bay Elementary, a private school’s land was also offered to the town to buy as open space.

Mayor Maurice Hill said that St. Joseph’s reached out to the township asking if they would want to buy approximately

21 acres next to Donovan Catholic’s athletic fields on West Whitty Road. The church gave the town first right of refusal before it went out to potential developers.

Hill said that the land could support a neighborhood of 17 homes.

At a recent Township Council meeting, the council approved the first

reading of two ordinances. One authorized the land’s acquisition, the other borrowed the money to buy it. Ordinances have to be given a second reading before they are made law. That usually comes at the next council meeting, which in this case would be May 24 at 6 p.m. at town hall downtown.

The town put $3.8 million toward the purchase and the soft costs such as legal and engineering. They will pay the down payment and soft costs now, and then the remaining $3,610,000 loan will be paid off over a number of years with the township’s open space fund. This is supported by a 1.5 cent tax on all

property.

The land is located at Block 393.03, lot 3.

Bayshore Drive

Crackdown

In other news, police have been responding to Bayshore Drive to prevent people from being nuisances at the areas overlooking (Land - See Page 5)

Local WWII Hero Honored In Biography

By Mark Bator

TOMS RIVER - The extraordinary life and times of an under-appreciated World War II hero was the subject of a question-and-answer session with author Steven M. Gillon at the George P. Vanderveer American Legion Post 129. Gillon, a history professor at the University of Oklahoma, entertained those in

attendance and provided insight regarding his latest book, “Len Lomell: D-Day Hero.”

In addition to Lomell’s wife, Renee, many of those in attendance had known Lomell personally. So, in addition to the information imparted by the author, numerous friends and acquaintances of the local hero took the

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RESIDENTS: KEEP OPEN SPACE PURCHASE AS WOODS

By Chris Lundy

TOMS RIVER – Residents wanted to make sure that the 16.6 wooded acres neighboring Silver Bay Elementary School being bought by the town’s open space program will remain untouched woods and not be turned into a park or sports field.

At an earlier Township Council meeting, the

council voted to put the purchase forward for first reading. It takes a second reading, with a public comment period, for an ordinance to become finalized. It was during this comment period that several residents voiced concerns.

Former mayor Mark Mutter, who lives in Silverton, explained he

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─Photo by Stephanie Faughnan Kristy Salkewicz shared her son James’ story to spread the word about this rare condition.

─Photo by Mark Bator On display were personal photos, including these of Len Lomell and his wife, Renee, as they appeared during WWII.

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opportunity to share their recollections at the well-attended event. Lomell had been a member of American Legion Post 129 and had run his law practice in Toms River, as well.

Lomell was drafted into the U.S. Army in 1942, and had become an Army Ranger. As part of his involvement in WWII, Lomell’s squad was tasked with taking the German stronghold at Point du Hoc as part of the D-Day invasion. He is credited with being the one soldier who made D-Day a victory. Lomell’s exploits, many of which had not previously been known to the author, are contained in the book.

As Gillon explained to the audience, he had met Lomell while doing a television show on the History Channel.

“I was just mesmerized by his story and incredibly impressed by him,” Gillon said of Lomell. “I know that most of his friends and people who knew him called him ‘Bud.’ To me, he was Mister Lomell. I was also struck by how modest he was, how down to Earth he was. He was just like a regular guy. He never wanted to be the center of attention.”

The idea for the book was hatched during the COVID-19 pandemic, and during the question-and-answer session, the author revealed how the book truly came to fruition.

Just as he had done with the previous

11 books he has written, Gillon did hours of fact-checking and interviews in preparation for the task.

“What happened is,” Gillon explained to his audience, “in the very beginning, I did a lot of background research before I even reached out to the family. I wanted to make sure the story held together.”

Gillon explained that historical materials about Lomell were often hard to come by, including at the Library of Congress.

“In this case there were very few of those types of documents,” Gillon said. “And what you do as an author, is you gather up as much information as you can.”

But the most noteworthy assistance came from the Lomell family themselves when the late war hero’s wife had a small gathering, which included Gillon, at her home.

“And I think it was that time, after that meeting,” Gillon related, “Renee asked me to stay behind. She went into the back room where she stored lots of [Lomell’s] memorabilia. She brought out a big black folder, and she explained to me what it was.”

Inside the folder was a 186-page letter that Lomell had written to his grandchildren in 1980 that documented his life.

“As a historian, it doesn’t get any better,” explained Gillon. “He essentially did a lot of the work for me.”

The biography recounts the heroic actions of Lomell, whose exploits, while impressive, have not been woven into

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the fabric of the American zeitgeist in the same fashion as such iconic figures as General George S. Patton, or Audie Murphy. From his inauspicious beginnings as a World War II draftee, the selfless bravery and resourcefulness of Lomell are accurately recounted by Gillon, who vividly painted the scene for those in attendance at the lecture.

“I just think it’s great that we have someone who’s written a nationally published book,” said Toms River Mayor Maurice B. Hill, who was also in attendance at the event. “And it’s available now to people, to read about his history, and how important [Lomell] was in changing the outcome of World War Two.”

Many audience members had known Lomell, either through his membership at the American Legion Hall, through his

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the water. Residents have complained recently about people parking for long periods of time, playing music loudly or possibly engaging in illegal activity. One resident even mentioned a car playing “Africa” by Toto on repeat for several hours.

Police have since blocked the area

law practice, or simply as an involved community member, and took turns sharing their stories with the author. While he did not do so publicly during the event, Hill also knew Lomell personally, as well.

“I actually met him downtown,” Hill explained, “at a number of events, Memorial Day events. He was our Grand Marshall, and he was always a very humble guy. I used to see him at the Ocean County Veteran’s Day and Memorial Day celebrations they had.

The mayor and the town council of Toms River are even working to have a new VA outpatient clinic being built off Hooper Avenue named in Lomell’s honor, with resolutions already in place.

“[Lomell was] one of the pillars of the town,” said Hill. “He’s done a lot for the community.”

Preliminary indications are that the measure will pass and that Lomell’s name will be adopted for the clinic.

with a chain at night. A new ordinance will outlaw overnight parking.

New Senior Committee

The Township Council also passed, on first reading, the creation of a Mayor’s Advisory Committee On The Toms River Senior Center.

This would be a group of unpaid volunteers who would keep the governing body informed of what’s happening at the senior center on Garfield Avenue.

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was mayor when the open space program was established. The language in the ordinance includes that land can be preserved for recreation. This was done to get the many athletic teams to support a vote to create the open space tax.

Since that language still exists, he asked the Township Council to create different language for this purchase, removing the recreation option. That way, it would never be anything but woods.

Officials said there were no plans for recreation in that spot, and there was no need for an expansion of nearby Silverton Park.

“Put those words in the deed,” Mutter said. “It’s the largest remaining virgin woodlands in Silverton.”

Township Attorney Gregory McGuckin said that unless the ordinance making the purchase is amended, it has to stay as it is.

Paul Jeffrey, an Ortley Beach resident, was also concerned about the land’s future. He said he used to be on an open space planning committee in another town. They acquired land and then 10 years later the town turned it into a baseball field. He wanted to know what guarantees were in place. The current governing body wants to see it as wooded land, but what about future members?

McGuckin said to elect people who want to see it preserved.

Stella Labatch, a resident of Lillie Road, didn’t want the purchase to move forward without protections.

“I don’t trust anything that this town does,”

she said. She didn’t want verbal promises, she wanted something in writing.

Geri Ambrosio, who is running for mayor, asked if the county or state partnered with the town to help with the cost of the property.

McGuckin and Council President Matthew Lotano said that time was of the essence in helping the school district during their budget season. Bringing in another level of government could have added a year to the purchase time.

The school district sold the land for $4.4 million. The reason is that the state changed the way it doles out aid to schools. Every year since 2018, Toms River has received less and less. The district faced a budget hole for the 2023-2024 school year and selling this land was the solution.

If pressed, the district might have had to sell the land to the highest bidder which means it could have been a developer who could have built as many as 49 homes.

The land is located at 100 Silver Bay Road. On the tax map, it is Block 233.24, Lot 36, and a portion of Block 233.24, Lot 38.

As they usually do when purchasing open space, the township will be paying the down payment and soft costs using funds generated from an open space tax of 1.5 cents per $100 of assessed valuation. They will borrow for the remainder, and pay off principal and interest with the fund.

Business Administrator Louis Amoruso said that there is currently a balance of $2-3 million in the open space fund.

Councilman Justin Lamb abstained from these ordinances because his wife Ashley Lamb is on the Board of Education. The rest of the Township Council voted for it both times.

New Law Responds To Attacks Against Doctors, Nurses

From The Desk Of The Governor Phil Murphy

TRENTON – In response to increased attacks on health care workers in recent years, Governor Phil Murphy signed the ‘Health Care Heroes Violence Prevention Act’ to make it a criminal offense to intentionally threaten health care professionals or volunteers in an effort to intimidate them or interfere with their work. The act also establishes additional penalties against individuals who assault health care workers or volunteers.

Under the bill (A-3199), a person who knowingly and willfully makes, delivers, or sends a threat against health care workers covered by the act is guilty of a disorderly persons offense, which is punishable by imprisonment of up to six months and/or a fine of up to $1,000. For individuals convicted of assault against the covered workers, this act allows them to be sentenced to an anger management course of up to 12 months and community service of up to 30 days.

“If there’s one thing the COVID-19 pandemic made abundantly clear, it is the essential role health care workers play in our society,” said Governor Murphy. “Growing threats and attacks against these courageous heroes are unacceptable. We owe health care workers, including volunteers and employees in health care settings, our gratitude and respect. This law will provide greater protections for health care workers in our state to help deter both physical and verbal acts of violence against these professionals.”

“Protecting health care workers is essential to maintaining a strong and viable workforce and ensuring public health,” said Health Commissioner Judith Persichilli. “Their tireless commitment to improving health care delivery and saving lives should be without the additional

worry of their physical and mental well-being.”

The act applies to health care professionals, as well as any volunteer or employee of a health care professional or health care facility, while in the course of performing their official duties. Health care facilities and certain physicians will be required to display a written notice to notify the public that it is a crime to assault health care workers and volunteers, and is subject to a fine, imprisonment, or both.

Sponsors of the bill include Senator Troy Singleton and Assembly Majority Leader Louis Greenwald, as well as Senator Fred Madden and Assembly members Shavonda Sumter, Sadaf Jaffer, Lisa Swain, and Daniel Benson.

“Over the last three years, our nurses, doctors and health care professionals were on the frontline of the COVID pandemic – often putting their own health at risk,” said Senator Singleton. “Sadly, this figurative battlefield turned literal, with people physically assaulting these essential workers. This is simply unacceptable. This law will send a clear message that our health care workers must be treated with the respect, decency and civility they deserve.”

“We could not have gone through the past several years without the dedication of our frontline healthcare workers. They are truly heroes in this pandemic. Unfortunately, these frontline healthcare heroes have reported a dramatic increase in violent acts since 2020,” said Assembly Majority Leader Greenwald. “These repeated acts of violence against our health care heroes are simply unacceptable. This law will strengthen protections for these frontline workers by enhancing penalties and awareness about violence in the workplace.”

“The law provides important new protections for health care workers. These healthcare workers provide critical services for their patients,” said Cathleen Bennett, President & CEO of the New Jersey Hospital Association. “Unfortunate-

Bill Would Help First Responders, Teachers Become Homeowners

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Senator Robert Menendez

Protector Educator and Responder (HELPER) Act to create a first-time homebuyer loan program under the Federal Housing Administration (FHA) for teachers and first responders who have served at least four years in their respective role.

“First responders and teachers work day in and day out to make a

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ly, instead of showing appreciation and patience to healthcare workers, there has been an increase in workers being treated poorly. When that leads to violence, we must act to protect healthcare workers. With the enactment of this measure, Gov. Murphy, Senator Singleton and Majority Leader Greenwald send a strong message that the tireless efforts of healthcare workers are appreciated and valued.”

“Health care workers are five times more likely to be assaulted than any other workforce, adding

to the many reasons healthcare workers are migrating out of the profession,” said Debbie White, HPAE President. “We applaud the Legislature and the Governor’s office for the passing of this bill into law – the Health Care Heroes Violence Prevention Act. It’s a step forward in taking reasonable measures to minimize our risks. It’s time to treat workplace violence in healthcare settings with the seriousness this crisis warrants. If our hospitals and nursing homes are unsafe for workers, they are unsafe for our patients too.”

NEW JERSEY TURNPIKE AUTHORITY –PROPOSED OPERATIONAL IMPROVEMENTS, MILEPOST 80 TO 83, GARDEN STATE PARKWAY

Take notice that applications for a Freshwater Wetlands Individual Permit, Flood Hazard Area Individual Permit, Hardship Exception Request, and CAFRA/Waterfront Development/Coastal Wetlands Individual Permit, as well as Flood Hazard Area Verifications, will be submitted to the New Jersey Department of Environmental Protection, Division of Land Resource Protection for the development described below:

The New Jersey Turnpike Authority (NJTA) is proposing to improve Garden State Parkway (GSP) from approximately Milepost 80 to 83 (including Interchange 80, 81, and 82/82A) by improving GSP geometrics to meet current NJTA design standards where feasible. Other proposed improvements include continuous auxiliary lanes to better accommodate queuing and weaves; Collector-Distributor (CD) roads (service roads) to physically separate local ramp traffic from the GSP through traffic; safety and operational improvements of GSP interchanges, ramps and adjoining State and local roadway networks. Additionally, improvements at Interchange 80 will include adding a new southbound entrance ramp to the GSP and northbound exit ramp to the local roadway network. The improvements will include reconstruction to approximately seven (7) bridges and several culvert pipes throughout the project area. Ancillary improvements will include replacement of guide rail, lighting, drainage system upgrades and overhead signing. Utility and NJTA Fiber Optic (ETC) relocations will be required at locations where proposed improvements conflict with these existing systems.

Hardship Exception: The proposed project includes a hardship exception request for N.J.A.C. 7:13-11.3(2) due to the placement of fill in a floodway to construct the proposed improvements. There is no regulatory floodway derived for the project area; thus, NJDEP is considering the entire floodplain a floodway. Therefore, the proposed fill being placed to widen the roadway is technically considered fill in a floodway. No floodrelated adverse impacts will be created due to the proposed improvements and no adjacent properties will be impacted.

The complete permit application package can be reviewed at the municipal clerk’s office in the municipality in which the site subject to the application is located or by appointment at the Department’s Trenton Office. Either a 30-day public comment period or public hearing will be held on the application in the future. Individuals may request a public hearing on the application within 15 calendar days of the date of receiving this notice. Requests for a public hearing shall be sent to the Department at the address below and shall state the specific nature of the issues to be raised at the hearing:

New Jersey Department of Environmental Protection

Division of Land Resource Protection

P.O. Box 420, Code 501-02A

Trenton, New Jersey 08625

Attn: Toms River Township/South Toms River Borough/Berkeley Township Supervisors

WASHINGTON, D.C. – U.S. Senator Bob Menendez (D-N.J.) and several of his colleagues in the Senate reintroduced the Homes for Every Local

OPINIONS & COMMENTARY

My Mental Health Is Bad, How About Yours?

Mental health is probably the most important kind of health care. It trickles down to everything else. If you are depressed, for example, you won’t want to take care of the rest of your body. It all starts at the top. I suffer from anxiety and depression. I have for decades but only did something about it a few years ago.

I wish I had taken it seriously when it started in high school. I couldn’t always focus, and my moods went from super happy to super sad. I didn’t really think anything of it because I just described a basic teenager.

By the time I got to Montclair State University, I was telling my teachers that I might have to leave early because I can’t sit through classes. “It’s not

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If we want to sustain our beachfront backyards, we need to start investing in our environment. Clean energy is coming to the shore and we can’t afford to miss it. Ocean Wind 1 will be the

you, it’s me,” I said. Remember that Far Side cartoon where the kid asks if he can be excused because his brain was full? That was me. After about a half an hour, I couldn’t handle any more stimuli. I was pressing my fingernails into my arm to try to keep my mind from wandering.

You would think that would be a warning sign, but no... I thought I was too tough for that. I had created a bunch of crutches to get by instead of dealing with the problem in my head head-on.

About 5 years ago, I finally gave in and started taking a happy pill every day. I didn’t even have to go to a psychiatrist – my own general practitioner was able to prescribe.

The first pill took the edge off, but didn’t solve the problem. So, we upped the

dosage. That was ok but it didn’t get the job done. So, we tried a different med. That pill worked even better but I still had some freak-outs for no reason. Finally, the pill I’m on now is pretty good. There are still bad days but I think I’m mostly in the groove with it. I share these trials and errors because I want you to know that simply taking a pill isn’t going to solve everything. You’re still going to have to adjust it, and put the work in. But it’s work worth doing.

Now that I’m on the mend, I can’t believe how long I let myself suffer. I could have been happier for 25 years. A quarter century of “just getting by.” I’m kicking myself now. Why did I wait?

I’ve never been at the point where I was going to hurt myself or others

so, to me, I didn’t think I really needed help. I didn’t realize that all this time I really was hurting myself. And I could have been a better husband and friend during those years if I was able to crawl out of my cave long enough to do so. And worst of all, having a toddler while dealing with extreme mood swings was bad. Real bad. There’s a connotation to being “crazy,” obviously. No one wants to be called that – or to think of yourself as that. But we’re all a little nuts, honestly. I’ve never been to a therapist. I check in at the GP every so often, fill out a questionnaire, and I’m done. What I’ve said to people is “My life is great, but my brain doesn’t let me enjoy it.”

Our brains are full of

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chemicals and electrical impulses. Sometimes, your wiring will be off. That’s nothing to be ashamed of. If you need a cup of coffee to get your head on straight in the morning, why not also take meds?

What’s the difference between taking a pill for a migraine and taking a pill for depression? They both make your head pain go away.

Part of the problem was that I’ve always been so independent that I would never ask for help. I kept thinking “I can handle this. I can fix this.” And I would ignore the evidence that I couldn’t.

I never played a sport in my life, how could I be macho? It turns out that it’s ingrained in us. Men especially are told never to ask for help. Americans got their start by literally

fighting for independence. That self-sufficiency is in our DNA. Add to it that Jersey strength and damn, we will fight like crazy and never back down. Never get help. Never admit weakness.

The strongest thing you can do is admit a weakness. It takes amazing bravery to swallow your pride and ask for help.

May is Mental Health Month, where caregivers are trying to eliminate the stigma that keeps people from getting the help they need. So, if I can admit my mental health issues to our tens of thousands of readers, I encourage you to tell the people you love and to tell your doctor. Don’t wait for 25 years like I did.

Chris Lundy News Editor

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With the looming threat of climate change, our environment requires more support

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than ever. The future of our coastline faces an increased risk of flooding, diminishing marine life, and extreme weather. Many argue that we aren’t prepared to take on clean energy, and that we need more time to prepare for such an immense change in New Jersey. I would argue that we aren’t prepared for the consequences of our inaction. We cannot afford to sit idly by and wait for climate change to take our shores. According to the Barnegat Bay Partnership, New Jersey is “experiencing one of the highest rates of sea-level rise in the US” (Climate Change Impacts on the Barnegat Bay, 2020). Rising sea levels and warmer waters can prove disastrous for our local ecosystems, and we are not prepared for the damage. With Ocean Wind 1, we are fortunate enough to be at the forefront of the fight for our environment.

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Home Buyer Regrets Decision

My problems as a homeowner continue at Paramount Escapes Ocean Breeze in Barnegat. As one of the 31 homeowners who experienced a significant delay in the construction of my new home due to Paramount’s failure to comply with Affordable Housing regulations, I thought my problems with Paramount were over. Unfortunately, this is not the case.

Fifteen months after I had selected the lot and model home I wanted, I discovered that my house would have both front steps and steps into the garage. None of the model homes have these steps, and it was too late for me to do anything to change it.

Fast forward another seven months to closing. I discovered that the cement

entryway steps were uneven in height, narrow in width and lacked handrails. I also learned that the garage steps extended so far into the garage that I could not park my car on that side. My two-car garage is in reality a one-car garage, unless I decide to buy a Mini Cooper.

Paramount flatly refused to work out a compromise with me on the front steps. All they offered to do was bring the steps up to code by making the risers of equal height. It’s no surprise that I didn’t accept Paramount’s offer. There is no point in ripping out the steps a second time in order to achieve a safer result with a wider footprint and handrails.

I now regret that I didn’t get my deposit back from Paramount last summer and walk away when I had the chance to do so.

Dorothy Quail Barnegat

Paramount

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difference in the lives of New Jerseyans and Americans all across the country. Yet, all too often, many struggle to achieve their dreams of becoming homeowners due to the high cost of buying a home,” said Sen. Menendez. “As members of Congress, we have a responsibility to be there for our public sector workers and that’s why I’m proud to join my colleagues in supporting this bipartisan bill to make it easier for our police officers, firefighters, and teachers to afford buying a home in or near the communities they serve.”

The HELPER Act would:

• Create a new home loan assistance program administered by the FHA for law enforcement officers, firefighters, Emergency Medical Technicians (EMTs), paramedics, and pre-K-12 teachers who have served for at least four years in their respective roles and are first-time home buyers.

• Eliminate a mortgage down payment requirement.

• Eliminate a monthly mortgage insurance premium requirement.

• Include an upfront mortgage insurance premium to help fund the program.

• Allow for a one-time use of the pro -

gram by eligible individuals.

Joining Sen. Menendez in cosponsoring this legislation are Sens. Marco Rubio (R-Fla.), Jon Ossoff (D-Ga.), Sherrod Brown (D-Ohio), Richard Blumenthal (D-Conn.), Raphael Warnock (D-Ga.), and Catherine Cortez Masto (D-Nev.). U.S. Representatives Bonnie Watson Coleman (D-N.J.) and John Rutherford (R-Fla.) reintroduced companion legislation in the House of Representatives.

Sen. Menendez has long been a leader in the fight to build more affordable housing and expand access to affordable homeownership. This March, Sen. Menendez joined a group of 17 Senate Committee Chairs and Majority Leader Chuck Schumer (D-N.Y.) in sending a letter to President Biden urging the federal government to utilize a “whole-of-government” approach to address the nation’s housing crisis. In February, Sen. Menendez announced a combined total of $93,830,496 from the Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD) to modernize public housing properties and for management improvements across 54 towns in the state of New Jersey in Atlantic, Bergen, Burlington, Camden, Cape May, Cumberland, Essex, Gloucester, Hudson, Mercer, Middlesex, Monmouth, Morris, Passaic, Union, Salem, Somerset, Sussex and Warren Counties.

Día del Niño Connects Intermediate South And Pine Beach Students

TOMS RIVER – Students from Intermediate South’s Unidos Hispanic Heritage Club visited first-grade students at Pine Beach Elementary April 28 in honor of El Día del Niño, “the Day of the Child.”

Since 1925, Día del Niño has grown as an annual celebration throughout Mexico. The

day recognizes children, pays homage to their importance in society, and endorses their well-being.

The middle school students read a Hispanic cultural book to the class, played bingo, and brought snacks and prizes to the children.

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Book Series Teaches Hope, Being Your Best Self

TOMS RIVER – Intermediate East has integrated a new family-based social-emotional learning (SEL) book club series. “Hope, Activism, and Being Your Best Self” is an initiative funded by Toms River Education Association, and connects students and families with mental health experts and award-winning authors to help strengthen their family unit, selves and community.

The series kicked off this week with several special guests. Intermediate East students and their families learned Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) Tapping with Mandi Scanlon, Mrs. Delaware Valley International 2023. Scanlon’s program, “The Beauty of Healing Anxiety,” helps people refocus and de-stress.

Students then took a soothing “sound bath” using crystal singing bowls, an exercise orchestrated by Shalini Breault, a Reiki master who visited the school in February for literary-themed celebration. Each family received “Grateful Hearts, Healthy Minds” t-shirts, gratitude journal with emotional trackers, book baggies filled with fun journaling tools, and selected a variety of top mental health books for middle schoolers.

“I know we are all busy and want the absolute best for our families,” said Intermediate East teacher Angela Germano, “and I designed this club to forge new family friendships, support for each other and give the tools to open up and share with each other opportunities to have conversations, ask or just listen to what the experts have to say.

“Our intention is to foster hope, inspire activism, and give our students the resources and tools to live their best life.”

Families will read or peruse the books with the intent that they spark conversation or help with some challenges that may arise in middle school. Twice a month, the Family SEL Book Club will connect virtually with an esteemed mental health author to listen and share some tips, thoughts, hopes and insight.

The initiative is certainly off to a positive start. “I think this is a tremendously beneficial program,” said parent and local business owner Lisa Wacha after thanking the school for allowing her to take part.

For more information about the Family Social Emotional Learning Book Club Series: Hope, Activism and Being Your Best Self, contact Angela Germano at 267-243-2141 or agermano@ trschools.com.

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Local Pets Available For Adoption

Ollie and loves pets and attention! He is very skittish at first. People might come be put off by his nervousness. He tends to bark when people come by his kennel. He just really afraid.. If you give

him a chance, he can be a really good boy!

Ollie would do best in a quiet home. Strangers are really intimidating for him. He is a loyal dog who loves to protect his owner. For more information, call 732-3411000 or visit tomsrivertownship. com/155/Animal-Control-Services

─Photo courtesy Toms River Animal Shelter

$3.5 Million Water Infrastructure Coming To Silverton

By Alyssa Riccardi

TOMS RIVER – Veolia has announced that nearly three miles of six-decadeold water mains within the Silverton/ Silver Bay areas of Toms River will be replaced.

The $3.5 million project is scheduled to be completed by late August with final restoration anticipated by late September.

“This project represents continuing investment in Toms River, which allows the company to make crucial enhancements to the water infrastructure,” said Jim Mastrokalos, Veolia Mid-State Senior Director of Operations. “Replacing this aging water main installed in the early 1960s with new 6- and 8-inch ductile iron pipe will improve service and build a resilient, sustainable water system that the community can rely on for many years to come.”

The project will take place on the

following streets: Aldo Drive, Cattus Street, Cheryl Drive, Longman Street, Maine Street, Maria Drive, Silver Lagoon Drive and Stephan Avenue. Crews are scheduled to work daily from about 7 a.m. to 5 p.m. The company will also renew about 300 individual water services.

“We anticipate intermittent, temporary parking limitations to complete the project as quickly and safely as possible,” Mastrokalos said. “Veolia will provide ample notification to residents as the project progresses, including when to expect brief, short-term interruptions of water service.”

Veolia asks that pedestrians and drivers take caution near the work sites during construction. Emergency vehicles will be allowed access during the project

For more information, visit mywater. veolia.us.

Teens, Learn To ‘Seed Bomb’ Your Garden

TOMS RIVER – Homemade seed bombs are the quick, easy way to fill a garden with colorful flowers that attract pollinators and decorate the yard. Teens can learn how to make them at the Ocean County Library Toms River Branch, 3 p.m. May 23.

The program in the Green Room will teach the steps for creating a cluster of seeds that can liven up a plant pot, flowerbed, or an entire garden. The flowers draw the attention of butterflies, bees, and other creatures that transfer pollen and sustain many

crops.

Members of the Garden Club of Toms River will show young adults, aged 13 to 18, how to make their own seed bombs to take home and toss in the garden, then wait for rain and watch the transformation.

Register at theoceancountylibrary. org/events to attend this free program, sponsored by the Friends of the Ocean County Library – Toms River. For more information, drop by the OCL Toms River Branch, 101 Washington Street, or call 732-349-6200.

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Turtles, Tech, And TCNJ Tell Tale Of Triumph At NJTSA

TOMS RIVER – Secondary students from across the district recently competed in the New Jersey Technical Student Association (NJTSA) competitions at the College of New Jersey. NJTSA is the only student organization devoted exclusively to the needs of technology-education students. For Toms River students, the NJDOE-funded Middle Grades Career Awareness and Exploration grant (Bridge to the Future) and high school-level CTE Perkins supports these programs by providing advisors, buses, and admis -

sion to local competitions. Teams also fundraise throughout the school year to sustain their program. Students at Intermediate East, for example, sold stuffed turtles to raise funds for their community service turtle habitat project.

And the turtle-themed sale proved well worth it, as a team of Intermediate East students won first place for their community service video submission of their turtle garden at Island Beach State Park that is accessible to both box turtles and terrapins.

─Photo courtesy Toms River Schools

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Hearing Aids And Water

By now, you’ve probably heard that there are waterproof hearing aids. This is true, and they’re an amazing technological advancement, but most devices are only water resistant. This is made possible by a moisture-repellent nano-coating. It’s helpful but not impenetrable. Here are some tips to protect your tech from water damage: Want more advice on how to protect your investment in better hearing? Call us today — we’re HEAR to help! This may seem like a lot of things to keep in mind while wearing and caring for your devices, but the precautions are worth it. Over time, exposure to moisture can corrode the delicate electronics and shorten their lifespan. By doing what you can to keep them dry, you’ll save on repairs, replacements, and premature upgrades.

Avoid Moisture Altogether Remember to take your devices out of your ears before showering, hitting the pool, or getting into the hot tub. Be sure to store them in their own secure case rather than in a pocket or purse. The safest risk is the one you don’t take.

Wipe Them Down Wiping your devices daily with a clean, dry cloth helps clear moisture and debris. Audiowipes can be purchased from your hearing healthcare professional which is even a better option than using a dry cloth. This is especially important during the colder months when

condensation is more likely to form.

Use Hearing Aid Covers These can help protect your devices from water splashes, sweat, humidity, dust, and dirt.

Try a Hearing Aid Dryer or Dehumidifier

This small appliance not only dries and sanitizes your devices as you sleep but can also double as their regular storage container. Hearing aids should be dried every night. Many rechargeable hearing aids incorporate a dehumidifier built into the charging unit. Keep a Hat on Hand You never know when an unexpected rain shower might crash your outdoor fun. Having a spare hat can help keep the rain off you as well as your hearing aids.

Act Quickly If the worst happens and your hearing aids get soaked, thoroughly dry them and call your audiologist — don’t put them in a bag of rice!

This may seem like a lot of things to keep in mind while wearing and caring for your devices, but the precautions are worth it. Over time, exposure to moisture can corrode the delicate electronics and shorten their lifespan. By doing what you can to keep them dry, you’ll save on repairs, replacements, and premature upgrades.

Dr. Izzy & his Staff are always available to answer all of your hearing care questions. They can be reached at 732-818-3610 (Toms River/ Whiting) or 609-978-8946 (Manahawkin) or visit us at www.gardenstatehearing.com.

His offices are in Toms River, Whiting, and Manahawkin. He can be reached at 732-276-1011 or via Web site at gardenstatehearing.com. Dr. Izzy & Staff gives Retirement Community Talks!

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The Dark Side Of Medicine: 10 Outrageous And Horrific Treatments

By Suzy Cohen, R. Ph.

Today, I will explore the dark and disturbing history of medical treatments. While these methods may seem shocking and gruesome by today’s standards, they were once considered cutting-edge solutions.

As we delve into the past, it’s important to appreciate the progress we’ve made in medicine. Additionally, I’ll briefly speculate on current treatments we do today, that may be viewed as primitive in the future. It’s scary to think about it.

Tight now let’s explore 10 fascinating and bizarre historical remedies and reflect on medicine’s hall of shame:

Bloodletting: Bloodletting, a widespread medical treatment in ancient and medieval times, aimed to restore balance by draining blood to rectify an imbalance of the four “humors.” Despite its popularity, bloodletting often led to infection and death.

Trepanation: Trepanation involved drilling holes into the skull to release evil spirits or pressure, with the intent of treating conditions like headaches and epilepsy. This risky procedure persisted until the 18th century.

Mercury as a Cure-All: Mercury was once considered a universal remedy for various ailments, including syphilis and toothaches. However, its toxic nature caused severe side effects and contributed to neurological damage, as seen in hatters during the 19th century.

Tobacco Smoke Enemas: In the 18th century, tobacco smoke enemas were used to treat respiratory issues and even revive drowning victims. This practice, based on the belief that tobacco smoke could warm the body and stimulate respiration, proved ineffective and dangerous.

Lobotomies: Lobotomy, a procedure that severed connections in the brain’s prefrontal cortex, gained popularity in the 20th century as a treatment for severe mental illnesses. Despite its initial promise, it often resulted in severe side effects and has since fallen out of favor.

Animal-Dung Ointments: In ancient Egypt, animal dung was believed to possess healing properties and was used to treat various ailments. However, this unsanitary practice introduced harmful bacteria and worsened infections!

Mummy Powder: Powdered mummies were used as a medical treatment in the belief that they possessed curative properties. This practice, which persisted for centuries, was not only ineffective but also contributed to the destruction of historical artifacts.

Hemiglossectomy for Stuttering: During the 18th and 19th centuries, doctors believed that stuttering resulted from an unusually thick or long tongue. Hemiglossectomy, the removal of a portion of the tongue, was thought to cure the condition but often led to severe complications.

Strychnine as a Stimulant: In the late 19th and early 20th centuries, strychnine, a highly toxic alkaloid, was used as a stimulant and performance-enhancing substance. However, its poisonous effects posed significant risks to health. Cocaine as a Miracle Cure: Cocaine was once hailed as a miracle cure for various ailments and was widely used in medicine and everyday products. However, its addictive and dangerous nature eventually led to its decline and regulation. While we can’t predict the future, some current medical practices might be considered primitive in years to come. Chemotherapy’s non-selective nature, electroconvulsive therapy’s side effects, organ transplantation’s risks, and the necessity of amputations may one day be replaced by more targeted and advanced alternatives. We can only hope!

Reflecting on the past, it’s evident that our understanding of health and medicine has come a long way. These historical treatments serve as a reminder of the progress we’ve made and the importance of evolving our therapies so that they are less invasive and more effective.

(This information is not intended to treat, cure or diagnose your condition. Suzy Cohen is the author of “The 24-Hour Pharmacist” and “Real Solutions.” For more information, visit www.SuzyCohen.com) ©2022 SUZY COHEN, RPH. DISTRIBUTED BY DEAR PHARMACIST, INC.

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Local Art Show

BAY HEAD – Art Show opening reception

June 8 from 6 to 8 p.m. at the Grenville Hotel, 345 Main Avenue Bay Head, entitled Sirens and the Sea, by artist Susan J Roche, Point Pleasant. The original art show and sale will be exhibited until September 30 and is in galleries available in public access and restaurant areas, which may be accessible, depending upon events, during various hours.

Roche is interested in the ocean, the shore, and people who love water. Her art has a peaceful simplicity resulting from a complex process using several artistic media. Her monochromatic sense of color creates works with a healing, calm aspect to the pieces. Roche begins with a DSLR camera encased in a professional underwater housing, photographing entirely or partially under the surface in a saltwater pool or the Atlantic Ocean as a starting point for the work. The careful blending of images and testing study prints crafted on various acid-free fine art papers and canvases. A master printmaker working large scale using archival pigment ink, then enhanced with multiple materials, including gold and silver leaf, pastels, oil paints, cold wax, beeswax, and tree resin, she blurs the lines between photography and painting. The images are tactile and painterly while

also being photographic by using thin washes of color and etching into the emulsion and adding impasto.

Roche worked for many years photographing playful family groups along the shore. The underwater fine art began after experiencing Superstorm Sandy, with peaceful works emphasizing the beauty of water after the devastation from the storm. She initially began showing the pieces in her Bay Head family portrait studio, and before long, they became highly desired by collectors and commissioners. The Sirens and the Sea exhibition in the Grenville Hotels’ beautiful space seduce with its range of ethereal colors and serene and unexpected motifs.

“My work is about restoration, like being immersed in water and feeling calm. Studies offer hope after devastation and change, enhancing these elements and allowing me to satisfy my search for tranquility. Using monochromatic pigment inks on fine papers, pastels, oils, and art media with sweeping layered cold wax adds fluidity; sometimes, crystals and surface scratchings add perfect imperfections.” (S.J. Roche)

For additional information contact susanjroche@me.com, 732-703-2752, susanjroche. com

Psychic Fair

TOMS RIVER – Psychic Fair presented by the H.C.B. First Aid Auxiliary will be on July 15 from 11:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. at the Holiday City West Clubhouse, 45 Cabrillo Boulevard, Toms River.

Tickets are $60 for 30-minute sessions (by appointment only). Appointments book up fast so schedule early. Money raised will be donated to the HCB First Aid Squad. For appointment, contact Madeline Wesolowski at 732-797-0686 or Madweso@comcast.net. Please leave message. She will get back to you.

Joe Hicks: Joe is a medium. As far as he can remember he has heard & seen things others don’t. When he spoke to his parents about it, they would brush it aside. He realized that not everyone saw what he could see. For years he only helped friends, but then it became more apparent that he had this gift & should be helping others. He says what he has is truly a blessing.

Margaret Steele: Is a medium, Angel card readings and automatic handwriting to contact

your personal ones in Heaven. Certified Reiki Master, who also uses crystals to perform healing sessions on people & animals.

Tori: Is a Professional psychic reader. Has lot of experience. She does spiritual healing, card reading and Reike. also is a hypnotist, but does not have enough time in a half hour session.

Carol Hellings: Is a Professional psychic reader. She has been practicing for many years. She is a certified astrologer and published on Palmistry. She appeared on TV, radio, and taught classes in psychic development.

Alvateen (Carolyn): Has decades of experience. She feels like she was born with the gift of intuition.

Leslie: Has over 25 Years of experience as a Medium, Intuitive and Paranormal Investigator. With the aid of her spirit guides, she is able to give healing messages from those in spirit. And by utilizing the Tarot, Leslie can give guidance and clarity on any issues that you may need assistance with.

Miranda Hanson Of Toms River Inducted Into National Jesuit Honor Society

TOMS RIVER – Miranda Hanson was among the 71 University of Scranton students inducted into Alpha Sigma Nu, the national Jesuit honor society. Alpha Sigma Nu is the only honor society open to students and faculty in all disciplines of the University. Juniors, seniors and graduate students, including students in doctoral level degree programs, who have distinguished themselves in scholarship, loyalty and service are eligible for membership. Appointments

are made by the president of the University on the recommendation of the moderator and chapter members of the society, and no more than four percent of the junior and senior class may be admitted each year. The Scranton chapter of Alpha Sigma Nu was established in 1943 and is the oldest honor society at the University.

Hanson is a senior pursing an occupational therapy degree at the Jesuit university.

Consider A Caregiver Agreement

By: Marc S. Galella, Esq. of R.C. Shea & Associates

A Caregiver Agreement is a written contract entered into between a person needing care and a person providing care. Usually, the Caregiver Agreement is between an adult child and a parent, a relative or a friend. Through the use of a Caregiver Agreement, the disabled or elderly person can transfer money to family members as compensation rather than as a gift.

A properly prepared Agreement specifically lists what services the child is to provide to the parent and at what price. The Agreement must be in writing and entered into before the compensated services are rendered. Since the caregiver child is getting “paid” they must report the income for tax purposes. In some cases, the parent may be able to deduct the payments as a medical expense.

The advantages of having a Caregiver Agreement include establishing clear caregiver compensation, providing a practical housing arrangement and assisting a Medicaid plan.

Family members overwhelmingly provide the care for elderly and disabled loved ones at home. Although it’s a labor of love, taking care of ailing loved ones also has a market value, meaning that caretakers can be paid as a way to protect assets. It’s only fair that the child who is caring for the parent should be paid for the services. When a caregiver’s compensation is memorialized in a legal document, allegations by other siblings are minimized because the contract spells out the details. Further, to protect family relationships, it’s recommended that all family members agree with the Arrangement even if they are not parties to the agreement.

By having a Caregiver Agreement the parent may be able to avoid a nursing facility by providing for the parent to be able to remain in the parent’s home or the home of the caregiver instead of a nursing facility.

A Caregiver Agreement can also be part of a Medicaid plan. As long as the Agreement is correctly drafted, and both parties abide by its terms, funds payable to the caregiver under the Agreement will accelerate Medicaid eligibility. Since payments are made for the services rendered, they should not be treated as gifts. This will thwart Medicaid penalties as a result of giving money directly to the caregiver child. Since caregiver agreements transfer money over a period of time, they are better entered into sooner rather than later.

The child should consider the following points if the child feels uncomfortable about taking money to care for the parent:

• A third party caregiver would get paid for caring and giving room and board to the parent;

• If the parent were to apply for Medicaid, money that the child could have been paid for legitimately caring for their parent will instead be paid to the nursing home as part of a Medicaid spend down.

A proper Caregiver Agreement can be a valuable elder-law planning tool in the right circumstances. Contact R.C. Shea & Associates (732-505-1212) to see if a Caregiver Agreement makes sense for you.

NEW JERSEY TURNPIKE AUTHORITY –PROPOSED OPERATIONAL IMPROVEMENTS, MILEPOST 80 TO 83, GARDEN STATE PARKWAY

Please take notice that the New Jersey Turnpike Authority (NJTA) has applied to the New Jersey Pinelands Commission to permit the proposed development described below, located along the Garden State Parkway (GSP) from Milepost 80 to 83 in Toms River & Berkeley Townships, and South Toms River Borough, Ocean County, NJ. The application is on file and available for inspection by appointment at the Pineland Commission’s office. Interested persons may comment to the Pinelands Commission within ten (10) days of the date of this notice. Please note the below project is located across multiple municipalities within Ocean County. However, the portion of the project within the Pinelands Area is only located within South Toms River Borough.

Field Of Dreams Summertime Dream Cruise Nights

2023 dates:

June 11, 5 to 8 p.m. (Rain date June 25)

July 9, 5 to 8 p.m. (Rain date July 23)

August 13, 5 to 8 p.m. (Rain date August 27):

The New Jersey Turnpike Authority (NJTA) is proposing to improve Garden State Parkway (GSP) from approximately Milepost 80 to 83 (including Interchange 80, 81, and 82/82A) by improving GSP geometrics to meet current NJTA design standards where feasible. Other proposed improvements include continuous auxiliary lanes to better accommodate queuing and weaves; Collector-Distributor (C-D) roads (service roads) to physically separate local ramp traffic from the GSP through traffic; safety and operational improvements of GSP interchanges, ramps and adjoining State and local roadway networks. Additionally, improvements at Interchange 80 will include adding a new southbound entrance ramp to the GSP and northbound exit ramp to the local roadway network. The improvements will include reconstruction to approximately seven (7) bridges and several culvert pipes throughout the project area. Ancillary improvements will include replacement of guide rail, lighting, drainage system upgrades and overhead signing. Utility and NJTA Fiber Optic (ETC) relocations will be required at locations where proposed improvements conflict with these existing systems.

Comments may be sent via the following:

Mail: Pinelands Commission

Email: AppInfo@pinelands.nj.gov PO Box 539 New Lisbon, NJ 08064

Any person who provides comments or requests a copy of the Executive Director’s findings and conclusion shall be provided a copy of said findings and conclusion. Any interested person who is aggrieved by said determination is entitled to a hearing by appealing the determination.

Marc S. Galella Esq.

TOMS RIVER – Join this summer for Summertime Dream Cruise nights once a month as we get ready for our big car show in October!

Summertime Dream Cruise nights are free to attend and open to everyone. The park will be open for children to play, and there will

be food, music, raffles, giveaways, and so much more. Located at 1505 N. Bay Avenue Toms River.

notice.”

Kristy shared her observations with a nurse she knew, who advised her to speak to the pediatrician about them. The nurse suggested James might be experiencing sleep apnea, which is generally more common in premature babies.

What followed was an incredibly alarming event. Upon checking on James after putting him to bed, Kristy was terrified by what she saw. No longer was it just a matter of her baby boy’s lips being slightly discolored. Instead, Kristy now observed with horror that James’ entire head had turned grey.

Kristy had already begun researching infant apnea based on her discussions with her nurse friend. She remembered what she had learned about assisting a baby in recovering from an apneic episode and put her knowledge into action.

“I was blowing on his face and tapping on his feet,” Kristy said. “He wouldn’t come out of it; he was just frozen.”

All of a sudden, James began to cry, and Kristy hugged him close to her body. James wanted no part of nursing and fell back to sleep for the entire night.

Kristy recounted the incident to her nurse friend, who emphasized the importance of seeking prompt medical attention for James. The nurse warned Kristy that the situation could worsen to the point where it might be difficult to intervene, leaving James in a precarious position.

As both parents attempted to come to grips with the fact that something could be wrong with James, they initially downplayed their initial fears. Jeremy and Kristy wanted to believe the issue was nothing more than a case of gas interfering with their newborn’s sleep. The couple was confident that everything would be fine.

Nevertheless, doctors admitted James to the hospital for two days and ran a battery of

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tests. Finally, they sent James home with an apnea monitor to capture his sleep patterns. Unfortunately, the answers didn’t start to make sense until after Kristy was able to video James during one of the episodes.

“He was three months old, and it was just before Christmas,” recalled Kristy. “He was asleep in his stroller like a new baby and suddenly woke up.”

James appeared to be mouthing something as he looked to the side, almost as if he was trying to communicate. Then, out of nowhere, James began crying from a deep sleep, and Kristy attempted to soothe him. Although she couldn’t pinpoint the exact problem, Kristy sensed something was off, as James seemed unusually lethargic.

Once concerned that they might be overreacting, Jeremy and Kristy wanted answers. A call to the pediatrician landed them in Jersey Shore Medical Center’s emergency room. A neurologist called for a consultation, watched the video, and determined that James had had a seizure.

James began his first course of anti-seizure medication that worked for a few days. Jeremy and Kristy became so hopeful –until the seizures broke through. Moving on to the next anti-seizure drug required weaning from the first, as many of these medicines are addictive, and James could not be abruptly taken off them.

Each medication came with its side effects, from potential heart damage to peripheral vision loss. Some drugs could only be obtained from off-label pharmacies. Nonetheless, both parents felt desperate – they were willing to try anything.

“I couldn’t even count the number of ‘episodes’ as we called them back then,” Kristy said. “There were times there were over 100 in one day.”

“They needed to give him intravenous drugs to knock him out,” added Kristy. “To kind of calm his brain down.”

Medical consultants at the Children’s Hospital of Pennsylvania were equally puzzled

Real Estate

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Garage Sale

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why none of the medications would work. So when James was six months old, doctors suggested genetic testing to see what they could learn.

The tests revealed that James’ seizures were not caused by a genetic condition he inherited from his parents. However, James did have a form of epilepsy caused by a spontaneous gene mutation.

KCNT1 epilepsy is a rare and severe form of epilepsy that can cause developmental delays and other health problems. Its resistance to anti-seizure drugs is one of the key characteristics of the disease. The diagnosis finally explained why none of the medications given to James could halt his seizures.

“After the doctors determined the diagnosis, they knew there was an old medication that would help James,” Kristy shared. “He was the second one to try it, and the seizures started to dissipate.”

Kristy said she preferred not to release the name of the medication and added that the drug could have a potential adverse side effect on the heart.

Researchers believe that KCNT1 mutations caused James to experience malignant migrating partial seizures of infancy. James began showing evidence that he was developmentally delayed as a result at a young age. For example, he did not reach for toys or meet typical milestones as he grew older. At 8 years old, James is non-verbal and unable to walk. A school bus takes him to the Lehmann School in Lakewood, where he has both therapies and learns at a slower pace.

“They work on seeing if he can make eye contact in a field of two,” said Kristy, “And maybe look for a letter or listen to songs. He’s got aides who just help him along. The school also gives James some socialization.”

When he’s around his family, there’s no doubt that James is particularly happy. He has an infectious giggle, almost instantly triggered when his little brother makes silly noises.

Jackson, age 6, took his mom by surprise when he opened up about James. Usually somewhat reserved, Jackson admitted he liked pushing his brother’s stroller and enjoyed pulling pranks on the nurses who sometimes visit.

“He takes James in stride,” Kristy shared. “Jackson is really the sweetest thing to him, and I can tell James really likes it when he’s with his brother.”

The Salkewicz family has two dogs, a black lab named Indy and a yellow lab named Duck, who eagerly await James’ return home from school so they can give him kisses. However, James is not fond of the dogs licking his face after he eats and will make a fuss.

Kristy said daily prayer is a critical part of her life and remembers asking God to stop the seizures. Watching her son’s little body become tired was difficult as the episodes came one after the other.

“They still kept coming,” said Kristy. “It was so frustrating.”

A chance encounter with a random stranger changed Kristy’s way of thinking. A store clerk said his grandfather told him that no matter how bad you think you have it, somebody else always has it worse.

Kristy swears the young man was put on her path to deliver a message, one that didn’t make sense at the time. Her prayers changed to expressing gratitude for the things she could. For example, James can breathe on his own, and he can eat – both things everyone takes for granted.

“There are only about 200 children known to have KCNT1 epilepsy,” said Kristy. “There’s more and more getting diagnosed because genetic testing is key. They couldn’t find out what it was without it, and the testing is helping to target treatment.”

The KCNT1 Epilepsy Foundation supports parents who may feel alone in finding resources. According to Kristy, the Foundation is also trying to raise awareness and donations for drug research and development.

“I am doing as much as I can to participate in all the surveys they (the Foundation) provide,” Kristy shared. “They’ve been looking for blood samples, so we’re working on getting blood to them from James.”

James also participated in a year-long natural history study, which required Kristy to document seizure activity and sleep. The family has also participated in interviews with a doctor and a psychologist and donated James’ saliva in conjunction with a study in Chicago.

“I felt like I was not helping enough at first because I was so used to doing this on my own,” said Kristy. “Now there are these people who want to get the word out – and we’re not the only ones anymore.”

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photo of the week

The countdown to Memorial Day continues. Local resident Ryan J. Drewes captured this amazing sunset in Mantoloking recently. Want to share your pix

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Run With Us To Remember

SEASIDE PARK – Gear up for a cause worth running for at the Sgt. John A. Lyons Run To Remember, happening at 9 a.m. on June 10. They invite you to sign up to run the 5k or 1-Mile Fun Run to honor and remember fallen town hero and Seaside Park native, Sgt. John Lyons. Registration is available online, with 5k

sign ups costing only $30 per person ($35 on race day), and 1-Mile Fun Run sign ups costing $20 per person ($25 on race day). All proceeds from the event go directly to Dine On Us.

To learn more, donate, register, or become a fundraiser, visit raceforum.com/ sgtjohnlyons.

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SolutionS

Omarr’s Astrological Forecast

For the week of MAY 20 - MAY 26

By Jeraldine Saunders

ARIES (March 21-April 19): An enthusiastic new friend might encourage you to overspend or take unnecessary risks. You could be at odds with someone who may want to take advantage of your honesty or sincerity. Putting on airs can lead to misunderstandings, so remain true to yourself.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20): Try to keep your attentions focused on purposeful plans. It can be important to surround yourself with positive, encouraging people. Keep an eye on your finances and avoid making large investments or major purchases for now.

GEMINI (May 21-June 20): You may feel overly sensitive to criticism and could be easily upset by instability. This is not a suitable time to take on new ventures or projects. Take this time to focus on your mental health and find small ways to relieve some of your pressures.

CANCER (June 21-July 22): Take your time regarding your finances. If you are in too much of a hurry to make a purchase, you could have regrets later. Be skeptical about possibly risky investments and you will be able to skate past thin fiscal ice.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): Boundaries could be put into place and should be respected. Someone may poke holes in possible plans or red tape could prevent you from achieving your objectives. You may find that getting your way might not always lead to contentment.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): Let facts be your friend. Obtaining a straight answer from companions may be as difficult as herding cats. You may need to practice more patience and understanding when interacting with ill-tempered people.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): Impulsive people may pressure you into making changes to your career, finances or personal life. You may be tempted to take advantage of someone’s loyalty but remember that impulse decisions could lead to issues later on.

SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21) : Try to find a place to burrow away far from possible noise and distractions. You may need a quiet space to fix problems or address deficiencies. Someone might agree with you on the surface but could be fixated on their own agenda.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): During an internal game of tug of war, either side could end up falling into the mud. You might wrestle with your conscience about trying something new and stimulating when it could be wiser to stick to what is tried and true.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): Pump up your persistence and you can prevent getting detoured by possible controversies. This may not be a good time to question the rules or to ignore your responsibilities. Stick to what you know and avoid experimenting for now.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): You may be willing to focus on all work and no play. Your ambitions may be at a high point, perhaps because you feel the crunch of having more expenses than income. Follow any rules to avoid possible disapproval.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): Having a good relationship with the people you meet could be like petting porcupines. You may need leather gauntlets rather than kid gloves to manage some relationship issues. Maintain a low profile and avoid arguments for now.

HOMEMADE PUDDING IS THE PERFECT WAY TO END YOUR MEAL

By America’s Test Kitchen

SMALL - BATCH CREAMY CHOCOLATE PUDDING

Serves 2

3/4 teaspoon vanilla extract

1/8 teaspoon espresso powder

3 tablespoons sugar

1 tablespoon Dutch-processed cocoa

2 teaspoons cornstarch

1/4 teaspoon table salt

3 tablespoons heavy cream

1 large egg yolk

3/4 cup whole milk

1 1/2 tablespoons unsalted butter, cut into 2 pieces

1 1/2 ounces bittersweet chocolate, chopped fine

1. Stir together vanilla and espresso powder in a bowl; set aside. Whisk

sugar, cocoa, cornstarch and salt together in a large saucepan. Whisk in cream and yolk until fully incorporated, making sure to scrape the corners of the saucepan. Whisk in milk until incorporated.

2. Place saucepan over medium heat; cook, whisking constantly, until mixture is thickened and bubbling over the entire surface, 4 to 6 minutes. Cook 30 seconds longer, remove from heat, add butter and chocolate, and whisk until melted and fully incorporated. Whisk in vanilla mixture.

3. Pour pudding through a fine-mesh strainer into a bowl. Press lightly greased parchment paper against the surface of the pudding and place in the refrigerator to cool, at least 1 1/2 hours or up to two days. Whisk pudding briefly and serve.

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