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Vets Unite To Replace Stolen Memorial For Fallen Marine

New Home Found As Town Sells Vetwork Property

MANAHAWKIN - Tears streamed down Amanda Simpson’s face as three Marine veterans made a special trip to her home to honor the memory of her late husband.

Marine Cpl. Scott Simpson, who battled with PTSD, tragically died by suicide on November 8, 2020. His military career included a peace keeping mission in Kosovo and a tour of duty fighting the Iraq War. In addition to his widow, the honorably discharged marine was survived by their now nine-year old daughter Makayla.

“Scott was one of the fi rst infantry battalions

to invade Nasiriyah,” shared Amanda. “He came home in 2008 and suffered tremendously from PTSD for many years.”

In a heartfelt display of camaraderie and solidarity, the Marines rallied around Amanda, their fallen brother’s widow, to show their unwavering support and present her with a gift. The touching gesture came in response to a recent incident that deeply moved them and prompted them into action. A few weeks ago, Amanda was devastated to discover that the fallen soldier memorial dedicated to her husband had been stolen from the lawn of her

10-Foot Python Joins Popcorn Park

LACEY – A 10-foot reticulated python named “Udon” will now be living at Popcorn Park Zoo’s Reptile House.

“Udon’s journey has been one of resilience and transformation,” the Humane Society said.

“Confiscated by the NYPD, Udon’s life took a remarkable turn as she found her way to the care of the Associated Humane Societies and Popcorn Park. Now, she takes center stage in

the Reptile House at Popcorn Park, where visitors have the incredible opportunity to witness her up close.”

Udon has been settling well into her new home at Popcorn Park Animal Refuge and is available to see seven days a week by visiting the Reptile House, they said.

In Japanese cuisine, udon is a thick noodle, a fitting name for a large snake.

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LACEY – Amid community concerns, township officials have confi rmed that a new location has been secured for the non-profit Vetwork, whose headquarters is being sold.

Veronica Laureigh, Business Administrator/ Municipal Clerk, said that the township intends to make space for Vetwork in the building occupied by the Lacey Food Bank located at 102 Station Drive in Forked River.

“We met with Bernie Snyder (Vetwork Board of Directors member) and one of the other veteran members last week,” said Laureigh. “We brought them to the Food Bank and showed them how there was enough space for each association to have their own private spot.”

Multiple groups have previously shared the Food Bank location, including the Lacey Municipal Utilities Authority and the Lacey School Board. The local public works department will take

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Photos by Stephanie Faughnan Vetwork will move from its current space on North Main Street to the Lacey Food Bank by the beginning of the year. Photo courtesy Popcorn Park Udon has noodled her way into the Popcorn Park Zoo. (Marine - See Page 2) This building will host Vetwork as well as the Lacey Township Food Bank. Photo by Stephanie Faughnan The new piece bears Scott Simpson’s name and rank.

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Ocean Acres home. The well-lit memorial, a black silhouetted figure of a kneeling veteran, served as a tribute to the late Marine’s dedication and sacrifice.

Amanda was not only heartbroken but also utterly shocked by the theft. She couldn’t believe that someone would be so brazen and disrespectful. She also wondered how the thieves managed to bypass the attention of her 90-pound rottweiler, who could have easily pounced through the living room window to protect his family and property.

“My husband was a combat Marine veteran…who would give the shirt off his back and help absolutely everyone and anyone,” Amanda wrote in a social media post. “I am begging whoever took it to please please return it!”

When Amanda’s post hit the Barnegat Township Chatter’s Facebook page, it was perhaps no coincidence that veterans from a group known as MA-22 took notice.

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The python’s rescue was due to a partnership between the Associated Humane Societies and Popcorn Park with the Animal Care Centers of New York.

Popcorn Park takes in injured and sur-

MA-22 is a non-profit organization that provides support to veterans and their families, including those struggling with PTSD. The group’s initials stand for Ma Deuce Deuce, derived from the nickname for the M2 .50 caliber machine gun as well as representing the 22 veterans who lose their lives to suicide each day.

Amanda said she was unaware of MA-22 until recently. Scott’s battle with PTSD accelerated during the height of COVID-19 restrictions, making it difficult for him to access the support he needed.

Posthumously, MA-22 veterans Dennis Addesso, Jay Hayden, and Thomas Kiselow sprang into action to support their fallen brother’s widow. They reached out to Amanda and offered to replace the memorial to Scott that had been stolen from her front yard. They were determined to make amends for the loss and ensure that Scott Simpson’s memory was honored in the way it deserved.

“We take care of all vets, but we Marines are a little tighter group,” said Addesso,

rendered animals. Some are deer or other woodland creatures who would not be able to survive in the wild. Some come from closed zoos, such as two lions and two tigers who joined the park last year. Some were confiscated by police and some were taken from roadside zoos that were mistreating the animals.

MA-22 president. “And we just decided we had to make it right.”

Adesso said he reached out to Mike Legrini, another veteran and the owner of Veteran Wood Company to enlist his help. The two collaborated on a design and Legrini put the project at the top of his priority list and worked diligently to bring it to fruition.

“I had the idea to make it out of wood and make it all different colors,” Addesso added. “Mike said it would take a lot of time and yet got it done within one week. On top of that, Mike donated what is probably a pretty costly item because it takes a lot of time to make the cuts.”

Addesso made arrangements to deliver the new memorial. As the three veterans unveiled the stunning piece that bears Scott’s name and rank, the young widow could barely catch her breath.

“It’s amazing,” she whispered, between her tears.

The recreation of the stolen veteran memorial may lead to MA-22 arranging for similar pieces to honor other veterans.

At the park, these animals are cared for, and given sanctuary and rehabilitation.

“Through our long-standing partnership with Animal Care Centers of New York, we are not only able to provide Udon with a safe and nurturing environment, but we are also expanding our capacity to make a difference in the lives of even more animals,” said Jer-

About MA-22 MA-22 evolved after Addesso and other Marine veterans attended a faith-based program called Operation Restored Warrior (ORW).

“We came back from that and basically found there was a way that veterans can live with PTSD,” said Adesso. “And not just fight it every single day.”

Adesso shared that he took an attempt at his own life in 2016.

Gaining inspiration from ORW, MA-22 engages veterans in various activities, such as fishing, skydiving, and scuba diving. They also help veterans with unmet needs.

“Literally this weekend, Tom (Kiselow, also the Executive Director of Vetwork) and I got a homeless veteran into a hotel,” shared Adesso. “So he wouldn’t have to be living in the rain; we help with the homeless.”

“There’s really nothing we can’t do right now because our community gets our mission,” Adesso continued. “And, you know when you have a community like that, we like to say we’re just a conduit to a blessing.”

ry Rosenthal, CEO of Associated Humane Societies and Popcorn Park. “Together, we can raise awareness about responsible pet ownership, and the importance of protecting all species.”

For more information on Udon and how to visit, please visit ahscares.org or contact 609-693-1900.

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on remodeling the building with plans to make it available for Vetwork to move in by January or sooner. The work includes the erection of a doorway to separate the two groups.

“They will each have their own HVAC system and bathroom,” added Laureigh. “Vetwork will also have enough space for a private office to interview clients.”

Snyder confi rmed that he had personally toured the food bank site and said that the proposed renovations would help meet the non-profit organization’s needs.

“We’re very happy that Lacey Township was able to fi nd a spot for us,” said Vetwork Executive Director Tom Kiselow, a US Marine Corps veteran. “So, we can continue our mission to help our local veterans.”

The revelation of a new headquarters for Vetwork follows an emotional exchange at a September 14 Township Committee meeting when Snyder and others expressed their concerns about the township selling their current building for further development.

Vetwork currently occupies space at 103 North Main Street, which Snyder identified as the historic Worden House. He said the original owners built the home in 1863 and had two sons who fought in the Civil War, one of whom was killed. Snyder expressed his disappointment that the organization would lose its headquarters from a building with “a lot of attachment to the veteran family.”

“You’ve spread the word that we’re just

kicking you out on the road,” said Committeewoman PeggySue Juliano to Snyder during his public comments at the meeting.

“I’ve been talking to you for close to a year in reference to the fact that we were going to sell the property, and we have to start looking for a place for you.”

Juliano said that she was hurt by the fact that the governing body had been “literally ripped apart” after the town had taken care of providing Vetwork with a home for 32 years.

Committeeman Peter Curatolo, who acted as the liaison to Vetwork for a decade, accused Snyder of making critical comments about the Township Committee on social media. Curatolo emphasized that, in his view, the township has invested over $600,000 in supporting the veteran organization over the past 35 years. He arrived at this estimation by calculating a monthly rental rate of $1,500 for a period of 420 months.

“When I asked the mayor at the last meeting where you were going to put us, he said he didn’t know,” Snyder replied. “You’re acting like it’s a secret – why won’t you tell me even now where you’re going to put us?”

During the somewhat heated exchange, Juliano said that complete commitments had not been made for the relocation at that point. She promised she would relay the information to the organization within ten days. Less than a week later, Snyder was invited to see the proposed space in the Lacey Food Bank building.

Juliano reaffi rmed at the meeting that the township’s commitment to Vetwork

remains unchanged, and that Vetwork will continue to receive space free of charge.

What Vetwork Does

As concerns about Vetwork’s relocation were raised, two rows of veterans filled the front of the meeting room – with more scattered throughout the crowd. Public commentary included a number of testimonials praising the non-profit organization’s work.

An emotional Lynn Hering said she came to support Vetwork as a Gold Star family member and as a local resident. Hering volunteers her time to assist the group as a driver.

“I’m driving veterans to their medical appointments when they can’t go up to the East Orange facility or Lyons or other facilities,” shared Hering. “That work provides a service to them. You can’t imagine how grateful all these families are. The spouse of the veteran brings their spouse, and we ride up together.”

Snyder praised Hering for making the nearly 200-mile round trip to take a veteran and his wife to the Lyons Veterans Hospital that same day and shared other ways that Vetwork has helped the couple.

“The husband has Alzheimer’s real bad and went down really fast,” Snyder said. “They were going to lose their house.”

As the veteran’s condition worsened, his wife began exploring nursing home care, but learned that all of their assets would need to be transferred. Vetwork intervened, with Snyder personally working with a woman at the veteran’s office in Toms River to resolve the issue. In the end, the

veteran was found to be 100% disabled and assigned a bed at the nursing home at Lyons at no cost.

Vetwork plays a vital role in the Ocean County community, providing essential services to veterans and their families. This year, the Ocean County Board of Commissioners awarded $186,000 to Vetwork to supplement their work.

The organization helps veterans to access essential services, such as food, housing, and healthcare. Vetwork also provides counseling and support services to veterans who are struggling with PTSD, addiction, and other challenges.

Vetwork maintains a food pantry that provides free food to veterans in need. The organization also works to ensure that all veterans have a roof over their heads. In some cases, Vetwork serves as an intermediary with the government to secure services for veterans who are having difficulty accessing them.

Earlier this year, Vetwork partnered with the Lacey United Methodist Church to provide transitional housing to veterans in need. Once a Catholic rectory, the four-bedroom home is now filled to capacity.

The transitional housing program provides veterans with a safe and supportive place to live as they work to get back on their feet. Veterans in the program have access to all Vetwork services.

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We Live With The Congestion Of A City – But Without A City’s Public Transportation

Northern Ocean County is in a transportation crisis.

Traffic on such major arteries as Chambers Bridge Road and Route 9, even off season, has become too heavy for our already-toostressed community.

Driving has become hazardous for private and public transportation drivers alike. Pedestrians cross the main roads at their peril. Taxi service based in Brick no longer exists, and Brick residents are paying Lakewood, Pt. Pleasant and Toms River-based companies high prices to cover the cost of extra miles between bases and destinations.

Brick has only two 7-daysper-week New Jersey Transit bus routes, both of which run buses only every two hours or longer, in some places within less than half

Thank You For Informing Readers

Belated congratulations for your editorial on preservation of open space by making sure natural areas of all kinds are protected and preserved from any development (“Those Woods You Love May Not Be Woods Forever” published June 3). Given the undisputed science of climate change, and the awful air quality that we all suffered from recently,

an hour of each other. Riders may arrive at their destinations but have no longer than half an hour there before the bus going back arrives. If a rider misses a bus, she and her children may need to wait for two hours for the next bus back. Many bus stops have no shelters where riders may wait to avoid sun-stroke on hot days or catching colds on rainy days.

Bicyclists are riding on sidewalks to avoid getting killed by texting drivers. Their bicycles have no bells to warn pedestrians and people waiting at bus stops of their approach.

Private and public transportation drivers alike experience dangerous and illegal moves by other drivers, despite the fact that traffic engineering in New Jersey is fool-proof compared to other states.

Ocean Ride patients who rely on Ocean Ride buses for transportation to and from medical and psychiatric appointments must schedule their appointments longer in advance than the traditional two weeks.

Local Brick senior bus service availability has become unpredictable because of high demand.

And during this past year, Ocean Ride drivers have been saddled with more riders (many of whom need help and take a long time getting on and off the bus) than they can safely transport on time for their doctors’ appointments. And we all know how little time medical doctors can spend with patients who do arrive on time.

Psychiatric clinics have no leeway. If you arrive late, even if you’re down to your last few doses of a medica-

tion, you may be turned away because another patient has to be seen. Medication management appointments are 15 minutes short.

Ocean Ride has already lost drivers because of stress.

Ocean Ride drivers are, and must be, not only properly licensed and vetted, but caring and compassionate, because their riders are ill and/or elderly. How many drivers like that are there that we can afford to lose? Who will develop an ulcer or heart condition caused by job stress, rather than quit for something less stressful?

New Jersey Transit (NJT) and regularly scheduled weekday Ocean County bus routes are set up according to demand for riders commuting to and from work. Brick has one NJT route that runs to New York early in the morning and returns in the evening on

Letters To The Editor

it should be imperative for town councils to use every possible means to prevent forest destruction and water contamination.

That involves costs, but cheaper than building schools, paving roads, providing sanitation, police and fire protection. There must be a prohibition on all warehouse constructions as well.

Additionally, your continuing series of profiles of cats for adoption via the Calling All Cats rescue organization is especially commendable!

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This human-caused problem needs a humane solution that you have expertly written about. Perhaps a follow-up or additional article might showcase a few of the successful adoptions and saved lives (both human and feline) to encourage such happy outcomes.

Please keep those positive articles coming.

Toms River Can’t Afford Dan Rodrick

There are certain people who want Councilman Daniel Rodrick to be mayor, and that’s developers.

Rodrick is anti-development. That’s totally true. But he doesn’t know how to fight development.

The apartments planned for downtown are a terrible idea. But he’ll probably block them using some kind of gray area of the law. We’re going to get sued, and the developer will win. Because that’s what always

weekdays only. From Toms River, through Brick, one of the two daily, through-Brick, buses runs north on Route 9 to Newark and Newark Airport, making local stops to Old Bridge along the way; the other daily bus through Brick runs between Asbury Park and Philadelphia making all local stops. From our area, there is no direct express bus route to Trenton, our state Capital, nor to Princeton - two large areas of employment. We need additional criteria for establishing bus routes, especially because of workers who travel less and work from home, and because many people who have cars and are used to driving cars would rather take buses at this point whenever possible or convenient to do so, precisely because of those “crazy drivers on the roads” these days. It’s a

nightmare!

We have hundreds, perhaps thousands, of service workers who cannot afford their own cars, whose rotating work hours require frequent and weekend county bus service.

Buses transport many more people per square feet of road space; pollute the air less per rider; and are driven by people with more-stringent license requirements (which must remain so) than those who only drive their own vehicles.

Northern Ocean County has become one vast city. Cities have extensive, thorough, well-coordinated public transportation systems which are the arteries of the body politic.

happens. Developers always win. Mo Hill gave them downtown Toms River. We can’t get it back now. It’s over. They won.

Rodrick wants to fight multi-family developments. That’s good. But the way he’ll do it is probably going to be bad. He’s already being called anti-Semitic by Lakewood websites. He’s going to say one wrong thing and then open us up to all sorts of litigation.

Do you remember when former mayor Kelaher referred to Orthodox real estate purchases as “an invasion?”

It’s going to be like that, but worse. Because of statements like that, Toms River has already been under fire by the federal government. Jackson’s officials also just got slapped with a fine because of religious zoning. In both cases, both towns have had their land laws written by the court, forced upon them because of something they did. They lost control over their zoning because they tried to do something anti-Semitic and it backfired.

What do you think are the

chances that Rodrick is going to say or do something that’s going to get the town sued, and then real estate developers will be able to do anything they want?

Beachgoers Lose Handicap Spaces

As of July 1, 2023 the Midway Beach Condominium Association Board made a ruling that the general public no longer has access to park in the designated handicap parking spots (5) located near the entrance of Midway Beach. These handicap spots are now reserved only for the residents of the Midway Beach Condominium Association. This new ruling is excluding the general public with handicap placards and license plates issued by the NJ MVS from accessing Midway Beach. A large part of the beach community has been visiting the beach for generations with their friends and families. We are

genuinely shocked to hear that the handicap community outside of the Association have been stripped of their access to these designated parking areas.

Without proper communication of the new ruling (or clear signage), beach-goers arrived for July 4th weekend and parked in the handicap spaces just as they normally would. Shortly thereafter, beach-goers realized that their cars had been towed. Rather than issuing tickets, warnings, or implementing clear signage, a handful of handicap individuals were left stranded at the beach. It cost each handicap person who was towed $250 to retrieve their vehicles.

Myself and many more of the community residents are appalled by these new rules, it is only common decency to respect all those who are in need. Any suggestions or comments would be appreciated negative or positive. Thank you for your time and consideration.

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Environmental Education To Be Strengthened In Schools

Capitol Comments

WASHINGTON, D.C. – U.S. Senator Cory Booker (D-N.J.) and U.S. Representatives Jahana Hayes (D-CT) and Raúl Grijalva (D-AZ) introduced the bicameral Green Ribbon Act, legislation that would promote environmental education, health and wellness, and sustainability literacy in schools across the United States. The legislation would build upon the ED-Green Ribbon Schools Program, which was established in 2011 by the U.S. Department of Education.

The U.S. Department of Education Green Ribbon Schools (ED-GRS) is a public engagement initiative for school sustainability that is structured as a federal recognition award. ED-GRS celebrates these schools, districts, postsecondary institutions, and early learning centers’ cost-saving, health-promoting, and

performance-enhancing sustainability practices by bringing more attention to their work. Since its inception, the ED-Green Ribbon Schools Program has been recognizing schools that excel in environmental leadership, health and wellness, and sustainability literacy. With over 700 schools awarded, including more than 40% from resource-constrained areas, the program has been incentivizing the adoption of environmentally friendly practices within the country’s educational system.

“We must ensure schools are better able to adopt environmentally friendly practices which will help foster a healthier learning environment for our children,” said Senator Booker. “This bicameral legislation will expand on the successes of the ED-Green Ribbon Schools Program so more schools, especially those from underserved communities, can provide all students with access to facilities that promote a better environment for health and learning. By recognizing the vital role of sustainability practices and incentivizing schools

to adopt environmentally friendly standards, we can help create a greener future for all.”

The Green Ribbon Act includes three major components, supported by $10 million in funding, to enhance the impact of this vital program:

State Grant Program: This would provide grants to state departments of education, empowering them to increase their capacity to engage eligible entities in the pursuit of becoming green school. Further, it ensures that not less than 40% of funds are dedicated to supporting under-resourced schools, ensuring that all communities have an opportunity to participate in this initiative.

Extends Grants to Nonformal Learning Institutions: Extend the program to include awards for nonformal learning institutions (museums, libraries, zoos and aquaria, etc.), with the award program managed by the Institute of Museum and Library Services. Experts estimate that more than 70% of all learning takes place in these nonformal learning settings, underscoring the importance of their inclusion in this program.

Green Ribbon School Award Program: This

would allocate funding to the U.S. Department of Education to provide small, $10,000 honorariums to each winning entity, enabling them to travel to accept the award and/or for use on green school programming. Additionally, funding will support schools operated or funded by the Bureau of Indian Education.

Office of School Infrastructure and Sustainability: This would establish an office within the U.S. Department of Education, tasked with providing in-house facilities and sustainability expertise across the department’s activities. This office will play a pivotal role in the execution of the Green Ribbon Schools program, further elevating its impact.

“In an era of climate misinformation, Green Ribbon schools are doing the crucial work of advancing climate literacy and building the future generation of young conservationists and climate champions,” said Abby Tinsley, Vice President for Conservation Policy at the National Wildlife Federation. “We are grateful for Senator Booker’s leadership in expanding the reach of the program so that more young people can benefit from sustainable, healthy schools with expanded environmental learning opportunities.”

Educator Named 2023-2024 New Jersey State Teacher Of The Year

From The Desk Of The Governor Phil Murphy

TRENTON – The New Jersey Department of Education announced that Mr. Joseph (Joe) Nappi, a social studies teacher at Monmouth Regional High School, has been named the 2023-2024 New Jersey State Teacher of the Year.

Since completing his Bachelor of Arts in History and Secondary Education from Rowan University, Joseph has been teaching Holocaust, Genocide, and Modern Humanity as well as U.S. History at Monmouth Regional High School. As part of his work at Monmouth Regional, he has taken more than 600 students to the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum in Washington, D.C., where he has had the opportunity to serve as a Museum Teacher Fellow since 2019. His students have engaged in campaigns to stop human trafficking, incorporate Holocaust and Genocide education into curricula across the country, and raise money for refugee resettlement because of Joseph’s work challenging his students to “Be the Change” they wish to see in the world.

“Today, we celebrate the remarkable dedication and impact of Joseph Nappi who has more than earned the designation of the 2023-2024 New Jersey State Teacher of the Year,” said Governor Phil Murphy. “Educators like Joe are the heart and soul of our state’s education system, inspiring our youth and shaping the leaders of tomorrow. His innovative teaching methods, unwavering commitment, and passion for education have not only transformed classrooms but have also ignited a lifelong love for learning in countless students.

I am incredibly proud of Joe’s accomplishments and the positive influence he has had on our

educational community. His dedication reflects the values that New Jersey holds dear – a commitment to excellence, empathy, and the pursuit of knowledge.”

“I am thrilled to extend my warmest congratulations to Mr. Nappi for his exceptional achievement as the 2023-2024 New Jersey State Teacher of the Year,” said Dr. Angelica Allen-McMillan, Acting Commissioner of Education. “Joe’s innovative teaching methods and passion for guiding students toward success exemplify the very best of our education system. He is a shining example of the transformative power that teachers possess, shaping the minds of our future leaders. We are honored to have Joe represent the pinnacle of educational excellence in New Jersey.”

“On behalf of the State Board of Education, I sincerely congratulate Mr. Joseph Nappi on being selected as the 2023-2024 State Teacher of the Year,” said Kathy Goldenberg, President of the State Board of Education. “Mr. Nappi’s empathy and dedication first and foremost to his students cannot be over emphasized. He ensures that his students are introduced to ideas and concepts that present challenges as well as are stimulating. He works hard daily to positively influence their educational experiences. Mr. Nappi has led different clubs in school and taken students on field trips and has gone the extra mile to know and assist individual students. I am proud to call Mr. Nappi the Teacher of the Year from the state of New Jersey’s teaching workforce.”

Throughout his illustrious career, Joseph has won numerous honors, including the Dr. Frank Kaplowitz Human Rights Educator of the Year Award from Kean University in 2017 and the Ida and Jeff Margolis Medallion for Excellence in Multicultural Education from Rowan University in 2005. Joe has also been named Teacher of the Year at Monmouth Regional High School in

2010 and 2023. Joe collaborated with a national group of educators assembled by PBS to develop lessons for Ken Burns’ documentary “The US and the Holocaust” over the summer of 2022. He published a blog post titled “10 Concrete Tips for Teaching About the Holocaust” to go along with the movie’s debut. This blog was highlighted on PBS Learning Media.

“Mr. Nappi exemplifies what an outstanding teacher should be,” said Brian Evans, Acting Superintendent and Principal of the Monmouth Regional High School District. “He has a gift to

create tremendous relationships with his students. Mr. Nappi builds his students’ self-confidence, and he helps them to truly understand that they possess the power to make significant, positive change in our world.”

In his role as State Teacher of the Year, Joseph will work with the New Jersey Department of Education and give presentations to colleagues and stakeholders around the state, speak with aspiring teachers, and visit classrooms to advance the teaching profession. He will also take part in national conferences with other State Teachers of the Year.

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Fall Coastal Gardening Ideas And Tips

LONG BEACH – Fall is a wonderful time to be in your garden and the perfect time to plant perennials, trees and shrubs. Visitors have gone, weather is beautiful and lots of plants are on sale…what’s stopping you!

Begin by taking an inventory of your garden. Review the successes and the misses of the summer.

Start the process by knowing what plants you have. Save the tags or use one of the many plant id apps to help you with the identification process.

Knowing what you have will also help you moving forward. How and when to prune and fertilize and the basic habits of the plant all depend on what particular variety you have in your garden.

If a plant is unhappy or underperforming, make sure you have it planted in the correct place. The ‘right plant in the right place’ makes all the difference.

When you know what you have and what works well in your garden, you are better prepared for planning for next season.

If you choose to buy new trees, shrubs and perennials consider the following:

Look at the ultimate size of the plant. A shrub may look small in their nursery container but if the plant grows to a size larger than you anticipated, that creates more work for you and an unhappy plant.

Know the plant’s light requirements and know what parts of your garden will suit those requirements. Afternoon sun is hot…so, look for full sun plants. Morning sun is gentler and can support part sun plants.

Sale plants are plentiful in the fall but many have been in their containers for a long time. If the plant you purchase is root bound, make sure you loosen the roots before planting. You may even need to cut the roots if they are really dense.

Consider buying natives. Native plants are more adaptive to our soil and climate. In the long run natives will require less water and should require no fertilizer or pesticides… a win for your garden’s health and our Island’s health. Aster and Solidago are great native perennials to add to your fall garden and the butterflies love them.

Fall Garden Maintenance

If you have a lawn, September is a great time for lawn renovation and re-seeding.

Continue watering your garden, especially any of your new plantings. Water at the roots and water deeply.

Clean up plants that are diseased, insect infested or in poor condition.

Pull weeds now. This should help them from germinating and making a weedy mess in your spring garden.

Resist the urge to over clean your yard. Leave heathy plants and grasses. The hollow stems can over winter beneficial insects and native bees. And, birds love the seed heads of black-eyed Susan and coneflower.

Fall is also a great time:

• To set up bird feeders.

• Clean your garden tools

• Bring in any houseplants that you have had outside for the summer.

• Try bringing your geraniums and begonias into the house. They overwinter and will lengthen your garden season by adding color inside the house.

• Vegetable gardeners can plant cool season crops like lettuce, kale and spinach.

• Plant daffodil and tulip bulbs for spring color. Plant the bulbs in clumps rather that straight lines to look more natural.

Ann Calder is a Rutger’s Master Gardener and Horticultural Chair of The Garden Club of LBI.

Information about the club and how to join is on the website, thgardencluboflbi.com.

Annual Harvest Festival

LITTLE EGG HARBOR – The Little Egg Harbor Chamber of Commerce will be putting on their Annual Harvest Festival again this year on October 21 from 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. at the Little Egg Harbor Recreation Fields, 1 Sports Complex Drive.

Activities for the kids including petting

zoo, pony rides, carnival rides and bouncy rides. Face painting and much more. Joe Wenal from Carve Wars will be attending again this year. Mark your calendar. You don’t want to miss it. free admission. Craft vendors wanted. Interested? Contact littleeggharborchamberofcommerce@gmail.com.

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51st Annual LBI Commemorative 18 Mile Run Fundraiser

LONG BEACH – The 51st anniversary 18 Mile Race starts at 10 a.m. in Holgate, the 12K starts at 10:05 a.m. in Holgate on October 8.

The course is a straight, fl at, point-topoint run heading North on Long Beach Boulevard. Air temperature in October on LBI is approximately 65 degrees, winds generally coming from the South.

Applications are available at the Front Desk of St. Francis Community Center and a printable version online at stfranciscenterlbi.org.

Final registration and race-packet pickup will be held from 2 to 7 p.m. on October 7 and from 7 to 9 a.m. on October 8.

The funds raised from this year’s race go directly towards improving programs here at the St. Francis Community Center!

Looking to take part in the 18 Mile Run weekend festivities but not quite ready to

take on the full 18 miles? In addition to our normally hosted 18 Mile Run, there will be a separate 12K (about 7.5 mile) fundraiser that will take place from the start line and head directly to the St. Francis Center for the fi nish line! This event is perfect for those interested in testing themselves at a race distance longer than a usual 5K or someone looking for a fitness walk that offers water stations and race course supervision

Entry Fees:

18 Mile Run: $80

18 Mile Run - USATF-NJ Members: $70 12K Run/Walk: $60

Every participant will receive a race T-shirt, commemorative medal and togo food and refreshment bag. For more information visit runsignup.com/Race/ NJ/LongBeachTownship/18milerun.

Southern Regional Student Athlete Nominated For Heart Of A Giant Award

MANAHAWKIN – Southern Regional High School’s own Alex Fowler has been nominated for USA Football’s Heart of a Giant Award presented by Hospital for Special Surgery and the New York Giants.

Now celebrating the program’s 10th year, the 2023 USA Football Heart of a Giant Award presented by Hospital for

Litt le Egg Harbor/Tuckerton PBA Golf Tournament

LITTLE EGG HARBOR – Little Egg Harbor/Tuckerton PBA 295 will be hosting a Golf Tournament on October 19 at LBI National Golf and Resort, Little Egg Harbor.

Lunch from 10 a.m. to 12 p.m. Registration begins at 10 a.m. Shotgun start at 12 p.m. Fee is $150 per golfer and includes golf cart, green fees, lunch, and an awards dinner

Special Surgery and the New York Giants announced the fi rst weekly group of nominees. These outstanding Tri-State area high school football players, mascots, team managers, etc. have all been nominated for the award by their coaches for their commitment, teamwork, will, character, and dedication. following the tournament.

Prizes: 1st - $500; 2nd - $300; 3rd - $200. Closest to pin, longest drive, and other prizes.

For more information or to register your foursome, email pba295golf@gmail.com. Proceeds to benefit scholarships for Pinelands Regional High School.

Lacey Lions Basketball

LACEY – Register today! Registration is open until October 20. Evaluation dates will be announced soon.

Age Divisions:

Kindergarten Boys/Girls: Registration fee $100; Eight sessions; includes jersey and trophy.

1st through 8th Grade Boys/Girls: Registration fee $125; Nine game season; playoffs

for 2nd to 8th; includes reversible jersey, shorts and trophy.

Travel 3rd through 8th Grade Boys/Girls: Register ASAP; tryout dates: TBD. Fees determined after tryouts.

For more information and to register visit agemlonsbasketball.com or email lagevlonsbasketball@gmail.com.

Annual Spaghett i Dinner And Car Raffle

LONG BEACH – St. Francis’ Annual Spaghetti Dinner and Car Raffle will be on October 7 at 5 p.m. at the Community Cen-

ter Gymnasium. Purchase tickets online at stfranciscenterlbi.org, for more information call 609-494-8861.

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Harvest Festival

STAFFORD – The 16th Annual Stafford Township Fall Harvest Festival will be on October 7 and 8 at Manahawkin Lake Park, Route 9 and Lakeshore Drive, from 12 to 5 p.m.

October 7: hayrides, craft vendors, food vendors, pumpkin picking, scarecrow making, costume contest, wine festival at Heritage Park. Halloween parade at 12 p.m.; line up at Stafford Firehouse at 11:30 a.m. Entertain-

ment by Ridgemont High & Josh Werner. October 8: Wine Festival at Heritage Park, craft vendors, food vendors, Red Rocker Record Fair. Entertainment by: Impulsives & The Lovelight Band

Help us help others - admission to hayrides is a nonperishable food item that will benefit The Free Little Pantry.

For additional information, call 609-5971000 ext. 8573.

Book Donations Wanted For Upcoming Sale

STAFFORD – The Friends of the Stafford Library are seeking book donations for their upcoming book sale. Books, DVDs and CDs may be dropped off at the Stafford Branch of the Ocean County Library, located at 129 North Main Street (Route 9)

during library business hours. Organizers say they are unable to accept textbooks or encyclopedias.

The sale will take place on October 20 from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. at the library. Most books will be priced, starting at $1.

BARNEGAT – Barnegat Recreation has announced their 2nd Annual Halloween House Decorating Contest.

Registration is now open. Public Voting opens October 20. The general public is asked

LITTLE EGG HARBOR – Little Egg Harbor’s Environmental Commission is calling all volunteers for the Fall Community Wide Clean Up on October 14. Clean up begins at 9 a.m. at the municipal

BARNEGAT – Hoofy’s Fall Fest will be on October 21 from 11 a.m. to 7 p.m. at 11 Birdsall Street, Barnegat.

The event features: beer tasting, food trucks, children’s inflatables, Hoffman sweatshirts and commemorative beer mug sales, live

2nd Annual Halloween House Decorating Contest Halloween With The Italian American Club Of Lacey

to cast their vote for their favorite home via the link on the Recreation’s website. Voting ends at 11:59 p.m. on October 31. Winner will be announced by November 3. All entries will also be posted on Barnegat Recreation Facebook.

Fall Community Wide Clean Up Hoofy’s Fall Fest

building. Volunteer yourself or a group. Volunteer hours/community service hours earned. Lunch served immediately following at the community center. Register at tinyurl.com/rrwyfywj.

LACEY – The Italian American Club of Lacey is hosting “Come Celebrate Halloween” on October 3 at 6 to 9 p.m. at the Charles A. Smith Community Center, 15 East Lacey

music, craft vendors, fire pits and more. Admission is $10 for adults, children are free. The event supports the Alex Hoffman Memorial Scholarship Fund for Barnegat Students. For more information, contact Barnegat Recreation at 609-698-0080. Road, Forked River. Great DJ, hoagies-etc., beverage and dessert. Best costume and dance prizes. Tickets are $25! Open to public. Call Fran at 609-242-2439 for tickets.

Learn To Play The Ukulele

STAFFORD – Join musician and teacher Dee Mann and make joyful noise learning to play the ukulele! Even if you’ve never picked up an instrument, you can learn to play.

Entertain yourself and your loved ones

with your newfound talent. Every Tuesday now through October 31 from 12:30 to 1:15 p.m. at the Pine Street Recreation Building, 25 Pine Street, Manahawkin.

For information and to register, contact Dee Mann at mannfam5@gmail.com.

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Ocean County Man Sentenced To Prison For Overdose Death

LACEY – A Township man has been sentenced to six years in New Jersey State Prison for supplying drugs to a woman who later overdosed, officials said.

Jehmar Barrett, 36, of Lacey, previously pled guilty to Manslaughter in connection with the death of a 35-year-old female in Toms River on November 24, 2020. This sentence will be subject to the terms of the No Early Release Act, meaning that Barrett will be required to serve at least 85 percent of his prison sentence before he may be considered for parole eligibility.

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The woman was found dead in an Alabama Avenue home, according to Ocean County Prosecutor Bradley D. Billhimer. It was later determined that that Barrett distributed

heroin and cocaine to the victim the day before her death.

A toxicology analysis confirmed the presence of fentanyl in the victim’s system, officials said. The drugs given to the victim by Barrett, initially believed to be heroin, was, in fact, fentanyl, matching the fentanyl found in the victim’s system.

On April 30, 2021, Barrett surrendered himself to Toms River Township Police Department Headquarters.

Billhimer acknowledged the efforts of Assistant Prosecutor Stephen Burke who handled the case on behalf of the State, and commended the Ocean County Prosecutor’s Office Major Crime Unit, High Tech Crime Unit, Victim Witness Advocacy Unit, Toms River Detective Bureau, Toms River Special Enforcement Team, Toms River Patrol Division, Berkeley Police Department, Lacey Police Department, Ocean County Medical Examiner’s Office, and Ocean County Sheriff ’s Office Crime Scene Investigation Unit, for their collaborative efforts in connection with this investigation leading to Barrett’s guilty plea, and now his state prison sentence.

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the years, Snyder has come away with a sense that his help made a difference.

“There was the time a vet came in and was on their way to see their congressman,” shared Snyder. “He was going to set up his tent behind the power plant.”

Snyder said the organization helped with some food and that he invited him back to his home for Thanksgiving dinner. A retired Lacey police officer, Snyder also made arrangements with the local department to give him one of the stolen bikes that had never been retrieved. They also added a rack to make carrying his backpack and tent easier.

“A week later, I was down at Vetwork, and there was a little gift bag there,” Snyder said. “The vet got the local jeweler to give him a little gift bag with tissue paper. Inside, he’d taken a piece of parachute cord and made a set of rosary beads.”

To this day, Snyder treasures those rosary beads as a symbol of the resilience and strength of the veterans Vetwork serves.

Needlecraft Club

BARNEGAT – Knitting, crochet, crossstitch, hand sewing, etc. First Monday of every month, 7 to 9 p.m. at Barnegat Friends Meeting, 614 East Bay Avenue, Barnegat. More information at barnegatquakers.org

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Animal Rescue Group Asks For Donations

Rescue Ridge a non-profit, no-kill, all-volunteer animal rescue group that works tirelessly to find homes for all its animals in need. Founded in 2001 out of Spring Lake, they had rapidly expanded with the love and support from the local communities. With five adoption centers for cats, foster homes for both cats and dogs, and two local kenneling sites for dogs (one kennel located in Howell), not to mention its active adoption events, this group is always in need of basic supplies.

We pull from local high kill shelters, receive calls for help and take in strays, etc. We are now asking the local communities for help in allowing us to continue our mission of saving lives.

Rescue Ridge currently has approximately 140 volunteers and counting. This alone shows you how aggressive and dedicated this group is to giving animals a second chance in life. We incur very high vet bills, along with all the medication, sheltering expenses and so much more. It is with this we ask for basic supplies. “The mission of Rescue Ridge is to Rescue. Our dream is that one day we won’t have to.” Highland Kennel, one of the two rescue locations is, located at 1424 Maxim Southard Road, Howell, will be accepting donations for animals in the rescue’s care. There is a donation bin by the front door and drop off times are best from 8 a.m. – 12 p.m. and then from 2:30 p.m.

to 4:30 p.m., seven days a week. The animal rescue group also offers kenneling availability to the public at this location.

Rescue Ridge is asking for basic supplies: Monetary donations, wee wee pads, dog pick up bags, paper towels, laundry detergent (h/e is best), large garbage bags (industrial size), Friskies wet food or Fancy Feast any flavor

for our cats, kitten milk replacement, bleach (must say kills 99%), gift cards to pet stores, clumping litter, litter boxes, litter scoops, leashes (gentle leaders, heavy nylon leashes of all sizes), collars (all sizes), mops and brooms, copy paper and stamps.

If you or anyone you know can help with any of these items, please donate.

Rescue Ridge is always in need.

If you are interested in adoption or have a question, please call us at 732546-8805 or text, our e-mail is rescueridgeshelter@gmail.com. You can also visit us on our website and view our amazing animals at rescueridge. com . Together we are “Saving Pets By The Jersey Shore.”

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If You Are A Victim Of An Accident Or Other Incident Then Remember That Social Media Is Not Your Friend

Once an injury claim is reported to an insurance company their number one priority is to stop the bleeding. Not your bleeding; their bleeding! The primary concern of any insurance company is to find a way to not pay your claim, so you will be immediately investigated.

What Do Insurance Adjusters Look For After A Claim Is Filed?

A personal injury claim is built on evidence. While your lawyer is compiling evidence to support your claim, the insurance adjuster on the other side is looking for ways to undermine it.

Beware of prying eyes. Your social media accounts are full of tidbits — even your most innocent posts, photos, or those you are tagged in — can be woven together and used against you. Even posts made by your family and friends are fair game for an aggressive adjuster. Even if all your social media accounts are protected with the strictest privacy controls, sometimes harmful information finds its way into the hands of the adjuster. It’s used as evidence to reduce their financial exposure or, worse yet, to prevent you from receiving any compensation at all.

Adjusters look for the weakest link. If they sense you lack self-control, they may try to friend you on Facebook or follow you on Instagram. They also may try to buddy up to your friends to get insider information about you and the accident. Even your posts on dating sites can be mined and used against you.

What to Do on Social Media After a Car Accident

Avoid doing anything on social media that could hurt your claim. You only have one opportunity to get this right, so you should leave nothing to chance. Tell your friends to refrain from posting anything about you or tagging you in photos on social media — past, present,

or future.

If you see the need to delete anything from your accounts, ask your attorney first. It could be seen as an attempt to destroy evidence.

What Not to Do on Social Media After a Car Accident

Sharing information about your case on social media makes it public. You instantly give up any confidentiality protections. The defense can subpoena it and use it against you. It’s best to post nothing.

For this reason, keep in mind the following:

• Don’t reply to questions from your friends or family asking about how you’re feeling.

• Don’t post photos of yourself exercising or doing anything physical.

• Don’t post any medical information or anything from your attorney.

• Don’t post “check-ins.”

• Don’t accept “friend” or “follow” requests from people you don’t know.

• Don’t bad-mouth the insurance company.

• Don’t defend your actions during the accident.

• Don’t send texts or private messages.

• Don’t lie, especially about when events occurred. Everything online is time-stamped and can be used against you.

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Dreams Turned Nightmares: Is Your Medication Or Supplement To Blame?

Emily, once a sound sleeper, found her nights plagued by vivid, distressing nightmares. These night terrors, triggered by newfound stressors and medication side effects, left her sleep-deprived and desperate for relief. While her doctor initially attributed her nightmares to her recent family problems, Emily’s discovery of my article on medication-induced dreams offered her a solution.

Medications can profoundly impact our dreams, an often-overlooked possibility. In Emily’s case, the culprit was a statin drug, prescribed for cholesterol management, but known to cause nightmares and mood changes. By temporarily discontinuing the medication and embracing lifestyle changes like exercise, a low-carb, high-protein diet, and lipid management supplements, Emily has been able to reclaim peaceful nights!

While these unsettling dreams are a part of life, chronic or frequent nightmares are not. It’s essential to recognize that drugs can also induce bad dreams.

Here are the top 10 drug categories that can cause nightmares:

• Antidepressants, especially SSRIs

• Antipsychotics

• Beta-Blockers

• Statins

• ADHD medications

• Smoking cessation aids

• Corticosteroids

• Antibiotics

• Blood Pressure medications

• Anti-malaria drugs

It’s crucial never to discontinue medications abruptly due to nightmares; consult your physician for proper tapering or alternative solutions or therapeutic equivalents.

Similarly, some herbal remedies and vitamins can induce nightmares, including melatonin, valerian root, excessive amounts of vitamin B6 and ginseng. There are others too.

Sometimes a simple fix can be made. For example, adjust the timing of your medication. You can also consider a dosage reduction. The goal is to minimize dream-related side effects while capitalizing on the medication’s benefits. I like integrating things so consider combination therapies. By that, I mean using a natural aid along with a drug. For example, a statin with some fish oils. Or an antidepressant with some magnesium.

Adhere to good sleep hygiene and optimize your bedroom so it’s cool, comfy, and dark at night. It wouldn’t hurt to keep a sleep diary and not any nightmare patterns.

I think the most important thing is to keep an open line of communication about medication experiences with your physician. That way if a new side effect occurs on the heels of a prescription or herbal you started taking, you can immediately figure it out rather than waste months of sleepless nights! Share any new symptoms or concerns to optimize your health regimen.

Having nightmares is awful. It can make you not even want to go to bed at night! It can impact cardiovascular function too so even though it’s a bad dream, and you don’t even remember it (which is pretty normal), you should get try to get to the root cause. Before seeking expensive sleep specialists or additional medications, consult your doctor to investigate if your existing medication or supplement regimen is contributing to the issue. Always consult with your healthcare provider about adjusting or discontinuing medications, as sudden changes can be harmful.

(This information is not intended to treat, cure or diagnose your condition. Suzy Cohen is the author of “The 24-Hour Pharmacist” and “Real Solutions.” For more information, visit www.SuzyCohen.com) ©2022 SUZY COHEN, RPH. DISTRIBUTED BY DEAR PHARMACIST, INC.

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Artificial Intelligence In Hearing Aids

Artificial intelligence (AI) is all over the news. Even hearing aids are getting solid press for AI advancements. It might sound like science fiction — but AI has been available in hearing aids for a long time.

Humble Beginnings. In 2006, the Centra hearing device hit the market. It included machine learning — your hearing aids learned how you adjusted a setting called gain (the level of sound boost needed). After a couple of weeks, your hearing aids would automatically set the gain to your preferences.

Fine-Tuning Abounds. At fi rst, gain adjustments affected all sound output equally. But tech advancements let you adjust different parts of the sound spectrum — and your hearing aids would learn your preferences for each. You had to do this for each program on your device. Then hearing aids were developed that learned your sound preferences and set them accordingly across all your programs.

Beyond Programming. Now, developers are trying to reduce reliance on

distinct programs. One breakthrough, the deep-neural-network model — mimicking how your brain processes sound — constantly adapts to your environment, improving speech in background noise and listening comfort. Hearing aid manufacturer’s such as Oticon and Starkey utilize this deep neural network model.

The Next Horizon. Today’s hearing aids have embraced AI: One hearing aid combines nextgen machine learning with direct wearer input to optimize settings. Another keeps speech clear amid noise without sacrificing enjoyable sounds, like birdsong. Still a third has a wellness tracker, fall sensor that notifies loved ones, and digital personal assistant. As you can see, hearing aids have used AI for a long time to improve your well-being, hearing and otherwise.

Ready to see how AI can help your hearing? Contact Garden State Hearing & Balance Center at 732-818-3610 (Toms River/Whiting) or 609-978-8946 (Manahawkin) or visit us at www.gardenstate hearing.com.

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I Buy Records - 33/45. Cash paid. Call Eddie first! 732-829-5908 anytime. Travel to you fast deals! (41)

Used Guns Wanted - All types: collectibles, military, etc. Call 917-681-6809. (t/n)

CASH, CASH, CASH! - Instant cash paid for junk cars, trucks, vans. Free removal of any metal items. Discount towing. Call Dano 732-239-3949. (t/n)

CLASSIFIEDS

Help Wanted

Micromedia Publications is looking for a high-energy account rep to sell print and online advertising in Ocean County. Competitive base, bonuses & company benefits. Successful applicant should possess good communication skills & a desire to grow with the company. E-Mail resumes to jallentoff@jersey shoreonline.com. EOE. (t/n)

DAY Substitutes Wanted for the Ocean County Vocational Technical School District - Administrators, Couriers, Custodial, School Nurses/ RN, Secretarial, Teachers for Trade

Skill Areas – Auto, Childcare, Collision, Construction, Cosmetology, Culinary, Dental, Diesel Engine, Electrical, Engineering, Heavy Equipment Operator, HVAC, Machine, Marine, Medical, Plumbing, Welding & Woodworking or visit www.ocvts. org/employment. EOE. Please email resume to: tedgar@ocvts.org or call Theresa at 732-240-6414 X3317. (44)

Seeking Responsible Individual With Good Phone Skills

- Experience In Hvac & Permits A Plus. Filing/Answering Phones/ Scheduling/Permits/Ordering Parts/ Customer Service. Great Work Environment. $15/Hour

Help Wanted

B2B Services

SalesTeamStaffing.com

A highly specialized, NJ based recruiting agency for companies seeking the top Sales Professionals in their field. Add significantly to your bottom line. Phone: 201-815-2636 Email: Reps@SalesTeamStaffing. com (Guaranteed Results). (2)

R.C. Shea and Associates is seeking to hire a paralegal with civil/commercial litigation experience as well as an administrative assistant. Pay and benefits commensurate with experience. Please call Pam Williams, office manager at (732) 505-1212 or email at pwilliams@rcshea.com (t/n)

Bus Driver NEEDED! - Flexible Scheduling. Perfect for Retiree in Retirement Community. CDL w/ Passenger endorsement required. Call SilverWoods Clubhouse for more information at 732-341-4825. (t/n)

Full Time receptionist Magnolia Gardens - Family owned and operated Assisted living community looking to fill full time receptionist position. Weekend help needed. All positions start at $15 an hour. For more information call 732-557-6500 or come to our home and fill out an application at 1935 Lakewood Road, Toms River 08755. (42)

Dietary Aides Full time, part time, Weekends - Magnolia Gardens

Family owned and operated Assisted living community looking for full or part time Dietary aides. All positions start at $15.00 an hour. For more information call 732-557-6500 or come to our home and fill out an application at 1935 Lakewood Road, Toms River 08755. (42)

Laundromat Attendant - For FT/

PT Good communication skills, math and min computer knowledge. Transportation needed. Long term commitment only. 732-286-1863. (t/n)

Animal Lovers - Volunteers needed to help feed homeless cats 1 or 2 days weekly. Call 732-3672932, leave message. (43)

Now Training School Bus Drivers - School routes and athletic trips in Ocean County. Free CDL Training $22 per hour and $3000 Sign on bonus. Please call Klarr Transport 732-905-5100 or email klarrtransport@gmail.com. (44)

Gardener For Large Yard - Weekly planting, move plants. No lawn service need. Apply, Call Mrs. B 732-269-2340. (41)

Handyman Service - Carpentry, masonry, painting repairs large and small. 40 years experience. Call Jim 732-674-3346. (39)

Since 1979, Kitchen Magic, a family-owned business offering cabinet refacing, new cabinetry, and luxury countertop throughout the Northeast. We transform kitchens in less time, with less stress, at an amazing value. Call today for a free estimate 1-844-367-2477. (t/n)

Services Services Services

Nor’easter Painting and Staining, LLC - Interior and exterior. Decks, powerwashing. Affordable. Senior discounts. References. No job too small. Fully insured. 732-6910123. Lic #13VH09460600. (t/n)

Housecleaning - Painting, shopping, laundry window cleaning, carpet cleaning. Very good prices. 732773-5078, 848-287-3944. (44)

Garden State Property Maintenance - All yard work. Tree-trimming and removal, stump grinding, pavers, decks, flower beds, weeding. 609-661-5470. (t/n)

Become a Published Author. We want to Read Your Book! Dorrance Publishing-Trusted by Authors Since 1920. Book manuscript submissions currently being reviewed. Comprehensive Services: Consultation, Production, Promotion and Distribution. Call for Your Free Author`s Guide 1-877-791-2033 or visit dorranceinfo.com/micro. (t/n)

Car Service - 24/7. Doctors, shopping, airports, hospitals, cruise, shops, Atlantic City, family functions, NYC accomodations for large groups. Call for reasonable rates. Kerry 732-606-2725. (42)

APlus Home Improvements - Over 30 years experience. Everything from small handyman tasks to large renovations, decks, finished basements and much more. Lic #13VH11453600. No job too small give us a call. 908-278-1322. (52)

Prepare for power outages today with a GENERAC home standby generator $0 Money Down + Low Monthly Payment Options Request a FREE Quote. Call now before the next power outage: 1-833-901-0309. (t/n)

PQ Painting & Home Improvement Services - Over 5 decades of service in NJ. Visit us online at pqpaintingservice.com . Winner of Angie’s List Super Service Award. Free estimates, reasonable rates, fully licensed and insured NJ Lic #13VH06752800. Call 732500-3063 or 609-356-2444. (t/n)

Roofing Repairs Etc. - Roofing, siding, windows. Repairs on small jobs. Utility shed roofs replaced. Prompt service. Insured. Gutters cleaned. Call Joe Wingate 551-804-7391. (26)

MY HANDY CREW - Home repairs, carpentry, painting roofing and siding, decks, powerwashing, yardwor,k all your home maintenance needs. $ave. Call Clark 732-850-5060. Insured and NJ License #13VH11804800. (46)

LANDSCAPING - Restorations, Repairs, Stones, Mulch, Sod Installs, Hedges, Shrubs, Bushes, Downed Branches Trimmed & Removed, Demolition, Cleanouts, ect., Dumpster service provided by A901 Licensed Hauler ect. MAN WITH VAN LLC. Jim 609-335-0330 HIC# 13vh10806000. NO JOB TOO SMALL! (20)

Services

PET SITTER my home. Reasonable rates. Must meet pet prior to commitment. You supply all. References available. 201-519-4659. (38)

Learn To Play The - Flute, clarinet, saxophone, trumpet, trombone, or drums, from a NJ State

Certified Teacher of Instrumental Music, in your home! Call 732-3504427 for more information. (42)

I Am Looking For A Housekeeper Job - For every morning. Please, write a text message! 1-908-910-4401. (39)

Painting - Special Fall Pricing. Interior/Exterior. Unbeatable pricing. Meticulous work. All materials and jobs guaranteed. Fully licensed and insured. $ave. Call 732-850-5060. (45)

THE RIDE GUY - Takes you anywhere! No limits. Comfy mini-van. Call Charlie 732-2163176 or Email: cr@exit109.com. References. Let's Go! (t/n)

Bobs Waterproofing - Basement and crawlspace waterproofing. Mold testing, removal and prevention. Family owned. Fully licensed and insured. Call Bob 732-616-5007. (t/n)

Wallpaper and Bordering - Hanging and removal of old. No job too big or small. Great references. Call Angela 609-290-9702. (49)

DIRECTV Sports Pack - 3 Months on Us! Watch pro and college sports LIVE. Plus over 40 regional and specialty networks included. NFL, College Football, MLB, NBA, NHL, Golf and more. Some restrictions apply. Call DIRECTV 1-877-557-1213. (t/n)

Interior Exterior Painting - 27 years experience. Fully insured, free estimates. Call Tommy 609-661-1657. Lic# 13VH04548900. (41)

Computer Tutoring for Seniors – Retired, “Microsoft Certified” instructor. Very Reasonable rates. Very patient with slow learners. I’ll teach you in the comfort of your home on your computer. I can trouble shoot your slow computer! I also teach iPhone and iPad. I set up new computers at less than half the price the retailers charge. Windows 10 specialist. I can also build a beautiful small business website at a fraction of the going rates. Special Projects always welcome! Tony 732-997-8192. (t/n)

A1 HANDYMAN SERVICESOver 30 years experience in all phases of home improvements. Free estimates and referrals. Call John 267-475-7962. (49)

ALL American Home Health AidesExperienced experts in the field of trauma and recovery. Holistic approach to healing-nutrition, physical therapy, and quality of life improvements. Hourly or live in. Honest, hardworking, etc. Includes housekeeping, rides to doctors/pleasure. Skip the rest, come to the best. 732-664-3605. (t/n)

Typing Services - business letter, resume, poam, etc. Call 7327773-5078 or 848-287-3944. (43)

1. Below, circle the heading you would like your ad to appear under:

• Estate/Garage/Yard Sales

• Items Wanted

• For Rent

• Auto For Sale

• Help Wanted

• Real Estate

• Items For Sale

• Services

• Other

2. Print clearly your ad as you want it to read. Include Phone # within ad below (counts as 1 word). Use separate sheet if necessary.

You are responsible for checking your ad the first time it runs and notifying us of any errors. If we make an error, we will correct it and rerun the ad. We will not be responsible for multiple insertions if you do not call us after the first ad run. No refunds for classified ads. Newspapers are available at our office. Please feel free to stop in and check your ad.

Calculate Price As Follows:

3. 1 week* at $29.95 for 20 words + $0.40 ea. add’tl word = $

2 weeks* at $44.95 for 20 words + $0.40 ea. add’tl word = $

3 weeks* at $60.95 for 20 words + $0.40 ea. add’tl word = $

4 weeks* at $74.95 for 20 words + $0.40 ea. add’tl word = $

*In order to qualify for discounts, the same ad must run over the requested weeks.

Total = $

4. Make check payable in advance to Micromedia Publications, or fill in MASTERCARD/VISA/AMERICAN EXPRESS – NO DISCOVER – info. below:

Credit Card# Exp.

Cardholder Signature:

Print Name:

5. MAIL TO : PO Box 521, Lakehurst, NJ 08733. Credit Card Orders Only can be faxed to: 732-657-7388. Or go to jerseyshoreonline.com to place your classified.

6. Please include your BIlling address and contact phone number (this is required)

Address Town ZIP Phone Number

Deadline For Classified Ads: noon Monday (For that Saturday’s publications)

If you have any questions, please call Ali 732-657-7344 ext. 203.

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7:30 a.m. - 4:30 p.m. Monday-Friday. Paid Holidays. Call Care Temp Heating & AC at 732-349-1448 Or Fax Resume To 732-349-6448. (t/n)
Home Health Aides - Needed for Ocean County area. Hourly and live-in positions avail. P/T and F/T. Call CCC at 732-206-1047. (t/n)
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AroUnD the JerSeY Shore

Drugs 101 Educational Seminar

OCEAN COUNTY – Drugs 101: drug trends for Ocean County parents. An educational and interactive presentation that focuses on different drugs and their impact, with a focus on specific substances found in Ocean County. Learn about drug slang and usage, and engage with a bedroom display that is set up with signs of drug use and abuse.

October 5, 6 p.m. – Stafford Branch 609-

597-3381

October 16, 6 p.m. – Tuckerton Branch

609-296-1470

October 19, 6 p.m. – Point Pleasant Boro Branch 732-295-1555

October 23, 6 p.m. – Waretown Branch

609-693-5133

For more information, visit theoceancountylibrary.org.

Lacey Day 2023

LACEY – Lacey Township Recreation presents Lacey Day 2023 on September 30 from 12 to 4 p.m. at Gille Park.

They’ll have food trucks, kids activities and so much more! Stay tuned for more information.

Sit Your Way To Health With Chair

LACEY– Join for relaxing afternoons that also support your health. Certified yoga instructor Linda Higley will lead chair yoga for adults and seniors through late autumn at the Ocean County Library Lacey Branch.

The one-hour sessions will take place once monthly, on the following dates:

October 25 – 2:30 p.m.

November 15 – 2:30 p.m.

The exercise method uses a chair for balanced or seated positions. Proponents cite its contributions to blood circulation, flex-

Yoga

ibility, sleep quality, and stress reduction. Chair yoga also is accessible for people with limited mobility.

Participants will be required to sign waivers before the start of each session. Waivers will be available prior to the start of each program.

Register at theoceancountylibrary.org/ events for one or more sessions in the series. For more information, visit the OCL Lacey Branch, 10 East Lacey Road, Forked River, or call 609-693-8566.

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photo oF the WeeK

While Six Flags Great Adventure announced that the Drive-Thru Safari will be reworked for the 2024 season, you can still drive through today! Micromedia’s Production Manager Ali Gradzki, took this pic of a giraffe on a recent visit with her family. Have a picture you would like to show off ? Want to win a prize? Email photos@jerseyshoreonline.com and watch this space!!

Psychic Night Dinner

TOMS RIVER – Psychic Night Dinner

presented by CONTACT of Ocean & Monmouth Counties, Proceeds benefitting the 24/7 Crisis Hotline will be held on October 25 at Captain’s Inn, 304 E. Lacey Road Forked River (Enter by Banquet Entrance). Join Special Guest – Eleni Dedes, PhD, Psychic Medium, as she delivers psychic medium messages from loved ones, relative and pets throughout the Event. A ticket does not guarantee a message. Please attend with an open mind!

One seating 5:30 to 9:30 p.m. $60 ticket includes a delicious buffet dinner and private reading. Cash Bar available. Jumbo 50/50 raffle and a great mini gift auction round out the evening.

For tickets & information call CONTACT at 732-240-6104, order online PSYCHICNIGHT2023.eventbrite.com or mail check to CONTACT, P.O. Box 1121, Toms River, NJ 08754.

Visit contactoceanmonmouth.org for more information.

Motorcycle Toy Run

MANAHAWKIN – The Toy Run Foundation is once again in the planning stages of their annual motorcycle Toy Run which will be on October 1.

Registration begins at 10:30 a.m. at the Southern Regional High School parking lot on Route 9. Bring a new (unwrapped)

toy $15 to $20 value plus $10 per person to register for the ride. They will be leaving the parking lot at 12:30 p.m. (police escorted) traveling a 65-mile route ending at the St. Mary’s Parish Center on Bishop Lane Manahawkin for refreshments. Hope to see you there.

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FOR THE WEEK OF SEPT 30- OCT 6

OMARR’S ASTROLOGICAL FORECAST

ARIES (March 21-April 19) : Try not to sweat the small stuff. Do your best to build up an immunity to trivial things that could get under your skin. You can gain some understanding by offering to listen to a dear person’s worries or concerns.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20): Loved ones could be hiding multiple layers even if they say very little. Still waters can still run deep and there may be an opportunity to dive deeper. Opportunity might come knocking on your door so keep your ears open.

GEMINI (May 21-June 20): You may have worked very hard to prove yourself, but one bad word can spread like fire. Try not to let the rumor mill tarnish your shiny track record. Be ready with the data and proof if whispers start echoing.

CANCER (June 21-July 22) : You might be at a crossroads where maintaining the status quo is the safest way to go. A new opportunity could be coming, but outside factors can bring complications if you move too fast so it may be best to wait for now.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22) : What you see may not always be what you get. You could be disappointed if you try to be logical when addressing more emotional issues. This might not be the best time to buy something suggested by a family member.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) : It can be challenging to achieve your heart’s truest desire without sometimes ruffling a few feathers or causing a misunderstanding. Some people may not be ready to reply even if you leave a polite and detailed message.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22) : You might need to keep a clear head in order to deal with some hidden emotional issues right now. Offering unconditional love and understanding can help put any minor upsets that may arise right again.

SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): One of the joys of modern living is that almost any information, product, or service is available right from your phone. Don’t be afraid to self-promote; let them all know who you are and what you do.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): Keeping your arms open wide can welcome in an embrace. Remain approachable whenever possible even if differences of opinion may cause a disagreement with a loved one or friend. Mixed messages could cause avoidable mistakes.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): You may understand that organization can be a more efficient way to avoid wasting precious time. If you do your best to focus on your usual routines, you might not be tempted to go on a wild goose chase with someone.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): You may need to work hard to earn every dollar. It is wise to never risk money you cannot afford to lose, but you might be more willing to spend a little more to purchase something that should be durable.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): Even with the best intentions some conversations may feel like an attack. You could be in a more sensitive mood or may have misunderstood something. Take a breath and regroup before reviewing the conversation.

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