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Photo by Stephanie Faughnan The Lawrence family looks forward to returning to their home. By Stephanie Faughnan BARNEGAT – Melissa and Matt Lawrence hold cherished memories of the trips they made from Toms River to Barnegat, eagerly monitoring the progress of their home during its initial construction. They excitedly watched as the walls went up, the roof was put on, and their dream home took shape. After signing closing documents for their resi-
Unified Flag Football Teams Score Big At Field of Dreams By Stephanie Faughnan TOMS R I V ER – The renowned Field of Dreams recently lived up to its namesa ke as the backdrop for a spirited f lag football showdow n be tween two unified high school teams.
In a historic fi rst, the Toms River East Raiders and Wall Crimson Knights Unified f lag football tea ms met on the field, demonstrating the power of inclusion and sportsmanship. The Raiders emerged victor ious with a 28-21 win over
the Crimson Knights. T he t wo u n i f ie d spor ts teams previously played kickball on the same field in the spring. Unified Sports, an initiative associated with the Special Olympics, bridges the gap between students (Teams - See Page 6)
dence at 109 Cox Road on July 19, 2021, Melissa and Matt couldn’t wait to move in a couple of days later. They immediately set to work, turning the house into a warm and welcoming home. However, tragedy struck the newly married couple a year and just days later, on July 23, 2022. A ferocious fire engulfed their two-story house, reducing it to a mere shell and consuming nearly (Family - See Page 4)
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Jacqueline Bodine To Be Remembered For Service To Others By Chris Lundy MANCHESTER – Jacqueline “Jackie” Bodine will be remembered by family and friends for her compassion and diligence in helping people in all stages of their lives. Bodine had been a member of the Executive Board of the Albert Music Hall in Waretown. She served as a tr ustee for the Ocean Cou nt y Foundation for Vocational Technical Education, the fundraising arm for the VoTech school. I n he r e a rly Photo courtesy Silverton professional caMemorial Home reer in banking and finance, she became the youngest woman to be promoted to a cor porate officer position. She had served on the board of education in New City, New York, which whetted her appetite for public service. She spent summers at the Jersey shore, running Bil-Lee’s Ice Cream in Ortley Beach with her husband, Bill. After Bill passed in 2007, she joined Ocean County Memorial Park Waretown & Toms River as a Family Service Counselor. She (Bodine - See Page 6)
Students Learn Cooking – And Caring For Those In Need By Judy Smestad-Nunn BRICK – It was all hands on deck during the week before Thanksgiving for the 170 Culinary Arts students at Brick Vo-tech, when all the students helped to prepare 3,000 meals for Ocean and Monmouth County families in need. Culinary 1 instructor Chef Gary Lesniak said the menu for “Feed the Need” has stayed the same over the years, but the need always increases. Student enrollment is at full capacity, which was (Need - See Page 5)
Photo courtesy OCVTS There were 170 students who worked to create 3,700 meals for people in need.
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Continued From Page 1 all of their precious belongings. The devastating blaze mercilessly displaced the family, leaving them without a place to call their own. Today, Melissa and Matt find themselves once again driving past their Cox Road address, but this time from a rental house in Stafford. The reconstruction of their dream home has encountered unexpected delays, extending their wait to reclaim their lives within the walls of their forever home. “We’re hoping to move back in by the beginning of the year,” Melissa shared. Not surprisingly, the Lawrence family’s ordeal extends beyond the physical loss of their home and belongings. Melissa and Matt’s own emotional distress has been amplified by witnessing the fear, confusion, and uncertainty that their daughters have faced. Melissa’s daughter, Faith Todero, now 20, found herself alone in their Barnegat home on the fateful day of the fire. Then, an active member of the Barnegat High School Dance Team, Faith was immersed in her music, dancing to her heart’s content in her upstairs bedroom. With the speakers turned up to full blast, the wail of the smoke alarms, around 2 in the afternoon, took Faith by surprise. Faith initially assumed her parents were engaging in a playful prank, taking advantage of “smart home” devices within the house. Fortunately, she still decided to investigate and proceeded to the lower level.
“As she went downstairs to check,” said Melissa. “Faith noticed the smoke and went towards the kitchen. She discovered the smoke was coming from the garage.” “She planned to open the garage door,” Melissa continued. “However, when she touched it with her hand and barely turned it, it blew her back.” Faith knew her mother was at work but was uncertain if Matt and her younger sister, Kaitlyn Lima, were home. Faith bravely ventured through the house and checked each room. In the master bedroom, she found their beloved pooches, Alice and Maggie, huddled in locked crates. Faith scooped up the dogs and quickly rushed outside. Faith’s heart sank as her search for the family’s beloved cat, Bonnie, proved fruitless. Following a thorough investigation, the Ocean County Fire Marshal concluded that the fi re was caused by an electrical malfunction originating from an outlet in the garage. Rebuilding Life The fire left the four members of the Lawrence family with virtually nothing more than the clothes on their backs. Faith’s car, which had not yet been insured, was parked in the driveway and was consumed by the flames. “The fire had not really worked its way into the basement,” Matt shared. “All the water used to put out the fire worked its way into the basement.” While everything in the basement was filled with mold, Melissa found one thing that was
Photo by Stephanie Faughnan The rebuild of the Lawrence home is a work in progress that should be complete by the beginning of the year. actually salvageable. A plastic bin containing her children’s baby books with their pictures survived the mass destruction. “Faith was born in 2003, so it was before digital photographs,” said Melissa. “I lost all the frames and favorite photos hanging on the wall, but at least these were saved.” A metal filing cabinet on the upper level that contained important documentation also survived the fire. Amidst the devastation and heartache,
the Lawrence family found an outpouring of compassion and generosity. Donations of clothing poured in, giving them some essentials to start rebuilding their lives. A GoFundMe campaign initiated by a close friend raised nearly $12,000. Both Melissa and Matt marveled at the outreach by strangers in a community that was new to them. The outpouring of support reinforced their belief in the goodness (Family - See Page 14)
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Continued From Page 1 helpful since 400 turkeys had to be thawed, sectioned, deboned, baked and plated. The Culinary Arts instructors, which include Chefs Jill Scott, Kevin Musto, Donna Squillaro and newcomer Monica Impaglia, have the preparation of the thousands of meals down to a science when students put the meals together in assembly-line style. “Feed the Need” has humble beginnings when some 25-to-30 years ago the culinary arts students prepared about 20 meals for a church. That number has grown into 3,700 requests for meals this year, Lesniak said. The Brick Culinary Arts Program has always par tnered with Food Ser vice Director Tommy Yanisko at Community Hospital in Toms River, who holds a cash fundraiser every year that pays for the
The Southern Ocean Times, December 2, 2023, Page 5 groceries, including green beans, yams, onions, butter, potatoes and much more, that is needed for the 3,000 meals. “This year, with the added dinners that were requested, Tommy and his group of volunteers plated up 700 additional meals, at the hospital, to make up the 3,700,” Lesniak said. Fulfi ll NJ provided 400 12 to 14-pound turkeys to the cause. The meals are picked up and distributed by a number of non-profit organizations, large and small. This year, the bulk of the meals, some 2,000, went to Inspire New Jersey, a multi-need charity based in Manchester. Jesus Is Lord Fellowship in Brick distributed 1,000 meals. Some are for members of the parish and others are distributed to the community, Lesniak said. Child Protective Services of Bayville and Toms River distributed some 200 meals to families who are in their care,
and Manchester Regional Day School got 66 dinners. Toms River Senior Center picked up 50 dinners, Preferred Behavior South took about 100 and Seaside Elementary School took 120 dinners, he said. “We sent a couple of dinners over to Church of the Visitation for the priests that are going to be on duty this holiday weekend,” Lesniak said. The Thanksgiving meal preparation was a full-circle moment for Chloe Torres, 18, a fi rst-year culinary student from Jackson High School, who was the recipient of Feed the Need when she was younger. “It’s heartwarming because my family history was bad. They helped me, and I’m just thankful for helping families and kids that need food.” she said. “It makes me happy to see other people happy.” Friends Alicia Bird, 17, a junior from Lacey, and Serena Hawileh, 17, a senior from Brick, worked together on the sweet potato casserole and mashed potatoes.
“It was a good experience. It meant a lot to me because I’ve been in a similar situation where my family would go to food pantries when I was young, and it’s really nice knowing that I can help people now that I have more money in my family,” said Bird. Hawileh agreed. “It was really nice because you knew you were helping a lot of people,” she said. “There was so much food - it was fun and a little stressful - every day we were pushing more and more and more.” CJ Cooke, 16, a junior from Jackson High School, said the whole experience of preparing food for Feed the Need was fun. “I enjoyed being with my classmates - it was kind of like a bonding experience,” he said. “The teachers put so much into it. I think everyone was so happy to be doing something that’s for such a good cause, to feed all these people who are struggling,” Cooke said.
Barnegat Man To Remain Detained Pending Murder Trial
By Alyssa Riccardi BARNEGAT – A 34-year-old township resident will remain detained pending trial after allegedly murdering his mother and father, officials said. Michael Mulgrew was apprehended on November 2 and was charged with Murder, Possession of a Weapon for
an Unlawful Pur pose, and Unlawful Possession of a Weapon in connection with the stabbing deaths of 71-year-old Eugene Mulgrew and 69-year-old Cheryl Mulgrew. According to authorities, officers were called to a home on Lincoln Avenue on November 2 to assist medical personnel
with performing a mobile outreach at the residence. As the officers approached the home, they observed a man walking away. Officers noticed blood on the front door of the house and in other areas of the home. Inside a bedroom, they found the bodies of Eugene and Cheryl Mulgrew who had been stabbed in the torso. Police
also found a knife near the bedroom. Mulgrew has been lodged in the Ocean County Jail since his apprehension. The charges referenced are merely accusations and the public are reminded that all defendants are presumed innocent unless and until proven guilty beyond a reasonable doubt in a court of law.
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Continued From Page 1 receiving special services and their general education peers, fostering a spirit of camaraderie and shared passion for athletic pursuits. Behind every touchdown and cheer were dedicated student and staff coaches, guiding both the Toms River East and Wall Unified teams with passion and commitment, proving that dreams can become a reality on and off the field with the proper support. Numerous student coaches/mentors f rom bot h tea ms were d r aw n f rom the ranks of their respective schools’ varsity football teams. Raider Nation and Crimson Knights students added team spirit from the sidelines, chanting player names in true pep rally fashion. Adding an official f lair to the game, both schools enlisted the support of their varsity cheerleaders, while Toms R iver East elevated the exper ience with the accompaniment of their school band. Toms River East Unified Team member Christian Colon stood transfixed as the band’s horns and drums filled the air with their stir ring melodies. Just a few minutes remained before he and his teammates would take the field for warmups, and the anticipation was palpable. “I like the music,” nodded Christian. “It all sounds good.” For some team players, the bustling environ ment might have been overwhelming. Their unifor ms included headphones, creating a personal soundscape that filtered out the potential for sensory overload. The magic of the unified f lag football game didn’t just stay within the confines of the Field of Dreams. It reached a w ider aud ience as T RST V, Toms R iver Schools T V, broadcasted the heartwarming event, allowing viewers to witness the inspiring collaboration bet wee n spe cial need s a nd t y pical students. The student production assistants and announcers were also part of the endeavor. “The idea was to create as much of a real game experience that high school kids get for the special needs kids,”
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Continued From Page 1 represented Memorial Park at the Southern Ocean, Barnegat, and Toms River Chambers of Commerce. “Throughout her life, she volunteered her time at community events, guided families through grief, and shared many home-cooked meals. She constantly expressed her love and had countless stories to share. While her life was full of academic and career-based successes, she was the most happy with her family surrounding her. Jackie was an ever-loved mother, sister, grandmother, aunt, cousin, friend, and community
shared Christian Kane, co-founder of RWJBH Field of Dreams. “We wanted to give them everything – cheerleaders, a pep rally, lunch or dinner afterward.” Kane explained that br inging the concept of unified teams to life was a year-long project. The journey began in September 2022 as a collaboration with Toms River East in organizing the kickball game played in May. Now, Kane has shifted his focus to Toms River Nor th, laying the groundwork for their debut kickball game. While the tight score told one story, the true triumph extended far beyond any number tally. The game epitomized one of the pr imar y missions of the Field of Dreams. It was a win/win for every player, helper, and onlooker who watched it happen. T he r e sou nd i ng che e r s f rom t he crowd, the unwavering determination on the players’ faces, and the infectious enthusiasm of the coaches painted a picture of unity and sportsmanship that surpassed the boundaries of the field. As players from both teams gathered on the field, their hands outstretched in a post-game ritual of sportsmanship, Kane seized the opportunity to share a personal story. He explained how the Field of Dreams came into being as a result of an unforgettable nightmare. Kane asked everyone on the field to turn around as he pointed to some trees on the other side of the complex. “On July 12, 2012, th rough those t rees, there is a back ent rance into Toms River North High School,” Kane said. “That is where I got into a car accident with my son Gavin.” “He went from being typical to someone who now lives in a wheelchair and has special needs,” continued Kane. “That day was the worst day of my life.” Kane instructed the crowd on the field to turn back and face him. “Look at me,” he said. “Today is now the best day of my life.” The inaug u ral f lag football game bet ween Toms R iver East and Wall Unif ied Teams ser ved as proof that through collaboration and inclusion, dreams can indeed come true. Every single person at the game left a winner – with a job well done. More than a few had tears in their eyes.
member. She possessed a sense of humor, a wildly unique style, and the ability to light up a room with ease which will never be forgotten. She passed away peacefully at the age of 85,” her obituary stated. She is survived by her brother, Michael D’Antuono and his wife, Betty; her daughter, Lisa Latori; son, William H Bodine III and his wife, Stefanie; granddaughter Carina Duffy, and many cousins, nieces and nephews. In her memory, donations can be sent to Albert Music Hall C/O Pinelands Cultural Society, P.O. Box 657, Waretown, NJ 08758. Memo: In Memory Jackie Bodine.
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Letters To The Editor New House Speaker Is A Danger To Women After weeks of chaos, Republicans in the U.S. House of Representatives elected a new speaker. Their choice should ring emergency alarm bells for more than half of our country’s population: women. Speaker Mike Johnson of Louisiana said he believes women should be compelled to bring more able-bodied workers into the world. This is terrifying for several reasons. The word “compelled” suggests the real possibility that forced birth could become national policy. It already is in red states that banned not only abortion but traveling out of state to secure one. “Compelled” also suggests women would be forced to continue physically problematic pregnancies that literally could kill them. “Compelled” suggests men will make all decisions about pregnancy, which could lead to them usurping power to determine all other aspects of women’s lives. The phrase “able-bodied” suggests the state would determine acceptable characteristics. Such a situation would be reminiscent of Hitler’s master-race theory. We all know what happened to 6 million Jews he felt were not in that category. The world “workers” suggests a long-held class division of Communism, a system in which the means of production are owned by the state; hence, employees are under state control. Johnson is a dangerous extremist who is leading the charge toward a national abortion ban, the first front in the countrywide GOP war against women. The threat of a Handmaid’s Tale America is real. Vote accordingly in November. Helen E. Fitzsimmons Beachwood
Tammy Murphy Senate Run Is Outrageous There are not enough synonyms for the word OUTR AGE to describe how I feel about Gove r nor Mu r phy’s w ife’s candidacy for NJ Senate. Had Phil Murphy been a PREVIOUS gover nor, I am sure I would not be as outspoken, as his wife has every right to run for any office she chooses. However, from what I’ve read, FBI agents executed search warrants on Senator Menendez’s home in JUNE of 2022. While I don’t remember reading about t h is “raid” u nt il Se pt e mbe r 2023, I a m unconvinced our “sitting” Governor Murphy did not know. Could it have been then that the idea of Mrs. Murphy challenging the seemingly corr upt Senator was born? Is it then that the idea for a way to promote Mrs. Murphy’s First Lady accomplishments were developed? Is it not coincidental that NJ aired ads with her voice advocating for maternal and infant health in or around September 2023, but BE FOR E , she a n nounced her candidacy? Did Andy Kim foil her surprise announcement by immediately jumping into the race to challenge Senator Menendez because he believed New Jerseyans deser ved an alter native but hadn’t asked NJ power bosses ‘permission’ to run? So many questions and so few real answers. New Jersey’s primary ballots are quite interesting, giving County Chairpersons the opportunity to “whip” their County Committee members to vote to endorse a candidate how they see fit. You can’t tell me that Governor Murphy as the SITTING governor will not do all in his power to encourage each county to make sure Mrs. Murphy gets that coveted position
on the primary ballot as that position almost guarantees a win for whoever is there. I will support Mrs. Murphy’s candidacy in the November 2024 general election, IF AND ONLY IF, each county creates its PRIMARY ballot to group all those challenging for the NJ Senate position TOGETHER. That would be a fair fight, and isn’t that what Democrats always tout - a fair fight? Anything less weighs the scale heavily in Mrs. Mu r phy’s favor. W hile the following quote in the New Jersey Globe from Tyler Jones, a spokesperson for Murphy, refers to the voice ads she created, it is very appropriate overall to ensure a fair fight for the June 2024 primary: “Out of an abundance of caution and to avoid even the slightest appearance of impropriety, we have decided that…” New Jersey counties’ primary ballots will group all those who are running for NJ Senate together (my thoughts not in quotes). Jackie Lynch Waretown
Who Do You Trust? Who do you trust? I’m not thinking of political leaders. I’m referring to people. Whether they go to church is as irrelevant as their political par ty. What matters is whether they put their beliefs above evidence. Do they put Tribe above Tr uth? If they are unwilling to look at evidence, then the answer is beware. We all choose what we believe. But if we’re u nwilli ng t o put ev ide nce ab ove ourselves, we can’t even t r u st ou r selve s. We’re all tempted to do it. You know who I am talking about because we are related to them. They are our friends and neighbors. They are nice people.
Need examples? Think of s ome one you k now who will believe allegations from their favorite “ fact ” sou rce. But not watch testimony swor n under oath if they think it threatens their belief. Telling lies is not against the law. False testimony under oath is. That’s why some people do ever ything they can to avoid it. Cross-examination makes the veracity even stronger. If it’s the truth you fear, don’t watch. Do you know anyone who refused to watch the January 6th hearings, even if they had the opportunity? I know lots of them. Some even send me uncorroborated stories they find on the internet. If it conforms to what they want to believe, they swallow it like the gospel truth. All propogandists know if you repeat a lie often enough, people will believe it. We witness today the ease of spreading lies. Millions believe the last presidential election was stolen based on allegations without evidence. Joseph Goebbels once said: “The more absurd the lie, the more people will believe it.” Q-Anon conspiracy anyone? Voltaire wrote during the reign of terror following the French Revolution over 200 years ago: “If you can get people to believe absurdities, you can get them to commit at ro cit ie s.” Re me mb e r January 6th. Times may have changed. But people haven’t. If you have been following the evidence, you know the former president k new he lost t he 2020 election while he was (and still is) telling people he didn’t. He knows his audience. He actually has two: Those who believe what he says because they need to be lied to; and those who don’t care if it’s true because they want power. James Tweed Ocean City
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Lawmakers Urge Biden To Expand Health Coverage To DACA Recipients Capitol Comments Senator Cory Booker
WASHINGTON, D.C. – Senators Cory Booker (D-NJ), Dick Durbin (D-IL), and Mazie Hirono (D-HI) joined with Representatives Barbara Lee (CA-12), Joaquin Castro (TX-20), and Pramila Jayapal (WA-07) to call on the Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) to finalize their proposed rule to expand health coverage for those
participating in the Deferred Action for Childhood Arrivals (DACA) program, crime victims, and immigrant children. In April 2023, the Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) proposed a regulation to make DACA recipients eligible for coverage under Medicaid, the Affordable Care Act (ACA), and the Children’s Health Insurance Program (CHIP). This rule also enhances coverage for other groups, including those approved for Special Immigrant Juvenile (SIJ) status and children applying for humanitarian relief. If this rule is not
soon finalized, individuals in need may not be able to fully benefit from the 2024 Affordable Care Act open enrollment period, which began on November 1, 2023. “DACA recipients are also disproportionately uninsured and tend to experience higher barriers to health care – these trends all contribute to racial health disparities in the U.S. Youth approved for Special Immigrant Juvenile (SIJ) status often have to wait years before receiving a status adjustment. Due to confusion around current rule implementation, access to health coverage has been delayed for many,” wrote the lawmakers. The lawmakers requested that the Biden Administration address the following
Murphy Administration Adopts Zero-Emission Vehicle Standards
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Governor Phil Murphy TRENTON – Governor Phil Murphy and Department of Environmental Protection (DEP) Commissioner Shawn M. LaTourette announced the filing of the Advanced Clean Cars II rule for adoption on December 18, setting the state on the road toward better air quality and cleaner choices
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and light-duty trucks to meet an annual ZEV requirement intended to increase the percentage of electric vehicles sold in New Jersey. The rule also ensures that traditional gasoline- and diesel-fueled vehicles are manufactured to meet more stringent exhaust emission standards, which will positively impact air quality in New Jersey communities, especially those near high-traffic corridors. The rule will take effect starting in model year 2027, providing time for auto industry transition and continued development of charging infrastructure and a more robust and cleaner electrical grid in New Jersey. It does not ban gasoline cars, nor does it force consumers to buy EVs. Rather, the rule will provide certainty to vehicle manufacturers, suppliers, utilities, and charging infrastructure companies to make the long-term investments that will be crucial to large-scale deployment of light-duty ZEVs and consumer choice. Emissions from the transportation sector constitute the largest source of climate pollution in New Jersey at 37% of those emissions. By increasing ZEV sales and the stringency of the multi-pollutant exhaust emission standards, the state will also reduce emissions of localized air pollution from nitrogen oxides (NOx) and fine particulate matter (PM2.5) that will provide important public health benefits, especially in urbanized areas and overburdened communities. With the new rule, vehicle manufacturers must ensure that 43% of their annual production volume in 2027 is ZEVs. The percentage increases each year, peaking at 100 percent in 2035 and thereafter. The adoption of the Advanced Clean Car II rule is an evolution of rules adopted by the DEP in 2006 which incorporated, by reference, California’s ZEV requirement and emission control standards for all model
questions: What is preventing HHS from finalizing the rule, and how can congressional allies help address any barriers? When the rule is finalized, what resources will your administration devote to ensuring newly eligible people are aware of their health coverage options? The preamble of the proposed rule stated, “implementation of these changes would be most effective during a period when there are many outreach and enrollment activities occurring.” The time to finalize this policy and expand health coverage is now. The letter was also signed by four Senators and 98 other House members.
year 2009 and subsequent passenger cars and light-duty trucks. Consumer demand for electric vehicles continues to rise. The number of EVs in New Jersey has grown to more than 123,000, representing 12 percent of new vehicle sales. Since just last December, sales have surged 50 percent. In 2007, New Jersey’s Legislature passed the Global Warming Response Act (GWRA), N.J.S.A. 26:2C-37 et seq., which recognized that climate change, primarily caused by emissions of heat-trapping greenhouse gases, poses a threat to the planet’s ecosystems and environment. In 2019, the Legislature amended the GWRA to require the State to develop programs to reduce emissions of both greenhouse gases and short-lived climate pollutants through a comprehensive strategy. In 2020, the Department released the GWRA 80x50 Report, which analyzed New Jersey’s emissions reductions, evaluated the plans for further reducing emissions, and presented a set of strategies across seven emission sectors, including transportation, to reduce greenhouse gas emissions by 80 percent from 2006 levels. A successful EV transition through the Advanced Clean Car II rule depends on adequate access to charging infrastructure and sufficient charging points across the state, including home charging, which is the most convenient and frequently used, and usually the least-cost source of electricity for charging. The Murphy Administration, through the New Jersey Department of Environmental Protection, Board of Public Utilities, Economic Development Authority, and Department of Transportation continues to advance funding and initiatives to develop charging infrastructure. Since 2019, the (Government - See Page 18)
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Cheerleaders Qualify For Nationals
Photo courtesy Southern Regional MANAHAWKIN – Congratulations Southern Regional Cheerleading on qualifying for the UCA Nationals (in Orlando, Florida, February of 2024) at Cure Arena UCA Regionals in Trenton, NJ. Continued success to the cheerleaders and coaches.
Holiday Festival Vendor Fair
LACEY – The Lacey Recreation Department is proud to announce the 2nd Annual Holiday Festival Vendor Fair at the Charles A. Smith Community Center on December 2 from 12 to 6 p.m. The Holiday Festival Vendor Fair is a holiday shopping event that will give people an opportunity to shop from over 30 local artisans and vendors to find unique gifts for everyone on your shopping list this year. Don’t miss out on this chance to shop local. Bring your family and take a fun photo at
our holiday photo display. Complimentary holiday themed crafts will be available for kids while supplies last. Refreshments available for purchase and admission to the event is free. The Charles A Smith Community Center is located at 15 East Lacey Road in Forked River. If you have any questions, call the Lacey Recreation Department at 609-6931100 ext. 2203. For a full listing of programs, download the fall brochure at laceytownship. org or on facebook.com/lacey.recreation.
Breakfast With Santa STAFFORD – The Stafford Township EMS Auxiliary is excited to host Breakfast with Santa at the Manahawkin Applebee’s on December 17 from 8 to 10 a.m. Santa Claus and Mrs. Claus will be traveling all the way from the North Pole to bring surprises for all the children and take photos with those who wish to. Bring your little ones and enjoy a delicious breakfast while they share their Christmas wishes with Santa!
Don’t miss out on this opportunity to kick off the holiday season. Tickets must be purchased prior to the event at ticketor. com/staffordems/santa23 and shown at the door for entry. Tickets at $20 for adults, $15 for kids. Breakfast includes pancakes, sausage, scrambled eggs, and beverage of choice including coffee, juice, soda, and tea. Proceeds to benefit Stafford Township EMS.
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Photo courtesy Ocean Township Police Department WARETOWN – Over two days, members of the Ocean Township PBA Local 371 were able to deliver 76 Thanksgiving meals to families in town thanks to the generous donations from The Greenbriar Men’s Club, The Forked River Rotary, The Greenbriar Women’s Club, The students and staff of the Ocean Township School District, along with
the members of the Township Committee and the Township of Ocean Municipal Alliance. If you are need of a meal this holiday season, don’t hesitate to reach out so they can help. You can email Chief Rogalski at MRogalski@twpoceannj.gov.
Annual PBA 296 Toy Drive
BARNEGAT – Annual PBA 296 Toy Drive to benefit Barnegat children is underway. Members will be at the American Legion on
December 2 from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. Drop off boxes are also located at Barnegat Town Hall, Police Lobby, and the Mirage Clubhouse.
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Barnegat Holiday Market
BARNEGAT – The Barnegat Holiday Market will be on December 2 form 12 to 5 p.m. at Fred Watts Gazebo Park, Route 9 Barnegat. Holiday music by WBNJ 91.9FM, crafters, breads, cookies, pies, Cream Ridge Winery, caroling by Waterview Singers and the Select Choir from Lighthouse Christian Academy. Tree lighting at 4:30 p.m. For more information, email jbroadbent@ barnegat.net.
Bayside Chapel Christmas Eve Services
BARNEGAT – Bayside Chapel, located at 965 West Bay Avenue, will hold Christmas Eve Services on December 24. Traditional services will be held at 9 a.m., 3 p.m. and 5 p.m. with a Family Service at 11 a.m.
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Photo courtesy Stafford Police STAFFORD – The 3rd Annual Stafford Police Department vs SOMC Charity Softball game is in the books! Stafford Township Police faced Southern Ocean Medical Center in an absolute barnburner of a game, complete with a hotdog cart with homemade onions, and overflowing boxes of donations for the
Holiday Toy Drive. Donations for the 2023 Holiday Toy Drive are still being accepted. New, unwrapped toys can be dropped off at the Bay Avenue Community Center, Stafford Township Municipal Building, or one of our many local business partners around town with official collection boxes.
LBI Garden Club Wins Award
LONG BEACH – The Garden Club of LBI received first place from the National Garden Club for the 2023-24 yearbook the club publishes for its members. The National Garden Club divides the nation into seven regions. The Garden Club of LBI received the first-place award in the Central Atlantic Region comprised of Delaware, Maryland, New Jersey, New York, Ohio, Pennsylvania and Washington, DC. The yearbook committee, headed by Garden Club of LBI member Janice Stonaker, received high scores for creating a book with an appealing cover and a practical, convenient size. Also judged was inclusion of meeting information, the membership roster and
garden club activities and projects. The Garden Club of LBI, which began in Alice Sutter’s North Beach living room with 13 women in l958, has grown to 179 members. Included in the many varied programs are maintenance of three public gardens on LBI, participation in the environmental health of the island, work with seniors and school children, decoration of local libraries, scholarships for high school seniors, contributions to local organizations dedicated to maintaining the coast, and two fundraisers for the community, the Holiday Tour of Homes in December and the Garden and Outdoor Living Tour in the summer. Information and how to join the club are on the website, thegardencluboflbi.com.
Donate To The Holiday Elf Program
BARNEGAT – The Rotary Club of Barnegat provides Christmas gifts to children in need in Barnegat. If you would like to donate to help support this program, it is very much appreciated and will be used to make a Barnegat Child’s Christmas a special one. How It Works: 1. Monetary donations can be made to the Rotary Club of Barnegat New Jersey Charitable Foundation, Inc. 2. 100% of your donation will go toward
this program to purchase gifts. 3. The club will do the shopping of the gifts at the Target in Manahawkin in mid-December 4. Gifts will be provided to families less fortunate through the Barnegat School system. To donate you can send mail a payment made payable to Barnegat Rotary to Barnegat Rotary Club, P.O. Box 474, Barnegat, NJ 08005 or visit barnegatrotary.square. site/s/shop.
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Touch A Truck & Breakfast With Santa
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Continued From Page 4 of humanity and provided them with the strength to face the challenges ahead. In the fire’s immediate aftermath, Matt’s parents opened their home to their son and his family. Ultimately, the Lawrences’ homeowner’s insurance provided temporary accommodations at the Mainland Hotel on Route 72. “It was actually hard because it was in the middle of summer,” explained Melissa. “There wasn’t a lot of availability, and we had to stay close because Kaitlyn was still in cheer.” The rental market was tight, with suitable homes in high demand and scarce to find. However, when a Stafford homeowner learned of the family’s dilemma on social media, he offered to rent his vacant property. Arrangements with the Lawrence’s homeowner insurance company allowed the family to move from the hotel to the one-family house. A truckload of rental furniture and household necessities added the finishing touches. Less than a month after the fire, Kaitlyn, now 15 and a member of the Barnegat High
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School Varsity Cheerleading Squad, suffered traumatic breaks to both ankles while practicing cheers. The severity of the break to her left ankle required surgery to insert pins, necessitating her to use a wheelchair. Different things seem to spur on the memories created by the devastating experience. Kaitlyn recalled a fire drill when she and her sister returned to school after the blaze destroyed their home. “I know that Faith had to put on headphones on with blasting music,” Kaitlyn said. “She did that so she didn’t have to hear the fire alarms.” Kaitlyn added that the two dogs also react poorly if the smoke alarms go off in the house. None of the challenges seem to compare to the loss Kaitlyn continues to view as a constant source of heartache. She and Bonnie had been inseparable companions, and the thought of Bonnie perishing in the fire was a heavy burden. The family searched tirelessly for the cat after the fire to no avail. “What’s really hard is that everything feels temporary,” Kaitlyn added. “Everything in my life.” The rebuilding process has included two
new additions to the family home, bringing the Lawrences much-needed joy and comfort amidst their challenges. Willow Lawrence, a sweet baby girl born this September, has brought a new dimension of love to the family unit. And while no one can replace Bonnie, a new Siamese cat named Clover seems to also consider Kaitlyn her favorite human. Both Melissa and Matt said the things they miss the most are sentimental in value. Melissa’s childhood memories, captured on VHS tapes, were forever lost. Matt mourned the loss of cherished items passed down from his late grandfather. These included a mantle clock earned through 30 years of dedicated service at General Motors. The Lawrences’ anticipation of returning to their rebuilt home was dampened by unexpected delays, adding to the stress of their already challenging situation. The investigation into the cause of the fire had to be completed before construction could commence, a necessary step that nonetheless prolonged their displacement. Once the investigation was concluded, the Lawrences faced another hurdle when their first chosen contractor abruptly disappeared
Holiday Wonderland And Christmas Market a full day of shopping, food trucks, fire pits, Santa and Mrs. Claus, live entertainment and more to get you in the holiday spirit! They encourage everyone attending to please plan ahead. There will be single side of the street parking rules in effect for the
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after signing up for the project. “He essentially ghosted us,” said Melissa. “He never returned the calls of the person who referred him to us either.” The unexpected setback left Melissa and Matt scrambling to find a reliable contractor to meet their needs and expeditiously begin rebuilding. If all goes as anticipated, they should return next month to start a new year in their dream home. Melissa admits that leaving her house remains a constant battle against the fear of the unknown. The memory of the fire’s destructive force casts a shadow over her, triggering a regular state of vigilance and anticipation. The fire has robbed the entire family of the sense of security and safety that a home should provide, replacing it with a pervasive sense of vulnerability. “Trying to pick up the pieces for my beautiful daughters, who also have to deal with the pain of this. How can I make them feel better, I can’t take the fire back… It happened,” Melissa wrote in a recent Facebook post. “As a mother, you never want to see your kids go through something like this. And not being able to fix it just adds to the helplessness feeling.”
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HERE’S TO YOUR HEALTH Dr. Izzy’s Sound News Presented By: Isidore Kirsh, Ph.D., F.A.A.A. (N.J. Lic. #678)
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The Lyric Invisible Hearing Aid Revisted
Phonak is the manufacturer of the Lyric device which has been around for over a decade. The intent of this device is complete invisibility and you wear it 24 hours a day. That’s right, you can sleep with the hearing aid, shower with the aid, etc. In my opinion, this is NOT a completely water proof hearing aid so be careful. You must remove the devices if you’re getting an MRI (there is a removal tool for you to do this). Your hearing healthcare professional will insert this device deep into your ear canal about 4mm from your eardrum. Your ear canals need to be completely free of “wax” and there are many medical exclusions for wearing this type of device. For example, if you’re on a blood thinner you should not be wearing this device. If you have a hearing loss exceeding 80%, the Lyric is not strong enough for your hearing impairment. In my practice, only 60% of all patients are truly candidates for this device. The internal battery of the Lyric will typically last for about 2 months. At that time, you will need to return to your hearing healthcare professional for them Dr. Bartiss has often been referred to as “a doctor’s doctor”, and is frequently called upon for his diagnostic skills. He is founder and Medical Director of ICAM and a member of the American College for the Advancement of Medicine, the American Academy of Anti-Aging Medicine, the American Academy of Ozone Therapists, and a diplomate of the American Academy of Family Physicians. Dr. Bartiss is a medical writer, lecturer and author who is recognized as one of the top ten specialists in the field of Bio-Identical Hormone Replacement Therapy (BHRT).
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to remove the device and reinsert a new one. This is a subscription-based program whereby you pay upfront for a year supply of Lyric devices and service and you can renew your subscription yearly. The typical cost for a yearly subscription is $3000-3500 for Lyrics for both ears. Over a 5-year period, you will be spending about $17,000 which for most consumers is cost prohibitive. In addition, the Lyric does not utilize a Bluetooth signal and you can’t download an app on your cell phone for adjustments. The Lyric works very well in a “quite” environment because it uses a “linear” circuit, however, it does not work well in noisy areas! In my opinion, you should explore more cost-effective digital hearing aids that have Bluetooth connectivity and rechargeable batteries. You will save between $7-$10,000 over a 5-year period and have a better listening experience. Dr. Izzy and his Staff are always available to answer questions pertaining to your hearing health care. Please feel free to contact 732-818-3610 (Toms River/ Whiting) or 609-978-8946 (Manahawkin) or visit www.gardenstatehearing.com.
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HERE’S TO YOUR HEALTH Dear Pharmacist Suzy Cohen, R. Ph.
Nature’s Answer To JAK3 Inhibition: 5 Herbal And Natural Alternatives
By Suzy Cohen, R. Ph. JAK3 inhibitors have become a buzzword in pharmaceuticals, with significant implications for treating various diseases, including autoimmune disorders and cancers. JAK (Janus Kinase) inhibitors, particularly JAK3 inhibitors, play a crucial role in regulating immune responses, offering therapeutic benefits in conditions like rheumatoid arthritis, psoriatic arthritis, ulcerative colitis, and certain cancers. Here are more details about the JAK/STAT pathway. Every human being has it running silently in the body’s background chemistry. It’s vital for cell signaling, influencing cell growth, your immune response, and cell differentiation. JAK inhibitors (meaning the drugs) target this pathway, calming an overactive immune response, which is a hallmark of autoimmune diseases and some cancers. Inhibiting the JAK/STAT pathway can balance the immune response. When you inhibit this pathway, it leads to reduced inflammation and some degree of symptom relief. However, like all medications, JAK inhibitors have potential side effects, such as increased risk of infections, blood abnormalities, liver enzyme elevations, and much more. Xeljanz is probably the most famous JAK inhibitor medication prescribed, but there are others: Tofacitinib (Xeljanz®): Used for rheumatoid arthritis, psoriatic arthritis, and ulcerative colitis. Baricitinib (Olumiant®): Approved for alopecia areata and rheumatoid arthritis. Ritlecitinib (Litfulo™): Prescribed for alopecia areata in individuals above age 12. Ruxolitinib (Jakafi®): Targets blood cancers like polycythemia vera and myelofibrosis. Did you know there are some natural JAK/
STAT Inhibitors? They’re much weaker than the medications as you might expect. But for those seeking natural options, I’m offering five today. I hope you will consult with your doctor about what’s right for you. These are all sold at health food stores, and online. One of them (curcumin) is found in a spice called turmeric. In alphabetical order, here they are: 1. Baicalein: Found in Chinese skullcap, known for its anti-inflammatory properties. 2. Beta-sitosterol: Present in various plants, helps reduce inflammation and modulate JAK3. 3. Curcumin: One active ingredient in turmeric spice, this is a potent anti-inflammatory agent. 4. Quercetin: Found in apples, onions, and capers, inhibits the JAK/STAT pathway. 5. Silymarin: Extracted from milk thistle, supports liver health and inhibits JAK3. When considering JAK inhibitors, whether it is a medication or a natural supplement, always be sure to weigh the potential benefits against possible risks. Speak to your practitioner. Continuous use is common for pharmaceutical JAK inhibitors, but intermittent usage might be considered for people who experience serious side effects. The long-term safety of these drugs is still being studied, so regular monitoring is crucial and that’s why I’m suggesting natural options to use adjectively, along with your medication (if your doctor is happy with that idea of course). In conclusion, JAK inhibitors, both pharmaceutical and natural, offer promising avenues for treating various inflammatory and autoimmune conditions. Understanding your options, including natural alternatives, can empower you to make informed decisions about your health. If you would like to read a longer more comprehensive version of this article, sign up for my emails at my website, suzycohen.com.
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State has funded 2,980 charging stations with 5,271 ports at 680 locations. The Administration continues to work toward the development and expansion of wind, solar, energy storage, and other clean energy technologies in New Jersey, while ensuring that infrastructure, interconnection, and electricity supply meet the increased charging demand of ZEV users. “By filing the landmark Advanced Clean Cars II rule, New Jersey builds upon its standing as a national leader in climate action and its participation in the global Accelerating to Zero commitment,” said Governor Murphy. “The steps we take today to lower emissions will improve air quality and mitigate climate impacts for generations to come, all while increasing access to cleaner car choices. Indeed, together with my Administration’s continuing
investments in voluntary electric vehicle incentives, charging infrastructure, and the green economy, these new standards will preserve consumer choice and promote affordability for hardworking New Jerseyans across the state.” “Cleaner cars and trucks mean cleaner air for our children and families, because the tailpipes of our own vehicles are a leading cause of poor local air quality,” said Commissioner LaTourette. “As New Jersey transitions to a zero-emission vehicle future, we will improve our quality of life and public health. At the same time, we will reduce climate pollutants from the transportation sector, the greatest source of planet-warming pollution in New Jersey and the nation.” The rule will be published in the Dec. 18 edition of the New Jersey Register. A courtesy, pre-publication copy of the rule will be posted in early December to the DEP Rules and Regulations webpage.
Holiday Boat Rides At Tuckerton Seaport
TUCKERTON – Come get in the Holiday Spirit! Enjoy this narrated boat tour down the Tuckerton Creek. Led by a Seaport Captain and Tour Guide, learn about holiday traditions both past and present and maybe even see some Christmas lights out on the bay. Bring your hot cocoa and blankets since it might get chilly out on the water! Tickets are $15 per person. Tickets include the boat rides and admission to the holiday displays,
make and take craft areas, outdoor reindeer scavenger hunt, and nature trail cookie walk. They welcome guests aboard age 2 and older. Guests ages 2 to12 are required to wear a pdf (supplied) or you can bring your own. Tours depart from the Lighthouse Dock on the top of the hour. All sales are final. To purchase tickets and to view scheduled dates and times, visit ci.ovationtix. com/35325/production/1176077.
Vaccines are the easiest way to protect yourself and others from seasonal illnesses.
OCHD FLU CLINICS • 175 Sunset Avenue, Toms River EVERY MONDAY 11AM-6PM • ALL AGES 6 MONTHS &UP Visit our website at www.ochd.org for more clinic dates!
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R.C. Shea & Assoc.
Inside The Law Appealing A Zoning Officer’s Decision
Marc S. Galella Esq.
By: Marc S. Galella, Esq., of R.C. Shea & Associates Did you know that you can appeal your local Township Zoning Officer’s decision if you are denied the approval or issuance of a permit? The Zoning Officer, also referred to as the administrative officer, is the enforcement arm of zoning, and is the “gate keeper” to any construction you would like to take place on your property. Before any individual or legal entity can undertake a construction project, they are required to make a request, also known as an application, for a zoning permit. Some examples of such applications include the construction of new buildings, additions to existing structures, decks, fences, pools, patios, sheds, generators, driveways, commercial buildings, tenancies, and signage. When an application is filed, the Zoning Officer is then responsible for deciding whether your request conforms to the local zoning ordinances. This “approval” must take place before any construction permits can be issued by the Township. Therefore, without a Zoning Officer’s approval, you are prevented from making any improvements you would like to make on your own property. Ordinarily this is not an issue. However, when dealing with “gray areas” of local ordinances, Zoning Officers tend to deny an application simply because the ordinance is vague or uncertain. Further, when a local ordinance is unclear on a point, a Zoning Officer may establish their own policy in an arbitrary and subjective manner. For instance, if you want to construct a deck on your property and the local ordi-
nance does not properly define exact parameters, the Zoning Officer might choose to apply a rule that makes it impractical to construct a deck in a reasonable manner. In such a situation, you would be forced to seek approval from the local Zoning Board, which is a much lengthier and labor-intensive process. However, if a Zoning Officer denies your application in such a manner, N.J.S.A. 40:55D-70 allows you to challenge said determination within (20) days of the decision. This challenge then forces your Zoning Board to review the Zoning Officer’s decision and determine whether the administrative officer has improperly denied your application. In other words, if a Zoning Board rules in your favor, the Zoning Officer must abide by the Board’s interpretation, and you receive an approval for said permit. If you, or a loved one, have currently been denied a permit by your Township, the Law Office of R. C. Shea & Associates can provide the legal knowledge and experience required to appeal such a decision, and seek the outcome that allows you to construct what you want on your own property. Call us today, (732) 505-1212.
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CLASSIFIEDS Misc. Like To Support/Help Out A Small Family headed by a single mother. I am an old man. Tel. nuimber is 732983-1426, in Ocean County. (51)
For Sale Puerto Rican Pasteles - Holiday Tradition. Free pick up in Jackson or delivery with fee. $40 per dozen.Call/text 908-770-8537. (51) For Sale 2 Christmas Trees - 1 - 71/2 ft. and 1 - 6 ft. Excellent condition. New womens pocketbooks - 2 Vera Bradley, 1 Michael Kor, 1 Dooney And Burke. Must see never used. Dinette set with 18 in leaf and 6 chairs Off white. Lots of items 848-240-3720, please text. Toms River. (51) Craftsman Table - 4 feet long, height 34 inches, 4 drawers and 1 large cabinet on left side. Wooden macinest tool box, 5 small drawers and 2 long drawers, all drawers have machine tools. 732-849-0003. (52)
Items Wanted COSTUME/ESTATE JEWELRY Looking to buy costume/ estate jewelry, old rosaries and religious medals, all watches and any type of sterling silver, bowls, flatware candlesticks or jewelry. Same day house calls and cash on the spot. 5 percent more with this AD. Call Peggy at 732-581-5225. (t/n) $$$ WANTED TO BUY $$$ Jewelry and watches, costume jewelry, sterling silver, silverplate, medals, military items, antiques, musical instruments, pottery, fine art, photographs, paintings, statues, old coins, vintage toys and dolls, rugs, old pens and postcards, clocks, furniture, bric-a-brac, select china and crystal patterns. Cash paid. Over 35 years experience. Call Gary Struncius. 732-364-7580. (t/n) Coins Wanted - I will buy all U.S. coins minted prior to 1965. Bill Nila The Coin Man 732-477-7225. (52) Vinyl Records Wanted - Paying cash for LP albums. Rock, Reggae, Blues, Jazz. Also buying Comic Books . Call Rick 908-616-7104. (t/n) CASH PAID!! LP records - stereos, musical instruments, guitar, saxophone, CD’s, reel tapes, music related items. Come to you. 732-804-8115. (44) Entire Estates Bought - Bedroom/dining sets, dressers, cedar chests, wardrobes, secretaries, pre-1950 wooden furniture, older glassware, oriental rugs, paintings, bronzes, silver, bric-a-brac. Call Jason at 609-970-4806. (t/n) Cash - Top dollar, paid for junk, cars running and nonrunning, late model salvage, cars and trucks, etc. 732-928-3713. (t/n) U s e d G u n s Wa n t e d - A l l types: collectibles, military, etc. Call 917-681-6809. (t/n) CASH, CASH, CASH! - Instant cash paid for junk cars, trucks, vans. Free removal of any metal items. Discount towing. Call Dano 732-239-3949. (t/n) Ca$h Paid For Old 45 RPM Records. - R&B, doo wop, soul, early rock & roll, and rockabilly preferred. Call between 8AM and 8PM 909-938-4623. (50)
B2B Services SalesTeamStaffing.com A highly specialized, NJ based recruiting agency for companies seeking the top Sales Professionals in their field. Add significantly to your bottom line. Phone: 201-815-2636 Email: Reps@SalesTeamStaffing. com (Guaranteed Results). (2)
Help Wanted Micromedia Publications is looking for a high-energy account rep to sell print and online advertising in Ocean County. Competitive base, bonuses & company benefits. Successful applicant should possess good communication skills & a desire to grow with the company. E-Mail resumes to jallentoff@jersey shoreonline.com. EOE. (t/n) R.C. Shea and Associates is seeking to hire a paralegal with civil/commercial litigation experience as well as an administrative assistant. Pay and benefits commensurate with experience. Please call Pam Williams, office manager at (732) 505-1212 or email at pwilliams@rcshea.com (t/n) Seeking Responsible Individual With Good Phone Skills - Experience In Hvac & Permits A Plus. Filing/Answering Phones/ Scheduling/Permits/Ordering Parts/ Customer Service. Great Work Environment. $15/Hour 7:30 a.m. - 4:30 p.m. Monday-Friday. Paid Holidays. Call Care Temp Heating & AC at 732-349-1448 Or Fax Resume To 732-349-6448. (t/n) Bus Driver NEEDED! - Flexible Scheduling. Perfect for Retiree in Retirement Community. CDL w/ Passenger endorsement required. Call SilverWoods Clubhouse for more information at 732-341-4825. (t/n) Certified Home Health Aides - Needed for Ocean County area. Hourly and live-in positions avail. P/T and F/T. Call CCC at 732-206-1047. (t/n) Laundromat Attendant - For FT/ PT Good communication skills, math and min computer knowledge. Transportation needed. Long term commitment only. 732-286-1863. (t/n) PART-TIME BUS DRIVERS Wanted for the Ocean County Vocational Technical School District: Pay Rate $20/hour. CDL License required, must have (B), (P) & (S) Endorsements. Daily transport of students on field trips in and/or out of State and job shadowing trips. NO PEDDLE RUNS. EOE. Please email resume to ecrawford@ocvts.org or call Ed Crawford at 732-473-3100 ext. 3110. (4) Experienced Receptionist in Adult Community. M-F $15 per hour start 12/15. Verbal, written communication, organization, time management, skills a must. Knowledge of business/ office equipment. Minimum HS Diploma, references required. Contact 732-244-8686 ext. 219. (51) Full Time Housekeepers Magnolia Gardens - Family owned and operated Assisted living community looking to fill full, and partime housekeeping positions. All positions start at $15.00 an hour. For more information call 732-557-6500 or come to our home and fill out an application at 1935 Lakewood Road, Toms River 08755. (52)
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CHEAP PAINTING Done RITE Free est. Senior discounts interior exterior. Call 732-506-7787, cell 646-643-7678. (t/n)
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ALLAmerican Home Health Aides Experienced experts in the field of trauma and recovery. Holistic approach to healing-nutrition, physical therapy, and quality of life improvements. Hourly or live in. Honest, hardworking, etc. Includes housekeeping, rides to doctors/ pleasure. Skip the rest, come to the best. 732-664-3605. (t/n)
Since 1979, Kitchen Magic, a family-owned business offering cabinet refacing, new cabinetry, and luxury countertop throughout the Northeast. We transform kitchens in less time, with less stress, at an amazing value. Call today for a free estimate 1-844-367-2477. (t/n)
Computer Tutoring for Seniors – Retired, “Microsoft Certified” instructor. Very Reasonable rates. Very patient with slow learners. I’ll teach you in the comfort of your home on your computer. I can trouble shoot your slow computer! I also teach iPhone and iPad. I set up new computers at less than half the price the retailers charge. Windows 10 specialist. I can also build a beautiful small business website at a fraction of the going rates. Special Projects always welcome! Tony 732-997-8192. (t/n)
Services Nor’easter Painting and Staining, LLC - Interior and exterior. Decks, powerwashing. Affordable. Senior discounts. References. No job too small. Fully insured. 732-6910123. Lic #13VH09460600. (t/n) Housecleaning - Painting, shopping, laundry window cleaning, carpet cleaning. Very good prices. 732773-5078, 848-287-3944. (50) Garden State Property Maintenance - All yard work. Tree-trimming and removal, stump grinding, pavers, decks, flower beds, weeding. 609-661-5470. (t/n) Become a Published Author. We want to Read Your Book! Dorrance Publishing-Trusted by Authors Since 1920. Book manuscript submissions currently being reviewed. Comprehensive Services: Consultation, Production, Promotion and Distribution. Call for Your Free Author`s Guide 1-877-791-2033 or visit dorranceinfo.com/micro. (t/n) Car Service - 24/7. Doctors, shopping, airports, hospitals, cruise, shops, Atlantic City, family functions, NYC accomodations for large groups. Call for reasonable rates. Kerry 732-606-2725. (42) APlus Home Improvements - Over 30 years experience. Everything from small handyman tasks to large renovations, decks, finished basements and much more. Lic #13VH11453600. No job too small give us a call. 908-278-1322. (52) Prepare for power outages today with a GENERAC home standby generator. $0 Money Down + Low Monthly Payment Options. Request a FREE Quote. Call now before the next power outage: 1-833-901-0309. (t/n) PQ Painting & Home Improvement Services - Over 5 decades of service in NJ. Visit us online at pqpaintingservice.com. Winner of Angie’s List Super Service Award. Free estimates, reasonable rates, fully licensed and insured NJ Lic #13VH06752800. Call 732500-3063 or 609-356-2444. (t/n) Bobs Waterproofing - Basement and crawlspace waterproofing. Mold testing, removal and prevention. Family owned. Fully licensed and insured. Call Bob 732-616-5007. (t/n) MY HANDY CREW - Home repairs, carpentry, painting roofing and siding, decks, powerwashing, yardwor,k all your home maintenance needs. $ave. Call Clark 732-850-5060. Insured and NJ License #13VH11804800. (46) LANDSCAPING - Restorations, Repairs, Stones, Mulch, Sod Installs, Hedges, Shrubs, Bushes, Downed Branches Trimmed & Removed, Demolition, Cleanouts, ect., Dumpster service provided by A901 Licensed Hauler ect. MAN WITH VAN LLC. Jim 609-335-0330 HIC# 13vh10806000. NO JOB TOO SMALL! (20) Learn To Play The - Flute, clarinet, saxophone, trumpet, trombone, or drums, from a NJ State Certified Teacher of Instrumental Music, in your home! Call 732-3504427 for more information. (50) THE RIDE GUY - Takes you anywhere! No limits. Comfy mini-van. Call Charlie 732-2163176 or Email: cr@exit109.com. References. Let's Go! (t/n) DIRECTV Sports Pack - 3 Months on Us! Watch pro and college sports LIVE. Plus over 40 regional and specialty networks included. NFL, College Football, MLB, NBA, NHL, Golf and more. Some restrictions apply. Call DIRECTV 1-877-557-1213. (t/n)
Painting - Special Fall Pricing. Interior/Exterior. Meticulous work. All materials and jobs guaranteed. Fully licensed and insured. $ave. Call 732-850-5060. (47) A+ CLEANING SERVICE Homes, Offices, Air BnB, Senior Villages, Fall Cleaning Thorough and Reliable, Free Esitmates, Call Barbara 732-948-4730. (44)
A1 HANDYMAN SERVICES Over 30 years experience in all phases of home improvements. Free estimates and referrals. Call John 267-475-7962. (50) Typing Services - business letter, resume, poam, etc. Call 7327773-5078 or 848-287-3944. (50) Wallpaper and Bordering - Hanging and removal of old. No job too big or small. Great references. Call Angela 609-290-9702. (49)
Handyman Solutions. All Home Improvement and Repairs. Carpentry •Doors •Windows •Bathrooms •Kitchen •Tile •Flooring •Decks •Vinyl Railings •Masonry •Drywall •Painting •Electric •Plumbing •More. Licensed. Insured. Emergency Service Available. 609-384-9030. (3)
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FUN & GAMES SUDOKU
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Across 1 Kilauea flow 5 Clear dishes from 8 Jammies 11 Hosp. figures 14 Longest, as odds 16 Like many Berbers 18 *Occasion to pin back one’s coif? 19 Like village roads 20 Mediterranean country 22 Mixed martial artist Rousey 23 Girl of the fam 26 *Catchy part of a virtuous song? 29 Shortly 32 Arboreal marsupial 33 “You betcha” 34 Garage door opener brand 35 Org. that includes the TSA 38 *People born during the Era of Good Feelings?
42 Digs in the mud 43 Battery measures 44 Biblical mount 45 Bernie in his mittens, Keanu playing with puppies, etc. 46 “Yeah, that’s old news” 47 *Evening spent downloading the latest OS? 52 Manhattan option 53 Mind 54 Qualifying events 57 Calm 60 Social climbers, and what the answers to the starred clues literally have 64 Brings in 65 “You can guess the rest” 66 Put away 67 Keystone bumbler 68 Mauna __ 69 Monumental Down 1 “Geaux Tigers!” sch.
2 High point of a trip to Europe? 3 YouTube clip, for short 4 Mine, in Montréal 5 Capital in the Levant 6 Many an election night graphic, for short 7 Direct 8 LAX setting 9 Yak 10 Limited autonomy, so to speak 11 Pipe cleaner 12 Internet stranger 13 Quarterback maneuver 15 The Colorado fourteeners, e.g.: Abbr. 17 Hana Airport greeting 21 Compares 23 Facial cavity 24 Unsuitable 25 Watched from the sidelines 27 Left 28 Locks 30 Letters in ancient his-
tory 31 “Tell me if this is too personal, but ... “ 34 Understands 35 Currency of Serbia and Jordan 36 White with frost 37 Biting 39 Large volume 40 Singer Campbell 41 Draw 45 Two socks, hopefully 46 Mississippi source 47 Linguistic practices 48 Violinist/singer Haden 49 Light rail stop 50 Slop 51 Aware of 55 Cell service letters 56 Appease fully 58 Citigroup’s Jane Fraser, e.g. 59 Super vision? 61 Set component 62 Tetra- minus one 63 __ bunt
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DEGRAFF CREMATION SERVICES
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This great picture was taken at Cattus Island County Park in Toms River by local resident Paul Krause. The park is 530 acres and is home to the Cooper Environmental Center, which features collections of wildlife, birds, reptiles and other animals. Want to see your pic in this space? Email photos@jerseyshoreonline.com and you may hear from us!
Barnegat Fire Company Ladies Aux. Annual Cookie Walk
BARNEGAT – Barnegat Fire Company Ladies Aux. Annual Cookie Walk will be on December 2 from 10 a.m. to 12 p.m. at
11 Birdsall Street, Barnegat. Homemade baked goodies, any questions, call Milena at 609-618-3638.
Holiday Craft Fair
WARETOWN – Waretown Volunteer Fire Company is hosting their Holiday Craft Fair on December 10 from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. at 117 Wells Mills Road, Waretown.
Find the perfect gift for your friends and family. Homemade chocolates, soy candles, jewelry, handmade crafts and home goods, treats and sweets.
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COMMUNITY NEWS C LUB N EWS , A CTIVITIES , E VENTS & A NNOUNCEMENTS
5th Annual Home Sweet Home Gingerbread House Competition
STAFFORD – Excited to announce the 5th Annual Home Sweet Home Gingerbread House Competition sponsored by Stafford Recreation and Home Alliance Realty, LLC! All Stafford Township residents and businesses are invited to enter! You have until December 9 to register your confectionary creation and this is a 100% virtual event, so no need to try to move your house! Enter at: bit.ly/HomeSweetHome23. Categories: • Family/Individual/Team • Local Business • Anything but gingerbread (house made of edible non-gingerbread)
best fails - that’s right - if your house is a ‘fail’ don’t despair - enter it anyway! (Just be sure to snap a pic first) • Gingerbread Scene(vignette) • People’s Choice (to be voted on Facebook after December 9) Rules: • Must be Stafford Township resident or business • Must be 100% edible (minus the board) Can be store bought kit or homemade Be sure to join the Stafford Recreation Facebook group to stay up to date with all things gingerbread and more exciting announcements: facebook.com/groups/ homesweethomegingerbread.
Upcoming Blood Drive
STAFFORD – Mayor Myhre and the Township Council would like to invite you to the Stafford First Aid’s Blood Drive on December 14 from 1:30 to
7:30 p.m. at 365 E Bay Avenue, Manahawkin. Schedule your appointment by calling 201-51-3703. Walk-ins are welcome.
The Southern Ocean Times welcomes your special announcements! Engagements, Weddings, Births, Birthday Wishes, etc. Please call 732-657-7344 for more details!
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POLICE BLOTTER Tuckerton Employee Charged For Stealing $10K In Utility Payments
By Alyssa Riccardi TUCKERTON – A Borough of Tuckerton Utilities Collector has been criminally charged after using of $10,000 worth of utility payments for her personal benefit, officials said. Jennifer Docherty, 46, of West Creek, was charged with Theft by Failure to Make Required Disposition in connection with her position as Utilities Collector for the Borough of Tuckerton. According to authorities, Docherty failed to turn over proceeds from the collection of tax, water, and sewer payments between June 2018 and June 2023, which totaled to over $10,000. Instead, Docherty used the money for her own personal benefit, officials said. On November 20, Docherty surrendered herself to the Ocean County Prosecutor’s Office in the presence of her attorney. She was processed and served with the charge via summons pending an upcoming first appearance in Ocean County Superior Court.
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Docherty has been placed on administrative leave by the Borough of Tuckerton during this investigation. Any residents who have any information pertaining to this investigation is asked to contact Detective John Halliday of the Ocean County Prosecutor’s Office at 732-929-2027 ext. 3533, or Detective David Order of the Tuckerton Police Department at 609-296-9417. Ocean County Prosecutor Bradley D. Billhimer commended the Ocean County Prosecutor’s Office Professional Standards/Corruption Unit, Ocean County Prosecutor’s Office Economic Crime Squad, Tuckerton Township Police Department, and Ocean County Sheriff’s Office, for their collaborative efforts in connection with this investigation. The charges referenced are merely accusations and the public are reminded that all defendants are presumed innocent unless and until proven guilty beyond a reasonable doubt in a court of law.
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OMARR’S ASTROLOGICAL FOR THE WEEK OF DEC 2 - DEC 8 BY JERALDINE SAUNDERS FORECAST ARIES (March 21-April 19): Your interest may be piqued by ads or sales promos, but it could be wise to hold off on a shopping spree for now. You might find that trendy items can be tasteless or a waste of money, so do your best to make more informed choices. TAURUS (April 20-May 20): Loved ones may bring something unexpected your way. Something shiny or glamorous might attract your attention and offer you a temporary flutter of excitement. Something real could be right under your nose. GEMINI (May 21-June 20): If you find you are low on ideas or hitting a creative block you may need to rely on someone to help bolster your enthusiasm. It might be necessary to play detective to separate the facts from fiction with certain issues. CANCER (June 21-July 22): Now may be a good time to take a few minutes to transfer upcoming social obligations to a calendar. With the holiday season coming soon you might need to allocate your time more wisely and avoid making impulse purchases. LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): True love may not disappear if you have different interests or dreams. Do your best to avoid disrupting a romantic mood. If you hold any unrealistic expectations, you could be left feeling disappointed by a sudden dose of reality. VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): Your enthusiasm for group activities might begin to run out of gas. Do your best to fulfill your duties even if they can seem tiresome. If your friends are not as understanding as you would like, try not to become frustrated.
LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): Attending an exciting event could give you a unique thrill, but someone you meet might be here today but gone tomorrow. Some people may say a lot but mean very little, be discerning and avoid becoming overly impressed. SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): Friends could expect you to change your plans or drop what you are doing at the drop of a hat. Someone close to you may be enthusiastic about an ill-advised plan and want you to contribute from your own private resources. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): You might be so busy looking for something new, exciting, or romantic that you could be ignoring the more reliable amusements around you. Some extra outdoor activities or taking up a sport can help burn off some excess energy. CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): You may find yourself at a loss for words around someone and have more than friendship on the mind. If you are well prepared you can get through the week without problems even if things may be busier than usual. AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): What you see may not always be what you get. You could be surprised by an instant attraction to someone but might find that taking the friendship further can show you that the chemistry is not there for more. PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): Hard work and effort may be needed if you want everything to turn out the way you hope. You might not mind doing foundational work now if it means your dreams can come true later on.
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