2024-10-12 - The Toms River Times

County Geeks Out At FanNation

By Bob Vosseller

TOMS RIVER – For nearly a decade, FanNation has been bringing a “Geekstravaganza” to the Toms River branch of the Ocean County Library. The free event provides a multi-media convention for fans of science fiction, comic books, fantasy, horror, anime and much more and this year was no exception.

Families could be seen making a nautical themed I spy bottle. In the Discovery Room you could also enjoy a Tinker Fairy storytime that featured stories, games and a meet and greet with a Tinker Fairy.

FanNation also featured the return of some old favorites such as the crimson haired mermaid who also provided some stories, games

and greeted young people with tales and her tail.

A popular annual feature is the scavenger hunt. This year, eagle-eyed attendees scoured the book shelves for dragon eggs that could net you a treasure from a prize box in the front lobby.

Mancini Hall was the place to be for Star Wars fans. The Star Wars Costuming club Saber Guild Corellia presented a children’s

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Hospital Celebrates 4 Decades

By Stephanie Faughnan

BRICK - Forty years ago, Brick Hospital opened its doors as a small 120-bed community medical center. Today, Hackensack Meridian Ocean University Medical Center (OUMC) has grown into a 357-bed facility and is part of a network recognized for excellence by U.S. News & World Report

To celebrate its 40th anniversary, OUMC hosted a large community event, transforming its grounds into a lively gathering for residents, hospital staff, and families. The celebration featured a wide range of activi-

ties, with something for everyone to enjoy. It also allowed the medical center to showcase its advances in medical technology and care. The event included interactive exhibits with demonstrations of the hospital’s robotic-assisted surgery technology. OUMC has two da Vinci robots for minimally invasive surgery and a separate robot used for knee replacement. They are in the process of purchasing another robot designed to assist in spinal surgeries.

Guests had the chance to observe how the

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Halloween Parade Creeping Back To Town

Onofrietti showed off his 1941 Ford in last year’s parade.

By Chris Lundy TOMS RIVER

– Is that Michael Myers peaking around the corner? No, it’s just the Halloween parade.

The Toms River Fire Company No. 1 is again bringing this beloved tradition to the downtown area for the 85th time.

“We invite everyone to join us for an evening of festive floats, creative costumes, and family-friendly enter-

tainment. Whether you’re participating in the parade or cheering from the sidelines, this event is sure to be a highlight of the season,” fi re officials said.

On October 31 – which is a Thursday this year – the parade will start promptly at 7 p.m. at its normal kick-off location: the corner of Main Street and Highland Parkway. The parade will travel

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This Month In History: 3rd Party Candidates

By J. Mark Mutter

There’s another presidential election right around the corner, and once again it’s a contest between the two major party contenders along with spirited third party candidates. In our recent history, we’ve had several hotly contested three-way races, and here’s how Ocean County voted.

1968 And George C. Wallace

In 1968, Democratic candidate Vice President Hubert H. Humphrey was running to

succeed President Lyndon B. Johnson. The Republicans were running former Vice President Richard M. Nixon. Running as a third party candidate under the banner “American Independent” was Alabama Governor George C. Wallace. In Ocean County, Nixon received 41,995 votes, or 54 percent. Humphrey got 26,909 votes, 35 percent. Wallace had 8,520 votes, 11 percent. Nixon carried New Jersey and

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Rosemarie McCroy, 12, poses at the Toms River Library during FanNation portraying the character Millie from the Helluva Boss show.

Photos by Bob Vosseller Ocean County Library staff who coordinated this year’s FanNation event join several cosplayers in the lobby of the Toms River Library for a big “Geekstravaganza.”

Bob

Photo by Chris Lundy

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padawan training class allowing for young Jedi Knights to learn how to properly use their light sabers while “using the Force” to defend themselves from the dark side.

The USS Challenger, the Jersey Shore chapter of Starfleet: The International Star Trek Fan Association also beamed down to the Hometown Dairy room to provide a Sci-Fi Roundup of the best and the worst science fiction entries of 2024 covering the subjects of “Dune II,” “International Space Station,” “Kingdom of The Planet of The Apes,” “Alien: Romulus” and “Furioso” among others.

That panel also explored the newest season of Doctor Who, the fi nal season of Star Trek Discovery, the second season of the SyFy Channel series The Ark and the mixed reaction to Disney Plus’s Star Wars: The Acolyte which was not renewed for a

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south on Main Street (Route 9) turning left onto Washington Street. The parade ends at the intersection of Washington Street and Hooper Avenue.

If you are marching, you should be in the

second season. Both clubs showcased their respective group activities and backgrounds seeking new recruits at organization tables in the magazine area. For more information on the USS Challenger visit usschallenger.org or e-mail beamaboard@aol.com. For those wanting to explore the Star Wars universe the Saber Guild can be reached by visiting saberguild.org

Cosplay was a big part of the yearly event with a number of attendees in costumes ranging from superheroes to many Japanese Animation (Anime) favorites. Among them was Toms River residents Rita Zagaclo who came as Youko Kurama from the anime series YuYu Hakusho. This marked her second year at FanNation.

Her friend Katherine Palazzo came dressed as Pirate Jacqueline, a character she created herself and who sported a wyvern, a particular type of small winged

Toms River Shopping Center no later than 6 p.m. Group Leaders are urged to inform all of the participants in your group that they are in a walking or a float division. Let them know the letter and number of the group. Everyone will enter the parade route from Highland Parkway.

Participants must register in person at the

dragon as opposed to a parrot. She provided an extensive back story for her character and how she came to fi nd her winged companion and how she became enamored by pirates at a young age.

Both young ladies put some creativity into their costumes. While the pirate costume was purchased at a Spirit Halloween store, the dragon and other parts of it were purchased elsewhere while Zagacki made hers from various items and found a special parasol that her character often sports.

Rosemarie McCroy, 12, stopped to pose behind a photo board that was set up for fans to record themselves for posterity. She was dressed in red as character Millie, an imp from the cartoon Helluva Boss.

Her mom Gina Musella said that her daughter was on her way to the Green Room that featured a crash course on how to play Dungeons & Dragons - a popular tabletop roleplaying game. “She needed red makeup and we made some of her costume with red

firehouse on Robbins Street in Toms River. The registration is on October 31 from 8 a.m. to 4 p.m.

The parade known as the second largest Halloween parade in the world, behind the one in Greenwich Village in New York. Many downtown businesses will be open. There will also be scarecrows on display. Another tradi-

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tights and a 3-D printer.”

A highlight of the day was the giveaway cart that rolled out at 12:30 featuring discarded graphic novels and manga books. The free graphic novels and comics went fast and featured a variety of material ranging from Batman to Thor to League of Extraordinary Gentlemen.

There was an anime trivia contest formatted after the popular “Who Wants to be a Millionaire?” game show held in Mancini Hall. There was also an Escape Room adventure featuring a time traveler who misplaced his key to his time machine.

Activities included kokeshi doll decorating, fandom coaster designing, creating your own Pokemon ornament, 3D printing nerdy objects, button making, reusable bag creating and you could also make your own FanNation memorabilia from 3D pens.

The day concluded with the annual Cosplay contest where you could represent your fandom and win prizes.

tion is that windows of downtown businesses will be painted with spooky imagery. If the parade is postponed, it will be November 1 at 7 p.m.

For more information, please call Toms River Fire Co. No. 1 at 732-349-0144 or email them at Cweingroff@trfire.org or visit facebook. com/trfchalloweenparade.

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cutting-edge surgical robots work, with even small children sitting by the controls as though playing a fun video game.

Dr. Thomas R. Lake, a colon and rectal surgeon for 23 years, watched as curious onlookers came to check out the robots on display. He said he has performed over 1,000 robotic bowel surgeries and shared the benefits of the technology.

“Patients have less pain and a quicker recovery overall,” said Lake. “They’re getting out of the hospital in two days versus five days; returning to work in three weeks versus eight weeks. It’s a big difference.”

Robotic surgery offers surgeons enhanced precision and comfort. With ten times magnification, it provides superior visualization, and wristed instruments allow for movements similar to open surgery. Surgeons can sit comfortably at a console, reducing strain, while the system filters out tremors for smoother, more accurate procedures.

Event attendees had a chance to meet three

members of the Ocean County Sheriff’s Office K-9 unit and Sangria, the white horse from the Sheriff’s Office. They also had the opportunity to get an up-close look at Hackensack Meridian’s medical helicopter.

Mike Alessi, a paramedic, explained that he works alongside a pilot and a flight nurse to provide critical transport by helicopter. “The helicopter is equipped with essential hospital-grade equipment,” Alessi said, pointing out the on-board ventilator, an EKG monitor, and a device that measures oxygen levels in the body.

“We’re the only air medical program in the state of New Jersey that carries whole blood,” he added.

For hospital staff, the anniversary was more than just a celebration - it was a chance to reflect on decades of growth and camaraderie.

Frank Citara, MBA, president and chief hospital executive, said the hospital’s affiliation with Hackensack Meridian has been instrumental in its development.

“Once we merged with Hackensack, a lot of investment went on,” said Citara. “In oncology, the heart-vascular center, the operating room, and overall, throughout the campus.”

Citara added that there are plans to increase the bed capacity at the medical center, as well as expansions within both oncology and surgical services. The impetus for investments has been the growth of the population, with a significant number of local residents moving from parttime to full-time status after the pandemic.

OUMC is a teaching hospital that began its residency program in 2018 with 20 residents.

“Now we have 122 across all different specialties,” said Citara. “We hope to get them acclimated in the community and hope they want to stay with Hackensack Merdian.”

The hospital also partners with the nursing programs at Ocean County College and Georgian Court University and 60 nurses and other students are there almost every day, from September through May.

Many of OUMC’s long-term employees attended the celebration, reminiscing about the hospital’s transformation. Ken Souchek, Vice President of Operations, who has worked at OUMC for over three decades, reflected on his time there. “I’ve been here for 32 years, and the people have kept me around. It’s more than a workplace - it’s a family.”

Almost on cue, hospital worker Argenidada Lopez came to greet Souchek with a big smile. He introduced Lopez as an “esteemed environmental worker” and was quite happy to wish her a happy birthday.

Souchek said he grew up in Brick and recalled past fundraising events when the facility was a “very small sleepy hospital.” He said he’s enjoyed the hospital reaching university status (in 2021), watching its growth, and seeing the evolution of the level of service and clinical programming.

As part of its ongoing commitment to the community, OUMC partnered with Fulfill, a local food bank, to collect food donations during the event. Visitors brought canned goods and non-perishable items to contribute to Fulfill’s mission of fighting hunger in the region.

“As Brick Township and our surrounding towns have grown rapidly over these past few decades, Ocean University Medical Center has always progressively served the needs of our region,” noted Brick Mayor Lisa Crate. “We are very fortunate to have the highly recognized OUMC as part of our neighborhood fabric.”

Toms River Bureau Of Fire Prevention 50 th Anniversary Fire Service Symposium

TOMS RIVER – Toms River Bureau Of Fire Prevention 50 th Anniversary Fire Service Symposium will be on October 23 at the RWJ Barnabas Arena, 1245 Old Freehold Road, Toms River. Join in celebrating 50 years of the Toms

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0.5 NJDFS CEUs for Fire Investigator & Fire Instructor. The following topics will be presented:

Fire Investigation Overview: Bob Disbrow - Captain - Bayonne Fire Department

New Hybrid Commercial and Residential Structures: Joe Vallo - Battalion Chief (Ret.) - Jersey City Fire Department

50 Years of The Fire Service: Paul Dansbach - Fire Marshall - Rutherford, NJ Doors open at 8 a.m. Start 8:45 a.m. Cost: free. Registration required. Email trfireprevention@trfire.org to register today!

History:

was elected President.

1980 And John Anderson

In 1980, President Jimmy Carter, the Democrat, was running for re-election. He was challenged by former California Governor Ronald Reagan. Running as a third party candidate was Illinois Congressman John Anderson, a Republican office holder who was running under the slogan “Independent.”

Here in Ocean County, Reagan had 98,433 votes, 63 percent. Carter had 46,923 votes, 30 percent, and Anderson had 10,073 votes, 6 percent. Reagan carried New Jersey and was elected President.

1992 And 1996: Ross Perot

In 1992, President George H. W. Bush (“Bush 41”), the Republican, was running for re-election against Arkansas Governor Bill Clinton, the Democrat, and businessman Ross Perot, “Independent.”

Bush received 95,444 votes in Ocean County, 45 percent, while Clinton had 75,431 votes, 35 percent, and Perot 41,668 votes, or 20 percent. Clinton carried New Jersey and was elected President.

sistant Dover Township attorney at the time.

In 1996, Perot ran again as a third party candidate. This time, he was running against President Clinton and the Republican standard bearer, Kansas Senator Robert Dole. (Those with long memories will remember that Dole came to Toms River, arriving by helicopter, and spoke at a large rally held at the football field at Toms River High School South.)

In that election, Clinton received 94,012 votes or 46 percent in Ocean County. Dole had 82,674 votes, 41 percent, and Perot had 22,789 votes, dropping down to about half of his 1992 vote, to 11 percent. Clinton’s vote was the second time in the twentieth century that a Democrat carried Ocean County. (Johnson, running for election in 1964, in the aftermath of the Kennedy assassination, was the first.) Clinton carried New Jersey and was re-elected.

2000 And 2004: Ralph Nader

carried New Jersey, but lost to Bush. The Unique 1912 Election

As these election results show, third party candidates have faired poorly. But that was not the case in 1912 - at least here in Ocean County.

1912: the Titanic sunk, Boston’s Fenway Park opened, and Paramount Pictures was founded. The Ocean County population was just over 20,000. (Today, it’s almost 700,000.)

And, again, it was a three way race for President. But it was a lot different in Ocean County from that of 1968, 1980, 1992, 1996, 2000, and 2004. A lot different!

through a railroad platform in Trenton with a bag in hand entitled “Hotfooting Between Trains for his Pay Check.”

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The Courier printed part of the Progressive party platform entitled “Trusts Can and Should be Regulated by the Nation.”

The newspaper printed two “straw polls” showing Roosevelt with sizeable leads in October. It reported that “the growth of the Roosevelt sentiment has so frightened the Democratic leaders in New Jersey that they were compelled to send Gov. Wilson on a stumping tour of his own state.”

For local trivia buffs, in 1992 this author ran for the Dover Township Committee (our legal name and governing body name then in Toms River) and I too faced a three-way race. I received 17,448 votes or 53 percent, my Democratic opponent Salvatore Mattia had 13,271 votes, 41 percent, and Independent candidate William McPhail had 1948 votes, 6 percent. Mattia was a local builder and McPhail a retiree. I was the 35 year old as-

In 2000, Vice President Al Gore, the Democratic candidate, was running was running against Governor George Bush of Texas, the Republican, and consumer protection advocate Ralph Nader, the Green Party candidate. Bush received 105,684 votes, 49 percent. Gore had 102,104 votes, 47 percent and Nader had 7,354 votes, 3 percent. Gore carried New Jersey, but lost the election.

In 2004, Nader ran again, as an Independent, under the Reform Party banner, against President Bush (“Bush 43”) and Massachusetts Senator John Kerry. Bush received 154,204 votes in the county, 60 percent, to Kerry’s 99,839 votes, 39 percent, and Nader’s 1,687 votes, less than one percent. Kerry

The Republicans were running incumbent President William Howard Taft and the Democrats chose New Jersey Governor Woodrow Wilson. Taft had been elected in 1908 – hand-picked by then-President Theodore Roosevelt to succeed him. Wilson was the former President of Princeton University. And a third candidate was running too: the popular, energetic Teddy Roosevelt. He had become disenchanted with Taft’s policies and hoped to return to the White House. The hero of San Juan Hill - the “Rough Riders,” in the Spanish-American War - Roosevelt ran as a Progressive Republican under the banner of the “Bull Moose” party.

It was an election for the ages. The New Jersey Courier, the local weekly newspaper published in Toms River, ran political cartoons in its editions. One was a quarter page in size of Wilson’s desk covered with un-signed papers, covered by spider webs, with an “Oath of Office” sign on the wall crossed out, and a mouse on his desk and an empty chair. Another had Wilson running

Here in Ocean County, Republicans running for state and county offices ran with Roosevelt, not Taft.

When “TR” was shot at a campaign speech in Milwaukee near the end of the campaign, the newspaper ran another cartoon with his speech with a bullet hole in it. It said the speech “put into concrete form deep rooted aspirations of millions of Americans.”

The newspaper headline read “Colonel Roosevelt’s great speech in Milwaukee.” It reported that he “had no fear of death” and that “his message meant more than life.”

The election results in Ocean County were unprecedented. Roosevelt, the third party challenger, came in first with 2,003 votes or 43 percent. Wilson had 1,858 votes, 38 percent and Taft, the incumbent President, trailed with 909 votes, just 19 percent.

Wilson carried six municipalities in Ocean County: Barnegat City, Jackson, Lacey, Lakewood, Mantoloking, and Plumsted. Roosevelt carried the rest.

The vote in Dover Township (now Toms

OPINIONS & COMMENTARY

EDITORIAL

States To Watch In November – Part 3

As we wind down to the last month of this exhausting election cycle, I take another long look at states that might have some changes in leadership after November 5.

The previous editorials have examined Florida (slightly more competitive than you’d expect), Arizona (toss-up) and Montana (Dems will likely lose a Senate seat).

Georgia Democrats have been trying to lay claim to this state for years. Their fundraising messages keep saying that if they have a little more money, they can do it. For whatever that’s worth.

Most polls have Trump with a slight lead in Georgia, so he’s in the best po-

sition to win its 16 Electoral votes. Let’s look at some recent elections.

In 2016, Trump won Georgia 2,089,104 to 1,877,963. It was closer than anyone expected.

In 2018, Brian Kemp’s 1,978,408 votes for governor barely beat Stacey Abrams’ 1,923,685. Remember, this is the year of the Blue Wave, where Democrats did very well.

In 2020, Biden barely won the state 2,473,633 votes to Trump’s 2,461,854. Also in 2020, Democrat Senate candidate Jon Ossoff lost to Republican David Purdue 2,374,519 to 2,462,617 (a difference of 88,000 votes). However, Georgia has a rule that if it’s too close it goes to a run-off election. Then, Ossoff beat Purdue 2,269,923 to 2,214,979 (56,000 votes). Yes,

this is even narrower. No, it doesn’t make sense.

In 2022’s governor race, it was again Kemp vs. Abrams, and the result was the same but the margin was wider. Brian Kemp got 2,111,572 votes to Stacey Abrams’ 1,813,673 (with no Blue Wave to bolster her).

That same year had Democrat Raphael Warnock’s win over Republican Herschel Walker in a race so close it went to runoff (less than 40,000 votes the first time but almost 100,000 votes the second time).

Robert F. Kennedy Jr. had been on the ballot in this state, but his name was recently taken off. Some people might write him in anyway. I imagine he’ll probably get a few thousand write-ins, which could make a huge difference when everything has been so close lately.

While people thought he would steal votes away from Democrats, his anti-vaccine stance aligns more with conservatives and it’s more likely that he’d steal Trump votes. That’s why he eventually endorsed Trump and tried to withdraw his name from battleground states.

There aren’t any questions on the Georgia ballot that would skew the vote either way, and there are no senate races (Ossoff is up in ‘26 and Warnock is up in ‘28). So, this will truly be a test of whether Harris has made enough in-roads there to keep the state blue.

Nevada

There are 6 Electoral Votes in Nevada, which has been won by Democrats during the last four presidential elections.

Biden won Nevada 703,486

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votes to Trump’s 669,890. Clinton won it 539,260 votes to Trump’s 512,058.

In 2022, Democrat Catherine Cortez Masto (498,316 votes) beat Republican Adam Laxalt (490,388) for a Senate seat.

This year’s Senate election is between Democrat Jacky Rosen and Republican Sam Brown. Rosen has been a senator since 2019. Brown has national recognition for his military service, which makes this an interesting race.

Both parties are pouring millions of dollars into the state to try to win the Electoral Votes and the Senate seat.

West Virginia

What? A state as conservative as West Virginia is one to watch this year? Yes, because we need to look at more than just the presidential election.

Consider Voting By Mail

Mail-in ballots for the November 5th General Election are now available for all registered voters. Voter turnout is expected to be high in the upcoming presidential election, so I encourage you to vote early by mail.

Voting-by-mail is safe and a great way to avoid possible Election Day inconveniences like lines at the polls, inclement weather or scheduling conflicts. To vote by mail, voters

must fi rst complete a voteby-mail ballot application that may be obtained from the County Clerk’s Elections website at MonmouthCountyVotes.com , on the County Clerk’s “Monmouth County Votes” mobile app or in person from either the County Clerk’s Elections Office or your hometown’s Municipal Clerk. The deadline for voteby-mail ballot applications submitted by mail is Tuesday, October 29. Voters may also apply in-person at the County Clerk’s Elections Office located at 300 Halls

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Mill Road, Freehold, up until 3 p.m. on November 4.

Completed ballots may be submitted to the County Board of Elections for counting in person, via mail or at one of the County’s ballot dropbox locations. With more ways and more days to vote, it’s easier than ever to cast your ballot, so why not vote by mail?

Christine Giordano Hanlon Monmouth County Clerk

no reports that duplicating votes in districts was a system-wide problem for ES&S. So how was it possible to just happen in Monmouth County and just this one time?

the purchase so that jewelry stores do not become “fences” for stolen jewelry. John Catalano did neither and was fined by Brick Municipal Court.

Nationally the Maga Republican Party continues to claim that election integrity is an important issue, but the Republican Ocean County Commissioners’ purchase of the Election Systems and Software (ES&S) voting system for $10 million in 2023 raises serious questions. The irony is that the ES&S voting system in Monmouth County duplicated the results in six districts in four towns in 2022! And there were

Previously Ocean County used the Dominion Voting System, but Fox News and some former President Trump’s supporters made false claims of election fraud caused by Dominion. Dominion then sued Fox News and Fox News settled for $787.5 million rather than go to trial. Although Ocean County did not experience any issues, the County Commissioners chose to replace Dominion anyway. Needlessly spending $10 million in the process because their political feelings were hurt for a system with questionable integrity! It does not end here.

As reported in the Asbury Park Press , the county prosecutor’s office sent an undercover agent into a Brick jewelry store owned by John Catalano in 2016 to sell him jewelry. By law, the owner is required to obtain identification of the seller and provide a receipt for

Now John Catalano is the Ocean County Deputy Clerk! The Ocean County Clerk’s office oversees elections! How did John Catalano get the position of Deputy County Clerk when he did not have the background for it and had this conviction in his background?

When John Catalano filled out the employment form, did he indicate that he committed this violation of law?

Now Ocean County has a voting system that has questionable integrity and a person overseeing the elections with a background of questionable integrity. If this does not look like a problem waiting to happen, I do not know what does.

It is time to break this cycle of nonsense and time to elect Regina Discenza for Ocean County Commissioner!

Joseph Lamb Campaign Manager/ Treasurer

As I said in a previous editorial, there are 33 senate seats on the ballot this year. Of these, 19 are currently held by Democrats and 10 are currently held by Republicans. All 4 seats held by independents are also up for grabs. One of these is in West Virginia.

Republican Jim Justice has the perfect name for a politician (whether sincere or satirical). He is the current governor, and a multimillionaire from inheriting a coal mining company. He is the favorite to win over Democrat Glenn Elliott. This would be an easy pick-up for Republicans in gaining a Senate majority.

Chris Lundy Editor

Considering the divisive and negative rhetoric of our political climate, and as citizens of a free democracy, it is important to stay focused on the truth. Unfortunately, when the media portrays our political candidates with their own political agenda in play it is especially important to fact check what we speak about and post on media so we don’t flame the fi re of hate that is so prevalent in our society.

I was shocked and saddened when reading the recent letter to the editor by a former congressional candidate titled, “Why Hate Trump?” And to say “To be fair and impartial, he’s pretty much the worst person on the planet, and the worst President in history just based on his actions” is your opinion but consider how that statement leads to divisiveness and hate. Let’s get back to being “human” beings and spread love, grace, and mercy to all.

Diane Trampler Whiting

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Capitol Comments Plant Closures Blamed For Skyrocketing Electric Bills

Assemblyman Paul Kanitra

TRENTON - Assemblyman Paul Kanitra sees New Jersey’s soaring electric bills as a straightforward question of supply and demand.

During an Assembly Telecommunications and Utility Committee hearing, he pressed PJM Interconnection Executive Director Jason Stanek about the impact of prematurely

closing fuel plants on rising electricity prices. PJM manages the electric grid throughout the region, which includes Pennsylvania, New Jersey and Maryland.

Stanek acknowledged that nearly 2,900 megawatts of fossil fuel-generated power have been lost during the past six years, with just 1,300 megawatts added, leaving a shortfall of 1,600 megawatts.

The assemblyman pressed further, asking if energy rates would be cheaper if those plants were still operational. Stanek recognized that increased supply would have a “depressing

effect on prices.”

Kanitra noted that aggressive green energy targets made by the Murphy administration were directly contributing to higher utility bills.

“We’re going to have a whole hearing, and people will debate this ideologically,” he said. “But if we still had the resources that were shut down due to the state’s mandates, everyone in the state would be paying lower utility prices.”

The exchange emphasized the consequences of policies that prioritize Gov. Phil Murphy’s political interests over a comprehensive, affordable state energy policy.

Murphy’s 2020 Energy Master Plan proposes to phase out gas-powered vehicles, limit new homeowners’ access to affordable natural gas, and require builders to meet stricter requirements, the costs of which will be passed on to consumers. The goal is to reach 100% “clean energy” by 2035, which will be partially met by offshore wind development. In 2022, natural gas and nuclear energy fueled more than 90% of all electricity generated in the state. About 73% of New Jersey households rely on natural gas as their primary heating fuel, 16% use electricity for space heating, and about 9% use petroleum products.

Capitol Comments Bill Would Reimburse Towns For Security When Presidential Candidates Visit

WASHINGTON, D.C. – U.S. Senator Cory Booker (D-NJ) announced the Presidential Security Resources Reimbursement Act of 2024, a bill authorizing the Secret Service to reimburse state and local governments for the use of state and local resources while supporting the protection of presidential candidates. Booker will introduce the bill when Senate session resumes.

In the aftermath dangerous safety breaches of the former president, the Secret Service has increased protection for presidential candidates to ensure their safety while campaigning and at their places of residence. These requirements place a significant burden on local and state governments providing critical voluntary assistance to the Secret Service. Because there is currently no authorization for the Secret Service to reimburse these expenses, local municipalities pay these additional unanticipated costs out of pocket. This bill authorizes the Secret Service to reimburse these expenses so that local law enforcement agencies can continue to support these critical requirements.

“After the assassination attempt against the former president in Pennsylvania, and the armed shooter at Mar-a-Lago, it is clear that the Secret Service must have adequate resources to protect presidential candidates,”

said Senator Booker. “Local law enforcement and fi rst responders are critical partners to the Secret Service, but their support places a significant fi nancial burden on municipalities such as Bedminster, New Jersey. We must ensure the Secret Service’s partners can continue to perform these vital functions by authorizing federal reimbursement of their costs.”

“The Secret Service can fully accomplish their mission when they have robust partnerships with local law enforcement agencies,” said Congressman Kean. “Currently, a significant amount of that partnership is funded by small-town taxpayers and local budgets. I wrote this commonsense legislation to ensure that adequate resources are readily available to supplement each and every security plan. The Secret Service protects Americans leaders and must execute that function flawlessly every day.”

On behalf of Bedminster Township, I extend our greatest appreciation to Senator Booker and his staff for sponsoring the “Presidential Security Resources Reimbursement Act of 2024,” said Larry Jacobs, Mayor of Bedminster Township. “When the Department of Homeland Security and the Secret Service request resources from Bedminster to bolster the security at the Trump National Golf Club, we do our best to step up and fulfi ll those requests. However, we are a small town and the ability to deploy our police, fi re

and fi rst aid resources is limited and does come with great expense. Senator Booker understands the predicament that we are in. This legislation provides a mechanism for Bedminster and other local agencies to work with the Secret Service with confidence that our participation will not compromise our ability to serve our residents.”

The Presidential Security Resources

LASIK (laser-assisted in situ keratomileusis) refers to several types of laser eye surgery available to correct nearsightedness, farsightedness, or astigmatism. These common vision problems are the result of a refractive error that occurs because of changes in the shape of the eye. With changes in shape, the light passing through the cornea refracts incorrectly onto the retina, causing blurry vision. LASIK surgery reshapes the cornea, resulting in 20/20 vision or better in most patients. Keep in mind that, as time passes after surgery, many LASIK patients still need corrective lenses for reading or night driving. LASIK surgery is most effective in patients under 40 with mild nearsightedness. It has less predictable results for other forms of vision loss.

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AIR To Honor East SAC Dawn Aulisi

School East student assistance counselor Dawn Aulisi has impacted countless lives in and around her school. In addition to her one-on-one work with students, she’s been a tremendous advocate for mental health within the greater Toms River community, and her capacity for making connections with people and organizations doing great work has proven to be mutually beneficial.

si, whose work with students is personal, relentless, and reassuring. Baker was especially impressed with how East in general and Aulisi specifically identifies students who may need help, and the careful, compassionate approach to providing that help. In essence, Baker couldn’t help but notice that Aulisi is helping AIR meets its mission, every day in one of Ocean County’s largest schools.

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It was a chance encounter at a professional development day that led to one important connection.

“Pine Beach, Beachwood, and Toms River municipal alliances funded an organization called AIR - Attitudes in Reverse - to present to our freshmen in the district,” Aulisi said. “I was so impressed with their mission, and ended up developing a nice relationship with their founder.”

That founder, Tricia Baker, lost her son Kenny to suicide. Her mission now, through AIR, is to make sure every child who needs someone to talk to fi nds that someone.

Unsurprisingly, Baker was impressed with the thoughtful responses and feedback she received from East students following her presentation, and she traced that empathy and awareness back to Auli-

Now AIR is using its signature fundraising event - Taste of Hope - to honor Aulisi and her work.

Aulisi will be recognized as a 2024 Partner in Hope Honoree.

For anyone who knows Aulisi personally, the attention and accolades are most defi nitely not her goal, only the cost of doing business. That business being mental health advocacy. True to form, when approached about this very feature story, she redirected a request for personal anecdotes to ensure a link is included for anyone interested in donating to AIR.

So here you go, Dawn: air.ngo/get-involved/donate.

Congratulations to Dawn Aulisi on this well-deserved recognition. And on behalf of the many, many students she’s positively impacted: thank you.

TOMS RIVER – Longtime High

Photo courtesy Toms River Schools

BBQ Tradition About More an Food

TOMS RIVER – A tradition continued on the grounds of High School North on September 25. But as the annual event progresses from year to year, the school’s senior barbeque features more than just food, even if the BBQ remains the main attraction. There were plenty of games including axe

Photo courtesy Toms River Schools throwing, corn hole (which included some friendly trash talk, of course), and even rock climbing. The food remained reliably delicious and efficient, thanks to those manning the grills and the stations, and the vibes and camaraderie were fantastic, what it’s all about.

Ocean County Historical Society’s 36th Annual Holiday, Cra And Collectibles Faire

TOMS RIVER – The Ocean County Historical Society’s 36 Annual Holiday, Craft and Collectibles Faire will be on November 3 from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. at the Toms River High School South Cafetorium at the intersection of Hooper and Grant. (Use 212 Hooper Avenue with your GPS)

Admission is free! Over 80 quality vendors. The Ocean County Historical and Cultural Pavilion Sponsored by Ocean County Cul-

tural and Heritage. Featuring author William Lewis signing his books about the Pine Barrens. The OCHS famous baked goods table. A very large 5 -50. A snack stands and more!

A great opportunity to start your holiday shopping! Vendor tables are available. Contact Joseph at rjl072001@gmail.com or 732-9985934. Additional information and contracts are available on the OCHS website.

Toms River Elks Designer Handbag Bingo

TOMS RIVER – Designer handbag bingo returns to the Toms River Elks! Event will be on October 20. Doors open 11 a.m. Fun begins at 1 p.m. All proceeds raised benefit Elks Camp Moore.

Advance tickets only. This event will have open seating, only tables of four or more will be reserved.

To reserve a table for your group, all tickets must be purchased at once. If not reserving an entire table, you will choose your seat when you arrive at the event, at a table not designated as reserved.

Cost is $40 per person; $200 per table

of five. Each ticket includes one book of nine games. Prizes will not include cash. There will be a special drawing in the event of a tie. Beverages and food will be available for purchase. No alcohol permitted.

This event is open to the public. Must be 18 or older to enter.

Sponsorships are still available for some of this season’s events including Designer Handbag Bingo. Questions? Email trelksplungecommittee@gmail.com. For more information, visit tomsriverelks.org/2024-plunge-bingo.

East Band Marches To Another Big Win

TOMS

– High School East’s marching band

fi rst place at the Tournament of Bands held at Raritan High School.

The TOB moved to Brick Memorial... and indoors due to the weather. Band competitions held inside often present a challenge due to spacing and echoes, but this didn’t

stop East, which edged out Carteret High School to take the fi rst-place victory once again.

The weather also didn’t stop the band’s supporters, which showed up in full force to cheer and dance along. That support was rewarded with even more reason to cheer after the big win.

GoFundMe Started In Memory Of Local Police O cer

By Alyssa Riccardi

TOMS RIVER – A fundraiser was created to help the family of a former police officer who passed away after battling a severe illness.

Ingrid Rivera-Zuniga recently had tonsil surgery and was fighting a tough recovery.

According to a GoFundMe fundraiser, she was in the hospital with meningitis and suffered two strokes.

“Ingrid was facing severe illness with her family and friends by her side,” the fundraiser states. “She unfortunately did not

make it through this difficult time.”

Ingrid was sworn in as a Class I Officer to the Toms River Police Department in January 2022. She’s a graduate of Toms River High School East, and attended Georgian Court University participating in Women’s Track and Field.

They are currently asking for donations to help with medical expenses, funeral arrangements, and other expenses. You can make a donation by visiting: gofundme. com/f/in-memory-of-ingrid-riverazuniga-your-support-matters.

Downtown Toms River Scarecrow Walk

TOMS RIVER – The Scarecrow Walk is once again returning to Downtown Toms River. The community is invited to come downtown and vote for their favorite scarecrow. Scarecrows are on display from October 11 to October 31. Participating businesses will have ballots for voting. Just look for the Scarecrow Walk poster in their window!

People’s Choice Judging: Scarecrow judging will be done by popular vote. The public can only vote once. Ballots are not

valid without your name and email address. Ballots will be available at participating businesses in Downtown Toms River. Just look for the Scarecrow Walk Poster in their window.

Ballots can be dropped off at the ballot box located at the following location:

The Downtown Shops at 53 Main, 53 Main Street Toms River

• Toms River Branch of the Ocean County

• Library, 101 Washington Street

Photo courtesy Allison Goodwin

East Girls Soccer Win Emotional Game Over RBR

TOMS RIVER – Prior to the team’s home game against Red Bank Regional, High Scahool East girls soccer celebrated the life of Maegan “Mae” Higham.

In addition to being a close friend of HSE girls soccer coach Jamie Blondina, Higham was a High School North graduate and district student-athlete. She passed away this June from a rare form of adrenal cancer.

So it was with heavy hearts that the Raiders went out and competed, but compete they did. Thanks to goals from Elle Dworzanski and Alison Serrano, and a suffocating defensive effort, High School East won the game 2-0.

The victory moves the Raiders to 9-2 on the season, 3-0 in their Shore Conference division.

Cookie Walk & Vendor Stroll

TOMS RIVER – Join Christ Episcopal Church, located ta 415 Washington Street, for their Cookie Walk & Vendor Stroll on December 14 from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m.

Homemade cookies and novelties. Vendors and crafts show. Free admission. Free on-site parking. Food available. To be a Vendor, email: ChristChurch@ ChristChurchTomsRiver.org.

Photo courtesy Allison Goodwin

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Run For e Fallen Features Dedication By JROTC

TOMS RIVER – Toms River Regional Schools Junior ROTC cadets participated in the New Jersey Run for the Fallen September 28, honoring the memory of USMC Major James M. Weis of Toms River, who made the ultimate sacrifice in Afghanistan on July 22, 2010.

This event dedicates each mile to a New Jersey hero, including Major Weis, with ceremonial stops at Hero Markers to pay respects to their families, friends, and comrades, ultimately creating a 225-plus-mile Memorial Trail across New Jersey.

Photos courtesy Ms. Sarah Toomey and LTC (Ret.) Javier A. Cortez

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Seminoles ‘Caught In Act’ Of Meeting Goals

TOMS RIVER – Thanks to the school’s behavior and attendance committees, Intermediate South is taking a wide-range approach to meeting its goals. And they didn’t waste any time getting started.

To begin the second full week of the school year, September 16 through 19, representatives from COMPASS (Creating Ocean Monmouth Prevention And Supports for Students) visited the school to present “Be The Change - Putting An End to School Violence and Bullying.” The presentation used social and emotional learning to teach students how to prevent, react, and reduce violence and bullying in school. Sixth-grade students were clearly eager to participate, and learned the importance of being an upstander, not a bystander. On its fi nal presentation day, Compass offered “Be the Change” exclusively in Spanish to support the school’s ML learners.

Armed with lessons in empathy and kindness, it’s likely no coincidence that Intermediate South had a whopping 24 students nominated last week alone for its “Caught in the Act” program, which is exactly what it sounds like-- catching students red-handed in acts of kindness, and recognizing them for their spontaneous benevolence.

“To have that many students nominated in one week was a major success in kicking off the Character Program/Kindness Initiative,” said Assistant Principal Casey Daniel.

School leaders are well aware that in order for these initiatives to have maximum impact, they need buy-in not just from students, but from their parents, guardians, and families as well.

Which is why, in addition to many other forms of communication, school administrators hosted brief, face-to-face meetings with parents during their children’s lunch periods earlier this month.

“We discussed expectations within the building, our Character Program, and the expectation of no violence in our schools,” said Daniel. “We had a huge turnout and it was extremely successful.”

This push for kindness inside and outside of school will continue with monthly “Coffee with the Administration” meeting beginning in October.

Tucked away in the borough of Beachwood, it might be easier to keep a low profile. But when it comes to kindness and character education, Intermediate South itself has been caught in the act.

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Hearing loss is highly prevalent, affecting well over a billion people worldwide. In about 25 years, this statistic will double. Many studies have clearly identified hearing loss as a major risk factor for adverse health outcomes including reduced quality of life, depression, dementia, and possibly mortality. Hearing aids are a first line intervention for most individuals with hearing loss. However, the delay in getting “hearing help” can be up to 10 years!

A recent Lancet Study utilized a cross sectional analysis of 9885 adults who participated in the National Health & Nutrition Examination Survey between 1999 and 2012. The association between hearing aid use and risk of mortality was examined among adults with various degrees of hearing loss. Among individuals with hearing loss, the risk of mortality was lower among regular hearing aid users than “never” users of hearing aids. There are many theories proposed to explain the association between hearing loss and mortality. The first possible expla-

nation involves common pathology that affects both hearing and comorbidities leading to death, such as cardiovascular disease, diabetes, and dementia. A second mechanism is the relationship between hearing loss and frailty. Thus, auditory deprivation resulting from hearing loss might negatively affect brain structure. The bottom line is consistent hearing aid use contributes to improved brain function. Several studies suggest up to a 50% reduction in cognitive decline with consistent hearing aid use. In my opinion, there needs to be additional efforts to improve accessibility and affordability of hearing aids in individuals with lower socioeconomic status.

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Healing From The Impact Of Emotionally Immature Relationships

By Suzy Cohen, R. Ph.

Recently, I had a transformative experience reading Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson. As a voracious reader, I devour several books a month, and this one struck a deep chord, offering a profound understanding of emotionally immature people and their impact on our lives.

Whether it’s a parent, spouse, friend, or an ex, encountering emotionally immature behavior is something most of us deal with at some point or another.

In my work as a pharmacist, I have seen the prevalence of antidepressants and anxiolytics. Many people rely on these drugs, or on alcohol to cope. It’s sad to think that these are needed to navigate life in the presence of emotionally immature relationships without realizing the true source of the distress. If this resonates with you, it’s possible you’re dealing with someone emotionally immature, and understanding this could be the key to your healing journey. Let me pose critical questions that can help you identify emotionally immature behavior:

• Do conversations often revolve around the other person’s experiences, leaving little room for yours?

• When you express vulnerability or distress, do they react dismissively, sarcastically, or superficially?

• Do you get interrupted, or get the sense that your say is unimportant?

• Do minor disagreements lead to defensiveness or overreactions. Do they deny, distort or dismiss?

• When sharing good news, do you walk away

feeling unheard or like your joy was dampened?

Saying “yes” to one or more question indicates that you’re dealing with an emotionally immature person. While you can’t change someone else’s level of maturity, you do have control over who you spend your time with as an adult and the choice to disengage if needed. For me, reading Gibson’s book helped me make sense of the emotional disconnect I’ve felt in certain relationships throughout my life. Many of us have been conditioned to feel that any emotional issue stems from something within ourselves, leading to feelings of guilt, shame, and anxiety. But this book flips that narrative, showing that the source of your emotional struggles might not be you at all. This clarity can lead to healthier coping mechanisms. The realization that certain crutches, whether prescription meds, alcohol, or other forms of escapism, might be used to manage the stress caused by emotionally immature relationships is empowering. Armed with this awareness, you can start to develop more effective coping strategies that center on self-care and emotional health, rather than seeking external fixes. I hope this book impacts you as profoundly as it did me. It is worth every page—or listen.

If you enjoy my blogs, you can explore a wealth of information on my website, where all my archived articles are available. There’s also a more in-depth version of this article on emotionally immature people that I’m sure will fascinate you. Additionally, my site features a handy search box for those curious about any medication, health condition, or herbal remedy I’ve covered. Just visit suzycohen.com

(This information is not intended to treat, cure or diagnose your condition. Suzy Cohen is the author of “The 24-Hour Pharmacist” and “Real Solutions.” For more information, visit www.SuzyCohen.com) ©2024 SUZY COHEN, RPH. DISTRIBUTED BY DEAR PHARMACIST, INC.

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Funeral Home Ridgeway Boulevard - Manchester

Friday 1 p.m. – Manchester Memorial Home - Whiting

Rev Dr Lipari, FCM, A Franciscan Friar, has served the Ocean County are for over 21 years in ministry to the terminally ill and the grieving. All groups are free and donations are welcomed. Call Fr. Anthony at 732-349-6797 for more information.

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Ocean County Man Charged For Se ing Home On Fire

By Alyssa Riccardi

BRICK – A Brick Township man has been charged for starting a fire in the basement of a home, causing three injuries, authorities said.

responsible for setting the fi re.

On October 7, Maulbeck was served with the charge on a complaint in the Ocean County Jail, where he is presently lodged on an unrelated matter.

On September 13, police officers found smoke and heavy fire coming from a home on Falkenberg Road while on routine patrol. While suppressing the fire, three firefighters became injured. One of the firefighters declined medical attention at the scene, and two others were treated at a local medical facility and released, officials said.

Investigators determined that the fire originated in the north side of the split basement. The cause of the fi re was determined to be “incendiary by an unknown person or persons utilizing an open flame to available combustibles,” officials said.

Ocean County Prosecutor Bradley D. Billhimer acknowledged the Ocean County Prosecutor’s Office Major Crime Unit-Arson Squad, Ocean County Prosecutor’s Office High Tech Crime Squad, Brick Township Police Department Detective Bureau, Ocean County Sheriff’s Office Crime Scene Investigation Unit, and Brick Township Bureau of Fire Safety, for their combined and collective efforts in connection with this investigation.

Authorities later identified Charles Maulbeck, 51, of Toms River as the individual

The charges referenced above are merely accusations and the press and public are reminded that all defendants are presumed innocent unless and until proven guilty beyond a reasonable doubt in a court of law.

Ocean County Man, Charged With Sexually Assaulting A Minor, To Remain Detained

By Alyssa Riccardi

drove the girl to an area in Toms River and sexually assaulted her, officials said.

MANCHESTER – A Toms River man who was arrested and charged for allegedly kidnapping a 14-year-old girl and sexually assaulting her, will remain in jail pending trial, officials said.

The man then drove the victim to the Walmart in Toms River, where the victim exited the vehicle and ran home.

After identifying the man as Hahn, detectives discovered that he is a registered Megan’s Law offender.

Keith Hahn, 46, will remain detained on charges of Aggravated Sexual Assault, Sexual Assault, Aggravated Criminal Sexual Contact, Kidnapping, Luring, and Endangering the Welfare of a Child, all in connection with an incident that occurred in Toms River on September 29.

On that day, a 14-year-old girl became lost while walking on Route 70 in Manchester Township. At that time, a man driving a white Jeep Grand Cherokee stopped and talked to the victim. The girl then asked the driver to take her to the animal shelter in Toms River. However, the man instead

On October 1, detectives searched Hahn’s home and car. Hahn was taken into custody at the home without incident and transported to the Ocean County Jail, where he has been lodged since his apprehension. The detention hearing was handled by Assistant Ocean County Prosecutor Victoria Veni.

The charges referenced above are merely accusations and the press and public are reminded that all defendants are presumed innocent unless and until proven guilty beyond a reasonable doubt in a court of law.

Model Railroaders Fall Open House

LAKEWOOD – The Ocean County Society of Model Railroaders, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization, at 502 Country Club Road, Pine Park, Lakewood, is holding its Fall Open House, on October 26 from 11 a.m. to 4 p.m.; and October 27 from 12 to 5 p.m. at the Lakewood Historical Museum also known as the Sheldon Wolpin Historical Museum. Admission is free but donations are always gladly accepted.

Visitors to the Open House will see both modern and traditional trains running continuously. Ted Bertiger, president of The Ocean County Society of Model Railroaders, said, “We will have trains running for all ages. Come see our train club in action!”

For more information, contact Ted Bertiger 732-688-1184 or at captnkraft@aol. com. Also visit ocsmr.com.

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River) was 327 for Roosevelt, 56 percent, 170 for Wilson, 29 percent, and 84 Taft, 15 percent. In Brick, it was TR on top with 230 votes, 47 percent, Wilson 193, 39 percent, and Taft 68, 14 percent. Wilson carried Jackson with 222 votes to Roosevelt’s 111 and Taft’s 43. That’s 59 percent for Wilson in Jackson - a huge margin in a three way race. Plumsted went 127 for Wilson, 113 for Roosevelt, and 63 for Taft. In the late nineteenth century and part of twentieth century, Jackson and Plumsted were strong Democratic towns.

Berkeley and Manchester both voted for Roosevelt, but it was close. In Berkeley, it was 93 for Roosevelt, 73 for Wilson, and 38 for Taft. In Manchester, the vote was 90 for Roosevelt, 81 for Wilson, and 33 for Taft.

Despite Ocean County’s strong support for Theodore Roosevelt, the New Jersey

Governor, Woodrow Wilson, carried New Jersey and won the election. He was re-elected in 1916. Taft later went on to become Chief Justice of the United States in 1921. Roosevelt never ran for office again and died unexpectedly in 1919. It should be interesting in November to see how this year’s third party candidates do - both nationally, and here in Ocean County.

SOURCES: New Jersey Legislative Manual; New Jersey Courier; Ocean County Clerk’s Offi ce; Wikipedia J. Mark Mutter is the retired Clerk of Dover and Toms River Township. He was elected to the Dover Township Committee three times and served as Mayor in 1993 and 2000. He chaired the township’s 225-year anniversary committee in 1992, it’s 250-year anniversary committee in 2017, and it’s 200-year U.S. Constitution bi-centennial committee in 1987. He is the offi cial Toms River Township Historian and is writing a book on the town’s history.

OCC Foundation Hosts Annual Golf Classic

TOMS RIVER – Join the Ocean County College Foundation for its 23rd Annual Golf Classic at the Pine Barrens Golf Club in Jackson on October 15. Enjoy a day on the green while supporting the students of Ocean County!

The outing is held each year to assist the Foundation in its mission to make higher education more accessible to Ocean County residents through scholarships and awards. By providing students with excellent educational opportunities, the Foundation and its supporters open a new world of possibilities for them, paving the way for their future success.

“We extend our heartfelt thanks to all our sponsors and golfers for their incredible

support. Your commitment and involvement are vital to the success of our event and play a crucial role in enhancing the educational experiences of our students,” said Michael B. York, Chair of the Foundation’s Annual Golf Outing. “Your dedication helps us move closer to achieving our mission. Thank you for your invaluable contribution.”

Registration, brunch, and use of the driving range will begin at 9:30 a.m., followed by a shotgun start at 11 a.m. The tournament will conclude with a buffet awards reception at 4 p.m. The event will take place rain or shine. Various levels of sponsorship and participation are available. To register as a player or sponsor, visit go.ocean.edu/golf or contact the OCC Foundation office at 732-255-0492.

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Vote For A Better Barnegat

We in New Jersey and those of us in Barnegat have multiple ways to cast our vote for the November 5th election this year. Vote by Mail is certainly the easiest way to cast your vote.

Vote by Mail ballots have been sent out and should be in your possession if you vote by mail. Please open it, vote, and return it as soon as possible so that you do not neglect to get it in on time. We also hope that when you vote you consider Claire Edelstein and Ron Naples for Barnegat Township Committee. Also early voting will open at the end of October and then, of course, going to the polling places on election day.

Have you had enough abuse, Barnegat?

A vote for Edelstein and Naples will show that you are ready for change in our local government that moves us ahead and out of the past that the current committee seems to represent.

Claire and Ron have new ideas and practical solutions for a Better Barnegat!

A vote for them is a vote for…

· Fiscal Restraint

· Responsible Development

· Government Transparency

· Improved maintenance on town facilities

· An end to a government with a patronage employment policy.

Please be sure to get out and vote.

If for some reason you did not automatically receive your mail-in-ballot or if you have questions please contact the Ocean County Board of Elections at … co.ocean.nj.us/oc/elections then click on Ocean County Clerk’s Office, Vote by Mail, mail-in-ballot information.

Ron Naples Barnegat

In God We Trust

This election is about Good vs. Evil and Light vs. Darkness.

“We The People” must remember to vote with our Biblical morals, and values that gave us our liberties and freedoms.

God will have the fi nal say. He will hold each one of us accountable. “In God We Trust.”

Pat Lasher Jersey Shore

Kars For Who?

I’m sure that everybody has heard that jingle: “1-877-KARS FOR KIDS donate your car today.”

The commercial started out with cars – now they take buildings, land, other property, etc. Is this whole thing some sort of scam?

Nowhere in the jingle does it say where the money goes. Do they take ghetto kids and give them a few days in the country? Do

they use the money for researching cures for rare childhood diseases? Do they have special schools or courses to help children with their reading skills so they can be competitive in today’s world?

Just what does this organization do for KIDS?

John J. Radlinsky Whiting

Heed The Words Of The Pledge

Think of the words to The Pledge of Allegiance then think of the mess our nation is in.

Consider the following words in the Pledge:

“Allegiance.” Whom do we pledge our allegiance to: God, country, political party or man? It was more than obvious in the last election, the allegiance, the idolatry to a man in spite of his fl awed character, lack of integrity, ethics and morals.

“Republic.” Defi ned, a Republic is a commonwealth; a state in which the power is vested in elected representatives. Have our elected representatives abused that power? Do they have integrity, have vision, take responsibility and serve our nation; not be self-serving? Without these factors there can be no trust and we will see a rise in corruption! They do not have the right to act as they please! We need leadership, not power and control!

“One nation.” America is a melting pot of cultures and in part that is one of the

things that makes us great. Yes we have problems such as the border crossings however hate, violence, and political fighting solve nothing.

“Under God.” As a society we have drifted farther and farther away from being a godly nation and it shows! Do our leaders walk humbly with God or have they sold their souls for power and money? Is loyalty to party or individual more important than God? It would seem so!

“Indivisible.” Our political leaders seem to be doing their best to divide America on a multitude of issues; blaming each other. The insurrection on the Capitol, attacking our 1st amendment rights, gun violence, restriction of voting rights, are examples. These are threats to our freedoms and democracy!

“Liberty.” Big Danger! When we allow government to grant our liberties, we give them the ability to take them away! We must demand leadership, not control at all levels!

“Justice.” Gun violence, hate crimes and let’s not forget the “Big Lie,” and anarchist attack on the Capital! Is the Constitution in danger when we let politics control the courts? Are we a nation of law; man’s law (often perverted justice) or God’s law?

Are we drifting, allowing our nation to turn into autocracy? It’s our fault if it does! Silence is not golden and there is much to be lost!

Ken Schorr Manahawkin

R.C. Shea & Assoc. Inside The Law

Educating Our Community On Nursing Home Abuse

By: Michael J. Deem, Esq. of R.C. Shea & Associates

People put their elderly parent or grandparent in a nursing home so that they can be safely taken care of, so that someone can properly look after them in their old age. No one expects that these nursing home residents should get anything less than the proper care and respect that they deserve, but with the horrifying rise in nursing care abuse, this is not always the case. According to the National Center on Elder Abuse in the United States, more than 30 percent of all nursing homes in America indulge in some form of resident abuse.

Statistics show that nearly 50 percent of all nursing homes are short staffed. The staff people who do work in these facilities are underpaid, overworked, and all too often overburdened, which in turn leads to elder neglect and abuse.

Even more alarming is the prediction that the problem will only worsen in the near future. More than 91% of nursing homes lack adequate staff to properly care for patients. A Health and Human Services Department report found patients in understaffed nursing homes were more likely to suffer from a variety of problems, such as bed sores, malnutrition, weight loss, dehydration, pneumonia, and serious blood born infections. It’s a serious concern that will only increase with time, given that the population of people aged 85 or older

is expected to double to 8.9 million by the year 2030.

Signs of abuse and neglect may be (but are not limited to) evidence such as patterns of bruising, unexplained injuries, frequent infections, bedsores, questionable hygiene, appearance of malnutrition, emotional distress, and unsanitary living conditions. Document any such evidence you observe, and bring it to the attention of your attorney. Neglect can be just as harmful in the long run as abuse, leading to additional health problems and possibly death. Nursing home abuse isn’t limited to physical abuse; there can also be emotional, verbal, and psychological abuse, where an elder is demeaned or humiliated in other ways.

Many elders needlessly suffer from nursing home abuse in which they are manipulated, humiliated, or physically harmed by the very people entrusted with providing them with loving and tender care. Instances of physical, sexual and verbal abuse have taken place at the very nursing homes where elders are actually supposed to be well taken care of; unfortunately, cases of nursing home abuse in America and also in New Jersey are rising rather than falling. If you think a loved one is the victim of Nursing Home Abuse call the trial attorneys at R.C. Shea & Associates for a free consultation to discuss their rights.

Science Research For All Fall Gi Auction

TOMS RIVER – Join or a fun night of prizes as we raise funds for Science Research For All. The Fall Gift Auction will be on October 24.

Tickets are only $20 per person, attendees are welcome to bring their own food & refreshments however, no open alcohol is permitted. We will have a 50/50 raffle on the day of the event as well.

This year’s auction will be held at Toms River High School East Cafetorium. Doors

will open at 5:30 p.m. Drop tickets until 7:15 p.m. Calling Numbers at 7:15 p.m.

After purchasing your tickets, we will mail them to you. They will come from Science Research for All, LLC. Please provide an address where you can receive them. On the day of the event there will be no assigned seats, first come first serve so please arrive early. Attendees must be at least 18 years old. Sales are a non-refundable donation and all proceeds go to Science Research for All, LLC.

NJ Friends Of Clearwater October Happenings

NEW JERSEY – NJFC is looking for volunteers to join their team for Clean Ocean Action Beach Sweeps, October 19. Please email njcwfestdirector@yahoo.com for information to register.

NJFC has Boscov’s Friends Helping Friends Passes for your shopping pleasure. Passes are $5 each and NJFC keeps that $5 as your donation. Redeemable on October 22 from 8

a.m. to 11 p.m. at any Boscov Store. In store or online, there’s 25% savings. Contact NJFC at info@njclearwater.org, 732-784-3008 for more information.

NJ Friends of Clearwater (NJFC) is having a Fundraiser on October 30 at Chick-Fil-A 1613 Hwy 34, Ocean Township (Oakhurst) from 5 to 8 p.m. Be sure when ordering in store or by mobile app to give the code “NJFRIENDS” (all caps).

BUSINESS DIRECTORY

Personals

Senior Single Males 75+ - Wanted for female friendship. High standards, good character, have a heart for seniors. Leave message 732-678-6786. (43)

Auto For Sale

1979 Plymouth Volare - 5/qnt, 6 cyl., auto, 53953. Original owner, silver with red interior. No rust. Good tires. $5K. Bob 732-774-9000. (43)

Items Wanted

COSTUME/ESTATE JEWELRY

Looking to buy costume/estate jewelry, old rosaries and religious medals, all watches and any type of sterling silver, bowls, flatware candlesticks or jewelry. Same day house calls and cash on the spot. 5 percent more with this AD. Call Peggy at 732-581-5225. (t/n)

$$$ WANTED TO BUY $$$

Jewelry and watches, costume jewelry, sterling silver, silverplate, medals, military items, antiques, musical instruments, pottery, fine art, photographs, paintings, statues, old coins, vintage toys and dolls, rugs, old pens and postcards, clocks, furniture, bric-a-brac, select china and crystal patterns. Cash paid. Over 35 years experience. Call Gary Struncius. 732849-6068 (new number). (t/n)

Used Guns Wanted - All types: collectibles, military, etc. Call 917-681-6809. (t/n)

CASH PAID!! LP records - stereos, musical instruments, guitar, saxophone, CD’s, reel tapes, music related items. Come to you. 732-804-8115. (44)

CASH, CASH, CASH! - Instant cash paid for junk cars, trucks, vans. Free removal of any metal items. Discount towing. Call Dano 732-239-3949. (t/n)

Entire Estates Bought - Bedroom/dining sets, dressers, cedar chests, wardrobes, secretaries, pre-1950 wooden furniture, older glassware, oriental rugs, paintings, bronzes, silver, bric-a-brac. Call Jason at 609-970-4806. (t/n)

Cash - Top dollar, paid for junk, cars running and nonrunning, late model salvage, cars and trucks, etc. 732-928-3713. (t/n)

Help Wanted

R.C. Shea and Associates is seeking to hire a paralegal with civil/commercial litigation experience as well as an administrative assistant. Pay and benefits commensurate with experience. Please call Pam Williams, office manager at (732) 505-1212 or email at pwilliams@rcshea.com (t/n)

Bus Driver NEEDED! - Flexible Scheduling. Perfect for Retiree in Retirement Community. CDL w/ Passenger endorsement required. Call SilverWoods Clubhouse for more information at 732-341-4825. (t/n)

CLASSIFIEDS

Services Help Wanted

Laundromat Attendant - For FT/ PT Good communication skills, math and min computer knowledge. Transportation needed. Long term commitment only. 732-286-1863. (t/n)

Services

A1 HANDYMAN SERVICESOver 30 years experience in all phases of home improvements. Free estimates and referrals. Call John 267475-7962 or 732-477-0379. (43)

Since 1979, Kitchen Magic, a family-owned business offering cabinet refacing, new cabinetry, and luxury countertop throughout the Northeast. We transform kitchens in less time, with less stress, at an amazing value. Call today for a free estimate 1-844-367-2477. (t/n)

Handyman Small jobs - Painting, powerwash, electrical, plumbing, light hauling. Call 732-859-9266. (44)

Looking for a home health aid or family assistant for your loved one?

Call today to get started. 24/7 or hourly assistance with daily tasks: meal preparation, errands, light housekeeping, driving to appointments, personal care, emotional and physical support...No agency fees or commitment, you can choose the right candidate without any hidden fees. 732-9108869. elenpaposh@gmail.com. (45)

ANGEL APPLIANCE REPAIR732-403-6975. 50+ years serving Monmouth and Ocean Counties. Senior owned and operated. INSURED, RELIABLE AND HONEST. (47)

APlus Home Improvements - Over 30 years experience. Everything from small handyman tasks to large renovations, decks, finished basements and much more. Lic #13VH11453600. No job too small give us a call. 908-278-1322. (52)

THE RIDE GUY - Takes you anywhere! No limits. Comfy mini-van. References. Call Charlie 732-216-3176 or Email: cr@exit109.com. Let's Go! (t/n)

Garden State Property Maintenance - All yard work. Tree-trimming and removal, stump grinding, pavers, decks, flower beds, weeding. 609-661-5470. (t/n)

Nor’easter Painting and Staining, LLC - Interior and exterior. Decks, powerwashing. Affordable. Senior discounts. References. No job too small. Fully insured. 732-6910123. Lic #13VH09460600. (t/n)

Don’t let the stairs limit your mobility! Discover the ideal solution for anyone who struggles on the stairs, is concerned about a fall or wants to regain access to their entire home. Call AmeriGlide today! 1-844-897-8361. (t/n)

HANDYMAN SOLUTIONSAll Types of Home Improvement and Repairs. EXPERT Carpentry •Doors •Windows •Bathroom And Kitchen Upgrades •Finished Basements •Ceramic Tile •Laminate Flooring •Decks •Vinyl Railings •Masonry •Painting •More. Licensed and Insured. Advanced Building. 609-384-9030. (38)

Prepare for power outages today with a Generac Home Standby Generator. Act now to receive a FREE 5-Year warranty with qualifying purchase. Call 1-833-901-0309 today to schedule a free quote. It’s not just a generator. It’s a power move. (t/n)

LANDSCAPING - Restorations, Repairs, Stones, Mulch, Sod Installs, Hedges, Shrubs, Bushes, Downed Branches Trimmed & Removed, Demolition, Cleanouts, ect., Dumpster service provided by A901 Licensed Hauler ect. MAN WITH VAN LLC. Jim 609335-0330 HIC# 13VH10806000. NO JOB TOO SMALL! Servicing Toms River, Lakehurst, Manchester, Whiting, Jackson, New Egypt, Plumstead Beachwood, Bayville, Berkeley. (47)

Adult Care Provider - Filipino Woman seeking live-in job as home healthcare provider for elderly with 10 years experience, with excellent reference. Please call 973-454-6818. (46)

Painting - Special Fall Pricing. Interior/Exterior. Meticulous work. All materials and jobs guaranteed. Fully licensed and insured. $ave. Call 732-850-5060. (47)

Car Service - 24/7. Doctors, shopping, airports, hospitals, cruise, shops, Atlantic City, family functions, NYC accomodations for large groups. Call for reasonable rates. Kerry 732-606-2725. (42)

When You Need A Caregiver Call Lucy - European Registered Nurse, 25 years. US Eldercare experience, 19 years. Live in/out, hourly, negotiable. 732-657-1409 (H), 732-833-3273 (C). (47)

MY HANDY CREW - Home repairs, carpentry, painting, roofing and siding, decks, powerwashing, yardwork, all your home maintenance needs. $ave. Call Clark 732-850-5060. Insured and NJ License #13VH11804800. (44)

Learn To Play The - Flute, clarinet, saxophone, trumpet, trombone, or drums, from a NJ State Certified Teacher of Instrumental Music, in your home! Call 732-3504427 for more information. (38)

DIRECTV - All your entertainment. Nothing on your roof! Sign up for Directv and get your first three months of Max, Paramount+, Showtime, Starz, MGM+ and Cinemax included. Choice package $84.99/ mo. Some restrictions apply. Call DIRECTV 1-877-557-1213 (t/n)

CHEAP PAINTING Done RITEFree est. Senior discounts interior exterior. Call 732-506-7787, cell 646-643-7678. (t/n)

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Items For Sale

Handyman Service - Carpentry, masonry, painting repairs large and small. 40 years experience. Call Jim 732-674-3346. (39)

Housecleaning - We offer services: House cleaning, laundy, window cleaning, painting, office cleaning, carpet cleaning, shopping, take clothes dry cleaning, typing, office work, demonstration, merchandise in store. Very good prices. Call 732330-4189 or 848-287-3944. (t/n)

PQ Painting & Home Improvement Services - Over 5 decades of service in NJ. Visit us online at pqpaintingservice.com . Winner of Angie’s List Super Service Award. Free estimates, reasonable rates, fully licensed and insured NJ Lic #13VH06752800. Call 732500-3063 or 609-356-2444. (t/n)

Do You Want Your Car To Look Nice And Shine - Call Lenny Lenny's Mobile Auto Detailing 908-868-4609. (43)

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180 Receives $25K From Horizon Blue Cross Blue Shield Of NJ

HAZLET – 180 Turning Lives Around received a grant from Horizon Blue Cross Blue Shield of New Jersey for $25,000 to fund 180 Turning Lives Around in Hazlet. The donation made through The Horizon Foundation for New Jersey will fund the New Jersey statewide 2NDFLOOR Youth Helpline.

CEO Liz Graham said, “We appreciate The Horizon Foundation for New Jersey and their generous investment in 180 Turning Lives Around and our statewide 2NDFLOOR Youth Helpline. The Foundation’s commitment to the mental health of our youth is praiseworthy. We are grateful for the support and know their

gift will tremendously improve the mental health of our youth in New Jersey.”

“Horizon is pleased to support the important work by 180 Turning Lives Around and the 2NDFLOOR Youth Helpline,” said Jonathan R. Pearson, Executive Director of The Horizon Foundation for New Jersey. “The 2NDFLOOR

Youth Helpline aligns with our commitment to expanding access to health for those individuals in need of mental health support and other community services. The Horizon Foundation for New Jersey works across New Jersey with our grantee partners to make New Jersey healthier.”

Risk-Based Screening For Breast Cancer

BRICK – Join Dr.Harriet Borofsky, M.D., Medical Director of Breast Imaging at Riverview Medical Center, as she describes the current technologies available to know your personal risk for breast cancer and to inform risk-based multi-modality screening. Advanced technologies for early detection and diagnosis will be discussed.

This community event is offered virtually through Hackensack Meridian Health, on October 16 from 12 to 1 p.m.

Registration is required, visit HackensackMeridianHealth.org/Events or call 1-800-560-9990 to register and receive a Zoom link.

Photographer Scott Nevins is at it again with a great submission to our Photo of the Week Feature. He was able to catch the Route 72 Causeway Bridge connecting Manahawkin to Long Beach Island with Mother Nature putting on quite the sky show. Stunning!! Have a pic you would like to see in this space? Email photos@ jerseyshoreonline.com and you may hear from us.

OCC Foundation Hosts Annual Golf Classic

TOMS RIVER – Join the Ocean County College Foundation for its 23rd Annual Golf Classic at the Pine Barrens Golf Club in Jackson on October 15. Enjoy a day on the green while supporting the students of Ocean County!

The outing is held each year to assist the Foundation in its mission to make higher education more accessible to Ocean County residents through scholarships and awards. By providing students with excellent educational opportunities, the Foundation and its supporters open a new world of possibilities for them, paving the way for their future success.

“We extend our heartfelt thanks to all our sponsors and golfers for their incredible support. Your commitment and involvement

are vital to the success of our event and play a crucial role in enhancing the educational experiences of our students,” said Michael B. York, Chair of the Foundation’s Annual Golf Outing. “Your dedication helps us move closer to achieving our mission. Thank you for your invaluable contribution.”

Registration, brunch, and use of the driving range will begin at 9:30 a.m., followed by a shotgun start at 11 a.m. The tournament will conclude with a buffet awards reception at 4 p.m. The event will take place rain or shine. Various levels of sponsorship and participation are available. To register as a player or sponsor, visit go.ocean.edu/golf or contact the OCC Foundation office at 732-255-0492.

Mall-O-Ween Is Here

TOMS RIVER – Spooky season is officially upon us! Come join on October 24 at the Ocean County Mall with B98.5 for mall-wide trick-or-treat and costume contest (ages 0 to 12).

They will be hosting a plethora of family-friendly activities, giveaways, and craft tables for your little ones to enjoy. This

event will include lots of candy, fun, and memories for your family that will last a lifetime.

All costume contest winners will receive a prize, so wear your best costume and we hope to see you!

Trick-Or-Treat will be from 4 to 7 p.m. and the Costume Contest will start at 5 p.m.

Lucky 13 Gi Auction

TOMS RIVER – Join on November 13 for a fun night of prizes as they raise funds for Science Research For All.

Tickets are only $20 per person, attendees are welcome to bring their own food & refreshments however, no open alcohol is permitted. They will have a 50/50 raffle on the day of the event as well.

This year’s auction will be held at Toms River High School East Cafetorium. Doors

will open at 5:30 p.m. Drop tickets until 7:15 p.m. Calling Numbers at 7:15 p.m.

After purchasing your tickets, they will mail them to you. They will come from Science Research for All, LLC. Please provide an address where you can receive them. On the day of the event there will be no assigned seats, fi rst come fi rst serve so please arrive early. Attendees must be at least 18 years old.

FUN & GAMES SUDOKU

CROSSWORD PUZZLE

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6 Econ. indicators

10 Sp. title

14 Loud item in a closet

16 Easily manipulated type

17 Study buddies, often

18 Natl. law group whose “M” is largely obsolete

19 Picnic serving 20 Prandial pokers

21 Cool veggies?

22 Café de __: Mexican drink brewed in a pot

23 Arduous tasks

25 Like some premium services

28 Scrapped

31 On the offensive, legally

32 It’s not a side road

33 Skin lotion

Mighty Dump

Hold-up group?

Like some milk,

with a webcam, perhaps

“How many licks

on a fjord

Down

1 Spike 2 Ragù __ Bolognese

3 Leaner alternative to pork

4 “What?” utterances

5 Anchor’s responsibility

6 Akufo-Addo’s land

7 Marquee evening

8 Continuous newsroom operations

9 Familiar gp. of 50

10 Facetious metaphor for a difficult situation

11 Mountain dangers

12 Big volume

13 They didn’t stop Hannibal

15 Alfred E. Neuman feature

21 Bop on the bean

22 Aptly named jazz work co-written by Charlie “Bird” Parker 24 When repeated, acclaimed Chinese

“I’m here to help”

Expected

Inexperienced one

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Two before marzo

Fog word

Pilots start them

Twice-baked

Squirt 38 Metal named for a planet 40 Not pleased 42 In half 43 Shallows craft

Social science course, briefly 46 Gene __

Prom style, often 48 Turned some ground 49 Active 51 Ontario-based music gp.

52 Self-described “non-musician” Brian

ARIES (March 21-April 19) : Your networking efforts can result in golden opportunities during the week ahead. You may feel pressured to spend money or adapt to new technologies. Friends and reliable advisers may help you make wise decisions.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20) : Clear planning may help you to direct your energies in the right direction in the week to come. An issue about joint finances or possessions may be confusing. All the wrinkles should be able to be ironed out.

GEMINI (May 21-June 20): This can be an excellent week to make promises and commitments because other people should want to cooperate. Your judgment and astute observations might help you make a favorable impression on others.

CANCER (June 21-July 22): You may enjoy having your possessions in the week to come, but you are also likely willing to share your material blessings. This is a great week to make a favorable impression on new friends or to participate in group activities.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): Your ability to communicate with loved ones may improve as this week unfolds. Other people might be glad to hear your advice due to your charitable attitudes. This is probably a good week to use your influence to ask for favors.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): Let your friendliness shine brightly. If you prove yourself to be an eager participant in interactive activities, you could impress even the most rational thinkers. Make realistic family decisions in the week ahead.

FOR THE WEEK OF OCT 12 - OCT 18

BY JERALDINE SAUNDERS

OMARR’S ASTROLOGICAL FORECAST

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): Your initiative and enthusiasm can give you an advantage. In a few days your good judgment should be obvious. When you see an opportunity to improve your situation in the week ahead you may want to accept it.

SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): This is a great week to concentrate on forming enduring relationships and improving existing alliances. It might be easier than usual to discuss joint plans or to easily execute them without rocking the boat.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): Your efforts to make your dreams a reality could confuse family members. To avoid scattering your energies like confetti, wait until the middle of the week, when you possibly have better judgment, to make major decisions.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): In the week ahead strive to achieve a balance between doing what is right and doing whatever is necessary to succeed. Your material ambitions could be put on hold when you see an opportunity to be helpful.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): Concentrate on achieving clarity by taking time to tune in in the week to come. You may bump into people who may seem unpredictable or controlling but can probably find common ground and arrive at a satisfactory compromise.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): You may be at your best in the upcoming week when you can interact with friends and are welcomed as a member of a group. Your people skills can be in top form but an attempt at a new romance could fall short of the mark.

By America’s Test Kitchen