WARETOWN – Under a blanket of stars and the glow of a warm bonfi re, the Waretown United Methodist Church once again brought the Christmas story to life with its annual live Nativity. The event, a beloved community tradition since 2017, drew more than 400 attendees who braved the winter chill to celebrate the reason for the season.
“This is our gift to the community,” said Pastor Dawn Corlew. “We are a neighborhood church whose mission is to faithfully serve God and our community with love and hope.”
Corlew said she was inspired to bring the rain-or-shine live Nativity to Waretown after witnessing its popularity at a Medford church (Nativity - See Page 4)
5K Held For Mental Health In Memory Of Berkeley Officer
Participants
By Chris Lundy ISLAND HEIGHTS
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It takes strength to be a police officer. It takes strength to put your life on the line as a fi rst responder. It takes strength to ask for help.
The 5th Annual Survivor Day 5K Run/ Walk was held in Island Heights as a fundraiser to promote mental health awareness. The walk is held on the third Saturday in November, recognized as International Survivors Of Suicide Loss Day.
This year’s race was
dedicated to Berkeley Police Lt. Anthony
“Butchie” Kurnel III. He was born and raised in Bayville. He was married with three children and a grandchild. “He was the cornerstone to his family and held such a bright presence in the community,” organizers said. “He was 55 years old when he lost his life to the silent killer of mental health and suicide. His legacy will live on as we remember the countless lives he
Local Filmmaker Provides Sequel To Holiday Favorite
By Bob Vosseller
JERSEY SHORE – Have you ever wondered what happened next for Ebenezer Scrooge after his epiphany about the spirit of Christmas and what matters most in life?
A New Jersey filmmaker is exploring that premise with “Ebenezer The Traveler” a film that premiered on Apple+TV on December 6. It will also be available on Amazon Prime and over a dozen streaming services. Gravitas Ventures, an Anthem Sports & Entertainment Company has acquired U.S. and Canadian rights to Joe Valenti’s holiday drama which he described as a charming family holiday film written by Leland R. Prater that stars Jerry Parisi, Amanda Rae
Dodson, Leland R. Prater, Michael Bertolini, Austen Shane, Emily Jeanne Phillips, Christopher Brian Roach and Lou Martini Jr.
The movie was directed, filmed, edited and produced by Valenti, a Toms River resident who heads Valenti Vision Films.
Following the merriest Christmas day of Ebenezer Scrooge’s long and mis-
erable life, the day after fi nds him much less merry, and instead much more dead. Reunited with his old partner Jacob Marley, a no longer quite so Tiny Tim, and his beloved sister Fan, together they are tasked with earning their own redemptions, and regaining Scrooge’s second chance, by crossing over time and the (Filmmaker - See Page 6)
Photo by Chris Lundy
at the 5th Annual Survivor Day 5K Run/Walk was held in Island Heights.
Photo courtesy Valenti Vision Films
A scene from “Ebenezer The Traveler” made by local fi lmmaker Joe Valenti.
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Photo by Stephanie Faughnan
Santa removes his hat to express his devotion to the Baby Jesus at the live Nativity scene. Courtney and Jeff Lake portrayed Mary and Joseph, and their baby Fiona portrayed Jesus.
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where she previously served. The positive reception and the ideal setting of the Bryant Road property convinced Corlew that it was the perfect place to recreate the Christmas story.
Last year, even inclement weather couldn’t dampen the spirit of the event. The nativity scene and farm animals were moved indoors. Hay was strewn throughout the church, transforming it into a makeshift stable, similar to the one where Christians believe the Baby Jesus was born.
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Collaborative Celebration
The live Nativity is a community-wide
effort involving 40 to 50 volunteers. From building sets to serving hot cocoa, everyone plays a role. The cast, featuring both children and adults, brought the Biblical story to life with the Holy Family, shepherds, wise men, and a host of angels.
Most of the cast members are part of the church’s local congregation, including those who settle down in the center of the manger scene. Courtney and Jeff Lake, along with their baby Fiona, portrayed Mary, Joseph, and the infant Jesus. Fiona, bundled in a snowsuit and pink hat to keep warm, captivated attendees as the youngest star of the night.
The production also included live animals, a favorite among the crowd. Donkeys and sheep added an authentic touch to the nativity scene, with one particularly protective donkey standing guard in front of the Holy Family for most of the fi rst performance.
Children and adults made up the various cast members of the production, which also included music provided
A partnership with a local farm provides the live animals for the nativity scene. A previous year even featured a camel, adding an extra layer of authenticity to the event. Corlew expressed her gratitude to the community
beyond her congregation. Township officials ensured there was adequate lighting, while the local police department provided logistical support. Firefighters and the fi rst aid squad were both on hand for safety.
The church’s commitment to inclusivity was evident, with an American Sign Language interpreter ensuring that everyone could experience the story of Christ’s birth. Waretown United Methodist Church is home to an extensive deaf ministry that includes sign language interpretation at its weekly services.
As the local pastor narrated what Christians refer to as the “greatest story ever told,” members of the church choir invited attendees to join them in a chorus of carols. The scene also included a devotional visit from another well-known Christmas figure.
Santa Visits
Adding to the joy was a visit from Santa and Mrs. Claus, with Santa removing his hat and kneeling in reverence before the Christ Child.
Santa’s kneeling gesture, paired with the manger scene, echoed Philippians 2:10: “At the name of Jesus every knee should bend.”
“Jesus is the reason for the season,” stressed Santa himself. “Santa portrays the love, kindness and giving as was some of the qualities of Jesus.”
The message of faith and hope is underscored by a verse from Alda Monteschio’s poem “Santa’s Christmas Prayer”
“Lord, You know that You’re the reason I take pleasure in this season. I don’t want to take Your place, but just reflect Your wondrous grace.”
A Tradition Of Happiness
Hot cocoa and snacks were available to warm attendees as they mingled after the performances, sharing laughter and fellowship. Children and whole families gathered to take pictures with Santa and Mrs. Claus inside the church.
Mrs. Claus’ role in the magic of Christmas cannot be underplayed. Ever the nurturer, Mrs. Claus steps out of the spotlight to offer comfort to children who might have felt nervous about meeting Santa.
“Children are always being warned that Santa is watching and to be good, so there are some who are fearful since they have not been their best,” added Mrs. Claus.
In an interview, Santa and Mrs. Claus said they were invited to the church by their friends, former mayor Bill Neyenhouse and his wife, Beverly, who once served as Barnegat’s recreation director.
Many of the attendees of this year’s live Nativity said they marked their calendars annually to start the Christmas season in great spirits. One said she found the event a representation of what Christmas is truly about – faith, love, and community.
For the Waretown United Methodist Church, the live Nativity is more than an event; it’s a labor of love. As the congregation and community members departed, the message of Christmas lit the way, just as it did in Bethlehem long ago.
Photo by Stephanie Faughnan
by the church choir.
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On a brisk morning, a large group gathered to remember his legacy, and to bring attention to the need for people to address their mental health as they would any other health issue. The crowd symbolized that
you are not alone. The run/walk provides momentum to the lives of those left behind, allowing them to move forward while remembering those they lost.
“Sometimes, the people you wouldn’t think need help are the ones who do,” Berkeley Police Chief Kevin Santucci said. “It’s important to recognize it and that we talk about it and not leave it in the dark. We should make people comfortable to talk about it and help them find the resources they need.”
Joe Chester, who spoke at the event about his uncle, said “Butchie was my hero. The reason I’m a police officer today is because of him.”
Kirsten Schenk fi rst organized this event in honor of her nephew and godson, Christian Schenk, who passed away on April 12, 2020. He would have turned 33 this year. The Toms River High School South graduate had just become a Sheriff ’s Officer. Christian left behind a wife and three young children.
Organizer Kevin Schmiegle said that suicide impacts police, fi refighters and fi rst aid members because they are under a lot of pressure and everyone depends on them. There are also people from the military who came home from combat and now are fighting battles nobody can see. They’re
not looking for sympathy or pity but for understanding.
“Everyone knows someone who this impacts,” he said. “Suicide is endemic in this country.”
At the front of the walk were members of NJ Cop To Cop, which provides 24/7 peer support to law enforcement and their families. Their goal is to help a fellow officer who is going through a tough time by letting them talk to another cop who understands what they may be feeling. They have ways to get a hold of them on their website at njcop2cop.com / which includes phone, email, chat and webinars.
Ocean County Man Accused Of Stealing Lo ery Tickets
By Chris Lundy
BARNEGAT – A local man was charged with stealing more than $50,000 worth of lottery tickets.
Kenneth Franke, 57, of Barnegat, was charged with Theft by Unlawful Taking in connection with incidents that occurred between January 2022 and December 2024. Police said he robbed from ticket vending machines at Wawas in Barnegat and Lacey. On December 4, detectives established surveillance on Franke as he entered one
of the Barnegat Wawas. They observed him getting lottery tickets and took him into custody.
Ocean County Prosecutor Bradley D. Billhimer commended the Ocean County Prosecutor’s Office Economic Crime Squad, Barnegat Police, and New Jersey Lottery Commission, for their combined and collective assistance in connection with this investigation.
Ch arges are merely accusations until proven in a court of law.
Resolve To Relax In 2025: Sound Bowl Meditation
WARETOWN – When you enter the new year, will the stresses of 2024 follow you? Support your well-being with Sound Bowl Meditation at the Ocean County Library Waretown Branch, 7 p.m. on December 30.
Certified yoga instructor Belle Burns will share an hour of deep relaxation, using seven crystal bowls to raise sounds
that align with the chakras, seven energy centers that govern the connections between mind and body.
Proponents of sound bowl therapy cite its value in reducing stress, anxiety, fatigue and depression, promote relaxation and improve one’s state of mind.
A 200-hour yoga instructor affiliated with Pink Moon Yoga & Wellness in
Toms River and Brielle and This Is Yoga NJ in Seaside Park, Belle is known for incorporating yoga history and philosophy and her deep study of metaphysics into a broad range of workshops. Register at tinyurl.com/OclWaBurns to attend this free program. Registrants are asked to please bring a mat, blanket or cushion for lying down.
Sound Bowl Meditation is sponsored by the Friends of the Waretown Library, volunteers who support OCL through programs, fundraising and advocacy. New members are always welcome. Application forms are available at all Library branches and reading centers and also at the Ocean County Library website.
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mortal plane to help guide others who are in danger of losing their way.
Their first journey leads them to modern day Oklahoma, and into the life of a young singer doing her best to support what family she has left. Angel Lynn dreams of something better, but sometimes dreams can turn into nightmares. Bound under the thumb of a ruthless manager she finds herself forced into a situation where one wrong decision could ruin everything and cost them all dearly. Ebenezer, Fan, Jacob, and Tiny Tim must work as if their souls depend upon it to save her before time runs out because they do.
Valenti noted, “what I love about this story is that it is not another reboot or remake of ‘A Christmas Carol.’ It is a continuation of the Dickens classic which will explore what happens next for Ebenezer Scrooge. We have an opportunity to learn so much more about these classic characters.”
“Ebenezer the Traveler” has screened in many festivals across the country in recent months and has picked up numerous awards including Best Family Feature, Best Actor and Best Costume Awards.
Valenti said Jerry Parisi, who plays Scrooge in the films “came up with the concept (for the sequel). He had been playing Scrooge at various festivals, fairs and private parties for 15 years. He came up with the idea and met with our writer and they are the ones who started the process seven or eight years ago. They did a concept video before I was even involved.”
“I don’t know if the rights have already fallen into public domain. There have been tons of remakes and retellings of the same story over and over again. That is what appealed to me. We are not doing a remake or retelling; we are continuing where they left off,” he added.
He noted, “there are so many characters that are brushed over in the book that you don’t know much of their back story. Scrooge is the only one people really know and the three ghosts in the book.”
The original story doesn’t touch on what happened with the other relatives so the film can delve further into that, he said.
“We started filming in January and ended a week before the SAG strike started, which was at the end of April or May,” he explained. They filmed over the course of four months, working around everyone’s schedule and shooting Friday, Saturday, Sunday or on a holiday weekend. “We filmed in Toms River, we used the Grunin Theater at Ocean County College, where the concert is set toward the end, and downtown Toms River for some of the outside shots.”
Other locations included Hopewell, a historic area of Staten Island and Long Island. “We also went to Oklahoma and filmed a bunch of scenes there. We shot some of the drone shots there. We shot on the same street as “Killers of the Flower Moon.” They built all those sets and that is what we used for some of the outdoor Oklahoma stuff,” Valenti added. Valenti was born in Brick Township. “I was there until I was 25 and moved to Old Bridge for 15 or 16 years and for the past seven years, I’ve lived in Toms River so a
life-long Jersey resident. My company does film and TV production but we do commercials and sports productions “corporate stuff in the city. It is all TV and production related and those jobs pay the bills. I’ve had movies in the past that have been on Netfl ix and late-night films on ABC.”
“When this project came up I said, ‘this is great.’ I loved the concept, the story, they had a lot of the costumes already so it all fell together. For this film we had a large cast and many locations which goes against the grain of a smaller budget film,” Valenti added. Valenti is looking forward to the holiday season even more now and said “we are already talking to investors about doing a sequel.”
Amanda Rae
and executive produced by Jerry
Joann Sciascia Parisi, Joe Valenti, Leland R. Prater. Gravitas Ventures Acquisitions Manager Mackenzie Maguire negotiated the deal with Producer Todd Slater of Convoke Media on behalf of the filmmakers.
The motion picture was produced on a modest, independent budget of roughly $80,000. The film’s theme song, “How I Missed You Christmas” was written by Valenti and performed by Emily Jeanne Phillips. It is available on Spotify, Amazon Music, Apple Music and dozens of other music streaming platforms. The full motion picture soundtrack was released on the same platforms.
Other producers include Jerry Parisi, Joann Sciascia-Parisi, Leland R Prater, Todd
“Gravitas is excited to be bringing Ebenezer the Traveler to North American audiences this holiday season. This fun twist and continuation on the Ebenezer Scrooge story is the perfect Christmas watch that the whole family can enjoy,” Gravitas Ventures Manager Mackenzie Maguire said.
Gravitas is a leading all rights distributor of independent feature films and documentaries. Founded in 2006, the firm connects independent filmmakers and producers with distribution opportunities across the globe.
Slater,
Dodson
Parisi,
Photo courtesy Valenti Vision Films Filmmaker Joe Valenti of Toms River joins cast members of “Ebenezer the Traveler” a fi lm that premiered on Apple+TV on December 6.
S POTLIGHT O N G OVERNMENT
Correspondence & Commentary From Your Local, County, State & Federal Officials
Legislators Support Naming Veterans Clinic A er Local Hero
CAPITOL COMMENTS
9th Legislative District
Senator Carmen F. Amato, Jr.
Assemblyman Brian E. Rumpf
Assemblyman Gregory Myhre
TRENTON - Senator Carmen Amato, Jr,. Assemblyman Brian Rumpf, and Assemblyman Gregory Myhre announced their support for H.R. 9997, sponsored by Congressman Chris Smith, which would name a new Veterans’ Af-
fairs outpatient clinic in Toms River after Second Lieutenant Leonard G. “Bud” Lomell, Jr.
The Delegation sent a letter of support to Denis Richard McDonough, Secretary of the United States Department of Veterans Affairs.
“The new clinic is centrally located in Ocean County, New Jersey, which is home to the highest number of veterans in the state,” wrote the Delegation. “Congressman Smith’s legislation details the incredible achievements of Second Lieutenant Leonard G.
‘Bud’ Lomell, Jr., who was a long-time resident of Toms River, served valiantly during World War II, and was a model citizen.” Dear Secretary McDonough, This is a in LETTER OF SUPPORT of naming the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs outpatient clinic in Toms River, New Jersey, as the Leonard G. “Bud” Lomell, Jr. VA Clinic.
Correspondingly, our State Legislative Delegation fully supports the efforts by Congressman Chris Smith, with whom we have the privilege of sharing a constituency, who has introduced legislation (H.R.9997) which would name the facility after Mr. Lomell, Jr.
The new clinic is centrally located in Ocean County, New Jersey, which is home to the highest number of veterans in the state. Congressman Smith’s legislation details the incredible achievements of Second Lieutenant Leonard G. “Bud” Lomell, Jr., who was a long-time resident of Toms River, served valiantly during World War II, and was a model citizen. It is, therefore, fitting and appropriate that the clinic be named in honor of this local hero.
Thank you, in advance, for your attention to this LETTER OF SUPPORT for naming the Toms River, NJ VA Clinic after Leonard G. “Bud” Lomell, Jr.
Bill Would Improve Services For Individuals With Developmental Disabilities
Capitol Comments
Senator Cory Booker
WASHINGTON, D.C. – U.S. Senator Cory Booker (D-NJ) introduced legislation to expand and improve access to critical support services for individuals with Autism and other developmental disabilities. The EASE with 211 Act (Enhancing Access to Support and Emergency Services for Individuals with Developmental Disabilities through 211) would establish a grant program through the Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) to help states expand the capacity of 211 services to better support individuals with developmental disabilities.
The 211 system is a nationwide network of community service programs providing free and confidential information and referrals to callers on where to obtain assistance from local and national social service programs, government agencies, and non-profit organizations. The 211 network can be an incredibly valuable tool to aid vulnerable populations in accessing essential services for their health and survival.
The majority of the requests that 211 service lines receive are for essential needs like resources to reduce housing and food insecurity and ways to access basic utilities. For individuals with developmental disabilities, the 211 system can serve as an essential bridge to accessing specialized care, resources, and community support. By leveraging 211’s existing infrastructure, the EASE with 211 Act will ensure that individuals with developmental disabilities can more easily find the help they
need.
“Navigating the complex world of health care, social services, and education should not be a challenge, especially for those who are already facing the obstacles that come with having a developmental disability,” said Senator Booker. “Improving and increasing the capacity of 211 services to serve individuals with developmental disabilities will help reduce the burden that so many individuals with developmental disabilities, their families, and caregivers face when trying to find the resources that they need.”
“United Way brings communities together to find strength and share hope,” said Angela F. Williams, President and CEO of United Way Worldwide. “The 211 network, supported by United Way Worldwide, is a lifeline for people and communities in need. The 211 system provides hope and support at moments when people feel most alone and unable to meet their basic needs. We are proud to support the EASE with 211 Act, which would establish a grant program to facilitate nationwide accessibility and coordination of 211 services for individuals with developmental disabilities so that they can access critical resources.”
“The Autism Society of America proudly supports the ‘Enhancing Access to Support and Emergency Services for Individuals with Developmental Disabilities through 211’ or the ‘EASE with 211 Act.’ This vital legislation will provide grants to states to enhance their 211 information systems, enabling better support for individuals with Autism and other developmental disabilities, as well as their families. Families often share how challenging it is to navigate the complex web of services and
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resources. By improving training, outreach, and system navigation, this bill will significantly reduce those challenges, providing much-needed relief. Additionally, the inclusion of data collection measures will offer valuable insights to inform future policies that better support family caregivers,” said Kim Musheno, Vice President of Public Policy at the Autism Society of America.
“We are excited to see the introduction of the EASE Act and the inclusion of the navigator services pilot. This is a great first step in ensuring our community can access the services they are entitled to,” said John Poulos, Autistic Self Advocacy Network. Title is Policy Analyst. Specifically, the EASE with 211 Act will establish a grant program through the Department of Health and Human Services to assist eligible entities in expanding capacity of 211
services to support individuals with Autism and other developmental disabilities. Grants can be used for the following:
• Improving the 211 databases for developmental disability resources
• Hiring and training specialists to assist individuals
• Upgrading technology and conducting outreach to increase awareness of available resources
• Award grants to entities to provide peer or family navigators to support individuals with developmental disabilities and their families access relevant services and resources.
The Ease with 211 Act is endorsed by the following organizations: Autism Speaks, Autism Society, Autism NJ, The Arc of NJ, Autistic Self Advocacy Network, NJ211, United Way Worldwide.
CORNEAL ULCER (KERATITIS)
A corneal ulcer, also known as keratitis, is an inflammation of the cornea. Keratitis can be infectious or non-infectious. Infectious keratitis is the most common cause of corneal blindness. It can be caused by a virus elsewhere in the body or by bacteria, parasites, fungi, or a vitamin A deficiency. Non-infectious keratitis can be caused by corneal injury or dryness, allergies, and foreign objects in the eye. Incorrect contact lens use, such as wearing contacts for too long or improper cleaning, can cause both infectious and non-infectious keratitis. Because keratitis can lead to a variety of eye problems, it is important to see an eye doctor if symptoms such as pain or inflammation persist for more than a few days. If you have eye redness or other symptoms of keratitis, make an appointment to see your doctor. With prompt attention, mild to moderate cases of keratitis can usually be effectively treated without loss of vision. If left untreated, or if an infection is severe, keratitis can lead to serious complications that may permanently damage your vision. To schedule an exam, please call SIGHTMD NEW JERSEY SUSSKIND & ALMALLAH EYE ASSOCIATES at 732349-5622. We offer evening hours most nights of the week.
P.S. Wearing contacts while swimming is considered improper contact lens hygiene and can lead to both infectious and non-infectious keratitis.
www.oceancountyeye.com
KIDS COLORING RAFFLE
Please mail all artwork to: Micromedia Publications – Coloring Contest, P.O. Box 521, Lakehurst, NJ 08733. We wish everyone good luck in the contest and happy coloring!
Barnegat High School Hosts Career Day
BARNEGAT – Local businesses and organizations took over Barnegat High School’s (BHS) gymnasium to provide students with a chance to explore future career opportunities and connect with representatives.
Over 1,000 BHS students from all grade levels had the opportunity to speak with Career Day vendors and ask questions regarding their professions. All students were given a Career Day Passport that had to be signed by the professionals they spoke with for the Career Day assignment.
Career Day attendees included representatives of various branches of the military, local and state police, New Jersey Transit, New Jersey Port Authority, Ocean County Vocational Technical School, and dozens of
others, totaling 35 vendors.
“This was a truly collaborative effort,” said Barnegat Township School District (BTSD) Superintendent Brian Latwis. “The Career Day Committee dedicated countless hours and effort to making this event a success. These events are designed to inspire our students to explore their potential and discover pathways to success across various industries.”
Career Day was organized by the BTSD administration, members of the Board of Education, BHS teachers, parents and the local community.
For more information on Barnegat Township School District and other school updates, go to barnegatschools.com.
PBA & Recreation Holiday Toy Drive
STAFFORD – Stafford PBA Local 297 + Stafford Recreation’s Holiday Toy Drive is now until December 23.
How To Help: They’re looking for new, unwrapped gifts for boys and girls ranging from newborn - age 18. Gifts for children of all ages are greatly appreciated as need knows no age limits!
Toys and other age-appropriate items such as:
• Craft Sets
• Coats & winter accessories
• Movie Tickets
• Gift cards & certificates
Where To Go: Donations can be dropped off at the following locations
• Bay Avenue Community Center - 775
East Bay Avenue, Manahawkin. Monday through Friday 8:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m.
• Pine Street Recreation Building - 25 Pine Street, Manahawkin. Monday through Friday 8:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m.
• Stafford Township Municipal Building - 260 East Bay Avenue, Manahawkin. Anytime, day or night
In addition, look for Stafford Township Holiday Toy Drive collection boxes at local businesses in town!
Make checks payable to Stafford Township PBA 297 Toy Drive. For more information, contact: Jen McBrien at 609- 597-1000 ext. 8573 jmcbrien@staffordnj.gov or Ken Ames at 609-597-1000 ext. 8595 kames@ staffordnj.gov.
Lacey Recreation NJ Devils Game
LACEY – Join Lacey Recreation on January 19 for a day with the New Jersey Devils! Tickets are $75 if you want to take the Recreation Bus or $70 if you want to drive yourself. Seats are located in Section 232. They also have half price $10 Food
Vouchers for $5 each. You can purchase tickets online at parksrec.egov.basgov. com/laceynj or stop by the Lacey Recreation Department.
If you have any questions, give us a call at 609-693-1100 ext. 2203.
Photo courtesy Barnegat School District
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Local Pets Available For Adoption
pets available for adoption.
Meet Sizzle! This 6-month-old cutie is a little shy at first, but once she warms up, her sweet and gentle side will melt your heart. Sizzle’s had a rough start in life, and she’s still learning that humans can be kind and loving. All she needs now is a patient family to show her what it means to be safe and cherished. Sizzle might take a little time to come out of her shell, but trust us, the wait
is so worth it. Watching her gain confidence and seeing her playful, curious side emerge will be one of the most rewarding experiences. She’s already litter-trained, healthy, and just waiting for her perfect match. If you’ve got a soft spot for the shy ones and a little extra love to give, Sizzle could be your girl. Let’s help this sweet kitten fi nd the family she’s been dreaming of.
Call 609-693-1900, visit ahscares.org/ forked-river-adoptables or email: office@ ahsppz.org for an adoption application.
Elks Remember Members With Memorial Service
MANAHAWKIN – On December 1, Elks everywhere recognize those members who are no longer with us with a memorial service.
LACEY – The Associated Humane Society shelter at the Popcorn Park Zoo has
Photo courtesy AHS
The Manahawkin Elks Lodge lit 20 candles for those who have passed in the last year and five more whose family were present to remember their loved ones.
Photo courtesy Manahawkin Elks
LACEY – The Lacey Elks Lodge #2518 presents Paul Henry Daniels tribute to “Elvis At Christmas” on
New Police O cer Sworn In
SHIP BOTTOM – At a recent Borough Council meeting, Patrolman Nicholas D’Andrea was sworn in as the newest addition to the Ship Bottom Police Department. Ptl. D’Andrea previously worked for SBPD as a Special Officer from 2018 to 2020 before taking a full-time position with the
Photo courtesy Ship Bottom Police Harvey Cedars Police Department. Ptl. D’Andrea served the residents of Harvey Cedars beginning in 2020 and while there, was the recipient of the Life Saving Award and was promoted to Detective in 2023. Join us in congratulating and welcoming back Ptl. D’Andrea!
5th Annual “Shop With A Cop”
LITTLE EGG HARBOR – O.C.E.A.N., Inc. is happy to announce the 5th Annual O.C.E.A.N., Inc. & Ocean County Police Athletic League – ‘Shop with a Cop’ event at Little Egg Harbor Walmart, 631 US Hwy 9 S, Little Egg Harbor, on December 14 from 9:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. They will serve 600 children from disadvantaged families throughout the entire region.
Shop with a Cop is not just about taking the children shopping, it’s a fun filled day for a number of kids during the holidays while creating a bond with local police officers. At the event, each child will be allotted $150 to shop for a special gift (s) for the holidays.
Throughout the shopping spree at Walmart, police officers will be paired with each child, pre-scan toys and calculate their assigned child’s order to ensure they are within $150 before proceeding to the check-
out. It is a very well-coordinated system in order to meet time constraints. O.C.E.A.N., Inc. staff will also provide each participant (child) a $50 Shoprite gift card to bring home to their family to assist with food insecurities.
“This is an event that O.C.E.A.N., Inc. has been providing for over five years that involves law enforcement at the highest level” said Tamica Mickle, O.C.E.A.N., Inc. President/CEO. “The Shop with a Cop Program in Ocean County is funded by O.C.E.A.N., Inc. through the NJDCA Community Services Block Grant. The Program promotes social justice and positive police relationships for families as they gain the skills, knowledge and enhance their ability to engage within the community.”
For questions regarding the event, call 732-244-5333 ext. 1109.
Philadelphia Flower Show Trip
WARETOWN – Township of Ocean Recreation has announced their trip to the Philadelphia Flower Show set for March 7, 2025. Cost is $90 per person. Bus departs at 12 p.m. and will depart from show at 6:30 p.m. Price includes tickets, transportation, and gratuity. Bus departs from the Engel Sprague Senior Center, 239 11th Street, Waretown.
To obtain a registration form, call Jeanne Broadbent at 609-548-6319 or email recration@twpoceannj.gov.
3rd Annual Holiday Train Display
BARNEGAT – The 3rd Annual Holiday Train Display will be held at the Barnegat Recreation Center. Come join for an interactive display of model trains and accessories. Fun for kids at heart.
Display is free to the public; however, do-
nations will be accepted to benefit Barnegat Little League. Open on the follow days: December 17, & 20 from 5:30 to 7:30 p.m.; and December14, & 21 from 9:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. Any questions, email justdeefire@yahoo.com.
C OMMUNITY N EWS
Township Employee Celebrates Retirement
STAFFORD – Mayor Henken and Township Council would like to congratulate Cynthia Abecker on her retirement! Cynthia has served the residents of Stafford Township for 25 years!
Throughout her tenure with the Township,
Cynthia always went above and beyond in her position and was an asset to the Township.
Congratulations Cynthia, you will be missed. We wish you well in your retirement!
Middle School Students Give Back
MANAHAWKIN –
Students from Southern Regional Middle School participated a variety of community service projects during Southern Serves Days. Clubs joined one another after school to give back to our community through meaningful projects such as making Thanksgiving placemats for the JBJ Soul Kitchen, designing hair clips to be used by the volunteer hair stylists at Night to Shine (a formal dance for adults with special needs), picking up litter around the school grounds, creating thank you cards
for veterans and active-duty military personnel, and rolling 500 place settings for A Need We Feed (a food service program for the elderly and homeless population in Ocean County).
Many thanks to each club that participated! We are so proud of your community spirit!
Forked River Presbyterian Church Upcoming Events
FORKED RIVER – The Forked River Presbyterian Church, located at 131 N. Main Street, has announced the following upcoming events:
• Music – December 20 at 7 p.m., Concert. Island Singers in the sanctuary.
• Worship – December 24 at 2 p.m. at 7 p.m., Christmas Eve Services.
• Music – January 12 at 12:30 p.m., Concert, “Sunday Winter Pop Concert.” The Carnaby Street Duo plays British Invasion hits, American pop favorites and one-hit wonders; Elaine O. of Cimarron Sky showcases the women of country music. Complimentary dessert reception after show. Tickets are $15. Call or text 609-203-2059 for tickets.
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MANAHAWKIN – Calling all chess enthusiasts! Amateurs to experts, everyone’s welcome to join the fun. Free play. Drop-in, no RSVP needed. The Manahawkin Chess Club meets on Tuesdays from 5:30 to 8:30 p.m. at the Bay Avenue Community Center, 775 E Bay Avenue, Manahawkin. Hosted by the Toms River Chess Club. For more information, call 609-300-3839. All materials provided. Manahawkin Chess Club
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Thousands Gather For Tug-Of-War Fundraiser AROUND THE JERSEY SHORE
By Alyssa Riccardi
POINT PLEASANT BEACH – A friendly rivalry between two local towns has grown into a major fundraising event at the Jersey Shore.
The annual Manasquan Inlet Tug-ofWar has been going strong for six years. Thousands came out to watch Manasquan and Point Pleasant Beach go head-tohead pulling a 1,200-foot rope across the Manasquan Inlet, which stretches to about 500 feet.
“The event was fantastic. The weather could not have been better,” event chairman Geoff Brown from the Manasquan Recreation Department said. “Every year we’re bringing in new people and it’s exciting. A tremendous event for both towns and both communities had a great time.”
The event consisted of about nine heats, with over 200 tuggers participating for the cause.
“For this year, we’ve probably had the best weather we’ve ever had. That resulted in an absolutely fantastic turn out. According to police estimated it was about 1,500 on each side. It was a really great day, our busiest event yet,” said event chairman Ryan Simunovich from Point Pleasant Beach Recreation.
During this year’s game, Point Pleasant Beach was leading 3-2
going into halftime. However, Manasquan won the last three heats to snag the win, 5-4.
“It came down to the last heat which was really exciting – Point Pleasant Beach High School football vs. Manasquan football. They tugged for almost 90 seconds, which was the longest tug of the day as well and ultimately, we lost on the beach side,” Simunovich said. “It was a culmination of a perfect day to come down to that last tug and really put a nice exclamation point on
a great day for the Recreation Department and a great day for Make-A-Wish.”
Finishing it’s six year, Manasquan and Point Pleasant Beach are now tied for wins, each having three wins under their belts.
“It’s been a great back and forth over the past few years,” Simunovich added.
The winning team not only gets bragging rights, but a Mayor’s Trophy to celebrate the victory. All proceeds generated from (Tug-Of-War - See Page 20)
Photos courtesy Manasquan Inlet Tug of War Point Pleasant Beach and Manasquan are currently tied after six years of competition.
Do you feel like you always hear an unwanted, stress-inducing background noise, such as ringing, buzzing, or hissing? It could be tinnitus — and spring cleaning is a great time to put your tinnitus stress out on the curb.
Tinnitus isn’t a disease, but it may signal a health concern, such as earwax buildup or too much exposure to loud noise. Often, it goes hand in hand with hearing loss, so the best starting place is us! The Tinnitus Consultation First, we’ll provide a hearing evaluation to determine whether hearing loss is a factor in your tinnitus. If there’s an obvious physical cause, such as earwax buildup, addressing it should clear up your tinnitus. Often, though, the cause remains a mystery. Fortunately, there are ways to minimize your stress response. To determine how best to help you, we’ll evaluate your tinnitus. You’ll answer questions about your perception of the sound, and we’ll run tests to learn about its pitch and volume.
Treatment Options
Once we understand your needs, we can recommend a personalized treatment plan. It could include one of the following:
• Hearing aids: Wearing these has been shown to provide some relief, and they
often include tinnitus-management functionality.
• Masking: You listen to sounds that give your brain something to focus on other than your tinnitus.
• Habituation: You listen to a customized sound that leaves some tinnitus audible, which desensitizes you to your tinnitus and alleviates the associated stress.
• Coaching: We teach you skills that minimize your body’s involuntary reaction to your tinnitus.
• Lifestyle changes: For example, the sound gets worse for some people when they drink caffeine or alcohol. Removing these can provide some relief.
Often, the sweet spot is a combination of things from the above list. Everyone’s relationship with their tinnitus is unique, so each treatment plan is, too.
Dr. Izzy and his Staff are always here to listen to your hearing care needs. Take charge of your hearing health — call us and give tinnitus stress the boot!
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Sleep Compression: Maximizing Rest in Less Time
By Suzy Cohen, R. Ph.
Have you ever experienced waking up after just a couple of hours of sleep, feeling as refreshed as if you’d had a full night’s rest? I have, pretty frequently actually. This phenomenon, often referred to as “sleep compression,” involves achieving deep, restorative sleep in a shorter time frame. Unlike insomnia, where sleep is fragmented and leaves you feeling fatigued, sleep compression results in waking up energized and ready to tackle the day. Sleep compression is when your body gets all the benefits of a full night’s sleep in a shorter amount of time. This can happen because your brain skips quickly to the most important parts of sleep, like deep sleep or dreaming (REM sleep), where your body and mind recover. Sometimes, this happens naturally because of genetics, or it might be influenced by things like medicines or supplements that help deepen your sleep. It can feel like you’ve slept a long time, even if you were only resting for a few hours, because your brain packed all the good stuff into a smaller window. Medications and supplements can influence sleep architecture, but not necessarily in a good way. These drugs may create the illusion of restorative, or deep sleep, but may disrupt it altogether. Prescription sleep drugs like zolpidem (Ambien), temazepam (Restoril), and alprazolam (Xanax) act on GABA receptors, inducing deep sleep quickly but often causing rebound awakenings or lighter sleep later due to their short half-lives or withdrawal effects. These
drugs interfere with REM sleep. Over-the-counter antihistamines with diphenhydramine also promote drowsiness, but can leave you groggy and brain-foggy. These drugs often interfere with REM sleep too. None of the above induce sleep compression, however several natural compounds can. Let’s talk about those now:
Chinese Skullcap: Known for its calming properties, this herb can enhance deep sleep phases, leading to a compressed yet refreshing sleep experience.
Melatonin: This hormone regulates sleep-wake cycles and can promote early deep sleep, sometimes causing premature awakenings with a feeling of restfulness.
Magnesium: Supports deep sleep induction, sometimes creating the sensation of shorter yet restorative rest.
It’s important to note that while sleep compression can leave you feeling refreshed, true rest involves a complete progression through all sleep stages, including light sleep, deep sleep, and REM. Shortened sleep cycles might leave your body missing out on essential processes like memory consolidation, emotional regulation, and physical repair.
If you experience this phenomenon regularly or if it disrupts your overall sleep quality, consulting a sleep specialist is advisable.
If you’re interested in a deeper dive and more details about sleep compression, sign up for my free newsletter at my website, suzycohen.com
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This week, Jersey Shore Online is featuring a photo taken by a valued member of our team. Ali Gradzki has been working for Micromedia Publications for the last 20 years. Gradzki is our production manager, responsible for overseeing the department and producing our high-quality newspapers. Recently, Ali celebrated her 10 th wedding anniversary on a trip to England and France. Here is an amazing shot of the Tower Bridge over the River Thames in London. Have a picture to share? Email photos@jerseyshoreonline.com
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Your Last Will And Testament And The Role Of Your Executor
By: Michael J. Deem, Esq. of R.C. Shea & Associates
Michael J. Deem, Esq.
own. This means that the Executor does not have to obtain the consent of the various beneficiaries.
The Executor is entitled by statute to compensation for its performance of the administration of the estate. This compensation, referred to as a commission, is based upon the value of the estate and upon the income the estate generates. The commission is 5% of the estate up to $200,000.00 and 3.5% of the estate between $200,000.00 and $1 million. The Executor is also entitled to a commission of 6% of the income generated by the estate. The Executor is not obligated to take the commission, but if it does, the commission is taxed to the Executor as income in the year in which it is received. Thus, the Executor must pay income tax on the commission received.
The Executor is the person named in the Will to administer the estate. Upon the death of the person who made the Will (the Decedent), the Executor has to go to the Surrogate in the county in which the Decedent resided at the time of the death and file the Will for probate. Probate is the process by which the Surrogate admits the Will and qualifies the person named to be the Executor. Once this is done, the Surrogate will issue Letters Testamentary to the Executor. These Letters allow the Executor to stand in the place of the Decedent to perform all the tasks that the Decedent could perform. It is the job of the Executor to determine the assets of the Decedent, collect them into one place, usually an estate checking account, and determine the gross value of the estate. Next, the Executor is obligated by statute to pay the outstanding debts of the Decedent including funeral debts, last medical expenses and administration expenses, including any death taxes that may be owed as a result of the estate. Finally, the Executor is responsible for distributing the assets as directed in the Will. Obviously this is an oversimplification of the Executor’s tasks. In some cases the collection of the assets can be complicated when there may be real property to be sold or when there are assets that cannot readily be converted to cash. In performing its tasks, the Executor must always act in the best interests of the estate and the beneficiaries named in the Will. The Executor is empowered to act on its
In choosing an Executor in your Will, you should choose someone who is trustworthy and can make fi nancial decisions. In some cases, it may be advantageous to use a bank or trust company as the Executor, rather than a family member, because they are more experienced and perform these tasks as a business. In many cases they will charge the same fees as are allowed by statute.
The Executors responsibilities are complete when the assets are all fully distributed pursuant to the terms of the Will. Please contact the attorneys at R.C. Shea & Associates for all your estate planning needs. (732) 505-1212.
Beach Haven Government Meetings
BEACH HAVEN – The Borough of Beach Haven’s commission meets the second Monday of the month at 420 Pelham Avenue at
7 p.m. For additional information call 609492-0111, visit beachhaven-nj.gov, or email beachhavenborough@beachhaven-nj.gov.
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the event will support the recreation departments of both Manasquan and Point Pleasant Beach.
In addition, the event incorporates the opportunity for participants to contribute to the Make-a-Wish New Jersey. In the past, they’ve raised around $15,000 for the cause.
“It’s been great each year, Make-A-Wish has been getting more and more involved as they are really seeing the benefits I think for exposure to their organization,” Simunovich said. “It kind of nicely ties home the whole message of what we’re doing. Every year Make-A-Wish has a bunch of their volunteers come to raise money and
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also increase awareness to what they do every day, which is just amazing work.”
Simunovich expressed how he’s excited to see the event grow to offer such a unique experience to its participants.
“Each year it’s getting better, and we’re still (learning) how to navigate a 500-foot tug-of-war across two towns,” Simunovich said. “Our hope is that we continue to learn how to give to Make-A-Wish as much as possible. And really to make sure our teams are having a great experience when they’re there. Probably the next level of an event for us overall is making sure the teams are really excited about coming year over year.”
“The vendors, the food, the band, the DJ, everything comes together really well and I think the event continues to improve,” Simunovich added.
Environmental
Tip: Are Biodegradable Trash Bags e Answer?
By Chris Lundy
We produce hundreds of pounds of garbage a year. So, why not make a tiny dent in that by using biodegradable trash bags?
Fair question, until science happens.
months, or even years. Some big cities have contracts with companies to take this stuff, but none of those cities are around here. If you put it in your compost pile, you’ll be turning it around for decades.
You see, for something to biodegrade, it needs three things: heat, moisture and oxygen. If your garbage bag is in the town dump, covered with other bags, it’s never getting the three things it needs to actually break down. You have wasted money on something that makes you feel like you’re helping the Earth. There is such a thing as compostable bags. These you have to use in your compost pile, where they will be exposed to heat, light, and air if you do it right. You’re supposed to turn the compost pile certain times in order to make everything break down.
These compostable bags, however, also won’t biodegrade in the town dump. So, obviously, the only things you can put in compostable bags are other things that can be composted. And the only place you can put all this is your compost pile.
When an item is referred to as “compostable,” it leads you to think that it will degrade into natural elements in your back yard. The truth is that “compostable” usually means that it can be composted in actual factories where the items are provided with just the right conditions to have it decompose in
Other bags are labeled as “degradable.” If a degradable plastic bag breaks down, you have to ask “what does it break down into?” For a lot of them, it’s microplastics. These will wind up back in the environment. A biodegradable bag, on the other hand, breaks down into organic matter. Instead of plastics, they use plant starch. This means they are more expensive and not as strong as plastic. Some studies have shown that the process used to make these plastic substitute bags are just as bad as plastic. They are usually made from corn products. The corn must be grown – and not for human consumption. This includes the use of water, pesticides, and fertilizer. And then the material has to be harvested, shipped, and then a bunch of chemicals, electricity, and more water is used to turn it into something that is somewhat close to plastic. Is it worth it?
So, while you have good intentions of living a greener life with biodegradable or compostable bags, the fact is that the science just hasn’t caught up with it to make these products actually help the environment except under very specific conditions.
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is Relative Of Spiders Is A Champion Of Survival AROUND THE JERSEY SHORE
Renee A. Thomaier
Retired New Jersey State Licensed Wildlife Rehabilitator
While often thought of as being insects, the scorpion belongs to the class Arachnida, which makes them relatives of ticks and spiders – not insects. There are approximately 50 species of scorpions in the United States and mostly found in the southwest. They are a predatory species having distinct characteristics and features: eight legs, a pair of pincers, and a venomous stinger at the end of their tail which is used to defend against and capture prey.
Scorpions feed primarily on insects. Not typically aggressive, but when feeling threatened, they will sting causing pain and at times, severe reactions in humans. Keep in mind, with 50+ species of scorpions, not all have potent enough venom to significantly threaten humans.
Scorpions give birth to live babies after a gestational stage as short as two months to 18 months, depending on the species. Once birthing her babies, newborn scorpions will ride on their mother’s back being protected until their first molt, at which time they will disperse.
Fossil evidence indicates that scorpions have remained largely unchanged since the Car-
boniferous period (359 to 299 million years ago). First scorpion ancestors likely lived in water and may even had gills. Some of these creatures made their way to land. They are champions of survival and can live without food for a full year. Scorpions can survive underwater for up to 48 hours. They are no stranger to living in dry, harsh environments, obtaining moisture only from their food. With extremely low metabolic rates, they require only a tenth of oxygen of most insects. They appear to be indestructible.
Still a mystery to scientists, scorpions glow under ultraviolet light. Their cuticle, or skin, absorbs ultraviolet light, reflecting it as visible light. As nocturnal hunters they feed on spiders, insects and other arthropods, with some feeding on grubs and earthworms. The larger scorpions are known to feed on small rodents and even lizards. A mother who is hungry will feed on her own babies in times when food is scarce.
I gathered the information for this article from multiple sources so statistics may vary slightly. To reach me please call 732-244-2768. It’s illegal to possess, relocate, or cause harm to wildlife for any reason. Managing wildlife without the proper state/federal permits is illegal. Violating laws protecting wildlife is punishable by law.
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STAFFORD – Did you know that Stafford Township Fire company is 100% volunteer?
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Celebrate e Season At e Grunin Center
TOMS RIVER – It’s the most wonderful time of the year! Celebrate the music of the holiday season with the Grunin Center for the Arts and a delightful lineup of holiday shows and performances scheduled through the end of 2024. Tickets are selling fast, so be sure to reserve your seats right away!
Broadway for the Holidays 4 – December 14, 20, 21 at 7:30 p.m.; December 15, 21, 22 at 2 p.m. Tickets: Adults $24, Seniors $22.
Returning by popular demand, this festive extravaganza brings the magic of Broadway to the holiday season like never before.
Join us for a dazzling journey through the beloved songs and timeless classics that capture the spirit of the holidays.
Ballet for Young Audiences: The Nutcracker – December 14 at 1 p.m. and 4 p.m. Tickets: Adults $19, Children $16.
Join us for another year of this Grunin Center holiday tradition! The Ballet for Young
Audiences production of The Nutcracker tells the story of Clara, a young girl on the brink of womanhood whose dreams are both childlike and tinged with romance. She is the favorite godchild of Herr Drosselmeyer, a mysterious clockmaker who helps to transport Clara and her Nutcracker Prince to a special realm. Sponsored by RWJBarnabas Health Community Medical Center. Christmas with the Celts – December 20 at 7 p.m. Tickets: $46 to $42.
Christmas with the Celts presents the perfect combination of ancient Irish carols, contemporary Christmas standards, spontaneous humor, and thrilling Irish dancing, giving audiences a most memorable Christmas experience.
For more information and to purchase tickets, visit grunincenter.org or call the Grunin Center Box Office at 732-255-0500.
Ocean County Homeless Persons Memorial Service
TOMS RIVER – Ocean County Homeless Persons Memorial Service, to remember our neighbors who have died homeless in the past year, will be held on December 19 at 7 p.m. at True Vine Ministries at First United Methodist Church, 129 Chestnut Street, Toms River.
Donations welcome: gift cards (Wawa, 7-11,
Walmart, Uber, Lyft); non-perishable food; cold weather apparel; blankets; toiletries. In collaboration with Ocean County Homeless Prevention and Assistance Coalition/ Ending Homelessness Group.
For more information contact Laurie Singer at 848-223-7284 or outreach.trhhc@gmail. com.
Model Railroaders Winter Open House
LAKEWOOD – The Ocean County Society of Model Railroaders, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization, at 502 Country Club Road, Pine Park, Lakewood, is holding its Winter Open House, on December 14 from 11 a.m. to 4 p.m.; and December 15 from 12 to 5 p.m. The Model Railroaders are located in the basement of the Lakewood Historical Museum also known as the Sheldon Wolpin Historical Museum. A chair lift that goes to and from the basement is available. Admission is free
but donations are always gladly accepted. Visitors to the Open House will see both modern and traditional trains running continuously on two large operating layouts. Ted Bertiger, president of The Ocean County Society of Model Railroaders, said, “We will have trains running for all ages. Come see our model train club in action!”
For more information, contact Ted Bertiger, 732-363-7799 or at captnkraft@aol.com. Also visit ocsmr.com.
PROFESSIONAL PROFILE
By Bob Vosseller
The Law firm of Dasti & Staiger has a staff of young professionals who are veru familiar with the communities of the Jersey Shore they serve.
Christopher Dasti and Lauren Staiger both live in Ocean County and their office is located on 310 Lacey Road in the Forked River section of Lacey Township.
“Our firm is nearly six years old years old and we have an office here and an annex behind us. We have seven lawyers and five staff members. The majority of our business is representing public entities throughout the state,” Dasti said.
He further explained, “we serve as municipal attorneys to a half a dozen towns, in addition to serving as labor counsel, land use board attorneys, prosecutors, public defenders etc. to dozens more. We opened the firm in 2018 and it was just a secretary and I, then within a year we added two associates.”
“Our first office was maybe 1,000 square feet. It was cozy. Our two associates shared an office. We closed on this office the week before everything shut down from COVID-19 in March 2020,” he added.
Despite the challenges during the period of the pandemic, the law firm survived and thrived. “It worked out well because this used to be a dental surgeon’s office so downstairs the rooms were so chopped up and so I knew we had to rehab the whole downstairs so it worked out because due to Covid, everyone had to work from home anyway so we opened up the upstairs which was redone in April of that year and downstairs. We moved everyone back in August of that year.”
Staiger noted that the annex building was purchased “in January of last year.”
“One of the ways we have grown so much and so fast is that we are ultra responsive to our clients,” Dasti explained.
“We have continued to grow. You want to make sure you don’t grow too fast and all of sudden you are not doing as good of a job. We are young and tenacious and can keep
Attorneys Christopher Dasti and Lauren
Ocean and Monmouth counties and provide legal
and municipalities of the Jersey Shore.
moving forward,” he said.
Dasti noted that among the areas of expertise, the firm covers includes personal injury cases, real estate transactions, estate planning. “We try to cover many different legal disciplines and be a full-service firm.”
“We all have strong ties to the community and a vested interest in staying here and doing a good job, A lot of our team serves on non-profit boards so we all try to be good community partners. It is more than just dollars and cents,” Dasti added.
Staiger said after working for two other firms during her career she got an offer she couldn’t refuse.
“Chris started something really great in 2018 and it continued to grow and he offered me the opportunity to come and I took it.”
“We’ve been friendly and have known each other for a number
of years between work and political things and when he offered me this opportunity, I couldn’t say no. It’s great. We work well together. We have a lot of the same clients and a similar mindset and it has been a great jump for me. I live in Manahawkin so the office is close to home, too,” she added.
“We have a great team of attorneys and staff. We think of our team as a growing family
and have built a team atmosphere,” Dasti added. Members of the legal team also include Brigit P. Zahler who has litigated cases successfully in the Superior Court of New Jersey and the Supreme Court of New York, Jeffrey D. Cheney whose primary areas of focus are civil litigation, personal injury litigation, real estate transactions, public entity law, and land use
and Brian R. Clancy, a Lacey resident who has 25 years of law enforcement experience with the City of Elizabeth police department. His primary focus is land use, municipal court practice, estate planning, real estate and litigation.
Other legal team members include Christopher A. Khatami who has represented numerous public entities at the municipal, county, and state levels and focuses on state and federal court litigation and William J. Oxley, whose primary areas of focus are environmental law, land use, public entity law, and real estate transactions.
Staiger said having worked for other firms and other areas of the state provided her different experiences. “I can say it is more of a family being smaller and we are all kind of doing the same thing and are all in the same age group which helps as well. We all relate to each other on a professional and personal level.”
“You learn how to develop those relationships and they are part of what we do because obviously, times change and one of the things that helps with longevity is not only your professional ability but the interpersonal relationships you develop with your clients,” Staiger said. For further information about Dasti & Law visit their website at DastiLaw.com or call 609549-8990.
Photos By Bob Vosseller
Staiger lead a team of lawyers who reside in
services to residents
The Dasti & Staiger Law office located on 310 Lacey Road in the Forked River section of Lacey Township is the base for a legal firm who handles a wide variety of legal services with a hometown touch.
FUN & GAMES SUDOKU
CROSSWORD PUZZLE
Across 1 Starts a triathlon 6 Airplane assignments 11 Short lines at the register? 14 Chocolate source 15 “I’ve __ up to here!”
Swelter 17 *When “you can see forever,” per the classic song
Watch chain
DVR pioneer
Rich cake
Air purifying gadget
Skateboarding star Tony
*Genetic lab project
Qatari bigwigs
“__ I say more?”
*Almost got the gold
2 Diminish 3 “Gosh, no one is happy with me!” 4 PC alternative
__ power 6 Like some martinis 7 AirPods holders 8 Total 9 Hermana de la madre 10 Farm pen 11 Florence gallery with Botticelli’s “Birth of Venus” 12 Tried and true 13 Seven of Nine of “Star Trek,” for one 18 Founded, for short 22 Pewter component 24 Gumbo vegetable 25 Cold, slushy treat 26 World Cup chants 27 Network connections 28 She/__ pronouns
“No question is too personal” session, for short
“Yosemite Valley Winter” photographer Adams
Part of an act
Storyteller
Tolkien creatures
Wholesale quantity
Get the better of
U-turn from SSW
Hydroelectric power source
Merciless
Gas up?
Hounded
Stand buy
Wrinkle remover
Casual top
Awesome, in showbiz 55 Etsy, e.g. 57 “Frozen” sister 58 Start of an address
Shoot the breeze
Color TV pioneer
North Sea diving
ARIES (March 21-April 19): When you have a chance to mingle, consider extending your hand in friendship and making some new contacts. Being open to the latest technology may help you shift gears and focus attention on achieving success for several weeks.
TAURUS (April 20-May 20): The more the merrier, they say. Invite someone along to a community event where a festive mood might remind you of the upcoming holiday season. Someone unexpected could jump at the opportunity to lend a helping hand.
GEMINI (May 21-June 20): Learn to let go of past mistakes and forgive. While minor errors might be highlighted, it’s important not to overlook them. A close friend or partner could help you find a positive solution, ensuring you don’t repeat the same mistake.
CANCER (June 21-July 22): Aim to create a sense of serenity within your surroundings. While others might be rushing around or in a frenzy, you can be a source of calm and peace. Partnering with the right person could make your holiday outings even more joyful.
LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): Your aim in social settings might be popularity, and you may naturally possess a knack for making friends and entertaining others. By taking the first step when you meet someone new, you can break the ice in a warm, inviting, and friendly way.
VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): You might develop a festive sparkle in your eyes as the week unfolds. Your admiration could be soaring, so consider embracing invitations and having a great time. A new connection could blossom into a long-lasting relationship.
FOR THE WEEK OF DEC 14 - DEC 20 BY
OMARR’S ASTROLOGICAL FORECAST
JERALDINE SAUNDERS
LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): Integrity means following through on your promises. You may feel called to ensure every detail is perfect before you move ahead with your plans for the best results. Make the provisions necessary to maximize your odds of success.
SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): Show an interest in others and you could be exposed to something new. You may conduct a poll to gather diverse opinions that lead to you breaking away from your usual routines. There may be a chance to enjoy dinner at an exotic location.
SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): Pay attention to all those minor details that could make the anticipated holiday delights a reality. Consider hanging some lights, baking some cookies, or buying extra wrapping paper. Add your own original touches to everything you do.
CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): Your desire to participate in social outings may be something that changes periodically. A friend might hope for a well-connected spot, but you don’t need to participate in the race. Handle a clash of opinions with good grace this week.
AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): Remember to exercise tact and diplomacy. A busy upcoming holiday schedule at home may need careful planning and organization rather than daydreaming. Those around you might be willing to make changes and offer their support.
PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): Think of ways to leverage your core competencies in the upcoming week. Take pride in your attentiveness while working diligently to finalize your holiday plans. While it may seem like you’re not doing much, you could be achieving a lot.
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LAMB SHANKS BRAISED IN RED WINE WITH HERBES DE PROVENCE
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