2024-12-21 - The Howell Times

Holiday Event Sets Festive Mood For The Season

Residents took

By Liz Ciocher

HOWELL - To celebrate the holiday season, residents and officials gathered at the Howell Township Municipal building for various festive activities, including the town’s annual tree lighting ceremony.

The ceremony was open to the public and offered activities like pictures with Santa, a bounce house and a petting zoo. Children and adults ranging all ages attended the ceremony, making it one of Howell’s biggest community events this year.

The event was held on a Wednesday evening, and according to

Town Manager Joe Clark, was widely successful.

“It’s a bright spot,” he said. “The events here this year have been stellar.”

According to Clark, while it wasn’t as heavily attended as in the past, there were a couple hundred residents who came out. The inside and outside of the municipality grounds were swarmed with people, taking in the atmosphere and things to do.

An iceless skating rink was another featured activity for children and residents, composed of synthetic ice in front of the municipal building. The 25 by 50 foot rink held between 8-10

skating children and adults to mimic the traditional holiday pastime.

Craft tables and hair tinseling were also available, along with a petting zoo consisting of chickens, rabbits, goats and sheep. Residents may have seen these animals before, as they live on a farm local to the Howell area.

Shuttle buses were provided for residents to attend the event, with a pickup and dropoff spot located at the Howell Commons Shopping Plaza.

There was a council meeting held at 7 p.m. during the event, but that did not deter residents or councilmembers from enjoying the atmosphere.

“This is just another great [event]. It is the fourth or fifth one we’ve done so far. It makes Howell nice.” Clark said.

Santa and his elves were available for free pictures for Howell residents, and was definitely the most popular attraction of the evening.

A similar event will be held on Dec. 26 for a Menorah lighting at the same location. Residents are encouraged to attend.

Unidentified Drones Draw Concern Across Tri-State Area

By Bob Vosseller

JERSEY

SHORE

– Amid many reports of car-sized drones flying at night across areas of New Jersey, Pennsylvania and New York and lukewarm responses from federal and state authorities, people are still asking who put them in the air and why?

Speculation by the public has ranged from the drones being a new military

technology being tested by the government for surveillance purposes to others feeling the devices are being operated by a foreign power for more sinister purposes.

Mayors from throughout the state were called to the New Jersey Regional Operations & Intelligence Center recently. They were told by state authorities that there was nothing to worry about. How-

ever, they didn’t know what they were. This didn’t answer everyone’s questions.

“How can you say there’s no need for concern when you don’t even know where they come from and where they go or who owns them?” Berkeley Mayor John Bacchione said the following day.

Banner Year For Shade Tree Commission

By Liz Ciocher

HOWELL - After an eventful year of service, Howell Township’s Shade Tree Commission gave a presentation summarizing their success, endeavors and future plans at the latest Town Council meeting.

The presentation was given by Lisa Dowd, the commission’s chairwoman. She gave the council members a walkthrough of the year’s accomplishments in thorough detail.

The Shade Tree Commission received four grants to continue their environmental efforts, including an Arbor Day Foundation Grant and a Superstorm Sandy Recovery Grant for bare-root seedlings.

Also this year, the commission’s efforts earned Howell Township another Tree City USA certification, making 2024 the 26th year Howell was dubbed a ‘Tree City.’ Part of the township was also registered as a ‘Community Wildlife Habitat’ this year. For their hands-on efforts with Howell residents, the commission did many projects with Howell Schools, especially in the spirit of the season during Arbor Day. The commission planted one tree at each school and distributed over 600 seedlings to third graders to support their education in their environmental unit.

There were also seedlings donated to members of the community during two different events this year: a spring and fall seedling giveaway, which donated hundreds of seedlings to community members.

Notably, the Shade Tree Commission worked in various collaborations with other commissions and organizations this year. This included work with other Howell organizations, such as the Howell Green Team and the Howell Township Environmental Commission, but also reaches further to groups like Rutgers Water Resources and FirstEnergy.

Rutgers Water Resources and the Shade Tree Commission worked on a rain garden project in Howell’s Soldier Memorial Park, a garden designed to capture rain and prevent runoff in the park’s parking lot. For 2025, the

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two commissions plan to collaborate again for a similar project in Monmouth Ridings. FirstEnergy’s collaboration resulted in the development of a pollinator garden in Howell’s Aldrich School, which was the first pollinator garden planted by FirstEnergy in the state of New Jersey. This collaboration, along with help from the Green Team and Master Gardeners collaboration, was a very successful project.

Also in the presentation were plans for the

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commission for the upcoming year. There are various projects in the works, new and old, including more seedling giveaways, continued grant applications, and proposals for plantings of detention basins and open space plantings. There is also a native tree and shrub project on Easy Street planned, and an additional project proposing to plant trees in Winston Park.

For the commission’s benefit, there is also a plan to develop a new tree inventory software. According to Dowd, this will help the commission with keeping track of tree maintenance and plantings around Howell.

The council was very pleased with Dowd’s presentation, as well as the work and service she has contributed herself.

“We’re very fortunate to have [you],” said Councilwoman Evelyn Malsbury-O’Donnell. “Very good to hear and very nice to hear the partnership with FirstEnergy. FirstEnergy is really trying to step up in the communities. You have an incredible amount of people around that are very supportive. The amount of work that your committees push out is just ridiculous.”

Dowd appreciated the comment from O’Donnell, and replied with some of her own gratitude.

“I do have to thank all of my committee members of the Green Team, Shade Tree Commission and the Environmental Commission. They’re great, they come out for all the projects and we couldn’t do it without them,” she said. “And all the community members that come out. We are always looking for volunteers. We could do more, we just need volunteers.”

Dowd also spoke of planning to present the public with more advanced notice with project dates to try and accrue more volunteers. The Shade Tree Commission has its own page on the Howell Township website for more information.

Runaway Youth May Find New Home

OCEAN COUNTY - For Tiffany M. deSou-

sa, now 40, securing a federal grant to open a youth shelter for runaway and homeless youth couldn’t be more personal. More than two decades ago, Tiffany ran away from home and credits a trusted teacher and the safe haven she found at Ocean’s Harbor House with saving her life.

Now, as the founder of “Choose Love. Celebrate Life.” (CLCL) Foundation, Tiffany plans to bring that same vital resource back to Ocean and Monmouth Counties. Earlier this month, CLCL announced that it has been awarded a federal Basic Center Program (BCP) grant to provide emergency housing for local runaway and homeless youth under the age of 18. The

shelter, scheduled to open in January 2025, will offer twelve beds with four funded by the federal grant.

“I believe having a place to go saves lives,” said Tiffany. “I believe if I did not go there (to Harbor House) that night, I would be dead.”

A little more than a year ago, Ocean’s Harbor House announced its intentions to transform one of its properties that housed youth temporarily on an emergency basis to a family shelter. Their second location continues to serve as a supervised transitional living program for abandoned and vulnerable youths, aged 16-21.

The law giving safe haven to youth that run away has had some changes since it was first enacted as the Runaway and Homeless Youth Act in 1974. One big difference is the length

of time a runaway or homeless youth can stay in the shelter. When Tiffany left her adopted mother’s home and sought refuge, the law allowed her to stay for 14 days. Time limitations have now expanded to 21 days.

Basic Center Programs grants that are in effect next year only cover locations in Bridgewater, Camden, Hackensack, Jersey City and Trenton. Tiffany believes distance could create a tremendous problem for runaways and place them in dangerous situations, including the threat of human trafficking.

Not every runaway who presents at a BCP does so because of abuse in their home, meaning that not all cases warrant notification to New Jersey Division of Child Protection and Permanency. However, centers are required

to let family members know when a minor comes to them for safe haven. On occasion, centers act as a place to calm down after a heated argument in the household.

A Tale Of Sadness And Resilience Tiffany M. deSousa shared her personal story, detailing her early life marked by tragedy and abuse. Her birth mother died when she was just three weeks old, and her birth father took Tiffany and her older brothers across the country.

“He was an evil man who engaged in every kind of abuse you can imagine,” said Tiffany. “He did things like killing animals so that you would know he had no problem killing you.” The young woman said that after a bad night (Youth Shelter - See Page 8)

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“As reported sightings of drones continue throughout Monmouth County, Sheriff Shaun Golden is asking federal and state officials to collaborate in identifying the source of activity reported across the region.”

The post continued, “the Monmouth County Sheriff’s Office and partners in law enforcement are actively monitoring the situation which doesn’t appear to be a threat to public safety. However, additional tools are needed at the state level to identify the source, as well as more transparency federally, regarding drone operations over critical infrastructure and sensitive areas.”

“We are aware of the unease these drone sightings have caused in our communities,” Sheriff Golden added. “The safety and security of our residents is our top priorities. We urge state and federal authorities to work together in locating the source of these drones and determining their intent. It is essential that we address these incidents swiftly to prevent any

concerns or disruptions.”

Congressman Chris Smith (R-4th) has also spoken out in concern about the subject. He urged U.S. Defense Secretary Lloyd Austin to immediately provide all capabilities at his disposal to identify and address the widespread drone activity across the state.

His letter comes after he was briefed by a U.S. Coast Guard (USCG) Commanding Officer stationed in Barnegat Light that more than a dozen drones recently followed a USCG motor lifeboat in close pursuit.

“There have been numerous instances of unmanned aerial systems (UAS) flying over New Jersey, including in close proximity to sensitive sites and critical infrastructure, to include military installations located in my district,” Smith confirmed.

Smith added, “Joint Base McGuire-Dix-Lakehurst (JBMDL) possess capabilities to identify and take down unauthorized unmanned aerial systems and have utilized this capability to address overflights of the installation.”

“I urgently request all capabilities possessed by the Department of Defense,

especially those in use by JBMDL to be immediately deployed to identify and address the potential threats posed by UAS over the state of New Jersey,” Smith added.

Smith, who spent hours with Ocean County Sheriff Michael Mastronardy monitoring the sky in the Sheriff’s Mobile Command Center, said he is deeply concerned by the potential threats posed by the drones.

“The serious concerns of New Jersey residents need to be put to rest with answers - not empty reassurances. The time to act is now,” the congressman stressed.

New Jersey Governor Phil Murphy has also commented on the dozens of drones that have been sighted in areas of the Garden State near sensitive sites such as a military research facility.

He said the situation is frustrating but that the unidentified flying objects don’t appear to pose a public safety concern.

Murphy commented that the drone sightings were being taken “deadly seriously. I don’t blame people for being frustrated.”

Sightings have also been made near the Picatinny Arsenal, a U.S. military research

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and manufacturing facility, and over President-Elect Donald Trump’s golf course in Bedminster.

The Federal Aviation Administration has imposed drone flight restrictions in the area as the investigation continues. Witnesses have spotted a drone cluster, described as being bigger than those typically used by hobbyists - as well as a possible fixed-wing aircraft flying in several areas along the Raritan River since Nov. 18.

Residents of Ocean County including the barrier island, mainland Toms River and beyond have witnessed the drones overhead. In one instance three were seen in formation hovering over the Barnegat Bay.

Federal and state officials stress that there currently is no known threat to public safety. People who see them and photograph them are being urged to contact the FBI.

Anyone with relevant information is asked to call the FBI at 1-800-CALL-FBI (1-800-225-5324) or submit it online at tips.fbi.gov

Chris Lundy contributed to this story.

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Last day to donate is February 4, 7 to 8:30

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OPINIONS & COMMENTARY

EDITORIAL

Don’t Scrooge

Up Your Holidays

Ebenezer Scrooge, upon reaching his epiphany at the end of “A Christmas Carol,” said “I will honor Christmas in my heart, and try to keep it all the year.”

At least, he did in “Muppet Christmas Carol.” I

Post Office Too Small For Huge Population

I have been a resident of the Westlake Golf & Country Club since 2006 and have seen explosive growth in Jackson over the years. What has not kept up with the population and business boom is the antiquated post office located on Bennetts Mill Road. During peak hours and holidays cars are often lined up on the street due to lack of adequate parking which creates a major safety hazard. The staffing which is generally helpful, often unable to move the lines quickly which like the parking lot backs up into the hallway.

Can’t our local township and congressional leadership make a strong argument to obtain the necessary funds to build a modern postal facility to meet the needs into the 21st century?

Lenny Weinick Jackson

didn’t read the book. While it might be a bit cliché to say this, it’s important to take the person you are on the holidays and use that person to inspire you yearround. I’m not talking about the stressed-out, exhausted person you are right before

Re: Rise And Fall

This letter is in response to a previous letter entitled “Rise And Fall.”

I am surprised you graduated from West Point and as shave-tail 2nd Lieutenant who read “The Rise And Fall Of The Third Reich” to understand how it all happened, and the best summation you can come up with is your prediction of the “Fall of the United States” under President Elect Donald Trump is to insult more than half the socalled gullible and illiterate, American population, insinuate President Trump has no interest in his followers or making things better for everyone, and to predict all his power followers will become powerless when the end comes. Seems to me like the typical left response and canned retort offered by every Democratic politician in the present administration and a standard defense strategy to belittle all those who disagree with your totally left agenda; no facts,

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the holiday. I’m talking about the day after, when everything is done, and there’s a calm throughout the house. And you can reflect upon what was done right and what went wrong. Everyone says that the gifts are not important; it’s the

giving. And they’re right. But maybe it’s time to give in a different way. Give of yourself. Give your time. Give your heart. There are a lot of problems in this world, and the only way to solve them is if people start caring.

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no numbers, just vitriol and diatribe.

Your hatred for “your new duly elected president and commander in chief is so obvious.

As a possible new up and coming “general,” I suggest you chill out and perhaps give our new president the respect and dignity he deserves to carry out his second term in office before you make any future bogus predictions about his upcoming administration from a book you read and “words you may have to eat.”

Duty, honor, country?.....l don’t think so.

Ed Sere Manchester Silent Conservatives

This is not about Donald Trump. It’s not even about the sad souls seduced by him. The insurrectionists who stormed the Capitol to prevent the peaceful transfer of power were primarily guilty of being gullible. They fell for the fraud. They did not do the defrauding. Many have been held accountable for their actions. Most of the ones who fooled them have not. Yet.

I refer to Republican Party leaders who cashed in their moral courage to ride a demagogue’s coattails to power. They learned from their adored leader how to spew out coded calls to mob mentalities eager to vent their resentments. I used to believe people had to be taught to hate. Donald taught us you only have to

invite people to hate. Let them know it’s OK. Normal. Join the gang. Have some fun.

Who would you like to hate? It doesn’t have to be a race, religion, or immigration status. People really want to hate “Elites.” Who are elites? Anyone who knows more than they do. People want to feel like they know more science than scientists; feel more righteous than the devout. What better leader could they have than one who tells them what they want to hear. Someone who claims to “know more about the military than all the generals.” That injecting bleach might cure Covid. Forget evidence. Forget knowledge. Too time consuming. Too boring. All you have to do is what Donald does. Just “feel” you’re right. Personally, I’d rather lose with honesty than win with lies.

They call themselves something they are not: “Conservatives.” True Conservatives value character, civility, and intelligence. Trump-pets reward arrogance, anger, and self-delusion.

“Alternative facts” is an oxymoron. Except in minds that can’t face an uncomfortable truth. They’re just opinions masquerading as facts. Using partial truths is not just a way to fool others. It’s how we fool ourselves. If you embrace Donald, you embrace his lies and self-delusions. You become what he is: a fraud. In the end, you will be a mere follower of a pathetic, narcissistic bully. I would rather be dead than that.

Whether you celebrate Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa or Festivus (especially Festivus) please take the time to be giving in 2025 as well. Make compassion your New Year’s Resolution. We all have it hard. Some harder than others. You can’t

judge someone unless you walk a mile in their shoes. Yes, these platitudes are all clichés. But they’re said all the time because they’re true.

Chris Lundy News Editor

If you are one of those silent conservatives who still respect the Constitution, Democracy, and the rule of law, but allow yourself to be intimidated by Trump Trolls, the death of our democracy will be on you.

ident could bring down the costs of everything. I don’t know how many times I heard people talk about the price of eggs. They don’t realize that it’s more about corporate greed than inflation.

James Tweed Ocean

City

Where Is The Care For Animals?

I have a young deer that has some kind of clamp on its right front leg that is causing her a lot of pain and she cannot walk on it.

I have called several socalled agencies to help this young deer. Nobody will come out to help her. The best advice I got was deer can get along on three legs.

I was also told that if it flops around and cannot get around on its own I should call the non-emergency police line and they will take care of it and we know what that means. We are supposed to just let it die. This poor deer will die a painful death from an infection. This is not just a deer, it is life and should be helped. We would help a human but not a deer. What I am trying to say is an animal’s life is just as important as a human’s if not more important.

Robert Sinawa Whiting

Inflation Or Price-Gouging?

People voted with their wallets this year, hoping that a different pres -

In 2022, Farm Action, a farmer-led advocacy group, urged the Federal Trade Commission to investigate collusion between egg producers that increased the prices across the country.

This isn’t the first time this has happened. In December (of 2023), a jury ordered egg producers to pay more than $50 million in damages to food manufacturing companies after being found guilty of price gouging between October of 2004 to December of 2008.

American egg producers like Cal-Maine Foods and Rose Acre Farms were sued in 2011 by Kraft, Kellogg, General Mills, and Nestle. It took 12 years for it to go through the courts.

The egg producers worked together to reduce supply to drive up the price. They exported eggs to reduce the domestic market. They also reduced the number of chickens. So, what would a president be able to do to fix this? Who knows. But there’s more to it than simply inflation. There’s price gouging and a million other things going on behind the scenes.

Dover Johnson Manchester

Correspondence & Commentary From Your Local, County, State & Federal Officials

Senators Urge Expedited Federal Action Regarding Drones

Capitol Comments

Senator Robert W. Singer 30th Legislative District

TRENTON – On December 12, the New Jersey Senate Republican Caucus sent a letter to Governor Murphy calling on him to demand immediate federal action regarding the unexplained drone sightings across New Jersey.

The letter reads:

“As you know, the New Jersey State Police and the New Jersey Office of Homeland Security and Preparedness held a brief-

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Phil Murphy

ing yesterday for members of the State Legislature in response to numerous drone sightings across New Jersey.

We want to emphasize that the safety and security of New Jersey residents remains our top priority.

Unfortunately, yesterday’s briefing failed to provide the clarity we expected. Instead, it raised more questions than it answered.

The New Jersey State Police and local law enforcement have performed admirably given the limited information available to them. However, their efforts to address this issue have been significantly hindered by the Federal Government’s assertion of sole

jurisdiction over engagement with these aircraft. This restriction, coupled with the Biden Administration’s slow and inadequate response, has exacerbated public concerns and left residents speculating about worstcase scenarios while they await answers.

While federal officials claim to be actively investigating the situation, the lack of transparency has deprived residents of the information and peace of mind they deserve. This absence of clear communication only heightens anxiety and fuels distrust.

Moreover, it is deeply concerning and contradictory for federal representatives to assert that there is no threat to public safety while simultaneously admitting they lack critical information about who is operating the drones,

their origins, and their destinations. Such conflicting statements erode public trust and intensify the uncertainty that many of our constituents have rightfully expressed. We share our constituents’ frustrations and understand the urgency of this situation. Therefore, we are calling on you to demand, in the strongest possible terms, complete transparency from the federal government.

You must insist that the Biden Administration immediately provide the necessary tools and resources to protect our stateincluding the authority to neutralize any drone that poses a threat to our residents. New Jerseyans deserve swift and decisive action to safeguard their safety and the security of our nation.”

Law Makes Outdoor Dining Permanent

TRENTON – Governor Phil Murphy signed S3608/A4866 into law, making outdoor dining permissions permanent for restaurants and certain alcoholic beverage retailers and manufacturers. The permissions – initially established during the COVID-19 pandemic – were set to expire November 30, 2024, but will now be permanent, offering greater support to the food and beverage industry by facilitating opportunities to expand their licensed premises within designated outdoor space or on public sidewalk.

“Outdoor dining has proven to be an incredibly successful venture over the past four years, benefiting business owners and patrons alike,” said Governor Murphy. “I’m proud to continue this popular measure and look forward to seeing our restaurant industry continue to grow.”

The legislation will authorize continued use of fixtures such as tents, canopies, umbrellas, tables, and chairs for outdoor dining, making

permanent a law that was signed by the Governor in February of 2021.

Under the new law, the holder of a temporary expansion permit issued by the New Jersey Division of Alcoholic Beverage Control (ABC) may have their temporary permit converted to a permanent permit, which is renewable annually and is issued at the approval of local officials.

“This permanent change to the state’s retail consumption segment of the alcoholic beverage industry is a commonsense approach to changing customer preferences,” said Kirstin Krueger, Interim Director of the Division of Alcoholic Beverage Control. “I’m gratified that the pivot we made in 2020 will remain, allowing our industry to stay resilient and keep thriving.”

“During the pandemic, outdoor dining was critical to allowing so many restaurants to stay open, keep employees on the payroll, and continue serving loyal customers. Though the pandemic is long behind us, outdoor dining will remain a staple in downtowns and main streets across the state thanks to the bill signed today by Governor Murphy, helping to revitalize communities by attracting more

foot traffic, spurring economic activity, and bolstering small businesses,” said Tim Sullivan, CEO of the Economic Development Authority.

The primary sponsors of S3608/A4866 are Senator Paul A. Sarlo, Senator Vincent J. Polistina, Assemblyman Roy Freiman, Assemblywoman Mitchelle Drulis, and Assemblywoman Barbara McCann Stamato.

“Outdoor service has proven to be a real success for restaurants and the communities they serve,” said Senator Paul A. Sarlo, who serves as Mayor of Wood-Ridge. “It is good for the economy, beneficial for downtown business districts and very popular with patrons and local residents. It is a success story that is well worth continuing.”

“New Jersey businesses benefited immensely from the innovative measures we adopted during COVID to enable the use of outdoor spaces,” said Senator Vincent J. Polistina. “By making the temporary outdoor dining and beverage laws permanent, our local businesses will continue to have the flexibility they need to thrive by maintaining the indoor and outdoor seating arrangements that patrons have come to enjoy. This is a big win for business, residents, and local economies.”

“We commend Governor Murphy for extending the outdoor dining rules, a decision that

provides critical support to our local restaurants, many of which are owned and operated by small business owners and entrepreneurs. This extension not only allows restaurants to thrive by offering expanded seating options but also plays a significant role in driving economic development across our towns. Outdoor dining has transformed our communities, creating vibrant, engaging environments that attract residents and visitors alike. The governor’s continued commitment to fostering small business success and enhancing our local economies is greatly appreciated, and we look forward to the positive impact this will have on businesses and communities statewide,” said Michael Egenton, Executive Vice President – Government Relations, New Jersey State Chamber of Commerce.

“Governor Murphy’s action on this bill is a welcome initiative that recognizes the transformative role outdoor dining plays in our downtowns,” said Natalie Pineiro, Executive Director of Downtown New Jersey. “Outdoor dining enhances the vibrancy of our communities, driving foot traffic, supporting small businesses, and contributing to the growth of local economies. This bill will ensure that downtowns across the state remain hubs of activity and innovation, benefiting both businesses and residents alike.”

Volunteers Needed At Old Wall Historical Society

WALL TOWNSHIP – Old Wall Historical Society is in need of volunteers on Sundays to help beautify and preserve their historical buildings and property. Projects include gardening, painting,

cleaning, and handiwork on-site at 1701 New Bedford Road in Wall Township.

“Our mission to preserve local history would not be possible without volunteers,” said De Hearn, Old Wall Historical Society

President and Museum Director. “We are very grateful for our local community’s contributions of time and talent, and we always appreciate new volunteers.”

Teens, adults, groups, and Eagle Scouts

are welcome to volunteer on Sundays and can receive community service hours if needed. Interested volunteers should email oldwallnj@gmail.com to schedule.

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of drinking in 1990, he began to hurt her. Tiffany was just six years old and rescued by her stepmother. The woman left in the middle of the night with her own children as she feared for her own life and felt she had no other options.

Tiffany’s father was reported to Child Protective Services in New Mexico, where they lived at the time. Reports that he had sexually abused his daughter only added to the claims of physical and psychological violence. Ultimately, Tiffany was adopted by her maternal aunt and uncle, who lived in Northern New Jersey. She described “Pappy” as a man who showed her great love for the first time in her life. Jose deSousa died in 1995, when Tiffany was just 11 years old.

After Jose’s death, the family relocated a few more times. Desperate, Tiffany sought out counseling services on her own while she was in boarding school in Virginia. The idea of seeking help for emotional problems was something unheard-of and frowned upon. Yet, Tiffany was a child with severe PTSD who absolutely needed professional intervention.

The family came back to New Jersey, spending a summer in Woodbridge and eventually moving to Toms River. Tiffany met the late Andrea C. Viggiano, her journalism teacher, when she was a sophomore at Toms River South.

“I was restricted most of my life and not allowed to even ride bikes outside,” said Tiffany. “There was always concern that my biological father would try to kidnap me.”

As Tiffany spent more time with her trusted teacher, she began to open up to her about her struggles. Viggiano was a good listener and helped Tiffany find professional help at an outreach program Harbor House facilitated.

“I ran away on December 3, 2001, after a very bad night,” Tiffany shared. “It was the day after Pappy’s death anniversary.”

The argument between Tiffany and her adoptive mother escalated to the point that Tiffany lashed out in defiance. When she was told to turn the music down in her room, she turned it to full volume. Tiffany’s adoptive mother inadvertently cut her foot as she tried to pull out an extension cord. She left to get checked out at the hospital with Tiffany sobbing beyond control.

“I called Andrea, and she said that she had never heard me like that,” said Tiffany, “Something in my voice made her feel like she had to come get me.”

The caring teacher made sure that Tiffany left a note with her phone number in the house. When the call came in accusing Viggiano of harboring a runaway, the two decided to go to the place that allowed runaways a safe space without any legal issues.

In the end, Viggiano continued to advocate for Tiffany and took over her guardianship. It was a wonderful experience and one that brought back fond memories.

Harbor House helped Tiffany during those painful days in 2001. They later helped provide Tiffany with rental assistance when she and her then-boyfriend moved in together. Tiffany worked for Harbor House as a residential counselor on three subsequent occasions. There’s something to be said for experience being the best teacher.

It took several years for Tiffany to graduate

with three separate degrees, all with high honors. Her educational pursuits were interrupted by physical illness. An Ocean County College and Stockton University graduate, Tiffany earned a master’s degree this year from Montclair State University in Child Advocacy and Policy.

When Tiffany decided to pursue her goal to make a difference in children’s lives, she could think of no better name than the mantra repeated by her most trusted confidant. Andrea Viggiano said it best to her – Choose Love. Celebrate Life.

About CLCL

DeSousa’s founding team at CLCL Foundation includes individuals with deep experience in youth services. Lisa Scala, the organization’s Board Treasurer, worked at Harbor House for 23 years and was the counselor who completed deSousa’s intake paperwork the night she ran away. Other key team members include Leslie Brower, an art teacher and former residential counselor, and Kelsy Wetmore, a Licensed Professional Counselor dedicated to supporting at-risk youth.

Kathleen DeLorme, Community Liaison, also has 23 years of experience at Harbor House, and Jennifer Santa Maria, an artist and Master of Arts Teacher in Art Education and specializing with students with disabilities, have also joined the organization. Two advisory board members will also serve as tremendous assets.

Together, the team brings over 57 years of experience working with vulnerable youth populations, ensuring the new shelter, named The Tree House Program, will provide trauma-informed care, case management, and family support. The organization has partnered with Hearts Wide Open Homes, LLC to locate and maintain the property that will be used to shelter vulnerable youth. Company representative Daniel Delice said his group is looking to invest in property in the northern part of Ocean County to make the shelter accessible for Monmouth County residents.

“We’re looking to purchase a five-bedroom home,” said Delice. “I am personally doing everything in my power to work with other partners and allocate all possible resources to make this come to fruition.”

CLCL Foundation’s comprehensive approach also includes a “Warm Line” for crisis support, Community Groups, and Home Share Solutions aimed at preventing homelessness among young adults aged 18 to 24. These programs are designed to empower youth and families in crisis, bridging the gap to vital resources and fostering long-term stability.

“Problems have solutions,” deSousa explained. “Research and best practices show that Basic Center Programs protect runaway youth from danger on the streets, from the need to sleep on sofas, and from trafficking risks that occur within 48 hours of running away from home.”

“Our mission is to provide a safe, nurturing environment for youth in crisis,” deSousa said. “But community-driven change does not happen without community involvement. We’re inviting everyone to join us in building this safe space where our youth can grow, heal, and thrive.”

For more information about CLCL Foundation and its programs, visit their website at CLCLFoundation.org

C ommunity n ew S

Police Department Holds “Shop With A Cop” Event

HOWELL – The Shop With a Cop event could not be possible without the support of the Salon Professional Academy and Certified Auto Mall. Also, a thank you to loyal Howell residents, Dick Clark and Tim and Leslie Geraghty. What a festive start to this Holiday season!

Students Perform National Anthem

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Crisis Hotline Volunteers Needed

TOMS RIVER – Crisis Hotline Volunteers needed for CONTACT of Ocean & Monmouth Counties’ training beginning February 18, twice a week, every Tuesday and Thursday, for six weeks from 6:30 to 9:30 p.m. Training will be held in person at Christ Episcopal Church, 415 Washington Street, Toms River. CONTACT is a 24-hour crisis intervention

hotline that also provides information and referral to community resources. All calls are free, confidential and anonymous. Training is free. Become a voice to those in distress. Make a difference in your community! Call 732240-6104 or email contact@contactoceanmonmouth.org for additional information and registration.

Photo courtesy Howell Police

HOWELL

Celebrating Evelyn Cole and Shay Raganas for their beautiful rendition of the National Anthem at the December 4 Board of Education meeting.

Photo courtesy Howell Schools

Police, Howell Schools Host Annual Bowling Party

Local Authorities Participate In “Shop With A Cop” Event

Photo courtesy Monmouth County Prosecutor’s Office such an impact in so many families’ lives. Officers and staff from the participating agencies spent time with local families from their communities, shopping with children to make their holidays brighter.

A special thank-you to the Monmouth Ocean Police Athletic League, along with our very own Community Liaison Pastor Lyddale Akins, for coordinating efforts and putting this entire event together.

HOWELL – On December 6, the Howell Police Department and Howell PBA 228 had their annual Bowling Party at Howell Lanes with children from the local Howell Schools! Thank you to the sponsors Leslie Bohn and Charles Anderson of Howell Lanes as well as Renay Friedman!

Photo courtesy Howell Police

C ommunity n ew S

Local Animals Ready For Adoption

MONMOUTH COUNTY – The Monmouth County SPCA has a number of pets available for adoption.

Sparkle is just as soft and luxurious as she looks! This pretty kitty is 6-years-young and came to the shelter when her owner couldn’t care for her anymore. Sparkle is a friendly, curious and affectionate girl who loves being petted and played with - she’ll give the occasional love nip to show her appreciation.

Sparkle seems interested in other nice kitties but would also be happy as an only cat.

The MCSPCA only does adoptions in person (please bring all family members). They will ask you to fill out an Adoption Survey and speak with an Adoption Counselor to help find your perfect match.

They are located at 260 Wall Street in Eatontown. They can be reached at 732542-0040.

Adelphia Fire Company 2025 Officers

HOWELL – Congratulations to the Adelphia Fire Company’s 2025 Executive and Line Officers:

• Chief Tim McKay

• 1st Assistant Chief Stephen Smith

• 2nd Assistant Chief Michael Hubert

• Captain John De Pinto

• Lieutenant Jan Smit

President Chris Pujat

• 1st Vice President Brian Prochnow

• 2nd Vice President Jason Howlett

• Secretary Katie Carter

• Financial Secretary Jeff DiGraitis

• Treasurer James Crompton

• Trustees Carmelo LaMarca, Dan Andrus and Thomas Ward

Symposium On Mental Health And Wellness

HOWELL – Save the date for a Symposium On Mental Health And Wellness held by the Monmouth County Schools

Partnership for Wellness on February 6 at 6 p.m. at Brookdale Community College. Registration coming soon.

Photo courtesy MCSPCA

New Nursing Pathway Program Announced

MONMOUTH COUNTY – The Monmouth County Vocational School District, in partnership with Brookdale Community College and Kean University, is proud to announce the launch of a groundbreaking nursing pathway program, Nursing Bridge to Excellence set to begin in Fall 2025.

“The Bridge Program offers Monmouth County high school students a unique opportunity to gain real-world healthcare experience while pursuing a clear, affordable pathway to an in-demand college degree,” said Monmouth County Vocational School District Superintendent Charles R. Ford, Jr., Ed.D. “Through this partnership, students are empowered to achieve their dreams, save money, and give back to their communities.”

This innovative initiative offers a seamless, cost-effective and flexible route for students to achieve a Bachelor of Science in Nursing (BSN), addressing the critical and growing demand for skilled nursing professionals.

Monmouth County Board of Commissioner Director, Thomas A. Arnone said “This innovative partnership addresses the critical nursing shortage by creating a seamless pathway to success. Together, we’re equipping future nurses with the skills needed to keep Monmouth County healthy and thriving, while ensuring access to affordable, high-quality education for our community.”

Students will begin their academic journey at Monmouth County Vocational School District (MCVSD) directly transitioning into Brookdale Community College, earning an Associate Degree in Nursing (ADN), before seamlessly transitioning to Kean University to complete their BSN. This guaranteed admission model eliminates the stress of reapplying and ensures a smooth academic progression, allowing students to focus on their education and clinical experiences.

“Pathways that establish vital programs like this are crucial for cultivating a much-needed workforce in the healthcare sector,” said Kean University President Lamont O. Repollet, Ed.D. “As an urban research university in

New Jersey, Kean is actively responding to the pressing demand for skilled nurses. This initiative not only enhances accessibility and affordability in higher education but also equips students with the structured support essential for their success. Our partnership underscores our dedication to fostering social mobility, preparing students for rewarding careers, and enriching our communities through education.”

By starting their studies at Brookdale, students benefit from reduced tuition costs, paying less for their entire BSN than the cost of a single year at many private institutions. Small class sizes and personalized instruction at Brookdale further enhance the program’s affordability and accessibility.

“This program represents an extraordinary opportunity for students to achieve their dreams of becoming highly qualified nursing professionals,” said Brookdale Community College President David M. Stout, Ph.D. “By removing barriers to education and creating a clear pathway from community college to a four-year university, we are building a stronger, more prepared healthcare workforce to meet the critical needs of our community and beyond.”

The program also prioritizes comprehensive student support, offering academic advising, mentorship and a clear roadmap for success. This level of guidance fosters confidence and stability, leading to improved retention and graduation rates.

Graduates will emerge as highly competitive job candidates, prepared to excel in leadership roles within healthcare settings where BSN credentials are increasingly preferred. The Nursing Bridge to Excellence program will foster partnerships for workforce opportunities with healthcare systems like Monmouth Medical Center.

For more information about the Nursing Bridge to Excellence program, please contact MCVSD Director of Career and Technical Education Jared Morris, Ed.D. at jaredmorris@ctemc.org or call 732431-7942.

Southard Grange Monthly Meetings

HOWELL – Everyone is invited to join the Southard Grange #218 for their meetings!

They meet the first Tuesday of the month at 7 p.m. at 4860 Route 9, Howell.

Even if you are not a member, it’s a great time to learn who they are and what they do.

You can also share ideas!

Note:

• Only members can vote

• Some meetings have ended as early as 8 p.m. and have gone as late as 9 p.m.

• They do offer a zoom option (reach out for info on that)

Who are they & what do they do?

They have a playhouse, a thrift store, and

bring the community together through different events.

“The National Grange of the Order of Patrons of Husbandry, is a social organization that encourages families to band together to promote the economic, the community and agriculture. The first Grange, Grange #1, was founded in 1868 in Fredonia, New York. Our Southard Grange #218, was founded in 1932. Here at The Southard Grange, we focus on community service and are a non-profit organization. Whose purpose is about giving back to the community. Interesting fact: Our building was originally a two-room schoolhouse in the 1900s.”

Meet The New Mayor & Council Members

HOWELL – Meet the new mayor & council members on January 7 at 12 p.m. at Jives Cafe, 2212 Route 9 South, Howell.

Guest speakers scheduled include: Mayor John Leggio; Councilman Fred Gasior; Councilwoman Evelyn O’Donnell; and Township Manager Joseph Clark.

Cost to attend the meeting is $5 for Howell Chamber of Commerce members and $10 for not yet members. Jives Cafe is usually closed on Tuesdays and will be opening for our meeting. Purchase your meal direct from the restaurant. Please be mindful and considerate, in fairness to the restaurant who is providing staffing and location for the meeting, please purchase a meal from the hosting restaurant.

Please RSVP by emailing the chamber at info@howellchamber.com so the restaurant can be prepared!

Freehold Regional High School District Now Hiring

FREEHOLD – The Freehold Regional High School District has various employment opportunities currently open. They are several long-term substitute positions available: Business Administration and Technology; English; Family and Consumer Sciences; Mathematics; Psychology; Social Studies; Special Education/Elementary Education; Special Education/English; Special Education – Mathematics; Technology Education; World Language – Spanish. Visit applitrack.com/frhsd/onlineapp to learn more and apply.

Young Women In STEM Club

HOWELL – The Young Women in STEM Club is a PAL club in which members meet twice a month for three months to advance their knowledge in areas of science, technology, engineering, math and promote scientific thought.

Members will meet with guest speakers, engage in fundraisers, complete games, projects or lab exercises regarding the various STEM fields. Open to middle school and high school girls interested in STEM. Meetings will be every other Wednesday starting January 8 from 5 to 6 p.m. You do not need to attend a Howell school to join!

Cost per member is $60. Must register by December 23. Register at: howellpal. org/winterprograms.

Winter Melodies: Band Of Two Rivers Concert

HOWELL – Join as we celebrate the holiday season with Band of Two Rivers, a nonprofit community concert band that consists of over 30 musicians! They will be playing a variety of music to get everyone in the holiday spirit!

The band has approximately 30 players with musicians of all ages, from high school

students to senior citizens. The band is very unique in that it has an “open door policy,” with no auditions, which entices retirees to find their high school or college instrument and play again. The music is standard and contemporary concert band arrangements from overtures and Broadway medleys to marches and novelty tunes. The harmonies,

syncopations, and marching tempos of the wide variety of music the band plays lifts everyone’s spirit!

Concert takes place on December 21 from 2 to 3 p.m. at the Howell Library. Contact Rebecca Kim at 732-938-2300 or email rkim@monmouthcountylib.org for more information.

Around the JerSey Shore

Tips Given To Protect Pipes And Save Water This Winter

CAMDEN – Temperatures are steadily dropping in New Jersey, and New Jersey American Water is urging homeowners to prepare their plumbing and continue conserving water this season, especially during the ongoing drought conditions. Small adjustments around the home can help customers save money by saving water and avoiding the cost of broken pipe repairs when freezing temperatures persist.

“Nobody wants extra expenses or repair bills, especially this time of year,” said Ben Morris, Vice President of Operations for New Jersey American Water. “Preparing your home’s plumbing now can help to avoid costly frozen pipe repairs, and continuing to save water indoors will also help lower your water bill,” said Morris.

Property owners are responsible for maintenance of the water service line from the curb to the house, as well as any inhome piping. New Jersey American Water encourages customers to be mindful of the following tips and take the necessary

precautions as we enter the winter season: To prepare now, customers should:

• Check sprinkler or irrigation systems. Make sure you have turned everything off and fully drained the systems.

• Identify your home’s freezing points. Check your home for pipes in areas that may be prone to freezing, such as crawl spaces, unheated rooms, basements, garages, and exterior walls.

• Know the location of the main water shutoff valve. If a pipe freezes or bursts, shut off water immediately.

• Protect your pipes and water meters. Customers are encouraged to wrap exposed pipes with insulation or use electrical heat tracing wire; newspaper or fabric might also work. For outside meters, keep the lid to the meter pit closed tightly and let any snow that falls cover it. Snow acts as insulation, so don’t disturb it.

When temperatures stay below freezing, customers should:

• Prevent pipes from freezing. If you have

pipes that are vulnerable to freezing, allow a small trickle of water to run overnight to keep pipes from freezing. Capture this in a container for watering indoor plants and other uses.

• Open cabinet doors to expose pipes. Opening cabinet doors exposes pipes to warmer room temperatures to keep them from freezing.

If pipes freeze, customers should:

• Shut off the water immediately. Don’t attempt to thaw frozen pipes unless the water is shut off. Freezing can often cause unseen cracks in pipes or joints.

• Apply heat to the frozen pipe by warming the air around it, or by applying heat directly to a pipe. You can use a hair dryer, space heater or hot water. Be sure not to leave space heaters unattended.

• Do not use kerosene heaters or open flames to thaw pipes inside your home.

• Once the pipes have thawed, turn the water back on slowly and check for cracks and leaks.

The Howell Times welcomes your special announcements! Engagements, Weddings, Births, Birthday Wishes, etc. Please call 732-657-7344 for more details!

When customers are away, they should:

• Have a friend, relative or neighbor regularly check their property to ensure the heat is working and the pipes have not frozen.

• Set your thermostat at 55 degrees to prevent freezing.

• Consider purchasing a freeze alarm. The alarm will call a user-selected phone number if the inside temperature drops below 45 degrees.

Additionally, the state of New Jersey is under an active Drought Warning, and New Jersey American Water’s Mandatory Conservation Notice is still in effect for all customers. New Jersey American Water customers can monitor their water usage and find ways to use water wisely online through their MyWater account. More indoor and outdoor water-saving tips can be found on New Jersey American Water’s website at newjerseyamwater.com/conservation and the New Jersey Department of Environmental Protection’s Water Conservation Website.

Dr. Izzy’s

Sound News

Presented By: Isidore Kirsh, Ph.D., F.A.A.A. (N.J. Lic. #678)

Dr. Isidore Kirsh Ph.D., F.A.A.A.

Taking On Brain Drain: Hearing Care That Supports More Than Hearing

Your ears and brain work together to help you hear. So, it’s no wonder that hearing loss might impact brain health. With a growing number of studies connecting hearing problems to other serious conditions such as cognitive decline and dementia, let’s discuss how hearing loss might affect the brain and how we can help.

Most people don’t realize that healthy hearing involves teamwork. The outer ear collects sound waves, which ultimately reach the inner ear as sound signals. The cochlea, a small organ within the inner ear, has tiny hair cells that transmit those signals to the brain, which interprets them and helps orient body positioning for optimal hearing.

How might hearing loss affect the brain? Scientists continue to explore this critical question, but some of the possibilities may be that hearing loss:

• Makes the brain work harder to process sound

• May reduce the brain’s capacity for thinking, remembering, and more

• Might lead to brain atrophy or shrinkage from sound deprivation

Put more simply, the brain, while remarkably complex, has limited resources. Hearing loss, and associated problems like tinnitus (ringing in the ears or head) and balance disorders, may drain those resources — diverting them from import-

ant everyday functions — and might even cause physical changes to the brain which can result in brain atrophy.

It’s one of the reasons we take a medical approach to hearing care. This includes our science-backed focus on brain and body connections. After all, we’re HEAR to help the whole you. With comprehensive hearing evaluations, patient education, prevention strategies, personalized treatment plans, and regular follow-ups, we work to support your total health.

As increasing research links professional hearing care — including properly fitted hearing aids — to better cognitive functioning or slowed cognitive decline among some populations, it’s more important than ever to stay atop your hearing wellness. Think of it as an investment in the present and your future. A future with clear, crisp sounds and an empowered mind.

Dr. Izzy and his Staff are always here to listen to your hearing care needs. Hearing health is brain health — don’t wait. Regular hearing evaluations are recommended, so call to book for yourself or a loved one today!

Please feel free to contact our office at 732-451-3962 or visit our website at gardenstatehearing.com WE HEAR YOU & WE ARE HERE For YOU!

His offices are in Toms River, Whiting, and Manahawkin. He can be reached at 732-451-3962 or via Web site at gardenstatehearing.com. Dr. Izzy & Staff gives Retirement Community Talks!

Monmouth Civic Chorus Presents Making Spirits Bright

RED BANK – The award-winning Monmouth Civic Chorus presents Making Spirits Bright on December 22 at 4 p.m. This highly anticipated annual performance is Monmouth County’s can’t-miss musical event of the holiday season. This year’s program will feature your favorite selections from Bach, Handel’s Messiah, and Artistic Director Dr. Ryan James Brandau’s own holiday suite - including two brand-new arrangements. Stirring original settings of holiday classics like Silent Night, I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day, and Auld Lang Syne will warm your heart and brighten your spirits. The chorus of nearly 100 voices teams up with our elite professional orchestra

composed of some of the country’s most in-demand musicians, and accomplished soloists from within the choir’s own ranks.

The performance will take place at the historic Hackensack Meridian Health Theatre, Count Basie Center for the Arts, 99 Monmouth Street, Red Bank. Tickets for premium seating are $60 adult, $50 senior, $40 group (10 or more) with code “group”, $20 student; and for regular seating are $40 adult, $35 senior, $35 group (10 or more) with code “group,” $15 student. Tickets and information are available at monmouthcivicchorus.org, or you may leave a message on our voicemail at 732933-9333. We can’t wait to see you there.

Dear Pharmacist

Suzy Cohen, R. Ph.

Unraveling The Mystery: Psychosomatic Disorders Vs. Hard-To-Diagnose Illnesses

By Suzy Cohen, R. Ph.

The body and mind are intricately connected, and sometimes, this connection can lead to physical symptoms driven by emotional stress. These are known as psychosomatic disorders, and they demonstrate just how powerful stress, unresolved trauma, and emotions can be in affecting our physical health. However, not all unexplained symptoms fall into this category. Some are the result of hard-to-diagnose medical conditions that science hasn’t fully understood yet.

Let’s explore psychosomatic disorders, their causes, and how they differ from illnesses that defy diagnosis.

Psychosomatic disorders occur when emotional factors like stress and anxiety trigger or worsen physical symptoms. These symptoms are real—not “all in your head”—but their root cause lies in how your brain and body interact.

For example:

• Chest pain from anxiety (even with a healthy heart) right before a test

• A rash that flares during an argument

• Migraines triggered by chronic stress

• Your heart beating out of your chest before public speaking

Stress activates the hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal (HPA) axis, increasing cortisol and adrenaline. Over time, this state of hyperarousal can worsen conditions like migraines, irritable bowel syndrome (IBS), and fibromyalgia.

Not every unexplained symptom is psychosomatic. Some conditions, like multiple sclerosis (MS), were nearly impossible to diagnose before MRI technology became available to detect brain and spinal lesions. In such cases, the problem wasn’t psychosomatic, it simply hadn’t been uncovered yet.

Conditions like chronic fatigue syndrome or some neurological disorders involve real symp-

toms that may stem from multiple, complex factors science hasn’t fully mapped. These cases highlight the importance of staying persistent and seeking second opinions.

Doctors often rely on their own specialty’s “toolbox,” which can limit diagnostic perspectives. For example:

- A Lyme specialist might diagnose Lyme disease even with inconclusive results.

- A rheumatologist may label borderline symptoms as autoimmune disease.

- A mold expert might attribute vague symptoms to having lived in Texas where mold counts are high, even in the absence of abnormal lab tests.

This isn’t to suggest doctors are wrong, they’re often working with the best information they have. But as a patient, being your own advocate and seeking multiple opinions is essential.

Psychosomatic disorders include real symptoms which are linked to the mind-body connection.

Hard-to-diagnose conditions also have real symptoms without a clear explanation, often due to science’s limitations. Both deserve empathy so I want to assure you that your experience is valid, and healing starts with being heard and supported.

Living with unexplained symptoms can feel lonely and exhausting. Whether your condition stems from psychosomatic factors or a hard-to-diagnose illness, your journey matters. Healing isn’t always linear, but blending medical care with curiosity, compassion, and advocacy can lead to answers and relief. Stay curious, stay strong, and never stop advocating for yourself, you’ve got this! If you’re interested in a deeper dive into this topic, I’ve written a longer, more comprehensive blog on my website at suzycohen.com

(This information is not intended to treat, cure or diagnose your condition. Suzy Cohen is the author of “The 24-Hour Pharmacist” and “Real Solutions.” For more information, visit www.SuzyCohen.com) ©2024 SUZY COHEN, RPH. DISTRIBUTED BY DEAR PHARMACIST, INC.

R.C. Shea & Assoc. Inside The Law

Enjoy The Holidays But Be Mindful Of Scams!

By: Michael J. Deem, Esq. of R.C. Shea & Associates

Have you thought about giving a fancy new gadget as a holiday gift? Or maybe there’s something on your wish list that Santa forgot to bring? If so, you might be tempted by an Ad to purchase high-tech gadgets for a low price. But if a merchant, other than Amazon.com, asks you to pay using an Amazon gift card then it’s probably a scam. In fact, Amazon’s gift card terms don’t allow you to use Amazon gift cards to make payments anywhere besides amazon. com and a few specific sites.

Here’s how the scam happens: You discover a website that sells new HDTVs, GPS devices, and other tech-gadgets for deeply discounted prices. You haven’t heard of the site, but you’re diligent and you do some research. You find a few reviews from satisfied customers, you think the site is legitimate, and you go for it. During checkout, you’re instructed to purchase an Amazon gift card and then hand over the gift card information as payment. Unfortunately, if you do, you’ll be out the money, and you won’t get anything in return. These scammers know that bad reviews scare people away, so they may post a few positive reviews about the site. They shut down the site before people post complaints

— usually in less than a month — and open under a new name somewhere else.

Michael J. Deem, Esq.

Buying an Amazon gift card to make a payment is NOT the same as using Amazon Payments, which provides some protections for buyers. Amazon Payments is a feature that allows Amazon members to pay for merchandise on other websites by logging in and using a payment method they’ve stored on their Amazon account. For example, if you use a credit card stored in your Amazon Payments account, you’re still using your credit card to make the purchase, and you get certain protections when you use a credit card. You don’t have the same protections when you pay with a gift card — virtually or physically. It could be tough to trace the money or get it back if something goes wrong. Of course, that’s not a problem if you’re sending the gift card to a friend or family member as a gift. When shopping online, consider using a payment method that offers protections if you don’t get what you paid for. From everyone here at R.C. Shea & Associates, have a safe, happy and healthy Holiday season.

photo of the week

It’s Christmas and that means that Denise and John Curcio of Manahawkin have put on an amazing light display. This one will make Clark Griswold jealous. From all of us at Micromedia Publications, we wish you a very Merry Christmas, Happy Hannukah, Happy Kwanzaa and a very Happy New Year! If you would like to see your pix here, email them to photos@jerseyshoreonline.com and you may win a prize!

Il Volo To Perform At Hard Rock Live At Etess Arena

ATLANTIC CITY – Italian superstar singers, Il Volo, are coming to Hard Rock Live at Etess Arena at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Atlantic City on March 22 at 8 p.m.

Tickets are on sale now and can be purchased at HardRockHotelAtlanticCity.com and Ticketmaster.com or 800-745-3000. All shows are subject to change.

Il Volo is one of the most famous Italian trios in the world, having captivated audiences on every continent with the

extraordinary voices of Piero Barone, Ignazio Boschetto and Gianluca Ginoble. With a career full of successes, they have collaborated with the biggest international stars and filled arenas worldwide, releasing a total of 13 albums - the latest, “Ad Astra,” released March 29 by Epic Records/ Sony Music Italy. In 2025, they will take their music worldwide again with a World Tour across the USA, Canada, and Latin America.

Men’s Winter Basketball

HOWELL – This league will play on Sunday mornings in the gym at Southard school. The earliest game will be at 8 a.m. The end times will depend on how many teams sign up.

Each team will need a minimum of 5 players and a maximum of 12. When completing the online registration, please be sure to have the following for each player:

• Cell phone number

• Email address

• Allergies (if applicable)

• Emergency contact

The roster will freeze after week 4 of the regular season. Teams may not add any players after this time.

All players must sign a waiver form before playing! Each team is responsible to pay $50 in ref fees the morning of the game.

League beings on January 5. For more information and to register, visit howellpal. org.

Casual Birder - Winter

MONMOUTH COUNTY – Join a Park System Naturalist for these free laidback morning bird walks. We’ll meander through the parks for about an hour and a half to see what birds we can find. No need to be an expert at identifying birds to enjoy these walks.

A limited number of binoculars will be available to borrow if needed. We will

go even with light rain or snow so please come dressed for the weather. Join on the following Tuesday mornings at 9 a.m.: January 14 – Seven Presidents Park Pavilion

January 28 – Manasquan Reservoir Environmental Center February 18 – Bayshore Waterfront Park, Main entrance

Your Weekly Environmental Tip: Don’t Use Cotton Swabs Or Q-Tips

By Chris Lundy

How is this an environmental tip? Simple, by not using cotton swabs every day, you’re creating less pollution.

Somehow, we as a society decided to start using cotton swabs on the end of plastic sticks to clean out our ears every single day. This has become such a commonplace habit, that we don’t even think about it. But, the makers of cotton swabs place wording on their products that specifically say “Do not place in ear canal.”

That’s right: the number one use for cotton

swabs is something they should never be used for in the first place.

And why not? Simple, really. Firstly, they don’t really do their job. Sure, you might see ear wax on them when you pull them out, but they are also pushing the ear wax deeper into your ears. You’re not getting it all. You’ll never get it all. The backlog of earwax will prevent the ear drum from vibrating, which contributes to hearing loss.

Secondly, the swabs have a chance of damaging the ear canal or ear drum, and doing temporary to permanent damage to

your hearing. It’s a very small chance, to be sure, but why take the chance?

Thirdly, the blockages you create can trap fluids (like water from your shower or swimming). When that water stagnates, it can grow bacteria, and soon you have an ear infection.

So, what happens if you don’t use cotton swabs and clean your ears? Nothing, really.

Ear wax is natural and healthy. The average person will never have too much ear wax. It’s one of the processes the body uses to keep itself clean. It kills bacteria and

lubricates ear canals, keeping them from drying out.

If you’ve got too much, wash your ear with soap and water. Then wrap your finger in a dry towel and mop up the excess water. The rule of thumb is “Don’t put anything in your ear smaller than your elbow.” Maybe this should be the rule of ear? Rule of elbow? Anyway, don’t stick stuff in your ears. You can use Q-tips around the outside of the ear, but that’s it.

Those who have a serious ear wax problem, however, should see a doctor.

Misc.

Hanukkah get together partyin Ramtown for more info and to RSVP call Abe 347-861-5174. (2)

Items For Sale

Closeout Charter Boat - Fishing equipment, custom rods, reels, flying gaffs, harpoon lures, umbrella rigs, plugs. Appointment, call Capt. Ray 732-773-4326. (3)

Wheelchair Van, 2007 Honda Odyssey33,500 miles. Well-maintained, Carfax available. 848-240-7218. Great for wheelchair transport, deliveries, or your traveling band. (2)

Christmas Food Bazar sale - on Saturday, December 21, 2024 at St. Steven U.C.C. 1344 White Oak Bottom Rd. in Toms River. Pierogies, kobasi and sweet rolls with poppy seed, cheese, prune and apricot. To place orders call 732-505-6293 and leave your name and phone number along with your order. Pick up date 12/21 between 12:00 PM and 2:PM. (2)

Items Wanted

$$$ WANTED TO BUY $$$

Jewelry and watches, costume jewelry, sterling silver, silverplate, medals, military items, antiques, musical instruments, pottery, fine art, photographs, paintings, statues, old coins, vintage toys and dolls, rugs, old pens and postcards, clocks, furniture, bric-a-brac, select china and crystal patterns. Cash paid. Over 35 years experience. Call Gary Struncius. 732849-6068 (new number). (t/n)

COSTUME/ESTATE JEWELRY

Looking to buy costume/estate jewelry, old rosaries and religious medals, all watches and any type of sterling silver, bowls, flatware candlesticks or jewelry. Same day house calls and cash on the spot. 5 percent more with this AD. Call Peggy at 732-581-5225. (t/n)

CASH PAID!! LP records - stereos, musical instruments, guitar, saxophone, CD’s, reel tapes, music related items. Come to you. 732-804-8115. (3)

Vinyl Records Wanted - Paying cash for LP albums, Rock, Reggae, Jazz, Blues. Also buying Comic Books. Call Rick 908-616-7104. (51)

CASH, CASH, CASH! - Instant cash paid for junk cars, trucks, vans. Free removal of any metal items. Discount towing. Call Dano 732-239-3949. (t/n)

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Around the JerSey Shore

“Drive Sober Or Get Pulled Over” Campaign Begins

TRENTON – With the winter holidays fast approaching, Attorney General Matthew J. Platkin and the Division of Highway Traffic Safety (“HTS”) announced the kick-off of a statewide “Drive Sober or Get Pulled Over” enforcement crackdown on impaired driving. The annual year-end campaign is aimed at raising awareness of the dangers of impaired driving and reducing crashes caused by motorists driving under the influence of drugs or alcohol during the busy holiday travel season.

Extending through January 1, law enforcement agencies across the state will step up enforcement of New Jersey’s impaired driving laws as part of a nationwide campaign

targeting impaired driving during the heavily traveled holiday season.

To assist with New Jersey’s enforcement efforts, HTS has provided 130 law enforcement agencies with grants totaling $732,400 to help pay overtime for saturation patrols and high-visibility sobriety checkpoints throughout the state.

“Being a responsible driver is one of the simplest ways to ensure a safe and happy holiday season for everyone. Our Drive Sober or Get Pulled Over campaign is aimed at raising public awareness and saving lives,” said Attorney General Platkin. “Drivers who put lives at risk by getting behind the wheel drunk or high will

face serious consequences.”

Traffic fatalities continue to be a leading cause of death in New Jersey. According to statistics from the New Jersey State Police, 574 fatal crashes on New Jersey roadways claimed the lives of 606 people last year. In more than 31 percent of those fatal crashes (182), a driver tested positive for alcohol and/or drugs.

According to the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration’s most recent data, of the 42,514 motor vehicle fatalities across the United States in 2022, more than 31 percent (13,524) involved alcohol-impaired driving.

“What makes these impaired driving fatalities so tragic is that they’re 100 percent prevent-

able,” said Michael J. Rizol Jr., Director of the New Jersey Division of Highway Traffic Safety. “Our Drive Sober or Get Pulled Over campaign provides law enforcement agencies throughout New Jersey with funding to help prevent these tragedies by targeting impaired drivers and removing them from the road so everyone can make it home safely during the holidays.”

During last year’s Drive Sober or Get Pulled Over year-end holiday campaign, HTS provided 132 law enforcement agencies with grant funds totaling $795,340. The campaign resulted in 603 impaired driving arrests, 1,034 speeding summonses, and 557 seat belt summonses.

FREEHOLD – The Monmouth County Board of County Commissioners is launching a series of success stories of Shared Services partnerships between the County and municipalities, beginning with highlighting the partnership between the County and the Borough of Atlantic Highlands.

Shared Services Success Stories

“The County is happy to provide shared services opportunities to our municipalities,” said Commissioner Director Thomas A. Arnone, liaison to the Monmouth County Office of Shared Services.

“The Monmouth County Shared Services program is an important tool for our partners and is a way to increase efficiencies

and reduce costs, which saves taxpayer dollars.”

Atlantic Highlands has been utilizing shared services agreements with Monmouth County since 1998 and has had a Municipal Assistance Agreement since 2013. The Municipal Assistance Agreement, provided through the Monmouth

County Department of Public Works and Engineering, allows government entities to request various services from the County such as street sweeping, vehicle repair and snow services.

Examples of the work in Atlantic Highlands through the Municipal Assistance Agreement include painting vehicles, providing tandem axle trucks to assist with the removal of materials from the Borough yard and providing vacuum trucks to assist with street basin cleaning.

The Monmouth County Park System has also provided pathway lines on municipal streets along Avenue D and Center Avenue that connect to the County bike path on the Henry Hudson Trail, which has increased safety and visual guidance for bicyclists, as well as for pedestrians and motorists in the area.

“The Monmouth County Shared Services Program has been very beneficial for the Borough of Atlantic Highlands. This partnership program has assisted our municipality over the past twelve months on several occasions,” said Lori Hohenleitner, Mayor of Atlantic Highlands. “The Monmouth County Shared Service Program is of tremendous value to the Borough of Atlantic Highlands, which enables the municipality to have backup and contingency plans for many day-to-day operations.”

“I would like to thank Mayor Hohenleitner for fostering the partnership between the County and Atlantic Highlands, and I look forward to working with the Borough for years to come,” said Director Arnone. The Monmouth County Office of Shared Services can be reached by phone at 732577-2925 or email at sharedservices@ co.monmouth.nj.us. For more information about Monmouth County Shared Services and agreements, go to visitmonmouth.com.

Howell Elks Presents Elvis Show

HOWELL – Howell Elks Lodge presents Elvis Show on January 3 staring Evan Mills as Elvis. The life and times and music of Elvis. Tickets are $15 and doors open of 7 p.m. Bring your own snacks. Call 732-8042499 for reservations.

KIDS COLORING RAFFLE

Please mail all artwork to: Micromedia Publications – Coloring Contest, P.O. Box 521, Lakehurst, NJ 08733. We wish everyone good luck in the contest and happy coloring!

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Across 1 Katy Perry hit with the lyric “Louder, louder than a lion”

5 Laid-back sort 10 Arkin of “Argo” 14 Penny-__: trivial

15 17-syllable poem

16 One-third of a 15-Across

17 Salty expanses

18 Elizabeth of “WandaVision”

19 Starring role

20 *Saint Bernard statue made entirely from sourdough?

23 “I need details!”

24 Chinese philosophy founded by Laotzu

28 Many, informally 32 Big name in little trucks

33 Toward the stern 36 *Special occasions that call for braided loaves?

39 “Evil Woman” rock

Underway, to Sher-

41 Health ins. choice 42 *Improvements to a cake recipe?

46 Sundial X 47 Pokes (around)

48 R&B singer known for his use of Auto-Tune

50 Odors 52 Wanders

56 Any of the answers to this puzzle’s starred clues?

61 CrossFit aftermath

64 Go gaga over

65 Wolfe who first appeared in the novel “Fer-de-Lance”

66 Possible source of DNA evidence

67 One taking a spin on a helicopter? 68 Cogito __ sum

Upper limbs

70 Supreme Court Justice Kagan 71 Blended family prefix Down 1 Workshop files 2 Get the better of 3 Arcade pioneer 4 Put up on eBay, say 5 Son of Odin

6 Angela Bassett’s alma mater

7 Home of a much-photographed tower

8 Scraped (out)

9 Donut-shaped cake

10 “No problems here!”

11 Fib

12 Actress de Armas

13 Rod and Todd’s dad on “The Simpsons”

21 Coalition

22 Solemn pledge

25 Ill-suited

26 Zoom alternative

27 Bricklayer

29 “__ she blows!”

30 Out of danger 31 Up in the air

33 Health insurance giant

34 Elevator stop 35 Upper body

37 In the __: informed

38 Gillette razor

43 Moderates

44 Biblical twin of Jacob

45 Muddy spot

49 Unclaimed 51 Trap

53 Stave off

54 Join the flow of traffic

55 Poke around 57 Megastar

58 Short message

59 1982 Disney scifi film

60 Mother of Ares

61 Clicking sound?

62 Sedan, e.g.

63 “That guy?”

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ARIES (March 21-April 19) : You may prioritize sending season’s greetings in the form of phone calls or gifts. Reach out to clients with last-minute reminders. A bit of charm and holiday cheer could help things run smoothly while making a big difference.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20): When you help someone else cross the river, you reach the other side too. The more you help other people the more you help yourself. You might feel inspired to act generously during this season filled with a festival of lights.

GEMINI (May 21-June 20): Take compliments with great appreciation. Sometimes unsuspecting statements may contain a major confidence boost. Consider focusing on winning in the professional world and leave decisions about romance for another day.

CANCER (June 21-July 22): Peer pressure may be a challenge you must meet. With the holidays approaching, you might find yourself attending more social gatherings than you’d initially thought. Some matters, however, might be a top priority and can’t be ignored.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): Expressed your enthusiasm for physical activities? You might be the one asked to help move furniture or use a hammer to hang decorations with care. Be prepared for frequent requests for help and assistance in the coming week.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): You are your own best critic. If you have been unprepared in the past, you might have an opportunity to do better this time around. Put your best foot forward when dealing with your loved ones and handling any existing responsibilities.

FOR THE WEEK OF DEC 21 - DEC 27

BY JERALDINE SAUNDERS

OMARR’S ASTROLOGICAL FORECAST

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): It’s the thought that counts. If you want to impress others, focusing on someone’s needs may be much better than just giving money or gifts. In the coming week, you might tune into what your partner truly desires from your relationship.

SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): Allow someone to showcase their newfound attitude. Someone seeking to make amends might need a chance to show their generosity. Let the pieces fall into place when it comes to the budget or investments. Trust your truest instincts to guide you.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): Take accountability for the part you play. There may be an opportunity to demonstrate your loyalty and commitment. Keeping confidential information under wraps may prove that you can be completely trusted to keep a secret.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): The holiday spirit could find its way into your wallet. Don’t be surprised if you have an urge to be more generous this week. It’s not worth getting upset with those who have different goals or envision alternative outcomes than you do.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): It may be possible that you will wonder where the money went after a shopping spree. As the week progresses, your professional skills could come in handy. Consider checking in with your goals before relaxing during the holidays.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): A holiday outing might be just what you need to lift your spirits. Explore new activities to invite in some holiday cheer. Remember, it’s not the opinions of others that matter most, but the judgment of the person you see in the mirror.

A TWO-PART COOK UNLOCKS LAYERS OF EARTHY SWEETNESS IN THIS HUMBLE TUBER

By America’s Test Kitchen

Sweet potatoes present certain advantages over regular potatoes when it comes to mashing: They contain more moisture, less starch, and smaller starch granules, so they cook up smooth and creamy. The only problem is that their looser structure absorbs more moisture during a boil, waterlogging the potatoes and diluting their flavor. We cooked the potatoes twice to counteract that dilution. After boiling, we placed the potato pieces in a pot and stirred them over medium heat for about 7 minutes. This drove off 12% of the potatoes’ weight and made them taste intensely earthysweet. Because the flavor was so complex, we needed only to add salt and a few tablespoons of butter to complete the dish.

BEST MASHED SWEET POTATOES

Serves 4 to 6

2 pounds sweet potatoes, halved lengthwise, and sliced 1/4 inch thick 3 tablespoons unsalted

butter, cut into 1/2-inch pieces

1/4 teaspoon table salt

1. Bring 6 cups water to boil in a large saucepan over high heat. Add sweet potatoes. Return water to boil, then reduce heat to medium-low and simmer, covered, until paring knife meets no resistance when slipped into center of potatoes, about 12 minutes.

2. Drain potatoes and return them to saucepan. Place over medium heat and cook, stirring frequently, for 7 minutes, adjusting heat as necessary to prevent any starches on bottom of saucepan from getting too brown. (Steady stream of steam should continuously escape from saucepan. Potatoes will become a coarse mash.)

3. Off heat, add butter and salt. Whisk until butter is fully incorporated and potatoes are creamy and mostly smooth, with rice grain-sized bits of potato interspersed throughout, about 1 minute, being sure to scrape edges of saucepan. Season with salt and extra butter to taste, and serve.