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Kathleen ‘Kit’ Broder, first grandchild of the Broder family, is an avid pasta eater and Italian food enthusiast! Kit was also born with Down syndrome. It’s our goal to celebrate Kit and all children in the Down syndrome community.
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TOYS! Our kids tested 125 toys. Dive into our top picks for the BEST holiday gift ideas!
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Twins Seraphina and Jacob, 3, of Bloomington
Photo by Tracy Walsh
Mix and match Spend winter break creating rockets, dragons, jewelry and more with these crafty presents.
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Stocking stuffers These little gifts bring the fun in small packages.
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22 #ADULTING
Pick and choose
Skating lessons
We’ve got all the best toys, but the best gift is you.
Learning how to navigate the ice taught me how to get back up.
12 CHATTER
24 ASK THE PEDIATRICIAN
Fourth graders get free lift tickets all winter with this special pass.
Toddlers are exceptionally prone to this symptom of infection.
Ski free!
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Holiday CALE N DAR
Cough it out
14 BUMP, BIRTH AND BABY
Jellycat love
Not all baby gifts are created equal. Try these best bets. 16 THE UNCENSORED TODDLER
26 NANA & MAMA
Can money buy happiness? Yes, sort of, sometimes.
Follow these tips for connecting with grandparents from afar.
18 SCHOOL DAYS
28 IN THE KITCHEN
Fight back with winter self-care strategies, including light therapy.
This slow-cooker spiced cider relies on cinnamon and citrus!
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58 FROM OUR READERS
Why did I allow my son to grow his hair out until age 31⁄2?
Winter is coming. And these kids seem just fine with that.
Treat yo self
Don’t get SAD
Long-haired boy
Long distance
& About 52 Out CA L E N DA R
Mull it over
Snow buddies
About our cover kid Name: Mia Age: 4 City: Minneapolis Parents: Trisha and Tim Farrow Sibling: Madden, 2 Personality: Kind-hearted, thoughtful, sensitive, joyful and loving! Favorite toys: Dollhouse, Barbies and babies Favorite books: Princess Penelope Pineapple and I Like Myself Favorite activities: Playing dress-up, playing house with her little brother and coloring/ drawing with markers Favorite foods: Strawberries, tomatoes, noodles Photos by Tracy Walsh / tracywalshphoto.com
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Watch out! “M
om, watch me!” “MOM! Come here.” “Watch me! Watch me!” “Mom, mom, mom, mom, MOM.” When I hear this — as many of us parents so often do — I sometimes want to scream: “WHAAAAAT!?” It always seems to happen the second I’ve just started something or when I’m just about done with something (but not quite) or when I’m just TIRED. This is why it’s so tempting to plunk our kids in front of electronic devices — just so we can have a few seconds to use the bathroom alone or load the dishwasher in silence. Right? Maybe it’s also why parents are so desperately in Photo by Tracy Walsh / tracywalshphoto.com search of toys — especially this time of year — to “engage” our kids, which is to say “engross” or “keep them occupied without adult intervention.” Well, let me tell you, this month’s magazine, our annual Toy Issue, is packed with toys that will keep your children out of your hair (at least for a little while) without the need for screens. How did we choose toys? Well, we didn’t. We enlisted a team of 20 crazy-eyed humans age 0 to 10 to pick and choose and try out more than 125 toys, games and crafts. Our toy picks came from national manufacturers (who let us order the ones we thought we’d like) as well as local toy stores, where we shopped around and talked to local buyers who really know their stuff. I must admit, after doing this for five years, I’ve become pretty choosy (and pretty jaded), but it never fails: Every year I’m amazed at what toy companies have come up with to add fun, whimsy, educational value and just insane cuteness to the lives of our families. I hope you have some fun with this issue and all the playthings we’ve trialed and photographed, too, with help from Tracy Walsh, the amazing Maple Grove photographer who coaxed smiles out of the most reluctant kids. (Where was that “WATCH ME!” spirit when the camera came out?) Also, remember, these are just ideas — if you need them. Don’t feel you have to buy a single thing shown on these pages. After all, rampant consumerism isn’t exactly known for yielding the most well-rounded children. What our kids really want — whether they have a brand-new toy from Santa in their hands or a stick from the backyard — is for us to be with them, to “watch.” As our School Days columnist so wisely says in this issue: “A calm and present mother baking cookies, playing a game, reading a book or putting together a puzzle with her child will likely be a more valued gift than a frazzled mother offering her child an expensive toy.” Happy shopping!
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The annual Circus of the Heart event by MN Adopt celebrates foster care and adoption and is open to the public.
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Ski for free The Minnesota Ski Areas Association is again offering a statewide passport program that provides every fourth grader the opportunity to ski for free. A $24.95 fee covers printing and shipping of the photo ID and entitles fourth graders to a minimum of two free lift tickets at 18 Minnesota ski resorts (that’s a minimum of 36 tickets), including not only close-by options such as Hyland Hills, Buck Hill, Wild Mountain and Afton Alps, but also farther-flung options such as Welch Village, Spirit Mountain, Lutsen Mountains and many others. Equipment rental fees are not included. Learn more at skiandboardmn.com.
Jen Wittes
BUMP, BIRTH AND BABY
Baby gifting Delight Baby’s dad with: ⊲ Game-day gear: Get Baby’s first teamspirit jersey from kidfanatics.com. Adorable, useful (they even have jammies) — and sure to become a weird superstition for Baby’s parents. THAT’S why the Vikes lost! You forgot the onesie! Fanatics carries offerings for all major sports leagues, NASCAR and even soccer!
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ho’s this gift really for? That’s a good question — and more than valid when it comes to selecting a gift for Baby. If you’re a well-meaning auntie or family friend, you have the parents to please (hint — nothing resembling a weapon, no candy, no convulsing, giggling, furry red Elmo chairs). If you’re the parent in question, you want nothing short of making your baby’s heart sing! We have gifting suggestions for both scenarios and invite you to take them with a grain of salt. Keep in mind that the contents of your box may be thrown aside by Baby in favor of the box, which can easily become a toy on its own. (And keep in mind that the novelty of opening gifts might be lost on Baby completely.)
Delight Baby’s mom with: ⊲ BirdRock Baby moccasins: These genuine leather baby shoes (pictured above) are developmentally
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appropriate for new crawlers and walkers. They’re cute, affordable ($20–$25), durable (lifetime guarantee) and come in a variety of styles and colors. Best part? The folks at BirdRock have partnered with the Minnesota-based charity Feed My Starving Children. For every item sold, they donate one day of food to one child in need. ⊲ Minnesota Zoo membership: Our sprawling, conservation-friendly zoo is a happening place year round, boasting fun things for Baby to see through all four seasons. Favoring the gift of experience for the typical “too much stuff ” American family? This gives Baby and her caregivers a year of outings at the zoo!
Keep in mind that the novelty of opening gifts might be lost on Baby completely.
⊲ Rockabye Baby: Available on iTunes, CD and even vinyl, man, this extensive series presents lullaby versions of EVERYTHING! Radiohead, The Clash, The Beatles, The White Stripes, Lady Gaga, Sublime, even Robin Thicke’s Blurred Lines. Stay cool while you sign the loan for that minivan — and keep Baby mellow for the ride. If you’re looking to avoid choosing the actual artist, you can find a digital download card gift package ($13.98) at rockabyebabymusic.com, where you can see how every album features a teddy-bear spoof of the original cover art.
Delight Baby with: ⊲⊲Jellycats: Attaching to a favorite blanket or lovey is a developmental milestone for older babies, and Jellycats are the cutest, sweetest, softest stuffed animals around. Jellycat unicorns, foxes, bunnies, octopi and sheep (and more) are well made and well loved. Some characters even come with matching board books. Bonus: Jellycat originated in London, but its headquarters are now in Minneapolis! EXERCISE PREGNANCY STUDY The University of Minnesota is seeking women who are currently less than 20 weeks pregnant to participate in a research study examining the effect of exercise and wellness on mood following childbirth.
La Universidad de Minnesota está buscando mujeres con menos de 20 semanas de embarazo para participar en el estudio de investigación que examina los efectos del ejercicio y la salud del estado de ánimo posterior al parto
• Program delivered to you via the mail and phone
• Programa ejecutado vía correo o teléfono
• Must be 18 years of age or older
• Debe ser mayor o igual a 18 años de edad
• Must not currently exercise regularly
• No debe hacer ejercicio regularmente
• Must not take antidepressants
• No debe tomar antidepresivos
• You will receive $100 & a FitBit for your time (you will be allowed to keep the FitBit after the study is over)
• Usted recibirá $100 y un FitBit por su tiempo (será permitido quedarse con el FitBit después de la culminación del estudio)
• Program can be delivered in English or Spanish
• Debe considerarse de bajos ingresos, lo cual se define como:
• Must be considered low-income, defined as:
⊲⊲Cloud B Twilight animals: More than your average nightlight, these little buddies display wonder-full, calming constellations on the walls and ceiling — perfect for soothing Baby or for a little indoor stargazing. This is a gift that can grow with Baby well into the toddler years.
ESTUDIO SOBRE EL EJERCICIO DURANTE EL EMBARAZO
- Enrollment in any government assisted program (e.g., WIC, SNAP) AND/OR - Annual income that is considered low (less than $45,510 for a family of four, less than $30,044 for a family of two, and less than $22,311 if single). English: Call or TEXT to 612-345-0325 or mompro@umn.edu to see if you qualify for this research study.
- Inscripta en cualquier programa asistencial del gobierno (por ejemplo, WIC, SNAP) Y/O - Ingresos anuales considerados como bajos (menos de $ 45,510 para una familia de cuatro, menos de $ 30,044 para una familia de dos y menos de $ 22,311 si es soltera). Español: Llamada o TEXTO 612-237-1004 o mompro@umn.edu para ver si califica para éste estudio.
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THE UNCENSORED TODDLER
The power of retail therapy “O
h boy, I got such cute outfits today! What else can I need?” — Aline Kominsky-Crumb, poking fun at herself in her comic Of What Use Is a Bunch? The idea of “retail therapy” — shopping as a balm to soothe the soul — chafes against everything I like to think I stand for. “Look at those conformist robots!” I scoff to myself as I observe the squads of 20-somethings exiting the Uptown Victoria’s Secret with their overpriced underthings. But my disgust is pure projection. When my life opens up before me like a meaningless void, do I face it head on, with courage and strength? Or do I grab my credit card and head for the clearance room at the nearest Schuler Shoes? As the parent of small children, sometimes I want a quick fix for my angst. And whether it’s a new pair of red suede boots or 7 pounds of secondhand clothing at the “buy it in bulk” Goodwill, I’ve come to believe what you’re not supposed to believe — that money can buy happiness (at least, fleeting happiness). Once I came to terms with this uncomfortable truth, I wanted to explore the possibilities. What mood-boosting things do other parents spend their money on? I posed this question to a bunch of friends and my favorite Facebook “mom group.” A variety of themes emerged:
TODDLER STUFF
Consumable indulgence “I find great joy in the ‘odds and ends’ basket at the cheese counter. My partner isn’t into fancy cheese, so I get myself mini cheeses and make a fancy cheese board and open a bottle of decent wine at home.” — Michaelann, Minneapolis Honorable mentions: Fancy coffee makers, fancy coffee drinks, wine.
Beautification “Lip balms. Tinted lip balms. I buy and lose them on a constant basis, but it’s the first thing I search for in my purse when I want to feel put together.” — Molly, Minneapolis
“Earrings at Patina or I Like You in Minneapolis! A great pair of earrings makes me feel like I finished my outfit on the most sluggish of days.” — Ariane, Minneapolis Honorable mentions: Haircuts/color, tattoos, nail polish.
Space enhancements “After my divorce, I spent a lot of time making my space exactly how I wanted it to be. I would spend my solo afternoon perusing SouthSide Vintage (Minneapolis). It made me feel as though I had some control over my life amidst a divorce that made me feel so out of control.” — Johannah, Minneapolis
Veggie tots
Green Giant’s line of Veggie Swap-Ins have been around for a while now, but we’re loving all the new items in the frozen section, including spiralized and riced veggies, cauliflower pizza crusts and — super kid friendly — veggie tots! Our panel of taste-testers tried three varieties of tots and we liked them all — broccoli, broccoli-cheese and cauliflower, which contain fewer calories, carbs and grams of fat than potato tots, and taste like mini casseroles to boot. greengiant.com • $3.99
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As the parent of small children, sometimes I want a quick fix for my angst. “I find creating a calm, beautiful space to be very therapeutic, so my favorite thing to do when I’m alone is to get something for the house. Getting some decent curtain rods or a nice rug can change the tone of a space, and I like to hunt until I find the perfect thing at the right price. There is a sense of pride and satisfaction when you find the finishing touches to a room you’ve been working on for a while — and we aren’t the type of people who can decorate all at once so this last bit is kind of a big deal.” — Tianna, Minneapolis Honorable mentions: Plants, new sheets.
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Solitude “I take myself out for a giant slice of tres leche and a LaCroix from Cafe Latte. Or I’ll take myself on a date to Shamrocks for a burger and a beer, and extra bleu cheese for my fries. I guess I buy myself solo dates.” — Lauren, St. Paul “My best ‘treat yo self’ has been learning to go to the movies by myself. It was a little scary at first, but was dying for a break, so I went. Now there is nothing more relaxing than a quiet, cool movie theater and a snack that I don’t have to share with anyone else! Worth it every single time.” — Stace, Minneapolis “L’Occitane nourishing hand cream, a slice of the turtle or chocolate-chocolate cake at Cafe Latte and a fresh new book. Then I find an amazing corner in a cafe (in winter) or outdoor seating somewhere amazing like W.A. Frost in the summer, and I have my own date.” — Devon, Lakeville What’s your favorite way to — within reason — buy some therapeutic happiness? Shannon Keough lives in St. Paul with her husband and two children. Send questions or comments to skeough@mnparent.com. mnparent.com • November 2018
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How to beat the winter blues
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t’s November, parenting comrades! Bring on the increased darkness, the snow and the cold and the onset of the holiday craziness. It’s time for everything to get … HARDER! Yee-hah! I wish I were kidding. But I’m not. These are just some of the challenges that come with this hectic time of year and the seasonal shift to winter in Minnesota. It is what it is, folks. But we don’t have to let these stresses get the best of us. Consider these proactive strategies — which have actually worked for me — to navigate some of the challenges of the season ahead:
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Increased darkness Seasonal mood shifts aren’t uncommon in our geographical region and some of us can experience the “winter blues” or, in more intense cases, SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder). November and December have always been harder months for me, but it took me several years to really understand how clearly my symptoms were associated with the increased darkness in late fall and winter. When I did, however, it was quite liberating to know what I was experiencing didn’t have to be my normal. To help offset symptoms of the winter blues, I take vitamin D and omega-3 supple-
ments. I also to try to get as much exposure to natural light during the day as I can. (All of these things can help regulate mood by increasing serotonin levels in the brain.) I also use a therapy light. I keep it on my desk in my classroom and I try to get the recommended 30 minutes of exposure in the morning while I’m working on my computer. It’s been empowering to take some control of my well-being and to gain some understanding of why I was feeling the way I was, and these small changes have been effective.
Snow and cold It can be tempting to hunker down and hibernate all winter.
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Therapy lamp
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But studies show spending time outside each day can help both children and adults boost creativity and focus, while improving mood and self-esteem. I suggest trying out some winter sports and activities you and your family can enjoy together outdoors. In our family, we enjoy both Nordic and downhill skiing. Invest in good winter gear so everyone is warm, dry and comfortable. (See links to my gear recommendations for families at mnparent.com/thrive.) Try to find some indoor activities and/or events you can enjoy as a family, such as a movie night or board game night scheduled into the rhythm of your week. Our family likes to attend high school sporting events, which are fun to watch and also allow for some social interaction.
Holiday craziness The hustle and bustle associated with the holiday season can be overwhelming, due to financial issues, lack of time, difficulty adhering to healthy habits, commercialism and the pressure to get and give gifts. We can be proactive by thinking about what stresses us out about the holiday season in advance, and then creating some plans of action to offset potential stressors. Here are the strategies I would like to put into action this year: ⊲ Know your limitations. You might not be able to attend every party/ event/activity while managing all of your other responsibilities. You might not be able to please everyone.
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⊲ Sleep and eat healthy food. Make sure you (and your children) get enough sleep — and that everyone in your family has opportunity for some downtime each day. Eat fruits and vegetables. Exercise. When you start feeling stressed, be reflective to see if you’re taking care of yourself. If you’re not, make some changes.
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⊲ Seek your own joy. Just because someone else does something, it doesn’t mean you have to do it. Example: You do NOT need to orchestrate a Pinterest-worthy daily Elf on the Shelf visit to your house — unless it brings you joy. ⊲ Less can be more. Focus more on giving positive experiences rather than giving into the commercialism associated with the holidays. A calm and present mother baking cookies, playing a game, reading a book or putting together a puzzle with her child will likely be a more valued gift than a frazzled mother offering her child an expensive toy. The winter months are coming, like it or not. Join me in my efforts to apply proactive stress-management strategies, so we can all make the most of the season ahead! Megan Devine is an elementary school teacher who lives with her husband and four school-age children in Northeastern Minnesota. She blogs at kidsandeggs.com.
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His first (gulp) haircut! M
y 3½-year-old son had long hair up until about a week ago. Long as in, halfway down his back. It capitalized on this laidback surfer vibe he seems to give off, and more than one person has called him “Spicoli.” Why did I allow it to grow so long? A bunch of reasons — stubbornness, lack of time, not wanting to deal with a possible Traumatic Incident. And while I’ve become slightly more amenable to my children getting older, I know as soon as those first strands hit the floor, my child crosses some amorphous line in the time-space continuum and becomes a little person, rather than a baby. But I also allowed it because he liked it. And he should like it. He naturally grows the most gorgeous, glossy platinum blonde hair, with perfect lowlights. Do you know how much a person must spend each year to maintain that kind of color? As a reformed bleach addict, I can tell
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you, it’s a lot, if you want it done right. Also — and I ask this in the most diplomatic way — who cares? I tell you what: A lot of people care. A LOT of people asked me why I didn’t cut his hair. A lot of people gave me trying-tobe-neutral looks when I explained that, no, he’s a boy, when they called him a “she,” or referred to him as Ruby’s “sister.” Or there was the guy who saw our family out for a walk recently, and couldn’t see the baby’s face through the stroller shade. He hollered across the street at us: “Hope you got a boy in that stroller!” WHAT? What does that even mean? And what did my daughter just hear you say? Look, I’m not immune — I have accidentally mis-gendered babies before, out loud or silently. It’s not so much that I was offended that someone would do such a thing to my son — though I was often flummoxed when all of his other “tells” were clearly male.
I’m not here to change him and his wonderfully wide array of likes and dislikes. No way. And I don’t think he even cares. (I asked.) He just likes what he likes, which includes his deep love for momos (construction vehicles), wee-woos (fire trucks, police cars), the color pink, fancy accessories, nail polish and cooking. I’m not here to change him and his wonderfully wide array of likes and dislikes for someone else’s bulleted, easy-categorization gender checklist. No way. But the day came when we asked him if he wanted to cut his hair, and he said he was interested, but nervous. He agreed to go, as long as it could be with Daddy’s barber. The barber made an
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exception to his age-cutoff policy and, suddenly, there Remy was, whisked into the salon chair, atop a booster seat, with the cape around his neck. It happened faster than I expected: A few quick snips, a zhuzh of product, and sitting before me was a little boy, his wide green eyes even wider as he recognized all his facial planes in the mirror. My boy had just discovered the joy of the salon, and a reckoning with his own transformation. I didn’t cry. I had expected to. I guess I’m growing up, too. Katie Dohman lives in West St. Paul with her three kids, three pets and one husband. She loves them all a lot, which is good, because she can’t remember the last time she slept the whole night through.
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Laura Ramsborg
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Learning to fall “Y
ou aren’t from Minnesota, are you?” This was the first question my kind, well-intentioned instructor asked after I hobbled across the ice for my first adult skating lesson. I was born in Wisconsin, which may explain why I’m 40 years old and only just now learning to ice skate — or you might say — learning how to fall. On my drive to the rink for that first lesson, I was beyond scared. We’re talking heart-racing, palms-sweating, short-of-breath kind of terror. My fear was amplified when I saw the other skaters in my Adult Basics class gliding across the ice toward our instructor and even skating backwards. There had to be a mistake. Maybe I had signed up for the wrong class? I wasn’t sure I could stand up on ice skates — much less move myself across the rink to our class’s meeting spot. My terror was approaching full panic. At this point, you may wonder, why would I choose to subject myself to this ordeal?
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On my drive to the rink for that first lesson, I was beyond scared. We’re talking heart-racing, palmssweating, short-ofbreath kind of terror. Joining the family I didn’t play any team sports growing up. Sure, as an adult, I enjoy biking, yoga and running, but I have no background in skating, skiing or rollerblading. Everyone in my family can ice skate, except for me and my 1-year-old. My husband (a native Minnesotan) is poetry in motion when he skates. He put our other two daughters in ice skates shortly after they learned to walk. And then there’s Mama. This Mama finally decided to learn how to skate so I could join my family on the ice. Plus, as humbling as it is, it’s important for our kids to see us grownups grapple with learning something new and witness (one hopes) our coping and perseverance. Luckily, an empathetic class member
took pity on me. She skated beside me/ held me up and guided me across the rink to meet our instructor, who assured me I was, indeed, in the correct class because adult classes do span a range of abilities. The first thing I needed to learn was how to fall. Really. My instructor demonstrated the proper way to fall and then we practiced together. As an adult learner, she explained, I should try to fall forward and lower my body close to the ice, to reduce the impact from a fall’s force. By the end of the first class, I had successfully practiced falling many times, and had even progressed to marching on the ice. In fact, I was the only skater left on the ice when my instructor needed to (gently) ask me to leave before the Zamboni ran me over.
Going just a bit too far I’d love to be able to report that I mastered ice skating in my seven-week course, or at least that I was able to glide competently without posing danger to myself or fellow skaters. But that’s not exactly what happened. By my third lesson, I was feeling much more confident and wanted to push ahead. I really wanted to pass the Adult Basics course, which would signify proficiency on the ice. To pass, I had to do swizzles, which required more speed. So I pushed it. I skated faster than ever, pushing into a glide across the ice. And it was amazing. Until it wasn’t. I lost my balance, fell backward and hit the ice with my left arm fully extended and my elbow locked. It happened in a blur. There was no time to lean forward or fall close to the ice. I failed at my learning-
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to-fall basics. But I picked myself, my throbbing elbow and my bruised ego off the ice, and I skated the final two laps of our lesson. Then I visited my local orthopedic specialist for an X-ray. The final diagnosis? Possibly a radial head fracture, or a bone bruise, or a lot of swelling. In short, limited activity for the next six to seven weeks, lots of icing and wearing a sling as needed. (This wasn’t a simple thing for a mother of three!)
I’m not there — yet But here’s the lasting impact (excuse the pun): I’m not terrified to try skating anymore. Maybe that seems backward, but for me, injuring myself was the scariest possibility. Yet, I gave it my all, I ended up injuring myself and it was not the end of the world. I healed, I’m fine and I can try skating again. And I will. Learning to fall might be the most important lesson in skating, but for me, getting back up and trying again goes right along with it. As my daughters would remind me, I’m not a skater yet. That little word carries all the possibility in the world. Laura Ramsborg lives in Bloomington with her husband, three daughters and Labrador retriever. Find her @MsRamsborgReads or ramsborgwrites@gmail.com.
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Dr. Gigi Chawla
Why can’t my kid stop hacking? My toddler’s been coughing for five days, mostly in the morning and at night, but has no other symptoms. Why? Coughing is the end result of many clinical situations — infection fallout, anatomic concerns, allergic/ reactive processes or a combination of these issues. For toddlers, the most common reason is undoubtedly infectious. Toddlers explore their environments through touching and inadvertently tasting everything by putting their fingers in their mouths. Hand washing cannot occur frequently enough to compensate for the number of exposures to viruses or bacteria that
occur with this normal inquisitiveness. Additionally, toddlers’ immune systems are often experiencing illnesses for the first time. Their bodies are learning immune responses to more quickly react to illnesses in the future. Often these first exposures result in more protracted symptoms as their bodies are learning to fight off infection. Furthermore, toddlers’ interactions with other toddlers, in daycare or other child environments, are also a source of infection propagation. Toddlers of course don’t always cover their noses and mouths when coughing. Indeed, toddlers have little regard for personal space, frequently coughing on top of one another or holding hands and inadvertently sharing mucus. They often
use the back of their hands to wipe their runny noses and mucus off their faces and then touch surfaces. As respiratory infections create mucus day and night, pooling at the back of the nose and mouth occurs when kids are sleeping. Coughing helps clear the pooled mucus and can sound deep or coarse, but clears readily. Gastroesophageal reflux (stomach acid that comes up toward the mouth with heartburn) can happen to toddlers, too. This often leads to coughing when lying down, in the morning and at night, but is typically a more longstanding issue, not a five-day problem. From an allergic/reactive standpoint, mucus production from seasonal allergies can come on quickly and persist over five days, but toddlers rarely experience this. Seasonal allergies usually need multiple seasons of exposure to generate an immune response of runny nose, pooling of mucus and cough. Because coughing is so often an infectious issue, coughing children should be out of daycare as much as possible to prevent spread of illness.
What’s the deal with e-cigarettes? E-cigarette use, such as JUULing, has unfortunately gained popularity with teenagers. There are many factors contributing to this popularity, including fruity flavors, social media positioning e-cigarettes in a glamorous light and the ease of secretly hiding them due to the lack of smoke and the discreet design of the devices.
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Also known as vaping, using e-cigarettes produces visible vapor, but no smelly smoke. Though e-cigarettes don’t have tar or carbon monoxide, which have been implicated in cancers of the mouth, throat and lungs, they represent a gateway to cigarette use. The nicotine in these devices is highly addictive and under-recognized. For example, the amount of nicotine in a full pack of 20 cigarettes is equivalent to one pod of some brands of e-cigarettes. Nicotine causes increases in heart rate and blood pressure, suppresses appetite and affects the brain’s biochemical system to induce craving and addiction. The addictive potential of nicotine has been compared to heroin. Since children and teenagers are still growing and developing, exposing their growing bodies and brains to the effects of nicotine has lifelong implications. It is critically important that parents talk with kids about e-cigarettes and the risk of experimental use quickly becoming an addiction due to the powerful nature of nicotine. Dr. Gigi Chawla is a board-certified pediatrician and the chief of general pediatrics at Children’s Minnesota.
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Mary Rose and Laura NANA & MAMA
Staying in touch MAMA: We live 1,000 miles away from my parents. When our son was born, I wasn’t sure how the distance might affect his relationship with his grandparents. But over the past 2.5 years we’ve developed a system that’s worked really well to bridge the gap as much as possible. Although Kellan sees my parents in person only once every few months, he knows exactly who they are and doesn’t take any time to warm up during in-person visits. He’s still talking about his favorite parts of our last visit (three months ago) and planning for what he wants to do with everyone when we get together over Christmas. Careful planning and technology have been the two biggest factors in helping to ensure the distance isn’t a divide for our family. The frequency and type of communication and visits may vary for your family,
but below are some strategies we’ve found helpful in our quest to stay in touch.
Connect digitally Set up an easy system for regularly sharing photos, texts and email messages, including: ⊲⊲Use a digital frame that can be updated wirelessly from anywhere in the world. ⊲⊲Set up a private shared photo album using apps such as Google Drive, iCloud or private photo-sharing apps such as 23Snaps. ⊲⊲Leverage the power of video conferencing by using FaceTime, Skype, Google Hangouts or other services. After you determine the platform, stick to a regular schedule if possible.
Plan in-person visits Try to agree on an in-person visit schedule as far in advance as possible — taking into account the ideal time between visits and how to make that happen with holidays, birthdays and/or vacations. This will help all family members budget PTO and finances accordingly. You can also give each other airline gift cards instead of other gifts, and/or check out credit cards with airline miles/rewards.
Careful planning and technology have been the two biggest factors in helping to ensure the distance isn’t a divide for our family. NANA: If I could have one superpower right now, I would choose teleporting. With two adult children and one grandson living in Denver, and my husband and I here in Minnesota, it wouldn’t matter that we live so far apart. But until scientists figure out how to teleport, or until we retire and move, our family will continue to search for creative ways to keep in touch over a long distance. Here’s what I find helps: ⊲⊲Videos and photos: These delights — which my daughter sends daily of my grandson via text — are priceless! His funny sayings and facial expressions make me laugh out loud. I turn on our digital photo album in the evening, which makes me feel closer to him since it can easily be updated with new photos from across the miles.
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⊲ Face time: We almost always connect on Sunday afternoons, working around naptime to make sure we see the little guy in action. This really helps Kellan remember who we are, and not be a stranger with his Nana and Papa when we reunite. ⊲ Texting during college: My son, who attends college in Denver, is extremely busy with school and work and doesn’t have much time for long phone conversations. Texting helps us keep up in between visits and calls. ⊲ Flexible job: I’m grateful to be working at a hospital that supports work/life balance, and I take full advantage of the flexibility. I can work four 10-hour days to create longer weekends for visits — and not have to use paid time off. ⊲ Flight costs: My husband gets the credit for finding the best deals on flights, and we’re always willing to fly at odd hours — early morning and late nights — to get the best prices. ⊲ Road trip: Once a year we take a road trip, and stay at least one night with my mother-in-law, who lives in Nebraska, conveniently located at the
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IN THE KITCHEN
Savor the flavors of autumn with this delicious recipe. You can even use a slow cooker to make it easy! Bonus: As the cider mulls, your house will smell fantastic — just the thing for a weekend treat or a tasty contribution to any holiday gathering.
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SUPER-EASY SPICED CIDER INGREDIENTS
1 gallon apple cider 4 whole cinnamon sticks ½ teaspoon ground nutmeg 1 tablespoon whole cloves 1-inch piece fresh ginger, sliced Peel of one orange Maple syrup or honey (optional) DIRECTIONS
Combine all the ingredients in a slow cooker. (To make it easier to remove the spices and orange peel, place them in a few layers of cheesecloth tied with a string to make a little bundle.) Heat on low for 8 hours, or on high for 4 hours, or until spices infuse the cider. The longer the spices cook, the stronger the spice flavor will be. Remove the spices before serving. Extra cider can be stored in an airtight container for up to two weeks in the fridge.
Source: Simple Green Meals: 100+ PlantPowered Recipes to Thrive from the Inside Out. Reprinted with permission. Copyright © 2018 by Jen Hansard. Photographs copyright © 2018 Lindsey Rose Johnson. Published by Rodale Books, an imprint of The Crown Publishing Group, a division of Penguin Random House.
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THE BEST NEW TOYS! Jonah, 3, of Minneapolis
We brought in a bumper crop of fun and educational playthings this year. Here’s what our kids liked the most. By Sarah Jackson
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SQUISHMALLOWS $14.99–$39.99 | 1 and up
Why we love it: Insanely soft, adorably designed and truly marshmallow-like in their squishiness, these super-snuggly stuffies proved irresistible to our testers. (Watch out, Beanie Boos!) Where to buy: Walgreens, Amazon, Five Below, Costco
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EXPLORE & MORE FOX XYLOPHONE $16 | 1 and up
Why we love it: This reinvented classic from Skip Hop isn’t just fun to pull around! It ensures you’ll never have to go hunting for a missing mallet again. Where to buy: Kohl’s
VTECH TURN AND LEARN DRIVER $14.99 | 6 months and up
Why we love it: Beep beep beep! A wide range of kid ages in our test found this imaginative toy engaging, thanks to two modes of play — music and driving — offering opportunities to learn the ups and downs of a musical scale, animal noises, forward/backward motions and more. Good to know: We love its take-anywhere size (11 inches wide) and its reasonable price. Two volume settings let you tone down the noise. Where to buy: BuyBuy Baby
EDUSHAPE STACKERS ‘N NESTERS $25.95 | 6 months and up
Why we love it: Our infant testers loved these textured nesting shapes, which can be made into a tower of blocks, stacked into a pyramid-like structure and, of course, nested neatly. Good to know: Because they aren’t traditional blocks, they’re much easier for little ones to pick up! Where to buy: Creative Kidstuff
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BANDANA BUDDIES $14.99 | 0 and up
Why we love it: This on-the-go toy/lovely/soother/teether series is a winner! Though the unicorn was the favorite during our test with one 6-month-old boy, there are tons of other characters that squeak, crinkle and more to keep Baby engaged. Good to know: The bandana teether detaches for Mom or Dad to wear around the wrist for quick access. Where to buy: Target
THE ITSY-BITSY SPIDER SOFT ACTIVITY BOOK $12.99 | 4 months and up
Why we love it: “Great size. Great stroller/ car/playmat toy. All over fun. LOVE,” wrote one mom, whose daughter (at left) chewed on the legs of this positively adorable spider during much of the test. We love the super-cute illustrations and the attached pieces that crinkle, stretch and lift to reveal hidden pictures. Lucy, 6 months, of Burnsville, with Nana Sheila
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Where to buy: ABC & Toy Zone
DIMPL
$13 | 6 months and up
Why we love it: All ages in our test (inlcuding adults) loved the colors, soft silicone feel and satisfying bubble-toggling action of this sensory toy. One tester mom said it best: “Amazing. Chewable. Fidgety.” Good to know: There’s a keychain version with two buttons called Simple Dimpl and a shapes/colors version called Dimpl Duo. Where to buy: Kiddywampus
BABY CAR
$15 | 6 months and up
Why we love it: Beloved wooden toymaker PlanToys creates playthings you might actually want to leave out when company comes over, including this flexible little fidget for babies that — we found during testing — won’t pinch fingers. “Great teether,” said one mom. “Tastes great!” Where to buy: Moss Envy
HUDSON GLOW RATTLE $25 | 0 and up
Why we love it: We don’t necessarily expect parents to splurge on this little gem, but what a perfect gift idea for expecting grandparents, friends and aunts and uncles! Lean the puppy’s green legs forward to see him glow green. Lean his red legs back and watch his spots glow red. His textured legs are just right for teething babies, and his soft rattling sound stimulates the senses. “Great size, easy to grab, kept her attention. Really fun!” said one tester mama. Where to buy: Creative Kidstuff
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LITTLE TYKES 3-IN-1 SPORTS ZONE $54.99 | ages 1 to 3
Why we love it: Our test kids were immediately drawn to this multi-faceted entertainer, featuring soccer, basketball and bowling. Special features include an adjustable-height basketball hoop, a light-up backboard that makes sounds when your kid makes a shot and more than 75 sounds and phrases. “Endless fun for a 3-year-old,” said one tester dad. Good to know: It weighs only 6 pounds and folds up for easy storage. Where to buy: BuyBuy Baby
SPIKE THE FINE MOTOR HEDGEHOG
$14.99 | 18 months and up
Why we love it: Kids get to help this little hedgehog regain his quills, which can all be stored inside his body for on-the-go fun, including lessons in counting, sorting and color-identification skills. Where to buy: Creative Kidstuff
KAOS SOCCER BALL $24.99 | 1 and up
Why we love it: This entire line of artsy soccer balls is gorgeous, just the thing to get kids interested in the game. Bonus: It won’t be so easy to lose these at practice! Where to buy: Hub Hobby
MAGNETIC MIX OR MATCH ANIMALS $29.99 | 2 and up
Why we love it: These magnetic animals proved popular among kids of all ages in our test. They loved putting them together in matching — and mismatching — formations, and you could see them learning spatial concepts in the process while also having whimsical fun. Win! Where to buy: ABC & Toy Zone
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SCOOP AND LEARN ICE CREAM CART $39.99 | 2 and up
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Why we love it: This interactive toy from Leap Frog is BEYOND cute, yes. But we parents — and the kids — loved the magnetic ice cream scooper that can sense what flavors you’re scooping! This rolling little cutie encourages stacking, ordering, counting and imaginative play, too. Where to buy: BuyBuy Baby
$49.99 | 3 and up
Why we love it: This sturdy, well-designed set features a train-station case that turns into a working tunnel. And, when it’s time to clean up, it’s a fun challenge trying to figure out how to fit all the pieces (38 in all) inside the station, which closes tightly with two stretchy bands on each side. Where to buy: Lakeshore Learning
FAIRY FRIENDS BEGINNER PUZZLE $15 | 3 and up
Why we love it: Petit Collage — an eco-friendly line of modern children’s decor, gifts and playthings — is killing it these days. And this is just one example, a delightful little puzzle with cute designs. Good to know: One mom said: “Background colors help you separate the four puzzles. Pieces have similar notches so they also fit together incorrectly.” Where to buy: Pacifier
SERVING SHAPES TEA SET $19.99 | 2 and up
Why we love it: We’d like to see this come down in price a bit, but it was a HIT with the kids. Each cup sits on a saucer with a corresponding shape/color/number. Bonus: All the pieces fit inside the teapot.
Madden, 2, of Minneapolis
Where to buy: ABC & Toy Zone Photo by Tracy Walsh
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GREEN TOYS CAR CARRIER $24.99 | 3 and up
Why we love it: This line of toys isn’t just made with 100 percent recycled plastic, it’s also popular with toy-testing kids. Thanks to its cool design, three miniature cars, two working ramps and detachable trailer, it was a top choice for our kids. Where to buy: ABC & Toy Zone
SERVIN’ UP FOOD TRUCK $69.99 | ages 1½ to 3
Why we love it: Who needs a play kitchen parked against the wall when you can have a food truck that allows you to serve up orders to others through a cute window? Parents and kids loved this taking-turns toy, including easy assembly (three cheers for handy sticker-installation notches and minimal screws) and tons of opportunities for pretend play, including a light-up grill, recycle bin, refrigerator, service bell and a cash register that magically reads menu cards. Good to know: There’s a steering wheel, a gear-shift and a key clicker, but no horn! Where to buy: BuyBuy Baby
MANIMOS
$49.99 | 3 and up
Why we love it: This heavy, floppy frog — weighing in at about 5 pounds — was strangely calming. He was really fun to hold, like a baby without the responsibility. Originally designed for children with ADHD, autism, anxiety and other disorders, Manimos can be placed on the shoulders, waist, thighs and/or stomach for 15 to 20 minutes to stimulate relaxation and/or concentration. Where to buy: Hub Hobby
JUMBO GLOW-IN-THEDARK MAGNATAB $35 | 3 and up
Why we love it: “You can draw in the dark,” said a 7-year-old tester. “This is the coolest.” Yep, Kid O’s addictive magnetic drawing tablets are now available in big, glow-in-thedark sizes. Using the magnetic stylus to pop individual beads to the surface, you can create shapes, letters and more. Where to buy: Creative Kidstuff
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SNAP & DESIGN MONSTER TRUCKS $29.99 | 3 and up
Why we love it: Our test kids enjoyed building colorful monster trucks by mixing this set’s truck bodies, wheels and accessories. But they LOVED pulling them back and watching them go even more. Where to buy: Lakeshore Learning
ROYAL KINGDOM ADVENTURE CASTLE $49.99 | 3 and up
Why we love it: One of our 3-year-old testers adored this sturdy toy and all its fantasy characters and props — a dragon, king, queen and wizard, plus guards, knights, flags and a drawbridge and dungeon door that actually works. Where to buy: Lakeshore Learning
SANTA FE SUPERCHIEF $49.99 | 3 and up
Why we love it: It’s hard to go wrong with kids and trains, but we like this set for its rail cars (which stay together well) and its 8 feet of track (made with 14 rail pieces), plus a station, a viaduct, a bridge column and a tunnel. Good to know: It’s got history, too: This USA Train Series Collectors’ Edition set was modeled after a diesel-electric model popular with Hollywood VIPs in the 1950s.
Maliya, 3, of Maple Grove
Photo by Tracy Walsh
Where to buy: Hub Hobby
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BOTLEY
$59.99 | 5 and up
Why we love it: “Watch Botley! I coded him to do this!” said our 10-year-old tester as this WallE-eyed robot rolled and pivoted across the floor. All the kids wanted a turn with this award-winning toy, which comes with a remote programmer, detachable robot arms and 42 coding cards. Good to know: It’s also available in a deluxe 77-piece set that’s full of fun accessories and obstacles to put in Botley’s path ($79.99). Where to buy: Hub Hobby
BRIK BUSTER $29.99 | 3 and up
Why we love it: Is it just us or has LEGO become all about big and expensive sets — rather than free building? (A simple green baseplate costs $7.99!) Ah, but we digress. Strictly Briks sets, which are LEGO-compatible (but not so driven by the minifig market), can help parents who are on a budget. (You can get four baseplates for $13.99.) Our test kids LOVED the colors — and many baseplates — of this DUPLO-like 133-piece set, which comes with a hammer to let kids see just how sturdy their creations are when put to the test. Where to buy: ABC & Toy Zone
LIL’ GLEEMERZ $24.99 | 5 and up
Why we love it: Do you really want a toy that farts? Well, your kid probably does. Our testers loved this responsive little lemur, who offers 100-plus reactions to specific stimuli, such as clapping, pinching its tail and petting its head from front to back. (Pet back to front and you get a “Pfttt.”) Settings include “hangout mode,” “light party mode” and “game mode.” Where to buy: Hub Hobby
CARRERA VW BEETLE
Seraphina, 3, of Bloomington
$59.99 | 6 and up
Why we love it: This FAST remote-control car was the toy our test kids fought over the most. And even though they accidentally drove it down a 1.5-story flight of concrete stairs TWICE, it just kept on working.
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Good to know: It comes with a rechargeable battery you refuel using a handy USB charger. Where to buy: Hub Hobby
GIANT INFLATABLE BOWLING GAME $36 | 4 and up
Why we love it: Are your kids actually going to “bowl” consistently with these huge pins and the giant ball? Well, probably not. But they’re going to LOVE using them in all sorts of other ways. They’ll bowl a bit, but then they’ll hit each other with the pins, body surf across the living room on the black ball and, finally, kick all the pieces down the hall. Despite all this, we highly recommend this set for fun, physical play indoors or out. Good to know: Keep in mind the bases of the pins are somewhat hard and can hurt if they hit you directly. Also, we recommend using an automatic pump to inflate all the pieces. Where to buy: Kiddywampus
Jacob, 3, of Bloomington
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DOOR PONG
SPEED STACKS COMPETITOR SET
Why we love it: Invented by a local kid — 11-year-old Alexander Xiong of Brooklyn Park — this awesome game installs easily in any doorway and allows you to play ping pong without an enormous table. Xiong was the winner of Fat Brain Toys’ national Kidventor competition in which kids age 6 to 13 compete for prizes — and eventually get their toys on the market.
Why we love it: Sport stacking, also known as cup stacking or speed stacking, is an individual and team sport. Yes, we said sport. Go online and see for yourself the astonishingly high speed at which kids and adults are able to “up stack” and “down stack” these specially designed lightweight cups. During home testing, our 10-year-old tester was immediately sucked in to the instructional videos and kept coming back to determinedly improve his skills.
$24.95 | 6 and up
Good to know: Our test kids enjoyed the pure novelty of a ping pong ball you don’t have to chase down over and over! Even when they smacked the ball so hard that it hit the ceiling and the door frame many times, no part of the toy broke. Other comments included: “Too fun! Genius. You can take it anywhere. Awesome,” and “Easy. Fun. Teaches ‘gentle touch.’”
$44.99 | 5 and up
Good to know: This set includes 12 cups, a timer that’s accurate to 1/1000th of a second — for real — and an integrated stack mat. Where to buy: Amazon.com
Where to buy: ABC & Toy Zone (You can meet the inventor on Nov. 10 at this store!)
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THE BEST NEW TOYS! TURING TUMBLE $69.99 | 8 and up
Why we love it: It’s Plinko meets marble track meets pinball! And it’s a local invention from Paul and Alyssa Boswell, a former U of M professor and a former high school teacher from Shoreview, who wanted to demystify computers for their three kids. Using ramps, gear bits, interceptors and more, players learn to build mechanical computers, powered by marbles, to solve a series of logic puzzles “to rescue Alia the space engineer from a forgotten planet” — all explained in a 100-page activity booklet/comic book. Good to know: It’s named after British mathematician Alan Turing, who pioneered the concept of the modern computer. Where to buy: ABC & Toy Zone and Hub Hobby
FLIPSIDE
$19.99 | 8 and up
Why we love it: Take Simon Says and give it 360 degrees of clicking and twisting, and you’ve got this fun new toy, which offers Speed Mode, Multiplayer Mode, Level Mode or Memory Mode. Good to know: It can be tricky a first to figure out how to change the mode settings. Where to buy: Amazon.com
ZING AIR STORM Z TEK BOW $19.99 | 14 and up
Why we love it: We had a 3-year-old boy test this at home, even though the suggested minimum age is 14. Mom said: “He LOVED it. Super engaging for the whole fam. Being 3, he struggled to get it at first (muscle control, etcetera) but he figured it out fast. Indoor (thank you, long hallway) and outdoor fun!” Where to buy: Hub Hobby
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SHOP AROUND! Sure, you can find a lot of the toys on our list online, but supporting local stores — and discovering the true wealth of toy options in person — is well worth it! ABC & Toy Zone, Chanhassen and Rochester, abctoyzone.com Air Traffic Kites and Games, MOA, Roseville and Minnetonka, airtrafficonline.com Autism Shop, autismshop.com BuyBuy Baby, Woodbury, buybuybaby.com
REZO RTF MICRO CAMERA DRONE
Choo Choo Bob’s Train Store, St. Paul, choochoobobs.com/store
Why we love it: We love this Horizon Hobby drone’s small size (3 inches across, so not too big for indoor use) and the option of automatic takeoff and landing, which can make even parents who don’t know how to operate it look cool. Our 10-year-old test kid loved it, even if he did crash it repeatedly.
Creative Kidstuff, seven Twin Cities locations, including MOA, creativekidstuff.com
$34.99 | 14 and up
Good to know: We didn’t even tap into the device’s built-in camera, but it takes color photos and video if you want to get fancy. Where to buy: Hub Hobby
Electric Fetus, Minneapolis, electricfetus.com Games by James, seven locations, including MOA, gamesbyjames.com Hub Hobby, Richfield and Little Canada, hubhobby.com Kiddywampus, Hopkins, kiddywampus.com Lakeshore Learning Store, St. Louis Park and Maplewood, lakeshorelearning.com Lark Toys, Kellogg, larktoys.com Mall of America, Bloomington, The LEGO Store, American Girl, Build-A-Bear Workshop, Nickelodeon Universe Store, Disney Store and JM Cremp’s Adventure Store. Moss Envy, Minneapolis, mossenvy.com Pacifier, four Twin Cities locations, pacifier.me Mischief Toys & Gifts, St. Paul, mischieftoy.com Something Safari, Excelsior, somethingsafari.com
GRAVITRAX
Teeny Bee Boutique, St. Paul, shopteenybee.com
$59.99 | 8 and up
Why we love it: It’s a marble track for the grade-schooler set! Kids love marbles, especially metallic ones, and this set provides endless hours of fun and experimentation. It’s ideal for big kids because it involves utilizing gravity, kinetics and magnetism in smaller increments with smaller pieces.
Don’t see your favorite local store here? Tell us about it: Write us at editor@mnparent.com with the hashtag #toystores.
Where to buy: Hub Hobby and ABC & Toy Zone
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Santa’s little helpers
Tell Santa to skip some of the bags of candy this year and consider these little gems as stocking stuffers! BY SARAH JACKSON
BEAKER CREATURES $9.99 | 5 and up
Why we love it: Our home testers loved this pseudo-science line of collectibles that lets kids unearth creatures from “reactor pods” using water, which triggers a colorful bubbling reaction. Special “classification” cards help kids identify their creatures, and mini posters serve up real-life science facts. If you want to go all in on this, check out the Liquid Reactor Super Lab ($24.99). Good to know: Because of the mystery factor, you don’t know which creatures you’re going to get, which can leave you with duplicates if your kid starts collecting. Where to buy: ABC & Toy Zone
PLUS-PLUS GRAY WOLF $6.99 | 5 and up
Why we love it: If you haven’t discovered the toy joy that is Plus-Plus, now is the time. We especially love the Mini Maker Tubes for stockings, but Plus-Plus sets come in all sizes, including some with hundreds of pieces to create specific scenes or whatever your imagination desires — in two or three dimensions — with easy-to-manipulate pieces. Good to know: Llama, Sloth, Unicorn and many other animals are available in tube sets as well. Where to buy: ABC & Toy Zone
PERSIAN CAT FAMILY $22.95 | 3 and up
Why we love it: Every year, our test kids are drawn to the Calico Critters and this year was no exception. Are you not dying over the cuteness of this beady-eyed foursome, wearing their Sunday best? Good to know: This year’s brand-new Calico Critters mega-set is the Town Grand Department Store Gift Set. But it comes with only one rabbit character, so these cats will give the little lady some companions. Where to buy: ABC & Toy Zone
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MOSAIC TIN $10 | 3 and up
Why we love it: Kids can create a variety of scenes and shapes with this handy set of geometric wooden pieces, which can be stored in a mini tin for on-the-go entertainment.
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Where to buy: Moss Envy
HELIX HYPERBALL $4.99 | 4 and up
Why we love it: Equipped with a retractable string that coils up inside it, this little plastic ball (2.5 inches) was a HIT in home testing. To throw it, you grab the tab, swing it around (lasso style) and then fling it! Swinging it around adds so much momentum, it’s easy to send it flying 150 feet. Good to know: A football version — the Helix Power Swing for ages 6 and up — whistles and can fly 350 feet! Where to buy: Target
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Playon!
We tested so many amazing new games this year! These were the kids’ top picks, but keep an eye out in our future issues for the many runners-up. BY SARAH JACKSON
TUMBALL
$24.95 | 5 and up
Why we love it: It’s like Jenga, but more colorful and spherical — and less catastrophic. You start with a bundle of colorful balls suspended by multiple hooks. Then each player, taking turns, uses a simple plastic wand to try to place white balls into the cluster. If the beads fall on your turn, you have to add them to your collection. Whoever gets rid of all their beads first wins. Where to buy: fatbraintoys.com
FLYING SUSHI KITCHEN
$24.99 | 6 and up
Why we love it: Air currents whoosh up through the green bamboo shoots. Tiny Styrofoam balls — decorated to look like different types of sushi rolls with super-cute faces — spin suspended before your eyes while you try to pluck them out of the air with chopsticks. The object of the game is to fill the most order “orders” — complete with little wasabi and picked ginger pieces — before time runs out and the fans suddenly stop. Good to know: It’s challenging, yes. But not impossible with practice, thanks in part to chopstick modifiers that help beginners discover their inner Mr. Miyagi. Where to buy: Walmart.com
THE FLOOR IS LAVA $19.95 | 5 and up
Why we love it: Three of our tester kids — ages 5, 7 and 10 — loved this interactive, physical game. You start by laying out the game’s 25 colorful foam “safety stones” around the floor. Everyone jumps onto the stone nearest to them, and then a designated spinner spins to decide which color they’ll to jump next. If you’re the last player to make it to a stone, you have to remove the last stone you were on from the game. Play continues with another stone removed after every round, and the last player standing wins. Where to buy: ABC & Toy Zone
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I SPY DIG IN $22.99 | 5 and up
Why we love it: If you or your kids love the I Spy searchand-find book series, this more tactile version is for you! Simply fill the included plastic bowl with the game’s 128 objects — 32 each of red, blue, green and yellow — and use the game challenge cards to compete for the most finds while grains of sand fall through a 15-second timer. “SO fun,” said one home-tester mama, who played with her 3-year-old. “Whether we’re playing the actual game or he’s just finding the matching pieces or sorting by color, this has been awesome!” Good to know: See also I SPY Eagle Eye, a board-game version of the books, complete with a fun bell to ring when you spy the object on your card. Where to buy: Creative Kidstuff
WACKY WHEELS STEM CHALLENGE
$19.99 | 5 and up
Why we love it: Every toy on the market seems to promise to deliver some sort of STEM benefit, but this one really does, including an introduction to speed, angles and distances as kids try to achieve one simple goal — send the launch balls rolling up ramps, over obstacles, through a target hoop and into the goal cup using a paddlewheel launcher. Good to know: A full-color booklet filled with challenges keeps kids (and adults) coming back. As one tester mom said of her 4-year-old who wanted to take this one home: “Open-ended enough to keep his interest, but not too complex.” Where to buy: ABC & Toy Zone
FIVE LITTLE FISH $19.99 | 3 and up
Why we love it: This new memory game features five awesome plastic fish with tails that collapse until players pick them up — using special little fishing rods — to show their different colors. Each player starts their turn by flipping a card and then trying to pick up the matching-colored fish. If they succeed, they get to keep the card. When the deck runs out, whoever has the most cards wins. Good to know: Multiple moms found the instructions to be confusing. “I read them three times, and we still aren’t entirely sure we’re playing the ‘right’ way, but he loves playing the version that we’ve created,” said one mom, who tested the toy at home with her 3-year-old son. Where to buy: ABC & Toy Zone
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Fun!
Help your kids discover their inner maker with these crafty gifts — just the thing for icy-cold snow days! By Sarah Jackson
DODOLAND DRAGON KIT $9.99 | 6 and up
Why we love it: A lot of the cardboard crafts on the market leave you with less-than-sturdy items that could go directly into the recycle bin. This little guy, named Eugy, is part of a series of really cool-looking, excellent-quality miniature creatures. Assembly requires the use of glue, but our 10-year-old tester had no trouble assembling the 24 pieces without any adult supervision. Good to know: Dodoland kits are designed in New Zealand and made from recycled cardboard and rice-based inks. Where to buy: ABC & Toy Zone
JUICY FRUITS SCENTED DOT MARKERS $16.99 | 3 and up
Why we love it: Freshen up your craft drawer with these markers from Do-A-Dot Art, featuring bright colors and sweet but-not-too-strong scents. Good to know: Online you can find an endless array of free printable dot-art coloring pages in black and white and full-color. Where to buy: ABC & Toy Zone
DJECO DRAWING DRY ERASE $12 | ages 4 to 7
Why we love it: Kids can easily learn to draw simple objects using step-by-step instructions with this tidy boxed set from Arthur and Co. One Nana said: “So fun. Grandma loves it. I think it’s a great way to connect to art.” Good to know: Nearly the all of the drawings are vehicle- or Renaissance-related. Where to buy: Kiddywampus
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SMARTS + CRAFTS SPARKLE STASH $15 | 8 and up
Why we love it: Kid Made Modern’s latest bling box turned many heads in the Official Toy Test Craft Room with its nicely packaged — and very glittery — papers, beads, pom poms, string and more for making art projects, including jewelry, all in a handy little briefcase. Where to buy: Kiddywampus
AIR BLAST CANNON $24.99 | 8 and up
Why we love it: Despite having 125 other things to choose from in the toy test, our 10-year-old tester stopped exploring to build this dart shooter, designed to teach concepts of physics and engineering. Younger testers (like Jonah, below) loved operating the blaster when it was done, moving it up and down, left and right, and finally launching the dart through the air. Good to know: This Maker Lab Series from KLUTZ also includes a gumball machine kit (which teaches building and engineering) and a circuit kit that tackles electricity. Where to buy: Scholastic
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HOLIDAY
How the Grinch Stole Christmas ⊲ In this beloved holiday story, filled with music and Seussian rhymes, the Grinch conceives a dastardly plot to destroy what the Whos love most.
NOV. 17–DEC. 16
NOV. 3–FEB. 23
⊲ Celebrate the season with a new holiday play, Who Wants To Be A Toymaker. Following the 20-minute performance, Santa and Albert will lead a sing-along of carols and take pictures with guests. Seating is first come, first serve. Bring your own camera to have your picture taken with Santa.
⊲ See the make-believe railroad town of Matlin buried in a blizzard and decorated with miniature Christmas decorations and lights.
Santa & Albert
When: Saturdays and Sundays Nov. 17–Dec. 16. Saturday show times are 10 and 11:30 a.m., and 1 and 2:30 p.m. Sunday show times are 11:30 a.m. and 1 and 2:30 p.m. Santa will arrive on a reindeer-drawn sleigh at 9:30 a.m. Nov. 17. Santa & Albert Photos-Only Nights will be from 6 to 7 p.m. Nov. 26 and Dec. 3. Where: Bachman’s Floral, Gift & Garden, Minneapolis Cost: FREE Info: bachmans.com
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Night Trains
When: Saturdays Nov. 3–Feb. 23 Where: Twin City Model Railroad Museum, St. Paul Cost: $15 for individuals, plus special family rates Info: tcmrm.org
NOV. 9–11
Minneapolis Holiday Boutique ⊲ More than 250 exhibitors, including exclusive vendors and artisan designers, come together to offer the latest styles, trends, jewelry, gifts, children’s items and gourmet foods.
When: Nov. 6–Jan. 6 Where: Children’s Theatre Company, Minneapolis Cost: Tickets start at $15. Info: childrenstheatre.org
When: Nov. 9–11 Where: U.S. Bank Stadium, Minneapolis Cost: $10 online or $12 at the door for adults; $8 for ages 56 and older (box office only) on Nov. 9, free for ages 12 and younger Info: minneapolisholidayboutique.com
NOV. 10
Handmade Holidays ⊲ Kick off a season of events at the Turnblad Mansion with Family Day 2018, featuring Nordic and Czech traditions throughout the rooms in the museum, which will be dressed for this year’s theme of Handmade Holidays. Keep your eyes peeled for clever tomte elves, make a craft together, play Nordic BINGO, enjoy musical performances and wander through the exhibition. When: Family Day 2018 is Nov. 10, followed by special events through Jan. 13.
Where: American Swedish Institute, Minneapolis Cost: Included with admission of $10 for adults, $7 for ages 62 and older, $5 for ages 6–18, free for ages 5 and younger Info: asimn.org
NOV. 17–JAN. 6
Gingerbread Wonderland ⊲⊲See gingerbread versions of familiar buildings and landmarks, both contemporary and historical, created by everyone from professional bakers to first-time gingerbread enthusiasts. (You can contribute your own creations regardless of your ability level; just drop them off between Oct. 29 and Nov. 15.) When: Nov. 17–Jan. 6 Where: Norway House, Minneapolis Cost: $5, free for ages 12 and younger Info: norwayhouse.org/ gingerbreadwonderland
NOV. 17
Green Gifts Fair ⊲⊲This 13th-annual event brings together 80-plus eco-friendly vendors offering holiday gifts. Complete a passport for prizes and enjoy music, live stage demonstrations and a family-friendly exploration space. When: 10 a.m.–5 p.m. Nov. 17 Where: Midtown Global Market, Minneapolis Cost: $1 donation per person at the door Info: doitgreen.org
NOV. 20–21
The Hip Hop Nutcracker ⊲⊲A dozen all-star dancers, a DJ, a violinist and hip-hop godfather Kurtis Blow (serving as guest MC) deliver a family-friendly holiday mash-up. When: Nov. 20–21 Where: Ordway Center for the Performing Arts, St. Paul Cost: $25–$90 Info: ordway.org
NOV. 23–DEC. 23
Holidazzle
⊲⊲Take part in a local tradition with movies, fireworks, a kid zone, interactive art, games, food vendors and more at this annual outdoor festival. When: Thursdays–Sundays Nov. 23– Dec. 23 Where: Loring Park, Minneapolis Cost: FREE Info: holidazzle.com
NOV. 24–DEC. 29
Christmas Saturdays
⊲⊲Explore the James J. Hill House at your own pace on a self-guided tour to see how the Hill family and their servants prepared for the holidays. When: Saturdays Nov. 24–Dec. 29 Where: James J. Hill House, St. Paul Cost: $10 for adults, $8 for ages 65 and older, $6 for ages 5–17 Info: mnhs.org
NOV. 29–30
Old Fashioned Holiday Bazaar ⊲⊲This 40th-annual event will feature handcrafted jewelry, wreaths, paintings, woven and wearable art, handmade lotions, soaps and more. Festive live music and treats will be offered free of charge. When: Nov. 29–30 Where: Landmark Center, St. Paul Cost: $5 Info: landmarkcenter.org
NOV. 30–DEC. 2, DEC. 7–9
European Christmas Market
⊲⊲Shop for handmade holiday gifts and decorations from local vendors, drink spiced mulled wine and taste Europeaninspired delicacies. When: Nov. 30–Dec. 2, Dec. 7–9 Where: Union Depot, St. Paul Cost: FREE Info: stpaulchristmasmarket.org
NOV. 30–DEC. 1
The Great Russian Nutcracker ⊲⊲Moscow Ballet’s production of the holiday classic features world-class Russian performers, hand-painted sets and high production values. When: Nov. 30–Dec. 1 Where: Orpheum Theatre, Minneapolis Cost: $32–$102 Info: hennepintheatretrust.org
NOV. 30–DEC 22
A Charlie Brown Christmas ⊲⊲All of Charlie Brown’s friends are brimming with holiday cheer, but he’s having trouble getting in the spirit. Can directing a Christmas play help him kick the Yuletide blues? When: Nov. 30–Dec. 22 Where: Steppingstone Theatre, St. Paul Cost: $7–$15 Info: steppingstonetheatre.org
DEC. 1
Grand Meander ⊲⊲Choose your Christmas tree, eat breakfast with Santa, hear carolers as they wander from store to store and hop on a classic trolley to ride the length of Grand Avenue. When: Dec. 1 Where: Grand Avenue, St. Paul Cost: FREE Info: grandave.com
DEC. 1
Holiday Cookie Contest Winners ⊲⊲Rick Nelson of the Star Tribune will talk about the contest, how it’s judged and what makes a great holiday cookie. Sample the winning recipes and enjoy hot cider and coffee and then vote for your favorite cookie for the visitor’s choice award. When: 12:30 p.m. Dec. 1 Where: Mill City Museum, Minneapolis Cost: Included with admission of $6–12 Info: mnhs.org mnparent.com • November 2018
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Okee Dokee Brothers Concerts ⊲ Justin Lansing and Joe Mailander are back with a new album after a two-year hiatus with Winterland, a celebration of all things cold and cozy. When: 11 a.m. and 2 p.m. Nov. 3
Where: The O’Shaughnessy, St. Paul
ONGOING
Living in the Age of Airplanes ⊲ Filmed in 18 countries and narrated by Harrison Ford, this 48-minute, all-ages Omnitheater film explores the world’s scenic beauty and the countless ways airplanes affects our lives. When: Through Dec. 30 Where: Science Museum of Minnesota, St. Paul Cost: $8.95–$9.95, free for ages 3 and younger Info: smm.org/airplanes
NOV. 17, DEC. 1–15
TA-DA! Saturday Puppet Shows ⊲ Different artists perform engaging, original puppet shows each week. After
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the one-hour shows, kids can join makeand-take workshops in which they create puppets of their own. When: 10 a.m.–noon Saturdays through Dec. 15 (with no show Nov. 24). The Dec. 1 show will be performed in Spanish. Where: In the Heart of the Beast Puppet and Mask Theatre, Minneapolis Cost: $7 suggested donation ($2 for residents of the Powderhorn and Phillips neighborhoods); workshops are $5 per child and $3 per adult. Info: hobt.org
NOV. 1–26
Mini Masterpieces ⊲ This series of workshops focuses on encouraging creativity and fostering artistic confidence for preschoolers. Presenting organizations include the
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Minnesota Center for Book Arts, ArtStart, Artrageous Adventures, Articulture and others. When: Nov. 1–26 Where: St. Paul public libraries Cost: FREE Info: sppl.bibliocommons.com
NOV. 3
Building Bridges ⊲ In a Free First Saturday day of fun, use cardboard, found materials and collage paper to build your own miniature architectural model. Create your own aqal, or traditional Somali home. Meet Doña Pepa and Old Man Zimmer at a special performance of Drag Story Hour. When: 10 a.m.–3 p.m. Nov. 3 Where: Walker Art Center, Minneapolis Cost: FREE Info: walkerart.org
NOV. 3
Twin Cities Birth and Baby Expo ⊲⊲Since 2009, this annual event has been bringing together expert speakers, educational events and exhibitors offering healthy and empowering services and products for families. When: 9:30 a.m.–3 p.m. Nov. 3 Where: Capitol Hill Gifted and Talented Magnet, St. Paul Cost: FREE Info: twincitiesbirthandbaby.com
NOV. 4, DEC. 2
Kids Dance Party ⊲⊲National DJ Airman Heat keeps everyone dancing with favorite kid songs in addition to fun with balloons, coloring books, craft stations and treats. When: 10–11:30 a.m. Nov. 4 and Dec. 2 Where: Can Can Wonderland, St. Paul Cost: $2 Info: cancanwonderland.com
NOV. 6–7
Tales and Music from West Africa ⊲⊲Learn vibrant songs and dances as part of this Schubert Club KidsJam event featuring themes of change and hope. When: 10:30 a.m. Nov. 6–7 Where: Landmark Center, St. Paul Cost: $5 Info: landmarkcenter.org
NOV. 8–11
Corteo
⊲⊲This Cirque du Soleil production — which tells the story of a festive parade imagined by a clown — has amazed 8 million people in 64 cities in 19 countries on four continents. When: Nov. 8–11 Where: Target Center, Minneapolis Cost: Tickets start at $45. Info: cirquedusoleil.com/corteo
NOV. 10
Veterans Day
⊲⊲Make your own feeder to take home in this workshop for kids and parents to do together.
⊲⊲The Minnesota Department of Veterans Affairs invites veterans, families, elected officials and community members to honor veterans with a special focus on the 100th anniversary of the armistice that ended World War I.
Build a Bird Feeder
When: Nov. 10 Where: Oliver Kelley Farm, Elk River Cost: $12 Info: mnhs.org
Thai Festival of Lights ⊲⊲Join a lively celebration of Loy Krathong with crafts, a drum parade you can join and Thai dancing, costumes and music. When: Nov. 10 Where: Golden Valley Library Cost: FREE Info: hclib.bibliocommons.com
Code Day ⊲⊲Explore programming concepts with hands-on activities and demonstrations. When: Nov. 10 Where: The Works, Bloomington Cost: Included with museum admission of $9 per person Info: theworks.org
Girls, Science and Technology ⊲⊲Join Fox 9 and prominent female scientists from around the state for an introduction to the exciting worlds of science and technology through demonstrations and hands-on activities. When: Nov. 10 Where: Science Museum of Minnesota Cost: Included with admission of $12.95–$18.95 for ages 4 and older Info: smm.org
NOV. 11
Paint My Pet ⊲⊲An experienced artist will guide kids through the process of painting pet portraits. When: Nov. 11 Where: Animal Humane Society, Golden Valley Cost: $60 Info: animalhumanesociety.org
When: Nov. 11 Where: Veterans Memorial Community Center, Inver Grove Heights Cost: FREE Info: mn.gov/mdva/news/events
Exploring Egypt ⊲⊲Join an archaeology excavation inspired by the Egypt’s Sunken Cities exhibit as part of this month’s free Family Day. Travel to the time of the pharaohs. Decode hieroglyphs and mysterious symbols, and create your own versions of ancient artifacts and treasures. When: Nov. 11 Where: Mia, Minneapolis Cost: FREE Info: new.artsmia.org
NOV. 13, DEC. 11
Ballet Tuesdays ⊲⊲Bring your aspiring dancer to see Saint Paul Ballet performers, who will offer demonstrations and sneak peeks from their upcoming season. When: Nov. 13 and Dec. 11 Where: Landmark Center, St. Paul Cost: FREE Info: landmarkcenter.org
NOV. 13
World Kindness Day ⊲⊲Ages 5 and older are invited to decorate bags for Open Arms, make no-sew blankets for animal rescues and participate in other activities to help the community. While you’re at it, bring canned goods for the Ralph Reeder Food Shelf and new or gently used shoes for Shoe Away Hunger. When: Nov. 13 Where: Shoreview Library Cost: FREE Info: rclreads.org/events-and-classes
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Brick Fest Live ⊲⊲Check out life-sized LEGO models and entire LEGO cities, plus plenty of opportunities for building with millions of LEGO bricks. Other attractions include a glow gallery, speedway, collaborative building activities, mini golf, mosaics, a shop and a video game arena. When: Nov. 10–11 Where: St. Paul RiverCentre Cost: Tickets start at $15 and are free for ages 2 and younger
NOV. 15, 17, 18
How to Have Fun in a Civil War ⊲⊲In this autobiographical multimedia performance piece and discussion for ages 6 and up, Ifrah Mansour explores Somalia’s civil war through the eyes of a 7-year-old girl, using poetry, puppetry, video, interviews and humor, too. When: Nov. 15, 17, 18 Where: Minnesota History Center, St. Paul Cost: $9–$14 Info: mnhs.org
NOV. 16–DEC. 27
Mary Poppins Jr. ⊲⊲Based on the award-winning Broadway musical and Walt Disney film, this 80-minute, all-ages production
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follows the magical transformation of the Banks family. When: Nov. 16–Dec. 27 Where: Stages Theatre Company, Hopkins Cost: $18–$30 Info: stagestheatre.org
NOV. 17–18, DEC. 1
Shelter Vet Camps ⊲⊲Animal interactions, shelter tours, games and crafts are the essentials at these day camps, but they may also include visits from special guests, animal service projects and more. When: Nov. 17, 18 and Dec. 1 Where: Nov. 17 (Golden Valley) Nov. 18 (Woodbury), Dec. 1 (Coon Rapids) Cost: $55 Info: animalhumanesociety.org
NOV. 18
Latvian Celebration ⊲⊲Enjoy the traditional music and dance of Latvia on the 100th anniversary of the country’s independence. When: 1–4 p.m. Nov. 18 Where: Landmark Center, St. Paul Cost: FREE Info: landmarkcenter.org
NOV. 19
Free Third Monday ⊲⊲Explore more than 1,200 acres of gardens, tree collections, prairies, woods and miles of trails. When: 8 a.m.–5 p.m. Nov. 19 Where: Minnesota Landscape Arboretum, Chaska Cost: FREE Info: arboretum.umn.edu
NOV. 23
Off-Season Baseball Camps ⊲ Open to ages 6 to 14, these Twinsaffiliated camps feature a large and experienced staff and low player-to-coach ratios so kids can receive the attention they need to develop their skills. When: 10 a.m.–3 p.m. Nov. 23 Where: National Sports Center, Blaine Cost: $80 Info: tinyurl.com/mn-off-season
Our Wild Neighbors ⊲ Opt Outside on Black Friday and head outdoors to learn about raccoons, squirrels, deer and even wild turkeys. When: Nov. 23 Where: Dodge Nature Center, West St. Paul Cost: $3 Info: dodgenaturecenter.org
NOV. 24–25
Julgladje Concert ⊲ Enjoy songs, stories, games and laughs — all hallmarks of the Swedish term for “Christmas joy” — in this celebration hosted by popular entertainer Ross Sutter. When: Nov. 24–25 Where: American Swedish Institute, Minneapolis Cost: $5–$12, free for age 5 and younger Info: asimn.org
NOV. 26–30
Laser Week ⊲ Each night’s laser show features a different theme, such as Pink Floyd or the Beatles. When: Shows run at 5:30 and 7 p.m. Nov. 26–30 Where: Como Planetarium, St. Paul Cost: $5 Info: tinyurl.com/laser-week-mn
NOV. 30–DEC 17
A Year With Frog & Toad ⊲ This whimsical, all-ages show follows two great friends — cheerful Frog and grumpy Toad — through four seasons with music, laughter and fun. When: Nov. 30–Dec 17 Where: Howard Conn Performing Arts Center, Minneapolis Cost: $7–$15 Info: youthperformanceco.org
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Peppa Pig Live! ⊲ Life-sized puppets bring the TV characters to life with songs, dancing, games and surprises.
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Bring on winter! These guys — including some kids photographed when it snowed last month — are so ready for snow!
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