Social Customs

Coming to a different country can be exciting and overwhelming! While living and studying in the U.S., you will interact with people from many cultural, social, ethnic, and national backgrounds. Despite all the differences, people generally greet each other by saying, “Hi, how are you?” followed by a standard response of “Fine, thanks.” During formal introductions, both men and women stand and shake hands. Friends or peers call each other by their first names. Relationships with peers (fellow students), tend to be more casual. First names are used in a greeting. A wave, handshake, or hug could be appropriate. Dropping by to say “hello” would be normal, as would making arrangements to meet up in the dining hall or local restaurant.

Relationships with faculty, staff and administration would be more formal. When interacting with staff or professors, use their title (“Dr.,” “Ms.,” “Miss,” “Mrs.,” or “Mr.”) and last name. Appointments to meet should be made via an email, the Navigate app, or during discussion after class. Drop-ins (outside of faculty posted office hours) are discouraged unless it is an emergency or that person has said it is appropriate to do so.

Individuality and competition define the American character, but there is also a strong sense of teamwork to get things done. You may think that Americans are always rushed; however, if you ask for help, you will normally find a friendly attitude. As in most countries, customs vary across the country, and it will take time to understand and adjust to your new environment. It is normal to feel lonely, homesick, and overwhelmed, but don’t isolate yourself!

Prepare yourself by understanding some key non-verbal and verbal communication styles typically found in the United States. To learn more about American social customs, visit Culture Crossing Guide, About the U.S., and Communication in the US.

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