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12 Gardening with Complete Solutions BUSINESS SPOTLIGHTS 09 Connections Wellness Group: Champions of Radical Change
17 DFW Oral Surgeon: Your Oral Surgeons For Every Facial Emergency
ARTICLES 10 How to Talk To Your Doctor Without Pulling Out Your Hair
13 The Dirt On Dental Diagnosis 14 Inside Community and Education 16 Mental Health Services Are Important In Denton County
19 My New Hobby In A Nutshell 23 The Secret To 50 Years Of Marriage 24 Foodie Friday DFW: Rusty Beagle 26 Lantana Pediatrics: ADHD Online & In-Person School During The Pandemic
28 Your Uniqueness Is Never A Weakness 30 Election Day: Proposed Argyle Municipal Development District
32 I Love My Children, But They Came At A Cost 33 Sheriff’s Corner with Sheriff Tracy Murphree 34 Texas Chef of the Year
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veryone loves a good pun, right? I sure do! This time of the year is my favorite; cooler weather, pumpkins everywhere, the anticipation of neighbors passing out full-sized candy bars, and a good Halloween pun. Just a basic Internet search led me to a few good ones I had to share with you. I hope these Halloween puns don’t drive you batty. Ha! Get it? Want to hear some skeleton puns? They’re very humerus! It’s going to be a great Halloween – I can feel it in my bones! If you’ve got it, haunt it. I have a few vampire puns, but they suck. Ghosts make the best cheerleaders. They have lots of spirit! Pumpkin’ out Halloween puns like it’s nobody’s business! Use these puns with friends and family and see if you get a laugh. With all the seriousness going on these days, smiles are everything. I hope this helps get you in the spirit of this ghoulish holiday.
However Halloween and trick-or-treating looks like this year for you and your family, we would love to see pictures! Pumpkin patch photos and ones of your littles dressed up in their best costumes are always fan favorites. We hope you enjoy this issue. And don’t forget to carve out some time for pumpkin decorating!
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Business Spotlight
CHAMPIONS
Of Radical CHANGE by Steve Gamel
W
e’ve all had that family member or friend who struggled with mental health problems growing up. We were always there for them to offer support, but we couldn’t help but notice other people looking at them differently. They categorized them as weird, shamed them for asking for help, showed a lack of patience, and perhaps even told them to “just get over it.”
behavior, SMART recovery, and many
other services depending on the need. “I was seeing adults and looking into their history to find that a lot of their issues
started when they were children,” Nizami
said. “Those issues were never addressed,
The team at Connections Wellness Group knows there is a stigma surrounding mental health, from depression and anxiety to thoughts of suicide, etc. — and it’s preventing more children and adults from getting the help they need.
adolescent psychologist and the medical
“Mental health impacts people of all ages, whether they be 6 years old or 70 years old,” said Amber Gould, the Chair for the Champions of Radical Change Committee. “With school starting and dealing with the COVID-19 pandemic, we want to be able to help everyone in the community at any stage in their life.”
to simply not fitting in and difficulties
She added, “We want to make it easier for people to ask for help and 100% know it is okay to do so.”
old. Connections also offers 4-hour
Gould agreed.
programs per day for teens and adults in
“I had family, friends, and even myself
No one does that better than Connections Wellness Group. While they consistently deliver a full wellness model for their patients, their bread and butter is being champions for radical change when it comes to kicking the stigma on mental health. Dr. Syed Nizami, a child and
director for the PHP and IOP programs, said the first key is getting to individuals at an earlier age. We live in a comparison culture, and children as young as 4 and 5 years old face everything from bullying at home. As they get older, eating disorders, social media, school, and other issues make managing their issues more challenging. Connections Wellness has services that assist patients as young as 3 years
a packaged approach: Process groups, psycho-educational groups, experiential groups, psychiatric evaluations, nursing evaluations, and medication education. Their therapies include cognitivebehavioral, solution-focused, dialectical behavior, motivational interviewing, cognitive processing, rational emotive
and you wonder, ‘Why didn’t they get help sooner?’ If we can work with someone
sooner, we can change the trajectory of their life.”
Tiffany Godwin, the team’s dietician, also stressed the importance of nutrition.
“There are people I talk to who only eat once a day because that’s all they can
handle,” Godwin said. “They are dealing with body image issues and eating
disorders. You don’t have to be scared to come to talk to us about those things.”
who grew up dealing with various
issues, and it’s interesting how you’re
automatically thrown into situations where you’re told to just get over it,” Gould said. “That’s not something you just get over. It’s something you must keep working
on and get help for. We want to help as many people as we can.”
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Medical Experts Article
HOW TO TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR WITHOUT PULLING OUT YOUR HAIR by Contributing Writer
Y
ou go to see a physician because you want to learn about the issues you may be having with your health. The reality is you will only have seconds to say anything about your situation. After this, a physician will have a question, comment, or redirect the conversation. If you wonder if your doctor even hears what you’re saying, you are not alone. Communication This is not everyone’s experience when
they go to see their physician, but it is a common one. There was a recent study
patient’s health. When a person disagrees with what a physician says, they
and not so much about your health history. Both can help and physicians know that
more than 80 percent of proper diagnoses are made by effectively listening to
their patients. A list and notes can help a physician remember what they have
already told you. If you have your story
must respectfully communicate it.
may want to hear about your symptoms
and questions ready, a
Trust must be built and
IN MANY CASES,
communication with their patients. Less
them. There are certain
THERE IS A
these same physicians believe their talks
communicate effectively
DISCONNECT BETWEEN
disconnect between patient and physician
Make Notes
conducted that showed over 74 percent of physicians believe they have satisfactory
maintained between
than 22 percent of patients treated by
things a patient can do to
were adequate. In many cases, there is a
with their physician.
that is difficult to accept. Working Together
It may help if you have
some notes about your
PATIENT AND PHYSICIAN THAT IS DIFFICULT TO ACCEPT.
It is understood that the better a physician
condition before you go
the higher a chance a patient will get
know the questions you want to ask, you
patient must work together to improve the
Patients have to realize that physicians
and a patient can speak to one another,
to your doctor’s appointment. When you
the correct treatment. A physician and
will listen more closely to the answers.
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physician will be ready to listen.
Honest and Accurate On the other side, it’s important to remember your
physician has many
patients who have not told them the whole truth about their
symptoms. This usually
happens when it involves something a
patient doesn’t feel comfortable speaking about. These topics often involve a sexual
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or alcohol and more. It’s important to try and work on developing a relationship with your physician where you are comfortable being
honest and accurate
They often follow various educational models such as rapport, empathy, support, partnership, explanations, cultural
PATIENTS HAVE
about any issue
involving your health.
TO REALIZE THAT
about the best way to
PHYSICIANS MAY WANT
It is important to ask
contact your physician with any follow-up
questions. Feel free
to communicate with
TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR
your physician about
SYMPTOMS AND NOT
the experience you’ve
SO MUCH ABOUT YOUR
Physicians appreciate
HEALTH HISTORY.
your care as well as had in their office.
this type of honest
communication. They believe it helps
them learn more about the care they are providing and how their office is operating.
Physician’s Barriers
competence, as well as trust --which is better known as RESPECT. There is also acknowledge, introduce, duration, explanation, as well as thank you -- or AIDET. Some medical experts try
If you are experiencing a communication problem with your physician, you may need to seek ways to correct the situation. You should always work with a physician that makes you feel as if you can trust them. A doctor who makes you believe they are listening to what you have to say about your medical issues. At the end of a visit, you may want to go over with your physician what was discussed and make certain you are both on the same page. This can lead to a better understanding between the two of you and result in more effective communication taking place.
to teach physicians how to effectively communicate with their patients emphasize the Four
Es. This involves engage, enlist, educate, and empathize. This method is used as a way to help patients become active participants in their health care plans.
Try to understand your physician is also facing things that put up a
barrier for them when it comes to effectively communicating. •
Patients being confrontational and
resistant to answering questions by
those who are providing them care. •
They may unintentionally use jargon a
•
It is possible there is a cultural barrier
•
A patient or physician could
patient could misunderstand.
between a physician and their patient. simply have a lack of effective
communication skills. This often
involves not knowing when or how to respond to specific nonverbal cues. •
There could be an avoidance of social
•
All physicians have a fear of
and emotional issues. being sued.
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Ask The Expert: Gardening
FALL HAS ARRIVED by PJ Kratohvil, Owner of Complete Solutions
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towards a shredded mulch vs. bark
hese cooler night time temps allow for a great start to the day if you’re out and about in the mornings! It’s a very exiting time of year to be in the business as everyone is getting “Fall Fever” Patio business is in FULL SWING & Landscape Teams have plenty to do!
or large cut. It will hold the best,
not float, and as it breaks down to
offer a great weed / moisture barrier (ensure the mulch is kept below
October is one of the most critical months when it comes to the exterior and landscape maintenance around your home. Here are a few things to contract out or add to your “To-do” list over the next few weeks: EXTERIOR: •
•
•
Ensure windows and doors are properly sealed. Restricting unwanted airflow will keep things comfortable inside and help reduce any unwanted guests. All exposed wood surfaces are painted or sealed to ensure as the cold weather and rain moves in and out, things are protected and less effected by weather.
Check out your roof to make sure no shingles have come off during our last round of summer storms and that the gutters are clean and free of debris.
the brick line so you don’t chance having rainwater get in the weep holes during a rain event). •
•
Cutback and prune this year’s growth. This will not only help to keep your beds organized but also promote new growth come spring. Remove, cultivate, fertilize and add new 2” layer of mulch. We lean
plant larger shrubs and trees.
Allowing them to start rooting over
the winter months will make the heat of summer a lot less hazardous to
LANDSCAPES: •
Oct. thru Dec. is a great time to
their health. •
Go ahead as things cool off and cut back on the irrigation. Watering a
couple of times a week and ensuring your rain sensor is operating
effectively should be sufficient and help your monthly spending.
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The Dirt On
Dental Diagnosis by Dr. Matt Artho who is a proud resident of Argyle and his kids attend all four schools in the district.
I
once came across a t-shirt that defined a dentist in the following way: “Dentist – noun. Someone who solves a problem you didn’t know you had in a way you don’t understand. See also wizard, magician.” Even as dentists, this feels peculiarly accurate as we attempt in a 10-minute consultation to dissect more than four years of dental education. The reality is, educating patients on the methods of diagnosis is not only possible but creates assurance in your dentist and better oral health habits for yourself.
if a “sticky” spot is observed with a
Let’s begin with explaining the diagnosis of the common cavity. Decay manifests itself when oral bacteria break down tooth structure with acidic bi-products. The use of dental x-rays helps visualize decay between teeth where bacteria harbor at the point of contact. Depending on the size of decay, it is typically a dark gray area on the radiograph that, when contained in the outer white enamel, can be slowed or halted with fluoride. But when exposed to the softer dentin, will require treatment to remove. Decay on the biting surfaces is usually diagnosed by determining
depths. Often this can be visualized on
dental instrument. Intraoral cameras are often utilized to help patients visualize these areas. Small areas of decay are
treated with fillings, but large areas that
compromise tooth and/or pulp integrity
may require more extensive treatment like a crown and/or root canal.
Periodontal disease is typically diagnosed using measurements between the tooth and tissue that indicate areas where bacteria have caused the tissue to
disconnect from the tooth at established x-rays where plaque can be seen beneath the gum. Gum bleeding indicates active inflammation in these areas, and this
inflammation leads to bone loss over a long period of time also visualized on an x-ray.
Be aware that treatment following
diagnosis is dependent on the philosophy of your dentist. Make a point to have
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This will help ensure a healthy relationship between you and your dentist.
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INSIDE COMMUNITY
SMASHING PUMPKINS Sat., Nov 7 | 4:30pm-5:30pm Nine Spur Ranch 216 Pecan Acres Ln. • Argyle, TX 76226
HIGH SPEED TRAIN APPROVED The Federal Railroad Administration has approved the high-speed train that promises to transport passengers from Dallas to Houston in 90 minutes. Texas Central Railroad, the company in charge of the project, expects to start construction in the first half of 2021.
INSIDE EDUCATION
If you are looking for a fun activity for the kids, come out to Nine Spur Ranch with your pumpkins and watermelon. Everyone will have a chance to smash pumpkins and feed the horses, goats and pig! This event is free and open to the public. For weekly event updates at Nine Spur Ranch follow them on Facebook, @NineSpurRanch. photo courtesy of Brooke Ezzo
ARGYLE HOLIDAY MARKET Sat., Nov 7 | 9am-3pm Argyle High School 191 Hwy 377 S • Argyle, TX 76226
LADY EAGLES GOLF TAKES THIRD The Argyle Lady Eagles opened the 2020-2021 golf season at the Glen Rose Invitational at Squaw Valley at the end of September and finished 3rd overall! During the event, the Lady Eagles broke the previous 18-hole school-record of 325 by shooting a team score of 318. Congratulations, ladies! Have a great season! photo courtesy of Rick Herrin 14 | ARGYLE LIVING | OCTOBER 2020
It is that time of the year again when we start thinking about gifts for the holidays. Come and enjoy an afternoon by shopping some trendy and specialized items made and brought to you by local vendors. Items include clothing, décor, handmade soaps, quality cosmetics, handbags, jewelry, Argyle gifts and spirit wear, and much more. All proceeds benefit Project Graduation. photo courtesy of Rick Herrin www.ArgyleLivingMagazine.com
TEXAS MOTOR SPEEDWAY DOUBLE HEADER Sun., Oct. 25 | 10am-7pm Texas Motor Speedway 3545 Lone Star Cir. • Fort Worth, TX 76177
AMERICAN PICKERS IN DENTON COUNTY Mike Wolfe and Frank Fritz and the team from American Pickers will be filming throughout the state during November and they will be coming to Denton County! This popular series is known for exploring the world of antique “picking.” The team is looking for leads. If you or someone you know has a large collection of hidden treasures, send them your name, phone number, location and description of the collection with photos to: americanpickers@cineflix.com or call 855-OLD-RUST.
Texas Motor Speedway is welcoming fans to a special NASCAR Playoffs Double Header. One ticket gets fan into both the Texas 500 Cup Series and the SpeedyCash.com 400 Gander Trucks race. Gates open Sunday at 10am. For COVID related guidelines and to purchase tickets, visit www.texasmotorspeedway.com and click on, Events.
LIBERTY CHEER OUTREACH NEW ALBUM RELEASE Argyle High School’s acapella group, Remedy ACapella, has released their second studio album titled Waves; a collection of songs filled with the highs and lows of life. The songs will make you dance, cry, shout, and smile. The album is out on all major streaming platforms and can be found using the link, li.sten.to/PTLhGZt. photo courtesy of Remedy ACapella www.ArgyleLivingMagazine.com
Liberty Christian School cheerleaders delivered homemade quilts made and donated by junior, Jackie McGuire’s grandmother, to Rockport Memory Care Center in late September. The blankets are made from plastic bags that are knitted together and given to people in need. What a unique way to serve others! photo courtesy of Vivian Nichols OCTOBER 2020 | ARGYLE LIVING | 15
MENTAL HEALTH
SERVICES
ARE IMPORTANT I n
D e n t o n
C o u n t y
struggles due to the risks of contracting
COVID-19. Thankfully, CARES Act funding allowed MHMR to receive funds as part of Operation: Connecting Lives to
purchase iPads to assist in connecting
with the elderly population, especially
those in nursing homes who have been especially isolated.
United Way of Denton County is another organization that has been on the
frontlines serving our residents in many ways including mental health. UWDC leads the Denton County Behavioral
Health Leadership Team, which advocates and facilitates for a collaborative personcentered behavioral health system to repair and restore lives.
Interested residents can attend a
free-8-hour course on adult mental by Denton County Judge Andy Eads photo courtesy of Judge Andy Eads
health first aid to equip them with a
five-step action plan to respond and refer an adult who may be experiencing a mental health crisis.
O
ctober is National Mental Health Month, which provides the perfect backdrop to stop and assess exactly, “How are you doing?” As stressful as life is normally, COVID-19 has magnified stressors in everyone’s life and pushed the boundaries of our mental health.
Another population in Denton County
Statistically, Americans rank high in the realm of mental health issues. According to the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration, 26.3 percent of adults 18-25 suffered from a mental health issue in 2018. During 2009-2017, adults 18-25 suffering from major depression increased 63 percent. The senior population (55 and above) in the U.S. is estimated to have 20 percent of the demographic struggling with a variety of mental health issues, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. About 40 million adults, around 18.1 percent of the U.S. population, suffer with chronic anxiety, according to the Anxiety and Depression Association of America.
The U.S. spent $187.8 billion on mental
Incarceration provides a plethora of
abuse disorders in 2013. An estimated
still being among a constant population.
treatments alone, according to a
this population and keep them healthy.
who has a great need for mental health
assistance is our inmates, juveniles, and the public in crisis situations.
health conditions and substance
restrictions, rules, and even isolation while
$70 billion was spent on depression
Our County recognizes the need to serve
SingleCare report.
Denton County has spent over $1.3 million
These statistics remind us that many of
to provide mental health assistance for
struggling with mental health, suffering
a mental health crisis through the Sheriff’s
the added pressures of life due to the
and the Denton County Public Health’s
our neighbors in Denton County are
our inmates and the public experiencing
in silence at an even deeper level with
Office Mental Health Investigative Unit
ongoing pandemic.
Jail Health Program.
Denton County’s MHMR has reported a
During this month of mental health
elderly population since the onset of the
these initiatives and assist each other
true struggle to remain connected to their
awareness, let’s do our part to continue
pandemic. People are not coming out to
in ensuring mental health services are
seek assistance with their mental health
available to all in need.
If you have any questions or comments, please let me hear from you at andy.eads@dentoncounty.com or 940.349.2820 For more information, register for my newsletter at www.Dentoncounty.gov/countyjudgenewslettersignup. 16 | ARGYLE LIVING | OCTOBER 2020
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Business Spotlight
YOUR ORAL
SURGEON For Every Facial Emergency by Steve Gamel
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s a board-certified oral and maxillofacial surgeon, Dr. John Shillingburg has heard it repeatedly where patients will come in with jaw pain and say, “I think I have TMJ.” In reality, everyone has TMJ, or a jaw joint — two to be exact. The correct terminology is Temporamandibular Disorer, or TMD, which can range from mild discomfort to headaches and severe popping and clicking in the jaw that makes it difficult for someone to open their mouth or even chew certain foods.
Regardless of the confusion between TMJ and TMD, those patients have come to the right place. The Temporomandibular Joint (TMJ) is one of the most complex joints in the body, and if you’re experiencing any pain in this area, Dr. Shillingburg and his team at DFW Oral Surgeons in Flower Mound want to help.
or a seven to a one or a two. If someone
tells you, ‘I’m going to completely get rid of your TMD,’ then that’s someone you need to avoid.”
“I always tell patients that I’d prefer to see them first for a thorough evaluation,” Dr. Shillingburg said. “If there are no major abnormalities or anything like that, then your TMD can be managed conservatively. The goal of the treatment is not to eradicate someone’s
pain. It’s to help someone know what the triggers are and take their pain from a six
out tumors or anything else that would
necessitate surgical intervention. If none of those issues exist, Dr. Shillingburg
has close relationships with dentists in the area who can get you fitted with a
professionally made TMJ night guard. “Patients will work with the dentist in a
conservative manner,” Dr. Shillingburg
said. “In rare cases where their symptoms
You don’t have to worry about anything with Dr. Shillingburg. He is trained
If someone tells you, ‘I’m going to completely get rid of your TMD,’ then that’s someone you need to avoid.”
X-rays, and a thorough evaluation to rule
and credentialed in
dentoalveolar surgery,
facial cosmetic surgery,
do not improve, the patient would
come back to me. Depending on their
situation, we would look at other options, including a joint flush out or a total joint
replacement in extremely rare instances.”
implant surgery,
Dr. Shillingburg’s facility is a true
facial reconstructive
treating any mouth and jaw condition.
orthognathic surgery, oral surgery, and dental anesthesiology. This allows him to treat
everything from a simple
tooth extraction to replacing every tooth in a patient’s mouth.
A quick visit to DFW Oral for your TMD
symptoms includes a CT scan, MRI, other
outpatient surgery center capable of
When you have an emergency, there’s no
reason to go anywhere else because DFW Oral Surgeons is equipped for it all. Dr. Shillingburg is proud to serve
the residents in and around Argyle,
Bartonville, Highland Village, Lantana, Double Oak, South Denton, Denton County, and surrounding areas.
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MY NEW
Hobby IN A Nutshell by Jean Eisenmann | photo courtesy of Jean Eisenmann
I
have a new hobby. Ever since Covid-19 forced us to become semi-homebound, I’ve had more time to be, well, bored. Yes, I’ve worked remotely, experimented with new recipes, and increased my housecleaning regimen (is my nose growing?). But I’ve lacked having a passion — such intense interest in something that I want to learn everything about it to escape the stresses of pandemic life. Quite by accident, I found it — squirrel watching.
Building, gently picking gnats, ticks, or some such whatnots from their coats. Adorable.
One squirrel, in particular, was my favorite and could be identified by a dark brown ring around his nose and mouth, much
It began innocently enough, with me
believe this critter was a male, and if you
like a COVID-19 face mask. I named
the window at the many varieties of birds
please consult the internet. Anyway, I
surrounded our birdbath and would lie
didn’t disturb the birds as they picked the
like an hour. Then, Corona would bury
idling on the couch one day, staring out
that our feeder and birdbath attract. Over the next several days, I set aside time to observe how
interesting birds are, and how they all
have personalities
akin to their species.
wonder how I came to that conclusion,
him Corona. He dug up the flowers that
became captivated by his manners, for he
prostrate on the cool soil for what seemed
THE ENSUING WEEKS FOUND MY PASSION FOR
Of course, I made sure the intense
daily housecleaning
was completed first.
THE SQUIRREL WORLD INTENSIFIED. I WORE A LOT OF BROWN.
Then, at 2 p.m. on
ground for dropped seed
some edible treasure reserved for a late-
He waited his turn, and
where his buttocks had been. Tears filled
from the feeder above.
night snack in the very same soil, right
with a nod to the flock as
my eyes.
they flew away, ate the
spoils. What a gentleman! I was hooked.
Bye-bye, birdies. I’ve met a few squirrelly
guys in my time, but this
a Friday, to be exact, it appeared. No, not
four-legged variety quickly became the
bounded into the yard. It was brownish
weeks found my passion for the squirrel
Sasquatch. And not a UFO. A squirrel
rust with big brown eyes and a fluffy tail,
which are very unusual characteristics for a squirrel. Of course, I had seen squirrels
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new object of my affection. The ensuing world intensified. I wore a lot of brown. They had such endearing mannerisms:
holding food with their little hands and
I asked my husband, Van, if we could put together a play area for them with a tiny slide, sandbox, and trampoline. If not,
how about a teeny-tiny bounce house?
Van slept in the guest room that night and called me “Rodent Mom.”
Rodent? Then it dawned on me. My
thoughts traveled back to fifth grade,
where I learned that squirrels were part
of the – gulp – RODENT family. Corona’s cousin could be a field mouse!
menacing claws, hanging upside down as
Let the squirrels live their lives. I’m
feeder like Godzilla on the Empire State
housecleaning regimen before I go nuts.
they wrapped their feet around the bird
getting back to concentrating on my
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Perfect Smile Get The
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eatherwood Family & Cosmetic Dentistry holds themselves to a higher standard to deliver high quality beautiful restorations that are biologically compatible in an infection free zone. Dr. Samantha Leatherwood, D.M.D. and her team believe everyone deserves a healthy, beautiful smile that makes their spirit shine through.
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Graduating from the Goldman School of
Dental Medicine at Boston University and completing a residency at Cedars Sinai
Medical Center in Los Angeles, she was
introduced to a comprehensive approach to dentistry.
“I bounced around the coasts to get a feel for different philosophies and to
be exposed to as much as I could,” Dr. Leatherwood said.
That exposure and the influence from her stepmother, who is also a dentist, helped
define the kind of practice she wanted for
her patients — a small private practice with a continuity of care.
“I was very fortunate having a stepmother who is really good at what she does and
having strong mentors,” Dr. Leatherwood said. “It made all the difference in the world.”
Dr. Leatherwood and her staff are
focused on building a solid foundation through comprehensive dentistry —
meaning they want the most pristine
oral environment for their patients by
improving functionality and overall health by lowering the overall systemic risk by eliminating oral disease.
“We look at it systemically. We can’t cherry pick one or two teeth because we look at how they all function together,” Dr.
Leatherwood said. “I focus on beautiful restorations that are
biologically compatible
and will last you as long as possible.”
Every smile is different and requires unique
protocols to save teeth.
Concentrating on using biological compatible future reactions.
“We focus on ceramic dentistry,”
Dr. Leatherwood said. “We try to
eliminate metal as much as possible
because there are so many people who
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Dedication to the patient is a primary
The 3-step process to sterilize the tooth is to confirm nothing is growing underneath the restorations and to ensure it is as solid as it can be.
Leslie is the practice’s office manager
“We want to make sure the investment you’re making will last you as long as possible,” Dr. Leatherwood said. “We can’t compromise on the outcome.”
assistant. Jackie is the dental hygientist.
“We focus on ceramic dentistry,” Dr. Leatherwood said. “We try to eliminate metal as much as possible because there are so many people who have sensitivities.”
materials helps reduce
have sensitivities.”
Dr. Leatherwood added, “We do a sterilization process that is a lot different than what most patients are used to. It lowers the sensitivity, it makes the restoration last longer, and it lowers the chance of them needing any further treatment on that tooth.”
This level of care is what sets Leatherwood Dentistry apart from the rest. Their diligence in customizing a treatment plan that will fit your budget, your needs, and your wants has led them to acquire a loyal following.
“The nature of what we do is incredibly intimate. It is really delicate to ask someone to trust me,” Dr. Leatherwood said. “We work hard to have strong relationships with our patients and we are really fortunate to have ones that are so supportive and encouraging.”
focus for Dr. Leatherwood and her staff. Over the past few years, she had the
opportunity to build a strong team. From the first phone call and first appointment to the end of treatment, you are treated with the highest level of care.
and is the friendly face customers can
expect to see up front. Angela handles insurance and Payton is their clinical
They are completely focused on providing a memorable experience.
“It is great to be on this journey with
them. They believe in what we are doing,” Dr. Leatherwood said. “They see the
difference we are making for the patients.” That difference is confidence. Dr.
Leatherwood rebuilds teeth based on facially driven smiles. She figures out
where the smile goes on the face and then works backward- giving each patient a beautiful healthy smile they deserve.
“Meeting people who don’t smile and
being able to restore that for them is such a huge honor,” Dr. Leatherwood said. As a Denton native, Dr. Samantha
Leatherwood is grateful to be caring for
the community that raised her and for the opportunity to give back.
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THE SECRET TO
50 Years OF MARRIAGE
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by Brooke Ezzo | photos courtesy of Dale Revell
arvest residents Dale and Jane Revell recently celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary. Together, they have literally done it all. Their incredible journey includes 16 relocations, 14 homes, seven motorcycles, two children, six grandchildren, traveling across the world, and beating cancer. Dale and Jane’s love story began at a liberal arts college in Michigan. After graduation, Dale took a job with the Ford Motor Credit Company and quickly climbed the corporate ladder. Each step sent their family to a new location: Nova Scotia, Canada, Florida, and about a dozen more. “We knew the moves were going to be a lot, and every place we went was a new adventure,” Jane said. While living in Buffalo, NY at the age of 34, Dale was diagnosed with NonHodgkin lymphoma, a cancer that starts in the white blood cells. He went through
chemotherapy and radiation but never went into remission.
“They came to us and said if we wanted
him to live five more years, he needed a
stem cells and bone marrow to deliver it to people waiting for transplants,” Jane said. “We did 43 trips in three years.”
In 2015, Dale and Jane made one more move to Texas to be closer to their son and his family. They have plugged into
a church family, they volunteer, and stay
active together. They love to travel, go on cruises, and they walk their neighborhood daily.
“It hasn’t always been easy. It’s been a
rough road many times,” Jane said. “But,
we asked the Lord to use us, and I believe our faith is what has helped us reach the 50th anniversary mark.”
One might assume after five decades
together, travels and moves, children and work, and the emotional roller coaster
of beating non-Hodgkin lymphoma, that Dale and Jane hold the key to a long-
bone marrow transplant,” Jane said. “In 1991, Dale became one of the earliest experimental stem cell transplant patients.”
As a way to give back, Dale and Jane became bone marrow and stem cell couriers through the national program, Be the Match.
The Revells prayed for five more years,
but the Lord had more in store for them. Next October will be 30 years since the transplant and 36 years cancer-free.
“We thank the Lord every day,” Dale said. As a way to give back, Dale and Jane became bone marrow and stem cell
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“We flew all over the world picking up
lasting marriage. But Dale said the secret to marriage is that there is no secret. As long as there is respect and love, you figure it out along the way.
Dale and Jane are currently working on
a book about their life together, a token to pass down to their grandchildren,
titled, “My Life is a Journey.” The book will document Dale’s cancer, their years of
marriage, and all of their adventures along the way.
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Rusty BEAGLE
Foodie Friday DFW: Rusty Beagle
by Jay Marks | photos courtesy of Foodie Friday DFW
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f you’re looking for a place where “everybody knows your name” and where you can get some of the best wings and burgers in town, then look no further than the Rusty Beagle located off FM 407 on the Lewisville and Highland Village border.
Husband-and-wife team Charles and Jackie Carlock took over running the restaurant in 2015 after Charles’ dad, Rusty, passed away from cancer. The two have continued Charles’ father’s legacy and have created a beautiful environment where everyone feels welcome from the customers to the staff. The Rusty Beagle is, by definition, a sports bar, but it’s also a gathering place for Little
League Teams, a family dinner spot, a Super Bowl party venue, a great place to grab some lunch, and so much more. We did mention that these guys have some of the best wings and burgers in town - in fact, they recently won Best Wings from Best of Denton County 2020! They have a wide range of sauces for their wings ranging from Mild to Asian Sesame to Mango Habanero, and you can order them naked or breaded. Two of their crowd-favorite burgers are the Rajun Cajun made with blackened seasoning, sauteed mushrooms, pepper jack cheese, bacon, and a creole aioli; and their namesake burger - The Rusty - which is topped with tender smoked (in-house) brisket, shredded cheddar cheese, red onion, chipotle BBQ sauce, and two halved bacon-wrapped jalapenos. Yes,
that’s real life. That sucker is about 2 feet tall and it’s delicious. The Rusty Beagle also has some killer sandwiches on their menu like their Triple Stack Clubhouse Sandwich and their Reuben made with house-made corned beef, sauerkraut, and thousand island dressing. And, of course, at the center of the Rusty Beagle is their bar which has 24 taps with craft beers that rotate through seasonally, cocktails, whiskeys, wines, freezer shots, and more. They have Happy Hour every day of the week with different daily specials, and on the weekends you can find live music on the patio. All in all, between the food, the environment, the people, and the sports, you’ve got to make the Rusty Beagle your new hangout. You’ll love getting to meet Charles and Jackie and the whole team and you’ve got to try out The Rusty Burger while you’re there!
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skillsets. Try to schedule the toughest subjects for them at their peak focus times. Allow breaks throughout the
ADHD
day for exercise and other stress relieving activities. •
Use positive reinforcement by
focusing on your child’s strengths
and efforts. Kids with attention and impulse control challenges often benefit from specific,
immediate, and bold feedback. For example, saying, “Great job
ONLINE & IN-PERSON SCHOOL DURING THE PANDEMIC
getting started on your assignment
by Dr. Rebecca Butler, Board Certified in Pediatrics by the American Board of Pediatrics
muttered from the kitchen may have
W
hen managing children, adolescents, and teens with ADHD, there is no onesize-fits-all approach. Every individual is unique in regards to the assistance that may benefit them in improving attention span, decreasing impulsivity and hyperactivity, and improving organizational skills. I treat and manage many ADHD patients, and each one of them requires an individual approach. You must decide what style of learning best fits your child. Online learning often requires students to be self-guided in managing their time, motivating themselves to complete assignments and projects in a timely and efficient manner. While some students really struggle with self-guided learning, other students may find fewer distractions at home, making it easier to focus on tasks. Learning from home also gives students a way to develop independence.
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Overall, the AAP advises that students
learn best in-person and encourages schools to reopen if they can do so safely in their communities. But whether your child is in school online or in person this fall, here are some ways to help your child with ADHD manage challenges during the pandemic:
•
If your child has an Individualized Education Plan (IEP), this plan should continue. An IEP is designed to support a student’s learning needs and must include instructional interventions, supports, accommodations, and modifications. With new teaching methods, some students may need new or different accommodations. Inquire about making changes to the IEP or 504 plans to accommodate the new learning structure if this would be beneficial. Would reading or dictation software help with virtual learning? What about extended time assignments that need parental supervision, which may not be available during school hours? tructure the day with frequent breaks S that can help them use their brains in different ways and build a variety of
right on time!” rather than “good job” very different effects. •
Students with ADHD may benefit
from going over the material that their teachers already taught.
This can help them remember what they learned. In many cases, having more hands-on supervision and
guidance from parents may help. If you’re working from home, let
them know when you are available
try to give them undivided attention during those times. •
Teachers may be offering virtual office hours or other ways for
students to get more one-on-one
help. Please inquire about available services at your child’s school. •
School systems and teachers have also been taxed trying
to adjust to changed learning
environments. If you feel your
child is not supported well enough
in this new setting, reach out to your
school’s learning specialist, principal, or superintendent to advocate for
your child’s rights. And please seek your pediatrician’s support and direction as needed.
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Your Uniqueness
IS NEVER A Weakness by Diane M. Ciarloni
photos of Haleigh by Sheldon Smith and photo of Haleigh with Christian Liberty School cheerleader courtesy of the Hurst Family
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aleigh Ryan Hurst, a 17-year-old senior at Liberty Christian School in Denton, is familiar with challenges. She lives in a small town between Denton and Decatur. Actually, it’s a very small town. But its geographical limitations do nothing to restrict Haleigh’s dreams, which are big. Actually, they are VERY big. Haleigh is beautiful, talented, smart, crowned the winner of multiple beauty pageants, and out-going with a full circle of friends. Life sounds idyllic for her, but that wasn’t always the case. She was bullied and taunted in school about her teeth that “bucked” over her bottom lip. Braces pulled them back into perfect alignment, but that did nothing for her severe speech impediment. She could not master the pronunciation of the letter “r” and, on top of that, she suffered a lisp that made her speech sound something like the babble of a pre-schooler.
“I was different, and kids don’t know how to deal with different,” says Haleigh. “But I was really different! I was 5’10” in the sixth grade and wore a size 10 sneaker in the fourth grade. My hair was curly, and I was unbelievably clumsy. And don’t forget the speech impediment.” Haleigh hated her differences. She was called names, made fun of and, sometimes, things even became physical, such as the instances when she was shoved into lockers. She couldn’t help but wonder why God made her so different and allowed her to feel so worthless.
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The unpleasantness was overwhelming at times. But something inside Haleigh continued dreaming.
Haleigh’s parents bought 90 acres of land along with some horses. This would make most kids think they’d been transported to heaven, but Haleigh and her older brother....well....they just weren’t interested in the horse world. Instead, Haleigh, the tall, clumsy kid with the lisp, had turned her head toward beauty pageants. How? Why? www.ArgyleLivingMagazine.com
“I don’t know,” sighs Sara, Haleigh’s
mother. “I hate to say this, but I think she may have watched Tots and Tiaras on television. I refer to that as a “bling” pageant, and we weren’t going to
allow that. I thought if I let her be in one pageant, it would be enough, and she’d move on to something else. I was wrong.”
Haleigh began competing in what are called “natural” pageants, no
make-up allowed until 13. A judge
spoke with her after one pageant and said the only thing he found “wrong”
“Do not give someone power over your life,” she says. “Stand up! Use your voice to impact those around you! Use your words to spread encouragement. Your differences should never be a weakness.”
with her was her inability to communicate easily because of her speech problem. She told her mom and dad that she wanted to fix it.
The speech therapist they visited told them it would require two years to correct Haleigh’s speech patterns.
Haleigh did it in six months. Today, there is no trace of that problem.
Life moved on for Haleigh. Dance and
cheerleading became two more passions, eventually becoming captain of her
cheering team. Volunteering at Christian charities was another. She also added
working with children to the list, along with writing. She’s never forgotten the
harsh, hurtful words thrown at her during the days of bullying. There were no
books, then or now, that gave her hope,
so she sat down and wrote and published her own, titled Shine Your Light. Don’t
tell Haleigh “words will never hurt you”
because she knows they do hurt – badly. That’s why she decided to use words for good and for healing.
Haleigh is a member of seven clubs at school, is president of her class, and
makes straight A’s. She doesn’t date a
great deal because, really, there just isn’t
time. She believes strongly that pageants, which she began at the age of nine,
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not she won. Sometimes, she left without a crown. Haleigh’s most recent pageant accomplishment is the Miss High School America Pageant, a national event she qualified for by winning her state title. She competed against girls from every state and territory in the United States. Her pageant success allows Haleigh to engage in public speaking at schools and various organizations. In turn, it provides her a pulpit for spreading her antibullying message. “Do not give someone power over your life,” she says. “Stand up! Use your voice to impact those around you! Use your words to spread encouragement. Your differences should never be a weakness.” OCTOBER 2020 | ARGYLE LIVING | 29
ELECTION
Day
Proposed Argyle Municipal
Development District by Brooke Ezzo
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ue to COVID-19, the original election date to vote on the proposed Municipal Development District (MDD) was moved from early May to November 3, 2020. There is information about the MDD on the Town of Argyle’s website, but to help residents understand this subject further, Murray Media Group reached out to Haley Pittman with the Town’s Economic Development Corporation to answer a few questions. What is a MDD?
Basically, an MDD is a district that
Texas municipalities can create to fund economic development projects. The
district is funded through a portion of the sales tax within its boundaries. In Argyle’s case, the proposed MDD would include
the Town of Argyle and the Argyle Extra-
Territorial Jurisdiction (ETJ). The sales tax percentage that would fund the MDD is one-fourth of one percent.
What kind of district is Argyle currently? Right now, Argyle has a Type B Economic Development Corporation, or EDC. The
EDC is also funded through a one-fourth of one percent sales tax, but it is limited to Town boundaries. One of the major
differences between the current EDC and
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collected for projects within the Town limits or ETJ. If this proposition passes, the EDC would be replaced with the MDD. What should the community know about a MDD? I would encourage Argyle residents take a look at our website and familiarize themselves with the map of Town limits and ETJ boundaries to get an idea of the areas where the proposed MDD sales tax would be collected. Another point to consider is that the sales tax will apply to anyone purchasing taxable items within the district, so non-residents visiting Argyle can contribute to the fund when they purchase taxable goods in Argyle or eat at one of our restaurants. What will residents be voting for? Residents within Town limits can vote either for or against replacing the EDC with the MDD. Voters within Argyle’s ETJ
can vote for the proposition to create the MDD only. This is because the EDC was
authorized by voters within Argyle limits when it was created in 2002, so only
that same body of voters can authorize its termination.
According to the Town’s website, the proceeds from the sales tax would be used for a variety of economic development activities, including
industrial and manufacturing projects,
retail development projects, recreational and/or community facilities projects,
housing projects and convention center facilities, and related improvements.
There are a few differences between the
Type B EDC and MDD. There is a resource on the MDD webpage that compares the
Type B EDCs and MDDs side-by-side so that
citizens can really get to know the similarities and differences. To find this information, visit www.ArgyleTX.com/287.
The MDD election will take place with the general election on November 3, 2020 from 7AM to 7PM at Argyle Town Hall, 308 Denton St., Argyle, TX 76226.
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I love my children,
BUT THEY CAME
AT A COST by J. Drew Sanderson, MD | photos courtesy of Flower Mound Plastic surgery & Aesthetics Spa
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marks last month, I recommend checking
When discussing recovery, I tell patients
that it is a rough first week and then every
day in your second week you will begin to feel increasingly better. Most patients are back driving and running short errands
in their second week after surgery. I try to
get patients to take two weeks off of work simply because most people do not feel
like getting back into the daily grind after only a week. A gradual return to exercise
begins at three weeks with walking. Many
of my patients will begin walking up to five mile distances in the third week following
The best long-lasting results occur when
people get motivated at week six and hit BEFORE
the gym.
I am frequently asked, “How long do I have to wait after giving birth to
changes nearly as much as her abdomen
have a tummy-tuck?” First, you want to
during childbirth. The rapid increase stretches the abdominal skin past its
skin removal.
six, you may resume all typical workouts.
it out. No part of a woman’s anatomy
in size over a nine-month period often
hides below your bikini line following the
the procedure. At postoperative week
s promised, today I am going to review the process of restoring a woman’s body after childbirth.
If you did not read my article on stretch
abdomen. You will have a scar that easily
AFTER
make sure you are done having children. While getting pregnant after having a
elastic ability to return to the original
tummy tuck is not unsafe, it will ruin your
most women a month or two after giving
must wait after birth is six months to
beautiful results. The minimum one
shape. This fact becomes obvious to
birth. However, what may be a little less obvious is the fact that the muscles and
BEFORE
have a tummy tuck. Other factors come into play based on each individual’s
fascia (thick sheet of connective tissue)
circumstances, but six months is
way, likely the destroying the six-pack
Finally, I occasionally get asked,
the minimum.
under your skin gets stretched the same you may have proudly displayed at the
beach in your youth. With the weakened abdominal muscles, the distance from
your belly button to your spine becomes longer. There are certainly differences in
the way each person’s abdomen appears after pregnancy, but some “snap back” more than others.
Should you have excess skin, stretch
marks, or a weakened abdomen after
AFTER pregnancy, there are some great options that can fix this; such as an abdominoplasty (or tummy tuck). During an abdominoplasty surgery, your surgeon will remove all of the excess skin on your lower abdomen and re-tighten your abdominal muscles which can dramatically change the appearance of your lower
“Do I need this?” My answer is always that nobody “needs” what I do, but if
your abdomen bothers you, we can make safely make it better. Many of my patients have said that when they look their best, they feel their best! Please understand, childbirth is a miracle and a beautiful thing; I am humbled by the women I am fortunate enough to work with daily in restoring their bodies.
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SHERIFF’S W I T H
S H E R I F F
T R A C Y
Intern to Captain DENTON COUNTY SHERIFF’S OFFICE SPOTLIGHTS CAPTAIN KELLY FAIR
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aptain Fair began her career at the Denton County Sheriff's Office as an Intern in 2005, where she shadowed Forensics and Patrol. In April 2006, she was hired full-time as a Detention Officer. She was hired in Patrol later that same year, where she worked various shifts as a Deputy Sheriff. In 2009, she was promoted to Patrol Corporal. In 2011, she moved into the Administrative Patrol Corporal position, where she assisted patrol shifts with supervisory duties, managed the Patrol Field Training Program, testified in grand jury hearings, and continued as the liaison to the water district and contract deputy positions. In August 2013, she was promoted to Sergeant of the Criminal Investigations Division assigned to Forensics, and in 2016 promoted to Criminal Investigations Lieutenant. In March 2017, she was appointed to Support Services Captain. Captain Fair currently oversees the Support Services Division, which encompasses the Professional Standards Unit, Quartermaster, Radio Services, Training, and Technical Services.
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“As a Texas Ranger in Denton County, I was introduced to Kelly Fair, a new
intern for the Denton County Sheriff’s Office. It was apparent from the start
that Kelly had a thirst for knowledge and an outstanding work ethic. Kelly was a
“go getter” and learned very fast. I then watched as Kelly worked her way up
Captain Fair completed the Peace Officer Academy in August 2005. Later that same year, she graduated with her Bachelor of Science Degree in Criminal Justice from Texas Woman’s University while interning with the Denton County Sheriff’s Office. In December 2012, Captain Fair earned her Masters of Business Administration Degree while working as a Patrol Corporal for DCSO. While working as Forensics Sergeant in August 2014, she completed the
University of North Texas Forensics Science Academy. Captain Fair currently holds an Intermediate Jailers license and a Master Peace Officer license. Captain Fair was awarded DCSO Officer of the Year in 2012 and 2017. She has also received the Academic Recognition award from Texas Commission on Law Enforcement. Captain Fair’s son, David, is currently an SPC serving in the United States Army in Ft. Hood. She resides in Denton County with her partner Joel.
in the organization and did a great job at each level with professionalism and
integrity. After being elected Sheriff, an opening for Captain became available. It was my honor to appoint Kelly to the
rank of Captain. Kelly has continued to
be the professional she has always been
and serves the people of Denton County with ethical integrity-driven leadership. I’m very proud of Kelly and her
accomplishments and it is an honor to
serve with her.” –Sheriff Tracy Murphree.
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TEXAS Chef of the Year by Steve Gamel | photo courtesy of Stacey Miller
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orris Salerno might need to invest in a bigger trophy case. The longtime Executive Chef and owner of Bistecca steakhouse and Salerno’s restaurant was named Texas Chef of the Year on August 8 by the Texas Chefs Association.
Six previous winners cooked dinner for
member chefs throughout the year,
Country Club.
Chef of the Year has been named every
him and his friends and family at Denton At the end of the night, Salerno was
awarded a giant trophy to commemorate his win.
I love being a Chef,”
Chef Salerno said. “It is such an honor to have been chosen Chef of
the Year and to be the keeper of the trophy
until the next Chef of
the Year is announced
next year! There are so many GREAT chefs in
our state; I am humbled to be among some of the very best!”
including Salerno’s latest honor. A Texas year since 1968.
Canada, Sweden, and Thailand.
And yes, his food is off the charts. Bistecca offers fine dining in the heart of
Highland Village. That includes everything from savory pastas to fresh seafood, veal, lamb, and high-quality steaks. With its
Last year’s winner, Dean Sprague, traveled from Corpus Christi to honor Salerno.
“I LOVE COOKING AND MAKING PEOPLE HAPPY. IF I’M REMEMBERED FOR ANYTHING, IT SHOULD BE THAT I MADE PEOPLE HAPPY AND THAT I HAVE A BIG HEART.”
in France, England, Ireland, Germany,
While this is a huge
honor, being recognized for his culinary skills is nothing new to Chef
Salerno. He began his culinary career in the
1970s at the Fairmont
Hotel in Dallas and later joined the prestigious
Lowes Anatole Hotel in
inviting atmosphere, the restaurant is
regarded as one of the more romantic
restaurants in Denton County. Bistecca is perfect for the local couple who want to
get away and celebrate a special occasion. Salerno’s moved down the street from
Bistecca in 2019 and continues to offer many of the Salerno family classics,
including Carolyn’s Manicotti, Bob & Sue’s Seafood Linguine, and Chuck’s Chicken Mogia, as well as some new innovative menu items created by Chef Morris.
Dallas when he was only
Clearly, this is a mecca of great food
Morris earned “Dallas
customers won’t have to travel far to get
27. In 1989 and 1991,
by one amazing family, and now, loyal
The Texas Chefs Association (TCA) is
Chef of The Year” by the Texas Chef
the best of both worlds — from the Texas
Federation and is comprised of 14
of the Top 10 Young Chefs of Dallas by
“I love cooking and making people
and regions throughout Texas. The
numerous awards with the World Master
a chapter of the American Culinary
Association. He was also selected as one
dynamic chapters operating in cities
The Dallas Times Herald. He has also won
organization proudly recognizes its
Chefs Society Team USA in competitions
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Chef of the Year.
happy,” Morris said. “If I’m remembered for anything, it should be that I made
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GALACTIC GALLERY
IS OUT OF THIS
WORLD by Brooke Ezzo | photo courtesy of Ben Stevens
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omewhere between a galaxy far far away and Diagon Alley, you’ll find a popculture art gallery that is bringing some of the most iconic movie moments to life. Whether you want to travel Back to the Future or get advice from a lifelike Yoda statue, Galactic Gallery in Flower Mound is a destination spot for all pop art fanatics. “It’s not your grandmother’s art gallery,” owner Ben Stevens said. “Think Batman, The Muppets, Harry Potter, Star Wars, and science fiction.” The Copper Canyon resident has accrued an incredible collection of memorabilia
and rare finds over his 20 years as owner and operator of the ultimate comic book convention, the Dallas Comic Con. The fan expo is a playground for comics, anime, gaming, cosplay, and is a hub for celebrity sightings. Stevens was first introduced to the fascinating world of comics at a young age, going to his first convention in the late 1970s with his father, who was a collector of many things including Disney comics from the 1940s.
By the time he sold in 2014, the Dallas Comic-Con had become a major event, hosting nearly 50,000 attendees from all over the world each year. In his post-convention life, Stevens started collecting pop culture art more seriously. That turned into a desire to build a gallery. The custom built 5,000-squarefoot building opened in September and houses hundreds of original movie posters, book covers, promotional paintings, animation cells, reproductions, and vintage sci-fi movie posters from the 1940s and 1950s.
“After being laid off from my tech job in 1994, I took that opportunity to start my own Dallas convention, which drew in a few hundred guests.”
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own Dallas convention, which drew in a few hundred guests.”
“It’s really an extension of the things I enjoyed collecting at my own comic cons,” Stevens said. “Right now, 90 percent of the space is dedicated to Drew Struzan — an artist
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friendship began. At first, Drew passed on the idea because he did not understand why fans would want his signature. But Stevens persisted.
that few know who he is, but most have seen his work.” Drew Struzan, a man George Lucas dubbed as “the only collectible artist since World War II,” is responsible for some of the most recognizable movie posters for classic films as such as “Hook,” “Star Wars,” “The Shawshank Redemption,” “Indiana Jones,” “The Muppets,” and dozens more. “He literally painted most of the films I enjoyed growing up,” Stevens said. “It is an amazing thing to share. Building this gallery to show the world his work is my effort to seal Drew’s legacy as one of the great artists of my generation.” Stevens said the desire to bring Drew to his comic conventions as a guest for fans to meet and get his autograph is how their
“I visited Drew in Pasadena, California and purchased an original Indiana Jones painting that was used for the movie poster,”
“How exciting it was as I look back to those visits,” Stevens said. “Our friendship grew, and I eventually got Drew to do a few Comic Cons all over North America. Fans loved meeting him, and he enjoyed seeing their faces light up while they endlessly told him how much this or that poster art meant to them. It was the same feeling I had.” The Galactic Gallery is currently open as “by appointment only,” but Stevens suggested the future may include open house days, special events, and celebrity signings.
“I visited Drew in Pasadena, California
and purchased an original Indiana Jones painting that was used for the movie poster,” Stevens said. “Thousands, maybe tens of thousands of posters are printed, but there is only one original painting.” After the initial visit and multiple dinners, the friendship between artist and fan was formed and continues today.
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